1 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: It's that time, time, time, time, luck and load. So 2 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: Michael Verie Show is on the air, We'll. 3 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: Go to Jim Rusky, Jason Tom in that order, and 4 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: then start at the bottom with those and go back 5 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 2: up to the next list. Today's one of those days 6 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: that I feel like we could just stay on from 7 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 2: eight am to seven pm and just not even let's 8 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 2: not even break, just keep going, take calls. I have 9 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 2: so many stories we have worked up. We leave on 10 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: the cutting room floor, stories every single day that I 11 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 2: don't get to now. Granted, do I stay on a 12 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 2: strict schedule. 13 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 3: No. 14 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 2: We randomly take calls about interestingly because that's the mood 15 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 2: we're in twenty years in. They let us do what 16 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 2: we want to do. If we want to talk to 17 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 2: people about what interesting things they do. Heck, if we 18 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: just want to have about a minute of church, we 19 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 2: can do that too. 20 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 4: God, God, God, God, God, God It ever. 21 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: You know who that is? Stop it and start it over? 22 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: You know who? 23 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 2: See if you can guess who that is? You haven't 24 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 2: seen the video? No, no, don't, don't start it. Then 25 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 2: it's a gospel group called the Men of Hope, and 26 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 2: they're singing in a little tiny church that's having a 27 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 2: revival and they were the headliners. They had multiple gospel 28 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: groups coming in to sing at this revival, little tiny, 29 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 2: poor black church. I will tell you this, in my 30 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 2: years in politics and since, one of the most rewarding 31 00:01:56,000 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 2: and enriching things I ever did was to go to 32 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 2: poor black churches. And I mean broken down. There's brown 33 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 2: stains on the on the low slung roof the pillars, 34 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 2: you know, run through the middle of the church. There's 35 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 2: not the open you know, wide span can't afford all that. 36 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: The church would have been built in the thirties or 37 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: the fifties, and the pastor would wear, you know, like 38 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 2: a zoot suit, bright colored, and a lot of single 39 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 2: women in the congregation and old men and they'd get 40 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: up and read the report to start to start the service. 41 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 2: And pastor once he got going, I mean he'd be 42 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 2: bringing a high heat. But the musical portion of a 43 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: church like that, it is, I find it to be 44 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: a very very enthralling experience. But that right there, the 45 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: Men of Hope, the lead singer of the Men of Hope, 46 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 2: that's not a professional group. It's guys that that make 47 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 2: a joyful noise into the as a as a as 48 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 2: a choral group for churches. They travel around and do this, 49 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 2: but his day job is a DPS trooper. That's our friend, 50 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 2: Stephen Woodard. I didn't even know, he's saying. I've known 51 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 2: the guy for how many years? I didn't even know 52 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: he sang. So listen to it again. 53 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: Really, millions. 54 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 2: Were saying we got to get them to do that 55 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 2: looking for a city Chuck Wagon gang. Didn't somebody else 56 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: do that. 57 00:03:54,200 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 5: That moment? 58 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 3: Hapley in this. 59 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 5: Land of danger, we are going here and there with 60 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 5: simply trusting in the lessons, says. 61 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 6: Things. 62 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 2: Can we get back to Woodard? Now that are you 63 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 2: making goofy jokes? 64 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 65 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 3: God, God, God got it. 66 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 4: God God got it. 67 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 3: Ever you mean sense it? 68 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 5: Indeed, God got it. 69 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 3: God got it. 70 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 2: Indeed God call him. Response. I do that all day. 71 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 2: I can do that all day. 72 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 1: Love it. Suh. 73 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 2: They dress sharp, they I mean, I'm a post it. 74 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 2: Oh I did post a video, posted it on Facebook. 75 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 2: I'm not going to know this guy for probably fifteen 76 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: years and him not tell me. He sings in a 77 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 2: in a gospel group. One other interesting thing about out Woodard. 78 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 2: His step son is DJ Hicks. David Hicks played in Katie. 79 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: He was the top He's ranked the top d lineman 80 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 2: in the entire country. Committed to A and M played 81 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 2: a red shirt year and then his freshman year last year, 82 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: and this will be I think his third year this year, 83 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 2: and he's expected to start number eleven. Great, he had wonderful, 84 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 2: wonderful kid, smart kid, respectful kid. Of course, his mom 85 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 2: is a commander in the Houston Police Department. His stepdad, 86 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 2: my buddy, Stephen Woodard, is a DPS trooper. You see 87 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 2: him on TV all time. And the kid's biological father. 88 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 2: His dad is a football coach and he's tough on him, 89 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 2: so he's got a lot of discipline in his life. 90 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 2: You would expect that to DJ to be exactly the 91 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 2: kid that he is. Let's go to Ronnie. You're on 92 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 2: the Michael Berry Show. Go ahead, Ronnie, what do you 93 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 2: do turn Good. 94 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 6: Morning, sir, Yes, sir, yes, sir. My name is Ronnie Whitman. 95 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:02,559 Speaker 6: I'm a bee keeper. 96 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 2: Oh my, where are you a beekeeper? 97 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 6: My bees are kept at more Head Blueberry Farm. I've 98 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 6: been pollinating his blueberries for about twenty years. 99 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 2: And do you own the farm? 100 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 3: No? 101 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 6: I do not own more Head Blueberry Farm. I just 102 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 6: have permission to keep my bees there, and he gets 103 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 6: the pleasure of my bees while pollinating his blueberries. 104 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, he also gets the exemption. 105 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 5: Yep. 106 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 6: Well he's a he's got twenty acres of blueberries, so 107 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 6: he's already got. 108 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 7: An exempt you need. 109 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 6: I'm not helping him with that. I'm just helping him 110 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 6: with the keep getting the fruit on the vine. 111 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 2: Interesting, okay, And how do you get paid? 112 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 6: I produced the honey when I harvest, said honey last year, 113 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 6: I've got a thousand gallons of honey off of eighty 114 00:07:59,000 --> 00:07:59,679 Speaker 6: five behind. 115 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 2: That feels and then I thought it was that kind 116 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: of output. Hold on, let me processize that is a lot. 117 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 2: It feels like that's a lot. That's ten, ten ten 118 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 2: point two gallons per hime. I mean to think about 119 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 2: that ten gallons. That's a lot. How much does it 120 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 2: sell for per gallon? 121 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 6: I sell my gallons for seventy dollars. I sell my 122 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 6: fork for twenty four. 123 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 1: Can smell all. 124 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 3: Kill me? 125 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 2: It's a sad video. One of the coolest concerts we 126 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 2: had at the RCC. He had grown up in Katie 127 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 2: for several years and his teens when his parents split. 128 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 2: Kind of the basis of the song, and he lived 129 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 2: with his dad in Katie, so we were an atypical 130 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 2: venue forever clear to play. But damned if he didn't 131 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 2: come in and do an on air interview with me 132 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 2: for quite a while as long as I wanted hang 133 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 2: out that day meet everybody, and made very clear I 134 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 2: never imposed on him anybody I wanted to bring back 135 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: to meet him. He was happy to meet and then 136 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,719 Speaker 2: hung around afterwards to sign autographs and take photos after 137 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: putting on more than the allotted time for the show. 138 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 2: But art, Yeah, nothing but respect and appreciation for that guy. 139 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 2: I loved their music before, but it was an insight 140 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 2: in at least for a moment, into him, and I 141 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 2: came away from the experience with a very, very positive feeling. 142 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: I think Chad's a fan, maybe because the Portland connection, 143 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: because he spent so much The guy spent so much 144 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:02,839 Speaker 2: time in in Portland and writes about Portland and he 145 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 2: is very portland E. But I liked him. I liked 146 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 2: him a lot. Let's go to gym in Huntsville. Hey, Jim, 147 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 2: remind me I've asked this question before, and I can't 148 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 2: remember the answer of somebody who called from Huntsville did 149 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: they still have one Tinsley's in Huntsville. 150 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 5: I have never heard of that. 151 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: It's a fried chicken joint. No, it started there. 152 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 5: Are we talking? I'm in Alabama. 153 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 2: Oh, Huntsville, Alabama. I'm sorry, okay, yeah, go ahead, my man, 154 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 2: my apologies. Yeah, go ahead. 155 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 5: Yeah. Well we got several fried chicken places, but never 156 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 5: heard of that one. No, I just wanted to call 157 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 5: it in. And you're talking about people with interesting jobs. 158 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 5: I thought mine was kind of unusual. I started out 159 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 5: after I graduated college, got commissioned in the Army. I 160 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 5: went into uh Army bomb Dispoke, went to what they 161 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 5: call EOD School Explosive Wardness Disposal. And that was back 162 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 5: in nineteen seventy two. 163 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 4: So I. 164 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 5: So go ahead. 165 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 2: Vietnam era. Were you in country in Vietnam? 166 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:22,959 Speaker 5: No, sir, they had the Army had a policy that 167 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 5: when you graduated from bomb disposal school, they didn't assign 168 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 5: you the Vietnam right away. They sent you to a 169 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 5: state side unit first to get some hands on experience, 170 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 5: and then they would send you to Vietnam. So by 171 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 5: the time I got my first units under my belt, 172 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 5: Vietnam was winding down. 173 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 2: Let me ask you this give me the Let's pretend 174 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 2: I'm in fourth grade, so talk to me as in 175 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 2: the most simplistic way possible and assume I know nothing 176 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 2: and use simple language in thirty seconds or less. How 177 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 2: do you dispose of bomb without it going off? What 178 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 2: is the trick? 179 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 5: Well, you've got to you've got to realize there's two 180 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 5: different kinds of bombs. We worked on a military ordinance 181 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 5: and homemade bombs that were in the civilian sector, So 182 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 5: most people are familiar with the homemade bombs and it 183 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 5: works on the basic principles of a flashlight. You need 184 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 5: three three elements. You need some type of switch within 185 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 5: the flashlight and drawn off button, some type of power 186 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 5: source which is your batteries, and some kind of explosive 187 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 5: which is your In that case, it's your light bulb 188 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 5: that goes off when you turn your flashlight on. So 189 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:49,079 Speaker 5: you need those basic three functions to make that bomb 190 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 5: go off. And in order to diffuse it, you've got 191 00:12:53,559 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 5: to remove one of those elements, and there's various ways 192 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 5: of doing it. We started off with X rays, you know, 193 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 5: we would CTU ray package and mainly try to disrupt 194 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 5: that circuit. Now on the military side, uh, we spent 195 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 5: six months in Yuo d School learning all the military ordinance, 196 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 5: all the fuses, the bomb types of projectiles, the mortars 197 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 5: and grenades, everything, so you it was basically a memory 198 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 5: course that you had to go through and learn all that, 199 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 5: and then you learned different message of taking it apart. 200 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:41,559 Speaker 2: Jim, talk to me about the mental and physiological aspects 201 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 2: of that. How do you maintain proper breathing? Do you 202 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 2: how do you maintain your calm during that? Did you 203 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 2: have a trick? 204 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: No? 205 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 5: Uh, The biggest problem with breathing was when you were 206 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 5: working in a chemical environment. The military EOD types had 207 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 5: what they called an M three beautile rubber suit, which 208 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 5: was a heavy rubber suit that SA somebody had to 209 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 5: put you in. This thing of like an astronaut suit, 210 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 5: and it had a very tight fitting mask. 211 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 2: Oh, making me claustrophobic even thinking about it. Did you 212 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 2: do that, Ramonte? 213 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 5: Yeah? 214 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 2: I would come up out of there so fast in 215 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 2: such a panic. Yeah. Yeah, Ramone said he just cut 216 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: a wire, just you know what, I'll blow this thing up. 217 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 2: I can't do this. 218 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: I am in awe. 219 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 2: Jim, I know you didn't call for me to say that. 220 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 2: I'm in awe. And you're not bragging, You're just sharing, 221 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 2: and I appreciate that. But I'm just telling you, I 222 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 2: stand in awe of people who can overwhelm and conquer 223 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:58,119 Speaker 2: the natural human reaction to which biologically we are disposed. 224 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 2: You you are, you are defeating nature. It is not 225 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: natural to be calm while disposing of a bomb that 226 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 2: could end your life at any second that you didn't build, 227 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 2: no matter how much training you have, it is it 228 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 2: is so extraordinarily, extraordinarily special and impressive. 229 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 3: Uh. 230 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 2: You know, I'm impressed by a lot of things. A 231 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 2: guy that can that can weed eaten, make a you know, 232 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 2: a straight line or whatever, but this is on an 233 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 2: exponential scale. I mean, just wow. Thank God for people 234 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 2: like you, Michael Berry, show of mercy. We are having 235 00:15:51,520 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 2: church in here. Oh yes, latest April Fool's Day. Frank 236 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 2: at the morn Arnal stands to. 237 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 6: You know, the ruse and. 238 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 4: Still commitments. 239 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 2: My friend Olivia, who is the wife of the Aggie 240 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 2: plumber out in College Station, said loved the story about Woodard. 241 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 2: She knows Woodard because they came on the Aspen trip 242 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 2: and Woodard came on the Aspen trip, and she said, 243 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 2: eggs for the Black Church, filling one thousand Easter eggs 244 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 2: for our little Black church right now. This is year 245 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 2: fourteen of providing an egg hunt every year. There are 246 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 2: seven acres separating us in the church in our front yard, 247 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: and I love to do yard work and listen to 248 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: their praise. They celebrated one hundred and thirty years a 249 00:16:55,560 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 2: couple of years ago. Amazing church, truly inspiring. You know, 250 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 2: I'm going to give this advice and people are gonna 251 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 2: think I'm crazy, but this is the kind of advice 252 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 2: I've given to my kids. At some point, you're going 253 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 2: to marry somebody, and that person is going to have 254 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 2: more to do with your career success and happiness than 255 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 2: anything else you do. I have watched people move heaven 256 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 2: and earth to get their kid into a private school. 257 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 2: I have watched people open their wallet and act foolish 258 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 2: to get their kid into Aggiland or ut or wherever 259 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 2: their you know, their kid has to go. I have 260 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 2: watched them drive to Kingdom, come to go to on 261 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 2: travel baseball or AAU or whatever. Basketball. You don't need 262 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 2: to correct me with an email if I got the 263 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 2: letters wrong. It's not that important. That's not an important detail. 264 00:17:58,760 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 5: To the story. 265 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 2: I have watched them do everything anything you imagine, letters 266 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 2: of recommendation, going to camp, getting tutoring, all these things 267 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 2: to put their child in a position to be successful, 268 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 2: and never once addressed the issue of who your life 269 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 2: partner is going to be. You marry some crazy bitch, 270 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: you're gonna have a horrible life, and you're gonna lose 271 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 2: half of what you built, be ready to blow your 272 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 2: brains out, be a raging alcoholic, a bitter person, and 273 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,719 Speaker 2: have a terrible attitude toward the opposite sex. And then 274 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 2: you probably repeat the pattern because now you've learned so 275 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 2: many bad habits. Or you're the sweetest, most wonderful girl 276 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 2: in the world, and you get your head bashed in. 277 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 2: You got children with some bastard who is a horrible dad, 278 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 2: who you have to deal with because now, y'all, people 279 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 2: pay no attention to who your life partner is going 280 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 2: to be. And parents they don't address it, they don't 281 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 2: address Friends of mine think I'm a nut for it, 282 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 2: but I do. Let's talk about what you want when 283 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: a woman, and so people think what they want is 284 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 2: the woman that when you walk into the room, every 285 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 2: head turns. I have friends like this. They're single in 286 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 2: their fifties sixties, and their idea of the perfect woman 287 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 2: is the hottest woman, so that when they walk into 288 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 2: the restaurant, everybody turns and said, whoo, look at him. 289 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 2: He'd got a hot woman. Yeah, and she's gonna take 290 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 2: him to the cleaners. And Bobby Newman is gonna take 291 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 2: two million dollars from him next year and he doesn't 292 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 2: even see it coming for ten rounds of secks? Was 293 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 2: that worth? That's pretty expensive? And all the trauma that 294 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 2: goes to it. His adult kids and him don't talk 295 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 2: anymore because she split them up. He's paid more to 296 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:51,159 Speaker 2: her lawyer than he has for his own kids. I mean, 297 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 2: it's awful. All that by way of saying, when you're 298 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 2: looking for a life partner with whom you're gonna what, No, 299 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 2: don't marry an ugly woman. That's not what I said. 300 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 2: Thank you, Joe, Tex. But let me finish. It's important 301 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 2: room put it on the road. All the things that 302 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 2: you think are important. Because you're gonna want to reproduce, 303 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:15,919 Speaker 2: continue the species. You're gonna want somebody to be there 304 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 2: when you come home every day, to lay in the 305 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 2: bed next to you, to share a bank account with 306 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 2: when you go on a long drive, somebody to spend 307 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 2: time with. Let me tell you something. You marry a 308 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 2: woman it does your yard work because she enjoys it. 309 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 2: That's a good wife. Nobody divorces a woman that does 310 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 2: yardwork listening to the church up the way and singing 311 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 2: along with it. Nobody, you marry the woman it does 312 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 2: yard work. If she can darn, or knit or stitch, 313 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 2: marry that one. If she has the habits of her grandmother. 314 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 2: She quilts. If she's in college or post college and 315 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 2: she quilts, lock hurt down right now, don't even Don't 316 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,880 Speaker 2: let that one get don't let her out of your sight. 317 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:10,880 Speaker 2: That is the one you want. You want the one 318 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 2: that is ninety percent Well, you want the one that 319 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 2: is twenty five percent lover. I'm doing this off the fly. 320 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 2: Soup might not add up twenty five percent lover. Twenty 321 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 2: five percent your mother in that she cares for you. 322 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 2: She's a little bossy when it's for your best interest. 323 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 2: Twenty five percent your buddy. That can be your friend 324 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 2: when you need it to be, but you don't want 325 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 2: her to be all the time. She's not gonna hang 326 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 2: out with your buddy, you got to have your gut 327 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 2: time and twenty five percent. You're biggest fan. And I 328 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 2: see guys that don't have a wife, that's their biggest fan. 329 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 2: They got to argue with their wife. They got can't 330 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 2: make a career decision, can't do what they want to do, 331 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 2: can't take She needs to believe in you and understand 332 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 2: your weaknesses and understand your foibles. Whether you drink too much, 333 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 2: you eat too much, or you know you fight too much, 334 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 2: or whatever it is, You've got your weakness and she 335 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 2: understands that that's marriage material. You get the marriage right. 336 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. The rest is details. You 337 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 2: will fly to your height, you will ascend to your 338 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 2: highest heights. You get the marriage wrong, and you will 339 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 2: have a lifetime of struggle. And I've watched it happen 340 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 2: so many times, so many times, and friends of mine 341 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 2: will come to me for marital device and I give it. 342 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 2: And now my joke is, I'm not giving it to 343 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: you because you're an idiot. You've been divorced four times 344 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,920 Speaker 2: for a reason, you're gonna date, You're gonna marry some 345 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 2: other dude's ex wife. And she's got Bobby Newman on 346 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 2: speed dial and you're gonna be right back where you 347 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,640 Speaker 2: were again. And some of these guys, I got friends 348 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 2: who brag about how much they've had to pay Bobby Newman, 349 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 2: the divorce attorney for their actual wife. Like that's a 350 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 2: point of pride. Like it's crazy. It makes me crazy. 351 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 2: I want good things for my friends and I Anyway, Uh, 352 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 2: let's go to Tom because he's blasting dynamite. 353 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 5: Tom, what you got? 354 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 1: I got? 355 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 7: Amy, Michael, you finally know about this. 356 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 5: Uh. 357 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:15,159 Speaker 7: I worked in the Size of Business thirty years and 358 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 7: uh we blasted all over an Orange pham hung. I 359 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 7: blasted everywhere. Or you know, you lay the geophones down 360 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 7: in the cable and you're looking for oil and natural gas. 361 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 2: That sounds like a blast man. 362 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean it was hard work working around the Orange. 363 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 7: I mean you never kept dry feet. I mean you 364 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 7: walk walk out in those swamps out there, and so 365 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 7: what you did is you got these drill buggies in 366 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 7: there and they drill hunter foot hole and put twenty 367 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 7: pounds of dynamite in there, and uh, you know, a 368 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 7: guy come along there later and shoot the hole and 369 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 7: the blast off. And then so when you go to 370 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 7: Orange or anew where we went. We had an advertising 371 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,360 Speaker 7: the paper that we're gonna blast dynamite. 372 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,360 Speaker 2: Did you get to scream fire in the hole? 373 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 7: This wasn't Mayberry. 374 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 2: No, but if you watch, if you watch Justified, Walt 375 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 2: Goggin's character when he would blow stuff up because he 376 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 2: was this hill billy terrorist bad guy, and he would 377 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 2: drop the he was a bombs explosive. I think he 378 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 2: was trained in the military, his character, and he would 379 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 2: drop it down in there and he would scream fire 380 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 2: in the hole. And when that happened on that show, 381 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 2: you knew something was about to get boom up. That 382 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 2: is very interesting, Tom, Thank you for calling me sharing that. 383 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,440 Speaker 2: That's I mean, most of us will never get to 384 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 2: have an experience. 385 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:44,879 Speaker 3: Like that. 386 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 1: The Michael Berry show that. 387 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 2: I'll tell you something. When you meet a woman who 388 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 2: does things for herself. She repairs her own things, she 389 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 2: changes her own oil, pumps her own gas, She gardens, 390 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 2: she mows the grass, she paints, she does home improvement projects. 391 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, some guys never figure this out. 392 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 2: You do not marry a woman based on how hot 393 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 2: she looks on an instagramable Friday night dinner party or 394 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 2: Saturday night because I'm telling you she's been at every 395 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 2: service professional all day long. Those those toes are not 396 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 2: going to look like that for the rest of your life. 397 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 2: They're just not well they are if you're my wife, 398 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 2: because it's that important to me and she knows it 399 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 2: makes me happy, and she does it. Her paws and 400 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 2: claws are not going to look like they do at 401 00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 2: the party. That the make up she's had done, all 402 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 2: of that, that's they're not gonna look like that. You 403 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 2: need to see her in a different light. Doug Doug's 404 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 2: last name Doug Stone style. You need to see her 405 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 2: in the garage in August, in July with her hair 406 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 2: pulled back, with overalls on, paint splattered everywhere, including on 407 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 2: her face, and she's she's wiping her face with the 408 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 2: back of her hand, and she's out there painting without 409 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 2: bothering a soul, listening to John Denver tunes with old 410 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 2: Chuck Taylor high tops because she ain't buying new ones 411 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 2: and a T shirt on from her high school. You 412 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 2: need to see her in that light, and then you 413 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 2: don't need to worry if she's if she's as skinny 414 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 2: as she always was anymore. I mean, you don't want 415 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 2: her to blow up on you. But but within reason, 416 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 2: you give a little you give a little cushion, give 417 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 2: a little tolerance because you're not as skinny as you 418 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 2: once were. You got a woman that you go outside, 419 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 2: you look at her in that light, and she turns 420 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 2: and says something sweet and tender to you, even though 421 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 2: she's out there in this in this in the heat 422 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 2: and sweat, and she's not bitching, and and she says 423 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 2: something sweet to you, like you hungry or what's going on? 424 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 1: Baby? 425 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 2: That's that's the one right there, tonya. That's the keeper. 426 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 2: That woman will hold your hand as you take your 427 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 2: dying breath at eighty years old, that's the woman right there. 428 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,119 Speaker 2: You catch a woman out in the monkey grass. This 429 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 2: was my mother out in the monkey grass, pulling the 430 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 2: weeds out, picking the weeds out of hands dirty as 431 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 2: they can be, no gloves on it. That's that's the keeper. Man. 432 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,120 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, you're not trying to win the beauty contest. 433 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 2: Every guys, you don't know what they're gonna like ten years, 434 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 2: it's certainly not twenty do You don't know? You know 435 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,440 Speaker 2: how big they're gonna get. You don't know. You can't 436 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 2: nag them, skinny, they're gonna be. It's genetics and behavioral 437 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 2: and you just don't know. You don't know what the 438 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 2: post baby wait's gonna be. You can't worry about all 439 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,159 Speaker 2: that you've got to worry about. Is she going to 440 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,959 Speaker 2: be good to you? Is she going to fulfill your 441 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 2: needs and not just sexually. Is she going to be 442 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,199 Speaker 2: a good mother? Does this strike you as a kind 443 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 2: of person it's going to be a good mother. Does 444 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 2: this strike you as a kind of person that is 445 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 2: going to be there for your kids? Nothing makes me 446 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,199 Speaker 2: think less of a woman than a woman who does 447 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 2: not take care of her own kids because she's out 448 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 2: horing with guys or you know, on the single scene 449 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 2: or whatever she's doing. If they don't have a maternal 450 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 2: instinct for their own children, that's that's that's a bad 451 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 2: thing for me, very bad thing. But I also tend 452 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 2: to be a person who believes that a woman can 453 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 2: be the CEO of a company. They can be a 454 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 2: president if it's a right woman. They can be an 455 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 2: astronaut or whatever else they want, great lawyer, whatever they 456 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 2: want to be. And they can also be a great 457 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 2: mommy and a great cook and a great wife and 458 00:28:55,000 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 2: a caretaker and a lover and a a supporter and 459 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 2: a cheerleader, and they can be a non professional, never 460 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 2: work outside the home, and keep the best home ever. 461 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 2: My mom didn't work outside the home, so maybe I 462 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 2: have a glorified view of that because my wife. My 463 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 2: life was richer because my mother stayed home and made 464 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 2: sure that you know, our socks didn't have holes in them, 465 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 2: because she stitched them and made sure that our homework 466 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: was done and made sure that we took to school 467 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 2: what we needed and if we were on a medication 468 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 2: that we took that we had time spent with us 469 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 2: a lot of it and as high school students, too 470 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 2: much of it because she was in our business. But 471 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 2: thank God for it now. So yeah, so that you 472 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 2: can just slug these last two segments picking a good 473 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 2: wife from home, This is picking a good wife. This 474 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 2: is a conversation people don't have. I'm not telling them. Okay, fellows, 475 00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: if y'all are on a hold, hold stay with me. 476 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 2: I will talk to you off air of the minute 477 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 2: we finish, because and we'll just replay them letter. Just 478 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 2: stay with me, be patient. I need to get to this, 479 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 2: all right, ladies, how to pick a man. Number one, 480 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 2: Your parents should like your man. If your parents don't 481 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 2: like your man, just understand this. Whatever it is that 482 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 2: attracts you about him has blinded you. Your parents are 483 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 2: looking out for what's best for you. Your parents are 484 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 2: not sleeping with him. So if he can sling it 485 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 2: and you like it and it feels good and you 486 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 2: feel nasty or you feel sexy or whatever else, I 487 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 2: got news for you that will not be there when 488 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 2: you're in your sixties. Okay, you will have to transition 489 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 2: to part two. And Part two is he's a lazy slob. 490 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 2: He's an insecure person, he's a needy person. He's not 491 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 2: a provider, he's not a protector. So whatever he's making 492 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 2: you feel that you like so much, that's not the 493 00:30:55,040 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: basis of a rewarding, fulfilling Mayorge of fifty years or more. 494 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 7: It's just not. 495 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: It's just not. 496 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 2: It's great. I'm happy for you, but it's just not. 497 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,480 Speaker 2: Does he talk bad about his own family, that's a 498 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 2: red flag a man who loves his mother. But here's 499 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 2: the problem. I've always said, this has been my thing 500 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 2: my entire life, maybe because my mother said that you 501 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 2: should judge a man by how he treats his mother, 502 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 2: and I bought into it. So whatever, But if he 503 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 2: talks bad about other people, if everything is somebody else's fault, 504 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 2: if he doesn't trust other people, if even his own 505 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,719 Speaker 2: friends when he introduces you to him, he doesn't trust them. 506 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 2: Oh so wow, he can't trust him? But I thought 507 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 2: he was your best friend. Yeah, but you know he's 508 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 2: one time he did bad side. Bad character judge, bad 509 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 2: judge a character start with, and probably a person who, 510 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 2: out of his own insecurity, tears everyone else else down 511 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 2: and the other thing. And I learned this lesson probably 512 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 2: in my thirties. I learned that whatever people complain about 513 00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 2: others about is very likely a rror into their own soul. 514 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: Rush always said that about the Liberals, what they call 515 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 2: the Republicans, What the things they accuse them of? If 516 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 2: you want to know what they're up to, it's what 517 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 2: they accuse the Republicans of. The Next thing is does 518 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 2: he honor and respect you beyond the sexual realm? Does 519 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 2: he respect you for who you are? Does he think 520 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 2: you're smart, and I don't mean how well you do 521 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 2: in school? Does he think you have good judgment? Does 522 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 2: he value your humor, Does he value your life skills? 523 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 2: Does he compliment those things in a meaningful way. So 524 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 2: many people are so hung up on sex, which is great, 525 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 2: it's important, Yeah, I got it, But when you're talking 526 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 2: about somebody you're going to commit your life to, and 527 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 2: that's all I know people that are multi millionaires that's 528 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 2: still think that's the most important thing. And they wonder 529 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 2: a year later why they got Bobby Newman calling and 530 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 2: they're being served, and here we go again. So maybe 531 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 2: maybe if we focus on the things that should matter. Man, 532 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 2: how do I find it? Somebody like your wife? How 533 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 2: do you're not looking for somebody like my wife? You're 534 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 2: looking for somebody you're going to see at the bar 535 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 2: on Thursday night having rose all day because she's real 536 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 2: cute and she's had her lips plumped up where she's 537 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 2: in permanent duckface, and she's got her boobs really big, 538 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 2: because you like really big boobs. And a year later 539 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 2: you're playing body a bunch of money