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Speaker 1: My wife sent spicy messages to someone else, and I

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Speaker 1: want a divorce. So I started a few years ago,

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Speaker 1: and I thought we were happy. No, we were usual

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Speaker 1: suburb and professional couple, financially secure, healthy, good, spicy sleep life,

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Speaker 1: two kids, fourteen female, nine male. At the time, I

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Speaker 1: thought we had a healthy social life.

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Speaker 2: By the way, Times, the white picket fence is rotted

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Speaker 2: on the inside.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from a deleted on the

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Speaker 1: our slash Okay Storytimes sound friend. Noh, So we were

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Speaker 1: going to one of your typical married couple rough patches.

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Speaker 1: Both of us were working long hours, not spending enough

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Speaker 1: time together. We were going through some developmental problems with

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Speaker 1: my son, and tensions in the house were running a

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Speaker 1: little high. I noticed that she was spending a lot

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Speaker 1: more time on her phone texting her girlfriends.

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Speaker 2: Her girlfriends suspicious.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think much of it, and I started making

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Speaker 1: a much more concerted effort to get out of work

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Speaker 1: when I could help herun the house and be more

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Speaker 1: emotionally available. But over the course of a few weeks,

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Speaker 1: the golf just kept getting wider and wider. I ended

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Speaker 1: up accidentally finding some messages when I charged up an

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Speaker 1: old iPad for my son to use. Her Facebook Messenger

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Speaker 1: was still logged in, and there were a lot of

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Speaker 1: highly questionable messengers. Highly questionable messages with a guy from

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Speaker 1: her hometown who I will call Jim Bob Cooter or

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Speaker 1: JBC for short.

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Speaker 2: Why I don't know, why will you call him that

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Speaker 2: Bob Cooter?

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Speaker 1: The messages weren't completely inappropriate, but I could tell there

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Speaker 1: were quite a few missing based on the times and

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Speaker 1: context of the messages. I made a mental note to

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Speaker 1: keep an eye on this and went about trying to

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Speaker 1: fix things up. The next day, after I took the

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Speaker 1: day off to knock off some projects that I thought

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Speaker 1: would make her happy and left her some sweet notes

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Speaker 1: reminding her how much I appreciate her. He was once

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Speaker 1: again in the corner of the living room texting her girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Was texting her text.

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Speaker 1: Took the boy's eyepad the office, opened up Facebook Messenger

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Speaker 1: and watched in real time as my wife tore me down.

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Speaker 1: No or no. Her and Jim Bob Coder were making

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Speaker 1: fun of me. All of my flaws, insecurities, and secrets

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Speaker 1: I entrusted to my partner were now fodder for her

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Speaker 1: and JBC. Not only that, but while There wasn't outright

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Speaker 1: spicy texting. There was a spicy undertone to the whole conversation,

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Speaker 1: especially when she was bashing our performance in the or

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Speaker 1: my performance in the sound.

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Speaker 2: That's so messed up. Leave him if you don't like him,

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Speaker 2: leave him. Why are you being a freaking bully? A

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Speaker 2: little fake bully?

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Speaker 1: I hate you because it makes it hotter. I guess

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 2: You're the worst.

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Speaker 1: She is the worst.

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Speaker 2: You're what's wrong with the world.

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Speaker 1: I managed to take some screenshops, but missed a good

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Speaker 1: he was deleting them.

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Speaker 2: Well, you didn't delete them fast enough, buddy boy.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't emotionally capable of confronting her. I stayed in

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Speaker 1: some time soul searching, drinking, and trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: what to do. The wife came home and wanted to

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Speaker 1: know what was wrong, and I just copped out and

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Speaker 1: told her I had a bad day. A couple of

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Speaker 1: minutes later, I was watching the iPad as the train

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Speaker 1: wreck kept unfolding, so began a couple of weeks of

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Speaker 1: taking screenshots, drinking, and attaching myself from the relationship. I

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Speaker 1: knew there was no going back from this. The messages

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Speaker 1: were now overtly spicy, with my wife completely into it,

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Speaker 1: and JBC was sprinkling in a few eyelights.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I can't imagine saying like getting to the I

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Speaker 2: love you stage while you're cheating.

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Speaker 1: I consulted a lawyer and got my options and started

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Speaker 1: moving forward. Here's where everything got completely and absolutely surreal.

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Speaker 2: Why is so Peach just letting this happen?

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Speaker 1: Watching the messages, I found out JBC was coming to

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Speaker 1: town to spend a weekend of quality time with my

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Speaker 2: Oh is Peach's collecting evidence or.

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Speaker 3: Know what to do?

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Speaker 1: Doesn't I think it's a combination of him not knowing

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Speaker 4: Because hopefully he's in a fault state.

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Speaker 1: I was missing a good bit of info. They must

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Speaker 1: one and where sure is crap. The next day, the

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Speaker 1: wife is buttering me up, wanting to take a spa

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Speaker 1: weekend with the girls relaxed. When she gets back, we

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Speaker 1: can really focus on our marriage. I go with it

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Speaker 1: all the way, the greatest idea she's ever had, and

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Speaker 1: I'll do anything to get us back on track. I

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Speaker 1: get with a lawyer and have him draft a strong

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Speaker 1: separation agreement stating that she would move out to get

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Speaker 1: weekend visitation, no child support in the interim until the

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Speaker 1: divorce is final. Then I sit through the most agonizing

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Speaker 1: two weeks of my life. After all of this, most

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Speaker 1: of my feelings for her are completely gone, and I'm

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Speaker 1: just seething with anger like I've never heard before.

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Speaker 2: Makes sense, makes sense.

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Speaker 1: D Day arrives, I take the day off work. I

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Speaker 1: withdraw half of any money in any accounts we are

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Speaker 1: joined on, leave her half alone, and I have already

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Speaker 1: directed my paycheck to a new bank, oh.

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Speaker 2: Op's on Omaha Beach.

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Speaker 1: Getting ready and ready, I close our money market account

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Speaker 1: and get a cashier's check for her half and deposit

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Speaker 1: my half in my new account. I stop at OfficeMax

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Speaker 1: and print out seventy five pages of Facebook Messenger screenshot

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Speaker 1: and I kill time because I don't want to be

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Speaker 1: at home alone. She texts me that she's taking off

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Speaker 1: and that she loves me. I tell her to have fun.

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Speaker 1: I show up at the hotel at about eight thirty

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Speaker 1: and call the wife's phone from the lobby. It goes

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Speaker 1: straight to voicemail. They are probably already at it whatever.

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Speaker 1: I walk up to the front desk and ask if

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Speaker 1: I can use the phone to be connected to jbc's room.

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Speaker 1: It rings three times and he picks it up. Can

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Speaker 1: I be JBCS Hello, JBC? Can you send my wife

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Speaker 1: down to the lobby please?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Brouh Okay, Then I guess I'll just have to call

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Speaker 1: missus JBC and get her down here. Totally a buff.

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Speaker 1: I knew he was married, and I knew her first name,

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Speaker 1: but that was it.

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Speaker 5: Me.

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Speaker 1: You've got five minutes. Click. Not even two minutes later,

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Speaker 1: my wife comes down out of the elevator, looking a

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Speaker 1: little flustered.

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Speaker 2: Sent her down in the she just had spicy sleep.

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Speaker 1: Her starts spewing, be it. Do you want to be her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Sure, I don't have line.

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Speaker 4: Just just know what it seems like.

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Speaker 2: I swear JAMIEC and I are just working.

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Speaker 1: I'm not here to argue the things that are said

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Speaker 1: in this pile of papers are what's going on. The

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Speaker 1: only way I'm not giving a copy of this to

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Speaker 1: our daughter, your parents and emailing it to everyone we

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Speaker 1: know is if you move out immediately. It is no

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Speaker 1: This is a check for half the money in our

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Speaker 1: market money market account. I've withdrawn my half of the

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Speaker 1: money from all the other joint accounts. You should have

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Speaker 1: more than enough to get a place. Starts to cry

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Speaker 1: a little. You can almost see the different thoughts and

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Speaker 1: waves of emotion going through her, and now is the

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Speaker 1: time to keep pressing. Here is a separation agreement that

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Speaker 1: I think is more than fair considering what's going on.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to need you to look it over, sign it,

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Speaker 1: and leave it at the house when you get yourself.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to look through these screenshots?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, then go have fun with JBC. Do not come

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Speaker 1: back to the house or I'm going to send this

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Speaker 1: holds up a ream of screenshots to everyone. I bounce

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Speaker 1: to have a breakdown. I get to the car, drive

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Speaker 1: rage fit. Previously I would have cried in front of

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Speaker 1: my crap together enough to pull it off. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what she did that night or over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: You texted and called over and over wanting to talk.

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Speaker 1: I just turned my phone off, and by the time

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Speaker 1: Monday afternoon rulled around, there were movers getting her stuff

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Speaker 1: and she delivered the agreement. I let her have a

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Speaker 1: talk with a kiddo. Was basically saying, Mommy and Daddy

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Speaker 1: need some time apart, we still love you, etc. Etc.

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Speaker 1: The standard divorce talk. And after a week she wants

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Speaker 1: oblige her because I've already got my crap together and

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Speaker 1: I've got an idea of what I want. But I

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Speaker 1: should hear her out. She says, she's so sorry. He

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Speaker 1: wants another chance, he wants her family back, She'll do anything.

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Speaker 1: I was never going to give her another chance. All

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Speaker 1: I wanted to do was kill time, establish myself as

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Speaker 1: the primary caregiver to the kids, and establish her as

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Speaker 1: not having residency in the house. Well, after a few months,

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Speaker 1: I go to my own therapist and I get diagnosed

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Speaker 1: with depression and PTSD. I asked my work if it's

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Speaker 1: possible to go part time for the foreseeable future to

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Speaker 1: deal with personal issues and it's no big deal. Once

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Speaker 1: the divorce was finalized, I needed the kids to want

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Speaker 1: to stay with me. I left a Google search and

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Speaker 1: how to survive your wife's infidelity up on the shared

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Speaker 1: PC at home, and I left someone to know in

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Speaker 1: fidelity articles not so hidden in the kitchen.

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Speaker 2: That's messed up.

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Speaker 1: What do you think y'all justified or not that your

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Speaker 1: answers in the comments.

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Speaker 2: That's messed up. I'm confused. Why exactly did he do.

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Speaker 4: That so the kids would want to stay with him?

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Speaker 2: That's a really messed up move. If you're going to

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Speaker 2: do that, then you have to have bravery to tell

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Speaker 2: them to their face instead of do it. And this

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Speaker 2: is kind of.

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Speaker 1: Well, what if, like do you think he is would

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Speaker 1: you be justified and saying, hey, this is the reason

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Speaker 1: that we're breaking up.

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Speaker 2: Again, Like this is not really about my feeling, like

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Speaker 2: my feelings of how this impacts the mom. I don't

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Speaker 2: really care about her, But to the kids, that's a

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Speaker 2: really messed up way to find out your parent cheated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like it needs.

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Speaker 2: To he needs to tell them if he wants to

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Speaker 2: tell them, if he's like I need to tell them,

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Speaker 2: I want them to want to be with me, Fine,

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Speaker 2: but do it to their face, don't.

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Speaker 1: Okay says that's an immature thing to your children. They

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Speaker 1: will need support. I think that's the key where it's like,

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Speaker 1: if you are going to break hard news to your children,

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Speaker 1: the children need to know that they can ask you questions. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think it's actually yeah, beauty like that. It's cruel

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Speaker 1: to the children.

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Speaker 2: And thirteen sys Matt Mom shouldn't have cheated again. It's

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Speaker 2: not really I'm not really saying that he shouldn't have

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Speaker 2: told the kids. I'm just saying that the way that

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Speaker 2: he did it is kind of ridiculous to me.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't trust him anymore.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I think he's for sure the ahole what a

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Speaker 2: This story is about my dear friend Juan and as

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Speaker 1: How do you solve a problem like Marie? Exactly?

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Speaker 2: Juan was shocked to hear this and said to us

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Speaker 1: Divorce?

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Speaker 2: Divorce absolutely? Divorce absolutely, But also I mean I think

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Speaker 1: Out and they said, oh, I can't make it. Way

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Speaker 2: I text him, I'd be like, hey, so sad that

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Speaker 2: Why is she trying to isolate him from his.

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Speaker 1: After the wedding, because Maria's got it like that.

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Speaker 2: Maria's got it like that, I guess Maria. I once

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Speaker 2: He would walk onto his office and bother him about

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Speaker 1: You project more than an Imax theater playing aliens.

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Speaker 2: Who plan told Maria, how can he cheat when he

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Speaker 2: when you're both at home all the time, That's so funny. However,

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Speaker 2: the weatherman. That was great.

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Speaker 2: Things slowly got back together or better and went back

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Speaker 2: a mod? Can't you see he's a married man. Why

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Speaker 2: are you chasing a married man?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: If you are a mod of our discord, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Now, I am in a happy eight year relationship

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Speaker 2: with a man I love. Why the bloody hell?

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Speaker 3: Why the bloody hell would she think that I would

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Speaker 6: Why hell, Harry, play Harry, Harry? Why couldn't it be

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Speaker 6: follow the butterflies? Why is it to be followed the spies?

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Speaker 2: I could tell? And upset with his wife or her

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Speaker 1: I think they thought he thought he put these cheating

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Speaker 2: Juan decided to do some detective work ooh, to see

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Speaker 4: Real quick, I think I know who wrote this. What

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Speaker 4: do you mean? This is mad Hatter Gal's friend?

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Speaker 5: Comes from the Arslas show. Okay, storytime sub this is

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Speaker 5: this do we do we put the Uh?

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Speaker 2: It didn't. It wasn't put in there that it was

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Speaker 1: Oh day, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: This is from mad Hatter Gal in the arslash Shoka storytime.

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Speaker 4: Some readit.

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Speaker 2: Ah, this is crazy.

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Speaker 4: This is one of our own.

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Speaker 2: This is one of us. One went through her social

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Speaker 2: One was for all the photos of her one and

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Speaker 1: Child for mac sexiness.

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Speaker 2: Not only did Wan figure out her password to the

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Speaker 2: second account, but also saw messages from other men wanting

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Speaker 2: to show her a good time. Jan took screenshots of

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Speaker 2: all their conversations and told his wife that he no

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Speaker 2: longer wanted to be married to a woman that accused

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Speaker 2: him of cheating NonStop when there had never been any

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Speaker 2: proof of this. To my surprise, Maria agreed to the divorce.

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Speaker 2: Juan told us that he and Maria were splitting up

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Speaker 2: and that he needed time away from everything, and we

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Speaker 2: all understood that we were there for him when he

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Speaker 2: was ready talk and there is an update to hear it. Okay,

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Speaker 2: now for the revenge sh Now, I did not know

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Speaker 2: this until everything was done and over, but Juan and

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Speaker 2: Maria had a prenup agreement. This was actually Juan's idea

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Speaker 2: of doing a prenup and that the only way he

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Speaker 2: was going to agree to marriage is if both of

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Speaker 2: them signed it, in which Maria agreed to. Thank god

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Speaker 2: he did. On the day they both sat down with

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Speaker 2: their lawyers, Juan showed them all the evidence of Maria's cheating.

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Speaker 2: I was actually shocked and also mad hatter gal is

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Speaker 2: in the.

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Speaker 4: Chat no way, thank you for sharing is here?

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Speaker 2: Hat is he. I was actually shocked, yet not surprised

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Speaker 2: that Maria confirmed that she had a second account and

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Speaker 2: was enjoying the attention she was getting from other men

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Speaker 2: because Juan was too focused on his career and their

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Speaker 2: child than on her like he was at the beginning

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Speaker 2: of the relationship. This made Juan angry because he put

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Speaker 2: more hours into his job because Maria demanded more money

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Speaker 2: so she could get her nails done or go on

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Speaker 2: trips with their girlfriends. Any Time Jan tried to take

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Speaker 2: her out on dates or do anything romantic with her

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Speaker 2: like he used to, Maria would make excuses. After going

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Speaker 2: back and forth about custody of their child, Maria asked

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Speaker 2: after they split up, since she would be getting the

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Speaker 2: house out of their divorce. This is when Juan smiled

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Speaker 2: at Maria and brought out the prenup.

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Speaker 1: They both saw, go I imagine it's gonna be like

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Speaker 1: an infidelity clauser.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, saying like you don't you don't get it on.

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Speaker 2: The prenup stated that if one party cheats or creates

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Speaker 2: debt without the other party knowing, they will leave the

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Speaker 2: marriage with what they had at the beginning of the

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Speaker 2: ref Oh that's right. The house, the car they both share,

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Speaker 2: and Juan's saving go all to him, and Maria will

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Speaker 2: be leaving the marriage with only the money in her

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Speaker 2: account and a few items he has in the house.

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Speaker 1: Direct Maria, but you.

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Speaker 2: Can join us on live on YouTube every weekday at

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Speaker 2: three pm. Just tap our profile it. The moment Maria

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Speaker 2: heard this, the color on her face was drained. Maria

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Speaker 2: thought that she would be getting the car home in

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Speaker 2: half of Juan's marriage money, but that was not the case.

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Speaker 2: And the cherry on top. If one party does cheat,

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Speaker 2: they have to pay alimony to the party that was

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Speaker 2: cheated on. Wow, what a prenup.

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Speaker 1: You did not read that case alimony?

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, So not only does Maria have to find

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Speaker 2: a job to pay for everything for her and their child,

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Speaker 2: but she also has to pay alimony to Juan for

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Speaker 2: cheating on him. I did ask him if there was

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Speaker 2: any physical cheating, and sadly there was. On one of

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Speaker 2: the trips Maria went on with her girlfriends. She actually

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Speaker 2: met up with one of the guys she was chatting

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Speaker 2: with on Instagram and hooked up with When did this

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Speaker 2: cheating start? You ask? Well, it was around the time

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Speaker 2: Maria was asking accusing him of cheating on her.

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Speaker 4: I was out cheating, So you had been cheating too.

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Speaker 1: You act, but you're usually so in sync someone like

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Speaker 1: I do something, you do something right?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: Does not how it works.

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Speaker 1: Like when we start watching Game of Thrones, you're watching

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Speaker 1: Game of Thrones, I'm watching Game of Thrones.

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Speaker 2: When we're cooking, you're cooking, I'm cooking.

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Speaker 1: When we're cheating, I'm cheating.

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Speaker 2: That's right, my wonderful readers. If you're going to accuse

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Speaker 2: someone of cheating with no proof of it, it is

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Speaker 2: more likely that the person is doing the cheating.

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Speaker 1: People get divorced and don't even think about prenups, you know,

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Speaker 1: Like they like say like, oh, I want a divorce,

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Speaker 1: and then they're like, oh, did you check the prenup?

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Speaker 1: And then I know they're like, prena prenup?

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Speaker 2: I thought you said