Speaker 1: All right, new episode today for a Friday. Welcome to it.
Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Thank you so
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Speaker 3: and we're gonna maybe we shouldn't let me say this name.
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Speaker 1: They better have Brooke and Jeffrey on GTA six. I'm
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Speaker 1: Like, I hope we make it into GTA six.
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Speaker 1: Well, maybe they don't approach you.
Speaker 3: Maybe they just steal it and they know that they're
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Speaker 2: Our lawyers could never beat their lawyers.
Speaker 1: There's no way radio would say no to that.
Speaker 2: Okay, well do you I mean, well, I hope we
Speaker 2: hear a second date on g Yeah.
Speaker 3: Guy, if you were a game designer for GTA, this
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Speaker 3: the grand new episode right now.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, second date updates.
Speaker 5: We brought up this question on the show before It's
Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Is it appropriate on a first date for a guy
Speaker 2: to bring flowers?
Speaker 1: Yes, if we've asked it before, we never got an answer.
Speaker 2: It was a little bit in the air.
Speaker 5: We aren't really sure, like if the guy wants to
Speaker 5: do that, can it just happen randomly unannounced? Should they
Speaker 5: have discussed the idea of flowers ahead of time? It's
Speaker 5: weird if she's less than a six our flowers even
Speaker 5: needed out.
Speaker 2: Those aren't my words. Those are from Jose's Twitter poll.
Speaker 2: Oh well, if you have a poll on there at least.
Speaker 5: But I only ask because our listener Jacob had a
Speaker 5: flower dilemma come up during his date. He wasn't quite
Speaker 5: sure how to handle it. But let's talk to him
Speaker 5: about it. Jacob, thank you for being here. First of all,
Speaker 5: we'll get to how flowers played into your dat in
Speaker 5: a second. But according to your email, it says you're
Speaker 5: newly single and back on the dating apps.
Speaker 4: Recently single, and I'm trying to go out on a
Speaker 4: lot of dates. I hope that doesn't sound like callous
Speaker 4: or whatever.
Speaker 1: But no, you're playing the numbers game.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the wide net.
Speaker 4: But like apparently on the apps, people are just like
Speaker 4: ghosting more than ever, which is really annoying. And I'm
Speaker 4: like talking, like even if you choose a time and
Speaker 4: the place, they'll just not show.
Speaker 3: I just can't imagine being so disrespectful to someone.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's happened to a lot of guys, at
Speaker 5: least what we've heard. A lot of dudes come on
Speaker 5: the show and are saying that this is more and
Speaker 5: more frequent.
Speaker 1: Both just common courtesy. It shouldn't happen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally. Yeah, we're with you unless you did something horrible,
Speaker 2: so go on, Yeah then.
Speaker 4: You deserve it.
Speaker 2: Keep going.
Speaker 1: You said a junk pick from the bathroom.
Speaker 2: Yeah, then on her side? But sorry, ahead, what's going on?
Speaker 4: So that happened to me two days before I met Rochelle?
Speaker 4: Who is who I'm calling about?
Speaker 2: Okay, so why.
Speaker 1: Are you telling us about the ghosting two days before?
Speaker 1: When it did it?
Speaker 4: That will come into play Rochelle and I we met
Speaker 4: on the apps and she's super cute and we decided
Speaker 4: to meet up at an outdoor mall and she did
Speaker 4: show up.
Speaker 1: Oh we go, Oh wow, b for victory.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll hold back on that junk pick. How was
Speaker 2: it with you and Rachelle?
Speaker 4: It was good. I mean we walked around, we did
Speaker 4: some window I mean we did more like window shopping.
Speaker 4: We were gonna grab up my tea, but before we did,
Speaker 4: I realized that I left my cell phone in my car.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh man, Oh yeah, how did you realize before?
Speaker 1: Why steps without it? So?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 2: Why is that important?
Speaker 4: Well? I was like, do you mind if we go
Speaker 4: and grab it? So she's like yeah, sure, Okay.
Speaker 1: That'd be wild if she said no.
Speaker 2: It's like you're trying to lure me into the parking lot.
Speaker 4: And so I open up the passenger door and she
Speaker 4: sees that there's a bouquet of flowers on the seats.
Speaker 5: Wow, why he didn't say that?
Speaker 1: What were the flowers from?
Speaker 4: They were for that girl that goes to me two
Speaker 4: days before.
Speaker 1: Oh sad wilted flowers.
Speaker 4: The car flowers.
Speaker 2: So she sees those, Yes, they were not in the
Speaker 2: best shape. Oh god.
Speaker 4: They weren't completely like horrific, but it wasn't good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was okay.
Speaker 1: At least they were the cars. You could blame it, like, wow,
Speaker 1: it was really hot in here. No wait, did you
Speaker 1: try to give them to her at that point?
Speaker 4: Well, I didn't cry. She just kind of took it
Speaker 4: upon herself. She saw them, and she says, oh, my god,
Speaker 4: you're so sweet. And you know, as soon as she
Speaker 4: had that reaction, I'm like, yes, I am sweet.
Speaker 5: You're not gonna stop her down to be like, let
Speaker 5: me explain these were for another woman.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you probably were excited then, right, Like,
Speaker 3: so she's excited absolutely.
Speaker 4: I mean, look, I'm not gonna lie. Was my proudest moment,
Speaker 4: but she was excited about it. I was like, awesome.
Speaker 4: So yeah, but we're walking around the mall at this
Speaker 4: point with these will to flowers and people are looking
Speaker 4: and it's like, what's going on with these two?
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're like, tell us where you got those, because
Speaker 3: we do not want to shop.
Speaker 5: The flower boyfriend of the year over here, my god.
Speaker 4: But overall she was really cool and she said she
Speaker 4: really appreciated the flowers. She gave me a kiss. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I mean, it wasn't like you know, yeah, it was
Speaker 4: a necking.
Speaker 3: Nineteen sixties are back in the chest.
Speaker 4: No, I didn't give her a I didn't give her
Speaker 4: my letter jacket either.
Speaker 5: But that's not a kiss. At the end of the day,
Speaker 5: that's a pretty good sign that things went well.
Speaker 2: You would kiss people even if things didn't go well.
Speaker 5: Is that what you're saying, Alexi, Yes, yes, you would
Speaker 5: have gone to third base with him, even with the weird.
Speaker 2: I married for two weeks. Well, maybe it's not as
Speaker 2: good as we all thought it was.
Speaker 1: Then I think it sounds sweet.
Speaker 2: Okay, So what's happened since the outdoor mall date?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 4: Nothing. I mean, look, I told her when we said
Speaker 4: her goodbyes after the kiss, text me when you get home.
Speaker 4: She got home, she texted me, she sang me, and
Speaker 4: all signs seemed like things were going great.
Speaker 1: Have you asked her out again?
Speaker 4: Of course?
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I haven't heard from her.
Speaker 1: Oh that's really weird. She sounds like a catch.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it really does.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying maybe she has other dates and they know.
Speaker 2: That's possible.
Speaker 5: We'll find out when we come back and try and
Speaker 5: get you your second date.
Speaker 2: Update with Rochelle, the wilted flower girl. Right after this
Speaker 2: hold on.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Second date updates running.
Speaker 5: A little bit late here, so just to quickly recap
Speaker 5: our listener, Jacob was ghosted by a woman two days
Speaker 5: before his date with a new lady named Rochelle, and
Speaker 5: when he forgot his phone in the car, they both
Speaker 5: went to go grab it, opened the passenger door and
Speaker 5: there on the front seat were some flowers not meant
Speaker 5: for Rochelle, but for the girl who knows showed on
Speaker 5: him two days prior. Yes, so they walked around the
Speaker 5: outdoor mall afterwards with some dead flowers in tow.
Speaker 1: Rochelle didn't know the difference. She thought it was for her.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she ended up having a pretty good time and
Speaker 5: even got a kiss and a thank you text at
Speaker 5: the end of the night. But since then nothing, So Brooke,
Speaker 5: is there any chance that the half dead flowers play a.
Speaker 2: Role in him not getting another hangout? You think?
Speaker 3: I can't imagine, because she's the one that jumped to
Speaker 3: the assumption, like she saw him and was like, oh my.
Speaker 1: God, right, is that right?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, she was super excited about it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe she's definitely allergic to this particular type of flower,
Speaker 5: and the reaction didn't happen till after the date.
Speaker 1: I didn't think that it's tragic.
Speaker 5: Trust me, I think of all the most worst case
Speaker 5: scenarios that could possibly happen.
Speaker 2: So we got you covered, Jacob.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey's anxiety is doing the work for you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but let's just call Rochelle and see if she
Speaker 5: picks up. Hopefully she has some answers for us.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 2: You were going a dialer right now?
Speaker 6: Oho?
Speaker 2: Hey is this Rochelle? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Good.
Speaker 5: We're happy to hear that you're alive and well, and
Speaker 5: we need to inform you. You're on a radio show
Speaker 5: right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Yeah, by, good morning, Welcome to the show, Rochelle.
Speaker 4: Hi, Hey, what's this about.
Speaker 5: Yes, we are working specifically on a segment called the
Speaker 5: second Date Update.
Speaker 6: You heard one of those before, Okay, I think so?
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, so this is kind of fun.
Speaker 5: You get to be a part of one because one
Speaker 5: of our listeners wanted us to reach out to you
Speaker 5: to try and figure out why after going out one time,
Speaker 5: you haven't met up for a second time.
Speaker 1: Okay, and when he told us the story.
Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't know why either, but you guys sound
Speaker 3: like it was a great time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a connection scene there with a guy named Jacob.
Speaker 6: Oh, I don't I don't know if I should talk
Speaker 6: about that.
Speaker 4: That's kind of weird.
Speaker 1: Really, Why Jacob that you went to the hot Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2: He recapped the date for us. That's how this segment works.
Speaker 5: We hear about it, and then we call to try
Speaker 5: and figure out if there's a reason why you're not
Speaker 5: calling him back. Oh did he mess up on the
Speaker 5: date or afterwards or.
Speaker 1: How did he mess up with.
Speaker 5: Maybe he didn't and it's something going on in your
Speaker 5: life that's totally separate.
Speaker 2: But he's just completely in the dark.
Speaker 6: It's so weird, you guys, I don't know if I
Speaker 6: should talk about this.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, weird. That makes me want you to tell
Speaker 1: us so much more. I tell you, it's just one
Speaker 1: date that you went on. Like you can't hurt his feelings.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh yes, okay.
Speaker 6: So, like the dude itself was like really good, Like
Speaker 6: we had a nice time. He was a gentleman, he.
Speaker 4: Was really nice.
Speaker 6: But like after the date, I went out with my
Speaker 6: family for dinner, and my love life came up, and
Speaker 6: always if.
Speaker 2: You're single, they want to know are you married yet?
Speaker 4: Exactly?
Speaker 6: So they were asking me how the date went and
Speaker 6: asked to see a picture. So I showed them his
Speaker 6: photo from the app and my aunt starts laughing and
Speaker 6: I was like what, and she goes, I know him?
Speaker 2: What your aunt knows Jacob.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they went out a little over a year ago.
Speaker 3: I wanted to be like, he's a Barisa, my favorite
Speaker 3: coffee shop situation.
Speaker 6: I would have loved that, but it's not.
Speaker 2: Wait, went out like went out one time or they dated.
Speaker 6: He went out like a handful of times, like four
Speaker 6: or five times, and he ended up like ending things
Speaker 6: with her because she started dating someone else, Like I
Speaker 6: guess a little bit seriously, he said that he.
Speaker 1: Was back on the app.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because he just got out of her relationship.
Speaker 1: I bet he has no idea.
Speaker 3: I would be mortified if I was coming out with someone's.
Speaker 1: Auntiece or nephew. Yeah. Yeah, the aunt was first. So yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right.
Speaker 5: So that's the reason. There's nothing that he did to
Speaker 5: like mess it up. He d well, No, I mean, yes,
Speaker 5: that's history.
Speaker 1: Though you gotta be worried.
Speaker 3: Your answer the same dating pool as you.
Speaker 5: Your aunt liked him enough to go out with him
Speaker 5: four or five times, that must mean she felt pretty
Speaker 5: strongly about him.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's why it's really weird.
Speaker 5: Oh man, Oh yeah, well okay, I I hear what
Speaker 5: you're saying, and I understand the feelings are a little
Speaker 5: bit mixed. But why don't you wait till making a
Speaker 5: final decision until you talk to Jacob directly, because he
Speaker 5: is on the other line of this call, listening right.
Speaker 1: Now, probably in shock.
Speaker 5: Honestly, I'm really curious, Jacob, are you there?
Speaker 4: I am here.
Speaker 6: I was prepared for this.
Speaker 4: Uh, let's hear your voice again. Got okay, who's your aunt?
Speaker 6: Oh? Okay, well, she's my aunt, Kathy. Kathy is her name?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, you're Cavy niece. Oh my god. Yeah you.
Speaker 2: Talked about her.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, wow.
Speaker 1: Is Kathy like way younger than your mom or dad? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm hoping.
Speaker 6: She's in her like, very early forties, like she just
Speaker 6: turned forty one. Okay, I'm late twenties.
Speaker 1: So okay, it's not like a crazy gap.
Speaker 4: This is wild because I mean now I can totally
Speaker 4: see the.
Speaker 2: Resemblance and yeah, oh that's not that's not it.
Speaker 4: I mean, but that's why you're not calling me because
Speaker 4: I I dated your aunt for a bit.
Speaker 2: Yeah okay, it was one day maybe, but four or
Speaker 2: five we all know what happened.
Speaker 1: Yeah, at least your aunt don't say anything bad about him?
Speaker 1: Yeah did she?
Speaker 6: I mean she said really nice things about him. It
Speaker 6: isn't just play this out in your head. If we
Speaker 6: were to continue, then you're going to see her at
Speaker 6: family function Like that's so bizarre that she would be
Speaker 6: having to hang out with someone you made out with.
Speaker 2: Brook goes to her family reunions and they go just fine.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just they're adults, Like, who cares who you
Speaker 1: made out with?
Speaker 2: Make it out better than what I thought it was
Speaker 2: going to be, honest, I.
Speaker 4: Mean we did a little bit more than that.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well.
Speaker 4: Up, look, Kathy is a classy lady, all right. She
Speaker 4: wouldn't bring anything up, I know, but I know now,
Speaker 4: and it's weird.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, not just you guys, the whole family that
Speaker 5: was at that dinner nose.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and imagine a year.
Speaker 3: And Kathy is the cool aunt, right, the same type
Speaker 3: of guys that you're dating, and she's the one that's If.
Speaker 5: It doesn't happen with Jacob, it's going to happen with
Speaker 5: the next dude you did. Hasn't Kathy been with.
Speaker 3: There's no chance of Kathy hitting on him at this
Speaker 3: point because she's already been there, done that.
Speaker 2: Exactly at the point competition.
Speaker 4: Look, listen, Kathy, I mean, I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Oh god, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: I'm sir, sorry that that came out. Obviously, get me wrong.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of emotions happening right now.
Speaker 4: Look, yes, that happened and the thing, but honestly, I
Speaker 4: want to go out with you. You know, I thought
Speaker 4: we had a really great time and obviously that's why
Speaker 4: we're here on this on the show. And yeah, I'm
Speaker 4: just really interested.
Speaker 6: I'm thank you. That's so nice and you are really nice.
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna keep going with this momentum that you're
Speaker 2: saying right now, the energy.
Speaker 5: Ship gonna let going into this call. Did I think
Speaker 5: we were the type of show that would try to
Speaker 5: set up a woman with their aunt's ex boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm going in. I didn't, but now I'm full
Speaker 2: force going for it.
Speaker 5: We would love to send you on another date, Rochelle
Speaker 5: with Jacob and if you say yes, we would pay
Speaker 5: for it.
Speaker 3: I mean you obviously like him. You had a great time.
Speaker 3: How often do you meet a guy like that on
Speaker 3: the apps that not only shows up but shows up
Speaker 3: in a way that makes you feel good.
Speaker 2: And brings you flowers?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 6: Yeahs super nice it is. My aunt even said that
Speaker 6: he was always a gentleman. But unfortunately, I just don't
Speaker 6: think I can get past the weird mess. Wow, my
Speaker 6: aunt Kathy is still single.
Speaker 4: If you want to get.
Speaker 1: Go back to.
Speaker 3: You did have a lot of great things to say
Speaker 3: about Kathy, so Jacob.
Speaker 2: But it sounds like it's a no from Rochelle.
Speaker 4: But Rochelle, if it's absolutely positively one percent no, then yeah,
Speaker 4: how an Kathy called me?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel love happening. If everybody else says no,
Speaker 2: then sure I'll take up. That's the best Brook and
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: To get.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's just admit.
Speaker 5: Was that a huge mistake that he accidentally called her
Speaker 5: by her aunt's name during the call?
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, yeah, for sure, we probably sound the same.
Speaker 2: He didn't realize totally.
Speaker 3: We said Aunt Kathy how many times because it's just
Speaker 3: kind of a fun name.
Speaker 1: To say it. Who doesn't have an Aunt Kathy mistake
Speaker 1: names all the time? It better kind of she remembers it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and at least it wasn't during intimate time, right, yes,
Speaker 5: silver lining and I'm not talking about Aunt Kathy's hair either,
Speaker 5: in her early forties.
Speaker 1: Jeff Gee, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Well that's when the hair starts, so I know how
Speaker 2: it works.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying it could have been worse, which we
Speaker 5: were adopting as the new slogan of our morning show,
Speaker 5: Jeff in the Morning, could have been way worse.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's false advertising. I don't know if
Speaker 1: it does get worse than some of the things that
Speaker 1: happen here.
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