1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 1: Conversations on life, style, beauty, and relationships. It's The Velvet's 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson. I think it'll fit just 3 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: fine to Marv, and I think that probably the reason 4 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: that I've bumped up against some stuff when I was 5 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: reading your outline today was by no mistake and exactly 6 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: what we're supposed to talk about today. What do you 7 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: think about that? Well? I think that too, too. Great 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: minds think alike. So when I initially started talking to 9 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: you about this month, it's, you know, we come up 10 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 1: with themes every month on the podcast and words this 11 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: year is kind of our focus is finding a word 12 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: for each month, and I've had a really hard time 13 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: kind of connecting to what I want the word to 14 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 1: be this month. And I think this podcast is actually 15 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: going to maybe help me get to what I wanted 16 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: to be. But the main thing that I think I 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 1: was bumping up against is just feeling this pressure like February. 18 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: February is known as the month of love, right like 19 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: it's Valentine's Day, It's all about relationships. Um, I've also 20 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: spent months of February as a single person feeling like 21 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: a little less than maybe if I'm not in a 22 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 1: relationship and being like, oh, well, I'm just going to 23 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: focus on self love and kind of this like false 24 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: empowerment of what that means maybe, but it was the 25 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: best I could do at the time. And it's been 26 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 1: interesting for me because in my life right now, I'm 27 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: sort of like, I don't know, bumping up against some 28 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: new realizations and I'm not really sure how to navigate 29 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: them necessarily quite yet, but I'm figuring it out as 30 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: I go. But what that is for me is um 31 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: just sort of in conversation with people or in my 32 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: friend groups or just in culture in general. I'm feeling 33 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: like I'm finally seeing this major pressure and focus that 34 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: we all put on ourselves and others and just our 35 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: lives in general about relationships, and that is like the 36 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: guiding point of everyone's life. And I'm in this weird 37 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,119 Speaker 1: spot where I've done a lot of like healing work 38 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 1: the last couple of years. I've done my fair share 39 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: of toxic relationships in the last decade, and I've reached 40 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: this point of having just real contentment being on my 41 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: own for probably the first time in my entire life. 42 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: We did a session last week and I was saying 43 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: that to you, like, this is the first time that 44 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: I really like it doesn't dawn on me on a 45 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: day to day basis to think about finding a man, 46 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: which is odd, Like that is basically how as women 47 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: we are programmed to operate from day one, and so 48 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: coming into this month of February, and then also like 49 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: just the things that I've been navigating um in my 50 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: life in general about this topic, I was like, uh, 51 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: I have to talk about love like this is like 52 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, can we talk about anything else? 53 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: Like there's so much more world out there, and there's 54 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 1: so much more going on inside of me right now, 55 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: and also like I have so much more peace right 56 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: now than I think I've probably felt in over a decade. 57 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: And none of that is based on a relationship, either 58 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: having one or not having one, Like it's just not 59 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: a part of it. So I decided to just talk 60 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: about that openly with you, and then you sent me 61 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,839 Speaker 1: this outline on aquarian energy, which is the energy we're 62 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: moving into this month, and that seems to me to 63 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: be a better focus for kind of what I'm even facing, 64 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: Like I feel like maybe the intentions are good with 65 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: people with all of that stuff, but we're not really 66 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: getting anywhere. I'm not and I'm kind of bored with it. 67 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: So let's say I'm thinking about maybe what do I 68 00:03:55,440 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: want my first question to be? Just maybe about life 69 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: and being on our own journeys and how that ties 70 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 1: into what kind of energy we can tap into. Right now, 71 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 1: I know you wrote in the outline healing your own 72 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: song is the hearing your own song is the key 73 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: to healing. And for some reason that one really hit 74 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: me because I'm like, maybe I'm just starting to hear 75 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: my own fucking song finally. So can you tell us 76 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: a little bit more about that? Well, I mean, you know, Kelly, 77 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 1: let me assage some of this Valentine stuff that goes 78 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: on with with February. First off, um aquariums are about 79 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: the most are the most un emotional sign in the zodiac, 80 00:04:55,800 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: really really really wow. Aquare Is is about knowledge, intellect, individuality, individualtion. Now, 81 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 1: what what did I say it has anything to do 82 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 1: with the relationship. It doesn't, It doesn't. Aquarians are about brotherhood. 83 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: In other words, when I think of aquarians of individuality, 84 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: UH and the UH intellectual need for knowledge and how 85 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: do we get knowledge? We get the knowledge from UH 86 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: interface with the external world with people with events that 87 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: mirror back to us. You said something I don't know 88 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: whether it was when we were talking or whatever about relationships. Well, 89 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: your highest relationship is your aspiration to have a relationship 90 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: with God and the own and the way to discover 91 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 1: that us to discover the um, the limitations, the um, frustrations, 92 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: the um, the devil, if you will, inside of yourself. 93 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:21,599 Speaker 1: The devil represents anger in the Tarot cards. So when 94 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: we look at all of our anger, all of our judgments, 95 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: all of our our our negative attributes in our character, 96 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is flush them out, clear 97 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: them out, and we can we only can do that 98 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 1: through interfacing with relationships. And it doesn't mean that we 99 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: have to interface. I mean, you know, we're not gonna 100 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: have intimacy with every single person we meet, but we 101 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 1: are going to get a reflection of ourselves with every 102 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: single person we meet, and we're going to have an 103 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: even deeper reflection with an intimate relationship. So, in other words, 104 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: this is how relationships is actually works, is for us 105 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: to understand ourselves. And that's the pure knowledge of what 106 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: Aquarius and Uronius is all about. And so when we 107 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: say when I say knowledge, what I'm what I'm really 108 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 1: saying is um, we are looking for the natural intelligence. 109 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: Natural intelligence comes to our intuitive side. There is no 110 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: greater intuition than Aquarius. So aquarians, while they are the 111 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: humanitarian sign and they care just as much about an 112 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: ant hill as you building a house on it, um 113 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 1: because they will, I mean, they'll fight you to youth 114 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: and nail if they think that aunt hill is important 115 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: enough that you shouldn't be destroying it uh to put 116 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: your house on it. So you know, this is why 117 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: you gotta love them. So the natural intelligence is because 118 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: we cannot discover ourselves just by being on an island. 119 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: We can't. We can't just look in the mirror and 120 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: know who we are. We have to that. We have 121 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: to have that interface and then when we learn how 122 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: to live, UH live within that um understanding that the 123 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 1: intuitive mind is the only truth, not the conscious mind. 124 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: But spend a lot of time with clients trying to 125 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: message that that the conscious mind is the ego personality 126 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: mind that's been built up who tons of lifetimes. It's 127 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: got all kinds of shadow issues, judgments, perceptions, misperceptions that 128 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: have to be cleared and really understood, we're we we 129 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: are in a balance. We're trying to balance polar opposites. 130 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: That's real intellect, that's real truth. So, uh, this is 131 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: why relationships are so important, uh, is because they help us, 132 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: they help us recognize those things and ourselves that we 133 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: need to come to truth. See that's exactly what I 134 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: think my frustration. I'm starting to come to that understanding 135 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: of relationships too. And I think when you take away 136 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: the power of like, oh I am here to find 137 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: my soul made and you know, my one shoe love 138 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: and all these things, you can look at relationships he's laughing. 139 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:04,319 Speaker 1: You can look at relationships from a completely different perspective 140 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: of learning and growth and evolution. And I think what 141 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: we miss a lot in society or what I was 142 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: programmed on, Um, it's just this kind of fairy tale. 143 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 1: And it completely then becomes about, well, he didn't do this, 144 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: and you know, how does he not know that's what 145 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: I need? And he's an asshole and she's crazy or whatever, 146 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: and it's like that's not the point. Like I'm not 147 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 1: saying this as any sort of I'm any better than 148 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: any of that, because I've definitely done all of it. 149 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 1: But I think that I feel like I'm seeing things 150 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 1: that I learned are needed or or what I needed 151 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 1: to bump up against myself, or how I had no 152 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: boundaries and so no wonder that fucking happened, Like just 153 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 1: how much more um of a participant I was, and 154 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: all of my own frustrations and things like that, but 155 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: I couldn't see it, just like you said, by looking 156 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 1: in the mirror. Necessarily, I had to have someone else 157 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 1: show me through relationship. And so that's the whole point, right, 158 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 1: But it's not like like I have these young girls 159 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: in my lives, my life and um I I literally 160 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,319 Speaker 1: said to them the other day out of frustration from 161 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 1: a twenty minute conversation that completely revolved around boys. It 162 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: was just like, well have you heard about blah blah 163 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: blah and and oh my god, are you going on 164 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: any dates? And oh I went on this day and 165 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,839 Speaker 1: da da, and I felt so frustrated and I was like, 166 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: y'all are so fucking boy crazy. It's insane, Like this 167 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: is I think you're growing up, dear, you're leaving girlhoods. Well, 168 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 1: I was just like, nobody's even asked me how my 169 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 1: day was. I don't know how your day was other 170 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: than what this boy texted you earlier, like and I 171 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: just don't care, like it just something has shifted in 172 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: me where I'm like, aren't we more than that? Like 173 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: what are you learning today? It was like, you know, 174 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: I went on this like mom lecture to them. They 175 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 1: stopped talking to me since, well, you know, I think 176 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: that as we continually bumped in consciousness and become more 177 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: self aware, there's actually a sublimation process that's going on 178 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 1: to where we're we start seeking the consciousness of people 179 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: that we relate to um in in a much more 180 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: equality basis and a much a greater depth basis. I mean, 181 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: like in those conversations, I was wanting them to meet 182 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: what I needed versus like, well, I mean you're just 183 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: where they are to talk to people. It's on you know, 184 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: what's on your wavelength. I mean, this is what friendship is. 185 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: Like minded people, You're you're you're coming out of this 186 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: relationship quandary and understanding the individuality and independence of yourself, 187 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:58,679 Speaker 1: so you're not so enamored with I gotta have a relationship. 188 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: I gotta have a relationship up And of course it's 189 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 1: at nauseum to see you know, younger people, and that's 190 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 1: all they're thinking about, is that relationship. I mean, I'm 191 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 1: the worst person in the world for soul mates and 192 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 1: twin flames and all that nonsense, because when I hear that, 193 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: all my thinking is is whole buddy, If they're a 194 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 1: soul mate in a twin flame, you better get ready 195 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:29,680 Speaker 1: to get your ass kicked because their job is to 196 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 1: challenge you about who you think you are. And so 197 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: this isn't no skating rink you're going to be on 198 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:42,680 Speaker 1: when you come together and you're trying to define a relationship. 199 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: Is that because in about seven months, you're gonna want 200 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: You're going to realize that they're just another human being 201 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:54,199 Speaker 1: with all their complications and problems and now they're interfacing 202 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: with yours and we bet you better hope we're on 203 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: the same page. Oh, that is how that goes. It's 204 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: not just a simple you know, I need to have 205 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: somebody to love to feel completed. This is why you've 206 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: heard me say a hundred times. Don't fall in love 207 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: with someone. Fall in love of someone in a way 208 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: you like who they are, You like their whole process, 209 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: and they and and you interface with them and they 210 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: help you grow you help them grow. So that's the 211 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: real truth around relationships. The love has to come from knowledge, 212 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: and the love comes from the knowledge and the intuition. 213 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: And when you start listening to the divine mind and 214 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: your inner voice, well then you start you start really 215 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: reaching for that wrong of love and what it means, 216 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: because that's when it becomes brotherhood humanness. You can love 217 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: all people, all all everybody because there's a God and 218 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: everyone right. So what we're really trying to do is 219 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: really follow the understanding. Didn't no matter whatever level they're at, 220 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 1: there's still God, there's still a God in them. So 221 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: you look for the best part of them. Now, when 222 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: they get into frivolous conversations about a good looking boy 223 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: or some crap like that, I usually turn to go 224 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: to the other way, you know, try to change the 225 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 1: conversation or or I become the jokester. And I started 226 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: jerking them around a little bit about you know, they're 227 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:48,239 Speaker 1: you know, this fanciful idea of love and all that silliness. 228 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: I asked, part of it? I mean, you know, did 229 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: you do you hear me? I said, have you seen 230 00:15:55,960 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: the movie Jerry McGuire, Oh yeah, famous tagle One. You 231 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 1: complete me. You know, yeah, it's but so many of 232 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: us women specifically have been wired to be like, oh, 233 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 1: that's what a soulmate is. It's like my other half, 234 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 1: the part that you complete. Well, there's no such thing. 235 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: Your your chance of meeting your nomad, which is the 236 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: um when when the soul was created, it was created 237 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: the two sides of you, and one side is working 238 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: on the masculine, one side working on the feminine, and 239 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: that's got to be that comes together to make a 240 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: whole because you've got to be a masculine feminine to 241 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: be whole. So you know that that's the whole point 242 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: to all of this, you know, relationship concept idea. And 243 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: of course when I I just loved when I was 244 00:16:56,040 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 1: doing some research is I mean, you know, Aquarie can 245 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 1: be the coldest people on the planet because you can't 246 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: feel them. You can intuite them, but you can't feel 247 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: them because they have little emotion there. Oh, you know, 248 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: it's so interesting. It's like who came up with Valentine's 249 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: Day on February fourteenth? Then it makes no sense for 250 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 1: this month. Why wouldn't they pick a pisse's energy or 251 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 1: something that's like just another reason to party, Kelly, or 252 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:35,440 Speaker 1: drown your SWI, which is not a bad thing. I mean, 253 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 1: you know life should be a party. Yeah. Well, let's 254 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: talk about how uranus or your honest what how that plays, 255 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 1: how that energy plays into all of this right now. 256 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: I liked the quote you said. The path is to 257 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 1: seek wisdom through developing an understanding or tolerance of all 258 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: components of the human psyche, as well as all that 259 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: which is beyond the human psyche. The psyche is complex. Well, 260 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:08,439 Speaker 1: I mean, let's think about this. I mean, Uranus is 261 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 1: the most spiritual energy in the zodiac. Okay, I mean 262 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: its job is to bring you into um these sudden 263 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 1: flashes of insights and uh, the intuitive side and the intellectual, logical, scientific, 264 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 1: creative side of your life. Remember this is this is 265 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 1: the polar opposite of Leo. Leo is that you know, 266 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 1: all consumed in the individual, it's all about them. Well, 267 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: uronics is the polar opposite. So it's all about others, 268 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 1: us as a whole, it's we. And so when you're 269 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: looking at urons, what you're looking at is learning how 270 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: to listen to your higher self. You're so self. You 271 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 1: get sudden flashes of insight. Typically when I talk to 272 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 1: clients about uranus. Anytime you have a uranus transit transit, 273 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 1: you're going to have a repeated theme that just keeps 274 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:20,239 Speaker 1: popping in your mind. And it just keeps popping up. 275 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 1: And when you get a repeated theme that pops up 276 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: over the course of maybe a week or two or 277 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 1: three weeks or even a month, well that repeated theme, 278 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:35,120 Speaker 1: if it comes up three four times, you better take it. 279 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: It's real. That is real. And so you have to 280 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: learn how to get you know, people's you know, I 281 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: get a lot of people clients that say, I don't, well, 282 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: what do you mean intuition? What is that? And so 283 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: now you have to get into trying to help them 284 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: how they personally to fine the rattletrap of this conscious 285 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 1: mind versus that gut instinct, that little a quarter of 286 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: awareness that sits in your mind and keeps bugging you 287 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: or or you just keep getting this sense about things. Well, 288 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 1: that is intellect. That's the natural intelligence. And so when 289 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: you when you learn how to just you know, separate 290 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 1: those two, well, then you come more into an alignment 291 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 1: of being able to talk to your angels, guides in 292 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: your higher self, ask your questions, um ask for guidance 293 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:50,920 Speaker 1: asked for you know, um, what what is going on 294 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 1: for you? It's just like what we talked about the 295 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: other day. You're getting a sense about things. Well that 296 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 1: sense you may have to You may be holding onto 297 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 1: that sense of something for for a while before it 298 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 1: crystall lines, before it comes into that magical moment of realization. 299 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: So you have to come sometimes you have to sit 300 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: with it. People that get these great creative ideas, well, 301 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: the worst thing you can do is run out and 302 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 1: tell a bunch of people about this great insight that 303 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: you just had, because that's going to create opinions, judgment, perception, 304 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 1: perspectives which now is going to take yours, which is 305 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: going to destroy the hope, the whole creative moment. So 306 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: you hold it with it then. So that's there, your 307 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: your audient energy. But what is that? How does that? 308 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: Times who are Aquarius like I get confused on because 309 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 1: Aquarius is a sign and your honest and the sign 310 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: is ruled by a planet Uronicus, right, so in other words, 311 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 1: Uri cancer and so we all know that it cancer's 312 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: emotional and sensitive and we recognize the personality in the 313 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 1: character ricks of a cancer. But the the energy that 314 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 1: cancer uses to express themselves is the moon, and the 315 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: moon is the unconscious, which holds the totality of all memories, 316 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 1: past and current. Now't laughing at the way you're looking 317 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: at me right now? See well, I mean, but you 318 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 1: see so the energy in other words, I used to 319 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 1: like to explain it as if you saw a lightbulb 320 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: without a shade on it, well, then that would be 321 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 1: it could have clear light. But if you put a 322 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 1: shade on it, well, then that shade distorts that clear 323 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: light into how you see that light? You see it 324 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:12,679 Speaker 1: through that lens, right, you see the shade, that would 325 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:16,480 Speaker 1: be the aquarium, or that would be the cancer. Is 326 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 1: you got you're a cancer shade. The sign is the shade, 327 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: not the planet. Yeah. The energy is actually the electricity 328 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:33,679 Speaker 1: pumping into the light. Yeah, okay. And so this is 329 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: why when we talk about the sun moon, the sun 330 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 1: is the power source. The moon is not a source whatsoever. 331 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 1: It's the reflection of that power source, that personality, that 332 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 1: characteristics of all you are and all you've ever been. 333 00:23:55,680 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: So obviously you're happing to come to use that emotional 334 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:08,199 Speaker 1: sensitivity and understanding to develop a greater sense of emotional security. 335 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 1: Stability by changing how you use that energy. That you 336 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: can use that personality energy positively or you can use 337 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 1: it negatively. You can be in a you can be 338 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 1: a mush ball all the time. Right, Um, isn't a 339 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 1: quary and energy very intellectual, Like I was just thinking 340 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 1: about it with uronest it's it is the most intellectual side. Yeah, 341 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 1: and you talked a lot about the human psyche and 342 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: just that energy of um, your honest and hearing your 343 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: own song. It's the key to healing, like just all 344 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 1: the learning I feel like I read in this outline 345 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 1: around both of those energies. Mm hmmm, Well that's the 346 00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 1: star card in it to row right, So the star 347 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: card is bringing you into your own sense of uh yourself, 348 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 1: it's bringing you into the universal mind consciousness. So you're you're, 349 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:19,919 Speaker 1: you're you're moving into a higher level of awareness, of 350 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 1: awareness of self, of awareness of everything around you. So, um, yes, 351 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 1: it's a it is a song. I mean you know 352 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: that's way. Um, that's the way we describe all nature, 353 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 1: isn't it doesn't nature have their own song, their own rhythm, 354 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 1: and so when we you know, I've just come off 355 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 1: of studying so much mythology I'm just boggled by it all. 356 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: But when you understand mythology, you understand the archetypes of 357 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 1: how we live, and those archetypes are all based in nature. 358 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 1: And so this is why the aquarium connection to nature 359 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: it's so powerful and strong, because when if you really 360 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 1: want to connect to God, well then I would suggest 361 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 1: you connect to Mother Earth and nature because that's where 362 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 1: truth is. Yeah. I did a psilocybin journey I guess 363 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,400 Speaker 1: this is like almost a year and a half ago. 364 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: And when I was coming out of that trip, I 365 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,640 Speaker 1: went and set in my backyard under this big oak 366 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 1: tree I have and just watched leaves for like two hours. 367 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 1: It's like, oh my god, those leaves. You know, but 368 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: it's so interesting the connection and just I mean a 369 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 1: set in silence listening to the leaves and the wind, 370 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 1: and it was so crazy how I felt the vibrations 371 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:57,119 Speaker 1: in my body and just like so connected to the 372 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 1: earth as a bigger entity than just me walking around. 373 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: You know. It was just such an interesting experience of that, 374 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: and I think a lot of people get that, like 375 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 1: when they go up in the mountains, are you're standing 376 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,719 Speaker 1: by the ocean or things like that, Like there's a 377 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 1: reason we feel small in those instances and connected to 378 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 1: you know, it's like that moment where you realize there's 379 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 1: this higher purpose, there's this higher thing that we're connected to. Yes, um, 380 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: all right, let's move to the chart. Because you brought 381 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 1: you brought up Pluto, and I loved the questions that 382 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: you asked, the question what is in the way of 383 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 1: the highest spiritual recognition of self? So what is in 384 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 1: the way and why is that connected to Pluto? Well, 385 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: because Pluto is about transformation and regeneration of the soul. 386 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 1: I mean, this is this is your way to the 387 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 1: highest spiritual recognition of self because you're bumping up against 388 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: the psychology m of who you are, of who you've 389 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 1: ever been. And then so Pluto has to come in 390 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 1: the way we look at it astrologically, as uronics has 391 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 1: changed without pain, Okay, Pluto is changed with pain. M 392 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,600 Speaker 1: It seems to be the only way I get it, 393 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:26,159 Speaker 1: because Pluto is going to go into the depths of 394 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:31,080 Speaker 1: your psychology and root out what you have overidentified with 395 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 1: as your emotional stability, security, how you how you live 396 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: in life, and maintain your semblance of um um homeostasis. Uh, 397 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 1: you know, just keep everything in a normal way. And 398 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 1: so it's how we get used to expecting things to 399 00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 1: be well. That is it growth. So growth comes in, 400 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: Pluto comes in to be the surgeon to cut it 401 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 1: out of you. Now, what that means is is going 402 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 1: to cut it out of you by way of forcing 403 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 1: you to accept what's being taken away. So what you're 404 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 1: looking at right now and what you have been, you've 405 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 1: you've built your reality based on that security principle, and 406 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 1: when it's taken away, and it and and it, Pluto 407 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 1: does it in a just a slow, methodical way for 408 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 1: quite some time. And so when it's taken away, you 409 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 1: kind of left out there in faith. And when you 410 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: have to have faith, you best be looking for a 411 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 1: higher power to have it with. And then when you 412 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 1: do have faith, you put your faith in your higher power, 413 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 1: in that universal intelligence that it knows where you're going. 414 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 1: Now that you no longer need the security that you 415 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 1: have over identified with to take a step forward in 416 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: your life, to take a bump up in consciousness. Oh 417 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 1: has that one been really in our charts since? Like 418 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: what has been just described to me? When I think 419 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 1: so many people have faith? The short sweet answer is yes, 420 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 1: it's been then the sign of Capricorn, which is a 421 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: structure of reality. Well, there you go, and that's what 422 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 1: kicked off the COVID crap. Wow, Okay, Pluto hit Saturn. 423 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, Pluto conjuncted Saturn in early January of 424 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 1: so we went into a pandemic and life has not 425 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 1: been the same. Nope. Okay, so we've had We got 426 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: to see when you get too complacent by virtue of consistency, 427 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 1: that's the word I'm looking for, consistency. We are it's 428 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 1: natural for the human beings to want consistency, and when 429 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 1: that's taken away and where we've over identified with what 430 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: creates consistency, well then we stopped moving forward. We stopped 431 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 1: moving upwards. When you say uwards, you're pointing to like 432 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: the sky meaning spiritual vertical. Yeah, And I think that 433 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: that I truly can see in our culture because like 434 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 1: I feel like you're saying consistency, But what was triggered 435 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 1: in my mind was predictability. And I think we want 436 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: to know, like to expect in things, and as humans, 437 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 1: we get really rocked when things are unpredictable. And that's 438 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 1: sort of what we've been facing really big time. The 439 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 1: last couple of years. But well, wait a minute, how 440 00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: long we've been facing that A two thousand and eight, 441 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 1: Well that's when Pluto moved into Capricorn, the government restructured, reality, 442 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 1: went through a deep recession, went through. How much have 443 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 1: we've been through since two thousand and eight? Just I mean, 444 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 1: just try to get your mind around that. And that's 445 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: Pluto and a lot of it, and almost every bit 446 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 1: of it was painful because it changed many people's lives. 447 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 1: And so that's what Pluto does. And now the reason 448 00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: I'm liking Aquarius is because Aquarius is futuristic. It's it's 449 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 1: it's moving into our futurehood of now understanding ourselves as 450 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: um connected with the universe, not just with human beings, 451 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: with the universe. Camp quantum physics is telling us this, 452 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:28,600 Speaker 1: and and mythology tells us this. We've got to come 453 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 1: into understanding nature. We've got to quit ruining this planet 454 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 1: because it's going to belch if it doesn't, and we're 455 00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: going to be the one that's belched and it will survive. Right. 456 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 1: I was when I was in Bali, I saw a 457 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: tarot reader and she said the same exact thing. She said, 458 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 1: The universe is going to start fighting back because we've 459 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 1: like destroyed our worlds and so and we keep destroying. 460 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: It's like we're not getting the picture here, like we're 461 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: not protecting it. I'm trying not to use the words 462 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: that we have destroyed it. But I think that it's 463 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:11,400 Speaker 1: a paramount to understand that this is the wake up time, 464 00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:17,399 Speaker 1: uh for humanity to decide if they're going to uh 465 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 1: take care of the water, the rivers, the nature's uh, 466 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 1: the animals, all the things of the natural universe, because 467 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 1: if if we don't look, this world has been destroyed 468 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 1: many times for humans many times. So it just wasn't 469 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,439 Speaker 1: I think Joseph Campbell said the great flood ship. There's 470 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:45,959 Speaker 1: been uh sem or eight great floods. I mean, we've 471 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:52,479 Speaker 1: been taken off this planet lots of times. To laugh, 472 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm just like, well, nothing would surprised me anymore. Um. 473 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 1: So one of the things though, that I think is 474 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,719 Speaker 1: important that we that we talk about because I've got 475 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:06,640 Speaker 1: so many clients it's still calling up and um we're 476 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:11,320 Speaker 1: going through a lot of this this death dying, transformation 477 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: regeneration process because uh, Pluto is that the final degrees 478 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 1: of a sign, which is thirty degrees and it and 479 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 1: so when uh, when when we're talking about each degree, Well, 480 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 1: each degree is a lifetime, each degree is a characteristic, 481 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: each degree is a conditioning and patterning of understanding. And 482 00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 1: so we when you go through several degrees, I mean 483 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:52,280 Speaker 1: one through nine is conscious, ten through eight is subconscious, 484 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:59,760 Speaker 1: seven is unconscious, but twenty eight and thirty is operating 485 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:06,880 Speaker 1: on all realms of consciousness. So you're changing at every level. 486 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:14,440 Speaker 1: We all are changing at every level, conscious, subconscious and unconscious, 487 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 1: and so we know sometimes it feels heavy. So any 488 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 1: time that you have an ending degree planet astrologically means 489 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:32,719 Speaker 1: any activity you take upon always ends up either transforming 490 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 1: regenerating from where you started out. So there's a heaviness 491 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 1: to it. It's almost like a death and a rebirth 492 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,800 Speaker 1: just does it turn out exactly like you thought it would. 493 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:53,279 Speaker 1: And it feels a little heavy sometimes on severy on 494 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 1: several levels or one level, or whatever your expectations were 495 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 1: on any le them. And we'll be going through that 496 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:09,800 Speaker 1: now until we get to um I think it's March, uh, 497 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 1: when Pluto goes into Aquarius for a little while, and 498 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,359 Speaker 1: so we'll get a little reprieve and then it'll come 499 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: back into those later degrees and then it'll go forward again. 500 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 1: So we've got this. You just don't have a transition 501 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: like a light switch, like it starts and stops, so 502 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:34,360 Speaker 1: stops and starts. We're going to have to go through 503 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 1: uh several experienced times, um collectively individually as happened to 504 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:49,919 Speaker 1: go through this rebirth regeneration, depth dyeing process, so that 505 00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:56,759 Speaker 1: we eventually developed a new identity, a new perspective, perception 506 00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 1: about the way we are, about the aid world is, 507 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:08,800 Speaker 1: and so on. So we have to start work hard 508 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,840 Speaker 1: to listen to our own intuitive voices, that little inkling 509 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 1: about things, that little gut feeling about things, so that 510 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: we learn how to listen to that and trust that 511 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 1: versus what other friends and parents and and other people 512 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:33,200 Speaker 1: have to say. We have to um maintain an appearance 513 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 1: that um that that's credible to us. That we have 514 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 1: to seize our opportunities versus having doubts. And so we've 515 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: got to really watch all the negative feelings. Negative feelings 516 00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:57,960 Speaker 1: are in air, they're coming from the conscious mind. So 517 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:03,279 Speaker 1: we have to uh stop grappling with it, stop fighting it. See, 518 00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 1: every time we fight a negative feeling, all that does 519 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:12,800 Speaker 1: is intensify it. So we have to challenge those sub 520 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 1: those subconscious responses to life that are just instinctive, that 521 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 1: are negatives. We have to look for now, how would 522 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 1: I really want this to look like? So, in other words, 523 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 1: getting mental clarity, we have to kind of understand that 524 00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 1: we have an inkling that we're going in a new 525 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:40,879 Speaker 1: direction and trust that inkling, even though we don't necessarily 526 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 1: know exactly where that direction is. If I said, do 527 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,319 Speaker 1: you just kell they make a vision? Well, I can't 528 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 1: visualize it right now. That's all right, you can feel 529 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:56,279 Speaker 1: it right now. The vision will come. And so we're 530 00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:00,800 Speaker 1: going to be uh doing a lot uh with don't 531 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:04,840 Speaker 1: have complete knowledge, but we're going to have to find patience. 532 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,960 Speaker 1: And I think that that would be one of the 533 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 1: important things. Stay away from too much optimism, stay away 534 00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 1: from gain to any price, and especially stay away and 535 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:24,280 Speaker 1: start recognizing how you're nervous energy is moving right along 536 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:29,239 Speaker 1: with your emotional energy that you can stop all of 537 00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 1: those impulsive habits. Okay, So like when we're trying to 538 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:40,359 Speaker 1: self see with our anxiety, right, look what look at 539 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:45,279 Speaker 1: the emotions around the anxieties? Are they real? Are you 540 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:51,360 Speaker 1: making them? Up okay, and then that kind of brings 541 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 1: us into the full move, which is going to happen 542 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:58,920 Speaker 1: on the fifth. And it's very interesting because you're honest, 543 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:08,360 Speaker 1: energy that I was talking about sudden unexpected change is 544 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:13,840 Speaker 1: going to be exactly creating a dynamic tension with both 545 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 1: the Sun and the moon. So this full boom for 546 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:23,760 Speaker 1: the next fourteen days is going to be in questioning 547 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 1: our identity crisis. Wait, but fourteen because that's like the 548 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 1: after effect, because that's the half cycle. Oh have a 549 00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:37,280 Speaker 1: half cycle of a new moon that goes fourteen days 550 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,799 Speaker 1: to the bull moon, which then goes fourteen days to 551 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:44,400 Speaker 1: the next new moon. So when we're in the waning 552 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 1: cycle with uranis there, there's going to be a lot 553 00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:53,960 Speaker 1: of sudden unexpected changes coming around. That's going that's going 554 00:41:54,040 --> 00:42:00,200 Speaker 1: to really challenge who we are identity that we've identified with. 555 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,759 Speaker 1: He's going to show us where we've been stubborn or 556 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:08,880 Speaker 1: where we're bossy or irritable or rebellious. And then on 557 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,080 Speaker 1: the lunar side, the moon side, where you're being defensive, 558 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:16,319 Speaker 1: where you're being rebellious, where are you're trying to dictate 559 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,239 Speaker 1: so you can keep that status quo, where are you're 560 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 1: being impatient where you're dealing with constant christ emotional crisis. 561 00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,400 Speaker 1: So we're going to have to start looking at a 562 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,239 Speaker 1: lot of things over the next uh a couple of 563 00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:37,319 Speaker 1: months and over especially into this uh until we get 564 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 1: into the new Moon and pisces of really challenging our 565 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:47,440 Speaker 1: instincts are intuitions and trying to discover some of those 566 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: um some of those insecure places, some of those uh 567 00:42:55,400 --> 00:43:01,400 Speaker 1: uh problems with our character, our personality, how we've just 568 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:07,879 Speaker 1: been instinctively operating and responding to things without thinking them through. 569 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,399 Speaker 1: I mean, this is the proverbial count to ten count 570 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 1: to twenty count to fifty. You know, is say take 571 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 1: five big deep breath, close your eyes, focus on the breadth, 572 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,680 Speaker 1: and in in about ten seconds, open your eyes and 573 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: your reality has changed. You see something totally different, seeing 574 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:33,000 Speaker 1: a different perspective. So we're going to have to um 575 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:38,120 Speaker 1: recognize what throws us off our emotional center and how 576 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:45,040 Speaker 1: we're responding um to people in events, and we may 577 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 1: have to change our beliefs, our securities into a much 578 00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:56,359 Speaker 1: more aquarian principle of things, much more natural intelligence, much 579 00:43:56,440 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 1: more intellect much more spiritual mm hmm. If I'm gonna 580 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 1: have to go do some deep breaths after that, because 581 00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:11,759 Speaker 1: that just gave me anxiety. Oh, Kelly, Kelly, Well, just 582 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:15,360 Speaker 1: all that, you know, it's like change. I don't. I 583 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 1: don't lean in very well to that very easily at first. No, 584 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 1: And you know why, because you're a cancer ruled by 585 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:27,120 Speaker 1: the moon. If the mood wants anything, it wants consistency. 586 00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:35,120 Speaker 1: It doesn't like surprises. Well, but guess what, I have 587 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 1: no control over that. You've got to learn to accept 588 00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:47,680 Speaker 1: with faith lost yourself. You're you're so much better, so 589 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 1: much more talented, so much more wonderful, loving and kind 590 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 1: than you could ever imagine. Move into your heart to 591 00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,680 Speaker 1: find the truth. That's the only place that truth is. 592 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,759 Speaker 1: It's the only pace that God looks for your intention. 593 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:11,719 Speaker 1: What's your intention? The heart? The heart is where your 594 00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 1: intention is. So when you want to know truth, what's 595 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:20,319 Speaker 1: in your heart? I like that. Well, that brings us 596 00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 1: all the way back to the Valentine's Day theme, One 597 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,440 Speaker 1: Big Heart, focus on your Heart. We did it a 598 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,319 Speaker 1: little differently, but I think there were some themes of 599 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:35,800 Speaker 1: love and heart centered nous in there, and um, yeah, 600 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 1: that actually just taught me a lot I like that energy. 601 00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,440 Speaker 1: A little nervous about the full moon, but you know, whatever, 602 00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:45,879 Speaker 1: I guess we'll live. I need to stop. I'll get 603 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 1: over it. That helps me with the heart thoughts. I mean, 604 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,839 Speaker 1: you know, it's just like all those days you were 605 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:57,359 Speaker 1: battling that relationship stuff and I kept saying, Kelly, it's 606 00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,920 Speaker 1: all going to be over in just a couple of months. 607 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: What didn't mean it wasn't painful though exactly. Pain changed 608 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:13,000 Speaker 1: without pain. That's the key of this month. Change without pain, 609 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:18,360 Speaker 1: changing without I can lean into that, lean into the 610 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:23,560 Speaker 1: pain that I used a shout avoid all right, Marv, 611 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,200 Speaker 1: tell the people where they can find you. They can 612 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 1: find me at astro marv dot com and they can 613 00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:35,479 Speaker 1: email me at Marvin at astro marv dot com. They'd 614 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 1: like a copy of this outline, which you can tell 615 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:47,160 Speaker 1: them how complex I was, like, how what I figured 616 00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,719 Speaker 1: when I sent you five pages of that you were 617 00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:53,279 Speaker 1: going to go off the deep end. Well, there are 618 00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,200 Speaker 1: a lot of good quotes in this one, so if 619 00:46:56,200 --> 00:47:01,120 Speaker 1: you guys need some inspiration and um, I mean, it's 620 00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 1: basically a lot of what we talked about too, but 621 00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 1: in more depth. So if you're very into astrology, or 622 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,319 Speaker 1: you know anything about charts too, that would be a 623 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,359 Speaker 1: really good You see, when when I can look at 624 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 1: the tarrow, when I look at the Edgar Casey material, 625 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:21,280 Speaker 1: when I look at all the different varieties and versions 626 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,440 Speaker 1: of the same thing, it gives you different language. What 627 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,480 Speaker 1: And I need it because I can get to athrological 628 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:35,319 Speaker 1: and I don't want to be I'm not just athrological sense. 629 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:40,080 Speaker 1: This is why I go through a lot of different things. Uh, 630 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:44,839 Speaker 1: like the Edgar Casey like quotes of truth isms. Uh, 631 00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,359 Speaker 1: you use all of it. Yeah, so it gives me 632 00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:56,320 Speaker 1: a different language that you know, some speaks some language 633 00:47:56,360 --> 00:48:01,400 Speaker 1: speaks to some, some speaks to others. So yeah, you 634 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:07,440 Speaker 1: gotta have variety, consistency. No variety is a spice of life. 635 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:14,439 Speaker 1: As they saydice baby. All right, So Kelly, go live 636 00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 1: your spicy life this month. Okay, don't be worried about love. 637 00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:25,480 Speaker 1: Oh I'm not. Can you talk to about friends about that? Um? 638 00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:28,359 Speaker 1: All right, Well, Marv, thank you so much for being here. 639 00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for listening, and uh, happy February, happy 640 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:39,560 Speaker 1: month of love, Happy happy Valence Day. 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