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Speaker 1: That is so, Chris, of all the words in the
Speaker 1: queer lexicon, when I say come dump, what comes to mind?
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Speaker 2: Have you ever been to a cum dumb?
Speaker 1: I haven't been to like a come dump party before.
Speaker 1: I've definitely been to like a group sex experience, but
Speaker 1: I think like a pump and dump or like a
Speaker 1: come dump party itself is it's a very like rare phenomenon,
Speaker 1: Like all the elements have to be right. It's like
Speaker 1: you got it's like the chemistry of sex.
Speaker 3: And it's got to be a timer there? Does Is
Speaker 3: there a timer? Like an Alzheimer?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: Oh, that's kind of rough. I didn't know. We were like,
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Speaker 2: I'm setting my watch the speed.
Speaker 1: Dating of load sharing, right, it's like you got five
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Speaker 1: are going to be talking about a topic that is
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Speaker 3: Yes, come dumping is huge in the queer community, and
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Speaker 3: Scott Carslake promotes himself as a tall, muscled jockbro com dumb.
Speaker 3: He's a former athlete and frat boy six ' five,
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Speaker 3: among his fifty k followers on Twitter.
Speaker 1: He has personally organized or been featured in dozens of coumdumbs,
Speaker 1: both in his home city of San Francisco, as well
Speaker 1: as across the nation and even internationally. Someone's booked M
Speaker 1: busy Welcome Scott Carslake.
Speaker 3: Hi, guys, So I have to ask, how did you
Speaker 3: get started as a cum dumb.
Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, it just sort of evolved naturally.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: Now, I started, you know, going to sex parties and
Speaker 4: you know, hooking up with different guys and getting bright
Speaker 4: with different guys, and I started to realize that the com.
Speaker 2: Was the thing that turns me on the most, okay.
Speaker 4: And so when I started realizing that, I just started
Speaker 4: going further into that. And then a friend of mine
Speaker 4: and dear friend of mine, was like, would you like
Speaker 4: me to like invite guys over for you one night
Speaker 4: and we did that and it was like eight guys
Speaker 4: came over and I got eight loads and I was like,
Speaker 4: I like this, I want to go further with us. Okay,
Speaker 4: a natural progression. Yeah, it was like a natural progression.
Speaker 4: It's one over time, ye know. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I'm really curious, what do you think kind of
Speaker 1: merits the title of come dump and when were you
Speaker 1: like if this is a word, I want to use,
Speaker 1: this is my word now.
Speaker 4: So this has been a point of debate, Like actually
Speaker 4: on Twitter you'll find threads where people say, no, I
Speaker 4: think this is a come dump. That's a come dump
Speaker 4: for me. And this is not taking away from anyone
Speaker 4: who has a different definition. A coumdump is someone who
Speaker 4: will take loads from any hardcock that wants to give away.
Speaker 4: There are definitely people who use that label, even though
Speaker 4: they may be more restrictive or selective in who they select.
Speaker 4: But for me and for many of my peers, it
Speaker 4: means if you're hard and you want to breathe, you
Speaker 4: can that really matter who you are, what you look like.
Speaker 4: Any of us.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that we're not gatekeeping cum dumping here. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're unpacking.
Speaker 3: A friend who sent me a message he's at the
Speaker 3: total top and he took one load and he's in
Speaker 3: a group message.
Speaker 2: He's like, am I come dump now?
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh yeah, you absolutely do not qualify.
Speaker 4: It's it's entering into the gay cultures like guns, you know,
Speaker 4: in a way that's I think might in a way
Speaker 4: make it less meaningful, but also it's great because it's
Speaker 4: becoming more mainstream, which I think is healthy for a
Speaker 4: gay culture and role.
Speaker 1: What do you think kind of contributes to this sort
Speaker 1: of mainstreaming, because I think it's pretty clear and I'd
Speaker 1: love for you to talk about this more, at least
Speaker 1: a few years ago, in a pre prep era, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of stigma surrounding bare back sex and especially
Speaker 1: sex involved multiple partners or group sex. What do you
Speaker 1: think is changed regarding the word come dump and sort
Speaker 1: of taking loads kind of during the mainstream now.
Speaker 4: To be honest with you, I mean, you hit the
Speaker 4: nail on the head. Prep is it? You know, before
Speaker 4: prep was a thing. Before I was on prep, believe
Speaker 4: it or not, I was a total talk one thousand
Speaker 4: percent because I really didn't, you know, want to get
Speaker 4: fucked without getting bred. It wasn't really what's the point?
Speaker 4: And then to me and so like prep changed everything
Speaker 4: and honestly allowed us to explore the ways that you know,
Speaker 4: gay culture and gay sex ways are not like straight
Speaker 4: sex wives.
Speaker 1: I was going to ask, is there kind of a
Speaker 1: community surrounding like organizing pump and dumps? Do people share
Speaker 1: like tips or best practices?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah.
Speaker 4: One of the things I love about the coming down community,
Speaker 4: about my peers is though there's always a bit of
Speaker 4: a subtext of competition, because obviously.
Speaker 1: We're trying to get loads we end up we try.
Speaker 4: To be really mutually supportive, you know, and we like
Speaker 4: chatting with each other. We like saying congratulations, you know,
Speaker 4: like I, you know, I've messaged you know, Corey Hudson
Speaker 4: or brought Fox after they've done one and they've messaged
Speaker 4: me sometimes like a job, you know, like and like
Speaker 4: it's very much like, yeah.
Speaker 2: I imagine a world where you all share a calendar
Speaker 2: so you're not double booking.
Speaker 4: Actually explicitly suggested that no, and actually, so there's a
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Speaker 1: Is this a website?
Speaker 2: Yea a website?
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Speaker 4: But one of the features they have is a Google
Speaker 4: calendar where you can say this is where I'm going
Speaker 4: to be on what data and what city this is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm curious. Besides sort of the planning, how
Speaker 1: has like sort of organizing these events and being a
Speaker 1: comped up change for you, like like what's the evolution
Speaker 1: sort of been Like I would.
Speaker 4: Say, for me, the journey has been really exciting. I
Speaker 4: had really really fun twenty twenty three. I I you know,
Speaker 4: I hit my my goal for the years of a
Speaker 4: thousand loads.
Speaker 2: It was really adulation, I know, I know, did you
Speaker 2: exceed it or did you just go.
Speaker 4: To I think it was something like one thy fifty
Speaker 4: by the end of the year, and it was great spreadsheet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was going to ask, how do you they're actually.
Speaker 4: Apps that you download it just like.
Speaker 2: So you have the phone sitting next to you.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's what.
Speaker 4: No, And it was great. I would say though that, like,
Speaker 4: you know, this is again not in any way to
Speaker 4: discourage anyone from trying us. If they want to, you should.
Speaker 4: It's fun. I had a great time. But at the
Speaker 4: same time I found that as I've started this load
Speaker 4: seeking journey, sometimes when I'm just hooking up with a
Speaker 4: guy or at an orgy, it might be as hard
Speaker 4: a little bit harder to get into the swing of
Speaker 4: things when I'm like, why am I not getting bread?
Speaker 4: Why I'm not clean? You know, at a sex party
Speaker 4: or an orgy, maybe not everyone's going to come right away,
Speaker 4: you know. And so like that's been the only like
Speaker 4: the journey that I've been on. And now I'm like,
Speaker 4: you know what, but maybe I should take a step
Speaker 4: back from doing this every weekend and maybe try and
Speaker 4: reinvest my emotional energy and enjoying Okay, you know, more
Speaker 4: traditional kinds of stuff if you will, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 4: that's been my more sort of emotional enjourney. On the
Speaker 4: other a full bell curve. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And in terms of like sexual health, what are you
Speaker 2: doing me?
Speaker 4: Testing positive is a very very rare recurrence, yeah, for anything,
Speaker 4: you know. So I've got my prep, I've got my
Speaker 4: doxy prep. I actually I don't recommend this necessarily for
Speaker 4: most people, because I'm doing somebody sessions so often, and
Speaker 4: because it is marginally more effective. I actually go doxy prep,
Speaker 4: not doxy PEP.
Speaker 1: So this is also relatively new. Could you kind of
Speaker 1: describe for our listeners and viewers, what doxy PEP and
Speaker 1: doxy prep are sure so so.
Speaker 4: Doxy cycling is a antibiotic that recently has become approved
Speaker 4: as a way of essentially preventing many back to your
Speaker 4: STIs from taking hold in your body. And what you
Speaker 4: do is within twenty four to forty eight or seventy
Speaker 4: two hours after unprotected sex, you take two hundred milligrams
Speaker 4: of doctor cycling, which is normally two pills, and that
Speaker 4: is extremely effective, although not perfect, at preventing an STI infection.
Speaker 4: And it's essentially you know prep. You know, you know
Speaker 4: travada for for HIV, but for gonneriea syphilis, and you
Speaker 4: know alclamydia. And that's what's recommended for most people and
Speaker 4: most sexuals in most sexual contexts. Doxy prep, which is
Speaker 4: generally not recommended because you don't want to build antibiotic
Speaker 4: resistance if you don't have to, is where you take
Speaker 4: it in advance, essentially twice a day, one pal for
Speaker 4: let's say at least four or five days before and
Speaker 4: a few days after, and that is slightly more effective
Speaker 4: than the post explosure that PEP approach, but as I said,
Speaker 4: is generally not a good idea unless you're doing crazy
Speaker 4: shit like I was doing.
Speaker 2: I'm not doing it right now. For example, Okay, what
Speaker 2: are your time limits?
Speaker 3: Like, like do you when you're going into it, You're like, Okay,
Speaker 3: I'm only going to do three hours, or I'm only
Speaker 3: going to do.
Speaker 4: I have done, you know, like weekends where I'll do
Speaker 4: two deep cleans and try and go twice. Realistically, is
Speaker 4: not with the trouble. Once you've done one session, you're
Speaker 4: so chafe you do not want to put a hose
Speaker 4: up your bet again. So I usually do like one
Speaker 4: deep clean and then I'll do like an evening session.
Speaker 4: I'll take a nap and then I'll do it morning
Speaker 4: session like a branch sesshion on the next day, within
Speaker 4: twenty four hours. Like that's like my usual time limit
Speaker 4: up to twenty four hours of come dumping in a weekend.
Speaker 2: So I have to ask where does all the come go?
Speaker 4: Fun fact, there's you know, multiple segments of your of
Speaker 4: your digits tract, and most people when you have sex,
Speaker 4: you just have the outer segment he's involved.
Speaker 2: Why the cum guys?
Speaker 4: I find for me, Once I get about past twenty loads,
Speaker 4: I start to feel the cum go from you know,
Speaker 4: the main part of your colon where you usually are
Speaker 4: having sex, up past the second hole into the descending
Speaker 4: quilling and you can feel, you can if you have
Speaker 4: you have body presents, you can feel it start to
Speaker 4: go in there and it's like it definitely was chatting
Speaker 4: with someone who had their first like big cum dump
Speaker 4: and it's like, yeah, I was crazy. I felt like
Speaker 4: I was being douched by cum, you know, And if
Speaker 4: you do a really good job with your clean out,
Speaker 4: you will find you are literally just having pure white
Speaker 4: coum cut out of your ass like a day or
Speaker 4: two later. It is crazy. It is crazy. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: it's absolutely nuts.
Speaker 3: Wow, I'm kind of wanted to try it.
Speaker 1: It's a it's a thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like so one of one of the things
Speaker 4: I was told after one of my first big successful
Speaker 4: COMDOMNS is Corey had something it was like the.
Speaker 2: Star of the condomn world, like far and away.
Speaker 4: Like the best known. So he messaged me like after
Speaker 4: I finished, I was like, no, remember for the next
Speaker 4: few hours, it's never justified and he's not wrong. He's
Speaker 4: not wrong, like you'll you have to fart, don't do
Speaker 4: it like or certainly don't do it in bed when
Speaker 4: you're like recovery. Yeah, it will go everywhere.
Speaker 1: The imagery. Oh wow, that's a mate. It's never just
Speaker 1: oh my god, And here I thought it was just
Speaker 1: folks of I B s who had to your memoirs.
Speaker 1: It's never just memoirs of dumb. We got it printed now.
Speaker 2: I'll thank you.
Speaker 1: Oh man, all right, we are going to take a break,
Speaker 1: but when we come back, we're going to ask Scott
Speaker 1: where all the tally marks go. Once you run out
Speaker 1: of space on your back, stay tuned.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: So let's say you're one of our listeners at home
Speaker 3: where you're me in this chair and you're thinking, that's it.
Speaker 3: I'm sold. I'm going to be a come dumb. Do
Speaker 3: you have like a plan of action when you're setting
Speaker 3: up a come dumb?
Speaker 4: Oh? Absolutely absolutely, And I would say actually a lot
Speaker 4: of it is before you even get to the point
Speaker 4: of setting a day like So the first thing, because
Speaker 4: I a lot of people find it hot, make sure
Speaker 4: it's more than a jerk off fallacy, because you know
Speaker 4: it is physically challenging. The deep clean is challenging that
Speaker 4: it's hard on your whole it's hard on your body.
Speaker 4: You know, maybe hop on Sniffy's one night and just
Speaker 4: try to invite people over, you know, like and see
Speaker 4: you know where you are after you know, eight or
Speaker 4: nine or ten or fifteen guys come over, just based
Speaker 4: on like you do do it, you know, do what
Speaker 4: you can, you know, like and see where you're at.
Speaker 4: Because you know, a lot of people will find that
Speaker 4: they maybe don't have their clean out routine to the
Speaker 4: level where you can go beyond eight or nine or
Speaker 4: ton guys, or maybe that their whole just gets too
Speaker 4: star So start there, you know, before you put in
Speaker 4: a lot offert because this is a lot of effort
Speaker 4: to set up. Then I would say the next step
Speaker 4: from there is, if you want to really go for it,
Speaker 4: figure out what your hook is. Figure out I mean
Speaker 4: there is some marketing that goes into this because because
Speaker 4: no believe it or not, like because the thing is,
Speaker 4: like people seem to think that like just saying hold up,
Speaker 4: no no questions asked is enough to bring the tops running.
Speaker 1: It is not, because there are like eight more people.
Speaker 4: Just so you have to, like, what is your hook? Now?
Speaker 4: I have you know the advantage of you know, I've
Speaker 4: put a lot of time and effort into my body,
Speaker 4: you know, ten hours a week in the job, and
Speaker 4: that helps, you know, I lean into like the jaw
Speaker 4: bro you know, athletic, you know, aesthetic, and that's a
Speaker 4: big part of my hook. I know people who are
Speaker 4: successful with come dumping, who lean into other hawks. It
Speaker 4: could be you're a bear. It could be not even
Speaker 4: a physical thing. It could be I'm.
Speaker 2: A water sports come down and I'm really flexible.
Speaker 1: There you go, right, yeah, we're buildings right now. This
Speaker 1: is yeah there. You know, what are things that you
Speaker 1: look for if you're trying to play an event like
Speaker 1: this at a hotel?
Speaker 4: So ideally you want a hotel that it doesn't have
Speaker 4: a key card reader in the elevator that requires you
Speaker 4: to wipe key card to go to your particular floor.
Speaker 1: Or like every person coming up you'd have to go
Speaker 1: down to just trying to hold everything inside.
Speaker 2: Like I've done that.
Speaker 6: It's not fun. It's really not fun. It's yeah, it's
Speaker 6: been a thing.
Speaker 4: Number One, Bigger hotels, high traffic areas with a lot
Speaker 4: of nightlife better because there's a lot of people coming
Speaker 4: all hours at night and you're less likely to be noticed. Uh,
Speaker 4: there's no particular trick for getting people and discreetly you
Speaker 4: want traffic to disguise the people, got it, or a
Speaker 4: motel where you can just walk right in without there
Speaker 4: being any sort of gate keeper up to the door, right, Yeah,
Speaker 4: So like that's key, and you know, is there in
Speaker 4: the motel situation, is there a really clear sight line
Speaker 4: between the room that you've been assigned.
Speaker 1: And I hadn't thought of that amateur hour over here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you really got to like, I'm not going to
Speaker 4: get everything. You really have to think about how does
Speaker 4: this look? You know, it really would have boils downtown, which.
Speaker 1: Is so funny because it's just people getting together to
Speaker 1: have sex. Like it's like, which is presumably happening a
Speaker 1: lot in hotels, but I think it's probably the vultol.
Speaker 4: And to be honest with you, honestly, what a lot
Speaker 4: of the management of hotels start to think if you
Speaker 4: have any people coming in out of your room, is
Speaker 4: that you're dealing drugs. So that's why it really matters,
Speaker 4: you know, Yeah, in some ways if they found out
Speaker 4: what you're afually doing, that might be relieved.
Speaker 1: You know, just a lot of I brought my own sheets,
Speaker 1: You'll be fine.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's the worst case scenario. They'll like tell
Speaker 4: you to like calm the funan, Yeah.
Speaker 2: You got two more hours, so what comes next?
Speaker 4: Well, So there are other aspects of preparing for your
Speaker 4: comdumb that you can consider. One is, many cities have
Speaker 4: what you might call cum dump surpas, people who really
Speaker 4: enjoy like pouring out bottoms. You want to try this
Speaker 4: or have this experience, And so if you can connect
Speaker 4: with one of them, that's an awesome way of doing it.
Speaker 4: And I will say that they are very in demand
Speaker 4: and they are wonderful people. My friend in San Francisco
Speaker 4: who I've become very close with, who does those most
Speaker 4: the most in SF is master K. He's a wonderful guy,
Speaker 4: but he's hit up like twenty times a diamic people
Speaker 4: wanting to have this experience.
Speaker 2: And does he charge for the service.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's.
Speaker 2: Just he does fun.
Speaker 4: But it's a hobby for him.
Speaker 2: It's a hobby for This is community organization, this.
Speaker 1: Is what is that the hunt for lack of a
Speaker 1: better word, for attendees kind of look like it's a
Speaker 1: lot of work.
Speaker 4: So first of all, I will say, genuinely, hand on heart,
Speaker 4: Sniffy's changed the game. It makes it so much easier.
Speaker 4: It's an incredible, incredible service. And what I do usually
Speaker 4: is I will go on days and advance how to
Speaker 4: create the group. I will start adding people to the
Speaker 4: group in advance. Sometimes I have friends also create groups
Speaker 4: because it just fills up and as you know, you
Speaker 4: probably know a lot of people won't show up, so
Speaker 4: like about a third to a quarter of the people
Speaker 4: that say they're gonna come actually come. So if you're
Speaker 4: trying to get that forty fifty loads, you need multiple
Speaker 4: groups active. Yeah, so yeah, definitely Sniffy's.
Speaker 2: Pumping dump groups are your friend.
Speaker 4: Then on top of that, you might be traveling to
Speaker 4: another city, so you might actually have to have a
Speaker 4: friend who lives in that city log on for you
Speaker 4: and create the group before you get there, because you
Speaker 4: can't wait till you arrive in town. Sometimes you gotta
Speaker 4: be working, Like I will start prepping for like a
Speaker 4: ten yees at are pumping up at least a week
Speaker 4: in advance. Yeah, like other sites sometimes can help too,
Speaker 4: but like that's really the go to way. I don't
Speaker 4: And usually what I'll do in terms of being on
Speaker 4: Sniffys is you cannot go out and type out every
Speaker 4: freaking detail on each Sniffy's message, because you're messaging hundreds
Speaker 4: of hundreds or two guys like my pumping dumps. You
Speaker 4: think they just like show up. They do not. It
Speaker 4: takes prep work, It takes a lot of message on.
Speaker 1: No, I'm just I'm very impressed that you have maxile
Speaker 1: Sniffy's group number and have seen what that looks like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right, full of groups. Do you get like
Speaker 2: a badge for that account?
Speaker 4: I don't know what should ask?
Speaker 1: Can we get this man? As we need to give
Speaker 1: you a lifetime achievement of order? All right? So Scott,
Speaker 1: you've taken us through a lot of the preparation, the
Speaker 1: venue research, the planning. Uh now it's day of What
Speaker 1: does that look like for you?
Speaker 4: Make a list, know what you need to bring with
Speaker 4: you and pack it in advance. I usually bring a
Speaker 4: waterproof sheet because you don't want to mess up hotel
Speaker 4: but hotel sheets too badly and got a feed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't make that cleaning staff suffer from Oh god,
Speaker 1: do not.
Speaker 2: Do not.
Speaker 4: So there's that. I usually bring some mood lighting, you know.
Speaker 4: I bring a speaker for some little like music, like
Speaker 4: I've got a whole list of things, and to make
Speaker 4: sure you know what you're bringing, do your prep. Get
Speaker 4: to the hotel early, make sure you've set up, bring
Speaker 4: something to prompt the door. I don't like to just
Speaker 4: do the down bolt, because that's real suspicious stoccount. I usually,
Speaker 4: I mean, there's different ways of doing it. The way
Speaker 4: I do it just put a little cardboard strip over
Speaker 4: the latch and tape it so that the door will
Speaker 4: shut and look closed, but people can just push it open,
Speaker 4: right Yeah. Yeah, So like just leave time to get
Speaker 4: all that set up, you know, make sure that you've
Speaker 4: you know, put your stuff away, you've set the bed upright. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I usually like to bring some down soaps people can
Speaker 4: like wash their hands, get the lube off, or some
Speaker 4: wet white hoop ops is usually to go to all
Speaker 4: that kind stuff. Yeah, uh yeah, get there early. Try
Speaker 4: to keep the hours you say you're going to keep.
Speaker 4: Like that is the best way of getting repeat customers.
Speaker 4: Getting a good reputation is like, if you say you're
Speaker 4: going to be open from four pm to eight pm,
Speaker 4: be open from four pm to eight pm.
Speaker 2: Don't tap out early.
Speaker 1: Girl, tell them go downstairs from me. The way you're
Speaker 1: pumping dumps keep more consistent hours than so the body
Speaker 1: is in New York is very impressible. Barbershops, yeah, or
Speaker 1: the barbershops as you well know.
Speaker 4: And then like afterwards, well, I mean obviously clean up.
Speaker 4: I mean, yes, you're paying for a hotel room and
Speaker 4: you're paying for that service, but don't put the staff
Speaker 4: through that. Number one, it's rude to them. Number two,
Speaker 4: they're one of the fastest ways of getting a chill,
Speaker 4: com dumb hotel. To not be chill is to leave
Speaker 4: a fucking mess. So like I usually like make sure
Speaker 4: there's a trash bag for everyone to put their shit in,
Speaker 4: like if they like people up a wet wipe, or
Speaker 4: they have a paper towel, or they have gum, you know,
Speaker 4: like and yeah, just like leave time to make sure
Speaker 4: you're cleaning up, take the sheet off that you brought
Speaker 4: with you.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we've talked a lot about like what to do
Speaker 1: if you would like to host this event as the
Speaker 1: Maria callis bottom of the evening, But I am wondering
Speaker 1: do you have any etiquette or expectations for tops who
Speaker 1: might be attending an event like this for the first time.
Speaker 1: I might not be familiar with sort of the rundown.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I mean, I mean I would say that
Speaker 4: the goal of a comdump is the bottom once to
Speaker 4: get Brad. Don't go to a cum dump expecting to
Speaker 4: have a long private session or like oh my god,
Speaker 4: you're so hot or want to just really like take
Speaker 4: a look long as I can before I come. That's
Speaker 4: really rude. Like if you know you're going, well, you
Speaker 4: know you're going for you know, you can reach out
Speaker 4: afterwards exactly if you had to get experience, you get
Speaker 4: a god connection, you can always you know, a review
Speaker 4: five stars on yellow. But yeah, so like don't don't
Speaker 4: go expecting you know that, you know, you know you're
Speaker 4: there to come go you know that is that is
Speaker 4: I would say, try not to get in your head
Speaker 4: about it. A lot of people come with it and
Speaker 4: they end up with performance anxiety. And that's normal, Like
Speaker 4: we get it, you know, like of course, why would
Speaker 4: you not be rock hard walking in off the street
Speaker 4: Like it happens okay, Like it takes a moment to
Speaker 4: get in the mood. Like it's a little weird. Like
Speaker 4: some guys say they're intimidated by you know, how how
Speaker 4: pretty you're attractive, Like just chill like we're just people,
Speaker 4: or just we're just people. We're just another another guy
Speaker 4: that you're woking up with. So try to like be
Speaker 4: prepared to just get in a natural fa of my mind. Obviously,
Speaker 4: don't do drugs. Don't come expecting things for you, Like
Speaker 4: I have a lot of guys who show up expecting
Speaker 4: poppers to be provided. I personally don't use poppers, So
Speaker 4: don't necessarily bring. If you need something to get off,
Speaker 4: bring it with you.
Speaker 1: It's a byop this one, all right, get out of
Speaker 1: my head, Come on now, b yop the second T
Speaker 1: shirt slogan we've gotten out of this episode, all right.
Speaker 1: And then before we take a quick break, I do
Speaker 1: want to ask, what would you say, is like maybe
Speaker 1: your most successful memory organizing these pumping up events.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's a tough one I've had. I've had
Speaker 4: so much joy and different. It's like different flavors of
Speaker 4: ice cream. Every every everyone's everyone's everyone's a little different,
Speaker 4: you know. Honestly, some of my favorite events are not
Speaker 4: necessarily the ones with the highest load counts, although there's
Speaker 4: some overlap, but the ones where I have the best company.
Speaker 4: I've done a few were I side by side with
Speaker 4: a friends. Yeah, and those are really magical because any come, no,
Speaker 4: no matter how successful you are, there going to be
Speaker 4: little moments where there's quiet or you're taking a break,
Speaker 4: and having someone there to like chat with or shit
Speaker 4: with is like.
Speaker 2: You can really bond out of the Yeah, do you
Speaker 2: always have someone with you?
Speaker 4: No? No, No, Often I don't. But you know, when
Speaker 4: I have the right chemistry with a friend and I
Speaker 4: do do that with with them, it's it's magical, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fun.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Usually when I think of that, I think there's like
Speaker 1: one star of the show. But every now and then
Speaker 1: you're like, I'll be Glinda, your alpha BA. We're hitting
Speaker 1: the notes in define grapht.
Speaker 4: The person and sometis the person you're with is not
Speaker 4: another bottom. Some of the person you're with is the
Speaker 4: person who's helping or you out, like the messages and
Speaker 4: it could be a good friend help before Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: you know exactly.
Speaker 1: Well, Scott, thank you so much for sharing your secrets
Speaker 1: and tips with us. This was very illuminating. You can
Speaker 1: find Scott at Muscled come Hole on Twitter and come
Speaker 1: dump on Blue Sky him a follow.
Speaker 3: After the break, we'll be heading out to an actual
Speaker 3: comm dump scene in progress with the iconic porn performer
Speaker 3: Jonah Wheeler.
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Speaker 7: come come.
Speaker 1: Up, come on.
Speaker 3: That was comb by Chris Conde, the rapper. Now, Gabe,
Speaker 3: are you a fan of Jonah Wheeler?
Speaker 1: I love Jonah. Jonah has been a dear friend of
Speaker 1: mine for a little bit. I just think he's such
Speaker 1: a talent, such a sweetheart. He is a legend in Brooklyn,
Speaker 1: a very brilliant and ambitious porn performer.
Speaker 3: Well, we knew that Jonah enjoyed me a cum dumb
Speaker 3: and so we send our director Adam Barron not to
Speaker 3: an observed a typical Saturday in Jonah's world.
Speaker 4: Big takes us.
Speaker 5: That's me, your big bross up taking time on Saturday afternoon,
Speaker 5: face down or face up, come and go. No long sessions,
Speaker 5: no loitering, no drugs, Popper's four twenty. Okay, leave your
Speaker 5: growth flooded and dripping. Put my Twitter handle and I said,
Speaker 5: I'll sometimes be filming just my face during this. Most
Speaker 5: of them are going to be openly gay people. But
Speaker 5: still with that, many of them would probably not admit
Speaker 5: to somebody that they showed up to a stranger's hotel
Speaker 5: room just to breathe them leave.
Speaker 2: In addition to the.
Speaker 5: Sixty five people who are on the Sniffy's event, like
Speaker 5: I posted on Twitter about it, and another twenty people
Speaker 5: I messaged through Twitter, that's eighty five invites. Typically like
Speaker 5: a quarter a third of those people show up, so
Speaker 5: I'm expecting twenty five to thirty. The first time I
Speaker 5: ever threw a comdumb event was a private event at
Speaker 5: my friend's house that I invited friends to. There were
Speaker 5: a couple of strangers. Some people invited people I didn't
Speaker 5: know because they know that I like that. We had
Speaker 5: a party themed around the fact that I looked like
Speaker 5: the dad in Mary Poppins' Returns. People wrote songs. There
Speaker 5: was a jockstrap cutting. Two summers ago, I did a
Speaker 5: real like we put up a listing on Sniffy's. The
Speaker 5: doors bolted show up. Between these times, I'm not looking,
Speaker 5: I got twenty five loads and twenty five dudes. I
Speaker 5: very much learned during that one that I needed a chaperone.
Speaker 5: That if somebody just hangs around for too long, like,
Speaker 5: they can make sure that they find their way out.
Speaker 5: If they're just like looking for a place to chill
Speaker 5: for a while. Is that the first time I'm doing
Speaker 5: it in Manhattan for some time I'm doing it in New
Speaker 5: York in like in my home city. I feel like
Speaker 5: everybody's gonna fuck a little harder here. This is a
Speaker 5: lube syringe. I'm gonna fill it with lube and put
Speaker 5: it deep inside, which makes it less likely for me
Speaker 5: to get injured by big dicks or insufficient lube. Because
Speaker 5: I set this event up as like Big Bro takes loads,
Speaker 5: I'm playing into a lot of people's brother fantasies. So
Speaker 5: I think what I want to write is like Bro
Speaker 5: loads with two arrows, greats andcum dumping. It can take
Speaker 5: like eighty one hundred guys in a night, but you're
Speaker 5: a great person to have as the first one.
Speaker 4: Fuck.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's it. Yeah, I feel fucking great? Am I
Speaker 5: holes real happy?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: You know there's a fantasy version of this that is
Speaker 5: like having a part of somebody's DNA and you changes
Speaker 5: you a little bit. But I also like sort of
Speaker 5: the idea of spiritually or psychologically you become a little
Speaker 5: bit like the people. Through this closeness and this intimate act.
Speaker 5: I have no purpose except for you to pound your
Speaker 5: cock into me, over and over as hard as you
Speaker 5: can and want to.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm here for. Do that to me.
Speaker 5: Ah yeah, Both those last two you could feel when
Speaker 5: they came. They just shoved the hole way in and
Speaker 5: held it there. You just feel their cock pulse and unload.
Speaker 2: Fuck, it's such a good.
Speaker 5: Feeling breeding coming the moment of orgasm with somebody. I
Speaker 5: think it tells you a lot about a person, getting
Speaker 5: little glimpses into parts of a person that you may
Speaker 5: not get to see anywhere else. That's halfway to a
Speaker 5: record number twenty five see old records, so we'll see.
Speaker 5: I mean, I love the moments where people just come
Speaker 5: boom boom, when you're like, oh, the cascades started and
Speaker 5: somebody came, and that got somebody else to come, and
Speaker 5: I got somebody else to come.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: It's fucking great about this one. This like ten years ago.
Speaker 5: As the dude that I got into breeding with, you
Speaker 5: were fucking unforgettable, buddy, Fuck yeah, fucking.
Speaker 4: Coming me, dude, make it fourteen.
Speaker 5: Come to advice, at the end of the work day
Speaker 5: is the best time for doing it. Four point thirty
Speaker 5: to six thirty on like a Thursday on a Tuesday,
Speaker 5: when people are on their way home and conceivably got
Speaker 5: stuck in traffic. Anybody who needs to know where they were,
Speaker 5: it's very easy to excuse why they took twenty minutes
Speaker 5: to go three and nobody needs to know.
Speaker 2: I'm so fucking happy you guys.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So that's twenty There's a lot of people who
Speaker 5: want to be like first in, who want to like
Speaker 5: fuck before there's a lot of loads in there. There's
Speaker 5: also going to be like people right at the end
Speaker 5: who really want to fuck when there's the most come
Speaker 5: in there. This guy's put two in already and it's
Speaker 5: working on a third fuck for an hour forty five
Speaker 5: twenty three loads. I love when I leave a sex
Speaker 5: party and I've been fucking with a group of people
Speaker 5: on it that I met there, and then I see
Speaker 5: it putting them put in clothes and they're not. They
Speaker 5: don't present to the world as the people that I
Speaker 5: met them ass and neither of those people is false.
Speaker 5: I have twenty seven loads in me. It's fucking incredible.
Speaker 5: It's a record. I don't know if a comdump session
Speaker 5: like this was really possible to this degree. Like before
Speaker 5: Sniffy's came around as a platform. Sniffy's puts a coumdumb
Speaker 5: scenario in accessible range for so many people. It's not
Speaker 5: just a thing you see on the internet in a
Speaker 5: Treasure Island media video. It's a thing that you could
Speaker 5: go downtown and do on a Thursday evening. I have
Speaker 5: one important thing that I really want to say. Yeah, God,
Speaker 5: I want twenty more loads in me.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what a tryo. That was fantastic, what
Speaker 1: a triumph, cute and hot.
Speaker 2: It was the time.
Speaker 3: I was definitely aroused, but also like endeared. At the time,
Speaker 3: I was like, that's Jonah. Yeah, that's Jonah. Right, all right, Wow,
Speaker 3: this show has been crazed. It was wild. We had
Speaker 3: an incredible guest. We saw a wild video.
Speaker 1: Chris, was there anything that surprised you about today's episode?
Speaker 2: How much I want to organize my own pumping dump?
Speaker 1: Wow? Okay, well, if you need any chaperones. And I
Speaker 1: was a moment to put out the call. I think,
Speaker 1: so if you want to help me with that, I'll
Speaker 1: get on Snippy's. I'll create the ad. You be my wingman.
Speaker 1: I love that. I don't think I realized how much
Speaker 1: effort actually goes into planning, planning, like planning a pump
Speaker 1: and dump event with a lot of folks being the
Speaker 1: come dump for the day. The amount of planning that
Speaker 1: it takes to put in I think would dissuade me
Speaker 1: from ever wanting to do it, among other things. I'm
Speaker 1: not a planner. I'm a spontaneous girl. But it's it
Speaker 1: is pretty intense when you think about the logistics. It's
Speaker 1: like putting together any sort of event or like a
Speaker 1: video shoot or inviting people to a party, It's like,
Speaker 1: who's going to show up? Do I have enough stuff
Speaker 1: to go around?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 3: But I think that was the thing that like both
Speaker 3: our guests were saying, was so like, thank God for
Speaker 3: Sniffy's because it takes out a lot of that planning
Speaker 3: work and it makes it a lot easier.
Speaker 1: Scott reached the maximum number of people you can have
Speaker 1: in a Sniffy's group. I was like, you were really pushing.
Speaker 1: Then how to create a second ass and then a third?
Speaker 1: He said as well, and have her friend create an
Speaker 1: ad just to give the amount of people. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's that's power, that's commitment. And she's got a day job,
Speaker 1: like Wild Wild you can never.
Speaker 3: I couldn't have ever. I could not be me either.
Speaker 3: We want to thank Scott Carslake aka Muscle come Hole
Speaker 3: on Twitter and Jonah Wheeler who took all of those loads.
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