WEBVTT - How To Plan The Perfect Pump & Dump 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.840 Hey, viewers, Sniffy's Cruising Confessions is an explicit podcast about 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:08.160 queer sex, filter dirty words and unfiltered descriptions of sexual activities. 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:12.400 If hearing about orgies, anonymous sex, kink, fetish, and more 0:00:12.520 --> 0:00:16.000 offends your sensibilities, you might want to skip this. Viewer 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:20.400 discretion is advised. It's definitely not for kids. Welcome to 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:24.320 Sniffy's Cruising Confessions. I'm Gabe Gonzalez and I'm Chris Patterson Rosso. 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:26.759 Each week, we're going to be exploring the sublime world 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:32.360 of queer sex, cruising, and relationships. We'll be talking to experts, sexperts, kinksters, 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:36.519 sex workers, authors, poets, pups, doms, the whole gamut of 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:38.000 the queer experience. I don't know how we're going to 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:39.839 fit them all in the studio, but we will. We'll 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:43.120 figure it out, certainly try. We'll be asking all of 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:46.320 our guests questions, swapping sex stories with them, and providing 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:49.160 practical advice and hopefully you can use at home wherever. 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:51.839 That is so, Chris, of all the words in the 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:56.440 queer lexicon, when I say come dump, what comes to mind? 0:00:56.960 --> 0:01:01.240 Ooh exhausting, exhausting? 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.479 Okay, yeah, I feel that it's it's a craft, it's 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:08.240 a dedication. It is exhausting. I feel like cum dumps 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:11.399 are the prima Donna at the group sex opera, right, 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:15.160 they are, Maria Kallis. We are all Therethleen Battle, Yeah, 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:17.280 thank you. Yeah, we all have our we all have 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:18.520 our operatady. 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:22.520 Have you ever been to a cum dumb? 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:26.840 I haven't been to like a come dump party before. 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:29.880 I've definitely been to like a group sex experience, but 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:31.440 I think like a pump and dump or like a 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:36.280 come dump party itself is it's a very like rare phenomenon, 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:38.800 Like all the elements have to be right. It's like 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:40.960 you got it's like the chemistry of sex. 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:43.319 And it's got to be a timer there? Does Is 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:44.920 there a timer? Like an Alzheimer? 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:45.440 Right? 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:47.600 Oh, that's kind of rough. I didn't know. We were like, 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:51.080 that's how I would do mine if I got. 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:53.840 I'm setting my watch the speed. 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:56.440 Dating of load sharing, right, it's like you got five 0:01:56.480 --> 0:02:01.600 minutes in the corner. Well, Chris, I think it's about 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:04.600 time our audience sets their egg timer because today we 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:07.000 are going to be talking about a topic that is 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:08.040 near and dear to us. 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:10.800 Yes, come dumping is huge in the queer community, and 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:12.600 for some people it's a way of life. 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:16.480 Cum dumps are truly the endurance runners of queer sex, 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:18.680 and we want to know more about what's making them sweat. 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.880 So on today's episode of Sniffy's Cruising Confessions, we're talking 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:25.160 to one of America's leading load collectors, Scott cars Lake. 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:28.080 He'll share expert tips for planning your own pump and dump. 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:31.720 Then we are stopping by an actual pump and Dumb group, 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:35.240 where iconic adult performer Jonah Wheeler is naturally the center 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:38.200 of attention. 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We are talking 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:12.920 about coordinating the perfect pump and dumb and we're thrilled 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:14.840 to be able to plunge deep into this topic with 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.400 the help of our very special guest, Scott Carslake. 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:21.359 Scott Carslake promotes himself as a tall, muscled jockbro com dumb. 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:24.400 He's a former athlete and frat boy six ' five, 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:27.560 two hundred and sixty pounds, and has found great popularity 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:29.480 among his fifty k followers on Twitter. 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:33.200 He has personally organized or been featured in dozens of coumdumbs, 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.840 both in his home city of San Francisco, as well 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:39.640 as across the nation and even internationally. Someone's booked M 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:41.960 busy Welcome Scott Carslake. 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:44.960 Hi, guys, So I have to ask, how did you 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:46.160 get started as a cum dumb. 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:50.040 I mean, honestly, it just sort of evolved naturally. 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:50.400 Okay. 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:53.600 Now, I started, you know, going to sex parties and 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:56.040 you know, hooking up with different guys and getting bright 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:59.400 with different guys, and I started to realize that the com. 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:01.160 Was the thing that turns me on the most, okay. 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:03.920 And so when I started realizing that, I just started 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:06.640 going further into that. And then a friend of mine 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:09.040 and dear friend of mine, was like, would you like 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:11.400 me to like invite guys over for you one night 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:14.200 and we did that and it was like eight guys 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:16.520 came over and I got eight loads and I was like, 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:19.080 I like this, I want to go further with us. Okay, 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:22.200 a natural progression. Yeah, it was like a natural progression. 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:24.400 It's one over time, ye know. Yeah. 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:26.560 So I'm really curious, what do you think kind of 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:29.120 merits the title of come dump and when were you 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:31.120 like if this is a word, I want to use, 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:32.039 this is my word now. 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.680 So this has been a point of debate, Like actually 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:36.719 on Twitter you'll find threads where people say, no, I 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.279 think this is a come dump. That's a come dump 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:41.000 for me. And this is not taking away from anyone 0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:44.320 who has a different definition. A coumdump is someone who 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:49.640 will take loads from any hardcock that wants to give away. 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:54.479 There are definitely people who use that label, even though 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:57.839 they may be more restrictive or selective in who they select. 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:00.680 But for me and for many of my peers, it 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.080 means if you're hard and you want to breathe, you 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:05.760 can that really matter who you are, what you look like. 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:07.040 Any of us. 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:10.000 I appreciate that we're not gatekeeping cum dumping here. Okay, 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:11.760 we're unpacking. 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:16.080 A friend who sent me a message he's at the 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.520 total top and he took one load and he's in 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:19.200 a group message. 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:20.599 He's like, am I come dump now? 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:25.760 And I was like, oh yeah, you absolutely do not qualify. 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:30.039 It's it's entering into the gay cultures like guns, you know, 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:32.840 in a way that's I think might in a way 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:36.280 make it less meaningful, but also it's great because it's 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:39.320 becoming more mainstream, which I think is healthy for a 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:40.360 gay culture and role. 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:43.000 What do you think kind of contributes to this sort 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.120 of mainstreaming, because I think it's pretty clear and I'd 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:47.120 love for you to talk about this more, at least 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:49.039 a few years ago, in a pre prep era, there's 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:52.960 a lot of stigma surrounding bare back sex and especially 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.279 sex involved multiple partners or group sex. What do you 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:58.560 think is changed regarding the word come dump and sort 0:05:58.600 --> 0:06:01.000 of taking loads kind of during the mainstream now. 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:02.360 To be honest with you, I mean, you hit the 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:05.320 nail on the head. Prep is it? You know, before 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.400 prep was a thing. Before I was on prep, believe 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:10.440 it or not, I was a total talk one thousand 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:13.760 percent because I really didn't, you know, want to get 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.640 fucked without getting bred. It wasn't really what's the point? 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:21.719 And then to me and so like prep changed everything 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:25.960 and honestly allowed us to explore the ways that you know, 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:29.520 gay culture and gay sex ways are not like straight 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:30.119 sex wives. 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:32.120 I was going to ask, is there kind of a 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:35.680 community surrounding like organizing pump and dumps? Do people share 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:37.000 like tips or best practices? 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:37.640 Yeah? Yeah. 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:39.400 One of the things I love about the coming down community, 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:41.640 about my peers is though there's always a bit of 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:45.359 a subtext of competition, because obviously. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:47.520 We're trying to get loads we end up we try. 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:49.760 To be really mutually supportive, you know, and we like 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:53.240 chatting with each other. We like saying congratulations, you know, 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:57.320 like I, you know, I've messaged you know, Corey Hudson 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.839 or brought Fox after they've done one and they've messaged 0:06:59.880 --> 0:07:02.080 me sometimes like a job, you know, like and like 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:03.440 it's very much like, yeah. 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:06.120 I imagine a world where you all share a calendar 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:08.159 so you're not double booking. 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:14.400 Actually explicitly suggested that no, and actually, so there's a 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:18.040 great resource best come dumb hotels, I am. 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:19.280 Is this a website? 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:20.360 Yea a website? 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:24.200 I love us. We do such great work. Yes, yeah, 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:25.240 you know it's amazing. 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:27.360 But one of the features they have is a Google 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:28.840 calendar where you can say this is where I'm going 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:30.640 to be on what data and what city this is. 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:34.800 Yeah, yeah, I'm curious. Besides sort of the planning, how 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:39.640 has like sort of organizing these events and being a 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:42.679 comped up change for you, like like what's the evolution 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:44.200 sort of been Like I would. 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:47.120 Say, for me, the journey has been really exciting. I 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:50.640 had really really fun twenty twenty three. I I you know, 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:52.920 I hit my my goal for the years of a 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:53.760 thousand loads. 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:56.800 It was really adulation, I know, I know, did you 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:59.880 exceed it or did you just go. 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:01.600 To I think it was something like one thy fifty 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:04.560 by the end of the year, and it was great spreadsheet. 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:08.840 Yeah, I was going to ask, how do you they're actually. 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:10.600 Apps that you download it just like. 0:08:12.760 --> 0:08:14.920 So you have the phone sitting next to you. 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.680 Okay, that's what. 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:26.560 No, And it was great. I would say though that, like, 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:29.960 you know, this is again not in any way to 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:32.200 discourage anyone from trying us. If they want to, you should. 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:34.199 It's fun. I had a great time. But at the 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:37.880 same time I found that as I've started this load 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:41.320 seeking journey, sometimes when I'm just hooking up with a 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:45.280 guy or at an orgy, it might be as hard 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:47.880 a little bit harder to get into the swing of 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:50.680 things when I'm like, why am I not getting bread? 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.000 Why I'm not clean? You know, at a sex party 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:55.360 or an orgy, maybe not everyone's going to come right away, 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.800 you know. And so like that's been the only like 0:08:57.880 --> 0:08:59.600 the journey that I've been on. And now I'm like, 0:08:59.640 --> 0:09:02.120 you know what, but maybe I should take a step 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:05.240 back from doing this every weekend and maybe try and 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:08.679 reinvest my emotional energy and enjoying Okay, you know, more 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:11.720 traditional kinds of stuff if you will, you know. Yeah, 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:13.640 that's been my more sort of emotional enjourney. On the 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:16.200 other a full bell curve. Yeah. 0:09:16.240 --> 0:09:19.200 And in terms of like sexual health, what are you 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:19.760 doing me? 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:23.520 Testing positive is a very very rare recurrence, yeah, for anything, 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:26.440 you know. So I've got my prep, I've got my 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:30.680 doxy prep. I actually I don't recommend this necessarily for 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:35.160 most people, because I'm doing somebody sessions so often, and 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:39.720 because it is marginally more effective. I actually go doxy prep, 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:40.880 not doxy PEP. 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:44.000 So this is also relatively new. Could you kind of 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:47.040 describe for our listeners and viewers, what doxy PEP and 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:49.000 doxy prep are sure so so. 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:54.199 Doxy cycling is a antibiotic that recently has become approved 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:59.040 as a way of essentially preventing many back to your 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:02.840 STIs from taking hold in your body. And what you 0:10:02.880 --> 0:10:05.319 do is within twenty four to forty eight or seventy 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:09.800 two hours after unprotected sex, you take two hundred milligrams 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:13.040 of doctor cycling, which is normally two pills, and that 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:17.160 is extremely effective, although not perfect, at preventing an STI infection. 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:22.960 And it's essentially you know prep. You know, you know 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:27.760 travada for for HIV, but for gonneriea syphilis, and you 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:33.240 know alclamydia. And that's what's recommended for most people and 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:37.600 most sexuals in most sexual contexts. Doxy prep, which is 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:40.679 generally not recommended because you don't want to build antibiotic 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:43.920 resistance if you don't have to, is where you take 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:48.040 it in advance, essentially twice a day, one pal for 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.800 let's say at least four or five days before and 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:55.400 a few days after, and that is slightly more effective 0:10:55.800 --> 0:11:00.000 than the post explosure that PEP approach, but as I said, 0:11:00.320 --> 0:11:03.680 is generally not a good idea unless you're doing crazy 0:11:03.720 --> 0:11:04.760 shit like I was doing. 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:10.000 I'm not doing it right now. For example, Okay, what 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:11.160 are your time limits? 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:14.480 Like, like do you when you're going into it, You're like, Okay, 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.360 I'm only going to do three hours, or I'm only 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:16.800 going to do. 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:21.000 I have done, you know, like weekends where I'll do 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:24.440 two deep cleans and try and go twice. Realistically, is 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:26.600 not with the trouble. Once you've done one session, you're 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:28.000 so chafe you do not want to put a hose 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:31.679 up your bet again. So I usually do like one 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:35.040 deep clean and then I'll do like an evening session. 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:36.920 I'll take a nap and then I'll do it morning 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:39.920 session like a branch sesshion on the next day, within 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:42.480 twenty four hours. Like that's like my usual time limit 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:44.840 up to twenty four hours of come dumping in a weekend. 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:48.360 So I have to ask where does all the come go? 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:54.280 Fun fact, there's you know, multiple segments of your of 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:57.920 your digits tract, and most people when you have sex, 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:01.040 you just have the outer segment he's involved. 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:02.240 Why the cum guys? 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:07.000 I find for me, Once I get about past twenty loads, 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:11.400 I start to feel the cum go from you know, 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:14.080 the main part of your colon where you usually are 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:17.280 having sex, up past the second hole into the descending 0:12:17.360 --> 0:12:20.360 quilling and you can feel, you can if you have 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:22.640 you have body presents, you can feel it start to 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:26.320 go in there and it's like it definitely was chatting 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:28.800 with someone who had their first like big cum dump 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:30.680 and it's like, yeah, I was crazy. I felt like 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:34.320 I was being douched by cum, you know, And if 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:35.880 you do a really good job with your clean out, 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:39.040 you will find you are literally just having pure white 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:40.760 coum cut out of your ass like a day or 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:44.000 two later. It is crazy. It is crazy. Yeah, yeah, 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:45.080 it's absolutely nuts. 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:55.199 Wow, I'm kind of wanted to try it. 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:55.680 It's a it's a thing. 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:59.880 Yeah, it's like so one of one of the things 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:02.400 I was told after one of my first big successful 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:05.800 COMDOMNS is Corey had something it was like the. 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:08.000 Star of the condomn world, like far and away. 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:15.080 Like the best known. So he messaged me like after 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:17.640 I finished, I was like, no, remember for the next 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:26.760 few hours, it's never justified and he's not wrong. He's 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.960 not wrong, like you'll you have to fart, don't do 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:32.120 it like or certainly don't do it in bed when 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:36.480 you're like recovery. Yeah, it will go everywhere. 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:47.040 The imagery. Oh wow, that's a mate. It's never just 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:49.640 oh my god, And here I thought it was just 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:53.679 folks of I B s who had to your memoirs. 0:13:54.040 --> 0:14:00.120 It's never just memoirs of dumb. We got it printed now. 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:01.600 I'll thank you. 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:07.679 Oh man, all right, we are going to take a break, 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:09.480 but when we come back, we're going to ask Scott 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.360 where all the tally marks go. Once you run out 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:13.040 of space on your back, stay tuned. 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:20.320 Okay. 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:22.200 So let's say you're one of our listeners at home 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:25.240 where you're me in this chair and you're thinking, that's it. 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:27.600 I'm sold. I'm going to be a come dumb. Do 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:29.680 you have like a plan of action when you're setting 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:30.360 up a come dumb? 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:32.920 Oh? Absolutely absolutely, And I would say actually a lot 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.600 of it is before you even get to the point 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:38.960 of setting a day like So the first thing, because 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:42.040 I a lot of people find it hot, make sure 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:44.320 it's more than a jerk off fallacy, because you know 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:47.800 it is physically challenging. The deep clean is challenging that 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:49.880 it's hard on your whole it's hard on your body. 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.840 You know, maybe hop on Sniffy's one night and just 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:55.360 try to invite people over, you know, like and see 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:57.440 you know where you are after you know, eight or 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:00.320 nine or ten or fifteen guys come over, just based 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:03.760 on like you do do it, you know, do what 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:06.240 you can, you know, like and see where you're at. 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:09.120 Because you know, a lot of people will find that 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:12.440 they maybe don't have their clean out routine to the 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:15.000 level where you can go beyond eight or nine or 0:15:15.000 --> 0:15:17.320 ton guys, or maybe that their whole just gets too 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:19.440 star So start there, you know, before you put in 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:21.240 a lot offert because this is a lot of effort 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:24.800 to set up. Then I would say the next step 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:26.480 from there is, if you want to really go for it, 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:29.320 figure out what your hook is. Figure out I mean 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:32.320 there is some marketing that goes into this because because 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:34.040 no believe it or not, like because the thing is, 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:38.120 like people seem to think that like just saying hold up, 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:41.600 no no questions asked is enough to bring the tops running. 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:45.400 It is not, because there are like eight more people. 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:49.320 Just so you have to, like, what is your hook? Now? 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:51.720 I have you know the advantage of you know, I've 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:54.080 put a lot of time and effort into my body, 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:56.960 you know, ten hours a week in the job, and 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.640 that helps, you know, I lean into like the jaw 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:04.640 bro you know, athletic, you know, aesthetic, and that's a 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:06.520 big part of my hook. I know people who are 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:10.160 successful with come dumping, who lean into other hawks. It 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:12.840 could be you're a bear. It could be not even 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:14.760 a physical thing. It could be I'm. 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:18.600 A water sports come down and I'm really flexible. 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:23.560 There you go, right, yeah, we're buildings right now. This 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:31.320 is yeah there. You know, what are things that you 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:33.320 look for if you're trying to play an event like 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:34.400 this at a hotel? 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:40.000 So ideally you want a hotel that it doesn't have 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:42.280 a key card reader in the elevator that requires you 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:44.560 to wipe key card to go to your particular floor. 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:46.800 Or like every person coming up you'd have to go 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:50.680 down to just trying to hold everything inside. 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:53.400 Like I've done that. 0:16:53.480 --> 0:17:04.960 It's not fun. It's really not fun. It's yeah, it's 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:05.480 been a thing. 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:09.000 Number One, Bigger hotels, high traffic areas with a lot 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:11.920 of nightlife better because there's a lot of people coming 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:15.679 all hours at night and you're less likely to be noticed. Uh, 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:19.879 there's no particular trick for getting people and discreetly you 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:22.840 want traffic to disguise the people, got it, or a 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:25.320 motel where you can just walk right in without there 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:28.520 being any sort of gate keeper up to the door, right, Yeah, 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:32.919 So like that's key, and you know, is there in 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:36.280 the motel situation, is there a really clear sight line 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:38.200 between the room that you've been assigned. 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:42.880 And I hadn't thought of that amateur hour over here. 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:45.760 Yeah, you really got to like, I'm not going to 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:48.480 get everything. You really have to think about how does 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:51.960 this look? You know, it really would have boils downtown, which. 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:54.080 Is so funny because it's just people getting together to 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:57.600 have sex. Like it's like, which is presumably happening a 0:17:57.600 --> 0:18:01.040 lot in hotels, but I think it's probably the vultol. 0:18:01.640 --> 0:18:04.160 And to be honest with you, honestly, what a lot 0:18:04.200 --> 0:18:07.000 of the management of hotels start to think if you 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:09.240 have any people coming in out of your room, is 0:18:09.280 --> 0:18:13.280 that you're dealing drugs. So that's why it really matters, 0:18:13.320 --> 0:18:15.040 you know, Yeah, in some ways if they found out 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:16.440 what you're afually doing, that might be relieved. 0:18:16.520 --> 0:18:23.840 You know, just a lot of I brought my own sheets, 0:18:23.960 --> 0:18:24.760 You'll be fine. 0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:29.360 Yeah, it's it's the worst case scenario. They'll like tell 0:18:29.400 --> 0:18:32.760 you to like calm the funan, Yeah. 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:36.840 You got two more hours, so what comes next? 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:39.800 Well, So there are other aspects of preparing for your 0:18:39.800 --> 0:18:44.360 comdumb that you can consider. One is, many cities have 0:18:45.040 --> 0:18:47.840 what you might call cum dump surpas, people who really 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:52.239 enjoy like pouring out bottoms. You want to try this 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:54.959 or have this experience, And so if you can connect 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.439 with one of them, that's an awesome way of doing it. 0:18:57.480 --> 0:18:59.760 And I will say that they are very in demand 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:03.640 and they are wonderful people. My friend in San Francisco 0:19:03.720 --> 0:19:06.080 who I've become very close with, who does those most 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:09.200 the most in SF is master K. He's a wonderful guy, 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:11.920 but he's hit up like twenty times a diamic people 0:19:11.960 --> 0:19:13.680 wanting to have this experience. 0:19:13.760 --> 0:19:15.119 And does he charge for the service. 0:19:15.200 --> 0:19:15.919 No, no, no, it's. 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:16.639 Just he does fun. 0:19:17.040 --> 0:19:18.720 But it's a hobby for him. 0:19:18.760 --> 0:19:22.159 It's a hobby for This is community organization, this. 0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:25.919 Is what is that the hunt for lack of a 0:19:25.960 --> 0:19:29.679 better word, for attendees kind of look like it's a 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:30.320 lot of work. 0:19:30.480 --> 0:19:34.000 So first of all, I will say, genuinely, hand on heart, 0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:37.480 Sniffy's changed the game. It makes it so much easier. 0:19:37.520 --> 0:19:40.720 It's an incredible, incredible service. And what I do usually 0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:42.679 is I will go on days and advance how to 0:19:42.680 --> 0:19:46.840 create the group. I will start adding people to the 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:50.959 group in advance. Sometimes I have friends also create groups 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:54.280 because it just fills up and as you know, you 0:19:54.840 --> 0:19:58.080 probably know a lot of people won't show up, so 0:19:58.160 --> 0:19:59.760 like about a third to a quarter of the people 0:19:59.840 --> 0:20:01.960 that say they're gonna come actually come. So if you're 0:20:01.960 --> 0:20:04.600 trying to get that forty fifty loads, you need multiple 0:20:04.600 --> 0:20:08.920 groups active. Yeah, so yeah, definitely Sniffy's. 0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:10.200 Pumping dump groups are your friend. 0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:14.000