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Speaker 1: My roommate entered our bedroom while we were away. We

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Speaker 1: were watching live.

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Speaker 2: What'd you catch him doing?

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Speaker 1: Earlier this year, one of my friends, twenty nine mail

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Speaker 1: we'll call him Taylor, moved in with my boyfriend twenty

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Speaker 1: five mail, we'll call him Charlie and me twenty three female.

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Speaker 1: Taylor and I worked together and became really close friends.

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Speaker 1: I introduced him to my boyfriend and now the three

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Speaker 1: of us are friends. However, I am closer to Taylor

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Speaker 1: than my boyfriend is because Taylor and I have bonded

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Speaker 1: over similar experiences. By the way, this comes from user

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Speaker 1: I'm Keon, I'm Carly, and we're here to give good advice. Goofy.

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Speaker 1: We don't have all the answers, guys, we're just goofy people.

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Speaker 1: We don't know everything, so let us know what you'd

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Speaker 1: do in the comments and op says. The other day,

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Speaker 1: Charlie and I left for a little weekend trip. Taylor

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Speaker 1: agreed to take care of our dog while we were way,

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Speaker 1: which we were happy about. Charlie and I have a

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Speaker 1: security camera in our bedroom. This camera is aimed at

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Speaker 1: the bedroom door and bathroom door. We have a bathroom

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Speaker 1: attached to our room. Ah, very very paranormal activity esque.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: I guess I had this for a while just because

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Speaker 2: because I to keep an eye on my cat, to

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Speaker 2: keep an eye on maintenance that was happening, general stuff

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Speaker 2: in my room.

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Speaker 1: Gotcha. So you didn't trust your roommate, gotcha. Minutes after

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Speaker 1: we left, we got a notification that there was motion

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Speaker 1: in our room. We checked the cameras and saw Taylor

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Speaker 1: just standing in our room.

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Speaker 2: Now it's paranormal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Over the next thirty minutes, he went in and

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Speaker 1: out of our room about seven times.

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Speaker 2: Was he looking for the dog?

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Speaker 1: Was he sleepwalking? It depends what time he was doing

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Speaker 2: I'm picturing middle of the day, but it could be yeah, oh,

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Speaker 2: because then I'd be like checking the back tapes, like

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Speaker 2: sleepwalking while we're there.

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Speaker 1: That's real paranormal. Oh. He flies up to the ceiling

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Speaker 1: starts chanting. It's important to note that up until this

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Speaker 1: point we have sincerely valued privacy. We never go in

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Speaker 1: his room unless he states it's okay, and vice versa,

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Speaker 1: so we were surprised to see him just walking in

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Speaker 1: on his own. There's an eighth time. The eighth time

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Speaker 1: he went into our room, we saw him go over

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Speaker 1: to my dresser and dig through my panty drawer.

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Speaker 2: Ooh ah.

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Speaker 1: He picked out a pair of panties, pulled down his

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Speaker 1: boxers and pants and put my panties on ah, and

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Speaker 1: then put his boxers and pants back on over it. Oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: so panties boxers then, so he's.

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Speaker 2: Wearing them, not just like rubbing them down.

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Speaker 1: Then, No, he's wearing them.

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Speaker 2: He knows you. He has to know they have a camera,

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Speaker 2: right right.

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Speaker 1: A few minutes later, he returned wearing one of my

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Speaker 1: tank tops. When he noticed the camera, oh, he slowly

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Speaker 1: and continued digging through my panty drawer.

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Speaker 2: So he just doesn't care.

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Speaker 1: He's aware. He returned multiple times later to dig through

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Speaker 1: my panties. All of this is recorded and saved on video.

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Speaker 1: Seeing how he invaded our privacy and wore my underwear.

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Speaker 1: Made me feel sick and this needs to be addressed.

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Speaker 1: We don't want to make Taylor feel a shame for

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Speaker 1: cross dressing, but what he did with my clothing was disgusting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like, buy your own clothes. If you're gonna do that,

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Speaker 1: Buy your own Maybe he was putting on a show

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Speaker 1: for you, guys, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Use your own clothes still.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know as soon as we get back home,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to throw away all of my underwear and

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Speaker 1: Charlie is going to install a bolt on our bedroom door.

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Speaker 1: We don't feel comfortable confronting him about it until we

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Speaker 1: hardware for our bedroom bolt. The only reason I need

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Speaker 1: those things now is because he invaded my privacy. And

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Speaker 1: there's an edit here.

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Speaker 2: But I think it's gonna be a real awkward conversation.

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Speaker 2: I'm totally on team. I would be like, can you

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Speaker 2: pay for some of my underwear, dude, because that is

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Speaker 2: not cheap. I think the bolt might have to be you.

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Speaker 2: You can bring it up but underwear. I'm one hundred

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Speaker 2: percent like, hey, dude, can you chip in for this?

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Speaker 2: Like you literally wore some of it. That's not something

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Speaker 2: I'm comfortable sharing. You didn't act.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. If this was my roommate, i'd be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: of privacy. But going forward, I'm sorry. This is just

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Speaker 1: like I can't be thinking about this in the back

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Speaker 2: But that's why they're getting the bowld. Yes, I would

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Speaker 2: talk to your building, depending on what kind of unit

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Speaker 2: you're in. If you're in an apartment, I think if

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Speaker 2: you explain this to your apartment, they might be willing

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Speaker 2: door if it means you'll stay. Yeah, underwear fully down

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Speaker 2: I think if he's like embarrassing down and willing, yeah

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Speaker 2: for sure, but ask your building first and you might

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Speaker 1: My last question before we get back to the story,

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Speaker 1: is you have this camera. Is this the first time? Right?

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Speaker 2: Like, why do you have the camera kind of thing,

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Speaker 1: Or like, have we not used the camera before? I like,

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Speaker 1: is this the first time? Has happened multiple times?

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Speaker 2: I'm guessing maybe they don't check the footage, That's what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. Oh, it sounds like their footage saves though,

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Speaker 2: so they have the plan that they can go back.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like a month or two depending. I

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Speaker 2: bet it's to watch their dog normal.

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Speaker 1: One edit for clarification, Taylor is better friends with me

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Speaker 1: than he is with Charlie. Between the two guys, I'm

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Speaker 1: obviously closer to my boyfriend. I do not prefer Taylor

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Speaker 1: left out some details intentionally because thinking about it and

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Speaker 2: Sorry, it sounded like two to me that you guys

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Speaker 2: he just kind of moved in because he needed a place.

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Speaker 2: So I don't even say move out. I think give

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Speaker 1: Something used to have happened, but he does not either.

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Speaker 1: You guys go, he goes, but he cannot live with

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be honestly, the first one would probably

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Speaker 1: Now onto the update. Taylor denied everything. You have a

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Speaker 2: Did you show him the proof?

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Speaker 1: Despite the fact that we had it all on video,

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Speaker 1: he tried to make up different reasons why he was

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Speaker 1: basically told us no. He said we had no authority

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Speaker 1: video was illegal.

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Speaker 2: Cool, buddy, find a new roommate. We're out.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, he was on our lease, so there wasn't much

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Speaker 1: this whole deal was the nail in the coffin. However,

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Speaker 2: Well, that's a dumb mood.

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Speaker 1: That's a really dumb mood. Yeah, the day after he quit,

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Speaker 1: He got all of his crap out of the apartment,

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Speaker 2: Change your locks.

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Speaker 1: Change your locks, and get more cameras. Yeah, outside of

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Speaker 2: Change your locks.

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Speaker 1: This whole situation has been extremely emotionally draining. Looking back

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Speaker 1: in which he crossed clear personal boundaries that I set.

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Speaker 1: got for now. Yikes. Whoa yikes. No where I thought

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Speaker 1: that story would ever go me neither.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you guys live alone now, and uh, maybe

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Speaker 2: don't take another roommate. Maybe just stick the shoes.

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Speaker 1: Of you and your dog. I hope your dog was

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Speaker 1: like fine too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, well, I mean, I guess during the day

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Speaker 2: and stuff, you don't have as much to worry about

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Speaker 2: because you know he's at work, because he works with you, right,

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Speaker 2: so it's not like he's home alone with your dog still.

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Speaker 1: Just oof oof. And that's the end of this story.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go onto the next one.

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Speaker 2: My roommates refuse to lock the door for months, so

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Speaker 2: I taught them a lesson.

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Speaker 1: I hope you're a good teacher.

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Speaker 2: In the summer of twenty twenty, than twenty female moved

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Speaker 2: into an apartment with Joel twenty four male, and Sadie

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Speaker 2: and acquaintances of mine from school. It was my first

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Speaker 2: Well, one, you can peel potatoes a little bit harder,

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Speaker 1: Joel, thank you nurse. Yeah, doesn't take the going to Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It's potato pular.

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Speaker 1: It's just like Seinfeld, Hey, I and grabbed.

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Speaker 2: Your potato peeler. I'll give it back later.

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Speaker 2: But let's see. Then something snapped in me, though I

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Speaker 2: I guess they probably just assumed they've lost their potato peeler.

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Speaker 1: That was yours the whole time exactly?

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Speaker 2: Or did you and Sadie have one or not? Sadie

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Speaker 1: Yeah, huh. And that's the end of this story. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna go onto the next one. My roommate made a

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Speaker 1: when someone inhales a sock. Who's inhaling socks? When they vacuum.

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Speaker 2: What Yeah, the vacuums eating the socks.

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Speaker 1: I know, but who does You don't see the sock.

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Speaker 1: As Opie says, everyone else tends to do the quick

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Speaker 2: See a business major sounds like a business major.

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Speaker 1: He had totals for everybody. Apparently he had completed sixty

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Speaker 2: It's time to start splitting up the tasks. You guys

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Speaker 1: Also, to have that much time to be this petty

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Speaker 2: No, I will say, I agree, very different tasks. Defrosting

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Speaker 1: No, I would be like I did, I did the

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Speaker 2: Oh? I think this will stop pretty fast.

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Speaker 1: drain was making that glugging demon noise again. One roommate

442
00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,760
Speaker 1: laughed so hard she had to sit down. Another asked

443
00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:39,280
Speaker 1: why the spreadsheet said we were doing amazing when the

444
00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:42,160
Speaker 1: house felt worse. That turned into a very short meeting

445
00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 1: where the whole system got scrapped. Mister Numbers admitted, maybe

446
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,760
Speaker 1: not all chores or separate species of equal effort.

447
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,880
Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, I mean, was it a little I don't

448
00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 2: even want to say passive aggressive n It was a

449
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:58,040
Speaker 2: little bit of a roundabout way, but it did get

450
00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:00,760
Speaker 2: the point across, and it got it cross, and like

451
00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,320
Speaker 2: it was a good show and tell themone.

452
00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,520
Speaker 1: No on PERC, good on uop And what was it

453
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:07,359
Speaker 1: a little passon. No, this was fully passive.

454
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,440
Speaker 2: Aggressive clients was what I was looking for.

455
00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I loved it. I'm no longer on catch up duty. Man.

456
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 1: He has not opened that spreadsheet since and that's the

457
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:16,719
Speaker 1: end of that story.

458
00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:21,240
Speaker 2: Problem solved. My roommate keeps breaking our dorm rules, and

459
00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,160
Speaker 2: I finally snapped.

460
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,840
Speaker 1: Ooh like a rubber band.

461
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,199
Speaker 2: I am a college freshman. In my second semester, I

462
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,400
Speaker 2: have been living in a dorm with my roommate. Let's

463
00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:33,680
Speaker 2: call him Jason. Jason and I got along just fine.

464
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:37,320
Speaker 2: We shared similar personality traits and became pretty close friends

465
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,040
Speaker 2: in the first semester. A few weeks into the semester,

466
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 2: Jason found somebody he had romantic interests in. Eventually, Jason

467
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 2: got into a relationship with this woman. Let's call her Jenny.

468
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from initial Summer seventy three

469
00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 2: seventy five. And if you want to sit your own stories,

470
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 2: go to the r slash. Okay, storytime separated it. I'm Carly,

471
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 2: I'm Keon, and we're here to give good advice. Goofily,

472
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 2: but we don't have all the answers. We only know

473
00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 2: what we would do. Let us know what you would

474
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 2: do in the comments, you know, He says. Jason began

475
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 2: having Jenny come over to our dorm very often, almost

476
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:10,440
Speaker 2: every day she was over. I didn't really mind it,

477
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,199
Speaker 2: as Jenny and I got along just fine. She was

478
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,120
Speaker 2: enjoyable to be around and reminded me of my cousins

479
00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:19,720
Speaker 2: back home. But soon enough, Jason and Jenny began to

480
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 2: do a couple activities. Some days I would walk in

481
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,640
Speaker 2: on them making out and such. It made me uncomfortable,

482
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 2: but I just kept on with whatever I was doing.

483
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 1: This happened to me in college, not like were you no, no, no,

484
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 1: like he like, yeah, I was op and I'm like, hey, guys,

485
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 1: want a water, you know, some safety What do you need?

486
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit right here because this is the living room.

487
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 2: Oh is the living room. I walked in on my

488
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:51,359
Speaker 2: roommate and her boyfriend doing stuff. But they were in

489
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: our room, in your room, dorm room. It was a

490
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,439
Speaker 2: shared dorm. She was in her side of our ROOMATA,

491
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,880
Speaker 2: it wasn't common area. But I still walked in.

492
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,880
Speaker 1: Okay, that I mean that also happens. That's just that's

493
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: just dorm life.

494
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 2: Ah. But I would fully be like Jason, buddy.

495
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 1: Go to the room. Yeah, you have a bedroom for

496
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 1: our reason, right.

497
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,360
Speaker 2: I wonder if they just have a dorm, Like, maybe

498
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 2: they're not in a dorm of the common space. Maybe

499
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,400
Speaker 2: maybe One day she even stayed the night and slept

500
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 2: with Jason on his bed. This was one of the

501
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 2: worst nights I have ever had.

502
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 1: Like, are you guys sharing the room?

503
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a dorm room. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you have

504
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: a private dorm room.

505
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:30,680
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I had bunk beds.

506
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 2: Right, so you shared a room.

507
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

508
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 2: The entire night I could hear them kissing and giggling,

509
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 2: which was everything I did not need in my life.

510
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,399
Speaker 2: After that, I had to set up some boundaries with

511
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 2: Jason about Jenny being in our dorm, primarily being that

512
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 2: she couldn't sleep over. That was the only boundary I

513
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 2: had set up. Looking back at it, I should have

514
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 2: been stricter, as it made me uncomfortable.

515
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 1: You know what you need to do, Ope, just start

516
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 1: farting to start making start start making his funny sounds. Honestly,

517
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 1: if they're going to ruin your moment, make it funny.

518
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 1: Start playing whale sounds. I don't know, it's just stuff

519
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 1: that would annoy them.

520
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 2: I told him that I had specifically chosen to live

521
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 2: in the hall because I only wanted to share a

522
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 2: room with one other person, unlike the other halls that

523
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 2: had three plus people crammed into a room. I am

524
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 2: paying my money for this room because I only want

525
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 2: to live with one other person aka only Jason, not

526
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 2: Jason plus Jenny. He said that he understood and would

527
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 2: respect my boundaries. Everything was fine until the week before

528
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving break, when Jason and I clashed. He lashed out

529
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 2: at me and threatened me because I had bothered him

530
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 2: when I said that he looked rough. Jason was sick

531
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 2: and his skin was turning red.

532
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:38,919
Speaker 3: Oh no.

533
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,640
Speaker 2: After that, we didn't talk much. Jason had apologized and everything,

534
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 2: but I chose to stay in my own lane and

535
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 2: keep my distance from Jason. Moving forward, now we are

536
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 2: in this second semester and Jenny is over at the

537
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 2: dorm every day, even if Jason isn't in the room

538
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 2: with her.

539
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: Where does Jenny live?

540
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 2: So she has basically become a roommate despite my wishes.

541
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 2: She just came out of spring break and Jason has

542
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 2: had Jenny spend the night twice. The first time I

543
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 2: told him that she could not stay the night. We

544
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 2: had agreed on that early on in the first semester,

545
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 2: nothing had changed. Jason replied, telling me that she was sick.

546
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 2: Although I understand why Jason would like to keep Jenny

547
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 2: in our dorm as a way to look after her,

548
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 2: it is important to note that we live in a

549
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 2: shoe box.

550
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: Wait, she's sick, Yeah, then why she stayed?

551
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 2: We can take care of her.

552
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: No, no, no, how about you go to her place

553
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: and take care of her where she's sick. Don't bring

554
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: the sick in our shared space.

555
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 2: I would assume that that comes down to more of

556
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 2: like the other female roommates don't want a man in

557
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 2: their apartment. Oh, it is very possible that both Jason

558
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 2: and I will get sick as well. Yeah. No, I

559
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: don't know about Jason, but I cannot afford to be

560
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 2: sick and miss out on school, as I already have

561
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: too many absences from food poisoning I got early in

562
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 2: the semester. So I told Jason that Jenny should go

563
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 2: back to her dorm if she was sick. Jason ignored

564
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 2: what I had said, and Jenny slept in the dorm

565
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 2: last night. Anyway, now I'm at a fork in the road.

566
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 2: I could confront Jason about Jenny sleeping in the dorm,

567
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 2: even though he may ignore me once again. I could

568
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 2: just deal with her sleeping over even though it causes

569
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: me discomfort. Or email my Ra and see my options.

570
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 2: Ding ding ding ding ding. Email your Ray.

571
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: That's probably the best.

572
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm surprised you haven't yet. I am considering contacting

573
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 2: my Ra. Yes, as I already tried communicating with Jason

574
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 2: and I was ignored. It is safe to say that

575
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 2: I will not be dorming with Jason next year, and

576
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 2: thankfully I will be dorming with a friend of mine

577
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 2: in an apartment style dorm. It has a full on

578
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 2: kitchen and everything, so I will no longer be subjected

579
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 2: to living in a walk in closet and I can

580
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 2: have my own space. I'd like to hear your thoughts

581
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 2: either way. Thank you, and we have an update. But

582
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: you got any thoughts.

583
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: No, Dike, this is what you're supposed to do. Don't

584
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: be like, ah, I'll walk on eggshells for you. Guys.

585
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 1: You know, sure your roommates, but you don't owe him anything.

586
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 1: And the fact that you actually talk to him and

587
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: he's like oh yeah, yeah, and didn't listen, Nah, you

588
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: did the right thing.

589
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 2: Go to your RA.

590
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: Do it. Trust me, you're gonna be like, why didn't

591
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: I do that like first semester, or like you know

592
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: so much sooner.

593
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,360
Speaker 2: The apartment style dorms are nice too.

594
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

595
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,879
Speaker 2: Update. This morning, I emailed my RA, as many of

596
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 2: you suggested I should. She suggested that we do a

597
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:26,479
Speaker 2: mediation meeting. I texted my roommate asking about availability, and

598
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 2: he read my message and did not respond. It wasn't

599
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,719
Speaker 2: until I texted him once again assuring him that it

600
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 2: was serious that He then gave me a time to

601
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 2: give to the RA. I went about my day until

602
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: it was time to go to the meeting. The RA

603
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 2: takes us to the lounge and we begin talking. I

604
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 2: explained the situation and what made me go to the

605
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 2: RA for advice. For context, I only explained to the

606
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: part where Jenny had been staying over the past few

607
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 2: nights while sick, which was against the agreement between me

608
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: and Jason, my roommate. Once I explained the situation, the

609
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,360
Speaker 2: ra's pulled up our Sweet Made Agreement, an official agreement

610
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 2: all of the sweet mates made. In the first In

611
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 2: the agreement, it read that Jason I agreed that guests

612
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: could stay over and even sleep the night. I initially

613
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 2: agreed to this because at first I did not have

614
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 2: an issue with Jenny coming over, and I did not

615
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 2: know that her sleeping over would make me uncomfortable, which

616
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 2: is why Jason and I agreed afterwards that Jenny shouldn't

617
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: sleep over. After discussing the situation some more, the RA

618
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 2: agreed that although the SWEE made agreement stated that there

619
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 2: were no issues with having guests over, the agreement would

620
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 2: be updated since it clearly was not working out. The

621
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 2: RA stated that because Jenny was sick, she should go

622
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 2: back to her dorm and sleep there. Additionally, the RA

623
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: said that Jenny could be over, but around ten to

624
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 2: eleven PM she should make her way back to her dorm,

625
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 2: which is essentially what Jason and I had been doing

626
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 2: before he decided to stop going with it. They also

627
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 2: stated that the university had a three day guest policy,

628
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 2: where guests could only spend up to three days a

629
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 2: week in a student's dorm. This doesn't exactly work in

630
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 2: my favor, but it is good to know. I also

631
00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: made sure to mention that Jenny would be in the

632
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 2: dorm even if Jason was not around. This is when

633
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 2: the RAS mentioned that a part of the guest policy

634
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,640
Speaker 2: was that guests could not be left alone in the room.

635
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 2: So Jason must be in the dorm with Jenny and

636
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 2: cannot just simply leave her there.

637
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: College dorm life, Yeah, what a lifestyle.

638
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, those are those are the same rules we had. Yeah,

639
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 2: days a week, you had to be with them.

640
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 1: Mine, we're pretty a lot stricter, I think because we

641
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 1: lived in a co ed dorm. Yeah, but they were like,

642
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: I don't think you're allowed to have like guests or

643
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: anything like that, but like who cared. It was college. Yeah,

644
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: you're doing the right thing, but it's gonna be now

645
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: awkward because the RA is like, all right, cool, if

646
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: this works, great, I don't deal with it anymore. But

647
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: if it proceeds, then we can go and see what happens.

648
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: But now it's going to be like Jenny and Jason

649
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: are just going to be like side eyeing you the

650
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: entire time. I mean, I wouldn't care anymore.

651
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 2: That's sometimes easier, like if they're just gonna ignore you

652
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 2: and not talk to you, as long as they're following

653
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 2: the agreement, get through the next what ten weeks.

654
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I just again, i'd do the funny stuff

655
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, you guys are gonna be sleeping.

656
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play well sounds.

657
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 2: Well, she shouldn't be sleeping there anymore.

658
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: I know. But I'm be like, oh, you're you doing that,

659
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: You're doing funny time. I'm gonna do funny time too.

660
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: No, if they're doing funny time, I'm knocking on the

661
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Speaker 2: ra's door and I'm being like, I don't care that

662
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Speaker 2: it's midnight.

663
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: I'm making fartun in the room. I'm doing fart sounds.

664
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Speaker 1: I'm doing farts all night.

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Speaker 2: The meeting went just as I expected to go. I

666
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: was aware that the official Sweetman Agreement wouldn't it be

667
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 2: applicable to the current living situation, but at least it

668
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Speaker 2: was able to be updated and edited. I will now

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Speaker 2: see how things go from here. Hopefully the living situation improves,

670
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Speaker 2: because with the end of the semester coming up, I

671
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,959
Speaker 2: needed to completely focus on my academics and not a

672
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 2: living dilemma. On a personal note, I am pretty sure

673
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,719
Speaker 2: that Jenny got me sick because I've been coughing all

674
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 2: day with a slightly sore throat. Let me know, your

675
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 2: thoughts and opinions. Could I have handled the situation differently?

676
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 2: I honestly cannot complain, but I am open to other ideas.

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Speaker 2: Thanks to all of you who ca gave me advice

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Speaker 2: and pushed me to contact my ra. Thanks and goodbye.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's about your ra's four Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If anything, I would have just been like, you could

681
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 2: have gone to her a lot sooner.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Literally, no, I think you did the right thing.

683
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: But again, it's a good old college learning, you know.

684
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel like not a majority of everyone goes through

686
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Speaker 1: this with like dorm life or college living with a

687
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Speaker 1: new roommate, but it does happen. It's pretty common, so

688
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: and you were one of the lucky few that had

689
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Speaker 1: to deal with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say for next year, maybe up front

691
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 2: you'd just say guests can stay, but girlfriends might have

692
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Speaker 2: some limited time. Apartment style ones also feel way different

693
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Speaker 2: than just a little shoe box.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And that's the end of this story. We're

695
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Speaker 1: good to go onto the next one. Hey, key on here,

696
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Speaker 1: we're going to get back to the stories. But here's

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Speaker 1: roommate an ultimatum her parting words set everything She's moving out.

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Speaker 1: So I eighteen female, moved into my's twenty female apartment

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Speaker 1: early last year along with her friend, who will call

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Speaker 1: Kate twenty female for context. About two years ago, my

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Speaker 1: parents and sister came to the city from our country

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Speaker 1: town spent two weeks looking for an apartment, which was

704
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Speaker 1: already an expensive trip. Kate was already on board to

705
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Speaker 1: move in with my sister, but did not contribute any

706
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Speaker 1: money to finding the apartment or moving stuff to the city,

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Speaker 1: just allowed my family to spend money looking for the

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Speaker 1: place and to pay for fuel getting all their stuff there.

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Speaker 1: I'm Carly, and we're here to give good advice. Goofly.

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Speaker 1: We don't have all the answers, we only know what

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Speaker 1: we'd do, so let us know what you do in

715
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: the comments. Please, as Obie says, fast forward to now,

716
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: I have been living here for over a year and

717
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: Kate and my sister were both on board and happy

718
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Speaker 1: for me to move into the third room. Immediately, I

719
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: noticed some questionable habits from Kate. She says she doesn't

720
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Speaker 1: believe in laundry. Huh, what does she believe in?

721
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 2: She just throws out her clothes when she wears them.

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Speaker 1: She is it, is it just a one time? It

723
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I only believe in you get to

724
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: wear clothes one time and that's it.

725
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 2: Either that or she's stinky.

726
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: Which is a direct quote from her when I asked

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Speaker 1: about it. Essentially, here we go. Essentially, she will put

728
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Speaker 1: her dirty clothes in a pile in her room and

729
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: let it build up. And I'm talking mounds of clothes

730
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Speaker 1: up to my chest and I'm five to seven.

731
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: Ah wait, okay, wait, what does she do with them?

732
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: What does she do with them? Does she just leave

733
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: them there and never use them again? Or does she

734
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: reuse them again?

735
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: Keep reading? Oh, keep reading?

736
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: We must know she will occasionally wash her favorite clothes,

737
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: but otherwise she just buys more.

738
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

739
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: Though the mess is contained to her room and the

740
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: smell doesn't escape as long as her door is closed,

741
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: so I just left it. She also doesn't do her dishes,

742
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: saying her mom used to do them at home.

743
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 2: Oh booo, your mom's not here. Yeah.

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00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: Wait, I guess she's not here to do them for

745
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: you. Your mom mom. I said, well, your mom doesn't live here,

746
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: and she just said my sister had been doing them.

747
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 1: I asked my sister about it, and she said she

748
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: didn't want to lose a friend over domestic stuff and

749
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: to just leave it. Oh, that's bad. However, Kate recently

750
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 1: started bringing over her girlfriend, Amy twenty one female, which

751
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 1: has brought up some new issues. Does she also have

752
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: a clothes mountain?

753
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: She starts making her own clothes mount in Kate's room.

754
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: Amy and Kate go everywhere together, and I'm talking the kitchen,

755
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 1: the lounge, the bedroom, and the toilet together. You know

756
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: that's actually conserving water.

757
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 2: I mean they could go one after another.

758
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: Nah, they do at the same time.

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Speaker 3: How do they do that?

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Speaker 1: I noticed they were literally going into the one by

761
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: half meter toilet space together. And last week I heard

762
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Speaker 1: a very loud sound from the bathroom and Kate going, oh,

763
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: that was a big one, big pooh.

764
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 2: It's a big pooh.

765
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Speaker 1: It was a big stink, and then Amy offering to

766
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: wife for her, which was incredibly uncomfortable to overhear. They

767
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: also go into the shower together and leave the door

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Speaker 1: open while they do, so I usually just try to

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Speaker 1: stay in my room while they're in there, but I

770
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 1: have said numerous times that I would appreciate them shutting

771
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Speaker 1: the door because I don't want to see anything inappropriate

772
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Speaker 1: and also feel like it's just basic respect.

773
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Speaker 2: Why do they want people to see it into the bathroom?

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Speaker 1: Hi, Yeah, there's too many there's too many answers, so

775
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: many questions. Needless to say, my request were ignored, and

776
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 1: my sister said she would prefer not having Kate there

777
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Speaker 1: but doesn't want to cause drama. So it was up

778
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Speaker 1: to me what I wanted to do. Your sister has

779
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 1: zero spine. Your sister saying I don't like the dude

780
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: to drama. I don't want to do the drama. I

781
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 1: don't like it, but as long as I don't bring

782
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 1: it up, it'll keep happening.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be tougher. I fear for ope to get

784
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 2: through because they're gonna be like, well, your sister's been

785
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: living like this for years.

786
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 1: She's fine and she's happy with it. Yeah right.

787
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 2: I think unless your sister gets on your side, this

788
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 2: might be problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I sat Kate down yesterday and mentioned that

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Speaker 1: with the upcoming lease renewal, either she needed to move

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00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: out or aiming you to stop coming over because I

792
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 1: wasn't going to deal with another year of her not

793
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: respecting the space or listening to my requests. So am

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00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: I they hold for asking her to move out? Or

795
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: should I have kept trying to bring it up in

796
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 1: the new least period? I know she just let me

797
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 1: move in, and my sister just put up with it,

798
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 1: But this just feels disrespectful as a housemate, girl, this

799
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: is this is this is disrespectful to anybody, not as

800
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 1: a housemate. To her, she's disrespecting herself. I don't care

801
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 1: if she like this is gross.

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00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 2: I mean, I think, especially because you just moved in,

803
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 2: there's the perfect time to be like, hey, I just

804
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 2: moved in. Let's have a house meeting and discuss boundaries,

805
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 2: and then you can be like, I don't like that

806
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 2: you leave the door open while you guys shower together.

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00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:35,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: I do think that the closed one, like anything that

809
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: is contained into her room is unfortunately.

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00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,240
Speaker 1: Like as long as he's not space.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, but the dishes, But the dishes is a

812
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 2: communo space.

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00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a communo space.

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00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 2: But the laundry pile. Like, if you said that it

815
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 2: really doesn't leave her room, I don't think you can

816
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 2: say much about that. If it starts to smell outside

817
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: the room, which you said it only does if she

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00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 2: leaves the door open, then you can like curl it stinks.

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00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like I would just like slam the

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00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 1: door shut. If they're taking a shower, I'm like, you

821
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,439
Speaker 1: know what, stop it closing the door.

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00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 2: I think you need to have the conversation you need

823
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 2: to have because if you're just aggressively doing that without

824
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 2: bringing up your concerns, then you're just being No.

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00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the concerns I've been brought up? Uh yeah,

826
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: I don't.

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00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 2: I don't know that she's brought that one up. That's

828
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

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00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: She said she her quest always get ignored.

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00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,760
Speaker 2: Oh right right, well, yeah, sit down, have a house meeting,

831
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 2: one more chance, one more warning.

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Speaker 1: But I don't think Kate cares. She's like, I've lived here.

833
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:34,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think she does either.

834
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Speaker 1: We have an update. Thank you everyone for the comments.

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Speaker 1: This morning, Kate made a comment to my sister about

836
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 1: how someone needs to vacuum the carpets more regularly, and

837
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: as if she would get onto that.

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00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, nope.

839
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, your sister needs a spine, then I need to

840
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:53,240
Speaker 2: come back.

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00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 1: If you If your sister's like, yeah, you know what,

842
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 1: I'll start did. My sister basically blew up, saying maybe

843
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: Kate and her girlfriend didn't wear shoes on the carpets,

844
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 1: they wouldn't need to be vacuumed every day. And she

845
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: essentially had the same conversation I did and said she

846
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: was sick of the mess and the disrespect and that

847
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: Kate needed to move out because my sister and parents

848
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: were the ones who found the apartment.

849
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 2: And sister got a spine. It's grown.

850
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: This is what broke the camel's back.

851
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, spine fully formed. I mean, I feel like going

852
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,399
Speaker 2: with op being there, it's in her head more. It's

853
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 2: being brought up to her more. Yeah, she's getting more frustrated.

854
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 2: Her concerns are being validated.

855
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, the fact that you're like, this is not a

856
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: good place to live, and she's like, I know, but

857
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: I just don't want to deal with it.

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00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 2: Right.

859
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,879
Speaker 1: Good for sister finally happened. My sister says a lot

860
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: of their friend group is supporting her with the decision

861
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: because they had also noticed Kate's habits, and it was

862
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: actually the reason they had stopped coming to the apartment

863
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: for hangouts. They were so uncomfortable with Kate and Amy's

864
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: behavior and their mess Kate has already started packing her

865
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: stuff and it's going to move into Amy's place. Oh,

866
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 1: that's to be fun for Amy.

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00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 2: Amy agreed, that's gonna be a make or break it situation.

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00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: I think they'll be just fine. And you know what,

869
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: not my circus, not my monkey, yeah, she said. And

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00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,439
Speaker 1: I was a little shocked by this. If we want

871
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: to live in a spotless house, we're going to live

872
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 1: a rough life. Real housemates clean up each other's messes

873
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: and put up with the smells.

874
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:21,840
Speaker 2: Then why didn't you ever clean our messes?

875
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: Whyever you wash your plates? Why do you ever wa

876
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: wash my plates? Your mom can't do that.

877
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 2: I've never had to put up with a roommate smells.

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Speaker 1: And she proceeded to call us prudes for warning the

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00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: door closed while she and her girlfriend showered or got

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00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: up to do other things. Anyway, it seems to be

881
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: resolved now, and thank you for all your insight. And

882
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: that is the end of that story.

883
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 2: Nice problem solved.

884
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: I mean, you did it, I wouldn't fine. I mean,

885
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 1: you're also young, both you you, both you and your

886
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,919
Speaker 1: sister are young, and this is like your first time

887
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 1: moving into apartment. So I'm giving you a little leeway

888
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 1: that she'd have been done if either of this or

889
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: me would have done it immediately.

890
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 2: Well, sounds like op did it pretty quick.

891
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: Sister was Yeah, exactly, So good on you. Way to

892
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: be the spark for you and your sister.

893
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could understand it being a little bit harder

894
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 2: too for sisters since the friend group thing. You're worried

895
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 2: about the repercussions.

896
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, the fact that my friends aren't coming over because

897
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: of how my roommate is insane. And that's the end

898
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 1: of this story. We're gonna go onto the next one.

899
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,280
Speaker 2: Hey, it's Carly, your favorite Axelottel host.

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00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: Here.

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00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 2: We're going to get back to the stories. But here's

902
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 2: three minutes of ads from our sponsors. I demanded to

903
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,760
Speaker 2: have a seat in our family, and now they pay

904
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 2: with respect. Well they should be paying with money, Okay,

905
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 2: hear me out. For as long as I can remember,

906
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 2: in my family, almost any time I got up from

907
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 2: my seat, someone would take it to either be funny

908
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 2: or to claim it as if no one was using it,

909
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 2: and as a teenager, it literally got to the point

910
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,399
Speaker 2: that I brought my own folding chair so I could

911
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 2: pick it up and carry it with me. By the way,

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00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 2: this comes from Sit Sit, Sit throw Away. And if

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Speaker 2: you want to submit your own stories, go to the

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Speaker 2: r slash Okay Storytime subredd it. I'm Carly Savannah, I'm Keon,

915
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Speaker 2: and we're here to give good advice Goofily, but we

916
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 2: don't have all the answers. We only know what we

917
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 2: would do. Let us know you would do in the comments,

918
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,839
Speaker 2: and op says if I left it where it was,

919
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 2: someone would take it then get mad when I wanted

920
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: it back. As an example, on holiday last year, I

921
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 2: got up from my chair for a moment to help

922
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: with something and came back to find a kid in it,

923
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 2: and then the family berating me for wanting them to move.

924
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 2: That's also crazy, though, because I feel like the older

925
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 2: people usually do get claim on the chair over Like

926
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 2: if I was like the youngest cousin, I would be

927
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 2: the one getting up to be like, yeah, here's your chair.

928
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 4: But yeah, that's just how it is like in my

929
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 4: I guess like my family dynamic like older people just

930
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 4: automatically get.

931
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gone to get there a chair.

932
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 4: Like if if it's between like a seat on the

933
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 4: couch or like a seat on the floor, the younger

934
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 4: kids are going to sit on the floor and the

935
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 4: older people will sit on the couch.

936
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Speaker 1: That's cool. Mine was the opposite as the oldest one.

937
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: They said, m give that to the younger ones, and

938
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 1: I went, that's not fair, okay.

939
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 2: And then the family berating me for wanting them to move.

940
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 2: But I tell them that when a man owns and

941
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 2: brings his own chair, they expect to be able to

942
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 2: use it. I own a very nice folding chair that's

943
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 2: comfortable and easily portable, and I pretty much bring it

944
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 2: to any family events because people are always scrambling for chairs. Well,

945
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 2: the other day I went to a birthday party for

946
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:35,959
Speaker 2: my nephew, and like always, I brought my own chair.

947
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 2: When I came back, my chair was gone, and everyone

948
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: acted like they didn't know where it was. I said

949
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 2: they had one minute to return it or I was leaving.

950
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 2: They laughed at first, but then realized I was serious

951
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 2: as I started going for the door. It's just a

952
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 2: joke that opia has not found funny for a long time,

953
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 2: but everyone else does.

954
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 3: It's so sad because it's such a good joke.

955
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 2: Everybody told me to just calm down, and it was

956
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:05,319
Speaker 2: just a joke. I said, I don't care if they

957
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 2: think I'm a stick in the mud. I wouldn't be

958
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 2: bringing my own chair all the time if other people

959
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 2: weren't always taking my seat when I get up. I

960
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,839
Speaker 2: don't think it's funny, and I never did. My brother

961
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 2: in law then pulled the chair out of where he'd

962
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 2: hidden it, and when I got it back, one of

963
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 2: the legs was bent. I said, it was not like

964
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 2: this before. How could he have possibly done this to

965
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 2: a metal chair. He said he could fix it and

966
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,280
Speaker 2: tried to unbend it, but he only made it worse.

967
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 2: The chair is pretty much unusable now because the leg

968
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 2: is warped and I don't want to risk putting weight

969
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 2: on it. I told my brother in law he owes

970
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 2: me fifty dollars for the chair folding chair dollar folding chair.

971
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,240
Speaker 2: A metal folding chair costs fifty dollars.

972
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 3: There's no way.

973
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 2: He got mad and kept saying it was just a

974
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 2: stupid chair. I said, it was my stupid chair, and

975
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 2: this wouldn't have happened if he wasn't so immature that

976
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: he and everyone else had to mess with me for

977
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 2: years about where I sit. Then I took my now

978
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 2: messed up chair and walked out. Yeah, I mean, he

979
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:07,280
Speaker 2: probably should pay you for breaking some of your property,

980
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 2: But I'm a ridiculous situation.

981
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 4: I don't know, Like i'd be pretty pissed if like

982
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 4: all of this had been happening for years and years

983
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 4: and years, and like everyone still thinks is funny.

984
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 3: It's like, guys do not realize that, Like I hate

985
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 3: this joke.

986
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it's no longer a joke if you

987
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: brought your own thing.

988
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm trying to prevent this joke from going on

989
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 4: so I have an actual place to sit.

990
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 2: Like, I feel like there's no way that they haven't

991
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 2: caught on that Opie hates this joke. My family has

992
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 2: been blowing my phone up saying that it's just a chair,

993
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,800
Speaker 2: let it go. But I still want my brother to

994
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,959
Speaker 2: pay me back for it. Am I the a hole?

995
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 4: Now you don't like it? Bo, you know, maybe they

996
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 4: should like stop being annoying about it.

997
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:51,879
Speaker 2: I do wonder if it's about to go too far.

998
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 2: Last night, I sent a mass text out to my

999
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 2: family that I will not be going to any family function,

1000
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 2: no matter how important it is, until they make this

1001
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: right by promising not to screw with me anymore and

1002
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 2: repay me for the chair. They've mostly gone quiet now,

1003
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 2: but I can wait. I've got all the time in

1004
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 2: the world for them to realize I'm serious.

1005
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 3: That's crazy. I don't know.

1006
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 4: I have a conversation be like, hey, actually, I don't

1007
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 4: really like when you guys do this.

1008
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 3: Can you guys stop? I literally bought a chair so

1009
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 3: you guys would stop, and then you still screw with me.

1010
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: I walked out over a chair, and my family tore

1011
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 2: itself apart. Update two, I wasn't gonna come back here again.

1012
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 2: To be honest, I had completely forgotten I made this account.

1013
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 2: I only got back in because I'd written down the

1014
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 2: password and left it in my desk. I was listening

1015
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 2: to Reddit videos on YouTube a couple weeks ago shout out.

1016
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 2: Then I suddenly heard my old am I the a

1017
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 2: hole post, so I thought i'd give an update. Well,

1018
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 2: things escalated a lot after I made that post, because

1019
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 2: I linked it to my parents and other family members.

1020
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:59,720
Speaker 2: After a little while they were furious with me at first,

1021
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 2: some even mocked me, saying things like, oh, watch what

1022
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 2: you say, or do a round opee. He might just

1023
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,959
Speaker 2: post about it on Reddit. But when they actually read

1024
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: the comments on my post when I made them, they

1025
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 2: became mortified. My brother in law did agree to pay

1026
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 2: for a new chair and gave me the money I

1027
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 2: asked for. I bought a better folding chair than my

1028
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 2: last one and resumed going to family functions. But whenever

1029
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 2: I was there, there was this air about some of

1030
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 2: the family members. They looked at me like I'd sucked

1031
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 2: all the fun out of the room. My parents had

1032
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 2: stopped thinking the chair thing was funny, and even scolded

1033
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 2: a kid for taking my seat when I got up

1034
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 2: to use the bathroom. The only problem is that this

1035
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 2: kid was my nephew, and he started crying when they

1036
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 2: made him get up. Okay, people take your seat sometimes

1037
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 2: they're gonna stop doing it all the time, and everyone

1038
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: needs to get over themselves.

1039
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 3: I only used to just shut up and stop taking.

1040
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 2: My chair, Like, yeah, they should stop taking your seat.

1041
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 2: You didn't think it was funny. You expressed that, sure,

1042
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 2: let's move on, But we don't need to know yell

1043
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 2: at this nephew too, I'm like, Oh. My brother in

1044
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 2: law came to the boy's rescue, and my nephew ended

1045
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 2: up blurting out that his daddy told him he could

1046
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 2: do it. Oh, so is this the dad's still egging

1047
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 2: a mom? When I was out of the bathroom, there

1048
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 2: was a big fight about it going on. Several family members,

1049
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 2: including my sister and brother in law, were all yelling

1050
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 2: that it was just a dang chair and I shouldn't

1051
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 2: be so butt hurt about it. My parents demanded to

1052
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 2: know why they were so butt hurt about not being

1053
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 2: allowed to screw with me anymore, Like what was their

1054
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 2: motivation after doing it for so long? It made no sense.

1055
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 2: It wasn't funny anymore. And that's when I intervened. I

1056
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 2: told them none of this crap would have ever happened

1057
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 2: if they hadn't been so intent un messing with me

1058
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 2: when there really was no point to it. And I

1059
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 2: only started bringing my own chair because I could never

1060
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 2: find a stable place to sit. And if they still

1061
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 2: thought they were in the right about the situation, then

1062
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 2: they were just bullies, plain and simple. And what kind

1063
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 2: of example is that to be setting for their son,

1064
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: my brother in law raged, grabbed my new chair and

1065
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,720
Speaker 2: hurled it through the living room bay window.

1066
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: He went, all right, so they won't be an issue,

1067
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 1: But I just.

1068
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 2: Here so weirdow. Brother in law got pissy about being

1069
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:16,439
Speaker 2: called out for being a butt after an unfunny joke

1070
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 2: went too far, trained his kid to be the one

1071
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 2: to take the seat so that no one could yell

1072
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,359
Speaker 2: at a kid. And then when they still yelled at,

1073
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 2: the kid, picked up a chair and flung it through

1074
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:29,280
Speaker 2: their window.

1075
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say again, you're gonna have to buy

1076
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 1: me another new chair.

1077
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 2: And I'll fix the dang window.

1078
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 1: Also, is anyone out there just gotta.

1079
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 2: Get hit by or a car or something? Could you

1080
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: imagine it's right on the.

1081
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: Chair throughout the window. I beg oh no.

1082
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 2: There was a bit of a pause before he realized

1083
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 2: what he'd just done. Then he took off in his

1084
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 2: car and left my sister and nephew there what My

1085
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 2: parents got my sister to call him, and over the

1086
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 2: phone they threatened to go to the police if he

1087
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 2: didn't pay for the damages. Brother in law yelled a

1088
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 2: few f bombs until my sister took the phone back

1089
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,439
Speaker 2: and she said that he can either make things right

1090
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 2: or she'll divorce him. Oh my, okay, this is going

1091
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 2: way past a chair now.

1092
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: It started out with the chair. How did it.

1093
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 2: Was only a seat?

1094
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 1: It was only a seat.

1095
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 2: Well, that did the trick, because he came back looking

1096
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 2: like he punted a puppy with his head hanging low.

1097
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,720
Speaker 2: He apologized to me and my parents without even looking

1098
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 2: at us, said he'd pay for the new bay window,

1099
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 2: and left again. My sister said he'd drank himself to

1100
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: sleep that night. My new chair was just fine. It

1101
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 2: took being hurled through a bay window like a champ.

1102
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 2: There was hardly a scratch on it. It took. It

1103
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 2: took like a chance beating hurled through that chair.

1104
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:51,760
Speaker 3: That chair took a champ.

1105
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:56,240
Speaker 2: My last one mm hm, last one couldn't even get hidden.

1106
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 2: It bent right up.

1107
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, last song was hidden, completely bent. This one went

1108
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 4: through a freaking window.

1109
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 3: Not even better.

1110
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 2: Write that review on their website right now. Yeah, my

1111
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 2: brother in lawed threw it through a bay window and

1112
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 2: it survived.

1113
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 4: Highly recommend this chair, very sturdy, very comfortable, can survive

1114
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 4: a bay window.

1115
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 2: Yes, my brother hired a window company to come and

1116
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 2: replace the window and they had to measure and order

1117
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: a new one before it could be installed, and until

1118
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: then the window had to be covered with plywood. It

1119
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 2: took some time, but they got the new bay window,

1120
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 2: and it's better than the old one, though I imagine that

1121
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 2: it was extra expensive because it's a bay window. The

1122
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,280
Speaker 2: family was still divided about the situation for a while,

1123
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 2: mainly brother in law's parents, my uncle, and a couple cousins.

1124
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 2: They blamed me and called me obnoxious over insisting on

1125
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 2: bringing my own chair and refusing to let anyone else

1126
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 2: use it. So I compromised. I said, if I had

1127
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 2: a good designated seat that no one will try to

1128
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 2: take away, I'll leave my chair in my car. It

1129
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 2: took two more family barbecues before they finally agreed to this.

1130
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 2: I think you just gotta bring your chair. Then if

1131
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 2: you constantly need a place to sit, I will say, like, sure,

1132
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 2: maybe your parents just need to buy more chairs. But

1133
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 2: sometimes you just don't always have a seat at family gatherings.

1134
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 2: Sometimes you stand. If you get up, you'll lose your

1135
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:17,399
Speaker 2: you move your feet, lose your seat.

1136
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 4: Honestly, this is so funny, and I would have I

1137
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 4: was there.

1138
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:24,359
Speaker 2: Because I'm like at this point, if they're not doing

1139
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 2: it intentionally to mess with Op and they're not purposely

1140
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,280
Speaker 2: like grabbing his chair every time he stands up. Sometimes

1141
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 2: there's just not enough chairs. Buy them chairs for Christmas.

1142
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 2: I don't know what else to tell. You buy one

1143
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,879
Speaker 2: chair a year, like you have.

1144
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: To play plastic ones that you can spitterly.

1145
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,240
Speaker 2: They're like five bucks at Lows for those plastic classic

1146
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 2: long chair ones. If even since then, I've left the

1147
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:49,280
Speaker 2: chair in my car unless there really wasn't enough seating,

1148
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 2: and that's only happened once since the problem is though,

1149
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 2: that even though they stopped screwing with me, they were

1150
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 2: still screwn with each other and thing until things went

1151
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 2: too far. They still like to take each other's seat.

1152
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 2: But I guess others were following my example because they

1153
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 2: put their feet down and demanded it stop. If Op

1154
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 2: was fully like I cannot stand for long periods of time,

1155
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 2: or like I have a medical condition, like I need

1156
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 2: a chair, I have this reason that I need a chair,

1157
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 2: then yeah, everyone else is for sure the ahole give

1158
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 2: the poor Opie a chair. Yeah, but that was not mentioned,

1159
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 2: so they're not allowed to have I don't know, maybe

1160
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 2: they just left it out. It's been going on for

1161
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 2: decades and they've had enough. Brother in law stayed out

1162
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 2: of the fight entirely and hasn't caused any more trouble.

1163
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 2: But for several family functions, a number of people didn't

1164
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:36,240
Speaker 2: bother to show up. My mother was broken up about

1165
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 2: it because she loves hosting parties. It took months, but

1166
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:42,919
Speaker 2: everything more or less normalized again, but without the chair

1167
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,760
Speaker 2: thing going on, some have resorted to other stupid pranks,

1168
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 2: like a little device you hooked to a chair that

1169
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 2: makes farts. You can't get mad at fart jokes. They're funny.

1170
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 4: Ope, true, they're funny. It's one thing to not have

1171
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 4: a seat, another thing to not laugh at fart.

1172
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 3: You choose a side when you're on.

1173
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have a chair. Be happy you have a chair.

1174
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 2: It just farts when you sit.

1175
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,720
Speaker 3: How freaking hilarious. I would love that they.

1176
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 2: Didn't do this to my seat, but did it to

1177
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 2: a cousin. Hand said. Cousin got really petty at the

1178
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 2: next party and let out real farts.

1179
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 3: Ah.

1180
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 2: He said, he ate a whole pack of fiber bars

1181
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 2: and had eggs for breakfast. Funny, opie, funny, and it

1182
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 2: was dang nasty, And we've got looks like a list

1183
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 2: of some more pranks, so I'll read those and then

1184
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:30,240
Speaker 2: we'll get a we'll get your thoughts. Other pranks included

1185
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 2: hiding eating utensils, a stink bomb, hiding some sort of

1186
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 2: monster thing in the toilet, cell a fane in a doorway,

1187
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 2: ripping paper when someone bends over, messing with drinks, hiding shoes,

1188
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 2: copying outfits, a container of foam packing peanuts above a doorway,

1189
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 2: and finally, the one that really infuriated my aunt and

1190
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 2: uncle when a party was held at their house, a

1191
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 2: glitter bomb.

1192
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: Oh, we know all about that.

1193
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:55,240
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

1194
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 2: That one might be too far. We've seen the effects

1195
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 2: of glitter. It's hard to clean. They got the carpet

1196
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 2: professionally clean and built the person who made the glitter

1197
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 2: bomb for it. So now pranks are just over. They

1198
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 2: don't want anymore, and I'm fine with that. But the

1199
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 2: last few family functions have been a bit dull. I

1200
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 2: think they were so used to how things were that

1201
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 2: now they're trying to find other ways to amuse themselves

1202
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 2: that don't involve cell phones. And that's the end of

1203
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:21,919
Speaker 2: that story. Hmm.

1204
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: It seems like your family just likes to pull pranks,

1205
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: and unfortunately you were the one getting the prank or

1206
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,280
Speaker 1: getting pulled the prank on all the time.

1207
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, I can totally see how that's annoying, But

1208
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 2: the fart thing is funny.

1209
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 3: I drew a nice little chair.

1210
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 2: Somehow I return again. He's back, and he's backed me

1211
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 2: with a vengeance and with some crazy info on stuff

1212
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 2: that went down this past year. I never could have

1213
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 2: imagined how things could have spiraled into what happened. If

1214
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 2: you guys thought my brother in law throwing a chair

1215
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 2: through the bay window after his son wasn't allowed to

1216
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 2: sit on it was crazy. Just read about all of this,

1217
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 2: you're not gonna want to believe it. Firstly, my good

1218
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 2: padded folding chair I paid over eighty dollars for was stolen.

1219
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 2: Don't don't who stole it. I have no idea by who,

1220
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 2: as it didn't happen at the family event, but rather

1221
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:28,479
Speaker 2: hanging out at a friend's house. Somebody just walked into

1222
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,360
Speaker 2: his yard and took it. No. I learned my lesson

1223
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 2: and decided never to buy an expensive folding chair again. No,

1224
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: I just keep a cheap folding chair I got for

1225
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:38,800
Speaker 2: three dollars at a second hand store in my trunk.

1226
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 4: Ah, he still his eighty dollar chare that's been through

1227
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 4: I would feel a connection to that.

1228
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 3: It went through the bay windows.

1229
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 2: Survived the bay window, but not the backyard. Not not

1230
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 2: the backyard. So I was like, oh, that's pretty nice mine.

1231
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:56,800
Speaker 2: Moving on to other stuff. The family pranks I described

1232
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 2: in my last post seemingly stopped, but some of them

1233
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 2: slow resumed. However, they were only harmless little things that

1234
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,799
Speaker 2: just give chuckles. The only person that they refused to

1235
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 2: prank at all was me due to the events of

1236
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 2: my previous post, but that didn't stop entitlement. The seven

1237
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: year old son of one of my cousins stole my

1238
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 2: phone during a family's birthday party at my parents' house

1239
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 2: and intentionally broke it rather than return it.

1240
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 3: Wow.

1241
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 2: His parents were already going through a rough patch. My cousin,

1242
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 2: the father was constantly clashing with his wife over how

1243
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 2: to parent their child. His now ex wife was a

1244
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 2: bad enabler of their son. She's also terrible with money

1245
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 2: and has a very her way or the highway attitude,

1246
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 2: and she does not like to back down when wrong.

1247
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 3: She was one of the more.

1248
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 2: Outspoken people that hated me bringing my own chair and

1249
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 2: never sharing it, but she never got physical about it.

1250
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 4: Okay, but the whole point of bringing one is that

1251
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 4: you have one, not that you'd give it to someone.

1252
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 1: So we found out one of the people who didn't

1253
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 1: have a chair, Yeah, it was her.

1254
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 2: She once confronted me and said that if I was

1255
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 2: going to bring my own chair, it should be something

1256
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 2: nice and made of wood that doesn't fold. If you

1257
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 2: don't have a chair, you can't judge my chair. I

1258
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,240
Speaker 2: told her I was not gonna lug around a dining

1259
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:17,439
Speaker 2: room chair wherever I go when a folding chair takes

1260
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 2: up only a little space in my trunk. She argued

1261
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 2: with me about it more and got nowhere. None of

1262
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 2: the family events were at her house, and she does

1263
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 2: not dictate my life. She gave me crazy glares for months,

1264
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 2: but otherwise left me alone. The night her son stole

1265
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 2: my phone, he'd already been grounded from electronics by his father.

1266
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 2: The kid took my phone when I set it down

1267
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 2: on a table to eat some cake, and then ran

1268
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,360
Speaker 2: off with it when I wasn't looking. He holed himself

1269
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 2: up in the master bedroom closet and was trying to

1270
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 2: install new gaming apps on my phone. That closet had

1271
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 2: a lock on the door and the key was lost

1272
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:56,760
Speaker 2: years ago. The brat refused to come out or return

1273
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,799
Speaker 2: the phone. His mother kept telling us all mainly me,

1274
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 2: to just leave him alone and let him game on it.

1275
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,280
Speaker 2: But I refused and said my phone was not his toy.

1276
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 2: Do what that's crazy. The brat was told several times

1277
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,640
Speaker 2: to open the door, and he refused, all the while

1278
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 2: his mother kept contradicting everything said. My cousin got fed

1279
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 2: up and started forcing the old door open. It's an

1280
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 2: old manufactured home and that door was pretty flimsy. Just

1281
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 2: as he was making headway, we heard loud banging sounds

1282
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 2: from the closet. The brat had started banging my phone

1283
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: against the nearest hard object he could find. The brat

1284
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 2: let out some loud screams as the dad pulled him

1285
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 2: out of the closet. The screen on my phone was

1286
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 2: nearly destroyed. Thankfully, the rest of it was protected by

1287
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 2: the case. My cousin's wife tried to blame it on

1288
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 2: me and said it was my fault her baby broke

1289
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 2: the phone because I wouldn't let him game on it.

1290
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 2: Everyone in the room turned on her and she shut

1291
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 2: up out of cowardice. It cost around three hundred dollars

1292
00:57:58,520 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 2: to repair my phone.

1293
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 3: I would be like, what is wrong with you?

1294
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 4: Just be like, oh, yeah, you can just take people's

1295
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 4: stuff and play on it and go walk yourself in

1296
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 4: a closet, you little freak.

1297
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I would be so pissed. I'd be like.

1298
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 2: What And I had to use a temporary one till

1299
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 2: mine was fixed? And yes, my cousin paid for the repairs.

1300
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,080
Speaker 1: Good well.

1301
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 2: The rest of the family knew about the cousin's wife

1302
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 2: disdain for folding chairs like the one I keep in

1303
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:25,200
Speaker 2: my car, and they decided to pull a prank on

1304
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 2: her because of her attitude after the incident with her

1305
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:31,479
Speaker 2: sons stealing my phone. I would like to be clear

1306
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 2: I was not involved in this in any way, nor

1307
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 2: did I really condone doing it. But the entire thing

1308
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 2: was out of my hands. My cousins got together and

1309
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 2: decided to prank that witch of a wife and got

1310
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 2: their hands on a whole bunch of folding chairs. You're

1311
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 2: telling me they had more chairs this entire time.

1312
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 5: No way did they learn they had chairs this all

1313
00:58:57,960 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 5: the time.

1314
00:58:58,520 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 2: They could have gotten their hands on.

1315
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, no, I'm I'm now throwing myself through the

1316
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 4: bay window.

1317
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 2: Then they removed every chair and seat in his house

1318
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 2: and replace them with the folding chairs, folding chairs at

1319
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 2: the dining table, folding chairs at the counter, folding chairs

1320
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 2: in place of the living room furniture, and more were

1321
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 2: strategically placed around the house. Even the chairs on the

1322
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 2: porch were replaced with them.

1323
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: Dang, shout out to committee.

1324
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 5: To the bit they could have had chairs this all, yeah,

1325
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 5: this could have been like that's all I'm hearing.

1326
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think they care. As long as it's

1327
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 1: a prank and they find it funny, they'll do it.

1328
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 3: These people would annoy the crap out of me.

1329
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 2: When my cousin's wife came home, her reaction went far

1330
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 2: beyond what anyone thought. It's almost like we should have

1331
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 2: learned this family can't handle pranks. Their plan was to

1332
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 2: just record her having a tantrum and get a laugh,

1333
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 2: but she ended up going insane on the spot and

1334
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 2: tried to get a knife from the kitchen to go

1335
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 2: after her husband with. When she couldn't get the knife,

1336
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 2: she pulled out pepper spray for her purse. And used

1337
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 2: it on everybody whoah, my god. Ow. Then she went

1338
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 2: for her husband with her long.

1339
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: Fake Now she went full Wolverine.

1340
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 2: She probably would have tried to go for his eyes

1341
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 2: or something, but thankfully one of the other guys there

1342
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 2: punted her off of him. I couldn't freaking believe this

1343
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 2: crap happened all because of folding chairs. And I feel

1344
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 2: like the root cause, since I'm the one who was

1345
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 2: always bringing my own chair to family events, since there

1346
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,920
Speaker 2: was never enough seating and people kept taking the places

1347
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 2: I was sitting. Never feel bad again. They had chairs

1348
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 2: this whole time. This is so funny how it's like

1349
01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 2: transpired into like this whole ordeal now and people are

1350
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 2: literally getting divorced and like breaking things like it's wanting

1351
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 2: to like end someone's life over this. This is crazy,

1352
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 2: and it escalated far beyond me. Police were obviously called.

1353
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 2: The wife got arrested. All the guys there had to

1354
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 2: go to the hospital because of pepper spray in their eyes,

1355
01:00:58,920 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 2: and my cousin had to get all the scratches on

1356
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 2: his face treated. He looked like a bobcat attacked him.

1357
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 2: He filed for an immediate order of protection against his wife,

1358
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 2: they'd recorded everything, like her trying to get the knife

1359
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 2: and screaming she'd go after somebody. She had to go

1360
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 2: stay with her sister after spending some time in jail,

1361
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 2: and her sister I hear is as narcissistic as she is.

1362
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 2: My cousin obviously filed for divorce and his wife later

1363
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,919
Speaker 2: spent some more time in jail after pleading guilty for

1364
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 2: the assault. She wasn't allowed near her son for a

1365
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 2: while and tried to take it out on my cousin

1366
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 2: in court during the divorce. That did not go in

1367
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 2: her favor because he was easily able to prove how

1368
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 2: ut hint she is. My cousin got primary custody of

1369
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:46,919
Speaker 2: his son and his ex got only supervised visitation. Since

1370
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 2: she was so mentally unstable, She's pretty much abandoned her

1371
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 2: son and has tracked up with some fat older man,

1372
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 2: got a serious tan and bleached her hair. I guess

1373
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 2: she'd rather live the life of a sugar baby. Cait

1374
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 2: didn't make up. My cousin's son has shown great improvement

1375
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 2: since being separated from his mother. He was put through

1376
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 2: counseling and listens to his father more. Now the kid

1377
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 2: has to be babysat a lot since my cousin has

1378
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 2: to work. But at the very least things got better.

1379
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 2: I still feel like the root cause of this is

1380
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 2: because of the chair thing, though. Edit just a bit

1381
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 2: of added info I didn't think to include before, But

1382
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 2: my cousin's ex wife had a love for fancy, expensive

1383
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: things she couldn't really afford. She filled my cousin's house

1384
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:34,880
Speaker 2: with imitation Victorian style furniture that she was extremely anal about,

1385
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 2: which I suppose was one of the reasons she lost

1386
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 2: her mind so hard when it was all replaced with

1387
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 2: folding chairs. My cousin threw all that furniture out when

1388
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 2: he divorced her. He said it was all uncomfortable and

1389
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 2: looked better than it felt. Second edit, my dumb self

1390
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 2: didn't bother to set a password on that phone when

1391
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 2: I got it, so the kid was able to use

1392
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 2: it just fine when he took it. I set a

1393
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 2: password after getting the phone fixed, and the kid was

1394
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,040
Speaker 2: grounded from electronic device is by his father for a

1395
01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 2: month and that is the end of that story. Wow,

1396
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 2: that's crazy. I made a chair tree. How lovely?

1397
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: Uh Op, your family's got some serious problems.

1398
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 4: Serious problem literally the story was insane and all over

1399
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 4: a chair.

1400
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:26,439
Speaker 1: I mean it started out with a chair. I don't

1401
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 1: think this is very fair. Started out with a chair,

1402
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 1: and that's the end of this story.