WEBVTT - Ep186: Male Bisexuality & a Pillow Case Feat Redd the Model 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:08.200 Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:13.560 am your motherfucking girl, that bitch, full court pumps man 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:17.400 de little my niggle baby pegastaion, What's I don't know 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:19.799 if this name is. I'm Milannia Trump and I still 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:23.400 see everybody again, always have that person at the point, 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:25.080 I feel like you have an obsession with her. You 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:27.440 have done her accent about three or four times? Now, 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:31.600 do you know the last month? I no bullshit. One 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:35.159 of the side projects I'm working on, Um, I'm writing 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:37.239 where the person is an actor in the in the 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:39.000 script I'm working on, and they do a lot of 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:42.559 different voices, and my favorite one is Milan. Oh my god, 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:45.440 she just said her favorite person is Milannia Trump White. 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:52.040 Run it back, run it back back hurt. Her accents 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:54.200 so fun and she's such a fun person to do 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:57.600 because like as someone that like everybody's like talking about. 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.840 Oh my god, first lady, she's so classy. Remember that 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:05.040 share with her fingers. I want to say that, Well, 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:08.720 yes they do. They use to maga Twitter, which I 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:10.400 love clicking on the hashtag because I like to see 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:12.280 how racist people are because when I get bored, I'm like, 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:14.840 let me talk to him. All of them be like, 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:18.479 look at her, gorgeous lady, she's so this, look how 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:20.640 she carries herself, and I just really want to throw 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:23.880 her wop on top of that. Well, if you want 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:29.880 to randomly curse out uh maga, twitter and racist, I 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:32.920 want to go ahead and curse out the whore hid bitches. 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:36.959 I'll see here and tell y'all to get the funk 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:41.800 off my taking ass pussy because apparently y'all are upset 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:46.839 that a bitch found love in a hard place. No bitch, 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:52.320 because he's an aquarious And apparently y'all know I don't 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:54.600 do the stars and moons, but I heard aquarious people 0:01:54.880 --> 0:02:00.600 don't really show or tell their truth. Know he I 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:02.760 think he tells the truth. He just he's just one 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:05.520 of those where he's like, you know how I feel 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:08.160 because I show you how I feel, And so I 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:09.640 think if I say I love you, I don't think 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:11.560 I'm gonna get it back to be there old days 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:16.520 and aquarious and there we are a relationship birth from 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:18.799 a fight, Like I was like, oh n, I'm done 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.320 with your ass, right we haven't fought yet, and then 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:26.440 and this was about six that's what comes out at 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:29.520 least all right, See, I don't want to keep no no, no, 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:33.320 no no, it's not toxic because sometimes people need to 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:36.120 lose it to bro it was twenty four hours. It 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:39.440 happened when we were in Detroit. We were in Detroit 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:41.560 and I was like so depressed because it was a 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:44.320 huge fight that Nigga called me and he was like, 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:47.760 I cannot live my life without you. I'm a fucking idiot. 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:49.560 I'm in love with you. Da da da da da 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:51.040 da da. He was like, I don't know what the funk. 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:54.560 I was thinking, that's funny that you say all these 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:58.440 things because when we refer back to page I can 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:02.680 recall you just say, we're talking, we're kicking it even 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:06.639 though we're meeting families and doing Thanksgiving anything ease, and 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:09.320 you're talking about how we're not, Like are we not? 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:12.280 You got you? My girl? Let you wait a second? 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:14.120 How did my brand turn into your rant? Let me 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:17.320 finish what I mean? Actually just want to take over 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:20.359 my rant about her? Nigga. I was very pulled into. 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:24.480 I was like, mind you which that trigger Aquarius. But 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:28.760 for the for the running time of this podcast, we 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:32.200 has had her boyfriends along the way. This is my 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:36.280 first one. And mind you, we had our Patreon recording 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:38.760 and motherfucking Siggy hots on there and was like, can 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:41.360 we get single Mandy back? Because I don't know if 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:44.640 I like this new Mandy bitch. And I'm like, listen, 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:46.520 but I'm not. I want to think I go to 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:51.320 the sex club. But no, here's the thing. You can 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:54.280 be slotted out with your nigga. And when we get 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:57.120 to the motherfucking hor dirt, all my horddrts like me 0:03:57.200 --> 0:04:00.440 that y'all been rocking with the motherfucking beat June and 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:02.880 all this little other ship come from my niggas. I 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.880 don't think that's the issue. What is the issue? Bro? 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:13.360 I think the issue? Tell no, I think that it's 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:16.520 because it has always been an opposing side, like Mandy's 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:20.880 been single Mandy, relationship, Mandy whatever, And now people don't 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:25.480 know what to do because what's happening is you're it's 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:29.640 almost like the person that they knew I'm still here. No, no, no, 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.600 But that's a real thing. That's a real thing because celebrities, 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:34.840 a lot of them, like when they're known as like 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:37.200 heart throbs and all that stuff, they stay single or 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:40.240 they or they're single publicly when they're really in a relationship, 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:43.920 because because their fan base is not gonna want them 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:46.919 if they're in a relationship. Stories, it's the attitude, right, 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:50.360 want me happy, They like the fantasy of you. But 0:04:50.520 --> 0:05:00.280 you were always talking about went off on the show 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:04.360 about people that fucking post relationship. But that's the thing. 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:07.159 I have not posted me and my niggas, but you 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:10.520 like about him NonStop and you posted him on Patreon. 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:15.680 I mean, now you see that, really you know? It's 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:19.080 now you see like when you have someone that you 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:21.919 want to like, celebrate and you feel like it's you 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:24.359 can't you almost can't stop, like you want to share it. 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.920 It's like when something good happens to you, like you. 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:28.919 It's not even like a flexing type of thing. In 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:30.720 my opinion, I don't think people can show off about 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:32.880 their relationships. I believe people just want to share. That's 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:34.800 what I'm talking about. I want to say the whore 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:36.640 high because I feel like they didn't want me to 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:39.520 be happy. Y'all really just wanted me to be a single. 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:43.039 It's that married niggas forever ship that you were saying. 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:44.880 I'm not you thirty, y'all still want me to be 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:48.039 sucking up on Mary niggas forever. It's just the ship 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.320 you were saying does not equate with one. But I'm 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:53.880 still eating booty, I'm still getting fucked in the ass. 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:57.080 I'm still going to sex clubs. We had a whole 0:05:57.120 --> 0:06:00.839 eight person orgy that I shared with Patreon. Y'all. I 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:03.240 am still out here getting let the funk out by 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:07.359 my niggers. I think everyone's he had asshole eating it. 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:10.240 I think everybody is okay with that bit. He been 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:12.080 over on all fours the last time we went to 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:14.640 the sex club and say eat my ass. I ate 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.880 his ass and then I sucked the guy while my 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:21.599 whole face was in his boot hole. Wolf. Okay on 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:25.320 that note. Anyways, guys and you, uh we do bo 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:27.320 You included in my red So I'm gonna go ahead 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:30.240 and introduce y'all, we have a third person joining us today. 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:32.600 I'm super excited to have this conversation. We is joined 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:38.000 by reds Why because you ain't red? Right? Everybody says that. 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.880 Everybody says that this is something that spans back to 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:44.480 when I first started modeling UM and basically nobody knew 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:46.320 who I was. I was very new to the scene. 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.360 We were doing this fashion show. I had on all 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:50.480 read and I didn't know what to do, and so 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:53.599 people just started referencing me by the color because I 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:59.360 started reference Hey, polka dots. Yeah, I'm so Dallas. That's 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.960 what they else. But you don't like niggas be like 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:07.839 hey red shirt. No no, because it started like, hey, 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:11.560 don't do that. Don't do that, bitch, don't do that. No. 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:14.000 It started because I started calling this girl keys because 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:15.480 she had her keys on and while she was doing 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:18.440 her walk that's always jingling. The whole time I was 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:20.440 calling her keys and she was calling me Red. People 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:23.240 trying to find me. So we don't give it that. 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:27.120 We will make up and make it relevant. Great shorts, 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:30.480 everybody can have great shorts on, but you know who 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:34.200 they're talking about. So I was gonna say, I'm excited, guys, 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:37.560 because we're about to have UM dive into during the 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:42.240 Horrible Decision, a conversation on bisexuality, specifically in the black community. 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:44.160 UM and so Red is here to join us in 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:46.600 that conversation, and I'm just I'm super excited. I got 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:50.560 some questions UM from our audience on Instagram, but also 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:53.160 Weezy and I have wanted to have this conversation for 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:55.120 so long, um, and so I'm really glad to be 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.280 having this with you. But also this it really stemmed 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:59.360 from us asking for a buy guy to come on 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:03.000 because of the whole Jeffrey Star thing with people either 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:06.320 saying like, oh, how because he looks masked or or 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:09.320 why or it can't be true. And it's all of 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:11.520 that ship that we thought about right like we've been 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:13.560 seeing it I think in media and pop culture, whether 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:17.040 it be I May Destroy You or Insecure and especially 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:19.880 us talking about like by fantasies or mmf by three 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:23.080 species And that's and that's the thing, especially with me again, 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:25.920 I joked pegg the stallion of your nickname early on. 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:27.960 Of course, I think we brought it up an episode 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:29.960 two that pegging was something that I enjoyed. And that's 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:33.280 been a common question because a lot of the men 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:36.240 that I've done this to do identify a straight So 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:39.560 even the conversation of your masculinity and your hetero normal 0:08:39.720 --> 0:08:43.000 like your hetero sexuality being in your Buddha hole. So 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:44.800 we're gonna talk about that later on, but you know, 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:47.520 I want to just say very quickly that I really 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:49.680 appreciate you saying that we could ask you whatever you 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:51.120 want because it's just on my mind. And once I 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:53.280 say it, I'm done. Who do you get better head to? 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:56.520 What do you think you're better at? Starting? Alright? Anymore? 0:08:56.760 --> 0:09:00.760 I love that? Um, I think personally I'm better sucking 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:06.040 so much easy, it's easy, it's easier. I'm suffer. But 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:09.200 because I would say that, and I would say I 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:13.120 think men suck better dick than women because we have 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:15.000 it and we know what we want done to it, 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:17.560 and so we know how to replicate that on another person. 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:19.080 I don't have a but I feel like I do 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:21.400 a way better than Now that's some women that got 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:25.880 got that throat like yeah, but a lot of people 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:27.360 are like a lot of women don't know how to 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:31.600 like suck dick properly. So here's wasn't too much porn porn. 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:33.439 A lot of women that we even had on his 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:36.600 guests of the show, they don't enjoy sucking. So I 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:39.440 feel like in order to be a good dick sucker, 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:41.520 you have to enjoy doing it. Is because of the 0:09:41.559 --> 0:09:46.000 stigma th like of like not being nerdy, like you 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:47.800 know what I'm saying, Like I do have a question 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:51.480 for you. This is how you're asking the questions already. 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:56.160 But this is a really embarrassing story that I haven't 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.120 been wanting to tell on the podcast because I can't 0:09:58.120 --> 0:09:59.760 believe it because I'm so ashamed. But I have to 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:02.240 tell it because I just want you guys to know. 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:06.480 Don't doubt me. His dick is huge. Please understand, as 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:10.240 my mother said, she knows it's genetic. I'm top five 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.800 dick sucker. Oh Bay called me top three. I think 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:14.280 it really means number one, but he don't want to 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:18.160 tell me. And that what's it call loverboy too? So 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:21.480 hospital dick you've heard me talk about. We recently had 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:26.760 a conversation. But we had a conversation put you in 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:31.880 the hospital. He didn't put me in the hospital. The 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:35.680 mic was too close. So we started talking about dick 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:40.080 sucking and about how he knows like his dick is huge, right, 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:42.720 particularly like the girl that I want to know what's used, 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:45.559 because I think women have a different idea of what 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:49.280 little take it, like that he literally put a bit 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:55.040 in the hospital. Okay, too tilted uterus, Um, here's the issue. 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:58.880 He said to me that I cut his dick before 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:00.960 I was like, why wouldn't you tell me that I 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.040 cut your dick with my teeth? And I know there 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:05.160 because you got an over byte know. He was like. 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:09.559 I was like, have you always been feeling under? He said, 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:13.520 he always feels teeth. I'm like with me, he's like everybody. 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:15.320 He's like, it takes a special type of person and 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:17.120 not feel their teeth. And he's like, so I don't 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:19.400 say anything. I'm like, what does it feel like? He's like, 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:21.400 it just felt like males. He never told me this. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:22.920 When I was working with him, right and I was 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:24.440 in shock. He's like, because I know you love to 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:29.599 do it and you it feels good. He's like, but yeah, 0:11:29.640 --> 0:11:32.560 I was so embarrassed me. He said that he went 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:38.280 to the there was a blood bitch. Believe you if 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:46.880 you we got to demote you to talk say it 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:48.920 was a bad day. He said. Everybody stuck his dick 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:54.640 and he felt teeth. I ain't gonna hold you. I 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:58.280 put King Noir's mold in my mouth. I couldn't get 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:00.719 past the head. So that's why was like, thank god 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:02.600 we never did. I think I'll tell you it's a 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:07.040 it's a little bit smaller than Kingo's I've had it 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:09.520 in my head nigga's dick is ginormous. So so this 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:18.880 is a big dick to me like that, that's that's 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:23.320 not a no, it's a he is a two hand dick. Upset, 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:26.439 but no, even that's too big. Okay, y'all are watching 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.920 on the YouTube. This is the tester to know if 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:30.839 you've got a big old dick or not. And it's 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:33.280 we're not even talking about length. We're talking about girls. 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:34.880 Niggas don't need to do you know when you got 0:12:35.240 --> 0:12:38.240 no niggas don't maybe thinking that's why that little go 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:41.160 wrap a be bagging on the ass. So if you 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:43.800 can't put your hand around your dick, so okay, if 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:45.920 you put your hand around your dick and your fingers 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:50.280 touch your dick, is like it's normal. If normal, it's normal. 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:53.680 If if a woman or you put your hand around 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:56.000 your dick and there's a little gap between the fingers, 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:58.360 that's when you know you got a big old dick, 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:02.280 so your teeth could eaty. I just want to say, 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:05.640 we're about to normalize. Bit and didn't do something jaw exercises. 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:07.880 I'm a legendary dick sucker, though dog and when he 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:10.280 told me that I was so upset, bro, I had 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:12.920 to textas nigga like, so how long did it take me? Feel? Like? 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:22.560 What the fun? I'm dead All We're gonna go ahead 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:26.040 and get into our vanilla ship, guys, and I am 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:29.160 going to be inserting a clip because I recently posted 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:32.319 it to our Horrible Decisions page. But little did you 0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:38.360 guys know, bisexuality has been in hip hop since forever um, 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.840 So we're gonna go ahead and play the little clip 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.679 now and just listen to all some of your top classics, 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:46.960 your favorite rap artists, and the ship that they motherfucking 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:57.160 say just walk protected by Niven. Let me tell you something. 0:13:57.240 --> 0:13:59.080 You might got more cash than me, but you might 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:01.040 got the skills to eat and they can act like me. 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:19.240 You look so I've never had before. But he told 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:23.080 me to push you. Alright, So there we go. That's 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:25.520 what it was. I'm gonna do like, you know, a 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:29.360 little a little fancy stuff at the end. But basically 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:31.920 I wanted to bring this up because there's a lot 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:35.560 of uh, I don't want to say gay, I'll say 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:38.480 bisexual because these are a lot of openly hetero men, 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:42.680 but they put some such stuff I guess in their rhymes. 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:45.800 I also wanted to talk about how recently it's kind 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:49.920 of been a trend for for men as specifically in 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:52.360 the music industry to come out as bi sexual or gay. 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:54.960 So we have low Nozacs, of course, we have Frank 0:14:55.000 --> 0:14:58.440 Ocean Tyler the Creator. It's also been something with athletes 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:04.480 recently coming out Michael Michael, Sam Michael, you ain't gonna 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:11.800 know the niggas, she said, touchdown in basketball. So it's 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:15.080 been kind of, um, trendy, kind of like you said, 0:15:15.080 --> 0:15:18.200 a lot of people just being more open with sharing, uh, 0:15:18.280 --> 0:15:21.240 their sexuality. So I wanted to know how that has 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:24.040 kind of affected you and do you feel like it 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:26.680 is trendy and not genuine with people coming out about 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:30.120 their sexualities in the music and media industry. What are 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:33.120 your thoughts on kind of again this trend. So I 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:35.600 definitely feel like I don't know if I would necessarily 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.360 use trendy. I think it's definitely becoming a little more 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:42.000 acceptable and people are seeing, uh, like they're seeing an avenue. 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:43.920 We're like, oh, shoot, I can get in and not 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:47.560 get like crucified necessarily for telling my truth, whereas they've 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:49.640 always had to hide that ship, you know, And so 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:52.120 I think society makes it hard for people to just 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:56.560 be authentically themselves. And because we have decided you mess 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:58.360 with a dude one time, you're gay. You mess with 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:01.120 you even think about this, you're gay. Everything you do 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:04.840 that's not super hyper masculine is gay. And so people 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:07.640 don't want to be labeled that if that's not their 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:09.360 truth necessary, or even if it is, they don't want 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:11.840 to be ostracized for it. And so now that it's 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:16.360 they're seeing people successfully come out and still have successful careers, 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:20.000 they're they're jumping on right. And I think, Um, one 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:23.560 of Frank Ocean's biggest um songs, what was it? It was? 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:25.880 I want to say I was thinking about you, but 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:27.800 one of them was about a man, and he was 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.200 singing about a man and it came out and I mean, 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:34.800 ship people still listen to Frank Ocean, like Ludvandro songs 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:39.320 is about man. People are not gonna admit that. People 0:16:39.360 --> 0:16:41.440 not gonna admit that. I think there's even a lyric 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:44.240 he has about him holding him or something like that. Yeah, 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:47.200 but it's also crazy. Well, if we go into all 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:50.480 of that, y'all love a good Malcolm X. But Malcolm 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:54.040 exos that turn the tricks in the photo holes. Yeah, like, 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:55.960 and that's when he was known as what red he 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:59.560 was he was bisexual and that's something it's so crazy 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:02.640 because love maybe it was gay as hill what that's 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:06.280 crazy in the straits around here getting married to him. 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:10.600 But just let's be clear, gauge, just do everything right, 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:15.160 do they not? Okay, let's let's go by the list. 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:17.359 I'm going with you. Let's go take me down there. 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:19.679 Anything we are all wearing in this room, including the 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:22.199 homophobe niggas walking on the street, was chosen for us 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:24.320 by a gay man. Let's be real, dog, I'm not 0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:28.600 gonna I am wearing this nigga and he's questionable. And 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:38.840 all that colored orange orange in the room, that was like, 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:40.879 we're not going with jail house orange. We're gonna go 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:46.240 with a little bit lighter strange. If this ain't the 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:49.160 devil worst product, you think that blue is just something. 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:52.360 I just I think that a lot of people don't 0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:54.439 give credit to all the things that are circling in 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:56.760 their life. They probably were influenced by somebody. Get not 0:17:56.800 --> 0:17:59.320 to mention corsic, you know what I mean? Specifically, music, 0:17:59.520 --> 0:18:02.200 um and like I said, even in the clip that 0:18:02.200 --> 0:18:05.120 that I gave, Oh my god, there's um one one 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:07.879 where he says he talks about doing it, but as 0:18:07.880 --> 0:18:09.600 long as it's in jail, it's not gay. But we 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:12.399 learned it from jail to go from behind and just 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:14.800 a whole uca. That's the annoying part too, about the 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:17.680 jail thing. Desperation doesn't make you want to suck dick. 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:21.760 You had it in yet you okay? Well, okay, so 0:18:21.880 --> 0:18:24.240 can we have that conversation real quick because you don't 0:18:24.240 --> 0:18:25.760 want to use the date drug dealers. So I know 0:18:25.800 --> 0:18:28.240 them niggas was in jail one time and they probably 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:31.800 sucked a little dick or I told you. I don't think. 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:37.160 I told my friend used to date somebody in jail, 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:39.720 and I ain't gonna say his name because he don't 0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:42.080 know what I but he said that when he was 0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:44.800 in jail, they would put pictures of their loved ones 0:18:44.920 --> 0:18:47.240 on the backs of the niggas that they would fuck, 0:18:47.640 --> 0:18:50.720 and so they wouldn't necessarily feel like they were sucking 0:18:50.720 --> 0:18:54.560 a guy, but just to feel that penetrations close your eyes, 0:18:55.160 --> 0:18:57.160 what do you close your eyes? I mean they want 0:18:57.160 --> 0:19:00.960 to imagine they sucking They loved ones. Well, yeah, I said, 0:19:00.960 --> 0:19:05.199 that's fine. I mean because again, being gay or it's 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:08.320 not about the act, it's about like what you feel, 0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:10.960 what you like, what you're attracted to, Like that's where 0:19:10.960 --> 0:19:13.440 it stems from. So it's like, just because you fucking 0:19:13.480 --> 0:19:18.280 nigger one time, like that don't make you gaynsa in 0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:20.640 in the sex club about that. He listened to our episode. 0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:21.880 So I went to the sex club and this guy 0:19:21.960 --> 0:19:23.840 was like, I'm a bone to pick with you. Uh. 0:19:23.960 --> 0:19:25.639 There was just a guy in the CYD club. I'm 0:19:25.640 --> 0:19:27.399 not gonna bring up his name, but he came to 0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:29.760 me and wanted to have the conversation and by about 0:19:30.080 --> 0:19:36.000 bisexuality because he identifies as by. But he also is like, 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:38.040 I would never be with a man, so I'm not 0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:41.040 fully by. He says, just because a man fox man, 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:44.480 that doesn't make him by if he wouldn't be romantic, please, 0:19:44.520 --> 0:19:47.320 I also would never be with the Republicand bitch, let's 0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:49.399 be real, what does that mean. That's just such an 0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:52.800 exhausting Like I get so annoyed with that because people 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:55.800 equate like I'll be with you as the standard to 0:19:56.160 --> 0:20:02.080 how gay you are them to me like, yes, maybe 0:20:02.160 --> 0:20:04.280 you feel like there's maybe there's something about a man 0:20:04.359 --> 0:20:06.760 that you don't see as ideal for you and a partner. 0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:09.119 You've been comments about not being with a woman, but 0:20:09.160 --> 0:20:11.760 you never equate it too. You've talked about, like I 0:20:11.800 --> 0:20:14.760 see myself with a man, You'll see that it's not like, oh, 0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:17.240 I'm not that gay because I won't be with a girl. 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:20.440 Like I just think that that notion of it is strange. 0:20:20.480 --> 0:20:23.399 It is they always separate that stuff like romance and 0:20:23.440 --> 0:20:26.000 like sexual, like what you're actually doing because I think 0:20:26.000 --> 0:20:28.919 there's something like by romantic and like there's all these 0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:35.399 different terms that they're coming out with, curious, curious on 0:20:35.440 --> 0:20:37.639 the road. I don't know, like I'm not totally hit 0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:40.879 with all the lingo, but I know I'm bi sexual. 0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:41.960 A lot of people want to like, why are you 0:20:42.000 --> 0:20:44.600 not paying sexual? Why are you not? And we're gonna 0:20:44.640 --> 0:20:47.720 dig into it a lot. But also like we've talked 0:20:47.720 --> 0:20:49.359 about it so much, and we've had so many people 0:20:49.720 --> 0:20:52.960 come on here um in this sex space who also 0:20:53.040 --> 0:20:55.879 just hated the labels altogether. They didn't want to identify 0:20:56.000 --> 0:20:58.280 as either or we We talked about the Kinzie scale 0:20:58.359 --> 0:21:01.359 so much on this show. Where is a spectrum to 0:21:01.400 --> 0:21:03.879 where you may not fully align with bi sexuality, but 0:21:03.920 --> 0:21:05.359 you may not be all the way gay, but you 0:21:05.400 --> 0:21:09.399 also may not be something. For Refinery twenty nine for 0:21:09.480 --> 0:21:12.280 queer people. And in the clip that they posted on me, 0:21:12.359 --> 0:21:15.280 I was like, I'm paying by hole whatever, and some 0:21:15.320 --> 0:21:17.080 people are mean, like I've never heard you say pan before. 0:21:17.119 --> 0:21:18.600 I was like, I don't mean to use it as 0:21:18.640 --> 0:21:20.520 a joke, but like nigga, all of them, Yes, I 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:23.120 can understand me liking people for people but also liking 0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:24.919 men because their men and women for women. Like, what 0:21:24.960 --> 0:21:27.440 the fun you want me to say? That's an umbrella 0:21:27.480 --> 0:21:31.560 thing queer too, ubrella super umbrella. So we are gonna 0:21:31.600 --> 0:21:33.800