Speaker 1: Labian Benigles. Welcome to this new episode of Cheeky's and
Speaker 1: Chill Podcast, your favorite podcast. I know, I know, I'm
Speaker 1: so excited. Thank you guys so much for coming back
Speaker 1: every week to listen in and learn and grow and
Speaker 1: all that good stuff. I don't know if it's Monday
Speaker 1: or Tuesday or what day it is, but I hope
Speaker 1: you're having an amazing day today. I'm going to be
Speaker 1: talking about something that I'm excited about, but wasn't that
Speaker 1: excited about. It's about changing my name. Guys. Now you
Speaker 1: can call me Janey Sanchez officially. Huge step for me.
Speaker 1: You have no idea. I've come such a long way, guys.
Speaker 1: So that's why I felt the need to talk about
Speaker 1: this on my podcast, because this is my safe space.
Speaker 1: This is where I talk about anything and everything. And
Speaker 1: thank goodness, you guys listen, so thank you so much.
Speaker 1: You guys know, I just got married. It'll be a
Speaker 1: year July. So let me just kind of give you
Speaker 1: guys a backstory before we get into like the nitty gritty.
Speaker 1: I have never had a middle name. I'm the only
Speaker 1: one of my siblings that doesn't have a middle name.
Speaker 1: I'm just Janee Marine. You know, that's the name my
Speaker 1: mother gave me. She wanted to name me Marie because
Speaker 1: she was really into Tina Marie, you know, the singer.
Speaker 1: But my dad, who was very traditional, which is weird
Speaker 1: because I feel like a lot of Mexicans or Latins
Speaker 1: have like so many different names, right they have the
Speaker 1: middle last and I don't know how many last names.
Speaker 1: But my dad said no for whatever reason, so my mom,
Speaker 1: you know, respected it, and then after that she didn't care.
Speaker 1: So all my siblings have middle names. There is Jackie Molina, Marin,
Speaker 1: Michael Angelo Marine, well actually his real name is Trinidad,
Speaker 1: and then there's Jenica Priscilla, and then there's Johnny Angel
Speaker 1: and I'm just Janee. So when this came up and
Speaker 1: I decided to get married again because when I first
Speaker 1: met Amidio, I was like, I don't. One of our
Speaker 1: very first conversations was like, you know what, I don't
Speaker 1: want to have kids and I don't ever want to
Speaker 1: get married again. I'm going through divorce right now and
Speaker 1: I just don't. I don't want to get married again.
Speaker 1: And he said, awesome, cool, I'm good with that. I
Speaker 1: don't either, And that was what our relationship was like
Speaker 1: for the first year and a half almost two, and
Speaker 1: so as the relationship grew and you know, we fell
Speaker 1: more in love with each other, and this idea of
Speaker 1: getting married came about. And I think for a long
Speaker 1: time he said, I knew I wanted to marry you,
Speaker 1: but I was afraid because I knew that you were
Speaker 1: afraid or hesitant or whatever the case, or maybe even
Speaker 1: he said not ready. So when he did ask, we
Speaker 1: talked about very early on when we were engaged, like
Speaker 1: would you change your name? And I think his one
Speaker 1: of his family members asked me, and I said, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I would add it, and then Nimidia stayed quiet,
Speaker 1: and then later on he told me, He's like, I
Speaker 1: don't want you to just hyphen it, like I want
Speaker 1: you to like just be Jenne Sanchez. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I thought it would be Janee Marine Sanchez because I
Speaker 1: still want to be me. And he's like, yeah, but
Speaker 1: as a man, like I don't know, I just like
Speaker 1: it to just be Sanchez. Like why are you so
Speaker 1: attached to Marine, especially if you don't have your dad
Speaker 1: in your life. I'm like, I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: really have always really liked my last name, guys, and
Speaker 1: way back when I'll tell you guys something I don't
Speaker 1: think I've ever talked about. But way back when, I
Speaker 1: want to say, wow, at least eight oh nine, I
Speaker 1: don't really remember exactly what year, but my mom was here,
Speaker 1: and my mom wanted all of us her children to
Speaker 1: change our last names because Johnny and Jenica, the younger
Speaker 1: ones are Lopez they have a different dad, and then
Speaker 1: the older ones, us three are Maren. So she's like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I really want you guys to have
Speaker 1: Rivera And I said no, I said, you know, I
Speaker 1: want to keep my last name. I like it. I
Speaker 1: just I don't know, I've always liked how Jane Marine
Speaker 1: sounds and I feel like it's a little different, you know.
Speaker 1: And she respected it. She said, okay, fine, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to force you, but whoever wants to change it,
Speaker 1: I would really appreciate it because I feel like I've
Speaker 1: been your mother and your father. Obviously, my mom was
Speaker 1: still here, so I was just like, it's cool, Mom,
Speaker 1: like I love you and you're my mom and you're
Speaker 1: my dad, and like, you know, so she respected it.
Speaker 1: So I never changed it, and never thought I was
Speaker 1: going to change it, but as time went by, I
Speaker 1: started noticing. I was like, well, you know what, Like
Speaker 1: Emilio is a good guy, I feel like he deserves it.
Speaker 1: I didn't do it my first marriage wouldn't even make
Speaker 1: it to the first year of being married. But I
Speaker 1: did tell myself. I was like, if we make it
Speaker 1: to the first year, then okay, I'll hyphen my name.
Speaker 1: And he was fine with it. I was going to
Speaker 1: like just add his last name. Never came around to it.
Speaker 1: We got separate and divorced fairly quickly anyways, So with Emilio,
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I just started kind of getting
Speaker 1: more comfortable with the idea of possibly changing my last name.
Speaker 1: And as I got to know his family more and
Speaker 1: I fell in love with his grandma and she became
Speaker 1: my grandma. I just I'm like, I love this freaking family,
Speaker 1: like I would love to be a Sanchez. And I
Speaker 1: just it happened so organically. And I know if I
Speaker 1: would have told Emilio, like, I want to hyphen it,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be Jene Marine Sanchez, he would have
Speaker 1: been fine with it. But it just happened organically, Like
Speaker 1: I just fell more and more in love, not only
Speaker 1: with him, but with his family and the idea of
Speaker 1: getting remarried, I just I'm like, you know what, like
Speaker 1: why not, you know, And then I came up with
Speaker 1: the bright idea of saying, hey, I never changed my
Speaker 1: last name to Rivera the way my mom had asked
Speaker 1: me to. I was like, what if I do Jenny
Speaker 1: Marie Sanchez. I'll remove the marine and I'll do Marie
Speaker 1: because I've never had a middle name and I want
Speaker 1: to have a middle name. If I'm already going to
Speaker 1: change my name, I might as well do that. And
Speaker 1: that's something my mom really wanted, so I thought that's
Speaker 1: a way of honor her. But Amlia was like, you know,
Speaker 1: I just want you to be Janee Sanchez and I'm
Speaker 1: like no. But we kind of like not fought because
Speaker 1: we didn't. It wasn't like a huge conversation, but he
Speaker 1: really felt in his heart like I just want you
Speaker 1: to be Jane Sanchez. Just that's it, JS, And I'm
Speaker 1: like fine. I didn't argue. I'm like okay, But when
Speaker 1: it all came down to it, guys, I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do it,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do it quickly, like I want to
Speaker 1: do it before we like celebrate our first year anniversary
Speaker 1: as a married couple. And I did, you know, thank
Speaker 1: God for my assistant Kim, because she did all the
Speaker 1: heavy lifting for me on the internet and she changed
Speaker 1: the Social because I didn't even know how this worked, guys,
Speaker 1: to be honest, so I was like, Kim, can you
Speaker 1: just help me and figure this out. I need to
Speaker 1: change my name and I want to prayse the media
Speaker 1: with it. But she went on the internet, she did it.
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, it's done. You'll be getting your new
Speaker 1: social card soon when it came in. Because I guess
Speaker 1: I didn't do the process myself, I didn't really feel it.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'm like, well, what happens after this? Okay,
Speaker 1: so after this, now that you have your Social with
Speaker 1: your new name Jennay Sanchez, now you have to go
Speaker 1: to the DMV and then from there you do the
Speaker 1: passport and so on and so forth. So I was like, okay, cool. Still,
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm still Jenny Madin all my credit cards,
Speaker 1: my idea, everything, say Jenny Mighty, my passport, all of it.
Speaker 1: But guys, when I told Kim again, can you make
Speaker 1: me an appointment with the DMV so I can finally
Speaker 1: change my last name. It was crazy. I didn't think
Speaker 1: I was going to feel this way, but I got
Speaker 1: my hair done because, mind you, my driver's license has
Speaker 1: had the same picture since I was like nineteen years old, guys,
Speaker 1: the same freaking picture. One time at the airport last year, actually,
Speaker 1: one of the TSA officers looked at me and they said,
Speaker 1: you know what, this is an old picture. You need
Speaker 1: to change it, like this doesn't even look like you anymore.
Speaker 1: I was offended. First of all. I was like, what
Speaker 1: do you mean? I'm still cute and young. So anyways,
Speaker 1: from there, I was like, do I gotta get around
Speaker 1: to it? Like I got to change my picture because
Speaker 1: I'm not nineteen years old anymore, So I mean, come on,
Speaker 1: And anyways, so I took the opportunity. I said, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my hair and makeup done. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm going to try to pull a Kim Kardashian and like,
Speaker 1: you know, take a light in the whole thing the
Speaker 1: way she did. I don't know if you guys ever
Speaker 1: saw that episode of Keeping Up with the Kardashians, but
Speaker 1: Kim did that when she went to renew her license
Speaker 1: and renew the picture. So I was like, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: going to get done up, like this is a huge
Speaker 1: thing for me. I need a new picture. I'm going
Speaker 1: to change my name. And I was all cute and
Speaker 1: I was happy, and we got to the DMV and
Speaker 1: we were waiting in line, and while I was waiting
Speaker 1: in line, I was looking outside of the window because
Speaker 1: the line was kind of long, and Kim was there
Speaker 1: with me. Emilio couldn't go. I don't know what. I
Speaker 1: think he had to work. I don't remember exactly what
Speaker 1: he was doing, but he couldn't make it. Anyways, it
Speaker 1: so happened to be also Johnny's birthday, February eleventh, which
Speaker 1: I think is kind of ironic and kind of beautiful
Speaker 1: at the same time, because Johnny's the one that gave
Speaker 1: me away at the wedding, at the ceremony to Emilio,
Speaker 1: and Johnny and e Media are very very close. So
Speaker 1: I just thought, there's something so beautiful about this that
Speaker 1: we didn't plan it that way. Obviously, the DMV gives
Speaker 1: you a random ass date, and it happened to be
Speaker 1: on Johnny's birthday, so I'm thinking about Johnny and thinking
Speaker 1: about life and thinking about what I'm doing, and oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, guys, I got this crazy, like like a
Speaker 1: panic attack. I was looking outside of the window and
Speaker 1: my eye started getting watery, and I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I'm freaking out, like, oh my gosh, I'm
Speaker 1: going to change like like I'm Jane Mariene, like my
Speaker 1: whole identity. Like I started freaking out, and I text
Speaker 1: my friends and my group chat. I was like, you, guys,
Speaker 1: I'm freaking out. I need help. Like I hadn't told anyone.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to surprise everyone except to me. I
Speaker 1: told him, Hey, I'm just gonna go do this today.
Speaker 1: He was really excited about it. But anyways, I told
Speaker 1: my friends, this is why it's so important to have
Speaker 1: good friends. Guys. Okay. I sent them a message in
Speaker 1: our group chat and I said, guys, I'm freaking the
Speaker 1: f out right now, like I'm having a pan attack,
Speaker 1: like legit, Like my I started getting watery and I
Speaker 1: had my makeup on, so I was like, I can't.
Speaker 1: I don't even have a touch up kit, Like I
Speaker 1: can't mess up my makeup because I want to look
Speaker 1: cute in my picture, and I thought, maybe I should
Speaker 1: just walk out. Maybe it's too soon, Maybe I should
Speaker 1: have wait till we like turn a year being married,
Speaker 1: like my last marriage didn't. Like you know, I just
Speaker 1: started thinking all these things and I was like freaking out.
Speaker 1: And my friends were like, relax, it's gonna be fine.
Speaker 1: Like he deserves it. He's a great guy, like go
Speaker 1: all in. And I was like, you're right. I want
Speaker 1: to be all in. I don't want to be one
Speaker 1: foot in, one foot out. And this is my way
Speaker 1: of showing him I'm all in. I love you. He
Speaker 1: deserves it, like he really does. He's a great guy
Speaker 1: to me. And again, I love his family. So they
Speaker 1: walk me through it, and I was so grateful in
Speaker 1: that moment. I'm like, oh my god, I have the
Speaker 1: best friends ever. Like they're amazing, all of them. We're like,
Speaker 1: you got it, Like you're fine, You're doing the right thing.
Speaker 1: We're so proud of you. Because I've always been a
Speaker 1: very independent woman of this is me and my identity
Speaker 1: and blah blah blah, and and yeah that's cute, you know,
Speaker 1: being an independent woman. But I don't want to be
Speaker 1: an independent woman that's alone and that doesn't give her
Speaker 1: man his place because eventually he's gonna get tired of that,
Speaker 1: you know. And I saw that time and time again
Speaker 1: in my life and respectfully with my mom and her relationships,
Speaker 1: and those are things that I want to break, and
Speaker 1: those cycles and those generational curses that I want to break.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I have to do this, and I
Speaker 1: have to do it fully. And I didn't add Marie.
Speaker 1: I could have, but I did it because I really
Speaker 1: want to honor him, and I want to honor his
Speaker 1: wishes and do things differently than I have in the past.
Speaker 1: And that's the only way that I'm going to see
Speaker 1: a change and see a difference and really say I
Speaker 1: did everything to make this relationship work. I really feel
Speaker 1: that need to do that. And I'm telling you I
Speaker 1: went through it. I was like, I'm going to walk away.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just walk out. I'm gonna say, oh, the
Speaker 1: line's too long, blah blah blah. But we did it.
Speaker 1: I got through the line. My legs were kind of shaking.
Speaker 1: I was very nervous the entire time. Kin like it's
Speaker 1: gonna be okay, it's fine, Like, don't worry, Like it
Speaker 1: was nice. So Anyways, we get to the teller and
Speaker 1: she was very very sweet. Everything worked out nicely. We
Speaker 1: get to the picture part and Kim pulls out her
Speaker 1: a little light try to do it very discreetly. Didn't work.
Speaker 1: The guy got very upset, the guy that was taking
Speaker 1: the picture, so that didn't work. Guys. I wasn't able
Speaker 1: to like do my little Kim Kardashian moment at the DMV.
Speaker 1: But I'm hoping the picture came out cue because it
Speaker 1: don't even show you the damn picture. And then I
Speaker 1: was fine. I was a little bit like quiet the
Speaker 1: rest of the day. And I think it was because
Speaker 1: in a way, I was mourning the person I'm leaving
Speaker 1: behind in a way, and I was not sad. I
Speaker 1: don't know what I was. I was just like, I
Speaker 1: guess that's what it is. I was mourning, and it
Speaker 1: still makes me emotional to think about it. But I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm still me, and this all makes sense,
Speaker 1: and I'm changing my name and I'm stepping into this
Speaker 1: new life that I'm creating and this is the perfect
Speaker 1: time to do so. So I just kind of had
Speaker 1: to give myself therapy and walk myself through it. And
Speaker 1: I was fine, and then I met a media for lunch.
Speaker 1: I went to Sugarfish because I love sugarfish right now.
Speaker 1: I want to have it like once or twice a
Speaker 1: week if you guys haven't tried it to sushi plays,
Speaker 1: it's so good. And we went to Sugarfish and it
Speaker 1: was crazy because Kim dropped me off and she left
Speaker 1: because she had to do some stuff. So Amlia was
Speaker 1: on his way from from the gym or whatever it
Speaker 1: is he was doing, and he was late, and then
Speaker 1: my phone died. So I was sitting there at Sugarfish
Speaker 1: for at least almost forty minutes, at least thirty almost
Speaker 1: forty and I'm sitting there and my phone died. And
Speaker 1: I had told the media my phone died, and he's
Speaker 1: never late, and I'm thinking, why the hell is he
Speaker 1: he late? Like I started freaking out. I was like, dude,
Speaker 1: I was going through so much that day. I'm sitting
Speaker 1: there at Sugarfish, waiting, waiting, waiting. My phone's dead, Like
Speaker 1: I don't know anyone's number. Who do I ask for
Speaker 1: a damn charger? I have the older phone, not even
Speaker 1: the newer ones, So it's like, is anyone even going
Speaker 1: to have a charger for my phone, and I started thinking,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, like what if something happened
Speaker 1: to him? Like I started like freaking out. Then again
Speaker 1: my eyes got watery and I'm like, God, please like
Speaker 1: just let him here safely. I want to tell him
Speaker 1: that I changed my name that I didn't because I
Speaker 1: had text him as well while I was in line
Speaker 1: at the DMV like a media I'm freaking out, like
Speaker 1: I'm so nervous to do this, like please tell me
Speaker 1: we're going to be okay, Like you're gonna be a
Speaker 1: good man, You're going to continue to be a good man.
Speaker 1: And he answered me, and it was very cute what
Speaker 1: he said. He's like, Babe, I love you, like you
Speaker 1: just said all these beautiful things. So anyways, so I
Speaker 1: was just thinking, I'm like, oh my gosh, like what
Speaker 1: if something happen or whatever. And then he got there
Speaker 1: because he was buying me flowers and the guy at
Speaker 1: the flower shop took a long time. So he brought
Speaker 1: me these beautiful red roses and asked me to be
Speaker 1: his Valentine. And he said, hey, so apparently I have
Speaker 1: to ask you to be my Valentine, So will you
Speaker 1: be my Valentine and I was like, oh, it's so cute.
Speaker 1: We had lunch and it was cute and it all
Speaker 1: went away and I was like, Okay, it's fine, It's
Speaker 1: gonna be okay, Like it's fine. I even text my
Speaker 1: sisters too. I was like, sisters, I'm freaking out. They
Speaker 1: helped me out. It was awesome and I feel better.
Speaker 1: I'm fine with it, really excited to get my ID.
Speaker 1: It hasn't come in the mall. It takes like forever now,
Speaker 1: I guess. But I'm excited to see the picture and
Speaker 1: see my name as Janney Sanchez and start that whole process,
Speaker 1: because yeah, it's a new it's a new life for me. Guys.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm starting this like new life. I
Speaker 1: don't even know how to explain it, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: even I've been trying to like find the words of
Speaker 1: what it is that I'm going through. But things are
Speaker 1: definitely just changing in my life, and I feel like
Speaker 1: for the better, and that's what I believe in. Anyways,
Speaker 1: we evolve, we change, and we become different versions of
Speaker 1: ourselves and and I'm I'm this is definitely different version.
Speaker 1: And I know that this is an important topic to
Speaker 1: speak about because I know some of you are listening
Speaker 1: and feel the way that I used to feel of like,
Speaker 1: oh am, I going to change my last name and
Speaker 1: this and that, and if you don't, that's fine, and
Speaker 1: that's it's totally fine. I've even heard of, you know,
Speaker 1: men changing their last names to their wives' last name.
Speaker 1: I even played around with Emilia and I was like,
Speaker 1: what if you become a marine? He's like, what the heck? No,
Speaker 1: He's like, what about my legacy? So he was and
Speaker 1: having it. But I'm happy and I'm very like proud
Speaker 1: of myself for taking this big step that I never
Speaker 1: thought that I would take completely. And I'm all in, guys,
Speaker 1: I'm all in. I'm gonna do everything I can to
Speaker 1: make this relationship and this marriage work and do my
Speaker 1: part and hopefully it pays off completely because he's in
Speaker 1: a place that he's doing his part. I'm doing my part,
Speaker 1: and together we'll just be better, you know. But I'm
Speaker 1: okay with not being that strong independent woman that can
Speaker 1: do it all without a man and this and that,
Speaker 1: and it's like, no, I want a man. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be alone, you know. I want a partner,
Speaker 1: and not just any partner, because if Emidia wasn't the
Speaker 1: man he is, and if he starts acting up like
Speaker 1: I also like know my worth and my value and
Speaker 1: if things are going to start changing or things aren't
Speaker 1: what they were that made me fall in love with him,
Speaker 1: then you know, definitely got to put my foot down.
Speaker 1: That's not going to change. That is still the same
Speaker 1: for me. I'm like, I know what I deserve, I
Speaker 1: know what I want, I know what I don't want,
Speaker 1: and as much as I want those things, I know
Speaker 1: I also have to give those things. It can't just
Speaker 1: be a one one way straight here. So I'm very
Speaker 1: well aware of that. But I do I want a partner,
Speaker 1: And now I know more than ever. After I kiss
Speaker 1: so many frogs, you know what to do and not
Speaker 1: to do, and now I know I'm doing it. Guys,
Speaker 1: I'm doing it. I did it. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: did it. So yeah, and he's happy. He's so happy.
Speaker 1: He said, thank you. He says, I know that this
Speaker 1: wasn't an easy decision for you, but I won't let
Speaker 1: you down. And he told me he was proud of
Speaker 1: me and he was going to take care of my heart.
Speaker 1: So I believe him, and I'm happy that I did it,
Speaker 1: and I'm happy to say that I'm Jenney Sanchez now. Guys.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness is gracious. And now that I'm thinking
Speaker 1: about it, guys, I know exactly when it clicked in
Speaker 1: my head because I still had this idea. Remember, I
Speaker 1: had this idea of Janny Marie Sanchez or Janey Sanchez
Speaker 1: or Jane Marine Sanchez hyphenating. So I had that for
Speaker 1: a while. But what really made me change my mind
Speaker 1: was when I was pregnant, right before the miscarriage, obviously,
Speaker 1: when I was pregnant, and how he was treating me
Speaker 1: and how he was acting and like just being there
Speaker 1: for me and so patient and even after when we
Speaker 1: had the miscarriage, and how supportive he was. I really
Speaker 1: felt like, oh my god, this man is a good man.
Speaker 1: But when I was pregnant, that's when I was like,
Speaker 1: I need to change my last name because I really
Speaker 1: really want my child and myself to have the same
Speaker 1: last name. And I was like, I have to do it.
Speaker 1: That's when I knew, and I'm like, and this guy
Speaker 1: is the perfect guy to do it, Like he's he
Speaker 1: just he's so good to me. He treated me good.
Speaker 1: And mind you, guys, He's not perfect. Okay, there's things
Speaker 1: that are something I just want to, like, you know,
Speaker 1: choke him out a little bit and not in a
Speaker 1: bad way, but you know, it's just it's a relationship.
Speaker 1: There are things and that's you know, it's normal because
Speaker 1: I don't want people to think, oh, he's you know,
Speaker 1: he is. He's a great guy. He is. But that
Speaker 1: was a moment and oh, hi, I did want to
Speaker 1: choke you. He's here, Hi, Emelia, I'm talking about how
Speaker 1: I changed my name. Oh wow, say hi to everyone
Speaker 1: babe on the podcast. So now I'm Janey Sanchez. How
Speaker 1: do you feel about that? The greatest come closer? What
Speaker 1: do you feel as a man, it is the greatest
Speaker 1: thing that you have ever done? Frost, Oh, I don't
Speaker 1: even think. I love it. It's so special and it
Speaker 1: just it means so much to me. It means a lot,
Speaker 1: and I just I love it. Thank you, You're welcome,
Speaker 1: thank you. So yeah, I was just I was telling them,
Speaker 1: babe that the moment I don't even think a medio
Speaker 1: knows this. The moment that I was like, this is
Speaker 1: why I'm going to change my last name and I'm
Speaker 1: going to surprise him with it. Because in his head
Speaker 1: I was going to do Jenny Marie Sanchez, but I
Speaker 1: just did Jenny Sanchez. And it was because when I
Speaker 1: was pregnant, I felt all those things that I just said. Well, anyways, guys,
Speaker 1: I do feel like now with me just being all
Speaker 1: in in every way and with something so physical, you know,
Speaker 1: and like changing your name, it does for me personally
Speaker 1: make not that the marriage wasn't real before, but it
Speaker 1: solidifies it a little more, you know. It makes it
Speaker 1: just more in concrete, I guess, and in my mind
Speaker 1: it makes me want to work more for the relationship.
Speaker 1: And again when we have our issues and stuff and
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, it's okay. We're having a
Speaker 1: bad moment. It's not a bad marriage. But anyways, guys,
Speaker 1: thank you for listening to me, for tuning in all
Speaker 1: the time. I appreciate it. Oh my god, Jenny Sanchez
Speaker 1: in the house. What was all okay? Guys? Love you bye.
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