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Speaker 1: Friends, biggest stories of the day.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: So Uber is rolling out we talked about this a

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Speaker 3: while ago, but they're rolling out their new women only

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Speaker 3: ride option nationwide in the US. It lets female riders

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Speaker 3: and drivers choose to be matched with other women. The

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Speaker 3: feature is called this is Crazy Women Drivers.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: They really were in the think tank on that one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's as.

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Speaker 2: Good as Bella's Klan interviews Martin from Boys Like Girls

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Speaker 2: and you were like, that's a good name.

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Speaker 3: No, it was a great title. I mean it really

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Speaker 3: spoke to what it is, right, you know, but I

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Speaker 3: mean I don't know how much time they must have

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Speaker 3: spent at the Uber headquarters, you know, in the in

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Speaker 3: the conference room. All right, guys, so we're gonna have

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Speaker 3: this feature where like women can have women female drivers only.

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Speaker 1: What should we call this?

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Speaker 3: And you know, like Harvard and Stanford and all these

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Speaker 3: Uber brains like, man, I don't, oh.

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Speaker 1: Boy, I don't, I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: What about what about women driversh my god, that's it.

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Speaker 1: That's all.

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Speaker 4: The corporate lingo was just like, oh, you really setting the.

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Speaker 3: Cat or what I mean you look at the cat

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Speaker 3: and milk up off the cat floor. That's what you

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Speaker 3: did with that one or whatever I said this to right?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah you did that? Would you surpassed the low

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Speaker 3: hanging fruit and went right for the paradigm shift in

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Speaker 3: order to hit the critical mass on that Yeah, unbelievable.

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Speaker 4: The parking lot. We left it there so.

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Speaker 1: You can look for it.

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Speaker 3: It's called Women Drivers or women Preferences, and it allows

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Speaker 3: women to request a female driver, reserve one in advance,

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Speaker 3: or set a preference in the app to increase the

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Speaker 3: chances of being matched with another woman. Female drivers can

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Speaker 3: also choose to accept rides only from women passengers if

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Speaker 3: they want. Uber says that the change is meant to

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Speaker 3: improve safety and comfort after many women said that they

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Speaker 3: would feel safer riding with other women. The company first

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Speaker 3: tested the option in La San Francisco and Detroit, and

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Speaker 3: then expanded it to other markets before launching a nationwide

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Speaker 3: I guess. As of today, however, the program is already

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Speaker 3: facing legal challenges because some male drivers in California have

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Speaker 3: filed a class action law claiming the policy discriminates against

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Speaker 3: men and violate state civil rights law.

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Speaker 5: The girls in a gaye option to because I'd rather

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Speaker 5: ride with women, Okay, Well.

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Speaker 1: That's really going to throw off the think tank an

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Speaker 1: call drivers are driving.

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Speaker 3: Drive watch on everybody. Yeah, that's really going to spin

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Speaker 3: them out. I'm not sure what to do all that.

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Speaker 1: It already okay, Jason, they've been doing that. It's going

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Speaker 1: to take another another eight months to get this rolling.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sorry to those men that are upset, right,

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Speaker 4: I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 3: They changed the font, the iHeart uh font. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if you notice, because of course you notice, because

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Speaker 3: because you've been on the you know, we're all on

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Speaker 3: the iHeart app all the time because it's the only

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Speaker 3: place to go. I'm constantly there. That's why I'm living

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Speaker 3: iHeart and of course you are. But I heard about

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Speaker 3: the process internally of changing the font and the logo

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Speaker 3: and it was, yeah, I'm sure I would imagine we

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Speaker 3: hired a market research company. I mean, I'm like, honestly,

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Speaker 3: you know, that's what you do when you're in these

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Speaker 3: major companies. But you can't do anything unless you you know,

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Speaker 3: we probably had to hire consultants, fonts, consultants, you know.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking this is more of an aerial situation. No,

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Speaker 3: absolutely not an aerial situation. This is more of a

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Speaker 3: Times New Roman thing.

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Speaker 1: Georgia, Georgia is my girl.

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Speaker 3: If you know, you know, I remember this is this

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Speaker 3: is were this many years old when you would write

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 3: It got to the point where teachers were like, okay,

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Speaker 3: normal double space Times New Roman like regular paper, don't

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Speaker 3: are people listening now who don't know what we're talking about.

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Speaker 3: But you used to write a paper on a computer

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Speaker 3: I sound so I'm not that old, but I sound

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Speaker 1: Then you know, we all knew what to do. We

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Speaker 1: knew the assignment.

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Speaker 3: The US government has reached a settlement with Live Nation

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Speaker 3: and it's ticketing armed ticket Master in a major antitrust

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Speaker 3: lawsuit that accused the company of dominating the live concert business.

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Speaker 3: Under the proposed deal, Live Nation will not be broken up,

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Speaker 3: but it must take several It must make several changes

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Speaker 3: rather aimed at increasing competition. These include allowing rival ticket

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Speaker 3: companies to sell tickets on his platform, limiting long term

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Speaker 3: exclusive contracts with venues, and selling off control of thirteen amphitheaters.

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Speaker 3: The agreement could also cap certain ticket service fees at

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Speaker 3: fifteen percent and create a settlement fund of roughly two

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Speaker 3: hundred and eighty million dollars for states involved.

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Speaker 1: In the case.

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Speaker 3: This is all supposed to make it easier and better

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Speaker 3: for fans to get tickets to stuff, So we'll see

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Speaker 3: if it happens. Travis Kelsey, Guys, Jason, you've been on

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Speaker 3: the edge of your seat with this yes, but Jason

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Speaker 3: Brown is reporting that he is returning to the Kansas

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Speaker 3: City Chiefs for yet another season, agreeing to a one

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Speaker 3: year deal worth up to fifteen million dollars. That means

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Speaker 3: that the thirty six year old tight end will play

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Speaker 3: his fourteenth NFL season, putting retirement rumors on hold for

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Speaker 3: at least one more year. So Mama Taylor is letting

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, they're going to get married and they're

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Speaker 5: going to win a Super Bowl all in.

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Speaker 1: The same year.

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Speaker 4: Oh yes, get married on the field.

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Speaker 5: Him running out after he wins, and they oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so proud of you. That's sure that they are.

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Speaker 1: But it's a very nice story.

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Speaker 7: What you think?

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Speaker 4: What have you heard?

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Speaker 1: I don't think the Kansas City Chiefs are gonna win

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Speaker 4: Really did like two years ago, right, yeah, summer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think there are better teams. But who knows.

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Speaker 3: Maybe this man, I don't know, Taylor and Roger Goodell

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Speaker 1: Then she's going to do that, and then she does

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Speaker 1: the Super Bowl and she's, yeah, come on, a new album. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: There's no one that comes before an insult every time.

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Speaker 3: There's no fifty, there's no vessel. Okay, but but there's

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Speaker 3: no way that there's not strategy. There's no way that

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Speaker 3: there's no way that there's not a plan. Everything she

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Speaker 3: you're gonna play one more season. I'm gonna do the

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Speaker 8: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I got pregnant in five minutes, so you know, you

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it was pretty easy for you.

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Speaker 4: Actually, Hey, I'm not saying about implanet like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, Okay, So in September, you know,

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Speaker 5: Somewhere else.

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Speaker 3: And then look see, I'm telling you, you cannot tell

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Speaker 7: On all of this.

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Speaker 1: She should be. There's a plan, a planner anyway, He's back, guys.

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Speaker 1: Terrible news.

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Speaker 3: As reported by Bellahemine on Our show, the NBA has

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Speaker 3: called off the Atlanta Hawks celebration of the city's famed

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Speaker 3: Hawks gear. It's all going back. Forget about this. There

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Speaker 3: let's have a little fun. The franchise issued a statement

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Speaker 4: Let the strippers out. I don't understand the problem.

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Speaker 1: I mean, they weren't going to actually strip at halftime?

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Speaker 2: Correct, And it's huge, Like it's a It's more than

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Speaker 2: it is anywhere else there, Like it's really people go

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Speaker 2: to brunch there, Like it's I'm upset we've lost the plot.

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Speaker 1: Magic City means more to Atlanta than the rest of

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I just don't understand it.

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Speaker 4: Does I ever bought a table at one of the

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Speaker 4: times I was in Atlanta, Like I thought this was funny,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why we can't be funny exactly anyway?

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Speaker 3: Adam Adam Silver, the commissioner of the NBA. If he'd

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Speaker 3: ever been to Magic City, then he would feel differently

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Speaker 3: about all of this. Okay, he needs to go. A

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Speaker 3: woman has been arrested in a family's kitchen, eating their

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Speaker 3: fruity pebbles and petting their dog. Now if you've ever

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Speaker 3: been burglarized or robbed or anything, it's a very invasive feeling.

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Speaker 3: Like it's a terrible feeling. You know, somebody was in

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Speaker 1: It's terrible. This might be more twisted than that, Like

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Speaker 3: More disturbed if I walked in my house after work

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Speaker 3: today and there was just some stranger petting a dog

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Speaker 3: I don't have, but let's petting my dog and eating

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Speaker 3: my food. Like to me, that's like, you know, things

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Speaker 3: It's like, boy, am I thirsty for a Cinnabon Raspberry Revelation?

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Speaker 3: Next. Blogs are audio journals after that, Stay or Go

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Speaker 1: No way to make that sound to him, Bobby is

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Speaker 10: I'm doing great today.

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Speaker 1: All right? Man? What's going on with with your wife? Here?

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Speaker 4: But I never asked to go, and I recommend that.

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Speaker 3: have an issue. I don't I'm not comfortable with it.

441
00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 3: I won't sleep well, don't do it. And I'm like,

442
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,600
Speaker 3: whatever you're creating all everybody here, give me a hard time. Ah,

443
00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 3: go on your trip whatever. You're stupid, you know, And.

444
00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know, you're an a job, tomatoes.

445
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,840
Speaker 3: Until you did you you you egged me, you know,

446
00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 3: and it's like, you're a grown up man, like you

447
00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,000
Speaker 3: do what you want to do, and I'm like, no,

448
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 3: but I do.

449
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:09,920
Speaker 1: I don't want my mom to be my mom is

450
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,359
Speaker 1: a very active mim. I don't want to her up

451
00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,400
Speaker 1: it and I don't want to uncomfortable. Well, sure enough,

452
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 1: I would have been there when the whole thing went down.

453
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 4: You had run a pharaoh by now, I would I would.

454
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:18,840
Speaker 1: Still be there.

455
00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would live there now, which may not be

456
00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:24,320
Speaker 3: so bad, and you know, a nice view the pyramids

457
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,639
Speaker 3: every day. But I and my finally my dad called me.

458
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,439
Speaker 3: It was like, look, I'm not You're a grown up.

459
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,960
Speaker 3: You can do what you want, but you know, it

460
00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:34,720
Speaker 3: would really help my cause if you don't do it,

461
00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,880
Speaker 3: because she's really upset about it. And so I wound

462
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 3: up not doing it, and it wound up being the

463
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:41,560
Speaker 3: right decision. But you know, no one was going to

464
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:44,440
Speaker 3: undermine each other. But it was like, this is important

465
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,000
Speaker 3: to us, and they very rarely do that. They very

466
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 3: rarely say like I'm gonna worry too much, please consider

467
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:50,720
Speaker 3: another plan.

468
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 1: And so I did.

469
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 3: But but that's not one person saying that's not that's

470
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 3: how you guys collectively saying here's our decision, and then

471
00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 3: mom going nap, just kidding. I don't really care what

472
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,320
Speaker 3: he thinks. I can see why that feels bad. You

473
00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 3: guys are both her parent and your opinion does matter,

474
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 3: and you made a collective decision. Let me take some

475
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,399
Speaker 3: phone calls on this mark and see what people have

476
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 3: to say. But I wish you the best, man, I hope.

477
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 3: I'm sure everything will be fine. She'll she'll be okay

478
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,040
Speaker 3: and return safely and all as well.

479
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 1: Have a good day. Appreciate she may sounds have a

480
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 1: good day. Man. I get it. I get it.

481
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,440
Speaker 3: And again, she did ask for their opinion. I don't

482
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 3: know if they're paying for it or not, but you know,

483
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 3: I do think that she can do whatever she wants.

484
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 3: But if both of her parents are like, hey, this

485
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 3: is not ideal.

486
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 2: Even without the cartel, it's a scary thing to send

487
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,159
Speaker 2: your kid to another country on like a drink all

488
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 2: day trip, I would be terrified.

489
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 4: I still actually permission to go out of town.

490
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 1: Like my sister and my aunt.

491
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 12: They don't played it like they check my location in

492
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 12: another country. They're like, are you okay? Like, well, why

493
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 12: wouldn't you tell us we need to pray for you

494
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 12: before you go.

495
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,399
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I agree that it would be scary.

496
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 3: I think it's one thing if your helicopter over your

497
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 3: twenty one year old kids saying, don't go party in Mexico.

498
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,920
Speaker 3: I think it's another thing if you're like, hey, I'm

499
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 3: concerned about some some you know, activity down there right

500
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 3: now that has caused a lot of problems for people

501
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 3: traveling and whatever else. And like, I think now may

502
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 3: not be the time, you know what I mean, like

503
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 3: I think that's a fair or hey, there's a there's

504
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 3: a pandemic coming, you know, maybe not now.

505
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, to be fair, when I went on my senior

506
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 2: I think it was in high school, there was like

507
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: a war of travel warning and we also went and

508
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,119
Speaker 2: we're fine. So I think that there's often a travel warning.

509
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 2: But my mom was with me, so that was maybe

510
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 2: the difference.

511
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 1: The asia.

512
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 4: How you doing, I'm good, good morning, good.

513
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 3: Morning, eight five five five nine one three five. I mean,

514
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 3: what do you guys think?

515
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 1: What do you think? Are you a parent? You married?

516
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 13: I am a parent?

517
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 6: Okay, And no, she shouldn't be able to go unless

518
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 6: mom covers it.

519
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 4: So his mom wants to be sneaky about it.

520
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: Mom can cover it if I cover it. What do

521
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 1: you mean, like handle it with She did say she's

522
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,199
Speaker 1: going to handle it with dad, but that doesn't no, no.

523
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 14: No, no, no no no. There is no handling it

524
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 14: with Dad because Dad said no. So you decided to

525
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,360
Speaker 14: go behind Dad and say yes. So you could pay

526
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 14: for her passport, You can pay for the plane ticket,

527
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,919
Speaker 14: the suitcase, you could pay for everything.

528
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 3: But Jasia, I don't think this is about money. This

529
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:20,880
Speaker 3: is about Dad had an opinion. Mom and Dad were

530
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 3: aligned and then they weren't, and so I think his

531
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 3: issue is not with his daughter.

532
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: I think his issue is with his wife.

533
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 3: It's like, hey, wait a minute, we decided together, here

534
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 3: is our position as parents, and you decided to override

535
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 3: that without telling me.

536
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 1: Essentially that's a lie. Oh so that's the issue.

537
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 14: I agree with dad though it's not safe for her

538
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 14: to go to Cabo. Yeah, I wants to go to

539
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 14: Cabo and they already said no.

540
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 4: Well he said no.

541
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 14: In my opinion, Dad's opinion is important about her safety

542
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 14: in Cabo. So since she doesn't care enough to think

543
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 14: about her daughter safety, she can cover the trip. Okay, Well,

544
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 14: something happens to the daughter is not going to be

545
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 14: dad's fart because dad said no, and my kids do that,

546
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 14: and we have to tell my kids to stop doing that.

547
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 14: When a parent says no, it doesn't matter if mom

548
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 14: said or dad's sitting. You don't go to the other parents.

549
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: Right, And I agree, yes, a hundred percent.

550
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 14: Mom went behind it and said yes, mom can cover everything,

551
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 14: and when something happens, it's on mom.

552
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and thank you, de Asia. But I said, not

553
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 3: how that's going to work. God forbid, something happens, it's

554
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 3: going to affect both of them. So I don't know

555
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 3: that this is a thing where okay, you pay for it.

556
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 3: And I told you, I don't think anyone's arguing about

557
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 3: the money here. It's it has more to do with

558
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 3: I mean, whatever the decision is. M I mean, I

559
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 3: think you know there were I can remember growing up.

560
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 3: You know, my sister and I are seven and a

561
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 3: half years apart, but there was a I want to say,

562
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 3: ear piercing debabe in the house.

563
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad and I don't want to be wrong

564
00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: about this.

565
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to misquote my dadd here by I

566
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 3: want to say he didn't want her to get her

567
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 3: ear pierced, maybe in a high up in the ear.

568
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 1: I can't remember.

569
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 3: Cartilage, Yeah, there was there was something, belly button maybe

570
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 3: I don't remember.

571
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 1: There was one.

572
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 3: There was something that was not that he wasn't comfortable with,

573
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 3: and my mom overrote him on it, and I don't

574
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: think he was happy about it. But I think that

575
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 3: was more like a male female thing like hey, let me,

576
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to handle the appearance, and various other things.

577
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 3: I've heard about male female arguments about their daughters and

578
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 3: sons when it's like, no, let me take this one

579
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 3: because I'm a girl or I'm a guy so I

580
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 3: can relate to this.

581
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 10: You know.

582
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 1: I've heard about swimsuits and life.

583
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 3: Where it's like, you know, you're allowed to have a

584
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 3: say it's your kid, but like maybe in this particular case,

585
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 3: let me as the woman, I'm gonna let me take

586
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,360
Speaker 3: this one. Yeah, you know, I think there were times

587
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 3: where my dad probably said to my mom like let me,

588
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 3: I'm gonna handle this, like this is this is for me,

589
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 3: And maybe they didn't agree, but it was because maybe they.

590
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 12: Didn't relate, right, But it's about partnership at the end

591
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 12: of the day, and you you got to trust that

592
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 12: your partner is making the best decision for your child,

593
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 12: and to not consult him or just to sneak behind

594
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 12: his back.

595
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 4: Is a big red flag.

596
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he will. You're saying it it's okay to

597
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: go down there, so this is all for No, Yeah.

598
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 6: Cobo is fine. I'm a travel agent.

599
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 15: The only place they don't want to go there right

600
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 15: now is Portoota.

601
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 8: And even that's calming down.

602
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 6: But I think the main issue here is the wife.

603
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: The wife was wrong, she was foul.

604
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 6: You don't if your father tells you one.

605
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 15: Thing, the mother shouldn't turn around and say something different

606
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 15: because now you have dissension in the house. It has

607
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 15: nothing to do with money. I heard the last call.

608
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 15: I was saying, nothing to do with money. This is

609
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 15: about you putting me against my father.

610
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 2: No, you like wins in that situation, Like if one

611
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 2: wants her to go and live her dreams and have

612
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 2: the experience and one says it's see, one person is winning,

613
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: and why does that have to be the dad?

614
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: I guess.

615
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 8: Actually, I don't think anybody really wins it here, because

616
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 8: now if I'm the father, I'm I'm I'm angry now

617
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:15,479
Speaker 8: at my wife and you know, the daughter is going

618
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 8: to have a great time regardless, as long as she goes.

619
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 6: To Cabo, stays on the resort, she'll be fine.

620
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and thank you will have a great damn got

621
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 3: you called. I think it's more like, don't make the

622
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 3: dad out to be the loser in there, Like I

623
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 3: don't know that anybody is winning or losing. It's it's like, hey,

624
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 3: we as you asked for our opinion, we together decided

625
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 3: we don't think it's safe, and we don't want you

626
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 3: to go. If you want to go anyway, that's fine,

627
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 3: But like, don't play one against.

628
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 12: The other, right the good cop bad cop thing, because it's.

629
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 3: Not like dad is no fun police, Like he has

630
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 3: concerns about her safety. Okay, that's valid. Like I don't

631
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 3: think it's a bad position to take. It's not like, no,

632
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 3: you can't go because like I don't like Mexico, Like

633
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 3: that would make him the loser, But like he's taking

634
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 3: a position of I don't want anything bad to happen

635
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 3: to you. And and granted, you know, regionally maybe she's safe,

636
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 3: but like in general, there's issue, there are issues in

637
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 3: certain parts of the world. Maybe not the best time

638
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 3: to go he has a valid argument. If she decides

639
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 3: on her own no, I'm going to override you guys

640
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 3: and go, well, it's her life. But to then go

641
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 3: play one against the other, I don't now. Now that's

642
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 3: an issue between them, you know. Hey, Blanca, Yeah, you're

643
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 3: saying let her go.

644
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 15: I'm saying let her go.

645
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 16: She's a senior in college, she's a little more grown up.

646
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 16: She should know how to be responsible, like.

647
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: Let her have fun, let her live, let her experience

648
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: new things.

649
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 3: But I do think her mom, yeah maybe, But I

650
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 3: think I think some of the callers and maybe you

651
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 3: two are caught up on the wrong part of this.

652
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 3: The issue is really about a partnership where one person

653
00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 3: violated their their united stand, you know what I mean.

654
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 3: Like they could have they could have remained divided. You know,

655
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 3: she could have said no. I really think she should

656
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 3: go I don't agree with you. I think it's going

657
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 3: to be okay. And he can say I'm not comfortable.

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Speaker 3: They can each share their perspective, she can make a decision.

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Speaker 3: They decided together no, and then the mom went and

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Speaker 3: did her own thing.

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Speaker 1: That's I think that's should do that as a mom,

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Speaker 1: Like I have a sixteen year old.

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Speaker 16: Me and my husband literally argued about my sixteen year

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Speaker 16: old getting her belly button peers. He said no, I said, okay,

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Speaker 16: I still took her. Anyways, It's just some things moms

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Speaker 16: are just going to be, like, you know what, Let

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Speaker 16: her live. Because we understand dads could be over protective

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Speaker 16: and want to take chance opportunities from their daughters just

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Speaker 16: because they're scared of what the world might be.

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Speaker 4: You can't do that.

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Speaker 16: You can't show and install fear in your kids.

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Speaker 15: You got to let them live.

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Speaker 13: You gotta let them experience could be, could be.

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Speaker 16: I feel like that's what the mom is doing in

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Speaker 16: this case.

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Speaker 1: Okay, far Nah, Hey, thank you, Block, I have a

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Speaker 1: great day, you too, appreciate you. Josh. Yes, you divorced

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Speaker 1: your wife. Good morning. You divorced your wife over this

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Speaker 1: very thing.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, you know, it's undermining is something I think that

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Speaker 13: is an understatement in the conversation. I think it needs

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Speaker 13: to be talked about more one of many issues. But yeah,

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Speaker 13: undermining and parenting. I mean, my kids are younger and

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Speaker 13: actually teenagers now, but constant undermining in parental decisions is

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Speaker 13: something that I think is really the problem here that

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Speaker 13: needs to be discussed more. The fact that they discussed

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Speaker 13: this and agreed to it and she went behind his

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Speaker 13: back to me is the biggest problem. I'm not saying

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Speaker 13: the safety of the daughter in Cavo is necessarily not

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Speaker 13: an issue, but the fact that she goes behind his back.

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Speaker 13: I guarantee you is someone that lived in a marriage

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Speaker 13: for fourteen years where this happened repeatedly. This is in

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Speaker 13: the first time he's dealt with this, So I say go.

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Speaker 3: And I do think that people are caught up on

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Speaker 3: the wrong points like this has This has everything to

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Speaker 3: do with mom and dad, not the twenty one year

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Speaker 3: old daughter.

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Speaker 10: That's exactly what I'm saying.

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Speaker 13: It is so important, and it is such an important

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Speaker 13: part of parenting and being in a marriage and raising

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Speaker 13: children together. And when when partners decide whether they're married

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Speaker 13: or not, when partners decide on certain things and you're

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Speaker 13: especially when you're in the same household and one person

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Speaker 13: undermines the other one, it completely humiliates the other parents

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Speaker 13: in a way that over time cannot be repaired. So, yeah,

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Speaker 13: it would have been I know he's gone now, but

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Speaker 13: it would have been a great question to ask, is

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Speaker 13: this repeated behavior as it happened once or twice, because

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Speaker 13: I bet money that it's happened a lot.

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Speaker 3: I think in any layer of leadership, whether it's at

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Speaker 3: work or in parent, parental relationship or whatever relationship, if

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Speaker 3: someone is going to override someone else's decision in the hierarchy,

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Speaker 3: then that there has to be a careful dance there

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Speaker 3: because what happens is the dad now looks like he

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Speaker 3: is power, Like he looks like his opinion does not

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Speaker 3: matter about anything, Like we don't even care what he thinks.

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Speaker 3: And that's not fair to him because he's fifty percent

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Speaker 3: responsible for this child or and you know in this

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Speaker 3: case adult, but who asked for the opinion? So now

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Speaker 3: it's like, well, if I don't like the answer, I'll

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Speaker 3: just go to mom every single time.

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Speaker 1: And I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that's that's not fair to the partnership.

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Speaker 3: But thank you, Josh, I appreciate you.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you two guys.

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Speaker 8: Thanks