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Because you know you think 21 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: you're being ghosted, which is why you called waiting by 22 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: the phone, So what's going on? 23 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, it's a it's a strange one. 24 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. 25 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: We I met this girl, Kelly. 26 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 2: She's cool. 27 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 5: We you know, we did the whole dating app thing 28 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 5: and you know, a message and like conversation was. 29 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 2: Good, Like I thought it was going well. And she 30 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: did give me your number. 31 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: And I figured, you know, I asked because you know, 32 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 3: those messages get lost and different, you know, people, and 33 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 3: so I was like, all right, let's let's take this 34 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 3: off the app. 35 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 2: Let's message. So she gave me your number. We talked 36 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 2: a little bit. 37 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 5: We you know, we're texting, and we were planning a 38 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 5: first date, and then just ghosted. 39 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: So you never went on the date, like you guys 40 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: ever even met. 41 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,839 Speaker 5: No, but like we were planning it and everything seemed fine, 42 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 5: and I mean, I don't know, like if she wasn't interested, 43 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 5: why would she give me your number? 44 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: You know? 45 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: Interesting? Interesting? So you guys, Yeah, that is weird that 46 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: you would get to that point and then just the 47 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: person would just disappear. It's like, why why would they 48 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: even bother to communicate with you or write to your point, 49 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: exchange numbers or whatever. Why would you do that if 50 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: you have no intention of meeting somebody exactly. 51 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 2: So I'm just kind of like, all right. 52 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's strange, and I would want to know what 53 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: happened too. So let's play a song come back, and 54 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: it's the second Ross. We'll call Kelly. You'll be on 55 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: the phone at the same time, and hope is that 56 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: we can straighten this out. Hey, Ross, Yeah, all right, 57 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Kelly. You met on one of 58 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: the dating apps. You got her number on the app, 59 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: you switched to text, and you guys were planning a date, 60 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: talking about where to go and when, and then she disappeared, 61 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: and you have not heard a word from her. Sense, 62 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: so you have her number, but now she's ignoring you. 63 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 1: I mean, she didn't want to see you. Why did 64 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: she give you her number? That's weird exactly. 65 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, And like I said, the conversation was cool, Like 66 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 5: there was never I look back at all the texts 67 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 5: and everything. 68 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 2: I don't think I said anything wrong. 69 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: So I start planning a date and did not go 70 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: on and it's strange. All right, Let's call Kelly now, 71 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: good luck? Ross. Thanks, Hello hisus Kelly. Yeah, hey Kelly, 72 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from The 73 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: Fred Show, the Morning radio Show. The whole crew is here, 74 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 75 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission 76 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can which that for just 77 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: a second? Would you mind? 78 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 2: Sorry? 79 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 6: What is this about? 80 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: I'll take it as a yes. So we're calling on 81 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: behalf of a dude named Ross. I guess you matched 82 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: with this guy on a dating app and then you 83 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: exchange numbers and we're talking about a date. Do you 84 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: remember this whole process? 85 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I do. 86 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, what happened because Ross reached out to us 87 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: and said that you guys, I guess matched and we're 88 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: chatting and then he got your number and then you 89 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: were on text talking about a date. You were planning 90 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 1: a date, and then you disappeared. So you kind of 91 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: ghosted him before you ever met, it seems like. And 92 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: he's curious and we're all curious kind of as to 93 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: why what happened. 94 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, so basically, yeah, I mean, he seemed like 95 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 7: a great guy to me, but after a few days, 96 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 7: I just I realized he's just a lot, Like there's 97 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 7: no other. 98 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 2: Way to put it. He's just too much for me. 99 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: What does that mean, how can you know that via tech? 100 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: Like I can see if you met someone and their 101 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: personality was over the top, or you know, you weren't vibing, 102 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: there was no in person chemistry, But how do you 103 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: know he's too much over text? Totally totally. 104 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 7: So yeah, so I I did give him my number 105 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 7: because you know, he you know, it's it's just much 106 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 7: easier to communicate off the app. 107 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 6: And I literally, like. 108 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 7: The first night after I gave him my number, I 109 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 7: looked at my phone and I saw he was calling 110 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 7: me like around nine pm, and I was like, that's 111 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 7: a little that's a little bit much. 112 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: We led with a phone call, which for a lot 113 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: of people these. 114 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 4: Days, yeah, stranger, you know, Like I don't So I answered, 115 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 4: I don't even know why, and he was like, you know, 116 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 4: just calling this sacod night, which okay, I thought was 117 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 4: odd and I'm. 118 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 6: Guessing about your laughs is also using. 119 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 7: It's odd, Like it was odd for him to call 120 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 7: me in the first place, right, let alone at nine 121 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 7: pm just to say good night, and. 122 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 6: Like at this point we're still strangers, but you know, 123 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 6: I let it go and I was like, maybe he's 124 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,839 Speaker 6: just super excited. 125 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 8: For Saturday, like I'll chalk it up to. 126 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 4: That and so yeah, so, but then he proceeded. 127 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 7: To call me every single night to say good night 128 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 7: until Friday, until. 129 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 6: The day before the date. 130 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: I mean he wanted to make sure you had a 131 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: good night, you know, like he did. You know, he 132 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: wanted to. 133 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 8: Nine o'clock phone call is so scary, especially from a 134 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 8: stranger like. 135 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 4: Jury, and five nights in a row, like that's really extra. 136 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 6: So I honestly the fifth time I let it go 137 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 6: to voicemail and I blocked him because I. 138 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 7: Was just like, oh, this is the foot we're getting off, 139 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 7: you know, like this is not right. 140 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: There's nobody in my life who wants me to have 141 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: that good of a night, like under any circumstances. I 142 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,599 Speaker 1: kind of love it, and I only say that nightly 143 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: phone call from someone you've never met. 144 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,679 Speaker 9: Well, he didn't go bad yet with the date didn't happen, 145 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 9: So my only thing is like I think maybe he 146 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 9: was excited, but also like, we we don't call enough anymore. 147 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 9: I feel like in you're first dating, I don't think 148 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 9: we call enough. My husband, who I married, You did. 149 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: Not call your husband who you're married to is supposed 150 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: to be Yes, Okay. I wanted to be clear on 151 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: which husband we we're talking about, the one that you're 152 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: married to. 153 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 9: Okay, yeah, so you know you did when did this happen? 154 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: I have a married woman. 155 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 9: And your husband still feel like when we first started dating, 156 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 9: he did not call, and I didn't like that. If 157 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 9: you would have called prior to the day, I think 158 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 9: that'd be actually kind of cute. 159 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: Okay, So it was too much communication for you too 160 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: early on? It was like, what did it feel like 161 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: a little clingy maybe? 162 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 8: Or yeah, it felt like yeah, over the top cleany. 163 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, let me bring Ross in because this should be 164 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: no surprise you that Ross is on the call. He 165 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: wanted to see if we were having a good morning. 166 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 1: So Ross, you get your phone number and you just 167 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: think like, okay, that's that's my cue to start calling, 168 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: because I think a lot of people in this day 169 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 1: and age, they want even a text before they call, 170 00:06:58,040 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 1: before you call, even if you know them, like hey 171 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: you free, can we chat? You know, because people are 172 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: busy or they don't like to talk on the phone 173 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: as much anymore. But you didn't do that. 174 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: No, I mean, damn sorry. If I was interested, like 175 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 2: I mean, we've heard. 176 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: So much worse, Like this is not the worst thing. 177 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: You could not have answered the phone, Kelly. I suppose 178 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: if you didn't want to talk to him, you could 179 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: have just let her go to voicemail and maybe established 180 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: a boundary that way. But the dude, it's hard for 181 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: me not to see his side because it might have 182 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: been too much. But but how many men on the 183 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 1: dating apps, myself included, have done too little. 184 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 7: I mean that's fair, But like, I think there's definitely 185 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 7: a lot of middle grounds between calling five times in 186 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 7: a row and not calling at all, Like one one call. 187 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 6: Would have been okay, just to be like, yes something. 188 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I suppose Kelly, you could have said, hey, 189 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not a phone talker or not answered 190 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: the phone. And I think after maybe a couple of 191 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: times of you not answering the phone, hopefully he would 192 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: have gotten it. It's not as though he was calling 193 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: you over and over and over and over again, right 194 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: like at in a single setting until you picked up. 195 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: You know, he was calling you at the end of 196 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 1: the day. Like I understand why that's not for everybody, 197 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: but I mean, we've heard so much worse. 198 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 5: It'll be you know, you know, women always talking about 199 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 5: Oh I want a gentleman. I want someone, you know, 200 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 5: I want a man who's gonna who's gonna be proactive 201 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 5: and do more and make and so I'm doing that, 202 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 5: I'm calling and that's a turnoff. Then all right, cool, 203 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 5: I'll find someone that will, like, come. 204 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 10: On, I just I mean listen, like I I guess 205 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 10: I appreciate like the sentiment, but like, being a gentleman 206 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 10: doesn't mean you call someone you just met late at 207 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 10: night multiple days in a row, you know, like again 208 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 10: one instance that would have been fine, but like five 209 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 10: times is not cool for me, Like especially like you 210 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 10: don't know what it's like as a woman to just 211 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 10: like receive calls from you know, it's just like it 212 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 10: instantly puts you in this like scary. 213 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what, I don't know what something. Yeah, yeah, 214 00:08:59,920 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: I'm scary, I think might I mean, I'm not here 215 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: to tell you how to feel. But I've had people 216 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: before say, like when I get their phone number before 217 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: I meet him, Hey do you want to do you 218 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 1: want to chat? And they're like, no, I'd rather wait 219 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: till we meet, like I'd rather or hey, I'm not 220 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: going to give you my number, like I'd rather just 221 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: meet and and and then if I'm comfortable with the date, 222 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 1: then I'll give you my number and then we can 223 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: go from there. I just think if this is something 224 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: that was important to you, or you were bothered by it, 225 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: I think if you had said something to him like, hey, 226 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: I'd rather not talk till the date, or I'm not 227 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: a big phone talker, or let's just chat on Friday 228 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: or whatever, and then he keeps calling, well, then he's 229 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: then I think he's he's gone. You know, he's broken 230 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 1: a boundary. But you didn't say that, So I think 231 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 1: it's hard for me to to not think maybe he's 232 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: just trying, which I feel like women do say all 233 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:48,679 Speaker 1: the time. I wish the guy would try harder, except 234 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: in this case, you wish he hadn't tried hard, which 235 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: is kind of tough for a guy to know when 236 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: he's not supposed to try hard. 237 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 8: I just didn't want to be I didn't want him 238 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 8: to misconstrue me as being rude, you know, and like 239 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 8: I wanted us to start off on the right foot 240 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 8: and like give him the benefit of the doubt. But 241 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 8: I also like, if I'm going to date someone, I 242 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 8: want them to like know without asking that calling somebody 243 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 8: five nights in a row when we're essentially strangers is 244 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:16,319 Speaker 8: too much, Like that should just be. 245 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 2: Something that you should know. She didn't want to be 246 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 2: concerned as rude, so you just go to me come on, right? 247 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I see aspects of both sides here. But look, 248 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: I'll ask the question, Kelly, do you want to you know, 249 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: hit reset here? Maybe and Ross won't call you until 250 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: the date. You guys can go on the date and 251 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: see if it works out. I mean, I think I 252 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: see where his intentions were, and I also think I 253 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 1: see why you were hoping he would sort of get 254 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: the drift. But do you want to try or no? 255 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 8: I think that we're too far gone at this point. 256 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: Too far gone. She want a man that don't talk 257 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: to her at all, and I understand, but he didn't 258 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 1: talk enough. It's probably not gonna be great. So he 259 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: needs to talk the right amount, but not only talk 260 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: when I talk to you. Yeah, understood, understood? Yeah I 261 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: got him. Hey, Ross, Look, I don't think you're a 262 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,599 Speaker 1: bad guy. I think, you know, maybe we got to 263 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: read the room a little bit here, But I can 264 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: also see the mixed message, or I can see why 265 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: you where you were thinking, and that you were trying. 266 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: And I'm sorry I didn't work out, but I wish 267 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: you guys both the best of luck.