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Speaker 1: He's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Welcome to your

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Speaker 1: Second Date podcast. We got a new episode today and

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Speaker 1: by the way, if you missed it, we do have

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Speaker 1: a full video version out of one of the Second

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Speaker 1: Dates that comes out every Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, back and listen to it.

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Speaker 3: And once you look at it, then you can understand

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Speaker 3: this comment I'm about to read.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what does it say?

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Speaker 3: Alyssa King said, what the heck is behind Jeffrey a window?

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Speaker 2: A TV? I can't figure out what? Oh, that's so funny.

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Speaker 1: So it is a window into what we call our

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Speaker 1: ox studio, our auxiliary studio. And there's also his baby

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Speaker 1: trophies in the window.

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Speaker 3: So what's that baby photo of him?

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Speaker 1: And uh, I think he was like mister Fallbrook Mall

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Speaker 1: of California in nineteen ninety two or something.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, that's where our producer sits in the other row.

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Speaker 3: Check out the video and not what we're talking about, Steef.

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Speaker 3: You could spot his baby trophies.

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Speaker 2: There you go, shrag. Your brand new episode starts right now.

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, Second Date updates.

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Speaker 4: Occasionally we'll have return callers on this segment and the

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Speaker 4: last time our listener, Corey was on one of these

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Speaker 4: safe to say things got a little ugly.

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Speaker 1: Can we give him a fun nickname because right now

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Speaker 1: I can't remember who he is.

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Speaker 4: There, we go like second date, We'll come up with

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Speaker 4: something for it. But we did better. We did find

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Speaker 4: out that his date lied to him about her age.

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Speaker 4: Some other misinformation came out and it all led to

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Speaker 4: this moment.

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Speaker 1: You're not like a ken you know.

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Speaker 5: Oh God, get whatever I mean.

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Speaker 4: You look good.

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Speaker 5: You went out on the date with me, So look,

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Speaker 5: I don't even want to argue about it. I think

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Speaker 5: it's only fair that you venmo me half the cost

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Speaker 5: of the dinner.

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Speaker 2: Corey, What are you doing? Dude? I know that she

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Speaker 2: like fibbed on her age, but you liked her.

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Speaker 5: I did like her until I found out she wasn't

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Speaker 3: You ordered street taco I think the bill was like

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Speaker 3: eight dollars, Like, you can't be that cheap.

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to have.

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Speaker 1: Him relived that terrible moment of her life just exactly.

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Speaker 4: So let's welcome back to the show the guy who

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Speaker 4: demanded four dollars back from his eight dollar dinner cost

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Speaker 4: efficient Corey.

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Speaker 2: Hey, there, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Welcome back, Cory.

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Speaker 2: I want to know did you get your money Corey?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, Unfortunately I did not, But I think you

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Speaker 5: got the point. I don't like liars and I'm not

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Speaker 5: going to stand for it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, it's shocking you wanted to come back

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Speaker 1: on our show after your experience here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't know if it's good news or bad

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Speaker 4: news that you're back. And I guess we'll find out.

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Speaker 4: What's the name of the woman that you went out with?

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Speaker 4: And how did you two meet?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, her name is Ashley and we met on hinge

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Speaker 5: and she's really really cute, Like she looks like a

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Speaker 5: not as dorky version of Zoey Deschanel if that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Oh you, she's like the hottest dorky ever.

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Speaker 4: Her whole personality, is being dorky. So if you take

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Speaker 4: that away, Yeah, yeah, what did you guys do for

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so we agreed to meet up for dinner and

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Speaker 5: uh so, okay, Look, I've always thought that a good

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Speaker 5: topic of conversation for a first date is like pets.

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Speaker 4: Sure, unless they don't have a pet, and then it's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: your dog, I want to hear all about it, or.

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Speaker 2: You talk about your childhood pet you.

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Speaker 1: Have, oh yeah, or the goldfish you had to bury

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you bury them. Yeah, we flushed ours, grew up

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're right, sorry, okay, but look at that. Just

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Speaker 4: bringing up pets brought up thirty seconds of interesting conversation.

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Speaker 4: But what to do with them when you're done?

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Speaker 2: So how heartless, Jeff is we learned that as well.

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Speaker 4: So anyway, did yours go as well as ours? Did? Corey?

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Speaker 5: No? No, not at all. This is the worst that

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Speaker 2: Oh what happened?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 5: Well? I thought about my dog and I said, doude,

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Speaker 5: you have a pet? And I got an answer, But

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Speaker 5: it was not from my date. It was from the

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Speaker 4: Brings the whole mood down. Did you ask did they

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Speaker 5: Apparently it was like a hamster with diabetes, like and

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Speaker 5: apparently she had been feeding it eminem and like she

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Speaker 2: I guess it's actually good information for everyone to.

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Speaker 5: Hear the hamsters.

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Speaker 4: I even tested hamsters for that sort of stuff.

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Speaker 2: I mean, what was your date's reaction to it all?

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Speaker 5: Well, so the waitress was crying and then my date

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Speaker 5: was like tearing up and it was just weird. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Yeah for a date.

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Speaker 5: Yes, on my date, and all of a sudden, like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like do you go in for the kiss

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Speaker 4: right then? So how do you recover from that point?

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Speaker 4: Where does it go from there?

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Speaker 5: After dinner, we went on a walk around the neighborhood

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Speaker 5: and we talked more about the hamster. Like, you know,

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Speaker 5: we both felt bad, but we did kind of laugh

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So I mean it was a real point

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Speaker 1: Even though you thought it may have ruined the date,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what do you talk about next? What followed?

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Speaker 2: Probably what kind of diet you'd need to put the hamster.

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Speaker 4: The new eminems don't have as many chemical dies in them,

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Speaker 4: so the hamster it would have been better off. That

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Speaker 2: Do you pack the little hamster's finger to check them.

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Speaker 4: What God, too many questions? I mean, do you ever

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: The thing that finally got us off the topic of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And the problem was you were finally past all

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Speaker 4: Okay, So how did the date end? Make out? It

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Speaker 4: doesn't sound like it.

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Speaker 5: Actually I walked to her to her car, and I

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you were feeling really positive by the end

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. We actually specifically talked about hanging out again, and

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Speaker 5: next week.

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Speaker 2: She even put a time and date on it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. So I was just like, oh, yeah, that might

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Speaker 5: be cool. I just need to check my schedule and

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Speaker 5: let me get back to you. But after that night,

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Speaker 5: she's not answering me.

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Speaker 4: So wait, no communication, like, no texts, no nothing.

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Speaker 5: I think she may have even blocked me because my

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Speaker 1: Oh is that how you know you're I don't think

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Speaker 3: Still check out one from like twenty twenty two is.

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Speaker 2: Going through.

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Speaker 4: To get blocked on text. I havent been blocked on

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Speaker 4: social media, but a text block election, Yeah, it's hard

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Speaker 4: to get for the last five years. Good for him. Okay,

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Speaker 4: so you haven't even spoken to her at all. Let's

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Speaker 4: find out what's going on with Ashley when we come

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Speaker 4: back and call her. We're not going to bring up

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Speaker 4: any dead animals whatsoever animals.

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Speaker 2: If she blocked you, there is a big reason she

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Speaker 4: There could be. Let's find out when we come back

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Speaker 4: and do your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 4: What do you do if a waiter or waitress hijacks

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Speaker 4: your first date? That's literally what happened at Yeah. I

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Speaker 4: say that because our listen mer Corey had to hang

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Speaker 4: out with a woman recently named Ashley and attempted to

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Speaker 4: connect with her over the subject of pets. Ye, like,

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Speaker 4: I have one? Do you have one? Does your family

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Speaker 4: have one? Talk animals for a while, What could go wrong? Well,

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Speaker 4: the waitress overheard it and chimed in, saying, well, I

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Speaker 2: Oh so sad.

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Speaker 5: Anytime you say the words rainbow Bridge, it's never a.

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Speaker 4: Good No, it's bad.

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Speaker 1: But all I've been thinking about is we still haven't

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Speaker 1: found out what the hamster's name was.

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Speaker 4: You have a diabetic hamster, tell them tell Well, we

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Speaker 4: won't know because it was the waitress's hamsters.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we should get her on the phone instead.

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Speaker 4: Well, we'll do that after apparently she was feeding M

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Speaker 4: and m's to it and became diabetic. But yeah, hard

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Speaker 4: to recover a date from that point.

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Speaker 1: I mean he thought he'd managed to, though, because they

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they got a kiss. They smelled some waffle cones together.

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Speaker 2: Some ice cream too, huffed.

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Speaker 4: Them, ate them whatever, It's all good. So Brooke, I

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Speaker 4: am curious you're read on this though, because, aside from

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Speaker 4: the diabetic hamster debacle, it sounds like overall a pretty

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Speaker 4: good date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you said that you got blocked and oh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you forgot that detail.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean.

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Speaker 2: What was the last thing you texted her?

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Speaker 4: I can't remember was accepting lude?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, wait a minute, I mean I think it was

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Speaker 5: just like, hey, are we still on?

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Speaker 4: And then he sent a picture with you.

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Speaker 2: D I'm just kidding. Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It sounds it's just so dramatic to block somebody, Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 4: Or it could be coming from somewhere else in her

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Speaker 4: life where she's like, I just need to block all

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: It may not be specific.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's like my mom where she accidentally blocks people

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Speaker 2: To do it. That's a lot of steps.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it is your mom. How deep are we going

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Speaker 4: let's just call Ashley. We'll see if she's really Brooks

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Speaker 4: Hey is this Ashley?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hey Ashley, thank you for answering. We're a radio show.

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Speaker 4: We're called brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey Ashley, good.

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Speaker 5: Morning, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 7: Hi.

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Speaker 5: Sorry.

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Speaker 4: I really like the way that she said Hi. I

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Speaker 4: doing this segment called a second date update. I don't

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Speaker 4: know if you're familiar. Wait, no, why why are you

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Speaker 4: calling me? We're calling you because one of our listeners

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Speaker 4: says he went out on a very nice date with

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Speaker 4: you the other night, a guy named Corey.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, that guy the one that you met

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he's pretty forward, actually forward.

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Speaker 4: I think you mean charming, but we'll take that. Okay, forward.

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Speaker 4: Can you be specific about why you say that? Like

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Speaker 6: I mean, i'd say the entire day it was pretty

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Speaker 5: A lot of other dates do.

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Speaker 6: It just felt like we were like laughing and genuinely

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Speaker 6: having fun with each other, which was obviously so nice. Oh,

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Speaker 6: I'd give it an a plus. The kiss was great too.

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Speaker 4: Who so many positive reviews?

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Speaker 2: What did he text you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: He actually sent me a voice note and yeah, completely

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Speaker 1: Oh see, voice notes can give the itic real quick's

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Speaker 1: depending what happens in it.

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Speaker 4: Just the fact that he sent you a voice note

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 6: No, no note? Like everything he said in it, I

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Speaker 6: wish I could genuinely play it for you because it

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Speaker 2: What did he say?

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Speaker 4: Well, I want to hear it if you can play it.

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Speaker 4: She's on the phone right now. Way was it sent? Oh? Sorry?

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Speaker 4: Do you have an iPhone like text message?

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Speaker 6: Is that how I was saying you but he actually

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Speaker 6: sent it. We're texting on WhatsApp?

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Speaker 4: Oh oh on WhatsApp? Can you play the note while

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Speaker 4: you're on the phone at the same time? Can we

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Speaker 4: do that? Oh?

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Speaker 6: Wait, yeah, you can play it? Okay, you guys are ready?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I want to hear the voice note that

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Speaker 6: Okay, here it is.

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Speaker 5: Listen.

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Speaker 7: Hey, it's Corey. Listen. I just wanted to send you

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Speaker 7: a voice note because it's a little easier if we're

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Speaker 7: thinking about going over to your place next weekend, and

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Speaker 7: you know, I'm totally open to that, but I am

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Speaker 7: craving that physical intimacy and see if we're you know,

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Speaker 7: to see if there's that romantic spark there just for

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Speaker 7: my own personal sake, because it's it's hard for me

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Speaker 7: to continue dating someone without knowing if we're compatible in

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Speaker 7: that type of way.

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Speaker 5: And so up to you.

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Speaker 7: If you do want me to come over though and

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Speaker 7: have some wine and get down, then sweet, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Is that it?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Sorry?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Brook? What's what's your initial read on that voice message?

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Speaker 7: God?

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't he just let the moment happen?

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Speaker 4: God?

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Speaker 2: A lot of people think that, but like you'll say it,

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Speaker 2: you don't call it physical intimacy.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Ashley, are you feeling the same way that Brooke?

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Speaker 4: Is that whole?

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Speaker 2: Are you not?

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Speaker 5: Jo?

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to get her vibe first.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: No, as soon as I heard that, I was like,

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Speaker 6: absolutely not. I'm remember seeing this man again.

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Speaker 4: Okay, how about hearing him? I remember what Corey's take

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Speaker 4: on that voice note is, because I do need to

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Speaker 4: let you know, Ashley, he's on the other line right

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Speaker 4: now listening in on this. Oh Corey, how did you

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Speaker 4: not know? Dude?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean, first of all, Hi, Ashley, I just can't

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Speaker 5: I can't believe you'd play that on the radio like

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Speaker 6: Why I'm not calling you back. That voice note is

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Speaker 6: literally the reason why she has Okay.

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Speaker 5: Cory, I don't really understand that because in my eyes,

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Speaker 5: I'm being actually super communicative. Like I've always heard that

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Speaker 5: I just was open.

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Speaker 6: The sure, but not when the communication is like I

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Speaker 6: want to guarantee that I'm going to get some action

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Speaker 6: from me when I come over.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're both looking for me. She's really dating.

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Speaker 1: No, she's saying it exactly right. It's the ask, Corey.

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Speaker 1: It's the guarantee.

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Speaker 4: It's like, let's hook up or I'm not.

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Speaker 2: If you're in the moment and you're like, hey, are

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you ready for some intimacy? Do you get what

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Speaker 4: Brooke is saying? Yes, you're communicating, but the message you're

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Speaker 5: But I don't think it's I think it's the message

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Speaker 5: that everybody has. I think most guys would just probably

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Speaker 5: think what I was thinking, but instead of saying something

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Speaker 5: about it, which probably just like go to your house

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Speaker 5: and like make a move and get shut down and

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Speaker 5: then get bitter about it.

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Speaker 4: Well, oh, is not bitter.

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Speaker 1: You know what though, if she's not like into it,

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Speaker 1: she's going to shut you down. That means like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not there, right, Like that was your answer? Like,

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Speaker 1: then you know that a physical intimacy is not what

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Speaker 1: you wanted it to be.

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Speaker 5: It's literally about making sure that I don't waste my time,

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Speaker 5: but also that she doesn't waste her time.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but you just really thought I'm coming around? The

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Speaker 1: Actually, didn't you hear Ashley say that you shared a

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Speaker 1: really great kiss? Like those are the clues that tell

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Speaker 5: Then it's about guessing, and I would just rather all

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Speaker 5: the cards are on on the table. We're adult here.

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Speaker 5: We can talk about these things.

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Speaker 4: We haven't heard a lot from Ashley in this situation. Ashley,

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Speaker 4: where's your head at?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I think I'm just kind of done with this whole

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Speaker 6: he is and it's not for me.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, has up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that was clear communication, which Corey really likes.

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Speaker 4: Excellent communication eight plus all around. And I would like

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Speaker 4: to communicate how much we want the two of you

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Speaker 4: to go out one more time, Ashley, because if you did,

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Speaker 4: we would pay for that date.

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Speaker 2: By we, he means it just Corey wants that.

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Speaker 5: I'm done with everything. I can't believe all the sarcasm,

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Speaker 5: and I can't believe he played the recording, and you

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Speaker 1: Well, we know that that was as clear as it

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Speaker 1: right it.

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Speaker 5: Is now since she decided to finally communicate about it

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and now he's communicating with us how he doesn't

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Speaker 4: like what we've done.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you'll call back for a third time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I still like you, guys. I just opened one

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Speaker 5: of these times I'm going to get a yes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Is it weird if I tried to switch subjects right

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Speaker 4: now and go back to the diabetic hamster?

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Speaker 7: I love?

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Speaker 3: It might be the most appropriate time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Texan, who do you think the cutest diabetic

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Speaker 2: I want to know, Ashley, did you ever find out

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Speaker 2: the name of the hamster?

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Speaker 6: No? I did it?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Closure now you guys bringing up made me sound all

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Speaker 4: Little answering at eminem all right, But then dies Rek

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Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, Corey is officially oh

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Speaker 4: for two at least on this show. And I know

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Speaker 4: he didn't have the greatest experience here, but I do

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Speaker 4: really hope that he calls.

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Speaker 2: Back, do you.

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Speaker 4: I don't. Yeah, we're gonna call him sory after a while.

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Speaker 4: He's a chore for us. Well, because I want him

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Speaker 4: to get another date. I just want to hear more

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Speaker 4: voice notes from him because those are really fun. Ye, honestly,

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Speaker 4: we should have more people doing that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, dude, that is true.

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Speaker 1: Pretty soon, if we have him on too many times,

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Speaker 5: And wait for that, don't say physical intimacy brook against

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Speaker 4: But it's true. There are times where it would be

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Speaker 4: appropriate to plan intimate times, just maybe not date number two. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's what I like, dude. If you've been on ten

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Speaker 4: get it, But date one dude, chill, Yeah, hold down

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Speaker 4: a little bit. Wait till you're ten years into marriage

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Speaker 4: or when you're incarcerated, when your parents are visiting and

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Speaker 2: No, I like how the parents visiting is worse for

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Speaker 4: There's good times and there's bad times. Corey chose a

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Speaker 4: very bad times. Yeah it didn't work for him, doesn't

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Speaker 4: mean it couldn't work for you. If you need help

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