WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: The First Five Seconds + Hang Up On Him 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.120 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. And you 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:04.320 know a lot of people go to like the Pollen 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:07.320 Count and things to see how bad allergies are. Yeah, 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:10.799 we just turned to Ashton over there to see if 0:00:10.800 --> 0:00:19.680 he's sneezing. Yeah, regularly sensitive redheads. 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:21.840 Yeah, honestly, I feel like you sneeze your around, but 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:23.120 it gets a little worse at. 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:25.800 If his eyes are puffy. 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:26.200 We know. 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:28.520 Yeah, exactly seven and eight am on the Dot. 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:33.120 It's the Ashton Count, And if you suffer from allergies, 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:37.400 we're really sorry. But yeah, either way, Jeff's got a 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:39.080 great song for you. I don't know if you realize 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:41.320 we do parody songs. Jeff writes them every week and 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:44.560 you can see them live, not live live to tape. 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:47.440 I guess you could say when the filmed. But you 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:49.400 can see him on our YouTube, which we love it. 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:51.560 When you check that out. It's at Brook and Jeffrey 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:55.000 and we are working on getting some more video for 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:57.440 second dates. It's a process. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:59.920 Soudio stick with. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:01.840 I saw that one, but right now we're going to 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:03.320 do some back to back classic Yeah. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:06.759 Have fun when you're on a really good first date 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:11.679 and the chemistry's on you're feeling the butterflies, but you 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:14.360 look across the table and notice there's something on your 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:18.440 date's face that shouldn't be there. H Do you a 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:23.400 silently lick your finger and rub it off yourself? Oh, oh, no, 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:24.920 birthmark or something. 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:26.759 Yeah, it's a risk. That's a risk. 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.880 Do you be pull the fire alarm and hope the 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:32.440 water from the sprinkler washes it away. 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:36.160 That's a good solution, jeff or so option CE. 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:39.920 Do what our listener did when he found himself in 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:43.800 that situation. Oh no, we're gonna find out if Option 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:47.600 C contributed to him not getting a call back. You'll 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:50.400 find out what happened in your second date update next. 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:53.840 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:58.240 Brooke, did you know the first time that you met 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:02.360 your husband, Michael, that's something was special? Not saying that 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:04.440 you knew like you were going to get married in 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:06.760 the first fifteen seconds of talking to him, But was 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:11.560 there anything that happened with you instantly that lets you know, WHOA, 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:15.160 there's something real, like something actually special going on. 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:15.480 No. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.000 I just felt so good around him, and I was 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:19.320 so excited about him. 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:21.240 Okay, you're drunk, so that's probably. 0:02:21.360 --> 0:02:23.360 I mean, I did have like five glasses of wine 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:25.520 to make an off color Uti joke in. 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:32.360 Okay, Well, yeah, Uti jokes, and he still liked me. Okay, 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:35.400 Pet explains it. I mean, I remember the first time 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:38.120 that I met Jose and I noticed his fly was 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:40.239 down and I thought, ooh special. 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:42.959 Yeah you didn't tell me x y z though. 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:43.880 No, I enjoyed it. 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:45.440 He asked you to put it down further. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.000 Yeah, but you know, we don't talk about this all 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.320 the time, about that first ten to fifteen seconds when 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:55.640 you meet your date and something happens inside you know, 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:58.799 that's real. Apparently that happened to one of our listeners 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:02.880 gram recently, at least that's what his email said, and 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:04.919 we should learn a little bit more about it. Graham, 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:05.919 Welcome to the show man. 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:08.600 Hey guys, thanks for taking my call. 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:13.040 I can't wait to hear about this chance meeting. Maybe 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:16.000 it wasn't chance meeting. Whatever the meeting was, it sounds great. 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:19.600 Yeah, So, without getting overly descriptive, how did your body 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.280 let you know that this was special? 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:24.520 Well, she didn't ever fly open. I can tell you that, 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:26.440 Oh dang it. 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:29.840 So what's her name, by the way, and how did 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:34.600 you meet her. Her name is Aura, Aura, How did 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:35.160 you meet her? 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:38.160 We met on one of those dating apps and we 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:40.040 decided to meet at a wine bar. 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:43.000 All right, So going into meeting her at the wine bar, 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:45.080 were you expecting something special? 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.880 Well, you know how you always have your hopes up. 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:52.560 But I knew when I walked in that I was 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:57.200 going to be in so much trouble. Why she immediately 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:01.320 recognized me and started from a crawl the room, waving 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:04.760 both of her hands over her head like a total door. 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.000 Just one of those people like me. She's got no shame. 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:12.400 I love and you loved that right. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:16.320 Oh my gosh. She was just so like effort, was cute, 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:17.760 well free spirit over there. 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:24.760 Well, her name's Aura, it comes that's adorable. Yeah, And 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:26.640 it sounds like she was excited to see you. 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:31.400 It was one of those like initial meetings where in 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:34.159 the first five seconds I was like, oh my god, 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:37.440 this is just like a dream. It was fast. 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.720 That must be a lot to process, right when you're 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.640 first getting to know somebody. So did the feeling where 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:46.080 often just getting to like a normal date after that. 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:49.360 I mean, I wouldn't say it wore off or it 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:52.200 was normal. It was just I mean there was a 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:56.320 jazz trio playing fun and we were both into jazz music, 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:59.159 and she was like, oh, let's make up names for 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:02.840 the guys, and so yeah, Handy Fly guitar playing and 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:06.039 Dennis the drummer, Yeah, funny, all that kind of stuff. 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.679 We were just cracking each other up the whole time. 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:11.719 You guys were in your own world right. 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:15.000 Exactly, and they're already making almost inside jokes with each other, 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.360 you know, like just a fun, fun thing. 0:05:17.440 --> 0:05:19.400 Now, anytime any song goes on the radio, you can 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:22.000 be like, oh, yeah, this is my favorite drummer, Yeah, 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:26.080 lington drummers, you know whatever. Well, clearly the vibes are there, 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:27.960 so keep taking us through how the rest of the 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:28.520 date goes. 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:32.640 It just kept getting better. I mean, our sense of 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:37.080 like humor was just so like simpatico, I guess to 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:39.719 use that word. Like at one point, she had like 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:43.560 some lipstick on her front teeth. Huh, So I started 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:45.960 like signaling and rubbing on my own front teeth. 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:47.520 Good, I'm glad you told. 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:49.640 Her, yeah, And she just looks at me, she goes, 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:51.039 what do you having a stroke. 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:54.720 Just rubbing your tongue on your teeth? 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:55.760 Exactly? 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.880 I was just laughing so much, and then it was fun. 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:00.400 Oh yeah it was. 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:02.320 It went so well, Oh my god. 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:03.000 This sounds like it. 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.080 Why are you calling us for help? Then? Like, I 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.520 don't get it. How could this have ended poorly? 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:12.000 Well, that's the thing, it didn't really end poorly. When 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:14.360 we said goodbye, she just came up to me and 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:17.680 gave me like a really long, tight hug. 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:18.880 Oh that's nice. 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:20.360 Some of those are. 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.760 Nice exactly, And she says, we have to definitely do 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:24.440 this again. 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:25.760 Oh that's nice. 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:27.240 That seems so sincere. 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:29.840 I texted her twice, one time to see if she 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:32.599 wanted to go out for coffee, the second time to 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:34.320 see if she wanted to go to a trivia night, 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.800 because I think she'd be great at that. Wait, how long. 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:38.440 Did you wait before you texted her? Was this like 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:40.400 thirty minutes after the date or was this a couple 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:41.080 of days? 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:42.679 I waited two days. 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:46.719 I think that's good. I'm too long too. I think 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:49.560 when you have a connection like that with someone that 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:52.120 you just go with it, You just follow. You got 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:53.080 to play the game of wait. 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:56.960 Yeah, that blew that it took too long? 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:57.560 Have you read that? 0:06:58.000 --> 0:06:59.800 Boy? You just got to grab your luggage and move 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:02.480 in with sounds like so connected. 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:04.080 Have you not heard from her at all? 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:07.160 Well, that's the thing, is like, when I was texting her, 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:10.480 she did reply, but both times she said that she 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:13.680 was busy, and the worst part was like she didn't 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:16.720 offer an alternative time or date or anything like that. 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:18.160 It was like, no, I'm busy, I can't. 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:20.840 I mean, sometimes these free spirits they really suck at 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:21.280 text out. 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:25.560 I mean, Alexis, if you wanted to see a guy, 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:28.440 would you tell him like, I'm just busy, or would 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:30.000 you offer up a little bit more? 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:32.520 I would offer something else. I'd probably over offer, Honestly, 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.120 I'd probably mention all the times I'm free. 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:38.880 Times to apologize for being busy a lot in all caps. 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:41.600 It is odd that she leaves it at just I'm 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:44.480 busy and no explanation and no other follow up to 0:07:44.560 --> 0:07:46.760 it exactly. That could feel like that she's trying to 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:48.040 brush you off. I understand it. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.560 Yeah, it's had such a thing happening. It's just hard 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:52.920 to imagine she wasn't right there with you feeling the 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:53.800 exact same thing. 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:55.680 Well, maybe it was the fact that you made her 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:58.280 pay for the dinner that night. You made her pay. 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:01.680 I'm just assuming. 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:04.600 No, no, no, I am a popper, gentleman. I pay 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:08.720 for everything. Okay, I just need I need you guys 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:11.600 to find out for me. How the hell did I 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:12.160 blow this? 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:16.320 Oh, we're gonna find for you. How do keep it going? 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:18.000 Because I've got faith in this one. 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:19.840 Because we don't even know that you blew it. It could 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:21.600 be something totally unrelated. 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:23.520 I am so excited to get her on the phone. 0:08:24.320 --> 0:08:27.160 Let's find out. We're gonna come back call Aura and 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:29.400 try and get you your second date update coming up 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:31.760 right after this. Okay, thank you, all right, man, hold on. 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:35.040 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:39.959 Whenever. I'm stuck on hold with customer service for four 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:44.560 straight hours, and the automated message keeps replaying over and 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:48.319 over saying we're busy right now, but don't go anywhere. 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:52.480 Your call is very important to us. We're just busy. Yeah, 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:57.480 I believe them, they really really care. Yeah, we're not understaffed. 0:08:58.320 --> 0:08:59.480 Not a break somewhere. 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:01.839 But the thing is, if you're on the other end 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:05.800 of a potential relationship with somebody you really like and 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:09.560 you get too sorry, I'm just busy right now, in 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:12.640 a rowse. It's hard not to be a little bit 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:15.000 skeptical and feel like you're being blown off. 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:17.320 Yeah, especially when they don't say, hey, press number nine 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:19.439 for a different day to date meet exactly. 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:22.360 And that's where our listener, Graham is. After a really 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:25.040 good date at a jazz bar with a girl named Aura. 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:29.280 He has turned to us because those two busies just 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:31.480 aren't equaling a second meetup, and. 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:34.240 They're not equaling the vibe that they had going when 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:36.520 they were hanging out. It just sounds so I can't 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:38.720 believe I haven't said it sooner, but negative our points. 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:41.400 For her, Yeah, Graham, I mean, before we call her here, 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:43.840 how you feeling I'm. 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:47.480 Feeling a little nervous, to be honest, but how's your Aura? 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:50.560 I mean, I get it, I'm feeling nervous for you. 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:54.600 I mean you just sound so excited and I want 0:09:54.600 --> 0:09:56.439 this to happen for you. I think we all do. 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.920 Everything sounded so good. I don't want to put this 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:01.800 out there, but has to be shocking, like whatever the 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:04.280 excuse is, you're not gonna see like, oh wow, I 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:06.679 didn't think of that. There's nothing that has gone wrong. 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:10.679 We can change that right now. Let let's see if 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:13.040 something went wrong. I'm gonna dial her number right now. 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:23.640 Hopefully she picks up the phone. Here we go, Hello, Hey, 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:27.280 is this Aura? 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:27.920 Yes? 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:31.400 This okay, this is a we're a radio show. We're 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:34.839 called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning the Show. Thanks 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:35.720 for being on with us. 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:41.480 Uh Okay, Hi, I didn't I don't think I signed 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:42.680 up for anything. I don't. 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:43.680 Yeah, you didn't know. 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:47.559 You didn't, but one of our listeners kind of signed 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:52.079 you up for something called a second Date update. Okay, 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:54.840 So if you're not familiar with that, it's a segment 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:56.199 that we do on our show where we try to 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:59.480 help people who've gone out with somebody one time but 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:02.480 they're not getting that second meetup and they're not sure why. 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:04.880 We can call and try to figure out if there's 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:07.440 a reason for it. Yeah, does that make sense? 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:10.360 Yeah? I guess. 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:12.959 We know you're really busy, so we won't keep it. 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:15.320 That's what we've heard. We're really good at these by 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:17.520 the way, we'll be efficient. Okay, we'll get through this. 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:19.520 Because we're calling about a guy that you went out 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:20.800 with recently named Graham. 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:24.120 I'm sorry, I'm like super confused. 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.680 Like, what is this great? Question. 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:27.240 Well, yeah, no, It's the thing is, we spoke to 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:30.040 Graham about your date, and we're just trying to figure 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:33.200 out if there's a reason that the two of you 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:36.480 haven't gone out again because you keep saying to him 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:37.640 that you're busy. 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:40.080 But not offering any solutions on wind to meet up. 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:44.199 Yeah, I mean, I like it. I already texted him, 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:46.760 like I said, I was busy during the times he 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:47.680 wanted to hang out. 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:51.800 I think in his mind when you say I'm busy, 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.560 that's just like it can be a word that people 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:57.600 use to brush somebody off if you're not actually wanting 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:59.480 to see them, but you don't want to come off 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:00.320 as being rude. 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:04.280 Like I meant what I said, I'm just really busy. 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:07.000 Okay, okay, but there's no way. I mean, like, I'm sorry, 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:10.320 we're all really busy, but like when you meet somebody 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:12.760 that you feel like you have this crazy connection with, 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:14.280 you'll make time for them. 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:15.040 Yep. 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:17.640 But I'm not like canceling my plans, Like. 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:19.640 I know we're not we're not asking you to do that. 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:21.960 But he just asked us to call because it was 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:25.320 unclear to him if you actually wanted to meet up. 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:30.959 But it's what's unclear, I'm saying, okay, but I am busy. 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:34.840 It's okay, it's uncle if you like. I'm honestly still 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:37.000 unclear whether you actually like him or not. 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:40.400 I like him, but like I don't understand why, like 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:45.160 he needs a third party interjecting. That's I said that 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:48.720 I'm free. I'm just busy during the times he mentioned. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:50.760 Gotcha, I hear you, and I don't want to be 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:58.200 the third party interjecting whatsoever. In fact, it's just like weird. Well, no, listen, 0:12:58.360 --> 0:13:00.360 Graham is actually the one I want you to talk to. 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:02.480 And it's perfect because he's right here on the other 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:08.080 line listening, waiting to jump in, hey or what. 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.200 I'm so confused, like what is happening? 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:10.800 What's like? 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:14.560 What's the deal with these like jobbers you hired to 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:20.240 like grow me about us? Job said job jobbers. I 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:22.200 called you jobbers. It was like, I don't know what 0:13:22.240 --> 0:13:23.439 you guys like we are? 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:27.560 I okay, talk to her. 0:13:28.120 --> 0:13:32.360 Yeah I didn't. I didn't hire them. It's just a 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.960 radio show and they, you know, help people get in 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:37.920 touch if they're having trouble getting together. 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:41.080 So yeah, but like I told you, I was busy. 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:43.319 A couple of times, like, don't you think it's a 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:47.240 little extreme to like go in a radio station and 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:49.920 who honestly, whoever that guy was I've been talking to, 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:51.680 like did not seem prepared at all. 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:53.880 We don't know what I was talking about. 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:56.280 And he like trying to nail down a gate for 0:13:56.480 --> 0:13:58.080 you about Jeff. 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:01.800 That's fine sometimes people need to comment. Enemy gonna comelty. 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:04.559 Honestly, I'm with her. I wasn't doing it. That was 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:09.200 pretty crap. I give myself a D. 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:11.400 Or can't you think of this as like a kind 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:14.080 of a romantic gesture, like he really wants to see 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:16.160 you and he went to all this effort. 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:18.160 No, it's super weird. 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:21.600 You said, you guys have so much chemistry. I feel 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:22.280 like you're so angry. 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:23.960 Does this feel like the same person you went out 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:24.440 with Graham? 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:27.840 Well maybe not a little bit. But you guys have 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:29.360 been kind of grilling are pretty hard. 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:33.720 Yeah, we can take the fall. 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.600 Yeah, no, no, no, that's okay. I mean your intentions 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:38.040 are great, and that's fine. 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:42.280 I did have some bad intentions when I dialed Onyond. 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:45.360 I brought some negative energy into this, and that's what 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:47.200 I felt negative. That's right. 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.840 You're so guilty and you shouldn't be, Laura. 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:51.840 Is there is there anything we can do to come 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:55.240 back from putting you out or making you feel weird? 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:59.360 Like you keep saying you can stop asking me questions 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:01.400 and can just ask me out. 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:01.960 How about that? 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:02.400 Okay? 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:07.360 I think that's perfect, that's perfect. I'd love to hang out. 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:10.680 And how about this weekend? Are you free? Like on Friday? 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:16.040 I'm busy Friday? 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:19.120 Okay, keep going, well, we'll have how about Saturday? Then? 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:23.440 I've got something that day? But like you should, you 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:28.360 probably need to notice. But I'm in like two other situationships. 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:29.720 Oh that's. 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.200 Okay, now you. 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:35.080 Know why she's so busy. 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:37.040 Oh Graham, I'm sorry. 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:37.960 Is that okay with you? 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:38.280 Graham? 0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:41.440 Or let me ask you? You said you're already in 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:45.400 two situationships? So really, what does that mean? 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:47.920 It means a lot of fun. 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:54.480 Up. Do you even have time for me then? Or what? 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:59.480 I'm free Sunday afternoon? Like I can squeeze you in. 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:05.880 I'm not really sure if I want to be squeezed 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:08.320 in between two other dudes. 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:13.440 And beggars, campy choosers here, like you're the one who 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:20.200 plays the party. But it's still a party. 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:24.280 She's clearly not rejecting you, but you're gonna. 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:25.680 But she's offering you not much. 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.720 Yeah, I'm single, Like I don't have to like. 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:29.520 Kind of you. 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:31.400 You're kind of single. 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:34.360 I think we're all jealous of you are. If anything, so, I. 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:36.240 Think, Graham, I don't know, Graham, I feel like you 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:37.160 deserve more than this. 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.800 Well, I don't know. Look, guys, I think I should 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:43.360 just go with my gut and say, you only live 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:47.600 once and let's do it. 0:16:48.040 --> 0:16:52.000 So you're over to a possible third situationship with Aura. 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:56.200 Well, I mean, if the third situationship goes so well, 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:58.920 maybe they'll just turn into a single situationship. 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:01.200 Okay, really optimistic. 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:04.880 I mean that's the point of like dating, Like you're 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:08.920 supposed to try new things and see what sticks. 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:10.080 Okay, that's true. 0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:13.240 Yeah, well great, now we're running out of time here. 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:15.399 So I'm just curious though, Aura, if he does go 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:18.160 through with this, does that put him like in the 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:21.639 third seat like the last place guy, or does he 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:24.000 need to do a trial run And does he have 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:26.680 to meet the other guys? 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:27.240 Why would they. 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:30.320 Meet the other I don't know how that's so weird? 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:33.359 No, Okay, if it works out, it works out, and 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:34.680 if it doesn't, we had fun. 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:36.880 Okay, great. I just want to be clear that we're 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:39.160 setting our guy up for success here. So we would 0:17:39.160 --> 0:17:40.840 like to offer to send you guys out on a 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:42.680 date and we would pay for it. 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:46.600 Yeah, I mean, I'm down, thank you. 0:17:46.680 --> 0:17:51.639 Not the romantic eddie I was looking, but more realistic. 0:17:51.920 --> 0:17:57.800 Yeah, you know, boking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:02.080 Oh was that like the yes that we've ever gotten 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:03.160 to a second date? 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:03.600 Ever? 0:18:03.840 --> 0:18:04.520 Not where I. 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.080 Wanted things to end, I'll tell you that. 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:06.800 Yeah. 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:09.480 But at least we got an answer to why she 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:10.439 was busy. 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:15.159 And I guess it's clear to Graham what he's walking into, right, Like, 0:18:15.240 --> 0:18:16.960 there's no mystery here anymore. 0:18:17.080 --> 0:18:19.080 I don't know if it is really clear, because we 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:22.680 never really asked whether the like situationships know about each 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:25.920 other or how serious they really were with anything. 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:28.840 She seems pretty blunt, jeff And she. 0:18:28.720 --> 0:18:32.119 Seems like she enjoys it for sure. Yeah, it's the 0:18:32.160 --> 0:18:35.280 one thing that made her smile during that entire call. 0:18:35.200 --> 0:18:37.400 And get like a weird sexy voice thing. 0:18:38.480 --> 0:18:40.520 How can you not when you're thinking about your harem 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:43.240 of guys waiting for you? But I just have a 0:18:43.280 --> 0:18:45.560 feeling our boy Graham is going to be happy settling 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:47.720