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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. And you

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Speaker 1: know a lot of people go to like the Pollen

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Speaker 1: he's sneezing. Yeah, regularly sensitive redheads.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, I feel like you sneeze your around, but

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Speaker 3: If his eyes are puffy.

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Speaker 4: We know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly seven and eight am on the Dot.

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Speaker 1: It's the Ashton Count, And if you suffer from allergies,

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Speaker 1: we're really sorry. But yeah, either way, Jeff's got a

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Speaker 1: great song for you. I don't know if you realize

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Speaker 1: we do parody songs. Jeff writes them every week and

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Speaker 1: you can see them live, not live live to tape.

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Speaker 1: I guess you could say when the filmed. But you

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Speaker 1: can see him on our YouTube, which we love it.

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Speaker 1: When you check that out. It's at Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: and we are working on getting some more video for

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Speaker 1: second dates. It's a process.

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Speaker 3: Soudio stick with.

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Speaker 1: I saw that one, but right now we're going to

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Speaker 1: do some back to back classic Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Have fun when you're on a really good first date

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Speaker 3: and the chemistry's on you're feeling the butterflies, but you

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Speaker 3: look across the table and notice there's something on your

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Speaker 3: date's face that shouldn't be there. H Do you a

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Speaker 3: silently lick your finger and rub it off yourself? Oh, oh, no,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a risk. That's a risk.

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Speaker 3: Do you be pull the fire alarm and hope the

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Speaker 1: That's a good solution, jeff or so option CE.

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Speaker 3: Do what our listener did when he found himself in

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Speaker 3: that situation. Oh no, we're gonna find out if Option

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Speaker 3: C contributed to him not getting a call back. You'll

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Speaker 3: find out what happened in your second date update next.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.

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Speaker 3: Brooke, did you know the first time that you met

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Speaker 3: your husband, Michael, that's something was special? Not saying that

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: I just felt so good around him, and I was

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're drunk, so that's probably.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I did have like five glasses of wine

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, yeah, Uti jokes, and he still liked me. Okay,

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Speaker 3: Pet explains it. I mean, I remember the first time

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Speaker 1: Yeah you didn't tell me x y z though.

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Speaker 3: No, I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: He asked you to put it down further.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, we don't talk about this all

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Speaker 3: the time, about that first ten to fifteen seconds when

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, thanks for taking my call.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear about this chance meeting. Maybe

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Speaker 1: it wasn't chance meeting. Whatever the meeting was, it sounds great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So, without getting overly descriptive, how did your body

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Speaker 5: Well, she didn't ever fly open. I can tell you that,

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Speaker 3: So what's her name, by the way, and how did

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Speaker 3: you meet her. Her name is Aura, Aura, How did

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Speaker 5: We met on one of those dating apps and we

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Speaker 5: Well, you know how you always have your hopes up.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. She was just so like effort, was cute,

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Speaker 1: Well, her name's Aura, it comes that's adorable. Yeah, And

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Speaker 5: It was one of those like initial meetings where in

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Speaker 3: That must be a lot to process, right when you're

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Speaker 5: I mean, I wouldn't say it wore off or it

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Speaker 3: You guys were in your own world right.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, and they're already making almost inside jokes with each other,

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Speaker 5: It just kept getting better. I mean, our sense of

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Speaker 1: Good, I'm glad you told.

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Speaker 5: Her, yeah, And she just looks at me, she goes,

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Speaker 3: Just rubbing your tongue on your teeth?

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Speaker 6: Exactly?

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Speaker 5: I was just laughing so much, and then it was fun.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah it was.

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Speaker 5: It went so well, Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: This sounds like it.

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Speaker 1: Why are you calling us for help? Then? Like, I

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Speaker 5: Well, that's the thing, it didn't really end poorly. When

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Speaker 1: Oh that's nice.

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Speaker 5: Nice exactly, And she says, we have to definitely do

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Speaker 3: Oh that's nice.

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Speaker 1: That seems so sincere.

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Speaker 5: I texted her twice, one time to see if she

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Speaker 3: Did you wait before you texted her? Was this like

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Speaker 5: I waited two days.

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Speaker 1: I think that's good. I'm too long too. I think

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that blew that it took too long?

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Speaker 1: Have you read that?

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Speaker 3: Boy? You just got to grab your luggage and move

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Speaker 1: Have you not heard from her at all?

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Speaker 5: Well, that's the thing, is like, when I was texting her,

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Speaker 5: It was like, no, I'm busy, I can't.

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Speaker 1: I mean, sometimes these free spirits they really suck at

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Speaker 3: I mean, Alexis, if you wanted to see a guy,

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Speaker 7: I'd probably mention all the times I'm free.

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Speaker 1: Times to apologize for being busy a lot in all caps.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's had such a thing happening. It's just hard

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Speaker 3: Well, maybe it was the fact that you made her

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Speaker 1: Oh, we're gonna find for you. How do keep it going?

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Speaker 3: Because we don't even know that you blew it. It could

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Speaker 1: I am so excited to get her on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Let's find out. We're gonna come back call Aura and

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 3: Whenever. I'm stuck on hold with customer service for four

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Speaker 3: Your call is very important to us. We're just busy. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you get too sorry, I'm just busy right now, in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, especially when they don't say, hey, press number nine

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Speaker 1: for a different day to date meet exactly.

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Speaker 3: And that's where our listener, Graham is. After a really

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Speaker 3: He has turned to us because those two busies just

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Speaker 1: They're not equaling the vibe that they had going when

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Speaker 3: For her, Yeah, Graham, I mean, before we call her here,

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Speaker 5: Feeling a little nervous, to be honest, but how's your Aura?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I get it, I'm feeling nervous for you.

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Speaker 1: I mean you just sound so excited and I want

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Speaker 3: Everything sounded so good. I don't want to put this

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Speaker 3: We can change that right now. Let let's see if

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Speaker 7: Uh Okay, Hi, I didn't I don't think I signed

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Speaker 1: We know you're really busy, so we won't keep it.

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Speaker 3: That's what we've heard. We're really good at these by

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Speaker 3: Because we're calling about a guy that you went out

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I like it. I already texted him,

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Speaker 7: Like I meant what I said, I'm just really busy.

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Speaker 7: But I'm not like canceling my plans, Like.

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Speaker 7: But it's what's unclear, I'm saying, okay, but I am busy.

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Speaker 7: I like him, but like I don't understand why, like

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Speaker 3: Graham is actually the one I want you to talk to.

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Speaker 3: What's like?

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Speaker 7: What's the deal with these like jobbers you hired to

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Speaker 7: like grow me about us? Job said job jobbers. I

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Speaker 3: I okay, talk to her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah I didn't. I didn't hire them. It's just a

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Speaker 7: So yeah, but like I told you, I was busy.

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Speaker 7: A couple of times, like, don't you think it's a

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Speaker 4: We don't know what I was talking about.

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Speaker 7: And he like trying to nail down a gate for

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Speaker 1: That's fine sometimes people need to comment. Enemy gonna comelty.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm with her. I wasn't doing it. That was

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Speaker 1: Or can't you think of this as like a kind

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Speaker 7: No, it's super weird.

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Speaker 3: You said, you guys have so much chemistry. I feel

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Speaker 1: Does this feel like the same person you went out

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Speaker 5: Well maybe not a little bit. But you guys have

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we can take the fall.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, no, that's okay. I mean your intentions

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Speaker 3: I did have some bad intentions when I dialed Onyond.

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Speaker 3: I brought some negative energy into this, and that's what

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Speaker 2: You're so guilty and you shouldn't be, Laura.

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Speaker 1: Is there is there anything we can do to come

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Speaker 8: Like you keep saying you can stop asking me questions

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Speaker 8: and can just ask me out.

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Speaker 7: How about that?

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Speaker 5: I think that's perfect, that's perfect. I'd love to hang out.

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Speaker 7: I'm busy Friday?

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Speaker 8: I've got something that day? But like you should, you

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Speaker 3: Okay, now you.

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Speaker 5: Know why she's so busy.

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Speaker 1: Oh Graham, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Is that okay with you?

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Speaker 6: Graham?

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Speaker 5: Or let me ask you? You said you're already in

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Speaker 7: It means a lot of fun.

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Speaker 5: Up. Do you even have time for me then? Or what?

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Speaker 7: I'm free Sunday afternoon? Like I can squeeze you in.

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Speaker 5: I'm not really sure if I want to be squeezed

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Speaker 7: And beggars, campy choosers here, like you're the one who

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Speaker 3: She's clearly not rejecting you, but you're gonna.

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Speaker 1: But she's offering you not much.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm single, Like I don't have to like.

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Speaker 6: Kind of you.

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Speaker 1: You're kind of single.

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Speaker 3: I think we're all jealous of you are. If anything, so, I.

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Speaker 1: Think, Graham, I don't know, Graham, I feel like you

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Speaker 5: Well, I don't know. Look, guys, I think I should

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Speaker 3: So you're over to a possible third situationship with Aura.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, if the third situationship goes so well,

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Speaker 8: I mean that's the point of like dating, Like you're

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well great, now we're running out of time here.

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Speaker 3: So I'm just curious though, Aura, if he does go

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Speaker 5: Why would they.

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Speaker 7: Meet the other I don't know how that's so weird?

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Speaker 8: No, Okay, if it works out, it works out, and

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Speaker 3: Okay, great. I just want to be clear that we're

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I'm down, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Not the romantic eddie I was looking, but more realistic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, boking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Oh was that like the yes that we've ever gotten

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But at least we got an answer to why she

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Speaker 1: And I guess it's clear to Graham what he's walking into, right, Like,

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Speaker 3: Seems like she enjoys it for sure. Yeah, it's the

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Speaker 1: And get like a weird sexy voice thing.

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Speaker 3: How can you not when you're thinking about your harem

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Speaker 1: Well, he's Sunday boy.

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Speaker 3: Now I might in a four way marriage if it

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Speaker 3: But if you want hell up with your dating life,

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Speaker 3: you can always email the show. We'll call that person

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Speaker 3: who isn't calling you back and go check out all

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Speaker 3: of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at

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Speaker 3: Brook and.

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Speaker 3: What's the perfect setting to have a romantic first kiss?

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Speaker 3: Maybe during a candle at dinner, or on a moonlit

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Speaker 3: In your second Date update right after.

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Speaker 2: This, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second Date updates.

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Speaker 3: We've all heard of dating ultimatums where they put it

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Speaker 3: Is it me or your mom?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you can't have You're gonna get dumped

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Speaker 3: I feel like, well, if they really love you, they

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Speaker 1: Well, there could be worse options that way to blanket.

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Speaker 3: Really, it really like to hug you the right way.

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Speaker 3: But I bring it up because one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, that is so much on us. Why would

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Speaker 3: Is that right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's completely right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Jaggie, don't come in all cheerful like you weren't

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Speaker 1: just doomsday and that.

446
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, this isn't I'm not cheerful. I'm just letting you

447
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 4: know that if this doesn't work out, I'm done. I

448
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,359
Speaker 4: am done.

449
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 1: Aren't very high?

450
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm that desperate. I'm with you guys.

451
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 1: Okay, we're all starting off on the same page.

452
00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 3: So yeah, starting at rock bottom can only go up

453
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,359
Speaker 3: from here. Let's begin by learning the name of the

454
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 3: guy that you met recently.

455
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:37,360
Speaker 4: The guy's name is Steve. We went on a date

456
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:38,880
Speaker 4: like last Thursday.

457
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: Thursday, And is there something that stood out about Steve

458
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 1: or was it just not horrible and that's why you're

459
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:45,199
Speaker 1: okay with it? Well?

460
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, pretty much. So in the last couple of months,

461
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 4: I've been trying to say yes to anyone that asked

462
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 4: me out.

463
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, cast a wide net sort of thing.

464
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm putting myself out there.

465
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: Okay, like everybody tells you.

466
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 4: To, right, and most of them have been okay. With Steve.

467
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 4: It was actually a really good date.

468
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean I could even see the hope in

469
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 1: your voice when you say that.

470
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, not super hopeful, just like not the worst thing ever.

471
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 3: Where was that date?

472
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 4: It was really fun. We went to a farmer's market

473
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 4: and we were just walking around like sampling the foods

474
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 4: and talking, laughing and having fun. For it was an

475
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 4: hour and a half.

476
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,680
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, this is good. It's a day date. Nobody's

477
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,920
Speaker 1: like drinking too much. I mean, did you meet there?

478
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 4: Yes? We met at the farmer's market and then at

479
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 4: the end he walked me back to my car. And

480
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 4: you know, normally I don't kiss someone on the first date,

481
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 4: especially a day date, but the connection was really strong.

482
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 1: So kiss after a farmer's market date?

483
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 4: Yes. And then he looked at me in the eyes

484
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 4: and said, I had a really great time and I

485
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 4: want to see you again soon.

486
00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 3: You don't, You don't want eye contact when that happens,

487
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 3: what you want.

488
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 1: To look away in shame, don't look at me. Yeah,

489
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 1: that's you want eye contact. Eye contact is so intimate

490
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 1: and nice.

491
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 3: Exactly.

492
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: You believed him, right, I did.

493
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 4: And I told him that I had an amazing time

494
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 4: and I would love to see him again.

495
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 3: And there it is again. What it's too much?

496
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 1: I didn't do anything, not too much, he said, I

497
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 1: want to see you again. She said, I want to

498
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 1: see you again. That's not too much.

499
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 3: I can see how maybe you would think that prefer

500
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 3: a guy saying I really like you. It's the most

501
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 3: terrifying thing in the world. He said that to me, Yeah,

502
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,640
Speaker 3: but you're not supposed to say it back to him.

503
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yes, Brook, I've done enough of these

504
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 3: to know how to play the game, and being honest

505
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 3: and open with how you really feel is the absolute

506
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 3: worst thing you can see.

507
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 4: I disagree that was not the problem, because that same

508
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 4: day he texts me yep, and he said, Sunday, does

509
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 4: that work? I'll pick you up for dinner and maybe

510
00:23:58,840 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 4: he can grab a drink.

511
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 3: App Okay, I stand corrected, possibly, thank you?

512
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 1: So what happened Sunday?

513
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 4: So so I texted back yes, one hundred percent, I'm in,

514
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 4: and gave him a little high five emoji. And on

515
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 4: Saturday he texts me and says, Hey, I'm gonna have

516
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 4: to cancel on Sunday. Sorry.

517
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 3: Oh okay.

518
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 1: Did he try to reschedule?

519
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 4: No, he didn't say anything else, doesn't explain nothing, And

520
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 4: so I just texted back no problem. Let's figure out

521
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 4: another time.

522
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 3: Did he respond to your no no response?

523
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 1: Steve, Come on, how many days has that been?

524
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 4: It's been a week now, Okay. But here's the thing.

525
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 4: So this is the only guy that I've connected with

526
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 4: and now he's ghosting me. I mean, it's so unbelievably frustrating.

527
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it sounds like you're doing this not

528
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 1: just for Steve, but to make up for every other

529
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: badding that has happened, Like you need this to.

530
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,640
Speaker 4: Go right, And I really just wanted to which I mean,

531
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 4: like what happened right?

532
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 3: Well, you said it's been a week. Maybe he's learned

533
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 3: something about you in between that period of time, Like

534
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 3: you don't have to answer this, but have you served

535
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 3: time in prison.

536
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: That could be hot though I.

537
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 4: Have not.

538
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 3: Okay, is there anything that's available online to the public

539
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 3: that somebody could come across and might be like, oh god,

540
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:27,719
Speaker 3: this is a red flag.

541
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,479
Speaker 4: Seriously, there's nothing that I can think of.

542
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, this is definitely a mystery.

543
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: Maybe he just had a bad reaction to the Baba

544
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:41,479
Speaker 1: ganoosh you guys had the farmer's market wasn't able to recover.

545
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 3: I don't know what that is.

546
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 1: I don't know. It was just a hummus stand last weekend.

547
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 3: So hot, so let's come back. We're gonna definitely got

548
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 3: kisses from her husband to We're gonna come back and

549
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 3: call Steve for you here and hopefully get an explanation

550
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 3: for why he isn't a aging a second date or

551
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 3: let you give up on dating forever. That's what she wants,

552
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 3: all right. I'm hopeful push you back from the cliff

553
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,679
Speaker 3: and when we get your second date update right after this,

554
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 3: hold on.

555
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates today.

556
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 3: The entire future of a woman's dating life lies inside

557
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 3: of our tender throats, because if we don't say the

558
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 3: right thing and get Steve to agree to another date,

559
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 3: Jackie has already said she is ready to give up

560
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 3: on finding love forever.

561
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: Definitely don't need to tell Steve this, but.

562
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,119
Speaker 3: I'm sure that won't happen anyway, because they went to

563
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 3: a farmer's market hot, you know, walked around, had a

564
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 3: great eye contact the whole time.

565
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: Soups hot, hot and organic.

566
00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, they laughed, even planned out another date after telling

567
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 3: each other they both wanted to see each other again.

568
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 1: You forgot the great first kiss. That was such a

569
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 1: big deal. That was like the moment, right.

570
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 3: I thought when I said farmer's market kissing was implied

571
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 3: because who doesn't. But yeah, it was all going according

572
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 3: to plan. Until the day before their second date, when

573
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 3: Steve texted canceling with no explanation and then went dark. So, Brook,

574
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 3: your thoughts on the situation at hand?

575
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: Good? I just feel like it's not going to be

576
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 1: good if he's in a different relationship, like if.

577
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 3: He's cheating or well, hold on, Brook, how can he

578
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 3: cheat if they've only gone on one date?

579
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: No, not cheating on her, cheating on whoever he's dating.

580
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're saying Jackie could be the

581
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 3: other woman.

582
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's just like a day date, Jackie.

583
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 3: Are you cool with being the other woman? That we

584
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 3: didn't say that? Okay?

585
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 1: It is good to check. All right, Hopefully that's not

586
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: what the situation is that I don't.

587
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 7: I hope it's just busy at other farmers' markets scoping

588
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 7: out the best spots.

589
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, the best Ober jeans or whatever Brook likes. Yeah,

590
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 3: does he work?

591
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 1: All right?

592
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 3: We've ruled out a couple of possibilities. Let's just call

593
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 3: him and see if he picks up. I'm dialing his

594
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 3: number right now here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Steve?

595
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 6: Yeah?

596
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 3: Ay man, good morning. You're you're on a radio show

597
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 3: called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

598
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 1: Oh great, we're going to take that without any sarcasm

599
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: attached to it.

600
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:48,479
Speaker 3: But I like your style already.

601
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 6: You can tell what's going on.

602
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 3: Well, what's going on is this is a segment that

603
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 3: we do called a second date Update. I don't know

604
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 3: if you've ever heard of that before. Nope, Okay, keep going.

605
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 3: But it's actually kind of a fun thing that we

606
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 3: do where we help out listeners who are confused after

607
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 3: they're not getting a call back for a second date.

608
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 3: We try and help them figure out the reason why. Okay,

609
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 3: there's a woman that you went out with recently. Actually

610
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 3: you planned a second date with her but canceled the

611
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 3: last minute. Her name's Jackie.

612
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: Uh.

613
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 6: I don't really want to talk about this.

614
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 3: Sensitive to you.

615
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 6: I feel bad?

616
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: Did I ask? Are you single?

617
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 3: Brooks? It with so much hope?

618
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 6: Here's the deal, here's the deal.

619
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 3: What's the deal.

620
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 6: I did have a strong connection with her, but if

621
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 6: she knew what was going on, it would probably hurt

622
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 6: her feeling.

623
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 3: What's trying to protect someone's feelings hurt some more. I

624
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 3: think they want to be.

625
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: Direct, that's true. I think her feelings already hurt.

626
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, because she was really looking forward to that second

627
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 3: hangout and when you canceled with no explanation. Now she's

628
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 3: just kind of confused. She was excited, doesn't know where

629
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 3: she stands. We're just trying to give her a little

630
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 3: bit of information.

631
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 6: It's just I had a stronger romantic connection with somebody else,

632
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 6: and I didn't think it would be fair to her.

633
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 6: Continue my jod.

634
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: That's normal.

635
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 3: Okay, everybody, Okay, everybody's on the call right now. Let's

636
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 3: try and be respectful and here, Steve out anymore.

637
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: Jackie's on the phone.

638
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 3: Hold on, you knows me.

639
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 4: He knows it's me, and I know a cheater when

640
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 4: I smell one, you smell him.

641
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, wait, wait, I think that's my fault, Jackie,

642
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: hold on, what I feel like I put that idea

643
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 1: in your head. He didn't say he cheated. He just

644
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: said that he went out with someone else and had

645
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: a stronger connection.

646
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 4: He didn't Yeah, whatever, he was going to cheat on

647
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 4: me eventually.

648
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 3: You're making a lot of assumptions here, Jackie, and I

649
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 3: know you're definitely hurt by what you heard, but let's

650
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 3: give Steve a chance to explain himself.

651
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 6: I spoke my piece. I don't have much else to say.

652
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so you're just to say, oh good, oh god.

653
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 4: So when we were walking around the farmer's market and

654
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 4: I didn't want to drink some water fountain because it's

655
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 4: like public in guoth, he never offered to buy me

656
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 4: a drink. What about that? Here's that come from fish?

657
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 4: He's selfish and he'd probably be selfish in bed.

658
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 1: Whoa jackie? You are all over the place right now.

659
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: I understand your feelings are hurt because this didn't turn

660
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: out how you wanted it to. But this is not

661
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: the reaction that you are gonna want to have.

662
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 3: And honestly, I've never made that correlation before. Guys not

663
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 3: being good in bed, that don't buy water for women.

664
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 4: Well, you know you're also a guy.

665
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 3: Oh well that's fair, and I am, oh yeah, you're

666
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 3: going to keep it all to myself, Jeremy. Can you

667
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 3: confirm that you're a selfish guy? I'm sorry, Steve, can

668
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 3: you confirm that you're a selfish guy?

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Speaker 6: I don't know what's happened.

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Speaker 3: I just I just want to know what's your take

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Speaker 3: on this whole situation.

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Speaker 6: But on a good day, I just had a stronger

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Speaker 6: connection with someone else.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, you're running.

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Speaker 4: In my face, in your face, you know what he is?

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Speaker 4: He's running in my face over me?

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Speaker 3: Oh went with You don't know?

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Speaker 1: She was probably a lovely person.

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Speaker 4: You guys, what are you doing? You're like spinning this

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Speaker 4: to make him the victims.

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Speaker 3: Vicim of circumstances.

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Speaker 1: It's just how dating works, yea. Sometimes you meet somebody

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Speaker 1: you liked more.

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Speaker 3: I don't think he's in a like a committed relationship

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Speaker 3: with this other person. It sounds like just a casual date, right, Steve.

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Speaker 6: I really don't think I should say anymore.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you know what, really sad? I really wanted to

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Speaker 4: see your basement. I never got to see your basement.

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Speaker 1: Basement? Actually I would offer a tour in the basement.

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Speaker 3: Shouldn't say yes? I was kind of thinking the same thing.

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Speaker 3: I wonder what's in his basement?

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Speaker 4: How about?

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Speaker 3: What is he talking about?

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Speaker 6: I have a movie room in my basement and we

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Speaker 6: talked about that.

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Speaker 1: Really, she had a lot of hopes based around that

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Speaker 1: movie room. Oh god, don't little popcorn maker. And I

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Speaker 1: was all on Steve's side until he just poured salt

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Speaker 1: in the wound, all over that bopcord making.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 6: Sorry, it's a dope basement and yes I have multiple

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Speaker 6: flavored salts.

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Speaker 3: Wow, it kind of cool.

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Speaker 4: You need to go you show now, all right?

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Speaker 5: Hang up?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think maybe you just need to work on

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Speaker 1: yourself right now, Jackie.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, I'm deleting your text,

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Speaker 4: I'm blocking your number. You're never going to hear from

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Speaker 4: me again. I want you to know you lost out

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Speaker 4: on something really.

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Speaker 3: Good, really good, really stables type of relationship. So Steve,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, dude.

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Speaker 6: It's fine. I feel like I dodged a bullet. It's

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Speaker 6: like I'm watching the matrix and.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to hear from him.

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Speaker 3: Okay, see you you're gone. We dropped Steve. Oh wow,

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Speaker 3: okay Jackie, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, you guys. Honestly, it's fine.

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Speaker 4: I know men. After that, he is definitely going to

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Speaker 4: reach out to me like a little crazy.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's actually kind.

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Speaker 1: You A little is a different definition.

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Speaker 3: Are you saying you put all of that on just

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Speaker 3: to like get him to call you.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I used it up a little bit, but

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Speaker 4: I'm legitimately pissed.

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Speaker 3: That was a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine blown.

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Speaker 3: All right, well, Jackie, after you take your hiatus from

732
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Speaker 3: the dating world, call us and we can reach out

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Speaker 3: to that next guy for you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. No, I'm any it from Steve.

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Speaker 3: You heard about that basement, right, It is pretty dope. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I don't blame you.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to block him, and then he's gonna

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Speaker 4: call me, and you guys will end up doing an

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Speaker 4: update update on me.

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Speaker 1: Your healthy relationship direction.

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Speaker 3: This is going to go Jeffrey in the morning, Was

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Speaker 3: it me or did it feel like she definitely had

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Speaker 3: a plane of attack there?

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Speaker 1: What happened? Man? She said, she like what shausted up,

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00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: juiced it up? She did?

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Speaker 3: It was purpose.

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Speaker 1: It was an emotional roller coaster. I'm exhausted.

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Speaker 3: The second he mentioned a stronger connection with another woman,

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Speaker 3: she completely went off the handle. Yeah, but wouldn't it

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Speaker 3: be something though, if after all of this she was right.

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Speaker 1: That he did call her back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, Steve thinks about it, and he's like, you

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Speaker 3: know what, she's kind of unhinged, but I kind of.

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Speaker 1: Like it every level. Only way Steve's calling her back

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Speaker 1: is if it doesn't work out with the other girl. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: then I could see it. Maybe happening.

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Speaker 2: It's sure.

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Speaker 3: It's probably a less than one percent chance that it

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Speaker 3: all goes the way that she's thinking.

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Speaker 1: But wouldn't that be a wild update up?

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Speaker 3: There would be? Yeah, And I really appreciate her optimism

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Speaker 3: and all of your optimism in your dating lives. If

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00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 3: you want our help, we are ready to step in

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Speaker 3: and call that person who isn't calling you back. By

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Speaker 3: the way, go check out all of our second date updates.

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Speaker 3: They're up online wherever you get your podcasts at Brook

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Speaker 3: and Jeffrey