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Speaker 1: What's Happen slip Service. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: I'm Gid Maguire, Jordie, George, Judy Brett.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well listen, we'd love to have a happy couple

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Speaker 1: on the show. Yes, and the brand and Judy are

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Speaker 1: here with us. Read your book and so much information

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Speaker 1: in here. But I love the fact that you guys

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Speaker 1: were so damn honest about everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, like you don't think.

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Speaker 3: So, she said.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I said, yeah, like like I do. We

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Speaker 2: don't really know how to be no other way. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like if we're telling it, we just go tell it.

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Speaker 2: What is that? Yeah? I mean there were certain things

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Speaker 2: that you know.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, that's really honest, because I think

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Speaker 1: sometimes in relationships it is hard to talk about like

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Speaker 1: some of the trials and tribulations and things like you know,

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Speaker 1: you broke her phone and that was hard.

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Speaker 2: It was hard for me at first. I didn't want

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Speaker 2: to do a book at first.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, because I know you've always

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Speaker 1: been so private before, Judy, very private.

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Speaker 3: Yah yeah yeah, but I mean you can always see her.

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Speaker 3: Whole thing was we gave a lot in reality TV,

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Speaker 3: we give a lot on social media, but you can

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Speaker 3: always give a little bit more, right, just a little bit,

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Speaker 3: and then her fans like that.

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Speaker 1: Yep, it does feel like it pays to stalk somebody

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Speaker 1: you know on social media.

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Speaker 2: That what I took from this definitely does you know.

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Speaker 1: But what is interesting is even in the beginning of

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Speaker 1: your relationship, because it was like a second time around

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Speaker 1: that y'all had to happen, sometimes we'll give up at

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Speaker 1: that first time, right, That's the true point. Like people

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Speaker 1: will tell you, well, she's not texting back, she's not interested,

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Speaker 1: she's doing shady things, you know, and just leave that

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Speaker 1: person alone.

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Speaker 2: Don't do that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, if a person doesn't respond to

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Speaker 3: you after three o'clock, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Talk about something.

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Speaker 1: Having my phone down, right, believe that nobody.

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Speaker 3: Off and I try to not focus on my phone.

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Speaker 2: That's the truth. I'm a mix of both of y'all.

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Speaker 4: I think you would have been on the block list,

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Speaker 4: but I also like to just zone out in my

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Speaker 4: own world.

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Speaker 2: And it's not a person a long time to get

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Speaker 2: to that point, Like what she don't understand because she

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Speaker 2: never puts her fucking phone down or tutor because understanding

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Speaker 2: is hard. But it took me training, and it took

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Speaker 2: me a lot to get to that point to put

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Speaker 2: my phone down. Now I'm not saying I was right

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Speaker 2: for not picking up the phone or whatever, but with

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Speaker 2: my phone, when I do radio, when I do Dish Nation,

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Speaker 2: my phone has to be on silent, So that's two

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Speaker 2: separate times of the day. So my ship stays on

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Speaker 2: silent pretty much all the time. And when I got home,

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Speaker 2: my phone was on silent and I didn't look at

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Speaker 2: it until it was too late.

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Speaker 3: But she invited me to Atlanta from New Orleans. Even

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Speaker 3: if that's your routine, the name you invite somebody that's

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Speaker 3: supposed to be special, you would at least great that

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Speaker 3: alarm or something.

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Speaker 1: Right this day, you still kind of dowhere.

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Speaker 2: Whether she still.

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Speaker 3: Feels as though it wasn't wrong, and she feels as

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Speaker 3: though I should have told her I'm going I'm doing

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Speaker 3: something else. I decided to move on. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 3: keep on pursuing.

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Speaker 2: Them, right, because well, I'm trying to get to her

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Speaker 2: and make sure you don't have no baggage coming into

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Speaker 2: the relationship.

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Speaker 3: She done moved the fuck on.

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Speaker 2: Right, She'll be flying to Atlanta. It wasn't question right,

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Speaker 2: now if we never see each other, though, you act

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Speaker 2: like we didn't date and see each other at least

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Speaker 2: eight to ten times. So I know eight to ten times.

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Speaker 3: Three times she didn't answer the phone.

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Speaker 2: Three times we linked up and we saw each other

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Speaker 2: and spend time together.

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Speaker 3: We did, Okay, I'll give credit. There were times when

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Speaker 3: I flew here and I saw her. But after multiple

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Speaker 3: times of me flying here and there was no communication,

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Speaker 3: I said, there has to be something that's going on

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Speaker 3: or she can be as interested as I feel like

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Speaker 3: I'm interested in her, So let me do something else.

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Speaker 2: And she did would say you know what? Because we

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Speaker 2: were still talking. You could have said you know what,

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Speaker 2: but she was. You wasn't answering. That was not all

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Speaker 2: the time. She's gonna get all your to always chiming

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Speaker 2: on her side that.

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Speaker 3: You're standing on the island alone, beautiful. No, I'm not, no,

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Speaker 3: for real. Every single room we go in, everybody, everybody

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Speaker 3: understands that if somebody is letting you come to another

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Speaker 3: city and they don't answer, that that is an excuse

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Speaker 3: to stop talking to them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and you did, right, But y'all circle back around now.

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Speaker 1: Jordan did have a question because I know before y'all

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Speaker 1: got here, we were talking about this ahead, Jordy.

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Speaker 2: So you had to get rid of some hoes.

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Speaker 3: Right about six or seven.

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Speaker 2: But go, okay, whole roster. But people do that.

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Speaker 4: You're a single first, But how long do you think

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Speaker 4: it takes before you can get into the committed relationship

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Speaker 4: to get rid of all of them?

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Speaker 2: Well, if you was never fully completely happy and never

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Speaker 2: felt loved the way you felt loved from this person,

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Speaker 2: then you ready to ditch all that shit and feel

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Speaker 2: what it's making your body and soul feel from this person.

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Speaker 2: But I had to figure out ways to tell certain

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Speaker 2: people because there were kids involved in some situations, and

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Speaker 2: it was like, Okay, I'm attached here and I'm attached there.

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Speaker 2: So I was trying to just figure out how to

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Speaker 2: get rid of all that shit but not be grimey

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Speaker 2: or be an asshole about it, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: And you think you're non confrontational a little like you

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Speaker 1: kind of want to not just put it all out

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Speaker 1: because somebody could just be like, look I found somebody.

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Speaker 1: I mean when it comes to a relationship, like.

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Speaker 3: She don't give a fuck what she tell people outside

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Speaker 3: of it. That's what I'm saying people.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't care about you know sometimes, and I could be

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Speaker 1: that way too. I don't want to hurt somebody's feelings,

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Speaker 1: so I'm gonna like ease out of something instead of

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Speaker 1: just ripping off the band aid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. What were you dealing with.

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Speaker 1: Though that you had to because it feels like you

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Speaker 1: were outkay with just cutting everything off. Well, I was

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Speaker 1: dealing with her and that was it and nobody else correct.

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Speaker 1: But then once I saw what was going on, I said, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I didn't have people that weren't interested, right, I just

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Speaker 2: Doing anything that she didn't know. It wasn't in a

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Speaker 2: bad way.

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Speaker 3: I was just saying that because I didn't you dat

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Speaker 3: you because I was bored. I wasn't trying to be

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Speaker 3: with you because I was bored or I didn't have

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Speaker 3: anything else to do. I wanted to be with you.

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Speaker 3: I chose to deal with other people because I couldn't

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Speaker 3: you weren't it you weren't you know?

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Speaker 2: It wasn't you couldn't have a little bit more patience

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Speaker 2: before you went and got a nigga and to start

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Speaker 2: posting the nigga. I wasn't posting those bitches or even posting.

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Speaker 2: I could have posted niggas all day long. I just

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Speaker 2: didn't choose to put no niggas. But but your your way.

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Speaker 3: Of life was far different from mine. Yeah, I had

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Speaker 3: had public relationships.

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Speaker 2: Well, you didn't have to post that nigga all hugged

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Speaker 2: up with that nigga with your nails behind this cheese

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Speaker 2: and the ship. I'm like, damn, just last week we

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Speaker 2: were still talking. Yeah she did. I saw Instagram and

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Speaker 2: saw that ship.

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Speaker 1: You didn't a rebound situation. You felt like China, maybe

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Speaker 1: because sometimes we try to forget the least you can.

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Speaker 2: And that was somebody that I had dealt with in

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Speaker 2: the past. Okay, oh, same mask. So I just it's like.

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Speaker 3: You had just went back to the land to something

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Speaker 3: that you had been dealing with.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna let you get up about this

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Speaker 1: because I want to say, Brad, you did something real

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Speaker 1: wild that I don't know. You gave your ex your

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Speaker 1: car that did that's you know, that's a little crazy.

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Speaker 1: If I'm in a relationship, imagine me telling my here.

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Speaker 1: You can have you the first person that brought that

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Speaker 2: There was no child involved. The car would school cars

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Speaker 2: I had? I had a car, it was it was

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Speaker 2: a BMW. I had a couple of cars. But I

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Speaker 2: could I was.

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Speaker 3: We were a kid one a time, we were living together.

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Speaker 1: That's wild. I'm sorry I didn't bring it up.

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Speaker 2: Give the car?

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Speaker 1: How did you approach you about? How did you volunteer

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Speaker 1: to give this car? Because they didn't have nothing.

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Speaker 2: They didn't have nothing, and they wouldn't have had no

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Speaker 2: to school.

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Speaker 5: So I was like car collecting, Thus you can have it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I had a jeep, I had other vehicles.

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Speaker 5: Would it been better if she would have brought her

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Speaker 3: Well, So this is the thing. My issue wasn't necessarily

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Speaker 3: the value of the gift for anything. It was the

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Speaker 3: fact that we were at that point serious and this

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Speaker 3: wasn't a discussion for us made on her own, hadn't

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Speaker 3: informed me about and I found out How did you

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Speaker 3: find out? I think it was some male had came

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Speaker 3: or something, or there was something. I think it was

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Speaker 3: a text in her phone and her aunt was telling

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Speaker 3: her that the insurance needed to change, to change the

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Speaker 3: title of a car or something, and I.

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Speaker 2: Was like, why would you change it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: Something like that, and I was like, so I didn't.

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Speaker 3: And we actually didn't talk about it much. I might

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Speaker 3: have said a couple of words about it, but it

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Speaker 3: was it wasn't something that I could deal with, you know,

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Speaker 3: it was something I could change, right, But I just

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Speaker 3: just like, oh, okay, so that's the same person you

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Speaker 3: texted they got pretty feet.

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Speaker 1: Oh you did do that too, and it gave them

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Speaker 1: a car and then okay, but it feels like a

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Speaker 1: learning exp as for you to be in a relationship

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Speaker 1: this serious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And that person was like, my friend, you know

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, I've never been in love the

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Speaker 2: way I'm in love with you. I've never felt that's

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Speaker 2: your ex. Yeah, but like I'll be.

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Speaker 6: The same situation would have happened, Say, homeboy, you said

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Speaker 6: the chess nigga whatever you call him, what you call him,

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Speaker 6: say if he needed a cardigan, lame mass nigga. Okay,

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Speaker 6: So if lame mass Nigga needed a cardiget his son

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Speaker 6: back and forth to school, and he was in that

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Speaker 6: same predicament and she did the same thing, would you

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Speaker 6: be okay?

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Speaker 2: With it. I would be okay when she got like

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Speaker 2: twenty cars, Like a car is not a thing, Like

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Speaker 2: it's not a big deal if it was kids involved, Yes,

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know, but I do feel like and like

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Speaker 2: What had probably been around your baby daddy? But what

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Speaker 3: How is that a comparison That means his kids involved?

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Speaker 2: But otherwise I wouldn't want you to have after that.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, my.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you remember what that was.

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Speaker 3: I got off the car to support my child who

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Speaker 3: is would have said anything out of line with my son.

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Speaker 3: It just would have been on as his mother stood

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Speaker 2: Daddy, and I should have been standing there with you

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Speaker 1: But I think and the defense it is hard because

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Speaker 1: sometimes it's okay to talk to your ex if y'all

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Speaker 2: But they are definitely.

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Speaker 3: Talking about a funeral of my children's grandmother and my

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Speaker 3: son's graduation party from college. I have never seen that

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Speaker 3: nigga outside of that. My children ain't they twenty me

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Speaker 3: grad That's it. Baby and daddy situations are far different.

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Speaker 2: It. Had a couple of conversations with him on the phone,

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Speaker 3: He tried to text me and I never responded.

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Speaker 2: To beutiful, You've had a couple of conversations with his

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Speaker 3: About what his mama was passing away.

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Speaker 1: And they were I mean, I would say, what do

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Speaker 3: And this wasn't kids that like my children are old. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so this was about this was before the grandmother passed,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this wasn't.

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Speaker 3: This wasn't hey, girl, you know how you been on

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Speaker 3: what's going on? That's all your same baby daddy because

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Speaker 3: I had baby daddy issues in the past, right, like

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Speaker 3: but no problem. But that is it's far beyond that.

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Speaker 3: He has his life. I have my life and our

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Speaker 1: How did he feel when he found out about this

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Speaker 3: Did he say anything to you? We don't talk.

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Speaker 2: He had already they both had already moved on from right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and we don't talk like she had a few bitches

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Speaker 3: Yeah, after I had my children with my baby, and

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Speaker 3: my children are in their twenties. I think after my

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Speaker 3: the last time we dealt and my kids in their twenties.

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Speaker 1: Now, listen, I just want to say, let's talk about

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Speaker 1: some of these things in the book.

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Speaker 3: You'd have brought up the bits.

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Speaker 2: All right now. We talked about on everything on Beautiful,

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Speaker 3: Are you serious? Before you gave a bit of car

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Speaker 3: when we was in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful, you told the bitch was people didn't when we

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Speaker 2: were living together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that was a little violet sleeping in the

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Speaker 1: same bed.

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Speaker 2: It was not. It was innocent, Beautiful you're trying to

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Speaker 2: get was like my parents. I wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Girl.

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Speaker 2: You were saying, I had to deal with your baby

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Speaker 2: daddy at a.

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Speaker 1: Funeral, But you know I wasn't flirting with So what

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Speaker 2: I mean, the bitch the girl never got a pedicure before.

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Speaker 2: She didn't used to get pedicules all the time. So

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Speaker 2: she had got a pedicule and she sent the picture

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Speaker 2: of her toes and I was like, oh, pretty pretty

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Speaker 2: toes or something like that, And oh my god. Had

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Speaker 2: I known she didn't like that or would get offended

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Speaker 2: by it, I would not have done it.

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Speaker 3: What in what situation is that even? Okay though?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why she sending you a picture of her toes

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Speaker 1: because she got her feet done because she wanted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like she got that's difference.

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Speaker 3: Yes, she knew we were together because prior to uh, yeah,

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Speaker 3: she knew we were together because she moved from there

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Speaker 4: Who So when did you finally cut her off? When

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Speaker 5: Because after the car, after the toes in the car.

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Speaker 3: If I had to, if I had to give an estamate,

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Speaker 3: I'm always see what she said. But if I had

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Speaker 3: to give an estimate, probably three four months maybe six

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Speaker 3: months from us living together.

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Speaker 2: No, that's not true.

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Speaker 3: Six months, yes, because y'all because y'all were talking prior

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Speaker 3: to it, just being you and the child were talking.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember I'm gonna to break up with somebody

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Speaker 1: when you're in their kids life. Sometimes that's a little

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Speaker 5: So is there still communication with you and the child?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Okay, and you're fine with that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, courage, I encourage. It's still uncomfortable for me though,

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Speaker 2: because I know how she feels. Kind of I don't

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Speaker 2: have nothing. Who means he might be like, bring some

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Speaker 2: ship up, like how we used to walk the dogs

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Speaker 2: or something, and I'd like.

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Speaker 3: That wouldn't bother me. That bothers me nervous.

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Speaker 2: To bring up it would be.

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Speaker 3: To me, you know. Oh you know my mom said,

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Speaker 3: when are you coming over? That would make it strange?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you like, why would you be going over there?

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Speaker 2: What old her?

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Speaker 3: I've been the person to say, hey, invite such and

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Speaker 3: such over, Hey, when the last time you talked to

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Speaker 1: What are your thoughts about exes and communicating with exes

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Speaker 6: Well, when their children, and when there's children involved, it's

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Speaker 6: kind of you kind of have to still have some

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Speaker 6: type of communication, especially if there's co parenting or for

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Speaker 6: in your instance, you were involved in that child's life

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Speaker 6: even though it's not yours.

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Speaker 2: I don't communicate with the parents at all, but the child, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: the child, okay, But.

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Speaker 4: I've never been in that situation. I don't talk to

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Speaker 4: my exes and my my man at least from what

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Speaker 4: I know, don't talk to them either. So I feel

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Speaker 4: like my exes will text me like happy birthday and

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Speaker 4: that's the extent of it.

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Speaker 2: I can't even do that. You can't even do that.

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Speaker 2: I can't even texting somebody happy birthday. I wouldn't do

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Speaker 2: it because I know she don't like it. And that

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Speaker 2: comes which I learned from writing the book, from a

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Speaker 2: ex I guess, so now she's like, it's off limits.

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Speaker 2: We're not talking to our exits.

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Speaker 1: And it is also understanding, Like you guys stress a

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Speaker 1: be understanding of where somebody comes from. Like for you,

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Speaker 1: at first, being public was hard for you. Even taking

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Speaker 1: used to paparazzi and people posting things and not wanning

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Speaker 1: your business out there like that. And for you, Judy,

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Speaker 1: you're so used to being a public figure, having a

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Speaker 1: brand Kaleidoscope that was you know, and I know you

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Speaker 1: from Kaleidoscope from way back in the day, from having

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Speaker 1: social media and social media. So that is such a conflict.

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Speaker 1: I think in the beginning that y'all have to really

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, when I first got with her, I

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Speaker 3: was adapting to her. Yeah, so I still was going

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Speaker 3: to be public facing myself, but when it came to

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Speaker 3: where we were in public, I just I let her

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Speaker 3: manager and be like, is it okay to send her flowers?

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Speaker 3: What name do I put it on? If I send it?

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Speaker 3: Like I was trying to like I wasn't trying to

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Speaker 3: blow her up, No, I was. I was I was like,

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Speaker 3: how the fun how do you date a celebrity? Like

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Speaker 3: what's that? What's celebrity etiquette? And then if they not out,

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Speaker 3: what's the editing? How the funk are you supposed to

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Speaker 3: do this?

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Speaker 2: What do you do?

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Speaker 3: And I want to take up to the movies, how

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Speaker 3: do I I can't take up to the movie, So

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Speaker 3: where can I take?

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Speaker 2: Can I take out to eat?

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Speaker 3: I can't, Like I was asking all the questions.

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Speaker 1: You know, It's interesting because people will also tell you

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Speaker 2: You had your reason.

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Speaker 1: You talk about Ellen DeGeneres in the book and how

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Speaker 2: And so cool back in the day at all.

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Speaker 1: And so that's also because people will give you that advice, Well,

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Speaker 1: if that person doesn't want to live in their tooth

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Speaker 1: and be out, then you shouldn't date that person, because

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Speaker 1: we've heard that, especially when it comes to men. I

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to be a secret, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to do X, Y and Z. What made you feel like,

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Speaker 1: because I know that can also be tough for you. You

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Speaker 2: But how was that for you?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I was ok with it. I ain't give

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Speaker 3: a funk. I liked her. I didn't care like you.

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 3: I was I'm public facing and I was gonna do

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Speaker 3: the promotion that I did. I was gonna be myself.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna give the business advice on social media.

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Speaker 3: You just wasn't gonna know who I was fucking at

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Speaker 3: that point. You just wasn't gonna know. And I was perfect.

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Speaker 3: I was okay either way. I was fine. She was

444
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:30,160
Speaker 3: like when we got serious. She held my hand in public,

445
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:32,679
Speaker 3: and then her team was like, what.

446
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,240
Speaker 2: The fuck is going on?

447
00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:38,560
Speaker 3: Security grabbed his hand, her manager grabbed the other hand.

448
00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:39,440
Speaker 2: So we all.

449
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:44,920
Speaker 3: Nobody doing nothing, and then we in her dressing room.

450
00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,000
Speaker 3: I think it was backstage of Essence. She pulled me

451
00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:49,280
Speaker 3: down and sit on her lap, and everybody closing doors,

452
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 3: and I'm just like, I.

453
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,120
Speaker 2: Don't know what the going on. You were like, I'm

454
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 2: tired of this ship. Yeah. I wanted the world to know.

455
00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,119
Speaker 2: At that point, I was a love child and I

456
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 2: was just like, I want everybody to know. And I

457
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 2: didn't care. I wanted to perform. I wanted her right

458
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,320
Speaker 2: in the front of the stage, and I performed. I

459
00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:09,080
Speaker 2: wanted the kiss on her, lean on her, hug on her,

460
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 2: and she was so cool with that, and she didn't care.

461
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,919
Speaker 2: She didn't mind. It was just so it just felt

462
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:17,399
Speaker 2: so good and free, you know. But everybody was the

463
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 2: beginning of it. So everybody was like, oh, ship, what's

464
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 2: going on? Yo? Be you eye. I'm like, yeah, I'm good,

465
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 2: leave me alone.

466
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 6: Did you have to have a talk with your team? Like, listen,

467
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,199
Speaker 6: that's what it is, Yeah, moving forward.

468
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 2: But it was so many years of them being like that,

469
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 2: it took them a second to get out of protecting.

470
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 2: Like when we went to go eat at Morals and

471
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 2: we were sitting next to each other and I was

472
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 2: damn in her skin. I was sitting so close. I

473
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:48,159
Speaker 2: took my shoes off and it was there's a liar

474
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,719
Speaker 2: was in there, and I did not care. And my

475
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 2: team was like yo, and they was holding I was

476
00:21:58,720 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 2: not used to it.

477
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: I would love to have been like, get a girl,

478
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because that's how it feels like.

479
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 1: You never would like that before. So for them to

480
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 1: witness that that had to feel like, this is definitely.

481
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 6: Clearly you were that, like you said, in love and

482
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 6: they're comfortable with the situation that you really just didn't

483
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 6: give up.

484
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 2: This is what it is.

485
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,160
Speaker 1: And let's be clear, nobody was surprised because it ain't

486
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: like you were like coming out and everybody.

487
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 3: It's like, okay, it's not like that's how I feel.

488
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,360
Speaker 3: But she was like, you know, but I had never

489
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 3: said it.

490
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, A lot a lot of people didn't know a

491
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 2: lot of niggas thought no, yeah, because you did have

492
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 2: boyfriends before. So yeaheah.

493
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 1: That was another thing that y'all talk about in the book,

494
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: is an interview that you did. Because when she asked.

495
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: Well, if you did an interview, I wouldn't have minded, Yes,

496
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,719
Speaker 3: the funk you would, especially if then when super viral

497
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 3: about the sexual things I did with my mind, it knows.

498
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: I was just sitting there fucking having a conversation with Candy.

499
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 2: I didn't think that that would go viral. I really

500
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,919
Speaker 2: didn't like. That was the first podcast I had ever did, like,

501
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 2: and I only did it because I'm cool with Kady.

502
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,640
Speaker 2: We grew up together as kids. So I said, okay,

503
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go do it, and you were sitting right

504
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 2: there like once again, had I now it was not

505
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 2: I was?

506
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 3: I was y'all were in the interview room. I was outside.

507
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 3: You remember y'all did that. I wasn't in that room.

508
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 2: Man, But had I known that that was gonna offend

509
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 2: you outline, It was too late.

510
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 3: I couldn't taking that that that clip about what how

511
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 3: she would did whatever when whatever win however coming out

512
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 3: of her mouth, it was her saying it. It just

513
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 3: was every outlet and then everybody else reposting it, and

514
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 3: then a year or so past and it went viral again.

515
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: Oh shit, that's so annoyed, double double I was. Yeah,

516
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 1: but that listen, we talked about RIALNA and being truthful

517
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: because part of the truth is and y'all doing reality

518
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 1: TV and you've said this, if we have an argument,

519
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 1: we're not turning the cameras off.

520
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 2: We're gonna show it all.

521
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: And that is a truth, right, So it's the good

522
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 1: with the bad, Like if we're gonna be too full

523
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:16,439
Speaker 1: and honest and put things out there and do it,

524
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 1: then we can't say sometimes and sometimes not.

525
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,360
Speaker 3: No, I agree, but I don't think she would want

526
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 3: me doing an interview with you and telling your view

527
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 3: those problems, right, how I like the service I am

528
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 3: body right, but.

529
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 2: That is that those are things that happened. But had

530
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 2: I known you didn't want me to do that or

531
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 2: that would have offended you, I would not have done it.

532
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 2: Have I ever done it again. Ever, even when I'm

533
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 2: asked about it, I run the other fucking way. I

534
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 2: don't want to talk about that, nigga.

535
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 3: I don't want to know about But let's let's let's

536
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 3: be cause I don't want it to seem like I

537
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 3: have you over here in captivity in jail. If I

538
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 3: was on a podcast talking about how I saw.

539
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 2: Dick, you would be mad about that.

540
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 3: You would if I said how like if I was

541
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 3: to say throat goat and all the rest of that

542
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 3: shit about me sucking dick, you would have a problem.

543
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,919
Speaker 2: With that, right. But I didn't know that you were

544
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 2: going to be offended. I was having a conversation with

545
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 2: Candy about.

546
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,239
Speaker 3: Things, So text me how to being offended? Had I

547
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 3: done it, how would you feel?

548
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 2: I probably wouldn't have liked it.

549
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 3: And then if it was all over all the outlets.

550
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: Well I didn't know that was. But damn I didn't

551
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 2: know that was. I know.

552
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, so take me out of what happened,

553
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:26,640
Speaker 3: like what you.

554
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,439
Speaker 2: Had to say. I just said, I wish it wouldn't

555
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 2: have happened. I don't want you to apologize.

556
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 3: All I'm saying not because it's me, just because you

557
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 3: wouldn't want it done to you. That's it.

558
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 2: That's it, not because.

559
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 3: You offended me, but because you just wouldn't have wanted

560
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 3: it for yourself.

561
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: She's like, Okay, but look y'all put it in the buck,

562
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: so that's it's fair game to bring it up.

563
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 2: But absolutely.

564
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, So doing reality TV, it's just interesting because of

565
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: like y'all just being so open with people having a

566
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: chance for them to see like the those really special moments.

567
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: I thought, as far as reality TV, I really enjoyed

568
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 1: that because you know, reality TV can be messy. Yeah,

569
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like that was messy. I mean, there's

570
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: messy things that are gonna happen in real life, but

571
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: it's not like contrived messiness.

572
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 3: No, agreed, Agreed. I think that was a big thing

573
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 3: about like when the cameras were there and we would

574
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,159
Speaker 3: argue or like an argument would be brewing, put the

575
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 3: cameras out, No bitch, they staying.

576
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was trying to put them out.

577
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 3: They gonna stay because we're going to get past the argument.

578
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 3: And this isn't We're not about to I'm not We're

579
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,919
Speaker 3: not about to executive produce some doctored up something like

580
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: let them see it, let them see that we're human,

581
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 3: that yes we've had an argument, but then they're going

582
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 3: to see the other side of it. We can do this, right,

583
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 3: It's not it's not going to end here, not granted

584
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 3: the way it's cut.

585
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 2: It's gonna end there. So you watch the next week.

586
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 3: But you're going to see clearly, you're going to see,

587
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 3: you know, the other side of it.

588
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 2: Man.

589
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: I just want to say, even talking to you guys

590
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: and hearing y'all work through these conversations, it felt like

591
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 1: reading this book that y'all have been in therapy, like

592
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: and I know that's been a thing too. You can

593
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: read that and tell just some time of the things

594
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 1: that you're like, okay, And I feel like this is

595
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 1: a universal rule, like don't go to bed mad at

596
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: each other. Now I will go to bed mad, she willed.

597
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: I will literally not talk to you for like two days.

598
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 2: She will too. I'm gonna not talk to her, right,

599
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 2: but we might not resolve it two days. Sometimes you

600
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 2: agree to disagree, yeah, yeah, but shit needs Shit needs

601
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 2: to be a resolved because then if it comes back

602
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 2: up again, we never fucking talked about it and resolved

603
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 2: it in the first place. Because she thene walked off

604
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 2: in the middle of an argument because she know how

605
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 2: to compartmentalize shit better than I do, and go fucking

606
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 2: get on the computer on some colleidoscope and do some

607
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:49,360
Speaker 2: mirrors or launch a new product or some ship while

608
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 2: I'm still over there pissed off, and like, when is

609
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 2: we gonna talk about this ship? We go to bed,

610
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 2: she on one side of the bed, I'm on the

611
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 2: other side. We got a backs hert and we both cold,

612
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 2: sleeping with our backs against each other, but we don't

613
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 2: went on to sleep. I don't like that. I still

614
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 2: don't like that, but she still do it. I don't

615
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 2: like that.

616
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 3: Something you should work tomorrow, I said no, I said

617
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 3: I would. I said I would. And so even though

618
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 3: walking out, it's not walking out because I want to

619
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 3: have my way. And this is the part that she

620
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 3: that she left out conveniently. It's when our tone, like

621
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 3: when when the inflection changes and I realize I'm angry.

622
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 3: I try to de escalate the situation by leaving because

623
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 3: at this point now I'm yelling.

624
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: Well, if it don't raise your voice, it won't get to.

625
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 3: That, right, But but I and I try, so she'll

626
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 3: she often says, I get up here, and then she

627
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 3: takes me tell me take my tone down, and I do,

628
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 3: but then it goes back up. So I realize I'm

629
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 3: in a state where I probably need to take a

630
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 3: couple of seconds and not stay here in this and

631
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 3: either keep yelling or say something I don't mean, and

632
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 3: then just leave the situation. Either try to focus on

633
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 3: something else, or leave the situation, go in the room,

634
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 3: do something else, and then I'll come back in the room.

635
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I try. I do.

636
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: So I'm that way, and y'all know that about me.

637
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 1: If I'm mad, I can't talk about it at that moment.

638
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: I gotta wait until I feel more rational, because you

639
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: know how sometimes and.

640
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 2: Then amazing other things happen and then it's not important anymore.

641
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 2: It's still important, but I see that you could the

642
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 2: bottom of the totem pole.

643
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: It's not that I just don't like to be super

644
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 1: emotional when I'm discussing something, because I also need a

645
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: moment sometimes to think about it because I could be wrong.

646
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: But sometimes when you're wrong, you don't want to say

647
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: you're wrong in that moment until you need like an

648
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: hour or a couple of hours to be like.

649
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 2: Because also sometimes it's not even about that argument.

650
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: We might have other things going on and you got

651
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: to feel like this was stressful. Let me just because

652
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: I've been stressed out a lot lately and taking it

653
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: out and I'm like, I just got to take a

654
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: minute because I don't want to, like you said, I

655
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: don't want to say something that I'm a regret saying.

656
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 2: And then now there's.

657
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: No Once you say something and put it out there,

658
00:29:56,120 --> 00:30:01,959
Speaker 1: that's that. Yeah, So that's just someth But reading your book, like,

659
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: I'm getting a lot of tips on how I should.

660
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: Deal with things. What are you ladies? Then? Absolutely? What's up?

661
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Speaker 4: I have a lot of T shirt requests. There was

662
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 4: a lot of sayings in here I had to write down.

663
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 4: I was cracking up. Let me see what they are.

664
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 4: The first one is neither of us have a problem

665
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 4: speaking in our minds and cursing a bitch out. If

666
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 4: we have to check your mother tone, read the tea leaves.

667
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 4: It's okay to split if you just don't fit to

668
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 4: show some love and get your flirt on. Okay, these

669
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 4: are cute little T shirts with the book shirt merch. Now,

670
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 4: what about rules as far as putting your phone down

671
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 4: because Brad, we know you've been good at that, but

672
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 4: Judy you not so much, right, and there's times when

673
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 4: work and but justifiably, I felt like that was a

674
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 4: good compromise that you both made, right, you being able

675
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 4: to show like, look when I'm on my phone, look

676
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 4: at the results from me posting and doing these things,

677
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 4: because Brad, like we know you've been the person that's

678
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,479
Speaker 4: always been kind of like taking a break from that,

679
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 4: not putting stuff out there, but then also realizing the

680
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 4: power and.

681
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 2: The economical power especially now.

682
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, so that's I feel like that's something

683
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: that definitely has been a good compromise for both of you.

684
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've gotten better. Yeah, I've gotten better at posting

685
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 2: and doing my social media stuff. And yeah, she's still

686
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: be on her phone twenty four to seven. But I

687
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: understand and I try to not be so like when

688
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get some time, you know what I'm saying,

689
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 2: Because I know there's a lot of things that she

690
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 2: has to do, like running a company as a motherfucker,

691
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 2: and it's just a lot of people and a lot

692
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: of moving parts, and so many things happen every single

693
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 2: day that falls on her. No matter what happens in

694
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 2: the company, it's on her. It falls on her the

695
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 2: face of it, and that's that's that's a heavy plate

696
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 2: to have, like and I just wish I could do

697
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 2: more to help fix it. But I don't know shit

698
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 2: about the industry like that. But it's just a lot,

699
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 2: and it'd be a lot on her where she has

700
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 2: to be on the computer twenty four to seven, looking

701
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 2: at numbers, looking at this, looking at that, smelling products,

702
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 2: picking the bottles, and that.

703
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 3: I hate that you've had to see this side of

704
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 3: entrepreneurship and experience. When you have a great team, you

705
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 3: don't have to be as active as I have now.

706
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 3: I do have some great team, absolutely, but I haven't

707
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 3: been able to find my power team where I take

708
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 3: my hand off the wheel. I learned last year. I

709
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 3: thought I got my power team and I took my

710
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 3: hat off of the wheel and it almost took me out.

711
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 5: So if I have to put out fires.

712
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,479
Speaker 1: That is one of the hardest things about being an

713
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: entrepreneur is nobody cares about your business more than you do, correct,

714
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: And it's so hard to find anybody who even like cares,

715
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: you know, as much.

716
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: All the time.

717
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 3: I didn't know that I've never never in my life.

718
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 2: I just.

719
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 3: So, I didn't know that people lie on them, right,

720
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: Like I went straight from doing hair to sell my

721
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 3: hair products.

722
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 2: I didn't.

723
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 3: I don't even know what the fuck how to fucking

724
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 3: compil orhythm right, you know, like if you say you're

725
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 3: a brain surgeon.

726
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 2: Who lies about that?

727
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 3: But no surgeon, what happens to the surgery? The person

728
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 3: fucking die? You take it that fucking far, like the

729
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 3: person dies.

730
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 2: But you know?

731
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: And but what about times like say you guys are

732
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: watching a movie together at home Netflix and chill, will

733
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 1: you put your phone down during the movie or you

734
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: one of those people that's still gonna be.

735
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 3: I respectfully, I will put my phone down if we

736
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 3: make an intension time, I will put my phone down

737
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 3: during the movie. I will if we're watching something or

738
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 3: if it's something that we've made specific time out about.

739
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 3: But if we watching a movie and it's launch today,

740
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 3: that's that's something different. Like something might come on and

741
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 3: it's something specific that day that I know, you know

742
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,439
Speaker 3: that we have to monitor. But outside of it, I try.

743
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 3: You know, No, you don't agree, She's like, no, what's.

744
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:19,280
Speaker 2: The last movie? Y'all watched it home together.

745
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 3: Radiculy, we had we had a date night in our

746
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 3: movie theater with our son.

747
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: I love the light flex in our sprinkle date in

748
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: our movie theater. Right, Oh wow, I love a light

749
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: flex like that.

750
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 3: I'm hard.

751
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 2: Okay.

752
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 3: We put blankets on the floor. Well I put blankets

753
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 3: on the floor and put pillows on there, and I surprised.

754
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 2: It with a movie theater like a movie date. Yeah,

755
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 2: corn dog bit right.

756
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 3: She liked sentimental ship like that, like all the stuff

757
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 3: I've ever given her in life besides our son. She

758
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 3: prefers the type of.

759
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 7: Like she like, like I do the I like to,

760
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 7: you know, let me put a let's put a theater

761
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 7: outside and let's get the minions live dancing, you know,

762
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 7: like that's that's what I am.

763
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 3: She is to put your phone down, grab some pillows,

764
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 3: grab a blanket, let's get nice and cozy like and

765
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 3: I like that. So that's what that's what we did.

766
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 5: I love that.

767
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: Now I want to talk about some some current things

768
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 1: that are happening on social media. Hold on because I

769
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: want to get you guys to weigh in and look,

770
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: I know that you for you, Brett, I also know

771
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: you as a radio fellow radio personality. Uh, you're very

772
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 1: well versed in being able to talk about these things.

773
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me pull up my lip service notes.

774
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 1: All right, let's see.

775
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 2: Oh no, let's not do that one. All right.

776
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 1: I'm oh, I'm not gonna do this one to you

777
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 1: because then I don't want you all to get into

778
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 1: an argument.

779
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: That's fucked up. Now they think we're gonna get into an.

780
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: Argument, I'm totally kidding. Now, it's a tot wrestling site.

781
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: We know you like pretty yeah, all right, now how

782
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: about this. Hmmm, I'm trying to find which one of

783
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: you said, Oh, yeah, she's on her phone right now.

784
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 2: Oh girl, don't do that.

785
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: I mean, and it's got to be fun for you

786
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: guys to be on this book tour together. I have

787
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: to imagine that being in love with somebody and being

788
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 1: partners with somebody and being able to travel and do

789
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: these things like as a team and do a reality

790
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: show together and go through that journey. And also I

791
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 1: think the documenting the IVF journey was so important too.

792
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: I feel like for a lot of women, those conversations

793
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 1: and being able to visually see that and go through

794
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 1: that experience with you was so powerful.

795
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

796
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think us doing stuff together has been great.

797
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 3: Now it does have its challenge too. Like when we

798
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 3: were doing reality TV, we different if we got to

799
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 3: do three scenes right in the day, do the motherfuckers

800
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 3: back to back? Start at ed am finish at two?

801
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 3: She wants to finish at six because she wants the

802
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 3: breaks in between. But don't give me the break.

803
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: You want to just keep going.

804
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 3: I want to knock the out.

805
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 2: I wanted the second to not have to look at

806
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 2: all the motherfuckers for a minute, right, I would.

807
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 3: Go, I will go in the room and change and

808
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 3: let's go to them like that's who I am.

809
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 5: I am, and get it right a minute. Let me

810
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 5: be impressed.

811
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 3: I am.

812
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: I'm also like, let me just get it all knocked

813
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 1: out at once, because I want to be done earlier.

814
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 5: I would appreciate the breaks.

815
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:46,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, but what all the way through running through?

816
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 4: We went all the way through all right?

817
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: Now, let me ask you guys this, do you think

818
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: I feel like for you? You've been a relationship type

819
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 1: of person, like kind of always in a relationship you

820
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: is this your first.

821
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 2: Real serious relationship? I know you have your AX. Who

822
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 2: you nah that No, not my first real serious relationship.

823
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 1: But this is the first time you feel like you've

824
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:13,479
Speaker 1: been in love? Yes, okay to this level. Yes, every

825
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 1: time you like somebody you think you love it. But

826
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 1: when it gets to a level that you've never felt before,

827
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: then you know.

828
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 2: What was different for you? What's different for me?

829
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 3: Yeah?

830
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:26,280
Speaker 2: Like, what was different? She gave me butterflies. She made

831
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 2: me feel sick to my stomach. I was trying to

832
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 2: be cool and drinks of tequila. I missed my whole

833
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 2: mouth when I slung up the hole in the couch.

834
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 2: It was just the way she made me feel. And

835
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 2: I just had never felt like that in my body

836
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 2: or my soul before. And I was just like, damn, bitch,

837
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 2: you must have been sent from God because I have

838
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 2: never I had never felt that way. And I thought

839
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 2: I had felt love before and been in love before

840
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 2: and loved this person and loved that person and thought

841
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 2: they loved me. But it was it wasn't And you

842
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 2: don't know it until you experienced it. Yeah, you like, damn,

843
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 2: this is what it is? This is what about you? Judy?

844
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 2: How did you know?

845
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: How is this different than every other relationship you've been in?

846
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 3: Beautiful is the most nurturing person I've met in my life.

847
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 3: Like she has this really really hard exterior, really hard,

848
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,839
Speaker 3: but she is the She is the kindest soul you'll

849
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 3: ever meet, and every she puts me before everything, including herself,

850
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 3: like I've never had, I've never experienced because she hate

851
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 3: when I talk about it, but but she's she's admitted it.

852
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 3: She feels like I should be before everything, and so

853
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 3: I don't have to wash a dish, take out any trash,

854
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 3: wash any clothes. She doesn't like me doing any manual

855
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 3: labor life life. Absolutely, but I think it's because, like

856
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 3: she said, she watches me work extremely hard, so she

857
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 3: wants me to do nothing outside of it. She wants

858
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 3: to make sure that even down to when I get

859
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 3: out of bit in the morning, if she's home, she's

860
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 3: making up the bed, like by the time I even

861
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 3: get back to the bed, even if it's seven minutes

862
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 3: in between. Absolutely, and she enjoys doing the domesticated things.

863
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 3: So I think for me, this experience with love showed

864
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 3: me because my parents were married up until the day

865
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 3: that my dad died, and I watched that fairy tale love.

866
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 3: So for a while I thought that fairy tale love

867
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 3: was impossible because I saw it with my parents, but

868
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 3: I thought maybe it might not be possible for me,

869
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 3: or if it is, I don't know, maybe it missed it.

870
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 2: I don't know.

871
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 3: But then once I experienced love with her, let me

872
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,320
Speaker 3: know that it's not only possible, that my story actually

873
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:39,840
Speaker 3: is different and it's better than what I saw with

874
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 3: my parents because it's mine. Yeah, it's the exact how

875
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 3: I want it to be.

876
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 1: And I think it's also what we see. Like with

877
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: having so much access to people's lives, we don't see

878
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 1: a lot of great examples. I would say that there's

879
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: a few, but I think we see so much dysfunction

880
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 1: when it comes to relationships that we start to think

881
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 1: that's normal.

882
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's real. Or when you see successful ones,

883
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 3: everybody wants to call one of them lane, Like think

884
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 3: about Rust and Sierra.

885
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: Like everybody say, right, everybody wanted to pray for everybody.

886
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they happy.

887
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, now, y'all have butterflies before the first up. Your

888
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: first kiss was outside of my ros right, all right,

889
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 1: so in the alleyway.

890
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, we stuck on the side of the building. I

891
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:34,280
Speaker 2: was so scared.

892
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 1: So what was it like the first time y'all really

893
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: hooked up, like sexually? What was that experience?

894
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:46,760
Speaker 3: Like, you know what the first when we slept together

895
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 3: the first time, like not sex, but slept together. She

896
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,439
Speaker 3: went slept on the sofa and I was in the bed,

897
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 3: and I was like, why did.

898
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 2: You do that? Because I didn't want her to think

899
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 2: that I wanted to sleep with it. I just didn't

900
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 2: want to think that, you know, I'm this rapper to

901
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 2: just want to fuck her when she comes see me.

902
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 2: She was on you though, I didn't want to think

903
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 2: I was being like that, like I didn't want to

904
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 2: see her. I went, I went by her, I went

905
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 2: over there by her. You got on the sofa.

906
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't have got on the sofa, but when

907
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 3: it came to that, I let I let her lead.

908
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 2: I let her lead.

909
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 3: I didn't want to be the aggressive.

910
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 2: I let her lead.

911
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 3: But she also, what's the first time at the condo?

912
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah?

913
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: And then you got a condo in Atlanta when you

914
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 1: moved to Atlanta.

915
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 3: So when I before, before we got a house, I got,

916
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 3: you know, one of the the temporary like the furnished condent.

917
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: Movies bringing right, I iced to have money that you

918
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: could be just moving around.

919
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 3: Like I was trying to figure I was I was,

920
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 3: I knew I wanted to leave New Orleans. I was

921
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 3: trying to figure out what shitty to be in. I

922
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 3: was dating her, so I was, you know, coming back

923
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 3: and forth to Atlanta. I had had that place, and

924
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 3: she her work was like ten to fifteen minutes, so

925
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 3: she would stop by in the morning when she was

926
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 3: headed to work and radio in the morning from sixty ten,

927
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 3: and then she would come after work and hang out.

928
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 3: And so when we first slept together, she didn't want

929
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 3: to leave, and not like I didn't. I was trying

930
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 3: to put her out, but she she just kept coming over,

931
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 3: kept coming over, kept coming over.

932
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: And now did she have a key? Did you think

933
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 2: I think I did?

934
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 3: I think I think it was like the little key

935
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 3: card thing. Yeah she had the key card.

936
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 2: I don't think I had a key.

937
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 3: No, but you was able to get in and out

938
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 3: of the garage. Yeah she had a key card. But yeah,

939
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 3: she didn't have a key. Okay, it was it was

940
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 3: a thing.

941
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 2: The door, but I could but get up to the door.

942
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 3: It was a thing with her with multiple organisms, so

943
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 3: she was wanted back. It wouldn't be just one. So

944
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 3: she like, she will want me to. She didn't want

945
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 3: to just let it happen once. So our first time

946
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 3: it was that she started that. She started that way.

947
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 3: She started with I'm not done with you.

948
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

949
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:18,760
Speaker 3: That from there she she built it. She she just said,

950
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 3: I'm trying to see how many you can get.

951
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: To oh wow, wait for you to have multiple orgasms.

952
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 2: But but then she didn't let me do her that though,

953
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 2: because I'm one and done. I'm good with one. I

954
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,439
Speaker 2: come so hard, I'm so good with just one time.

955
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: Multiple orgasms are a skill multiple because I think that's not.

956
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 2: Can you do it? I actually absolutely can.

957
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 3: Right, but just I don't think you gotta have a

958
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 3: few minutes in between.

959
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 2: It can't.

960
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 3: It can't be back and then you gotta yes intense

961
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 3: one yeah, like give me about seven to twelve minutes

962
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:53,280
Speaker 3: to let my body reset.

963
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 2: That's the long in between. If you're home.

964
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: Oh shit, okay, all right, now, what are you do?

965
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:06,919
Speaker 2: Part I? It's good and it's good.

966
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that was the first time you had multiple orgasms?

967
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 3: It was two, okay, because I was She said, she

968
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 3: liked the way my body responds, like I'm I don't

969
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 3: hide it like I'm not a I'm not quiet, Okay,

970
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 3: I knew you.

971
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 2: Say you was loud. Yeah, I'm fat and juicy, So.

972
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 3: You know, I don't I don't mind showing. And I

973
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 3: also don't mind you know, like whatever we do, what

974
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 3: we're doing, you know, like I'm very.

975
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,439
Speaker 2: Let's make it, let's go there. Yeah yeah yeah.

976
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 1: But so but you weren't as accepting of her doing

977
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: stuff for you. That's what it feels like. You're the giver. Yeah,

978
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: and I felt like that was unfair.

979
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 2: But you got you got it, you get it, you

980
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 2: got it.

981
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 3: I felt like it was unfair, Yeah, because she felt

982
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 3: like because she said, ain't I'm going to sleep, make

983
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 3: me a motherfucker sandwich or.

984
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 2: Something, right, I could never come eleven times, never say never.

985
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 3: But that's the thing I couldn't either until until you

986
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 3: did it up to it.

987
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 8: Oh wow, you see what I'm saying, right, No, three beautiful.

988
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 2: You don't seem like you love it like I do.

989
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 3: There's no such a thing, girl, there's no such a thing.

990
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 2: I'd be in motherfucking heaven.

991
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:32,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

992
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: See, okay, but that works, it works, right.

993
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 3: I hear you.

994
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: But sometimes there's nothing better than pleasing the other person too.

995
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 3: I know that I know that about her. I know

996
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 3: that about her, so that's why I let her lead

997
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 3: in that. But I don't. I don't want because she says, well,

998
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 3: you don't like it like I do. I can't say

999
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 3: that I don't like it like you do, but you

1000
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 3: don't let me do it as much.

1001
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: But maybe that's something you guys could work on for

1002
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: the next book. But is there anything that y'all haven't

1003
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: done that you want.

1004
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:09,399
Speaker 2: To try sexually? Yeah? This is service now. This role

1005
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 2: play was so fire, you like, but I couldn't wait,

1006
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 2: so I couldn't. I was I was a stripper. So

1007
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:20,399
Speaker 2: but this is the thing.

1008
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 3: I started in a text message. I said, listen, I'm

1009
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 3: about to text you as somebody else and she was like,

1010
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 3: what I said? I said just I said, we had

1011
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 3: I had a great time meeting you last night. I

1012
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 3: would love to continue our conversation but in person, and

1013
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 3: she was like, what are you talking about? We was

1014
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 3: eating food last night.

1015
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 6: I'm like, what was my name?

1016
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 2: What if I call?

1017
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 3: I said, this is such and such from last night,

1018
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 3: you know, I would love to continue our conversation. And

1019
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 3: then she was like, okay, well I'm free this week

1020
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 3: on such and such a date. So then I got us.

1021
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 3: I got us a hotel room. It's nice to have money.

1022
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 3: I got us a hotel room because we used to

1023
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 3: always look up at the twelve. So I got a

1024
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 3: hotel room at the twelve. And I put flowers, and

1025
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 3: I put little balloons, and I decked it out, and

1026
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,720
Speaker 3: I had the little laingerie on hat on a strip

1027
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 3: of heels. I you know, had had music. I had

1028
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 3: got the polaroids, so we had like real like picture stuff.

1029
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 3: Got the little eye trade or couterie board, had my

1030
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 3: little two steps going on.

1031
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 2: You know.

1032
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 3: I like, once she gets there, I'm gonna do it.

1033
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 3: One of the girl. She came in there, I told

1034
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 3: her my name and I went sat across her left

1035
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 3: to do start the dancing. And that was it.

1036
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 6: That was it was. It was all in all play.

1037
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: I love that thoughtfulness that you both put into the relationship,

1038
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: though I think like the effort. Because Valentine's Day is

1039
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 1: coming up, you already got I sell your face.

1040
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:54,879
Speaker 2: We don't never tell each other.

1041
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 3: We don't tell each other.

1042
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 2: It's just we let the day happen.

1043
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: So I cannot wait to see I know it ain't

1044
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: all gonna be posted, but I can't wait.

1045
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 2: It's a special, special time. Yes it is because her

1046
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 2: birthday is two days before that. Oh wow. And then

1047
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:12,760
Speaker 2: her anniversary is the twenty second.

1048
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 5: Oh so this whole month.

1049
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 2: And she's doing a new launch all child.

1050
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,919
Speaker 1: Well anyway, I love this for both of you, and

1051
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: I just want to tell anybody, like if you need

1052
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,879
Speaker 1: some tips about your relationship getting through things. Like you said,

1053
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 1: it was a bit of a rocky beginning, but that

1054
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 1: second time around was no joke, absolutely, you know. And

1055
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: to see where you guys are now with your beautiful

1056
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 1: true legends and you know, having a child together, which

1057
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:45,720
Speaker 1: was amazing.

1058
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 2: Like I said, that ivy f journey.

1059
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: From me being like somebody who hasn't had a kid yet,

1060
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: you know, no, totally older than that.

1061
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 2: You should you should at least look good. But I

1062
00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 2: think it's too late. I don't think I can freeze it.

1063
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 2: You want to do it. You got to just do it,

1064
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And so you should change it.

1065
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 2: You still got because some people still do.

1066
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, some people still do it. I would just change

1067
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 3: I think you.

1068
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 2: Should do it.

1069
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: If anything, I would just do it. I wouldn't even

1070
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: bother with that part of it.

1071
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 2: But you have to make sure.

1072
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I went, I went, I did check

1073
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 1: that I did, so, yes, I do you good?

1074
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:20,800
Speaker 2: Then you should freeze it.

1075
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 1: But the level is so low they're like, just if

1076
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 1: you want to do it, just do it. That's what

1077
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,720
Speaker 1: the doctor. Yeah, not even to bother with that step,

1078
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: like you got to just yeah.

1079
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 3: But when you freeze your egg, you have more time.

1080
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 3: When you don't freeze it, it goes away.

1081
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: Well I'm not gonna wait, Like if I didn't do it,

1082
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:38,959
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it later.

1083
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 3: That's how.

1084
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,399
Speaker 1: That's how I like I've gone through. But I do think,

1085
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: like I said, these conversations are important, like and just

1086
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: to have watched that journey and see everything that you

1087
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: went through, and you know, seeing and Brad seeing you

1088
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: pregnant and seeing you go through all of that, that

1089
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:57,959
Speaker 1: was so special, Yeah for everybody watching. And I think

1090
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,239
Speaker 1: these conversations are important for people to have, even conversations

1091
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: about freezing your eggs and fertility and all of that.

1092
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 3: I think I didn't even and I know we take

1093
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 3: take them classes when we were younger, but who the

1094
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 3: fuck remembers that your eggs go away at a certain days,

1095
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,879
Speaker 3: like they go bitch, they go missing and never come back.

1096
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 2: I can't wait. I'm waiting for mine too. For the

1097
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,360
Speaker 2: people that want to have kids, you know what I'm saying.

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00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 3: If you don't think about that or consider that, and

1099
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 3: you're chasing a career, are you doing something else?

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00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 2: You know? It's like and you got to make sure

1101
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:34,320
Speaker 2: you get genetically tested. That's important too, because some things

1102
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 2: may run in your bloodstream or your family line that

1103
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 2: don't agree with who you're sleeping with or giving the

1104
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:42,720
Speaker 2: sperm to you, and that is very important.

1105
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: Did you always know you wanted to get pregnant?

1106
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:48,839
Speaker 2: I thought it wasn't in the cars for me. I

1107
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 2: was forty nine when I carried my baby. Yeah, Like

1108
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 2: I didn't think it was in the car for me

1109
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 2: to get married or have kids. I was just content

1110
00:51:56,600 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 2: with whatever life. Yeah, hell, I was.

1111
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: Okay, have a plan and God would laugh at you.

1112
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:05,800
Speaker 2: That's what I always say, have a plan.

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00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 1: But yes, I'm glad you got it in them seven

1114
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: a holes right, okay, But they don't act.

1115
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 2: Like you ain't had them. I was. I was content, okay, Yeah,

1116
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 2: don't act like you don't got Playgirl wrote, tattooed across

1117
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 2: your leg? I do because because you. Yeah, but but

1118
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 2: you had.

1119
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 3: And you had niggas ba bitch, So did you like

1120
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 3: it was just me with my seven holes?

1121
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 2: You had motive at the time.

1122
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 3: That we were I was pursuing you and we were

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Speaker 3: about to day.

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00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 2: I didn't have anybody but you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, way, I want to say, because I've seen

1126
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,439
Speaker 1: you in New Orleans, so I know how they get down.

1127
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:44,839
Speaker 2: They love you out there. Come on.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, but again, you guys, make sure y'all pick up

1129
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 9: this book.

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Speaker 1: You were love it, just like we love this conversation

1131
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,399
Speaker 1: that we had. The brand duty the way left goes

1132
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: a guy to building a beautiful and everlasting relationship.

1133
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 2: This feels like forever, So it is forever.

1134
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,760
Speaker 1: Just sitting and talking to y'all is amazing.

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Speaker 2: Thank y'all, Thank you. You've been trying to give me trouble.

1136
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 2: I mean, it is what it is. You got yourself.

1137
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 2: You know, you know what, I'm not worried at all

1138
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 2: being going to wherever ever, not after them eleven orgasms?

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Speaker 6: You know what?

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Speaker 2: All right? It Zip service, Zip service, y'all,