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Speaker 2: You know real quick.

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Speaker 3: I hate when people say a fish fry, fish fries smell.

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Speaker 1: Fish fry, fish fribby smelling delicious. It's the raw fish

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Speaker 2: Fry. It's the fish when it's wrong for you to

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Speaker 4: Okay, but I'm just say a fish fry a fish

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Speaker 2: But that's not how you want your vagina to smell.

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Speaker 2: I mean fake.

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Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, Fries smell edible is

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Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Is your girl lex p and it's

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Speaker 1: In the call, you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Poor Mine, whereas drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 4: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today.

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Speaker 1: So y'all know, y'all have been asking for this guest

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Speaker 1: to come on for a long time.

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Speaker 2: First of all, and second of all, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Even know how to give this introduction because a YouTube

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Speaker 1: star turned into an R and B sensation that we

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Speaker 5: Lla, Hello, Hello, Hello, thank y'all for having me, Thank

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Speaker 5: you for coming.

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Speaker 1: Because one thing about me, like I do not care

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Speaker 1: who it is. I'm a slap and people dms. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna sign they dms and ask because

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I missed that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I slid in your DMS like a long

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Speaker 1: time ago, and I was like, y'all, I mean I

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think I was looking through all of my requests. Okay,

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Speaker 5: I was looking at my request and then I went,

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Speaker 2: I saw it. I was like, oh my god, how

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Speaker 2: know people was asking me to come on here. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: They love like when we have the girls on because

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So, and I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: We've had a lot of male gifts lately and they're

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Speaker 2: We're the wimmen. Yes, but I mean, is it like

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Speaker 1: I was about to say that one thing. It depends.

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Speaker 3: Girls like, yeah, they don't. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Some people don't have media training though they know we

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Speaker 5: And also though, like as you grow and do more

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Speaker 1: So how do you feel now knowing that it's like

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, It's like I look back at a

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Speaker 3: Have you ever had an instance where like you did

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Speaker 2: Not an interview.

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Speaker 5: It was more so back in my YouTube day. I

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Speaker 1: I know, yeah, everybody know.

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Speaker 5: But like it was one of those things where like

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Speaker 1: Well I'm saying right now, oh yeah, oh yeah, you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll be thirty soon. But yeah, I was really young.

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Speaker 5: And sometimes we just say things, especially on cameras, like.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and I always say crazy stuff. We

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Speaker 1: in front of the camera, and we're being vulnerable and honest.

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Speaker 1: So if you can't accept like the bad parts because

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Speaker 1: So the mistakes that you made, they're just not on you, yes, forever,

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Speaker 5: We may have said whatever, a lot of people be

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that that is really toxic. And I'm like, I

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Speaker 3: Because I was at first class, but you could buy

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Speaker 2: That stuff will really mess with you. It will. We're

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Speaker 3: That was the beauty of being an influencer. Well, I

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Speaker 3: The first influencer. But yeah, being a celebrity. Back in

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Speaker 2: I will never go.

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Speaker 5: And write even if I'm thinking something, I will never

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Speaker 5: But I feel like a lot of them do it too,

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Speaker 5: They want to go viral, and that's what fuels them,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because they feel like we talked about this before.

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Speaker 2: I'm swere that happens to me so much. That happened

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Speaker 2: But she was talking so much stuff about you call me.

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Speaker 3: I was like, that's obsessive blow key, that we're humans.

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Speaker 1: I can say this, you signed up for this? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: They're like, well, if you got a better life than me,

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Speaker 3: Because I think it is true to a certain extent.

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Speaker 3: You'll respond to the like the negative thing. You gonna

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 5: I have to really I have to still, like really

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Speaker 5: No, it's not like is that where I'm trying to,

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Speaker 5: like know, because then once you do that, it's like

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Speaker 2: If you write it, I don't want you to know.

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Speaker 3: If I ever saw it, you know, or they just

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I've been That's something I've done for a long time.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie every now and then. I'll clap back.

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Speaker 1: But I always make money me too, because I like,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna show up as Addie Murphy and his motherfucker.

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Speaker 1: But I will say I always respond to the positive comments.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that excuse me, And I'm like, I'm here to

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Speaker 1: The people that uplift me, make me feel good, consume

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Speaker 2: That's who I'm really.

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Speaker 5: You gotta show appreciation for that. I've been trying to

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Speaker 3: I feel like I make you, Like she said, I

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Speaker 2: It up in her mind, don't give him no shot.

444
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Speaker 3: But see, like even what she said yesterday with the

445
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Speaker 3: person saying something about the cheese training, I was like, well, girl,

446
00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,320
Speaker 3: you don't know what it's like to have new or

447
00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:06,679
Speaker 3: old money. Yeah, I know that's right clat back, but

448
00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,040
Speaker 3: like you know, so they know you're not taking it

449
00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:12,120
Speaker 3: too personal. Like girl, I'm laughing at I'm not really mad.

450
00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:13,960
Speaker 1: Like yeah, And I think that's what they be wanting

451
00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,600
Speaker 1: you to feel, like they really like you really feel something,

452
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:17,800
Speaker 1: like you really really upset.

453
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Speaker 5: You know what I don't get when men say stuff

454
00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:25,320
Speaker 5: about women, you know, whats yeah, like my thing too?

455
00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:28,080
Speaker 1: Is The thing that's scarier about that is like there's

456
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Speaker 1: a man who's on the internet arguing on women under

457
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:34,320
Speaker 1: the shape room comments, talking shit, But there's somebody who

458
00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,680
Speaker 1: is actively dating this man, laying in the bed with

459
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Speaker 1: him every laying in the bed with him next to him,

460
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Speaker 1: Like I'll be thinking in my head.

461
00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:41,639
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be funny.

462
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,359
Speaker 1: I know this sounds horrible, but when I see a

463
00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:46,359
Speaker 1: man just talking about me or always in my comments,

464
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 1: I'll be like, who is fucking yeah, like you in

465
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Speaker 1: the trenches, baby girl.

466
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Speaker 2: I'm not even worried about him.

467
00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,399
Speaker 1: I'm worried about the lady who is laying next to you,

468
00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:56,359
Speaker 1: if there even is one.

469
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because why you even got time to do that?

470
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, As a man, why are

471
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,159
Speaker 1: you in the shape room comments talking about Oh, she

472
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:07,720
Speaker 1: looks so tacky and he's her stylists.

473
00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:07,800
Speaker 2: Win in business?

474
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Okay, so anyways, we don't

475
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:12,679
Speaker 1: move on. We're gonna play a little game.

476
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's play the game. But what's the game? Your

477
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:17,640
Speaker 2: eyes like Icebreak the game? But I feel like we

478
00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 2: was just chatting it up. We don't even hear the

479
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 2: Icebreak game. Okay.

480
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Speaker 1: So we're gonna throw in random words and phrases and

481
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,960
Speaker 1: we're gonna sing a quick lyric the book off the top,

482
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Speaker 1: like a free style, you know what I'm saying. So

483
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Speaker 1: we're gonna give everybody gonna get a word. So you

484
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Speaker 1: want to go first, sure, okay, So I'm gonna give

485
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Speaker 1: you a word and you have to come up with

486
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Speaker 1: a quick bar.

487
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 2: No, okay, I don't want to.

488
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Speaker 3: You don't want to go first now because I can't

489
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Speaker 3: you go first, because I can't think of one for

490
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Speaker 3: these first words.

491
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, I'll go first.

492
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do a free style okay, and my

493
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 1: original composition, original compas didn't know that's right?

494
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:07,639
Speaker 2: I know this right? Okay. The word is blocked. The

495
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 2: word is blocked.

496
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Speaker 1: That nigga blocked because he won't stop calling my phone.

497
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 2: And this is off the top the top. Do my dance.

498
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Speaker 1: Romance Okay, and I don't want to make no plans.

499
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Speaker 2: Pet your hands off of me. You can what. I'm

500
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 2: not lie you if he blocked.

501
00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,359
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because that's off top a fire.

502
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:35,439
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying that I gotta think. You

503
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 2: gotta think about it. I won't be doing any freestyle. Okay, okay,

504
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 2: who want to go next? Who going next? Let's do

505
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,160
Speaker 2: let's give it to queens. You can sing one.

506
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 3: Well, it's probably gonna have to be a freestyle because

507
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 3: I can't think of no song that got this any

508
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 3: he still live with his baby mama.

509
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,640
Speaker 2: Wait what I thought it was a word? Though? Give

510
00:21:56,160 --> 00:22:01,480
Speaker 2: give her ms. I can think of a song off

511
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 2: the top of my head. I went through your D

512
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 2: and pieces. Okay, that's it.

513
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 1: I like that too, because I did look through a

514
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 1: nigga DM I was I got going down in the deal.

515
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,119
Speaker 2: No, you ain't do a song that's already made. You

516
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 2: can't know this is supposed to be. You can say

517
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: a song that's already created. I got a freestyle. We

518
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: gotta make it up. Say something.

519
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Speaker 1: You gotta be creative. D I'll give you another shot.

520
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 1: That's right, because I love Thank you Tom. Okay, which

521
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 1: word you're gonna do I guess you should just throw

522
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: it at me. Okay, gas lighting because you're smart, not

523
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 1: you would, Okay, Okay, okay, okay, Way, I'm gonna do it.

524
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it. Okay, gas lighting. You gonna sing

525
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 2: or you're gonna rap? Okay, I guess rap because I'm

526
00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 2: on now, Big D. Don't play with a big D.

527
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 2: Give it to him. That glow is he this? Yes,

528
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Thank you girl.

529
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 3: It's from Fency Beauty. It's the pink high lighter. Yeah,

530
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 3: he keeps gas lighting. In a minute, we're gonna be fighting. Yeah,

531
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 3: he got me fucked up. I'm gonna shoot up his house,

532
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 3: ride by his mama crib. Yeah, I'm gonna find out

533
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 3: where you live.

534
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 2: I ain't really gonna shoot I like flags.

535
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: Let's get real, like look Queen one obviously though.

536
00:23:54,359 --> 00:24:00,199
Speaker 2: Broke my heart to period. Yeah, you should have thun No.

537
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 3: No, you're about to ask you can she come to

538
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 3: the studio?

539
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 2: Give it to it? Yeah, you get a real comfortable.

540
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 3: It's never been an episode in the history of Four

541
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 3: Minds where we've had an artist on the show and

542
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 3: she didn't ask can she come to the studio.

543
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm coming to this, give you a little harm

544
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 2: and same stage.

545
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a little vocal. It's gonna be

546
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: free girl. I'm gonna show up on time, on time.

547
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 2: Get credited. Okay, I don't even need that. I just

548
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 2: want to be in the video. Okay, you know what

549
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Just show up.

550
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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all is your girl X Speed and it's

551
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 3: your girl Dre and the call and we're about.

552
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Speaker 2: To tell y'all about Rocket Money.

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Speaker 2: What's up y'all? As your Girl x pee and it's

585
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Speaker 2: your Girl draining the call and we have a.

586
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Speaker 1: Very exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping.

587
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Speaker 3: Yes, we have a brand new shower dropping y'all on Patreon.

588
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Speaker 3: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.

589
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Speaker 3: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're

590
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Speaker 3: gonna be doing challenges.

591
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593
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Speaker 2: the hell we're gonna be doing? Talk to me, chit

594
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Speaker 2: chat with me. We're gonna be spilling a little little tea.

595
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Speaker 2: Oh my girl, No you didn't.

596
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597
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Speaker 3: doing it right here on Patreon.

598
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Speaker 2: Yes, y'all ask us for so much.

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Speaker 1: Well, we've been to give it to y'all every single Monday,

600
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601
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Speaker 2: Y'all know. Poor Minds has grown into its.

602
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Speaker 1: Own little entity when we're gonna have a lot of

603
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Speaker 1: fun still over.

604
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Speaker 2: Here at Poor Chronicles.

605
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Speaker 1: So make sure y'all tune in September second, it's going down.

606
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Speaker 2: Thanks.

607
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 3: So for topic number one, I wanted to talk about,

608
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 3: do you heal in public or do you feel I mean?

609
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 2: Or do you heal in privy? Personally? I like to

610
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 2: take my ills in privy. How y'all feel?

611
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 1: I think it depends to be honest, I think there's

612
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 1: certain things that I've gone through that I feel like

613
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,479
Speaker 1: if I talk about it publicly and I let y'all in,

614
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 1: I think I kind of oh, not that I owe that,

615
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 1: but if you've seen me going through something, I'm like,

616
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: all open about it, I'm talking about it. I think

617
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Speaker 1: I can at least be human and let y'all know, Hey,

618
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: this is what's going on. And that's with a breakup.

619
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Speaker 1: Like even when my mom passed away, I let y'all

620
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: know what I was going through. I was very about,

621
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: you know, different journeys. But I also think as women,

622
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: I hate that they do this to us.

623
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 2: Every time we said it's not to do with the man,

624
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 2: oh hello, every time we are in our films, they're like, oh,

625
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 2: what he did? He must have made you mad.

626
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 1: I have other things going on in my life that

627
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,120
Speaker 1: stress me out that have nothing to do with the man.

628
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

629
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: So sometimes I think that is aggravating because I want

630
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 1: to share what I'm going through, but it's like it

631
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 1: makes me mad because I can just be like, oh

632
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm so tired today with stressed But what

633
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:18,719
Speaker 1: do you do?

634
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 5: Girl?

635
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 2: It's not it's not always around men all the time.

636
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: Issues outside of that, we have.

637
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 3: A lot always and I will say, I feel like

638
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 3: you're a little more vulnerable, like looking at your social

639
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 3: media and stuff, because even when your mom passed away,

640
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 3: you basically said it immediately. Almost remember when my dad

641
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 3: passed away, I didn't even talk about it on the show,

642
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 3: I think for like maybe a month or two after

643
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 3: it happy.

644
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: So I don't know.

645
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 3: It's just I think that when you're going through stuff,

646
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,239
Speaker 3: people on the internet could be so mean. So I

647
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 3: just don't even want to give them that because it's like,

648
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 3: I'm already grieving, I'm already going through a breakup, I'm

649
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 3: already dealing with drama. I don't want to get online,

650
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 3: and then I'm telling y'all about it, And of course

651
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 3: you do get the outpouring of love from some people,

652
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 3: but then you have the people that are negative. It

653
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 3: means they don't give a fuck about what you're going through.

654
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 3: Are they happy that you're going through It's so I

655
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 3: don't know. I feel like it's hard for me sometimes

656
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 3: to decipher because I want to be vulnerable and transparent,

657
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 3: but then people are just so me me.

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Speaker 5: And then a lot of times people will come on

659
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 5: there and pretend to hear about you, or they'll say, oh,

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Speaker 5: I'm praying for you, and they're not really praying no,

661
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Speaker 5: like for your Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So how did you feel because I know, like you said,

663
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Speaker 1: like your relationship with your ex obviously it.

664
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Speaker 2: Was public, very very public. Yeah.

665
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Speaker 1: Oh, going through you know, y'all split, it was just

666
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Speaker 1: like shocking for everybody cause y'all were like relationship goals.

667
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Speaker 2: At one point.

668
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Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody was looking at y'all like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I want that.

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Speaker 2: I want that. So talk about like how cause you

671
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Speaker 2: were so.

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Speaker 1: Young going through that, and you were a child, like

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Speaker 1: it was stuff that you were going through at that

674
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Speaker 1: age that I'm thirty five I can imagine going through

675
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Speaker 1: at this age. Yeah, so how did you handle that? Like,

676
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Speaker 1: how did you get through that?

677
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Speaker 2: How did I get through it? Because it was so public?

678
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Speaker 5: Honestly, man, Yeah, I didn't want a lot of things

679
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 5: to be public, but when guys don't care, they'll do

680
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 5: things publicly to embarrass you, and you have no choice

681
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 5: but to like face it publicly.

682
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Speaker 2: How did I get through it?

683
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Speaker 5: I'm the kind of person where I usually don't like

684
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Speaker 5: get I don't have to.

685
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Speaker 2: Well, I only have one bad breakup obviously. So if

686
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Speaker 2: I'm I don't have to get.

687
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Speaker 5: Through it after the breakup, because I already got through

688
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Speaker 5: it during the breakup.

689
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Speaker 2: I leave mentally before I actually leave.

690
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Speaker 5: So yeah, I'm the kind of person that some people,

691
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,959
Speaker 5: some women will like, you know, leave and then come

692
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Speaker 5: back and leave and go. I'm the kind of person

693
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 5: I'm just gonna stay until I don't like because once yeah,

694
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Speaker 5: because once I leave, Like so I didn't really have

695
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Speaker 5: to Yeah, I don't really, I didn't really have to

696
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Speaker 5: heal that much. Like afterwards, I was doing all my

697
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Speaker 5: healing while I was like going through it. No, I'm

698
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 5: not going to see her, lie. I still I feel

699
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Speaker 5: like because after that, you know, I ended up in

700
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Speaker 5: another relationship. It's really quick, so I'm actually still healing,

701
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 5: not just from that relationship, but healing as a woman.

702
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Speaker 5: We got like, like you said, everything is not about

703
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Speaker 5: a man. There's like childhood traumas, there's like yeah, there's

704
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Speaker 5: like so just trying to heal as a woman in

705
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Speaker 5: general while being in a relationship. You know what I'm saying,

706
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Speaker 5: It's like an everyday process. I don't think anyone ever

707
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Speaker 5: completely heals.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're constantly growing, You're constantly evolving, and especially if

709
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Speaker 3: you're somebody who believes in going to therapy, I feel

710
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Speaker 3: like going to therapy or.

711
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Speaker 2: Bring up all of those hills or bold stuff that.

712
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Speaker 3: You know was really trauma that you had, Right, it is,

713
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Speaker 3: it's constantly a process.

714
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Speaker 1: And then it's like when you're trying to heal, because

715
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Speaker 1: like you said, now, it's like you're probably still healing

716
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Speaker 1: and still learning things about yourself. How does that feel too,

717
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:02,719
Speaker 1: because I think with it's like an average person healing

718
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Speaker 1: with a normal like person with like a normal job.

719
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Speaker 1: I guess say, we don't necessarily have to see our

720
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Speaker 1: exes or hear what.

721
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Speaker 2: They think about us or they kind of poking at us.

722
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Speaker 1: Yeah, he be kind of messing with you a little bit. Yeah, yeah,

723
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: he always like saying your name or saying he wants

724
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Speaker 1: you back, or be like, oh, come home, and you know,

725
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: doing kind of funny things like that. Whether it's genuine

726
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Speaker 1: or not, it's more so for a reaction. So how

727
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Speaker 1: is that because you know, you're actively trying to heal

728
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Speaker 1: have a healthy co parenting relationship, but then also having

729
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Speaker 1: to deal with the antics.

730
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Speaker 5: I'm not like, I don't know, I don't take him serious.

731
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't take him serious at all.

732
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Speaker 5: The only thing I worry about is my son, right,

733
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Speaker 5: that's the only thing I will It don't really bother me, like.

734
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Speaker 2: Honestly, like you know, he on there because he gotta

735
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Speaker 2: do that. Yeah, yeah, you know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like I don't know, it's just kind of

737
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 5: you know how like well, I don't know if are

738
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 5: you guys you're not parents.

739
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Speaker 2: Yet, no, no, but like as a mom, you get

740
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Speaker 2: used to.

741
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Speaker 5: A baby crying and then it's just like you don't

742
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 5: hear it. Sometimes you just blurt out that's the same thing.

743
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Speaker 5: I'm just you know. But I'm not gonna say that

744
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Speaker 5: I'm a I'm a very like silent sniper.

745
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

746
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Speaker 5: So I'm not gonna like, I'm never gonna tell my

747
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Speaker 5: plans or anything, but I got something.

748
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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

749
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Speaker 1: Side note because I remember when that whole breakup, which

750
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: y'all happened, because look, I being everybody busy, y'all know me.

751
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 2: I live chronically online.

752
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: But I remember seeing a picture of you and you

753
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: were like on the top of the Capitol One Records

754
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Speaker 1: building was right when you signed your DAL. It's something

755
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Speaker 1: about a woman going through a breakup in rough times

756
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Speaker 1: and just coming out on top.

757
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: Yes, And I just remember just clapping and being so

758
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 2: happy for you.

759
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Speaker 1: A lot of breakups that break people and they don't

760
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Speaker 1: get through it and they don't get on the other side.

761
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: So I just remember seeing that like announcement that you

762
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 1: made doing like a drone picture or something. It was

763
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: like that you had announced and I was just like,

764
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so happy for her.

765
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Speaker 5: And that's another thing too, I was gonna say, because

766
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Speaker 5: the question was what do you hear do you he'll

767
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 5: privately publicly I haven't outlet and that's my music, so

768
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 5: you're gonna hear it in my music. But sometimes you

769
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 5: won't because like I'll just be writing relatable stuff, but

770
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 5: like the music for me being able to make it

771
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 5: into something so beautiful, and then I can watch people

772
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 5: also like hell too, while they're going through their stuff.

773
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Speaker 2: It's like it's so beautiful.

774
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

775
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Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm sorry. This this piece ring is just she

776
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 2: was over that talk about my mom and I'm.

777
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Speaker 3: Like, girl, we don't all the tie EXI what we

778
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Speaker 5: This is in honor of our girl queen over here.

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Speaker 5: This is called the good girl. All right, this we

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784
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787
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Speaker 5: in it. And then we topped hers with a sparkling

788
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Speaker 5: guava and we topped Drea's with a sparkling rosette. So

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Speaker 2: Taste to it. And then what they're eating on are

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So going back to what you were saying, what

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Speaker 1: Serious premiere Wednesday, April twenty thirty eight. Answering the question

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Speaker 1: about healing probably and healing privately, and you're talking about

847
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Speaker 1: how you give it through your music with some things

848
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Speaker 1: you keep.

849
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Speaker 2: You yes, yes, relatable for people to heal. Yeah, your music. Yes.

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Speaker 5: I've had people and this is so crazy, like I

851
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 5: can't believe it. Sometimes people will literally write me and

852
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Speaker 5: be like, Queen, you literally your music, your music stopped

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Speaker 5: me from committing suicide, or your music really got me

854
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Speaker 5: through so many hard things like this breakup, and I

855
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Speaker 5: was just I'm like, how did my music, how did

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Speaker 5: my story get you through that? And that's why I

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Speaker 5: also like, I'm gonna take to God. God be putting

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Speaker 5: us through things some well.

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Speaker 2: To be a vessel, Yeah, to be a vessel.

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Speaker 5: Our struggle is not always just for us, but it's

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Speaker 5: for other people to like to see that you can

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Speaker 5: get through too, Yeah for sure.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that just makes me ultimately happy.

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Speaker 5: I don't regret anything. I have no regrets about nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know that's why I was saying earlier

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Speaker 3: like I struggle with sometimes wanting to be vulnerable and

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Speaker 3: then not because people can be so mean on the Internet.

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Speaker 3: But like even with us, I feel the same way.

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Speaker 3: People write us all the time and they're just like,

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Speaker 3: you know, Lick's mom passed away, my dad passed away.

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Speaker 3: In the way that y'all kept recording poor minds every week,

872
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Speaker 3: kept hussling, kept grinding, it just showed me nothing last forever.

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Speaker 3: And y'all really motivated me to keep going on this

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Speaker 3: my phone. Okay, I say, y'all really motivated me to

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Speaker 3: keep going and push through. And it just let me know,

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Speaker 3: like I lost my parents, who I can get through it.

877
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 2: I'm sorry about that too, thank you.

878
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 1: And I think that's something that I can cause a

879
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 1: lot of times, like people look at us and be like,

880
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 1: oh my god, how can you do it without your parents?

881
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 1: But at the same time, like I look at like

882
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 1: you being a mother, a young.

883
00:39:55,520 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 2: Mother, and I'm just like, I, oh my god. Sorry.

884
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,280
Speaker 1: The person who was facetiming her was just crazy. I

885
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: can see that. I don't think, Okay, fully nice.

886
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 2: Okay, anyway, sorry, what was I saying, Oh, you mean

887
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 2: a young mother?

888
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: Because like I said, I don't have children. Yeah, And

889
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie if I'm being honest, like I

890
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: haven't had children yet.

891
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 2: Because I'm selfish and.

892
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: I'm not ready to okay period, Yeah, I'm just not

893
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: ready to be a mother. I'm not ready to give

894
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: up my time in the morning. Yeah, I'm not ready

895
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: to give up a lot of words, my money. I'm

896
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: not ready to give up a lot of my time.

897
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm just I want. I'm experiencing life right now still.

898
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: So when I see people you know who have you know,

899
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: gotten married or having kids and you're going through all

900
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: of this and you're still being a mother, I commend

901
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 1: you for that, and I'm like, I couldn't.

902
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 2: I couldn't.

903
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 5: Guess what though, I'm doing it backwards because I started

904
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 5: young having kids and now I literally have to go

905
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,720
Speaker 5: back to finding myself, like while still trying to navigate

906
00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,720
Speaker 5: being the best mom I could be and like maybe

907
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 5: becoming a wife someday, you know what I'm saying. So

908
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 5: like still trying to really find myself and like grow

909
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,439
Speaker 5: and see what I like, I'm doing everything backwards. Yeah,

910
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 5: So now I'm like, man, do I want more kids?

911
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 5: Like you know, I'm being questioned myself. I've always said,

912
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 5: like I really really want a girl, but honestly, like.

913
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 2: I would, I came to terms that like, thank you.

914
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 5: I came to terms of like I think I would

915
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 5: be okay if I didn't have any more kids, if

916
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 5: if my husband ever was like, you know, I want

917
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 5: another child, then okay bye, right, you know I'll get

918
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 5: but I want that to be like in my mid thirties.

919
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I need a little bit of myself.

920
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I gotta. Yeah, I got to establish myself more.

921
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 5: I gotta put this album out. I gotta do some acting.

922
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 2: I gotta. I got it planned. Yeah.

923
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: So how do you feel too, like, cause I know

924
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 1: you see the comments that people have about your relationship

925
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: now and they're like, okay, y'all should be married by now,

926
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: and people trying to put you on a timeline. Yeah,

927
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 1: they don't realize like you said, you're not even thirty yet. Yeah,

928
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: people are putting you on what they think and they're

929
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 1: timeline is and like you said, y'all don't know these

930
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 1: people's relationship.

931
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 2: Y'all don't know what's going on. So how does that

932
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 2: get to you A little bit? No, not anymore.

933
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 5: So I will take accountability and say the reason why

934
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:17,240
Speaker 5: they even say that is because of me in the past,

935
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 5: when I was so like and not to say, I'm

936
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 5: not in love now, but when you're first in that relationship,

937
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 5: you're so head over heels in the first few years.

938
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 5: It's like I don't know. Like I put a lot

939
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 5: of things about marriage in my songs. I talked a

940
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 5: lot about marriage and interviews, so people just like she wants.

941
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,479
Speaker 2: Marriage, give it to her, you don't. But I had to.

942
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,320
Speaker 5: Sit back and think, like, hold on, wait a minute,

943
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 5: I still need some time for myself, because once you

944
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 5: become a wife, that's a whole nothing like you're that's

945
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 5: a duty, like just like as a mom, that's a duty.

946
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 5: I had to step back and just I just realized

947
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 5: this maybe a couple of years ago, like I can't wait.

948
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 2: I actually can wait.

949
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 5: Actually, like no, seriously, because it's not like a rush thing.

950
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 5: So I think people are taking a lot of old

951
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 5: clips and things that I've said.

952
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 2: I put my own foot in my mouth.

953
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,320
Speaker 5: I'm the reason why they do that. You know what

954
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,359
Speaker 5: I'm saying, But they don't know, like I said, the

955
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 5: growth that has happened like in my in my mind

956
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 5: and like you know, just really doing therapy and like

957
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 5: being asked those questions like well are you ready to

958
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,240
Speaker 5: be a what is he ready to be a husband,

959
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 5: That's what is he ready to be? Like, do I

960
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 5: want to get married to somebody right now who's not

961
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 5: ready to be a husand and I'm not saying it's not,

962
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 5: but we are honestly still working on ourselves.

963
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 2: Y'all need to be.

964
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:37,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you want to get married, but I feel

965
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 3: like when it comes to me in you want a

966
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 3: man to propose, when he's real, he's.

967
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 2: Ready, you don't want it. Yeah, I don't feel like,

968
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 2: oh she might leave me. I don't do it.

969
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: It needs to be when he's ready, because that's when

970
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 3: you're gonna get the best version of him.

971
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 2: Yes, and I and like who wants to get married?

972
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 2: And then it's just like dang.

973
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 5: But people, I got the right, I got the ring,

974
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 5: but now it's like, no, no, I'd rather I think Yeah,

975
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 5: I think I'm okay.

976
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, like honestly, when the time is right.

977
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like just even talking to you, obviously this

978
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: is the first time we met, but just like the

979
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: way you carry yourself.

980
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 2: I can tell I.

981
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 1: Can read people, but you're so like I can tell

982
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: like the growth and just cause like I said, I

983
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: used to follow you on YouTube and seeing like take

984
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: your time because them people, they don't even have what

985
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: they want. Yeah, that's so the feeding and just I

986
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: don't get I don't mean to get church.

987
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: Y'all know I'm in my church and she don't have

988
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 2: a shot. Yeah, I have my shot.

989
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell y'all. So Sunday when I was

990
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: at church, my pastor shout out to Pastor Mo. He

991
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: was talking about his marriage and he was talking about

992
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: his wife, and he was talking about I know y'all

993
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 1: hate this word, but how his wife. You know, she

994
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: follows the Bible obviously, and she submits the word. But

995
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 1: she submit to God, which you know, she submitted to

996
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 1: her husband to trust him and to be able to,

997
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: you know, take that back seat and trust him and

998
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: not have the responsibility of a lot of things. And

999
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: sometimes that takes a lot of not sometimes that takes

1000
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 1: a lot of it.

1001
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:08,919
Speaker 2: It does.

1002
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,360
Speaker 1: That takes a lot of trust in your partner. You

1003
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: have to be able to go to sleep when let

1004
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: somebody drive you and know they're not going to crash

1005
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 1: that carn you know what I'm saying now.

1006
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 2: And he has to be led by God, has to

1007
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 2: be led by God.

1008
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 5: You can't you that's another thing, like a lot of

1009
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 5: people be like, you know, well submit and things like that.

1010
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 5: The leader of the house is supposed to be led

1011
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 5: by God. That's how it's God the husband and ye

1012
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 5: that's a proper So if you know. And I'm on

1013
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 5: my journey too, I'm on my path with God too,

1014
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 5: just trying to really get close, trying to unlearn a

1015
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 5: lot of religiosity. I grew up very religious, and now

1016
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 5: with me it is more so about the relationship with God.

1017
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 5: And I'm not saying like, oh, yeah, well, I could

1018
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 5: just do whatever and still no, but it's like I

1019
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 5: have to like really be cultivated and everything like with

1020
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 5: God and figure out what he wants from me. Because

1021
00:45:58,320 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 5: he even want me to be married right now.

1022
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he knows.

1023
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's why I said, I think you have

1024
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: to figure things out on your timeline. And at the

1025
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: end of day, we only have one person that we

1026
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: have to answer to when that's.

1027
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 2: Him, So I, like I said, and that's no race.

1028
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:14,240
Speaker 2: When it is the life.

1029
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 3: It's like everything is gonna happen when it's supposed to happen,

1030
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 3: when it's supposed to the way it's supposed to, not

1031
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 3: a minute earlier.

1032
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 2: Than God's plan. He's gonna happen.

1033
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 3: If you're supposed to get married, especially even to a

1034
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,800
Speaker 3: specific person, it's gonna happen.

1035
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you don't always know.

1036
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 1: I guess, like when I would talk about my relationships

1037
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 1: and how happy I was, and I'd be like, Ooh,

1038
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:35,919
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about the breakup, but yeah,

1039
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 1: it happens, y'all. Like nobody's life is perfect. There's no

1040
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:42,720
Speaker 1: such thing as a perfect love story.

1041
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1042
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: And one thing I can appreciate about me is I'm

1043
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: gonna keep it real with y'all.

1044
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 2: I don't give a damn.

1045
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 1: Y'all not feinna embarrass me because you know why I

1046
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 1: am where I want to be right now in this moment.

1047
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 2: I'm here because God allowed me to.

1048
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm able to share my story and I'm able to

1049
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: express myself. I'm able to have an outlet to I

1050
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: always say this, lex P went through that, so you

1051
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: ain't got to go through that. I let y'all know

1052
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 1: my mistakes. I'm growing and I'm figuring it out with y'all.

1053
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So I feel like if

1054
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: we were more, if we gave each other more grace man,

1055
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: That'll never happen, you know what I'm saying, Like you people,

1056
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: grace man, they act like they ain't be'll act like

1057
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: y'all ain't never been this stuff.

1058
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:22,919
Speaker 2: That they be pointing people out.

1059
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 5: They go through a like you said, behind closes door,

1060
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 5: taking a man back and everything for doing a bunch

1061
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 5: of stuff. And then you'll be called dumb for doing it.

1062
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:34,120
Speaker 5: Okay in public, but come on, man, they so street.

1063
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 2: It's it is.

1064
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: Look, I know we was preaching my baby, I'm the

1065
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: exit the church room. All right, Okay, So we're gonna

1066
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: get into the second topic. You know, were getting chatty girl.

1067
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 2: I look, this is the girl just flow flowing, you know, bowing.

1068
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: That's why I love the girl gets I'll just be

1069
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: feeling so relaxed with the men.

1070
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 2: I'd be like what you finished say, preparing myself to

1071
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 2: find you. I just seen y'all last one. But Julian,

1072
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 2: yeah beautiful y'all y'all.

1073
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, so topic too.

1074
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 2: Can you be soft and still be taken seriously? Now?

1075
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: I can definitely relate to this topic because I always

1076
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: say this.

1077
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:22,879
Speaker 2: I am a bitch, but.

1078
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 1: I have the nerve to be sensitive, and you know,

1079
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,800
Speaker 1: a lot of times I'm very very soft.

1080
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:28,800
Speaker 2: I have a soft heart.

1081
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I don't want to let this person,

1082
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to do this, and I'm but I'm like,

1083
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 1: at the same time, I have to run a business.

1084
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: I got to be a boss. You know, you have

1085
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: to be a mother. You know, you have to run

1086
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: your business. You have to run you know, your household

1087
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: and things like that. So I want to know, like,

1088
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,280
Speaker 1: do y'all feel pressure to like be hard or guarded,

1089
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: especially as like women navigating you know yourself in this

1090
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: business because we are in like the entertainment injury, but

1091
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: you in the music, yeah, which is a whole nother

1092
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: beat it is. So you know, you title yourself. You

1093
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 1: know it's a good girl. You are soft, soft weed? Yes,

1094
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,359
Speaker 1: your friendly. So how do you carry yourself as you know,

1095
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 1: queen the business woman, but also being true to who

1096
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,240
Speaker 1: you are as being like a soft, nice woman.

1097
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 2: A lot of.

1098
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 5: Trial and error, you know, I'm actually just now stepping

1099
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 5: into more of the boss era. And I've always been

1100
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 5: a very like humble person. So I used to think,

1101
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 5: like I don't want to say boss because I want

1102
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 5: to feel like I'm being too uppity or whatever. But

1103
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 5: I had, like it's very heartbreaking sometimes when you got

1104
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 5: to like take the lead in certain things.

1105
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: It's a learning journey.

1106
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna say I'm all the way there yet. Yeah,

1107
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 5: Like I'm just I think it comes with just really

1108
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 5: saying how you feel.

1109
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 2: Without holding back. Yes, without holding back.

1110
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 5: That was my problem, like holding ba because I don't

1111
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 5: want hurt people's feelings. And like you said, in the business,

1112
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 5: you can't worry about feelings, like you can't take things personal.

1113
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,359
Speaker 2: So I'm still actively learning, Okay, Like.

1114
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 5: You know, I can't just I can't just not do

1115
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 5: something because I feel like I'm talking in circles.

1116
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 2: Was like, I just can'tnot do something because don't want

1117
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 2: to hurt someone's feelings, you know.

1118
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you have to learn it's not personal,

1119
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: it's business. I think with me, I say this, I've

1120
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: said this in the past. I take the Nicki Minaj

1121
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 1: approach to business.

1122
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 2: I do.

1123
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: I seen a documentary on Nicki Minaj, probably when I

1124
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 1: was in college.

1125
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 2: I think I can't remember.

1126
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: It was like a true life something she was doing

1127
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: and she was recording the album. I remember she was

1128
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,879
Speaker 1: sitting in the studio and I still say this. Drag

1129
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: can attest this. I say this all the time. She said,

1130
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: when I walk into a meeting and I say I

1131
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:48,240
Speaker 1: want it this way. Oh she's a bitch, she's rude,

1132
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: she's this, she's that. But if a man walks in,

1133
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:53,879
Speaker 1: he says the same thing. Oh, oh he's assertive, he's

1134
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 1: a boss, he's then she's so she's like, I don't

1135
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: give a fuck what y'all say about me. Point I'm

1136
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: going in these meetings and I'm saying what I have

1137
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: to say. And for some reason, like I said, when

1138
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: I saw that interview, I was probably like twenty twenty two,

1139
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: and that stuck with me so much because I know

1140
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: sometimes I go in meetings and I'm probably like a

1141
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 1: little some things that I say, I know can come

1142
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 1: off a little harsh, and I have to clear it

1143
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: up and I'm like, no, I didn't mean it like this.

1144
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 1: This is what I'm trying to say. But I'm glad

1145
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 1: I'm letting you know to stop playing with me. Yeah,

1146
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 1: stop playing with me. It's a lot of times that

1147
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 1: people will say things to us because we're women. But

1148
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 1: if y'all walked across there and went on eighty five South,

1149
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,919
Speaker 1: y'all wouldn't have that same you know demand here because

1150
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: oh it's Carlos. I'm not gonna talk to DC like that.

1151
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna talk to Chico.

1152
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 5: You gotta have to do that as a woman sometimes,

1153
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 5: Oh absolutely, yeah, because like you said, they will, they

1154
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 5: won't want to take you as serious over.

1155
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would rather be known as a bitch and

1156
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 1: I got my money straight then somebody's soft.

1157
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:53,879
Speaker 2: Who I'm just as I can't pay my rent.

1158
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree for me, I think it's about

1159
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 3: that balance of being soft.

1160
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 2: But then I don't know.

1161
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,439
Speaker 3: I always kind of feel like you gotta let people

1162
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 3: know they can't play with you. But then also on

1163
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 3: the other end of that, it's like, but the right

1164
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 3: people that are supposed to be in your life not

1165
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 3: gonna play with you. They're not gonna put you in

1166
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 3: a position to have to be guarded. I feel like,

1167
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 3: so sometimes I feel like if you have that disposition

1168
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,800
Speaker 3: with people, it's probably because they not the right person.

1169
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:25,720
Speaker 3: Because I feel like the right people that are supposed

1170
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 3: to be around you, you shouldn't feel like you always

1171
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 3: gotta let them know, like, oh, you can't play with me,

1172
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 3: I gotta show you.

1173
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, so like courtesy of not. That's why I feel

1174
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 5: like team building is like so important. Likes having those

1175
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 5: genuine people around you, and like when people are genuine too,

1176
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 5: they hoag, Yeah, they won't take advantage of you. But

1177
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 5: you know, sometimes people do get comfortable and you have

1178
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:52,839
Speaker 5: to like just tell them.

1179
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 3: And then I think in the position that you're in

1180
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 3: and then even the position that we're getting into, you

1181
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,919
Speaker 3: hear so many horror stories about people before us who

1182
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 3: people did take it then, like people that they trusted

1183
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 3: accountants and manage men and people that worked with them.

1184
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 3: And so you kind of have to be assertive and

1185
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 3: let people know that they can't play with you because

1186
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 3: who want that to happen because you're being too trusting, right,

1187
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 3: and you put it past them because you can't be

1188
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 3: putting stuff fast people. That's the main thing. You never

1189
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 3: know what somebody would do, even if you think you

1190
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:21,319
Speaker 3: know them.

1191
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: And I think sometimes like as women, especially like if

1192
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: we go in the meeting and we're just you know,

1193
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 1: being straightforward in this, some people are like, oh, well,

1194
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:32,279
Speaker 1: she's emotional, you know.

1195
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 2: On her period.

1196
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:36,879
Speaker 1: And I may be because I'll be in a meeting

1197
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: and I'll be like this and this and this, then

1198
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: I'll called you up like sh fissed me off, Like

1199
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: why would they taught to us like that? It's okay,

1200
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: like but still, but it's a meeting. I'm like, you know,

1201
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 1: but at the same time, like I said, I feel

1202
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: like a lot of times people just try to take

1203
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 1: advantage of especially women.

1204
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 2: This is how far they can go.

1205
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: Yes, they see out because they feel like, oh, well,

1206
00:53:58,080 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: she gonna be soft and she gonna be cool. It's

1207
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 1: so hey, I can I can say this to them.

1208
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 2: I can.

1209
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 1: So I do feel like as women, we don't get

1210
00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: the luxury of being soft in the business.

1211
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:08,839
Speaker 2: I want to question though, so.

1212
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 5: Like what is it that people be trying?

1213
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 2: Well, no, I'll.

1214
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 1: Say it like I think it's like a lot of

1215
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: times people will they want to low ball you on pay.

1216
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1217
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: They want they think that they can just show up whenever,

1218
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,879
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, they'll just not have

1219
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 1: respect for your time, respect for anything. And I just,

1220
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: like I said, I see this because it's a certain

1221
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: way that they will treat you know, our counterparts, that

1222
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 1: things that we have to go through that you know,

1223
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 1: they necessarily don't have to go through, right, I'm saying,

1224
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: Like I said, the big thing.

1225
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 2: For me just be like payments.

1226
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: Like, of course I don't expect to be getting paid

1227
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 1: the same amount as Carlos, But y'all ain't gonna pay

1228
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: me three.

1229
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 2: Dollars to show up somewhere even Yeah, you know what

1230
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1231
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 3: There longer hours I gotta resumeate to. Yeah, that's the

1232
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 3: thing I just won't.

1233
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, yeah, actually I'm good. Yeah yeah, And I

1234
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 2: think they as to be. It's so grateful.

1235
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:03,879
Speaker 1: Like, no, I'm not grateful. I want to get paid,

1236
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, I don't want to

1237
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: have to like come in these meetings and y'all just

1238
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:11,959
Speaker 1: expect me to just be happy to be here because

1239
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,280
Speaker 1: y'all feel like, oh, she's just a podcaster that's on YouTube.

1240
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,240
Speaker 2: No, I worked really fucking hard, you know what I'm saying.

1241
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 1: And like I said, I think they expect that for

1242
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 1: all women. You should just be grateful because women, you know,

1243
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 1: y'all don't get to y'all used to not be able

1244
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,439
Speaker 1: to be in these spaces, especially as a black woman.

1245
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,839
Speaker 2: You should be grateful. No, we deserve to be here.

1246
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's not like I should be oh my god,

1247
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 1: thank you, like, yes, thank you, But I earned my

1248
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: right to.

1249
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 3: Be loved, That's what I was gonna say. Especially, I

1250
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 3: think when you kind of grow up in front of people,

1251
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:45,439
Speaker 3: they'll still look at you like.

1252
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 2: That version of you from five years ago.

1253
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 3: They'll try to treat you like that version, like, oh,

1254
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,479
Speaker 3: remember back when you didn't really have that much money

1255
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 3: or you was just excited for the opportunity.

1256
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:57,240
Speaker 2: Okay, well now though, let's talk about it today.

1257
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,720
Speaker 3: Let's right, you need to pay me what I've worked

1258
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 3: hard to get to. I've worked hard to get to

1259
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 3: this point. I'm not the person that because we started

1260
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 3: our show Girl. I don't know if you know about

1261
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:13,360
Speaker 3: how we started, but we started the show recording in

1262
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 3: my apartment. I remember, yes, on my floor, like with

1263
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 3: just a camera and some little bullshit mics, and we

1264
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 3: were recording in my apartment. And obviously now we have

1265
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 3: a whole studio, we have a staff, everything. But I

1266
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 3: think sometimes people will try to play with you like

1267
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 3: you still in that same position, and it's like, no,

1268
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 3: we've grown.

1269
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 2: It needs to pay me what I'm word.

1270
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 3: So I'm sure you could probably relate to that too

1271
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 3: with being on YouTube when you were younger, Definitely.

1272
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:41,840
Speaker 1: Do you feel like people kind of still try to

1273
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:45,959
Speaker 1: treat you like your road to success was different because

1274
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: you started on YouTube.

1275
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 5: Anyone, Oh, I hate to say this, anyone below me, okay,

1276
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 5: but for some reason I hate to say it like that.

1277
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 5: But the people that are just not in my shoes

1278
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 5: or like they look at me like that. But I

1279
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:09,880
Speaker 5: have been acknowledged by the greats, right, yeah, I have

1280
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 5: been in Like I've had conversation with greats and people

1281
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 5: that have started from abada and made it here and

1282
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 5: they speak into me and they believe in me, you know.

1283
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 2: So honestly, I don't anyone.

1284
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, anyone who says, oh, well she's just a YouTuber,

1285
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 5: No one has ever done that to me that like

1286
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 5: that hasn't been in the comments. Yeah, yeah, I hope

1287
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 5: they don't take that wrong. But no, all right, yeah, like, yeah,

1288
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 5: it's the true.

1289
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 1: I think sometimes people don't like to hear stuff because

1290
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: they don't necessarily maybe like the messenger.

1291
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 2: But the facts are the fact. Yeah, I mean, it's

1292
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 2: the fact you want to hear it.

1293
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: Maybe you just don't like me or how you feel

1294
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 1: about me, But people will they love to try to

1295
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 1: humble people.

1296
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 2: Queen is so sweet. We be over here like fuck y'all.

1297
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I've always been that way, you know.

1298
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: I try to be a little more considerate a little

1299
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: bit sometimes sometimes.

1300
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 2: I think you were when we were younger.

1301
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 3: I think as you grow into womanhood and you get older,

1302
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 3: I think you just don't really grow into She used

1303
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:17,439
Speaker 3: to care more what people would think, and I think

1304
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 3: she's maturing.

1305
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 2: She.

1306
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 5: I think that's what's gonna happen with me, even as

1307
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 5: I'm like approaching my thirties. Like I just I don't

1308
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:26,640
Speaker 5: know where the switch came, but like something's changed.

1309
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 3: Oh when you hit thirty, girl, it's it's like, I

1310
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 3: don't know, it's just something that hits you for sure,

1311
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 3: and you're just like a lot of shit I used

1312
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 3: to care about.

1313
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 2: I just don't care no more. I feel myself slowly stopped, like.

1314
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 1: You will, because then you get to a point to

1315
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 1: where I'm not saying because you are a confident, beautiful woman,

1316
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: but you get to a point to where you realize,

1317
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 1: you know what, this is who I am. Yeah, this

1318
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:50,919
Speaker 1: is who I am. I can't change this. I can't

1319
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 1: change this. This is who God made me to me,

1320
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:55,959
Speaker 1: and you're either gonna accept it or you're not gonna

1321
00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 1: like it. So let me focus on the people who

1322
00:58:58,240 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: accept it and love it.

1323
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 2: Right, You'll learn to cater.

1324
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: To those people and love those people, and you know,

1325
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 1: feed into those people, because that's what I started doing.

1326
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I've become happier. It was a point

1327
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 1: where we were doing poor minds where I was just

1328
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: like unhappy because I felt like every.

1329
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 2: Week I'm showing up and I don't know what to

1330
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 2: do to make y'all like me.

1331
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 1: People are being mean because they're so mean, but you

1332
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 1: got to cater to them people that love you.

1333
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think that's why I've always had that mindset,

1334
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 3: because I've always been a little bit more of like,

1335
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck fuck y'all. But but the

1336
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 3: reason that I feel that way is because the people

1337
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 3: that I'm saying fuck y'all to, it's not the people

1338
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 3: who support me.

1339
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 2: I love y'all. I appreciate y'all.

1340
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 3: If you take offense to me saying that you one

1341
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 3: of the people that be hating, you're one of the

1342
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 3: people that's being rude, and it is fuck you because

1343
00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 3: you're not the person that's helping me anyway. You didn't

1344
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 3: help me get to where I am. You know, you

1345
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 3: don't support us. You don't come to our shows, to

1346
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 3: our live shows and stuff.

1347
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 2: So you're not buying mar And that's okay.

1348
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 1: I be hard with those people, but I be soft

1349
00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: with our support, yeah for sure, like they did. Like

1350
00:59:59,880 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: you set people DM you and stuff like people who've

1351
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 1: lost a parent or they're grieving or something.

1352
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 2: You get dms like that all the time. So I

1353
01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 2: don't mind.

1354
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 1: Being vulnerable and being open. I'm talking to y'all. I'm

1355
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: for y'all like me.

1356
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I.

1357
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 1: Think like you can still be soft and taken seriously

1358
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 1: because I think there's beauty and being vulnerable. Yeah, because

1359
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 1: it shows like I'm still human. Yes, I'm still going

1360
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: through the things.

1361
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 2: That you're going through. You know what I'm saying.

1362
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 1: Like, just like I used to be living on the

1363
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 1: East Side, crying in that apartment, bitch, I'm in my

1364
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:30,800
Speaker 1: high ride still crying.

1365
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 2: It's life. It real. Yeah, you have to you have

1366
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 2: to keep it real.

1367
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 1: But I think there's beauty in keeping it real and

1368
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: being soft.

1369
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,919
Speaker 2: But there's also you know you.

1370
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:42,439
Speaker 1: Like you said, you have to have that balance because

1371
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: you gotta be hard sometimes, especially as a woman like

1372
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: you know, being in this industry, because you don't want

1373
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 1: to be looked at as being like passive and oh queen,

1374
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: not gonna care because you're really not finna make a

1375
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: decision on my behalf.

1376
01:00:56,800 --> 01:01:00,160
Speaker 5: See I pick and choose with I'm more serious and

1377
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 5: stern about certain things, and I'm like then other things,

1378
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 5: like when it comes to my when it comes to

1379
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 5: my music, I am so like I don't play, like

1380
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 5: I really don't play. When it comes to like production credits,

1381
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 5: all of that stuff, I don't.

1382
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 2: I don't.

1383
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 5: But it's really the things that I truly care about,

1384
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:17,919
Speaker 5: like yeah, or like my kids.

1385
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this because I saw a

1386
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:23,480
Speaker 1: few clips of you on d D streams d G

1387
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 1: D What did I say?

1388
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 2: Twitch d D? What's this? D d G D d

1389
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 2: G You were on his string?

1390
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 3: It's whooping your head. J That's why I've been waiting

1391
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 3: on my second one, because I know I haven't been

1392
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 3: drinking like that.

1393
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 2: I would be to absolutely, So I saw a few

1394
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 2: of the clips.

1395
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: I didn't get to watch the whole stream, but they

1396
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 1: were kind of saying, like, you know, old Queen, was

1397
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 1: being quiet. She was kind of bothered. She didn't like

1398
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 1: the atmosphere. What really went on is that just people assuming, No.

1399
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 2: That was people assuming taking small clips. I was I

1400
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 2: was fine. I was fine.

1401
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 5: I came there to work. The thing was like DG

1402
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 5: was like, pull up, we're gonna make a song together.

1403
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 2: And I don't usually go on like people's streams or

1404
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 2: anything like that.

1405
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 5: I'm used to coming on like podcasts whatever, but not

1406
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 5: streams where like it's a bunch of different people like

1407
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 5: pulling up. I was just there to work, and like

1408
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 5: I was just vibing out like I don't know if

1409
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 5: I look serious because I was focused on like the music,

1410
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 5: Like I wasn't there to be drinking and partying and

1411
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 5: having like you know, and that's what I was there for.

1412
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 2: So you weren't upseturday. No, I wasn't up.

1413
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 5: I wasn't upset, Like, I wasn't upset. But it was

1414
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:44,320
Speaker 5: like people like read my face is wrong. They read

1415
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 5: me wrong, alive, I'm very misunderstood.

1416
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 2: I was just focused, Okay.

1417
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 5: I was just focused and I didn't have an issue

1418
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 5: with a bunch of people being in the room. I just,

1419
01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 5: of course I do get a little bit more reserved

1420
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 5: because when it's people that I don't know, I'm just

1421
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 5: more reserved.

1422
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:00,920
Speaker 2: But like when I know you, it's not like that.

1423
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 2: I'm actually probably gonna start my own twitch. Okay, I

1424
01:03:03,360 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 2: think that'd be a good idea. Yes, which is the

1425
01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 2: way right now.

1426
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 1: But I think your personality is so good and I

1427
01:03:09,920 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 1: think people kind of like miss seeing that from you.

1428
01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 1: Like I'm being on the music, but we love your personality.

1429
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll probably be able to do that more on

1430
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 5: my on my twitch. Going into someone else's territory is different,

1431
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 5: Like I could be in my room doing real crazy

1432
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 5: stuff alone or with my friends, like to do it there, like.

1433
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: It's a little you know people if you do something crazy.

1434
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, And I'm a little bit like different around

1435
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 5: like artists, especially when it's a bunch.

1436
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 2: Of men in the room.

1437
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm not about to be because out here like

1438
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 1: moving my body, you know what, would have got up

1439
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 1: and hit a little twark oh queen doing yeah yeah yeah,

1440
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 1: trying to be noticed, yeah.

1441
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 2: Trying to be outside. No, so I get it.

1442
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 5: And then my man was with me too there because yeah,

1443
01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 5: him and DG we're all mutual friends. Yeah, they're friends.

1444
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 5: I'm friends and then yeah, so I was actually glad

1445
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 5: because I didn't want to be in there with that many.

1446
01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:09,960
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, because I feel the same way. It

1447
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 1: sometimes like our management that'll they'll come with us and

1448
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,440
Speaker 1: not be so happy that they're there, because like.

1449
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 2: It's it's nice to have men.

1450
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 1: Rust that, you know, if anybody try to get a

1451
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: little you have protections. Yeah, because one thing about me,

1452
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 1: I will talk some ship, but as soon as somebody

1453
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 1: fuck with me, I'll be like, I'm finna take share

1454
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: to run. Yeah, I'm like, hold on, let me take

1455
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: share to run.

1456
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:36,400
Speaker 2: Ryan and Chad in the chat, the email whatever. Yeah,

1457
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,480
Speaker 2: So I'm glad. I'm glad that you had them there too.

1458
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 1: Like like I said, I know, situations like that can

1459
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: get rowdy and get crazy. Because I didn't get that vibe.

1460
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think she's just working.

1461
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 2: It was I was just working.

1462
01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, I hate that. I gotta loosen up a

1463
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 5: little bit. But I think it's like I said, it's

1464
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 5: just gross.

1465
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 2: Like I'm not people expect me to be that like

1466
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 2: turn it out. Really, I don't know. I was. I'm

1467
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:58,440
Speaker 2: still goofy, but I'm not like doy I used I

1468
01:04:58,520 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 2: used to be.

1469
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 5: Super reckless, but older it comes, I can't help it.

1470
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 5: Like I just I'm just a little bit more converted.

1471
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 1: And I think that's what she was saying too, like

1472
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: people expect you to be the old you and I'm not.

1473
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 2: Line like I'm miss the old you, Queen. Why did

1474
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 2: you know I'm I'm grown.

1475
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:18,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but just I know the spaces and places that

1476
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 3: I can yeah, and I'm.

1477
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 5: Not like that twenty four seven. I have my moments

1478
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 5: where I'm just chilled.

1479
01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 2: I feel you got to pay attention to yuas around.

1480
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 3: It's like even with having Craig in the room, him

1481
01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 3: over there, he be places with us sometimes and I'll

1482
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 3: just give him a little because then we because people,

1483
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 3: you just never know what people's intentions are.

1484
01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 2: So you just gotta always be on guard, you know

1485
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 2: what I mean. I think I was on guard. You

1486
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 2: have to.

1487
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 3: You just always got to give people their eye, Like Craig,

1488
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 3: you watching them.

1489
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 2: See what's going on? Right, all right?

1490
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 5: They kep saying I was clutching my purse, putting it

1491
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 5: to my side.

1492
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 2: It's the story behind that.

1493
01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 5: So the reason why I had to make sure that

1494
01:05:55,280 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 5: because I lose a lot of things, I have.

1495
01:05:57,600 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 2: Lost my purse.

1496
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 5: I have left things behind and like I was just

1497
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 5: trying to be conscious, like Queen, don't leave your stuff,

1498
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 5: and I have left my purse in an airport bathroom.

1499
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 5: Oh Saint Martine like crying run around the airports. So it

1500
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:13,520
Speaker 5: was just really me like, okay, just make sure you

1501
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 5: know where your stuff is.

1502
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 2: I wasn't. It wasn't think. I think abodes that is.

1503
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 2: It means so many people in and out of it.

1504
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 1: You never know if somebody would say, yes, I was

1505
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 1: grabbing my parts batch I don't know these people.

1506
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm keeping my sheet close to me.

1507
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:32,160
Speaker 1: And the thing is, like I said, I think his

1508
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 1: streams are entertaining, Like I love his streams, but he

1509
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 1: do have a lot of people in and out and

1510
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 1: you don't know who they are. It'd be like a

1511
01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:42,480
Speaker 1: lot of you know, young girls, young women, people you

1512
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:45,240
Speaker 1: and people do things for cloud. So how good would

1513
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 1: it be somebody who trying to start up a stream.

1514
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 2: They'd be like, ooh, I got I mean queen purse.

1515
01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 2: They could just take it and go to the bathroom

1516
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:53,760
Speaker 2: and do something with. Yeah, I don't trust people, you

1517
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So you you was doing right No,

1518
01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:57,480
Speaker 2: you don't need a reason why you.

1519
01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:01,120
Speaker 3: Was clutching your You could clutch what you feel like

1520
01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 3: you this is my purse.

1521
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean that a game named herself meanly and

1522
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,440
Speaker 1: you ain't from China. I don't know if I can

1523
01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:19,919
Speaker 1: trust you people, because y'all put pregnancy on me all

1524
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 1: I and all it was was I ate a can

1525
01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:23,600
Speaker 1: of beans and had a few shots at tequila.

1526
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 4: Bitch.

1527
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: I had just got back from a little happy hour

1528
01:07:26,360 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 1: at Papacitos, and y'all was like, you.

1529
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 2: Pregnant, lect pregnant. Congratulations, she's pregnant. Oh she fringant and

1530
01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:33,640
Speaker 2: baby I had just ate.

1531
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:36,560
Speaker 1: So the only reason I'm being very Oh, he don't

1532
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: play about me. This nigga is swinging on the swing

1533
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:42,440
Speaker 1: set right now, swinging on the Merry Go Round.

1534
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 2: Baby.

1535
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:48,160
Speaker 1: Oh, he playing all day on that PS five Mario Kart. Okay,

1536
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 1: that's crazy. That's like you having a sexual assault case

1537
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: and R. Kelly being like, oh, yeah, bro, I support you. Hey,

1538
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:58,480
Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm good, bro. I don't need none of

1539
01:07:58,480 --> 01:08:00,000
Speaker 1: that support. I don't want none of your prayers.

1540
01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 2: Somebody sent me some on my phone and said that

1541
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: a hall tieder I don't know the people WHOA what

1542
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:09,480
Speaker 2: an altar?

1543
01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 3: Probably one day I will get married and my dad

1544
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 3: is not gonna be here to walk me down the

1545
01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 3: aisle things that I just always thought that he would

1546
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,760
Speaker 3: be here for and you know, be able to experience

1547
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 3: with me.

1548
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:24,880
Speaker 2: And I just know he would be so proud.

1549
01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 3: Of everything that I'm doing, the woman that I'm becoming,

1550
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:34,720
Speaker 3: how far I've come, especially with my attitude child because whoa,

1551
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 3: I was something else when I was growing up.

1552
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 2: But like I said, it's just a bittersweet thing.

1553
01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 3: Okay, So now it's time to get into dubby ball

1554
01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:50,760
Speaker 3: Dubby bow dubby about bout about bow bow?

1555
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:52,080
Speaker 2: Go ahead, little droll.

1556
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 3: Okay, So for the bad topic, we're gonna talk about

1557
01:08:56,240 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 3: what's one thing that y'all wish men to understood about

1558
01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:01,640
Speaker 3: women's bodies.

1559
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 2: Or multiple things, not just one thing that I wish

1560
01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:11,480
Speaker 2: that they really understood.

1561
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:16,840
Speaker 1: Is this might be a little too vulgar or but

1562
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this a lot men, y'all can throw

1563
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:21,680
Speaker 1: a woman's pH off.

1564
01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:22,639
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1565
01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 1: Bro Okay, Yeah, sometimes if you ain't in bad with y'all,

1566
01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 1: lady and you and something that's smelling like a fish

1567
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 1: fry on a Friday night.

1568
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,240
Speaker 2: You thinking it as hot, but you probably throw her

1569
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:36,000
Speaker 2: pH all you know real quick.

1570
01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 3: I hate when people say a fish fry, fish fries smell.

1571
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 2: Good, a fish fry delicious. It's the raw fish that's

1572
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:56,080
Speaker 2: the problem. It's for you to say that, Okay, but

1573
01:09:56,120 --> 01:10:03,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna says a fish it is, But that's not

1574
01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 2: how you want y'all vagina to smell. I mean fake.

1575
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying.

1576
01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 2: Frit smell edible is what I'm saying. Fry. They should

1577
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:16,760
Speaker 2: say something this is rawthy. Yeah.

1578
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 1: So I feel like a lot of times men should know,

1579
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: Like if you were in a relationship with long term

1580
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 1: relationship and something is going on with your lady down.

1581
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 2: There, you could be the problem. You are not doing

1582
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:28,679
Speaker 2: something down there.

1583
01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:33,160
Speaker 1: You might be cheating, you're not washing your balls good

1584
01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,480
Speaker 1: enough after you go to play one on one basketball

1585
01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 1: at the rec center or whatever you're doing.

1586
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:42,200
Speaker 2: Something is not Something is off about you.

1587
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:46,760
Speaker 5: That's and honestly, just like when a guy this might

1588
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:48,599
Speaker 5: be a lot too, but when a guy releases into

1589
01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:50,519
Speaker 5: a woman regards if you're trying to have kids or not,

1590
01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 5: that alone is very acidic. Yes, grows ours off, you

1591
01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. So because they just want to

1592
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 5: do that and it's like, well, no, you're gonna.

1593
01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 2: Wake up if we not creating, don't play.

1594
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that that definitely throws a lot a lot of

1595
01:11:06,840 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 1: things off. I think another thing is stop trying to

1596
01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:14,360
Speaker 1: have one move sexually for all women. Just because this

1597
01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:16,439
Speaker 1: woman likes you to do that doesn't mean the next

1598
01:11:16,479 --> 01:11:18,639
Speaker 1: woman that you're with is gonna like that. I think

1599
01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: we have to take time and learn each other's bodies more.

1600
01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 1: And that's for women too. With men, y'all be trying

1601
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 1: to be one trick ponies. So this she liked that,

1602
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:29,640
Speaker 1: I'm finna turn this. I'm gonna turn her out, and

1603
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing? Yeah, you know what

1604
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying as weak ass moves, So I think men

1605
01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:40,880
Speaker 1: they be like, oh, they be thinking that they have

1606
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 1: the best penis in the world, because you you the

1607
01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:46,800
Speaker 1: one time on Brenda down the Street that was talking

1608
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:47,800
Speaker 1: ship on Twitter.

1609
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 2: Run out of the Street was getting that deck talking ship.

1610
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:01,680
Speaker 1: But just because it worked on Brenda don't mean it's

1611
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 1: gonna work on you, right, So I think that men

1612
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:07,560
Speaker 1: need to learn that every woman's body is different and

1613
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: take your time and ask questions. There's nothing wrong with

1614
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:13,759
Speaker 1: asking questions, learning what she's like, and just taking your time,

1615
01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

1616
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 3: That's what I was gonna say, literally, like men need

1617
01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:21,160
Speaker 3: to ask questions. Just because she might seem like she

1618
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:23,960
Speaker 3: enjoying it and she moaning and whatever, you need to

1619
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:26,360
Speaker 3: actually ask her, like are you enjoying this?

1620
01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:27,560
Speaker 2: Does this feel good to you?

1621
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:29,760
Speaker 3: I feel like men don't ask because a lot of

1622
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:31,759
Speaker 3: the time they don't care as long as they ging theirs.

1623
01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:35,360
Speaker 5: I don't have that problem though, See all right, it's

1624
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 5: a little different for me, Like I don't because I've

1625
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 5: been in a relationship for a lot of time, so

1626
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 5: you know each other, he know my buddy.

1627
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 2: There's nothing. Yeah, there's nothing going on like bed.

1628
01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:51,160
Speaker 5: Yeah. I think what I would like for men to

1629
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:54,960
Speaker 5: understand in general is that, oh my god, is that

1630
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 5: sex starts outside the bedroom?

1631
01:12:57,400 --> 01:12:58,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, she says.

1632
01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:01,240
Speaker 5: It's not just like it's not just like a switch.

1633
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 5: It's like, okay, yeah, you horny, let's do it. No,

1634
01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 5: like it starts with the in the morning, when you're

1635
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:11,599
Speaker 5: helping me with the kids. It starts in the morning,

1636
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 5: like when you're helping me throughout the day or when

1637
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:17,000
Speaker 5: you just come in and giving me little.

1638
01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,920
Speaker 2: Kisses on the cheek or whatever you like. That's where

1639
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:19,400
Speaker 2: it starts.

1640
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 5: It's just don't like, oh yeah, I did this all right,

1641
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:24,639
Speaker 5: come on, let's just have sex like wo like if

1642
01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 5: I'm not being romance, if I'm not. And then men

1643
01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:30,080
Speaker 5: also don't understand like a little something could just go

1644
01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:32,760
Speaker 5: a very long way when you treat a woman right or.

1645
01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 3: Like it really don't take much for us, just so

1646
01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 3: excited about it.

1647
01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:40,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, And they think that they always.

1648
01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 3: Have to do something extravagant, and it's like, no, it

1649
01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:44,480
Speaker 3: doesn't always have to be something extravagant.

1650
01:13:44,560 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 2: We like thoughtful needs. Yes, we like for you to

1651
01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 2: be thoughtful.

1652
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:49,160
Speaker 3: So it could be something as little as you going

1653
01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 3: to publics and picking up from ten dollars row.

1654
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 2: You'd be like, you know what, yeah, Higgins, some tonight

1655
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 2: is thoughtful. It just goes a long way.

1656
01:14:01,400 --> 01:14:04,240
Speaker 1: So I think they need to realize that women a

1657
01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:08,799
Speaker 1: lot of our sexual stimulation comes from a mental clog

1658
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 1: and emotional connection.

1659
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:16,120
Speaker 2: And there's don't and there's don't. It's just straight like yeah,

1660
01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:17,719
Speaker 2: another good point.

1661
01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 1: I think men need to understand there's a lot of

1662
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: times when y'all be having sex with women, y'all be thinking, oh,

1663
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:24,800
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna fucking go about my way, and you

1664
01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: keep having sex with the same person over and over again,

1665
01:14:27,200 --> 01:14:28,640
Speaker 1: and it may be just a nut to you.

1666
01:14:29,080 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 2: Women are not wired that way. I don't care.

1667
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:34,280
Speaker 1: I don't speak for all women because some women can't

1668
01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:36,280
Speaker 1: have sex a lot and with the same person and

1669
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 1: not developed feelings. But as a man and a woman

1670
01:14:40,240 --> 01:14:42,760
Speaker 1: having sex a lot, I don't care if something is

1671
01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 1: gonna start happening feeling wise. So men, y'all need to

1672
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 1: understand you cannot have sex with the same woman over

1673
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:51,040
Speaker 1: and over and over and over again and not expect

1674
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:51,479
Speaker 1: her to have.

1675
01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:54,760
Speaker 2: Something or have some type of expectation.

1676
01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, if you have sex with a woman

1677
01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 1: four times, you ain't never took her on a day.

1678
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: I bet you after that four tops gonna be like, well,

1679
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 1: why don't we do something? Yeah like this, why don't

1680
01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:06,160
Speaker 1: we go somewhere booty call? So if you just want

1681
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 1: a booty call, you don't need to have sex with

1682
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 1: the same woman over and over and over again. And

1683
01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 1: that's just you're just trying to get happy. You need

1684
01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 1: to have a little roster another mention. I'm gonna say

1685
01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 1: this though, because y'all don't like to wrap that little

1686
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:19,599
Speaker 1: pin up, I'm gonna get a little bit spirit chilled.

1687
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:22,640
Speaker 5: I feel like men too need to realize, like the

1688
01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 5: roster thing, I get it, but when you laying with

1689
01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:28,360
Speaker 5: these different people, you're also picking up their spirits, will so.

1690
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 2: You're not Yeah, so I wish that men would think

1691
01:15:31,800 --> 01:15:33,560
Speaker 2: like that sometimes, but a lot of men are not,

1692
01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:35,720
Speaker 2: like you know, in tune like that.

1693
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 5: But like when you land with all these different women,

1694
01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 5: even uh women too, Like when you lay with these

1695
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:45,760
Speaker 5: different men, you are picking up their spirits and their

1696
01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:47,680
Speaker 5: demons are the things, and then you wonder why, like

1697
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:50,680
Speaker 5: it's something going on with you. You gotta really be

1698
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 5: careful with that because you you know, you become one

1699
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 5: like that you do.

1700
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:57,679
Speaker 2: That's a very good point. It's a very good point.

1701
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:01,519
Speaker 2: I got another one I forgot you read it on there.

1702
01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 2: I forgot. We're gonna get a little vulgar again.

1703
01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:09,680
Speaker 1: Men, stop forgetting about the clique that is where the

1704
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 1: stimulation comes from.

1705
01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 3: First of all, if you call it a click like

1706
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:17,000
Speaker 3: you don't know, I know you don't know nothing right there,

1707
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:19,679
Speaker 3: because why are you calling it a click click. Girls

1708
01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:21,560
Speaker 3: be calling it there too, and that's the topic for

1709
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 3: a whole nother time.

1710
01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:24,920
Speaker 2: I mean, because my friend calls it a click, but

1711
01:16:24,960 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 2: she does it to be funny.

1712
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:28,760
Speaker 3: That's a different though. Yeah, but some people really think

1713
01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 3: it's called a clique because they don't know.

1714
01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 1: I don't click and bop it twisted touch it yet.

1715
01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:37,880
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn stop passing it up.

1716
01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 2: It's right there. It's a button process. It really is

1717
01:16:42,240 --> 01:16:45,800
Speaker 2: a y'all touch it. That's crazy. A lot of men

1718
01:16:45,880 --> 01:16:47,280
Speaker 2: don't know that. That's really.

1719
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: Stimulation is how most women have an orgasm. Penetration. Now,

1720
01:16:55,520 --> 01:16:58,160
Speaker 1: you can't have an organs women. Yeah, very it's a

1721
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 1: small percent. Those are the blessed, blessed, blessed women that

1722
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:05,519
Speaker 1: can have an orgasm just off of penetration. But most

1723
01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:09,200
Speaker 1: women have an orgasm from stimulation me.

1724
01:17:09,360 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 2: Right, or not just penetration alone.

1725
01:17:11,920 --> 01:17:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta rub on a caress so on. Like

1726
01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:22,360
Speaker 1: she said, it starts in the morning, the four play before.

1727
01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:23,519
Speaker 2: That's another thing too.

1728
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:25,320
Speaker 3: A lot of men, just like you say, they have

1729
01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:26,840
Speaker 3: a mind of its own, so they just want to

1730
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 3: get straight to it, Like, no, we're not wired like that.

1731
01:17:30,120 --> 01:17:34,120
Speaker 2: You gotta rep us up. It is, it is. I

1732
01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 2: hate it, and especially when you're getting your thirty sinuse.

1733
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 2: That's another thing.

1734
01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:38,960
Speaker 3: Girl, When you turn thirty, you just ain't gonna have

1735
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:40,720
Speaker 3: time for none of this sheet no more.

1736
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:43,800
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna waste my time. And I'm gonna let

1737
01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 2: you know.

1738
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:46,200
Speaker 3: I'm just saying you're not gonna have You're gonna be

1739
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:49,280
Speaker 3: way more vocal and ready for like if a man,

1740
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:50,960
Speaker 3: you're not gonna let people waste tho time. I mean,

1741
01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:53,080
Speaker 3: obviously you're in a relationship, but I feel like you're

1742
01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 3: gonna be even more vocal about what you want and

1743
01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:57,000
Speaker 3: what you like when you turn thirty.

1744
01:17:57,040 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 2: So it's like, yeah, a nigga, No, you need to

1745
01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:00,760
Speaker 2: do this. You need to do this, and you need

1746
01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 2: to do it like this, and you need to do

1747
01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:03,720
Speaker 2: it right now. Or we just ain't even about to

1748
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:07,960
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree anything else y'all want to add,

1749
01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 2: or we move on.

1750
01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:12,200
Speaker 1: We look, first of all, we just put y'all on

1751
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 1: game fellas, So I hope y'all took some good No,

1752
01:18:16,200 --> 01:18:19,920
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, all.

1753
01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 2: Of them, all of them.

1754
01:18:19,840 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is your camera, my camera, this is

1755
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 1: haen camera. Three is hers in a wide shot and

1756
01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 1: yours Oh nice.

1757
01:18:33,000 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so if.

1758
01:18:33,960 --> 01:18:36,160
Speaker 1: You want to emphasize something or something, so you got

1759
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:37,640
Speaker 1: to say it to three, okay, and.

1760
01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:39,760
Speaker 2: We just I just always be looking at these doing

1761
01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 2: the wide shot. I always get my camera because I'll

1762
01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 2: be like you do, I love to make a face.

1763
01:18:45,320 --> 01:18:47,640
Speaker 2: I never look at my camera. I always look at

1764
01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 2: my camera always.

1765
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 3: Okay, Now, this is such an awkward space, like y'all

1766
01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 3: over here, I'm like, why would I look right here?

1767
01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:56,000
Speaker 2: Well?

1768
01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:58,240
Speaker 1: I think I think it's sometimes when somebody is a

1769
01:18:58,320 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 1: guess and they sitting right here and that's czy, so crazy.

1770
01:19:01,280 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 2: I'll be like, dude, you do they think we on

1771
01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:08,400
Speaker 2: an episode of the Office. That's how you know? I

1772
01:19:08,479 --> 01:19:10,599
Speaker 2: watched The Office super I love the I love when

1773
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:14,639
Speaker 2: they'd be doing a camera. Yeah that's what you think.

1774
01:19:16,120 --> 01:20:53,120
Speaker 7: I'll be like, Okay, all right, hope y'all a Shugarl

1775
01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 7: xp and is Sugarl draining a call?

1776
01:20:55,920 --> 01:20:58,439
Speaker 1: Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called

1777
01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:00,519
Speaker 1: Item of the Week. But do you have a product

1778
01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 1: or something that you want to promote and you want

1779
01:21:02,080 --> 01:21:03,360
Speaker 1: it featured on Poor Minds?

1780
01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:05,839
Speaker 2: Your opportunity is here period.

1781
01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:08,360
Speaker 3: If you have an item or you have a business

1782
01:21:08,400 --> 01:21:10,320
Speaker 3: and you want to get it promoted, we are now

1783
01:21:10,479 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 3: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1784
01:21:13,840 --> 01:21:16,160
Speaker 3: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1785
01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 3: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1786
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:21,719
Speaker 3: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1787
01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 3: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1788
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:29,799
Speaker 3: H E W E E K P M at gmail

1789
01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 3: dot com. Send us an email and we'll work it out.

1790
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:35,640
Speaker 3: We're gonna figure it out. Get your product, get your

1791
01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:38,800
Speaker 3: business sponsored, and yeah, make you some money.

1792
01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 2: We love to moret a small business man and a

1793
01:21:42,160 --> 01:21:44,759
Speaker 2: black business said that, but I mean.

1794
01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:49,559
Speaker 3: Any scrimmaad any businesses welcome.

1795
01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 2: It's get into the bout. So you gonna love this segment.

1796
01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:01,000
Speaker 2: It's the Bop of the week.

1797
01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:04,880
Speaker 1: So it's so we're gonna give like whatever music that

1798
01:22:05,000 --> 01:22:07,840
Speaker 1: we've been jamming, but we are also gonna talk about

1799
01:22:07,960 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 1: your album, you know what I'm saying.

1800
01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:13,000
Speaker 2: So first I want to give my bop of the week.

1801
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:13,760
Speaker 2: My Bop of the week.

1802
01:22:13,880 --> 01:22:16,679
Speaker 1: Y'all know, it's summertime, it's springtime. It's time to get

1803
01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 1: in the clubs and to be one and have fun

1804
01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:22,479
Speaker 1: and just you know, have that feel good music again.

1805
01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:25,759
Speaker 1: So my bop of the week is by afrobeats artist Rama.

1806
01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:28,360
Speaker 1: He has a new song called about You, and it's

1807
01:22:28,439 --> 01:22:30,479
Speaker 1: just a really cute song. It's just about a girl

1808
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:33,200
Speaker 1: that is something about her and I just.

1809
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:34,360
Speaker 2: I love love music.

1810
01:22:34,439 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 1: I think we need to bring back when men are

1811
01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 1: talking about being in love and oh girl, you special, like,

1812
01:22:40,240 --> 01:22:43,839
Speaker 1: let's bring that back. Let's bring back the good vibes.

1813
01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 1: They were talking about T. Grizzly the other day and

1814
01:22:45,960 --> 01:22:47,120
Speaker 1: how he be rapping about.

1815
01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:52,360
Speaker 2: His wife and that like to be married. Yes, that

1816
01:22:52,680 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 2: like to be when can they fine? Let me tell

1817
01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:55,559
Speaker 2: you something.

1818
01:22:55,880 --> 01:22:58,200
Speaker 1: The smartest man on this earth know the value of

1819
01:22:58,280 --> 01:22:59,799
Speaker 1: having one woman that's valuable.

1820
01:23:00,160 --> 01:23:01,640
Speaker 2: They know it.

1821
01:23:01,960 --> 01:23:05,360
Speaker 1: The smart, very smart, very smart man, very very I'm

1822
01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:09,479
Speaker 1: telling you every successful man, I promise you either has

1823
01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:12,280
Speaker 1: a woman running his whole team or he's married.

1824
01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 5: They do say that for men, like in business being

1825
01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:22,040
Speaker 5: married really like elev Steve Harvey talks about that all time.

1826
01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:24,840
Speaker 3: And then of course you have anomalies like some men

1827
01:23:25,439 --> 01:23:28,040
Speaker 3: ended up being very very successful without getting married. With

1828
01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 3: most successful men they have again, I tell.

1829
01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:33,599
Speaker 1: You the men that aren't married, I guarantee you, there's

1830
01:23:33,680 --> 01:23:39,439
Speaker 1: a woman behind him who runs everything, his assistant, whether

1831
01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 1: it's his executive assistant whatever, I'm telling you, it's a

1832
01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:47,599
Speaker 1: woman very close by handling everything. I promise you every time.

1833
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:50,120
Speaker 1: So even if he's not married, ask him who his

1834
01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:50,880
Speaker 1: right hand is?

1835
01:23:51,840 --> 01:24:05,519
Speaker 2: Brenda? Brenda? Can you bring up Brenda as time? Baby? Right?

1836
01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:08,880
Speaker 2: All right? All right? What you been jamming this week?

1837
01:24:08,960 --> 01:24:09,120
Speaker 1: Man?

1838
01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:09,519
Speaker 2: Okay?

1839
01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:11,720
Speaker 3: So, I can't remember if Julian brought this up on

1840
01:24:11,800 --> 01:24:13,559
Speaker 3: an episode to Night, because I know we was talking

1841
01:24:13,560 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 3: about leon Thommys. But I've been like having in rotation yesterday.

1842
01:24:18,200 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 2: Is that's my song? Okay?

1843
01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:22,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't talk about that. He was talking about remix,

1844
01:24:22,160 --> 01:24:24,320
Speaker 3: but I feel like he had brought up another song

1845
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:26,560
Speaker 3: from the album. And I can't remember if that was

1846
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:27,400
Speaker 3: the song or night.

1847
01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:31,760
Speaker 2: But I love that song. I don't like I like

1848
01:24:31,840 --> 01:24:32,240
Speaker 2: it a lot.

1849
01:24:32,680 --> 01:24:36,400
Speaker 3: His voice is very soothing. It is a soothing tone,

1850
01:24:36,520 --> 01:24:38,400
Speaker 3: and I love that song. It's like I feel like

1851
01:24:38,479 --> 01:24:39,959
Speaker 3: it's bringing back real.

1852
01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:43,439
Speaker 2: R and B Yes, telling you I always I told

1853
01:24:43,479 --> 01:24:46,280
Speaker 2: you R and b Ain't. It's giving them it's given

1854
01:24:46,360 --> 01:24:51,479
Speaker 2: nostalgic ninety. It was a little scoop. We might have

1855
01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:56,840
Speaker 2: a little insight. Okay, okay, so talk about way, like

1856
01:24:56,960 --> 01:25:00,280
Speaker 2: what's you back? What you what collaborations you could tell

1857
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:00,559
Speaker 2: us you.

1858
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:04,920
Speaker 5: Guys, So okay, I can't tell every collaboration because you know,

1859
01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:07,240
Speaker 5: I want my fans to be like surprised.

1860
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:10,840
Speaker 2: But there she goes she started about to get straight.

1861
01:25:11,479 --> 01:25:13,719
Speaker 2: You heard it somebody somebody you know in the background.

1862
01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:14,840
Speaker 2: I'd be trying to whip that.

1863
01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:19,479
Speaker 5: But I do know that people seen a picture of

1864
01:25:19,520 --> 01:25:24,400
Speaker 5: me and Marita scientists together. Yeah, but what you guys

1865
01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:27,840
Speaker 5: can expect from this new album, I'm so excited. A

1866
01:25:27,920 --> 01:25:30,840
Speaker 5: lot of my stuff was like super traditional R and B.

1867
01:25:31,320 --> 01:25:32,720
Speaker 2: And I know a lot of people it's like bring

1868
01:25:32,880 --> 01:25:33,720
Speaker 2: R and B back, Da Da Da.

1869
01:25:34,360 --> 01:25:36,240
Speaker 5: But honestly, I feel like I've made my mark with

1870
01:25:36,400 --> 01:25:37,760
Speaker 5: R and B, and I really wanted to be a

1871
01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:41,040
Speaker 5: little bit more universal, So I got some more upbeat

1872
01:25:41,080 --> 01:25:44,280
Speaker 5: things on air and things that could sound like you

1873
01:25:44,320 --> 01:25:45,040
Speaker 5: can go overseas.

1874
01:25:45,360 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 2: Okay, like we're trying to go bigger.

1875
01:25:48,280 --> 01:25:49,960
Speaker 5: I'm never going to turn my back on the people

1876
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:52,559
Speaker 5: who love R and B. But like I really want

1877
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:54,479
Speaker 5: like it's definitely growth. You're gonna be able to hear

1878
01:25:54,479 --> 01:25:58,280
Speaker 5: the growth in the production and just me experimenting with

1879
01:25:58,360 --> 01:26:03,040
Speaker 5: different sound and tempos I've always wanted to do.

1880
01:26:03,360 --> 01:26:05,240
Speaker 2: I'm not a dancer. I suck, actually, but I.

1881
01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:09,280
Speaker 5: Want to make a dance, so I want to make

1882
01:26:09,360 --> 01:26:13,559
Speaker 5: like a and then it's always relatable, ess always relatable.

1883
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:16,559
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think you guys are really, really really

1884
01:26:16,640 --> 01:26:19,439
Speaker 2: gonna like it. I think I love it. I was

1885
01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:23,160
Speaker 2: just bopp into it and yeah, I'm very proud.

1886
01:26:23,400 --> 01:26:26,479
Speaker 1: So you don't have to give us the TT But

1887
01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:30,720
Speaker 1: if you don't, do you have somebody that's like a

1888
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:33,320
Speaker 1: legend on the album? And if you don't, is there

1889
01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:35,439
Speaker 1: a legend that you would like to have on the album,

1890
01:26:36,800 --> 01:26:38,000
Speaker 1: like a legendary singer?

1891
01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:40,439
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So this is what I'm gonna say.

1892
01:26:40,640 --> 01:26:43,880
Speaker 5: When I think about legend, I think of the greats.

1893
01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:46,000
Speaker 5: I think of the people that's been here for a while.

1894
01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:49,840
Speaker 5: Upcoming legends, yes, you know, because we.

1895
01:26:49,920 --> 01:26:51,400
Speaker 2: Still got a lot of work to do.

1896
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 5: But I've already worked with the Legend before a Babyface

1897
01:26:54,640 --> 01:26:58,320
Speaker 5: his last album I did on my latest EP, well

1898
01:26:58,479 --> 01:27:02,880
Speaker 5: two years ago. I worked with Monica the Legend. But

1899
01:27:02,960 --> 01:27:06,519
Speaker 5: I would say they're like, we're like upcoming, We're still

1900
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:07,760
Speaker 5: because we still got a lot to.

1901
01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:13,240
Speaker 2: Right baby Face is alick though that That's what I'm saying,

1902
01:27:13,400 --> 01:27:14,880
Speaker 2: Like you were, because that was the album that he

1903
01:27:14,960 --> 01:27:19,519
Speaker 2: did with that was a good album. Going on Mary

1904
01:27:19,600 --> 01:27:22,360
Speaker 2: J Blige tour was like for her to share the stage.

1905
01:27:22,479 --> 01:27:25,800
Speaker 5: That's why when you said, like, do people still disrespect

1906
01:27:25,840 --> 01:27:26,960
Speaker 5: you and say you're just a YouTube?

1907
01:27:27,200 --> 01:27:31,240
Speaker 2: I don't even care because Mary J. Yeah like that,

1908
01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:34,680
Speaker 2: Because then you I want to say, did you get

1909
01:27:34,720 --> 01:27:39,360
Speaker 2: a Soul Trainer? Warry reformed at the Trainer? I think

1910
01:27:39,360 --> 01:27:41,200
Speaker 2: I did a No that was the other one. I

1911
01:27:41,280 --> 01:27:44,639
Speaker 2: did an s w B tribute. Oh no, I probably

1912
01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:47,120
Speaker 2: presented at the Soul Training Wars. I did perform. Yes,

1913
01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:48,800
Speaker 2: you perform. I know you did.

1914
01:27:49,080 --> 01:27:51,040
Speaker 3: I know I was just trying to I'd be so

1915
01:27:51,200 --> 01:27:54,920
Speaker 3: booked and I know, but I'm know I've just been

1916
01:27:55,040 --> 01:27:56,639
Speaker 3: I've been very low in my age.

1917
01:27:56,720 --> 01:28:00,439
Speaker 2: So I get it's like you don't get to just do.

1918
01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:04,440
Speaker 1: The Soul Train of War like that is a legendary

1919
01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:06,920
Speaker 1: show that our parents grew up with. Yes, like the

1920
01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:09,840
Speaker 1: Training Wars is not like and you gotta if you're

1921
01:28:09,840 --> 01:28:12,439
Speaker 1: doing a Soul Training Awards, you can't sing, you gotta sign.

1922
01:28:12,720 --> 01:28:15,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So I think that

1923
01:28:15,880 --> 01:28:16,679
Speaker 2: whole narrative.

1924
01:28:16,720 --> 01:28:19,559
Speaker 1: If people do still say that, they definitely definitely gotta

1925
01:28:19,640 --> 01:28:21,080
Speaker 1: let that go because like it's fine.

1926
01:28:21,200 --> 01:28:24,000
Speaker 5: It's I've learned that, Like it's okay to not be

1927
01:28:24,120 --> 01:28:25,800
Speaker 5: for everybody. I'm not gonna be for everybody, but the

1928
01:28:25,880 --> 01:28:27,000
Speaker 5: ones who really love me.

1929
01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:31,800
Speaker 2: They know that. Yeah, so that's all that matters. Yeah,

1930
01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:33,360
Speaker 2: I see a lot of people in the cor like

1931
01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:36,240
Speaker 2: I just can't get her music. I just can't. That's

1932
01:28:36,280 --> 01:28:41,719
Speaker 2: a lot of mind beautiful boys. Yes, I'm so happy.

1933
01:28:41,840 --> 01:28:45,920
Speaker 2: And beautiful spirit because that matter. Yes, I have been

1934
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:50,639
Speaker 2: having a bat beautiful, beautiful spirit. Beautiful boy. Okay, what's

1935
01:28:50,680 --> 01:28:51,679
Speaker 2: the item of the week, Droy.

1936
01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:55,240
Speaker 3: Okay, So for the item of the week, I'm gonna

1937
01:28:55,240 --> 01:28:59,840
Speaker 3: give Queen some products from you. I have a cosmetics

1938
01:29:00,040 --> 01:29:04,240
Speaker 3: line called Muse Beauty. It's Muse Bete Collections dot Com. Now,

1939
01:29:04,800 --> 01:29:08,400
Speaker 3: my ass forgot my little pr boxes at home, girl,

1940
01:29:08,479 --> 01:29:09,959
Speaker 3: so I had to put it in this little.

1941
01:29:09,840 --> 01:29:11,800
Speaker 2: Oh I love the heart, but I'm marring you the

1942
01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:12,639
Speaker 2: whole collection.

1943
01:29:13,360 --> 01:29:16,920
Speaker 3: And then I also have some messcara and eyeliner that's

1944
01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:20,320
Speaker 3: coming out soon and I can ship it young Red

1945
01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:24,519
Speaker 3: as I would be y'all money. Yes, girl, it's lip glosses,

1946
01:29:24,600 --> 01:29:27,280
Speaker 3: some lip liners. We also have some jelly blushes.

1947
01:29:27,760 --> 01:29:32,800
Speaker 2: Oh, I love jelly blush. I'm telling you, if you

1948
01:29:32,880 --> 01:29:35,880
Speaker 2: have like a no makeup bruh, it does something so different. Yes,

1949
01:29:36,600 --> 01:29:39,080
Speaker 2: when the summer to get that.

1950
01:29:39,160 --> 01:29:42,559
Speaker 1: Cute sunburn luks, Oh my god, when we was in Turks, baby,

1951
01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:44,519
Speaker 1: I got the jelly blush in my damn.

1952
01:29:44,800 --> 01:29:47,639
Speaker 2: Yes, I love the jelly bushes. It's so good. It's

1953
01:29:47,880 --> 01:29:50,559
Speaker 2: so good. And I don't like the lip glosses. Yes,

1954
01:29:50,760 --> 01:29:52,360
Speaker 2: I can't wait. I'm gonna send.

1955
01:29:52,240 --> 01:29:56,479
Speaker 1: Y'all little a little one, little one. Okay, but real quick,

1956
01:29:56,760 --> 01:29:58,800
Speaker 1: do you have a title of the album yet?

1957
01:29:59,400 --> 01:30:03,800
Speaker 5: I do, but I can't feeling because I want to

1958
01:30:03,880 --> 01:30:08,000
Speaker 5: do it like in a in a very like strategic strategical.

1959
01:30:07,400 --> 01:30:10,120
Speaker 2: Way, like I want my fans to engage in you.

1960
01:30:10,680 --> 01:30:13,240
Speaker 2: But I do have an album. I'll give you a hint.

1961
01:30:13,960 --> 01:30:18,120
Speaker 2: This hurt. Okay, Okay, it's like I can't. Okay, And

1962
01:30:18,280 --> 01:30:21,760
Speaker 2: do we have a drop date or around? We don't

1963
01:30:21,840 --> 01:30:27,760
Speaker 2: have a date yet, but we're definitely dropping. Okay, Okay,

1964
01:30:27,880 --> 01:30:30,160
Speaker 2: that's good enough for I really hope to drop in

1965
01:30:30,200 --> 01:30:31,040
Speaker 2: the summer. I really do.

1966
01:30:31,760 --> 01:30:33,880
Speaker 5: I hope, But sometimes the label was like, well, we

1967
01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:37,560
Speaker 5: got to push this back. So it's coming though, Like

1968
01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:44,599
Speaker 5: it's done, My album's done. Everything gets up to the production. Yes, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1969
01:30:44,600 --> 01:30:44,720
Speaker 5: I know.

1970
01:30:45,200 --> 01:30:46,080
Speaker 2: But either way, like.

1971
01:30:46,360 --> 01:30:48,840
Speaker 5: I'm still gonna put out singles just for that, I

1972
01:30:48,920 --> 01:30:50,280
Speaker 5: still will get new queen music.

1973
01:30:50,520 --> 01:30:51,880
Speaker 2: Can you give us? Can you tell us what the

1974
01:30:51,920 --> 01:30:54,439
Speaker 2: single called? I don't know yet.

1975
01:30:54,479 --> 01:30:57,280
Speaker 5: Actually, I gotta gotta go through the proj Yeah, we gotta,

1976
01:30:57,320 --> 01:30:59,160
Speaker 5: we gotta pick. We gotta pick which one is that

1977
01:30:59,360 --> 01:31:00,800
Speaker 5: you know want to go behind?

1978
01:31:01,160 --> 01:31:04,760
Speaker 2: I know they ready. Yeah, we are so ready for

1979
01:31:04,880 --> 01:31:05,400
Speaker 2: new music.

1980
01:31:05,840 --> 01:31:08,200
Speaker 5: I'm so happy that people are even still here, just

1981
01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:09,960
Speaker 5: like anticipating.

1982
01:31:10,080 --> 01:31:12,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what, I really want artists to

1983
01:31:12,960 --> 01:31:15,960
Speaker 1: get back to that. Sometimes I think that people be

1984
01:31:16,040 --> 01:31:19,240
Speaker 1: dropping too much, Like when you gotta think, well, when

1985
01:31:19,280 --> 01:31:22,240
Speaker 1: you dropped the album, it will be some years. Yes,

1986
01:31:22,280 --> 01:31:24,599
Speaker 1: I want people to digest. Yes that you gotta really

1987
01:31:24,680 --> 01:31:25,639
Speaker 1: take that music.

1988
01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:26,479
Speaker 2: In, like if you drop.

1989
01:31:26,560 --> 01:31:28,280
Speaker 1: I don't think that as an artist you should be

1990
01:31:28,360 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 1: dropping two three albums in a year, and that's just

1991
01:31:31,200 --> 01:31:34,480
Speaker 1: too much. You should drop one album, let it marinate,

1992
01:31:34,760 --> 01:31:37,160
Speaker 1: go on tour a little bit, let people.

1993
01:31:37,040 --> 01:31:40,680
Speaker 2: Rock with they gotta marinate. The gotta be memorable. That's

1994
01:31:40,720 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 2: my thing too.

1995
01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:43,720
Speaker 5: I want to make music that's memorable and not just

1996
01:31:43,840 --> 01:31:46,840
Speaker 5: some little microwaveable music like Okay, we'll get over this.

1997
01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:48,800
Speaker 2: I want people to just like I want to be

1998
01:31:48,840 --> 01:31:52,880
Speaker 2: class last album, you want that Confessions? Like you know

1999
01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:55,800
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. We're still talking about Confession. First of all,

2000
01:31:55,880 --> 01:31:59,720
Speaker 2: Laurence Hill, she had one album, one album, the time

2001
01:31:59,760 --> 01:32:00,599
Speaker 2: of the people.

2002
01:32:00,680 --> 01:32:02,920
Speaker 1: Still they somebody out in the world right now is

2003
01:32:02,920 --> 01:32:05,080
Speaker 1: waiting for her to get on stage. Like a lot

2004
01:32:05,120 --> 01:32:07,360
Speaker 1: of people don't make classic Like like a lot of

2005
01:32:07,360 --> 01:32:10,679
Speaker 1: people don't make They don't. They don't because the labels

2006
01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:11,240
Speaker 1: are looking for them.

2007
01:32:11,280 --> 01:32:16,679
Speaker 2: TikTok yes it yeah, And guess how people engage.

2008
01:32:16,680 --> 01:32:18,920
Speaker 5: Oh sorry, go ahead, And I'm just saying that's why

2009
01:32:18,960 --> 01:32:20,160
Speaker 5: people engage with the TikTok.

2010
01:32:20,479 --> 01:32:22,439
Speaker 2: It is it is. But y'all know what I love

2011
01:32:22,520 --> 01:32:23,280
Speaker 2: about TikTok.

2012
01:32:23,360 --> 01:32:27,479
Speaker 3: Though all of these old songs are going viral again,

2013
01:32:27,720 --> 01:32:30,000
Speaker 3: that's what I love about times. It's like young la

2014
01:32:31,320 --> 01:32:35,320
Speaker 3: how the song go oh my Pocka is yeah, I

2015
01:32:35,400 --> 01:32:36,280
Speaker 3: love my vegetables.

2016
01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:39,519
Speaker 2: It's like, I don't the kids even be finding these songs.

2017
01:32:39,600 --> 01:32:42,000
Speaker 1: But also TikTok is good because that's where I find

2018
01:32:42,080 --> 01:32:45,840
Speaker 1: a lot of like my undiscovered artists and low key

2019
01:32:46,040 --> 01:32:48,640
Speaker 1: like I have fixed my algorithm so good when I

2020
01:32:48,720 --> 01:32:51,240
Speaker 1: tell you, I find so many new artists all the

2021
01:32:51,360 --> 01:32:52,360
Speaker 1: time from TikTok.

2022
01:32:52,520 --> 01:32:54,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, my son finds a lot of songs, you know.

2023
01:32:54,800 --> 01:32:56,240
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, this is good.

2024
01:32:56,520 --> 01:32:59,519
Speaker 1: Yes, it'd be some good, some really really good songs.

2025
01:32:59,520 --> 01:33:02,120
Speaker 1: And so I'm like, there's always like a good and

2026
01:33:02,200 --> 01:33:03,120
Speaker 1: a bad side.

2027
01:33:02,960 --> 01:33:04,840
Speaker 2: To the internet for me, because I remember when they

2028
01:33:05,120 --> 01:33:07,160
Speaker 2: got rid of TikTok for a little bit. That was

2029
01:33:07,280 --> 01:33:09,400
Speaker 2: mad at me for what I said. What you say,

2030
01:33:09,880 --> 01:33:13,960
Speaker 2: I'm about to trap myself again? Okay? Was that because

2031
01:33:14,040 --> 01:33:16,880
Speaker 2: all I said was all I said? Was what did

2032
01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:17,639
Speaker 2: I say? I think.

2033
01:33:17,680 --> 01:33:19,840
Speaker 5: I was like, okay, well now we can have a

2034
01:33:19,880 --> 01:33:21,280
Speaker 5: little bit because I thought it was going to be

2035
01:33:21,560 --> 01:33:24,080
Speaker 5: Don't get me wrong, I love TikTok too, but I

2036
01:33:24,240 --> 01:33:26,040
Speaker 5: wasn't think about the people that make money off of

2037
01:33:26,080 --> 01:33:28,040
Speaker 5: TikTok when I said this, so keep that in mind.

2038
01:33:28,040 --> 01:33:30,160
Speaker 2: I was thinking about music. I was like, well, maybe

2039
01:33:30,200 --> 01:33:34,040
Speaker 2: it'll give people like that make real, real music, like yeah.

2040
01:33:34,320 --> 01:33:36,560
Speaker 5: A little chance again, because now I feel like, like

2041
01:33:36,680 --> 01:33:39,040
Speaker 5: you said, people just looking for the TikTok. Right, So

2042
01:33:39,160 --> 01:33:41,840
Speaker 5: I was thinking like, oh, well maybe like but it

2043
01:33:41,920 --> 01:33:43,320
Speaker 5: offended a lot of people.

2044
01:33:43,240 --> 01:33:46,200
Speaker 2: Like well the people on TikTok or real artistic. Yeah,

2045
01:33:46,560 --> 01:33:49,920
Speaker 2: I was just like, you know, they can't wait to

2046
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:58,360
Speaker 2: be fake outrage. Yeah, but I love TikTok. I love girl.

2047
01:33:59,520 --> 01:34:02,560
Speaker 1: What they say it on top, I think like it

2048
01:34:03,240 --> 01:34:06,400
Speaker 1: don't it's just a bullshit Like I was asking, It's

2049
01:34:06,439 --> 01:34:08,800
Speaker 1: like a lot of times like her exgo viral, they'll

2050
01:34:08,840 --> 01:34:11,160
Speaker 1: take clips of like her and Claire.

2051
01:34:12,400 --> 01:34:14,519
Speaker 2: Stuff like that. I'll be back there once I got

2052
01:34:14,560 --> 01:34:15,120
Speaker 2: to promote something.

2053
01:34:15,240 --> 01:34:17,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, they just be doing stupid souff cause it'd be

2054
01:34:17,479 --> 01:34:20,120
Speaker 1: stuff that I'll be saying because it's stuff that we

2055
01:34:20,280 --> 01:34:22,720
Speaker 1: go through that sometimes don't somebody will clip something of us.

2056
01:34:22,760 --> 01:34:28,200
Speaker 2: They be like Dre hates leg Oh my god that yeah,

2057
01:34:28,600 --> 01:34:30,880
Speaker 2: like you, I'd be like, I swear they do that

2058
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:33,240
Speaker 2: to me, And I'm like, she is she.

2059
01:34:33,360 --> 01:34:36,439
Speaker 5: Is so ready he cannot stand he hates her. But

2060
01:34:36,560 --> 01:34:39,200
Speaker 5: people also don't understand too, Like, bro, we're real people.

2061
01:34:39,280 --> 01:34:41,760
Speaker 5: So even if we do get an attitude that okay, like.

2062
01:34:42,200 --> 01:34:45,320
Speaker 2: But then too sometimes it's just like me and lex I,

2063
01:34:45,600 --> 01:34:45,920
Speaker 2: like we do.

2064
01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:48,320
Speaker 3: A very good job of when we're like not getting

2065
01:34:48,360 --> 01:34:51,120
Speaker 3: along or we have something going on. Not portraying you

2066
01:34:51,240 --> 01:34:53,320
Speaker 3: on the show, but like she might have said something

2067
01:34:53,400 --> 01:34:55,640
Speaker 3: crazy to me five minutes before we started recording, and

2068
01:34:55,720 --> 01:34:59,120
Speaker 3: I gotta be like, hey, welcome, support mine and I

2069
01:34:59,240 --> 01:34:59,519
Speaker 3: say it.

2070
01:34:59,520 --> 01:35:03,160
Speaker 2: Again, that relationship, but that's relationships in general. Brow men.

2071
01:35:03,240 --> 01:35:05,960
Speaker 3: I hate her like that's just such a strong thing

2072
01:35:06,960 --> 01:35:09,080
Speaker 3: off the day. That's why I'm like, m h hay girl,

2073
01:35:09,680 --> 01:35:11,960
Speaker 3: But it happens we're him.

2074
01:35:12,240 --> 01:35:13,160
Speaker 4: But I.

2075
01:35:14,920 --> 01:35:17,760
Speaker 1: Like, do y'all know I have like sister yea best

2076
01:35:17,800 --> 01:35:19,519
Speaker 1: friends that you've been friends with for ten years.

2077
01:35:19,600 --> 01:35:22,040
Speaker 2: No, y'all don't get on each other nerves. Let's talk

2078
01:35:22,080 --> 01:35:22,400
Speaker 2: about that.

2079
01:35:22,479 --> 01:35:24,680
Speaker 3: Because they be having friends that they've been with for

2080
01:35:24,840 --> 01:35:27,840
Speaker 3: ten years. They don't have long relationships yours where you've

2081
01:35:27,840 --> 01:35:30,680
Speaker 3: been with somebody for five years, yeah, six years, and

2082
01:35:31,000 --> 01:35:32,320
Speaker 3: yeah we be going through shh.

2083
01:35:32,400 --> 01:35:34,720
Speaker 2: I love him still, my man. Hello, you know what

2084
01:35:34,720 --> 01:35:36,200
Speaker 2: I'm saying. You do get on my nerves and I

2085
01:35:36,240 --> 01:35:42,840
Speaker 2: get on. I couldn't imagine my life without Spookie. But

2086
01:35:43,120 --> 01:35:44,280
Speaker 2: but no, but that's what I'm saying.

2087
01:35:44,280 --> 01:35:46,920
Speaker 1: I've seeing all that ship, like I said, afage TikTok

2088
01:35:47,000 --> 01:35:50,559
Speaker 1: scroller honey. But I like I said, Look, I'm thirty five,

2089
01:35:50,680 --> 01:35:52,439
Speaker 1: so TikTok is how I keep in the know of

2090
01:35:52,520 --> 01:35:55,240
Speaker 1: what the kids got going on. But I do see,

2091
01:35:55,479 --> 01:35:58,040
Speaker 1: like I said, I see all the stuff about me, Drea,

2092
01:35:58,680 --> 01:35:59,920
Speaker 1: you know, whatever is going on.

2093
01:36:00,320 --> 01:36:01,320
Speaker 2: That's how I stay in too.

2094
01:36:01,400 --> 01:36:03,720
Speaker 1: So like I said, TikTok has a good side, but

2095
01:36:03,880 --> 01:36:05,080
Speaker 1: it also has a bad side.

2096
01:36:05,120 --> 01:36:08,240
Speaker 2: But I giving that makes me say.

2097
01:36:08,320 --> 01:36:11,799
Speaker 5: They said it about everybody. They said about every friendship

2098
01:36:11,880 --> 01:36:14,800
Speaker 5: and every relationship. That's what made me feel better once

2099
01:36:14,920 --> 01:36:16,840
Speaker 5: I went when I went to share room and I'm like,

2100
01:36:16,960 --> 01:36:18,880
Speaker 5: it's someone that was like, oh my god, she is Wow.

2101
01:36:19,280 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 5: When I look at the comments, even that person that

2102
01:36:21,560 --> 01:36:24,799
Speaker 5: I think is so wild, nothing but negative stuff.

2103
01:36:24,560 --> 01:36:27,799
Speaker 1: About Oh yeah, that's why I said, talk about everybody,

2104
01:36:27,920 --> 01:36:28,439
Speaker 1: not just me.

2105
01:36:28,560 --> 01:36:30,280
Speaker 2: And Brenda was talking about everybody.

2106
01:36:34,120 --> 01:36:36,080
Speaker 3: But y'all know what, y'all got a good point because

2107
01:36:36,080 --> 01:36:39,479
Speaker 3: they it's like hate pages for Beyonce and Beyonce don't

2108
01:36:39,520 --> 01:36:40,760
Speaker 3: say she beyond.

2109
01:36:40,800 --> 01:36:41,920
Speaker 2: They don't give up nothing.

2110
01:36:42,520 --> 01:36:44,880
Speaker 3: She doesn't talk to people still be trying to find

2111
01:36:44,920 --> 01:36:45,360
Speaker 3: They hate it.

2112
01:36:45,439 --> 01:36:48,240
Speaker 2: When she was doing her natural hair line, oh my god,

2113
01:36:52,120 --> 01:36:54,080
Speaker 2: even she parted it down the middle. They was like,

2114
01:36:54,520 --> 01:36:56,040
Speaker 2: it's only on one side.

2115
01:36:56,320 --> 01:36:59,519
Speaker 1: Tanner Adell had posted this picture of herself being funny,

2116
01:36:59,520 --> 01:37:01,400
Speaker 1: and she was like, oh my gosh, y'all, look at

2117
01:37:01,439 --> 01:37:03,679
Speaker 1: this picture of my great great grandmother that I found,

2118
01:37:04,000 --> 01:37:06,680
Speaker 1: the picture of herself, and everybody was like, you are

2119
01:37:06,800 --> 01:37:07,439
Speaker 1: such a liar.

2120
01:37:07,520 --> 01:37:12,400
Speaker 2: You're just like Sissa. It was like, all right, that's

2121
01:37:12,439 --> 01:37:14,720
Speaker 2: what brea scene, that's what scene. I'm just repeating what

2122
01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:17,679
Speaker 2: you say, but I'm telling you. It was a thread

2123
01:37:17,760 --> 01:37:21,040
Speaker 2: of people calling her a liar, stupid. We can tell

2124
01:37:21,240 --> 01:37:24,280
Speaker 2: this is lashes you got. It's clearly a picture of herself,

2125
01:37:24,320 --> 01:37:27,280
Speaker 2: and she was like, trolling being funny. Yeah, it just

2126
01:37:27,520 --> 01:37:29,559
Speaker 2: it just it's two different types of people on the internet.

2127
01:37:29,680 --> 01:37:32,000
Speaker 5: So we got the creators that are making a bag

2128
01:37:32,520 --> 01:37:36,040
Speaker 5: and showing themselves, and then you got the comments that

2129
01:37:36,120 --> 01:37:37,120
Speaker 5: are usually negative.

2130
01:37:37,560 --> 01:37:39,960
Speaker 2: The only people that are not negative are the people

2131
01:37:40,000 --> 01:37:41,080
Speaker 2: that follow me and love me.

2132
01:37:41,280 --> 01:37:43,599
Speaker 5: But anyone outside of that, I don't expect for them

2133
01:37:43,640 --> 01:37:45,479
Speaker 5: to even know like me at all.

2134
01:37:45,720 --> 01:37:47,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, And that's why I said, it's a

2135
01:37:47,640 --> 01:37:50,840
Speaker 1: lot of people. TikTok is different. So you got people

2136
01:37:50,880 --> 01:37:54,200
Speaker 1: that make money off of clipping your stuff. Oh my god,

2137
01:37:57,040 --> 01:38:00,439
Speaker 1: DNG actually said this. He said, there's a guy who's said,

2138
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:02,920
Speaker 1: like he's paid off his house, he bought a brand

2139
01:38:02,960 --> 01:38:05,280
Speaker 1: new car just from hard stuff.

2140
01:38:05,880 --> 01:38:08,160
Speaker 2: There's an account. And I'm not mad at you. No,

2141
01:38:08,320 --> 01:38:11,120
Speaker 2: we loved them. They always created.

2142
01:38:11,680 --> 01:38:14,240
Speaker 1: And stuff from poor minds and they go back and

2143
01:38:14,320 --> 01:38:16,560
Speaker 1: they put a bunch of stuff together and they go

2144
01:38:16,800 --> 01:38:17,880
Speaker 1: viral a lot.

2145
01:38:18,120 --> 01:38:19,400
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. And I'm not mad at

2146
01:38:19,400 --> 01:38:21,679
Speaker 2: it because it spreads the word. But check this out.

2147
01:38:22,200 --> 01:38:25,920
Speaker 3: So our producer she started reposting it all the time,

2148
01:38:26,000 --> 01:38:28,400
Speaker 3: like posting it on our page. We got kicked out

2149
01:38:28,400 --> 01:38:32,680
Speaker 3: of the TikTok creator fund, but it's our video. It's

2150
01:38:32,840 --> 01:38:35,759
Speaker 3: crazy because we were reposting the videos that they were posting.

2151
01:38:35,800 --> 01:38:41,559
Speaker 3: Oh wow, but it's us in the video.

2152
01:38:41,720 --> 01:38:45,120
Speaker 2: But they came us out. Yeah, girl, it's great. It

2153
01:38:45,280 --> 01:38:45,639
Speaker 2: we did.

2154
01:38:45,800 --> 01:38:48,280
Speaker 3: We said something and I think now we can start

2155
01:38:48,320 --> 01:38:50,360
Speaker 3: back getting monetized. But for like a whole month, we

2156
01:38:50,400 --> 01:38:53,040
Speaker 3: couldn't get monetized from that, and it was us in

2157
01:38:53,120 --> 01:38:54,559
Speaker 3: the video. I'm like, this is I need to get

2158
01:38:55,400 --> 01:38:58,320
Speaker 3: creating stuff. Yeah, I've been trying to want to get

2159
01:38:58,360 --> 01:38:58,479
Speaker 3: on that.

2160
01:38:58,640 --> 01:39:01,439
Speaker 2: It's hard for me to take a picture of my

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Speaker 2: food before I eat it. Yeah, I just want to

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Speaker 2: eat it. Yeah, set the camera up before you get

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01:39:07,320 --> 01:39:10,919
Speaker 2: in a car. Yeah, I'm not like a good vlogger

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01:39:11,120 --> 01:39:11,800
Speaker 2: what I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: But like I can do stuff like this, like I

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Speaker 1: have called love lexp and I just prop my camera

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01:39:16,320 --> 01:39:17,920
Speaker 1: up and I talk and I do all my hot

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Speaker 1: topics and things like that.

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01:39:19,360 --> 01:39:21,040
Speaker 2: I can do talk show stuff content.

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Speaker 1: But I just can't, like a day in the life stuck,

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Speaker 1: especially if I'm in the moment I've been trying to

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01:39:27,880 --> 01:39:28,479
Speaker 1: have a good time.

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Speaker 3: Ye be hard, it'd be hard, bruin the vibe sometimes

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01:39:32,920 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 3: having a good time and then you just.

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Speaker 2: Get a real good moment but the camera turned off

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Speaker 2: or something. Yeah, or it's not recording. Yes, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm just like, let me just stick to

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Speaker 2: what I know. Let me just sit to what I know. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Do you give good advice? You think I believe I

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01:39:50,080 --> 01:39:51,880
Speaker 2: give good advice? Okay, I think you do. I can

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01:39:51,960 --> 01:39:54,800
Speaker 2: see that. Okay, So we are about to do pour

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Speaker 2: your heart out.

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Speaker 1: If you want your question answered on the show, makes

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01:39:57,439 --> 01:40:00,760
Speaker 1: you email us at ask Poor Minds at g If

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01:40:00,800 --> 01:40:02,760
Speaker 1: you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that in

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Speaker 1: the headline.

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01:40:03,280 --> 01:40:05,080
Speaker 2: You get to skip the line of course.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we have some questions and we are going

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Speaker 1: to give our best advice.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, Drea Heylex Andrea big fan of the show.

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01:40:13,560 --> 01:40:15,839
Speaker 3: I love how y'all hold space for real stories.

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01:40:16,040 --> 01:40:16,920
Speaker 2: So here's mine.

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Speaker 3: From the outside, I look like I've got it together,

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01:40:20,040 --> 01:40:24,559
Speaker 3: two small businesses, college student, creative, big dreams. But behind

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Speaker 3: all of that, I've been through real life lost, heartbreak,

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Speaker 3: sexual assault, two abortions, and carrying grief while being the

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01:40:31,960 --> 01:40:35,720
Speaker 3: strong friend. I've always kept together for everyone else, but

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Speaker 3: lately I've been wondering who holds me. I started a

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Speaker 3: nonprofit called Grief God Growth to help others navigate pain,

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01:40:43,640 --> 01:40:46,760
Speaker 3: even though I'm still healing myself. So I guess I'm

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Speaker 3: asking how do you keep showing up when you're still

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01:40:50,160 --> 01:40:53,320
Speaker 3: healing from stuff no one claps for? And how do

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01:40:53,400 --> 01:40:56,599
Speaker 3: you forgive yourself for surviving when you couldn't save everyone else?

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01:40:57,040 --> 01:40:59,439
Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. I just hope my story helps someone

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01:40:59,520 --> 01:41:03,040
Speaker 3: else feel scene to kd M, I.

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Speaker 2: Think we kind of touched on that this episode. Yeah,

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01:41:05,240 --> 01:41:07,320
Speaker 2: that's why this is a good question. Yeah, what was

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01:41:07,400 --> 01:41:09,600
Speaker 2: the last two What was the questions that you got to?

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Speaker 2: She said, how do you keep?

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Speaker 3: She said, how do you keep showing up when you're

2211
01:41:12,960 --> 01:41:15,400
Speaker 3: still healing from the stuff no one claps for. And

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01:41:15,479 --> 01:41:18,000
Speaker 3: how do you forgive yourself for surviving when you couldn't

2213
01:41:18,040 --> 01:41:19,920
Speaker 3: help I mean, when you couldn't save everyone else.

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01:41:20,040 --> 01:41:24,439
Speaker 2: Oh that is a good one, it is. That's yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think like survivor's guilt is real, and I think

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01:41:28,400 --> 01:41:32,600
Speaker 1: a lot of times you have to understand forgiving yourself

2217
01:41:32,840 --> 01:41:35,320
Speaker 1: is the biggest is the one of the hardest things.

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01:41:35,720 --> 01:41:38,559
Speaker 1: I'm personally going through that honestly right now, if I'm

2219
01:41:38,600 --> 01:41:41,560
Speaker 1: being vulnerable and honest, and I think you just have

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01:41:41,640 --> 01:41:44,200
Speaker 1: to give yourself grace and you have to give yourself time.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of times we get mad at

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01:41:45,800 --> 01:41:48,760
Speaker 1: ourselves for not getting over something so quick. If you

2223
01:41:48,840 --> 01:41:50,680
Speaker 1: go through something and it's like a month later and

2224
01:41:50,720 --> 01:41:52,679
Speaker 1: you're still crying, you're like, why am I still upset?

2225
01:41:52,760 --> 01:41:55,719
Speaker 2: And you're getting mad at yourself. It takes time to heal.

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01:41:56,360 --> 01:41:58,400
Speaker 2: You know, you have to be easy with yourself.

2227
01:41:58,479 --> 01:42:02,200
Speaker 1: The world is already hard on us individually as people,

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01:42:02,600 --> 01:42:05,519
Speaker 1: as women. So the best thing that you can do

2229
01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:08,519
Speaker 1: for yourself is just go easy on yourself and give

2230
01:42:08,600 --> 01:42:12,439
Speaker 1: yourself time to heal. Give yourself time healing is a journey.

2231
01:42:12,680 --> 01:42:15,040
Speaker 1: And I'm not talking about six, seven, eight months.

2232
01:42:15,080 --> 01:42:16,920
Speaker 2: It takes years to heal.

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01:42:17,000 --> 01:42:19,479
Speaker 1: And you have to be willing to have your good

2234
01:42:19,600 --> 01:42:22,000
Speaker 1: days but also be willing to have your bad days.

2235
01:42:22,400 --> 01:42:24,880
Speaker 2: It's okay to cry, it's okay to be angry.

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01:42:25,240 --> 01:42:27,800
Speaker 1: I think sometimes when we're sad and we're angry, we

2237
01:42:27,920 --> 01:42:29,840
Speaker 1: feel like we're not supposed to be feeling these things.

2238
01:42:29,880 --> 01:42:32,880
Speaker 1: You're not supposed to be happy every day. That's not normal.

2239
01:42:33,640 --> 01:42:36,559
Speaker 1: Being sad is normal, Being mad as normal, Being happy

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Speaker 1: is normal. So I think going through the emotions of

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01:42:39,400 --> 01:42:43,760
Speaker 1: actual healing is rough. It's hard, but you have to

2242
01:42:43,880 --> 01:42:46,240
Speaker 1: acknowledge that and you have to be okay with not

2243
01:42:46,479 --> 01:42:49,360
Speaker 1: being okay. And I think that's the hardest thing. People

2244
01:42:49,360 --> 01:42:51,639
Speaker 1: are not okay with not being okay.

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Speaker 2: Give yourself the grace, Yeah, give yourself grace, man, Like, you.

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01:42:54,960 --> 01:42:57,040
Speaker 1: Really have to give yourself grace and like I said,

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01:42:57,240 --> 01:43:00,519
Speaker 1: just time to heal. And you have to understand not

2248
01:43:00,640 --> 01:43:03,800
Speaker 1: everybody's gonna clap for you for doing things that people like, Oh,

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01:43:03,880 --> 01:43:05,799
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna applaud a fish for swimming.

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Speaker 2: You got a clap for yourself? Hello, you do you know, ma'am,

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Speaker 2: ma'am what do you think, queen?

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Speaker 5: She said, how do you how do you keep showing

2253
01:43:15,439 --> 01:43:19,080
Speaker 5: up for yourself? Okay, I think a lot of people

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01:43:19,200 --> 01:43:23,880
Speaker 5: feel like showing up means every day you go full force.

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Speaker 2: M yep. As long as you just try every day,

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01:43:28,360 --> 01:43:31,800
Speaker 2: try to do your best showing up.

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Speaker 5: Don't look the same every day, right, you know what

2258
01:43:33,680 --> 01:43:36,160
Speaker 5: I'm saying. And you also got to understand a lot

2259
01:43:36,200 --> 01:43:38,439
Speaker 5: of people. I would just use myself as an example.

2260
01:43:40,200 --> 01:43:43,400
Speaker 5: I have ADHD really bad. So if I don't get

2261
01:43:43,560 --> 01:43:48,240
Speaker 5: like everything done, I used to get nothing done. But

2262
01:43:48,360 --> 01:43:50,760
Speaker 5: I had to learn, like even if I just if

2263
01:43:50,800 --> 01:43:53,160
Speaker 5: I if I don't clean this whole kitchen as an example,

2264
01:43:53,280 --> 01:43:55,519
Speaker 5: if I could just sweep this floor, or if I

2265
01:43:55,520 --> 01:43:57,439
Speaker 5: could just like just get all the trash, put the

2266
01:43:57,640 --> 01:43:59,800
Speaker 5: put the trash in trash can put the dishes in

2267
01:43:59,840 --> 01:44:01,160
Speaker 5: this thinking I'm still showing up.

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01:44:01,520 --> 01:44:03,400
Speaker 2: I still did it. I'm still accomplished.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you still accomplish. And and to the fact that

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Speaker 5: no one clapped for like she said, you have to

2271
01:44:08,479 --> 01:44:12,040
Speaker 5: do it for yourself. A lot of people forget to

2272
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Speaker 5: confide in God and ask him and cast all your

2273
01:44:16,400 --> 01:44:19,800
Speaker 5: cares upon him. You gotta cast all your cares upon God,

2274
01:44:19,840 --> 01:44:22,880
Speaker 5: because we cannot do it alone. And you have to

2275
01:44:23,000 --> 01:44:26,519
Speaker 5: really really ask for desertment on when do I When

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Speaker 5: do I rest?

2277
01:44:27,320 --> 01:44:29,320
Speaker 2: Because we need to rest. A lot of people overwork

2278
01:44:29,360 --> 01:44:31,760
Speaker 2: themselves just trying to like show up, show up, show up.

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Speaker 5: Some days you gotta rest, so get like you said,

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Speaker 5: give yourself, like she said, give yourself grace and know

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01:44:37,960 --> 01:44:40,400
Speaker 5: that even a small win is still a win.

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Speaker 2: And what was the second question? It was, how do

2283
01:44:43,800 --> 01:44:46,920
Speaker 2: you forgive yourself for surviving when you couldn't save everyone else?

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01:44:47,040 --> 01:44:47,679
Speaker 2: That one was deep.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you, like my therapists would tell me,

2286
01:44:52,200 --> 01:44:54,800
Speaker 5: it's it's everything's not your responsibility.

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Speaker 2: And that's a tough call, especially when you want to

2288
01:44:57,840 --> 01:44:58,840
Speaker 2: bring everybody with you.

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01:44:59,120 --> 01:45:05,599
Speaker 5: Yeah, every and everyone's everyone's like success. Well, your success

2290
01:45:05,760 --> 01:45:09,680
Speaker 5: is not everyone else's success. Like people will say, well,

2291
01:45:09,840 --> 01:45:12,200
Speaker 5: I ain't make it like you, because you know you

2292
01:45:12,400 --> 01:45:14,800
Speaker 5: you made it up here. But like success can be

2293
01:45:15,000 --> 01:45:16,720
Speaker 5: just right here for them, you know what I mean.

2294
01:45:16,800 --> 01:45:19,280
Speaker 5: It doesn't mean that like you didn't bring them with

2295
01:45:19,400 --> 01:45:20,720
Speaker 5: you and so like you left them out in the

2296
01:45:20,720 --> 01:45:23,360
Speaker 5: dirt or whatever. I just really, like you said, survival's

2297
01:45:23,360 --> 01:45:26,040
Speaker 5: guilt is really real, and I I had to like

2298
01:45:26,880 --> 01:45:29,600
Speaker 5: I'm still working through that too, But yeah, it's not

2299
01:45:29,720 --> 01:45:33,320
Speaker 5: your response. Everyone's not your responsibility. We all like have

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01:45:34,200 --> 01:45:36,600
Speaker 5: we are responsible for our own lives, and.

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Speaker 2: You know you can't.

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Speaker 5: Like everyone makes their own decisions and either rewards or

2303
01:45:42,400 --> 01:45:44,360
Speaker 5: consequences come from that, and you can't.

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01:45:44,400 --> 01:45:46,840
Speaker 2: You can't blame yourself for that. That's too much, that's

2305
01:45:46,880 --> 01:45:47,840
Speaker 2: too much to put on your.

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Speaker 3: You never gonna be happy if you yourself for what

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01:45:50,240 --> 01:45:52,880
Speaker 3: other people are doing with their life. Like, you can't

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01:45:52,960 --> 01:45:55,479
Speaker 3: save people. I feel like if people are willing to

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Speaker 3: do the work, or you know they are having a

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01:45:59,640 --> 01:46:02,320
Speaker 3: heart and you can help them, you should, But you

2311
01:46:02,360 --> 01:46:05,240
Speaker 3: shouldn't go at your way to make it your responsibility

2312
01:46:05,360 --> 01:46:07,639
Speaker 3: to try to save people around you, because you can't

2313
01:46:07,680 --> 01:46:09,400
Speaker 3: want more for people than what.

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01:46:09,479 --> 01:46:10,800
Speaker 2: They want for the hell.

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01:46:11,360 --> 01:46:14,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, and some people don't really want that much. It's

2316
01:46:14,080 --> 01:46:14,920
Speaker 3: a harsh reality.

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01:46:15,320 --> 01:46:18,040
Speaker 2: But it's like you want to lie. You want to lie.

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01:46:18,200 --> 01:46:20,320
Speaker 2: That's why you grinding for it, That's why you striving

2319
01:46:20,400 --> 01:46:20,640
Speaker 2: for it.

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Speaker 3: This person around you, you might want them to want

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01:46:23,640 --> 01:46:25,720
Speaker 3: more because you love them and you care about them

2322
01:46:25,760 --> 01:46:27,680
Speaker 3: and you want them to be there with you, but

2323
01:46:28,200 --> 01:46:31,479
Speaker 3: they might not want them even be meant for them.

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01:46:31,840 --> 01:46:34,880
Speaker 5: Being an entrepreneur is not meant for everybody. We still

2325
01:46:35,000 --> 01:46:39,040
Speaker 5: need the people that were working there. That's not everybody's story,

2326
01:46:39,280 --> 01:46:42,599
Speaker 5: you know. And just because it doesn't mean that they're

2327
01:46:42,680 --> 01:46:44,240
Speaker 5: like any less special exactly.

2328
01:46:44,360 --> 01:46:46,200
Speaker 2: Know, like everybody is just not for everyone.

2329
01:46:47,280 --> 01:46:51,240
Speaker 1: People need about doing something little. Sometimes it's all you

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01:46:51,320 --> 01:46:52,760
Speaker 1: need to do to show up. Because I was talking

2331
01:46:52,800 --> 01:46:55,360
Speaker 1: to my friend about that because we both kind of

2332
01:46:55,439 --> 01:46:57,360
Speaker 1: deal with depression and stuff, and she's kind of going

2333
01:46:57,400 --> 01:46:59,600
Speaker 1: through it right now, and I was like, man, be

2334
01:47:00,160 --> 01:47:03,720
Speaker 1: proud of yourself because you're looking at it like, oh, yeah,

2335
01:47:03,760 --> 01:47:05,280
Speaker 1: I got out the house today, but I just went

2336
01:47:05,360 --> 01:47:06,200
Speaker 1: to my friend's house.

2337
01:47:06,240 --> 01:47:07,000
Speaker 2: But I was still sad.

2338
01:47:07,040 --> 01:47:09,439
Speaker 3: I said, but you got out of the house, like

2339
01:47:09,680 --> 01:47:11,800
Speaker 3: when you were depressed, you could have just stayed there.

2340
01:47:12,800 --> 01:47:13,479
Speaker 2: In fucking bed.

2341
01:47:13,520 --> 01:47:15,960
Speaker 1: Because I'm telling y'all, I am a very like I'm

2342
01:47:16,120 --> 01:47:19,680
Speaker 1: very clean, clean person, Like I am very kind of

2343
01:47:19,760 --> 01:47:22,560
Speaker 1: like OCD when it comes to my place. And but

2344
01:47:22,640 --> 01:47:25,200
Speaker 1: when I like, I got really like depressed, like around

2345
01:47:25,280 --> 01:47:28,320
Speaker 1: like December and January, and I just let my apartment.

2346
01:47:28,320 --> 01:47:29,600
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I can't believe I

2347
01:47:29,680 --> 01:47:32,320
Speaker 1: have so much shit everywhere. And I just could not

2348
01:47:32,400 --> 01:47:34,040
Speaker 1: get out of the bed. I just could not do it.

2349
01:47:34,479 --> 01:47:36,479
Speaker 1: And then I remember I just spent a whole week

2350
01:47:36,520 --> 01:47:38,760
Speaker 1: and I was just taking it room by room and

2351
01:47:38,840 --> 01:47:40,840
Speaker 1: I just organized everything and I would just get up

2352
01:47:40,840 --> 01:47:42,759
Speaker 1: and I was like, one day I did my closet.

2353
01:47:42,840 --> 01:47:45,080
Speaker 1: Then the next day it took me like a whole week,

2354
01:47:45,320 --> 01:47:46,720
Speaker 1: and I'm my apartment ain't big.

2355
01:47:47,200 --> 01:47:48,640
Speaker 2: But I was like, you know what, I did it.

2356
01:47:48,760 --> 01:47:50,880
Speaker 1: You did it, though, and I feel so much better,

2357
01:47:50,920 --> 01:47:52,720
Speaker 1: and I was like clapping for myself. I was like, bitch,

2358
01:47:52,760 --> 01:47:53,960
Speaker 1: I cleaned my closet today.

2359
01:47:54,280 --> 01:47:57,960
Speaker 2: Amen, you did that, bitch. I don't care if it's

2360
01:47:58,040 --> 01:48:00,920
Speaker 2: like something small or big. Clap for you. That's all

2361
01:48:01,000 --> 01:48:03,479
Speaker 2: you did it, yep, because only you know what it

2362
01:48:03,640 --> 01:48:05,800
Speaker 2: took for you to be able to do there. Oh

2363
01:48:05,880 --> 01:48:07,559
Speaker 2: you got to give yourself that pet on the baby.

2364
01:48:07,560 --> 01:48:08,240
Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying?

2365
01:48:08,560 --> 01:48:11,320
Speaker 1: Like, even when Drag was doing seventy five hard, I'll

2366
01:48:11,400 --> 01:48:13,080
Speaker 1: use this for an example because I'm like, ooh, damn,

2367
01:48:13,360 --> 01:48:14,720
Speaker 1: I need to get my ass up and go to

2368
01:48:14,840 --> 01:48:17,160
Speaker 1: the gym. And it's like even though like I was

2369
01:48:17,200 --> 01:48:18,519
Speaker 1: still going to the gym, but I would like get

2370
01:48:18,560 --> 01:48:20,559
Speaker 1: on the treadmill and I'm like walking for twenty minutes.

2371
01:48:20,640 --> 01:48:23,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, bitch, you got up, Bitch, you got up.

2372
01:48:23,320 --> 01:48:24,000
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

2373
01:48:24,000 --> 01:48:25,840
Speaker 1: I'm like okay, and now I'm like back and I'm

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01:48:25,880 --> 01:48:27,920
Speaker 1: like lifting waists and like, cause even with that, you

2375
01:48:28,000 --> 01:48:30,840
Speaker 1: don't know what's motivating people or what's you know, getting

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01:48:30,880 --> 01:48:32,479
Speaker 1: them through to, like, you know what, let me get

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01:48:32,520 --> 01:48:34,639
Speaker 1: up and move my body and do something. Because I'll

2378
01:48:34,640 --> 01:48:37,200
Speaker 1: say this about working out too and or going to

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01:48:37,320 --> 01:48:40,120
Speaker 1: church or anything. It's like your journey is your journey

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01:48:40,160 --> 01:48:42,320
Speaker 1: because I never post when I go to the gym.

2381
01:48:43,080 --> 01:48:45,240
Speaker 1: And I posted myself in the gym like a day

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01:48:45,320 --> 01:48:45,760
Speaker 1: or two ago.

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01:48:45,880 --> 01:48:47,080
Speaker 2: I don't know why what made me.

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01:48:47,120 --> 01:48:49,479
Speaker 1: Do it, but I was like it was like four

2385
01:48:49,600 --> 01:48:51,800
Speaker 1: or five people whoever reacted to my store and was like, oh,

2386
01:48:52,240 --> 01:48:53,840
Speaker 1: I see you finally back in the gym.

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01:48:53,920 --> 01:48:55,920
Speaker 2: Now I see you fine, and it's just so. But

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01:48:56,000 --> 01:48:58,439
Speaker 2: then why I don't post, because why would you say that?

2389
01:48:58,640 --> 01:49:01,280
Speaker 1: But it doesn't matter, bitch, I'd have lost thirty pounds

2390
01:49:01,280 --> 01:49:02,040
Speaker 1: since January.

2391
01:49:02,840 --> 01:49:04,720
Speaker 2: I don't need to document everything.

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01:49:04,880 --> 01:49:07,439
Speaker 1: Oh I got you girls, But I just feel like

2393
01:49:08,360 --> 01:49:10,360
Speaker 1: that's why it's so hard to be open about. Like

2394
01:49:10,439 --> 01:49:12,519
Speaker 1: even with me going to church, I was on cocktails

2395
01:49:12,560 --> 01:49:14,479
Speaker 1: talking about how I'm going to church now, and peoples

2396
01:49:14,479 --> 01:49:15,080
Speaker 1: in the comments like.

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01:49:15,160 --> 01:49:18,040
Speaker 2: Oh, you go to church. But it's like, that's why

2398
01:49:18,160 --> 01:49:19,719
Speaker 2: you sprazy. You know what I'm saying.

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01:49:19,800 --> 01:49:22,160
Speaker 1: But I don't need I don't talk about it because

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01:49:22,160 --> 01:49:24,439
Speaker 1: I don't need those applause from y'all because I've been

2401
01:49:24,479 --> 01:49:27,599
Speaker 1: clapping for myself and I've been getting through my battles

2402
01:49:27,640 --> 01:49:29,600
Speaker 1: that y'all don't even know about behind closed doors, and

2403
01:49:29,680 --> 01:49:32,479
Speaker 1: I'm doing it. So I think to answer her question,

2404
01:49:33,200 --> 01:49:34,680
Speaker 1: like you said, do you want one hundred percent have

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01:49:34,760 --> 01:49:36,559
Speaker 1: to clap for yourself even for the small thing?

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01:49:36,760 --> 01:49:40,120
Speaker 2: For sure, Yes, ma'am. I was trying to lift to it.

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01:49:40,240 --> 01:49:43,160
Speaker 2: It was like, you're doing it wrong, You're I had

2408
01:49:43,520 --> 01:49:47,080
Speaker 2: our girl, you come show me. Then to the gym,

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01:49:47,160 --> 01:49:47,439
Speaker 2: and then.

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01:49:47,360 --> 01:49:49,519
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And I think, like, like

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01:49:49,560 --> 01:49:51,560
Speaker 1: I said, well, working out it's a hard journey. Like

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01:49:51,880 --> 01:49:54,160
Speaker 1: I was going to the gym so consistently, then I

2413
01:49:54,240 --> 01:49:56,559
Speaker 1: kind of fell off. Then I started just doing cardio

2414
01:49:56,600 --> 01:49:58,280
Speaker 1: because I wanted to lose weight. Now I lost the

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01:49:58,280 --> 01:50:00,760
Speaker 1: weight and it's like, okay, I'm back lifting out. Everybody's

2416
01:50:00,760 --> 01:50:03,720
Speaker 1: story is different. Everybody. Let people do what they do yeah,

2417
01:50:03,880 --> 01:50:05,560
Speaker 1: And and then when I go to your page, it

2418
01:50:05,680 --> 01:50:07,120
Speaker 1: seems like you ain't never been.

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01:50:07,520 --> 01:50:11,240
Speaker 3: Hello, right, But I always say I feel like when

2420
01:50:11,280 --> 01:50:13,320
Speaker 3: it comes to the gym, and like even with church,

2421
01:50:13,479 --> 01:50:16,720
Speaker 3: anything in life that you have to push yourself to do,

2422
01:50:17,160 --> 01:50:20,960
Speaker 3: it's more so about the discipline, like, because you're not

2423
01:50:21,040 --> 01:50:23,640
Speaker 3: gonna always have the motivation, right, So you have to

2424
01:50:23,720 --> 01:50:26,920
Speaker 3: always ask yourself, Okay, how important is this relationship that

2425
01:50:27,000 --> 01:50:29,760
Speaker 3: I'm trying to be with God? How important easy to

2426
01:50:29,800 --> 01:50:31,960
Speaker 3: me that I get closer to him and draw closer

2427
01:50:32,000 --> 01:50:34,559
Speaker 3: to him? So even when I don't feel like getting

2428
01:50:34,640 --> 01:50:36,719
Speaker 3: up on Sunday, I still need to go to church

2429
01:50:36,840 --> 01:50:39,679
Speaker 3: even when I how important easy to me to stay

2430
01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:43,080
Speaker 3: in shape because I know where I came from. So okay,

2431
01:50:43,560 --> 01:50:45,120
Speaker 3: I need to go to the gym even though I

2432
01:50:45,160 --> 01:50:47,680
Speaker 3: don't want to. That's how I go because every day I.

2433
01:50:47,720 --> 01:50:49,120
Speaker 2: Don't do it when you don't want to, that's the

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01:50:49,160 --> 01:50:51,559
Speaker 2: best time. Girl. It was days while I was doing

2435
01:50:51,600 --> 01:50:52,320
Speaker 2: seventy five hart.

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01:50:52,400 --> 01:50:54,880
Speaker 3: And I'm usually a morning person when it comes to

2437
01:50:54,960 --> 01:50:58,519
Speaker 3: working out morning or afternoon, but it was times while

2438
01:50:58,560 --> 01:51:00,200
Speaker 3: I was doing seventy five hard where I live really

2439
01:51:00,360 --> 01:51:02,040
Speaker 3: was just all day, like I don't want to go,

2440
01:51:02,439 --> 01:51:04,639
Speaker 3: so I ended up having to go at like nine pm.

2441
01:51:04,600 --> 01:51:05,320
Speaker 2: Just to get it done.

2442
01:51:05,720 --> 01:51:08,600
Speaker 3: But I went because it's like a discipline thing, you know,

2443
01:51:08,920 --> 01:51:10,760
Speaker 3: So I think you have to look at it like that.

2444
01:51:10,840 --> 01:51:12,679
Speaker 3: And sometimes I don't know if that will help anybody,

2445
01:51:12,800 --> 01:51:15,640
Speaker 3: but it helps me because I'm not always motivated.

2446
01:51:16,720 --> 01:51:19,160
Speaker 1: And look, I'm the same way with church. Sometimes I'll

2447
01:51:19,160 --> 01:51:22,880
Speaker 1: be having to go to that five o'clock service all day,

2448
01:51:23,439 --> 01:51:24,439
Speaker 1: you know, but I'll go.

2449
01:51:24,840 --> 01:51:27,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, and that's what God see and that's what,

2450
01:51:27,320 --> 01:51:30,040
Speaker 5: like you said, only it's only him that judging.

2451
01:51:29,960 --> 01:51:33,800
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, Queen, No, that's great. This wasn't so much

2452
01:51:35,640 --> 01:51:36,280
Speaker 2: so obviously.

2453
01:51:36,400 --> 01:51:38,280
Speaker 1: I mean, the girls know who you are, but let

2454
01:51:38,360 --> 01:51:39,760
Speaker 1: them know where they can find you, all the good

2455
01:51:39,800 --> 01:51:41,479
Speaker 1: stuff you got coming up, where they can catch you

2456
01:51:41,560 --> 01:51:42,400
Speaker 1: and all that good y'all.

2457
01:51:42,439 --> 01:51:45,679
Speaker 5: Gotta just find me on all platforms at Queen Nija.

2458
01:51:45,840 --> 01:51:49,560
Speaker 5: Yes that's my real name, q n A I j

2459
01:51:49,760 --> 01:51:52,160
Speaker 5: A on everything. Oh yeah, go on my snapchat too,

2460
01:51:52,160 --> 01:51:53,479
Speaker 5: because I'll be showing my real self.

2461
01:51:53,640 --> 01:51:57,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well, thank you.

2462
01:51:57,160 --> 01:52:00,599
Speaker 3: This fun I did, I had a lot of Okay,

2463
01:52:00,800 --> 01:52:02,840
Speaker 3: I'm ready eat, Okay, me too.

2464
01:52:03,280 --> 01:52:04,280
Speaker 2: All right, what's the y'all.

2465
01:52:04,320 --> 01:52:09,520
Speaker 1: Next, y'all, y'all, make sure y'all share the content like subscribe,

2466
01:52:09,760 --> 01:52:11,600
Speaker 1: follow all that good stuff. And let me say this

2467
01:52:11,680 --> 01:52:15,799
Speaker 1: before we close out, y'all. There is one Twitter account

2468
01:52:15,880 --> 01:52:18,160
Speaker 1: that is connected to poor Minds. It's p oh, you

2469
01:52:18,400 --> 01:52:22,920
Speaker 1: are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong

2470
01:52:23,040 --> 01:52:26,040
Speaker 1: poor Minds page. If you see at poor minds with

2471
01:52:26,160 --> 01:52:28,479
Speaker 1: no underscore, that is at fake page, do not follow

2472
01:52:28,520 --> 01:52:32,479
Speaker 1: that page. Okay, they block me Andrea and the poor

2473
01:52:32,520 --> 01:52:35,880
Speaker 1: Minds page on both so we only have one Instagram,

2474
01:52:36,880 --> 01:52:39,280
Speaker 1: one Twitter, one TikTok.

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01:52:39,640 --> 01:52:42,439
Speaker 2: It is p oh, you are underscore in my nds?

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01:52:42,560 --> 01:52:45,679
Speaker 3: All right, and we got hell a fake Facebook page

2477
01:52:45,960 --> 01:52:49,040
Speaker 3: on the Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing

2478
01:52:49,160 --> 01:52:51,880
Speaker 3: is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of

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01:52:51,920 --> 01:52:52,600
Speaker 3: filow So.

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01:52:52,640 --> 01:52:55,439
Speaker 1: If you're on Facebook, one that's ours got the least

2481
01:52:55,479 --> 01:52:57,559
Speaker 1: amount of file, but one that's not us.

2482
01:52:57,640 --> 01:52:58,640
Speaker 2: Got like two hundred and.

2483
01:52:58,640 --> 01:53:01,360
Speaker 1: Fifty follow make if you actually look at the content

2484
01:53:01,400 --> 01:53:05,160
Speaker 1: because the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because.

2485
01:53:04,880 --> 01:53:08,040
Speaker 2: Their captures are like bumba claude? Should men? Should men

2486
01:53:08,120 --> 01:53:11,160
Speaker 2: pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

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01:53:11,280 --> 01:53:11,320
Speaker 8: No?

2488
01:53:12,600 --> 01:53:18,920
Speaker 2: Check answer below block block like that's literally with the caption,

2489
01:53:19,280 --> 01:53:22,679
Speaker 2: I'm like, what that DC is Bumba claude, Wamba claude.

2490
01:53:25,120 --> 01:53:30,720
Speaker 6: You are the Brenda Queens and we bringing y'all the

2491
01:53:30,960 --> 01:53:35,240
Speaker 6: hits week made popular by s w V.

2492
01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:43,920
Speaker 2: Already, Ladies, here we go first. I don't know what daddy,

2493
01:53:44,520 --> 01:53:52,760
Speaker 2: don't man act in such a grade it way?

2494
01:53:54,479 --> 01:53:58,760
Speaker 9: Yeah, heity queen, whatever it is that you do when

2495
01:53:58,840 --> 01:54:04,200
Speaker 9: you do what you to show me up now, it's

2496
01:54:04,280 --> 01:54:08,080
Speaker 9: a feeling that I don't want to stand.

2497
01:54:10,720 --> 01:54:16,960
Speaker 2: Because my heart starts. We thought of loving you on

2498
01:54:17,160 --> 01:54:23,400
Speaker 2: my mind. I can't figure out just what the problem

2499
01:54:23,520 --> 01:54:31,840
Speaker 2: here is you Okay, I get so weakend I can

2500
01:54:32,040 --> 01:54:33,080
Speaker 2: hardly speak.

2501
01:54:33,520 --> 01:54:37,600
Speaker 5: I lose a untro and something takes all of me

2502
01:54:38,080 --> 01:54:40,920
Speaker 5: and that day, Yeah, it's so amazing.

2503
01:54:41,400 --> 01:54:44,920
Speaker 2: It's not a face. I want you to say with

2504
01:54:45,120 --> 01:54:49,440
Speaker 2: me a second. I swallow my pride. Your love is

2505
01:54:49,520 --> 01:54:52,920
Speaker 2: so sweet it knocks me right off of my fet

2506
01:54:57,160 --> 01:55:01,120
Speaker 2: Explain why you're love. It makes me hold on, No, queen,

2507
01:55:01,480 --> 01:55:03,440
Speaker 2: you better singing nowts.

2508
01:55:04,160 --> 01:55:11,400
Speaker 9: Time after time after time my ride to fight, but

2509
01:55:11,640 --> 01:55:12,960
Speaker 9: your love and strong it.

2510
01:55:13,360 --> 01:55:15,400
Speaker 2: Keeps so on hold and no.

2511
01:55:18,840 --> 01:55:23,360
Speaker 1: Christies is down your around cross free.

2512
01:55:26,920 --> 01:55:30,640
Speaker 2: My couttingdition. I don't want to me Hello.

2513
01:55:34,240 --> 01:55:38,760
Speaker 8: Oh my heart starts eating it tremble time with all

2514
01:55:38,840 --> 01:55:42,920
Speaker 8: of you on my mind, I can't figure out just

2515
01:55:43,240 --> 01:55:47,120
Speaker 8: what to do when the problem here iss you.

2516
01:55:51,520 --> 01:55:55,839
Speaker 2: I guess so we get it. I can hardly speak.

2517
01:55:56,200 --> 01:56:00,080
Speaker 2: I lose at you and so and say so of

2518
01:56:00,360 --> 01:56:03,600
Speaker 2: me in a day, and it's so amazing.

2519
01:56:04,040 --> 01:56:07,600
Speaker 4: It's not a face. I want you to stay with

2520
01:56:07,800 --> 01:56:12,120
Speaker 4: me by my side. I sawallow my pride. Love it

2521
01:56:13,440 --> 01:56:15,640
Speaker 4: knocks me right off of my feet.

2522
01:56:19,400 --> 01:56:23,440
Speaker 2: Can it sway away? Love? It makes me? We give

2523
01:56:23,480 --> 01:56:26,120
Speaker 2: it to a queen. Don't hold back, give it to.

2524
01:56:28,080 --> 01:56:33,440
Speaker 10: I try hard to science. Yeah, no way, cannot didn't

2525
01:56:33,520 --> 01:56:39,920
Speaker 10: die yet. Your love so sweet it knocks me up

2526
01:56:40,120 --> 01:56:40,760
Speaker 10: my feet.

2527
01:56:42,960 --> 01:56:48,280
Speaker 2: I again so weekend aneas I can hardly.

2528
01:56:48,080 --> 01:56:53,480
Speaker 4: Speak, I lose control, can't say so for me in

2529
01:56:53,680 --> 01:56:56,240
Speaker 4: a day, and it's so amazing.

2530
01:56:56,520 --> 01:57:00,240
Speaker 2: It's not a face. I want you to say, what

2531
01:57:00,280 --> 01:57:03,600
Speaker 2: do you mean? On my side? I saw hollow my pride.

2532
01:57:03,760 --> 01:57:07,240
Speaker 2: Your love is so sweet it knocks me right off

2533
01:57:07,400 --> 01:57:14,560
Speaker 2: for my feet because I wasn't gonna eat it. You

2534
01:57:14,640 --> 01:57:17,920
Speaker 2: was looking at me like do it the shine? I'm

2535
01:57:17,960 --> 01:57:20,120
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. This is like the best carry on.

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01:57:22,000 --> 01:57:25,800
Speaker 1: There. You did have you did had a real singer,

2537
01:57:25,880 --> 01:57:30,480
Speaker 1: but now you got a real all right, we'll sing.

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01:57:30,400 --> 01:58:04,520
Speaker 2: Out next week. Knot