1 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your girl likex pay and it's 2 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: your girl Dre and the call and you are tuned 3 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: into another episode of Wine down Windnesday Up. 4 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 2: Yes, y'all know what time it is? Your favorite time 5 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 2: of the weed. 6 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, let me write a disclaimer. First off, 7 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 3: we're not drinking wine today. We drinking I don't even 8 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 3: know why we did this because there's wine in the kitchen. 9 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 3: Why do we pour up pennasy, I don't know. Well, 10 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 3: you poured up Pennis first. Well, see, and I just 11 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 3: followed too, because I was like, oh, that's what we're 12 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 3: doing today, club. 13 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 2: I had a very long day today. I've been like, 14 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 2: I had a lot. 15 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 3: Of work today. I've been working on a lot of stuff. 16 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 3: So I just had to pour up me some henac today. 17 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 3: It's a handog type of day. Okay, So we're just 18 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 3: gonna We're just gonna go ahead and get into it. 19 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 2: I just want to say, I miss you guys. It's 20 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: been long week for me. 21 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 3: I don't know about y'all, but kiss it has been 22 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 3: a long week. So I felt to me, I feel 23 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 3: like I have maybe touched on this a little bit 24 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 3: in the past. I know, we've had kind of touched 25 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 3: on this topic before because it's something that I can 26 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 3: relate to personally. 27 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 2: But I wanted to talk about daddy issues today. 28 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 3: Because I see a lot of men and some women 29 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 3: take it from different point of views because they say 30 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 3: they feel like women who have all these issues with 31 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 3: men always have daddy issues, like their daddy wasn't there, 32 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 3: or they act like hosts because they never had a 33 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 3: man love them. 34 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 2: So they're looking for the love that their dad. 35 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 3: Was supposed to give them and a man. So I 36 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 3: just kind of wanted to break this down and give 37 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 3: my opinion on it. So what do you think about 38 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 3: women having quote unquote daddy issues. I don't know if 39 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 3: I necessarily feel like daddy issues. I mean, I feel 40 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 3: like it is a real thing within Sometimes I just 41 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 3: feel like people used that as an excuse for their 42 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 3: like erretic behavior and like things that they do that 43 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 3: they want and they just want to use that as 44 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 3: an excuse, like, oh, I didn't me and my dad 45 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 3: didn't have a relationship, so this is why I messed 46 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 3: with multiple men, or this is why I'm a whole 47 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 3: or whatever the case may be. I don't one hundred 48 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 3: percent agree, because I grew up with my dad and 49 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 3: I definitely still had my whole face, you. 50 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 2: Know what I mean. Like me and my dad had 51 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 2: a super super tight relationship. 52 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 3: Now, I will say this, though, I feel like, in 53 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: comparison to maybe some other women they grew up in 54 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 3: a two parent household with their fathers, my dad didn't 55 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 3: talk to me about a lot of shit that I 56 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 3: feel like he should have talked. 57 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 2: To me, like what. 58 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 3: Just like expectations that I like, things I should have 59 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 3: expected from me, and once I became in aduor right, 60 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,399 Speaker 3: I feel like he kind of tiptoed around. 61 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 2: Those types of stuff but didn't You. 62 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 3: Don't feel like he kept it a hunting with you 63 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 3: about no, no, because I feel like I'm not gonna 64 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 3: say he didn't keep it one hunting with me, but 65 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 3: I just feel like he tiptold around certain topics because 66 00:02:59,919 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 3: he didn't want to accept the fact that his baby 67 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 3: girl was no longer a baby girl, right and I 68 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: was about to start, right, he didn't want to accept that. 69 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 3: So instead of him just accepting it and kind of 70 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 3: preparing me more, I feel like more what was to come, 71 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 3: he just didn't talk to me about certain things. 72 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 2: So do you feel like it affected you anywhere? 73 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 3: I would say, I still haven't necessarily figured it out, 74 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 3: but that's what I But I guess I was saying 75 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 3: that to say that. I would never use that the 76 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 3: excuse at all, Like it's because you don't have a 77 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 3: daddy's while you go through certain mazes. Because I had 78 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 3: my dad around, you know, every day. He lived in 79 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 3: our household. You know, until I was eighteen, I was 80 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 3: living with my father. So I and I just feel like, 81 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 3: but I still had shit that and even when I 82 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: was living with my parents, you know, probably to your mind, 83 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 3: but I was still fucking shit while I was living 84 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 3: with my dad, like I was. You know, I snuck 85 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: niggas in the house, did all types of sheet. So 86 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 3: it's like the fact of a male being president. I 87 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 3: wouldn't necessarily say that that's why I did the things 88 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 3: that I did. It was just because all of the 89 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 3: that's the ship I wanted to fuck you do, right, 90 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 3: I don't know, so from my point of view, I'm 91 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: opposite of you. My dad passed away when I was 92 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 3: like one or two, right, so I pretty much grew 93 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 3: up in a one parent not pretty much. I did 94 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 3: grow up in a one parent household. My mom did 95 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 3: everything right. She was mommy, she was daddy, she was breadwinner, 96 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 3: making sure we was me and my sister was straight. 97 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 3: My mom was like literally everything. So I never had 98 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 3: a dad. I never had a dad figure. I don't 99 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 3: know what it feels like to have a man to 100 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: depend on nothing. I don't know that feeling at all, Like, 101 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 3: never had that. So this is kind of weird. So 102 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 3: because I would say two that you're very much more 103 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 3: like not more independent than me, but me, I kind 104 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 3: of be like cool with like the beat, like, but yeah, 105 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: if that's what it is, though, you're okay with Like 106 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 3: if a man came to you right now you fell 107 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,359 Speaker 3: in love and he was like, you know what, baby, 108 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: I want to I don't want you to work, you 109 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 3: would be okay with that. 110 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:06,559 Speaker 2: And you're like, this is my man. We're married. 111 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 3: Until I grew up in a household where where my 112 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 3: dad was taking care of me. 113 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: My mom had a job, right your mom had a job. 114 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: But if like, I feel like, if you got married 115 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 2: right now, your man was like, I don't want you 116 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 2: to work. I'm good. 117 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 3: I want you to just have our kids, like you know, 118 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 3: take care of the kids. For now and then whenever 119 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 3: you're ready to work again, but wait till the kids 120 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 3: like three or something, and then you can get back 121 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 3: to work and doing what you're doing. Me, on the 122 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 3: other hand, I'm gonna fight it because I'm like, what 123 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 3: if he leaves me, what if you die? What if 124 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 3: this happens, and what if that happens. Because that's why. 125 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 2: You're supposed to have had your own business. 126 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, but you know that's just my way, 127 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 3: that's just always my Mom'm just always thinking like, no, 128 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 3: I'm not. 129 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 2: I be looking at shit like I can have both, right. 130 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:51,159 Speaker 3: And it's like for me growing up now me as 131 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 3: far as my sexual behaviors and these what I've done, 132 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 3: I don't blame any of that on not. 133 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 2: Having that right, not at all. But I will say 134 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 2: I kind of like my sister. 135 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 3: For example, my sister, she was in a relationship from 136 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: when she was like in seventh grade til she graduated 137 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 3: high school. Her and this guy actually got married. They 138 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 3: were together for a little bit. I'm not trying to 139 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 3: drop their business, yes, right, but you know, it just 140 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 3: goes with the storyline. But I did notice myself, like 141 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 3: every time my sister got a boyfriend, or got somebody 142 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 3: she was dating. I noticed myself getting close to them, 143 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 3: like I would be like, oh, this is my brother, 144 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 3: this is like my cause me and her, the serious 145 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 3: relationship she was in, we got really really really really close, 146 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 3: like that was my So when they broke up, I 147 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 3: could understand why they broke up, and I was happy 148 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 3: that she had got away because it started to become 149 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 3: a toxic worker like toxic relationship. But it was kind 150 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 3: of like, damn, I felt like I lost somebody who 151 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 3: was really important to me. Yeah, because my sister is 152 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 3: three years older than me, so I was in fourth 153 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 3: grade when I met this guy. 154 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 2: So from fourth grade. 155 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 3: Told my like junior year in high school, this guy 156 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 3: was kind of in my life too. So it's like 157 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 3: when they broke up, I was like, damn, Like it 158 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 3: really really affected me. My mom was only in one 159 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: relationship after my dad. If he actually lived with us 160 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 3: for a little while, well I say he was like 161 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 3: a dad. 162 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: Looking back on it, absolutely not. But I do. 163 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 3: Find myself, No, I don't get attached to people romantically. 164 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 3: I get attached to people like on a friendship level 165 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 3: more so, and it's like it's it's I don't want 166 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 3: to say it's weird, but it kind of is. 167 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 2: You mean, I don't know. I just feel like. 168 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 3: When you say attached to people, do you mean men's women? 169 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 3: You mean like and not in a sexual way and 170 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 3: more of a like a friend. Oh, let me come 171 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: to you for advice because you're coming from a man's 172 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 3: point of view type of cause, like I'm still cool 173 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: with another one of her exes. 174 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 2: And it's never these guys have let me say this, 175 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 2: these guys have. 176 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 3: Never hit on me, they done anything. Neither are really 177 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 3: like my brother's types of you, right, But it's like 178 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:02,679 Speaker 3: I always kind of be like, you know, they need me. Yeah, 179 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 3: it is not like that, but I do I think 180 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 3: and that I feel like I kind of jump, not 181 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 3: jump on people, but I kind of like I care 182 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 3: so much about like having like a friendship with a 183 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 3: guy because I've never had like a real friendship or 184 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 3: a relationship figure, a male figure. So that's why I 185 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 3: feel like whenever my sister started dating my best friend 186 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 3: of ten years, I was so bothered and I was 187 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 3: so hurt because I'm like, this is mine, like this 188 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 3: is my guy, Like not he was my guy. 189 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,719 Speaker 2: But this is my friend. This is my relationship right, 190 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 2: this is my relationship. 191 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 3: So it was kind of it was hurtful to me 192 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 3: because that was like he was like my best friend. 193 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 3: I guess this guy saw me, so it was kind 194 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 3: of like I was hurt. But it's like now realizing 195 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 3: how silly. 196 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 2: I was being. If I could pick any guy in 197 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 2: the world. 198 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 3: For my sister to be with, it's like, dull, you 199 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 3: would pick him because he's an amazing guy. Right, So 200 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 3: it's like it's not that I was jealous. I guess 201 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 3: I was just more so hurt. But for the daddy issues, 202 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: I will say daddy issues and me do exist. 203 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 2: But not in the way that people think it is this. 204 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 3: I feel like people look at daddy when they hear 205 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 3: daddy issues, they think, oh, she fucking she's sucking yea, 206 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 3: these niggas. 207 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 2: That is not that is not that is not, That 208 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 2: is not me at all. 209 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 3: If anything, my daddy issues are I want to be 210 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 3: too independent. I don't like asking nobody for nothing else. 211 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 3: I don't like to not having. 212 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 2: A man around. 213 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just used to know it's kind of hard 214 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 3: for you to let a man be the man. 215 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 2: It's very hard for me to let a man be 216 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: a man. First of all. 217 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 3: And that's actually what has hurt a relationship of mine 218 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 3: in the past, right, because I'm not trying to be 219 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 3: funny and I love to brag on my mom, but 220 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 3: I grew up very spoiled, and I had more growing 221 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 3: up with one parent than some people had with two. 222 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 3: So it's just like, when I see somebody doing like that, 223 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, why are y'all here? 224 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 2: Why are you around? 225 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 3: And especially especially I'm sorry I'm stuttering that, but especially 226 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 3: with the way the climate is now and I'm sweating. 227 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 3: My tolerance for men is so freaking low, bro, it 228 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 3: is so low. As soon as you do something. I mean, 229 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 3: I understand giving people a chance, but I'm like, as 230 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 3: soon as you do. 231 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 2: Something wrong or do something I don't like, why. 232 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 3: And see I give people chances. That's like my my 233 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 3: downfall when it comes to men. Okay, for me, I 234 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 3: give one person chances, and you know, yeah, you give 235 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 3: one person chances. 236 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 2: That's the only person. I won't lie me. 237 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say I only give one person chances. 238 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 3: But it's only been a handful of guys that I've 239 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 3: dated that yeah, I was willing to get him a 240 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 3: second chance because everybody else in my mind was like, Okay, 241 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 3: you did what you did, and I'm about to do 242 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 3: what I'm about to do. 243 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 2: And that's how I feel. 244 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 3: But I will say it's because I just feel like 245 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:55,959 Speaker 3: you can't and I think me and you and it's 246 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 3: kind of us getting off topic like always, but I 247 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 3: feel like this is kind of goes back to like 248 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 3: the conversation that me and you had a few weeks 249 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 3: ago when I was saying, like how my cousin was 250 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,599 Speaker 3: telling me like, oh, you give up on relationships or 251 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 3: you give up on friendships too easily. It's like, unfortunately, 252 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 3: nobody never want to hear that. 253 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 2: But you can't just. 254 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,079 Speaker 3: Write people off all the time for one little thing, right, 255 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 3: because you'll end up missing out on like amazing relationships, 256 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 3: amazing people's people that could be amazing for you spiritually, financially, 257 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 3: like whatever, you know what I mean, for like, you 258 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 3: could end up falling in love with somebody, it could 259 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 3: be your soul mate, but you're so quick to write 260 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 3: them off. And you know why, though I'm like that, 261 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 3: it's because my mom was like that, Yeah, my mom 262 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 3: is still like that. 263 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 2: When I tell you, my mom does not play like 264 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 2: she's dated. 265 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 3: Guys, that's so crazy because me and your mom have 266 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 3: the same birthday. But I feel like I used to 267 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 3: be like that, right, No, my mom and trust me Mama. 268 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 3: Of course, of course she's way older, so you can't. 269 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 2: Teach you old dog new traits. My mom is like, 270 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 2: if you do. 271 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 3: One thing, one little thing that she doesn't like, you're 272 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 3: gone at the end of the day. And then she's 273 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 3: a bread winner. My mom makes she's making bread, she's good. 274 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 3: So I feel like I've learned that behaviors from my mom, 275 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 3: and not that it's wrong not talking bad about your mom, 276 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 3: you know. Of course, I just feel like that's our 277 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 3: job as adults, Like you're supposed to listen to your 278 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 3: parents to a certain extent, but there's no blueprint to life, 279 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:27,719 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And our parents only tell 280 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 3: us the things that they tell us and give us 281 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:32,559 Speaker 3: the advice that they give us from things that they're 282 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 3: that they've been through. But just because they've been through 283 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 3: it and it worked for them, that doesn't mean it's 284 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 3: right and it's gonna work for you. We never trying 285 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 3: to bash our parents or because our parents are amazing people, 286 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 3: but like I said, you know, that's just that comes 287 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 3: with you getting older, I realize, and that's why that's 288 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,959 Speaker 3: something like I said, I have realized with dating because 289 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 3: like right now, like you know, I think I pretty 290 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 3: much said that all the time, not really us talk 291 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 3: to the same person I've been dealing with for years, 292 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 3: Like I don't deal with nobody else because I don't 293 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 3: want to, because it's like why I would. But I 294 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 3: would love to see you in a relationship where you 295 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 3: really like allow the man to like lead. I don't know, 296 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 3: but you can still do you And I think that's 297 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 3: the thing I feel like you look at for whatever 298 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 3: reason you look at allowing a man to lead, is 299 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 3: you still not being able to be you and be 300 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 3: late but you But you know why because every man 301 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 3: I've dated. 302 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 2: That's because you dating or wrong me day and. 303 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 3: Tell me, oh, you need to calm down, don't talk 304 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 3: about this, don't wear this. You need to stop tweeting this, 305 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 3: you need to stop posting this. I can never be 306 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 3: who I am. Every time I show a man who 307 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 3: I am, they tell me, oh, back up, back down, 308 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 3: calm down. 309 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 2: So that's why I'm like, you know what, let me 310 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 2: do me and I don't. 311 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 3: I don't want you to do shit for me, because 312 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 3: as soon as you do something for me, you feel 313 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 3: like you have control over me and what I say, 314 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 3: what I do, what I wear, and I'm not going. 315 00:13:58,320 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 2: For that period. 316 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 3: I like, I said that, I've had one person in 317 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 3: my life be there for me and do something for me, 318 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:06,560 Speaker 3: and I don't say, like I'm I can't even He's 319 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 3: never came to me like why did you post this? Right? 320 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 2: He just is like this is who she is. 321 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 3: And I with her and I love her, like yeah, 322 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 3: and I feel like that's what a real nigga gonna do. 323 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 3: They gonna let you do you. They never gonna be like, 324 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 3: oh no, don't post this and don't post that. I 325 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 3: just feel like, yeah, you just be dating the wrong guy. 326 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 3: But when you find the right guy, I would love 327 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 3: to see that though, Like you just kind of let 328 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 3: him leave, but you can still do you because he's 329 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 3: gonna support that. 330 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 2: She's gonna be like, yes, that's my baby. She loud 331 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 2: and she this, and she did. 332 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 3: But I love her. But I'm not gonna get into 333 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 3: the topic of him because I'm drunk sister now. 334 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 2: But you know, you know how I get about him, so. 335 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 3: About daddy, But but talking about daddy and she's like 336 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 3: I said, for guys, if y'all have issues, that's nothing 337 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 3: because like, okay, so let's not in the subject yet 338 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 3: compounds I think about it. 339 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 2: I want to talk about men. 340 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 3: Oh so from the male's point of view, I feel 341 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 3: like it's either two streets with men. Now men, y'all 342 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 3: step in correct me if I'm wrong. I hate I'm 343 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 3: not speaking for men. I'm just coming from my personal 344 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 3: experience of dating men whose fathers weren't in their lives. 345 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 3: So with men, I feel like it's either they're like, 346 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 3: fuck these bitches, I'm not doing shit for these hoes 347 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 3: and they don't know how to treat a woman. They 348 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 3: just kind of whatever, or it's like they want to 349 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 3: be so opposite of their father. 350 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 2: They're just like, I'm gonna make sure that I. 351 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 3: Respect women and I'm good and she's good and if 352 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 3: i'm straight, she's tray having to take care of my family. 353 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be the best father I could ever be, 354 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 3: or this and that, you know what I'm saying. I 355 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 3: feel like there's no in between, Like guys that haven't 356 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 3: had a father figure in their life, it's like black 357 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 3: or white. 358 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 2: There's no like gray area. I don't know. 359 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 3: For me, I feel like with my experience this with 360 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 3: dating guides who don't have dads, they be jerks really, yes, 361 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 3: not jerks like I mean, Okay, when I say a jerk, 362 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 3: I don't necessarily mean like just a complete asshole, but 363 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, those be the ones who like be cheating. 364 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 2: All the time and want to control you. 365 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 3: And let me say this, a lot of guys who 366 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 3: didn't have their dad in their lives their mama's boys, 367 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 3: of course, and we talked about this before, but the 368 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 3: mamaing them to have that type of behavior because they 369 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 3: don't want them to ever leave the next and get 370 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 3: a woman and not be doing as much for them, 371 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 3: And now. 372 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 2: They're doing more for the woman they speak on. 373 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know. That is the worst. 374 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 3: That is the worst situation I've dealt with. A guy 375 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 3: like that. His mom was so overbearing, so in our faces, 376 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 3: so always there just because she didn't want She was like, 377 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 3: you're not taking plays. First of all, I'm stucking him 378 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 3: and fucking him. You're not doing that right, and like 379 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 3: I can't take your place, and I'm never trying to 380 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 3: take no nigga, mama plays right, I'm trying to be 381 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 3: your girl. I'm not trying to be your mama, right, 382 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: And I just you out of mama right. 383 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 2: And like I said, I feel like it's either two streets. 384 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 3: With men, I feel like either they're an asshole, They're 385 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 3: a jerk, they'd be like fuck these bitches. Yeah. 386 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: Like I said, with the. 387 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 3: Guy that I really care about, like his situation, I 388 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 3: feel like he's just he always makes sure like everything 389 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 3: is straight, like everything is straight, Like he wants to 390 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 3: be the exact. 391 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:38,120 Speaker 2: Opposite, you know what I'm saying. 392 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 3: Like, I feel like a lot of guys they want 393 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 3: to be the exact so when I won't say a lot, 394 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 3: but some guys be like I want to be the opposite. 395 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 3: I want to make sure my household is straight. I 396 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 3: want to make sure my mama is straight, but I 397 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 3: also want to make sure my girl is straight, my 398 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 3: child is straight, or whatever, you know what I'm saying. 399 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 3: So I feel like it could be either or I'll 400 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 3: give them the benefit of the doubt. 401 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: I see. 402 00:17:56,840 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 3: I feel like the last dude I dated, he had 403 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 3: daddy issues and he used to be like fuck these holes. 404 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 2: He just like he fuck with multiple beaches at one time. 405 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 3: But I will say I would never really say that 406 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 3: he felt like, fuck these holes. 407 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: He would make sure all his hoes were strange, like damn, 408 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 2: I was straight, I was this bitch. 409 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,159 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but I mean but also, but then I 410 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,399 Speaker 3: do feel like the whole thinking it is okay, like 411 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 3: the polygamy thing, and thinking it's okay today multiple women, 412 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 3: you don't feel like that's kind of like sometimes a 413 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 3: result of not having your father around and not seeing 414 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 3: a healthy relationship from a woman in a game growing up. 415 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 3: I think a lot of honestly, I'm not being funny. 416 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:48,920 Speaker 3: I feel like, especially with our generation, the millennial generation, 417 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 3: we're millennials. 418 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 2: Yeah we are. Look, I'm trying to use words. I 419 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 2: don't even know. We're millennials. 420 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 3: So I feel like with this generation, the divorce rate 421 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 3: is high now with our age group, but I feel 422 00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 3: like it was all so hot because you know, people 423 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 3: used to not get divorced, right, they were like they 424 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 3: would just be together. I feel like at. 425 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 2: Our age we don't give a fun no. 426 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,919 Speaker 3: But no, I'm talking about even our parents though, Like 427 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 3: we were born and like I was born in eighty nine, 428 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 3: you were born what ninety three? 429 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:17,679 Speaker 2: I don't know. 430 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 3: Ninety two. 431 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:24,959 Speaker 2: I don't know how you are so horrible friend y'all. 432 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 2: Like I do, I know how old I but I'm 433 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 2: saying the time we were born, it was like we 434 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 2: were coming up in the nineties. 435 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 3: Where that people was coming up saying, fuck these niggas 436 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 3: if you ain't happy leaving so our. 437 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:39,919 Speaker 2: Parents and are leaving our prides were not doing that. 438 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 3: And I feel like with us, we even more so 439 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 3: don't care because I know I've been I just had 440 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 3: enpiphany within twenty nineteen, and I just don't give a 441 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 3: fuck what people think. 442 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 2: No more like, I really don't. I just feel like 443 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 2: I'm gonna live the rest. 444 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,120 Speaker 3: Of my life doing exactly what I want to do, 445 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 3: and if people around me don't accept it, it's like 446 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 3: I would hope that people would accept it, but if. 447 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 2: They don't, then it's like that sucks fucked them. 448 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 3: But then especially people who I don't know, I really 449 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 3: could give two fucks about what y'all gotta say. So 450 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 3: I feel like, and that's not unfortunately, because I mean, 451 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 3: that's a good thing to think that way to a 452 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 3: certain extent, but I do feel like that's how majority 453 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,919 Speaker 3: of our generation thing. That's why the divorce rate is 454 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 3: so high. We don't care what you gonna think if 455 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 3: you feel like, oh she gave so I feel like 456 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 3: with the divorce rate starting, this guy rocket when we 457 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 3: were coming up, honestly, I can be honest with you. 458 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 3: Growing up in my entire family, there was two people 459 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 3: in my family that were married, my uncle and my aunt. 460 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 3: And I'm not putting my family business out there, but 461 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 3: at the end of the day, both of them ended 462 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 3: up getting divorced. 463 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 2: And during their way, you say your uncle and your Yeah. 464 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 3: My uncle and my aunt. They were both married. Of 465 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 3: course I mean not to each other, right, but they 466 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 3: were both married, and they both got a divorce. 467 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 2: They both got divorced. 468 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:57,360 Speaker 3: But during growing up seeing their relationships, their relationships were horrible. 469 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 3: Growing up, I remember really, yes, when you say horrible, 470 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:01,439 Speaker 3: like we. 471 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,679 Speaker 2: It was a lot of cheating going on. It was 472 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 2: just the whole family. Who whole family knew about you 473 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. 474 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 3: So, And I'm not talking with my family business out there, y'all, 475 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 3: So we say uncle so. But at the end of 476 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 3: the day, it's just like when you see something. At 477 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 3: this point, our family's been to get with the problem 478 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 3: because this is Shaw and we're gonna talk about sheet 479 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 3: sometimes we're gonna try not to put your name. 480 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I don't know you. 481 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 2: You like Fifi, growing up seeing. 482 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 3: Toxic relationships and seeing people get divorced, we I have 483 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 3: not to this day. 484 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 2: To this date, to this day, to this date, I 485 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:43,119 Speaker 2: have not seen a healthy relationship in my family never. 486 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 2: I don't think I have either. Never. 487 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it's like you really haven't. Like that's why 488 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 3: people be like, why are these people relationship goes? Like 489 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 3: y'all be looking at Keisha and Gucci Will and Jaden's like, 490 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 3: I don't know what I don't really really going on. 491 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 3: So I feel like that's why maybe it's so hard 492 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 3: for me, not only with my daddy issues. I do 493 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 3: feel like I do have daddy issues, but not in 494 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 3: the way that people necessarily think, right, But I do 495 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 3: feel like it's also with family issues. I've never seen 496 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 3: a healthy relationship like ever ever. But I feel like, 497 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 3: what is quote unquote a healthy relationship a relationship with communication. 498 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 3: But that's not something you wouldn't necessarily see because you 499 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 3: are you was like, well, speaking from the perspective of 500 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 3: your aunt and your uncles, in those situations, you would 501 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 3: never really see that though. I mean, because if if 502 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 3: y'all are communicating, then you not continuously cheating and cheating 503 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 3: and cheating for years and years and years. 504 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,120 Speaker 2: If you're communicating no on what you. 505 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 3: Know now as a grown answer one, do you really 506 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 3: feel like if you communicating with y'all mean, if you're 507 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 3: not gonna cheat? And I feel like if you're communicating 508 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 3: with your man and you're trying to make your relationship 509 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 3: work and you think he not gonna cheat, I think 510 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 3: he's gonna be He should be trying if he knows 511 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 3: his wife knows that he's cheating, that's the point of communication. 512 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 3: If me you were down, and me and you were 513 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 3: dating and you're cheating, and I come to you and 514 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, what do I need to do to make 515 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 3: you stop this? This is communication. A healthy relationship is 516 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 3: going to be a man being like, you know what, 517 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:16,159 Speaker 3: You're right, I'm wrong? How can I fix this? Or 518 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 3: what can how can I fix this? Being he's gonna 519 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 3: be more sneaky with his cheating, but trying, it wasn't 520 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,679 Speaker 3: even no effort in the ship that I was seeing, 521 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 3: It wasn't even no effort. I feel there no effort. 522 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 3: I mean, I agree, I feel like I've never seen 523 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 3: one hundred percent healthy relationship too, And I feel like 524 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 3: that's why my views are sometimes not jaded. 525 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 2: But I care Green did what needed to be done. 526 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 3: But yes, but I feel like that's why my view 527 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 3: sometimes can be jaded, and like I care not to 528 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 3: say I care more about money, but it's like, yeah, 529 00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 3: I just always feel like, as long as I'm financially saying, 530 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 3: everything else gonna follow me the play because these niggas 531 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 3: ain't shit regardless. And I feel but I feel like 532 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 3: I feel that way because I watched a lot of 533 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 3: people in my family struggle growing up, struggle being single 534 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 3: moms who wasn't really making no money, who had to 535 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 3: struggle with their kids because they baby daddies, wasn't she. 536 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:17,120 Speaker 2: Then I seen. 537 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:20,959 Speaker 3: Situations where people in my family were married and they 538 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 3: husbands was well off, but they had to deal with 539 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 3: the cheatings and that's in all that type of sit 540 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:29,399 Speaker 3: Then I seen situations where, you know, like my family 541 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 3: members was dealing with niggas who didn't have no money 542 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 3: and they were still treating them like she. 543 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 2: So I like, I would. 544 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 3: Rather fuck with a nigga like, and I don't care 545 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 3: how people look at it, cause I just be like, yes, 546 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 3: if I'm gonna be in a fucked up situation, if 547 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 3: you mean to tell me all these niggas ain't she, 548 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 3: because that's what I basically had seen. All of them 549 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,919 Speaker 3: wasn't shit. The broke ones and the ones who had 550 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 3: a little change. Don't get the one, I might as 551 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 3: well get the one with the change. And with me 552 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 3: and my situation, I feel like I don't want to 553 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,880 Speaker 3: deal with nobody in the race, and from my point 554 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 3: of view with my family, this is how I am. 555 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 3: I'm so done with this ship. I'll be like, I 556 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 3: don't want to deal with done of y'all. If I 557 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 3: had to choose, I'm gonna travel the world with my girlfriends. 558 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 3: If I want to fuck somebody, I'll find somebody to fuck. 559 00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 3: And I feel the same way. I'd rather travel the 560 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 3: world with my girlfriends too. I'm my baby daddy done right. 561 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 3: So my husband dying because these niggas ain't she, We're 562 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 3: not gonna get I'm gonna be putting all my money 563 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 3: into account of savings account overseas unless gonna see my 564 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 3: future husband. Don't listen to this, so let us know 565 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 3: how y'all feel about daddy issues from a male perspective 566 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 3: and from a woman's percentage, because, like I said, me 567 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 3: and Dre grew Wow, we talked about daddy issues for long, 568 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 3: but we did. We grew up very We grew up very, 569 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 3: very different. 570 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 2: So I thought that was like interesting to talk about. 571 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 2: It is so broad. In the next topic, okay, for 572 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 2: the girls. So I was on Twitter the other day. Twitter. Yes, 573 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 2: I was on Twitter. Thank you my lord. 574 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 3: You know watch the game a throne? Yes, my lord, 575 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, my lady forever, my lady for el But yes, 576 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 3: I was on Twitter the other day and you know, 577 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 3: just scrolling all my timeline and I've seen a post 578 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,359 Speaker 3: about Jennifer Lopez. They were saying like all the times 579 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 3: that she been engaged or married or whatever, and the 580 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 3: rings that she's gotten each time. 581 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:26,679 Speaker 2: The carriage Tony the carrier. 582 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 3: So basically, I think Jaylo has been married about three times, 583 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:36,719 Speaker 3: married yet married. She's been married like twice, maybe three times, 584 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 3: and then engaged twice. 585 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,879 Speaker 2: Engaged, No, she's been engaged like five times. 586 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 3: Okay, well, she's been engaged like five times. She's been 587 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 3: married like two or three times and then you know, 588 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,120 Speaker 3: as we know, she has a lot of ex boyfriends. 589 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 3: So it made me want to talk about the topic 590 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 3: of being engaged women who get engaged all the time 591 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 3: but never get married, because even though Jal has been married, 592 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 3: one thing that I noticed was a pattern basically all 593 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 3: the men that divorced, like that she got a divorce 594 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 3: from that she married and ended up getting a divorce 595 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 3: that they divorced hug or they broke off the engagement 596 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 3: before it was time to get married. 597 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 2: So I'm like, Sis's. 598 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 3: Goals, but clearly you got a little chemical ebilings going 599 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 3: on in your head. 600 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you go first. Okay, why do you 601 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 2: think that? 602 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,159 Speaker 3: Because three dudes loved you enough to ask you to 603 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 3: marry them, but then they also was the ones to 604 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 3: call off the engagement or to say that they wanted 605 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 3: to divorce you. Okay, you didn't say it wasn't a 606 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 3: mutual agreement, obviously, because when a divorce is mutual, it's 607 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 3: publicly known that it's mutual. Like I feel like with 608 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 3: Lil Wayne and Toya situation, like they both always kind 609 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 3: of say it was a mutual decision for them to 610 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 3: get divorced. For their own personal reasons, but it was mutual. 611 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,680 Speaker 3: We both didn't want to be married no more. It's 612 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 3: a difference between a man I wanting to be married 613 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 3: married to you no more, and you not wanting to 614 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 3: be married to him no more, and him just being like, 615 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,680 Speaker 3: I don't want to be married to you no more. 616 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:07,360 Speaker 2: Okay. 617 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 3: So I just feel and I feel like and I guess, 618 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 3: even not using jalo, I feel like it's a lot 619 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,359 Speaker 3: of women out there who have been engaged numerous times. 620 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 3: Like look at Cynthia from Real Housewives. Oh, Kenya Moore too, 621 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,639 Speaker 3: They've been engaged a lot of times. 622 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 2: Okay, Kenya is now married. 623 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 3: Cynthia just got married recently, but she also got a divorce, 624 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 3: but she was engaged a lot of times before her marriage. 625 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 3: So I feel like something wrong if niggas love you 626 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 3: enough to ask you to marry them all the time, 627 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 3: you know, had numerous rings but no marriage. Okay, So 628 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 3: let me tell you. Okay, these women, I say that 629 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 3: something's wrong with them, but not really Okay. 630 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 2: There you know how men are womanizers. 631 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, these women. These women are manizers. They love men, 632 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 3: they get bored and because let me tell you something, 633 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 3: the perspective. The view is that a woman is supposed 634 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:07,479 Speaker 3: to be a lady. 635 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: You're supposed to. 636 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 3: Stick by your man, only be with your man, be faithful. 637 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 3: If a man cheats, he's just being a man. If 638 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 3: a woman cheats, she's a slut. She's this and she's that. 639 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 3: So what I feel is that these women are getting 640 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 3: bored in their relationships. They want some new dick and 641 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 3: they but they don't want to leave because they want to, 642 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 3: you know, hold up the image. Because these women that 643 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 3: we've talked about are celebrity going back. 644 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 2: We don't know what the suck Jaylo was doing. 645 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 3: Jaylo was sneaking around doing because Jaylo is a bad 646 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 3: bitch and these niggas can't keep up period. 647 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 2: You even gonna keep up with a bad bitch, are 648 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 2: you not? 649 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 3: So she was okay with keeping up the image and 650 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 3: having her side niggas and doing whatever. 651 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 2: That's my point of view because. 652 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,240 Speaker 3: About her having sign nigga, So how we know exactly, 653 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 3: But you never heard about will Smith and Lebron have. 654 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 2: A side bitch? 655 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 3: Actually, well I'm just sad, let me take that back, 656 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 3: but it was one. But at the end of the 657 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 3: day is what I'm trying to say is we can't 658 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 3: just say, oh, this woman is. 659 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 2: Crazy because she lost these men. These men probably got tired. 660 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 4: Of getting cheated on, getting dealt with like they should 661 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 4: be dealt with because Jalo is a boss ass bitch. 662 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,479 Speaker 2: So that's how you're gonna treat your hoods and you're 663 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 2: gonna cheat on him. I might be a Jalo ass bitch, bro. 664 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 3: I might be if anybody in my life I can 665 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 3: see being a jo ass beach getting these rings like 666 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 3: it don't mean a teing. You're gonna be like Lebron, 667 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I had a situation where a 668 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 3: man was like, let's take out the next step in 669 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 3: the relationship. Actually, that's happened to me twice. Now I 670 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 3: can't say I got engaged. 671 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 2: I ain't got the ring. 672 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, but they were like, Okay, what's going on, what's 673 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 3: the next step? And I'm just kind of like I 674 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 3: was being more vocal about it. But because I mean, 675 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 3: it's different when you got money you don't got money, 676 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 3: let's first of all say that. 677 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 2: But I will say it's like, for what. 678 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 3: I've never had a man talk to me about. I 679 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 3: don't think I never had a guy that I was dating, 680 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 3: talk to me about marriage. Niggas just wanted me to 681 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 3: have a baby. I had a lot of niggas talk 682 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 3: to me by having a baby. I guess they'd just 683 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 3: be like, you would be a great mother, but they 684 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 3: know I would be a probably horrible wife because I 685 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 3: might cheat on you. I'm dead, but that's what I'm saying. 686 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 3: But I'm gonna be a good mom though. But at 687 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 3: the end of the day, I just feel like we 688 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 3: can't just always say the woman is crazy, because I 689 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 3: feel like women feel like they have to uphold a 690 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 3: certain image. So maybe that niggas left Jylo because she 691 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 3: was treating them like how niggas treat women. 692 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 2: I feel like Jlo may be the man in the relationship. 693 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 3: I pay the bills or I pay my own bills. 694 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 3: I do this into that, and I'm gonna do what 695 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 3: the fuck I want to do. You either gonna like 696 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 3: it or get lost. 697 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 4: They was liking it at first, then they got. 698 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 2: Long, Yeah, but they look bad. Why why? 699 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 3: I mean, But again, like I said, why, recently had 700 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 3: an epiphany and I just said, I don't give them. 701 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 2: People think No, that's what I'm saying. Probably don't give 702 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 2: it so. But what I'm saying is, look it looked bad. 703 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,600 Speaker 2: But how does that look bad? You live in your life. 704 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 2: You look bad for niggas. You've been married, so it 705 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 2: looks bad for. 706 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 3: It looks married. It looked bad for niggas who asked 707 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 3: you to marry them. Call off the engaged, don't. 708 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 2: I'll get another one. Is she engaged right now? I 709 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 2: don't matter. 710 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 3: But she upgrades high hopes for you, upgrades every time. 711 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 2: How does that vel bad level jewelry that you're not even. 712 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 3: My? Oh? Sorry but you say, I don't think Jaylo 713 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 3: is crazy. I think she run her ship like she 714 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 3: run her ship. Okay, let's not talk about j Lo. 715 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 3: How do you feel about other we're not just Okay, 716 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,760 Speaker 3: jam was what prompted me to want to have. 717 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 2: But but but let me take this. 718 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 3: Women that get a ring have a lot more rings, 719 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 3: and the niggas take them a little more serious than a. 720 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 2: Lot of other bitches that you never got a ring. 721 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna talk down the bitch that got a 722 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 2: ring and ship. I ain't never got one. You see 723 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. I ain't never got one either. 724 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 3: But I don't respect certain girls just because they eat 725 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 3: one because take it back, and I. 726 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 2: Mean to look, y'all know, Derwanda. 727 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,480 Speaker 3: Wednesday, we start talking our friend talk, So y'all gonna 728 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 3: have to excuse us a specially little drella. 729 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 2: She on a yet and she's not coming back. Let's 730 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,239 Speaker 2: talk about that. Wait, let me say this. 731 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 3: Let me say I do not look like a woman 732 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,440 Speaker 3: is better or a woman is above forgetting a ring. 733 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,600 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I can't talk about oh what are 734 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 2: you because I don't but I would never say that neither. 735 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm never that type of person to 736 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 3: talk down on women, because, like you said, I haven't 737 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 3: got one, you don't got And also, once we study 738 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 3: deeper into why beaches be eating, we be finding out 739 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 3: a lot and it makes okay. 740 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 5: So so you know what before let me whip out 741 00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:28,879 Speaker 5: my handy Danny paper. Let us know book, let us. 742 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 3: Know how y'all feel about women who constantly get engaged 743 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 3: but never walk down the aist. I say, I feel like, bitch, 744 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 3: do your shit, get your jewelry and move on. 745 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 2: But what if you don't keep it? 746 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 3: Oh well, you still had a ring with some bomb 747 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 3: ass pictures. 748 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,280 Speaker 2: You have some bomb ass pictures pictures. 749 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 3: Bitch, I'm deleting that shit, that ship if I didn't 750 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,440 Speaker 3: get to keep the ring. I'm not trying to have 751 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,240 Speaker 3: no memory. 752 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,919 Speaker 2: But I'm deleted off my social media. 753 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,920 Speaker 3: But your phone in my phone because I'm a person, 754 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 3: I take pictures of everything that I'm. 755 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, two, that's what I'm saying. I do too. I 756 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 2: have Heli pictures in my phone and I don't even post. 757 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 3: I would definitely still keep it in my phone, but 758 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,320 Speaker 3: I would delete all that sheet, especially if you couldn't 759 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 3: keep it. But I mean, yeah, so let us know 760 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:17,640 Speaker 3: how y'all feel about people getting engaged but unfortunately or 761 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 3: fortunately never married. 762 00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 2: I feel like one engagement to engagement. 763 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 3: Okay, three man collected especially, but bitch is not collecting rings. 764 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:33,280 Speaker 3: They're getting reposed That's what I'm trying to tell you. 765 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 2: You're saying collect that ring. Real niggas is not letting 766 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 2: you keep no million dollar reinge. 767 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 3: No, they're not, I will say, but who Honestly a 768 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 3: lot of these women aren't getting proposed with with million 769 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 3: dollar rings. Okay, nigga's not even letting you keep a 770 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,360 Speaker 3: fifty thousand dollar ring, bitch, she'd be like, run me 771 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 3: my coin beach period. 772 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,439 Speaker 2: Because a ring is you get a ring from a man. 773 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 3: It's kind of like a promisory note, like I gave 774 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 3: you this ring that's on the promise that we're going 775 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,359 Speaker 3: to get married. If we're not gonna get married anymore, 776 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 3: I need my rings. No, you're right, but I'm just 777 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 3: saying I feel like, you know what, do whatever you do. 778 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 3: You feel like it's just like being a relationship. Now 779 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 3: when you're actually married, you have to work things out, 780 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 3: and I feel like it's a little more serious. But 781 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 3: an engagement is just a step up from a relationship. 782 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 3: So if you feel like y'all ready to take that 783 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 3: next step, take it. Because there is a little gray 784 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,359 Speaker 3: area between a relationship and marriage. You want to take 785 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,760 Speaker 3: a little more serious, but you're not ready to get married. 786 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,720 Speaker 3: So get a gazed do that, get your ring, Enjoy 787 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 3: the seriousness, Enjoy showing off and saying my fiance and 788 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,839 Speaker 3: having that ring. If y'all make it down to all cool. 789 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 3: If y'all don't. 790 00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 2: Cool, but at least you got that experience. You know 791 00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 2: how to be a. 792 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 3: Fiance over a girlfriend because it's level. Now you gotta 793 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:48,319 Speaker 3: make it to the next step being a wife. So 794 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,799 Speaker 3: I feel like, whatever you do, just enjoy that shit, 795 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 3: get your ring. 796 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 2: I can't wait to have a ring on my finger. 797 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 2: But I hope I get married when I have one. 798 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,480 Speaker 3: I hope I do. To all think everybody goes in 799 00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 3: their situation hoping they get married, that's debatable. 800 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:07,839 Speaker 2: Well yeah, so I just know like y'all think about 801 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 2: people getting engaged but never married. 802 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 3: So moving on to the niggas top oteresting. So, I 803 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 3: know we talk about this a lot about you know, 804 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 3: how we feel about dating guys with money, dating guys 805 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 3: with no money, and this and that. But I want 806 00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 3: to kind of get back to the topic of how 807 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:31,759 Speaker 3: I said, I don't like depending on men necessarily. I 808 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,680 Speaker 3: kind of like doing my own thing. But we used 809 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,839 Speaker 3: to have a friend that actually took shit a little far, 810 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 3: and she said that she liked to actually take. 811 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 2: Care of her men. 812 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember, she liked taking care of She liked 813 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,520 Speaker 3: broke niggas. 814 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, she wanted she was a bread winner. 815 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:52,480 Speaker 3: She wanted to date guys who solely depended on her 816 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,120 Speaker 3: long as they had good as long as. 817 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 2: They had good dig and they they were there on 818 00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 2: her call, they were there when she got home, like 819 00:37:59,239 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 2: she was cool. 820 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 3: So how do y'all feel about dating kept men or 821 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 3: men that want to be taken care of? Because I 822 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 3: feel like a lot of women say, oh, you got 823 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,960 Speaker 3: the money, You got the money, so can men do 824 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 3: that too? Can men say, hey, shit, you got the money. 825 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 3: How do you feel about kept men even though you 826 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 3: personally don't deal with it. We're not gonna talk about personally. 827 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 3: How do you do you feel like if a man 828 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,880 Speaker 3: is it okay for a man like you? Niggas can 829 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 3: do what y'all want to do, honestly, because I ain't 830 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:30,160 Speaker 3: about to date. Y'all do what you like, nigga, because 831 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,760 Speaker 3: you ain't my tape, I'm dead, So you would never take. 832 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 2: Care of a man bever. 833 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:40,200 Speaker 3: Police, I can't believe you would even ask me that. 834 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,480 Speaker 3: Nun fucked up. 835 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,759 Speaker 2: This, police, I'm not let me if I ever taken 836 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:49,839 Speaker 2: care of no grown ass. 837 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 3: Okay, let me say this, not even my son. 838 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,760 Speaker 2: You would take care of your son, not after twenty one, damn. 839 00:38:58,280 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 2: But I'm also not gonna have no mind. 840 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 3: My son is gonna be straight for life, okay, so 841 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna have to take care of him. 842 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 2: So let me absolutely not. Let me say this. I definitely, 843 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:10,719 Speaker 2: I definitely agree on with you on this. 844 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:17,400 Speaker 3: But let me tell you from my perspective, wife. 845 00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:20,240 Speaker 2: This friend that we had. When I tell y'all, these. 846 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 3: Niggas, huh, I need some more, Yimi, you can go 847 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 3: go grab some. I'm gonna just tell Okay, I'm gonna talk. 848 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 3: I'm gonna talk slow. 849 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 2: How do you right there, y'all? So when I tell y'all, 850 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:34,959 Speaker 2: this girl was vetting. 851 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 3: This man and he didn't have any money, He wasn't 852 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 3: doing nothing for her. 853 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,000 Speaker 2: And let me tell y'all something, Niggas are. 854 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,839 Speaker 3: Gonna use you. Niggas are gonna use you and use 855 00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,240 Speaker 3: you and use you. You even have to have no money, says. 856 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 3: He gonna use you for your presence. He gonna use 857 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 3: you because you bad to show off to his friends. 858 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 3: He gonna use you for your pussy, for your head, 859 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:02,000 Speaker 3: to be around your friends, because you're friends bad. All that, 860 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 3: all that ship, all that ship don't even matter. But 861 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:10,319 Speaker 3: to have to have a nigga use you for your money, 862 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,879 Speaker 3: for your money for her, that's a different type of heart. 863 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 3: So mind you, you're working hard, you're paying the bills, 864 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 3: You making sure this nigga eat you, making sure he 865 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 3: got clothes, you're paying his phone bill, and he's using you. 866 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 3: And not only that, he's not even being faithful to you. 867 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 3: He's fucking other bitches. Because at end the day, like 868 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,560 Speaker 3: we said earlier, niggas is niggas, ain't ship niggas going 869 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:39,920 Speaker 3: our homegirlhood nigga was he imagine imagine letting a broke 870 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:44,360 Speaker 3: nigga cheat on you brow the peasantry. 871 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,919 Speaker 2: First of all, I would be so disappointed in y'all. 872 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,400 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. That's like I used to be 873 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,320 Speaker 2: disappointed in used to be. What did you do? 874 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,320 Speaker 3: She literally told us to hit somebody up and offer 875 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,960 Speaker 3: them a ten thousand dollars vacation? 876 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,440 Speaker 2: Yes, I said vacation. It was vacation. Was a man? 877 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:04,239 Speaker 2: She't but she wanted to, said she was gonna pay 878 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 2: for the vacation. Be you wish I would? 879 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 3: You know what I could do with a lot more 880 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 3: than take one of you brokecass niggas on a wasn't it? 881 00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:14,279 Speaker 2: And what makes it worse? 882 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 3: He's not broke, So that's that's right, because that's what 883 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 3: makes it worse because for the vacation, his damnself. But 884 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,400 Speaker 3: the thing is, would he have took her on a vacation, 885 00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:32,759 Speaker 3: which gets into another point, Okay, which a lot of 886 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,840 Speaker 3: the time feel like it's only certain type of women 887 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 3: who like kept me in. What type of woman? What 888 00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 3: type of woman? Dre Let's go ahead and get keep 889 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 3: it real. It's one let me sit my gack. 890 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:51,360 Speaker 2: You really sweating women? I feel like, you know, it's only. 891 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 3: Certain type of women that like, those type of women 892 00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 3: that are. 893 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 2: Deemed by society is not that attractive. 894 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,360 Speaker 3: So you feel that women at are attractors have to 895 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,200 Speaker 3: reel their men in with the dough. 896 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so let me ask you not have to. 897 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 3: But I feel like if you want certain type of guys, yes, 898 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 3: that's the only reason that that's the only way you're 899 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 3: gonna be able to get there. Okay, Well first okay, yeah, 900 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 3: First of all, there's no certain. 901 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:18,839 Speaker 2: Type of guy. 902 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,239 Speaker 3: If you ain't got no many, there's no such thing 903 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 3: as a certain type. You know, when I say a 904 00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 3: certain type of guy, what I mean is a man 905 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,839 Speaker 3: who does not have anything going for himself if he 906 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,920 Speaker 3: prays on women like that, do we know? Okay, like 907 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 3: these type of beach you don't want to take care 908 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:39,320 Speaker 3: of me, so let me pray on her insecurity because 909 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,919 Speaker 3: because okay, when and also when I say certain type 910 00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:47,120 Speaker 3: of guys, we both them make some fine ass broken goods. Yeah, okay, 911 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 3: you're right, but to women like that, a fine man 912 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:56,080 Speaker 3: is a commodity. But yeah too, women like that, a 913 00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 3: fine man is a commodity. 914 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,920 Speaker 2: Right, Okay, so I feel like this mercy to me. 915 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:01,640 Speaker 3: Right. 916 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:05,839 Speaker 2: No, First of all, the type of man, the type 917 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 2: of man. 918 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,399 Speaker 3: I date, would never even allow a woman to take 919 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,080 Speaker 3: care of them ever, Like the type of man all 920 00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 3: day would ever even be like, oh yeah, bebby, you 921 00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 3: can pay my phone bill. 922 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:16,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you can pay my rent. 923 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 3: But no, Now, I will say the type of man 924 00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,919 Speaker 3: I day I have been like on some shit where 925 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,560 Speaker 3: like he took me on the whole day case. I 926 00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:27,439 Speaker 3: was like, okay, let me pay for dinner tonight at least, 927 00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,360 Speaker 3: Like we went to St. K and I was like, 928 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:30,960 Speaker 3: let me pay for it. Let me take here to 929 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,440 Speaker 3: tail because I feel like, shit, you flew me out. 930 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 3: You paid for this nice ass hotel. We're doing this, 931 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:36,600 Speaker 3: we're doing it. 932 00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:38,439 Speaker 2: I'm not paying for them. Let me at least show 933 00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:38,839 Speaker 2: you this. 934 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,960 Speaker 3: Sorry, Yeah that's fine, But as far as taking care 935 00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,239 Speaker 3: of you, I've never even dated a man that was 936 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 3: like can you can you help me? But then can 937 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:49,799 Speaker 3: we also just throw out there that you don't meet 938 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 3: the criteria of the type of woman that I just 939 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,919 Speaker 3: said usually date those type of men. 940 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 2: So there really wasn't a good example. I'm trying to 941 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 2: be funny, but okay, let me say this. You and I. 942 00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 3: Right, but let me keep it real with you. Let 943 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:06,480 Speaker 3: me keep it real with you. I used to be 944 00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:07,000 Speaker 3: that girl. 945 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 2: I liked. 946 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,840 Speaker 3: I like that, I liked dating because I liked feeling 947 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:11,759 Speaker 3: needed because I was making a lot. 948 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 2: I used to make a lot of money when I 949 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 2: was younger. And but like I said. 950 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:17,439 Speaker 3: This just goes into me. It was me being young 951 00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,959 Speaker 3: and dumb. I will say I used to Now, don't 952 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:23,080 Speaker 3: get twisted. I wasn't just paying nigga's rent and paying 953 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:24,400 Speaker 3: niggas bills and this and that. 954 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 2: But I was just like the bread winner, like I 955 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:27,480 Speaker 2: was doing this. 956 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:33,360 Speaker 3: I was doing But I realized at twenty one, twenty no, 957 00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 3: I was twenty. 958 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,040 Speaker 2: Wish I could see how I'm looking at leaks right. 959 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,920 Speaker 2: I realized that twenty twenty one that I was getting used. 960 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,480 Speaker 2: I wish I would at thirty. 961 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,920 Speaker 3: At thirty I'm not thirty eight, but I'm excited to 962 00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:46,359 Speaker 3: turn thirty. 963 00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be shut out. Well you got with five 964 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 2: mo money, I got two months. Let's just say damn. Anyways, 965 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:53,600 Speaker 2: I'll be thirty in. 966 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,120 Speaker 3: All, I guess so I wish I would at thirty 967 00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:57,400 Speaker 3: take care. 968 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,520 Speaker 2: Of a grown man. Since what is you doing? M hmm. 969 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 3: People be like, oh, let me pay for my haircuts. 970 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:04,719 Speaker 3: I'll pay for a haircut. That's cool, But have you 971 00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,720 Speaker 3: paid for because getting my hair do about six dollars. 972 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:09,879 Speaker 2: If you get a real weave, you want to pay 973 00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:10,960 Speaker 2: for it, right. 974 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 3: So it's like if you pay for my hair shirt, 975 00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,320 Speaker 3: I'll get you a little people do haircut that. 976 00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 2: But girls like, oh, let me treat that, Let me 977 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:20,279 Speaker 2: treat it. Has he treated you? Mom? Has he treated you? 978 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,160 Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all something it neither gotta treat me 979 00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:25,520 Speaker 3: before before he eat me. 980 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,319 Speaker 2: I'm dead. But what I mean he has to treat 981 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:32,040 Speaker 2: you before you treat him. Yeah? No, but for real, no, 982 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say that. 983 00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:35,440 Speaker 3: So you would do something off a nigga for a 984 00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,080 Speaker 3: nigga off top if he ain't done shit for you yet, 985 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:42,839 Speaker 3: let me let me clarify. Oh yeah, that's exactly, That's 986 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:44,879 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. But I would do something for him 987 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:49,319 Speaker 3: before like he if I really like him. Maybe he 988 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,279 Speaker 3: only did like something little, but I would still do 989 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,160 Speaker 3: something nice to him if I like, yeah. 990 00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:59,120 Speaker 2: Like something nice that I'm not paying no fucking no 991 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,040 Speaker 2: bills or no ship like that. That's no car. 992 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,040 Speaker 3: I was watching the show the other day called Love 993 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,799 Speaker 3: after lock Up. Oh hell no, it ain't no Love 994 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:07,880 Speaker 3: after lock Up because. 995 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 2: I'm gone Love after lock up exactly. 996 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:19,920 Speaker 4: As soon as the judge hit that fucking gabbled, I'm gone. 997 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:23,720 Speaker 2: I've been texted already. Nigga. You can put that. Niggas 998 00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 2: go for a few years. 999 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,040 Speaker 3: You can have a parking ticket. You gotta sit that 1000 00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:28,840 Speaker 3: ship out for four days, and I'm gone. 1001 00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,840 Speaker 2: See you done took ship to motherfucking for days, bitch, 1002 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,040 Speaker 2: I'm gone. You took she too, motherfucking for les. Feel 1003 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 2: I'm gone. The bills don't stop four days, bitch. The 1004 00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 2: bill don't rich. And he left you with some change. 1005 00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:50,000 Speaker 3: You got to hold him down, ask you say once, 1006 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,399 Speaker 3: let's let's let's not even talk about four days. Let's 1007 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 3: say he went to jail for like a year, but 1008 00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 3: he reaches he left you like three hundred bands three 1009 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:02,799 Speaker 3: to hold him down while he gone I and. 1010 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,839 Speaker 2: Then and you can. I'm gonna tell you can use 1011 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 2: the three hundred bands however you want to get it 1012 00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:08,120 Speaker 2: right right. 1013 00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 3: If it was a certain person, I'm not doing it. 1014 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:16,360 Speaker 3: But if it's just like a nigga, I wouldn't do 1015 00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,120 Speaker 3: that to no nigga who gave me three hundred bands 1016 00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 3: to tell me to Okay, I will hold that nigga 1017 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,799 Speaker 3: down a year can hold you down for you, but I'm. 1018 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:24,040 Speaker 2: Gonna ask him to be like, let me, I can't 1019 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,400 Speaker 2: flip the beeches too or just me. 1020 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 3: I feel like my wig I always slide. I wasn't 1021 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:37,800 Speaker 3: looking at way, No, no, I did not. So anyways, 1022 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,200 Speaker 3: I feel like we would have to have a talk because, 1023 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:41,680 Speaker 3: like I said, I can go out. 1024 00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 2: I can go without six though I can't. 1025 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,759 Speaker 3: But I see if you gave me three hundred, if 1026 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,400 Speaker 3: you I'm going I ain't had said some long time bitch. 1027 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,400 Speaker 3: And first of all, if you got me three hundred 1028 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:55,279 Speaker 3: thousand dollars to flip, it's I'm gonna be busy. 1029 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,759 Speaker 2: Working, right, So that's what I'm saying. I think I 1030 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:02,160 Speaker 2: can hold you down. But it's circumubstantial. It's circumstantial. I 1031 00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,799 Speaker 2: ain't gonna for me. 1032 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,279 Speaker 3: You get in a fight in jail, and you gotta 1033 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 3: be there past year after the year, nigga, that's what 1034 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,120 Speaker 3: our agreement was on for years. 1035 00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 2: So you on your own. So if he get an 1036 00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:18,680 Speaker 2: extra three months, you flip that three hundred thousand to 1037 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:24,319 Speaker 2: one point five million. What that means you can't hold 1038 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,880 Speaker 2: him off for another three months. I gotta celebrate, but 1039 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,440 Speaker 2: I gotta. But he the reason why you now have 1040 00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 2: the one point five minutes. 1041 00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 3: So we're gonna celebrate when you get out. 1042 00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:38,279 Speaker 2: I'm so let us know how y'all feel about kept me. 1043 00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:40,399 Speaker 3: I didn't even get to make my point about love 1044 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,839 Speaker 3: after lock up, ads are just. 1045 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 2: Talking about. 1046 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,160 Speaker 3: Now. It was a lady on love after lock up, 1047 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:53,919 Speaker 3: and she basically like was started dating miss dude while 1048 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:56,560 Speaker 3: he was in prison. And when he got out of prison, 1049 00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,880 Speaker 3: obviously you know he didn't have she he even have 1050 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 3: money before he win and he don't have no money now. 1051 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:06,040 Speaker 3: So he ended up getting out of jail and she 1052 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 3: bought him a car. Girl, she went to the car 1053 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,799 Speaker 3: like buy him mother fifteen thousand dollar car. 1054 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:13,880 Speaker 2: Oh fifteen He got a good old hond the city. 1055 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:19,720 Speaker 3: He did a brand new six thousand miles, little thief. 1056 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:29,320 Speaker 3: I'm cutting up windows, little rim not the rims. 1057 00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:34,480 Speaker 2: Honey. Did they have a sup? Yes, the bowl stereo. 1058 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 2: Bitch cutting up in these streets. And what happened? 1059 00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 3: He was fucking married to his baby mama and she 1060 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,319 Speaker 3: ain't even know. See, that's why you can't buy shipping there. 1061 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:47,480 Speaker 3: I feel like this if you buy stuff for women. 1062 00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,359 Speaker 3: I thought women are a little more appreciative than men are, 1063 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:53,160 Speaker 3: because men are still like you can. 1064 00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 2: You can give a nigga your life. 1065 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,239 Speaker 3: You give a nigga a child, you will literally give 1066 00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:02,920 Speaker 3: up your body for ten months, dedicate your body. You're sick, 1067 00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:07,480 Speaker 3: you can't breathe, sometimes you're throwing up, you can't walk. 1068 00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:09,720 Speaker 3: Sometimes you will give a nigga your body. 1069 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,440 Speaker 2: Pregnant, Yes, you will. 1070 00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:13,680 Speaker 3: Give a nigga your body, and they still won't do 1071 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,640 Speaker 3: right step. Materialistic ship, money comes and goes. I will 1072 00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,120 Speaker 3: say that, But if you can be pregnant for a 1073 00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:23,880 Speaker 3: person and dedicate ten months of your life, that's a 1074 00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,680 Speaker 3: long time to creating a human. 1075 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:29,799 Speaker 2: That you put inside of me, and they still won't do. 1076 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,320 Speaker 2: Way you think I'm about to pay your bill, nigga. 1077 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,920 Speaker 2: These niggas don't give a fuck. We don't give. So 1078 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,319 Speaker 2: let us know how y'all feel about kept men, because 1079 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:39,840 Speaker 2: we say. 1080 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,719 Speaker 3: And let me not judge if there's women out there 1081 00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,360 Speaker 3: who take care of men, let us know, like why, 1082 00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,399 Speaker 3: I'm judging you because I want y'all to do buster 1083 00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,759 Speaker 3: and for the men. I know there's some kept men 1084 00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:53,799 Speaker 3: out there, So let us know how y'all how y'all 1085 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,080 Speaker 3: look at it. But I want y'all to feel like, oh, 1086 00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:57,839 Speaker 3: because I'm judging y'all, like I don't want to hear 1087 00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,400 Speaker 3: what y'all got to say, because I do still want 1088 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 3: to hear, but I am judging y'all, but you could 1089 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,840 Speaker 3: do better, like whyause sometimes there might be like a 1090 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,239 Speaker 3: house husband. There may be a woman that's dominant and 1091 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 3: she likes to work and she's making way more money, 1092 00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 3: has a better career, but they. 1093 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,120 Speaker 2: Need somebody at home to take care of the kids. 1094 00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,920 Speaker 3: That's a kept man, hire a nanny and make their 1095 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,120 Speaker 3: nigga go to work beach. 1096 00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 2: Okay, So we're gonna get into the big, the big. 1097 00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:33,440 Speaker 3: Okay, So this is a little first of all, let 1098 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 3: me say this is a child first, of all beat 1099 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:36,440 Speaker 3: you up. 1100 00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:38,879 Speaker 2: We even started talking to my seat. Let me say 1101 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:39,239 Speaker 2: this for. 1102 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 3: The disclaimer, we don't We're not saying anything to offend anybody, 1103 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,960 Speaker 3: to rub anybody, because you know, it's a it's a 1104 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:49,040 Speaker 3: sensitive climate nowadays, so we do have to say, yeah, 1105 00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,479 Speaker 3: I wonder if we have a neat listen to the show. 1106 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,360 Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean I don't care. No, I 1107 00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:55,840 Speaker 3: mean not that I don't care. I'm saying like I 1108 00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:59,040 Speaker 3: don't be here neither. We welcome everybody to do well. 1109 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:05,680 Speaker 3: We love. So this topic is sex with transgender people. 1110 00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:09,359 Speaker 2: So would you ever have sex? 1111 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:16,680 Speaker 3: No, you didn't need to, you wouldn't be I knew 1112 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,279 Speaker 3: the topic before everybody else did. 1113 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,720 Speaker 2: So you have sex with women? Yes? 1114 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:23,120 Speaker 3: So you will never have sex with a woman who 1115 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:26,759 Speaker 3: identifies as a man with a deep like they got 1116 00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 3: surgery and now they have a deal. 1117 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:34,239 Speaker 2: No, why though, Why would I? Because I like and 1118 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:35,480 Speaker 2: then I have sex with me. 1119 00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:39,040 Speaker 3: So she's both so well not take she's a man, 1120 00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,600 Speaker 3: she's a man though, he's a man. 1121 00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:44,280 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, he's a man. I'm trying to be technical. 1122 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:48,160 Speaker 2: He's a man. No you're not. Yes, yes, he's a man. Okay, 1123 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:52,319 Speaker 2: go be a man with someone else. But what's the 1124 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:52,959 Speaker 2: big deal? 1125 00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 3: Though it ain't no big deal. I never said it 1126 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,040 Speaker 3: was a big deal, So but what is it? Though 1127 00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,839 Speaker 3: I don't want to, I'm just not in today. I'm 1128 00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:04,480 Speaker 3: very freaky. But that's where I draw a motherfucking line. 1129 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,640 Speaker 3: Bit Okay, So I got a drawing a line somewhere, 1130 00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:09,120 Speaker 3: and that's why our mother fucking droid. 1131 00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:09,600 Speaker 2: Okay. 1132 00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,360 Speaker 3: So let me tell y'all story real quick before I 1133 00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,520 Speaker 3: let y'all. A few years ago, I went to La. 1134 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:17,920 Speaker 2: I was young. I was young. 1135 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:22,960 Speaker 3: Me and my friends were turning up and we had 1136 00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,000 Speaker 3: went to the club. Let me tell y'all. 1137 00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:26,919 Speaker 2: Let me right, let me paint a picture for y'all 1138 00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,520 Speaker 2: real quick. We went to the club, so we didn't 1139 00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,080 Speaker 2: hoped the bottles. Let me tell y'all. We walked to 1140 00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,560 Speaker 2: the club. The club was packed. We seen a section. 1141 00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:37,040 Speaker 2: It was just it was nothing but niggas. 1142 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 3: In the section we seen, we seen bottles of patrol 1143 00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:47,759 Speaker 3: Ace Henderson say, bottles, bottles on bottles on bottles going 1144 00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,640 Speaker 3: to the section. So me, bitch, I'm like twenty How 1145 00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,439 Speaker 3: old was I about twenty five at the time? Twenty five? 1146 00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,840 Speaker 2: So I'm like this let's go with a bottles going bitch. 1147 00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,360 Speaker 2: So I'm like, fuck you. 1148 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,520 Speaker 3: So we followed the girl. I followed the litt bottom 1149 00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 3: girl on the section and I sat. I swear to god, 1150 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:06,800 Speaker 3: I was drunk. I just sat on the nigga like, boom, bitch, 1151 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,080 Speaker 3: let's take a shot. So he was like, fuck it, 1152 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,560 Speaker 3: let's take a shot. And I was paying a teacher 1153 00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:13,480 Speaker 3: who the waitress was talking to. Of course, so I 1154 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 3: knew he was. 1155 00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:17,880 Speaker 2: Paying the tab. I got a pushing any stories over. 1156 00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:22,720 Speaker 3: Okay, So we started, you know, we drinking, We got drunk, 1157 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:25,279 Speaker 3: blah blah blah. So end of the night, he ends 1158 00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 3: up coming back to the hotel room that we used 1159 00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,920 Speaker 3: to Well, we had a like an apartment and it 1160 00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,520 Speaker 3: was like two stories. So he I took him back. 1161 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,800 Speaker 3: I took him in my room and we had sex. 1162 00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 3: So when he took his shirt off, I noticed that 1163 00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 3: his boom, like, his chest looked a little his chest 1164 00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:47,000 Speaker 3: looked a little weird. Now, okay, weird in what way? 1165 00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,879 Speaker 3: It was like it looked like he had titties, but 1166 00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:51,600 Speaker 3: they had. 1167 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,040 Speaker 2: Now I didn't see a scar. Now let me. 1168 00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:56,000 Speaker 3: Say this, I was really extremely fucked up, so I 1169 00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:58,680 Speaker 3: really don't remember, but I remember giving him the nickname 1170 00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 3: Titties because his bulls look something looked weird about his 1171 00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:07,440 Speaker 3: breast chest whatever. And I remember like him pulling out 1172 00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,759 Speaker 3: his dick and it wasn't like a big, big dick, 1173 00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:10,839 Speaker 3: but it wasn't a little dick. 1174 00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,320 Speaker 2: But it's like he just like wouldn't get hard. 1175 00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:14,759 Speaker 3: And mind you, I'm not trying to be funny, but 1176 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,640 Speaker 3: look at me, like why are why is your dick 1177 00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:18,080 Speaker 3: not hard? 1178 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:20,319 Speaker 2: So anyways, this they ended up you don't get hard. 1179 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:24,040 Speaker 3: We had sex, but like maybe he was strong, but 1180 00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,840 Speaker 3: he never he never ejaculated, so I was like, okay, whatever. 1181 00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:30,560 Speaker 3: We still hung out the whole entire weekend like shit 1182 00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,720 Speaker 3: was cool, and for like years he was still hitting 1183 00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:35,840 Speaker 3: me up, like still texting me, still calling me. But 1184 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,600 Speaker 3: I was just like kind of not interested. I'm like 1185 00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:39,960 Speaker 3: I was in La, like this is like a turn 1186 00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:43,360 Speaker 3: up thing, no big deal. So when I got home 1187 00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,160 Speaker 3: like a week after this trip, I was like, I 1188 00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 3: think he was a transsexual. And I had really sad 1189 00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,400 Speaker 3: in that with myself, like I had sex with a 1190 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:55,000 Speaker 3: transsexual person, and after I was like it really wasn't 1191 00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,960 Speaker 3: that bad, but let me let me and let. 1192 00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:00,359 Speaker 2: Me say this. It ended up coming out there wasn't 1193 00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,759 Speaker 2: a trans an, it was a man. 1194 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,960 Speaker 3: But I guess after sitting in that and thinking for 1195 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 3: so long that I had been with a transition, I'm like, well, 1196 00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 3: I have sex with absolutely because he was fine. But 1197 00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,799 Speaker 3: then also too, So what you're trying to tell me 1198 00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,320 Speaker 3: is you only had sex with the transsexual because he 1199 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:23,360 Speaker 3: had money. That's when I gathered from the whole story, 1200 00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:25,760 Speaker 3: and I wanted to wait till the end to ask, 1201 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,280 Speaker 3: but you said that you went over to the sexy 1202 00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 3: they was talking bottles of as is she You was 1203 00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,240 Speaker 3: saying the teachers to who the waiter, the white tress 1204 00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:36,040 Speaker 3: was talking. 1205 00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,239 Speaker 2: To to get the money, and that's who left. You 1206 00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:38,680 Speaker 2: said on. 1207 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:45,680 Speaker 3: Basically, what you're telling me is transsexual has money, you 1208 00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 3: will have sex with your you broke. 1209 00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:52,960 Speaker 2: I'm not having sex with a broke person. 1210 00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:56,160 Speaker 3: Period, but you definitely not having sex with a broke train. 1211 00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,480 Speaker 3: But I'm definitely don't having sex with a broke man either. 1212 00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:04,279 Speaker 3: Will But let me say this first of all, I 1213 00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,640 Speaker 3: did in my eyes, he was a man when I 1214 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,880 Speaker 3: first saw him, and like I said, but once he. 1215 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,279 Speaker 2: Sing he might not have been. He was like, oh, 1216 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:16,520 Speaker 2: but he or she has money. No, no, I was 1217 00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:18,960 Speaker 2: just like fuck it, I'm here, like I don't care, 1218 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:23,680 Speaker 2: and let me say hard. But it eventually did. It 1219 00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,400 Speaker 2: was just it was like weird. I don't know, but 1220 00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,400 Speaker 2: I was like maybe it was the Hennessy and he 1221 00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:32,400 Speaker 2: kept here and you was, well, he had a kid. 1222 00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:36,240 Speaker 2: From what I know, did he have the kid prior 1223 00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:44,120 Speaker 2: to his six change? He didn't bury. How do you 1224 00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:47,560 Speaker 2: know that because he had a kid? 1225 00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,720 Speaker 3: Like after we started stuck around because like I saw 1226 00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,160 Speaker 3: I saw him snapchat and he was like holding the baby. 1227 00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,200 Speaker 3: He was like I'm so blessed and like stuff like that. 1228 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:58,439 Speaker 3: I was like, oh wow, okay, so adoption is a thing. 1229 00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:00,800 Speaker 3: Like I said, I don't know. I still don't know 1230 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:02,800 Speaker 3: to this day, but I think he's a man. I 1231 00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:04,760 Speaker 3: do think he's a man. But like I said, for 1232 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,000 Speaker 3: years and years, like he kept hit me up, wanting 1233 00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:08,919 Speaker 3: to fly me back to l A, wanting to come 1234 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 3: see me. 1235 00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 2: He's trying to get there. I mean he was. 1236 00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,280 Speaker 3: But at they it didn't bother me that he was 1237 00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:16,640 Speaker 3: a transition. It just bothered me because I wasn't into him, 1238 00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:19,680 Speaker 3: like his personality. Our personalities didn't match. But if you 1239 00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:21,480 Speaker 3: would have been like I am, oh, I used to 1240 00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:23,800 Speaker 3: be a woman and I'm a man. It really wouldn't 1241 00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,840 Speaker 3: have bothered me. I promise, even if y'all had unpartictaries. 1242 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:33,640 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not trying because sex change penis. 1243 00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:38,440 Speaker 2: Wait, everybody he catched something, but a sex change penis? 1244 00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:44,160 Speaker 2: Why not? Because I think it's like a shield. 1245 00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:49,040 Speaker 3: No, I'm just kidding. I'm totally cute. But no, I 1246 00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 3: just felt like it didn't bother me. 1247 00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:54,960 Speaker 2: And let me take it a little bit first old times. 1248 00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,280 Speaker 3: So let mean I'm tied to yo to you yo 1249 00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 3: to you as a man and you as a woman 1250 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:02,240 Speaker 3: because you bother It's not No, you're a person, you're 1251 00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:05,040 Speaker 3: a person. You a person, but you are two people. 1252 00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,280 Speaker 2: No you're not. You're one person with two identities. No 1253 00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 2: you're not. 1254 00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:12,120 Speaker 3: You have one identity. You have one identity. And I 1255 00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,920 Speaker 3: was with a man, maybe a transactional man. 1256 00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:16,200 Speaker 2: But a man, and I'll take it a little bit 1257 00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:16,760 Speaker 2: fine plan. 1258 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:19,479 Speaker 3: I mean, I know about trendy. Let me start making jokes. 1259 00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:21,120 Speaker 3: I don't want you all to give you no no, no, 1260 00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,080 Speaker 3: And I don't even care, not y'all, like I don't 1261 00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:29,480 Speaker 3: want that community because I was making a little joke, y'all. 1262 00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:32,200 Speaker 3: Are I know that you are a man if you 1263 00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:36,000 Speaker 3: identify as a man, and you are, We're kidding. But 1264 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:38,760 Speaker 3: let me say this. I'll take things a little further, 1265 00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:41,840 Speaker 3: and I don't say this. I seen the video of 1266 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:47,120 Speaker 3: a transsexual man still had his penis, had his boot. 1267 00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:51,880 Speaker 2: I've seen it. We talked like it. He was fine, 1268 00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:53,280 Speaker 2: fine till I've. 1269 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:56,400 Speaker 3: Seen the d and I would do that. Yes, I 1270 00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:58,680 Speaker 3: would absolutely have sex with a transactional man you were 1271 00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:03,440 Speaker 3: while you riding to deep Yes, I probably would. Actually, 1272 01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:05,120 Speaker 3: it's fun. 1273 01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:07,400 Speaker 2: I would. You are nasty? 1274 01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:12,680 Speaker 4: Why why you can get the best of both worlds? 1275 01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:12,840 Speaker 3: Like? 1276 01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:13,920 Speaker 2: Can you imagine? 1277 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 3: No? 1278 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,600 Speaker 2: I can't, and I'm not trying to. I think that 1279 01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,840 Speaker 2: that's probably when I want. 1280 01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:22,240 Speaker 3: To be and I want pussy when I wants I 1281 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,680 Speaker 3: think that'll probably be hot period. I think that was 1282 01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:26,960 Speaker 3: like and I need to fuck with two different people 1283 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:30,080 Speaker 3: for the like, but I'm not need to when I 1284 01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:31,560 Speaker 3: want some dick, and I need to fuck with a 1285 01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:32,320 Speaker 3: beach when I want some. 1286 01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,360 Speaker 2: But I feel like it's something different to experience. 1287 01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:37,640 Speaker 3: I've never done this before, but you would absolutely Now 1288 01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,280 Speaker 3: let me go ahead, and let me go ahead and 1289 01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:43,240 Speaker 3: be honest, what I want to be with a man 1290 01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:46,760 Speaker 3: like a man like I want to be married, like 1291 01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:48,680 Speaker 3: I don't necessarily. 1292 01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,840 Speaker 2: A man that has TDS. Would you be with him? 1293 01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:52,120 Speaker 3: No? 1294 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,520 Speaker 2: Technically, who are you talking about as a man? 1295 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:55,760 Speaker 4: No? 1296 01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:59,080 Speaker 3: No, no no, Because they identify as women, but they 1297 01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:02,040 Speaker 3: have a DIG. They identify as a woman. I don't 1298 01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:04,720 Speaker 3: want anybody that identifies as a woman. I feel like, 1299 01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:09,080 Speaker 3: if you have a DIG, I understand you, but I'm 1300 01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:12,200 Speaker 3: talking about what I like as who they identify as. 1301 01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:13,160 Speaker 2: That's your belief. 1302 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,560 Speaker 3: If you identify as a woman, that that's not somebody 1303 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:17,120 Speaker 3: I want to be with. 1304 01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:20,360 Speaker 2: What I mean with you sexually? Absolutely, I would try you. 1305 01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,520 Speaker 2: I think that ship would be lit. 1306 01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:25,480 Speaker 3: You think that would be lit? To fuck a nigga 1307 01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:29,080 Speaker 3: that got TDS? I mean, but I'm sorry, fuck a 1308 01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 3: woman because you said that. I imagine a woman that 1309 01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:37,240 Speaker 3: has a dick, like imagine like Rihanna with a penis. 1310 01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:39,320 Speaker 3: I would definitely fuck that. 1311 01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:41,520 Speaker 2: I would rather fuck Rihanna how she is right. 1312 01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 3: I would fuck Rihanna how she is right now, obviously, 1313 01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:47,400 Speaker 3: but I'm saying Rihanna with a pussy and Rihanna with 1314 01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:48,320 Speaker 3: the dick I'll take. 1315 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,240 Speaker 2: But she don't have She's not gonna have both. 1316 01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:52,160 Speaker 3: She only gonna have the I'm saying, if you had 1317 01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,960 Speaker 3: like Rihanna with a pussy, I will fuck with the pussy. 1318 01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:56,960 Speaker 3: What I fuck Rionna with the dick? Yes, I would 1319 01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:59,880 Speaker 3: fuck Unda with the dick too. I don't ever want 1320 01:01:59,920 --> 01:02:01,960 Speaker 3: to imagine Rihanna, would it be? I mean, I. 1321 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:03,600 Speaker 2: Wouldn't because that's not the lord. 1322 01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:05,800 Speaker 3: But I'm just saying I don't want y'all to think 1323 01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:09,200 Speaker 3: I'm like talking about like I like I have a 1324 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:10,760 Speaker 3: preference like of like, of. 1325 01:02:10,720 --> 01:02:12,560 Speaker 2: Course anybody has. So if I had to have sex 1326 01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,440 Speaker 2: with a transactional, I want like a baddy. You know 1327 01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:15,919 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. 1328 01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:17,880 Speaker 3: But you don't have to. You never gonna have to 1329 01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,560 Speaker 3: unless they have you a good point. You don't have 1330 01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:22,200 Speaker 3: to put be a good point to do it. 1331 01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,120 Speaker 2: That's the only way it would happen for me. I 1332 01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,760 Speaker 2: would have to meet fighting for my life, fighting for 1333 01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:35,000 Speaker 2: my life. Oh don't you do that? Don't you do that? 1334 01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:38,560 Speaker 2: Not the r Kelly anyway, So. 1335 01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:40,600 Speaker 3: My life. 1336 01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,120 Speaker 2: We weren't doing anything to anybody. 1337 01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:45,640 Speaker 3: So let us know how y'all feel about sex with 1338 01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:49,680 Speaker 3: transgender people. Do you would you be open to it 1339 01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:52,680 Speaker 3: or is that just like an absolutely No, I'm definitely 1340 01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:54,960 Speaker 3: open to it. Like I said, I sat on something 1341 01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:56,800 Speaker 3: for years. I thought I did for a long time. 1342 01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:58,720 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I sat on it for years, 1343 01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:00,600 Speaker 2: like I thought I had sex. Do you mean like 1344 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:01,640 Speaker 2: you had sat on it? 1345 01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:06,240 Speaker 3: No, like I thought for years. I thought for about 1346 01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:07,880 Speaker 3: three or four years that I had sex with a 1347 01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 3: transitional But I was okay with it, Like, it didn't 1348 01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:10,640 Speaker 3: bother me. 1349 01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:14,120 Speaker 2: Have you ever told anybody? Yeah, until I talked. 1350 01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,520 Speaker 3: To my friend jazzed about it to her, like immediately 1351 01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:18,440 Speaker 3: after she was like what I was like, Yeah, she 1352 01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:19,600 Speaker 3: was like, how do you feel? 1353 01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:24,200 Speaker 2: Like, honestly, I don't care, Like I think it's cool, 1354 01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:25,200 Speaker 2: not cool. 1355 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:26,640 Speaker 3: Let me not say that. I don't want to say 1356 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:27,919 Speaker 3: I think it's cool. But I was like, it didn't 1357 01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:29,439 Speaker 3: bother me because it was like being with a man. 1358 01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:33,040 Speaker 3: It didn't bother me because it wasn't no different Now 1359 01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 3: having sex with a with somebody that identifies as a 1360 01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:38,200 Speaker 3: woman that still has a penis, now that's in a 1361 01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:42,680 Speaker 3: different experience that I would like to experience. But having 1362 01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 3: sex with a woman who identifies a man who's had surgery, 1363 01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:49,840 Speaker 3: that's not like like as far as like women who 1364 01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,840 Speaker 3: are lesbians that still have their female parts, That's not 1365 01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:54,760 Speaker 3: something that interests me because I feel like, if I 1366 01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:56,720 Speaker 3: want a womanly woman, I'll. 1367 01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:59,280 Speaker 2: Just go have sex with somebody who looks like a woman. 1368 01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 3: Right is womanly, So I'm not necessarily attracted to manly women. 1369 01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:11,200 Speaker 2: I'll say that I'm cool on y'all. I like niggas 1370 01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:15,640 Speaker 2: and all eves meet as one. 1371 01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:19,000 Speaker 3: So let us know how y'all feel about sex with 1372 01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:22,240 Speaker 3: transgender So we gonna get into the BAP of the week, 1373 01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:29,000 Speaker 3: the mind. So I actually changed my BAP of the 1374 01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:30,920 Speaker 3: week because last. 1375 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,120 Speaker 2: Night, my good, my good good cis Lauren. 1376 01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:36,400 Speaker 3: She started posting some stuff and it just really took 1377 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:40,240 Speaker 3: me back down memory lane. Shout out to my good sis, Lauren. 1378 01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:43,600 Speaker 3: I love you so much, my little hus ponce. So, 1379 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,160 Speaker 3: first of all, let me tell y'all something, no gas, 1380 01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:49,120 Speaker 3: my friend is so talented it's crazy. 1381 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:50,040 Speaker 2: She's a songwriter. 1382 01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:53,400 Speaker 3: She's wrote for literally everybody, been in the studio with 1383 01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:56,080 Speaker 3: literally you name them. She's been in the studio with them, 1384 01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 3: wrote some tracks with them, like dead ass, no jokes. 1385 01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:02,960 Speaker 3: So I'm gonna do a throwback. Jury did the throwback 1386 01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,960 Speaker 3: last week, I'm gonna do a throw one so my 1387 01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:12,360 Speaker 3: friend you can find her on Apple Music and Chase 1388 01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:16,640 Speaker 3: c h a y Se And she had a song 1389 01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:19,000 Speaker 3: with Cam Wallace called give It a Wave. 1390 01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:21,600 Speaker 2: And it's such a good song. And when I tell. 1391 01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:24,480 Speaker 3: Y'all her lyrics, they just flow so beautifully and her 1392 01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:28,080 Speaker 3: voice is so soft and soothing. It's just a really 1393 01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:31,440 Speaker 3: good like I love you, I'm trying to fuck with you, 1394 01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:32,560 Speaker 3: like we're gonna wave. 1395 01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:33,840 Speaker 2: We're on a vibe together. 1396 01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:36,160 Speaker 3: It's like a vibe song like whenever you chilling with 1397 01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:38,560 Speaker 3: your nigga, y'all smoking, drinking. 1398 01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:41,600 Speaker 2: It is such a good vibee y'all gotta go listen 1399 01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:41,800 Speaker 2: to you. 1400 01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:45,080 Speaker 3: No like. Lauren's voice is so like literally, I get 1401 01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:46,240 Speaker 3: a most Lauren fine. 1402 01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:49,240 Speaker 2: Lauren is fine. Let me take y'all something. Lauren is 1403 01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:50,520 Speaker 2: so fine she is. 1404 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 3: It's so talented. The talent is crazy like her pen game. 1405 01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:59,760 Speaker 3: Nobody's fucking with her seriously. So I'm trying to convince 1406 01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:00,920 Speaker 3: her to that Atlanta right now. 1407 01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:02,000 Speaker 2: Come on, Lauren. 1408 01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:05,640 Speaker 3: If y'all see me ever see me at Lauren, just comment, Hey, 1409 01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:10,040 Speaker 3: Lauren moves Atlanta. So my bop of the week is 1410 01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:14,280 Speaker 3: give it Away by Chase and Cam Wallace. 1411 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:17,160 Speaker 2: My bop of the week is by Johim. 1412 01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:21,680 Speaker 3: I want to put that woman first, not put that 1413 01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:31,920 Speaker 3: woman first, bitch, Jahim Johi, what what girl, Jahim Johi? 1414 01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:40,080 Speaker 2: Fucky can we delete that? Sorry? Okay? 1415 01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:43,680 Speaker 3: Anyway, So John Cast was over here the other day, 1416 01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:45,480 Speaker 3: shout out, little cast Cast. 1417 01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:48,040 Speaker 2: So Cans is over here the other day. 1418 01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:50,040 Speaker 3: We were listening to a throwback R and B play 1419 01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:53,320 Speaker 3: Least and that song with him and next you can have. 1420 01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:59,280 Speaker 2: Wait wait, stop stop stop. Okay, let me shout out. 1421 01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:02,920 Speaker 2: Let me shout out a little draft for finally having 1422 01:07:03,000 --> 01:07:07,320 Speaker 2: a good bop of the withe y'all. I cannot believe 1423 01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:23,400 Speaker 2: it's the while the slander, No, no, no, no, have 1424 01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:32,120 Speaker 2: you calla you can even singing it out a song go? 1425 01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:35,440 Speaker 2: You was not Aposta freestyl it. 1426 01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:38,440 Speaker 3: You was supposed to sing it as is you always 1427 01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:40,120 Speaker 3: trying to remix some ship beach. 1428 01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:44,320 Speaker 2: I'm sorry to you. That was such a good song anyway. 1429 01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:47,000 Speaker 3: So yes, we were listening to that song. I was like, damn, 1430 01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:50,160 Speaker 3: it's a good ass song. So Cans was like, you 1431 01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:53,400 Speaker 3: wouldn't let Jahines fuck Jahim k fucks, I can't gonna 1432 01:07:53,440 --> 01:08:00,959 Speaker 3: get you're not letting jahines fuck no, because he drive Uber, 1433 01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:04,080 Speaker 3: which is also the reason why I wanted to show 1434 01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:06,400 Speaker 3: and driving. But that's why I wanted to I didn't 1435 01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:10,160 Speaker 3: say that it was I'm saying that's why I wanted 1436 01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:15,280 Speaker 3: to show him some love and give him some more extremes. 1437 01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:18,040 Speaker 2: Oh okay, she started holding her nose. 1438 01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:20,519 Speaker 3: But yes, that's why I wanted to shout out that 1439 01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:22,760 Speaker 3: song because not only was it about but then when 1440 01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:24,320 Speaker 3: I found out that he drives. 1441 01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:27,599 Speaker 2: Ober, now I was like, make money though no I know, 1442 01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:30,120 Speaker 2: but he ain't making as much money as he was 1443 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:32,120 Speaker 2: making men obs. 1444 01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:42,160 Speaker 3: I'm gonna send you to Lenk Banita sent it to me. 1445 01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:44,760 Speaker 3: That's what y'ay. Okay, that's the Bob of the week. 1446 01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:49,080 Speaker 3: Dr Cousin is here, so shout out to draft Cousin. 1447 01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:50,880 Speaker 2: She's a fool. 1448 01:08:51,640 --> 01:09:01,080 Speaker 6: She has a YouTube, so we're laughing, but y'all please 1449 01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:02,559 Speaker 6: make she gotta check out her YouTube. 1450 01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:04,160 Speaker 2: She's actually very very smart. 1451 01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:08,760 Speaker 3: She is, and it's called black Span B B l 1452 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:12,880 Speaker 3: A q U E fan p A N. 1453 01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:15,519 Speaker 2: Please y'all make sure y'all check and let me tell y'all. 1454 01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:16,920 Speaker 3: Let me tell ya what it is before It's like 1455 01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:19,960 Speaker 3: if you're like woke and you like history and you 1456 01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:22,000 Speaker 3: want to really know what's going on with ship. She 1457 01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:25,920 Speaker 3: is really smart, Like, no, she is. I'm not. I'm 1458 01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,200 Speaker 3: not as smart as her. I always like to be 1459 01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:30,720 Speaker 3: around people who can teach me. Yeah, so if you 1460 01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:33,160 Speaker 3: ever really want to like talk about some serious times, 1461 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:37,320 Speaker 3: get informed on things, but also from like a real 1462 01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:41,240 Speaker 3: bitch for perspective of like you'll, you'll you'll enjoy her channel. 1463 01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:44,519 Speaker 3: But yes, back to Johim, shout out to Benita. But yes, 1464 01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:48,200 Speaker 3: I found out Johen drowns uber. It's not nothing wrong 1465 01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:49,840 Speaker 3: with that, but I feel like I needed to show 1466 01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:52,160 Speaker 3: him some love. Yeah, so show up to joh so 1467 01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:54,360 Speaker 3: shout out to Jahen but he said he's happy doing it. 1468 01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:55,920 Speaker 3: But he about to joke bake in the studio. 1469 01:09:56,240 --> 01:09:58,720 Speaker 2: It ain't wrong with it. So yeah, so that's my 1470 01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:00,680 Speaker 2: bip of the week. So shout out to y'all. 1471 01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:03,280 Speaker 3: He always y'all know what the item of the week 1472 01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,200 Speaker 3: is willing to be European wax Center. It's about to 1473 01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:10,320 Speaker 3: get warm, y'all, weather going up, So go get y'all's 1474 01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:14,120 Speaker 3: wax time. The hall is about to be out. Oh 1475 01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:17,240 Speaker 3: so wait, I wait, I got so shout out. Okay, 1476 01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:18,000 Speaker 3: let me finish this. 1477 01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:22,559 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, European Wax Center, how mail location, Edgewood location. 1478 01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:26,240 Speaker 3: Make sure that y'all mention wine down Wednesday, drell or 1479 01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:28,759 Speaker 3: Lex and you'll get a discount on services and products. 1480 01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:33,000 Speaker 3: That's for all of our Atlanta people. Now, I have 1481 01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:37,720 Speaker 3: found somebody who's gonna give y'all discounts in Houston. You have, yes, 1482 01:10:37,760 --> 01:10:39,400 Speaker 3: But I don't want to speak on together because I 1483 01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:42,920 Speaker 3: haven't personally gotten wax by her. Okay, So I'm coming 1484 01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:45,120 Speaker 3: home in a few weeks and I'm gonna get waxed 1485 01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 3: by her, and I'm. 1486 01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:47,720 Speaker 2: Gonna see how the experience is. 1487 01:10:47,840 --> 01:10:50,479 Speaker 3: But I just want to let my Houston listeners know 1488 01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:53,519 Speaker 3: I am working on something for y'all to make sure 1489 01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:54,960 Speaker 3: that y'all are taking care of because I know a 1490 01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:57,360 Speaker 3: lot of our listeners are in Houston, so we are 1491 01:10:57,439 --> 01:10:58,360 Speaker 3: looking out for y'all. 1492 01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:03,000 Speaker 2: So please just stay so on and I'm gonna hook 1493 01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:04,320 Speaker 2: y'all up, all right, all. 1494 01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:06,639 Speaker 3: Right, So autum of a week, European back Center in Atlanta, 1495 01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:10,040 Speaker 3: go get y'all waxes and get hooked. Yes, amen, So 1496 01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:13,000 Speaker 3: anything else you got to add little Drayer. You know, 1497 01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:16,120 Speaker 3: you know I'm working on some things. I do have 1498 01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:18,080 Speaker 3: some things coming very very soon. 1499 01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:21,280 Speaker 2: I know that you have. You probably have an announced me. 1500 01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:26,360 Speaker 3: I do so indificial Love leg I know, y'all. Okay, 1501 01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:31,240 Speaker 3: Love lex P is dropping on Friday. It's my lifestyle block. 1502 01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:33,160 Speaker 3: I've been talking about it for a couple of weeks. Now, 1503 01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:35,200 Speaker 3: I know, y'all, like, what the fuck is just a blog? 1504 01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:37,360 Speaker 3: Why does it take so long to launch? The reason 1505 01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:39,200 Speaker 3: it's been taking so long to lunch because I've been 1506 01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:41,880 Speaker 3: very hands on with this, Like I got a web 1507 01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:43,800 Speaker 3: developer for it, and we're just trying to make sure 1508 01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:47,200 Speaker 3: the sight right easily accessible for all your phones, for 1509 01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:49,320 Speaker 3: your computer. And I just want it to be something different. 1510 01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:52,280 Speaker 3: And this is something that's very personal me. Right, every 1511 01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:54,840 Speaker 3: time I do something, I'm touching everything. I'm not just 1512 01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:58,080 Speaker 3: throwing something together. This is something that's very that I've 1513 01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:00,760 Speaker 3: been want to do for a long and so I 1514 01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:02,639 Speaker 3: just want to make sure I'll do it right for y'all. 1515 01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:09,160 Speaker 3: I don't know if I should announce. Maybe no, I 1516 01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:14,160 Speaker 3: think you're just gonna drop. You're gonna just drop, Okay, Well, 1517 01:12:14,240 --> 01:12:16,760 Speaker 3: let me say this. They're coming though, there's something that's 1518 01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:19,680 Speaker 3: going along with Love Lexpa that y'all gonna be so 1519 01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:23,639 Speaker 3: excited about. And so yeah, just stay tuned. Love lex 1520 01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:26,519 Speaker 3: P is dropping Friday. Make sure y'all subscribe. Go to 1521 01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:32,080 Speaker 3: www dot lovelexp dot com and subscribe. Subscribe, y'all met 1522 01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:37,040 Speaker 3: a mother fucking subscribe. Make sure y'all subscribe to my 1523 01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:40,200 Speaker 3: girl Bloge and I do have a blog coming soon 1524 01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:40,880 Speaker 3: as well. 1525 01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:43,519 Speaker 2: So yeah, and we probably you know you. 1526 01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:48,360 Speaker 3: Together and say, I know y'all been asking we are 1527 01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:49,439 Speaker 3: coming back to YouTube. 1528 01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:51,320 Speaker 2: I broke my camera and. 1529 01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:55,439 Speaker 3: I'm getting it fixed right now, so trust me when 1530 01:12:55,479 --> 01:12:57,320 Speaker 3: I say we're coming back to YouTube in a very 1531 01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,479 Speaker 3: big way because we know y'all loves to see us 1532 01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:01,360 Speaker 3: set have mercy. 1533 01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:04,759 Speaker 2: So yeah, shout out to all of y'all. We love y'all. 1534 01:13:05,000 --> 01:13:12,040 Speaker 2: And check out black Span on YouTube. Even though we 1535 01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:19,800 Speaker 2: already said, we gonna say it again, say what you 1536 01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:20,439 Speaker 2: got to say? 1537 01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:24,280 Speaker 3: I mean to be intrusive, but black Span bell like 1538 01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:27,640 Speaker 3: qu eat with the asterisk in the span because if 1539 01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:29,400 Speaker 3: they don't look it up with the asterisk. 1540 01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:30,880 Speaker 2: It won't come up. You're type that though. 1541 01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:32,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, you just hold down the E and it's the 1542 01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:35,200 Speaker 3: second option with the extra. 1543 01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:41,200 Speaker 2: Black span with an asterisk over the sorry out. 1544 01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:44,479 Speaker 3: So yeah, shout out to y'all. We have a bonus 1545 01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:46,679 Speaker 3: episode coming and we do. I know we've been slacken, 1546 01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:48,160 Speaker 3: but we about to get back. Were about to get 1547 01:13:48,200 --> 01:13:51,560 Speaker 3: back on it. Oh and we have another announcement for 1548 01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:55,320 Speaker 3: one down Wins. Okay, that's coming very very soon. You're 1549 01:13:55,360 --> 01:13:57,000 Speaker 3: not gonna announce it, but I'm just trying to get 1550 01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:57,719 Speaker 3: the people prepared. 1551 01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:00,720 Speaker 2: No, y'all need to be. It's like to get real. No, 1552 01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:02,320 Speaker 2: but this is actually a big change. 1553 01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 3: It is. 1554 01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:04,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a really big change. 1555 01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:07,559 Speaker 3: So I just wanted y'all to let me tell you something. 1556 01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:09,479 Speaker 3: It's a really big change that's coming. But y'all just 1557 01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:12,479 Speaker 3: nothing as far as us is gonna change. Yeah, it's 1558 01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:16,400 Speaker 3: a big change. Never be me Andrea, nothing like that. 1559 01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:19,160 Speaker 3: But I just need y'all sticking in with us, hang 1560 01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:21,760 Speaker 3: in there, love us and rock with us. 1561 01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:24,240 Speaker 2: And we appreciate y'all. And we're about to take it 1562 01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:28,320 Speaker 2: to the moon, take it to the sun. We're gonna 1563 01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:34,679 Speaker 2: take it to the moon and take it to the store. Yah, 1564 01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:39,160 Speaker 2: and I can finally have my mom. I'm sorry, happy. 1565 01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:41,800 Speaker 3: By y'all. 1566 01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:42,880 Speaker 2: Bye,