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That's the prize 20 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: in the showdown if you can stap for eighteen game 21 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: win streak beater in five pop culture questions. Bellahmins here 22 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: on the phone and the checks say five, five, five, nine, 23 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: one one oh three five. I'm doing radio Olympic like gymnastics, 24 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: now Olympics, because I have to use my other computer 25 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: to look at the internet. Now, well, the internet works, 26 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: the email doesn't work. What is it? 27 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 2: Net? 28 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: What is it? 29 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 3: You know? 30 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: You take away the control buttons and then you take 31 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: away that sometimes you take away the ability to go 32 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: on the air, and now you take it away. Uh outlook, 33 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: how much what are we just supposed to do? Now? 34 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 1: Write everything down? 35 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 4: Well, how did our ancestors do it? 36 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 5: I don't care radio an, I don't care, right, I 37 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 5: think about that all the time. 38 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: Actually, first, you know they did they have newspapers and 39 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: they had I don't know, someone had to sit there 40 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: and read them all. 41 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 4: Bella, get on it. 42 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, reading the newspaper. How many clippings? Right, yeah, go 43 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: find some newspapers and then start clipping things out and 44 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: handing them to me. 45 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 6: She's on Amazon right now. 46 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: We'll have it by tomorrow. So tomorrow's news. Today's news 47 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: is tomorrow is what we're doing. This hour will get 48 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: headlines maybe, I mean, I have them here somewhere if 49 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: I can, like, I'll I'll just read them to you 50 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 1: like this. I mean, good lord, the entertainment reports coming 51 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: up blogs this hour, stay or go and waiting at 52 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: the phone. Of course, why did somebody get ghost? So 53 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: what are you working on? 54 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 4: K machine Gun? 55 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 7: Kelly finally responds to those rumors that he dated Sydney 56 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 7: Sweeney also t S twelve. 57 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 4: That's it, that's the sweet. 58 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: So they announced that she's going on the podcast. Is 59 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: what happened last night? But we knew that because we 60 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: saw the silhouette and then there's an album coming. That's 61 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: what we learned. 62 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, okay. 63 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: I woke up this morning and it was like, oh, 64 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: I thought we knew a lot of well we were guessing. 65 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 1: I guess we didn't know a lot of this. We 66 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: were guessing a lot of those. Yeah, okay, I'm learning 67 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: yeah this morning, and then I saw this morning that 68 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: radio shows were posting about it, and it's like, well, 69 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 1: happened yesterday? Oh yeah, like yeah, I mean, I don't know. 70 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 1: That's still one could have been I don't know, it 71 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: could have been Rosy o'donald. I wasn't sure. I thought 72 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: maybe they're having Rosio o'donald on the show. Anyway, So 73 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: let's do Moraley Monday on a Tuesday, shall we. A 74 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: husband is uncomfortable with his wife's sister seemingly having a 75 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: front row seat to every flaw that he has in 76 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: his marriage. So a thirty eight year old man wins 77 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: to Reddit and this was then published by People magazine. 78 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: So People Magazine is now, next time you get mad 79 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: at me for pulling stuff off of Reddit and saying 80 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: that I pull it off of Reddit, why don't you 81 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: call the people a People magazine call the people at 82 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: People Okay, and ask him. But that's what they're up 83 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: to now. But apparently this guy's upset because his thirty 84 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: five year old spouse has been sharing every argument that 85 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: they have, big or small with their sibling whenever he's 86 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: not around to defend himself. We're not constantly fighting or anything, 87 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: but like any couple, we have our moments, stuff like 88 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: me forgetting to take out the trash, getting the wrong 89 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: cereal or or whatever, spacing out during conversation when she's talking. 90 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: Her sister used to be super warm with me, but 91 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: lately she's been cold, even passive aggressive. And he didn't 92 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: click until I realized that she's been getting a running 93 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: commentary of our marriage from my wife's side only. So 94 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 1: he asked if she could keep his private life their 95 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: private life between the two of them. I wasn't yelling 96 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: or accusing. I was just trying to express how it 97 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: feels to be seen as the bad guy over minor 98 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: stuff that gets retold out of context. She said that 99 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: I was trying to isolate her and being controlling. So 100 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: the question is how much can you share about your 101 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: relationship with other people outside of your relationship, because I 102 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 1: feel like, no matter what you do, you're going to 103 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: share your perspective. You know, it's very rare. It's very 104 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: rare that any of my friends call me to tell 105 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: me something that's happening in their relationship and they start with, well, 106 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 1: here's what I did wrong. To be honest, you know, 107 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: it'll be like, oh my god, this is what happened, 108 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 1: and it's from there right so, and that's that's the 109 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: perspective that I always hear because I'm usually closer with 110 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: one than the other. I've been in situation where I 111 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: get to hear both perspective because I'm close with both 112 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: of them. But the truth is, you're going to tell 113 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: things from your perspective. You're going to tell things with 114 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 1: your viewpoint and your emotion, and then you may resolve 115 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: those things quickly, potentially, and then the person who you 116 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: told will never not have that perspective. They'll never not 117 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: know those things right. That's right, and it's probably going 118 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 1: to change the way that they look at the other person, 119 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: at least temporarily. So is it fair? Eight five, five, five, nine, one, 120 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 1: one oh three five context the same number? I'm curious, 121 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: and how do you handle this? Is it fair in 122 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: your relationship to be really getting into the nitty gritty 123 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: of what's happening with other people who also know the 124 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: person on the flip side? Who are you supposed to 125 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 1: talk to? Like, who are you supposed to end to? 126 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: You know what I say say it? I might know 127 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: what you say, but I don't know everybody knows what 128 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: you say. 129 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 5: But because I just feel like in a relationship, you 130 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 5: cannot tell your friends and family everything that's happening in 131 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 5: your relationship every single moment because for me, like my 132 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 5: brothers don't tell me anything because to me, they can't 133 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 5: do no wrong. So and then when I know that 134 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 5: someone has wronged them, I never forgive the person is 135 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 5: I'm always thinking about that, and they know that about 136 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 5: their sisters, so they just spare me. Because in relationship 137 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 5: you're gonna have ups and downs. You're gonna forgive your 138 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 5: spouse in fifteen minutes, I'm thinking I got beef with 139 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 5: them forever, you know, So like you can't tell you 140 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 5: can't tell your sibling everything, You can't tell your your 141 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 5: mother everything that's happening in your relationship because they never 142 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 5: forget that. 143 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there's certain people that will be unforgiving 144 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: forever no matter what. Yeah, and they're always gonna take 145 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: your side mm hm. And so there's almost no chance. Yeah, 146 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: but that But again, then where are you supposed to go, 147 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 1: Like if you can't go to your friends, and you 148 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 1: can't go to your. 149 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 6: Family lady to relate the therapist. 150 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 1: Which one yes yes and no Paully chat GPT is 151 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: not you can't do it. I go, but it's already 152 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: been determined that you shouldn't do that. Because it doesn't. 153 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 8: I have nowhere else left to go because I and 154 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 8: the girls. 155 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 6: Who tells my friends? 156 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 8: Right, But the thing is like mine is it's lighthearted, right, 157 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 8: And I tell Caylen all the time and she's like, you. 158 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 4: Guys roast each other. 159 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 8: It's true, like my husband and I do, and like 160 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 8: that's our relationship. But if things ever get tough tough 161 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 8: like and sometimes they do, I will threaten Hobby like 162 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 8: I'm gonna tell your parents, Like that's just what I do. 163 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 4: I'm better call my mom right now. 164 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 8: And he told me share it to my face, like 165 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 8: if you get our families involved, like this isn't going 166 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 8: to be good. Like's not a threat, it's just like 167 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 8: warning me, Like that's not a good idea because with me, 168 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 8: I'm a child to get to like tell me thinks 169 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 8: step by step here and that's what he's. 170 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 4: Trying to do. 171 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,559 Speaker 8: And I have taken the phone, you know, and gently 172 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 8: placed it down because I'm like, I don't want to 173 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 8: make a mistake. But there's moments where I'm like, well, 174 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 8: I need to turn to somebody. I want to go 175 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 8: somewhere I do, and his. 176 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:49,239 Speaker 1: Mom is probably not that. 177 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 4: No, no, I mean that strategic it is. 178 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: You're going to her because that that will sting him, 179 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: because he loves her and respects her opinion. And it's 180 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: essentially like a child telling on telling on someone. 181 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 4: I turned into a snitch. 182 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 6: I know. 183 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 8: I haven't done that in a very long time, a 184 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 8: very long time, but I do one of my best friend. 185 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 8: But then I've noticed this. This is the tricky part. 186 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 8: And he does this often. He'll turn things and kind 187 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 8: of be like in the future, he'll be like, oh, yeah, 188 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 8: but you know, it's probably still doing this a whole 189 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 8: and it's like that, like why are you turning that 190 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 8: against me? 191 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 4: Or like why are you using that? Is that supposed 192 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 4: to be like funny? 193 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 6: You know what I mean? I don't know. 194 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 4: I don't I don't like that. 195 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 6: So I don't like one of my friends no more. 196 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: Kelly says, So she shouldn't be sharing with anybody. Kelly, Yes, yes, 197 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: you know. Hi, you're Kelly. You shouldn't be sharing with anyone. 198 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 3: You're saying, yes, I believe so from my experience, maybe 199 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 3: accept a therapist. It just it's to me, it's like 200 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 3: scapegoing and talking about the other person. I can get 201 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 3: around to the other person and it just hurts people. 202 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: I think parents should be excluded. I mean best friends, 203 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: best friends. I feel like you should be able touch 204 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: to your best friends, and they should be able to 205 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: moderate between you know, what you're telling me and then 206 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:10,599 Speaker 1: how they act around the other person. I guess I 207 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: really don't know where you're Where are you supposed to 208 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: go a therapist only, Kelly, I gotta go find a 209 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: therapist now. 210 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 3: I actually I can change my mind. I do change 211 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 3: my mind. I do agree. 212 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 2: I do from my own personal experience. 213 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 3: I do have a best friend to talk to, but 214 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't talk to many people. 215 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so don't be talking unless it's the best friend. 216 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: Kelly says. That's okay, Kelly, Kelly, you're allowed to You're 217 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 1: allowed to be moved by somebody with this show. Thank you, Kelly. 218 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: Have a good day, Kelly is right. Let you call Okay? Sure, 219 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 1: I love you, Kelly. I love you, Kelly. But when 220 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: you you gotta talk, Okay, when you call this show, 221 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: we gotta it's a dialogue, you know what I'm saying, Like, 222 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 1: we gotta, we gotta go back. And I love that 223 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: it's early, Okay, you know it's it's a fluid argument. 224 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: Hey Vanessa, good morning. 225 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 9: Good morning. 226 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: I Vanessa, So the sister is the problem. 227 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 10: You're saying yes, because you have to be able to 228 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 10: talk to your family and especially with your sister if 229 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 10: you're really close like me, I'm really close with my sister, 230 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 10: So if she can't tell me stuff about her marriage, 231 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 10: you have to be able to differentiate and understand that 232 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 10: your sister can also be the problem, you know, like 233 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,839 Speaker 10: it's not necessarily him the bad guy, but she should 234 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 10: be able to vent and that the sister can't distinguish 235 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 10: between you know, her relationship, you know, not always being 236 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 10: about him being in the room, then that's on her. 237 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: Okay. So when someone tells you something about like like 238 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: a family member or or close friend about their significant other, 239 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: are you able to differentiate? Can you really just say, 240 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: like when you see in the next time, you forgot 241 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: about that awful thing that he supposedly did. 242 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 9: You don't necessarily forget. I mean from what it sounds 243 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 9: like though he hasn't really done anything care of old 244 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 9: I mean, it's just venting like any other you know 245 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 9: marriage heavier, you know, small little issue. So I mean 246 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 9: my brother in law, she does crap like that all 247 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 9: the time. But it's not like I hate him for 248 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 9: it or I'm going to give him a cold shoulder 249 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 9: for it, you know, right? 250 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: Right? Makes sense? Thank you have a good day, you too, 251 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 1: Glad you called. Yeah. I mean I've been a relationships 252 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: before where people they go to their friends and then 253 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: hang out with the friends and it's like they only 254 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 1: but you only heard what that You only heard what 255 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: she said, right, you know, and there's probably another side 256 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: to it, or or where you get into it with 257 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: somebody and then you know another that their their tribe 258 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 1: takes it out on you and it's like but but 259 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: I got into it with that person and that you 260 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: know that person has a role in this too, So 261 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 1: why why am I being punished by everybody? I mean, 262 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: I get that there's loyalty, but I mean, are you 263 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: if you're not able to discern that the person who 264 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: you care about could have also screwed up, then maybe 265 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 1: you shouldn't have an opinion, you know what I mean? Like, 266 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,079 Speaker 1: if if every thing is always somebody else's fault, then 267 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: that's that you're enabling the behavior and then that's not 268 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: good for that person. But maybe you don't care. Hey, Laura, 269 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 1: how you doing. 270 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 2: Hey, how are you Fred? 271 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 3: Good morning? 272 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. So this guy's upset because his wife 273 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 1: is going to his sister about every argument they have 274 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: in their relationship, and he feels like, now it's making 275 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: that awkward because she's getting a front roceipt from her 276 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: perspective about the relationship. But he's asking her to stop 277 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: going to his sister about everything because he wants, you know, 278 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,079 Speaker 1: I guess he wants to be respected in the family, 279 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: and she's saying that's controlling. What do you think. 280 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 2: I think there's got to be a fine line, because 281 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,839 Speaker 2: there's that boundary level, like you guys were talking about. 282 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 2: I feel like I know in my own marriage, there's 283 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 2: things I go to my friends about, things I go 284 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 2: to my fail me about. But then there's also something 285 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 2: I think you just kind of save for, like a therapist, 286 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 2: because it's more of a neutral party. And then you 287 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 2: don't want those people close to you to kind of 288 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 2: have a preconceived notion like why are you still in 289 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 2: that relationship if it's so negative or if this is 290 00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 2: going on. I think there's certain things you kind of 291 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 2: have to to keep private and remain sacred because I 292 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 2: don't want my friends and jail me to have a 293 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 2: preconceived notion like oh my gosh, this is detrimental to 294 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 2: your relationship, or why are you still with this person 295 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 2: if it's so terrible, or you're dealing with these things. 296 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 2: So I think there has to be like kind of 297 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 2: a neutral party too that you refer to if you 298 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 2: really need to. 299 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: Have vent Yes, because yeah, also, you know, to your point, 300 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: if you're talking to your friends about how terrible the 301 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 1: person is who you're with and then you decide to 302 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: forgive them, or maybe you overplayed it, or maybe you 303 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:30,839 Speaker 1: were just venting and you were telling, you know, a 304 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,679 Speaker 1: more dramatic version of the story. Now you've got it backtracked, 305 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: because now people are gonna start to think something about 306 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 1: you because it's like, oh, you took that person back. 307 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: I thought they were the worst person ever. Well, it 308 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: wasn't that bad. The wait a minute, what story was it? 309 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 6: Exactly? 310 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: What did was it with the two strippers or no strippers? 311 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 3: Like? 312 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 1: What happened? Thank you, Laura, I have a good day. 313 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 2: You're welcome to have a great day. 314 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 1: What happened to the strippers? I don't know. I guess 315 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: I got the story wrong. It wasn't strippers. It turned 316 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 1: out he was just that the doctor was a nurse. 317 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 1: It was a real nurse. It was dressed like a nurse. 318 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: But biggest stories of the day. Yeah, I think this 319 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,839 Speaker 1: would be this way in my family too. Someone texted 320 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 1: seven o eight. My family just assumes I'm the problem. Yeah, 321 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: so that's what it would be most of the time 322 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: in my family, I think, especially if they really like 323 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 1: the person, like God forbid the day. Honestly, you would 324 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: think I would be dreaming for the day that I 325 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: meet someone that my family just adores. God forbid the day, 326 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: because then I'm done, Like I'm cooked, it's over. I'll 327 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: never win an argument, I'll never be right about anything, 328 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: and if I screw it up, it'll be that I 329 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: That'll be the narrative. It couldn't possibly be but about 330 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: the strippers again, the same strippers. Mom, It was the 331 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: same strippers it except with her this time. It will never, ever, 332 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: ever not be my fault when that happens. Yeah, I'm 333 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: probably run here too. God forbid you guys fall in 334 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: love with someone that I did. It's over. It's over. 335 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm done. Nah, That's all I need is one, two three, 336 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: Well Jason four my sister and my mom. Five six 337 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: women ganging up on me. That's all I need. I've 338 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: already got, I've already got well, I've already got that 339 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: a lot for a lot, it would be seven with 340 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 1: her too. Guys, you want to know in headlines what 341 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: the Farmers Almanac says about the winter? Do we believe 342 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: the Farmers Almanac? Do we know if the Farmer's Almanac? 343 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: Can you look? Can you google? Or ask your friend 344 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: Chad Gptam how often the Farmer's Almanac is correct? Because 345 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: I feel like we do this story every year around 346 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: this time. Here's what to expect for the winter, and 347 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: then it's usually not as bad. But the breakdown of 348 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: the Farmers Almanac twenty twenty five twenty six Winter forecast 349 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: by region. The Northeast and the Great Lakes frequent snowstorms 350 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 1: and widespread winter whiteouts. Mid January and mid February ring 351 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: especially frigid day's packed with consistent snowfall. Okay, northern plains 352 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: in New England brings for the coldest stretches of winter. 353 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 1: The Pacific Northwest, Idaho and Washington anticipate deep cold and 354 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: the heavy mountain snowfall. There's a theme here. Mid Atlantic 355 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: and the Appalachians Appalachian Mountains, snow will be frequent, especially 356 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 1: in the mountain zones, mixed with wet wintery patterns ew 357 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: that sounds gross. Midwest and Ohio Valley classic winter territory, 358 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: expect abundant snow across the Ohio Valley. Okay, so a 359 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: lot of snow. Southeast and south central including Texas wetter 360 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: than normal conditions with multiple cold rain events and occasional 361 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: freezing precipitation, and the Southwest a wet winter lies ahead. 362 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: So if it doesn't snow where you are, it'll be rainy. 363 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: And if it snow, is just going to snow a lot. 364 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: According to this is it's it's winter and it's going 365 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: to snow. It's all here. 366 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 8: It's given eighty percent accurate. That's pretty good eighty percent, 367 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 8: I think. 368 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: But I feel like every single year it's the worst 369 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: winter ever's coming, and then. 370 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 6: It is you guys, snows coming. Yeah, I said, tell 371 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 6: me something new, Okay, is this you just body the farmers? 372 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 6: What is the farmers? I love our farmers. 373 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: I want to be a farmer. 374 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 11: But if you were to say, how is the winter 375 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 11: going to be able to have said snow, and I 376 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 11: go to wrote all of what. 377 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: You just extraordinarily bad. We've had a few, like in Chicago, 378 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 1: We've had a few random days. But I remember I 379 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 1: first moved here, what fifteen years and fourteen years ago, 380 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: I moved here and within like two weeks we had 381 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 1: the biggest snow freezing event that had happened in like 382 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 1: years or something. It was like you just right, the 383 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: snow was just like the waves were frozen on, you know, 384 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 1: the lakes off the lake. And I remember thinking, what 385 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 1: have I done. I've been here for ten days, like 386 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: this is what this is what I'm up against. And 387 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 1: that was that was probably the worst day in the 388 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: last decade. I had a couple others since then, but 389 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: every year it's gonna be the worst ever. I don't 390 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 1: know if I believe it. I got two extremely surprising 391 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 1: stories for you in one really you might be shocked 392 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: by both. But AOL still has dial up internet. You 393 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 1: can still use dial up internet from America Online AOL. 394 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: The second part of the story that will shock you 395 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 1: is that it's going away for good. 396 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, you can we still do it. 397 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 11: We need that here. It might be more dependable, right now, 398 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,159 Speaker 11: I mean you should go. 399 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 1: If you go to my grand freend on here, go 400 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 1: to my instant story, you'll see what my day is 401 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 1: so far today it's an envelope going in and out, 402 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 1: in and out, in and out, in and out, up, down, updown, 403 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 1: in and out, and not in the kind of fun way. 404 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 1: The company, which is now part of Yahoo, quietly announced 405 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: the move on its website, and AOL says that they 406 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 1: routinely evaluated products and services and has decided to discontinue 407 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 1: dial up internet and move is effective on September thirtieth. 408 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: What are we going? How are we going to connect 409 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 1: to the satellites? Now? I have no idea. Do somebody 410 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:30,719 Speaker 1: get Greg on the phone. We're gonna have to come 411 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 1: up with something else. Maybe we go back to like 412 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: tinfoil or something. I'm not sure. Here's another tech story. 413 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to tech you mood today in headlights. Plus, 414 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about Taylor Swift because Canon's 415 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: going to do that. I don't want to talk about 416 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: Geelan Maxwell because well, and I don't want to, and 417 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,880 Speaker 1: so I want to talk about politics. So there, South 418 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: Korea Starbucks locations are banning cafe squatter practices, So I 419 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: guess cafe squatters. You know, people who go and sit 420 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 1: at Starbucks all day in work as if it's their 421 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 1: like shared office space. It's such a big problem in 422 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: South Korea that they're banning customers from and I'm being serious, 423 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 1: setting up desktop computers, printers and multi outlet power strips 424 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: at their stores. So people are going into Starbucks with 425 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: a tower and a monitor and a printer and the 426 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: shop and a power strip. I mean, I guess it's 427 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: bad enough if you sit there all day and you 428 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 1: mooch off the internet and you don't buy anything, But 429 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: if I wheel in there with a whole you know, 430 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: I mean. 431 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 6: We might need to do the show from there. 432 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:43,199 Speaker 1: Ye yeah, maybe not allowed to bring our equipment. I 433 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 1: can't bring my tower computer with me. The squatters also 434 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,679 Speaker 1: can't set up partitions or leave their stuff unattended for 435 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: long periods of time, so we're making little cubicles in 436 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:55,160 Speaker 1: there too. There are been many complaints about the people 437 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 1: taking up space there, and the company has taken action. 438 00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: Laptops will still be allowed, but you cannot stay old day. 439 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:05,120 Speaker 1: A twenty seven year old woman named Wicka has announced 440 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: her engagement to her AI chat bought fiance Casper after 441 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,679 Speaker 1: five months of virtual dating. She shared the news on 442 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: a Reddit with the post titled I Said Yes and 443 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 1: a photo of a blue heart shaped engagement ring. The 444 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: proposal was set in a picturesque mountain scene. Virtually, of course, 445 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,679 Speaker 1: I mean she was alone because well, say i. Wicka 446 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: insists that she's fully aware of what she's doing, knowing 447 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: exactly what AI is and what a parasocial relationship entails, 448 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 1: and says that she's mentally healthy, socially active, and comfortable 449 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 1: with her choice. Her bold move has sparked a heated 450 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 1: conversation online about the evolving boundaries of love and connection 451 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: in the age of AI. Now, Paulina, you you rely 452 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 1: on AI for a lot of things, captions for the show, 453 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: marital advice, all of it. Can you see a world 454 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: where that would be fulfilling enough for you, like where 455 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: you could just inter you just interact with AI. You're 456 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 1: just getting you just getting what you back what you 457 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 1: give it. 458 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 4: No, I need a human connection. I think we all 459 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 4: do as people. 460 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 8: I just think that I become more powerful because of Chat, 461 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 8: GPT and AI. Why because I'm able to come up 462 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 8: with new ideas that I might have never thought of. 463 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 4: Like it gives you ideas, it gives you the last. 464 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: Big idea the chat GPT period. I'd love to know 465 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 1: what is the last big idea the chat GPT contributed 466 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: to your life. 467 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 4: I mean, it's like she saves me time. Like I 468 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 4: wrote a caption yesterday. 469 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 8: Ry Ill was shouting somebody out on my Instagram and 470 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 8: I was like, Hey, this is who this person is 471 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 8: based on this graphic. I send it a graphic. Can 472 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 8: you give me a nice Instagram caption? And came back 473 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,640 Speaker 8: with a shout out to this person? That was amazing? 474 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 8: That a great caption. I was thank it was a 475 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,159 Speaker 8: wonderful caption and I didn't have to even think you guys, 476 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 8: And the best part is I didn't even think of 477 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 8: the things to say because Chad does it for you, 478 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 8: so I could focus. 479 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 4: On other things. She's like an assistant. 480 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, you gotta, you gotta really be nice to her. 481 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 4: I don't know what's wrong with thinking. 482 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 2: I don't know. 483 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 1: Who's tired? Do you have time? 484 00:21:58,480 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 6: I'm tired? 485 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,159 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. 486 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 4: I'd like to still think. 487 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 6: Yes, I don't want to. I've thought enough. 488 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 1: I mean, sometimes it would be nice to be heard 489 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:11,360 Speaker 1: without having to, you know, the cumbersome duty of having 490 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: to listen back Like that, that would be nice sometimes, 491 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: Like can you imagine a one time can you imagine 492 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: a relationship where all you do is like take. 493 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 4: I would hate that I'm a giver. That would make 494 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 4: me more of dunim jacket. 495 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: Well, I'm a giver too, but I mean in certain ways. 496 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,879 Speaker 1: But I mean sometimes it can be it can be 497 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,880 Speaker 1: mentally exhausting to have to take on other people's problems too, 498 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 1: Like I'm not here. I'm not here to save the world. 499 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,360 Speaker 1: I don't think I can you know what I mean? 500 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,639 Speaker 1: So I don't think everyone pouring out their stuff to me, 501 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean. If you're in a 502 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: relationship and you go home and your job is to 503 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 1: sort of absorb and and and you know, comfort another person, 504 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: and if someone's going through a really bad time, wouldn't 505 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: be nice to be like why don't you tell it 506 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 1: to Chad? Why don't you go talk to Chad? Like 507 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: nobody being in a relationship is it's a it's a 508 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 1: emotional obligation. It's and imagine if you imagine if you 509 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 1: could be in a relationship where you didn't have and 510 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: it's part of it and you have to do it, 511 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: and I understand that. But what I'm saying is, imagine 512 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: a world where you didn't have to do that, where 513 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,959 Speaker 1: you got the fulfillment of feeling like somebody cared for 514 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 1: you and somebody who's listening to you and somebody was 515 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: looking out for you, but you didn't have to do 516 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 1: it back. Now, I'm not suggesting that you should do 517 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: that in a in a real relationship, but this is 518 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: probably what that could be. Is I just I just 519 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: am heard and understood, and this person learns to understand me, 520 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 1: and then I don't even have to do anything. 521 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:37,680 Speaker 4: That's true after that'd be great. 522 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, we're kind of selling it rock on. 523 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,640 Speaker 1: I know, doesn't it doesn't sound all that bad because 524 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 1: I know people who just take on everybody's stuff and 525 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: then it's like this big burden for them. 526 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and it's like, well, well. 527 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: That's you know, how about how about we're gonna have 528 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: to take on the burden. 529 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, that'd be nice. Give it a chat. 530 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: Yes, you know, and I don't know, the technology is 531 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: such a maybe the other things could be possible too. 532 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean, you know, like what a robot? Right? 533 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know now that that's I won't think 534 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,160 Speaker 1: I could take it that far. 535 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 6: It could build a man. 536 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 1: But have you ever let me ask you, no, but seriously, 537 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,879 Speaker 1: have you ever wanted yes, have you ever had a 538 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: problem in your Okay, So we were just talking earlier 539 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 1: about you inventing to someone? Have you ever wanted to 540 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: vent to someone and then just hang up the phone 541 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: and then never have to address it again, Like will 542 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 1: I need to get this off my chest? So hey, 543 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: how you doing? But here it all is and then 544 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: be okay, that's it. And I don't I don't really 545 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: feel like right now having to do the thing where 546 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: you then tell me what's going on with you. Well, 547 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 1: that's what Chad GPT would offer for you. It's therapy, 548 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,200 Speaker 1: except therapy is expensive. 549 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 7: I like, ask my therapist about herself, Like, I'm very uncomfortable. 550 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know, does she answers? She's that's supposed to? 551 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I trick her, I get her. Oh yeah, that's 552 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,199 Speaker 4: it's it's like a waste because like I shouldn't be 553 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 4: doing that. 554 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: No, And this is just I'd like to finish the 555 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: headlines biggest stories of the day with one of the 556 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: most romantic stories I've ever heard. A guy steals twenty 557 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 1: one million dollars worth of lunar rocks from NASA to 558 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 1: use during set after promising his girlfriend the moon. What Yeah, 559 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 1: he got in trouble for literally promising his girlfriend the moon. 560 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 1: NASA intern Fad his name is Thad Fad Roberts. He 561 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: related he stole twenty one million dollars in moon rocks 562 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 1: from the Johnson Space Center to quote give his girlfriend 563 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: the moon. Roberts and two accomploses broke into the secure vault, 564 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:25,800 Speaker 1: took Apollo lunar samples and a Martian meteorite, and then 565 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 1: scattered the rocks on a hotel bed to have sex 566 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 1: on top of them. The group was caught. The group 567 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,719 Speaker 1: was caught in an FBI stated, I don't know if 568 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,680 Speaker 1: they were all involved, but the samples, once exposed, were 569 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 1: ruined for research. Roberts is going to serve more than 570 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:44,680 Speaker 1: six years in prison for this. Apparently. What long I 571 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 1: mean now which she said take me to the moon? 572 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: I don't I think she was hoping for something else. 573 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: I don't think she literally wanted to have sex on 574 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 1: type of rocks. But no, well, no, National Middle Child Day, 575 00:25:55,920 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 1: National Vinyl Record Day's entertainment report is on the all 576 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,880 Speaker 1: of it. It's giving a skits and lies sometimes, Why 577 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: is my outlook still going in? 578 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 4: And it's been doing that for days? 579 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 7: I told kek like it was it's starting to mentally 580 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 7: like make me go insane because I feel like like 581 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 7: I'm doing something wrong. 582 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 4: And I'm like Kiki and she's like, check your cookies. 583 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 5: I'm over here, like refresh to cookie every browser, power 584 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 5: down and restart. 585 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 4: I'm lovedy. You're a large company. What are we doing? 586 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,120 Speaker 7: Maybe all right, let's move on to something low lighter, 587 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 7: shall we. 588 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 4: Taylor Swift will. 589 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 7: Be the surprise guest on the New Heights podcast, hosted 590 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 7: by her man Travis Kelcey and his brother Jason. They 591 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 7: posted a teaser yesterday morning of an outline of Taylor, 592 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 7: which we talked about on the show, then later a 593 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 7: very sweet video of Travis and Taylor before they recorded together, 594 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 7: and then lastly at twelve twelve Eastern, a teaser of 595 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 7: Taylor announcing her album The Life of a Showgirl, her 596 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 7: new album I should say t S twelve with the 597 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 7: cover being blurred out. 598 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 4: But if you're a Swiftie. 599 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 7: The second you saw that damn orange in the graphic 600 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 7: they blurred out, you knew what was coming. She has 601 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 7: been teasing this album since night one of the Era's tour. 602 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: It looked like to me, I thought it was gonna. 603 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 4: Be yeah with that curly on hair what I thought? Okay, yeah, well. 604 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 1: You thought for life, I thought it was going to 605 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 1: be Heights podcast. 606 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 4: Just waiting for the not guilty verdict. 607 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,199 Speaker 1: Don't you don't you put that on me? Don't you 608 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 1: put that on me? 609 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:26,400 Speaker 4: You were talking about Karen Reid. 610 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 7: However, I did just talk about Diddy, So it was 611 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:29,679 Speaker 7: it was ill timed, you know. 612 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: But I'm a Karen read I'm a bad girl for life, 613 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: I say, Karen, Oh dude, no, I know. 614 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 4: I was there too. It was we didn't go sometimes. 615 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 1: I wish I knew then what I know now, same 616 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: same tame thing. Yeah, well yeah, yeah. 617 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 7: For this things that I want to dissect this there's 618 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 7: the lover House and there's blacks out of it, and 619 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 7: there has been an orange square for literally years, and 620 00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 7: now we know it is the life of a show Girl. 621 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 7: We don't have a release date, but my little gut 622 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 7: is telling me that the clock on her website ending 623 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 7: at twelve twelve, aka the day before her birthday on 624 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 7: the thirteenth. 625 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:07,919 Speaker 4: Is a clue. 626 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 7: Okay, I'm yes, ma'am. 627 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:11,119 Speaker 6: Oh, you guys don't have to wait all. 628 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,640 Speaker 7: I don't know, but there's some sort of clue there 629 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:17,400 Speaker 7: because twelve twelve, twelve thirteen, not sure, but the New 630 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,400 Speaker 7: Heights episode drops tomorrow night at six or seven, depending 631 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 7: on where you are. Very sweet, and boy did she 632 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,400 Speaker 7: do a big one for those two. She's like, let 633 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 7: me give you the click and the downloads and the videos. 634 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 7: Let me just help you out real quick, your little podcast. 635 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 7: In a new interview with Vanity Fair, Jennifer Aniston talked 636 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 7: about a whole bunch of stuff, but I have some 637 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 7: highlights for you. So first, on that love triangle between herself, 638 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 7: Brad Pitt, and Angelina Joe Lee in two thousand and five, 639 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 7: she said it with such juicy reads for people, if 640 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 7: they didn't have their soap operas, they had their tabloids. 641 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 7: It's a shame that it had to happen, but it happened, 642 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 7: and BOYD did I take it personally. She even said 643 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 7: that she and Gwyneth Paltrow, who if you didn't know 644 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 7: dated bread Pit. 645 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 4: As well say they still gossip about him. She said, 646 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 4: how can we not, We're girls. 647 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 7: As for her bestie Matthew Perry, she said that she 648 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 7: and the Friends cast have been mentally mourning him for 649 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 7: a long time before his passing. She said his long 650 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 7: battle with addiction felt like a slow goodbye. She did 651 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 7: reflect on his death in October of twenty twenty three, 652 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 7: saying it was really painful, but there was solace in 653 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 7: knowing that he's finally free from suffering. She actually texted 654 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,479 Speaker 7: him on the day he passed, and he seemed happy, 655 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 7: healthy and committed to getting better, which is just heartbreaking. 656 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 7: And then she also talked about how Sandra Bullock talked 657 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 7: about with her that women in Hollywood would were discouraged 658 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 7: from being friends, being told no one wants the ladies 659 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 7: to be friends, which I think is so wild. That 660 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 7: was only fifteen years ago, but it was really ever 661 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 7: present at that time. You know, tabloids would pit women 662 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 7: together who wore it better, like a whole bunch of stuff. 663 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 7: And I guess behind the scenes they were also told 664 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 7: no one wants you guys to be friends. So I 665 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 7: thought that was pretty interesting. And then Lastly, for some reason, 666 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 7: Drake installed a payphone outside of his Canada mansion. I 667 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 7: don't know why, but he I. 668 00:29:58,040 --> 00:29:59,600 Speaker 1: Know, you could still get a pay phone in the 669 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 1: same white you know, you could still dial up to AOL. 670 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 3: Right. 671 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: What I'm doing this morning, trying to get the outlook 672 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: to work. 673 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 7: Let me know if you can get into your email, 674 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 7: because just again, it's just things we need for work, 675 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 7: you know, like these computers. 676 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 6: These things. 677 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: Oh, don't worry. The one on my phone works fine, 678 00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,239 Speaker 1: so they can always get to me. Okay, the one 679 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: I need here at the inn the radio studio that 680 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: doesn't work, don't worry about it. Make it sure you 681 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 1: too in the morning if they want to. 682 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're just trying to do our jobs. 683 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 7: By the way, if you want to elevate or make 684 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 7: it worse your listening experience, type Fred Show radio on YouTube. 685 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 4: You could see my Backstreet Boys shirt. What ha is 686 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 4: Kiki got? 687 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 7: Oh her Social Battery shirt which I love, So do 688 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 7: that on YouTube and we will be live through the 689 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 7: parts that we can be live. 690 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: Legally, yeah, because we don't pay licensing for you. 691 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 4: We can't afford it. 692 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 1: Paulina Gigi, your daughter two and a half one and 693 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 1: a half, one and a half. I can't keep all 694 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 1: these interest right. I got Shelley's kids, I got your kids, 695 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: I got my nieces, I got my illegitimate kids. Oh 696 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 1: you know, I got Kalin's kids aka her sister just 697 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: turned twenty one. That one. I know. We just talked 698 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, aka her sister. But whatever, I just 699 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep it all straight. I got my 700 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: other friend talking to her yesterday. She was offended that 701 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: I couldn't remember that her kids were months months apart 702 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: from Polly and May. I'm like, I can't, guys, I 703 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: don't have a spreadsheet. Okay, I'm trying to keep it 704 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 1: all straight. And then shoe sizes in this room and 705 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 1: all the other numbers I got to try and keep organized. 706 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: I can do. But in Gigi, and I'm proud of 707 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: her because she's she's cussing now and she you wrote that. 708 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: She's saying O. 709 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 6: S oh yeah. 710 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: My favorite part of this is that it's appropriately it's 711 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: appropriately timed in place, so she knows that, right, that's 712 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's why I'm so proud of her, 713 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: not that she's cussing, but not only she cussing, but 714 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 1: she's using it appropriately properly, not appropriately, but properly. 715 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 4: My girls so smart. 716 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 1: But what is the uh? Because I want to throw 717 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 1: this out there. I'm sure you guys can come up 718 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 1: with with things from your kids eight five five five 719 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 1: nine three five is the thing that you had to 720 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: get your kid to stop saying? Because you know in 721 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 1: this case it was it's os? So how does it 722 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 1: come up? Like so she hear she's heard you saying 723 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 1: or is Hobby to colprit. 724 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 8: No, No, it's me many of times because I just 725 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 8: I just say it and I didn't realize she understands, 726 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 8: like as far as picking up what I'm saying. 727 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 4: And she just started saying it one day and I 728 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:21,440 Speaker 4: was like, does she just say that? 729 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 8: And Hobby's like clear as day, And then he's getting 730 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 8: all mad at me, and I'm like, well, it's not 731 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 8: my fault, like I'm a little batty with a bad mouth, 732 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 8: Like I can't like help her walking around here just 733 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,280 Speaker 8: saying things. And then she has like her like a 734 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 8: new kitchen said that I got her and she's playing 735 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 8: whatever the pots and pans and it falls and she goes, 736 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 8: oh s girl, stop and she almost like slept going 737 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 8: up the stairs because I walk with her, hold her 738 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 8: fingers right, we're doing one, two, three, She like couldn't 739 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 8: get her a little foot up there, so she like 740 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,640 Speaker 8: kind of, you know, fel to the side a little 741 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 8: bit like her little body and she goes, oh s, 742 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 8: I'm like sucked. 743 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 1: But the problem is you want to laugh at that 744 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: because it's kind of cute and funny and the fact 745 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 1: that she knew this say that, and she learned that 746 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: from you, and she's doing it when she's supposed to 747 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 1: do it, you know what I mean. But I don't 748 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 1: mean you're not supposed to do it. But it's one 749 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: thing if a kid just says like I can remember 750 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 1: as like being really little insane words. I didn't know 751 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: what they meant. But like that's that's timing right. You know, 752 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 1: she's ho it. 753 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 6: She knows what she's saying, doesn't miss a beat. 754 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 4: She's so smart, you guys. But like I don't know how. 755 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 8: To make her stop because I'll say, Gigi, don't say 756 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 8: that and she laughs. She also doesn't get it right 757 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 8: because like she doesn't know what that means. Also does 758 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 8: she really she could really stop because I say stop, no, 759 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 8: say it's like an inside word. 760 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 7: I feel like you can tell her, like if I 761 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 7: don't know how you guys feel as parents, but I 762 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 7: think you could just say, like, we don't say that 763 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 7: outside of the house, because I think you might have 764 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 7: lost the battle now that she knows what, I. 765 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: Feel like you should probably not let her say in 766 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 1: the house either, because. 767 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 4: I don't know. I believe words are just words. 768 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 6: I think, just don't say that. 769 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: Unfortunately, the rest of the world doesn't think that. So 770 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 1: so she's gonna go to pre K and see that's right, 771 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 1: She's gonna be DRP. 772 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 7: That's like a new parenting thing though, Like people will say, 773 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 7: you can say it at home. 774 00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 5: They all, if you my little nephews on that video game, 775 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,640 Speaker 5: I'm talking on a little Whinny's aunts. 776 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 4: I'm I'm like, do y'all hear it? 777 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 6: And the parents just like listen, you know. 778 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: Because I think until like maybe I don't know, like 779 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: twenty one or something, I tried not to cuss in 780 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,440 Speaker 1: front of my parents, But now now I'm always cussing. 781 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,279 Speaker 1: I don't care, but I feel like I can't as 782 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: a parent. Like my parents. They had to try to 783 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 1: get me not to cuss, like it was like, you know, 784 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 1: they can't just they can't just they just can't be 785 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 1: just are just free for all? No, you know what 786 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 1: I mean? So, like I think you got to try 787 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: to get her to stop. 788 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,440 Speaker 4: I don't take it so personal. 789 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 8: Just is like a bad word. Like again, like Kaitlyn said, 790 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:34,760 Speaker 8: the words are words. I just don't want her saying 791 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 8: that to anybody. That's the problem though, is she's too 792 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 8: young to know. She's too young to know that she 793 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:41,680 Speaker 8: can say it here and not say it there. 794 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:42,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's hard. 795 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 1: Hey, Terrence, Terrence, what is it your kids starts saying this? 796 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,840 Speaker 1: You had to stop. It's like, where'd you learn that? 797 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 2: Both my kids they like to say what the s. 798 00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:01,239 Speaker 1: Like eleven and five? Okay a little early for that. 799 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 1: So they're just now that are they saying it when 800 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: they're supposed to say it, like when they're exasperated or 801 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 1: are they just saying it? 802 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 8: My daughter is a grown woman in a little girl's body, 803 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 8: so when she drops water, anything. 804 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 9: Breaks something, she'd like what what the he like? 805 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 6: What are you talking about? 806 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: So? So, Terrence, what do you do? 807 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 3: Like? 808 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,280 Speaker 1: You just know that you want to laugh right because 809 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,759 Speaker 1: it's funny. But like you probably don't want them doing 810 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 1: that at in a while. 811 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 3: You can't. 812 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 6: I can't, you can't, you can't, Like, how do you 813 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 6: correct something that like you created? 814 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 1: You created this? I know that you like what you say, Daddy, 815 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,360 Speaker 1: I know, but like if you laugh and then you 816 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 1: you sort of it's like you're sort of enabling it, right, 817 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: And then the problem is they go over to grandparents' 818 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 1: house and they go to school and then they get 819 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,239 Speaker 1: in trouble for it, and they learned it from you, 820 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 1: and you didn't tell them to stop. So now they're 821 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 1: gonna you know, it's like but you kind of set 822 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,759 Speaker 1: them up, not because maybe you don't care, but unfortunately 823 00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 1: the world cares. 824 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 4: Man, the world, what the EPP is the least of 825 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 4: my work? 826 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 1: That's a good point. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Is that 827 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 1: where we're headed. I'm gonna go to like an elementary 828 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,280 Speaker 1: school and it's gonna be like everyone just dropping F bomb. 829 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,840 Speaker 5: Something roelling you it's the new wave, and I mean 830 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 5: it's the new waves. 831 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,919 Speaker 1: Cursing out teachers, it's a new waves, the new wave. 832 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 5: These parents are just letting them ride. I used to 833 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 5: have to curse in private, Like you know. 834 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: I don't I am not approved but I don't think 835 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 1: that's a great idea. Everyone's so sensitive. I don't think 836 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: that's a great idea. Thank you, Terrence, have a good day. 837 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 1: Let me see here. My kids started calling their dead 838 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 1: babe because I do. That's kind of funny. Son of 839 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 1: a bee when something felt he's three. When my son 840 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,800 Speaker 1: was six or seven, he would call his sister uh 841 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 1: an adult toy that starts with a D. He had 842 00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:58,000 Speaker 1: no clue what it was. 843 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,080 Speaker 7: My sister called a kid a douche kabab because of 844 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:02,920 Speaker 7: me when she was little, and she got something for that. 845 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm twenty eight and I still don't cuss 846 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: around my mom. Maybe that's a topic in itself. It's like, 847 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 1: what are you as an adult? What are you still 848 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: afraid to do? Oh? 849 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:12,919 Speaker 10: Yeah. 850 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 1: I used to get my nana, who's like she was 851 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,560 Speaker 1: super Catholic in her like mid eighties. I used to 852 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 1: get her to cuss, and she really didn't want to 853 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 1: do it. I'd be like, Nana, say the F word, 854 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 1: and finally she'd do it, but she just kind of 855 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,839 Speaker 1: shake when she did it. It was like doesn't compute, you know, 856 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 1: Like what would Jesus think of this? I don't know. 857 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: I'm sure you let it go. Well, my daughter was one. 858 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:39,319 Speaker 1: She m a second. Yeah, basically, it's the S word. 859 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 1: I let my kids cuss when they were younger, as 860 00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 1: long as they were not used towards anyone, like calling 861 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 1: siblings the word. We tell our grandkids don't say that 862 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 1: that's a bad word. We don't scold them because they're 863 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,799 Speaker 1: repeating what they hear. We just let them know it's 864 00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 1: not a good word to say. 865 00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 6: It's good. 866 00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess. So there's one about Barney here where 867 00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 1: the Barney one go, I don't know, and then a 868 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:05,280 Speaker 1: bunch of people are validating the outlook doesn't work so good, okay, 869 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,239 Speaker 1: because I'd like to say a cuss word about that, 870 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:11,279 Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna like more thread show next right here,