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Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this

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Speaker 1: one right here, right now. You hear that, Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: hear it. Buckle up and hold on type We got it.

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Speaker 1: Fire you Strawberry Letter, Thank you, Tommy. Subject. I need

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Speaker 1: my wife to reinstate my Hall pass to Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty eight year old married man. I've been

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Speaker 1: married for two years and it's been a rocky two

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Speaker 1: years so far. Right after I married my wife, she

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Speaker 1: cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. I suspected something

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Speaker 1: was going on all along, and she finally did admit

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Speaker 1: it to me, but she said she was drunk and

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Speaker 1: it only happened once. I forgave her eventually, and we're

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Speaker 1: still together. After it happened, my wife said she felt terrible,

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Speaker 1: and she told me there was only one way to

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Speaker 1: make things even. So she offered me a quote Hall pass,

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Speaker 1: which allowed me to have sex with one person outside

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Speaker 1: of our marriage. I didn't have to tell her who

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Speaker 1: it was or when it happened, just let her know

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Speaker 1: after I'd used my Hall pass. Once I forgave her,

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Speaker 1: I had no intentions of cheating on her, and I

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Speaker 1: let her know the proposal. The proposal was crazy. Now,

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Speaker 1: as time has gone by, I regret that I turned

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Speaker 1: down my Hall pass because I ran into an old

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Speaker 1: friend from high school and she looked better than she's

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Speaker 1: ever looked. She works out now, and everything was right

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Speaker 1: and tight on her body. Around the time I ran

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Speaker 1: into my old classmate, my wife and I had been

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Speaker 1: arguing a lot and it was streussful at home, so

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Speaker 1: I considered going to my wife to see if I

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Speaker 1: could possibly get my Hall pass reinstated. I told my

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Speaker 1: classmate everything that was going on in my head, and

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Speaker 1: she told me to think long and hard about it.

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Speaker 1: Before I asked my wife, I just want one time

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Speaker 1: with my classmate, just to see what I've been missing

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Speaker 1: all of these years. So my question to you is,

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Speaker 1: should I do it and hope it never comes between

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Speaker 1: let my wife know I want to get a little

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Speaker 1: side action like she did. Okay, no and no, and

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Speaker 1: that should conclude my answer. But anyway, okay, you're you're

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Speaker 1: just begging, begging for trouble and asking for more problems

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Speaker 1: in your already troubled marriage. You said, you guys have

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Speaker 1: been arguing of late. The way I see it, you

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Speaker 1: have you don't really have any options here not to

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Speaker 1: use your hall pass that your wife offered to you before,

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Speaker 1: and not to tell her everything. No, don't do that,

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Speaker 1: all right, don't do that. You said that you forgave her.

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Speaker 1: You guys had a clean slate and everything. You just

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Speaker 1: happen to run into this temptation called your old high

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Speaker 1: school friend. And that's all it is, uh temptation. You know,

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Speaker 1: Try to fix your marriage, okay, try to fix it

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Speaker 1: even though you guys have been even though it's been

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Speaker 1: would you say, Steve, I'm sorry, what'd you say? Oh? Okay? Okay?

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Speaker 1: But anyway, where was it? But anyway, yeah, you know that,

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Speaker 1: don't don't take that option to go back and ask

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Speaker 1: your wife for the hall pass. I mean, you really

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Speaker 1: think after all this time, she's gonna say go ahead

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Speaker 1: and do it now? Just don't? I mean she might.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, that's maybe the kind of marriage you

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Speaker 1: guys have at twenty eight. But don't do that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: stay and try to fix what's wrong with your marriage

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Speaker 1: right now. Uh, your your wife cheated on you with

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Speaker 1: her ex boyfriend. She said she was drunk. You forgave her.

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Speaker 1: Please try to fix that and move on. Get this

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Speaker 1: all of that. Please don't do that. Okay, You're gonna

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Speaker 1: worth it. It's just not worth it. Now. If you

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Speaker 1: maybe you want to look up your old high school friend.

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Speaker 1: But right now, I say let it go. Steve. This

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Speaker 1: is a good letter. This is a tough one, this

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Speaker 1: my advice is not perfect. Some of this is for comedy,

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Speaker 1: and some of it as well, it's just a damn letter.

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Speaker 1: He'd been married for two years, he's rocky. Right after

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Speaker 1: This over with. Now there's no need for no letter

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Speaker 1: because you ain't playing on quick drinking? Are you so

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Speaker 1: all this got? It was happening again? Written her? Well

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Speaker 1: you know she says she was sorry, it only happened

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Speaker 1: once she was drunk. Well, she ain't went to the alcoholics,

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Speaker 1: anonymous or nothing. So if you ain't gonna quit drinking,

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Speaker 1: this has the potential of it could happen all over again.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm not mad nobody because they get drunk, they

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Speaker 1: go have sexual somebody. We got to get out of

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Speaker 1: this marriage now, because last time I checked, they sell

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Speaker 1: alcohol everywhere. So now I'm married to a person that

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Speaker 1: can't passing nothing without passing out something. If you can't

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Speaker 1: pass a bar without passing out something, girl, this marriage

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Speaker 1: can't work. So now me and you threw anyway. I

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Speaker 1: forgave her eventually, and we're still together now. After it happened,

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Speaker 1: my wife says she felt terrible, and she told me

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Speaker 1: that the only way to make things even she offered

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Speaker 1: with one person outside our marriage. I didn't have to

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Speaker 1: tell her who it was or when it happened, just

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Speaker 1: let her know after I had used my Hall pass. Boy,

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Speaker 1: if this wasn't an opportunity for you to capitalize and

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Speaker 1: never mentioned the damn Hall pass, right, hold on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we'll have Yeah, We've never been offered a damn Hall pass.

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Speaker 1: I just got your hall in the damn Hall I

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Speaker 1: ain't have passed, all right, subject today, I need my

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Speaker 1: wife to reinstate my Hall pass. We'll be back in

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour to get back into

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Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve. Come on,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter and wrap up part two

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Speaker 1: of your response. Twenty year old dude man two years

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Speaker 1: the ex boyfriend. You know, she said it only happened

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Speaker 1: once she was drunk. I don't like that excuse I

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Speaker 1: was drunk. That's why it happened, seeing us how they

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Speaker 1: continued to sell alcohol worldwide. Damn now worldwide. I don't

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Speaker 1: see how this can't happen again. Yeah, I don't know

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Speaker 1: where she can go. Well, ain't serving no alcohol. Rockingham,

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Speaker 1: North Carolina was a dry county, But even if you

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Speaker 1: I'm not real secure with her, but you forgave her,

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Speaker 1: and so she decided to make things even to give

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Speaker 1: sex with one person outside their marriage. He didn't, She didn't.

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Speaker 1: He told her, you don't have to tell me who

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Speaker 1: after I had used my hall pass. Now, he said,

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Speaker 1: once I forgave her, I had no intentions or cheating

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Speaker 1: on her, and I let her know that the proposal

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Speaker 1: was crazy. I ain't gonna judge you. I think that's

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Speaker 1: a noble thing to do, young man. You want to

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Speaker 1: be in a committed marriage. Two wrongs don't make her right.

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Speaker 1: That was a wonderfully adult decision that you made, far

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Speaker 1: ahead of my years. At twenty eight I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: say that stead Now, I had never heard of a

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Speaker 1: hall pack. I ain't had a girlfriend with a hall pass. Now,

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Speaker 1: not to say I wasn't out in the hall. I've

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Speaker 1: Polarard's everything. But that's now, as time has gone by,

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Speaker 1: I regret that I turned down the hall pass because

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Speaker 1: I ran into an old friend from high school and

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Speaker 1: she looked better than she ever looked. She worked out

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Speaker 1: Around the time I ran into my old classmate, my

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Speaker 1: strestful at home. Well, son, she she gave what what

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Speaker 1: what Steve? She gave you? What are you saying? She

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Speaker 1: gave your parios? Yeah? You had to pass out it anyway. Uh.

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Speaker 1: And so now I've considered going to my wife here

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Speaker 1: would let her get real damned dumb? Yeah, it's been stupid,

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Speaker 1: my hall pass reinstated. What what? What did your dumb

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Speaker 1: ass just say? Why? What did you say? You're finding,

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Speaker 1: to a female, tell her to her proposal was crazy.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you something, How do you imagine this

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Speaker 1: your wife. Okay, Now, after you get out the hospital,

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Speaker 1: to then think about hospital. Uncle Steve told your dumb

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Speaker 1: me anyway, the original hall pass was a trap, and

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Speaker 1: you played the right thing by saying this proposal is crazy.

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Speaker 1: That was the perfect response. But all being said, if

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Speaker 1: it was a crazy ass proposal, But I took the

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Speaker 1: gonna go back and ask to reinstate it. Now, here's

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Speaker 1: what your dumbass did. You went back to your classmate

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Speaker 1: and told her what was going on in your head,

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Speaker 1: and your classmate told you to think long and hard

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Speaker 1: you went to the woman that you want to cheat

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Speaker 1: with and asked her that you should I ask my wife,

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Speaker 1: can I have a hall pass to cheat with you? Doc?

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Speaker 1: I'm make this statement right here. You ain't got no dabty. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's no way you have a dad. It's no way

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Speaker 1: he was raised without a father. I'm gonna just say that.

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Speaker 1: So let let Uncle Steve help you out. Hey, dog,

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Speaker 1: quit talking to your new class made potential of mistress

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Speaker 1: about your wife. That's rude. Number one. Secondly, don't go

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Speaker 1: Shirley said, get the girl out your mind? That's impossible.

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Speaker 1: How do you get temptation that? Surely you can't try

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Speaker 1: to get somebody out your mind. That ain't how it worked,

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Speaker 1: because you can't control your mind with what comes in it.

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Speaker 1: You control how you process it, but you can't stop

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Speaker 1: the sin and the temptation from it in your mind. Here,

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Speaker 1: twenty eight years old, here in trouble, he in sleep

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Speaker 1: all right. Listen, We're gonna come back with part three

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Speaker 1: of this Strawberry letter today. It's a good one, subject

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Speaker 1: I need my wife to reinstate my hall pass. We'll

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Speaker 1: be back right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve.

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Speaker 1: You had part three of today's Strawberry Letters the subject

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Speaker 1: I need my wife to reinstate my hall pass. Let's RECAPU.

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Speaker 1: Surely this letter was a twenty eight year old dude

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Speaker 1: that was married. His wife cheated on him. He forgave oh,

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Speaker 1: but she felt bad about it and so said to

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Speaker 1: even it up. She gave a dude the hall pass.

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Speaker 1: He told her he wasn't interested on a hall pass.

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Speaker 1: He thought that proposal was crazy because he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to cheat on his wife. Yeah, so then he regretted.

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Speaker 1: He turned it down because he ran up into an

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Speaker 1: old friend from high school and she was looking better

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Speaker 1: than ever. She worked out now everything was right and

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Speaker 1: tight on her body. And around the time that he

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Speaker 1: ran up into him and his girl had been and

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Speaker 1: the Lodden stressful at home. So here was his dilemma.

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Speaker 1: I've considered going to my wife to see if I

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Speaker 1: could possibly get my hall pass reinstated. Boy anthy what?

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Speaker 1: And I told him before the break you cannot do that.

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Speaker 1: You cannot do that. But he didn't. Got dumber, he said,

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Speaker 1: and I told my classmaker, the woman that he wanted

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Speaker 1: to sleep with it. He told his classmate the chick

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Speaker 1: that he ran up and do with the banging body.

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Speaker 1: That everything that was going on in my head. And

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Speaker 1: she told me to think long and hard about it

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Speaker 1: before I asked my wife. Hay food, hay food. You

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Speaker 1: gonna go to your wife and ask her cause she

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Speaker 1: reinstate the hall pass. And you didn't ask the girl,

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Speaker 1: the potential mistress that you gonna sleep with, what her

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Speaker 1: opinion is. And she tells you to think long and

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Speaker 1: hard about it. So my question to you is should

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Speaker 1: I do it? Now? You cannot discuss your wife with

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Speaker 1: a chick that you're talking to on the side. That's

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Speaker 1: how all the fast start. You don't ever listen to me,

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Speaker 1: don't ever talk about your wife to another human being.

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Speaker 1: Your wife is off limit to the opinion of other people. Now, dog,

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Speaker 1: if you go to your baring gonna man my girl

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Speaker 1: at the house tripping, that's one thing she don't go

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Speaker 1: to no woman. Yeah, and talk about your wife to

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Speaker 1: a woman, are you dog that you're breaking the Rule's son.

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Speaker 1: Then you stop this now. Shirley said, get this out

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Speaker 1: your mind. That's not gonna happen. We're gonna have it's

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Speaker 1: gonna Happenna. That's he got another problem. It's just how

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Speaker 1: he gonna play this because he fitted all set with

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Speaker 1: this girl, Sheley. It don't matter what the hell we say.

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Speaker 1: He gonna he self control. We got a Trollly your

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Speaker 1: comments on today's letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM

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Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter. We have control and

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Speaker 1: he don't have control. He twenty eight with James. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show