WEBVTT - When The Coronavirus Comes For Your 401(k) 0:00:16.079 --> 0:00:26.080 Hey, hey, hey, we're back, We're black, We're brown a vision. 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:29.000 It's Mandy Tiffany. 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:31.800 Y'all, Hey, happy brandonbition Wednesday. 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:35.280 Yes, First of all, I saw that Drake was holding 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:36.000 your baby. 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:40.720 Listen. This is why I never post pictures. 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:43.159 Of h First of all, I saw women in the 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:44.840 comments try to holler. I was like, yo, I can't 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:45.120 do y'a. 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:48.880 I know, I know in the past, you know, people 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:54.440 have been respectful, but y'all, I you saw dignity yourself. 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:58.760 I literally saw I'm like, wow, yeah, you know. 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:00.720 I had to read that comment if time she was 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:03.960 saying the baby was young, because I was like, hold up, 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:04.960 where's the delete button? 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:07.000 I was like, and I was like, yeah, okay, I 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:08.600 get that because I was thinking. I was like, that's 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:11.959 a little bull but okay, I said, I'm not gonna lie. 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:14.080 I was like, I told suit man, I said, who 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:17.280 do I look like? He was like Drake, I said. 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:19.160 Looks like Nandy woodruf too, it looks like. 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:21.960 And that's also one was like, are you guys twins? 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:25.559 I'm like, honestly, his whole the poor kid, his whole life. 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:27.640 It was either you looked just like your sister and 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:29.640 then around when did Drake come out, Like two thousand 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:31.920 and nine, Drake got big. Then it was like Drake. 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:34.399 Everywhere he goes Drake, Hey, Drake. 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:37.520 He hates it. It's okay. I mean now you know, 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:39.960 you know, like those memes that are going around, it's like, 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:41.640 I'm gonna tell I'm gonna tell my kids, this is 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:43.160 not that that. You gotta be like, I'm gonna know 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:45.920 my kid, this is Drake. That's true. 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:48.640 Yeah, I'll tell Rio will only know him as uncle Drake. 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:53.920 But it was a c was the happy birthday to him. 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:57.480 I mean, it's going against every fiber of my big 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:00.800 sister being to like give him more attention and he 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:04.360 already gets as the youngest of four children. But yeah, 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:09.240 it's his birthday. Twenty eight. Oh okay, Yeah, that's my 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:12.560 little my little brother growing up first of all, living 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:15.680 his best damn life. Just came back from one week 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:19.640 in Hawaii I can't solo trip, and then follow it 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:22.880 up with a week in Mexico, I believe, meeting up 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:25.880 one of his friends who's traveling. So he's just showing 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:28.280 off in his late twenties. I'm like, damn. At twenty eight, 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:32.800 I was like tied down planning a wedding. He makes 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:34.520 his twenties look really fun. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:38.040 So it's different, different types of fun. 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:41.239 I'm very proud of him. Yeah, but what's new with you? 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:45.880 Molly Moore? Have you You're basically almost get your fundraising goal. 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:48.400 I'm like, if I were to go to mollymore dot 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:52.200 com right now, I think we're like two thousand dollars away. 0:02:52.320 --> 0:02:54.560 Let me see, how often do you check? Like once 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:54.920 a minute. 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:59.760 I'm not gonna lie. I do see. I'm obsessed, especially 0:02:59.840 --> 0:03:02.600 like what I do, especially when I do, like a 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:06.080 post or something I have to say. So, yes, we 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:10.120 are like twenty five hundred dollars away, so we're ninety 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:14.000 three percent funded fourteen days ago. There's some key things 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:16.560 that I'm learning, so things I would have done differently. 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:18.600 Probably the number one thing I would have done differently 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:22.840 is from the very beginning, the higher ticket items Like 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.880 I had some fun higher ticket items like ooh, come, 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:26.799 I'll fly you to New York to come meet me. Girl, 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:31.520 nobody cares, and then I didn't even see that. Wait, yes, 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:34.360 well we said the book exactly And that's what I learned, 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:36.720 which was actually really cool because I thought I had 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:38.520 to have these higher ticket items that were like these 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:41.440 like fun things, but no knowing what I know now, 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:44.360 I should have had more higher ticket items that were 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:47.200 just like get the book. And I've been adjusting since 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.520 you can. You could always go and add new rewards. 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:51.680 But it was just a good lesson that, Like one, 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:54.600 I should have had bulk book buys from the very beginning, 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:56.800 because I'm noticing, like, you know, there's trending up that 0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:59.480 people are buying five, six, ten books and I'm like wow, 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:01.760 But I didn't have that in the very beginning, especially 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:03.920 for like the big launch. I could have. Honestly, we 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:07.120 probably would have already hit our our fundraising goal. And two, 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:11.160 if I just would have pushed up the price per 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:14.120 tier maybe like five bucks, that would have made a 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:15.880 huge difference. I was nervous to because I was like, oh, 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:18.200 lot of people don't want to get it for you know, 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.520 twenty instead of twenty five for thirty five. But I 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:24.320 should have because I keep forgetting that classic Tiffany, I 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:25.960 know you know what it is, because I was like, well, 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:27.280 I don't want people to feel like I'm at a 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:30.000 book for twenty five dollars. It's like, no, you're you're 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:32.400 contributing so I can use that money to buy books, 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:36.080 and in exchange for contributing and donating, I'm giving you 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:39.039 a book. But it's not like Kickstart, you're actually buying 0:04:39.080 --> 0:04:40.680 the book. Like it's not you know what I mean. 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:42.760 I just felt weird, like, I you know, does it 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:44.840 feel weird to say I'm buying a book for thirty bucks? 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.080 And although I think I made it pretty clear and 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:50.839 the Kickstarter copy, that really that when you're backing this project, 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:53.080 that the money is going so I can order books 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:54.839 for kids that don't have access, and I can hire 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:58.480 teachers to write additional financial education curriculum that we could 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.600 give away for free. But that I know now, I 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:03.440 wouldn't have been so afraid to price just a little 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.760 bit higher. I think people would have paid it happily 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:08.000 because it wasn't just in exchange for a book, it 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:09.920 was to do good work. So but I mean, I'm 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:12.000 happy with the way. I mean, obviously that's gone. 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.800 Yeah, of course you're nitpicking, Yes, that's what you do, 0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:17.800 but it is I mean, it's freaking amazing that you're 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:20.080 like ninety nine point nine percent away from hitting your 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:23.240 Like some projects just just die. Yeah, just fizzle out 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:23.960 and die, you know. 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.479 Yeah, So I have to say the moms and dads 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:29.279 are amazing. Like it was like in the beginning, it 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:32.000 was just like email, then like social then it was 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:34.400 like I was dialing for dollars, messaging everybody on Facebook 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:36.600 and texting and stuff like that. And then this last 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:38.920 wave honestly has been like the moms. I reached out 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:41.160 to my mom and she hit all her girlfriends and 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:42.080 all of a sudden, I'm saying, like. 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:45.240 Oh, that's I said, just sid uncles. 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:48.159 So it's been like that rave and I'm like, yeah, 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:50.920 do not underestimate the power of like people in your 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:53.080 family to like ask some girl scout cookies. 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:55.480 Oh yeah, that's literally get five boxes, right. 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:59.960 And then my art director and my illustrator they alway 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:02.200 out to their moms, and also all the moms are 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.120 like so we wrote like a little copy for them 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.600 and like wrote step by step directions because no one 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:09.200 knew how to do kickstarter, you know. So it's like 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:11.440 and I actually made a little video to send to them, 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.120 and they're like, oh, yes, I went to work. I 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.200 showed them everyone the picture, and now I was like, 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:19.599 use my phone and get the buck and I'm like, yes, mommy, 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:23.200 so yeah, but it's been Honestly, it's been a really 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:26.159 great experience. We learned a lot. I'm happy with it, obviously, 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:29.160 with the end result and just things that we're learning, like, oh, 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:31.520 knowing what I know now, I would have done this. 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:33.760 I don't know that I'm going to do another Kickstarter, 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:36.919 but what I am a consummate teacher at heart, and 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:39.320 I feel like I know that people might have questions, 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:40.680 so I want to be like, well, here's the best 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:42.840 practices and what I would have done differently. But all 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:43.760 in naw, it's been awesome. 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:45.840 Oh congratulations, thank you. 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:49.200 Yeah, and I'm not so happy, Neil. I guess did 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.400 you watch any bit of Kobe Bryant's I'm Homegoing. 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:54.840 And other news? I didn't get a chance to watch 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:57.040 it live, I know it was streaming. Yesterday was my 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:58.719 first day being back in the office. 0:06:58.760 --> 0:06:59.800 Oh, yes, how was it? 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:04.080 Yeah? It went I mean it went really well. I 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:06.159 kind of loved it. It was great. I know, I 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.160 got home and my I was talking to my brother, 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:09.680 you know, I called him to say a birthday and 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:11.440 he's like, so, you know, how was it? How are 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:13.400 you feeling? And I was like, or no. He said, 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.440 how was it leaving you know, Rego and going to work, 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:19.520 And I was like, honestly, it was really it was 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.960 really exciting to like get on the train and go 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:23.960 to the city and you know, he's with my mom, 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:26.280 He's in a safe space. So I just didn't have 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:28.040 a ton of anxiety. I'm sure it will be an 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:31.040 entirely different story when it's the first day of daycare 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.360 or the first day when someone says, you know, a 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:36.320 nanny instead of my mother being here. But she really 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:38.480 had the tough job because homeboy's been on a bottle 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:42.440 strike for two weeks, and right when I went back 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:46.239 to work, he was like, I'm only gonna eat from mommy, please, 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:48.760 I'd like to keep my seat at the Mama Cafe 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:58.880 open VIP only. So yeah, but bless her heart, she 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:01.800 got him to drink from a bottle yesterday, and once 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.000 I got that news, everything was great and I'm so, 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:06.160 you know, it could be so much. I'm so I 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:09.000 feel so blessed to have flexible work schedule. I went 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:11.800 to an office. They had the mother's room already for me, 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:15.119 with like a mini fridge and even a new little 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:18.440 sign that says occupied, and a lock on the fridge 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:19.920 so people can't go in because you know, it's a 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:22.560 shared space like a wellness room slash slactation room, so 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:24.400 people can't go in there and mess with my stuff. 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:26.640 They have a lock on the fridge and a little 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.120 filing cab then I can lock my I brought my 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:32.880 little pump to work, okay, And yeah, I feel really 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:36.360 you know, went very smoothly, and I know for a 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:37.920 lot of women that's not the case. So I feel 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:42.600 very fortunate. Yeah I do, indeed. So all that said, yeah, 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:46.400 I got home and finally saw some clips from his 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:51.119 memorial service, which looked beautiful. But I mean, god, Vanessa's 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:54.160 speech and how she got herself on that stage, I 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:55.960 doubt in this place she's a hero. 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:59.320 I don't know, honestly. Like and then, first of all, 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:00.800 some of the things I liked it. There was like 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:03.920 little reprieves, like when Michael Jordan was like, damn it, Kobe, 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:05.199 you know, I love you got me. I'm gonna be 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:08.920 doing seeing more crying memes for the next four years. 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:11.400 And I love that it was like I thought that 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:11.840 was allowed. 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:13.600 He's like, I love that he knows he's a meme. 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:17.920 Yes, I was like, he knows for Michael, I know, 0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:20.079 but he was like, whatever your worth is. So honestly 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:23.920 it was. Yeah, it was beautiful and obviously super sad, 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:27.760 and it just it's just a testament to a life, 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:30.400 you know, imperfect life, but still a life well lived, 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:31.680 you know. Yeah. 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:34.160 And I also feel like it's given people a chance 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:36.800 to just grieve anyone they've known who's gone too soon, 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:41.800 and just another reminder of how precious and short life 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:45.600 is and the importance of good dads. And I think 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.679 it was a post that Lovey Ajai did I say 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:52.920 that right posted on Instagram where she kind of acknowledged 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:56.640 that in a way, one of the silver linings, you know, 0:09:56.760 --> 0:10:01.040 albeit small, from Kobe's passing, is that it's given men, 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:03.920 especially men of color, and opportunity to say it's okay 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:07.120 to grieve openly and to share your feelings and your emotions, 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:09.600 and to look around that room and see all these big, 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:14.320 tough athletes really showing their heart, yes, writing tributes to him, 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:17.760 you know, using their voice to acknowledge their pain and 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:20.760 not just like you know, tough it out and you know, 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:23.560 as they say in sports, not that I am so sports, 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:27.240 you know, savvy, but just fight through the pain just 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:30.040 to walk it off. You know. That struck me because 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:32.800 I think that's true. I think it has given people, 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:35.840 especially men, a chance to say it's okay to admit 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:36.600 that you're hurting. 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.640 Yeah, and honestly too too. What I like too that 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:41.320 kind of came of it. It was like, you know, 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:45.520 when when everybody was just like it was a celebration 0:10:45.840 --> 0:10:49.080 of black fatherhood, you know that whole girl dad, I mean, 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:52.000 I know there was I just loved seeing that that, Like, 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:54.880 you know that because people will always tell you too. 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:57.480 It's like what an you know what a representation of 0:10:57.640 --> 0:11:00.480 ye what? You know, like a black father are really 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:03.520 there for his daughter, really there for his family. 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:05.240 And happy that he has daughters because people will always 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:07.280 say stuff like poor you. Like even as a kid, 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:09.120 I would hear people tell my dad that when he said, 0:11:09.120 --> 0:11:11.120 like I have all daughters, it would be a lot 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:14.160 of poor you, poor your father, poor you. And he'd 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:17.160 be like, no, not poor me, Like my daughters take 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:19.440 really great care of me, you know. So I just 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:21.360 love that that, like, because people will always say, oh, 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:23.240 girls are so much harder to raise than boys, and 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:26.640 I don't subscribe to that children are hard to raise, period. 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.600 It's just different, you know. Like I see my sister 0:11:29.640 --> 0:11:31.120 with her her two kids. She's got a boy and 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:33.840 a girl, and I just see that it's different. It's 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:34.440 not harder. 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:36.800 You know, they will all pan poop on you. 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:39.600 What m I tell you? Like even you know how 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:41.719 you said that rio and like reverted back was like 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:43.400 I was on the bottle, but now I want the boob, 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:46.200 And now I'm I guess because boob is out here, 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:49.080 I guess I'll take the bottle. It's strange how children 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:52.440 would back. Like Amelia was so good potty training. She 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:54.640 was like one and a half using the potty. Now 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:58.760 that she's turning three, I'm like, girl, she's like, he 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:00.640 didn't make it, and you're happy. 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:04.200 And I don't call that a regression. 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:07.280 Yes, I don't know why she's progressing. My sister was like, honestly, 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:09.520 no less than she went to a visit THEMN She's like, 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:11.440 no less than three times when I was there she 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:14.120 missed the toilet. Like I think what's happening is that 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.640 she's like tested, Like let's see, like I want to 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:18.080 keep playing. I think I can do I think I 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:20.120 can make it, and then it's like literally she'll get 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:23.480 up and she's like, oh, didn't make it. You're like, 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:24.960 you know what, go get a diaper. 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:28.680 We're not playing this game, you know, So I just 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:29.680 go put a swimsuit on. 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:32.840 But it's crazy how kids are regressing. And I'm like, 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:34.920 I wonder, like why that is that, Like, you know, 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:37.480 they'll be doing so good and then one day be like, psych, 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:40.440 I'm actually not gonna sleep in the night, or I'm 0:12:40.440 --> 0:12:42.920 gonna poo pull on myself or whatever that is. I 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:45.760 wonder what that is about, you know, like where regression 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:46.439 comes from. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:48.760 I have no I mean, I feel like I lose 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.080 sleep thinking about why he's done what he's done. And 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:54.040 it's just like you can't reason with a baby. Terrorists, 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:58.000 Like there's just no figuring them out. Just just catch whatever. 0:12:58.160 --> 0:13:00.120 I mean, I say, this is my new mom, a 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.760 new baby every day, a new baby every day. No 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:07.040 day is the same, his likes, his dislikes. Whatever worked 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:09.439 yesterday is not going to work today. However he slept 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:10.199 last night, it's not. 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:10.480 Going to be. 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:12.439 You know, if you get two days in a row, 0:13:12.520 --> 0:13:16.480 cool new baby tomorrow, Because I would yep, I would 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:18.280 totally be like, Okay, this is it, this is a 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:21.280 new trend. I'm ready. And then he'd be like, I'm 0:13:21.280 --> 0:13:23.760 gonna take a left turn here into crazy town and. 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:25.880 Left yellow rice. And then it's like, why would you 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:30.760 give me yellow rice? You yeah, but you know what 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:33.800 have you watched? You know? Netflix has that documentary Baby 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:36.679 where they follow like a baby, like all these babies 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:39.319 for one year. You know, she just watched it. I 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:41.560 think it'd be really interesting to see, like they really 0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:43.680 wanted to see like what does like, you know, develop 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:45.679 it look like in a baby over one year, and 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:49.880 they like tracking babies from like Singapore, Israel, the United States. 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:51.400 I think that, you know, if you have any time, 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:54.240 you know, like plugging into it. I was watching it 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:55.920 last night. It was just really fascinating. 0:13:56.800 --> 0:14:00.240 They do change and it's crazy and that you and 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:03.200 you're right like the thing like they change every day 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.920 and also like toys that he didn't give two flying 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:08.160 flips about two days ago. Now he's like, oh, this 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:10.720 is amazing. I know how to use this, and you 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:14.880 know it's they do develop really quickly, so quickly he's 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:17.199 getting way more interesting. My mom is so good with him. 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:19.680 She can give him to giggle so hard and it 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:25.560 is super super cute. But babies aside, what else is happening? 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.400 And I feel like the other two headlines have been 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:32.200 Weinstein's convictions? Can we get an amen? And you know, 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:35.200 you know, good job, you know, trying to make us 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:37.400 feel sympathetic for you with that walker, right. 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:40.680 Honestly, I was like, are you kidding me? Yeah? 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.320 Now you still look like a villain. And the other 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:46.680 thing was like coronavirus. I mean that's the one. You know, 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:49.440 We've all been watching the news and you think about 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:53.400 the health implications of epidemic like that or are they 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:54.920 calling it epidemic? I'm not sure. I don't want to 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:57.640 like scaremonger, Yeah, but the risk of something like that. 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:01.160 And then what happened yesterday? The market crash And my 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:03.880 mom was like, why would the coronavirus? How could a 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:09.200 some kind of flu influence markets? But China makes everything, 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:13.920 y'all everything, all the factories for your iPhone, for your shoes, 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:16.480 for your clothes. A lot of that happens in China, 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.960 and these companies like Apple has come out saying that 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:21.520 they may be low on the parts they need to 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:24.920 make the iPhone because of concerns of the workers going 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:27.960 to work in China and those products leaving China, and 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:30.960 even like some pharmaceutical companies have come out saying that 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:32.760 like they may not have the ingredients for the drugs 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:36.400 that are made in China. And the Dow dropped, I 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.560 think the lowest it's been in two years, or the 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:40.720 biggest drop it's had in a single day in two 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:45.120 years yesterday. So no cheez for the market. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:50.240 Yeah, no, I remember hearing that, and I was just like, uh, 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:53.720 this is crazy, and I feel like I'm reading somebody 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:57.200 conflicting kind of like reports about just how many people 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:59.560 have passed. And did you see that? I saw an 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:01.040 article I didn't know if it was like I can't 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:03.520 remember when I saw it where it's like they arrested 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:07.920 a chemist here in the United States and for what 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:10.680 I don't know. I mean, I don't eliminated it spread 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:11.800 it because I was like, I was trying to remember 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:13.120 where I read because I wanted to pull it up. 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:15.400 But I'm like, this is reputable. I couldn't remember the 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:16.840 article where, so I'm like. 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:18.720 Am I sent from an aunt or an uncle? It 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:19.480 was not reputable? 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:19.960 I know, right, O. 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:21.320 That's the lesson I've learned. 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:26.120 Especially via WhatsApp. I'm like, mommy, please you that is 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:28.160 where the oh, what's thatpp? If I get one more? 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:29.920 What's that? Messed with? My father messes me. I'm on 0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:35.680 what's app. I'm like great, another person, Yeah, no, it's 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:38.120 it's such a crazy, scary time because I feel like 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:40.720 not enough people are are being honest about what's happening. 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:43.240 I just wondered, like, like you know what I don't 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:45.560 like Like, so a friend of mine, he was supposed 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:50.160 to go to an eyewear conference in Milan and then 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:52.200 the conference this is one of the largest conferences for 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:56.000 I were in the world. They can't so not a 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:58.200 conference one of those things where you could buy the glasses, 0:16:58.200 --> 0:16:58.880 you know what I mean. 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:01.080 Like like a trade showy trait mm hm. 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:03.320 And so they canceled it. 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:07.040 And that one there was just like one patient Italian 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:10.560 patient in a Spanish hotel, according to the news, that 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:14.240 had the Yeah, that had coronavirus or tested positive. So 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:19.000 I mean, you're mad, but like Europe is so interconnected. 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:20.600 Yeah, I see why they. 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:21.840 Were hyper alert. 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:24.480 And so he was like, okay, nothing, that's fine that 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:26.400 it was canceled. I get it. So when he went 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:28.240 to the airlines to say well, because he was bringing 0:17:28.240 --> 0:17:31.200 his whole team, They're like, we don't consider the state 0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:33.120 of emergency. They wouldn't give him any money back. Isn't 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:33.920 that crazy? 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:34.520 What? 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:36.320 Yes, I'm like, well he for. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:38.520 Him get to decide what's the state of emergency. 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:42.080 Well he gets like, basically, Italy is not it's not 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:44.800 claiming a state of emergency. So they're like you see 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:46.200 what I mean? And he's like, yo, but I was 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:48.320 going for this event that was canceled. It's been so 0:17:48.400 --> 0:17:50.560 crazy because i'm you know, of course, the airlines are 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:54.000 trying to protect their profit margins, and it's like, when 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:55.919 does it become that I get my money back for 0:17:56.000 --> 0:17:58.440 things that are happening like this, you know, travel, I'm 0:17:58.480 --> 0:18:01.840 sure it's right now. It's like really confusing because of 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:05.160 this of the coronavirus. 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:06.639 And it had happened, you know, right around the Chinese 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:09.399 New Year, the whole original not the original outbreak, but 0:18:09.440 --> 0:18:11.560 the news of the outbreaks spread around there, and there's 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:14.639 so much travel, you know, especially for visiting family in 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:17.760 China for the for the holiday. Oh yeah, I mean 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:21.199 I definitely on the train yesterday. I feel you know, 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:22.960 my immune system. I'm like, I haven't been in the 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:25.400 public in three months, Like it's my immune system even 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:27.639