1 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bet Your Happy Hour. I'm 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: Joe and I'm Serena and we are here with our 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: guest this week, Sarah Fina. Sarah Fina, welcome to bet 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: Your Happy Hour. 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 2: Thanks, guys, thank you so much for having me. I'm 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: so excited. 7 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on. 8 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 2: Of course, of. 9 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 3: Course, where are you recording from today? 10 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 2: I'm in New York City. I feel like you guys 11 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:29,159 Speaker 2: are also we are. I know, I know it is 12 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 2: so grand cold today. It's always gonna snow tonight apparently. Yeah, 13 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 2: it's been so it's been so cold, but honestly, this 14 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 2: week has been the warmest of it. I don't know. 15 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 2: That's how I we had like two days ago, it 16 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: wasn't bad. 17 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: Well we we live off of the West Side Highway, 18 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:47,639 Speaker 1: so it's just. 19 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 2: Really you got yeah, you got the Wendy. I live 20 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 2: in the East Village, but I work on the West Side, 21 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: So I know what you're saying. 22 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 3: What do you do for work? 23 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 2: I work in advertising, so it's a little bit of 24 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 2: media buying. Yeah, I've been doing that for almost six 25 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: years now, which is crazy. 26 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: Wown. Yeah, how how did you? How did you wind 27 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: up on the Bachelor? 28 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 2: Oh? So I signed up myself. I know, like, and 29 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 2: this is no shade to anyone. I know a lot 30 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 2: of people. 31 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 3: I know myself too, Okay, so I'm here to bring 32 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 3: I feel like girls always come on and they're like 33 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 3: ashamed of the fact that they didn't come on get nominator, 34 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: like scouted by casting. 35 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 2: So you know what, no shame in signing up yourself. Okay, 36 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 2: No one was looking for me, No one, damn. Yeah. 37 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 3: Kelsey Anderson signed herself up too. Okay, look at where 38 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 3: she is now, engaged in love. 39 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:44,839 Speaker 2: For themselves for the girls, but no one. I didn't 40 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: have a friend sign me up. I fully was on 41 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: the bus on the way to work. It was after 42 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 2: Joey's finale and that worked out so great, and I 43 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I'm just gonna apply. It's 44 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: a fifteen minute bus ride. It took me that time, 45 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 2: and I signed up myself and I got to call 46 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: that night. 47 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 3: So yeah, it's so crazy though, because like when you 48 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 3: sign up, like you're like, I'm never gonna hear. 49 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 2: Never people never hearing. I was like, this is going 50 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 2: into the abyss. And I found out that night and 51 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 2: then I had interviews throughout the past couple of weeks 52 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 2: and it was crazy. It goes so quickly, also so fast. 53 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: What was dating life like for you before that? 54 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,399 Speaker 2: So I feel like my fallback answer has always been 55 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 2: like dating stocks guys are not the best, and you 56 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 2: know that can be true. But I feel like in 57 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 2: the past couple of years, I've taken accountability for myself 58 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: and I feel like I was just looking in the 59 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: wrong places and I was not finding people who I 60 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 2: found people who I thought was my type, and then 61 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 2: I realized that my type wasn't what I needed, if 62 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 2: that makes sense. I was always looking for these guys 63 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 2: that were like outgoing life for the party, and that's 64 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 2: not something that I needed in my life. If I 65 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 2: needed someone that was more caring and nurturing, and I 66 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 2: just wasn't finding that. So I took six years off 67 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 2: of dating. I haven't dated anyone in six years. And 68 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 2: I did a lot of therapy, lots of therapy bills, 69 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 2: and I don't know, I just really worked on myself. 70 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,959 Speaker 2: It took a lot of self growth, I think for myself. 71 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 3: I think that's great. I feel like so many people 72 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 3: say New York is such a hard city to date in, 73 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 3: and I do think going into dating with this mentality 74 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: of like everyone sucks does make it hard. But I 75 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 3: also feel like to your credit, like when you're young 76 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 3: and you're dating in the city, you are meeting these 77 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 3: guys probably like out at bars and in these settings 78 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 3: where you might not be finding you might be finding 79 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 3: someone great, but not someone great for you and what 80 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 3: you're looking for. 81 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. And it's like my therapist always told me this, 82 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 2: it's a thing called fortune telling. And when you say 83 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 2: dating sucks and everyone sucks, like that is the energy 84 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 2: that you're going to bring to yourself and that's the 85 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: energy that you're going to attract. So I really had 86 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: to genuinely work on shifting my mindset and not saying that. 87 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 2: And I know that sounds so cliche. I hate saying that, 88 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 2: but I did. I just I really had to work 89 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: on myself and the energy that I put out. 90 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: I agree with that. I have a bad habit of 91 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: being like the sucks everything. 92 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:18,119 Speaker 2: So you can't do that, then everything will suck. It's true. 93 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: That is so true. 94 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:23,119 Speaker 3: That was the mindset then that you went into Grant 95 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 3: season with. 96 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: The mindset that I went in with with was just 97 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 2: be myself and have fun. With it, don't take it 98 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: as seriously. I know obviously I was going in. I 99 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 2: was taking it seriously in terms of, like I did 100 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 2: want to find someone, I did want to get married, 101 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 2: but I wanted to be my most authentic self and 102 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 2: stay true to who I was, and like I wanted 103 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 2: to continue that growth that I had worked on for 104 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 2: so long. So it was, you know, I know a 105 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 2: lot of people share so much about themselves, like the 106 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 2: first night of the first week, but I really had 107 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 2: to stay authentic to my dating and how I date 108 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 2: in the real world and really build up that really 109 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 2: relationship because it is a fast process. But I didn't 110 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,239 Speaker 2: want to rush things, if that makes sense. I really 111 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 2: wanted to stay authentic to who I would be. 112 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 3: I think that's great, And because I think it's so 113 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 3: easy to come on the show and be like, oh 114 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 3: my gosh, I have no time and maybe fall into 115 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 3: the trap of like sharing something before you're actually ready 116 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 3: to share it because you're panicked about not getting the 117 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 3: chance to. 118 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, and I think a lot of us 119 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: felt that way, just because I feel like our season 120 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 2: was slightly shorter as well in terms of time. But 121 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 2: I just I couldn't right away because that's just like 122 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 2: not who I am as a person, and I really 123 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 2: want to just stay true to who I was. But 124 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 2: I do feel like there were nuggets that I did 125 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 2: open up, and I feel good about every time I did. 126 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 1: For night one, what are your seeing Grant for the 127 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: first time? What is your first impression of him? And 128 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: is he your tight? 129 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? Obviously so attractive. When I first found out, I 130 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 2: was so excited. I have text from my friends of 131 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: like the first night of gen season when all the 132 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 2: guys were out of Limo, I was like, if I 133 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 2: go on the show, this is the guy that I 134 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: want to be with. I promise you I will show 135 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 2: text group. 136 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 3: You should post that. I feel like people would love that. 137 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: I love that. 138 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: I think that's like, so like you like manifested him 139 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,119 Speaker 3: to be your bachelor and to get on the show. 140 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I told you manifesting really does work, and I've 141 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 2: been going into it a lot more lately. But yeah, 142 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 2: obviously physically attractive, my type, and then just so much energy. 143 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 2: But you could also tell that he was so nervous, 144 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 2: and I think that's really admirable because you can go 145 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: into this and be so confident, but you could just 146 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 2: tell that he was genuinely one looking for someone, and 147 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:49,239 Speaker 2: two he was just excited but also had nerves meeting everyone. 148 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 2: And I just I love that. 149 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 3: What were the vibes like the first night? Who did 150 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 3: you kind of gravitate towards to? 151 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, vibes are really high the first I feel like 152 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: there were a lot. There was a lot going on. 153 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 2: There were animals, there were like there was a Vegas sign. 154 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 2: It was a lot. It was very chaotic. The lama 155 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 2: was there. It was intense, and I think just like 156 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: going into that and like this is my first time 157 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 2: on camera as well, and just like there's a lama 158 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 2: right next to me and not I don't know how 159 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 2: I feel, but it was intense. But I do feel 160 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: like the girls were just so nice and welcoming. And 161 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 2: again I hate saying that, but it's true. Like I 162 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 2: think we all were in this experience and we were 163 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 2: all just getting to know each other. So I think 164 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 2: everyone just tried to put their best foot forward that night. 165 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 2: And I think I've bonded with so many girls that night. 166 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 3: Also, how did you come up with the big head entrance? 167 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 3: That was a good one. 168 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 2: It was so heavy, but it has handles in the back. 169 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 2: So it was like, yeah, so it was fine. So 170 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 2: I have very dry, sarcastic humor that I feel like 171 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 2: some times doesn't land and gets me in trouble. But 172 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 2: I wanted something that showed my personality and I like 173 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 2: to be witty. I like the Aanter and for me, 174 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 2: it's like if you make fun of me and I 175 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 2: can make fun of you, Like that is an instant 176 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 2: match for me. And I feel like he really was 177 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 2: recepted to it and took it well, so I felt 178 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: like it went over really well. 179 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it was a really good one. 180 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: What women, Which women did you connect with right away 181 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: or like a couple of days. 182 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you go off of like Night one, so 183 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 2: many people are gonna be mad at me. But I 184 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 2: love all the girls. I would say Alicia, Vicki, Bailey, 185 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 2: and I would see Beverly Night one. And then as 186 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 2: I as a time progress, obviously like I grew closer 187 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 2: to a lot more gross. 188 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 3: I was gonna say, damn, your girls are gone. Yeah, dude, 189 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 3: we're flying solo in the mansion this week. 190 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 2: Week two, I was like, I think after week three 191 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 2: and I woke up, I was syrial. I was like, 192 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 2: where are my friends. 193 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: That's hard. 194 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 3: That's hard. 195 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 2: I was so mad at Grant and I feel like, 196 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: you guys know what I'm talking about. It's like, obviously 197 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 2: you're there for them, but these are your support system 198 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 2: in that house because you're cut off from your friends 199 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 2: and your family, and these are the girls that, as 200 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: weird as it is like you're dating the same guy, 201 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 2: they're the only people who can relate to what you're 202 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 2: going through at that moment. So losing your friends is like, 203 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 2: what the hell am I going to do today? Like 204 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 2: who am I going to talk to? Who am I 205 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 2: going to have breakfast with? 206 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, you know, you know more than I. 207 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 3: Do, but Joe and I want so he doesn't know. 208 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 3: But you imagine you get it the lake with Paradise, 209 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 3: like you had breakfast and every morning, imagine they went home, 210 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 3: you'd be having breakfast alone. 211 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: It makes sense. 212 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, so. 213 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 1: We So I would say the first couple episodes, the 214 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 1: drama kind of surround it Zoe, which that's yeah, that's 215 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: now much tamer. I want your opinion on that as well. 216 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 1: We do see you make a comment about Zoe having 217 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 1: a short dress or whatever, Yeah, which really isn't isn't 218 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 1: isn't the worst thing anyone's ever said to somebody on 219 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: this show. 220 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 221 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, kind of just walk us through that and how 222 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: that went down. 223 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, So in terms of start with like the Zoey stuff, 224 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 2: like the beginning. 225 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, because you were you were on that first group 226 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 3: date where she pulled him on the basketball day, right, 227 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 3: and that kind of feels like where everything started and 228 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 3: it just snowballed from there. 229 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. So for context, that first group date was the 230 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 2: night after the rose ceremony, So again, we don't know 231 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 2: each other very well, and I think a lot of 232 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 2: us were very timid going into it. It's like we've 233 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 2: known Grant for a day now, so we really didn't 234 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 2: know how to fully approach the situation. And Zoe is 235 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 2: definitely more of a go for what she wants kind 236 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 2: of girl, which like you have to respect to a point, 237 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 2: but also it can step on other people's toes because again, 238 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 2: we're just all getting to know each other. So I 239 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 2: think again, it just it ruffled some feathers, but you 240 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: can see both sides to it in terms of, like, 241 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 2: you know, what she wants to utilize her time in 242 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 2: the best way that she feels fit and that is 243 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 2: what she wanted, That's what she came here for. So 244 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: I think that kind of snowballed into the cocktail party 245 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 2: that night, and then into the group date the next week, 246 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 2: the cocktail party the next week, and I think at 247 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 2: this point, you know, she is definitely getting a little 248 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 2: bit emotional because she definitely feels isolated, and I could 249 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 2: see how she could also feel that way. But then 250 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 2: there's also like, well, you know, we all had a 251 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:46,839 Speaker 2: great day and you didn't what we felt. Put all 252 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 2: of your effort into it, and then she gets emotional, 253 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 2: and I definitely made a comment and I hated that 254 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 2: wasn't my best moment. I was definitely hard. Yeah, I 255 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 2: was hard on myself for so long about it, But 256 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 2: I'm also giving myself some grace with it because I'm human, 257 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 2: and you know, we all say things that we don't 258 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 2: mean or you know that were like that was shitting 259 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 2: in the moment, But also we talked, and in a 260 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 2: weird way, it actually got Zoe and I to bond 261 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 2: because we realized that we were feeling the same things, 262 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,719 Speaker 2: but we were just articulating it in different ways. And 263 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 2: I was going through things at that time because it 264 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 2: is such an emotional, rocky journey and we sometimes like 265 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 2: as people don't know how to communicate well. And I 266 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 2: really do think in a weird way, it just it 267 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 2: got us to really see each other in a different light. 268 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: That's good. 269 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna ask you. I feel like this 270 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 3: kind of ties into this part of the story. We 271 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 3: see Alex cuddling her Lama, crying her eyes out about 272 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 3: you know, Zoe and how the girls have kind of 273 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 3: tried to connect with her and there was this struggle there. 274 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 3: Do you feel like there was this kind of maybe 275 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 3: tension or like inability to connect with Zoe. Maybe those 276 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 3: first few weeks that once you were able to have 277 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 3: that breakthrough moment helped the drama. Was Zoe moving forward? 278 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 2: Definitely? I think again, just coming off of that first 279 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 2: day and it being so intense and we're not really 280 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 2: seeing Zoe's true side, it definitely put a bad taste 281 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 2: in a lot of people's mouth, and I think it 282 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 2: was really hard for her to recover from that. It's 283 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 2: like when everyone's mad at you to an extent and 284 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 2: then you try to like crawl out of the grave. 285 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:40,839 Speaker 2: It's very hard. So I think both of us being 286 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 2: on a vulnerable level. At that point, we were finally 287 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 2: able to just like say like, Okay, what are you 288 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 2: going through? What am I going through? Like it seems 289 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 2: like we're going through the same thing, but we're just 290 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 2: not saying it in the same way. 291 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 3: Right in your hand if you're responding to it, like 292 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 3: with your actions differently as well. Right, because we do 293 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 3: see her steal time from Ali Joe twice, which you 294 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 3: know that was her approach, not your approach, and there's 295 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 3: kind of that like, you know, I don't know why 296 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 3: you're doing that, but you know you're all just trying 297 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 3: to get the same end goal as much. But it 298 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 3: also probably makes it hard in the beginning because it 299 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 3: seems like you're close with you were close with Ali 300 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 3: Joe to maybe want to trust Zoe in the beginning 301 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 3: as well. 302 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think at that time it's like being on 303 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 2: that date, we all kind of bonded in that sense. 304 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 2: So it's like, yeah, I was definitely felt slighted because 305 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 2: she did still him during the time on the basketball date, 306 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 2: so that sucks. And again, it is such limited time. 307 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 2: I don't think people realize that. So in that moment, 308 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 2: I definitely I could see where Ali Joe was upset, 309 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 2: but then it's just a it's a really difficult situation. 310 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 2: It's you know, you could see both sides of it. 311 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: Okay, So now let's jump to the Carolina of it all. 312 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: So at this point in the show, which we're on 313 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: episode four, what is your take on Carolina? Because what 314 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 1: we figured out, what we believe is the issue is 315 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: Carolina got one on one time. A lot of the 316 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: other women in the house didn't get that one on 317 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: one time. Carolina is talking, it is very negative about 318 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: the whole situation in that she just still doesn't really 319 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: know Grant and all the other women are like, well, 320 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: we needn't even get that time that you got, so 321 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 1: fuck you. Yeah, actually yes, So what is your take 322 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 1: on it all? 323 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 2: Listen, I don't know the full story at that point 324 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 2: of what's going on, and I will just sum it 325 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 2: up in terms of, like it is a huge game 326 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 2: of telephone. It's like, we don't know exactly what was said, 327 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 2: and I think she felt a certain way after her date. 328 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 2: But I do feel like she should have kept that 329 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: to herself because when you feel a certain way and 330 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 2: you communicate it to other girls who haven't had time 331 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: with it, you're in a sense poisoning the well because 332 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 2: we have not had time with him and we have 333 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 2: not gotten to know him. So you having a negative 334 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: perception is going to make our heads all think, Okay, 335 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 2: well is this going on? Is he like not? And 336 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 2: I just didn't think that was there in that moment 337 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 2: to do. 338 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: Before we go to this week's one on one, you 339 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: were on a group date where there was only three women. 340 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that vander Pump Dogs group date. 341 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's the first time they ever did 342 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: a group date this early on where there's only three 343 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 1: people on it. 344 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent. And it was your second group 345 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 3: date of the week for all three of you because 346 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: sadly we saw Beverly went home and that spot opened up. 347 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 2: I know sadly Beverly did go home like so much 348 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 2: love for her, honestly, truly, she's so amazing. But yes, 349 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 2: a spot did open up, and that is my dream date. 350 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: I love Dogs one and then two leading meeting Lisa 351 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 2: Vanderbump was a dream. I'm a huge Vandles fan, so 352 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 2: seeing her was so exciting. But yeah, it's just like 353 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 2: really special. Again, we had such limited time, so also 354 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 2: having that little extra time this week. That week was 355 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 2: just really beneficial, and I really feel like Graham and 356 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: I had a great conversation in terms of like me 357 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 2: not feeling like I'm opening up fully. Like I said, 358 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,680 Speaker 2: it was really hard for me from the beginning, and 359 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 2: we do talk about my ability to open up and 360 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 2: how I am slightly and little by little throughout the time. 361 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: There, got it nice? Okay, so you guys, you guys 362 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: go to Madrid. So your first time on Madrid? 363 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 2: No, it's my second time. Yeah, so really exciting, so amazing. 364 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: You get a one on one date which just looks awful, 365 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: Like were you surprised? 366 00:17:54,520 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 2: Guys? No, best date of my life. I know that 367 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 2: sounds psychotic and there's probably something wrong with me, But. 368 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 3: Are you an adrenaline junkie? 369 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 2: Like? 370 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 3: Are you someone that would want to bungee jump somewhere? 371 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:09,679 Speaker 2: No? But I was like, you know what if I 372 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 2: get a one on one date, like I love clothes, 373 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, but I didn't want a shopping date, 374 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 2: like I feel like that's just so. I didn't want that. 375 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 2: I wanted something that was exciting and something that was fun. 376 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 2: And when I found out I was doing that, I 377 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 2: could not have been happier because I again, I fin 378 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 2: to Madrid, and I don't know Grant went to Madrid, 379 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 2: but we've both never been to Madrid and bungee jumps, 380 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 2: so I think it's just like it's something that was 381 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 2: so cool to do with someone and I loved it. 382 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,920 Speaker 2: I and the rain added an extra element of excitement. 383 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 2: I my hair looked terrible, but it's fine. 384 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:43,719 Speaker 1: Were you worried about like you guys were being you know, 385 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 1: tied up. Were you worried like your head was going 386 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 1: to hit his head or anything like that. 387 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 2: No, but I did ask her if it was if 388 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 2: anyone has ever done this in the rain, and she 389 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 2: said she didn't think so. So I was like, I 390 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 2: wasn't sure about that, but you know, we just went 391 00:18:59,760 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 2: for it. 392 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 1: Ayperst you did sign? Was was that like a you know, 393 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: like you may die? 394 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:10,360 Speaker 2: Yea? Yeah? Yeah. I was like if you can't do it, yeah, 395 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 2: you can't do it essentially, and she was like, yeah, 396 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 2: you'll be fine. I think, oh my god. 397 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: Grant was freaking out though, wasn't. 398 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 2: He He was freaking out. But I was just like, 399 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 2: I need a hairdye and I'm ready to go, like 400 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 2: I was so excited to do it. 401 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 3: I feel like that's a good thing you needed to 402 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 3: balance out on days like that. You can't both be 403 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 3: totally freaking out. I mean you can, but it's a 404 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 3: lot harder. 405 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And honestly, like throughout all of this, he's made 406 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 2: me feel so comfortable and so confident and so safe 407 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 2: that it was really nice to kind of reciprocate that 408 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 2: in that time because I genuinely, I mean, I was afraid, 409 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,959 Speaker 2: but I didn't out really show it, because I think 410 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 2: if both of us freak out, it's just a mess. 411 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 2: So I'm really happy I was able to internalize out 412 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 2: of it. 413 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 3: What were your goals or intentions going into your one 414 00:19:58,200 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 3: on one date? What were you hoping for. 415 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 2: To fully open up? I think that, you know, we 416 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 2: had small nuggets of you know, opening up and little 417 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 2: things that we spoke about, but I really feel like 418 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 2: I wanted to scratch more of the surface during this time, 419 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 2: because again, it's really hard when you know it's shuffling 420 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 2: girls and you only get like a few minutes. And 421 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 2: this was genuinely a time where I could sit down 422 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 2: and actually have a conversation with him and just feel 423 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 2: comfortable and not like you know, a girl's coming around 424 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 2: the corner in two minutes. So I feel like we 425 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 2: really needed this time, especially like hometowns being in two weeks, not. 426 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,640 Speaker 1: A while they're in two weeks. Not to get off, 427 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: not to get enough of this topic, but jumping back 428 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 1: or just going back to your the group date, were 429 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: you at all worried that since you were on a 430 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 1: smaller group date that may take you out of the 431 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 1: running for a one on one date? 432 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 2: Definitely, because at that point it's it was fourteen girls 433 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 2: and then it goes down to ten and it's so 434 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 2: crazy to even say this, but at ten only three 435 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 2: girls have had a one on one day. Wow, So 436 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 2: that's that's insane. And then again, hometown's being in two weeks, 437 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 2: it's like the chances of you getting a one on 438 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 2: one are very slim, So when you do get it, 439 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 2: you're so lucky for that time and so fortunate for 440 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,679 Speaker 2: that time. So then I think that goes back to 441 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 2: the Carolina stuff where it's like, you know, when you 442 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 2: do have that moment, appreciate it, if that makes sense. 443 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 2: And yeah, were. 444 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 3: You surprised that you got the one on one date 445 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 3: this week? Because I was saying you know, we saw you, 446 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 3: Lytia and Dina were on that small group date, and 447 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 3: then Lytia got that night portion, and then we saw 448 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 3: you and Dina got that one on one day. So 449 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 3: if I'm in your shoes when Dina gets that first 450 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,479 Speaker 3: one on one, I'm probably thinking like, it's not going 451 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 3: to be me, Like I'm not. Also, yeah, I love 452 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 3: and if it's. 453 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:53,919 Speaker 1: Not, it's almost like you're going home because he chose 454 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 1: two women from the group day and then not you. 455 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'd be freaking out. 456 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 2: No, I was teaking. I was like, I came all 457 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 2: the way to Spain, like I think I had four 458 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:10,439 Speaker 2: sangrias that You're like, it's over for me. I was like, 459 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm in Spain. I'm just going to 460 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,639 Speaker 2: drink as many sangria as as possible. And like I 461 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 2: was tweaking. I was, but no, I mean it really 462 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,959 Speaker 2: does take patience at that point, and everyone's probably like, 463 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 2: why is this girl freaking out? But yeah, to your point, 464 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 2: it's like, you know that we had the group date, 465 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 2: Latia gets one and Indina gets one, and then you're like, okay, 466 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 2: well what about me? In nonsense, but no, I mean 467 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,679 Speaker 2: I just had to wait that night, and that just 468 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 2: shows how much I am as a person too. I 469 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: never realized. 470 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 1: So then we go jump to the night portion of 471 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 1: the date and it's going, I mean my point of view, 472 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 1: it is going really well. 473 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it seemed to be going great. It seems like 474 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,679 Speaker 3: you guys were both really able to connect on your 475 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 3: relationships with your mom. We loved the moment that we 476 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 3: saw between the two of you. You know, obviously you 477 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,159 Speaker 3: got really deep, but this was a little bit more 478 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 3: of like a lighthearted well he's. 479 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 1: Like, well, well, when I go to make out with you, 480 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,400 Speaker 1: you're not really like into it, so. 481 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 3: Like, and he's like trying to like unpack like what 482 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,239 Speaker 3: that means about you as a person, and you're like, 483 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 3: I just don't want my mom to see me kissing you. 484 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 3: It's not that deep. 485 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 2: So I mean, so I didn't feel that way in 486 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 2: the moment, but like, okay, it's for contacts. When you 487 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 2: are kissing on camera, it's a camera crew all of America, 488 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:29,679 Speaker 2: your producer who you've become. Yes, it's awkward. It is. 489 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 3: I used to sometimes be like, could you guys back up, 490 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 3: Like I'm trying to pretend you're not here, and I'm 491 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 3: I can't, like you have like, can you back up? 492 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 3: It's hard, it is, it is so hard, and it's 493 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 3: like nothing against And I also am really weird about 494 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:50,360 Speaker 3: PDA as well, So this is PDA to the eleventh degree. 495 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 3: And I felt so bad in that moment because I'm like, 496 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,239 Speaker 3: I promise you, it is not you. It is just 497 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 3: my mom is watching right now, and like, yeah, you 498 00:23:58,680 --> 00:23:59,880 Speaker 3: have that in the back of your head. 499 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. It was just like, why am I thinking about 500 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:03,400 Speaker 2: my mom? 501 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,919 Speaker 3: But I get it, I get it. That was so funny. 502 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 1: Did that land with him though? Do you think he 503 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, that makes sense. 504 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: No. I think it totally made sense, especially because I've 505 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 2: talked so much about my mom and like for context 506 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 2: as well, my family did not want me to do 507 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 2: the show. They were very against it. I don't think 508 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 2: Reality TV was in their cards for me. But I 509 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 2: think eventually they were like, you know what, if this 510 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 2: is what you want to do, as long as you 511 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 2: show yourself in a way that you're proud of at 512 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 2: the end of the day, go for it. So I 513 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,919 Speaker 2: think he understood that, like my hesitation at times, but no, 514 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 2: it's not that I don't like making out with him. 515 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 2: It's just that I am afraid. 516 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 3: Of all the conversations you guys had on your one 517 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 3: on one, was there one that stood out as being 518 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 3: the most impactful, the most meaningful. 519 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:58,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I don't know what's shown, but I 520 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 2: did talk about my dating life and just I had 521 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 2: a very hard time dating a couple of years ago 522 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 2: because I feel like I was never really chosen, if 523 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 2: that makes sense. I feel like no one really and 524 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,680 Speaker 2: again it could have been because I also wasn't fully 525 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 2: giving myself, but I just feel like, you know, I 526 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 2: heard so many times like you're so great on paper, 527 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 2: and you're so kind, and you're so nice, and you're 528 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,360 Speaker 2: so beautiful, but you're just not for me, and that 529 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 2: after a while cuts so deep and it's very hard 530 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 2: to hear. And throughout my entire time with Grant, I 531 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 2: really do feel like he wanted to hear what I 532 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 2: had to say, and he listened and he let me 533 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 2: have that sace to open up. 534 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,959 Speaker 3: That's great, that's amazing. It's got to be hard to 535 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 3: be in an environment where he's dating a bunch of 536 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 3: other girls. If that is something that you've experienced in 537 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 3: your past, Yeah. 538 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like yeah, you've experienced this, but you go 539 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 2: on a show where a guys dating twenty five girl. 540 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 2: It's like, make it make sense. But yeah, you're like. 541 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 3: He chows me and everyone else tonight. 542 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 2: Great. Yeah. Yeah. 543 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 1: Would you say after this date, would you would you say, 544 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:08,199 Speaker 1: like this process did? Was the process working for you? 545 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: Were you like, Okay, I get how I get I 546 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: get this. 547 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was definitely working. And before this, I thought 548 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 2: I was like just fully whole, I had everything together, 549 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 2: and I felt like I was, you know, I fully 550 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 2: worked on myself. But throughout this, you learned so much 551 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 2: more about yourself and you work on yourself even more. 552 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,399 Speaker 2: And I didn't think I was gonna be able to 553 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 2: dig as deep as I feel like I could have 554 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 2: and opened up as much. So not only do I 555 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 2: feel like it was working in terms of like I 556 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 2: was going to connection, but I was also just like 557 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 2: growing myself a lot more as well. 558 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 3: Jumping to the cocktail party, we see a lot go 559 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 3: down a lot with Carolina and Juliana, and then we 560 00:26:55,640 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 3: also see Carolina and Rose not really get into it, 561 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 3: but kind of just you know, circle back to what 562 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 3: has been going on between them with the conversation and 563 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 3: the drama. 564 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 1: With Graham Rose at this point, right, Yeah, yeah, that's 565 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 1: that's a great feeling because yeah, I'm. 566 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 3: Like three one, Yeah, that's okaat But we see Rose 567 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,159 Speaker 3: send yourself home. Was that a surprise to you? What 568 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 3: was the reaction in the house. 569 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, So the Rose situation, will I'll say, is I 570 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 2: think going back to week three in La that cocktail 571 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,880 Speaker 2: party or that Rose ceremony night, you really don't see 572 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 2: Rose speak much. And I think it's because she was 573 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 2: one caught so caught off guard. And I think, similar 574 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 2: to myself, I think she she thinks about things before 575 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 2: she actually speaks. So I think she was like really 576 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,719 Speaker 2: trying to understand what one he was saying, what he 577 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 2: might have said in the past, and what Carolyna might 578 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,919 Speaker 2: have said about her. And I think from then she 579 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 2: kind of treated back into herself and took that also 580 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 2: into Spain. And I think going back going to the 581 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 2: Rose ceremony in Madrid, I think all that bubbled up 582 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,640 Speaker 2: because she again it is this giant phone of telephone 583 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 2: at this point, and all of that bubbling up. I 584 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 2: think it unfortunately like bursted on her, and I think 585 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:23,679 Speaker 2: it was just I think she reached her Lemon at 586 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 2: that point, So I just I feel so bad about that. 587 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 3: That's what it felt. It felt like, as much as 588 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 3: we were sad to see her go, it felt like 589 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 3: it was the best decision for her based on how 590 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 3: everything had played out. 591 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hypothetical hair right, And I don't know, I 592 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 1: don't know, we don't really know what went down. But 593 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: if you were on stage dancing with Grant and then 594 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: you come back to the mansion and you were chatting. 595 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 3: With Juliana Juliana Bailey. 596 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,239 Speaker 1: Anyway, and Juliana's like, well, just just so you know, 597 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: when he was dancing with you, he told me he 598 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 1: was thinking of me. How would you handle that like 599 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 1: I would? For me, I think it's hard to keep 600 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 1: that in Like, how do you not call the guy 601 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: out because you're like, well, what the fuck? 602 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 2: Yes, I think it goes back to it's not what's sad, 603 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 2: but it's how you say it. And I think I 604 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 2: would have phrased the conversation way differently. But it is 605 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 2: also very hard to hear. But then you also have 606 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: to remember it is so early on, so that's another thing. Also, 607 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 2: one thing that I did in the house is I 608 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 2: never listened to what other people's conversations were. I didn't 609 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 2: want to hear because I'm not great with like hearing 610 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 2: what other people have to say or what their connection 611 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 2: is like that would call you to fire. 612 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so ignorance is bliss in the situation. And if 613 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 3: you can avoid hearing or talking about it, and sometimes 614 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 3: you can't, but if you can, it's the best option 615 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 3: because you're one hundred percent going to hear him say 616 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 3: something to someone that's going to hurt your feelings, even 617 00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 3: if it's a respectable he's just complimenting someone in a 618 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 3: nice way. Like, it's still very emotionally confusing to hear 619 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 3: someone you like say sweet things just your friend. 620 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I remember at some point we were just 621 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 2: like I love you, I'm so glad you had so 622 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 2: much fun. But I don't want to hear it. Like 623 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 2: that's just it's setting a boundary for yourself for you to. 624 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,719 Speaker 3: S yes, which is I agree, the right decision, but 625 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 3: also sometimes easier said than done, as we've. 626 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 2: Seen, Yeah, it's sometimes it is. 627 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: Also. Yeah, I feel bad for Rose too, because I 628 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: feel like she got caught up in a situation really 629 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: early on that just took her out, Like it was 630 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:36,800 Speaker 1: like after that, it was. 631 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 2: Basically yeah, And it's also so hard to like come 632 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 2: back from that because then it's like, again, it is 633 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 2: so little time and it goes so quickly that like 634 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 2: that little hiccup can defer you so much from a hundred. 635 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 3: Any setback on this show is very, very hard to 636 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 3: come back from because you were working with so limited time. 637 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 3: You almost need to always be moving your relationship forward 638 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 3: or you're gonna get left behind. And sometimes I'm not 639 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 3: seeing that. You know, that's not wasn't Rose's hopes and 640 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 3: dreams was to you know, but or anyone's really But 641 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 3: sometimes it, unfortunately is just the situation and it happens 642 00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 3: and there's nothing that can be done about it. We 643 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 3: also saw Natalie and Priiza go home. Any surprises there 644 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 3: was were they did? They feel like it was kind 645 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 3: of their time? 646 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 2: I mean, I again, I never really talked about other 647 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 2: people's connection. I know Nale and Prisa are the sweetest girls, 648 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,479 Speaker 2: So yeah, it is definitely surprising, and I think just 649 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 2: with a lot of the drama, it was surprising in 650 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 2: terms of like who stayed and who go But again, 651 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 2: you don't know other people's connection and how far along 652 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 2: he is with other people, but they're so sweet and 653 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 2: amazing and they'll be fine. 654 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: Well, we're gonna play a little game before we do. 655 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 1: Can you tease next week? 656 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 2: A little bit jaw dropping? 657 00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,479 Speaker 1: A little bit jaw dropping? 658 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 3: Okay dropping? 659 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 660 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 1: I like that. Okay, We're gonna play a quick game, 661 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 1: rapid fire. Get to know Sarah finaw you ready? 662 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 663 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 1: What your love language? 664 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 2: Quality times? 665 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 1: What does your go to drink at a bar? 666 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 2: White wine preferably since there? 667 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: Who is someone that inspires you? 668 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 2: My sister? 669 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 1: What music artists would you love to see perform live? 670 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 2: I've seen him like five times. 671 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 1: But Drake, if you were stranded on a deserted island 672 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: and could only bring two girls from your season, who 673 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:35,480 Speaker 1: would you bring? 674 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 2: Two girls? 675 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:40,400 Speaker 1: It's all you get? 676 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 2: Okay? Do you know? Because she would get me out 677 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 2: of any situation, truly, she's so smart. And then Lettia 678 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 2: because she makes me laugh so much. 679 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 1: What is your dream vacation destination? 680 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 2: I really want to go to Africa? 681 00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: Favorite comfort movie or TV show? 682 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 2: I love rom coms. How Elizabe in Ten Days? My favorite? 683 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 1: How do you? How do you unwind after a long day? 684 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 2: I light a candle, I take a shower and I 685 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 2: watch a show. 686 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,680 Speaker 1: What are your three? What show are you watching right now? 687 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 2: So I love to rewatch? Controversial I apparently said I 688 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 2: watched grazon Natter three times, which I actually have, but 689 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: I have it on just like I have it in 690 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 2: the background. I don't actually just like stick there. 691 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, I was like, how are you doing this? 692 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 3: Are you you must have been only watching Graysonnatmi for 693 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 3: the last like twenty years of your life. 694 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 2: I just I just have it on in the background, 695 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 2: like if I'm working it's on. But like, yes, I 696 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 2: do watch it quite. 697 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 1: I've never seen one. 698 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 3: I think you should watch it. It's so good, But 699 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 3: you are like a bit of a hypochondriact, so you'd 700 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 3: have to get past it. Well, yeah, we're going to 701 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 3: like the er every single night. 702 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:04,600 Speaker 2: Joe's like, I have that. 703 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: What are yeh? What are three essentials you always have 704 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 1: in your purse? 705 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:19,879 Speaker 2: Oh? Lift, gloss, hand lotion, and I'm trying to think 706 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 2: what else? Oh, also floss because I go out for 707 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 2: dinner a lot and I hate when there's like stuff 708 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 2: stuck in my teeth and I go out for the night. 709 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 3: Joe is a huge there's floss, not the strands. But 710 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,320 Speaker 3: like the little packets of floss are everywhere in our apartment. 711 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,360 Speaker 3: I find them everywhere. 712 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to get the picks those. Really, you 713 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 2: can get into it if. 714 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,600 Speaker 1: You're if you're a grown up and you don't floss, 715 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 1: I have a big a problem with that. 716 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 2: No. Yeah, it's a curbing And. 717 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:50,400 Speaker 1: If you could describe Grant season in one word, what 718 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: would it be? 719 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 2: Oh, I know this, I'm gonna say it again, jaw 720 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 2: dropping dropping. 721 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 3: Okay, well yeah, I'm say we're about halfway, so lots 722 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 3: more to come. 723 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, alright, Serafina, thank you so much for taking the 724 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 1: time out of your busy day coming on the podcast. 725 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,719 Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much for having me. I had 726 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:13,239 Speaker 2: so much fun. 727 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,239 Speaker 1: Of course, an to our listeners, make sure you stay 728 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: tuned to Batchel Happy Hour. We have recaps and new 729 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: interviews for you every week. 730 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, be sure to stay tuned into Grant season of 731 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 3: the Bachelor and then come join us on Bachelor Happy 732 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 3: Hour every single week. Thanks for listening by