1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 3 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 4: When you're in love, sometimes you do crazy, irrational, emotionally 5 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 4: charged things like have kids. 6 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying? 7 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: No, maybe that's your life story. 8 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 4: But later on you come to regret those things, like 9 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 4: for me on Valentine's Day. 10 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: And I know some of you in this room. 11 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 4: I've heard this before, but when I was in college, 12 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 4: I basically destroyed my own fraternity house after I invited 13 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 4: two women to the Valentine's Day party. Both said yes, 14 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 4: and once they arrived, neither hung out with me the 15 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 4: entire day. So yes, the ceiling above my bed had 16 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 4: to be kicked in a thank you Bacardi. 17 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: Oh, it's not fair. 18 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 2: I'm what. I don't see angry Jeffrey because that sounds 19 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 2: like mirror. 20 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: That's in love, Jeffrey. 21 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 4: But today they're dealing with a regret that was also 22 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 4: spawned out of love. Not sure if Bacardi was involved 23 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 4: in their miss but let's talk to Jennifer about it. 24 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: Jennifer, how you doing. 25 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: I'm good, Hi guy, Just one red flag talking to 26 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: another possible red flag. 27 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 4: Even talking about Macarty, like Macarty orange fleas. 28 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: I made all the good decisions back. 29 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 2: Would walk Jennifer, Please tell us that you're making smarter 30 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 2: choices than Jeffrey. 31 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 4: That's my girl, all right. Tell us about your situation. 32 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 4: How has love come back to bite you? 33 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 2: So? 34 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 5: I was dating a guy for four months. His name 35 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 5: is Jason, and we met when my car got declined 36 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 5: at a bar and he offered to pay for it opportunists. 37 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 2: Yes, that's cute. 38 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, And we started hanging out and I was very 39 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 5: clear with him that I like it when he pays 40 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 5: attention to me, Like, for example, When I say that, 41 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 5: I mean like, if I'm on the couch with you, 42 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 5: look at me, listen to me, respond to me. 43 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 4: Well, that's three whole things that you're asking a man 44 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 4: to do while he's sitting on a couch. 45 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: So you tell us he's a big. 46 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 2: Ask because you don't want your boyfriend to ignore you. 47 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:09,679 Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying? No, watching the movie only 48 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 2: looking at me. 49 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 5: But also like, so be checking the sports scores constantly, 50 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 5: like know that I'm there and present with me as 51 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 5: well the present. 52 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 2: Okay, I mean is this something like how soon into 53 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 2: the relationship did you lay this down there? Oh? The 54 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 2: first week the first week. 55 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, yeah, it's pretty clear. That's what I like, 56 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 5: and that's how I like. 57 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 3: To be dated. 58 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 4: You know, it's good to establish rules early on in 59 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 4: the courtship. 60 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 2: Sometimes it worked for four months. Yeah, yeah, so he 61 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: was into it. He was fine with it. 62 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 5: I mean, he agreed because you had no other choice. 63 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 5: But then one day throw me off and he stopped. 64 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 2: Wait wait what happened? He stopped paying attention to you 65 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: the one. 66 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 5: Day he just didn't respond to me for an entire 67 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 5: twenty four hours, he didn't respond my text. I get upset, Like, 68 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 5: clearly he doesn't respect me enough to answer one text. 69 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 5: I don't care how busy you are. I'll give you 70 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 5: three hours maxed. 71 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 4: Oh okay, so you're not even together in the same space. 72 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 4: Right now, you're texting him and he's not responding, right, okay. 73 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 2: Are you guys in the same city or is he 74 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 2: traveling for work? 75 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 5: We're in the same city. So I dumped him over text. 76 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 2: Oh oh, that seems a little rash. 77 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 1: Was he in a surgery or something? Yeah, you don't 78 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: know what he was doing. 79 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,359 Speaker 5: Well, you know, the next morning, he's like, are you joking? 80 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 5: I was just busy. We literally talk every day? Do 81 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 5: you want to be with me? And I was like, uh, 82 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 5: you gun you were a small for twenty four hours, 83 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 5: so no thanks? 84 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 6: What look okay? In the wildest defense of my life, 85 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 6: listen here, If you're used to texting someone every single 86 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 6: day morning to night, and then one day four months 87 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 6: later with no explanation, that does seem out of the blue. 88 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 6: I don't know if you break up, but that's very weird. 89 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 2: Maybe you don't even have to talk about it, you 90 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 2: just dump them via text. I mean, it's a different story, 91 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 2: are you, Like, are you writing it now? Is that 92 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 2: why you're calling our show? Well? 93 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 5: You know, when I dumped him over tex I kind 94 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 5: of got me thinking about the other stuff that annoys me, 95 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 5: Like he never posts on social media ever, Like I 96 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 5: like some guys i'm dating sends me Instagram funny memes. 97 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: You don't want them on their phones. 98 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: You want them look at that. 99 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 4: She wants them on the phone talking to her and 100 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 4: not looking at anything else. 101 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: You get off your phone. 102 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 2: So you started snowballing with all these reasons that you 103 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: were right to dump him. 104 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 5: Yes, So then I get worked up. I block him 105 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 5: from every social media text. 106 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: As one does Yeah, it's a reasonable tick. 107 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 5: It's been a few weeks, and I regret it, and 108 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 5: I realized I've aas got a little overly emotional about it. 109 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 2: Huh, there's maybe some gross there. So did you reach 110 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: out to him and apologize? 111 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 5: No, Well, that's why I'm asking you. I was like, 112 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 5: I don't know how to ask him to go back 113 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 5: with me and give me a chance. 114 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is this is the first time we're going 115 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 4: to be reaching out to your ex boyfriend after you 116 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 4: dumped him over. 117 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 2: Text because he didn't respond to you in twenty four hours. 118 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I overreacted. Yes, I know this now 119 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 5: you know, and I I regret it, and I probably 120 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 5: should have thought about it or taken a couple of 121 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 5: deep breaths, but it really kicked me off. 122 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 4: Okay, I think, honestly, a lot of what you just 123 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 4: said right there to us would be great to put 124 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 4: somewhere in the conversation when we reach out to him. 125 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 1: Very awkward call that. 126 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 2: What's funny is I was thinking of the opposite. I 127 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 2: was thinking that all sounds like an excuse. Is why 128 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 2: it's okay that she did that? Like, that's not an apology. 129 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 2: An apology is just I'm sorry, like not, but you 130 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 2: really ticked me off. 131 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: Hold On, what's our goal here? Are we spelling it out? 132 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 6: You want him back? Or are we trying to subtly 133 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 6: convince him that he's missing out on you? 134 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 5: Whatever works, Guys, I want to date him again. So 135 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 5: can you help me? 136 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll try. We're gonna come back. 137 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 4: Give you a little bit of advice, whether it's a 138 00:05:55,320 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 4: sincere apology or a subtle threat. Yeah, and tunes the 139 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 4: phone call right after this. 140 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: Hold on, it's awkward. 141 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 7: It's Tuesday. 142 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call, Brooke. I have a question. 143 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: How hard is it to admit when you're wrong? 144 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: It's actually pretty easy. M Yeah all the time. 145 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: I haven't done it. 146 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 2: That's how are you kidding me? I admit I wrong 147 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 2: all the time. 148 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 4: Well, we took an informal poll around the office recently, 149 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 4: and it had to be a secret poll. Yeah, obviously 150 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 4: because some people here are afraid of you and quote 151 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,239 Speaker 4: what you might do to their. 152 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: Careers and families. 153 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 4: But I will say your name was up there as 154 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 4: one of the people that gets the most votes for 155 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,239 Speaker 4: someone who can't admit openly when they're wrong. 156 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 2: But I say it all the time. 157 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: Maybe that's just happening in your head. You should try 158 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: it out loud every once in a while. 159 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 2: Maybe you're listening skills aren't very good. 160 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: Person. You're constantly apologizing. 161 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 4: We have a similar mindset on the phone with us 162 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 4: right now named Jennifer, who regrets breaking up with because 163 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 4: he didn't text her back one day into their four 164 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 4: month long relationships. So, Brooks, since you and her think alike, 165 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 4: why don't you talk to work give her some advice 166 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 4: on how what you would do in this situation. 167 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: Everyone knows that's the type of person I am, Jennifer, 168 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 2: and I am here for you. But I actually do 169 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: have a good plan for you. Okay, Jennifer, you told 170 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 2: us about a story when you first met where he 171 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 2: rescued you after your credit card got declined. Remember you guys, 172 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 2: remember that. Yeah, he is the guy who wants to 173 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 2: be the night in shining armor. So guess what, you're 174 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 2: another damsel in distress right now. You need to call him. 175 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 2: You need to tell him something's broken at your house 176 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 2: and he is the manliest man is the only one 177 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 2: that can fix it, and I guarantee he'll come rushing back. 178 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 6: Actually, you're probably right. 179 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 4: What do you think about that, Jennifer. Make up some 180 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 4: sort of scenario he can save you from. 181 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you're like cute and sexy when he 182 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: shows up, just my chance and kill false for it. 183 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, we're guys, were dumb. 184 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, it could be like, I don't know how handy 185 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 2: he is, maybe like a broken outlet or a. 186 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 5: Well it's the guard is saying yes, then I'll try it. 187 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 4: One of the guys is saying yes, it could be 188 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 4: worth a shot, thoughjse what's your advice for Jennifer. 189 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 6: Well, you seem like a very passionate person, like very 190 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 6: intense person, which isn't a bad thing, but sometimes intense 191 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 6: people can be more you know, ran Tea. So I 192 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 6: think you just need to convince him that you were 193 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 6: ranting when you sent that breakup text. You didn't really 194 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 6: mean it, You weren't serious. 195 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: You were just mad. 196 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 2: I think that's gaslighting. Yeah, that's like the definition of 197 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 2: gas lighting. 198 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 6: Whatever works to get him back is to get him back, 199 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 6: and I think that'll work. 200 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 4: Okay, a little bit of make yourself a damsel in distress, 201 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 4: a little bit of gaslight him. 202 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: For causing all of your problems, like we've been dating 203 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: for four months. 204 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 6: You just don't know how I am. 205 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 2: It's your fault. 206 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, how does that sound? Jennifer? You feel ready now 207 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: to make this call? 208 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 5: I think so. 209 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 4: And if anything doesn't go according to our plan, Brook 210 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 4: is more than willing to admit that she is wrong. 211 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 2: You're right. I could see nothing going wrong with this 212 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 2: at all. 213 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: Exactly. 214 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: I feel that he's going to be so open to 215 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 2: dating again. 216 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: You are ready? 217 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: Here we go. 218 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 4: I'm dialing your ex boyfriend Jason right now. We'll step 219 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 4: in if we feel like I need little help here. 220 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 5: Hello, Hey you, how's it going? 221 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: Uh? 222 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 3: This is awkward? What's going on? Why are you calling? 223 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 5: I just how have you been. 224 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: Fine? 225 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 3: How about you good? 226 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 5: I actually went to the bar where we first met 227 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 5: and I just thought of you. 228 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 3: Okay, how we're going? 229 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 5: Yeah? 230 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 3: I know it's been good. But can I can I 231 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 3: help you with something? Or why are you calling? 232 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 5: Well? You probably want to say something to me, So 233 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:14,439 Speaker 5: I'm ready when you are. 234 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 7: Uh, you're calling me and you want me to say 235 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 7: something like I'll confused, Okay, fine. 236 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 5: I'll go for you. I just hate how everything went 237 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 5: down with us. I mean, you definitely should have talked 238 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 5: on the phone, and I also went a little crazy 239 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 5: and like may have overreacted a little bit, a. 240 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 3: Little a little yeah, a little, but I would that 241 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 3: word to describe it. But but I'm willing. 242 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 5: To forgive you for what you did. 243 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 3: You're wanting to forgive me? Are you serious? 244 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 7: Like you're calling me out of the blue asking me 245 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 7: to apologize to you when you're the one who just 246 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 7: like went that's crazy pretty much, Stayson. 247 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 5: I think you're interrupting me. I really hope you're not. 248 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 5: I just wanted to give you a fair chance to apologize. 249 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 7: Unfortunately, I'm sorry, but you're not going to get an 250 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 7: apology from me because you are the one who. 251 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 3: Put us in this predicament. So yeah, I'm not really 252 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 3: sure what you're expecting from me. 253 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 5: Let me just make it really easy for you, Like 254 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 5: I what you need to do is just apologize me 255 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 5: because you know and say sorry, Jennifer. You know, I 256 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 5: know you wanted to see me, and I know that 257 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 5: a day shouldn't go wild, like don't text me back. 258 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 7: Or making it so easy for me really really just 259 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 7: made my day here, Okay, I get this. 260 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:43,959 Speaker 5: Is hard for you, maybe and you're adding sarcasm on 261 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 5: top of that, but just so I'll help you start 262 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 5: it off. I'm very very sorry for not responding to 263 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 5: you and making you feel neglected. I'll you know, I'll 264 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 5: make it up to y'all. I'll even let you get 265 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 5: my groceries or buy me dinner or pay me rent, 266 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 5: like whatever gesture you want to show. 267 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 3: You know, are you actually being serious right now? Like 268 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 3: I yes, I am. 269 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 5: And also actually have something that's broken at my house 270 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 5: and it's hoping you can fix It's an outlet. 271 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 3: Would say, sex, what the hell is actually going on 272 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 3: like that? 273 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 6: Gat? 274 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 3: We are all these people on. 275 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 4: The phone, Jason, we're a radio show called Brooke and 276 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the Morning. 277 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so uncomfortable right. 278 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: Now beyond the radio. 279 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're doing something called an awkward Tuesday phone call, 280 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 4: trying to help out our friend Jennifer here with an issue. 281 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 4: And I will say, just to take her side, I 282 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:45,319 Speaker 4: didn't hear any apology what she gave me a lot 283 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 4: of chances there sarcastic. 284 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 7: Well, I'm actually I'm very thankful that you guys just 285 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:53,319 Speaker 7: witnessed that because this has been my life. 286 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 3: Isn't this ridiculous? What do you actually believe this is real. 287 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: Jennifer. 288 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 2: You told us that you wanted to like see again 289 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,559 Speaker 2: because you were sorry, remember you. 290 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 5: But he needs to apologize. 291 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, everybody knows a sincere apology is always better when 292 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 4: you force somebody to give it. 293 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 1: It makes total sense. 294 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 2: That's right, jeff That is. 295 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 4: Right either way, however you want to look at this. 296 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 4: There were some hurt feelings on both sides, and I 297 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 4: think what would really help is to get an apology 298 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 4: out there from both of you at the same time. 299 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 4: So I'll count to three and you guys can both 300 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:29,319 Speaker 4: say I'm sorry to each other ready one, two, three. 301 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 5: I'm sorry you didn't text me back. 302 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm still saying awkwardly silence over there. 303 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think Jason's made up his mind, Jeffery. I 304 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 2: don't think he's going to go over and fix the outlet. 305 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 4: No, he wants to go over and give her an 306 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 4: in person apology because an in phone apology wasn't enough. 307 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,200 Speaker 1: Is that what you're thinking, Jason. 308 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 3: I thought you hit it right on the head. 309 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just know these things. 310 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 2: He finally gets you, Yeah, he does. 311 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 7: He finally hurts you, right, And you know what, Jennifer, 312 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 7: I've actually moved on and I have a day tonight, 313 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 7: So I just don't know, Like there's really no purpose 314 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 7: in these kind. 315 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 3: Of calls moving forward, just oh good luck. 316 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 5: I'm sure she likes we texted back as well. I don't. 317 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 2: I don't think that she'll probably throw a fit at that. 318 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 4: I don't think you're reading in between the lines. What 319 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 4: he's saying is he wants you to show up to 320 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 4: the door, and. 321 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 5: May you do that, Jennifer text me time and place. 322 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 3: Jason, Wow, you really are crazy and fund. 323 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 4: Man talk about being nervous for your first date now 324 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 4: because you want to impress the new girl, because Jennifer 325 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 4: might show up out of nowhere dressed up as one 326 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 4: of the waiters. 327 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 2: I don't even say that and put that in her hand. 328 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: But it just means that she loves him. 329 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 6: No, he does not. 330 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 2: It means that somebody needs either way. 331 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 1: Looking Jeffrey in the morning,