1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com. 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: All you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter, 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the air, 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here, 7 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 1: right now. You never know, it could be yours. 8 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 2: Could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. We 9 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 2: got it for you here it is strawberry. Let us 10 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: thank you, nephew. 11 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: Subject to my marriage or my pleasure, Dear Stephen Shirley, 12 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: I've been married almost twenty years and my husband has 13 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: put me in a difficult position. When we first got together, 14 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:39,599 Speaker 1: we were swingers for a few years. We only did 15 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: it when we were on vacation, and it was only 16 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: with the couples we traveled with. We used to have 17 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: an occasional threesome, so my husband would be happy. He 18 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: would not let me bring another man into the threesome, 19 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: so he let me go have sex with an old 20 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: friend of mine a few times over the years. But 21 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: lately my husband doesn't want to have sex at all. 22 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: He said he's had enough wild sexual experiences to last 23 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: a lifetime. It's not a medical thing because his stuff 24 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 1: is still working properly. It's been eight months since he's 25 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: touched me, and on top of that, he changed the 26 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: rules of our marriage. He told me that if he 27 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: suspects I'm hooking up with my guy on the side, 28 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: he will leave me. I do not like ultimatum, so 29 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: I told him that I need to be pleasured, and 30 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 1: since he's changed his outlook on intimacy, I have to 31 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: handle business elsewhere. Two days ago, after work, I went 32 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: to meet my side guy for drinks. We planned to 33 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 1: have sex after drinks, so we started fooling around at 34 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: the bar. I couldn't wait to give him a nice 35 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: long kiss. As we were kissing, my husband walked up 36 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: and asked me to leave with him. I left, but 37 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: I did not talk to him all the way home. 38 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: He has threatened to divorce me, and he said he 39 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: will say I cheated on him in the paperwork. How 40 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: can he do that when we cheated on each other 41 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 1: and with each other all of a sudden, He is 42 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: a model husband, and he's forgotten that he introduced me 43 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: to this lifestyle. I need to stay married because we 44 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: have too many assets together, but I need the D two. 45 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: What should I do here? 46 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 2: Why? 47 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: What? Wow? Okay, See, this is what happens when swinging 48 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: in threesomes and going outside of your marriage for sex 49 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: and all that. This is what happens when it goes bad. 50 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: One thing is true that your husband said, and that 51 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 1: is that he's had enough wile sex to last him 52 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: a lifetime. I believe that. I don't see how you 53 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: guys made it for twenty years doing this, But why 54 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: don't you believe him? Yes, he may have introduced you 55 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: to this lifestyle, but he says he's done with it now. 56 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: People grow, people change, people change all the time. He's 57 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: over it. The problem is there's two of you in 58 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: this marriage. He introduced you to lifestyle and now he's 59 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: made the decision without you to stop it. It's good 60 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: that he doesn't want to swing anymore, because maybe your 61 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: marriage has a chance to survive, although I really don't 62 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: see it at this point because you said you just 63 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: want to stay together because you have too many assets together. 64 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: But the fact is that he doesn't want to have 65 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: sex with you anymore is definitely an issue if you 66 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: guys are going to be together. I mean what are 67 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: you supposed to do with this new information? And what 68 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: are you supposed to do in a marriage with no sex? 69 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: So you continue to do what you've been doing, seeing 70 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: other guys, seeing your side guy, and that's what he 71 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: said is going to make him leave you. Now he's 72 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: given you an ultimatum which you said you don't like. 73 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: So it sounds like your husband is serious about all 74 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: of this. So if you don't stop having sex with 75 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: others and he doesn't start having sex with you again, 76 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: your marriage, and I use that term very loosely, your 77 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: marriage or your version of marriage is over. So those 78 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: are your options. Those are your options. It's not really 79 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: much of a marriage anyway. 80 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 3: Steve, Well, let's comment on this raggedy letter, my marriage 81 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 3: or my pleasure? 82 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know what to tell you letter, I 83 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 2: really don't. 84 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 3: You've been married for almost twenty years and now you're 85 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 3: saying your husband has. 86 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 2: Put you in a difficult situation. That's really odd to you. 87 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 3: And then you start telling us how when y'all was together, 88 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 3: y'all were swingers for a few years. Really, we only 89 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 3: did it when we were on vacation, and it was 90 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 3: only with couples. We travel with Why do these people 91 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 3: be finding each other out? 92 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 2: Is it a web site? Yes, all of that? 93 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 3: What is going Oh? Man, I ain't never what's going on? 94 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 3: How do you who introduces this to the other person? 95 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,799 Speaker 3: How do you take this in there to your wife 96 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 3: and go, baby, I've been looking at this right here. 97 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 3: You want to try this? Yeah? 98 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: I guess I don't hear these people. 99 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 3: Then she said, we used to have an occasional threesome 100 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 3: so my husband would be happy, and he would not 101 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:13,559 Speaker 3: let me bring another man into the threesome. Well, I mean, 102 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 3: I understand that personally, but you said something to him 103 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 3: is very telling. We used to have an occasional threesome 104 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 3: so my husband would be happy. Oh okay, okay, so 105 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 3: not the swinging wasn't enough. Let's do a threesome so 106 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 3: your husband could be happy. And he found you and 107 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 3: you married into this. So since he wouldn't let you 108 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,839 Speaker 3: bring another man, he would let you go have sex 109 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 3: with an old friend of yours for a few times 110 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 3: over the years. But lately my husband don't want to 111 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 3: have sex at all. Let me just say this. He 112 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 3: tied to you. He tied you, and he don't love you. 113 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: Any time you. 114 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 3: Send your wife off to the arms of another man's 115 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:10,919 Speaker 3: because you don't care nothing about her. 116 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 2: You just don't care about her. 117 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,159 Speaker 3: And that's the reality of one of the aspects of 118 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 3: this letter. Your husband don't give it about you. I'm 119 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 3: gonna send you off to another man. I'm gonna bring 120 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 3: another woman in here. I'm we gonna swing. I'm gonna 121 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 3: watch another man do you and you watch me do 122 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 3: another woman. Man, get out of here. 123 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on. We'll have part two of 124 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the 125 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: hour today Strawberry letter, subject my marriage or my pleasure. 126 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. 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Then he says, she said, 147 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 3: we used to have an occasional threesome, so my husband 148 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 3: would be happy. So he needs all this, He to 149 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 3: convince you to give yourself to another man, and while 150 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 3: y'all on vacation, so he could be with another woman 151 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 3: on vacation. And now he wanted some more women in 152 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 3: here so he could be happy. But he wouldn't let 153 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 3: you bring a man in the room because now there's 154 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 3: two dudes in here, and he wouldn't let you do that. 155 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 2: But he would let you go have. 156 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 3: Sex with an old friend a few times over the years. 157 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 3: But lately, my husband don't want to have sex at 158 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 3: all because he don't give it about you. If you 159 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 3: with the man that will let you let another man 160 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 3: have you, it's because he don't value you. 161 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 2: There's no value. 162 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 3: I mean, I would want somebody to marry me because 163 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 3: they loved me and wanted to be with me and 164 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 3: share life with me, not share. 165 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 2: Me with other people life. Y'all ain't got nothing here. 166 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 3: He said, he had enough wild sex experiences to last 167 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 3: a lifetime. It's not a medical thing, because this stuff 168 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 3: is still working properly. It's been eight months since he 169 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 3: touched me, and on top of that, rules of our 170 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 3: marriage or it's been eight months since he to he 171 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 3: tied of you. See, he done went along with this 172 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 3: all these years. Now he tired of it and he 173 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 3: tied of you. He told me that if he suspects 174 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 3: I'm hooking up with my guy on the side, he 175 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 3: will leave me. I don't like ultimatoms, so I told 176 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 3: him I need to be pleasured. And since he's changed 177 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 3: it out look on intimacy, I have to handle my 178 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 3: business elsewhere. Okay, why don't y'all just get divorced. Y'all 179 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 3: ain't had no marriage and the begyon'ting. Why you call 180 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 3: it my marriage or my pleasure. It's just been a 181 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 3: hookup for pleasure, y'all. Just swingers or threesomes, dating apps, 182 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 3: wild parties, pass around. Y'all been passing each other around 183 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 3: for twenty years. Two days ago, after work, I went 184 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 3: to meet my side guy for drinks. We plan to 185 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 3: have sex after drinks, so we started fooling around the bark. 186 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 3: I couldn't wait to give him a nice long kiss. 187 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 3: As we was kissing, my husband walked up and asked 188 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 3: me to leave with him. Wait a minute, what see? 189 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 3: Well as the police report that right here. But I 190 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 3: don't understand. I walk up my wife kissing the man. 191 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 3: He asked me to leave with him. Well, we're not 192 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 3: finna leave him. We're not finna leave him. Well, we 193 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,239 Speaker 3: can't go no way. I gotta pay for the damages. 194 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 2: I got it. 195 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 3: You know when they put that yellow Tampa up, it 196 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 3: says you cannot cross it. We can't even get out 197 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 3: of here. I gotta feel out this police report. I'm 198 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 3: in the back seat of the car talking. I got 199 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 3: to go down here to this little interview room so 200 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 3: they can talk to me downtown and he asked me 201 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 3: to leave with him, But I left, but I did 202 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 3: not talk to him all the way home. He has 203 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 3: threatened to divorce me, and he said he will say 204 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 3: that I cheated on him on the paperwork. How can 205 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 3: he do that when we've cheated on each other and 206 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 3: with each other. All of a sudden, he's a model husband, 207 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 3: and he's forgot that he introduced me to this lifestyle. 208 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 3: I need to stay married because we have too many 209 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 3: assets together. But I need the D two. What should 210 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 3: I do here? Well, this marriage is a rapper because 211 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 3: it never was a marriage. And you're right, he introduced 212 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 3: you to this lifestyle. Now he want to change it. 213 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:38,080 Speaker 3: But now you live in a life. This is your style, 214 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 3: This is it? 215 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 2: Do you know? 216 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 3: In this whole letter the word love was never mentioned, 217 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 3: not one single time. Ain't nobody in love with nobody? 218 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 3: You sitting at the bar, couldn't wait to kiss this man? 219 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 3: Your husband? 220 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 2: Come up? 221 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 3: He ain't even upset he tell you to leave with him. 222 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 2: Ain't neither one of y'all in love? 223 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:00,439 Speaker 4: Wow? 224 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 2: So what you're fighting for this marriage for? 225 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 3: Why aren't you gonna be free so you can do 226 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 3: whatever you want? One of these assets is what you're 227 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 3: talking about? 228 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 2: Right? 229 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 3: What then happen is see all this asset and set 230 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 3: all this in motion. 231 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,839 Speaker 1: Come on, break it down one more time. 232 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 2: I like it. I said, all his assets to set 233 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: all this in the motion. 234 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 3: That's what your asset and done right. 235 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 2: Y'all to set the relationship on five. 236 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 3: See, so now you're talking about this, let's talk about 237 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 3: assets for minutes. Like I said, all this assets to set, 238 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 3: all this in motion, and y'all been passing out these sets. 239 00:12:55,920 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 3: This ain't even a good tennis match. Tennis miss laid 240 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 3: in sex with two people. Ain't never been three people 241 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 3: on tennis court. You gotta play doubles. So this is 242 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 3: a wrap. I don't really lady. I can't help you 243 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 3: stay in the marriage. He's not having sex with you, 244 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 3: but I want you to understand something. He having sex somewhere. 245 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 3: He don't having sex for eight months. Let me tell 246 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 3: you that right now? 247 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: All right, all right, Steve, thank you. 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