1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Okay, and I the asshole for saying I won't go 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: to my sister's wedding after she demanded a specific gift. 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: My sister is getting married in December. About three weeks ago, 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: she sent me and my husband a link to this 5 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: gift she wanted us to buy for her. It was very, very, 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,479 Speaker 1: very expensive and a weird gift for a wedding, but 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 1: she said that this is what she wanted us to 8 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: buy for her. 9 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 2: What is it? 10 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: I want to say, yeah, like she never reveals it, 11 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: which is geez, I. 12 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 2: Know, you got me on the edge of my seat here. 13 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: It's like doing a part two and make it two 14 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: minutes after you promised it. My husband responded that we 15 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: appreciated the suggestion and would take it into mind when 16 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: buying her gift. She responded that no, it was not 17 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 1: a suggestion, it was what she wanted us to buy. 18 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: He told her it was very expensive and we might 19 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: find something similar for her. She replied again with no, 20 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: she wanted that. 21 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 3: But you can't just demand a gift. That's why it's 22 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 3: a gift, I know, literally asking for like mur for 23 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 3: your firstborn. 24 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: She then sent further three links where we could purchase 25 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: this item in the US so we wouldn't have to 26 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: be shipping overseas. So she literally sent three links to 27 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: the same exact item. 28 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 3: Just to like, Uh, that's so that's some entitlement right there. 29 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: This could easily go on entitled. I told her it 30 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 1: wasn't going to be possible for us to buy it. 31 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: She told us that we needed to show up with 32 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: that gift and that is what she will accept from us. Like, 33 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: that is all I will take if you want to 34 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: show up to my wedding. 35 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 2: Jeez. 36 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: There's more back and forth over that week and that followed, 37 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: until ultimately I told her we would no longer attend 38 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: the wedding if the gift was that important and we 39 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: had to get that gift. She said, fine, f me 40 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: if I was going to let a gift stop me 41 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: from showing up and supporting her, and that I was 42 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: a crappy sister. My parents cannot believe that we are 43 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: no longer going, they said, my sister is just being 44 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: a brat, and I should still show up and bring 45 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: whatever gift we choose. 46 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 2: I see why it split. 47 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so like that end bit is the reason 48 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 3: it's but like she should definitely still show up even 49 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 3: though her sister's being a brat totally, Like everyone's an 50 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 3: asshole here. 51 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 2: Everyone who's asshole? Everybody, everybody in this story assholes. But 52 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 2: I wonder what the gift was. 53 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 1: I truly do want to know. 54 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like to be fair, like, I mean, there 55 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 3: are registries, right, Yeah, so like when you go to 56 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 3: a wedding, you're supposed to buy a certain gift, and 57 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 3: so maybe that's like what's happening here is they have 58 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 3: a registry and the sister wants them to buy it 59 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 3: off the registry and they don't want to. 60 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: I have to also assume that, like she said, she 61 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: said three other links, so there wouldn't be overseas shipping. 62 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 1: So this is like an item that is not commonly 63 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: found in the US, Like it's some sort of special 64 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: unique like you. 65 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 3: Know, he cannot even imagine what it would be. Maybe 66 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 3: it's like some kind of furniture. 67 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great guess. 68 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 2: I think I'm going to go back to. 69 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, Fan, you know, like spices like mer what is 70 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 3: murh you know that you know the Three Kings, Frank 71 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 3: I think you know what, Frankenson. 72 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: I think they're like like an herb or something like 73 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: that that's. 74 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 3: You know what I want, mineral. I think this would 75 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 3: be funny. I'm sure this joke has already been made, 76 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 3: but it just popped into my brain, so I'm gonna 77 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 3: say that I made it. I want someone to be like, 78 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 3: I'm giving you my gift of franking sense, and then 79 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 3: someone else is like, I'm giving you a gift of 80 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 3: like cumera, and then someone else is like, I'm giving 81 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 3: you a gift of murder. 82 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: That would be the ultimate plot. We thought it was 83 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: a plotast that she didn't show up to the wedding like. 84 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 2: That, Oh yeah, I'm giving you murders the whole nothing. 85 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 2: That's our no sleep like all right, signing off,