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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the morning show.

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Speaker 2: All Right, I asked you a question I did answer. So,

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Speaker 2: if you go on a break with someone not even

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Speaker 2: knowing you for everyone to go back, but you do

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Speaker 2: go back with them, must you confess to what happened

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Speaker 2: during the break? I know you have a pritting on this, Gandhi.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I say no, it's not a must. And if

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Speaker 1: you guys do decide to talk about it, I don't

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Speaker 1: think either side should be angry about what happened during

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Speaker 1: that time.

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Speaker 2: Maybe best not to talk about it. Yeah, I wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should have to talk about it.

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Speaker 3: I have a question.

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Speaker 4: Does a break mean that you're broken up? Or it

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Speaker 4: does just mean that you're doing your own thing for

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Speaker 4: a little bit of time.

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Speaker 2: It could be both.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I think you have to have that discussion, because

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Speaker 4: if I have permission to hook up with other people

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Speaker 4: because we're on a break, then you don't need to.

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Speaker 2: Know that's not a break, is it? Is it a break?

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Speaker 2: If you have rules doing your own thing mean somebody

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Speaker 2: else doing your thing? Okay?

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Speaker 5: But I think if you're gonna like have that conversation,

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Speaker 5: like maybe you don't tell everything, but each person has

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Speaker 5: to agree that once again, like gond he said, there's

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Speaker 5: no judging. You can't get mad, you can't put it

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Speaker 5: over their head.

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Speaker 1: You were on a break, right This actually happened with

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Speaker 1: an ex boyfriend of mine.

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Speaker 2: Oh really, but it wasn't a break. We broke up.

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Speaker 1: He moved, I moved.

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Speaker 2: It was clearly a break, clearly a breakup.

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Speaker 1: So I'm living my life, having a good time. And

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Speaker 1: then we started talking again a few months later, and

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Speaker 1: it just came out in conversation because I'm not thinking

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Speaker 1: I did anything wrong. You know, we're broken up.

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Speaker 2: If you live your life bub of my life.

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Speaker 1: This man lost his ever loving mind. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: you know, at the very least I got some closure

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Speaker 1: as to why this ended. So that's great, because what

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Speaker 1: you can't get mad? We were broken up up. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't a break.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I look at breaks like this, and I'm everyone looks

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Speaker 2: at it differently. But I'll tell you my philosophy of

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Speaker 2: a break. A break is you are too chicken to

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Speaker 2: break up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a light like a diet.

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Speaker 2: Break up right now? If you need to, Hey, do

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Speaker 2: you mind if I go spend a week, you know,

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Speaker 2: on my own. That's that's different. But we need to

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Speaker 2: take a break. You're you just can't commit to a breakup,

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Speaker 2: is what you can't.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. You guys, remember Friends Russ and Rachel.

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Speaker 4: That was one of the biggest episodes ever, the breakup

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Speaker 4: and Russ is like, way, we're on a break meaning

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Speaker 4: they shouldn't have been with other people. So, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think it depends on who you.

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Speaker 2: Ask, right, You're right, it's different for everyone.

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Speaker 1: I guess you have to be really, really really clear

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Speaker 1: about the terminology break or breakup and what that means.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so here's what we're gonna do. You and I

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Speaker 2: have been with each other for a couple of years.

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Speaker 2: We're both obviously at a point where we're not getting

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Speaker 2: along when it comes to this, this and this. Maybe

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Speaker 2: we just need a little breather. So let's do that. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we'll do that. I think that's a good idea. But

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Speaker 2: let's just both agree that we can't see other people.

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Speaker 2: Rights agree we can't see other people? What do you

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Speaker 2: mean by see other people? Like? I gotta got outs

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Speaker 2: my eyes out, I can't see people, or I can't

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Speaker 2: like date someone. Hmmm, I don't know. I think a

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Speaker 2: break is for people who are just not able to

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Speaker 2: break up and don't have the guts to do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you might be right.

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Speaker 2: A breather is a breather and a break or two

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Speaker 2: different things.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's a breather?

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Speaker 2: A breather is like, can we just like I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: go to the Caribbean for a week, like you're bothering me?

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Speaker 1: Just leave me alone for a week.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a breather. Okay, I mean nah, what do

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Speaker 2: you mean? Nah, you're gonna go to the Caribbean for

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Speaker 2: a week. Yeah, yeah, that ain't working out. I could

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Speaker 2: easily go to the Caribbean by myself and not have

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Speaker 2: to diddle with anyone. I'm fire you you could, yes,

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Speaker 2: but would you sounds a little suss well no, Look look,

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Speaker 2: look you know't mean well enough. If if it's something

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Speaker 2: to break up, I will tell you flat out we're

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Speaker 2: done you. Yes, but you're different, you're not the norm.

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Speaker 2: Well you're asking me, we're giving our opinions, yes.

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Speaker 3: Nate, So a breather means no diddling, But a break

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Speaker 3: is a breakup, and you can diddle.

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Speaker 2: I think so so breather this okay, this is my opinion.

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Speaker 2: For me, our interest is coming from our persons. I

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Speaker 2: agree with you, especially like a longer term relationships. Maybe

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Speaker 2: you need a breather, just away from each other and

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Speaker 2: no diddling with other people. This text is interesting. I

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Speaker 2: see a break. It's like a break from your job.

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Speaker 2: You're not at your desk, but you're still employed by

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Speaker 2: the company and still held to company standards. Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: So like being furloughed. Yeah, it's a break. Is just

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Speaker 2: to step away from the every day and think on

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Speaker 2: your own. I think that's a breather.

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Speaker 1: Okay. But using that analogy, if you are furloughed, you're

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Speaker 1: allowed to have a side hustle, aren't you.

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, Okay. A furlough is different than paid time off.

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Speaker 3: If you're taking paid time off, yeah, you're gonna go

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Speaker 3: back to that thing that pays you, right, But a furlough,

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Speaker 3: they don't pay you.

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Speaker 2: I say, you go diddle, then.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, But while you're getting that paid time off, you're

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Speaker 5: still getting what matters, you're getting paid. While you're on

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Speaker 5: the break, you're not getting any of that.

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Speaker 2: Tell you what if you want a break from me

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Speaker 2: and you don't want me to cheat on you? Pay

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Speaker 2: me cash.

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Speaker 5: Together?

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Speaker 2: Don't you feel like a break though?

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Speaker 3: It's more of an exploration and a discovery to see

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Speaker 3: if you will have missed the person while you're gone.

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Speaker 2: It could be, because I think that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: It's an experiment almost like am I better off without

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Speaker 2: this person? Do I miss this person? So you get

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Speaker 2: to do all the things that you want to do

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Speaker 2: during a break. As I said, I mean, obviously we're

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Speaker 2: our definition of a break is coming from our specific

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Speaker 2: point of view, So yours could be that mine could

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Speaker 2: be mine, you know, okay? In this text, this text

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Speaker 2: says it all. Either you're together or you're not. Either

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Speaker 2: you're together or you're not. I just think taking a break,

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Speaker 2: what your breath is kicking a breather, maybe a breather.

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Speaker 2: I need I need some oxygen.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, I think we all smell like that right now?

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Speaker 2: If having the hot chick I don't stop talking near me.

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Speaker 2: Don't talk near me. The air is green. It's burning

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Speaker 2: my eyes. I can't see.

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Speaker 1: Your reactions whenever there's a scent that you don't like

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Speaker 1: are very hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean, I have been in a situation in

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Speaker 2: a relationship before where I we talk about what we

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Speaker 2: need to break and I was like, can't we just

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Speaker 2: agree that means we want to break up? Let me,

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Speaker 2: let's just be honest. Let's I think you're right, because

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Speaker 2: you know, if we're together, you know we should work

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Speaker 2: this out. If if that involves us like taking a

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Speaker 2: day or two, just like in a hotel somewhere by ourselves.

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Speaker 2: If that's different.

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Speaker 1: Breaks feel like a way of people saying they want

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Speaker 1: like a sexual walk about, Like I'm going to go

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Speaker 1: explore the world and if i don't like what I

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Speaker 1: see out there, I'm gonna come back. Okay, it's another

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Speaker 1: way looking at it.

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Speaker 4: I'm coming back.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm gonna go try all these other places and

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Speaker 5: if I don't like those, I'll come back to this one.

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Speaker 2: That's what it sounds like. We do here. We got

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Speaker 2: a break, we gotta break. Can we take a break.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna take a breather. But we're not breaking up

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Speaker 2: with you. We're not breaking up. We're taking a breather.

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Speaker 2: We'll be back