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Speaker 1: My sister says she needs fifty thousand dollars of my

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Speaker 1: am I the asshole for saying nah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why uh you try to get an advance on your inheritance?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And also why are you trying to like preempt taking

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Speaker 2: You know, if we're talking about efficiency.

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Speaker 1: Talking about efficiency, end of life care is expensive. It's

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Speaker 1: a little more efficient, onlyt you know, extend it longer

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Speaker 1: than needs to pull the plug? Pull it, take it?

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Speaker 2: You got it? All right? Got it?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: I'm not proud of this? Right? That's it? My mom?

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I won't pull the plug on you unless

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Speaker 1: actually my mom said pull the plug actually, so.

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Speaker 2: Actually, mom, I will pull out.

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Speaker 1: My mom said that if she is a vegetable, please

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Speaker 1: kill her fair enough.

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Speaker 2: I feel the same way.

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Speaker 1: About killing my mom. Yes, John, if I'm the asshole

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Speaker 1: for killing my co host mom. My sister Kay sixty

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Speaker 1: eight has always been an f up. Dozens of dead

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Speaker 1: end jobs, married drug dealers, credit card debt out of

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a great life, sounds like a resume. Real. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Ten years ago, she moved back to her hometown after

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Speaker 1: thirty years of being a wall to care quote unquote

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Speaker 1: Mom was fully functional, handled her own finances, shot cooked,

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Speaker 2: That's pretty good eighty five, Go Mama, Go Mama. That

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Speaker 2: Oh god, what those gums do? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So Kay moved in and I found out later she

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Speaker 1: doesn't pay for anything, no rent, utilities, cable, her cell phone, groceries,

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Speaker 1: gas for her car. I asked Mom about this, who

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Speaker 1: survives on Social Security and a few investments, and she

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Speaker 2: For k So I shut up. You want to do this?

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Speaker 1: You want to give all your money to a deadbea

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Speaker 1: drug dealing, marrying, credit card debt, bankruptcy lady.

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Speaker 2: It's your kid, dude. It's hard. It's hard.

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Speaker 1: The forest was invented for a reason. You drop your

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Speaker 1: It's like nature's birth control. When birth control doesn't work.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Fast forward ten years into the future. Future everything has chrome.

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Speaker 1: It's a SpongeBob reference.

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Speaker 2: That is wow, I forgot look at you, I know,

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Speaker 2: I know. There we go pretty proud of myself.

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Speaker 1: We found out Mom asked Kay to handle the bill

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Speaker 1: paying without anyone's knowledge. Starting about three years ago, Kay

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Speaker 1: set it up all online. Mom wrote checks, never learned

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Speaker 1: to use computer. The reason this came to light was

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Speaker 1: my other sister, Beth, thought, with Mom in failing health,

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Speaker 1: someone should be added to her bank account.

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Speaker 2: Legally.

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Speaker 1: Turns out, decades ago Mom added me as joint account holder.

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Speaker 1: I had forgotten Q. The music opened the floodgates. Ah,

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Speaker 1: there's a bunch of truth that's about to enter this

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Speaker 2: They're not ready. They're not ready. A tsunami of truth.

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Speaker 1: A tsunami more like a like a truth HIV. Like Wow,

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Speaker 1: it's it's been inserted inside of you, and it's replicating

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Speaker 1: very fast, and before you know it, you'll go from

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, that's an image.

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Speaker 1: Two honky cowboys to one thin straw of a man

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Speaker 1: oh Man wear protection.

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Speaker 2: I reviewed the account.

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Speaker 1: Turns out Mom has been paying K five hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: I mention Kay's a slab didn't even clean her place?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Come on cures, bills for her dog craft supplies, et cetera.

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Speaker 1: Needless to say, I was floored. Not that that wasn't

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Speaker 2: Oh it's a real drama. Yeah, bro, all this drama

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Speaker 2: wasn't enough. We're talking about the real drama. It ain't enough.

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Speaker 1: Since twenty thirteen, there were forty dividend checks totaling thirty

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars. Only two were deposited of the forty. Oh

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Speaker 1: Kay the other checks since until a twenty twenty Mom

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Speaker 1: handled her own finances. When Beth asked Kay about these checks,

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Speaker 1: Kay says Mom cashes them and keeps it in a

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Speaker 1: But when all is said and done, when Mom dies,

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Speaker 1: Ken Beth, who is power of attorney, exclude Ka from

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Speaker 1: up after discovering what kdad. Beth has right of survivorship

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Speaker 1: on it. Mom's will says, everything is split five ways

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Speaker 1: to all of my siblings. Thanks for listening and advice.

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Speaker 3: Wow, my god, this is one where you don't think

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Speaker 3: it can get worse, but it does, but then it

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I guess the question is what should slash can OPI

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Is it fair to take away the money, the fifty

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Speaker 2: I think so? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right, So basically it's like, we're gonna do you

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Speaker 1: spend fifty k. We're gonna take it out of your

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yep, yep, Yeah, that makes that makes it

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Speaker 1: Like although fifty grand over ten years isn't that much,

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Speaker 1: I think they'll stealing shit.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, the big thing is it's like stealing because

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Speaker 3: like the mom didn't know. Ohp obviously didn't know until now,

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Speaker 2: Mom knew a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe the mom knew a little bit but was

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Speaker 1: Is the mom in good enough health to ask the

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Speaker 2: That's that's the other question.

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Speaker 1: A good question you know what I mean, Like if

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Speaker 1: the mom is okay with it. Seems like the mom

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Speaker 1: it's her money too.

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Speaker 2: That is a great point actually.

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Speaker 1: You know, like it still is like maybe a little shitty,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if that is the case, then it's like it's

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Speaker 2: But is it a one? Is it like a are

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Speaker 2: you a legal asshole? Is it a yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are you a are you a certified legal ass legal asshole?

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's a new one. I don't know what would you

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Speaker 1: was pretty terrible in how she took advantage of the mom. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: in this situation if you were op let us know

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Speaker 1: your answer below.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into the next one. Let's do it.

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Speaker 3: I inherited my rich grandpa's entire fortune, and my family

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Speaker 3: just found out that they got nothing.

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Speaker 2: I am not sharing. Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: They don't deserve it, and you deserve it at all. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: op duck, that shit be like smog the dragon. Sit

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Speaker 1: on all the gold, sit on it, you know, particularly

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Speaker 1: little gold dildo. Have it outside you, inside you, beside you, everywhere, everywhere,

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Speaker 1: all your holes. Yeah, all your holes should be filled

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Speaker 2: That's right. Wow, that was beautiful. You know that could

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Speaker 2: be a song.

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Speaker 4: All you hole.

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Speaker 2: Filled with gold song.

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Speaker 4: You can't be had into it, And because we're always.

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Speaker 2: Pay I will fill your let it all ready down.

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Speaker 3: That's pretty good improvs song singing, By the way, that

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it. My grandpa has stage four lumber

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Speaker 2: cancer and was in.

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Speaker 3: Hospice for the last few weeks of stay life or

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Speaker 3: what cancer it says lombar lumbar like our support.

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Speaker 3: Guess over laughing, I think that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: But lumbar producer is that legit literally consisted five.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I guess it's part of your back, right, So.

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Speaker 1: Damn, I guess that's sciencer really did throw his back out.

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Speaker 2: That's not not the way you want to go. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: freaking busten that back. Can't pop that ass no more.

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Speaker 3: No damn rip ti booty arip to that booty breaking

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Speaker 3: it down. My family was mostly not involved with hospice

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Speaker 3: during this time. Anyways, we found out that Grandpa had

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Speaker 3: cancer two years ago. My family started to act like lunatics,

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Speaker 3: but not in the way of concerned family members, but

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Speaker 3: like performative assholes, which we've seen on this show.

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Speaker 2: We love performative assholes. Oh yeah, you're looking at two

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Speaker 1: That's RIGHTHO perform go stick stick.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful editors. Yeah, you do something with that far.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. The only ones really caring were my cousins and

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Speaker 3: I you know that movie Knives Out.

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Speaker 2: It's like that.

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Speaker 3: Every conversation they brought up the will and asked him

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Speaker 3: to give him their share as to avoid paying inheritance tax. Bro.

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Speaker 3: Before my man's even gone, They're like, okay, just give

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Speaker 3: me my inheritance right now.

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Speaker 1: I know that lumbar is not gonna support you too

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Speaker 1: much more so, uh, how about you hand over the

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Speaker 1: cash now for tax reasons. Hey, you're you're you're just

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Speaker 1: give to me die anyway, I don't want to pay

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Speaker 1: the tax, not being so selfish, Just give it to me, please,

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Speaker 1: please come on. Then when the cancer progressed, what are

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Speaker 1: those chairs erin Ermin chairs, Erman Miller, Ermin Miller chairs.

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Speaker 2: Man, one of.

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Speaker 3: Those support wasn't there, bro, His lumbar was just suffering.

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Speaker 3: The lumbar was too low to support his lumbar. Wow,

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Speaker 3: let's raise the lumbar up and protect our lower backs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, protect that bag.

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Speaker 1: Don't you know believe all these girls talking about how

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Speaker 1: And then it all changes, and then it all changes. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I'm about your ladies. Keep your backs intact. Yeah, don't

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Speaker 3: Then when the cancer progressed, he said he didn't want

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Can you fuck off? My god? Can you imagine

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Speaker 1: And it was like, just give me the money, and

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Speaker 3: So you're you're you're hipp you're with Apparently I'm not

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Speaker 3: my god. She is not a medical professional, but she

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Speaker 3: made him go keto or paleo. He was too weak

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Speaker 1: Bro, come on right before he died.

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Speaker 2: Bro, are you kidding me? Keto gonna stop the cancer?

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Speaker 1: God man should only be eaten pussy at this stage

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Speaker 2: You thought he was feeling you. That boy is a

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Speaker 3: Okay, So my cousins and I started to go over

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Speaker 3: Like, you know, get some gelato, you know, like cute

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Speaker 2: God yikes. But instead of taking him to the park,

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Speaker 1: We took him to a big cliff. No, no, grandpa,

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Speaker 1: we're going to the park. Look over this ledge.

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Speaker 2: God my back. I had Herman Miller.

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Speaker 3: Support this nester Lynkags. But instead of taking him just

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Speaker 2: That's actually really nice.

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Speaker 3: Basically, he had a bucket list and we would sneak

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Speaker 2: We would also sneak in the foods that he wanted.

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Speaker 2: Nice cute old man activities.

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Speaker 3: Right, just give me an old cigar before it goes honey,

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Speaker 1: And then they got them all like a bunch of hookers.

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Speaker 3: That night, he told us that we would be the

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Speaker 1: Dude, low key, all you gotta do is treat them

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Why would the ali level strat, why would she

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Speaker 2: put him on on keto like that's only going to

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Speaker 3: With our oldest cousin being the executor of the estate,

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Speaker 3: us to sign something he passed. A week after that,

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Speaker 2: Our parents are all really mad at us.

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Speaker 3: They have kicked us out and they're saying they're gonna

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Speaker 2: What is theirs? Because legally it's just that five k.

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Speaker 3: Are we the assholes for not telling them about anything

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Speaker 2: Wow? This is juice, So literally, there's some juice in this.

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Speaker 3: The grandkids basically they actually cared about the grandpa, I think, and.

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Speaker 1: Wanted to send him off to care about his money.

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Speaker 3: Children were basically like, no, let's just let him die quick.

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Speaker 1: Also putting him on Keto is just gonna make him

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Speaker 1: live longer. Give him for burgers, ice cream, Like actually.

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Speaker 2: Them double failing and he's going to live longer. I know.

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Speaker 2: Like like the kids did it right.

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Speaker 1: They gave him everything he wanted and give him things

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Speaker 1: that will make him die. Whiskey hookers, the guitars, the trifecta. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they really, they really were speed running that ship.

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Speaker 3: The crazy thing me though, Like this just shows you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, the parents are giving dirtbags. They're saying they're

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Speaker 1: Also, it is his money, and to respect his dying wish,

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Speaker 1: I think is the right thing to do. It's his

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Speaker 1: He didn't give it to everyone else for a reason.

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Speaker 2: Like these people that.

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Speaker 3: Could you imagine cutting off your own child because you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you imagine it's the man's dying wish. This is

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Speaker 1: why we make wills, Yeah, because we want to know

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Speaker 3: Here's the question though, that Op was asking, is OPI

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Speaker 3: the a hole for not communicating that before the grandpa

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Speaker 2: That they would get everything. Yeah, let us know what

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Speaker 3: But Sam, I think no too write because like in

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Speaker 3: like the direct response to his wishes, he's just like a.

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Speaker 1: Week after, like a week, a couple of weeks before

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Speaker 3: And oh, I think the grandpa actually said explicitly, let

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Speaker 3: me double check he asked us not to say anything.

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Speaker 2: So they were literally respecting his.

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Speaker 1: Literally the biggest not the a hole ever. But I

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Speaker 1: want to know what y'all think. Put your answers in

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Speaker 1: the area below.

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Speaker 3: Speaking of things finishing out, Sam, you want to finish

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Speaker 3: us with this last story.

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Speaker 2: I would love to finish everyone. Let me out.

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Speaker 1: You going to blow your back out? Listener, Hey baby,

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Speaker 1: oh God, listen up, cut it right like that back

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Speaker 1: of yours. Finish it. Let us let me die in peace,

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Speaker 1: let me let the story end. We insert something in

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Speaker 1: to blow it out, and that's his next story.

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Speaker 2: Oh dear,