WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Abby 0:00:01.080 --> 0:00:03.680 The best bits of the week with Morgan. It's Listener 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:06.520 Q and Daytime. We're Morgan in a show member answer 0:00:06.519 --> 0:00:11.160 almost all your questions Abby. Weekend. 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:13.720 It is Listener Q and A Time. I'm joined by 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:16.360 Abby this weekend and as always, starting out with some 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:18.759 shout outs because we need some more feel good good 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:21.599 news in the world. Teagan, I just want to say 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:24.480 you and Abby are amazing and do your jobs fantastically. 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:27.639 You and Abby are also don't let lunchbox get down. 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.200 Oh boom, that's wrong. 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:33.360 Stephanie would from Illinois. I love your voice and I 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:37.239 love you. Oh NaNs love listening to you girls talk 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:43.559 about ICT. Julie from Hutchison, Kansas, Yes, Kansas, wishing you 0:00:43.600 --> 0:00:44.520 the best on your event. 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:47.280 I know it will be amazing. Sherry from Maryland. 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:48.160 Oh that's so nice. 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:50.000 Thank you with some good things. 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:54.320 So we did talk a little bit about your big 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:55.480 event happening. 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:57.520 This weekend on part one, so if you want to. 0:00:57.480 --> 0:01:00.600 Get a full breakdown, go check that out. But Jane 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:02.680 from Cincinnati wants to know if you found. 0:01:02.560 --> 0:01:05.200 A guitar player for your big gig out in California. 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:08.200 I did, Okay, I found one. Yes, I don't want. 0:01:08.959 --> 0:01:10.160 You don't have to talk about it more than I 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:11.120 just so you found one. 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:11.480 I did. 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:14.959 Yeah, So I'm excited, Okay, very exciting. Are you still 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:18.480 working on new music? Ali and Louisiana, who says you 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:19.679 are her favorite on the show? 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:20.680 Oh? Thank you? 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:23.160 Yeah I am. I do have another. I have a 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:26.479 song that's like ready to be cut called ex Boyfriend 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:30.199 material that I'm actually singing out at the event. But then, 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:32.640 like I said, I'm going to use some of the 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:35.120 money to like record new songs and I'm going to 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:37.039 start writing because I wanted. My goal was to get 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:40.240 five songs that I wrote, you know, myself, and put 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:42.600 it out to the world. So that's my goal. So 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:44.560 that will be next after this. I've just been like, 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:47.039 there's been a lot happening. I've been busy, but I 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:47.639 have too. 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:51.040 So part one again, we really kind of extensively talked 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:52.600 about all this, so you can go check that out. 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:55.640 Do you have a demo of the ex Boyfriend one 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:58.400 or do you have like a vocal of anything any kind? 0:01:58.560 --> 0:01:58.680 Not? 0:01:58.720 --> 0:01:59.000 Really? 0:01:59.040 --> 0:01:59.920 Do you give us a lyric? 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:02.600 Oh, I can't. 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:06.760 Well this spot, so I can give you a say. 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:08.520 I can do a little buffering here if you need. 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.560 To, like think, I'm not gonna think, how's it going. 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:12.400 Prepare your voice or however you mean to do it. 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:15.360 But she has a new song and she's been playing 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:17.240 it at a place here in town, and then she 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:18.799 plays she's gonna play it this weekend. 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:23.280 But it goes a little bit like this. Wait, he's 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:29.280 a hardbreak walking too, smooth talking, get you falling, with 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:35.320 lips so kissable. He's good ed hotting, those red flags flying, 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:43.079 he's hot ass sin Buddy's ex boyfriend material. Those lips 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:43.920 are kissable. 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:47.120 I'm blushing. 0:02:47.760 --> 0:02:50.640 It's one of those songs. Okay, Yeah, it's a little sassy. 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:53.000 I like a sassy song. I know one of my 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:57.240 co writers, Chelsea Stallings, she like harmonizes on it and 0:02:57.280 --> 0:02:59.840 she sounds so good. So it's like super sassy and I. 0:02:59.800 --> 0:03:02.919 Love I love a sassy female anthem and that kind 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:04.600 of sounds like what it is, but like. 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:06.120 It's a lot more. The way I just sang it 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:07.919 now is not so that. But that was just a 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:08.680 little taste. 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:10.320 No, I like the taste. I put you on the 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:13.040 spot too. That was on me, all right? 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:15.639 Were you offending when Scuba asked you to step out? 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:17.560 Of the pictures from Maggie. 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:21.440 I wouldn't say offended. It was just more like, oh 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:24.000 my gosh, what does this mean? Am I gonna get? 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:25.920 Am I about to? 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:26.240 Like? 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:28.560 But I understand, you know, like I understand where he's 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:31.519 coming from, because I also I did kind of feel like, ooh, 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:33.160 should I be here? Like I feel like they need 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:36.160 one without me, like behind the scenes just more like 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:38.960 an on air only people. So I understand. But I 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:42.280 was just like, why is he speaking for me? I 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.720 don't know. Yeah, Like you know, but I wasn't really 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:48.760 offended because I understood it, but I also was reading 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:50.520 into it because I'm an overthinker, and I was like, 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:52.400 are they about to fire me? 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:54.680 Like what does this mean? Are you just gonna come 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:55.520 at me this way? 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:57.760 What's going on? Are you announcing right now? 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:58.000 That? 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.920 Like? But yeah, it was just kind of funny. 0:04:01.720 --> 0:04:03.840 You know, if it makes you feel any better. 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:06.840 I joined the show right after they took the last one, 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:12.840 like literally within days, and it has been seven years. 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:16.000 Which I just cannot believe. Because we send out pictures 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:17.320 sometimes to sign. 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:20.440 I have signed so many things that don't even have 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:22.400 me on it, and I was like, why am I 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:24.120 signing this, Yeah. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:28.560 There's someone with Bobby Amy, Eddie, Lunchbox Ray and Mike 0:04:28.640 --> 0:04:31.560 d right, and it's all just kind of like, yeah, so. 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:34.400 Morgan, the other Morgan or number one was in that 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:37.520 photo and they took her out, okay, and so they 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:39.719 printed those, which is great because it at least has 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:42.040 majority of the people on it. But like I would 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:44.240 sign these things and everybody would sign next to their face, 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:45.160 and I'm like, here's. 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:46.640 Me down at the bottom. Why am I signing this? This 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:49.360 skills weird that I'm signing this right? Why was it 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:52.640 so hard for seven years? Why could we not get 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:53.000 like I. 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:53.960 Know, I don't know Elson. 0:04:54.279 --> 0:04:57.159 I tried every year every year. It wasn't even like 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.440 I needed to be in it. It was like a 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:02.719 we need up photos for our affiliates. Like I was 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:06.640 on a marketing perspective. People were constantly asking us for 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:09.559 photos of the whole show, and they would hear people 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.440 talking and They're like, who is this and they wouldn't 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.880 see them, so they're I was constantly fielding questions of like, hey, 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:16.560 can we get like an updated photo? And I was 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:19.040 sending off Pimp and Joy photos because those were the 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:21.240 only ones that had everybody in them. 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:23.760 And now to the defense, we did have people. 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:25.400 Over the course of like those seven years that would 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:27.080 come in, like we had Hillary as part of the show. 0:05:27.400 --> 0:05:29.840 We also had another phone screener at one point, like 0:05:29.880 --> 0:05:31.040 we had people in there. 0:05:31.520 --> 0:05:34.520 But at no point in time during any. 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:36.320 Of that did we ever get new photos. 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.280 And so people would just constantly ask and we'd have 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:40.920 Pimp and joy photos and those would be like our 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:44.080 marketing photos because those were the only ones with everybody 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:44.600 in them. 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:47.120 That is so wild to me. Yeah, I just I 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:49.680 don't understand. Yeah, and I know we take a lot 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:52.240 for like the Thanksgiving and Christmas pictures, but like and 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:53.960 I would use those, I would use those. 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:56.560 That's why I started taking the Thanksgiving photos toos because 0:05:56.600 --> 0:05:59.000 I started using them. But the problem was is like 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:03.000 they weren't aren't generic enough that I can use them 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:05.240 year round. I could really only use him in the fall, 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:07.919 and then obviously Christmas I can only use in December. 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.919 So I was just constantly sitting out just random group 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:14.960 photos when people would ask for these things. So if 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:17.680 it helps, this has been a struggle for many, many 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:19.680 years to get new photos. 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:22.200 When am I gonna get him back? Another seven years 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:26.440 hopefully not hopefully not. 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:30.520 I think soon, I like within the next week. Oh 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:33.360 it's Josea, who is really awesome and like spearheading all that. 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:36.240 I think he told Scuba like two weeks from when 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.760 we took him, so we'll get at least a few 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:41.400 kind of options. It was even hard to because I 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.120 need like updated photos of Bobby for different things, and 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:46.440 I'd get I'd have like the Raging Idiots photos. I 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:48.719 was just using so many different things, Like, guys, I 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:50.000 need new marketing tools. 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.960 Is not working, I know, so if it helps. 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:55.800 Yeah, and the awkwardness the photos have just caused a 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:57.080 lot awkward and they have. 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:59.120 Wow, glad I was here for that. 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:02.400 Whoo all behind the scenes for everybody. Okay, we're gonna 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:06.839 take a quick break. We'll be right back. What has 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:10.440 changed since the Bully Expert was on between you and 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:11.679 Lunchbox if anything. 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:15.880 Let's see. Well, I guess we haven't really talked about 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.200 my singing on air, so he hasn't really had a 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:22.600 chance that is true, you know, so I guess we're 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:25.520 gonna have to test that because he's been I guess 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:27.920 a little nicer, like in the hallways. I mean but 0:07:28.000 --> 0:07:29.880 we're just not talking about my singing. That's really when 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:32.280 he's like, mean, yeah, I guess. 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:34.040 So maybe as long as the singing is a void 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:35.240 it talked about, it won't. 0:07:35.360 --> 0:07:38.240 Be Yeah, anything good happening to me. I'm just not 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:41.000 gonna talk about. Then there won't be bullying because I 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:43.600 can't add. That's so sad, but yeah, I understand. But 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:45.400 the thing is is he didn't think he was doing 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:48.120 anything wrong. Like when the Bully came on, he was saying, like, 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:50.520 I'm bullying him by singing because he doesn't want to 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:53.280 hear it, and I'm like, I understand, Like I will 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:56.320 take constructive criticism all day, like, and I feel like 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:58.400 he could also say things nicer like instead of just 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:01.400 being like, oh, you're terror like I don't want to listen, 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:04.040 like you're horrible, you're off key, you're nasally like, I 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:05.480 feel like you could just be like, hey, you might 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:07.480 want to like work on it a little bit, or 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:09.400 hey you want to continue your voice lessons, like I 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:11.800 think there's nicer ways to say it. Yeah, and he 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:14.200 would just come straight at him right, like he's not 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.880 gonna do that, and like he thought I was bullying him, 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:19.560 you know, somebody shared with me on Instagram, and I 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:23.360 love this because I've just been getting so many people 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:25.800 who have been hitting me up about. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:28.400 My banks or whatever. They just have lots of opinions. 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:34.440 And somebody wrote, I was told, if like, you can 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:37.160 only comment on something if it's something that person can 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:41.000 change within five seconds. So oh, if they have something 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:44.200 within their teeth, if they have something stuck on them, 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:48.480 if their hair's like crazy messy, what something that they 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:52.280 can change within five seconds. If they can't change it 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:54.520 within five seconds, don't say anything about it. 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:55.040 Mm hmm. 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.920 And I think that's such a good rule of thumb. 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:02.120 It came from somewhere, they quoted somebody. It's somewhere. 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:04.640 Somebody owns this thing, they said it. I don't know 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:06.120 where it came from, but a listener wrote it to 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:08.000 me in the DMS, and I thought it was really 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:08.760 cool to pass on. 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:10.040 That is awesome. 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:12.320 I can't change lunchbox. Can learn from that. I know. 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:14.839 I can't change my voice, okay. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.360 Exactly in five seconds, right. 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:18.680 And you know what's funny is I went to the 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:20.960 doctor for something else, like it was for my jaw, 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:24.160 like tmj oh worst, Yeah, it's so bad and I 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:28.240 had to get an X ray in my whole like face, yeah, 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:31.040 And I was like, hey, do I have a deviated septem? 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:34.240 Because I listened to Lunchbox where he's like, your voice 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:37.400 is nasally that you may have a devated septum. I 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:39.440 was like, oh my gosh, actually that's should I check 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.400 on that? And they said no, they said my sinuses 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.720 look great, and I was like, well I don't know then, Okay, 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:44.840 this is my voice. 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:49.079 This is why saying things is harmful. 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:51.360 It is saying things one time. 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:53.400 Sure, somebody could probably get it to roll off their 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:58.320 back and whatever. But when somebody hears something repeatedly, they're 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:02.160 gonna internalize it even with out knowing. And you probably 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:04.439 didn't even realize you were internalizing it until you were 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:07.160 in that appointment to say hey do I have this? 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:10.640 When before you never would have You never even would have. 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:12.600 Thought twice to ask that question. 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:17.319 Like, this is what people don't realize of constantly saying 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:18.280 harmful things. 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:20.079 I get it. 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:23.720 Everybody is allowed to have opinions, you're allowed to feel things, 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:28.640 but you're not necessarily allowed to constantly say them to 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:33.600 other people. Like I often go with the thought process 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:36.760 that like we're on this giant floating rock. Why are 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:39.480 we making it harder on each other? Life is already 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:44.000 very difficult without people spewing mean things for no reason, 0:10:45.400 --> 0:10:49.000 and the Internet has made people very brave. But this 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:53.800 is why it's so harmful, because you just don't realize 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:58.440 the words that have an impact on people depending on 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:00.000 what they've been through. I don't care if you think 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:03.200 you're talking to the strongest person on earth. It is 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.880 going to internalize for somebody across the board. 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:06.400 Oh for sure. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:09.760 And somebody may even see your comment and internalize it. 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:12.959 Like somebody could see Lunchboxes comments to you and like 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:14.680 you're a horrible singer, and they're like, well, I'm probably 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:16.640 a horrible singer. I don't want to pursue this, and 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:18.760 you know what, they could be the next freaking carry Underwood. 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:23.439 But because they saw somebody's comments to somebody else, they're like, don't. 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:24.440 I don't want to deal with that. 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.720 Right, I know it makes you not want to, Like 0:11:27.760 --> 0:11:31.160 I've not wanted to post myself singing online sometimes because 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:32.840 I'm like I don't want to get the hate, the 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:35.240 unnecessary hate. But also it's like I should just be 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:36.079 like I don't care. 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:40.200 Like, yeah, but like building that tough skin is so hard. 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:44.240 It's not an easy task. And it's also take it 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:46.200 from somebody who has very tough skin. Because I have 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:49.720 been through a lot of things, I still get bothered 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:52.800 by it. I could again be the toughest person in 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:55.160 the world, and I'm still going to be impacted by 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:58.720 hurtful words because that's just human nature. We don't like 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:02.479 to be hurt. We don't like to feel bad about ourselves. 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:05.480 If you don't like to feel bad about yourself, why 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:06.920 are you making somebody else feel bad? 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:08.600 I know you know what I mean. 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:11.720 Yeah, Like, you don't want to feel that way, So 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:13.319 why are you gonna make somebody else feel that way? 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:15.120 Because that makes them feel better? 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:18.920 It is it's an insecurity thing, you know. Yeah, they 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:21.240 feel better when they express that opinion. 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:24.360 And I think opinions are great. I just think there's 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.240 a way to share them that's not hurtful. 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:27.679 Most like you're. 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:31.040 Saying, yes, it's just the way you feel so inclined 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:33.319 that you have to share. I personally don't feel like 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:35.760 I have to share my opinion ninety nine percent of 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:38.040 the time unless they're my good friends and they're sitting 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:39.079 there saying, hey, what. 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.440 Do I do the I'm like, yeah, I'll talk to you, 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:43.120 i'll push you, I'll be your challenger. 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:46.040 But I'm not going to do that unless it's asked 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:47.160 for or warranted. 0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:50.240 It's wild to me. I've watched a lot of videos online, 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:52.240 but I've never thought to be like, oh, I'm going 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:56.719 to comment something mean. I've never thought that. It's very strange. No, 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:59.720 I don't think that's strange. That's probably I think that's normal. 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:02.760 It's just like just you know, yeah, just take it 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:03.240 for what it is. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.240 If you don't like it, just keep scrolling. That's that's 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:05.719 what I do. 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:09.160 You know, Well, but I'm glad you haven't had any 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:11.240 experience with anything yet and hopefully. 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:12.800 Nothing. 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:15.520 Hopefully we'll have changed for the better. We're just gonna say, 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:17.920 I don't think there's going to be just because he said, 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:20.719 he said, I'm bullying him. So he totally missed the 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.720 whole You missed the whole thing. But you know, maybe 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:24.360 he'll show. 0:13:24.160 --> 0:13:29.240 It was over his head, much like technology. Okay, Kate 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:31.440 and California wanted boyfriend to updates. 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.400 You have any updates on your boyfriend? 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:38.560 I really don't know it's life and go oh yeah happy. Yeah. 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:41.440 We went to a water park on Father's Day, so 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:42.040 that was fun. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:43.040 Oh fun. Yeah. 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:45.319 Nashville Shores, it's really cool. Have you been there? 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:45.880 I haven't. 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:47.920 I've heard a lot about it. Awesome, like it was, 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:48.680 I haven't feel like. 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:50.720 A legit water park er. Is it on a fake beach? 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:54.439 Because I've heard both so so it's on the lake, 0:13:55.040 --> 0:14:00.880 so it's a fake beach. Basically they're sand Yeah, but yeah, 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:03.120 it's like Nashville Shores, but it goes into the lake. 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.239 But they also they have like a lazy river, a wavepool, 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:06.240 all these slots. 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:07.400 Oh I love a lazy river. 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:10.520 H it was really cool. Is it like Derby's water park? 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:11.680 Because I love Derby's water. 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:13.640 Oh my gosh, I love that place. What's it called? 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:15.280 Dang now? I can't remember. 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:18.160 Also, did you ever go to Barnacle Bills? Do you 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:21.600 remember that? I was very rock River rapid Brock River Raper. 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:24.600 That's so fun, so much fun. That lazy River is bomb. 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:28.960 It is. Barnacle Bills sounds familiar, but I don't remember. 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.240 It probably closed when I was like seven, like I 0:14:32.320 --> 0:14:35.600 was very young, and so you probably barely remember it. 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:38.360 Both Abby and I are from wich Shot, Kansas, so 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:40.200 if we're talking, sorry into that. 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:42.640 Barnacle Bills was in Wichita when I was a kid, 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:43.600 and it was so fun. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.560 And then they closed her to find it fantasy. 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:47.760 Oh Barnacle Bills. 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:49.960 Yes, yeah, I didn't realize there was a water park. 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.840 I was not like thinking in that direction, but yes, 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:56.440 I had been there. I was at it was Barnacle 0:14:56.480 --> 0:15:00.240 Bills and then it became the WYMCA West yms Ya 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:01.840 water Park, and then. 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:04.560 Rock River Rapids came. I feel like it was the 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:08.960 Order of Wichita water Parks. Yeah, that's a throwback, man. 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.280 Or we'd go to Kansas City for what's. 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:11.840 One in Kings City? 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:19.120 Wownds up? Fun? Yeah, that was worlds of fun. 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:21.320 Well fun. I'm glad you guys had a fun water 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:21.800 park day. 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:26.200 Yeah. How is How are you guys doing? Crushing it? 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:29.000 You know? So happy? Life is good? 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:29.760 Yeah you complain. 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:32.840 He's about to come home for my sister's wedding with me. 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:34.800 Oh my gosh, wait when is that. 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:36.480 Over July fourth? 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:39.600 Okay, oh yeah that's coming up. Oh that'll be awesome. 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:40.960 I'm really excited. 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:41.400 That's big. 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:44.360 Yeah, sisters getting married really excited I got to ride 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:45.440 a made of honor speech, but. 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:50.360 Not excited about that. I'm nervous. And then yeah, he 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:51.400 gets to meet the whole fam. 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.840 Wow, a big weekend. That is big. 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:57.520 Rachel and Southern Illinois wanted to know if our boyfriends 0:15:57.560 --> 0:16:00.480 have met, and they did, and they bought did. 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:03.720 They really did? Like we looked over and I'm like, 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:05.560 what do you guys? Okay, are you guys best friends? 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:05.720 Now? 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:08.560 Like this has happened with a few of my friends 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:10.040 now with man in uniform. 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:14.200 So this happened at the wedding Abby and Abby. 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:16.640 And her boyfriend were there and so were I at 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:20.160 Lauren are one of our producer's weddings, and we were 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.240 all having a great time. They got along super great 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:24.080 and they were like over in a corner. We thought 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.840 they were exchanging numbers. So the other night I was 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:29.920 with Hillary I used to work on the show, and 0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:31.960 her boyfriend and a bunch of my other girlfriends. 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:33.920 But our boyfriends were there. 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:36.240 And we were sitting at this ice cream bar, like 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:39.120 having milkshakes, and we look over and the boys are 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:41.960 sitting at the Mexican restaurant bar. This is like a 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:44.600 little market area and they were having margarita. It's like 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:47.960 dying laughing, Like they had been best friends forever and 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.160 I'm like, what is going on right now? 0:16:50.320 --> 0:16:52.400 Like they look like they're on a broad date and 0:16:52.440 --> 0:16:52.880 turn off. 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.160 They became like best friends. So this is like a 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:58.440 common occurrence that is happening with Man and Uniform. 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:00.520 That's a good that's a good sign. Yeah, it's just like, 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:02.880 you know, he's easy to talk to, and. 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:05.240 He's super easy to talk to for sure. But it's 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:07.520 funny because he's not like he's not like me. I'm 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:10.000 like a super social butterfly and I'll you know, make 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:15.280