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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephan

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Speaker 1: when ever told your production of iHeart Radio.

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Speaker 2: And we are back with our happy hour edition of

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Speaker 2: watching Sex and the City Together as it is Annie's

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Speaker 2: first time and my probably two hundredth time. And once

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Speaker 2: I didn't like this episode, then I bypassed it. I

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Speaker 2: think I did. This was my und beended episode. I

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Speaker 2: would bypass because there is a situation that embarrasses me.

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Speaker 2: Oh a lot that I'm like, no, super cringe, super cringe.

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Speaker 2: I hate this. Okay, so there is one that I

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Speaker 2: will be like, might even turn rug. But yes, as

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Speaker 2: a happy hour, of course, we would tell you if

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Speaker 2: you're drinking, drink responsibly, whatever you're doing, be responsible, take

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Speaker 2: care of yourself, do what you need to do to

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Speaker 2: get to that good space without harming you or anywhere

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Speaker 2: around you. Yes. Right, we're not sponsored by anything currently.

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Speaker 1: That we're well, we're not even mentioning anything.

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Speaker 2: We're not mentioning anything, but like as of now, we

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Speaker 2: did mention the product in the last one that was

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Speaker 2: sponsored by them products placements.

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Speaker 1: That's true. I've noticed a lot of these shows have

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Speaker 1: more You know, when you get older and you watch

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Speaker 1: something you watch as a kid and suddenly you're like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, just product placement everywhere, right, you.

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Speaker 2: Know what I've discovered. I know we're not talking about it.

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Speaker 2: All the K dramas have very specific brands, and I

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Speaker 2: think it's hilarious. But anyway, there's some surprising product placements

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Speaker 2: on these Yep, they're not necessarily sponsoring us.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting more and more outraged by this.

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Speaker 2: But yes, we are back, and we are in season two.

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Speaker 2: We are at episode thirteen. If you are coming along

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Speaker 2: in this, we are beyond the halfway point, so we're checking.

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Speaker 2: I guess at this point pretty well. Can you give

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Speaker 2: us a review of the past episodes?

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Speaker 1: Uh? Well, the season started with Carrie trying to recover

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Speaker 1: from breaking up with Big, and in our last episode,

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Speaker 1: here we are again, she has broken up with him.

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Speaker 1: He may or may not be moving to Paris. She

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Speaker 1: decided the relationship wasn't good for her and she was

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Speaker 1: Miranda has broken up with Steve, so she's gone on

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Speaker 1: some interesting dates since then that involved kind of an

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Speaker 1: exhibitionist in will Arnett. We've got Charlotte still looking for

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Speaker 1: the one and really not striking out in that regard.

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Speaker 1: And then we've got Samantha who's still kind of, you know,

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Speaker 1: living her best New York life and having wonky storylines.

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Speaker 2: Sanky storyline.

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Speaker 1: I like the word wonky.

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Speaker 2: It's a good one. It's okay, very nice, very nice. Now,

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Speaker 2: this episode's title is called games people Play? Can you

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Speaker 2: give us what you think is happening in this episode?

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Speaker 2: Games people Play?

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Speaker 1: This is so funny because we were just talking about

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Speaker 1: how bad I am at this and the first episode

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Speaker 1: of season two was take Me Out to the Ballgame,

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Speaker 1: and that turned out to be some kind of fun

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Speaker 1: about balls that I wasn't anticipating. But it's the same situation, right,

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Speaker 1: Carrie's trying to get back into the game, the dating game. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and I would guess, And once again I'm sticking with

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Speaker 1: my vague, vague estimation of what might happen. They're going

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Speaker 1: to thank you, That's about where I am. They're gonna

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Speaker 1: And probably because I should learn my lesson from that

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Speaker 1: I feel sorry for Big I really do, because if

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Speaker 2: I will say one of the big records I had,

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Speaker 2: I was obsessed and I could not stop analyzing the

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Speaker 2: she's justifying it and like talking about how amazing she

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Speaker 2: every I'm actually surprised my friends didn't tell me to

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Speaker 1: It's funny as the friend though, a lot of times

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Speaker 1: you're like, um, hmmm, you say.

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Speaker 2: It right, You're so right. It was it was him

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Speaker 2: Who's gonna tell her? What I mean?

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Speaker 1: You're obsessed with talking about big and frankly, we can't

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Speaker 2: There we go stop her before she obsesses again. Isn't

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Speaker 1: That you get free reign to whine to your friends?

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Speaker 1: Why should I pay someone when we can talk for

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Speaker 2: Bring me the ice cream, come from me. But then

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Speaker 2: And also this is round two, right, and they told

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Speaker 1: And even if you don't want to think about it,

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Speaker 2: There living their life and may probably okay, already dating someone.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, the level of stockery would like me going

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Speaker 2: through their Instagram to see who are they hanging out with? Now?

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Speaker 2: Who is that girl, I.

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Speaker 1: Will kill you, but you can't watch their stories because

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Speaker 2: This would creep me out? Or would you not immediately

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Speaker 1: Your apartment man immediately staring in, Yeah, and doesn't like

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Speaker 2: I understand why you see a shrink, you know, because

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Speaker 2: But I'm fine, I am functioning. Besides, I don't really

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Speaker 2: to be honest, I just don't buy the whole shrink thing.

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Speaker 1: There was an interesting thing I've noticed in the nineties

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Speaker 2: This is definitely one of those moments of like mental

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Speaker 2: It was looked down on it, yes, and made fun of. Yes,

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Speaker 2: but it's very ablest obviously right. You were playing games,

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Speaker 1: I was just along for the ride, and what about

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Speaker 1: you see I do this is the first experience dating.

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Speaker 1: I also felt that way though, It's like I didn't

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Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden we're having a huge fight, like,

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Speaker 1: be jealous, right, which is odd? Yeah, maybe I've dated

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Speaker 2: But the thing that I have in common it is you.

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Speaker 2: The slow speak. Such a stereotypical idea of a therapist.

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Speaker 1: I know, I do feel like and I would love

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Speaker 1: feel like a lot of their depictions and shows like this,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, slim pickens out there. You can't swing up Fendy

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Speaker 2: oh I would be so out of my league. I

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Speaker 2: have no idea what's going on that conversation. There are

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Speaker 2: moments where we've talked. I've had a group of friends

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Speaker 2: That's true. Sports name every female sports sports sign so

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Speaker 2: as captive heterosexual man, I would walk I would walk

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Speaker 2: out immediately. I'm like this is a rapey situation. I'm leaving. Yes, sorry,

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Speaker 1: Also yeah, they had a real frat rovide, not a

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Speaker 2: Look, this is where I would never want to go,

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Speaker 2: especially if they're screaming at the TV. You already know

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Speaker 1: I and this is also because I'm not super into sports,

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Speaker 2: Sports bar, definitely not a thing. What what's a sports bar?

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Speaker 2: Like I found? I'm trying to think specifically of the

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Speaker 2: Well, you also have a very interesting generic bar like

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Speaker 2: Apple's Kroger bar. Like, I don't understand a literal grocery

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Speaker 1: I get you again? All the no sponsors, No, please,

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Speaker 2: That's it. Go So say I met a man at

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Speaker 1: Oh, and now she's into sports?

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Speaker 2: Who is Marcus? Marcus can be next forward? Now that

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Speaker 2: And when did we start caring about basketball? Don is obsessed.

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Speaker 2: I don't get laid unless the next win.

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Speaker 2: You're dating some news. Yeah, because you likes have changed,

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Speaker 2: you have made, you picked up some new hobbies that

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Speaker 1: And you if you break up, you won't care about

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so she only is laid when his team wins. No,

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Speaker 2: have sex?

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Speaker 1: Go, that's okay, that's the thing that was on the nose. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting baity.

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Speaker 2: I am all over town.

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Speaker 1: People were getting lucky.

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Speaker 2: Seth and I were having a great first date at

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Speaker 2: coffee shop. Oh oh, and what about the plant.

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Speaker 1: It would be so strange to date somebody doctor who's

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Speaker 2: It would be I have two friends who go to

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