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Speaker 1: Hi, sweetthets it's me.

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Speaker 2: It's a jealous and we are talking today about you.

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Speaker 2: That's what we're talking about. Never mind this, don't judge me. Uh,

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Speaker 2: we're talking about you. Uh and uh, we're talking about me.

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Speaker 2: Mostly because I'll put myself out there. I'll be transparent.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna be.

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Speaker 1: That's all I can be. I can be honest with you.

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Speaker 2: And today's title is called just stop, Just stop, just stop.

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Speaker 1: And I hope that you got that.

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Speaker 2: I hope that I think we can end it right

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Speaker 2: now because I think that my face did what it

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Speaker 2: was supposed to to relay the infor me.

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Speaker 1: Just stop. Do you see that? It wasn't just stop, No,

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Speaker 1: it was just stop. Do you know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 2: So we are opening this up in uh, the scriptures.

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Speaker 2: So I'm forty two. I cannot find the scripture for

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Speaker 2: my life.

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Speaker 1: Deep cries out to Deep. Yeah, dah chat ept forty

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Speaker 1: two seven. No, that's not it. Yeah it is. Maybe

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Speaker 1: it was just the wrong version.

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Speaker 2: Deep calls to Deep in the roar of your waterfalls,

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Speaker 2: all your waves and breakers have wept over me. Wow, poem,

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Speaker 2: it's like poetry.

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Speaker 1: There's this spiritual.

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Speaker 2: Principle and I just want to I want I want

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Speaker 2: to just kind of like sit here for a minute

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Speaker 2: with you, because you know, the toxic relationships that you

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Speaker 2: continue to open yourself up to, it's a spiritual thing, you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying. I have never had.

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Speaker 2: Relationships with men that physically assaulted me.

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Speaker 3: Because if that happened, your girl would be in prison.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? Do you Okay? There

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Speaker 1: is something on the inside of me that would in

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Speaker 1: no way put up with that.

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Speaker 2: Uh. And so I've never been in an abusive relationship. Now,

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Speaker 2: let's compare myself to another person that that's all she's

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Speaker 2: been around. And it's not just the first marriage that

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Speaker 2: was abusive, but the second marriage and the third marriage,

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Speaker 2: and maybe it's just a boyfriend he was abusive.

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Speaker 1: Then you went into an.

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Speaker 2: Even worse relationship, and you're like, how am I finding

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Speaker 2: these guys? How am I with these women? And maybe

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Speaker 2: you're a male the watching this, How am I with

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Speaker 2: the psycho of a woman? And then I'm done with

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Speaker 1: It just seems like what the heck is happening?

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Speaker 2: But there is a there's a there's a spiritual principle

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Speaker 2: here that who you are is what is.

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Speaker 1: Attracted to you.

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Speaker 2: Deep cries out to deep, like begets like.

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Speaker 1: Like spirits attract.

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Speaker 2: And so you might even be saying, like, but I'm

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Speaker 2: not abusive, But the thing is your mindset is one

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Speaker 2: of abuse that you've opened yourself up to. And so

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Speaker 2: that's that's a really hard reality because a lot of

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Speaker 2: times what we do is when we are in this

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Speaker 2: have been in an atmosphere where there were dark spiritual things.

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Speaker 2: Major sexual perversion, and that's how you grew up is

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Speaker 1: What you're exposed to.

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Speaker 2: Some some children have been exposed to sexual things at

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Speaker 2: there's all kinds of confusions and why was that? Because

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Speaker 2: there was a door that flung wide open, and that

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Speaker 2: and this is, this is, this is the thing that

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Speaker 2: I want you to understand. You might be taking this

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Speaker 2: I still like to party, I still like to go

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Speaker 2: But the thing is you open yourself up to that

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Speaker 2: just have flung it right open, and it's in your house,

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Speaker 2: and now other people are going to be affected by that.

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Speaker 2: And so what ends up happening and I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Gonna like ride this.

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Speaker 2: This one example, you're in a toxic family atmosphere. You're

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Speaker 2: and now it's something that you are struggling with.

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Speaker 1: It happens every single day. It's happening right now.

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Speaker 2: And your parents may have tried to protect you and

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Speaker 1: But it's not about that.

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Speaker 2: It's about who you are right and what you open

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Speaker 2: the same homes like Olivia's mom and dad's home. It's

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Speaker 2: is like a Hallmark channel. It's just the peace and

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Speaker 1: You're going through right now.

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Speaker 1: So what ends up happening is that we we we

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Speaker 1: And that sucks because that's the reality. What what what? What?

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Speaker 2: What? People open doors. That's why it's important who you're around.

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Speaker 2: Right at some point you're gonna have to identify that

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Speaker 1: Why not now? Because then we understand it's like, okay.

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Speaker 2: So that this this thing, this sexual perversion and sometimes violence,

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Speaker 2: Sudden, now you're grown, you're in your thirties, and you

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Speaker 1: And then you've got friends and they've never had that happen.

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Speaker 1: Why is that? That's strange?

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Speaker 2: Because spiritual things attract themselves like begets, like like spirits attract.

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Speaker 2: So it's interesting that you're at the bar and two

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Speaker 1: Why is that?

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Speaker 2: Because it's who you are, You project who you are,

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Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna do that was deep. Now I'm just

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Speaker 2: to break out of that mindset. You know what, Your

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Speaker 2: dad carried it, your mom carried it, your grandparents carried it,

442
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 2: and now it's this kind of way of thinking that

443
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Speaker 2: you can't break out of. Everything is hard. Everything is hard,

444
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Speaker 2: everything's a problem, Everything is just difficult.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not. There's a remedy, there's a way out.

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Speaker 2: You've got the Holy Ghost living on the inside of

447
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Speaker 2: you who leads you and guides you into all truth.

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Speaker 1: And it's a progressive change.

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Speaker 2: That means I need to be in this every day

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Speaker 2: because I'm susceptible to reverting back to its original state,

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Speaker 2: which is being conniving, being vindictive, being rebellious, being.

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Speaker 1: A lot of these words, violent, being addicted to alcohol.

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Speaker 2: I can revert to those things if I allow myself

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Speaker 2: to sure, sure I can, and dismiss the work that

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Speaker 2: the Holy Spirit has done.

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Speaker 1: Sure I can. I can allow it.

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Speaker 2: I can align myself with whatever I want to align

458
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Speaker 2: myself with. Fihat, So what am I aligning myself with?

459
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Speaker 2: Is it life or is it death? Is it blessing

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Speaker 2: or is it cursed? Because make no mistake about it,

461
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Speaker 2: all heaven is just paying attention.

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Speaker 1: What is the decision you gonna make?

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Speaker 2: And and mind you, when those words were being spoken,

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Speaker 2: it was to the people of God. It wasn't heathens

465
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Speaker 2: that didn't know the truth. It's like, okay, no, no,

466
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Speaker 2: it's a decision that we make as believers to either

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Speaker 2: align ourselves up with what the Spirit says, with what

468
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Speaker 2: the Word of God says, believe it, truly, really believe it,

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Speaker 2: really so hardly, hard hard. I'm believing in this so

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Speaker 2: hard that it becomes who I am. I can't part

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Speaker 2: you can't. You can't look at that word and not

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Speaker 2: see me in it.

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Speaker 1: That's how it is. I don't compartmentalize it.

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Speaker 2: And on Sundays I'm a dollist, the spiritual one. No,

475
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Speaker 2: I am a dallist, the spiritual one, the child of God,

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Speaker 2: the holiness of Christ, the righteousness of Christ, the High Priest.

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Speaker 2: What I can't beautiful, fearfully and wonderfully made.

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Speaker 1: I got peace, I got joy.

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Speaker 2: You can't separate me from who I am and those words,

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Speaker 2: because the Word of God says that that's who I am,

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Speaker 2: and that's who I am. So you can believe it,

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Speaker 2: so you can come to a place where you can't

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Speaker 2: separate yourself from the Word, and it becomes who you are.

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Speaker 2: And it's not just a poem, it's not just you

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Speaker 2: reciting something that oh, that feels, that evokes in emotion

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Speaker 2: and just it really touched my heart. No, we're not

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Speaker 2: talking about that. We're going deeper. It's not a heart,

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Speaker 2: it's a spiritual thing. So it says you can progressively

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Speaker 2: be changed as you mature spiritually.

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Speaker 1: So there's a level of maturity that comes with doing

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Speaker 1: the right things.

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Speaker 2: It's not just saying that you're a Christian, but you're

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Speaker 2: actively pursuing these things every single day. Mindset is my

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Speaker 2: mind thinking crazy things? Am I saying stupid things that

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Speaker 2: do not align with the Word of That's hard. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if I can do that. I'll never get

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Speaker 2: to that place. I wish that I was prettier. I

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Speaker 2: wish that I was more gifted like this person. I

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Speaker 2: wish that I could do.

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Speaker 1: More, But I can't. See you're not You can't be serious.

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Speaker 1: You can't be serious.

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Speaker 2: As you mature spiritually by the renewing of your mind.

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Speaker 2: Has this been an hour and forty five minutes? No,

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Speaker 2: Praise God, by the renewing of your mind focusing on

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Speaker 2: godly values.

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Speaker 1: And ethical attitudes.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Amplified Bible for doing the heavy lifting. I

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Speaker 2: couldn't have said it better myself. See, because this is

509
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Speaker 2: not when you come into this religion, when you come

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Speaker 2: into a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Something is gonna

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Speaker 2: get affected. And it says here once you start reading

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Speaker 2: the words, see because the thing is, there was a

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Speaker 2: change that happened upon salvation. The moment you said, I

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Speaker 2: believe in my heart that Jesus Christ is the Son

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Speaker 2: of God and that I'm saved, that I've been forgiven

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Speaker 2: and I've been redeemed by the blood of Jesus. Something

517
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Speaker 2: that was dead on the inside of you came to life.

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Speaker 1: That was the first step. But now what's in the way.

519
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: It's our minds.

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Speaker 2: It's our circumstances, our upbringing that we've got to undo.

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Speaker 2: It's the jadedness of life, what's been thrown at us

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Speaker 2: ever since we were kids.

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Speaker 1: We gotta undo all of that stuff. And we don't

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Speaker 1: have to do it.

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Speaker 2: In fact, we can allow the Holy Spirit to do

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Speaker 2: the heavy lifting and through the renewing of our minds.

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Speaker 1: And here's the renewing of our minds. Because this is

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Speaker 1: what people miss.

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Speaker 2: It's the focus in on the godly values. Let's stop

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Speaker 2: there for a second. You're not doing things the way

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Speaker 2: you are. You aren't naturally gravitate towards angry.

532
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Speaker 1: There are so many pisses you off ah, and.

533
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Speaker 2: Then you start flying off the handle and you start

534
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 2: smacking people and throwing things. I can no longer identify

535
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Speaker 2: with that person. That is not the way that God

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Speaker 2: would do it. So what are the godly values? Living holy,

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Speaker 2: living a life that's pleasing to God, living a life

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Speaker 2: of obedience. Those are the values that I am now

539
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Speaker 2: gonna carry. Those are the things that are gonna be

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Speaker 2: meaningful to me, And at times I'm gonna have to

541
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Speaker 2: recite them because deep down inside they aren't really valuable.

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Speaker 2: I want to watch football on Sunday and not go

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Speaker 2: to church. But you know what, I'm going to dismiss

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Speaker 2: what my emotions want me to do, what my physical

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Speaker 2: body wants me to do.

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Speaker 1: And we're getting up at the.

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Speaker 2: Crack butt of dawn and we're putting our church clothes,

548
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Speaker 2: and we're gonna make it to church, even if I

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Speaker 2: have to park half a mile down the road to

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Speaker 2: get there.

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Speaker 1: See, I'm aligning my.

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Speaker 2: Values up with the reality of what I'm doing every

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Speaker 2: single day. That's what makes the difference. Anybody can say

554
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Speaker 2: they're a Christian whooped to do great. You want a cookie,

555
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 2: but the proof is what you're doing and what you're

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Speaker 2: aligning yourself up with if your focus is on a

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Speaker 2: godly attitude, the godly values. I'm not gonna say stupid

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Speaker 2: things anymore. I'm not gonna say things that are contrary

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Speaker 2: to the Word of God. It's impossible for me to

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Speaker 2: do it. I can't do it. No, I can do

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Speaker 2: all things through Christ, who gives me the strength. I'll

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Speaker 2: never say that. I can't say I can't do that.

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Speaker 2: I'll never be able to do that. No. In fact,

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Speaker 2: the moment I would ever even consider it, I say yes,

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Speaker 2: I'll do it because it ticks me off that I

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Speaker 2: would close myself off to certain things just because in

567
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Speaker 2: my mind I'm weak, just because I've never nobody in

568
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Speaker 2: my family's ever done it. So I guess it's just

569
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 2: I can't do it either. What see, But that's what

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Speaker 2: we do every single day. And look at this ethical attitudes.

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Speaker 2: So your attitude really does matter. If you've got stinking,

572
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Speaker 2: a stinky attitude, it's a huge divergent, it's a huge blocker.

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Speaker 1: Bro. People aren't gonna want.

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Speaker 2: To come around somebody with a nasty attitude. People aren't

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Speaker 2: gonna want to be around people that aren't serious about

576
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Speaker 2: the things that they're serious. If you're lighthearted, Eh, now

577
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 2: let's go party. You know you are going to attract

578
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Speaker 2: a certain kind of person. You don't want a bum

579
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Speaker 2: as a spouse. Why are you going to bars? Why

580
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 2: are you in booty shorts and a tank top with

581
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Speaker 2: your tatas out? You're expecting to find a good, wholesome,

582
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 2: godly man at the country concert with your booty shit,

583
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Speaker 2: hang in with your booty crack and your butt cheeks

584
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Speaker 2: coming down those booty shorts.

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Speaker 1: Is it ain't gonna happen?

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Speaker 2: So you live a life that is pleasing to God

587
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Speaker 2: that you're you're you're an ethical attitude?

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00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:32,839
Speaker 1: What does that mean?

589
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:37,280
Speaker 2: I'm looking at things and I'm keeping at the forefront

590
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Speaker 2: of everything I do. Is this pleasing to God?

591
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: Is this right? Is this morally right? Or am I

592
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Speaker 1: gonna pay for this? Because I've been doing.

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Speaker 2: It wrong a long time and I wish more people

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Speaker 2: would just come to that understanding. I've been doing it

595
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 2: wrong and this is the price that I've paid so far. Look,

596
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: empty empty pockets, no relationship. I'm not doing it right.

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00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: And if you just see that and then it's okay,

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Speaker 2: So then that this change is gonna be easy because

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Speaker 2: all the other years that I've spent doing it the

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Speaker 2: wrong way haven't brought me to a place where I'm satisfied.

601
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Speaker 1: So let's dissect this. Let's analyze this.

602
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: And say, man, this mindset sucks. This has not benefited

603
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Speaker 2: me one single minute of my stink in life.

604
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 1: So why am I.

605
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Speaker 2: Going to continue to pursue in that mindset. I'll change

606
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Speaker 2: my attitude. I'll live a life that's wholly.

607
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 1: And pleasing to you. But what does it come from?

608
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 2: By not conforming your thoughts, your values, your customs.

609
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Speaker 1: The Bible says, what do you hold valuable in your life?

610
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Speaker 2: What are the things that you do every single day

611
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Speaker 2: of your life? And if it's if it mimics the world,

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00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 2: that's what you're gonna see. You're gonna see depression, you're

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00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 2: gonna see addiction, you're gonna see abuse, You're gonna see

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Speaker 2: all kinds. It's gonna be marked with all kinds of

615
00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:01,240
Speaker 2: darkness and death. But until you take it, let's boil

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Speaker 2: it down into the micro. What am I doing every

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Speaker 2: single day that reflects that I am no longer a

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Speaker 2: part of this world?

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Speaker 1: And that's where the true change happens. It's a spiritual thing.

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Speaker 2: It comes from the depths or you're being, and it's

621
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 2: solidified with the actions that you take common because then

622
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 2: once you start implementing those things. Let's go back to

623
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Speaker 2: that football.

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Speaker 1: I want to stay in. I want to watch football's

625
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 1: game day. But when you push.

626
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Speaker 2: That away and you say no, I am a man

627
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 2: of God, I'm taking my family to church, all of

628
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 2: a sudden in six months, you don't care about football.

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Speaker 2: There's a change that has happened because you took it seriously,

630
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Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, your childhood was depressed and suicidal,

631
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Speaker 2: would cut themselves.

632
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, that's gone. Why is it?

633
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 2: Because Daddy took his life seriously with Christ and he

634
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 2: made God a priority. And in making God a priority,

635
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 2: everything else benefited from it. Now I'm financially better off,

636
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 2: I'm more stable, my family's happier, there's peace, there's joy.

637
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 2: Why Because I take it seriously. I'm not just a talker.

638
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it. I'm not just listening to the word.

639
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 2: I'm actually activating it by the things that I do

640
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 2: and the things that I say, so that you may

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00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 2: prove for yourself. This is where I'm going in We're

642
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 2: landing the plane. What the will of God is that

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00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 2: which is good and acceptable and perfect in his plan

644
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 2: and purpose for you. You can have a perfect, perfect plan

645
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 2: unravel right now in your life. And it's all because

646
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 2: you kept first things first. All because you quit doing

647
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 2: it the way you knew, the way your upbringing was

648
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 2: the way. This is how my grandma's to head down

649
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 2: with it, and this is I don't need no man.

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00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, where's your mom? Single? Miserable? Where's your grandmother? Shingles?

651
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Speaker 3: Okay?

652
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 2: And so the problem is now we're supposed to now

653
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 2: is just a man issue. Every man out there is.

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Speaker 1: Terrible. That's not accurate. That's not accurate, accurate at all.

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Speaker 1: So what is it?

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Speaker 2: It's it's those realities on the inside of you that

657
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 2: you've allowed to take root, are now what's becoming the

658
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 2: reality in your life. So you attract who you are.

659
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 2: That's why all of a sudden you start getting successful

660
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 2: and you're around successful people.

661
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: How did that happen?

662
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,720
Speaker 2: Because successful people attract successful people.

663
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 1: And it's the same with the opposite of it. I

664
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 1: already went into it. But this is why it's important.

665
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 2: To understand that there's stop it with the excuses stop it?

666
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: Well, is just I had a hard life and I had.

667
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 2: Experienced this when I was When when are you gonna

668
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:57,439
Speaker 2: be sick and tired of the excuses, Because really, if

669
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 2: you do it right, it's easy, and it's like this flood.

670
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,800
Speaker 1: It's like I often use.

671
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: That that kind of for image sake.

672
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 1: Is like if you've got.

673
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 2: The water from a spout going and you're trying to

674
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 2: fill the water bottle. But you take the water bottle

675
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 2: and let's say, the thing, what is it called the

676
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 2: faucet is right here, but you're kind of just like,

677
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna stay here on this side and all

678
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: of the little splashes that come, I'm gonna hope that

679
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 2: someday I'll get enough of the little water droplets that

680
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 2: splash from this actual source will come into my cup

681
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 2: and fill it for me. When all you need to

682
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 2: do is position it right underneath the faucet.

683
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: And allow that water to flow.

684
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 2: Allow the water to flow and fill that cup, and

685
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:53,839
Speaker 2: it's like the easiest thing.

686
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:56,359
Speaker 1: There's no struggle, you know, trying to like somehow trying

687
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 1: to get the thing.

688
00:41:56,880 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 2: No, just put the freaking cup underneath the freaking water flow. Oh,

689
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 2: there's no obstruction.

690
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying. And it's just it's

691
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: as easy as can be. Life becomes easy, believe it

692
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: or not. Well, it hasn't been. It must be nice.

693
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: Stop still stop, just stop it with that must be nice.

694
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 2: No, it's it's nice for everybody who believes.

695
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: And the Bible says it's yours. And the Bible says

696
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: that if we should, we should believe it so that

697
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: we can receive it.

698
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 2: And the Bible says that let the word of God

699
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 2: be true, and every man be a liar. So if

700
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 2: it's not actively ann manifesting in your life, then then

701
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 2: we need to change that position. No, it's because my

702
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 2: water bottles out here. Now, I'm gonna be up right here.

703
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it right. I'm gonna be serious about it.

704
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 2: I just don't have time to be in the Bible.

705
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: Then you don't have time to do it right. And

706
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 2: then you're not serious about a quality life, and you're

707
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 2: not serious about a happy marriage, and you're not serious

708
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 2: about raising godly children. You're not serious about having true

709
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 2: impact on society. You're not serious about leaving a good legacy,

710
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,439
Speaker 2: and you're not serious about making it to Heaven, which

711
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:15,240
Speaker 2: is the number one.

712
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: Priority and goal for every Christian taking a light stance

713
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: on it. When you just stop, when are you gonna

714
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: take this seriously? And all you gotta do is just

715
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 1: look at just renew your mind.

716
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 2: Don't conform your thoughts, your actions and the way you

717
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 2: do things to the world anymore. How you are, that's

718
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 2: no longer an excuse, sweetie pie, And that's gonna that's

719
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 2: such a beautiful thing, because now you can't say I'm

720
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,399
Speaker 2: a byproduct of this and this is just the way

721
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 2: life isn't. No. It's interesting to me how two people

722
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 2: can have the exact same upbringing, but one decides, I'm

723
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 2: gonna live holy for the things of God, and I'm

724
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 2: gonna use whatever the enemy turn or used for for

725
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 2: my demise and my I'm gonna make that.

726
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: Work for my good. And here it is.

727
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 2: You see one skyrocket and they're successful and they're happy

728
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,919
Speaker 2: in marriage, and then one person that believed the lie

729
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 2: and now was just slowly dying into oblivion because they

730
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 2: refuse to do it the way God had intended. There's

731
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 2: a way of doing it, and you either do it

732
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 2: or you don't do it, and it's not your business.

733
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: Listen.

734
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 2: I know, I know it hurts. I know it's difficult

735
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 2: when people wrong you and they harm you, and they

736
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: they damage you. I know it, of course I know it.

737
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 2: But here's the thing.

738
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: If that's gonna be the excuse for you not.

739
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 2: Entering into a church, there's just too much hypocrisy there.

740
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 2: What you are robbing yourself of a blessing, a huge blessing,

741
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 2: a necessary blessing. And when you understand that, if my

742
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 2: heart is pure before God, and this is how to

743
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 2: avoid all of that nonsense and specifically being jaded towards.

744
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: The things of God.

745
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 2: You might have had a harm done, you might have

746
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 2: been but hurt because of something that happened in church.

747
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 2: This is how to keep your heart from being affected

748
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 2: so that you can be free. Okay, this is how

749
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 2: to do it. You walk blamelessly before the Lord.

750
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: Amen. That's it. You walk blamelessly before the Lord.

751
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 2: Are you living a life of integrity, wholeness to the

752
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 2: Word of God? Are you living a life that is

753
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 2: pleasing to the Father. Do you have no ill intentions

754
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 2: for your brother? You genuinely love people, you genuinely love God.

755
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:52,360
Speaker 1: Your actions will prove that.

756
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 2: See, because the Bible talks about a good tree producing

757
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 2: good fruit. So if your fruit, the fruit that you produce,

758
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,359
Speaker 2: is good, it doesn't matter who tries to light that

759
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 2: tree on fire. It's going to continue to produce the fruit.

760
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: And if it takes you having to plant yourself in

761
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 2: a different place, then whatever anything that comes from me

762
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 2: is gonna be good. And so the enemy can try

763
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 2: and throw all kinds of assaults and attacks and all

764
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 2: this kind of stuff, but that's not that's none of

765
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 2: my business.

766
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: And I know it affects me, and it stings and

767
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: it hurts.

768
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 2: But the beautiful thing is when you keep your heart

769
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 2: blameless before the Lord, and you're doing everything to please God,

770
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 2: and you know there isn't one thing that I'm doing

771
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 2: that is of ill will or something that you know,

772
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 2: Like Daniel, they tried opinning him on something and they

773
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 2: couldn't find anything. He was just like a man of integrity,

774
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,760
Speaker 2: like we can't find anything. He lives a squeaky clean life.

775
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 2: And so if you're living that life, that kind of life,

776
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 2: you can never lose, even when somebody means harm, tries

777
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,399
Speaker 2: to bring you down, tries to spread rumors about you,

778
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: spread lies about you, do you understand that this kind

779
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 2: of attack that happens is actually promotion on the other

780
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 2: end of that.

781
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: And then you're thinking, but they were my best friends.

782
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 2: I had somebody posts that I reposted something someone said

783
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 2: and it was an Instagram and it says, uh, God

784
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 2: ended that friendship because he listened to conversations that you

785
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 2: knew nothing about. And so you just never know why

786
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 2: relationships end, why friendships end. But all you can control

787
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: is what you can control, and that's you. You can't

788
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 2: control other people, you can't control their actions. What you

789
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:50,839
Speaker 2: can control is yourself. And so when you have these

790
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 2: things happen, how are you reacting?

791
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 1: I can't believe it?

792
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 2: And then you quit going to church and you're pissed

793
00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 2: off at the world and everybody's the problem, and eh, see,

794
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 2: you missed out on what could have been a potential

795
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 2: catapult to the next level or a catalyst to the

796
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 2: blessing of God like you've never seen before. I've seen

797
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 2: it happen time and time again. If you keep your

798
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 2: heart right, if you allow God, he.

799
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: Said, I'm the vindicator. I'm gonna bring justice to the situation.

800
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: You mind your business.

801
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 2: I continue to drink my tea and sleep like a

802
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 2: baby because I can't control outside forces. What I can't

803
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:30,479
Speaker 2: control is myself, and at times it stings. Did I cry, Yes,

804
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 2: Did it hurt? Yes?

805
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 1: But what I'm not gonna do is I'm not gonna.

806
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 2: Have that hatred and hurt start to permeate into my

807
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 2: heart and start to poison me from the inside out

808
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 2: where I stop believing for the best and I stop

809
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 2: believing in the best in people.

810
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 1: I can't do that. I won't do that.

811
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 2: I won't do it just because I've had salty friendships

812
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 2: or things go bad. I'll tell you, every single time

813
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 2: that has happened, there's always been a blessing on the

814
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 2: other end of it. And you know how I know

815
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 2: because of the fruit that I produce. And so what

816
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 2: the enemy meant to be a big deterrent, a big

817
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 2: that's the reason why she won't serve the Lord. That's

818
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 2: the reason I've seen it time and time again in

819
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,879
Speaker 2: my life. But how you receive that information and what

820
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 2: you do, how you allow for those outside circumstances to

821
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 2: affect you, it matters. Doing it the right way matters,

822
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 2: even now, even as a Christian. So now you're separating

823
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 2: yourself from that toxic childhood and you're doing things right,

824
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 2: and all of a sudden you see an attack within.

825
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 1: The church in Lego. It's all the same, is it.

826
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: Or is it something that the devil wanted to trip

827
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 2: you up? And you identify it. And it was just

828
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 2: like David he saw Goliath. He's talking smack and he's

829
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 2: not thinking fear. He's not running and hiding. He's saying,

830
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 2: this is the time where I'm going to attack. And

831
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 2: I'll see the promotion of that. And that's all so

832
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 2: nothing that ever happens to me. I'm looking for the

833
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 2: promotion on the other end, I can't control it. I

834
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 2: can control my heart. I'll keep my mind studied on

835
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 2: the word of God. I'll allow him to heal my

836
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 2: broken heart. It might be shattered into a million pieces,

837
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 2: but you know what, he takes those pieces, He mends

838
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 2: my broken heart. I put it in his hands and

839
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: he does the heavy lifting, and I just smile and

840
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 2: continue to believe the best in people, and continue to

841
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 2: have good, meaningful relationships, and continue to go to church

842
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 2: because I'm not there for anybody but God. And I

843
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:33,359
Speaker 2: realize that commitment is something that I told myself. I'm

844
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,880
Speaker 2: committed to doing till the day I breathe my last

845
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 2: breath or I'm taken up out of here in rapture.

846
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 2: Be serious about it and understand spiritual things. So in

847
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,800
Speaker 2: the name of Jesus' Father, bless every person that's watching,

848
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 2: and I pray that this becomes a reality. Everything that's

849
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,319
Speaker 2: wrong in our lives. We can pin it right back

850
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: to us. What am I doing that's not right? And

851
00:50:56,840 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 2: if it just be throwing my cares all of the

852
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 2: anxiety that I have about life in general and casting

853
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 2: it at your feet, if that's what you require me

854
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 2: to do, I won't pick up that care and that

855
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 2: anxiety another day in my life. Father, I pray that

856
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,560
Speaker 2: this would become a reality that that's just so simple,

857
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 2: so basic. All we need to do is get in

858
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 2: your word and not do it the way we've always

859
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 2: done it. There's a proper way of doing it. And

860
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 2: I pray that by your spirit you'd speak to the

861
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 2: people as.

862
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: To what that is for them. In Jesus' name, I

863
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 1: love you. Bye.