1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: Are you alive. I'm I'm yeah, I'm here. Like it's 2 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: so weird. I checked my temperature right before the zoom, 3 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: and it's actually gone down. It's been very up and down. 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: It's really weird. Well, so tell the people you got 5 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: your second vaccine yesterday. Yesterday like to thirty is probably 6 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: when I finally got it after waiting in the line. Um, 7 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: so it's been it's three nineteen right now, so it's 8 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 1: been about twenty four hours. And what are your symptoms 9 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: or what are you feeling? Well? Last night, I like 10 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: fell asleep at like nine thirty and I slept. I 11 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: fell asleep on my couch and woke up at five 12 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: thirty in the morning and moved to my bed and 13 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: I slept until like nine thirty. It was like a 14 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: rock like knocked me out. Yeah, and um, this morning 15 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,480 Speaker 1: when I woke up, like, well, it was weird because 16 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: when I first got it yesterday, like there was like 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: a metallic taste in my mouth, like I almost instantly, 18 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: but it was really short lived. So and obviously, like 19 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: I'm paying attention to these things right now because I 20 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: wanted to see what it's doing. Like that could have 21 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: just been a completely random thing. But um, this morning 22 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: I woke up and I was aking. My arm hurts 23 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: really bad where I got the shot, a lot worse 24 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: than the first time, but like it's bearable. It just 25 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: feels like maybe somebody punched me really hard. Um, it's 26 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 1: like bruised. Um. But once So I took my temperature 27 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: this morning and I was fine, even though I started 28 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: to feel achy and um, I always run a really 29 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: low temperature for some reason. Like it was ninety six 30 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: point four, which is normal and um, and then when 31 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: I took it again, it was nine point nine. And 32 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: I've gone over a hundred I got. I've gotten up 33 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: to a hundred a hundred point two. But when I 34 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: just did it, I'm ninety eight point six right before 35 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: this call. So but like I haven't like I've got 36 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: like a little bit of a creeping headache, but there's 37 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: nothing like a pulsating headache like what I said. So, 38 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: but when I stood up, I've tried been sitting down 39 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: for a while and like I felt it then the 40 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: headache or just body ache headache, And I've had some 41 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: shivers like they come and go. Um, But I mean 42 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: I feel I feel fine. I've had some friends that 43 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: are messaging me saying like, oh my god, like it 44 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: was awful. I was so sorry. I had a friend 45 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 1: and Nelle told me she threw up all day. I 46 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: think all of our bodies are just different, you know, totally. 47 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: And don't they say that if you actually get sick, 48 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: it's it's not that bad of a thing that happened, 49 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: because because what is your body fighting off the virus? Yeah, yeah, 50 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: I mean even a fever is like, you know, a 51 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 1: virus doesn't give you a fever. Your body gives you 52 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 1: a fever because it's an action trying to fight a virus. 53 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: So having a bit of a fever is actually a 54 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,119 Speaker 1: good thing. So well, the vaccine is still a hot 55 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: topic because I posted about getting mine on Instagram a 56 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: couple of days ago, and I got like so many 57 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: fights in my comments section, just because well, some people 58 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: are just really against it and some people are really 59 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: for it, and nobody can seem to just let everyone 60 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: do the best thing for them, Like everyone has to 61 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: have their opinion about it, and you know, there's a 62 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: lot of people who just they comment you and for me, 63 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: I have to do it because I want to go 64 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: back to work, and most of the artists that I 65 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: work for, Like, yeah, we're not letting people on our 66 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 1: tour buses that they haven't had the vaccine. I'm not 67 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: being forced by work per se. But it's also like, hey, 68 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: this is our requirement for this camp, and I need 69 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,119 Speaker 1: to go to work. And it's I mean, honestly, it's 70 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: like you had to have vaccines to before you could 71 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: go to school and things like. It's like, but I 72 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: teach his own I want my world to open back up. 73 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to do it. I was really I don't 74 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: know if you saw this today, but um, Eric Church 75 00:03:55,680 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: is on the cover of Billboard this week and um 76 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: getting a shop and there's there's a video of it, 77 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: and he's basically like, in order for us to get 78 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: back on the road, like we have to get shot 79 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: to that. That's the deal I think. I mean, it's like, 80 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: and people can judge all they want, but it's like 81 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: when you live on the road, the way that you 82 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: live is all on top of each other. It's like 83 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: it would be the breeding ground for a virus to 84 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: be passed, like a tour god. Yeah, So I mean 85 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: it makes total sense to me. I'm all for it. 86 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: And we were just talking though, because you texted me 87 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: a couple of days ago and you're like, hey, I 88 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: am getting my second vaccine on Wednesday, Like I don't 89 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 1: know what condition I'm going to be in. And I 90 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: was like, oh, well, totally, we can do this over 91 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: zoom or you know. We started making all these plans 92 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: and I was like, isn't this so hilarious that that 93 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: is such a normal conversation to have, Like I might 94 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: be sick, I might be out for a couple of days. 95 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, right, the second vaccine. Oh 96 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: my gosh, yes, it's like such a weird new norm 97 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: and like part of it was kind of like like 98 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: I would be lying if I didn't say that. Like 99 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:04,239 Speaker 1: I was kind of fantasizing, like being completely like knocked 100 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: over buy it so that I could give like a 101 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: you know, like a journalistic expose. A yeah what I 102 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 1: felt like. But I mean, I'm also glad that I'm 103 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: not vomiting so totally or like sweating through my sheets, 104 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: and yeah, when I got my first one, I didn't 105 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: really register until you've been talking about your symptoms. But 106 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 1: I definitely was sleeping a ton. The next couple of days, 107 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: I had a sore throat actually, but it's so hard 108 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: because it's like allergy season in Nashville too, So it's 109 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: like what is what? It's just really weird how everything 110 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: feels very COVID related this past year. But it's so 111 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: funny because like future generations are never they're not they're 112 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: gonna be like what like because like this conversation like ya, 113 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: hopefully not, but like think about when someone's in quarantine nowadays, 114 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: they're like, oh yeah, they had to quarantine, they got exposed, 115 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: and we're all just like, oh yeah, okay, cool, Like 116 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: it's just like part of conversation that our friend might 117 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 1: be out for fourteen days or something. Yeah. I um, 118 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: I was talking to a friend earlier and her brother 119 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: just got he's fully vaccinated and just got coronavirus again, 120 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: don't tell me that. Um well, look, I mean here's 121 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: the thing, Like I don't think it's it's never going 122 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: to be perfect, but he's also not going to die 123 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: from it. You know. It's just like you can get 124 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: the flu shot and still get the flu. You're just 125 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 1: not you're gonna have it mild. But because of it, 126 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: his children, who literally just went back to school, they 127 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: have to be out of school for twenty days because 128 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 1: it's the ten days for him, and then once he's 129 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: over it, they have to go on another t wait 130 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: another ten days to make sure they didn't pick it 131 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 1: up when he was at the tail end of his Yeah, 132 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: because that is beside themselves. I mean, it sucks. It's 133 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: been such a bizarre year, like just over and over, 134 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: and I'm so ready, and I feel like everyone is 135 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: feeling this but just ready for some normalcy. So ready. 136 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: I was talking yesterday to Marv, my astrologer. You know, 137 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: we do a new moon or every month, and um, 138 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: we were doing it and he was talking about how 139 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: it's like an area's new moon. It's all about the 140 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,359 Speaker 1: spring springs forward. Everyone's just ready to get out and about. 141 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: And I was like, doesn't it feel double whammy this 142 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: year because not only is it finally the weather is 143 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: getting nice and people are just like, get me out 144 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: of the house. It's like we've literally been locked up, 145 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 1: so everyone, get me the funk out of that house. 146 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: Ground home day. Yeah, my god, are we going to 147 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: do this again? I will tell you this, like I 148 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: am going to have my summer this year, Like I 149 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: know that our business is not going to bounce back 150 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,119 Speaker 1: to exactly what it was. I mean, we'll certainly be busy, 151 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: but last year I was super busy because I was 152 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: planning an album launch, which I don't have this year. 153 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: So I'm going to take advantage of it. Like I 154 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: want to like run a cabin in Montana or an 155 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: r V or something and like do a little trip. 156 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: But Camper Chip Camper me, is that all the across 157 00:07:56,040 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: Americas across America. Let's across America. That's a new bumper stickers. 158 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: I should look to see if the r L is 159 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: available Lotosa across America America. Remember when we were talking 160 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: about the new normal basically just in regards to like 161 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: this quarantine conversation or even just getting your second vaccine, 162 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: and you were like, it's like how like our generations now, 163 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: like younger kids like don't even understand what like dial 164 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: up is. Yeah, I mean it's I mean when you 165 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 1: think about like kids that are like okay, go grab 166 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: your mask, like that's it. That's their normal. O, my god, normal. 167 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: You know like they wear the kids are so used 168 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: to it, like like wearing them. Did I tell you 169 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 1: about my boyfriend's youngest daughter, she like did this fake um, 170 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: like you know on your phone, you have that what's 171 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 1: it called phantom phone vibration, like in your pocket, like 172 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: you think your phone vibrated. Because we're so used to 173 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: that and it happens. She started to say something to 174 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 1: me one day, and I wish people could see this 175 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: motion that I'm it was, she like did this motion 176 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 1: to like pull down her mask to say something to 177 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: be and she didn't have a mask when she goes. 178 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 1: I thought I had my mask going because she's so 179 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: used to living in it. And it was just so 180 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: many like phantom mask syndrome or whatever. But the kids, 181 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: because they wear them all day at school, you know, 182 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: like they're so used to it, right, Yeah, I mean 183 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: it's I wonder if any will be sad when they 184 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: don't have to wear them anymore because I've seen so 185 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: many like really cute kids masks. I'm gonna be so 186 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: grateful when I don't have to wear a mask ever again. Yeah. 187 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 1: I hope, I hope that that day comes. O. Hey, 188 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: but speaking of dialep, do you remember card catalogs? I 189 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: mean libraries in general, Like who's gonna go get a 190 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: used book today? Right? Seriously, I've always thought about how 191 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,319 Speaker 1: gross I mean, and I love libraries like I love reading, 192 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 1: so you know, please forgive me about this next statement. 193 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: But I'm just like when you check a book out 194 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: of the library, like you don't know if somebody was 195 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: like reading that while taking a ship right exactly, you 196 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: know what I mean, if they didn't wash their hands after. 197 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: This was such a random tangent. But I just think 198 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: it's so funny to think back about like all the 199 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 1: old things, like I would think about like encyclopedias, Like 200 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: we used to literally look like I remember going to 201 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 1: school and then coming home and breaking out the encyclopedia 202 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: like instead about like the first car that was ever built, 203 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: you know, right, Like kids these days would be like wait, 204 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: you used to have to take out a book and 205 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: look something up like what's there and then like the 206 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: word encyclopedia. I've actual encyclopedia dot com probably doesn't even 207 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: exist because you have Wikipedia now, like well, I mean 208 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: just Google, Like I just even when I'm doing research 209 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: for like podcasts, like I cannot imagine what doing a 210 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: podcast would be like without Google, Like what, oh yeah, 211 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: it's like, oh they do have there's encyclopedia dot com. 212 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: Who knew you remember c d s and like I 213 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: remember getting my first CD after having just like cassette 214 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: tapes and be like, oh my gosh, technology is crazy. 215 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,679 Speaker 1: I didn't want to get CDs because I had so 216 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 1: many cassettes that I was like, what am I going 217 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: to do with these cassettes? I still have them to 218 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: they're at my parents house. Did you guys used to 219 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 1: record on on to like blank cassette tapes? Like I 220 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: used to do that all the time with my friends. 221 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: I would I would make inserts and I would handwrite 222 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: the lyrics. Oh, I would copy my sister's tapes and 223 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:31,079 Speaker 1: like handwriting it would take me forever. Of course, I 224 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: don't really understand what you're saying. Insert the well, you know, 225 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 1: like when you buy a cassette and had like the 226 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: paper that came out, and like I would make my own. 227 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: I would cut pictures out of magazines make my own. 228 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: It was like a knockoff cassette. That's amazing. We used 229 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: to just like we would um record ourselves, Like I 230 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: think at one point I had like a fake radio 231 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: show and I would have my friends on his skip. 232 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: I mean talk about foreshadowing. Yeah, no ship right? Who 233 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 1: do you knew? Your mom? Was like I always knew 234 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: you had it. Oh my gosh. Remember pages, Like I 235 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: used to page my boyfriend when I needed to talk. 236 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: I was one. I didn't have one either. He was 237 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: actually very advanced because he had one, and he cut 238 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 1: lawns during the summer, and so like people would page 239 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: him and be like, get over here, the grass is 240 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: getting well. No, I would be like, oh, he's out 241 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: because he would do it all day. And like he 242 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: used to make bank. We thought we were like loaded 243 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 1: in high school. Just used to make so much money 244 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:34,319 Speaker 1: cutting grass. We we I know, I know, but you 245 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: work like you like would type in a message and 246 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: then someone would like know you would you would call 247 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: the number of the page, and then you would like 248 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 1: put your number back in and so they would go, uh, 249 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: you know, so you had to actually know people's numbers. 250 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: I guess yeah, I mean remember knowing people's I still 251 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: I still there's a couple of people like my friends Sarah, 252 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: I still know her phone number, um, obviously, my parents, 253 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: my sister's cell phone. I know, because it's like it's 254 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 1: literally basically you can almost prank call my sister if 255 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: you just done a bunch of threes and you might 256 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know anybody's number. Like that's 257 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: why with my cell phone. If I ever lose it, 258 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: I am so screwed because my life, Like I don't 259 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:20,839 Speaker 1: have an alarm anymore, I don't have anyone's number. Like 260 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 1: how do you access anything? How do you google anything? 261 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: Do you have one of those phone cases it has 262 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: your like I D and credit cards on your phone? 263 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 1: Yeah that that stresses me out. I'm like, that is 264 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: literally everything crossing the line. Yeah, yeah, that's tough. I 265 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 1: used to have a car phone when I got my 266 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 1: very first car, the kind that was in it on 267 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: ut Yeah, like it looked like a Zach Morris phone, 268 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: and I mean I thought it was like hot shit. 269 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: The only reason I got it was because the car 270 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: was like a hand me down for my dad and um, 271 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: and we called it the Exploder. It was a Ford 272 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: Explorer and it was like falling apart. Everything about it 273 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: was like fucked up. Wasn't like turned on or what 274 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: you just I could only he would all I can't 275 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 1: answer right now I'm driving, no, Like they would only 276 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: let me turn it on if I was going, Like 277 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: you know, my boyfriend lived across town and say like 278 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: if I would drive over there, my dad would make 279 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: me turn it on, like if I was going to 280 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: be coming home late at night or something. You know 281 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: when I say late at now, my parents were like 282 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: super stricts. It was like ten, but like my senior year, 283 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 1: I had to be in bed at ten. Yeah, I mean, 284 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: so you're in the same boat as me. Like but 285 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 1: because I'm a girl too, Like there would be certain 286 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: instances where they would be like, Okay, you can turn 287 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: it on in case, like you need to call us 288 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: or we need to call you. But like I couldn't 289 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: just have free access to it. They were not like that. 290 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: I had one in college and it was literally the 291 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 1: Zach Morris phone. I used to think I was the 292 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 1: hottest ship in the world. Like I would have my 293 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: messenger bag and the antenna would be sticking them out 294 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: of this five a minute what minute? So, like I 295 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 1: never used it. I would just carry it around them 296 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: play that is pricing. Yeah, but I had it because 297 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: I worked for Atlantic Records as a college rep and 298 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: I would drive up to d See a lot. So 299 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: it was literally just I would have it in case 300 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: I got into some some issue. But I would never 301 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 1: ever like call a friend on it. Like I would 302 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: call my parents when I was like stuck in traffic 303 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: going and be like, hey, I'm starting talking about I 304 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: gotta I gotta go to the dollars. Say that you're 305 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: stuck in traffic cost you like twenty dollars. Oh my god. 306 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 1: I just had this flashback to of like remember long 307 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: distance numbers? Oh my god. Like now we all have 308 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 1: very different area codes, but like, do you remember only 309 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: being able to call your area code? It was going 310 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: to be like eight dollars to make a call. Yeah. 311 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: I mean I have this really funny neighbor. His name's Greg, 312 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 1: and he literally has He's lived on my block his 313 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: entire life. He's like sixty five years old. I met Greg. Yeah, 314 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 1: he I mean he is. I want to make a 315 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: documentary about him. He's so interesting. But I was at 316 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 1: his house one night and um, he goes, you know, 317 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 1: I don't have your phone number, and I was like, well, 318 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: here it's and I started to say my number, and 319 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: he goes, you can stop right there, and I said okay, 320 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: and he goes, I don't have long distance. They we're 321 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: charging me six dollars a month. What god? So, yeah, 322 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: he got rid of this long distance and so he 323 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 1: can't call me. I said, well, don't you have a 324 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: cell phone? He goes, I'll leave that thing at work. 325 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Greg, well like smoking a cigarette inside 326 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: his house. I was like, get me out. That sounds 327 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: like a sixties sitcom or something. No, I have literally fifties. 328 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well, I just think it's hilarious. How 329 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: how common our conversation. I mean, the thing is is 330 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: like in case in point to what I was talking 331 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: about all my Instagram people getting in fights, Like I 332 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: have to look at like a way to kind of 333 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: make a joke about what's going on or laugh about 334 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: it or keep it light. Like people taking everything so 335 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: seriously still is it's too much for me? Like we 336 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 1: I just have to find a lighter side of all 337 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: of this stuff because it's been so much for so long, 338 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: you know, And so I think it's like funny too. 339 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. The common conversation is l I got my 340 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 1: second vaccine shot and maybe down for a week or so, 341 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. I saw a meme that was like conversations, 342 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: are you vaccinated? Which one did you get? Right? Exactly 343 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 1: did you get? Did you get it was the one shot? 344 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: Did you get four questions. It was so funny. It's 345 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 1: so funny. Um the thing that we went from like, 346 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: you know, the having a card catalog to like maybe 347 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:35,199 Speaker 1: having a vaccine passport, like a digital vaccine passport. It's 348 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 1: like so crazy, wild dams wild. Ums. Well, my big 349 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: news for this week, Uh, first of all, I'm glad 350 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: you got the second vaccine, and I'm glad that you're 351 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: feeling like you're maybe on the up and up. Um I. 352 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: My big news for the week is that Nashville Lifestyles 353 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 1: came out with their April issue and they did like 354 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 1: a spread on me. It was so kind spread them 355 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 1: that's a every conversation. Um No. But they did a 356 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: really nice article about just my job and how I 357 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 1: got from Louisiana to Nashville and kind of found my 358 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: way in the music industry and you know, just like 359 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 1: kind of telling the story and it was so kind. 360 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 1: I loved all the things they wrote. They were very nice. Um. 361 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: So I was very grateful. So this morning, because it 362 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: officially hit stands today, I did a post and um, 363 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: I didn't even think about this, but I was really 364 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: so like I was, you know, just feeling the joy, 365 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 1: you know when you have that like permanent smile on 366 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 1: your face and you're just like walking into your day. 367 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: And you know, I haven't had the best run the 368 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: last couple of years career wise, and so this was 369 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 1: a really like okay, getting back in, like here we go. 370 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 1: Thank you Nashville Lifestyles for giving me my motivation. I 371 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,879 Speaker 1: was in a great spirits about it. Go to do 372 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: my post and I kind of wrote this like sentimental 373 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: ish post and you gotta you gotta scroll up it 374 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: so long. Yes, okay, it's a long caption. So you 375 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 1: commented and you go dramatic greeting question mark. And we 376 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 1: have mentioned on this podcast before how we used to 377 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 1: go through some people that we know as Instagrams and 378 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: anyone who takes themselves too seriously and like writes these 379 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 1: really like feely levy or whatever, long captions you would 380 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: do these dramatic greetings. And so I was like, this 381 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 1: is fucking perfect to pass to dramatic greed. Like I 382 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: started dying laughing at myself because I was like, oh 383 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:30,719 Speaker 1: my god, I just totally gave him a dramatic gree. Okay, 384 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 1: so will you will you bless us with a greeting 385 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:40,160 Speaker 1: of my caption from my Nashville Life stylest Me Me, Me, 386 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: Me Me Now, I'm nervous. Normally I'm really drunk when 387 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: I do these, So we should have made you get drunk. 388 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,959 Speaker 1: Could have, Yeah, except for that's probably not good, not 389 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 1: good for your body at the moment. All right. When 390 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,680 Speaker 1: I was a little girl, I was obsessed with award 391 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 1: shows and red carpets. It was like Christmas Day seeing 392 00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:02,919 Speaker 1: the transformation that celebrities would make. As simple as it 393 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: may sound, the fashion and glam choices felt like like 394 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:12,719 Speaker 1: such a communication of their personalities. Fast forward to wait, 395 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 1: fast forward many years, and I find myself included in 396 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: that transformation process for people walking down massive red carpets 397 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 1: when red carpets were still a thing, and I couldn't 398 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: think of anything that feeds my soul more than seeing 399 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: a client feel confident and true in that transformation. Thank 400 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: you Nashville Lifestyles for telling my story of making my 401 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: place in Nashville. I am honestly so honored and permise 402 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 1: smiling all day today. The April issue is on stands now, 403 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 1: get it on the link in my bio. Oh my god, 404 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: so dramatic. Well, I'm happy for you. Because it's always 405 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: great to be recognized for like your talent and the 406 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: hard work that you've put in. And you know, it's 407 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: this town has a lot of people doing what you're 408 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: doing now, and they chose you, so thank you. That's 409 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 1: very kind. I was also feeling very proud. I am 410 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,919 Speaker 1: still I feel very honored that they chose to do that. 411 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:17,159 Speaker 1: And I feel really embarrassed about that cushion into I 412 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 1: walked right into it. I like laid it out there, 413 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 1: I like teed you up so perfectly. Like it's like, 414 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: I don't even remember who my friends are. I remember somebody. 415 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,439 Speaker 1: I remember somebody saying to me one time. This was 416 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: like back when I was I guess I was on TV. 417 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't remember what the context was, 418 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: but they were like, like you seem so humble, like 419 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 1: how do you stay so well? And I was like, 420 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:44,440 Speaker 1: you haven't met my friend seriously, like our our friend 421 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 1: group would never let any of us get a big head. 422 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 1: It's just never it's too fun. It's too fun to 423 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: like your friends. Also, if you can't laugh at yourself, 424 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 1: like you have a bigger problem. Like the second you 425 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: commented that, I read the caption I was like, oh 426 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 1: my god, what the you know, It's like oh yeah, 427 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 1: but you know, don't let that like keep you from 428 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 1: righting long listen. Sometimes sometimes I just get all emo 429 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 1: and in my fields and I just kind of like 430 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: right from that place. And then the next day I'm like, god, 431 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:26,679 Speaker 1: I was an email yesterday. Well, sometimes like you just 432 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: do it yourself. You make like the emo story that's 433 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 1: like you don't write it out, you're saying it, so 434 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:37,719 Speaker 1: what do you mean. Sometimes you'll do like a story 435 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 1: that's like a few slides long where you're like waxing poetically. Yeah. 436 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it depends on the day for me, 437 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:51,919 Speaker 1: but most days I'm waxing poetic in some capacity. Um, okay, well, 438 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:53,920 Speaker 1: I kind of want to move into listener questions because 439 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: I know you're not at one hundred, so we said 440 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: we keep it a little short today, but first I 441 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: want to talk about this is kind of in line 442 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: with listener questions, but this is like a big feedback 443 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: thing that you got and I actually also got on 444 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 1: your behalf this week regarding what did you post? So 445 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: yesterday I posted that I got my second shot, and 446 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 1: it was just like I think, I said, like I 447 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: want to kiss you? Did? You posted your vaccine record 448 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: card and you you captioned it on your story as 449 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: want a kiss question? And so many people were like 450 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: stoked about the beginning of slt A Puliza. And it's 451 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,640 Speaker 1: like those moments where I forget that people like actually 452 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 1: are listening to us. And so I thought it was 453 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: really funny that like that is the thing that like 454 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 1: clearly is resonating with people. Like people are like wanting 455 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,360 Speaker 1: me to be a big old slot I am personally 456 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 1: I am too, I'm on that same team. So and 457 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 1: also I can tell that you're feeling yourself. It makes 458 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 1: it like really fun to be around you because you 459 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: have this very like positive energy and like confident vibe, 460 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 1: you know, which I think is what slutter plus is 461 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: all about. I actually I posted a repost from the 462 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: Hot Country Nights. If you guys don't know who that 463 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 1: band is, look them up talk talk about sluts. They 464 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: wrote a caption that's said are they were to mean? 465 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 1: Neither day said single and ready to mingle man who's 466 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: vaccinated and sexually frustrated. Like that's like the new line, right, 467 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 1: And so then I when I posted that, I got 468 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,920 Speaker 1: a ton of messages from people being like this is 469 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: so chips, you know, like everybody is so ready. I 470 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 1: know I'm gonna I like, here's the thing. I want 471 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: to do it, and I'm gonna try and be as 472 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,199 Speaker 1: open and honest about it as possible in here. I 473 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,119 Speaker 1: love the vulnerability. Yeah, like why not, like if I'm 474 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: gonna do it. But I think in return, I think 475 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: it would be really fun if we had some proud sluts. 476 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: And by slut, like I'm taking back the power that word. 477 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 1: Like tell us more about that, because the word slut 478 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 1: is very tough for me because I get like, don't 479 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 1: call me a slut, you know, because call me a 480 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 1: slut it's always kind of referred to use your women. Yeah, 481 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 1: I think like we can all sort of like recognize 482 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 1: our inner slut and be proud of it. Like whether 483 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 1: that means you're sleeping with a lot of people, or 484 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 1: maybe it means that you're sleeping with your stupificant other 485 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: and you're like unleashing your wild side. That's more of 486 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 1: where like, you know, that's kind of where I'm framing 487 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 1: the word flood. It's like just like let your freak 488 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:33,920 Speaker 1: flight fly. It's like your edge if you the edge. Yeah, 489 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 1: living on that ledge, living on I mean that goes 490 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 1: so with the ledge and refer like when you're referring 491 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 1: to let it lose it, it's like, let's just take 492 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: it a little through there. I don't need the details. Um. Yeah, 493 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: So I think it would be really fun. Um, in 494 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,360 Speaker 1: addition to listener emails, if we could feature like a 495 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 1: proud slut of the week. So um. You know, we 496 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 1: can obviously do it anonymously so that people don't have 497 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,719 Speaker 1: to their names don't have to be said, but I 498 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 1: would love some encouragement by hearing other people's like slutty activities. 499 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 1: Oh okay, so you feel like that would make you 500 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: really amp up your slutter police. It's like, well, I 501 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: think you know in the same way that you feel 502 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: like the word slut has a negative connotation, Like, um, 503 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 1: I think there's you know, just like misery loves company, 504 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 1: excitement loves company too, So um to have that encouragement 505 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 1: to know that other people are out there just like 506 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 1: letting their free flight fly obviously, yeah, as possible. I'm 507 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 1: not encouraging being stupid. Um. You know, this revolution of love. 508 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 1: This also reminds me remember our girl Brittany the story 509 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: about the blow job and then going to the dentist 510 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:51,160 Speaker 1: the next day. Yeah, Like, stories like that seriously make 511 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,959 Speaker 1: my day, Like it's just so funny because everyone has 512 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 1: an embarrassing story, right, So, and I think that once 513 00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: you get into sledter pelloos and you're going to have 514 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 1: a couple, I think those would be encouraging to you 515 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: because you'd be like, I'm not the only one, thank god. 516 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 1: Yeah that's so. Anyway, all my proud sluts out there, 517 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 1: let's hear your stories in. You can need to slide 518 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: into my DM doors or you can hit Kelly on 519 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,159 Speaker 1: velvets Edge, or you can just email us at our 520 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: old email which is still at casual at velvets edge 521 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 1: dot com. We'll call it the slutter. I was trying 522 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: to think of like a revolution, but time the word 523 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 1: slid in. When is it ilution? Actually sounds corelse that 524 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: illusion like it's like a revolution, like bring your that 525 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 1: fell flat? Okay, fine, it's that it's so good in 526 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 1: my head. Yeah, I guess where you're going with it. Well, um, 527 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 1: we'll work on that and see if we can come 528 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 1: back with something that we still don't have a tagline. 529 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 1: For the show and you're like, yeah, will work on that. 530 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 1: Just added to the list. I'm a guy also our 531 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: merch store. I've really been dropping the ball in that 532 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,120 Speaker 1: T shirts. I'm sorry, that's my faults. We just need 533 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: to look at some blanks. Has to be, has to be, 534 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 1: has to be. Okay. So this email came in from 535 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: Emily and she said, Hey, Kelly and Chip, I'm loving 536 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: your podcast as ever. I feel like a little literal 537 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 1: stalker because you read my Instagram message out of out 538 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 1: like three podcasts ago. But for some reason, locked Out 539 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,439 Speaker 1: is giving me the urge to reach out to anyone 540 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: and everyone for connection. I heard you responding to a 541 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 1: listener who was looking for advice on fielding invasive questions 542 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 1: and comments about her age and plans to have children. 543 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: First of all, let me just say that I feel 544 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 1: you girl. I'm only thirty, but I got married four 545 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 1: years ago, and the second that ring went on my finger, 546 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 1: I've been asked about our plans to have children. My 547 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: stepmom got wasted at my sister's birthday party two years 548 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: ago and yelled at me across the dinner table, demanding 549 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: that I give her a grandchild soon. I also get 550 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 1: a lot of people making unwelcome comments or jokes about 551 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: mental health. I have bipolar disorder. From unsolicited advice on 552 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 1: how to treat my illness to dismissive opinions based on 553 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 1: misconceptions and offensive jokes, I've had it all. This approach 554 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 1: might not be for everyone, but my solution is usually 555 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 1: just to make people uncomfortable. Sometimes I'm just brutally honest 556 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 1: with them about my miscarriage, or I flipped the conversation 557 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 1: and ask them something equally as personal, or the most 558 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 1: powerful thing is when I just asked them why they're 559 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 1: saying whatever they're saying. Most of the time, when you 560 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 1: ask why, you force them to reflect on the root 561 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: of their behavior and they soon learn to stop doing it. Basically, 562 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: my mantra is, if my answer makes you feel like 563 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:43,440 Speaker 1: a dick, maybe you need to consider your question again. Anyway, 564 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: I hope your listener find some peace and is able 565 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: to figure out life on her own terms. Thanks for 566 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: all the last guys. Uh. I actually love that about 567 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: kind of making them feel uncomfortable because it's sort of 568 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: like what I was saying, Like when you're like, oh, 569 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 1: thanks for sharing, like you just are like, come on now, 570 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 1: like this is not your business. Why are you being 571 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: so invasive about my life? Right? I Mean it's so 572 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: funny because I feel like a lot of people make 573 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 1: the mistake when they're trying to actually like be kind, 574 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 1: you know, like or it's pairing or whatever like um. 575 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: And I look, I'm sure I'm guilty of upsetting some 576 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,479 Speaker 1: people by saying something like the wrong way. Like I 577 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 1: do believe that there is like yeah, it's it's a 578 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 1: really easy excuse to go to to say like that's 579 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 1: not what I meant. But I do believe that it 580 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: is possible to say something incorrectly and mean something different, 581 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 1: you know. Um. Yeah. My grandmother was always like, well, 582 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: you've put on some weight, and it's like yeah, like 583 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 1: she she just couldn't stop herself from saying it. And 584 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: it was like, I know it was coming from a 585 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: place of like her wanting me to be healthier, but 586 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 1: like that has the negative like that makes you like 587 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 1: sort of retreat into your body. It would be smarter 588 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: to be like, let's go on a walk today, you know, 589 00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 1: or something like that. Anything. Yeah, I was just thinking 590 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: about the part that she talked about, um, where she 591 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,239 Speaker 1: said I either I like answer brutally honestly to make 592 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 1: him uncomfortable. And it just reminded me of a story 593 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 1: I ran into. You know, I was engaged once and 594 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: I ran into that guy. We canceled the wedding. Obviously 595 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: I never got married, but I ran into him, Like 596 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 1: this was before COVID, but so about about a year ago, 597 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: and he proceeded to like, I think I had to 598 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 1: say something like, hey, how are you? You know, like 599 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 1: you can't just not say ship like that, even though 600 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,040 Speaker 1: I actually don't care. But I was like, hey, how 601 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: are you? And he starts going on and on about 602 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 1: how great his life is with his new wife and 603 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 1: their kid and all this stuff, and like I had 604 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:58,959 Speaker 1: literally just finished my second unsuccessful round of like eggs 605 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 1: freezing process, like I couldn't do it, so I'm still 606 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 1: on all the hormones. I just was like, why the 607 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: funk are you telling me this? Dude, Like, you literally 608 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 1: are telling me all these great things of your life, 609 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 1: and he cheated on me, so it's not like I 610 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:17,120 Speaker 1: have like positive feelings about this, and so he's telling 611 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 1: me this and I literally he goes, how are you? 612 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: And I go want to be honest, I'm not that 613 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: great actually and he I've never seen someone just be 614 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 1: like uh, he did not know what to say, and 615 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 1: I was just like, but I gotta go see you later, 616 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 1: you know. But it's just like everyone is so ready 617 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 1: for you to be like, oh, I'm great or oh 618 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 1: I'm fine, and I'm like, no, I'm a she straight. 619 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,120 Speaker 1: I actually am not that great right now. I'm in 620 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: a bad place in my life. But why why do 621 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 1: you think it is that, like, um, we all feel 622 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 1: like we need to just say I'm fine. I don't 623 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 1: know what that is, but that is definitely like it's 624 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,959 Speaker 1: something I'm reading a lot of therapy, Like a lot 625 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,400 Speaker 1: of the therapy sides that I follow now are starting 626 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 1: to be like you don't have to always be fine, 627 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: and it's okay not to give that answer. I think 628 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: it's just because really, when people say it, are they 629 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: actually asking like do they actually care or they it's 630 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 1: just like this like part of a conversation like hello, yeah, 631 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: and then maybe that's the problem. Maybe we should stop 632 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 1: asking if unless we're actually genuinely concerned. Yeah, your response 633 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 1: can be like how much time do you have exactly? 634 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 1: Did you want to grab a coffee for this comment? Oh? God? 635 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 1: So good. All right, So this is a question that 636 00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: guy got d M to me on my Instagram and 637 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 1: it comes from Mary. She says, Hey, guys, I'm dating 638 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: a great guy. We are in our late forties. He 639 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 1: doesn't lie or cheat and has no history of it. 640 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 1: We follow each other on Instagram. He gets to attend 641 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: cool social events and I noticed after each event he 642 00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: will be following sexy, sexy insta girls that he has. 643 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: Also follows big butt sites and other what I would 644 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 1: consider kind of creepy sights. He likes all the photos. 645 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: Obviously I don't like this, but get men enjoying the 646 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 1: photos in private. My main concern is his judgment in 647 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 1: liking public sights. He has a sixteen year old daughter 648 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,360 Speaker 1: who follows him on Instagram. My question red flag or 649 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: should I not be instance talking and looking for problems? 650 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 1: Maybe a follow up question? Am I wrong to be 651 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,160 Speaker 1: looking at who he follows? Or does everyone do this? 652 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,760 Speaker 1: I feel bad looking for trouble because if I didn't stalk, 653 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: I have zero concerns about him or our relationship. That's tough. Yeah, 654 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,640 Speaker 1: I mean, look, I I definitely have friends that follow 655 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 1: those same sites and they're good. They're good dudes. I 656 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:46,879 Speaker 1: just like bucks and sexy women like um, I think 657 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: the the one question to me that's super valid is like, 658 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,839 Speaker 1: I mean, his sixteen year old daughter is following him, 659 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 1: but like she probably knows her dad just as well 660 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,800 Speaker 1: as anybody you know, and she probably like he's probably 661 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 1: always been a bit of a creepy did you know? Um? 662 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 1: Sure so. And I don't think there's any problems with 663 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,879 Speaker 1: I look at to see who people follow, like not 664 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:16,239 Speaker 1: necessarily just to like, um judge it, but to see 665 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 1: if there's like any connection or whatever. I mean. It 666 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 1: is it is public knowledge, like if it's unless you 667 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,800 Speaker 1: have a private account, you can see who people follow. 668 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I have to have a 669 00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,880 Speaker 1: couple of thoughts obviously, like these are sensitive topics for 670 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: me just because of some of the stuff in my past, 671 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 1: and like I, um, I don't know, like the following 672 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 1: of those accounts sort of feels weird. I don't know, 673 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: something about that sets me off, Like I wouldn't like 674 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: love that if my guy was doing that. And I 675 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 1: also sort of feel like this thing where we're like 676 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 1: we just downplay it like annoys me about the way 677 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: we're like, oh man, we'll be man, I fucking hate that. 678 00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:00,760 Speaker 1: Like I'm just like why, Like so they actify women 679 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,040 Speaker 1: and we are supposed to just be like okay, that's normal, 680 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 1: Like it just feels a little devaluing to me. Um. 681 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 1: Then again, it's like we as women are posting these pictures, 682 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 1: so it's it's like such a it's exactly. Um, So 683 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 1: it's a big thing. But I do think it's like 684 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: old programming that maybe we need to start rethinking and 685 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,880 Speaker 1: that needs to go a little bit. Like I'm just 686 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: like a little over it. Personally. I will say, if 687 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 1: it's bothering her, like her behavior and finding this information 688 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: and like the snooping, if it's causing issues, that is 689 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 1: something to think about too, like why are you doing that? 690 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,399 Speaker 1: Like she says she has no concern, but like why 691 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: then why are you doing it? Like is it some 692 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 1: sort of subconscious fear? Is it? I don't know. I'm 693 00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 1: just I'm curious about that. But I would almost bring 694 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 1: it out into the open and just like jokes about 695 00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 1: like this sexy women. I'm like, oh I saw you, 696 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:57,759 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it's worth it's worth 697 00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,720 Speaker 1: a conversation of just like hey, like what the funck? 698 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 1: And also like your daughter follows you. I think what's 699 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 1: so interesting to me about dads with daughters is somehow 700 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,360 Speaker 1: they separate the women. Like I think I've said this 701 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 1: about my boyfriend before, like some you know, like he 702 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,879 Speaker 1: wants me to dress sexy or whatever, and he doesn't 703 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 1: even want his daughters to wear a bikini. And I'm like, 704 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: it's so interesting to me because like, you know, do 705 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,840 Speaker 1: you think my dad doesn't think about that kind of stuff? 706 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,560 Speaker 1: Like it not? I said that, like he wants me 707 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:26,479 Speaker 1: to dress sexy, but he's always like, oh, baby looks 708 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,319 Speaker 1: so hot in those tight pants and blah blah blah. 709 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 1: And there's nothing wrong with that. It's just like the 710 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 1: line between when is it different for them, like in 711 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,799 Speaker 1: their head, Like your daughters are gonna have men look 712 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 1: at them the same way and talk to them the 713 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 1: same way. So wouldn't you want to be some example 714 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 1: to them of like how you really think they should 715 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:50,680 Speaker 1: be treated. Yeah? Absolutely, I mean I think that's a 716 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 1: really great point. Like this guy, I'm sure doesn't want 717 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,759 Speaker 1: his sixteen year old posting these pictures, but if he's 718 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 1: following accounts like that and she can see, she might 719 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 1: be like, oh, well, I mean, it definitely sends a 720 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:04,200 Speaker 1: mixed message. Well, it normalizes it so much so that 721 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 1: she's probably like, Okay, this is fine. Yeah, my dad's 722 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,759 Speaker 1: into that. Yeah, my dad does that. It's not a 723 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 1: big deal. I don't know. It's just food for thought. 724 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously like no judgment, but it's just something 725 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 1: to think about. And I think sometimes we do these 726 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: things about really being conscious of the effect it can 727 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 1: have on relationships or on young children. And I'm guilty 728 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 1: of it too. I've had a really seriously since dating 729 00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 1: my boyfriend. It's made me rethink a lot of the 730 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 1: stuff that I post. It's been interesting because I know 731 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,680 Speaker 1: they'll see it at some point. At some point. Yeah, yeah, 732 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: I forget that. I was talking to the other day 733 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,319 Speaker 1: a friend of mine told me that they archived their 734 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: entire Instagram feed. I was actually a coworker of mine 735 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 1: because he um, he was just like, it's not like 736 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 1: there was anything that I was necessarily embarrassed by, but 737 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:58,200 Speaker 1: I'm just He's like, I'm just a different person today. Yeah, 738 00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 1: And I don't want to be judge by my past. Yeah. 739 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 1: I think it's interesting to look back and kind of 740 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 1: be like, wow, remember when I was into that or 741 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:10,279 Speaker 1: like you know, how you've grown um. But yeah, I 742 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,720 Speaker 1: could see where you would want to change it, especially 743 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 1: like if you were I think about it in a 744 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:18,040 Speaker 1: creative like business concept, I'm like, oh my god, my 745 00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 1: business is so different now, or like if you're a 746 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,720 Speaker 1: musician whose music has completely changed. You know, it's just interesting. 747 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,000 Speaker 1: Social media kind of keeps it all alive forever, which 748 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 1: is weird. I mean, I definitely love going back and 749 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,400 Speaker 1: looking at some of those memories, but I'm kind of 750 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 1: tempted to to bury the past too. Yeah, I hear it. Well, 751 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,360 Speaker 1: I hope you don't bury all the past, and I 752 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 1: hope you bring out some slutty. Yeah, it's like all 753 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 1: all slutty roads ahead, that's all I'm going to. The 754 00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 1: road's ahead looks slutty are like the weather forecast. It's 755 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 1: coming for sluts. I don't know. All right, Well, you 756 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: go get some rest, and we hope that you're feeling 757 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,799 Speaker 1: better next. Thank you. Happy you're vaccinated so you can 758 00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 1: get to kissing people. All right, But how are we 759 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 1: going to sign off? What did we come up with 760 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:10,319 Speaker 1: last week? Didn't we say something? Oh god, I've got 761 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,879 Speaker 1: my brain is too much? She I got messages about 762 00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:14,760 Speaker 1: when I tried to get you to go to edge, 763 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 1: people were dying. That just didn't work out how I 764 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,640 Speaker 1: thought it would. Okay, Well, for this week, we're just 765 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 1: still living on the edge. Guys living on a Veedge 766 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,040 Speaker 1: by