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Speaker 1: is okaype, we read the craziest true stories on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I'm John and Sam.

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Speaker 2: Should they tell them?

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Speaker 3: I mean, why not? Like then you can make your

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Speaker 3: like hiding from what? What if she knows?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 3: If she knows and she's been following the wife the

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Speaker 2: And if you would do you know that?

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Speaker 3: Would I know? I mean I live close to my aunt,

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Speaker 3: my aunt Baba, she's pretty sick.

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Speaker 1: But if you moved in, if we moved in here

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Speaker 1: and then your aunt came out and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: hey that's my aunt, you would know, right, I mean,

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Speaker 1: she's no talking about you.

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Speaker 3: If she said, hey, I'm your aunt, then I would know.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, you mean your aunt walks out the door.

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Speaker 3: Well, I know all my aunts exactly, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So they don't know each other.

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Speaker 3: So it's a plot twist, it's a But if I

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Speaker 3: know it's my aunt, then it's not a plot test.

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Speaker 1: No, But that's why it is a plot, just because

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Speaker 1: Opie doesn't know Opie's wife doesn't know that.

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Speaker 3: They don't know, then they don't know, and then.

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Speaker 2: But now they're about to find out, and there's could

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Speaker 1: So independent Grape five eighty six tells us they did

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Speaker 2: They did do that, But that's not what this story

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Speaker 2: is about. YEA story is this. I stumbled across the suburn.

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Speaker 1: It the other day and I thought you folks would

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Speaker 3: Let's kick it.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be a long one, but bear with me.

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Speaker 1: A few years ago, my wife surprised me with an

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Speaker 1: that it's the best Christmas gift to get in. I

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Speaker 3: Same you got Australian, any, buddy, Yeah that's true.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you're an Australian American, Mutt, that's true. I got

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Speaker 1: my results back in early February. I was immediately hit

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Speaker 1: we weren't ready for that. I immediately messaged her. I

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Speaker 2: It's what's called I'm going to cheat more than you.

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Speaker 3: Oh my boy, I wasn't wrong.

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Speaker 1: That was the real quote. She responded a few hours later.

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Speaker 1: And long story short, the man who raised me was

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Speaker 3: That is tough. But who's your daddy?

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Speaker 1: Well this explained why no known names from my dad's

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Speaker 1: I managed to meet up with my sister and her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just bombed the marriage twenty years earlier. The smooth

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Speaker 1: And so I have not met my dad, my real dad,

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Speaker 1: It was like a CCTV. Yeah, ah, it is an ATV.

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Speaker 3: How much is any of this?

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Speaker 2: Oh our new toy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 1: Wow, we are absolutely beside ourselves and our own luck.

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Speaker 3: Hell, so I went good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but ancestry DNA turned one of my neighbors into

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Speaker 1: I'm low key jealous because her story is way cooler

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Speaker 1: out from Dennie Milife. Have you learned why your wife's

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Speaker 1: If that is not a story of the craziest odds

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Speaker 2: I also love how it was like I found my real.

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Speaker 3: Dad, but that's nothing. I found out my neighbor was

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Speaker 3: back far enough. Whoa whoa ye, brothers brothers from other

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Speaker 1: Godars cousins from someone else's busing'.

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Speaker 3: We were reading all these DNA test stories, but I

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Speaker 3: line if you want to call us called four four

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Speaker 3: zero five zer eight six ied exceeven but Riley roll

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Speaker 4: I want to know my birth father, but heat does

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we've we've seen these, We've seen it.

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Speaker 1: jim Bean, that jim Bean is my birth father, but

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Speaker 1: But I feel like I deserve to know my birth father,

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Speaker 3: You know, I feel very unwanted. This show is called okayop,

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Speaker 3: and I'm definitely not okay. I have I'm very shy,

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Speaker 3: and I have a movie star crushing John. Please don't

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Speaker 2: No, I'll be here, I'll be here.

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Speaker 3: Wait what are we What are we asking here?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Hey, this is Sam from the Okyo p Show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, get the fuck out of reed.

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Speaker 3: John is also here. How are you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm doing okay awesome?

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Speaker 3: What was your name?

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Speaker 4: Brittany?

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Speaker 2: Brittany, Brittany, it's you.

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Speaker 3: We were just listening to your voicemail and we wanted

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Speaker 4: Birth father, so anyway I could find really I was,

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Speaker 4: you know, there's a Facebook Messenger thing. I couldn't find

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Speaker 4: Old friend ancestry DNA.

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Speaker 4: I'd have to reach out to my biological mother. I'm

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Speaker 3: And also do you think like the ancestry test was

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Speaker 4: I mean I went from before my ancest test, I

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Speaker 3: American too, John six percent Native American? How what percentage

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Speaker 4: Probably? Like? Ten? Ten?

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Speaker 3: Nice? You guys could be related?

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Speaker 2: Could could be?

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Speaker 3: Could be?

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Speaker 2: I mean to be.

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Speaker 4: Honest, are we all related to some degree?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: We did literally just say that before we calls you

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Speaker 3: Well, Brittany, do you have any advice before before we

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Speaker 4: I say, only do it if you're on certain Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And you do not want to press that button.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, Brittany, I appreciate your advice. I appreciate your call.

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Speaker 4: Yep. And to the viewers watching this, just like and

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Speaker 3: Let's go, We'll talk to you soon. Thanks again, Bye bye.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Well there you have it.

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Speaker 1: Wow, straight from the source, Straight from the source. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's head let's do another one.

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Speaker 3: We're delirious.

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Speaker 2: Hell, we're running on fumes.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna do another DNA test story from our call line.

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Speaker 3: Here is the title.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it.

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Speaker 5: Would I be the apshole if I did twenty three

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Chances are yes, chances are it is a can of worms?

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Speaker 3: Are you ready for the worm?

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Speaker 1: It's a nuclear button, baby, the nuclear words.

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Speaker 3: Brittany knows.

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Speaker 1: Brittany knows, so, the caller says, So, I guess this starts.

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Speaker 3: When I was born.

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Speaker 1: My dad left, no big deal, whatever, I have no

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm probably found. He's a big back liar.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: Now he pays child support, he's my father, but continues

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Speaker 3: How about the DNA test?

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Speaker 2: Come on, we literally have the facts.

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Speaker 1: I reached out to my older sister and was just

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Speaker 3: Yes, and yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm just wondering would I be the a

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Speaker 3: Maybe.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I would really feel bad like

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Speaker 2: So would I be the a whole if I did it?

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Speaker 3: Well, he's already paying trial support, so they legally prove

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Speaker 1: I think that's the real question that we need to understand.

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Speaker 3: I think we got a call all right.

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Speaker 2: No names, no names. Hello, Hello recorded Hey, this is

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Speaker 2: John and Sam from OKOP show. How you doing?

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, So we just got your submission and just

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Speaker 2: So question for you.

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Speaker 1: It seems like you said that you're the dad is

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Speaker 1: now paying child support, but you're still wanting to get

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Speaker 3: Is there like, hasn't it already legally been proved that

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So when I was like twelve, like ten years ago.

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Speaker 5: Now, we went through the courts and we got a

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Speaker 3: So are you trying to get another DNA test? So

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Speaker 3: you can basically be like, I'm gonna email this over you.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna see everybody see the whole family.

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Speaker 5: Well, I see you guys like you guys always do

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Speaker 6: Just kind of like want to throw the pot.

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Speaker 1: I'm real, you know, what, what do you think would

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Speaker 2: I emailed it and se seed all of your family members.

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Speaker 5: That's the crazy part because Okay, so I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I look sometimes. Don't judge me. I look sometimes. So

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Speaker 4: Oh, well, surprised. But I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I'm too scared. I don't know what would happen. That's

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Speaker 2: So wait, question, are are you?

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Speaker 1: Are you trying to just get a DNA test for

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Speaker 1: I just think.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so fucking mean to me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm I'm lying to you, she's a whole Wow.

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Speaker 5: What if well, now now it's true, what if I'm

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Speaker 3: Guys?

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Speaker 6: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Why so oh my god?

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Speaker 5: Because I like, I like, look at I watch you

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Speaker 3: I'm so crazy.

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Speaker 5: I didn't think you guys are gonna call me back.

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Speaker 2: Of course we had to call you. We had to.

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Speaker 2: It was it was the most importance. Okay, So I.

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Speaker 3: Think you I think you take the DNA and send

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think I'm kind of on board

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Speaker 6: I haven't.

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Speaker 5: I've had it. I bought the twenty three and me

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Speaker 6: Oh I haven't. I've just been too afraid to do it.

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Speaker 3: Do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you should do it because so like

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Speaker 1: So you said you were like twelve, thirteen, fourteen or

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Speaker 3: I think it'll show the error of her ways.

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Speaker 5: Do you want to know the realty.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, okay.

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Speaker 4: So my mom, before before we got any of.

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Speaker 5: The DNA tests or anything, she would tell me about

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Speaker 5: name me Peyton, after Peyton Manning, because he was like,

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Speaker 5: it doesn't matter the gender, it's going to be named Peyton.

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Speaker 5: Oh he ran away. Oh my god, guys, he has

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I really like that name. He really liked that name.

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Speaker 2: Also, our producer was.

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Speaker 5: I really like that name. Feels so weird.

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Speaker 2: And what city are you from?

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Speaker 5: She's from a small town in Texas, so I won't

453
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Speaker 5: say it Colorado.

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Speaker 3: But I think overall, I think you should do the

455
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Speaker 3: ancestry test, send it to the sister, and then maybe

456
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Speaker 3: and I think because I think it'll make her a

457
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Speaker 3: little nicer and maybe reflect on the poor way she treated. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but my other thought is they actively choose to

459
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Speaker 5: live in Texas, so they're probably not great people.

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Speaker 6: No, well, like you know what.

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Speaker 5: I mean, Like that's that sorry?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so funny.

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Speaker 3: Well hopefully I mean you can only help they respond

464
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Speaker 3: better than they have in the past.

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Speaker 2: Is there anyone else who was there anyone else who was.

466
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Speaker 1: Like vindictive or anything in the family like that was

467
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Speaker 1: treating you like yeah, like this half sister or a sister.

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Speaker 5: She was the only person that I like reached out to.

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Speaker 6: I have two younger siblings.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to reach out to them because I

471
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Speaker 5: like feel bad. I'm like, dude, your dad.

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Speaker 6: Has been lying to you like the whole time. I

473
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 6: know You're like, your dad's been lying to you your

474
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Speaker 6: whole life, Like you kind of don't know who that

475
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Speaker 6: man is. Yeah, that's why I haven't done it, because

476
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Speaker 6: that realization might be really hard for some people.

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Speaker 3: And how old did you say the younger ones were.

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Speaker 6: I think the youngest one is like either fifteen or sixteen.

479
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Speaker 6: I don't know for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I might be a little too young, but maybe

481
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Speaker 3: the older I think I think the older shit, Now,

482
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I guess I'm going to do it because you guys called.

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Speaker 2: Men, We're going to do it.

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Speaker 3: You actually, can you please call us back once you've

486
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Speaker 3: done it and leave another voicemail and then we could

487
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Speaker 3: do an update.

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Speaker 5: Yes, that would be so sad.

489
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Speaker 6: Wow, Oh my god, I have so many crazy stories.

490
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Speaker 5: I just went through a breakup. Or if you guys want

491
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Speaker 5: to keep going with this, that's my dad's story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, leave us, leave us your your breakup story and

493
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Speaker 1: your update story so we can we can add it

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Speaker 1: in the next few episodes.

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Speaker 3: We would love to.

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Speaker 5: Yes, God, I'm so excited. This is so exciting.

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Speaker 1: Of course, thank you, Thank you so much for coming on.

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Speaker 1: We're very much looking forward to those updates.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I will call you back.

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Speaker 5: It'll be soon.

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Speaker 2: Awesome. Perfect, you have a great rest of your day.

502
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Speaker 2: Thanks so much for chatting with us. There you freaking

503
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Speaker 2: have it.

504
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Speaker 3: Man. I like that she's going to do it.

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Speaker 2: She's going to do it.

506
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Speaker 3: I think she needs to know. I yeah she was.

507
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Speaker 2: She was a dick man.

508
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Speaker 3: She did come up and to child. Come on, but hey,

509
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Speaker 3: is it we done?

510
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Speaker 2: No? No, we're done.

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Speaker 3: This has been the DNA test episode. We love our

512
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Speaker 3: call line, the calls. So if you want to call

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Speaker 3: us and leave a story, call us at four for you, right,

514
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Speaker 3: six bucks, six seven. Thanks for coming on this wild

515
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Speaker 3: ride with us, y'all.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: If you love us, make sure to subscribe We love

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Speaker 1: you and see it tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: This is an episode from deep within the archives time

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Speaker 3: for okop relam am I the a hole for losing

521
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Speaker 3: it on my husband for lying about an emergency to

522
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Speaker 3: get me to leave my brother's wedding early sounds like it.

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Speaker 2: Uh no, your brother should be able to destroy your life.

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Speaker 1: However he pleases John with his hot takes.

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Speaker 3: Hot takes. Yeah. My husband has been sick for a

526
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Speaker 3: few days. He got sick around the time of my

527
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Speaker 3: brother's wedding. I took care of him twenty four hours

528
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Speaker 3: for days. He's on meds and can move and go

529
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Speaker 3: to the bathroom and eat on his own. I told

530
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Speaker 3: him I was going to my brother's wedding, and he

531
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Speaker 3: threw a fit, saying I couldn't leave him alone while

532
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Speaker 3: he's sick. I told him he was not that sick.

533
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Speaker 3: It's just a stomach bug and he's getting treatment for that.

534
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Speaker 3: And I suggested he call his sister to come stay

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Speaker 3: with him. He said no and told me to miss it,

536
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Speaker 3: to miss her brother's yo.

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Speaker 2: People.

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Speaker 1: I got upset and bluntly said no, he could survive

539
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Speaker 1: for a few hours while I attend the wedding. He

540
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Speaker 1: sul it, and as I was leaving, he said he

541
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Speaker 1: hoped I won't ever come back.

542
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Speaker 3: What a cry baby? What It hurt my feelings, but

543
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Speaker 3: I know he was just mad, didn't mean it. At

544
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Speaker 3: the wedding, I got a texture him saying he lost

545
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Speaker 3: balance and fell off the stairs and hurt his back.

546
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Speaker 3: He said he was in a lot of pain. He

547
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 3: threw up and couldn't move. He insisted I get home asap.

548
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Speaker 3: I freaked out and started calling his phone, but he

549
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Speaker 3: didn't answer. I thought he must have passed out, and

550
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Speaker 3: I freaked out even more. I got in the car

551
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Speaker 3: and drove back to our house immediately. When I got home,

552
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Speaker 3: I rushed towards the stairs while calling out his name.

553
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Speaker 3: I started to really freak out. Then I rushed into

554
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Speaker 3: the bedroom and found him in bed drinking juice, and

555
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Speaker 3: as soon as he saw me, he put the phone down.

556
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Speaker 3: I instantly knew he lied, and I lost it on

557
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Speaker 3: him and started yelling, saying he freaked me out and

558
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Speaker 3: caused me to miss my brother's wedding for nothing, absolutely nothing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: He said that he already told me I couldn't leave

561
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Speaker 3: him alone in the house and that this very scenario

562
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Speaker 3: could have happened. Oh pa, I yelled at him, calling

563
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Speaker 3: him a horrible person, which made him cry, what a bitch, baby.

564
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Speaker 3: God for real, he started crying and throwing his juice

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Speaker 3: all over the plane.

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Speaker 2: My God, grow the fuck up, bro.

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Speaker 3: Dude, this guy is a baby. I had to step

568
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Speaker 3: out and call his sister, thinking she'd come and help,

569
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Speaker 3: and then she started cussing me out, saying I had

570
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Speaker 3: a lot of nerve expecting her to back me up

571
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Speaker 3: after I so carelessly left her brother alone at the

572
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Speaker 3: house in a state just to attend a party. Isn't

573
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Speaker 3: it a party? This is a brother's wedding.

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Speaker 2: Why are people such a maniacs.

575
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Speaker 3: We got into an argument and I went staged with

576
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Speaker 3: my family. My brother understood when I explained the situation

577
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Speaker 3: to him. My husband and I haven't seen each other

578
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 3: since then, But his sister kept saying I had no

579
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 3: right to scream at her brother and caused him to

580
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 3: have a panic attack, and said he at least was

581
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,199
Speaker 3: clear with me from the start, But I chose to

582
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Speaker 3: be dismissive. Was I dismissive? Also, I'm twenty six years

583
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 3: old and he's twenty three years old, But honestly, man

584
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:02,640
Speaker 3: acts like he's five years old.

585
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Speaker 2: He like, just I'm just floored.

586
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Speaker 3: He sounds like such a baby, Like I honestly can't

587
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 3: even believe that, Like this is like I have to

588
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 3: imagine that. Oh he's like exaggerating of it, because like

589
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 3: I can't imagine anyone being so childish, like this could

590
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 3: have happened. This is ridiculous. Oh it didn't, it didn't.

591
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Speaker 1: You're a maniac, yea, So take care of yourself once again.

592
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Speaker 1: The red flags. Yeah they're they're married, right, Yeah, they're married.

593
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: How do you not see these red flags early? I'm

594
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Speaker 1: so sorry, I'm baffled these I'm positive they're young.

595
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Speaker 3: Twenty three and twenty six. Twenty three is pretty young.

596
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: That's kind of young. So like there's definitely he's got

597
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: a shit to figure out. Leave him, leave him right,

598
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: leave him right now,