1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: All right, Steve. This one is from Jacinda in Camden. 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: She says, I had an open marriage years ago, and 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:10,639 Speaker 1: I had sex with a lot of my friends back then. 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: Now that I'm about to get remarried, my fiance likes 5 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: to bring up my past. I keep telling him that 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: I pull all of that, I put all of that 7 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: behind me. Now he wants to know exactly how many 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: men I've slept with over the years. Truth be told, 9 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: That's how I met him. So what's with all the questions? 10 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: How do I get him to leave the past in 11 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: the past. 12 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 2: Well, you shouldn't have told you. I'm told y'all all 13 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 2: this honesty. Well I'm tired I tell you about this him. 14 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 2: What is all this honesty for? 15 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 3: It doesn't help a relationship, that's for sure. 16 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 2: It doesn't help Hell, I tell you what, I tell 17 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: you what. I'll tell you what right now? You want 18 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 2: to end this wedding, You want to stop all these 19 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: wedding bails? Tell that man, how many people you've really 20 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 2: been with? 21 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 3: Gone? Go ahead, be honest. I do agree with you 22 00:00:59,520 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 3: on now. 23 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: And he was one of the ones she. 24 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: Was with, so just telling me wasn't number forty four 25 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 2: others and you were one of the best. 26 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 3: Forty four more that summer, go ahead said random number 27 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 3: forty four. You said forty four more that summer. 28 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: Saying you said three, Right, women should only say three. 29 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 2: That's your match number three. I don't give a damn 30 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 2: what you did. I don't give a damn if you 31 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: worked at Magic City after they closed. 32 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 3: Max number is three. 33 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, ain't nobody in Magic City got just three. 34 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 3: I'll tell you that right now. What are the out at? 35 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: What is he asking her for? If he's marrying her? 36 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: Obviously he had gotten passage. 37 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 3: Because second thoughts. Sure, yeah, oh he's having second thoughts. 38 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, he having second thoughts. Yeah, okay, because if he 39 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: know her, he got to didn't worry about if he 40 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 2: make her the wife, who else gonna know her? Because 41 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 2: she says she slept with a lot of her friend. 42 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: A lot of including him. 43 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 3: Do you know what a lot of mean? 44 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 2: Though? 45 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: What does a lot of mean? 46 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 3: What does it mean? A lot of? 47 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 2: A lot of is a short word for a lot 48 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 2: of reed. And you play the lottery, what in the 49 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 2: hopes of winning? What a whole lot of money? 50 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 3: Jackpie jackpot. 51 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 2: So if you've been with a lot of people, you 52 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 2: as a walking jackpot, and ain't nobody finn to do that. 53 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 2: I'm telling you this marriage probably is not going to 54 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 2: go down, especially if she says that real number. 55 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 3: Okay, ladies, let me ask you all the questions three 56 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 3: way that I've told you this is not This. 57 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 2: Is not personal. This is not a personal question. This 58 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 2: is not a personal question. Being a woman knowing other 59 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 2: women mm hmm. Let's say your one friends or something 60 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 2: like the associates, what would you when women are talking 61 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 2: amongst amongst each other? What do women consider an acceptable 62 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 2: number to discuss well, teach others that's a good way. 63 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: What number do women think is an exceptional number? 64 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: So you mean we're discussing it with each other about 65 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: how many our body count or man's body. 66 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no count. 67 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 2: But another woman, another woman, were telling you all their 68 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: real body count. What's the number before y'all go, damn? 69 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 2: What is that damn number? 70 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: Maybe it depends on. 71 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 3: Ten Monica say thirty. 72 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: Twenty five, twenty. 73 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, let me ask you a question. But I'm 74 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 3: gonna tell you this though. See, women don't talk like that. 75 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't really talk about that. 76 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: Okay, cool. I was just wondering though you do. Yeah, 77 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: I've never heard women say that before. I've heard me 78 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: and talk about it, Tommy. When a man tells you 79 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: he's only slept with how many men? I mean, excuse me. 80 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 2: When a man tells you he slept with only how 81 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 2: many women? What number is low? 82 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 3: Where you go? Damn though? If you only at ten? 83 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, we can't figure out way. 84 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 3: That's a load. That's a low body. That's a low probably, friend, 85 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 3: you got it. You gotta get out more. You really 86 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 3: got to get out. 87 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 2: All right. 88 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 89 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 1: up at twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening 90 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show