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Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's brooking Jubil's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people appreciate big romantic gestures in relationships,

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Speaker 1: and some people hate them, like Elaine, who's on the

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Speaker 1: phone today to do an awkward Tuesday phone call. Her

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Speaker 1: to stop him. Elaine, why do you hate why do

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Speaker 1: you hate love? That is not true. Okay, I don't

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Speaker 1: hate grand romantic gestures, you know. I read your email.

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Speaker 1: It sounds to me like you hate love what I

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Speaker 1: to have a cold heart, is what it sounds like.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell everybody what you want to do

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Speaker 1: today in your awkward Tuesday phone call? Okay? Well, I've

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Speaker 1: been dating my boyfriend for about six months now, a

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Speaker 1: little over six months. Actually. That's always a sweet spot

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Speaker 1: in a relationship. Things are still you're in the honeymoon

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Speaker 1: phase still exactly, and he's a very sweet guy. He

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Speaker 1: can be a little impulsive, though, and so far it's

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Speaker 1: been a really fun relationship until now decided to get

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Speaker 1: all sweet, I'll do the nicest thing, Like I said,

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Speaker 1: any man can ever do. No, I mean, I, okay,

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Speaker 1: you guys have to hear me out on this one.

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Speaker 1: Though I've already closed my mind. I think what he

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Speaker 1: wants to do is so amazing and you should just

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Speaker 1: to do yet wants to do a relationship. It can't

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Speaker 1: be anything too crazy. You may be taking those words

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Speaker 1: back in a minute. Yes, So he told me this

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Speaker 1: my name incredibly forearm, his forearm, alas so everybody would

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Speaker 1: see it all the time. It's not like his back

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Speaker 1: a horrible decision maker. I know that he's impulsive, which

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Speaker 1: of laughed at first because it seems like a joke,

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Speaker 1: you know, like, hey, babe, I'll get your name tattooed

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Speaker 1: on my forearm and it'll be super cute. But he

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Speaker 1: And I was like why though, and he said, this

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Speaker 1: really corny thing. He's like so that his arm can

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Speaker 1: like draw strength from my name because the back of

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Speaker 1: my head. Okay, but it's kind of cute, right, Not really.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of tattoos, and some were bad,

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Speaker 1: some of them were good. But I love the tattoo

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Speaker 1: people that everything is such deep meaning. Well, it's basically,

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Speaker 1: he likes you a lot and wants a new tattoo

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Speaker 1: only six months. I would say that is a little early. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would too. That's a lifelong commitment that you're talking

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Speaker 1: I know. And he even got out all these sketches

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Speaker 1: that he's had drawn up by different tattoo artists. What

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Speaker 1: is it? What do they look like? I mean, how

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Speaker 1: big are we talking? Oh? They're big. It's not like subtle. Okay,

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Speaker 1: do you like any of them? They're nice? But no,

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Speaker 1: you don't. That pause right there, so you hate them all,

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Speaker 1: don't you. You wouldn't even get your own name tattooed

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Speaker 1: on yourself with those, is what I'm hearing. I mean,

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Speaker 1: the calligraphy is really pretty. It's just I don't want

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Speaker 1: it on his arm. What did you say? In the moment?

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Speaker 1: He asked me what I thought, and I did not

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Speaker 1: just say so. I was just like, well, that's you know,

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Speaker 1: that's crazy and good. But you didn't mean crazy fun.

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Speaker 1: You mean like crazy, literally crazy, that's literally crazy, And

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Speaker 1: so I mean he wants to do it this weekend.

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Speaker 1: So the reason I reached out to you guys, because

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Speaker 1: exactly what you just said, which is that we've only

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Speaker 1: not there yet. Yeah, that's a tough conversation. A normal

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Speaker 1: you're calling him and saying I don't love you, yea

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Speaker 1: love him exactly. And should anyone really tattoo love someone else.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's like the kiss of death. Oh, it

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Speaker 1: totally is. My cousin got his wife's name tattooed and

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Speaker 1: It's so true. I don't know anybody that has some

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Speaker 1: I really don't exactly, but I mean that's why I

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Speaker 1: well we'll play a song come back, and then you

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Speaker 1: can make your awkward Tuesday phone call. Okay, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: hang on, it's awkward, it's Tuesday. It's brooking jubels awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call, in case you missed the first part,

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Speaker 1: Elaine is on the phone, and Elaine is dating what

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Speaker 1: anywhere on your body when you hold him in together

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Speaker 1: for six months? Elaine, are you about ready to call

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Speaker 1: your boyfriend and tell him to stop? Ready? I don't

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Speaker 1: get something else that symbolizes your love rather than your name.

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Speaker 1: That way, when you do break his heart and break

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Speaker 1: that isn't going to happen. I mean, I think that's

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Speaker 1: that's a terrible idea. You're taking tattoo advice from a

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Speaker 1: so Donald and Daisy Duck. Then, no, see where that's

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Speaker 1: coming from. How about just something that you guys love

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Speaker 1: of cute. That's my advice. You just try to maybe say, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'll think about it. Yeah, all right, I'm gonna dial

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Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call. Okay, okay, okay, here we go. Hello. Hey,

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Speaker 1: oh hey, babe, where are you calling from? Oh? I'm

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Speaker 1: just calling from my work phone. Were you up to Newson?

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Speaker 1: I just got home from the store, popped onto the couch,

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Speaker 1: checking the CV. Seen what's on? How about you? Oh?

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Speaker 1: He's got finished with lunch. I wanted to kind of

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Speaker 1: had a couple of days ago. Oh yeah, yeah, what

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Speaker 1: out which when you're like the best? Wow? I do

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Speaker 1: like the designs. I just was thinking maybe you should

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Speaker 1: wait a little bit on it. Why, Well, I just

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Speaker 1: I think it might be a little too early in

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Speaker 1: you know. Well six months is a really long time. Well, sure,

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Speaker 1: six months seems like a long time, but I mean

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Speaker 1: long time. Like, why can't you just wait? You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm confident I love you, girl, and I want that

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Speaker 1: I love you too. But it just think about it.

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Speaker 1: That's that's forever. It is forever. But I mean we're

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. Do you have doubts about a relationship. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't have doubts. I don't want to break up

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Speaker 1: I just know. How can you not? Now, I'm just

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Speaker 1: But I mean your dad still has your mom's name

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Speaker 1: and he has a new friend, and that's super awkward.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think it's still symbolic. Okay, but didn't

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's not a good solution to this. Problem, Elaine.

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Speaker 1: I'm serious, Let's do it. I don't know what the

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Speaker 1: I'm serious. I mean I've known since the first time

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Speaker 1: I saw you walk into the Jack in the Box

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Speaker 1: New Elaine Maurice, will you marry me? No? Zero two

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Speaker 1: hundred real fast. Hey, what's up, David? This is Jewel

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. How are you doing?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? David? H Do you have you ever

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Speaker 1: heard of Brook and Jewel in the Morning before? It's

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Speaker 1: a radio show? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah it is. Elaine

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Speaker 1: wanted to call you today through our radio show to

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Speaker 1: after six months of dating. Because she feels like it's

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Speaker 1: too soon. Yeah, a lot of things like asking a

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Speaker 1: a tattoos? A little much. I think I still don't

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Speaker 1: know what's going on, Elaine. Are you here? Yes, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think that you would asked me to marry me, beautiful.

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Speaker 1: That is so not what I meant by we're not

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Speaker 1: even gotten to that milestone in her relationship. Why should

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Speaker 1: So I'm on a radio show right now. Yes, yes

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Speaker 1: you are. And Elena is serious. She thinks it's too

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Speaker 1: early to get a tattoo and also to get married.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and that too, and also to get married. David, David,

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