1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio Podcast. 2 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 1: You've got your little blink, my blink, my slow blink 3 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: when I get tired. Yeah, I think it's salergies. I 4 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: think they're messing with me a little bit today in 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: the last couple of days, or it's because Roman was 6 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:23,319 Speaker 1: not feeling one hundred percent, So I think maybe it 7 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: could be like a little piece of his bug or 8 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: something too. I was supposed to go out tonight with 9 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: some girls, but I don't think that's going to happen, 10 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: which is a bummer because actually it was like, oh, 11 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: I have a little girls night. 12 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 2: It'd been fun, but we're supposed to go. 13 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Uh when the neighbors were kind of talking about it, 14 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, that would actually be really fun. 15 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: I don't ever go out out. You know. They were 16 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: going to go to this cute little place in East Nashville. 17 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: But it's one of those where it's like even my 18 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: friend was like, they're gonna like one of our neighbors 19 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: is like super like she likes to like it's going 20 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: to be late and it's going to be you know, fun. 21 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: But I'm just like what I always leave or uber back, 22 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: But I already am like preparing my Hey, I'm not 23 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: feeling one hundred percent, which they probably all expect anyways, 24 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: I just you know, but this is because I just 25 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: think about how much it'll put me back for tomorrow 26 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: if I'm not feeling one hundred percent today, not having 27 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: a good night's sleep, Like I'm old. It's just what 28 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: it's coming down to. It's fine, everything is fine. 29 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 2: You make the right choice. 30 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I know. So Father's Day is coming up, 31 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: and it's one of those where it's so hard because 32 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: when you were like, I don't care, I'm like, I 33 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: know what I would want for Mother's Day, which is 34 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: I would like to have half and half. Well, I 35 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: mean this year was I was on a movie set, 36 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: so I couldn't really ask for for that because I 37 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: just wanted to be with the kids, and you guys, 38 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: since that was my only weekend seeing the kids for 39 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: those three weeks. In a way, well mine's the one 40 00:01:56,720 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: that I came home. But I digress. So I I 41 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: would like a half day at a spa and then 42 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: like come home to a dinner. Yeah, it's it's almost 43 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: because all the Mother's Day gifts are funny too. It's 44 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: they're like here you go. It's because we would actually 45 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: like a day oh I make up and from what 46 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 1: I've seen that we actually want to be away from 47 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 1: the kids on Mother's Day, like dads can go golfing 48 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: and do and then you know, so it's like you 49 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: guys have that on your Father's Day. That's where I 50 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of dads do or they go 51 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: do like they want to go fish or like I 52 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: know Nick likes to go to the pond and stuff, 53 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: and so it's like we also don't want to be 54 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: it goes fresh and every week, right, it's a piece 55 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: of bad example, find what you mean? Yeah, So but 56 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: like for Mother's Day, that is like a dream Mother's 57 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: Day for me is a half and half where it's 58 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: like I go to a spa and maybe it's like 59 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: me and my girlfriends because we don't really get to 60 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: go together get together, and I think that's they'd be 61 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 1: nice if all of us moms went to like a spa, 62 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: that would be a dream and then come home to 63 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: a nice cook dinner from the husband, hang with the kids. 64 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 1: So that is like a dream Mother's Day that I've 65 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: never had. 66 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 2: Like that, Oh you couldn't get this year because it 67 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 2: was in legs. 68 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: And no the kids, Yeah, yeah, because I obviously want 69 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: to see them a part of it, but I also 70 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: would like to peace out too and be like pampered 71 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: mom mom day. So but with you, you know, the 72 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: last Father's Day we I think I was filming. Yes, 73 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: I was filming, So we went to dinner and stuff 74 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: and so yeah, that was on. 75 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 2: Troy was over. 76 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: Yeah that was so great. But this year he's you know, 77 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: he's not able to come over until you know, the 78 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: following week. So I'm curious and I asked you. I'm like, 79 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: what do you want to do? And you're like, does 80 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: motor Like we don't have to do anything? Like that's 81 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: not okay. I just told you my dream mother's day. 82 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: What would your dream Father's Day look like? 83 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: My dream follow's day? 84 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously having your son over, but we know 85 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: that he can't is not the following week because I 86 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: have only a week or some and some change to 87 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: come up with something, and right now I got nothing, 88 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: literally nothing, And I actually mean this no, but you 89 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: know me, I know what you're about to say. That's 90 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: not a You're going to be like, we don't need 91 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 1: to do anything. 92 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: Well, we don't because we didn't do you know what, 93 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: I never get to just and never forget to just set. 94 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: And you won't. That's the thing, you won't. You won't 95 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: just sit. Okay, Dream Father's Day go. But we have 96 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 1: to exclude the fact that we know that he can't 97 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: come till the following. 98 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 2: Okay, well, the fact that I know that he's coming 99 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: the following week has actually made my father's day. Don't 100 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 2: know he's coming there, I don't know how busy junas 101 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: from finishing one thing to then start another. 102 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: Yep. 103 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 2: So that's that's perfect. It's not perfect, but it's good. 104 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: Dream Father's Day would be having a lion. 105 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, easy, okay, I get it right now. Notes 106 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: on that, yes, I do, because I have to not 107 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 1: be like guy sleep in. I would never I'm a lion. 108 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 2: Wake up, wake up, and those. 109 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: Coffee, coffee, eggs and turkey bacon. 110 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: Yes, done, eggs and turkey bacon. 111 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: Do I know my husband or do I know my husband? 112 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: The eggs, turkey bacon? 113 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I think it would probably. 114 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: Ladies, listen up, I'm giving you a head head start 115 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: here with the men. 116 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: Want I'm not going to go and play like, I'll 117 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: think about something that I would like to do that 118 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 2: I don't normally prioritize I get to do like golf. 119 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: Like golf, I need to make that reservation. 120 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 2: No, you don't need to. So what I'm talking about 121 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 2: is I would I'd be happy just just going to 122 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 2: a driving range for an hour, smashing aut of one 123 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 2: hundred and fifty. Right, Okay, come back and have a 124 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 2: pool day with the kids, old day. 125 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: What if it rains. 126 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:12,679 Speaker 2: If it rains, then. 127 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: If it rains, fancy them all trip? 128 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: Not really, No, I think. I think if it rains, 129 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 2: we're going to get lunch somewhere, a nice lunch somewhere, and. 130 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's talk president. What would you like? Nothing I need, right, 131 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: and there's there's needs, and there's once or likes. 132 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 2: I've already said to you it's. 133 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: Something right, and you haven't sent me the link. 134 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:48,559 Speaker 2: I'm not sending you the link, so that that's fine. 135 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: And anything else. Talking about soccer boots, so. 136 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, up the football boots, their boots. 137 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: That's right. I did say right. 138 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 2: Okay, you did say it right, Okay, so that would 139 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 2: be perfect. And then at the end, get the hyenas 140 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: to bed. Then I get to spend time with my 141 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 2: perfect wife. Can we watch a movie? Oh, we watch 142 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 2: more of that new series. 143 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: Of stuff that we'll finish it by then. 144 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's next week. 145 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: Is yeah? Okay, Well that sounds like a fun father's day. 146 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: Then I love that. That'll be good. Anything else else 147 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: going on in your. 148 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 2: Yes, it's been a busy week, A busy week. You 149 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 2: also new client, which is good. Yeah, big, big big. 150 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: One, big big big one. We can't say because he 151 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: signed an NDA. That's how big. 152 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so he has agent called me and did some 153 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 2: work of the player and now we'll get discussion on 154 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 2: whether he comes into the comes into the program. 155 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: It was one of those where I was like, We're 156 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: not being catfished, are we? I was like, how did 157 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: this agent reach out to you? Did he like d 158 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: M you? 159 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 2: Did he like? 160 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: Because I know you're like a big deal with striker 161 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: people and you do the analysis and but it's like 162 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: training the training programs, right, but it's you know, I'm 163 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: still like, I wonder because I mean, like I wrote you, 164 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: I wrote to your website thing will you marry me? 165 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: I also put my name to were Claire. 166 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 2: So that was that was a good I mean, it 167 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 2: was hectic to get these analysis done in time for 168 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 2: a huge. 169 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: For two days and you had we had we had 170 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: how many nights to get that done? 171 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 2: Look at they and a half So two nights. 172 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was like, hey, honey, I'm not going 173 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: to la And then you're like, well, I still need 174 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 1: to work until but I was it was great. 175 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: That was good. So was the possible Saudi deal, which. 176 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 1: We might be moving to Saudi Arabia, moving, but it's 177 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: a good part. Can you imagine if I called Mike 178 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 1: and was like, hey, can I move the kids to 179 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:57,559 Speaker 1: Saudi Arabia? Listen. We had a hard enough time asking 180 00:08:57,559 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: about Chicago, so I think Saudi Arabia would have been 181 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: out of the question. 182 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 2: So that's good. There's been a few zooms and calls 183 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 2: on that joint venture over there. 184 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: Things are wheling and dealing. 185 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 2: Things are wieling and dealing. And I've got a speeding 186 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 2: ticket this morning. 187 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 1: He did get a speeding ticket. And I had to 188 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: remind you he's just doing his job and you were 189 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: in the wrong speeding when I. 190 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 2: Take a beat, Yeah, I'm in the wrong. But this 191 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 2: guy appeared from nowhere. 192 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: I was like, well, yeah, they're cops. They hide in 193 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: you know, places to catch people in this get people 194 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: on speeding because they're doing their job. 195 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone on that road is speeding, right. 196 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: Well, I did say that. I was like, that guy 197 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: is for sure not going fifteen. 198 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: I was trying to like the unlucky one. 199 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's like, oh, trust me, I've already stopped 200 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: five people in the last thirty minutes. I'm like, this 201 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: is a tricky road and it just started construction, and 202 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: we were like, where's the twenty five mile per hour sign? 203 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 2: I actually don't see any. 204 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: There's actually a bunch. Yeah, there will be because he's 205 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: now that you'll now you'll see them. 206 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 2: But listen, I'm in the wrong. I was gone over 207 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 2: the speed limit slightly, slightly. Oh it's normally a forty. 208 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 2: That road is normally a forty. 209 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: It's actually not thirty five. 210 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 2: Okay, So I was in nine miles an hour over 211 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 2: the limit twenty five. Yeah, but you said because of 212 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 2: the construction that's come down, which I never took notice 213 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 2: off anyway. So been a good week which ended in 214 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 2: the bloody speeding ticket. 215 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: Time to go to driving school? 216 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, online, it's online. I don't need to go there 217 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:38,839 Speaker 2: physical physically goal you. 218 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: Got to go to court. 219 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 2: The PTSD horrible, Yeah, yeah, okay, what were you a week? 220 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, trains, planes and automobiles didn't didn't get 221 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: to where I need to be, so it's time. Oh good. 222 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,679 Speaker 1: It was a reroute. I love. I love a good reroute. 223 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: That's the thing. I'm a big believer that, you know, 224 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: there was a reason why we were delayed, was the 225 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: reason why we didn't go, And it's okay. I always 226 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: think there's a greater plan within, you know, God's inner 227 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: workings of all that. Like maybe we would have gotten 228 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: into an accident. I don't know. There was just like 229 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: so many things where I I take those signs and 230 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:20,839 Speaker 1: say that's where I wasn't. I wasn't meant to go 231 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: do that, so and that said where I kind of 232 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: always live within things. But yeah, I found you know, 233 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: I found it to be a good week. 234 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 2: Movie. 235 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 1: Yep, booked to movie. So excited about that and so well, 236 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 1: you know, because I always talk about on wine down too, 237 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: so it's like not trying to repeat you know what 238 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: I mean. 239 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:49,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, fun questions. 240 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: Did sexual chemistry or emotional chemistry come first in your relationship? 241 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: For you both. 242 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 2: That's a good question because the sexual chemistry or emotional 243 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 2: care mystry comp That's a strange one because we spent 244 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 2: a lot of time talking on zoom before we actually met. 245 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:11,599 Speaker 1: FaceTime zoom face. We weren't having business. 246 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 2: Sending your email was with a link here's the past one. 247 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: When you're meeting my day. 248 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 2: On zoom this morning, sorry, FaceTime. 249 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: There is a difference, which is why I had to clarify. 250 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 2: I appreciate that. I think, yeah, there was definitely sexual 251 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 2: sexual chemistry and emotional chemistry. I think there was that 252 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 2: even before we met, and then when we met, there 253 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:37,319 Speaker 2: was it was definitely that. 254 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I would say there was a definite chemistry 255 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: when we were facetiming, but it went beyond like a 256 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: sexual chemistry, because if I'm going to be honest, I 257 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: really didn't get the I was attracted to your FaceTime, 258 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: but it was it was a person in person. There 259 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 1: was I'm like, okay, I am attracted to this person. 260 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: It takes me a second. Then it was like an 261 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: instant in person, if that makes sense. Did you have 262 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: any hesitations moving so fast in your relationship? 263 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 2: None? 264 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: Well that was fast response. 265 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 2: No, I know because I talked about it with someone 266 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 2: a couple of days ago. 267 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: A couple of days ago yesterday, Who would you talk 268 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 1: to yesterday about it? 269 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 2: Tell me? 270 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I know who if I looked at the 271 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: calendar exactly, what was it? What brought up about? That 272 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 1: came up about that we're talking to a mentor essentially, because. 273 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 2: We're talking about the timeline of things of Roman before marriage, 274 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 2: and the question came up of how did I feel 275 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 2: about things being in that order and how quickly things 276 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 2: moved and straight out like zero concerns over it, zero doubts, 277 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 2: would never change any of it. So that's why I 278 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 2: answered that question so quickly on did we have any 279 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 2: hesitations on moving so fast? I had none because I 280 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: was I was sure, I knew things were We're. 281 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I mean I think there was. I'll speak 282 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: to an episode that we posted last week. It was 283 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: on when we get into conflict, how you know you 284 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: try to push my buttons? And then someone had commented 285 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: in the wind down DMS, which I love people when 286 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 1: they love people's comments, whether good or bad. I always 287 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: kind of look at them both ways. 288 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 2: And. 289 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: They were basically like why, like maybe like you posting 290 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: this actually shows your really I can't remember exactly what 291 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: they said, but like, this isn't actually good that your 292 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: post this about it. And I kind of I looked 293 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: at that and goes, okay, we always said that we 294 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't show weakness for our marriage, and I kind of 295 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: brought that up, was like, did we overshare on the 296 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: last episode talking about you know, how how we have 297 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: conflict and how sometimes you know, there is a budding 298 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: of like you want to like you have words that 299 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: come out that you don't want to say, you know, 300 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: and so, and I was like, did that did that 301 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: bring weakness out? Or does that show weakness in our relationship? 302 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 2: That was a question. 303 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: That's what I asked you in the car. I'm like, 304 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 1: because we always talked about not because they're like, oh, 305 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 1: if they're sharing this, imagine what's behind closed doors? 306 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 2: Is that what the person said. 307 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: In a way, yeah, I can't. I don't verbate them, remember, 308 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: because I I didn't really, you know, have much thought 309 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 1: into that. But when I was thinking about that, I'm like, 310 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: to me and what and I do remember responding in 311 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: a way, it's like, there is no perfect relationship, Like 312 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: you guys, I'm like, show me a couple that has 313 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: zero issues. Yeah, that has never fought, that has never 314 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: had a you know, a confrontation from maybe communication, or 315 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: that has said something they regretted saying, or like, show 316 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: me one relationship that's And to me, I'm like, I 317 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: find it healthy that there is conflict and that there 318 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: is not all the time, like it doesn't need to 319 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: be a constant where it's like it doesn't have to 320 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: be hard all the time, and that's not what it is. 321 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: And I also think there's what I said to them. 322 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: I was like, there's no perfect relationship and there's so 323 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: much growth in the work that we do and this 324 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 1: is like light years less than like what I had 325 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: in my previous you know. 326 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, So you're going back to your question to me, 327 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 2: does it show too much weakness? 328 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: No, I don't think it does. But I'm just saying, like. 329 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 2: You know, I don't think so. I think it shows 330 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 2: an honesty. And I think the fact that there's no 331 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 2: relationship out there that doesn't have issues none. There's people's 332 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: perception of what issues might be, and there's people's perception 333 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 2: of what our lives might be based on what we 334 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 2: say on this podcast. But that's the that's their opinion, 335 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 2: and that's their perceptions only perception, because they're now thinking, oh, 336 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 2: if that's what they're sharing, then what's all the craziest 337 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 2: that's happening that they're not sharing when it's actually not 338 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 2: the case. We're actually sharing stuff that helps other people, 339 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 2: are being honest that these are these are the only 340 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 2: issues that we have. There's not underlying issues that creep 341 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 2: through the But it just shows you people's perception. Like 342 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 2: I got a shitty email from someone during the week 343 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: that's shared with you, which one someone had written to 344 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,439 Speaker 2: me And I don't know if I could share this 345 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 2: on here, but someone had written to me on an email. 346 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 2: How can you go from I think I can share that, 347 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 2: yeah for sure. How can you go from England coach 348 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 2: to a household a house husband coaching kids? You must 349 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 2: have some bad karma. But that's that's somebody's perception because 350 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 2: I'm no longer with England, though they don't have a 351 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 2: clue what I'm doing in the background and what's going 352 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 2: on in the background and the clients I have and 353 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 2: the deals that I'm doing and other things that are 354 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 2: so it's just people's perception of our lives are actually 355 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 2: probably a lot different from what they actually think. 356 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think too. You know a lot of 357 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 1: times people will be like, oh, he doesn't have a job, 358 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: like does Alan work like that? Those are a lot 359 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: of my questions that come in when I do my 360 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 1: Wednesday what do you want to know? Questions? 361 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like maybe I should, maybe I should 362 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 2: clarify to people what I actually do, and they'd be like, oh, wow, right. 363 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Well because your whole like when I met you, 364 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 1: you were coaching in Norwich, and because you haven't landed 365 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: a coaching like you you could have like that's the 366 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: thing that you could be an assistant coach in San Diego. 367 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: You could be doing set piece coaching here. And it's 368 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: like you have reworked what you want to do because 369 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 1: you've seen a benefit in other areas. And there will 370 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 1: be a time where you will if you want to 371 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: take that position again, right when the time is right, 372 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: you know, for you for everything, and so but people 373 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 1: don't it's like because you haven't late, it's not it's 374 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 1: like and do you have to like? But it's people's 375 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: perception is what's so funny. And then I had even 376 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 1: a comment yesterday I didn't even tell you this because 377 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: I wasn't feeling good yesterday. But and this has happened before. 378 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 1: I don't look at any of those hate pages and 379 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: people have I won't even give the name to it 380 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: because it's when they had when they had spoke. The 381 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:47,640 Speaker 1: last time I looked on that hate page was when 382 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 1: they were saying that we lied about when Roman was born. 383 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 1: And then I'm like that and that's where I was 384 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: just like, and you know that we're still lying that, 385 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: you know, and someone said when I we were celebrating 386 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 1: Roman's year wedding, I'm sorry your birthday, They're like, well, 387 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 1: that's not actually the date per this page, and I'm 388 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: like in and I was like, in what world? Why? 389 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,400 Speaker 1: Like why would I? And that's when I knew back then, 390 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: like I was like, they're like they're just reaching and 391 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 1: they're just trying to just you know, have their own 392 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 1: stories that they make up and inner workings of it all. 393 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 1: And so you know, they do that same thing about 394 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 1: your job, which is what filters in. And then they 395 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 1: also yesterday when I was saying how different this relationship 396 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: is and how I can trust you versus my past 397 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 1: relationships is you know, your words and actions they match 398 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: and and where you know, someone commented and said, oh, 399 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 1: but this page says that he's on dating apps, and 400 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: I ended up. Yeah. And now in the past, I 401 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: would have been like, show me the proof, like because 402 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: obviously that has was a trend, right, so like yeah, 403 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 1: but with this, I'm like, I laughed out loud, you know, 404 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: because they want to create issues in their own what 405 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:13,160 Speaker 1: are those those? She and this girl's like, Unfortunately it's 406 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 1: like my trashy magazines. And I just said, question for 407 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: you though, if this was your life and we you know, 408 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 1: flipped this and people were writing this about you, very 409 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,119 Speaker 1: untrue things, you know, how would that make you feel? 410 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: Because no matter, like it doesn't affect because I don't 411 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 1: look at it anymore. But of course I'm still human. 412 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: It still hurts. But no matter what I do, no 413 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 1: matter what you do, no matter if you have this 414 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: top client that it ends up you know, really doing 415 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 1: your program, They're still going to say he's a house 416 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 1: husband because that's the narrative that makes them feel better. 417 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. People will create their narrative based off their own 418 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,880 Speaker 2: agenda and then negas have seen their own life. 419 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 1: Like nothing I can do or you can do good 420 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 1: or bad. Are they're going to say, like, Okay, now 421 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 1: I like them, Like no, they they hate me, and 422 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: now they will be mean to you. And so I 423 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: I just to that point about moving fast, I mean, 424 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: you know, going into that, I mean there's things that 425 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:15,400 Speaker 1: come up with other people's perceptions as opposed to ours. 426 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's also the how you're supposed to do things, 427 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 2: traditional things how you and it's there's no see, as 428 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 2: long as you follow the boundaries and the core values 429 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 2: of your relationship, there's no there's no right or wrong 430 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 2: timing on things. That's absolutely not. 431 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: I think you need to cover the basis of what's 432 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 1: important to you and if you people align. But I 433 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 1: don't see the point like when you know, like we 434 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 1: knew we wanted to try, there's to then be like, 435 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,479 Speaker 1: all right, well let's date for two years and then 436 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: let's try. It's like that there're a there wasn't time 437 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 1: for that. 438 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 2: But then also personally we wanted. 439 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: I knew that you were my person when I met you, 440 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: and at that point I didn't care what anyone thought. 441 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 1: So and that's what I said to that person. I 442 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: was like, well, if he is good on him, ope, 443 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: his site's good and he'd be an idiot, but it's 444 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 1: all good. I know, so funny. But to speak on 445 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 1: that again, those just to just wrap that piece up 446 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 1: about it is you know, I think there is because 447 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: obviously I post the like finding love. There is that, 448 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: and I was just talking to someone else on another 449 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: podcasts and we were saying, like there, but there's also 450 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 1: things and issues and you have to work on communication, 451 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,640 Speaker 1: and we're working on that, and I think that's that'll 452 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 1: only make our marriage stronger as opposed to not and 453 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 1: then having it faster for seven years and then we're 454 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 1: so disconnected. It's like I don't want that. 455 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 2: Yes, we are strengthening. People might see it as weakness, 456 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 2: and regardless, I don't really care. But we are making 457 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 2: sure that a foundations as strong as possible so that 458 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 2: we are for the next thirty forty fifty years. So 459 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 2: that's why we're doing the work right now rather than 460 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 2: being reactive. Yeah in ten years time and our foundation 461 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 2: is not as strong to go back on and actually 462 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 2: to be to be rigid on the co values and beliefs. 463 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 1: But if you did have a dating app, like what 464 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: would the oh my god, if you do well played 465 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: it's actually upsurd, like well are you on hingebabe Riah? 466 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 1: Which one is the bumble? 467 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? All of them. If but for people to make that, 468 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,160 Speaker 2: like the email that I got that, why do that? 469 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: Because they like, why be. 470 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 2: Nasty like that and have a perception of someone you 471 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 2: don't have a clue what they do just because you 472 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 2: don't see it. It would be good for people to 473 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 2: spend a week with us and then they'll be like, 474 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 2: all right, okay. 475 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, Alan works. I mean I don't see you. You 476 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: were in your office, so you come out of the 477 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: office at four, but you have your clients. The analysis 478 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 1: I mean that is you do so much work. You're 479 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 1: not sitting playing video games and not working and not 480 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 1: like you work and hustle and your private training people 481 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 1: all the things and so so what it might be 482 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:24,439 Speaker 1: some youth players okay, and you're growing something for you know, 483 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: but people you're not like I'm just gonna say, I'm 484 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: gonna call myself out. You're not like me. You don't 485 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 1: post things and be like this is what I'm doing today, 486 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: Like sometimes you do, like when you're Brian White scores, 487 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 1: He's the top scorer in the MLS and Hugo. They're 488 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 1: fighting your other client, who's the top scorer in the MLS. 489 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: You don't gloat like being like I'm now doing analysis. 490 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,880 Speaker 1: I'm now doing you know, like I'm now training this 491 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: really huge player in Nashville. I'm you know, who's on 492 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,199 Speaker 1: an MLS team? Like, you don't do that. 493 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,360 Speaker 2: Two PM, I have a deal with the Saudi conglomerate 494 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 2: to discuss a joint ventur licensing. I just don't do it. 495 00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 2: That's not how I operate. 496 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, so people. 497 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 2: Don't have a clue. But yeah, it would be good 498 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 2: for people to spend a week with us and be like, wow. 499 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 1: Maybe we should do a day in the life real 500 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: for Alan on your page. There you go. Maybe people 501 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 1: need't see that my stay at home husband would you 502 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,879 Speaker 1: would never be And some people are okay with that 503 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 1: and that's not your listen. 504 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 2: For some men it's fine and that's and they're okay 505 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: with it. I just it's not how I could ever operate. 506 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I wouldn't want that for you either. Do 507 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: you guys align on music taste? 508 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 2: Oh wow? No, no, no, I put up with yours 509 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,439 Speaker 2: and you hate mine. I listen to house music and 510 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 2: you don't. 511 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 1: Like it and you listen to I listened to Chill 512 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: Hits on Spotify. That's my jam, Chill Hits. It's a 513 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 1: really good playlist. I love it. It's chill. You listen 514 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: to music that gives me anxiety and panic attacks because 515 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 1: it's like pound pound pound pound pound, it's like house music. 516 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm not a house music fan. 517 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 2: Done. Yeah, okay, So. 518 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: Alan, do you want Roman to grow up playing soccer? 519 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 2: Yes? 520 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: I'm actually going to go baseball. Why I love baseball? 521 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think Roman likes soccer. 522 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 2: What a silly comment. 523 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,919 Speaker 1: He likes, he likes. He picks up the ball eighteen 524 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,439 Speaker 1: months old, he doesn't want to kick it. 525 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 2: We'll see probably never kicked at eighteen months. 526 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:45,120 Speaker 1: Really, No, No, I want him to play whatever he wants, but. 527 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 2: I want to play. I want him to play whatever 528 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 2: he wants as well, as long as it's got two 529 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 2: goals in their own ball, then they'll get Do. 530 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 1: You ever get impostor syndrome? 531 00:27:55,560 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 2: Good question? Possibly? Sometimes yeah, And I know this because 532 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:10,120 Speaker 2: part of imposter syndrome is perfectionism. So would you procrastinate 533 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 2: because you want things to be perfect, which is part 534 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,359 Speaker 2: of imposter syndrome. So yeah, I do get it in 535 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 2: that sense. I don't get it from a self doubt 536 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 2: point of view or a self confidence point of view. 537 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 2: I get it from a is this as good as 538 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,880 Speaker 2: I can make it and it can be better, which 539 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 2: makes me takes me longer to do it, so I think. 540 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think there's parts of it creep into 541 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 2: my keep, into my life. Yeah, yeah, absolutely certain examples 542 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 2: and I can't think of hand right now, but yeah, 543 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 2: it's definitely something that's doesn't have a huge impact in 544 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 2: my life, but it definitely creeps in at times. What 545 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 2: about you. 546 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: A part of imposter syndrome is undermining success, and I 547 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: feel like I do that a lot, where you'll be like, yeah, 548 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: but you're about to do four movies. I'm like, oh, well, 549 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 1: it's not. When I say, I'll go like, well, it's 550 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 1: not this, or it's not that, or it's not it's 551 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 1: not the series that I want, or it's not so 552 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: I'll I undermine it a lot instead of being like, yeah, 553 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 1: four movies is awesome, that's so cool. I'm a working actress. 554 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: But I'd be like, well, because I think it's because 555 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: I do hear the other people in my brain going. 556 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: But it's just a D list and it's just done 557 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: this and it's not it's not a you know, a 558 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: big ABC show or something like that. 559 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 2: We have this discussion during the week, Well, it's never 560 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 2: going to be perfect, Like it's never going to be 561 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 2: filmed in Nashville. It's never going to be the perfect 562 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 2: director or the perfect script or it's never going to 563 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 2: be the perfect It's never going to be perfect. So therefore, but. 564 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 1: I just believe that it can be. We see, like 565 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 1: I have hope and belief that like, no, there is 566 00:29:56,200 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 1: going to be a perfect situation. En roll and you know. 567 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 2: I'm talking about perfectis and filmed in Nashville, so you 568 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 2: don't have to be on location. 569 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 1: But I'm okay being you know, like some of these 570 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: just film a couple. So it's like, I don't know, 571 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: I find it to be I do think there is 572 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 1: a situation like that. 573 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Sometimes sometimes I feel like I don't deserve certain things, 574 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 2: which is also a part of imposta syndrome. So I'm like, 575 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 2: I think I don't deserve it, yeah, or I'm not 576 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 2: going to get it because I don't deserve it. 577 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: You want buying things, Yeah, you're that way, like you 578 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 1: have a massive retail Uh what's that called retail guilt? Yeah, 579 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 1: where you'll buy something like I'm returning it. I don't. 580 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't deserve it, I don't need it. 581 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, what, it's a it's a it's a two 582 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: piece set from whatever that viewery Like, Babe, you wanted it, 583 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 1: you know, but you're just like. 584 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 2: Ah know, Yeah. So I think it plays a little. 585 00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 2: I think it plays a small part in our lives. 586 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 2: I don't think it over consumes or well, not me anyway. 587 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: I don't think you what is something in your past 588 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 1: you would like to redo on. 589 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 2: I mean there's obviously certain incidents that I would absolutely 590 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 2: love a redoo on, Like. 591 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 1: What give me one might right, I'm pinned that one yet. 592 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 2: But I think I would. I would think I would 593 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 2: like a redeo on my playing career. Oh really, yeah, yeah. 594 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 2: I think I would have played a different position on 595 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 2: the field, and I would have had a different type 596 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 2: of career. Maybe I wouldn't have the coaching business I 597 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 2: have right now, but I would have had a different career. 598 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 2: So if I could, if I could redo my career 599 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 2: playing career, I would play it in a different position. 600 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 2: That's quite a big one for me that I think 601 00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 2: about a lot, and it's something that I wasn't exposed 602 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 2: to really late in my career, that change of possession. 603 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 2: And when I got there, I'm like, Wow, this feels 604 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 2: like where I should have been for the last fifteen years. 605 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 2: So I would always have liked to READO on that. Yeah, yeah, 606 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 2: what about you? 607 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: I mean sure I would like a certain redo on 608 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: relationships and maybe not walk down a few miles and 609 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 1: or went to Vegas and of course, you know, stayed 610 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 1: in abusive relationships. But if we're gonna go career wise, 611 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 1: and it's interesting. I was talking to Sophia and Rob 612 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:34,200 Speaker 1: about this on the Drama Queen's podcast about how you know, 613 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: I look back and sometimes cringe at episodes. I'm like, god, 614 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: I didn't, you know, I if I could only redo that, 615 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 1: But then again I didn't. I still wouldn't have had 616 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 1: like playing her playing my character twenty verse forty is 617 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 1: just wildly different anyways, because I know more now, So 618 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 1: it's yeah, so I think it's you just you know 619 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 1: more now. That's the thing even with your with with 620 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 1: playing a different position or sports or whatever, it's it's 621 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 1: the knowledge we have now or the emotional capabilities that 622 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 1: we have to connect to things are are wildly different, 623 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: which is why I think my acting is better now 624 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: that it was back then, because I've gone through more 625 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:22,800 Speaker 1: things and connect can can connect. But so I don't 626 00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if that would have changed, but I 627 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 1: I would love to play that character again, would you? Oh? Yeah? 628 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,760 Speaker 1: She was fun. It was really fun. And now that 629 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: I have a little more. 630 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 2: What the one tree? Hell yeah, little menace. 631 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: Little menace, Little menace. So I was watching something on 632 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 1: What Happens Live Paige Sorbo. She was dating Craig Bonover. 633 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 1: They are from Summer House. They have now broken up, 634 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 1: but she has said that she basically would lie for him, right, Okay, 635 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: So I'm just curious, you know, have you ever lied 636 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: to protect your partner? 637 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:09,840 Speaker 2: I've a lied to protect my partner and a loaded question. 638 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get more context on it. So she was 639 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 2: she was she was lying to defend them, yes, right, Okay? 640 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 2: Would I lie to defend you? Yeah? I would. 641 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 1: I feel like if you have to lie for your partner, though, that's. 642 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 2: It could be a really tricky situation where give me one. 643 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: I mean, like we had like a couple of months 644 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:41,439 Speaker 1: ago in therapy or something. You're like, oh, I would. 645 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: I wasn't going to say that. I'm like, well, I am, 646 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 1: because I have to own up to my staff, you know. 647 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 1: So I think that's a situation where maybe you would 648 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 1: have I don't know if you would have lied, but 649 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 1: maybe you would have like defended. But I mean know 650 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,440 Speaker 1: I called myself out to be like, no, that's that 651 00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,399 Speaker 1: I own this. This isami. You're like, oh, wasn't even 652 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:00,920 Speaker 1: to say that. 653 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 2: But if I would lie, if I knew it was 654 00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 2: going to protect you from a situation didn't want to 655 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 2: be in, or a situation which was going to which 656 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 2: is going to affect us and our family, then yeah 657 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 2: I would. Yeah. Absolutely. 658 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: I mean I'll always defend you. But I just feel 659 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 1: like if there's a lie in that, it sounds like 660 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 1: then that person did something actually wrong. 661 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 2: Well, it depends on how much you're going to deviate 662 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,959 Speaker 2: on your morals to protect something that needs to be 663 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 2: protected for the greater good. Like if I have to 664 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,759 Speaker 2: lie to keep you out of a situation where you 665 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 2: which might be unsafe for you, then yeah, sure, granted, absolutely. 666 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 1: It seems more in the situation though, the defending maybe 667 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 1: character okay that makes sense and maybe not, but that's 668 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 1: just what I make up when I read the story. 669 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 1: That's like, but if you have to defend your partner, 670 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,800 Speaker 1: like I have lied for my person in the past 671 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: one thousand percent, but I don't. I don't. I wouldn't 672 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 1: do it now like I would defend you. I would 673 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 1: defend you always, but like lie, that's the piece where 674 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that again, because if you're lying for 675 00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 1: your partner, that's them being like. 676 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,760 Speaker 2: What was false? You're living a false life. 677 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, like no, he did do this and that is 678 00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 1: like that, Yeah it was wrong. 679 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:31,280 Speaker 2: Okay, So in that sense, then I think the Falst 680 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 2: thing is wrong for me to put you in a 681 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 2: possession where you have to lie on mest and foremost, 682 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 2: So they are that's wrong. I think. Secondly, yeah, I 683 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 2: mean I don't think I've been I've not been a 684 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 2: situation where I had to lie for you or you've 685 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:49,880 Speaker 2: had to life on me. 686 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 1: Well, I guess if someone is in that situation, I'm curious. 687 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: I guess reflect on a boy. Is that something that 688 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: I just don't think that's a healthy defend always, Yeah, 689 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: have have your partner. You always want to defend your partner. 690 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:11,919 Speaker 1: But if you are defending their something that they've done 691 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,280 Speaker 1: wrong and you're lying about it, that is maybe possibly 692 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:16,279 Speaker 1: feeding the problem too. 693 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 2: You're becoming an enabler. 694 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, even though she did say, like behind doors, she'd 695 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 1: be like, you know that was wrong. So that's like 696 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 1: that was you know, good that she'd come back and 697 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 1: be like in private, she would say, you know that 698 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 1: you were wrong, but I'm going to defend you because 699 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: you're my boyfriend. Like I love like that piece of it. 700 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, So here's here's my take on it. Here's my 701 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:37,400 Speaker 2: honest answer. I think everything is relative to the situation 702 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 2: and the importance of the situation. I think I would 703 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 2: be prepared to do it once. If it has to 704 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 2: happen again, then it's you're in the wrong scenario, yeah, 705 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:52,840 Speaker 2: with the wrong person. Yeah, and you need to get out. Yeah, 706 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 2: so I think I would. 707 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: I think it's about accountability too for the other person, 708 00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 1: Like I don't want to always lie for you, like 709 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,799 Speaker 1: and that was a you know, I've been there, so 710 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: it's like the person has to take accountability, which is 711 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,160 Speaker 1: why relationships have changed. Now you know. 712 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:09,919 Speaker 2: Well. 713 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:18,360 Speaker 1: On that note, see you guys next week.