Speaker 1: What's up you guys.
Speaker 2: It's La La Kent with Randall. We are back.
Speaker 1: So we went on our little break, which, okay, first
Speaker 1: of all, before we go there, we're in a temporary
Speaker 1: like I don't even know why, because if people are
Speaker 1: listening and there's an echo, it's because we're in, like, okay,
Speaker 1: an industrial location.
Speaker 3: Your new podcast studio is twelve feet from us exactly.
Speaker 1: So it's being built out. So if it sounds echoey,
Speaker 1: that's exactly why. Anyway, what we.
Speaker 2: Have been off the air for three months now.
Speaker 1: We told everyone in January Tim producer Tim, we still
Speaker 1: have him hi, that we would be back to February.
Speaker 2: I know. It's okay.
Speaker 3: Here's the thing. A couple of things happen. A couple
Speaker 3: of things happen. Let's just put it out there. One
Speaker 3: we left our old network and we were very grateful
Speaker 3: and thankful for them. They were great, and we have
Speaker 3: now signed with a new company and we're very excited.
Speaker 3: And also, let's be honest, you were in your final
Speaker 3: trimester about to give birth to our child, and you
Speaker 3: did give birth to our child, so you were.
Speaker 2: A little busy.
Speaker 3: So now that our baby is here, you were very
Speaker 3: excited to you know, I mean, you were ready to
Speaker 3: relaunch the podcast, and now it's our.
Speaker 2: Baby is sitting a foot away from us. Why we're podcasting.
Speaker 1: It's so amazing. No, we were planning on coming back
Speaker 1: February fourteenth, Valentine's Day. I was super hyped about it.
Speaker 1: I thought it would be cute to do it like that.
Speaker 1: But then, like most people have a due date and
Speaker 1: you kind of plan around that. Granted, you can't plan
Speaker 1: quote unquote pregnancy or when you're going to give birth,
Speaker 1: but for Randall and myself, it was like, we don't
Speaker 1: know when she's gonna come. So I just decided, let's
Speaker 1: put the podcast on hold, chill out. I'll enjoy however
Speaker 1: long I have left of being pregnant. And then on
Speaker 1: March fifteenth, I gave birth to my soulmates. Yes, and
Speaker 1: I'm kent emit.
Speaker 3: I am very proud of you. You have become the
Speaker 3: most well you're already a most amazing woman, but now
Speaker 3: you're an amazing mother and you already were an amazing
Speaker 3: step mother. So now you're superstar mom and superstar badass fiance.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yes, you've got all the titles.
Speaker 1: Two of the things I never aspired to be in
Speaker 1: my wait, the mom part, I did aspire the.
Speaker 2: Second one you could talk about being a mom so the.
Speaker 1: Day I met Yeah, the first one, I definitely always
Speaker 1: aspired to be the badass Fyance never was even in
Speaker 1: the vicinity of I just wanted to like be a
Speaker 1: boss bitch.
Speaker 3: Well, let's style it back for a minute for everybody,
Speaker 3: because you know, I think I've learned being with you.
Speaker 3: You know, these articles and stuff that come out, I've
Speaker 3: learned that. You know, they do show a side, a
Speaker 3: slice of these moments that you've had.
Speaker 2: But let's style it back because that day.
Speaker 3: Let's just I think it'd be nice to kick off
Speaker 3: this podcast, our first episode, our first week with kind
Speaker 3: of just take us through what you were going through
Speaker 3: from the night before when you knew we were going
Speaker 3: to the hospital the next morning, and then getting up
Speaker 3: at seven in the morning and heading to the hospital
Speaker 3: and all the way to twenty four hours later when
Speaker 3: she came, Oh.
Speaker 2: God, oh here come the tears, like you for doing that?
Speaker 2: Why this is beautiful stuff everybody wants to hear.
Speaker 3: And I think you're so people don't realize Lala is
Speaker 3: the well people probably do not, and before you say this,
Speaker 3: I just want to say, who don't realize you are
Speaker 3: such an emotionally beautiful person and so vulnerable and so
Speaker 3: everything you know, And I don't think everybody knows that.
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people do, but a lot
Speaker 3: of people don't. And I think that since you've become
Speaker 3: a mother to your own baby, you have just been
Speaker 3: such an epic human of just of every proportion. And
Speaker 3: I am so proud to call you the mother of
Speaker 3: our daughters. So I just want to be able to
Speaker 3: hear your journey because it was it was your first
Speaker 3: time giving birth.
Speaker 2: And it was a big fucking deal.
Speaker 3: So just tell me, just share just whatever you want
Speaker 3: to share it, because I thought it was the most
Speaker 3: beautiful moment, you know, ever of our relationship. And we've
Speaker 3: had a lot of beautiful moments, but this one definitely
Speaker 3: is the one I will remember trumps.
Speaker 1: Them all for me at least. Well, I feel like
Speaker 1: that's kind of where I got excited that they scheduled
Speaker 1: me to be induced, because I got to enjoy the
Speaker 1: last moments of certain things like most people, like when
Speaker 1: my water breaks. Whereas I knew that I was going
Speaker 1: in at seven o'clock in the morning on March fourteenth,
Speaker 1: which was a Sunday, and that the night before it
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, she's kicking, like come tomorrow
Speaker 1: or you know, you never really know when it's gonna
Speaker 1: pop out. But I got to think about those little
Speaker 1: last moments of her and my tummy, or the last
Speaker 1: horrific night's sleep, which till are not great. So mean
Speaker 1: there even worse. So we we wake up, we go
Speaker 1: to the hospital. Randall got to see something happen to
Speaker 1: me that he's never seen before. That kind of happens
Speaker 1: to me often the most basic thing tim when you
Speaker 1: go in to be induced or just to have a baby,
Speaker 1: they put the ivy in your arm, right, oh.
Speaker 2: Right, that's where you're going.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so they do this right as I check in whatever.
Speaker 1: We're in the bed, and I told the nurse, I
Speaker 1: pass out. When you tell me that my vein is
Speaker 1: rollie that you can't quite find it, you are fucking me,
Speaker 1: like mentally beyond okay.
Speaker 3: Let me let me I really, because I know your
Speaker 3: audience loves when I shut up. But I'm gonna I
Speaker 3: am gonna step in right here. I'm gonna I want
Speaker 3: to say this story because Lala really doesn't have any
Speaker 3: place to tell this part. I wanted her to share
Speaker 3: every beautiful moment of being the mother and giving birth
Speaker 3: to our daughter.
Speaker 1: This is what I'm gonna tell, okay, but let me
Speaker 1: let me just say one thing, you Kim. I said
Speaker 1: to the nurse right before it happened, because I always
Speaker 1: know when it's gonna happen. I tell them my arms
Speaker 1: and legs are going numb. I'm going to pass out.
Speaker 1: I warned them. I already know that that's going to happen.
Speaker 2: That's not what happened.
Speaker 1: I did. I warned that woman. I warned the nurse.
Speaker 1: He says, I didn't. Okay, tell your version.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell the version because I was there and
Speaker 2: it was fucked up. So let me tell you. So.
Speaker 3: I don't do really well with needles either. So you
Speaker 3: got Lala and I are both like woosies when it comes.
Speaker 3: But you know you're there with your best friend and
Speaker 3: your partner, so you know if they got to cut
Speaker 3: her open, I would obviously I get through it.
Speaker 2: So here's what I want to say.
Speaker 3: So she's laying there, we had just got there. We
Speaker 3: are like so emotional, we are like on cloud nine.
Speaker 3: We're walking in. We're like, here we are, we got
Speaker 3: our bags packed. We walk into Cedars and I'm like,
Speaker 3: you know, it's like that moment you're just like so excited.
Speaker 3: And I'm so excited for her because she has been
Speaker 3: carrying our daughter for nine months and I'm very very
Speaker 3: proud of her. But and and and and so blessed
Speaker 3: to have such a great partner. So now that kiss dress, I'm.
Speaker 2: Not get into the details. So we walk into the room,
Speaker 2: she lays down, she gets her gown on. She's there.
Speaker 3: The nurse comes in and Lalla tells her I pass
Speaker 3: out very easily. And I'm thinking, okay, passing out.
Speaker 2: If she passes out, she's in the bed. She ain't
Speaker 2: going anywhere.
Speaker 3: But there's a difference between and exorcism and passing around.
Speaker 2: No, it's it's fucked up. I'm gonna tell you how.
Speaker 2: You don't even know what happens. Happened.
Speaker 3: Okay, So she's laying there, they get the needle out,
Speaker 3: they take her thing, and she's telling them and I'm
Speaker 3: talking to her. I'm holding her hand and I'm holding
Speaker 3: and I'm looking right in her eyes and I say, baby,
Speaker 3: it's gonna be okay, just hanging there, and the nurse goes, okay,
Speaker 3: you ready, and she counts down, and I'm looking right
Speaker 3: at my partners, right in her eyes. I'm looking right
Speaker 3: in her eyes and we're talking and as the needle
Speaker 3: I'm looking at.
Speaker 2: The needle going in.
Speaker 3: I'm kind of keeping her eyes shielded so I shouldn't
Speaker 3: see anything. As they're doing whatever they're doing to get
Speaker 3: it into her vein, I see her eyes start to
Speaker 3: roll back into her head.
Speaker 2: This is not passing out, passing out as you go
Speaker 2: to sleep, right, the eyes are in her head. Now
Speaker 2: I'm making a joke of this.
Speaker 3: Now I am telling you that I was gonna have
Speaker 3: a heart attack and hit the fucking floor. And I
Speaker 3: literally said la la, la la. And I said to
Speaker 3: the nurse, ma'am, there's something wrong because like you see
Speaker 3: her best friend and your partner, you know, eyes going ahead.
Speaker 3: This it's horrifying, Like I've never seen anything like this.
Speaker 3: I've been with her for five years. And I say lala,
Speaker 3: and she is. Elvis has left the building. And now
Speaker 3: I tell them, I tell them, please stop whatever you're
Speaker 3: doing right now, because Lawa is not And then they
Speaker 3: see that Lala's eyes are in her head and she's gone,
Speaker 3: and I say, they say, La La, Now I know
Speaker 3: they're nervous, they're they're freaked out, like I'm freaked out,
Speaker 3: And all of a sudden, her eyes come back to
Speaker 3: her where they're supposed to be. I'm only laughing now,
Speaker 3: I wasn't laughing then and she's and Lala says, what
Speaker 3: what's going on?
Speaker 1: No, because they're all dead stare at me, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: why every you know, like I don't know.
Speaker 2: You said hi?
Speaker 3: He said okay, and then they kept doing it and
Speaker 3: then they went back into her head again, and then
Speaker 3: I said, call the doctor right now. I'm not cool
Speaker 3: at this. There's something fucking wrong. And she was gone
Speaker 3: like they were trying to wake her up on her
Speaker 3: like the eyes were thed. No, and it was I'm
Speaker 3: laughing because.
Speaker 1: It's over, because it's over.
Speaker 2: I'm laughing, it is over.
Speaker 3: But I also want to say that tears were in
Speaker 3: my eyes they saw and I please call the doctor
Speaker 3: right now.
Speaker 2: I'm not joking.
Speaker 3: And then they they did call the doctor and both
Speaker 3: of them us they had gotten it in and.
Speaker 2: Her eyes came back to her. They're supposed to be
Speaker 2: for the second time. And then I said, lawa, do
Speaker 2: you know where you're at? Do you? And they said
Speaker 2: do you know where you're at? And she said, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm in the.
Speaker 1: They go, la, la, do you know where you are
Speaker 1: and what you're doing? And I go, yes, I'm at Cedars.
Speaker 1: I'm having a baby today.
Speaker 2: Just like it was nothing.
Speaker 1: I knew where the fun was.
Speaker 2: Like a sitcom or something.
Speaker 3: It wasn't, yeah, sitcom, I don't know if it was that,
Speaker 3: but but let me tell.
Speaker 1: You this, it was like crying in the corner.
Speaker 3: Wasn't crying in the corner. I was crying right holding
Speaker 3: your hand. But anyway, okay, So then they gave her
Speaker 3: some kind of juice.
Speaker 2: Was the juice that you.
Speaker 1: Like when you honest, honest kids, juice box.
Speaker 2: They give her honest kids juice box. But listen to this.
Speaker 2: Listen listen to this.
Speaker 3: After she after she has the juice, she comes back
Speaker 3: to her normal state and now she's calm and.
Speaker 1: I and now Randall's freaking because that little, that little
Speaker 1: tiny fucking thing that goes in your arm and then
Speaker 1: the epidural is kind of.
Speaker 2: That's what I was gonna totally.
Speaker 3: But the epidural was in a little while, like we
Speaker 3: were gonna give it a few hours. So I say
Speaker 3: to her, I say to her, I'm just gonna step
Speaker 3: outside just for a quick second. I literally took the
Speaker 3: elevator down to the street to get eric because I
Speaker 3: thought I was going to pass out. I thought I
Speaker 3: was going to pass out in front of her while
Speaker 3: she was passing out. Then we'd both be passed out.
Speaker 3: Would be bad. So I went downstairs, took a walk,
Speaker 3: true story, true story.
Speaker 2: I called her mother. I do that a lot.
Speaker 3: And then I called my mother on a three way
Speaker 3: and I said to them, what just happened. I said,
Speaker 3: Law's eyes were rolled back in her head. And then
Speaker 3: I was in tears on the phone to them, because
Speaker 3: you know, you love somebody so much, you don't want
Speaker 3: to see them, you know, in any kind of anything
Speaker 3: that's out of normal.
Speaker 2: Let's say. So it was. It was just a really
Speaker 2: harsh moment for me. But thank god she was okay.
Speaker 3: And then and then I went back upstairs, and then
Speaker 3: we hung out for like a couple hours while you
Speaker 3: just you know why, we just waited, and then as
Speaker 3: you started getting discomfort, then we did the epidural and
Speaker 3: by the way, you.
Speaker 1: Told Randall was so emotionally scarred from me having an exorcism.
Speaker 1: I call it passing out because they said it was.
Speaker 1: I did not seize. It was definitely you fainted because
Speaker 1: Ocean's heart rate stayed normally, like the baby was not affected.
Speaker 2: That is true, but I thought to thank God.
Speaker 1: But Randall was so affected. My mom was supposed to
Speaker 1: come in on a Tuesday.
Speaker 2: You have to got Tuesday, you have to say the
Speaker 2: whole thing.
Speaker 1: He made her come in on Sunday, so he's like, surprise,
Speaker 1: your mom's here. I'm like, oh see, you are not
Speaker 1: about this life.
Speaker 2: You are not about it. That's bullshit, that life.
Speaker 1: I was joking, okay, because we're honey, it's a podcast,
Speaker 1: ha ha, let's laugh about it. Oh you're about that life.
Speaker 3: I am about that life about Oh can I just
Speaker 3: say one thing though, and then I want, I really
Speaker 3: want you to tell your journey from It's going to
Speaker 3: be a.
Speaker 1: Long journey because you keep butting in.
Speaker 2: I know, but it's fun.
Speaker 3: When they did the epidural, I looked you right in
Speaker 3: the face, I said, look at me, and I told
Speaker 3: the nurse, do not.
Speaker 1: Are you taking credit for the epidural going.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm getting upset right now.
Speaker 1: The epidural went well because I told her before she started,
Speaker 1: don't talk to me about the needle size. Don't count
Speaker 1: it down. I'm going to turn around. Okay, I told
Speaker 1: her I don't want to know a thing about baby.
Speaker 2: Remember when I was looking right in your eyes and we.
Speaker 1: Were kissing, Randall, if you don't stop this rookie nonsense.
Speaker 1: This is season two of Give Them La La with
Speaker 1: Randall to the podcast, brought to you by Westwood.
Speaker 2: One, our new partner. Okay, I did. Now I want
Speaker 2: to say something anyway, She noted.
Speaker 3: The epidural, which I thought was going to be ten
Speaker 3: times worse than.
Speaker 1: The IB, was nothing because they didn't psych me out emotionally.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's our story. Let's go back to the beautiful
Speaker 3: part of giving birth to our daughter. Okay, you giving
Speaker 3: birth to our daughter. I want you to have this
Speaker 3: episode to be really about you. I wanted to make
Speaker 3: light and fun, but the truth is I want to
Speaker 3: reset the stage what you did and how you did it.
Speaker 3: I am so blessed to have a partner, you know,
Speaker 3: and I mean that, and I want you to tell
Speaker 3: people your journey because it was really beautiful watching your
Speaker 3: transformation from Lalla before you had the baby, even though
Speaker 3: you were a sap as a pregnant woman. But since
Speaker 3: you since ocean has been here. Oh my god, we'll
Speaker 3: talk about that later.
Speaker 2: And we're back.
Speaker 1: Oh I love the enthusia. Oh my gosh. Okay, so
Speaker 1: we get there whatever the whole long story with the
Speaker 1: needle and the season or whatnot. So then they start
Speaker 1: the balloon and so the survey. So I'm looking at
Speaker 1: producer Tim. He's like, I wish I was a female
Speaker 1: right now. I wish I were a girl. And I
Speaker 1: couldn't even stand it. So I got the epidural super quick.
Speaker 1: I was feeling no fucking pain, but I was so
Speaker 1: anxious because I felt like just a torso like it's stub.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't fill my legs when it's time
Speaker 1: to push. How am I even going to know how
Speaker 1: to get her out of my body? You know? So
Speaker 1: that I was tripping about and Randall kept trying to
Speaker 1: call me down, like your body's gonna know what to do? Okay,
Speaker 1: flash too. That night they've told me you're not having
Speaker 1: the baby today, like you'll probably have it later tomorrow
Speaker 1: because you have not dilated at all. I think by
Speaker 1: the time I went I think by the time I
Speaker 1: went to sleep, I was at a four, which is
Speaker 1: like not a lot, especially when they've induced you with
Speaker 1: like that balloon thing.
Speaker 3: And keep in mind, I want people to remember, you
Speaker 3: were induced three weeks.
Speaker 1: Early, correct, thirty seven weeks exactly.
Speaker 2: So there's a whole.
Speaker 3: Nother level of anxiety for us because we knew she
Speaker 3: was going to be under six pounds, but we also
Speaker 3: were nervous because we weren't one hundred percent sure what
Speaker 3: was going to happen. And they and they did tell
Speaker 3: us to that there is a chance.
Speaker 2: They didn't say.
Speaker 3: Either way, they just said, there's a because we're inducing early,
Speaker 3: there is a chance that our daughter will go to
Speaker 3: the NIC.
Speaker 1: You for them, Yes, don't cry because it didn't happen,
Speaker 1: but no, thank god. Okay, so they do that whole thing.
Speaker 1: That night. I slept like a fucking champion.
Speaker 2: That is a crazy part.
Speaker 1: They were like, you're not going to get any sleep tonight,
Speaker 1: so just like, try to rest your eyes at least
Speaker 1: I knocked the fuck out. They came in to break
Speaker 1: my water and it was at like no four in
Speaker 1: the morning.
Speaker 3: No. Seven, at got there right hold on.
Speaker 1: Scranda was like because he was like, we woke him
Speaker 1: up out of a stupor.
Speaker 2: I was on the couch. I was on the couch. Wait,
Speaker 2: I was on the couch sleeping.
Speaker 3: I mean, they make him into these beds, these couches
Speaker 3: that her mom and all of us were.
Speaker 1: Keep in mind, today is Ocean's actual due dates. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, soon I want to relive this.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: So they come in and break my water. Producer to
Speaker 1: him and the nurse comes in. She's like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: change your like bedding and pads because you're in a
Speaker 1: lot of water. I was so fucking tired. I go,
Speaker 1: can you just leave it the way it is? I go,
Speaker 1: I can't feel anything. So I was just laying in
Speaker 1: just like a pond of water. Okay that I had
Speaker 1: no fucking idea because I was so numb. Fast forward too,
Speaker 1: like four in the morning, she comes back in. It
Speaker 1: was every two hours, so whenever they broke my water,
Speaker 1: they were then checking to see like when is this
Speaker 1: baby gonna come? Six am rolls around, nurse comes in,
Speaker 1: shoves her fingers up there. It's It's so crazy how
Speaker 1: it becomes just so natural when you see the nurse
Speaker 1: come in, you just like flop your legs open. My
Speaker 1: legs were so heavy and I couldn't feel them that
Speaker 1: the only way I knew that they were hanging off
Speaker 1: the bed was because my body would fall the one side.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, are he's on the ground, and you
Speaker 1: would come over and have to put them back on
Speaker 1: the butt. It was fucking hysterical. Anyway. She puts her
Speaker 1: fingers up my kookie and says, oh my god, we're like,
Speaker 1: we're there. You're you're at a ten and I don't
Speaker 1: know what this means. You're at a ten plus three,
Speaker 1: She says, I can feel the head. She goes, So,
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do is you're gonna give me one
Speaker 1: practice push. I just want to see how this is
Speaker 1: gonna go, because you could be pushing anywhere from like
Speaker 1: four to six hours.
Speaker 2: I guess said that to us early one earlier.
Speaker 1: So I do one practice push.
Speaker 3: She goes.
Speaker 1: Stop, She goes, I need you not to move until
Speaker 1: the doctor gets.
Speaker 3: Here, because so the baby was literally could have come
Speaker 3: out right then. And then, by the way, during this day,
Speaker 3: are they woke me up, and I am I was
Speaker 3: in a sleeping stupor they wake me up, and I.
Speaker 2: Think, oh my god, okay, it's whatever, six three whatever time.
Speaker 2: I got up.
Speaker 3: I walk over and they've already got the legs are
Speaker 3: already up and they're like, grab a leg and I'm
Speaker 3: like what. So I grabbed leg and and and now
Speaker 3: we're waiting for the doctor to show up. And I
Speaker 3: say to the nurse, how long do you think She goes, no,
Speaker 3: you don't understand. When the doctor walks in the room,
Speaker 3: you're gonna have your daughter.
Speaker 2: And I'm like what.
Speaker 1: The nurse is like, I can see the head right now?
Speaker 2: Oh, they asked me. They said, do you want to
Speaker 2: see your daughter's head right now? I said absolutely not.
Speaker 1: Which I didn't mind. It was like, stay honey, side
Speaker 1: of the baby.
Speaker 3: I would have I would have hit the ground if
Speaker 3: I saw anything.
Speaker 1: So the doctor fucking walks in and I say, are
Speaker 1: you gonna tent my legs? He goes no time, that's
Speaker 1: what he said.
Speaker 3: Because I said, babe, don't worry. Lala kept saying look
Speaker 3: at me, don't worry, and I was like, Babe, we're
Speaker 3: doing this together. And then literally I said, what do
Speaker 3: you think they're gonna do you think they're gonna put
Speaker 3: something up? And the doctor said when Lala asked him,
Speaker 3: I remember, he said, no time, gotta go.
Speaker 2: And literally literally he asked you to push. I had
Speaker 2: your leg, I held your hand. You pushed two times.
Speaker 1: No, no, no. I pushed for two contractions, which was a
Speaker 1: total if you include my practice push seven times. On
Speaker 1: the final push, tim, I start right and I see
Speaker 1: over and I see her head coming out. It was
Speaker 1: he originally says to me, the heads out. Do you
Speaker 1: want to feel and due to like the arm and
Speaker 1: the needle, I was like, I can't risk passing out
Speaker 1: at this point, you know, like I trust you that
Speaker 1: it's there, and I'm like, we're good. I don't want
Speaker 1: to feel it. And it was, oh my god. Okay.
Speaker 1: So Brittany and Jack's are about to have their baby
Speaker 1: and I she came over to see ocean and I
Speaker 1: literally when I see a pregnant person, now I'm like,
Speaker 1: this insane person. I'm like, I'm so excited for you.
Speaker 1: You have no idea what this experience is going to
Speaker 1: be like when you give birth. There looking at me
Speaker 1: like yeah, I'm really excited I'm like, no, you don't
Speaker 1: get it. Like I all I did was saw because
Speaker 1: I felt like my heart was going to explode if
Speaker 1: it didn't come out of somewhere else.
Speaker 3: Oh when you yeah, and then talk about the moment
Speaker 3: they handed you your daughter.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. You you just sit there and you're like,
Speaker 1: I can't believe. Yes, the men help tremendously creating.
Speaker 2: Thank you, like you okay, sure, but you're you're the hero.
Speaker 2: But you're the hero.
Speaker 1: We sat there and have this this thing in us
Speaker 1: for nine months, and it is relying on every decision
Speaker 1: that we make to put into our you know, like
Speaker 1: everything can't get botox anymore. You know, I can't drink
Speaker 1: if I no, but it's like if I need two
Speaker 1: cups of coffee to wake up, Like I can't do that.
Speaker 3: But but but I want you to tell people the
Speaker 3: moment because I because it was magical for me to
Speaker 3: see you when they handed you your daughter.
Speaker 2: That moment.
Speaker 1: I wondered, like how I existed before that moment?
Speaker 2: You know? I remember, like.
Speaker 1: Even still right now, I'm like, okay, it's three weeks,
Speaker 1: she's still brand new, But I'm like, no, how can
Speaker 1: it already be three weeks.
Speaker 3: You.
Speaker 2: Get upset everything. Yeah, right now, you love.
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you you love my hormones.
Speaker 3: But no, no, your hormones are one thing.
Speaker 2: But Lala, I've known you for five years. I have
Speaker 2: never seen you like this.
Speaker 3: I mean, this is your love for your daughter is
Speaker 3: is second to none.
Speaker 1: I just have never felt anything like when when I
Speaker 1: would ask people like, what does it feel like? And
Speaker 1: they're like, you can't describe it sounds so corny, like
Speaker 1: you cannot describe it.
Speaker 2: Agree with you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, the love for the love you have for a
Speaker 3: child is really hard to describe.
Speaker 2: It's just that love is so powerful. And I think
Speaker 2: you're a parent, you know.
Speaker 3: I mean it's really a weird thing because you know,
Speaker 3: as children, you know, we have parents, you know, and
Speaker 3: we're raised to love our parents and that connection we
Speaker 3: have to our parents, even when you go through shit
Speaker 3: with your parents and we all do you know, you
Speaker 3: have an argument or you don't get along, or you
Speaker 3: don't want.
Speaker 2: To go to Christmas.
Speaker 3: I don't know Christmas luncheon, because it's just you know,
Speaker 3: whatever bs that you know, you get into, you always
Speaker 3: that connection you have with your parents you can never
Speaker 3: have with anybody else, It's just a different thing. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I love for a parent, and I really believe that
Speaker 3: as a parent, and I think you probably agree completely.
Speaker 3: But watching Lalla have that connection.
Speaker 2: When the hand of your baby.
Speaker 1: Was was no. My identity became just simply I'm Ocean's mom. Nothing.
Speaker 1: I don't nothing else. I don't consist of anything else.
Speaker 1: That is my identity.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And by the way, you do you remember what the
Speaker 3: first the first thing you said when they handed your daughter.
Speaker 3: I don't know if you remember, because you were you don't,
Speaker 3: probably medicating up a little bitter. But do you remember
Speaker 3: when they hand her too, and the first thing you
Speaker 3: said to me? I don't think you remember, but maybe
Speaker 3: you do. You said it over and over the whole day.
Speaker 1: What did I say?
Speaker 2: You said, I've never been this happy before, and I'm
Speaker 2: so full of love.
Speaker 1: I was so I am so full of like, I've
Speaker 1: never been more in love with anything in my whole life.
Speaker 1: I love you, I love thank you.
Speaker 2: Give them with Ocean coming down for real.
Speaker 3: No, but I but it was so beautiful because you
Speaker 3: were you had just given birth minutes before, and you
Speaker 3: were holding your baby and they you literally kept saying
Speaker 3: over and over and I was really blown away.
Speaker 2: You kept saying, I'm so my heart is solful. My
Speaker 2: heart is so ful.
Speaker 1: That's how it felt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it was very special.
Speaker 1: The only way to release, like you feel like you're
Speaker 1: going to explode, the only way I can describe it.
Speaker 1: And that night they would, you know, come in and feed,
Speaker 1: help me feed, or you know, give her the bubba
Speaker 1: because she wasn't pooping, and so she had to be
Speaker 1: on formula for a sec because they were trying to
Speaker 1: kickstart that system. Anyway. I could talk about every little
Speaker 1: but they put her back in her like little like
Speaker 1: a bass and I think, oh, hi, she woke up
Speaker 1: for a second. God, she's so cute.
Speaker 2: This is a cute baby. By My mom called me
Speaker 2: over the weekend and for like five minutes she was like,
Speaker 2: Ocean is so cute. And I was like, thanks, Ma,
Speaker 2: I know, I agree, she is very cute. What do
Speaker 2: you have to say about my kids?
Speaker 1: Like, I'm way more interested in Margo and Darcy.
Speaker 2: She was all about Ocean.
Speaker 1: That is. I mean, obviously we're biased, but I think
Speaker 1: she's a pretty beautiful baby.
Speaker 2: She is.
Speaker 1: No but let me just say, oh quick, that night
Speaker 1: in the little bacinet that they put them in the
Speaker 1: cute hospital ones that are see through. Her eyes were open.
Speaker 1: I stayed awake all night long and I just stared
Speaker 1: at her. I like got her out of her little bascinet.
Speaker 1: I'm like, how can I sleep? Be like, what if
Speaker 1: you do something and I miss it?
Speaker 3: You didn't want to miss any by the way, I
Speaker 3: that theme of not missing anything, because.
Speaker 2: You know, you could say it's a cliche, but for you,
Speaker 2: it's literal.
Speaker 3: Like every second for the last three weeks, you don't
Speaker 3: want to do shit except stare at your daughter and listen.
Speaker 3: I have been there by your side at every second.
Speaker 3: But like, if I'm like, babe, let's go downstairs get
Speaker 3: a pop school, You're like, no, you can go downstairs
Speaker 3: and get a popsicle.
Speaker 2: Because I have to be here next to Ocean.
Speaker 3: I'm like, but baby Ocean is swaddled and asleep, you know,
Speaker 3: and we have the camera and we'll just come right
Speaker 3: back upstairs. We'll take a whole fourteen second step. No,
Speaker 3: got to be right here, like you really taken.
Speaker 2: But it is a.
Speaker 3: Beautiful thing and I really love watching it because to
Speaker 3: have you as the mother you are within three weeks
Speaker 3: of having a baby is.
Speaker 2: It's just unbelievable. The connection you have to Ocean is beautiful.
Speaker 1: She's my best friend.
Speaker 2: And I'm going to tell you something.
Speaker 3: I knew you were going to be a phenomenal mother,
Speaker 3: because you're an incredible stepmother to my children, But when
Speaker 3: you have your own baby, your own biological baby, watching
Speaker 3: you from newborn from the minute.
Speaker 2: She came out, I can't.
Speaker 3: You must have said that night when she came out,
Speaker 3: twenty five times, how full your heart is, and how
Speaker 3: in love you are.
Speaker 2: And how and how.
Speaker 3: You love her so much. You said it over and
Speaker 3: over and over, and I just knew that this connection
Speaker 3: that you have is the deepest connection I've ever seen
Speaker 3: you experience.
Speaker 2: It's all of it.
Speaker 3: It's so obsessed and it's by the way, and you
Speaker 3: say it even to even today when we're in the
Speaker 3: you brought her in and we're in the office. You know,
Speaker 3: you're just like when her arms, I said, babe, she
Speaker 3: looks like she is she full now because she just
Speaker 3: had breast fetter. And you said, and you said, and
Speaker 3: you said, let me see. And you took a second.
Speaker 3: You took her off the nipple, the boo, the boot
Speaker 3: and you were holding her and her arms were outstretched,
Speaker 3: her hands were open, and I said, she looks calm,
Speaker 3: and she looks you know, chill now, and you go, yeah.
Speaker 3: See when her hands are open and relaxed, that means
Speaker 3: she's happy. And when they're clenched, I'm like, I mean
Speaker 3: you you.
Speaker 1: It was also very telling when she's not screaming, bloody murder,
Speaker 1: that's what I She's hungry. She's literally screaming. That's why
Speaker 1: bloody murdered.
Speaker 3: That's why I thought she was That's why I thought
Speaker 3: she was full. But I didn't know there were hands
Speaker 3: symbols too, so signals.
Speaker 2: So that's pretty epic.
Speaker 1: No, she definitely ocean for being three weeks early, has
Speaker 1: mad pipes, and she is strong as a motherfucker. This
Speaker 1: kid is lifting her head up off my chest and
Speaker 1: looking at me.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: No, she's strong af Now I know exactly what was
Speaker 1: like jamming into my ribcage and things like that. I
Speaker 1: was always like, what the fuck that?
Speaker 3: When I would feel her stomach and it was cute
Speaker 3: like in the beginning, she just pushed and I was,
Speaker 3: oh my god, and you get emotional.
Speaker 2: And you touch here.
Speaker 3: And then I came back from shooting the film, and
Speaker 3: it came home and it was a new thing. It
Speaker 3: was like a elbow, an elbow that moved across the
Speaker 3: entire stomach. It was like pushing through the skin. I
Speaker 3: was like, what is going on? She is going to
Speaker 3: come through your stomach.
Speaker 1: No, it felt that way.
Speaker 2: I thought she was going to pop out me.
Speaker 1: Too, I for sure did. I just can't believe she's here. Man.
Speaker 3: Well, I am very proud to be your partner and
Speaker 3: father of Ocean because you are an incredible mother, and
Speaker 3: you know how you how you handled your pregnancy and
Speaker 3: delivery and raising our baby was five star.
Speaker 1: Look at me differently.
Speaker 2: Somebody asked me that the other day. I don't know
Speaker 2: if it was you, because I think you have asked
Speaker 2: me that. No, the truth is this, I look at you.
Speaker 3: I cherish you so much that I don't look at
Speaker 3: you differently. I think that our connection is deeper, and
Speaker 3: I didn't think we could have a deeper connection than
Speaker 3: we already have.
Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3: I didn't think I could love you any more than
Speaker 3: I already do because you're my soulem. But watching you
Speaker 3: love Ocean is beautiful.
Speaker 1: Five star.
Speaker 3: Yes, and so I think there my love for you
Speaker 3: is stronger in a way that maybe it's on a
Speaker 3: different level that I didn't think was possible, because I
Speaker 3: just felt like, we're so in love with one another
Speaker 3: and we're best friends. But watching you with our daughter,
Speaker 3: you know, watching you with Ocean is is just a
Speaker 3: really beautiful thing. And you know, look, I already knew
Speaker 3: you were going to be a five star fucking mom.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying this. I already knew. I know you're
Speaker 3: such a lover and such a vulnerable person and such
Speaker 3: a giver, you know, and you were patient af with
Speaker 3: with London and Riley. But when she's screaming at the
Speaker 3: top of her lugs, Ocean and I've run in and
Speaker 3: I'm like, what's going on?
Speaker 2: Do we need to go to the doctor? And you're
Speaker 2: like stop, just hungry, and you're just chill, you're relaxed.
Speaker 3: You just get the you just get the boob out,
Speaker 3: you get put in her mouth, And I'm like, who
Speaker 3: are you?
Speaker 2: Like you used to lose your ship.
Speaker 3: If the gardener outside was mowing the lawn too loud
Speaker 3: and the person I.
Speaker 1: Would still lose my shit. Just Ocean can do no wrong.
Speaker 2: That's what I mean.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is you're this epic mom and
Speaker 3: when I watch you with her, nothing rattles you, and
Speaker 3: I get rattle because I'm so nerts Like I've told
Speaker 3: you baby, she okay, baby, Like I'm such an anxious dad,
Speaker 3: like you.
Speaker 2: Know, newborn, and I'm like, what you know? And I'm
Speaker 2: trying to, you know, be there with you.
Speaker 3: But you actually have been calming me down because you
Speaker 3: just it's like you you own it, you got it,
Speaker 3: like and I have to kind of look to you
Speaker 3: to like and like when I'm holding her if she
Speaker 3: starts freaking her out, freaking out, you kind of calm
Speaker 3: me down a lot. So I think that my love
Speaker 3: for you can never be stronger. But it's the the deeper.
Speaker 3: It's because we have this beautiful little girl and and
Speaker 3: you gave her to us.
Speaker 1: She's so perfect. But can I tell you today I
Speaker 1: went to the bank.
Speaker 2: Hold on, You're a pivot y, that's my pivot. Wow.
Speaker 2: I loved you.
Speaker 1: I needed that boost. I needed the boost. Just just
Speaker 1: be patient with me. I'm gonna remember you exist at
Speaker 1: some point.
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what, Let me go back to uh,
Speaker 2: let me answer that question.
Speaker 1: I love all. I love you so much as well.
Speaker 1: You are everything.
Speaker 2: You know that I'm not sure right now, you do know,
Speaker 2: let's take.
Speaker 1: I love you very much, and you know that I've
Speaker 1: texted you very kind of things letting you know how
Speaker 1: much I love you and how grateful I am for
Speaker 1: the life that you have provided us with that's full
Speaker 1: of love. And now you've given me Ocean, so you're
Speaker 1: like perfect in my book. Okay, this is what I
Speaker 1: was going to say, because you were talking about how
Speaker 1: I've changed, so I want to say, Oh, I walked
Speaker 1: into today and I had topped Ocean off on the
Speaker 1: boobs before we went to the bank, and I was
Speaker 1: dressed right, so I just like pulled my little cami
Speaker 1: down with the breastfeeding broth underneath, clipped it back up,
Speaker 1: and I forgot to pull my came back over in
Speaker 1: a nursing bra. So I just walked into the bank
Speaker 1: with the bra out, cammy just around the belly, and
Speaker 1: a blazer on. Okay, with my Chanelle bag, my Gucci uh,
Speaker 1: my Gucci diaper bag, and my cute new kid which
Speaker 1: I cover like you should see. Everyone's like, what is
Speaker 1: in there exactly? I'm like a newborn baby. They're like, well,
Speaker 1: we would assume because it's in a car seat, but
Speaker 1: the way it's covered, you would think that there's something
Speaker 1: very I'm like, yeah, ocean fucking ken Emmett is in there,
Speaker 1: so it's something very special anyway. So yeah, that's how.
Speaker 2: That's how this story is.
Speaker 3: And I've noticed it because I know you get frustrated
Speaker 3: a lot lately. Is that your forgetfulness and like.
Speaker 2: With with meetings and dates colendis. But you know what
Speaker 2: I said to you.
Speaker 3: The doctor told us and other mothers have told you
Speaker 3: that pregnancy really fucks with the mind, you know, with
Speaker 3: remembering things. And I told you to be patient and
Speaker 3: kind to yourself and not get frustrated because you get
Speaker 3: frustrated very easily with that. And you just gave birth
Speaker 3: like twenty one days ago, and we are back.
Speaker 1: We're just talking about all things babies. Because I have
Speaker 1: no other identity in one track mind. I don't consist
Speaker 1: of anything cool anymore. So that is what I was saying.
Speaker 1: I look at my emails right today, and usually I'm
Speaker 1: very good. Like you tell me a date, it's stuck
Speaker 1: with me. I'm not forgetting it. I like rarely have
Speaker 1: to write anything down, even though I have a book
Speaker 1: for it. Anyway, So I have a book coming out
Speaker 1: called Give Them Lala obviously on May fourth. You can
Speaker 1: pre order now, though you.
Speaker 2: Change the title give them Lawa with Randall.
Speaker 1: No, I didn't, just yeah.
Speaker 2: Just me, I thought. I thought with Randall bleeds over time.
Speaker 1: So we're starting the little press tour right next week,
Speaker 1: and they're giving me dates and all of this stuff,
Speaker 1: and they were adding something to the virtual press tour,
Speaker 1: and they gave me two dates, the fifteenth or the sixteenth,
Speaker 1: and I look at my response and I go, let's
Speaker 1: actually do the thirteenth, because because Ocean has this doctor's
Speaker 1: appointment on the fourteenth. They're like, oh, cool about the
Speaker 1: doctor's appointment. But that was no date number one. It
Speaker 1: wasn't an option. And then I just like, involuntarily give
Speaker 1: you the fact that my kid has a doctor's appointment
Speaker 1: on the fourteenth, because in my mind, those were the
Speaker 1: dates they gave me. I cried in the office today
Speaker 1: because I was like, how can I be so clueless
Speaker 1: right now? Like is this going to be a forever thing?
Speaker 1: Because I'm so ocd that shit, and I like to
Speaker 1: have control and I don't have any right now, so
Speaker 1: I'm kind of tweaking out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you'll you'll get that back. So because
Speaker 2: she's got baby brain right now, Yeah.
Speaker 1: No one's gonna want to work with me. They're gonna
Speaker 1: be like, this bitch is crazy. Do you know how
Speaker 1: any doctor's appointments When I was pregnant with Ocean I
Speaker 1: went to on the wrong like three or three or four.
Speaker 1: I would walk in and finally they'd be like, we'll
Speaker 1: just fit you in. Can you come at lunch? No,
Speaker 1: it's so I feel for moms. I totally get it.
Speaker 2: You are one now.
Speaker 1: No, okay, I know weird feel for your kind now, yeah,
Speaker 1: those are my people. Those are my my folks. What
Speaker 1: are you gonna say, rand, Do you think we're still
Speaker 1: good at podcasting?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: You don't know, No, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I never even thought anybody would listen in the first place.
Speaker 3: So they told us we're getting like one hundred thousand listens.
Speaker 2: A week plus. I was like, Wow, they must really.
Speaker 3: Like you, because I have I have like I have
Speaker 3: a good amount of fans, like I've had like I
Speaker 3: think thirty to forty people.
Speaker 2: Tell me they are a fan of mine. So that's good.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Now I have a question though important. Let's play
Speaker 2: a little baby game.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: The baby game is going to be I give you
Speaker 3: three questions, okay, and you just answer them and it's
Speaker 3: more of like just more of an experienced baby game,
Speaker 3: not really like a trivia game.
Speaker 1: Okay, I like that.
Speaker 3: For the first episode, Best moment you've had with Ocean
Speaker 3: at home, for the time you got home out of
Speaker 3: the hospital, best moment you can remind I know they're
Speaker 3: all great. Just pick one that really stands out, that
Speaker 3: was really magical for you.
Speaker 1: Okay, this one is okay, this actually was just the
Speaker 1: other night. My mom came into town. Randa was at
Speaker 1: a pick a ball tournament down in Newport Beach, and
Speaker 1: Ocean I put her her. It's called the docatat, which
Speaker 1: is every new mom should have one. It's like a
Speaker 1: little area to put your baby and shape like a
Speaker 1: little boat kind of. But I put her in there. Okay.
Speaker 1: My mom's on the other side of her, and we're
Speaker 1: in the bed and she is chilling. Ocean is okay,
Speaker 1: properly fed, no tummy issues, and we're just watching Real
Speaker 1: Housewives of New York on hulu og episodes, and she
Speaker 1: was digging it. And I was like, this is the
Speaker 1: most awesome moment. My baby is down for Bravo when
Speaker 1: I thought, and her eyes were open.
Speaker 2: Roll the whole tape up.
Speaker 3: I understand what the fuck's happening because I checked out
Speaker 3: for a minute.
Speaker 2: So I asked you for an emotional moment that you
Speaker 2: remember forever.
Speaker 1: Did he say emotional? I thought, he said, my favorite.
Speaker 3: Moment, My favorite moment, Your favorite moment you remember is
Speaker 3: the baby watching the Housewives?
Speaker 2: It was it was just no, she was watching it.
Speaker 1: She definitely wasn't watching it. She was just staring at me.
Speaker 2: You mean, just that she was chilling with you.
Speaker 1: It was just like so cute to have me her
Speaker 1: in the middle, my mom on the other.
Speaker 2: Side, the girl's moment, and your dog with you. I
Speaker 2: get it. I miss because I thought, oh shit, she like,
Speaker 2: what does she think of oc in New York?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Sorry, what does she think of Housewives of New York?
Speaker 2: But I get it.
Speaker 1: No, But she had her bank in. She was happy.
Speaker 3: You were just having your perfect family moment, like your
Speaker 3: mom daughter.
Speaker 1: Because Ocean and I do a lot of skin to
Speaker 1: skin like that's an every night and every morning thing.
Speaker 1: You know, those are my favorite quote unquote moments.
Speaker 2: But this is like a fine, great moment.
Speaker 1: No where. Like I took a video not even to post,
Speaker 1: which is a big deal in this day and age.
Speaker 1: If you're taking a video just for your memory and
Speaker 1: not to show it to other people, big deal.
Speaker 2: I do that a lot. Oh God, I do.
Speaker 1: Please cue all the eye rolls in the world.
Speaker 2: Oh my fucking whatever. I can't believe you're saying that.
Speaker 1: Don't bullshit the book.
Speaker 3: I took videos this weekend of London and Riley for
Speaker 3: my own collection. I took videos of you and Ocean
Speaker 3: for my own collection that I didn't post.
Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm not so much what the fun.
Speaker 1: I don't even know why you're trying. Like, I'm here,
Speaker 1: You've got me, okay, you know, you got me knocked up,
Speaker 1: like I can't go anywhere.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's really not the reason, but okay.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep it still fun on the podcast.
Speaker 1: We can't just talk about like amazing moments of being
Speaker 1: a new Moment's episode back.
Speaker 2: People want to know about it.
Speaker 3: I think this episode, I think the second episode, we're
Speaker 3: gonna move on to other things and guests again, but I.
Speaker 1: Want to be cheesy and tell you I want to
Speaker 1: be with you forever because I think you're the best
Speaker 1: man I know.
Speaker 3: Baby, Listen, First of all, I love you, and honestly,
Speaker 3: we are fun and we are cool as fuck, I think,
Speaker 3: at least in my own mind, and we have fun together.
Speaker 2: And honestly, I like.
Speaker 3: Doing this podcast with you because it's something that we
Speaker 3: do together and sometimes it's emotional and heavy, and sometimes
Speaker 3: it's light and fun, and I hope more so it's
Speaker 3: light and fun for people because we like to laugh
Speaker 3: at ourselves a lot. But this was your moment. I
Speaker 3: just wanted your Obviously, this podcast is most of your fans,
Speaker 3: and I want them. I want to really wanted you
Speaker 3: this episode, and I think you did a great job
Speaker 3: of letting people know what what it was like for you,
Speaker 3: because you didn't get a chance to show that to
Speaker 3: anybody because it was your own personal thing and you
Speaker 3: were very adam adamant about going through that. So I
Speaker 3: just I think it was important this podcast for you
Speaker 3: to share that journey, which I think you shared really
Speaker 3: really well and was very moving, because it is a
Speaker 3: beautiful thing to be part of and I just want
Speaker 3: to say, so my first question and i'm myself that's right.
Speaker 1: We're playing a trivia game or not a trivia game.
Speaker 3: The trivia game, but not a trivia So the game
Speaker 3: is called a trivia game, not a trivia game.
Speaker 2: So remember that too.
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 2: Okay. So the second question that trivia not a trivia.
Speaker 3: Game, is the one thing in the last three weeks
Speaker 3: since Ocean has been here that you didn't weren't prepared for.
Speaker 3: Was there anything you weren't prepared for that maybe you
Speaker 3: thought or was completely different, or anything that's just something
Speaker 3: that they didn't tell you about. You know that you
Speaker 3: only could experience as being a first time mom. Anything
Speaker 3: that stands out.
Speaker 1: I think it would be like the gosh, there's so
Speaker 1: many things that people tell you to prepare for it,
Speaker 1: and you're like, I'll be fine, Like when they tell
Speaker 1: you your baby's gonna scream at the top of her lungs. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it could be any of these reasons, and you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're bonded, I'm sure I'll figure it out. And it's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I've literally changed all the diapers that you seventy six
Speaker 1: times on both tits, you know, like tried all the bankies.
Speaker 1: What the fuck is happening to you?
Speaker 2: I tell you, mothers, it's not easy. It's you guys
Speaker 2: are our heroes.
Speaker 1: I think that's what it would be, is just like
Speaker 1: all of those the crying, which is like okay, normal,
Speaker 1: but when you don't know why your baby's screaming, you know,
Speaker 1: and then it's like, oh, it could just be like
Speaker 1: tummy issues and you're like, well, how do I get
Speaker 1: that to go away?
Speaker 2: Can't you know? That's amazing? That's a good answer, Okay.
Speaker 3: And the last question of the trivia not trivia game
Speaker 3: is what is the one thing you want Ocean to
Speaker 3: know about her mother? When she was in your stomach?
Speaker 3: What's the one thing you want her to rim for you.
Speaker 2: To be able to tell her.
Speaker 1: I wish that it could be like some profound thing
Speaker 1: that I could tell her that I was thinking or
Speaker 1: telling her, But it would just be like how much
Speaker 1: I love her. He took a video the other day,
Speaker 1: and I was thinking about when she's older, and I
Speaker 1: get it where if she's acting a certain way, it's
Speaker 1: going to be like I love you so much? How
Speaker 1: could you be mean right now? Like you don't get
Speaker 1: how much I love you. And I know that's going
Speaker 1: to happen, you know, when she gets into the And
Speaker 1: I don't even want to think about it, but I
Speaker 1: do think about it because I love inflicting emotional pain
Speaker 1: onto myself. I don't know why, but that's what it
Speaker 1: would be, is like, you don't understand how much I
Speaker 1: love you. The second I found out, it was like,
Speaker 1: you're my baby, but you.
Speaker 2: Know how lucky. You know how lucky you are. Though.
Speaker 3: I was thinking about the other day, and people don't
Speaker 3: know this about law, but I suggested because when the
Speaker 3: minute you got pregnant, you were so in love just
Speaker 3: being pregnant. And I said, I love watching this connection
Speaker 3: you had and how beautiful it was. And I made
Speaker 3: a suggestion to you and you really owned it. And wow,
Speaker 3: is Ocean going to be lucky when she's old enough
Speaker 3: to read tell tell people what you did.
Speaker 1: I kept a journal that was basically, you know, not
Speaker 1: really a journal for myself of what I went through,
Speaker 1: but like basically letters to Ocean in a book that
Speaker 1: when she is when I feel like it's that time,
Speaker 1: she can read back on when I was pregnant with her,
Speaker 1: I tell her about my day, so she can literally
Speaker 1: look at what week I was at in my pregnancy
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, that's what my mom did today.
Speaker 2: So I told her, I said, Babe, I think because
Speaker 2: she was that.
Speaker 1: Was the best thing you could have told me to
Speaker 1: do too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was so emotional and she had so much
Speaker 3: to say. Lawa had so much to share, and she
Speaker 3: was like filled with emotion, like I think all expecting
Speaker 3: mothers are.
Speaker 2: But I said to her, I said, you know.
Speaker 3: You're such a great writer and you love sharing your
Speaker 3: thoughts in writing. Why don't you just put a book
Speaker 3: next to your bed and write down whatever you feel
Speaker 3: like writing.
Speaker 2: It doesn't be every day, it could be whenever you feel.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and now that book is filled with I haven't
Speaker 3: even read it because she hasn't even shown me. And
Speaker 3: I'm so excited for her one day to give that
Speaker 3: to Ocean because it's probably going to mean the world
Speaker 3: to her.
Speaker 2: So that's really cool.
Speaker 1: I'm super excited about it. Yeah, it's really She's gonna
Speaker 1: have to be a little older though, because I like
Speaker 1: talk to her about like what great AA meetings I
Speaker 1: had attended for the week.
Speaker 3: All Right, she might have to wait till but anyway,
Speaker 3: she eventually she'll have this book and she'll be able
Speaker 3: to say, my mom wrote this why I was in
Speaker 3: her stomach, and I think it's really beautiful. So I'm
Speaker 3: really proud that you did that because I know you
Speaker 3: had a lot of shitty days, like all pregnant mothers
Speaker 3: Avenue had a lot of beautiful days. And the fact
Speaker 3: that you were consistent for all that time to write
Speaker 3: the stories.
Speaker 1: When you hear about women that have been trying to
Speaker 1: get pregnant for a really long time, though, it's almost like,
Speaker 1: how can I really complain about now? You know, it's like, yes,
Speaker 1: it's a real thing, and I don't want to be
Speaker 1: that type of person that's like my mom is this
Speaker 1: way where I'm like, like, I'll be complaining and my
Speaker 1: mom will say something like will just be thankful because
Speaker 1: at least this is not going on for you or
Speaker 1: like whatever. You know. But when you hear women who
Speaker 1: have been trying for five years and beyond even I
Speaker 1: mean even you go a year and you're like, what's
Speaker 1: wrong with my body? Where you think that you just
Speaker 1: can get pregnant really quickly because that's what your body's
Speaker 1: meant to do. And it's it's actually not that easy.
Speaker 3: And I know that we talked about that with women
Speaker 3: who struggle to get pregnant or you know, all the
Speaker 3: things that a woman goes through and and you know,
Speaker 3: it's my heart goes out and I'm tim, I'm sure
Speaker 3: you agree that a woman, you know, trying to have
Speaker 3: a baby or having a baby, that is a miracle
Speaker 3: of life, all of it.
Speaker 2: And you know, I don't I couldn't even imagine.
Speaker 1: Well, you also don't realize all the things that can
Speaker 1: go wrong, Like when I was had, when we were
Speaker 1: having issues with her weight and he's like her her
Speaker 1: leg bone, I'm like, I didn't even think about what
Speaker 1: her leg bones would be doing, you know.
Speaker 3: But I mean we had we had I mean you
Speaker 3: didn't really share with everybody because you know, it was
Speaker 3: obviously private and you share a little bit, but you know,
Speaker 3: you and I definitely there was a solid I would
Speaker 3: say three or three months, maybe four or where we
Speaker 3: were going to a lot of doctors, a lot of testing,
Speaker 3: or we were really didn't know. And I think in
Speaker 3: the end they gave us a lot of confidence to
Speaker 3: say that we were okay, that we are going to
Speaker 3: be okay.
Speaker 2: They believe.
Speaker 3: But again, you know, if you start out the way
Speaker 3: we started out, I don't think we ever felt we
Speaker 3: were okay, and we just pray to God that God
Speaker 3: would take care of our baby and give us a
Speaker 3: healthy child, and that's all we can ask for it.
Speaker 2: But it was, you know, it was.
Speaker 3: I think everybody has their own experience with trying to
Speaker 3: get pregnant and being pregnant, and everybody's.
Speaker 2: Journey is different.
Speaker 1: I know. I love like seeing comments on my Instagram
Speaker 1: now because it used to be like a lot of
Speaker 1: just like stupid things that like really, who gives a damn?
Speaker 1: Now I have moms like it's become a full oh yeah,
Speaker 1: My Instagram is full mom mode and I love it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is so positive. Best time on Instagram.
Speaker 2: Now, that's awesome. Look at the pluses, a bunch of.
Speaker 1: Fucking turbo mom's killing it right, you know. And now
Speaker 1: I'll see women at like the grove and they're like
Speaker 1: changing their babies on their laps, you know, like these
Speaker 1: one year old and the one year old's freaking the
Speaker 1: fuck out and the mom is just champion with freaking
Speaker 1: Kylie Jenner nails. I'm like, oh you are Badassah.
Speaker 2: People really know, people really know.
Speaker 3: That we have had a baby. Specifically, you have had
Speaker 3: a baby. I did not have the baby you did.
Speaker 3: But I was even even at the even at the
Speaker 3: pickleball tournament the other day, I was walking off the
Speaker 3: court to another court and two women came right up
Speaker 3: to me and they said congratulations.
Speaker 2: I was like, meeting on my wind that I.
Speaker 3: Just had two soons ago, and they said, no, congratulations
Speaker 3: on your new baby.
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, that's so sweet.
Speaker 3: And I mean, so now in the pickleball world, they're
Speaker 3: coming up congratulating me for our babies.
Speaker 2: So I think it's it's great and it was very sweet.
Speaker 1: So anyway, that is sweet.
Speaker 3: I told you I have like eight to twelve fans,
Speaker 3: and two of them are in picklep all the.
Speaker 1: Other that's all you need. It's the quality, not quantity.
Speaker 2: I agree. I'm good with you. Anyway, this has been
Speaker 2: a lot of fun.
Speaker 3: I have to tell you, baby that I am really
Speaker 3: happy that we're doing this again because it's fun for
Speaker 3: us to do it together. And I hope that people
Speaker 3: come back and listen. We are We signed a multi
Speaker 3: year contract, so.
Speaker 2: We will be around now.
Speaker 3: For a while, and we're obviously never miss a week,
Speaker 3: and we have a lot of great guests that we
Speaker 3: have backlog lined up for our show over the next
Speaker 3: couple of months. Yes, and we're excited to share them
Speaker 3: with you and and just let you get to know
Speaker 3: us the new version.
Speaker 1: Yeahl La two point zero. I was going to say that,
Speaker 1: I hope I'm still cool.
Speaker 2: You are the coolest, baddest my horn. I need it
Speaker 2: so bad, baby, you are unicorn.
Speaker 1: When you walk into Chase Bank with not even a
Speaker 1: push a braun, but with your fucking nursing braun, it
Speaker 1: really hits your ego pretty hard. You're like, wow, that
Speaker 1: really did humble my eyes.
Speaker 3: Well, I gotta say I'm excited to be back, and
Speaker 3: I'm really proud of you, and I love you, and
Speaker 3: I love Ocean and you are an incredible woman.
Speaker 2: And that's all I can say.
Speaker 1: I love you too, and Producer Tim, are you excited
Speaker 1: to be back?
Speaker 2: I am stoked?
Speaker 1: Sweet, I love it all right, y'all. We love you
Speaker 1: so much. Thank you for being patient with our comeback.
Speaker 1: But we back now, so we'll catch you next week.