WEBVTT - Ocean Kent Emmett 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:08.920 What's up you guys. 0:00:09.160 --> 0:00:13.480 It's La La Kent with Randall. We are back. 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:19.799 So we went on our little break, which, okay, first 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:23.040 of all, before we go there, we're in a temporary 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:27.560 like I don't even know why, because if people are 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:31.240 listening and there's an echo, it's because we're in, like, okay, 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:33.560 an industrial location. 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:37.160 Your new podcast studio is twelve feet from us exactly. 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.640 So it's being built out. So if it sounds echoey, 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:43.280 that's exactly why. Anyway, what we. 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:45.800 Have been off the air for three months now. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:49.040 We told everyone in January Tim producer Tim, we still 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:53.480 have him hi, that we would be back to February. 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:54.720 I know. It's okay. 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:56.720 Here's the thing. A couple of things happen. A couple 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:58.640 of things happen. Let's just put it out there. One 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:02.640 we left our old network and we were very grateful 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:05.319 and thankful for them. They were great, and we have 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:08.160 now signed with a new company and we're very excited. 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:11.800 And also, let's be honest, you were in your final 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:16.039 trimester about to give birth to our child, and you 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:18.640 did give birth to our child, so you were. 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:19.240 A little busy. 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:22.759 So now that our baby is here, you were very 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:26.200 excited to you know, I mean, you were ready to 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:29.399 relaunch the podcast, and now it's our. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:32.640 Baby is sitting a foot away from us. Why we're podcasting. 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:36.440 It's so amazing. No, we were planning on coming back 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:39.160 February fourteenth, Valentine's Day. I was super hyped about it. 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:40.640 I thought it would be cute to do it like that. 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:45.240 But then, like most people have a due date and 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:48.120 you kind of plan around that. Granted, you can't plan 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:51.280 quote unquote pregnancy or when you're going to give birth, 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:54.640 but for Randall and myself, it was like, we don't 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:58.280 know when she's gonna come. So I just decided, let's 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:01.920 put the podcast on hold, chill out. I'll enjoy however 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:04.760 long I have left of being pregnant. And then on 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:09.200 March fifteenth, I gave birth to my soulmates. Yes, and 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:10.960 I'm kent emit. 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.040 I am very proud of you. You have become the 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.600 most well you're already a most amazing woman, but now 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:20.440 you're an amazing mother and you already were an amazing 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:27.400 step mother. So now you're superstar mom and superstar badass fiance. 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:28.320 Wow. 0:02:28.520 --> 0:02:29.680 Yes, you've got all the titles. 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:32.400 Two of the things I never aspired to be in 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:35.359 my wait, the mom part, I did aspire the. 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:37.320 Second one you could talk about being a mom so the. 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:39.919 Day I met Yeah, the first one, I definitely always 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:44.120 aspired to be the badass Fyance never was even in 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.400 the vicinity of I just wanted to like be a 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:48.040 boss bitch. 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.320 Well, let's style it back for a minute for everybody, 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:53.800 because you know, I think I've learned being with you. 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.680 You know, these articles and stuff that come out, I've 0:02:56.760 --> 0:03:00.240 learned that. You know, they do show a side, a 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:03.200 slice of these moments that you've had. 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:07.160 But let's style it back because that day. 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:09.560 Let's just I think it'd be nice to kick off 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:13.359 this podcast, our first episode, our first week with kind 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:17.800 of just take us through what you were going through 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:20.480 from the night before when you knew we were going 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.880 to the hospital the next morning, and then getting up 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:24.720 at seven in the morning and heading to the hospital 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:26.799 and all the way to twenty four hours later when 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:28.720 she came, Oh. 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:32.160 God, oh here come the tears, like you for doing that? 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:36.600 Why this is beautiful stuff everybody wants to hear. 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:40.400 And I think you're so people don't realize Lala is 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:43.680 the well people probably do not, and before you say this, 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:46.400 I just want to say, who don't realize you are 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:51.480 such an emotionally beautiful person and so vulnerable and so 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:55.960 everything you know, And I don't think everybody knows that. 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:58.080 I think a lot of people do, but a lot 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:01.640 of people don't. And I think that since you've become 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:06.320 a mother to your own baby, you have just been 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:12.520 such an epic human of just of every proportion. And 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:15.360 I am so proud to call you the mother of 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:17.320 our daughters. So I just want to be able to 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:20.279 hear your journey because it was it was your first 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:21.840 time giving birth. 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:23.880 And it was a big fucking deal. 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.640 So just tell me, just share just whatever you want 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:29.120 to share it, because I thought it was the most 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:33.159 beautiful moment, you know, ever of our relationship. And we've 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:35.159 had a lot of beautiful moments, but this one definitely 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:37.360 is the one I will remember trumps. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:42.120 Them all for me at least. Well, I feel like 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:46.960 that's kind of where I got excited that they scheduled 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:51.600 me to be induced, because I got to enjoy the 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:54.320 last moments of certain things like most people, like when 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:58.360 my water breaks. Whereas I knew that I was going 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:02.240 in at seven o'clock in the morning on March fourteenth, 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:06.839 which was a Sunday, and that the night before it 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:10.600 was like, oh my gosh, she's kicking, like come tomorrow 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:13.520 or you know, you never really know when it's gonna 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.640 pop out. But I got to think about those little 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:20.720 last moments of her and my tummy, or the last 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:25.280 horrific night's sleep, which till are not great. So mean 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:33.400 there even worse. So we we wake up, we go 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:37.720 to the hospital. Randall got to see something happen to 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:40.479 me that he's never seen before. That kind of happens 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:43.280 to me often the most basic thing tim when you 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:46.039 go in to be induced or just to have a baby, 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.000 they put the ivy in your arm, right, oh. 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:49.159 Right, that's where you're going. 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:53.279 Yeah, so they do this right as I check in whatever. 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:57.479 We're in the bed, and I told the nurse, I 0:05:57.839 --> 0:06:01.279 pass out. When you tell me that my vein is 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:06.000 rollie that you can't quite find it, you are fucking me, 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:09.039 like mentally beyond okay. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:11.400 Let me let me I really, because I know your 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.600 audience loves when I shut up. But I'm gonna I 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:15.920 am gonna step in right here. I'm gonna I want 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:19.239 to say this story because Lala really doesn't have any 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.360 place to tell this part. I wanted her to share 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:26.760 every beautiful moment of being the mother and giving birth 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:27.400 to our daughter. 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:29.480 This is what I'm gonna tell, okay, but let me 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:32.159 let me just say one thing, you Kim. I said 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:34.479 to the nurse right before it happened, because I always 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:37.599 know when it's gonna happen. I tell them my arms 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:40.080 and legs are going numb. I'm going to pass out. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.840 I warned them. I already know that that's going to happen. 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:43.679 That's not what happened. 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.839 I did. I warned that woman. I warned the nurse. 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:49.119 He says, I didn't. Okay, tell your version. 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:51.040 I'm gonna tell the version because I was there and 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:53.360 it was fucked up. So let me tell you. So. 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:56.640 I don't do really well with needles either. So you 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:59.840 got Lala and I are both like woosies when it comes. 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:02.120 But you know you're there with your best friend and 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:04.200 your partner, so you know if they got to cut 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:07.200 her open, I would obviously I get through it. 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:08.919 So here's what I want to say. 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:11.320 So she's laying there, we had just got there. We 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:14.280 are like so emotional, we are like on cloud nine. 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:17.320 We're walking in. We're like, here we are, we got 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:19.760 our bags packed. We walk into Cedars and I'm like, 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:23.880 you know, it's like that moment you're just like so excited. 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:26.600 And I'm so excited for her because she has been 0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:29.240 carrying our daughter for nine months and I'm very very 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:32.040 proud of her. But and and and and so blessed 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:34.480 to have such a great partner. So now that kiss dress, I'm. 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:37.200 Not get into the details. So we walk into the room, 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:39.600 she lays down, she gets her gown on. She's there. 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:42.520 The nurse comes in and Lalla tells her I pass 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.800 out very easily. And I'm thinking, okay, passing out. 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:47.840 If she passes out, she's in the bed. She ain't 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:50.360 going anywhere. 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:56.480 But there's a difference between and exorcism and passing around. 0:07:57.840 --> 0:07:59.960 No, it's it's fucked up. I'm gonna tell you how. 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:01.840 You don't even know what happens. Happened. 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:04.640 Okay, So she's laying there, they get the needle out, 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:07.920 they take her thing, and she's telling them and I'm 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:10.200 talking to her. I'm holding her hand and I'm holding 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:12.200 and I'm looking right in her eyes and I say, baby, 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:15.160 it's gonna be okay, just hanging there, and the nurse goes, okay, 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:18.840 you ready, and she counts down, and I'm looking right 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:21.040 at my partners, right in her eyes. I'm looking right 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.200 in her eyes and we're talking and as the needle 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:23.840 I'm looking at. 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:24.320 The needle going in. 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:26.640 I'm kind of keeping her eyes shielded so I shouldn't 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:30.640 see anything. As they're doing whatever they're doing to get 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:36.080 it into her vein, I see her eyes start to 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:38.720 roll back into her head. 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:41.599 This is not passing out, passing out as you go 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.800 to sleep, right, the eyes are in her head. Now 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:46.040 I'm making a joke of this. 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:48.559 Now I am telling you that I was gonna have 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:50.560 a heart attack and hit the fucking floor. And I 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:55.320 literally said la la, la la. And I said to 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:58.240 the nurse, ma'am, there's something wrong because like you see 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:01.040 her best friend and your partner, you know, eyes going ahead. 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:05.120 This it's horrifying, Like I've never seen anything like this. 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:07.920 I've been with her for five years. And I say lala, 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:11.160 and she is. Elvis has left the building. And now 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:14.840 I tell them, I tell them, please stop whatever you're 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:17.360 doing right now, because Lawa is not And then they 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:21.120 see that Lala's eyes are in her head and she's gone, 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:24.640 and I say, they say, La La, Now I know 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.280 they're nervous, they're they're freaked out, like I'm freaked out, 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:29.200 And all of a sudden, her eyes come back to 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:33.920 her where they're supposed to be. I'm only laughing now, 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:38.160 I wasn't laughing then and she's and Lala says, what 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:38.920 what's going on? 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:42.200 No, because they're all dead stare at me, and I'm like, 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:44.200 why every you know, like I don't know. 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:45.480 You said hi? 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:48.400 He said okay, and then they kept doing it and 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:50.559 then they went back into her head again, and then 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:53.080 I said, call the doctor right now. I'm not cool 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.720 at this. There's something fucking wrong. And she was gone 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:57.400 like they were trying to wake her up on her 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:02.040 like the eyes were thed. No, and it was I'm 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:05.160 laughing because. 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:05.560 It's over, because it's over. 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:06.400 I'm laughing, it is over. 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:08.040 But I also want to say that tears were in 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:10.040 my eyes they saw and I please call the doctor 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:10.360 right now. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:11.040 I'm not joking. 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:13.680 And then they they did call the doctor and both 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:17.240 of them us they had gotten it in and. 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:19.079 Her eyes came back to her. They're supposed to be 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:21.280 for the second time. And then I said, lawa, do 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:23.480 you know where you're at? Do you? And they said 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:24.839 do you know where you're at? And she said, yeah, 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:25.120 I'm in the. 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:27.880 They go, la, la, do you know where you are 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:31.840 and what you're doing? And I go, yes, I'm at Cedars. 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.000 I'm having a baby today. 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:34.640 Just like it was nothing. 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.360 I knew where the fun was. 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:38.240 Like a sitcom or something. 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:40.559 It wasn't, yeah, sitcom, I don't know if it was that, 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:41.960 but but let me tell. 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:43.920 You this, it was like crying in the corner. 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:47.120 Wasn't crying in the corner. I was crying right holding 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:50.000 your hand. But anyway, okay, So then they gave her 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:50.959 some kind of juice. 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:52.439 Was the juice that you. 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:55.280 Like when you honest, honest kids, juice box. 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:58.000 They give her honest kids juice box. But listen to this. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:10:59.120 Listen listen to this. 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:02.400 After she after she has the juice, she comes back 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:09.080 to her normal state and now she's calm and. 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:11.000 I and now Randall's freaking because that little, that little 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:13.000 tiny fucking thing that goes in your arm and then 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:14.280 the epidural is kind of. 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:17.840 That's what I was gonna totally. 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:20.720 But the epidural was in a little while, like we 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:22.600 were gonna give it a few hours. So I say 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:25.120 to her, I say to her, I'm just gonna step 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:28.000 outside just for a quick second. I literally took the 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:30.760 elevator down to the street to get eric because I 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:32.400 thought I was going to pass out. I thought I 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:33.800 was going to pass out in front of her while 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:35.600 she was passing out. Then we'd both be passed out. 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:38.400 Would be bad. So I went downstairs, took a walk, 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:40.760 true story, true story. 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:43.280 I called her mother. I do that a lot. 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:46.000 And then I called my mother on a three way 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:48.240 and I said to them, what just happened. I said, 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:51.679 Law's eyes were rolled back in her head. And then 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:53.760 I was in tears on the phone to them, because 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:55.400 you know, you love somebody so much, you don't want 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:58.080 to see them, you know, in any kind of anything 0:11:58.120 --> 0:11:59.760 that's out of normal. 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:02.199 Let's say. So it was. It was just a really 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.600 harsh moment for me. But thank god she was okay. 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:07.640 And then and then I went back upstairs, and then 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.000 we hung out for like a couple hours while you 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:12.280 just you know why, we just waited, and then as 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:15.800 you started getting discomfort, then we did the epidural and 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:17.040 by the way, you. 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:22.120 Told Randall was so emotionally scarred from me having an exorcism. 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:25.240 I call it passing out because they said it was. 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:29.600 I did not seize. It was definitely you fainted because 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:33.520 Ocean's heart rate stayed normally, like the baby was not affected. 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:35.840 That is true, but I thought to thank God. 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:38.000 But Randall was so affected. My mom was supposed to 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:38.920 come in on a Tuesday. 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:40.679 You have to got Tuesday, you have to say the 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:41.040 whole thing. 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:43.680 He made her come in on Sunday, so he's like, surprise, 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:45.640 your mom's here. I'm like, oh see, you are not 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:46.680 about this life. 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:50.400 You are not about it. That's bullshit, that life. 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:53.520 I was joking, okay, because we're honey, it's a podcast, 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:56.440 ha ha, let's laugh about it. Oh you're about that life. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:58.480 I am about that life about Oh can I just 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:00.880 say one thing though, and then I want, I really 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:03.240 want you to tell your journey from It's going to 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:03.520 be a. 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:05.200 Long journey because you keep butting in. 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:06.160 I know, but it's fun. 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.920 When they did the epidural, I looked you right in 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:10.920 the face, I said, look at me, and I told 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:11.800 the nurse, do not. 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.880 Are you taking credit for the epidural going. 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:17.160 Okay, I'm getting upset right now. 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:22.120 The epidural went well because I told her before she started, 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:25.160 don't talk to me about the needle size. Don't count 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:29.560 it down. I'm going to turn around. Okay, I told 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:31.600 her I don't want to know a thing about baby. 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:33.720 Remember when I was looking right in your eyes and we. 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:37.000 Were kissing, Randall, if you don't stop this rookie nonsense. 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:38.880 This is season two of Give Them La La with 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:42.839 Randall to the podcast, brought to you by Westwood. 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:47.439 One, our new partner. Okay, I did. Now I want 0:13:47.440 --> 0:13:49.280 to say something anyway, She noted. 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:51.679 The epidural, which I thought was going to be ten 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:52.600 times worse than. 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:56.400 The IB, was nothing because they didn't psych me out emotionally. 0:13:57.160 --> 0:13:59.960 Okay, that's our story. Let's go back to the beautiful 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.400 part of giving birth to our daughter. Okay, you giving 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:05.280 birth to our daughter. I want you to have this 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.760 episode to be really about you. I wanted to make 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:09.959 light and fun, but the truth is I want to 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:12.800 reset the stage what you did and how you did it. 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:15.520 I am so blessed to have a partner, you know, 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:17.280 and I mean that, and I want you to tell 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:20.760 people your journey because it was really beautiful watching your 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:24.800 transformation from Lalla before you had the baby, even though 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:27.840 you were a sap as a pregnant woman. But since 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:30.600 you since ocean has been here. Oh my god, we'll 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:31.920 talk about that later. 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:37.840 And we're back. 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:45.160 Oh I love the enthusia. Oh my gosh. Okay, so 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.160 we get there whatever the whole long story with the 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:52.440 needle and the season or whatnot. So then they start 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:55.560 the balloon and so the survey. So I'm looking at 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.160 producer Tim. He's like, I wish I was a female 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:00.760 right now. I wish I were a girl. And I 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:03.720 couldn't even stand it. So I got the epidural super quick. 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:05.840 I was feeling no fucking pain, but I was so 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:09.680 anxious because I felt like just a torso like it's stub. 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.160 I'm like, I can't fill my legs when it's time 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:14.000 to push. How am I even going to know how 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.640 to get her out of my body? You know? So 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:20.800 that I was tripping about and Randall kept trying to 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:23.280 call me down, like your body's gonna know what to do? Okay, 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:26.080 flash too. That night they've told me you're not having 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:29.600 the baby today, like you'll probably have it later tomorrow 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:33.040 because you have not dilated at all. I think by 0:15:33.080 --> 0:15:35.760 the time I went I think by the time I 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:37.880 went to sleep, I was at a four, which is 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:41.560 like not a lot, especially when they've induced you with 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:42.560 like that balloon thing. 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:45.320 And keep in mind, I want people to remember, you 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:46.840 were induced three weeks. 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:49.040 Early, correct, thirty seven weeks exactly. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:49.760 So there's a whole. 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:52.520 Nother level of anxiety for us because we knew she 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.640 was going to be under six pounds, but we also 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:57.440 were nervous because we weren't one hundred percent sure what 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.480 was going to happen. And they and they did tell 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:02.160 us to that there is a chance. 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:02.920 They didn't say. 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.560 Either way, they just said, there's a because we're inducing early, 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:08.080 there is a chance that our daughter will go to 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:08.400 the NIC. 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:11.840 You for them, Yes, don't cry because it didn't happen, 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:16.920 but no, thank god. Okay, so they do that whole thing. 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:20.160 That night. I slept like a fucking champion. 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:23.760 That is a crazy part. 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:26.040 They were like, you're not going to get any sleep tonight, 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:28.440 so just like, try to rest your eyes at least 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:32.600 I knocked the fuck out. They came in to break 0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:36.200 my water and it was at like no four in 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:36.680 the morning. 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:41.880 No. Seven, at got there right hold on. 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:46.120 Scranda was like because he was like, we woke him 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:47.360 up out of a stupor. 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:50.360 I was on the couch. I was on the couch. Wait, 0:16:50.440 --> 0:16:52.240 I was on the couch sleeping. 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:54.920 I mean, they make him into these beds, these couches 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:56.560 that her mom and all of us were. 0:16:56.640 --> 0:16:59.240 Keep in mind, today is Ocean's actual due dates. So 0:16:59.320 --> 0:17:01.880 I'm like, soon I want to relive this. 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:03.240 Oh my gosh. 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.480 So they come in and break my water. Producer to 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:08.480 him and the nurse comes in. She's like, I'm gonna 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:12.280 change your like bedding and pads because you're in a 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:15.000 lot of water. I was so fucking tired. I go, 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:16.679 can you just leave it the way it is? I go, 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:19.879 I can't feel anything. So I was just laying in 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:22.720 just like a pond of water. Okay that I had 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:26.600 no fucking idea because I was so numb. Fast forward too, 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:29.520 like four in the morning, she comes back in. It 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:32.040 was every two hours, so whenever they broke my water, 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:34.320 they were then checking to see like when is this 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:39.399 baby gonna come? Six am rolls around, nurse comes in, 0:17:39.840 --> 0:17:42.679 shoves her fingers up there. It's It's so crazy how 0:17:42.680 --> 0:17:44.720 it becomes just so natural when you see the nurse 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:48.040 come in, you just like flop your legs open. My 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:50.159 legs were so heavy and I couldn't feel them that 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:51.919 the only way I knew that they were hanging off 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:57.960 the bed was because my body would fall the one side. 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:02.080 I'd be like, are he's on the ground, and you 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.119 would come over and have to put them back on 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:07.920 the butt. It was fucking hysterical. Anyway. She puts her 0:18:08.320 --> 0:18:13.239 fingers up my kookie and says, oh my god, we're like, 0:18:13.359 --> 0:18:16.200 we're there. You're you're at a ten and I don't 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:18.359 know what this means. You're at a ten plus three, 0:18:18.920 --> 0:18:22.199 She says, I can feel the head. She goes, So, 0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:23.920 what you're gonna do is you're gonna give me one 0:18:23.960 --> 0:18:25.879 practice push. I just want to see how this is 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:28.600 gonna go, because you could be pushing anywhere from like 0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:30.320 four to six hours. 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:32.760 I guess said that to us early one earlier. 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:34.520 So I do one practice push. 0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:34.800 She goes. 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:37.600 Stop, She goes, I need you not to move until 0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:39.040 the doctor gets. 0:18:38.720 --> 0:18:42.560 Here, because so the baby was literally could have come 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:45.480 out right then. And then, by the way, during this day, 0:18:45.480 --> 0:18:48.800 are they woke me up, and I am I was 0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:53.040