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Speaker 1: What's up you guys.

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Speaker 2: It's La La Kent with Randall. We are back.

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Speaker 1: So we went on our little break, which, okay, first

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Speaker 1: of all, before we go there, we're in a temporary

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Speaker 1: like I don't even know why, because if people are

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Speaker 1: listening and there's an echo, it's because we're in, like, okay,

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Speaker 1: an industrial location.

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Speaker 3: Your new podcast studio is twelve feet from us exactly.

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Speaker 1: So it's being built out. So if it sounds echoey,

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Speaker 1: that's exactly why. Anyway, what we.

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Speaker 2: Have been off the air for three months now.

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Speaker 1: We told everyone in January Tim producer Tim, we still

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Speaker 1: have him hi, that we would be back to February.

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Speaker 2: I know. It's okay.

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Speaker 3: Here's the thing. A couple of things happen. A couple

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Speaker 3: of things happen. Let's just put it out there. One

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Speaker 3: we left our old network and we were very grateful

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Speaker 3: and thankful for them. They were great, and we have

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Speaker 3: now signed with a new company and we're very excited.

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Speaker 3: And also, let's be honest, you were in your final

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Speaker 3: trimester about to give birth to our child, and you

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Speaker 3: did give birth to our child, so you were.

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Speaker 2: A little busy.

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Speaker 3: So now that our baby is here, you were very

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Speaker 3: excited to you know, I mean, you were ready to

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Speaker 3: relaunch the podcast, and now it's our.

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Speaker 2: Baby is sitting a foot away from us. Why we're podcasting.

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Speaker 1: It's so amazing. No, we were planning on coming back

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Speaker 1: February fourteenth, Valentine's Day. I was super hyped about it.

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Speaker 1: I thought it would be cute to do it like that.

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Speaker 1: But then, like most people have a due date and

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Speaker 1: you kind of plan around that. Granted, you can't plan

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Speaker 1: quote unquote pregnancy or when you're going to give birth,

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Speaker 1: but for Randall and myself, it was like, we don't

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Speaker 1: know when she's gonna come. So I just decided, let's

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Speaker 1: put the podcast on hold, chill out. I'll enjoy however

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Speaker 1: long I have left of being pregnant. And then on

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Speaker 1: March fifteenth, I gave birth to my soulmates. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: I'm kent emit.

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Speaker 3: I am very proud of you. You have become the

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Speaker 3: most well you're already a most amazing woman, but now

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Speaker 3: you're an amazing mother and you already were an amazing

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Speaker 3: step mother. So now you're superstar mom and superstar badass fiance.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you've got all the titles.

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Speaker 1: Two of the things I never aspired to be in

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Speaker 1: my wait, the mom part, I did aspire the.

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Speaker 2: Second one you could talk about being a mom so the.

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Speaker 1: Day I met Yeah, the first one, I definitely always

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Speaker 1: aspired to be the badass Fyance never was even in

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Speaker 1: boss bitch.

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Speaker 3: Well, let's style it back for a minute for everybody,

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Speaker 3: because you know, I think I've learned being with you.

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Speaker 3: You know, these articles and stuff that come out, I've

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Speaker 3: learned that. You know, they do show a side, a

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Speaker 3: slice of these moments that you've had.

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Speaker 2: But let's style it back because that day.

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Speaker 3: Let's just I think it'd be nice to kick off

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Speaker 3: this podcast, our first episode, our first week with kind

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Speaker 3: of just take us through what you were going through

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Speaker 3: from the night before when you knew we were going

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Speaker 3: to the hospital the next morning, and then getting up

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Speaker 3: and all the way to twenty four hours later when

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Speaker 3: she came, Oh.

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Speaker 2: God, oh here come the tears, like you for doing that?

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Speaker 2: Why this is beautiful stuff everybody wants to hear.

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Speaker 3: And I think you're so people don't realize Lala is

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Speaker 3: the well people probably do not, and before you say this,

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Speaker 3: I just want to say, who don't realize you are

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Speaker 3: such an emotionally beautiful person and so vulnerable and so

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Speaker 3: everything you know, And I don't think everybody knows that.

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Speaker 3: I think a lot of people do, but a lot

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Speaker 3: such an epic human of just of every proportion. And

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Speaker 3: hear your journey because it was it was your first

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Speaker 2: And it was a big fucking deal.

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Speaker 3: So just tell me, just share just whatever you want

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Speaker 3: to share it, because I thought it was the most

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Speaker 1: Them all for me at least. Well, I feel like

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Speaker 1: that's kind of where I got excited that they scheduled

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Speaker 1: my water breaks. Whereas I knew that I was going

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Speaker 1: in at seven o'clock in the morning on March fourteenth,

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Speaker 1: or you know, you never really know when it's gonna

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Speaker 1: to the hospital. Randall got to see something happen to

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Speaker 1: me that he's never seen before. That kind of happens

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Speaker 1: to me often the most basic thing tim when you

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Speaker 1: they put the ivy in your arm, right, oh.

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Speaker 2: Right, that's where you're going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so they do this right as I check in whatever.

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Speaker 1: We're in the bed, and I told the nurse, I

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Speaker 1: like mentally beyond okay.

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Speaker 3: Let me let me I really, because I know your

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Speaker 3: audience loves when I shut up. But I'm gonna I

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Speaker 3: am gonna step in right here. I'm gonna I want

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Speaker 3: to say this story because Lala really doesn't have any

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Speaker 1: This is what I'm gonna tell, okay, but let me

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Speaker 1: let me just say one thing, you Kim. I said

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Speaker 1: I warned them. I already know that that's going to happen.

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Speaker 2: That's not what happened.

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Speaker 1: I did. I warned that woman. I warned the nurse.

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Speaker 1: He says, I didn't. Okay, tell your version.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell the version because I was there and

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Speaker 2: it was fucked up. So let me tell you. So.

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Speaker 3: I don't do really well with needles either. So you

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Speaker 3: But you know you're there with your best friend and

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Speaker 2: So here's what I want to say.

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Speaker 3: So she's laying there, we had just got there. We

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Speaker 2: Not get into the details. So we walk into the room,

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Speaker 3: The nurse comes in and Lalla tells her I pass

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Speaker 2: If she passes out, she's in the bed. She ain't

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Speaker 3: But there's a difference between and exorcism and passing around.

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Speaker 2: No, it's it's fucked up. I'm gonna tell you how.

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Speaker 2: You don't even know what happens. Happened.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So she's laying there, they get the needle out,

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Speaker 2: The needle going in.

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of keeping her eyes shielded so I shouldn't

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Speaker 2: This is not passing out, passing out as you go

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Speaker 3: Now I am telling you that I was gonna have

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Speaker 3: literally said la la, la la. And I said to

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Speaker 3: This it's horrifying, Like I've never seen anything like this.

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Speaker 3: I've been with her for five years. And I say lala,

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Speaker 1: No, because they're all dead stare at me, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: You said hi?

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Speaker 3: He said okay, and then they kept doing it and

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Speaker 3: I said, call the doctor right now. I'm not cool

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Speaker 1: It's over, because it's over.

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Speaker 2: I'm laughing, it is over.

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Speaker 3: But I also want to say that tears were in

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Speaker 2: I'm not joking.

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Speaker 3: And then they they did call the doctor and both

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Speaker 2: Her eyes came back to her. They're supposed to be

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Speaker 2: for the second time. And then I said, lawa, do

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Speaker 2: you know where you're at? Do you? And they said

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Speaker 2: I'm in the.

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Speaker 1: They go, la, la, do you know where you are

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Speaker 1: and what you're doing? And I go, yes, I'm at Cedars.

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Speaker 1: I'm having a baby today.

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Speaker 2: Just like it was nothing.

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Speaker 1: I knew where the fun was.

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Speaker 2: Like a sitcom or something.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't, yeah, sitcom, I don't know if it was that,

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Speaker 1: to feel it. And it was, oh my god. Okay.

440
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,359
Speaker 1: So Brittany and Jack's are about to have their baby

441
00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 1: and I she came over to see ocean and I

442
00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 1: literally when I see a pregnant person, now I'm like,

443
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:54,080
Speaker 1: this insane person. I'm like, I'm so excited for you.

444
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,919
Speaker 1: You have no idea what this experience is going to

445
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 1: be like when you give birth. There looking at me

446
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,439
Speaker 1: like yeah, I'm really excited I'm like, no, you don't

447
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 1: get it. Like I all I did was saw because

448
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 1: I felt like my heart was going to explode if

449
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 1: it didn't come out of somewhere else.

450
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:14,760
Speaker 3: Oh when you yeah, and then talk about the moment

451
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 3: they handed you your daughter.

452
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god. You you just sit there and you're like,

453
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 1: I can't believe. Yes, the men help tremendously creating.

454
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,920
Speaker 2: Thank you, like you okay, sure, but you're you're the hero.

455
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 2: But you're the hero.

456
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 1: We sat there and have this this thing in us

457
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,920
Speaker 1: for nine months, and it is relying on every decision

458
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 1: that we make to put into our you know, like

459
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 1: everything can't get botox anymore. You know, I can't drink

460
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 1: if I no, but it's like if I need two

461
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,719
Speaker 1: cups of coffee to wake up, Like I can't do that.

462
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 3: But but but I want you to tell people the

463
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 3: moment because I because it was magical for me to

464
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 3: see you when they handed you your daughter.

465
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 2: That moment.

466
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 1: I wondered, like how I existed before that moment?

467
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: You know? I remember, like.

468
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,120
Speaker 1: Even still right now, I'm like, okay, it's three weeks,

469
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: she's still brand new, But I'm like, no, how can

470
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,640
Speaker 1: it already be three weeks.

471
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 3: You.

472
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 2: Get upset everything. Yeah, right now, you love.

473
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you you love my hormones.

474
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 3: But no, no, your hormones are one thing.

475
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,600
Speaker 2: But Lala, I've known you for five years. I have

476
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 2: never seen you like this.

477
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,920
Speaker 3: I mean, this is your love for your daughter is

478
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 3: is second to none.

479
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: I just have never felt anything like when when I

480
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,199
Speaker 1: would ask people like, what does it feel like? And

481
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 1: they're like, you can't describe it sounds so corny, like

482
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: you cannot describe it.

483
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:53,199
Speaker 2: Agree with you?

484
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, the love for the love you have for a

485
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 3: child is really hard to describe.

486
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,360
Speaker 2: It's just that love is so powerful. And I think

487
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 2: you're a parent, you know.

488
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 3: I mean it's really a weird thing because you know,

489
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 3: as children, you know, we have parents, you know, and

490
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,439
Speaker 3: we're raised to love our parents and that connection we

491
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 3: have to our parents, even when you go through shit

492
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 3: with your parents and we all do you know, you

493
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,439
Speaker 3: have an argument or you don't get along, or you

494
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 3: don't want.

495
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: To go to Christmas.

496
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 3: I don't know Christmas luncheon, because it's just you know,

497
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 3: whatever bs that you know, you get into, you always

498
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 3: that connection you have with your parents you can never

499
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 3: have with anybody else, It's just a different thing. Yeah,

500
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 3: I love for a parent, and I really believe that

501
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 3: as a parent, and I think you probably agree completely.

502
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 3: But watching Lalla have that connection.

503
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 2: When the hand of your baby.

504
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: Was was no. My identity became just simply I'm Ocean's mom. Nothing.

505
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 1: I don't nothing else. I don't consist of anything else.

506
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 1: That is my identity.

507
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:00,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

508
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 3: And by the way, you do you remember what the

509
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 3: first the first thing you said when they handed your daughter.

510
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 3: I don't know if you remember, because you were you don't,

511
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 3: probably medicating up a little bitter. But do you remember

512
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 3: when they hand her too, and the first thing you

513
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 3: said to me? I don't think you remember, but maybe

514
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 3: you do. You said it over and over the whole day.

515
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: What did I say?

516
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,920
Speaker 2: You said, I've never been this happy before, and I'm

517
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 2: so full of love.

518
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,360
Speaker 1: I was so I am so full of like, I've

519
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 1: never been more in love with anything in my whole life.

520
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: I love you, I love thank you.

521
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 2: Give them with Ocean coming down for real.

522
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 3: No, but I but it was so beautiful because you

523
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 3: were you had just given birth minutes before, and you

524
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 3: were holding your baby and they you literally kept saying

525
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 3: over and over and I was really blown away.

526
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 2: You kept saying, I'm so my heart is solful. My

527
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 2: heart is so ful.

528
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: That's how it felt.

529
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it was very special.

530
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: The only way to release, like you feel like you're

531
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: going to explode, the only way I can describe it.

532
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 1: And that night they would, you know, come in and feed,

533
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: help me feed, or you know, give her the bubba

534
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: because she wasn't pooping, and so she had to be

535
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: on formula for a sec because they were trying to

536
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: kickstart that system. Anyway. I could talk about every little

537
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: but they put her back in her like little like

538
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 1: a bass and I think, oh, hi, she woke up

539
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: for a second. God, she's so cute.

540
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 2: This is a cute baby. By My mom called me

541
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 2: over the weekend and for like five minutes she was like,

542
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 2: Ocean is so cute. And I was like, thanks, Ma,

543
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 2: I know, I agree, she is very cute. What do

544
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:43,919
Speaker 2: you have to say about my kids?

545
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: Like, I'm way more interested in Margo and Darcy.

546
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 2: She was all about Ocean.

547
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 1: That is. I mean, obviously we're biased, but I think

548
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,679
Speaker 1: she's a pretty beautiful baby.

549
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 2: She is.

550
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 1: No but let me just say, oh quick, that night

551
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: in the little bacinet that they put them in the

552
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 1: cute hospital ones that are see through. Her eyes were open.

553
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,479
Speaker 1: I stayed awake all night long and I just stared

554
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: at her. I like got her out of her little bascinet.

555
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: I'm like, how can I sleep? Be like, what if

556
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: you do something and I miss it?

557
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 3: You didn't want to miss any by the way, I

558
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 3: that theme of not missing anything, because.

559
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 2: You know, you could say it's a cliche, but for you,

560
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 2: it's literal.

561
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 3: Like every second for the last three weeks, you don't

562
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 3: want to do shit except stare at your daughter and listen.

563
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 3: I have been there by your side at every second.

564
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 3: But like, if I'm like, babe, let's go downstairs get

565
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 3: a pop school, You're like, no, you can go downstairs

566
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 3: and get a popsicle.

567
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: Because I have to be here next to Ocean.

568
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, but baby Ocean is swaddled and asleep, you know,

569
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 3: and we have the camera and we'll just come right

570
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 3: back upstairs. We'll take a whole fourteen second step. No,

571
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 3: got to be right here, like you really taken.

572
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 2: But it is a.

573
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 3: Beautiful thing and I really love watching it because to

574
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 3: have you as the mother you are within three weeks

575
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 3: of having a baby is.

576
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: It's just unbelievable. The connection you have to Ocean is beautiful.

577
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: She's my best friend.

578
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: And I'm going to tell you something.

579
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,360
Speaker 3: I knew you were going to be a phenomenal mother,

580
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 3: because you're an incredible stepmother to my children, But when

581
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 3: you have your own baby, your own biological baby, watching

582
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 3: you from newborn from the minute.

583
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 2: She came out, I can't.

584
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 3: You must have said that night when she came out,

585
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 3: twenty five times, how full your heart is, and how

586
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 3: in love you are.

587
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 2: And how and how.

588
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 3: You love her so much. You said it over and

589
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 3: over and over, and I just knew that this connection

590
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 3: that you have is the deepest connection I've ever seen

591
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 3: you experience.

592
00:27:58,440 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 2: It's all of it.

593
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 3: It's so obsessed and it's by the way, and you

594
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 3: say it even to even today when we're in the

595
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 3: you brought her in and we're in the office. You know,

596
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 3: you're just like when her arms, I said, babe, she

597
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 3: looks like she is she full now because she just

598
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,479
Speaker 3: had breast fetter. And you said, and you said, and

599
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 3: you said, let me see. And you took a second.

600
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 3: You took her off the nipple, the boo, the boot

601
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 3: and you were holding her and her arms were outstretched,

602
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 3: her hands were open, and I said, she looks calm,

603
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 3: and she looks you know, chill now, and you go, yeah.

604
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 3: See when her hands are open and relaxed, that means

605
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 3: she's happy. And when they're clenched, I'm like, I mean

606
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 3: you you.

607
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: It was also very telling when she's not screaming, bloody murder,

608
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: that's what I She's hungry. She's literally screaming. That's why

609
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: bloody murdered.

610
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 3: That's why I thought she was That's why I thought

611
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 3: she was full. But I didn't know there were hands

612
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 3: symbols too, so signals.

613
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: So that's pretty epic.

614
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 1: No, she definitely ocean for being three weeks early, has

615
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: mad pipes, and she is strong as a motherfucker. This

616
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: kid is lifting her head up off my chest and

617
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: looking at me.

618
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 2: Wow.

619
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: No, she's strong af Now I know exactly what was

620
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: like jamming into my ribcage and things like that. I

621
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: was always like, what the fuck that?

622
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 3: When I would feel her stomach and it was cute

623
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 3: like in the beginning, she just pushed and I was,

624
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 3: oh my god, and you get emotional.

625
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 2: And you touch here.

626
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 3: And then I came back from shooting the film, and

627
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 3: it came home and it was a new thing. It

628
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 3: was like a elbow, an elbow that moved across the

629
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 3: entire stomach. It was like pushing through the skin. I

630
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 3: was like, what is going on? She is going to

631
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 3: come through your stomach.

632
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: No, it felt that way.

633
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 2: I thought she was going to pop out me.

634
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: Too, I for sure did. I just can't believe she's here. Man.

635
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 3: Well, I am very proud to be your partner and

636
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 3: father of Ocean because you are an incredible mother, and

637
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 3: you know how you how you handled your pregnancy and

638
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 3: delivery and raising our baby was five star.

639
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: Look at me differently.

640
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 2: Somebody asked me that the other day. I don't know

641
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 2: if it was you, because I think you have asked

642
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 2: me that. No, the truth is this, I look at you.

643
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 3: I cherish you so much that I don't look at

644
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 3: you differently. I think that our connection is deeper, and

645
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 3: I didn't think we could have a deeper connection than

646
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 3: we already have.

647
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah, I don't.

648
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 3: I didn't think I could love you any more than

649
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 3: I already do because you're my soulem. But watching you

650
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 3: love Ocean is beautiful.

651
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: Five star.

652
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 3: Yes, and so I think there my love for you

653
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 3: is stronger in a way that maybe it's on a

654
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 3: different level that I didn't think was possible, because I

655
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 3: just felt like, we're so in love with one another

656
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 3: and we're best friends. But watching you with our daughter,

657
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 3: you know, watching you with Ocean is is just a

658
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 3: really beautiful thing. And you know, look, I already knew

659
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 3: you were going to be a five star fucking mom.

660
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 3: I'm just saying this. I already knew. I know you're

661
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 3: such a lover and such a vulnerable person and such

662
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 3: a giver, you know, and you were patient af with

663
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 3: with London and Riley. But when she's screaming at the

664
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 3: top of her lugs, Ocean and I've run in and

665
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,239
Speaker 3: I'm like, what's going on?

666
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 2: Do we need to go to the doctor? And you're

667
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 2: like stop, just hungry, and you're just chill, you're relaxed.

668
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 3: You just get the you just get the boob out,

669
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 3: you get put in her mouth, And I'm like, who

670
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 3: are you?

671
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 2: Like you used to lose your ship.

672
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 3: If the gardener outside was mowing the lawn too loud

673
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 3: and the person I.

674
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: Would still lose my shit. Just Ocean can do no wrong.

675
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 2: That's what I mean.

676
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is you're this epic mom and

677
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 3: when I watch you with her, nothing rattles you, and

678
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 3: I get rattle because I'm so nerts Like I've told

679
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 3: you baby, she okay, baby, Like I'm such an anxious dad,

680
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 3: like you.

681
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 2: Know, newborn, and I'm like, what you know? And I'm

682
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: trying to, you know, be there with you.

683
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 3: But you actually have been calming me down because you

684
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 3: just it's like you you own it, you got it,

685
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 3: like and I have to kind of look to you

686
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 3: to like and like when I'm holding her if she

687
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 3: starts freaking her out, freaking out, you kind of calm

688
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 3: me down a lot. So I think that my love

689
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 3: for you can never be stronger. But it's the the deeper.

690
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 3: It's because we have this beautiful little girl and and

691
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:40,719
Speaker 3: you gave her to us.

692
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 1: She's so perfect. But can I tell you today I

693
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: went to the bank.

694
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 2: Hold on, You're a pivot y, that's my pivot. Wow.

695
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 2: I loved you.

696
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: I needed that boost. I needed the boost. Just just

697
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,239
Speaker 1: be patient with me. I'm gonna remember you exist at

698
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 1: some point.

699
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what, Let me go back to uh,

700
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 2: let me answer that question.

701
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: I love all. I love you so much as well.

702
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 1: You are everything.

703
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 2: You know that I'm not sure right now, you do know,

704
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 2: let's take.

705
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: I love you very much, and you know that I've

706
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: texted you very kind of things letting you know how

707
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: much I love you and how grateful I am for

708
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: the life that you have provided us with that's full

709
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: of love. And now you've given me Ocean, so you're

710
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: like perfect in my book. Okay, this is what I

711
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: was going to say, because you were talking about how

712
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: I've changed, so I want to say, Oh, I walked

713
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: into today and I had topped Ocean off on the

714
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: boobs before we went to the bank, and I was

715
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: dressed right, so I just like pulled my little cami

716
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: down with the breastfeeding broth underneath, clipped it back up,

717
00:33:55,240 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: and I forgot to pull my came back over in

718
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: a nursing bra. So I just walked into the bank

719
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 1: with the bra out, cammy just around the belly, and

720
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:13,720
Speaker 1: a blazer on. Okay, with my Chanelle bag, my Gucci uh,

721
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: my Gucci diaper bag, and my cute new kid which

722
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 1: I cover like you should see. Everyone's like, what is

723
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: in there exactly? I'm like a newborn baby. They're like, well,

724
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 1: we would assume because it's in a car seat, but

725
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: the way it's covered, you would think that there's something

726
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 1: very I'm like, yeah, ocean fucking ken Emmett is in there,

727
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: so it's something very special anyway. So yeah, that's how.

728
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: That's how this story is.

729
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 3: And I've noticed it because I know you get frustrated

730
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,479
Speaker 3: a lot lately. Is that your forgetfulness and like.

731
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 2: With with meetings and dates colendis. But you know what

732
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 2: I said to you.

733
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 3: The doctor told us and other mothers have told you

734
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 3: that pregnancy really fucks with the mind, you know, with

735
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 3: remembering things. And I told you to be patient and

736
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 3: kind to yourself and not get frustrated because you get

737
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 3: frustrated very easily with that. And you just gave birth

738
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 3: like twenty one days ago, and we are back.

739
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:23,479
Speaker 1: We're just talking about all things babies. Because I have

740
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: no other identity in one track mind. I don't consist

741
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:34,720
Speaker 1: of anything cool anymore. So that is what I was saying.

742
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,439
Speaker 1: I look at my emails right today, and usually I'm

743
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,760
Speaker 1: very good. Like you tell me a date, it's stuck

744
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: with me. I'm not forgetting it. I like rarely have

745
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 1: to write anything down, even though I have a book

746
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: for it. Anyway, So I have a book coming out

747
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 1: called Give Them Lala obviously on May fourth. You can

748
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: pre order now, though you.

749
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: Change the title give them Lawa with Randall.

750
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: No, I didn't, just yeah.

751
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 2: Just me, I thought. I thought with Randall bleeds over time.

752
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: So we're starting the little press tour right next week,

753
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: and they're giving me dates and all of this stuff,

754
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 1: and they were adding something to the virtual press tour,

755
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: and they gave me two dates, the fifteenth or the sixteenth,

756
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: and I look at my response and I go, let's

757
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 1: actually do the thirteenth, because because Ocean has this doctor's

758
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: appointment on the fourteenth. They're like, oh, cool about the

759
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: doctor's appointment. But that was no date number one. It

760
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: wasn't an option. And then I just like, involuntarily give

761
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: you the fact that my kid has a doctor's appointment

762
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: on the fourteenth, because in my mind, those were the

763
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: dates they gave me. I cried in the office today

764
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 1: because I was like, how can I be so clueless

765
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: right now? Like is this going to be a forever thing?

766
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 1: Because I'm so ocd that shit, and I like to

767
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: have control and I don't have any right now, so

768
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 1: I'm kind of tweaking out.

769
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you'll you'll get that back. So because

770
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 2: she's got baby brain right now, Yeah.

771
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: No one's gonna want to work with me. They're gonna

772
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: be like, this bitch is crazy. Do you know how

773
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: any doctor's appointments When I was pregnant with Ocean I

774
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 1: went to on the wrong like three or three or four.

775
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: I would walk in and finally they'd be like, we'll

776
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: just fit you in. Can you come at lunch? No,

777
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: it's so I feel for moms. I totally get it.

778
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 2: You are one now.

779
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: No, okay, I know weird feel for your kind now, yeah,

780
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: those are my people. Those are my my folks. What

781
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 1: are you gonna say, rand, Do you think we're still

782
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: good at podcasting?

783
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 2: I don't know.

784
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: You don't know, No, I don't know.

785
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 3: I never even thought anybody would listen in the first place.

786
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,280
Speaker 3: So they told us we're getting like one hundred thousand listens.

787
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 2: A week plus. I was like, Wow, they must really.

788
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 3: Like you, because I have I have like I have

789
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 3: a good amount of fans, like I've had like I

790
00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 3: think thirty to forty people.

791
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 2: Tell me they are a fan of mine. So that's good.

792
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's a lot.

793
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. Now I have a question though important. Let's play

794
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 2: a little baby game.

795
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:06,720
Speaker 1: Okay.

796
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 3: The baby game is going to be I give you

797
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,919
Speaker 3: three questions, okay, and you just answer them and it's

798
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 3: more of like just more of an experienced baby game,

799
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 3: not really like a trivia game.

800
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 1: Okay, I like that.

801
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:24,240
Speaker 3: For the first episode, Best moment you've had with Ocean

802
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 3: at home, for the time you got home out of

803
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,439
Speaker 3: the hospital, best moment you can remind I know they're

804
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 3: all great. Just pick one that really stands out, that

805
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 3: was really magical for you.

806
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: Okay, this one is okay, this actually was just the

807
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 1: other night. My mom came into town. Randa was at

808
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 1: a pick a ball tournament down in Newport Beach, and

809
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 1: Ocean I put her her. It's called the docatat, which

810
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: is every new mom should have one. It's like a

811
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: little area to put your baby and shape like a

812
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: little boat kind of. But I put her in there. Okay.

813
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: My mom's on the other side of her, and we're

814
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: in the bed and she is chilling. Ocean is okay,

815
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: properly fed, no tummy issues, and we're just watching Real

816
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: Housewives of New York on hulu og episodes, and she

817
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 1: was digging it. And I was like, this is the

818
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 1: most awesome moment. My baby is down for Bravo when

819
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,959
Speaker 1: I thought, and her eyes were open.

820
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 2: Roll the whole tape up.

821
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 3: I understand what the fuck's happening because I checked out

822
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 3: for a minute.

823
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 2: So I asked you for an emotional moment that you

824
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 2: remember forever.

825
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: Did he say emotional? I thought, he said, my favorite.

826
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 3: Moment, My favorite moment, Your favorite moment you remember is

827
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 3: the baby watching the Housewives?

828
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 2: It was it was just no, she was watching it.

829
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: She definitely wasn't watching it. She was just staring at me.

830
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 2: You mean, just that she was chilling with you.

831
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 1: It was just like so cute to have me her

832
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: in the middle, my mom on the other.

833
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 2: Side, the girl's moment, and your dog with you. I

834
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 2: get it. I miss because I thought, oh shit, she like,

835
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 2: what does she think of oc in New York?

836
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 1: No?

837
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 2: Sorry, what does she think of Housewives of New York?

838
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 2: But I get it.

839
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: No, But she had her bank in. She was happy.

840
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 3: You were just having your perfect family moment, like your

841
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 3: mom daughter.

842
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,360
Speaker 1: Because Ocean and I do a lot of skin to

843
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: skin like that's an every night and every morning thing.

844
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: You know, those are my favorite quote unquote moments.

845
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 2: But this is like a fine, great moment.

846
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,720
Speaker 1: No where. Like I took a video not even to post,

847
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: which is a big deal in this day and age.

848
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: If you're taking a video just for your memory and

849
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:36,919
Speaker 1: not to show it to other people, big deal.

850
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 2: I do that a lot. Oh God, I do.

851
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: Please cue all the eye rolls in the world.

852
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 2: Oh my fucking whatever. I can't believe you're saying that.

853
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:48,919
Speaker 1: Don't bullshit the book.

854
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 3: I took videos this weekend of London and Riley for

855
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,720
Speaker 3: my own collection. I took videos of you and Ocean

856
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 3: for my own collection that I didn't post.

857
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm not so much what the fun.

858
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 1: I don't even know why you're trying. Like, I'm here,

859
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: You've got me, okay, you know, you got me knocked up,

860
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: like I can't go anywhere.

861
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 2: Okay, that's really not the reason, but okay.

862
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep it still fun on the podcast.

863
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: We can't just talk about like amazing moments of being

864
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: a new Moment's episode back.

865
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 2: People want to know about it.

866
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 3: I think this episode, I think the second episode, we're

867
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 3: gonna move on to other things and guests again, but I.

868
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: Want to be cheesy and tell you I want to

869
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 1: be with you forever because I think you're the best

870
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 1: man I know.

871
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 3: Baby, Listen, First of all, I love you, and honestly,

872
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 3: we are fun and we are cool as fuck, I think,

873
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 3: at least in my own mind, and we have fun together.

874
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 2: And honestly, I like.

875
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 3: Doing this podcast with you because it's something that we

876
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 3: do together and sometimes it's emotional and heavy, and sometimes

877
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 3: it's light and fun, and I hope more so it's

878
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 3: light and fun for people because we like to laugh

879
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 3: at ourselves a lot. But this was your moment. I

880
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 3: just wanted your Obviously, this podcast is most of your fans,

881
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 3: and I want them. I want to really wanted you

882
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 3: this episode, and I think you did a great job

883
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 3: of letting people know what what it was like for you,

884
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 3: because you didn't get a chance to show that to

885
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 3: anybody because it was your own personal thing and you

886
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 3: were very adam adamant about going through that. So I

887
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 3: just I think it was important this podcast for you

888
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:24,240
Speaker 3: to share that journey, which I think you shared really

889
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 3: really well and was very moving, because it is a

890
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 3: beautiful thing to be part of and I just want

891
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 3: to say, so my first question and i'm myself that's right.

892
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: We're playing a trivia game or not a trivia game.

893
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 3: The trivia game, but not a trivia So the game

894
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 3: is called a trivia game, not a trivia game.

895
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 2: So remember that too.

896
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: I like it.

897
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 2: Okay. So the second question that trivia not a trivia.

898
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 3: Game, is the one thing in the last three weeks

899
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 3: since Ocean has been here that you didn't weren't prepared for.

900
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 3: Was there anything you weren't prepared for that maybe you

901
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,840
Speaker 3: thought or was completely different, or anything that's just something

902
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 3: that they didn't tell you about. You know that you

903
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 3: only could experience as being a first time mom. Anything

904
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 3: that stands out.

905
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 1: I think it would be like the gosh, there's so

906
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: many things that people tell you to prepare for it,

907
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: and you're like, I'll be fine, Like when they tell

908
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 1: you your baby's gonna scream at the top of her lungs. Yeah,

909
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: and it could be any of these reasons, and you're like, oh,

910
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 1: we're bonded, I'm sure I'll figure it out. And it's like, Okay,

911
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: I've literally changed all the diapers that you seventy six

912
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: times on both tits, you know, like tried all the bankies.

913
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: What the fuck is happening to you?

914
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: I tell you, mothers, it's not easy. It's you guys

915
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 2: are our heroes.

916
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: I think that's what it would be, is just like

917
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: all of those the crying, which is like okay, normal,

918
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 1: but when you don't know why your baby's screaming, you know,

919
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: and then it's like, oh, it could just be like

920
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: tummy issues and you're like, well, how do I get

921
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: that to go away?

922
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 2: Can't you know? That's amazing? That's a good answer, Okay.

923
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 3: And the last question of the trivia not trivia game

924
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 3: is what is the one thing you want Ocean to

925
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 3: know about her mother? When she was in your stomach?

926
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 3: What's the one thing you want her to rim for you.

927
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 2: To be able to tell her.

928
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: I wish that it could be like some profound thing

929
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: that I could tell her that I was thinking or

930
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: telling her, But it would just be like how much

931
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: I love her. He took a video the other day,

932
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: and I was thinking about when she's older, and I

933
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: get it where if she's acting a certain way, it's

934
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 1: going to be like I love you so much? How

935
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: could you be mean right now? Like you don't get

936
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 1: how much I love you. And I know that's going

937
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: to happen, you know, when she gets into the And

938
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: I don't even want to think about it, but I

939
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 1: do think about it because I love inflicting emotional pain

940
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: onto myself. I don't know why, but that's what it

941
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 1: would be, is like, you don't understand how much I

942
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: love you. The second I found out, it was like,

943
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: you're my baby, but you.

944
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 2: Know how lucky. You know how lucky you are. Though.

945
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 3: I was thinking about the other day, and people don't

946
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 3: know this about law, but I suggested because when the

947
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 3: minute you got pregnant, you were so in love just

948
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 3: being pregnant. And I said, I love watching this connection

949
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 3: you had and how beautiful it was. And I made

950
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 3: a suggestion to you and you really owned it. And wow,

951
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 3: is Ocean going to be lucky when she's old enough

952
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,439
Speaker 3: to read tell tell people what you did.

953
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: I kept a journal that was basically, you know, not

954
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 1: really a journal for myself of what I went through,

955
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: but like basically letters to Ocean in a book that

956
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: when she is when I feel like it's that time,

957
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,799
Speaker 1: she can read back on when I was pregnant with her,

958
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 1: I tell her about my day, so she can literally

959
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:05,240
Speaker 1: look at what week I was at in my pregnancy

960
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,240
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, that's what my mom did today.

961
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 2: So I told her, I said, Babe, I think because

962
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 2: she was that.

963
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: Was the best thing you could have told me to

964
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: do too.

965
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was so emotional and she had so much

966
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 3: to say. Lawa had so much to share, and she

967
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 3: was like filled with emotion, like I think all expecting

968
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 3: mothers are.

969
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,439
Speaker 2: But I said to her, I said, you know.

970
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 3: You're such a great writer and you love sharing your

971
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,280
Speaker 3: thoughts in writing. Why don't you just put a book

972
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 3: next to your bed and write down whatever you feel

973
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 3: like writing.

974
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:36,959
Speaker 2: It doesn't be every day, it could be whenever you feel.

975
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and now that book is filled with I haven't

976
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 3: even read it because she hasn't even shown me. And

977
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 3: I'm so excited for her one day to give that

978
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 3: to Ocean because it's probably going to mean the world

979
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 3: to her.

980
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 2: So that's really cool.

981
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,919
Speaker 1: I'm super excited about it. Yeah, it's really She's gonna

982
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: have to be a little older though, because I like

983
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: talk to her about like what great AA meetings I

984
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: had attended for the week.

985
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 3: All Right, she might have to wait till but anyway,

986
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 3: she eventually she'll have this book and she'll be able

987
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 3: to say, my mom wrote this why I was in

988
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 3: her stomach, and I think it's really beautiful. So I'm

989
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 3: really proud that you did that because I know you

990
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 3: had a lot of shitty days, like all pregnant mothers

991
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 3: Avenue had a lot of beautiful days. And the fact

992
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 3: that you were consistent for all that time to write

993
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 3: the stories.

994
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: When you hear about women that have been trying to

995
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: get pregnant for a really long time, though, it's almost like,

996
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 1: how can I really complain about now? You know, it's like, yes,

997
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: it's a real thing, and I don't want to be

998
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: that type of person that's like my mom is this

999
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: way where I'm like, like, I'll be complaining and my

1000
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 1: mom will say something like will just be thankful because

1001
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: at least this is not going on for you or

1002
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:48,919
Speaker 1: like whatever. You know. But when you hear women who

1003
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: have been trying for five years and beyond even I

1004
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 1: mean even you go a year and you're like, what's

1005
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: wrong with my body? Where you think that you just

1006
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: can get pregnant really quickly because that's what your body's

1007
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 1: meant to do. And it's it's actually not that easy.

1008
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 3: And I know that we talked about that with women

1009
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 3: who struggle to get pregnant or you know, all the

1010
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 3: things that a woman goes through and and you know,

1011
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 3: it's my heart goes out and I'm tim, I'm sure

1012
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 3: you agree that a woman, you know, trying to have

1013
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 3: a baby or having a baby, that is a miracle

1014
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:26,879
Speaker 3: of life, all of it.

1015
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 2: And you know, I don't I couldn't even imagine.

1016
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 1: Well, you also don't realize all the things that can

1017
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 1: go wrong, Like when I was had, when we were

1018
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 1: having issues with her weight and he's like her her

1019
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: leg bone, I'm like, I didn't even think about what

1020
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 1: her leg bones would be doing, you know.

1021
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 3: But I mean we had we had I mean you

1022
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 3: didn't really share with everybody because you know, it was

1023
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 3: obviously private and you share a little bit, but you know,

1024
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 3: you and I definitely there was a solid I would

1025
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:01,320
Speaker 3: say three or three months, maybe four or where we

1026
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 3: were going to a lot of doctors, a lot of testing,

1027
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 3: or we were really didn't know. And I think in

1028
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 3: the end they gave us a lot of confidence to

1029
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:12,360
Speaker 3: say that we were okay, that we are going to

1030
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 3: be okay.

1031
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 2: They believe.

1032
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 3: But again, you know, if you start out the way

1033
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 3: we started out, I don't think we ever felt we

1034
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 3: were okay, and we just pray to God that God

1035
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 3: would take care of our baby and give us a

1036
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 3: healthy child, and that's all we can ask for it.

1037
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: But it was, you know, it was.

1038
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 3: I think everybody has their own experience with trying to

1039
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 3: get pregnant and being pregnant, and everybody's.

1040
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 2: Journey is different.

1041
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: I know. I love like seeing comments on my Instagram

1042
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: now because it used to be like a lot of

1043
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 1: just like stupid things that like really, who gives a damn?

1044
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 1: Now I have moms like it's become a full oh yeah,

1045
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: My Instagram is full mom mode and I love it.

1046
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is so positive. Best time on Instagram.

1047
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 2: Now, that's awesome. Look at the pluses, a bunch of.

1048
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: Fucking turbo mom's killing it right, you know. And now

1049
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: I'll see women at like the grove and they're like

1050
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: changing their babies on their laps, you know, like these

1051
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: one year old and the one year old's freaking the

1052
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: fuck out and the mom is just champion with freaking

1053
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: Kylie Jenner nails. I'm like, oh you are Badassah.

1054
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 2: People really know, people really know.

1055
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 3: That we have had a baby. Specifically, you have had

1056
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 3: a baby. I did not have the baby you did.

1057
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 3: But I was even even at the even at the

1058
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 3: pickleball tournament the other day, I was walking off the

1059
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 3: court to another court and two women came right up

1060
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:43,840
Speaker 3: to me and they said congratulations.

1061
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 2: I was like, meeting on my wind that I.

1062
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 3: Just had two soons ago, and they said, no, congratulations

1063
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 3: on your new baby.

1064
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, that's so sweet.

1065
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 3: And I mean, so now in the pickleball world, they're

1066
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 3: coming up congratulating me for our babies.

1067
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 2: So I think it's it's great and it was very sweet.

1068
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: So anyway, that is sweet.

1069
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 3: I told you I have like eight to twelve fans,

1070
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 3: and two of them are in picklep all the.

1071
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 1: Other that's all you need. It's the quality, not quantity.

1072
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 2: I agree. I'm good with you. Anyway, this has been

1073
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:15,279
Speaker 2: a lot of fun.

1074
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 3: I have to tell you, baby that I am really

1075
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 3: happy that we're doing this again because it's fun for

1076
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 3: us to do it together. And I hope that people

1077
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 3: come back and listen. We are We signed a multi

1078
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 3: year contract, so.

1079
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 2: We will be around now.

1080
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 3: For a while, and we're obviously never miss a week,

1081
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 3: and we have a lot of great guests that we

1082
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 3: have backlog lined up for our show over the next

1083
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:45,879
Speaker 3: couple of months. Yes, and we're excited to share them

1084
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,839
Speaker 3: with you and and just let you get to know

1085
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:50,720
Speaker 3: us the new version.

1086
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: Yeahl La two point zero. I was going to say that,

1087
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 1: I hope I'm still cool.

1088
00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 2: You are the coolest, baddest my horn. I need it

1089
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 2: so bad, baby, you are unicorn.

1090
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: When you walk into Chase Bank with not even a

1091
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: push a braun, but with your fucking nursing braun, it

1092
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 1: really hits your ego pretty hard. You're like, wow, that

1093
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 1: really did humble my eyes.

1094
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 3: Well, I gotta say I'm excited to be back, and

1095
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 3: I'm really proud of you, and I love you, and

1096
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 3: I love Ocean and you are an incredible woman.

1097
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 2: And that's all I can say.

1098
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 1: I love you too, and Producer Tim, are you excited

1099
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 1: to be back?

1100
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:32,800
Speaker 2: I am stoked?

1101
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: Sweet, I love it all right, y'all. We love you

1102
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,840
Speaker 1: so much. Thank you for being patient with our comeback.

1103
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: But we back now, so we'll catch you next week.