WEBVTT - First Birthday! 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:05.040 Baby show. I don't have a rundown, so I had nothing. Okay, 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:08.400 thank you, well it wasn't on my side. People. Let's go. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:13.960 Wind down with Jana Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:17.240 One year and she's just Steve over here happy one 0:00:17.480 --> 0:00:23.520 year Julee. Yes, I can't believe it's been a year 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:24.720 of doing this show. 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:27.560 I know, it actually seems like it went really fast. 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:29.960 It seems like one by really fast. But then also 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:33.360 I'm like, are we still doing it? Like you guys 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:34.240 still want us? 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:34.720 Uh? 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:38.240 Yes, please be sure sure do. That's where I'm like, 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:39.600 my like, love me. 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:42.400 If I open an US magazine, we'll see why we 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:47.920 sure sure do. For Jenna and Michael, I mean get 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:49.960 no matter what they say now. 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:52.760 Well, I'm honestly afraid to sometimes say things now because 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.240 I'm like, well I don't want this to get picked up. 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:58.120 You e and thank you people, and thank you US 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:01.680 magazine for now listening. The last one when they talked 0:01:01.680 --> 0:01:02.640 about Olivia col. 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:07.160 I died, I was like, oh my gosh, Michael, now 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:08.040 you're making the headline. 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:12.640 What I have to say about that? 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.320 Why apparently US and do care? 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:18.080 No one cares, No one else cares. 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:20.759 Well for it. I mean, people liked it, but no, 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:23.960 I just it's been a year. And thank you Amy, 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:26.800 thank you Mark, thank you Easton for for for dealing 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:27.560 with us for a year. 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:28.760 It's been our pleasure. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:32.520 And thanks for Mike for for jumping on board with us. 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:34.520 I think that's why it definitely doesn't feel like a year, 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:38.360 because you know, I came on what September. Yeah, so 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:40.440 it's like, you know, we've been doing this since September, 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:42.000 but you were doing it for several months before. 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:43.880 Now I've known you for so much longer. So yeah, 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:45.720 like I'm all mixed up in my time. 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:47.280 But I love it. This is our one year and 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:48.800 I just want to say thank you to everyone that 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:51.920 listens to the show, because we could not keep going 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:53.640 if we didn't have the downloads. 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:58.000 So and the emails they make me cry and laugh 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:00.520 and because I get them first and then I send 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:03.120 them to you guys, and it's like these people are 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:06.160 the coolest and they're so open and willing to share, 0:02:06.280 --> 0:02:09.080 and it just even if you don't get a response, 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:10.640 we read them all and it means so much. I 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:11.880 try to respond to everybody. 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:14.080 Yeah, our wind Down listeners are the best, so do 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:16.440 you want to thank you guys? What's the big announcement? 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:18.200 We have a big announcement. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:19.000 Do you know that? 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:20.440 Do I need to make the big announcement? 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:22.000 Should Mark do the big announcement? 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:33.960 And everyone's like, okay, exciting, exciting, Well, wind Down with 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:37.320 Jana Kramer is getting a name change. 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:45.520 It is it's called basectomies with It's called sex talk 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:49.600 with Jana Huke. No, that's it. It's going to be 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:59.000 wind Down with Jana Kramer and my Cussinday. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:03:00.280 A very big debate because I call you Michael and Mike, 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:03.000 like it just sort of switches off depending on kind 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:06.160 of like I don't know what what do you like? 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:07.720 He should be God? 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:16.240 Actually I actually go by John my middle name. What No. 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:20.359 I think it's because you know, you are affiliate affiliated 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:22.760 with Jenna and she always calls me Michael, right, So 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:26.000 that's how like you know me is specifically through Jena initially, 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:27.760 and she calls me Michael. No one else really calls 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:31.480 me Michael. I respond to whatever, what should we put 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:32.000 on the logo? 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:35.360 Because because we're changing the name. 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:40.040 Thing now, we have a dilemma, what do you want 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:40.280 to what do. 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:42.200 You want I don't know what I think, my think, 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:43.160 just it's your formal. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:45.240 Oh no, I say gonna say. 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:50.360 Just Mike, the Mike cousin. It is hard to say 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:51.560 it should. 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:57.720 Be Michael, Okay, this is PTSD the visectomy, because nothing 0:03:57.800 --> 0:03:59.840 was more uncomfortable than the fact that you'd have the 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:02.400 seck to me, and Jana was like, I'm not sure 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:04.120 we should have done it, and I'm. 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.160 Like, right, classic Janne. 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:08.760 I was in the room looking at Mark like this 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:11.320 is happening right now because he had it. 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:14.480 That's my wife. That is my wife. Everything she second 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:18.280 guests were every trip, every plane trip that we have, 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:20.960 we'll be sitting there waiting to get on the plane. 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:25.120 Jane's like, should we have done a different flight? Should 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.040 we have left like earlier? Should we have left later? 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:30.480 She can't. It's physically impossible for her not to make 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:32.000 her comment about should we have taken this? 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:34.760 Like it went wrong with your flight home from Scotland. 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:37.040 I'm not gonna lie. Look, something looked bad when I 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:37.880 saw Janna on. 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:39.960 The floor of the airport. But I was on the floor. 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:41.679 I thought you were just sitting on the floor waiting. 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:44.039 Oh yeah, I was. We were waiting and then the 0:04:44.200 --> 0:04:45.839 entire time. I was like, we shouldn't have taken this flight, 0:04:45.880 --> 0:04:47.960 and I'm looking at other flights. He's like, you physically 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.920 cannot get like stay on the same flight. 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:53.280 She's like, should we just flown down straight out of 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:55.800 LA Because we didn't, because we went some Seattle then 0:04:55.800 --> 0:04:56.120 went over. 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:57.560 We tried to save some money. 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:02.480 It was significantly cheaper. But then Jana is like, so 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:03.520 it's just I don't know, it's a pain. 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:05.839 It's hard, but I have a hard time sticking to 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:10.080 my TRAPA plants or Mike. What do you wanted to be? Ben? 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:16.479 I think Mark? I thought Mark. Bret brought up a 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:19.800 great point. Michael just flows better. And actually, when I 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:22.480 talk to people on the phone and asked me my name, 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:25.440 I say Michael Cosson. Because I've said Mike cost him 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:28.080 too much. People call me Mark, people call me Matt. 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:30.239 It's just because that back. 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:32.440 To back people call you Matt from Mike. 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:37.400 Don't ask me. I those people, it's their fault. 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.960 It's like the lady that yesterday the airport called me Juna. 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:41.640 I go, where in your right brain. 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:44.159 Does Jana wanted? This is the lady that takes our 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:46.520 ticket before we walk down the tarmac. Janda wanted to stop, 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:47.960 turn around and go ask her. 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:52.360 I'm like, just keep walking, you like it, says Jana, 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:57.080 So like, uh is a Juna. I didn't get that one. 0:05:57.240 --> 0:05:58.280 I'll get I'll get Jana. 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:02.240 I'm with all the other back congratulations. 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:06.040 All right, So it's now officially wind down with Jana, 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:11.640 Kramer and Michael. I'd really stuck if we lost like 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:12.440 a lot of listeners. 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:15.479 So now if you two can just get into a 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:18.120 big fight and maybe jam fries, we're. 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:21.159 Off to a good start off to right. So you know, 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:23.880 I just feel like we you know, Mike's been on 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:27.120 since September obviously, because you know, Miss Jen is so 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:30.640 busy with Ryan and everything else, and you know, with 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:32.840 Michael and what we have and what we're doing and 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:35.640 wanting to do and helping people. And I'm like, it 0:06:35.640 --> 0:06:38.000 shouldn't just be my name on there. So I do 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:38.400 love my. 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:43.440 Saying Diva Hatted saying I want my name on there too. 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:44.520 I actually. 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:47.719 He did not do that. I don't think. 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.000 I just I just care about him and I want him, 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:52.320 you know, to he he deserves to have his name 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:52.839 up there too. 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:57.200 Yeah, Well, we're very grateful to you guys for being 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:01.960 so open with no filter, and please continue welcome. 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:05.239 We'll try, although I do get really scared. 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:06.760 Though we don't have to try, we just have to 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:08.160 try not to well. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:10.600 Honestly, the funny thing is when you were talking about Olivia, 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:12.960 in my brain I was like, Okay, I know that 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:15.080 one of the writers from E listens to the show 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:18.120 because he's so sweet. And I was just like, I 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:20.280 have to be careful because if I say I don't 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:23.160 like her, that's going to be the like the headline 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.160 you said, but I don't not like her, though I'm 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:28.800 not saying I I'm just I have to be careful 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:33.040 with that, right politically correct her. I mean, you basically 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.920 called their a social climber, but that's fine. That was 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:39.720 your opinion. So anyways, let's get to what you know. 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:42.640 Like Michael says he wants to talk about the important stuff. 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:45.120 That was what you said. You were like, I don't 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.240 want to just talk about this celebrity. You wanted to 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:50.560 and this is you know again, since this is the 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:55.280 start of our show together, right, you really wanted to 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:59.240 talk to this guy today and so Amy, our amazing producer, 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:01.440 made it happen. Do you want to kind of give 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:03.080 a backstory before we get them on the phone. 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:06.200 Yeah, And to Jana's point, it's it's, you know, we 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:09.160 want to talk about everything, but we realize what the 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:11.440 listeners want to hear and what they want us to 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:14.880 talk about. And so the guests that we're going to 0:08:14.920 --> 0:08:22.000 have on the show today very important for me specifically 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:26.280 just because the names are Jason and Shelley Martinez. Jason 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:29.480 is an author. He wrote this book titled Worthy of 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:29.960 Her Trust. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:31.360 Didn't Shelley write with him? 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:34.720 She did. Like Shelley's thoughts like throughout the book, she 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.120 like kind of put her thoughts, her true sense, her feelings, 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:42.000 and you know, wrote them down within the chapters. And 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:46.520 this was probably one of the first books in recent 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:50.120 memory that I've read like covered a cover multiple times. 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:53.240 And this book was given to me when I was 0:08:53.360 --> 0:09:00.360 in rehab for sex addiction and really kind of sheeped 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:06.120 my whole mindset around recovery, around forgiveness, around trust, around 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:09.560 everything like this. This book impacted me the most out 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.480 of any book that I read when I was in treatment, 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:14.360 out of any workbook, out of any big book, out 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:16.640 of anything, this was the book that I always referred 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:20.400 back to. So personally, I'm very very excited and feel 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:22.199 very privileged to be able to talk to this guy 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:24.719 and his wife and express that to them and ask 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:25.880 them some questions. 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:28.400 Yeah, I'm excited too, just from like this the wife's 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:31.679 standpoint with all of us too, and because there's been 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:34.000 so many people that email us and ask us how 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:35.720 we do it, and it's nice to see someone that's 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:38.840 you know, we've been doing it for what four years now, yeah, 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:42.079 well three years in recovery, but you know, sixteen years 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:45.120 they've been married. So I'm I'm just super excited to 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:47.679 kind of pick their brain because there's I know a 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:49.640 lot of people that have questions as well on how 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:50.400 to get through things. 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:52.160 Yeah, and some of the things that he talks about 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:54.880 this book that will ask them our art, you know, 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:59.680 are topics that, whether addiction or not, any relationship that 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:01.800 deals with any kind of infidelity you can definitely benefit 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:02.760 from for sure. 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:04.320 So are they in the phoner. 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:05.160 Eyah, they are. 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:06.520 Well, let's take a quick break and then we'll talk 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:06.760 to them. 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:10.920 Okay, sounds good. All right, guys, it's a last week 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:13.760 to get your tickets. 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But 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:36.920 we we live our lives for our kids, and I 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:39.760 sometimes think that we forget to kind of nourish our relationship. 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:47.200 And that was such a connecting trip without trying, without yeah, 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:48.000 without forcing it. 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:49.800 Without forcing it, without being like we have to do 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:52.240 this and we have to do that. And yeah, like 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:54.760 we just we didn't even end up having sex. 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:59.400 We didn't. You tried, Yeah, you tried. He came in 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.040 the room like because the time change was like really 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:03.440 throwing me off to you. I was super tired, but 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:06.400 you came in around like ten thirty. No, yeah, around 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:07.960 like ten thirty eleven and you're a try and I 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:12.280 was like, back off, Bola, Yeah, you're happening a pretty 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:14.280 But it didn't like we didn't need to wasn't even 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.520 about that. We went for the most oh by the 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:18.720 way mark, we went for a walk in the woods, 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:23.560 in the forest and Michael fell in a waterfall. Oh 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:27.480 it was all for the picture and I was not falling. No, no, 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:30.240 he wanted to go down in the middle of the waterfall. 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:31.760 Like step on this rock forgine to take a picture 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:32.320 from this bridge. 0:14:32.320 --> 0:14:35.440 Still get seriously injured doing this stuff for the selfies, I. 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:38.600 Know, yeah there, And all of a sudden he slips 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:40.000 on moss. 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:41.480 Which I knew. I was like, okay, this is wet moss, 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:43.880 It's going to be slippery. And I still slipped and 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:45.240 fell luckily car so he. 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:49.240 Gets like halfway. I'm screaming like Mia, Michael, oh no, 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.280 And I mean I thought for sure he was going 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:55.120 all the way down. But it was the most. It 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:58.160 was the most beautiful walk back to the castle. It 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.960 was just it was like out of Dress Park, how 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:04.040 beautiful and green and just I mean, Lord of the. 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:06.960 Rings meets Jurassic Park meets like a fairy tale. 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:11.440 It was incredible. It was honestly the best and I 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:13.040 I want to go back there for our ten years 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:15.280 because you can rent out the castle. It's called the 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:18.680 Dunsk Estate and you can rent out the castle and 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.160 there's activities. It's a castle. 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:22.200 It's in the state. 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:23.280 You don't think it's a castle. 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:24.360 It's in a state. 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:27.520 Oh, I think it's a castle. They say it's a castle. 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:28.560 They say a state. 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:31.440 I don't want to show mark a picture. It's a castle. 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:34.760 I'm not sure what what determines that it looks like. 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.240 And analystairs called it. I mean they never claimed it 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:40.440 to be a castle. It's in the state. It's a 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:41.000 family state. 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:42.280 I mean it looks like a castle. 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:43.880 It's gorgeous. 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:47.240 Yeah, you don't think it looks like a castle? Really? 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:49.560 No? This is what is it called? 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:52.440 Look it up Dunske Estate. It looks like a castle. 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:56.880 U n s k e y what's key? It's key? 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.800 Are you still in Scotland, wifey struggle city? 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:04.120 Okay, I think I think I think you agree with. 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:08.320 Here's what it says. Dunsky Estate is an Edwardian castle 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:13.080 well self catering accommodations, holiday cottages, blah blah blah, interesting 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:14.760 Dunsky estate private castle. 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:16.640 Yeah, it looks like a castle. It is a castle. 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:17.560 That's really awesome. 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:21.200 It was literally the most amazing. I will never forget 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:21.640 that wedding. 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:23.800 How long were you there for? 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:24.560 Three days? 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:27.560 Thursday? Really? I mean we were there Thursday, but that. 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:29.560 Was just that was We were delirious the entire time. 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:32.280 Michael's like driving two hours from the Glasgow airport and 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:33.720 he's like, I'm. 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:35.240 In a struggle city. Yeah, it was. 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:36.360 It was brutal Friday. 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:39.440 So really Friday Saturday was like two full awake. 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:40.640 And no sex the whole time. 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:44.920 Huh No, we just Janna went to bed earlier than 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:48.320 really everybody every night, and I just I wasn't I 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:49.760 didn't want to go to bed. I just wanted to. 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:51.960 Like one night she went to bed and everyone else 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:53.600 was doing like a whiskey tasting. I sat in this 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.720 it's like their bar room in the castle. You kind 0:16:56.720 --> 0:16:59.000 of see it. It kind of felt like a uh 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:03.720 like an old timey like country club locker room type 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:06.040 of field, just you know, big beautiful chairs and couches 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:08.960 and a big, you know, wood burning fireplace with a 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:11.800 bar behind you and just I just sat there. I 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:14.639 just sat there by myself, so relaxing, just drinking a 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:16.680 coffee and having a drink and looking out the over 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:19.199 like out the window over the estate. It was. It 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:20.000 was unbelievable. 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:23.560 I did have one panic attack the first night we 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:26.760 were there. We hadn't slept in thirty six hours, and 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:31.080 I woke up at eleven o'clock and everyone was still up, 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:32.680 and so then I started freaking out, like, oh my gosh, 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:34.800 the closest hospital is like two hours away, and oh 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:37.000 my gosh, what if I pass out? And this and that, 0:17:37.080 --> 0:17:38.639 and then I was finally like, I looked out the 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:42.320 window and I just I got a cold compress, which 0:17:42.320 --> 0:17:44.639 always helps me with my anxiety. And then I just 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.159 laid in bed did some deep breathing, and I was like, 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:49.159 I'm in a beautiful place. I'm okay. And then I 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:50.320 went to bed and I was fine the rest of 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:50.640 the trip. 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:52.240 Thanks for not waking me up. 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:52.880 You're welcome. 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:53.760 I appreciate that. 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:56.400 Should we get them on the line, yeah them both like, okay, 0:17:56.720 --> 0:18:00.440 right now, Jason Shelley, I'm here. 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:04.600 Yeah, Hi, how are you great? 0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:05.199 How are you? 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:08.040