1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod, which Teddy Mellencamp and cam Ridge. 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 2: Edge Welcome to to Tea's in. 3 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 3: A pod in a sea. Uh, Cynthia, how's it going? 4 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 4: Amazing? 5 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 3: Where are you right now? 6 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 4: I'm in La. 7 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: I'm at my daughter Noel's house, in her office, and 8 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: I'm here for like the next week. 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 4: Actually, I was thinking about san Taylor Swift tonight. 10 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 3: To be honest, you should go. 11 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 4: I know I heard it was amazing. Your outfit was 12 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 4: so cute. 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 2: Oh thank you, but you really well, I have my 14 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 2: Taylor Swift merge on right now, but I have to 15 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 2: tell you so. I wore my Bravo Kon dress and 16 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 2: then uh, Slate was like, mom, can you please go 17 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 2: try to get me merged blah blah blah, and. 18 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 3: Thank goodness, there was one one human being who knew 19 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 3: who I. 20 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: Was in that line because it was like six hundred 21 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 2: people deep, and they were like I was like, yes, yes, 22 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: because it was insanity, so like, really plan for a 23 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: full night. 24 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: No, it's like a whole thing. Like where do you 25 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: guys get those bracelets? Those like cute like friendship bracelets 26 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: and stuff. 27 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 3: Slate made them. 28 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 2: She actually just dropped them off at Kyle's house right now, 29 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 2: because Kyle's going tonight too. 30 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. 31 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:30,559 Speaker 3: Yeah. 32 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 4: I was like, where did they get the the tailors 33 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 4: with stuff from? Because everybody I can tell if somebody went, 34 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 4: because they all have the bracelets on. 35 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 2: Now. I'm like, well, because then people want to trade you. 36 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: So it's like your favorite song. You have to pick 37 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: an air out. I mean, there's all things. 38 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 4: Okay, it's like a whole thing. 39 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 3: All right, it's a whole thing. But go have fun. 40 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 3: Where Sneakers planned to not get home till two am? 41 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 4: All right, I'm trying to figure it out. I gotta 42 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:53,279 Speaker 4: make my decision. 43 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:54,639 Speaker 3: After where are you going with Sudden? 44 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: I may go with Noel Sudden one already Sudden Sudden 45 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: already Sudden she went, Chris. 46 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 4: Someone with Sutton. I have to share, okay, I have 47 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 4: to share Sutton. Okay. 48 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: I can't go everywhere with Sutton Okay. 49 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 2: Hopefully not, because I've seen some of her Instagram comments recently. 50 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 3: Real yeap, wasn't wasn't the best? 51 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: Oh? 52 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 4: No, have okay, I gotta catch up. 53 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: I just like see the picture, like yeah, yeah, just 54 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 2: let's keep it moving from there. We got a lot 55 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 2: to dive into. Before we even get in to watch 56 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 2: What Happens Live, we got to talk a little bit 57 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 2: about Atlanta. Oh yes, hold on your entrance back into Atlanta. 58 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: They did not do you dirty. They did it right, 59 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: Like you started with a confessional, you looked hot. 60 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: You. 61 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: It really showed what Atlanta was missing, the fact that 62 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: when I saw it complete, like, what is it one 63 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 2: eighty or is. 64 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 3: It three sixty? 65 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 4: Girl, I don't know. I think it's a one eighty, right, 66 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 4: I don't know, Yeah, one eighty. 67 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 3: With Candy, she was like, it just felt like home. 68 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 4: Oh so much, thank you. I loved you. 69 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 2: Know. 70 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: At first of all, I was getting a little worried 71 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: because it was like, we're like, the season's almost over, 72 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm like, yeah, I'll be popping 73 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: up on the Latter Housewives and I had not popped up. 74 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: I was like, and they just shot the reunion. I 75 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: was like, am I even? Did they edit me completely 76 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: out of the season. 77 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 3: Kind of like I'm not a friend, I'm just a 78 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 3: on the of. 79 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 4: I mean I. 80 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: Started actually saying, instead of center, I pop up, I 81 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: just say I started actually saying I changed the narrative 82 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: to I filmed with them. I can't guarantee people see me, 83 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: but I did film, okay, so I'm actually really pleased 84 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: to teddy. I feel like, you know, it was very 85 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: nice for them for giving my flowers after eleven years 86 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: and all that get stuff up and didn't. 87 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 4: I didn't expect them to roll it out like they did. 88 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, like they'd slow motion painting it 89 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: from my feet all the way up and then you 90 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: see me. It was like, it was pretty cool. So 91 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: shout out to my housewife family and to the ladies. 92 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: The ladies were like, show me so much love. They 93 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: were so happy to see me, and you know, it's cool. 94 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: It was cool the way if youre gonna pop up, 95 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: that's how you pop. 96 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: Up, baby, No, that's that's how you do it. You 97 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 2: look hot, you have a good story to share. You 98 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: help change people's like and I appreciated how authentic you 99 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 2: were about your story, which I have to And I 100 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 2: know this is like a touchy thing. 101 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 3: It's a hard thing to discuss with something. 102 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 2: Kenya said that I didn't even factor into it at 103 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 2: all when she said in her confessional that she thought 104 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: that things were going on in your marriage way back 105 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 2: when you were on Girl's Trip. 106 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 3: Is that true or is that just that was just 107 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 3: her assumption. 108 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 4: Well, that was just her assumption. You know. 109 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, had you know, ups and downs in my marriage 110 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: throughout my marriage. 111 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 3: You know who doesn't. 112 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 4: So that's just what it is. 113 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 1: And you know, by the time we got to Girls Trip, 114 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: you know, there was a number of things going on 115 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: with me, to be honest, and and. 116 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 4: If I could blame one thing, and that I'm even blaming. 117 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 3: You're like, Kenya, just kidding. 118 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 4: Now, but I don't remember. 119 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 1: You know, I'm older, metopause, like, you know, hormonally, Like 120 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, come on now, let's. 121 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:09,239 Speaker 4: Just be nice to the older people on the trip. 122 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 4: Like I don't know, I just felt like, you know, 123 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 4: I was. It was just a lot. It was a 124 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 4: lot going on. 125 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna say it was all like you know, 126 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: different things I had going on in my personal life 127 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: at the time, because that's not that's not true. 128 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: Okay, that's that's just kind of what I like, other 129 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: things were bothering you with going on. 130 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: You know, I can't even remember, you know, it was 131 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: a lot. I don't even want to get into it, 132 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: but it was a lot. But again, it was great 133 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: to see the ladies, you know, shout out to Candy. 134 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 1: You know my scene was like the first scene with her. 135 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: I know a lot of the fans was like, you 136 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: got cut out. 137 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 4: Of the King of scene. I was like, I was 138 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 4: never supposed to be in that scene, but they. 139 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 2: I'm glad it aired the way that it did because 140 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 2: it showed what the show is missing. You need friendship, 141 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: you need people to be comfortable, and you need to 142 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 2: share real stories. I think the more they keep talking 143 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: about like these you know, who produced this, who plan this? 144 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: Is like there it didn't feel like anything was manufactured. 145 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 3: But I do have a bone to pick with you. Now, Oh, 146 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 3: if you did. 147 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 2: A little shade on Candy's YouTube with Nini and you 148 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 2: didn't do that with me, what should be well, you said, 149 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 2: I don't even know if this is an old interviewer 150 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 2: or Novice. Someone sent it to me and they were like, 151 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 2: Cynthia spilled the tea with Candy and not with you, 152 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 2: And I said what And then they sent me a 153 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 2: clip and I guess you. 154 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 3: Said Danini about Nini. 155 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 2: If you're gonna if you're like something along the lines 156 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: of like if you're going to create if you created 157 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 2: Housewives you better build a new I. 158 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 4: Said, yes, yes, yes, so Nini said. 159 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: And just to be clear, like anytime I talked to Nanie, 160 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: it's always just a response. If she says something about me, 161 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm never and I rarely respond unless I feel like 162 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 1: she said something that is just not true and person 163 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 1: that I tried to get her far from the show 164 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 1: is just not true. So that was the only reason 165 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: why I even responded, because normally I just don't because 166 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: you know, she takes a little digs and I'm like, 167 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 1: I don't have time to lie be like, doesn't any 168 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: dig I gotta go respond. 169 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 4: Hold on, let me pull my knife out of my. 170 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: Back spots, right, because you know, that's just you know, 171 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: you know, this is how she, you know, feels, and 172 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: you know she's entitled to whatever she feels, but she 173 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: can't say something that is not true. I would not 174 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: only do I not have the power to get her fire, 175 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: I wouldn't even do it if I did, and I. 176 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 4: Don't and I wouldn't. So there's that. 177 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: But back to the shade that wasn't actually shade. I 178 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: honestly feel like, you know, I'm always giving her flowers. 179 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: I'm always saying, hey, She is a huge personality. She 180 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: is definitely when you think of Real Housewives, blown, do 181 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: you think I need e leaks? And she's like, you know, 182 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: she's nanny, she's amazing. 183 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 4: She's great TV. Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah, 184 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 4: all that stuff. I say it till I'm blue in 185 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 4: the face. 186 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: Okay, So what I said was in response to that, 187 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: because of course people only showed the clip of that 188 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: one bite with you watched the interview, I gave that 189 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 1: one of. 190 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 4: Flowers and plants and trees and forests and die. Oh 191 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 4: I was watering it, making sure everything was growing. You 192 00:07:58,560 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. 193 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: So, but what I said, and this is true, if 194 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: she is no longer working with the network, she was 195 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: working with and she was able to build this house 196 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: that she definitely was very instrumental in building, just go 197 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: build another one on another network. 198 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 4: You know. 199 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: I think she and Carlos King have great energy, great 200 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: chemistry together. He's on own, he produces the shows. Like 201 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: that's just what like business wise, that's just what I 202 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: would do. 203 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 4: And it's no shade. 204 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: It's just basically like listen, go get another six cast 205 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: of girls. You cast it as your show, you have 206 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 1: your whole thing. Like she's actually, you know, been in 207 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: the game long enough to earn that, So it's no shame. 208 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 2: She can have a she can build another house, put 209 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 2: a casita in the back of the two of us, 210 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 2: and we'll figure it out. 211 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 4: Okay. 212 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 1: It's like, well, we all like once you're not on 213 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: that show, and you know you're not on a show. 214 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 4: I'm not on the show. We all have to figure 215 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 4: it out. 216 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 3: So I pray that you are on the show coming 217 00:08:57,960 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 3: in looking amazing? 218 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: On? 219 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 3: Hold on is the Harper's Bizarre cover? Is that new? 220 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? Just came out this morning. 221 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 3: I was like this. 222 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 2: I was like with one eye open, like, oh god, 223 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 2: all this watch what happens live? 224 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 3: Shit, I'm like, oh my life like looking yeah. 225 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 4: It's actually currently going viral as we speak. 226 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 2: And then I was like, excuse me, Cynthia, excuse me. 227 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. Meanwhile, I'm like I'm. 228 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: Mustly And that's what I was trying to say to 229 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: my girl. Hey, we bought we all got to keep 230 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: this together. There is life after House Housewives. You know, 231 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: the platform, We had this platform for many, many years 232 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: to do what we want to do with it. 233 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 4: So there's that. 234 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: But thank you and shut up to everyone has given 235 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 1: me love for my Harper's cover. You know, it's it's amazing, 236 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: Like I definitely wanted to get back into, you know, 237 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 1: this third chapter for me, which is my acting career. 238 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: So that whole cover and spread is dedicated to the 239 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: third act, which. 240 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 3: Is and I see also a lot more modeling. 241 00:09:59,760 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 4: Come. 242 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 3: I feel like that's going to happen too. Yeah. 243 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 2: After seeing that, I'm like, hold on, listen and then 244 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 2: the cheekbones all the things. I'm like, things are coming. 245 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: So because you know, representation is important, Toddy, Like I'm 246 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: fifty six, I feel and look better than I have 247 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: in years. Yeah, and so why can't I do like, uh, 248 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 1: you know some of the major campaigns like representing this 249 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: woman at this point in my life. I think, well, 250 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:29,079 Speaker 1: that's what it's so inspirational. That's the point that it's real, 251 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: and that's what we want to see. Nobody wants to 252 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: see the same thing over and over again from the past, 253 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: Like we want to see growth, we want to see evolution, 254 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: we want to see movement. 255 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 2: And I thought I thought it was a beautiful photo, 256 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 2: but now I have to ask one last question. Have 257 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 2: you gotten a phone call from anyone? 258 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I was hoping you were't forget to ask. 259 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that seems like me. 260 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 4: No, not yet. Hold on, since we've been on the phone, 261 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 4: I don't take it everybody minute. 262 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 3: Oh god, when he does call, are you gonna answer? 263 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 4: Like? 264 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 2: Are you gonna be like hello? Are you gonna be like? 265 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:09,080 Speaker 2: Are you gonna decline it? 266 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 4: Why? 267 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 1: At this point because it's been like a couple of weeks. 268 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: Actually I shouldn't answer. I should like get the power 269 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: back because right now he has the power, So if 270 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:20,719 Speaker 1: he does call, I should just be like, you. 271 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: Should answer the Cynthia Bailey's phone. Oh, I'm sorry, she's 272 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 3: very booked up. 273 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 4: So bad you finally called. 274 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: I'm actually really busy right now, like whatever, but you know, 275 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: who knows. 276 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 4: We'll see. I'm just having with it. But thanks for 277 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 4: checking in. They don't worry. 278 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 3: I'll check in every week. 279 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 4: Hasn't call. 280 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 3: No, That's what I do. 281 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: I like to just really talk about all the uplifting topics. 282 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 2: Well speaking of, Then we get into watch What Happens 283 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 2: Live Last Night with Andy, which you knew was gonna 284 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: be messy because you've got Heather McDonald and Jeff Lewis, 285 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 2: and Jeff is constantly like he's just he throws everything 286 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 2: out there. 287 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 4: I love him. 288 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 3: I love it, and you know he. 289 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 2: Said something you know about my bestie, and then already 290 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 2: this morning he's apologized for it on his radio show. 291 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 2: And what I can say is, clearly watching it, you 292 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 2: can tell he's joking. 293 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 4: Yes, he is, like. 294 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 2: There is it takes the There wasn't a part of 295 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 2: me that was watching it going, oh my gosh, that's 296 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 2: him being dead serious. 297 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 3: It's just Jeff. 298 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're actually we just wrapped the show together. And 299 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: I like he said that I was. 300 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,479 Speaker 4: A warder, which I would speak. 301 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: The man not like However, I would just like to 302 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 1: point out that I am a very intentional quarter. It's 303 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: not you watch the show Hoarders and I got like 304 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: dirty diapers laying around and pecks the Doritos all over 305 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,319 Speaker 1: the place, Like I'm not that kind of quarter. 306 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 3: I mean, you're not keeping your olds. 307 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 4: Now. 308 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: I am a neat, organized supporter. I just have too 309 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: much stuff, Like I have stuff broke, like my whole life. 310 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: But that just totally comes from a place of like 311 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 1: growing up poor and just always feeling like, oh I 312 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: don't need these clothes, but let me send them, let 313 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: me save them in this bag and send them to 314 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: my cousins in Alabama. But then I never have time 315 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: to do it. So it was like all this stuff. 316 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: So yes, defluence, I am Awarden. Thank you so much 317 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: for pointing that out. And actually, you know, you guys 318 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: will see, like we'll talk about that when the show 319 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: comes out. You know how he comes in does a 320 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: full intervention with no get me together. 321 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 3: Well, I can't wait to see that. 322 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 2: Things that were broken down on Orange County or started 323 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 2: out with Heather this is all and watch What Happens 324 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 2: Live stuff, But Heather thinks Shannon and John are good 325 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 2: together and they have a lot in common. 326 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 3: At this point, I'm wondering, are we all just saying 327 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 3: this because we're. 328 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 2: All pals, because I'm missing this vibe at this point. 329 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 3: I don't know. 330 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 1: I haven't seen enough to really completely call it. It 331 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: just definitely feels like Shannon very much is into him 332 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: and wants this relationship to work out. So we have 333 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: some other questions coming up all in belly more later, 334 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm still like, I'm happy for them if 335 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: they're happy, But yeah, I don't know. 336 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: Then Jeff says he knows they love each other, but 337 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 2: they both have issues they need to work on separately. 338 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 3: I think we can both agree on that. 339 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. Absolutely. 340 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 2: Then they pop up Tamra's face and Jeff plugs her 341 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 2: VENU CBD, which I'm like, way to go, Jeff, Like, 342 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 2: just like I can't sleep at night without my VNU CBD. 343 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 2: Then Jeff says that Jen is selfish because she didn't 344 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 2: show us Ryan's I love that, which I have to 345 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 2: be honest, I don't imagine there is a penis out 346 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 2: there in the world that looks hot soft like not hard. 347 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. 348 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: I mean we talked about it so much, and they 349 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 1: talked about it so much. I kind of actually would 350 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: have liked to seeing what he was working with, you 351 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. 352 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, at this point, let's see something 353 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 2: we also need to know if you've kept her talk. 354 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 4: About Ryan all the time, So Leah, let's see that. 355 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 2: Then Heather thinks Tamar is not genuine about Jennifer and Ryan. 356 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 2: She thinks Tamar wanted us to see this weird couple. 357 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 2: I actually don't agree with that, because just like you 358 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 2: didn't get Nanny fired, Tamar didn't get Jen hired, right, 359 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 2: she was fired at the time. I don't think she 360 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 2: was in entry to the casting process. 361 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 4: Right, right, right, I don't. I don't think I agree 362 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 4: with that either. 363 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: I think Tamras is being Tamra and she's just you know, 364 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 1: walking in who she is and it is what it is. 365 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 2: So then she said, Heather says she's happy Tamras back, 366 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 2: but the napkin toss was too much. 367 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 3: We all agree on that. 368 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 4: I agree with that. I did not like the napkin toss. 369 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 2: Heather thinks Shannon just trauma dumps on the women when 370 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 2: she's drunk, but exaggerates what happens. And listen, I can 371 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 2: be prone to some exaggeration myself. 372 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, same, same, I totally. 373 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: If I'm going through some issues in my relationship, you know, 374 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 1: I can definitely call my girl and be like, you know, 375 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: like just like put it all out there and maybe 376 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 1: put a hundred on it, and then you know, we 377 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: make up like three hours later, and I'm like, oh, 378 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: right now, Like. 379 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 2: Well, no, I always do that with my sister. I'll 380 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 2: tell her the most dramatic version of my personal. 381 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 4: Story ahead at him after you've made up with it. 382 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 4: She's like, I hate that asshole. 383 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: You're like, wait, wait, wait, no, we're about to go 384 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 1: you know, we're about to go to six Plasga you know, no. 385 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 3: Hold on, no, that was I was tired. It was 386 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 3: just works that day. 387 00:16:56,760 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 4: Sorry, yeah, I think I'll do that. 388 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, So that I get. 389 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 2: But sometimes if you are tipsy and you're exaggerating at 390 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 2: the same time, that's where you get into trouble. Because 391 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 2: we see later on when we're watching this episode, Shannon 392 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: has forgotten something she said. 393 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:15,400 Speaker 4: And I was gonna say that part titdy. Here's the thing. 394 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 4: We all do it. So we're a signing blame here. 395 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 4: But you can't actually act like you. 396 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 1: Forgot you actually sat up on the phone and had 397 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: these conversations with these women. 398 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 3: But you saw in her face she actually did. She 399 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 3: was like, I didn't tell you that, damn it. 400 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:40,880 Speaker 2: Then Jeff talks about how him and Heather Dubrow kind 401 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 2: of made up. Also at the beginning of the episode, 402 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 2: him and Andy said they made up after their five 403 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 2: hundred fight. Then Jeff said that Vicky charged three hundred 404 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 2: dollars on his mini bar charge when she came to 405 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 2: do the show, and I was thinking that was one night. 406 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 2: What could somebody have bought from a mini bar for 407 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: three hundred bucks? 408 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 3: Like drinks? 409 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 4: Do you know mini bars are expensive? Truth be told. 410 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 1: I mean you know, if you like hit, like those 411 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 1: little mini bottles of alcohol. Just saying if if that's 412 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: the direction she went, those things can add up. I'm 413 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: just saying a pack potato chips is like fifteen bucks. 414 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 4: My heart to get there. 415 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 2: If you get there at three pm by nine am 416 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 2: the next morning, you could do a lot of damn. 417 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 4: Stuff to go. 418 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: She probably to go, Okay, if somebody else is paying 419 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: for it, I can't say that I will necessarily go 420 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 1: ahead and grab the fifteen dollars pack of M and 421 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: M's on the way out. 422 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 2: Well, I dared always does that when we're on planes. 423 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 2: She'll like grab some. 424 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 4: That is probably me. I get it. 425 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 2: Then, I don't know, we get more into heather you 426 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 2: brow and blah blah blah. But I feel like that 427 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 2: kind of covers Watch What Happens Live to bring us 428 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 2: into this episode of Real Houseized of Orange County, which 429 00:18:56,160 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 2: I want to publicly say, this episode of Real House 430 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 2: Size of Orange County is brought to you by Simone 431 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 2: Biles because. 432 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 3: The word vault is used so many damn times. 433 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:13,360 Speaker 2: It was actually I counted, I think it was sixty 434 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 2: seven times. Like I was like, and by vault, what 435 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 2: they're saying is off camera. Just at this point, that's 436 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 2: what they're saying. 437 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 3: They're like, it was in the vault, the vault, we 438 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 3: vaulted it. Then there was a vault that I'd never heard. 439 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 4: It referred to as like, yeah, that was vaulted or whatever. 440 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 1: I thought vault meant that when like, if you tell 441 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 1: me something, you're referring to me as a vault, you 442 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: know that I'm not going to repeat it. 443 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 4: I didn't realize it meant it was said off camera. 444 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 4: So I appreciate you for clearing it up. 445 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 2: No, because think about it, like if you and I 446 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 2: were filming a show together and I call you off camera, 447 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 2: we have a heart to heart, and then somehow it's 448 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 2: brought on camera. What Heather's getting away with this episode 449 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 2: is she has not brought it up on camera to 450 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 2: any of the other women, but she has brought it 451 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:00,439 Speaker 2: up to all the other women off camera. 452 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 3: So that's why I think about. 453 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 4: That, like does that count, because. 454 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's because she's having I mean, she's having somebody 455 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 2: else do her, you know, a lack of a better word, 456 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 2: I mean, I've done it too, do her dirty work 457 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 2: so she can keep her hands clean. 458 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 3: She's smart because she comes off Mike. 459 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 4: Plants the seat and sits back and watches the flower grow. 460 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then watches Gina and Emily and everybody come 461 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 2: completely unhinged over Shannon's relationship. But I do think you 462 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 2: know it starts we'll backtrack starts off this episode, Jen 463 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 2: talks to her friend from college tailor. 464 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 3: I'm wondering, I'm like. 465 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 2: Fifty to fifty as I'm watching this conversation, if she 466 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,239 Speaker 2: had like Central Casting come in and was like, I 467 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 2: need a friend who's gonna make me. 468 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 3: Look good on camera. 469 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: Well, I actually like that she had a friend who 470 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: was not on the show. 471 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 3: You say a friend period, Oh my god, a friend. 472 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm glad that she had a friend that was not 473 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: one of the people in the group to come in 474 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: and get, you know, just shed some light on this 475 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 1: whole situation, because I feel like we know how to 476 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 1: group feels all right, and I feel like, you know, 477 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 1: I just needed some more perspective, and I thought it 478 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: was good and fresh to just hear how someone else 479 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 1: felt about the whole situation. 480 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 4: So I like that moment and Jen needed a break. 481 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 4: Can Jen just get a moment? 482 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: Like she needed a moment where she just was not 483 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 1: hitting her head blown off? 484 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 4: Sorry, she just needed well. 485 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 2: I think also I did appreciate that Jen starts to 486 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 2: open up here and she said a lot of things 487 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 2: that kind of resonated with me. She's like, listen, I 488 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:38,120 Speaker 2: don't necessarily want to get married because I am scared that. 489 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 3: He will do that again. 490 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 2: You know, like it's good right now, but once we're married, 491 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 2: things could change. And I think that's a real that's 492 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: a real concern, Like it is one thing, especially if 493 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 2: your relationship starts with alleged cheating or whatever it may be, 494 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 2: to say like, okay, we figured it out now, but 495 00:21:57,640 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 2: now if we shift it, what if he does again? 496 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 3: And I don't want to be divorced again? And I 497 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 3: think that I felt like that was a real conversation. 498 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 1: I agree, And it's just been so like out there 499 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 1: and it's just been said to her so many times, 500 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 1: like no matter how confident she feels in her relationship 501 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 1: with him, somewhere deep deep down inside she has to 502 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,919 Speaker 1: feel like, uh, good, he chea on me? 503 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 4: Will he cheat on me? 504 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,359 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because it's just you know, 505 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 1: I mean, and even said in the last episode, like 506 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 1: you cheated on his ex like a million times or whatever. 507 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 4: It's not like, you know, unheard of him to. 508 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 3: Go direct to step out, so. 509 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: Small part of her maybe worried about it, you know 510 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 1: what I mean. But I think that's normal under the circumstances. 511 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 2: But something that I didn't necessarily realize until this episode, 512 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 2: and maybe I missed it, was when she was talking 513 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 2: about her husband, the one she's like trying to get 514 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 2: a divorce from. Yeah, I didn't realize that her family 515 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 2: didn't want him to continue working for them now that 516 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 2: they're not together. 517 00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 3: And that's that was I to get. 518 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,640 Speaker 2: If I were him and I were private and that 519 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 2: little nugget was just dropped, I would have been that 520 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 2: would have been something vaulted. 521 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 4: I definitely could have stayed in the vault. 522 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,120 Speaker 3: I was like, hold on, vault that one. Hey, that's 523 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 3: a bother your kids. You may want to vault that 524 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 3: one for next time. 525 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. 526 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: And she's so sweet, like the fact that she's even 527 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,120 Speaker 1: like worried about like him losing. 528 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 4: His job and all that stuff, Like, I don't know. 529 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 1: I think that I think I didn't think she's like 530 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 1: a very sweet person, but I think she has to 531 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 1: just kind of put herself first a little bit more 532 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 1: and in a lot of these situations. 533 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,400 Speaker 4: But you know, she's a she's a good egg. 534 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 2: What can I say, Well, we'll see, we'll see. Now 535 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 2: we're gonna go through Vicky's list of everything she wants. 536 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 4: I love that list. I wrote my list. 537 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 3: That's what I was gonna say. 538 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,359 Speaker 2: Let's go through your list after well, also as I 539 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 2: read through Vicky's, I want you to say yes or no, 540 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,120 Speaker 2: this isn't this is something you need. 541 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 3: Okay, let's go age fifty eight to sixty three. 542 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 4: M I would start a little younger. 543 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 1: Mine is like I want to start it like forty 544 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 1: would be the youngest I would want to go. 545 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 4: But if you're thirty seven. 546 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 1: Thirty eight, I cannot completely rule you out at this point. 547 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 2: Or as Brent said on Watch What Happens Live from 548 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 2: New York, she said, whatever it was like twenty eight 549 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,880 Speaker 2: till still breathing exactly exactly. 550 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:26,479 Speaker 4: I don't want still breathing. 551 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 1: I actually have a cutoff, like I don't have a 552 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,439 Speaker 1: cut off on a younger part the boy dude, but 553 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 1: that is my cutoff. But on an older part, I 554 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: actually would like to cut off it. Like I don't 555 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: really want to go older than sixty five, you know. 556 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,919 Speaker 1: I mean, if you're like an eighty year old Mick Jagger, 557 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,479 Speaker 1: there's always like exception to the rule, Like he's like 558 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 1: Mick and he's like a really great health and shape. 559 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 2: So speaking of Mick Jagger, I just googled how old 560 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 2: our other person is and he's fifty nine. 561 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 3: So he falls in the age range. 562 00:24:55,400 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 4: Yes he does. Christian h Yes, absolutely. 563 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 3: Owns his home. 564 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:17,360 Speaker 5: Uh, independently wealthy, absolutely, entrepreneur, Yes, forward thinker, Yes, have 565 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 5: a passport. 566 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 3: Loves Mexico. 567 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 4: Not a deal breaker, loves to travel, absolutely. 568 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 3: Be divorced, not going through a divorce. Absolutely has children. 569 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 4: Not a deal breaker. 570 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 3: Country westerns boy. 571 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 4: Uh, I definitely had a breaker. As a matter of fact. Well, 572 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,120 Speaker 4: I would say for me, they would have to actually 573 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 4: like a lot of old school hip hop and ORB. 574 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: I couldn't get it out about laughing. 575 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 3: Love country music. 576 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 1: Again a deal breaker for me personally, But I would 577 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 1: like my person to definitely be into old. 578 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 6: School hip hop and army, compassionate, Yes, adores you, Yes, 579 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 6: makes you laugh, Yes, Yes, finds you funny, Absolutely have 580 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 6: fun together. Bonus has a boat. 581 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:22,479 Speaker 4: You know what. 582 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,399 Speaker 1: I really had to think about the boat part because 583 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 1: he doesn't have to have a boat, but it would 584 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 1: be nice if he did. 585 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 3: So what do you have to add to this list? 586 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,640 Speaker 4: Okay, so I said the thing about the age. Definitely 587 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 4: believe in God. 588 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:39,440 Speaker 1: Financially independent and yeat wealthy, would be nice, well groomed, 589 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 1: well groomed, you know, like all of the hygiene stuff, 590 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 1: like you know, bad breath is kind of a deal 591 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 1: breaker for me, you know well. 592 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 4: And it's not kind of it's a deal breaker, like 593 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,160 Speaker 4: your dental hygiene has to be on point. It just does. 594 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:57,359 Speaker 1: Let's see personal touch has I would like for that 595 00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:58,640 Speaker 1: to be one of your love languages. 596 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 3: Oh you like the physical touch? 597 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: I hold my hand please. I'd love when a man 598 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 1: holds my hand. I would love for him to be 599 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: a masseuse because I love massages. So if he wasn't one, 600 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 1: he could learn to be one that you take a 601 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 1: little massage class. 602 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 2: I wish too, because my husband like touched it, Like 603 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 2: when he massages me. 604 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 3: It's like I'm like, please, I don't need to be tickled. 605 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 4: Right right right? 606 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 1: Oh, big important has to love and accept my daughter 607 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 1: because she's Yeah, I'm a package to deal. No, well 608 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 1: it's twenty three, but he's still part of my package. 609 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 1: I would like for him to be smart, be somebody 610 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 1: like he doesn't have to be like have a crazy body, 611 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,640 Speaker 1: but I would like for him to be healthy and 612 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 1: you know, work out and try to like, you know, 613 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 1: keep it together. 614 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 3: He's into him like he he takes into taking care 615 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 3: of himself. 616 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,719 Speaker 1: Absolutely, he can't be vegan. I'm not like shout out 617 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 1: to all the fs. I just want to just eat 618 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 1: whatever I want to eat. Because I actually would like 619 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 1: for him to be a foodie as well, like I like, 620 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: I'm excited to go to like different restaurants. 621 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 3: So I never thought that that could he be sober. 622 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: I prefer for him to not be an alcoholic, but 623 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 1: definitely drink, to be a social drinker for sure. 624 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, and while we're at it, he has to love. 625 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,880 Speaker 1: Sushi, like like, oh, I don't eat braw fish. Well 626 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 1: that's well, we're done here, Okay. 627 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 4: I love sushi. 628 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 3: We have a lot of fish that needs to be eating. 629 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,119 Speaker 4: He has to be a nurturer, and I pray for 630 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 4: that now because I never prayed for like my guy 631 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 4: to like be a nurturer, like I want him to be. 632 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 1: Like I'm a gibber and I'm always liked, and you know, 633 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: I want them to like keep that same that same 634 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 1: reciprocity when it comes to me. 635 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 4: Let's see minus long sorry, oh yes, keep his car clean. 636 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 7: I can't say, teddy, I'm not even trying to be funny, 637 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 7: like if I you're come in to me. 638 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 4: And you got in and. 639 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 1: Out cups and rappers all over the place that like, 640 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 1: you know, shout out in and out. 641 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,479 Speaker 4: But I'm just saying I will not get in that car. 642 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 4: I don't like that. I would like I would like 643 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 4: for him to be like like one. 644 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 1: I don't want he has to be like man stuff 645 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 1: like fixed stuff like like handy. 646 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 3: Edwin would never he does not get that on the list. 647 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,239 Speaker 4: You guys don't know how to do anything now, like 648 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 4: they can't do anything, like. 649 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 3: Can't you do a precursor? 650 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 2: Like what I said with Edwin is if you're not 651 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 2: willing to be handy or figure out how to be handy, 652 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 2: don't bitch at me if I spend money for somebody 653 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 2: else to do the things you can't do exactly exactly, 654 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 2: And he learned like I like, I don't like pumping 655 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 2: gas like I like the guys to do. 656 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 1: No, that's a guy thing, like my only thing that 657 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 1: I would want a guy to do. Well, there's a lot, 658 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 1: but like this is one thing, like keep my car clean, 659 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 1: Like take my car to the car wash. Be like, 660 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 1: hey babe, I got your car washed in detailed and 661 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 1: I filled it up with gas. Like, just keep my 662 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: car clean and fill it up with gas, like you 663 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 1: will go. 664 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 4: I will never leave you. I will never leave you. 665 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 4: Just on that alone. 666 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 1: You can be a jerk at this point and just 667 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: keep my keep gas in my car and keep. 668 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 3: The horder's car clean. She needs help, No, my. 669 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 4: Car is there. It really is sexy. 670 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 1: I like to be like sexy in his own little way, 671 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: not like hey sexy sexy, but like you know, just 672 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: feel himself. 673 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 4: What else? I think that's it? What door to travel? Oh, 674 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 4: oh this is big. He has to have a therapist. Yeah, 675 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 4: like we all everybody got to be in therapy, even 676 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 4: if he doesn't feel like he needs it. He just 677 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 4: needs to be in there any way. 678 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 3: He needs to be open to it. He needs to 679 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 3: be open to being communicative. 680 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 1: Yes, I think everybody should be in therapy. He has 681 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: to be kind to me and he has to be 682 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: into me, like he can't be like Okay, yeah, I 683 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: got you and I'm gonna cheat on you and all 684 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: this stuff. 685 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 4: No, no, not a. 686 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: Fifty six like if you're you, come over here, act 687 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 1: right and come over here, put in the work. 688 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 2: My list isn't quite as long, but like my oh shit, 689 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 2: but like my non negotiables are, I need somebody that 690 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 2: we don't have to take each other too seriously all 691 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 2: the time, Like I need to be able to laugh 692 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 2: with you and have fun with you and want to 693 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 2: have sex with you, and for me because my kids 694 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 2: are little, Like I need Edwin like when he did 695 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 2: like dance with the kids this past week, and like 696 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. 697 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 3: I need you to be hands on in the moment. 698 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 2: You don't always have to be hands on, but you 699 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 2: have to be hands on like and really show our 700 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 2: kids love. 701 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 3: And then I need you to be attractive. Sorry I do. 702 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 3: I have to be physically attractive to you. Yeah, And. 703 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 2: If I could change one thing about my current husband, 704 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 2: it would probably be like how I say current. 705 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 3: Whenever I say current, it gets me in trouble because 706 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 3: people are like, what are you trying to say current? 707 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 2: Like John Mayer got me on that word too, But 708 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 2: I've been married twice, so I have to say current. 709 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 2: But if I could change one thing about him, it 710 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 2: would be he works almost too much, like he's obsessed 711 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 2: with work, but then he's so excited, like last night, 712 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 2: he was so excited when he got home and I 713 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 2: loved it. But he was so excited telling me this 714 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 2: story at nine thirty at night. 715 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 3: I'm tired. 716 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 2: I want to be excited to hear the story when 717 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 2: I'm still awake right right. And so I love that 718 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 2: he works hard, but I wish we could have like 719 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 2: a slightly both of us. We both are the same 720 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 2: way where we get obsessed with something that we want 721 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 2: to accomplish and then we don't necessarily like think through 722 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 2: how it's going the news is going to affect the 723 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 2: other person in their current setting. 724 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 3: Like learn when to tell me the news. 725 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 2: Also, don't ask me questions if you're not fully going 726 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 2: to listen to my answer. 727 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 4: Right right right, and be present. 728 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: Know how to read the know how to read the room, 729 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: and be present when there is like real conversation that's 730 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 1: about the Jimball. 731 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean the other big thing for me 732 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 2: is just having o's And so as long as I'm 733 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 2: having to know laughing and you're attractive, we're good to go. 734 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 3: Let's easy going. 735 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 1: Well, I actually want to add one more thing to 736 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 1: my list, but I'm not even picky. But like they 737 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: can't they can't be adventurous, Like I don't like to 738 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 1: do adventurous stuff, like I'm not jumping. 739 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 3: I want adventure. 740 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,120 Speaker 1: No, I don't want a venture like I want to 741 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,040 Speaker 1: go on vacation. I want to set my ass on 742 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: the beach with a pinut colata. I want to like 743 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: walk take walks and maybe I'll ride the horse through 744 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 1: the water. 745 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna like do you don't want to 746 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 2: go on a hiking excursion? 747 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 4: And but that's that's not super adventurous. 748 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 1: I mean, you know the people like what's the thing 749 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 1: in the water everybody's on It's like you're like floating 750 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 1: on the water. 751 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 3: It's like this thing, like this parasailing, like all of 752 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 3: that stuff. 753 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 4: Like there's summer stuff that. 754 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 2: I won't do, like and so you don't want somebody 755 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 2: to make you feel bad about it. 756 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 3: You want someone that can just enjoy, have a drink 757 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 3: and sell. 758 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't want to be like, hey we should 759 00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 4: go bungee jumping today. Hey jump out of a helicopter. 760 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 4: Let's go. Like, no, I'm not that girl. 761 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 2: You want to just you want to be comfortable without 762 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 2: saying a word or saying everything. I agree, So you 763 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 2: know what, we can just put this on the dating profile. 764 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,719 Speaker 2: Then the ladies arrive at Jen's house for her and 765 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 2: Tamor's party. 766 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 3: I do you and you do me. 767 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 2: Tamor's dressed as Heather, Jenna is dressed as Taylor in 768 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,920 Speaker 2: the deck. Gina is dressed as Emily and has on 769 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,800 Speaker 2: paths to make herself curvier. Emily is dressed as Shannon. 770 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 2: Heather is dressed as Jen with puppies and babies. Taylor's 771 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 2: dressed as Tamra. Taylor make a bigger effort. 772 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Taylor definitely made the least amount of effort. 773 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 3: She brought that shit in. 774 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 1: I knock a theme at the park every single time, 775 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 1: so I was definitely a little bit disappointed in Taylor. 776 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: But I will say my favorite was Tamra's Heather, Like 777 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,240 Speaker 1: I actually I almost started getting confused kind of watching 778 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:56,800 Speaker 1: it after. 779 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 3: While, Okay, this is who's Who's Who's. 780 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 1: That Emily as Shannon I thought was hilarious and Gina 781 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,879 Speaker 1: killed it as she. 782 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 2: Looked as beautiful as Emily beyond Oh my god, I. 783 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:12,840 Speaker 4: Love where she went with it and the whole curves 784 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 4: and everything that was cute. 785 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: And then I also thought my girl Jen did good 786 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 1: as tailor with the whole lips and all. 787 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,839 Speaker 4: That stuff, Like I was, like, definitely, I thought they 788 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,799 Speaker 4: had a lot of fun with it, but Taylor could 789 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:24,359 Speaker 4: have stepped it up. 790 00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,799 Speaker 2: I feel like I spent more time getting ready for 791 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 2: this podcast than Taylor spent dressing up his camera. And 792 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 2: that's saying a lot considering I didn't dry my hair 793 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 2: and I'm wearing my tailor Swift sweatshirt. I mean, this 794 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 2: is the best thing about watching when people like are 795 00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 2: doing jokes but really offending the other people, so like 796 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 2: each one of them is slightly offended by the the 797 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 2: outfit somebody else has worn. Like even Emily found something 798 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,280 Speaker 2: wrong with Gina's. She's like, her boobs could have been bigger, 799 00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 2: exactly exactly, But then it's it starts off. I mean, 800 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 2: I thought it was fun. I appreciated it. Then Shannon 801 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 2: pulls Heather aside and confronts her about what Tarama told her. 802 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 2: Heather says she's not taking a fall for something she 803 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:15,279 Speaker 2: didn't do. This is where I wish they would have 804 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 2: just broken the fourth wall and Heather were to say, listen, 805 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 2: I never said any of these things on camera. I 806 00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 2: did gossip about it, or I did show concern to 807 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 2: some of the other women because I am worried about you. 808 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,439 Speaker 3: That would have it would have cleared it all up. 809 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, and we would have moved on for sure. 810 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,680 Speaker 2: But I did break into a sweat for the first 811 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 2: time because I actually agreed with Gina. 812 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 4: Oh wow, oh what part? What did she say? What 813 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 4: did you agree with? 814 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 2: She said, you can't talk about somebody else's relationship if 815 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 2: you want yours to be off limits, And I I 816 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,440 Speaker 2: was like, Gina, I agree. 817 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:52,280 Speaker 4: That you are. 818 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 3: We're on the same page. 819 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, that's very true. I love that 820 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,480 Speaker 1: she said that. It was a great point. 821 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,880 Speaker 3: Because I mean, that's that's been what's been happening all season, 822 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 3: so it's very hard. But also it's kind of. 823 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,280 Speaker 2: I don't know, watching it, it made me feel worried 824 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:14,320 Speaker 2: about whatever is. I know that there's an exaggeration aspect 825 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 2: to it, but there was a part of me that 826 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 2: did feel worried of whatever it is that like she 827 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,840 Speaker 2: hadn't seemed legitimately frightened. 828 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, she was like going nuts. 829 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 1: She was definitely like flipping out about it. Every time 830 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 1: it comes up. She just like goes kind of crazy. 831 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 1: And I understand that she wants to protect her relationship, 832 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,880 Speaker 1: but at the same time, she's on a show, and 833 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 1: if they can go hard on Ryan and Jen, you know, 834 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 1: like everybody else's relationships can be on the table, like 835 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,560 Speaker 1: hers doesn't get to be off the table. So you know, 836 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 1: I feel like she just, you know, Shanna's is gonna 837 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,719 Speaker 1: have to, you know, make sure her and her man 838 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,760 Speaker 1: are good good because you know it's this fair game are. 839 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 2: But also John's a big boy if he's gonna sign 840 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 2: on the dotted line and say that he was willing 841 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 2: to film, and clearly, like from what I've noticed, he 842 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:07,279 Speaker 2: likes being in the spotlight. Suck it up, Buttercup, you're 843 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 2: up for you know, you're up for discussion, just like 844 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:11,280 Speaker 2: everybody else. 845 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I actually enjoyed Jen and Ryan having a night 846 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 1: off on this end like they were just not I'm 847 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 1: sure Jen was happy as a clam when the scene 848 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:27,359 Speaker 1: was over, like she literally just didn't have to be like, 849 00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 1: you know, the red dot was not on her. 850 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,080 Speaker 4: Head and we were not like wearing Ryan out. 851 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: So you know, it feels good. And we've all been 852 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 1: in that situation where we're. 853 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, night off. I hosted this and 854 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:41,840 Speaker 3: it worked out in my favor. 855 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,160 Speaker 4: I actually it's got to come and have fun and 856 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 4: that's you know. 857 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 2: So yeah, and then Emily says she feels John is 858 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 2: not invested and Shannon can do better. She says John 859 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 2: has called Shannon fat and unattractive. Heather also said Shannon 860 00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 2: pays for everything and John has never slept over at 861 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 2: her house. 862 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 3: Do you think that Emily and Heather revealing these things. 863 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 2: Is fair game though, Like I know that it's fair 864 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,399 Speaker 2: game to be talked about, but these things were never 865 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,200 Speaker 2: talked about on the show, so now they're bringing it 866 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:12,960 Speaker 2: onto the show. 867 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,920 Speaker 3: But yet Heather stepped away from it like she hasn't. 868 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 2: But I mean clearly like that to me, like the 869 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 2: body stuff that was taking it past the level. Like, yes, 870 00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 2: everybody's fair game, but that was a little bit he 871 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,800 Speaker 2: never said that on the show. If they are genuinely 872 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 2: concerned about her, there is a way to approach it differently. 873 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like they didn't have to completely have 874 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 1: to air that out on the show. Like, you know, 875 00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:41,919 Speaker 1: there's always a way of saying, hey, you know, we've 876 00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,200 Speaker 1: heard some things that we didn't you know, agree with 877 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,440 Speaker 1: that he said. But you know, it always tested just 878 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,600 Speaker 1: like you know, it's always nice to when it's like 879 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 1: speculation as opposed to he's never spent the night at 880 00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,120 Speaker 1: her house before, Like all these things that are definitely, 881 00:39:56,239 --> 00:40:00,400 Speaker 1: as someone viewing the show, like obvious red flags because 882 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 1: first of all, I'm like, wait, if I've spent the 883 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,200 Speaker 1: night your house, never spent that in miles, Like why 884 00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:07,280 Speaker 1: like that makes me really, you know, want to question 885 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:09,399 Speaker 1: you know some of the things that you know. 886 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,280 Speaker 3: These they could have left it a little bit more vague. 887 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 2: They could have been, like he said, discouraging comments about 888 00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 2: your looks or we heard that you're having sexual issue, 889 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 2: you know whatever, but like to really hone in on 890 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:28,279 Speaker 2: the details showed that this conversation conversations have happened. But 891 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 2: then I got confused why Emily started crying? Why is 892 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:32,760 Speaker 2: the only crying, got. 893 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 1: Very emotional, and you know, I love Emily. I definitely 894 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,000 Speaker 1: understand understand, you know why she was upset, But I thought, 895 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know if it was like, Okay, 896 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:47,359 Speaker 1: how upset are you? Like You're like, I don't know, 897 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,680 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know. You know, you never know what 898 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,759 Speaker 1: I think. I've been on a reality show. You never 899 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:53,520 Speaker 1: know what was going on in the person's real life 900 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,439 Speaker 1: before they get there. Maybe something was going at home 901 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,080 Speaker 1: the trigger her and that, Like like sometimes it's like 902 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 1: that because sometimes I've been on the show and things 903 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 1: kind of like hit me or I got emotional about 904 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 1: things Teddy where I'm like. 905 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 4: Why am I even crying right now? 906 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,399 Speaker 1: Like I know, like you're just kind of all over 907 00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 1: the place, and you have your real life and you 908 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 1: have your TV life, and you have to film, and 909 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 1: sometimes you're just like an emotional. 910 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,400 Speaker 2: Woman and then you feel the camera like beaming in 911 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:21,080 Speaker 2: and that hot like light on you, and you're like, oh, 912 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 2: I can't holding it. And then you have one woman 913 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 2: look at you like you're okay, and then that little 914 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,320 Speaker 2: bit of niceness just pushes you over the edge. 915 00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,520 Speaker 1: Not just those small things you come in like a 916 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,840 Speaker 1: rock and we have to be so strong, so solid 917 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,640 Speaker 1: on these reality shows, like it could be the smallest 918 00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,719 Speaker 1: thing that may not have anything to do with you that. 919 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 4: Just sets your ass right off your map. 920 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,239 Speaker 2: Then you're like and then once it starts, and then 921 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,680 Speaker 2: you can see the little like where it pans in 922 00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 2: on you even closed, and you're like, damn it, they 923 00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 2: caught me, And then you can't control it. But then 924 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,760 Speaker 2: Emily tells Shannon that it hurts her that she doesn't 925 00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 2: share things with her. She says that she would be 926 00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 2: her friend no matter how bad it is, and then 927 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 2: Shannon and Yell's back in her saying it's right. But 928 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:09,000 Speaker 2: Emily as Shannon fighting with Shannon as Gina as like 929 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 2: we're in some sort of like weird Bravo multiverse. Should 930 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,800 Speaker 2: we be, Like we should all be each other And 931 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 2: on a podcast like let's bring in a lot of 932 00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 2: I love. 933 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,520 Speaker 1: That you know from my fiftieth I had the entire 934 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,360 Speaker 1: cast of Atlanta come as fifty The thing was fifty 935 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,280 Speaker 1: Shades of Cynthia, So the entire cast came as different 936 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:30,880 Speaker 1: versions of me. 937 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 4: And it was the coolest thing ever because. 938 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 3: I love that I did. 939 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 1: I was just like, Okay, First of all, these bitches, 940 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like participate, They're not gonna come as 941 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:42,440 Speaker 1: me when I tell you they committed. They were like 942 00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:44,960 Speaker 1: into it and everybody brought it. It was it was 943 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,120 Speaker 1: so cool, Like you guys canna go back and watch that. 944 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:48,840 Speaker 1: But it was like one of like I had to 945 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:50,960 Speaker 1: like talk about like six or seven cool things that 946 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,799 Speaker 1: you know, memories wise on the show. Like that was 947 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,799 Speaker 1: like my fifty birthday was really cool. And the cast 948 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 1: definitely you know, showed up and showed out. I actually 949 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,400 Speaker 1: had a contest who was the best Cynthia and of 950 00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 1: course who was the best everything on the show. 951 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:06,160 Speaker 3: So oh yeah. 952 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:11,239 Speaker 2: But then once again production is shown productions like why 953 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:11,880 Speaker 2: are we in this? 954 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 3: Like their video? Like but that that level and where. 955 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,080 Speaker 2: I get confused is when they when they start to 956 00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:23,759 Speaker 2: break the fourth wall, and like the particular housewife really 957 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,959 Speaker 2: thinks that isn't going to get shown, Like no, they've 958 00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 2: shown now they're going to break the fourth wall. This 959 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 2: is only looking worse for you now because at this 960 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,160 Speaker 2: point we could have gone a couple different ways. We 961 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,040 Speaker 2: could have been annoyed at Heather, we could have been 962 00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:40,319 Speaker 2: annoyed at Tama for originally bringing it up, we could 963 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:44,799 Speaker 2: have been annoyed at Gina because Gina's always kind of back. 964 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,879 Speaker 3: And forth on what she thinks is appropriate to talk about. 965 00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,040 Speaker 2: We could have been annoyed at Emily because at this 966 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,400 Speaker 2: point I can't even tell what she's talking about. 967 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,439 Speaker 3: But now all we can think is Shannon's done lost 968 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 3: her mind. 969 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:03,239 Speaker 1: Yes, Shannon was definitely a hundred. It's something about like 970 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 1: whenever her relationship comes up, she just goes bananas, and 971 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,759 Speaker 1: all it does for us watching the show is like, 972 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:11,440 Speaker 1: what the hell is really going on over there? Like 973 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,960 Speaker 1: I've completely lost interest in Jen and Ryan stuff at 974 00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:18,240 Speaker 1: this point, lived Dick and all, Like, I'm just going. 975 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:24,120 Speaker 7: On diving into Shannon her Man stuff because she is 976 00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,840 Speaker 7: set off every time like anything. He's like, this is 977 00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,319 Speaker 7: gonna run my relationship, but I'm like, what in the 978 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 7: world's going on over there? Like it just makes invested 979 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,000 Speaker 7: in like what's happening with them, as opposed to her 980 00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,319 Speaker 7: just being like, oh, look, okay, let me get together 981 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 7: the people I need to get together and just you know, 982 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,880 Speaker 7: play this thing cool because I'm putting more eyeballs on 983 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,040 Speaker 7: the situation. 984 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 2: Now well not just even that, but then Shannon totally 985 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 2: goes against what she's even saying when she tries to 986 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 2: throw it and Heather's face that Heather is in the 987 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:56,720 Speaker 2: press right now for having marital issues. I'm like, you can't, 988 00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 2: you don't understand. You just are saying that this is 989 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,319 Speaker 2: so limits, that this will ruin your relationship and blah 990 00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,760 Speaker 2: blah blah, And now you're doing it in the same 991 00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 2: sentences didn't land, And then you're like, oh, I should 992 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:09,920 Speaker 2: have didn't land, And then. 993 00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:14,319 Speaker 3: Heather handled it like a pro, and you're like, oops, yeah. 994 00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:21,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love Shannon. I definitely you know what 995 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,840 Speaker 1: you know, going back to jeblu Is whatever they're working 996 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 1: on over there, I really hope they work it out 997 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:28,719 Speaker 1: because it is definitely a trigger for her, and I 998 00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:32,239 Speaker 1: feel like, you know, she owes us something about the relationship, 999 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:33,920 Speaker 1: because we just want to know at this point, we 1000 00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:37,000 Speaker 1: want to know, like if everything's okay, you know, I 1001 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 1: do you know, you know, you don't get to be 1002 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 1: part of the show and everybody else has to be 1003 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 1: aired out and you don't get talking about yours and 1004 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 1: you know, you can't rent a production every time because. 1005 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,719 Speaker 2: Well, I think they also gave us some foreshadowing when 1006 00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:55,399 Speaker 2: they said, I think it was Gina yelling Shannon, you're 1007 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:59,160 Speaker 2: like jackal and hide. So I think this is also 1008 00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,320 Speaker 2: what ends up happening when you start sharing too much 1009 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:06,920 Speaker 2: off camera, then it starts to get lost once you're filming, 1010 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 2: like it's hard to even keep track. 1011 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,200 Speaker 1: Because then you have to almost break the four wall then, 1012 00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 1: because then the fans are like, well why are you 1013 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,440 Speaker 1: then so me and to her, and you're like and 1014 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,360 Speaker 1: then they sa they don't even know off camera this 1015 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,320 Speaker 1: person's like done all this stuff to you because you 1016 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:20,920 Speaker 1: start to showing you're like, okay, we're just not even 1017 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 1: going to talk about that because it happened in you know, 1018 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,600 Speaker 1: the real world. But sometimes you have to go back 1019 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,480 Speaker 1: and get that stuff because it doesn't make sense when 1020 00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:31,239 Speaker 1: we're watching it play out. So I actually what, I 1021 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,799 Speaker 1: actually think it makes sense and it's more interesting when 1022 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 1: we do break the fourth wall. 1023 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 2: Me too. 1024 00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:37,040 Speaker 3: I love it be explained. 1025 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,480 Speaker 1: And you know, these fans go so hard for who 1026 00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 1: they like, so when you're like, you know, trying to 1027 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,839 Speaker 1: explain what only happened on the show, when you had 1028 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,120 Speaker 1: a whole this fight with this person off the show, 1029 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense. 1030 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 2: I think all in all, what I can say is 1031 00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:56,120 Speaker 2: this episode I enjoyed the entire cast as messy, as 1032 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:57,520 Speaker 2: good as whatever it was. 1033 00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 3: It was a good episode. 1034 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a great So what did you think 1035 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,080 Speaker 4: about Vicky come in as herself? 1036 00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 3: Of course she did, Of course she did. 1037 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,400 Speaker 1: I was gonna say the same thing. She had a 1038 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,839 Speaker 1: great job come in as herself as well. She's oh 1039 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,040 Speaker 1: does she a bear kill? That was her I brought 1040 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 1: the yes because she used to. She always wants to 1041 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 1: whoop it up. 1042 00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,719 Speaker 4: Well, I tell you, they picked Shannona over that case. 1043 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:23,160 Speaker 3: And her mouth's. 1044 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: Like it's not like an age limit where Like I 1045 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,960 Speaker 1: think I would be very uncomfortable if you guys, Like 1046 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:31,560 Speaker 1: if I was at a party and you guys, I'm 1047 00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,840 Speaker 1: gonna pick Cynthia's fifty six year old but up and 1048 00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:39,640 Speaker 1: she's gonna like drink the liquor, I would be like, 1049 00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 1: you know, I think I'm too old for this. Like 1050 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,799 Speaker 1: it just looked crazy and gent a little purple dress 1051 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,600 Speaker 1: on her ug boots and I was like in her. 1052 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,880 Speaker 3: Hair, the spigs hanging out all of it. I was like, 1053 00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 3: this is a hot mess. 1054 00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,920 Speaker 4: Yes, this is a mess. But yeah, Vicky did a 1055 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 4: great job. I was coming as herself. 1056 00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 3: No, Vicky did a great job. I thought it was 1057 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 3: all in on. 1058 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 2: I was like, listen, I granted watching it back for 1059 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,480 Speaker 2: these women, I'm sure it wasn't super were great for 1060 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,640 Speaker 2: all of them, But as a viewer, I was like, 1061 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 2: they did a good job. They gave Cynthia and I 1062 00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:09,160 Speaker 2: a lot to talk about. They put in their effort, 1063 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 2: and uh, Tamar and Jen got a break this week. 1064 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 4: Yeah they did it. Oh that's right. You know. 1065 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,400 Speaker 1: Tamra actually was DM and me, so we were like 1066 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 1: talking last night. She had watched the show, and you know, 1067 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 1: she was saying she was excited for me to be 1068 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 1: back on, you know, to pop into Atlanta whatever, and 1069 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,360 Speaker 1: I was something, how much fun I was having, you know, 1070 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,400 Speaker 1: you know, co hosting with you whatever, just you know, 1071 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:35,520 Speaker 1: chopping it up, and yeah, Tamra was Actually Tamar and 1072 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,440 Speaker 1: Jim both had a little bit of a little vacation 1073 00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 1: on this episode. 1074 00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 4: They got a chance to just kind of sit back, 1075 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:42,400 Speaker 4: you know it. 1076 00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,560 Speaker 2: But you could tell that Heather was trying to comfort 1077 00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,279 Speaker 2: Tarmor a little bit. But Tarmor was like, I'm not 1078 00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,160 Speaker 2: uh not having it. I already know you did it. 1079 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:51,600 Speaker 2: You said it and I'm out. 1080 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:56,359 Speaker 1: Traman was like, I worked the entire I'm gonna night off, 1081 00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:57,319 Speaker 1: thank you very much. 1082 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:02,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna enjoy my drink, play some sex games. Who 1083 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 2: like two's nipple by the way, And was there a 1084 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,399 Speaker 2: little nipple cover on there? 1085 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:08,320 Speaker 4: Licked Emily's nipple? 1086 00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:14,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that I necessarily need anyone licking my nipple 1087 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:15,880 Speaker 2: on television. 1088 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,759 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, let's just really unpack that. I'm not like, 1089 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 1: I think I've done a lot of crazy stuff on 1090 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 1: the show at this point, things that I would never 1091 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:27,880 Speaker 1: do if I was not on the show. 1092 00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:31,200 Speaker 4: So, like I would say this, if I had to 1093 00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,719 Speaker 4: lick a nipple, it would be Emily's because. 1094 00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 1: You know, she's always getting She's like very well groomed, 1095 00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 1: like you know, getting into butt hair. 1096 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,120 Speaker 4: You know, she has that wax up too. 1097 00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,200 Speaker 2: So yeah, true, if I was going to pick a 1098 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,360 Speaker 2: nipple to lick, that'd probably be the cleanest one. 1099 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:51,360 Speaker 1: She's hairless, like she doesn't like her own a body, 1100 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,439 Speaker 1: so that if I had to lick one, that would 1101 00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 1: be the one I would want to lick. 1102 00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,839 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this was so good, such a fun 1103 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,040 Speaker 2: episode for us to watch and recap. I appreciate you 1104 00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 2: guys so much. And then just to give everybody a 1105 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:09,240 Speaker 2: heads up, I am on vacation next week with my family. 1106 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,920 Speaker 2: I'm going to Colombia. So when I come back, me 1107 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:15,440 Speaker 2: and Cynthia will be recapping two episodes of Orange County 1108 00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,880 Speaker 2: on the same time. And uh so, you guys are 1109 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,560 Speaker 2: gonna have to deal without us for a week, but 1110 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,399 Speaker 2: camera will be doing with a guest host talking all 1111 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:26,359 Speaker 2: things Atlanta, New York and crappy. 1112 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:26,880 Speaker 4: Like okay. 1113 00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,920 Speaker 1: And then I would like to thank as you guys know, 1114 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,840 Speaker 1: I did get for a million, and I'm holding nicely. 1115 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:35,399 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm well on my journey. It's a five million. 1116 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,160 Speaker 1: It's gonna take a minute. But I appreciate everyone that 1117 00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 1: did follow and everyone that. 1118 00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:41,919 Speaker 4: Keeps following because it doesn't work. 1119 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:47,200 Speaker 1: I'm back square one, okay, so keep don't push that 1120 00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:48,160 Speaker 1: unfollowed button. 1121 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,520 Speaker 4: I will try to give you guys interesting content. All right. 1122 00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. 1123 00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,719 Speaker 2: We love it, and congratulations Cynthia and Harper's Bazaar love 1124 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:55,240 Speaker 2: the photo. 1125 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 3: Keep crushing it. 1126 00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 4: Thank you, love you guys. 1127 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 3: Bye. S.