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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Carl,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you, Uh,

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Speaker 1: you're doing okay, considering okay, all right, just okay, which

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Speaker 1: is honest because you think maybe you've been ghosted. So

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Speaker 1: tell us about Mina, this woman, and then you know

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Speaker 1: about how you met any date you've been on, kind

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Speaker 1: of all the backstory fill us in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you said, her her name is Mina.

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Speaker 1: I met her on a dating app.

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Speaker 2: We chatted for a little bit on there, and then

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Speaker 2: we decided to meet up and we uh we went

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Speaker 2: to this uh this rest of this Italian place, my

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Speaker 2: favorite place, and it was it was a great day.

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Speaker 1: It was great.

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Speaker 2: And did I never hear from her? So I'm, you know,

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Speaker 2: maybe it wasn't great.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm I'm I'm missing something because every

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Speaker 2: time I try to respond or I try to, you know,

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Speaker 2: reach out to her, I'm not getting anything back right

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Speaker 2: one percent and ghosting.

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Speaker 1: So I don't, you know, what was it something I did?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm really in the dark over here. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's always kind of a risk when you meet someone

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Speaker 1: on the apps. The chemistry and person will be what

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Speaker 1: you hope it is. But hey, you're looking back on

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Speaker 1: this date, you're thinking, Hey, I thought it went really well.

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Speaker 1: Conversation was good. I thought there was a traction in

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Speaker 1: chemistry and all that, except this woman is not responding

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Speaker 1: to you now for another date, and you kind of

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Speaker 1: want to know what if I if I thought everything

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Speaker 1: went well, then what am I missing? Exactly right? Well, Carl,

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Speaker 1: let's play a song. Come back in a couple of minutes.

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Speaker 1: We'll call Mina, we'll ask these questions. You'll be on

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Speaker 1: the phone. You're welcome a jump in at some point.

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Speaker 1: And the hope is always is that we can straighten

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Speaker 1: all of this out and set you guys up on

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Speaker 1: another date that we pay for. Sound good, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that'd be great. Let's see what's up. Part two of

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. After Teddy swims back in two minutes,

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Speaker 1: stay right here. It's the Frend Show. The Frend Show's

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Speaker 1: on the radio on the iHeart app live at any time.

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Speaker 1: Make us a preset on the iHeart app. By the way,

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Speaker 1: search for a Freend show on demand. Hey, Carl, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: welcome back, man. Let's call Mina. You met on one

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Speaker 1: of the dating apps, You went on a date, You

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Speaker 1: went to a nice spot that you picked out. You

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Speaker 1: thought everything went really well. You felt like the conversation

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Speaker 1: a connection. You walked away thinking, Hey, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: reach out to Mina. We're gonna go on another day.

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Speaker 1: This is going someplace. Except you did that, and she

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Speaker 1: has not responded to you, and you want to know

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Speaker 1: why exactly exactly right? Yeah, all right, let's call Mina now,

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Speaker 1: good luck? Hi is this Mina? Hey, Mina, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Friend's Show,

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Speaker 1: the morning radio show. The whole crew is here. I

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Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio

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Speaker 1: right now. I would need your permission to continue with

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Speaker 1: the call. Can we chat for just a second on

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Speaker 1: the air. You can hang up anytime, I guess okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll take tennis a Yes, thank you. We're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a dude named Carl who you met on

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Speaker 1: a dating app recently apparently and went on a date

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Speaker 1: with Italian restaurant. Does it ring it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he called us and had nice things to

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Speaker 1: And thought the date went well. He says he's reached

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Speaker 1: out since then for another date and you're not responding.

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Speaker 1: He feels like he's being ghosted. So what, you know,

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Speaker 1: what's kind of your side of the story. Is that true?

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Speaker 1: Are you avoiding him?

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, he seemed normal at first and he

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it was just a weird situation. Do

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Speaker 3: you want me to tell you what happened?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely? We all we would like you to tell us

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Speaker 3: Okay, So yeah, he asked this, you can order for

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Speaker 1: And that was why he want that?

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Speaker 3: What's the yeah? And then he yeah, he said that

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Speaker 3: he like wanted to hook up, but that I like

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Speaker 1: So he wanted you to like in gorge and eat

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Speaker 1: Like isn't that the exact opposite of how you get

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Speaker 1: most people to hook up with you? Like, I don't

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Speaker 1: normally think eat everything, Let's go to let's go to

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Speaker 1: the you know, Brazilian steakhouse and just all the meat

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Speaker 1: it on blue cheese crest. No thank you, no thank you, Ryan.

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Speaker 1: So you think he was in because he's watching you

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Speaker 1: eat and then he wants to go home and do

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Speaker 3: I think he used to do this so much that

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Speaker 3: I felt sick and then he wanted to hook up.

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Speaker 1: I've Igatin mentioned that Carl is here the masochist. Carl,

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Speaker 1: what what?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Look it's it's not masochism, Okay, it's it's a

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Speaker 2: well known thing. It's called them all right, and yeah,

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Speaker 2: and yeah I'm into it.

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Speaker 1: It's called I'm a feeder, all right.

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Speaker 2: I feed my partners and they get, you know, till

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Speaker 2: they're full, and then we have an amazing sexual experience together.

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Speaker 1: And you know, you know, you guys, you guys are

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Speaker 1: knocking it. Have you ever tried it? No? You have,

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Speaker 1: all right, I mean not a purpose but sex, Yes,

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Speaker 1: but not the first time. Yeah, I know it's usually

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Speaker 1: like you know, the comfort levels too high? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: it's way too high at that point. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know I'm getting I'm getting a lot of judgment

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I signed up for that

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Speaker 1: when I asked you guys help. Okay, okay, well let's

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Speaker 1: relax for a second, Carl, And no one's judging you.

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Speaker 1: I think we're trying to figure out okay, well is

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Speaker 1: I'm not judging you. I'm trying to figure out, you know,

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Speaker 1: where's the turn on? Right? But for him that's his thing, feederism.

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Speaker 1: Did you make that up? Or is that real?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: There is a small community of us. We we are

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Speaker 2: small but vocal. You guys are laughing. I mean, I mean,

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Speaker 2: you look it up.

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Speaker 1: I think it's we're not thing and I'm laughing. Your

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Speaker 1: passion is amazing.

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Speaker 2: The sex, it's the best sex I've ever had when

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Speaker 2: I'm with a partner who is you know, filled to

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Speaker 2: the guilt.

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Speaker 1: Stop.

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Speaker 2: If you guys, if you got to come down from

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Speaker 2: your ivory power and listen to me for a second

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Speaker 2: with you, maybe you know you could see things.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you have to eat? Though? I don't get that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: wouldn't this be like both of you eat? No? Are

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Speaker 1: you going? Are you guys listening? I'm I'm the fever.

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Speaker 4: I wish I would say, okay, okay, I give my

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Speaker 4: partner the food.

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Speaker 1: I provide them and.

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Speaker 2: Then once they're you know.

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Speaker 4: So you feed, you feed her and then y'all go

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Speaker 4: to bas and I'm like garlic butter and get it,

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Speaker 4: pass it.

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Speaker 1: And that's that well, and it's amazing. It's absolutely amazing. Mean,

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Speaker 1: what did you want to say? I mean, Kiki's into this,

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Speaker 1: I guess carling later, but uh, what did you want

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's the thing it is, that's what you're into whatever,

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Speaker 3: But you need to just close that to somebody before

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Speaker 3: you have him on a date and start making them

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Speaker 3: do that. You should talk about it, curse.

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Speaker 1: You know, this is I'm not he need you to

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Speaker 1: cal him down, sir. He's exctly passionate about his craft.

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Speaker 4: Hungry, That's what I meant. He's angry. He doesn't get Carl,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna let what what did you get to say?

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Speaker 4: Something else? What do you want to say?

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Speaker 2: You know, it's it's I thought I had made some

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Speaker 1: You know, and like the day you know, I'm not

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Speaker 1: I'm not a mind reader, all right.

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Speaker 2: I don't have a crystal ball over here, Okay, but

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Speaker 2: I mean I think, you know, from what from what

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Speaker 2: we're talking about it now, and that's that's step one.

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Speaker 1: To in the process on the radio, in the conversion process. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: You weren't up front about it. And here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: There's the field app so you can go on there

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Speaker 3: and oh yeah, hey, everything that you're into, and like.

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Speaker 1: We talked about it. You have no idea?

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Speaker 3: Is you?

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Speaker 1: But no you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, trick me and gross.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm with you the number one way to

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Speaker 1: get me to probably not hook up with you, Like

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Speaker 1: if you're on a day with me and you don't

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Speaker 1: want to mess around, like just stuff food in my face,

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Speaker 1: like you know, make me eat more, because then I

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Speaker 1: get home I feel disgusted. Don't you feel tired too?

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Speaker 1: Like the only thing I want to do is get

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Speaker 1: it on, like I just want to lay like a

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Speaker 1: beach oil like vertically. Yeah. Well, don't hey, be careful.

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Speaker 1: Carl's getting turned off. Yeah all right, Look, I mean

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Speaker 1: i'll ask the question. I think I know the answer.

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Speaker 1: But would you be interested in going out with Carl again?

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Speaker 1: All right? Not not interested? Hey, Carl, Look, no one's

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Speaker 1: judging you, no one's king shaming you. Do whatever you do.

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Speaker 1: I do. You got to realize, I think it's not

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Speaker 1: gonna be for everybody.

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Speaker 2: You know, feeders are the most maligned thanks in this country.

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Speaker 2: And I think one day it's you know, one day

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Speaker 2: that the table's gonna you know, be on the other foot,

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Speaker 2: and it's gonna turn.

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Speaker 1: The table gonna be on the other foot. Huh And

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: You know what, you know what I'm saying, I get

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Speaker 2: you know, I mean, this is just frustrating.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you're frustrated. Carl on the streets Carl,

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Speaker 1: Yeah you think. Okay, Well, Kaylen's interested, excuse me, Kiky's interested.

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Speaker 1: Paulina might be interested. I'm not sure you'll have to

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Speaker 1: hit them up separately. But all right, guys, thank you

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Speaker 1: for your time. Best of luck to both of you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you. The Entertainment Report. Kaylyn has it next, Kevin

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Speaker 1: the Science Feature versus show Biz Shelley in our pop

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Speaker 1: culture battle the Show Bis Shelley show Down for four

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Speaker 1: hundred bucks. That's next too. Fred Show's on