1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: I listened to The Black Guy You Tips podcast because 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: Rod and carried to Hot Hi. 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of The Black Guy Who Tips Tips, Tips, 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: Tips Tips. 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 3: I'm your host, Rod joined us always with my co 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 3: host Carrie and Carrien Karen and we are live on 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 3: a Tuesday, ready to do some podcasting as always. I 8 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 3: was on the radio to day, so you may have 9 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 3: heard me locally if you're in Charlotte or I guess 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 3: you can. 11 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 2: Be anywhere with the Internet. 12 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 3: But I got to do live sports radio for hour 13 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 3: and uh, you know, my parents texted me and said 14 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 3: it was good, and my uncle hit me up on 15 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 3: Facebook and said he enjoyed it, and uh, it also 16 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 3: comes out in podcast forms, so if you want to 17 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 3: hear some very insular Charlotte, North Carolina sports talk. 18 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 4: They talked about Transformers too. 19 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes we did. 20 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 4: We did talk about movies via fn Z. 21 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 22 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: But well, I was gonna say, you can listen to 23 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 3: it on podcasts if you just search Wes and Walker, 24 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 3: the West and Walker Show. 25 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 2: That's what I was on. 26 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 3: And it was fun and yeah, I've never done live 27 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 3: radio in the studio before, so that was cool. 28 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, because I asked you about it because I was like, 29 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 5: that's got to be completely like different different. So that's 30 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 5: I was like, well, how was it to actually be 31 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 5: in the studio? Yeah, you know, so I had all 32 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 5: those questions. 33 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 2: I feel like. 34 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 3: It's that ten thousand hours. We've done this so much 35 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 3: that it was like riding a bike. I just hopped 36 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 3: right in. And then because it's radio, I know, not 37 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 3: the curse and stuff, I'm able to. 38 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 2: I'm lucky. 39 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 3: That's one of my gifts is I can turn it 40 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 3: on and off. So there was no like weird moments 41 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 3: they have to dump anything I said or whatever. 42 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 2: There were some buttons in there. 43 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 3: They were a little different, so like there's a button 44 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 3: for if you want to cough. There's a button for like, yeah, 45 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: if you want to like mute or whatever. That's like 46 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 3: so there's some difference. 47 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 5: Okay, Like like that's some more of the questions that 48 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 5: I had, like you know, like for the board and 49 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 5: like like like that part of it. You know, because 50 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 5: I know you've done like the Carora Hunters show, because 51 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 5: I know that you've been on. 52 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 3: Like radio before, but it's dif between that and you 53 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 3: actually I'm just I'm just telling you it's like riding 54 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 3: the bike. It felt like, Okay, I could have done 55 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 3: it from here. It just felt like it wasn't that. 56 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 3: You know, I don't get nervous about that kind of stuff. 57 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 3: I don't know why, but it's just a very It's 58 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 3: the same way when we do a lot of podcasts 59 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: and I know you and Justin and other people getting nervous, 60 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 3: that's when I'm the least nervous. 61 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: So but it was great. 62 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 3: It was fun and I had a good time, and 63 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 3: they were like, you know, you got to come back, 64 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 3: and you know, I was like, I'll try, you know, 65 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 3: because it was hard to go that time because I'm 66 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 3: so damn busy. I always got some shit to do. 67 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 3: I always think I'm not busy. But I started this 68 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 3: new practice this week of writing this month, of writing 69 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 3: down every single thing I promised to do on the 70 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 3: physical calendar, and I look up and every day. 71 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 2: Had some shit everything. 72 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 5: It's something for you every now and then it's something 73 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 5: for me, but most of the time it's for years. 74 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's always some shit going on, all right. Without 75 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 3: further delay, though you saw the episode description. I don't 76 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 3: know what the title is going to be in the future, 77 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 3: but it's probably some really clever pun. Yeah, we have 78 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 3: comedian podcast or friend Mike Kaplan. 79 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 2: What's going on? 80 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: Man? Hey, thank you so much for having me. Here 81 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: are the seventeen things I thought of while you were talking. 82 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: Number one, I love that you say one of my 83 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:32,360 Speaker 1: gifts is that I can not swear if called upon. 84 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 2: Like a lot of people don't have that gift. It's 85 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: true for some a curse love. 86 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: I love that it's the Wes end Walker Show. I look, 87 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: I'm sure they're very successful. They've got a live radio show. 88 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: You're on it, your family. That's like another level of 89 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: fame when your family can find something that they're like, 90 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: what's a podcast the radio? You're on the radio. You 91 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: have radio on the radio. That's the name of this episode. 92 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: And I mean, we've just gotten started. But Wes and 93 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: Walker if you're listening, and why wouldn't you be? I 94 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: love your name makes sense, But what if you called 95 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: it Wes or Walker? Because or can mean like only 96 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: one of you has to be there, but if both 97 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: of you are there, it's totally fine. Like is it 98 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 1: gonna rain today or tomorrow? Rain today and tomorrow still 99 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: or it works? And if you do Wes or Walker, 100 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: then your abbreviation is WOW, So I like that wo W, 101 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: speaking of letters as I only am today and never before. 102 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: On Thursday night last week in New York City, I 103 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: went to go see Zach Sherwin's the Crossword Show. He 104 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: was on an East Coast tour, and in the show, 105 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: y'all's name, the name of the podcast, comes up as 106 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 1: an example of a super vocalic phrase, one that has 107 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 1: all five vowels and only one of each of all 108 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: five vowels. In fact, your name is uri vocalic, all 109 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: five vowels plus the sometimes why in guy the black 110 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: guy who tips. It's a perfect name for that because 111 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 1: five words, each one with a different vowel, and the 112 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: why goes along with the you, which is probably like 113 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 1: the vowel that needs a buddy. You know, all the vowels, 114 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: it's the loneliest one. And also in the word buddy, 115 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 1: you've got you and why anyway, that is so I'm 116 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: glad you weren't nervous, Karen. It's fine that you're nervous sometimes, 117 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: but I will tell you that I am most nervous 118 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 1: when I am riding a bike because I have never 119 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: learned how to do that, and those are the seventeen things? 120 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: Wow, it probably was seventeen. I'm not I didn't count, 121 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: but I'd love it. If somebody is. 122 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 5: Song's gonna go back and black it was seventeen, I'm 123 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 5: not counting it. I didn't learn a bike to ride 124 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 5: a bike until I was much older. The biggest reason 125 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 5: why is because like I had cousins then learned. 126 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 4: And I was older, and I used to watch them. 127 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 5: Ride a bike, and it was like watching a live 128 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 5: car crash. 129 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 4: They would just get on and just running the poles, 130 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 4: running to the. 131 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 5: Side of the house, you know, running to the shade, 132 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 5: running to the fence. And I was like, nah, I'm 133 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 5: good on now. I was like that, don't look fun, 134 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 5: y'all just running into shit. 135 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 3: Well, I that's why whenever I talked to Mike or 136 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 3: whenever I talked to Karen, I used the phrase differently. 137 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 2: You know. 138 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 3: So if they're like, oh, how did you learn to 139 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 3: lift weights? With Karen, I'm like, it's just like riding 140 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 3: a bike. I didn't start until much later in life, 141 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 3: and with Mike really complicated. 142 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 143 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 3: And if Mike's like, oh have you ever you know, 144 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 3: what was it like murdering somebody? I was like, it's 145 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 3: like riding a bike. I've never done it, and I 146 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 3: don't really want to learn how. It's too late to 147 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 3: really be learning that kind of shit. 148 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: You know, Rod, what one of your gifts is is 149 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: being able to turn honor off the meaning of riding 150 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: a bike. Like some people, they're locked in there, like 151 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: I know what it means, just like an elephant, I 152 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: never forget. Look, I think most elephants never learned how 153 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: to ride a bike. Also, whoever in the comments pointed 154 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: out my new haircut, It's true. This is my first 155 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: first podcast debut, new haircut. Didn't get a haircut. 156 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 2: Since last July. Wow, that one a couple of days ago. 157 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: Had been going quite a while. Yeah, who it is 158 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 2: is my captain exactly. It's a croud show. Hello, well 159 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 2: looks great. Man. 160 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely love it. 161 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: I do, oh man, I love I love you guys, 162 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: and I also love that. Whenever you hear the phrase 163 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: Karen like it's just like riding a bike, You're like, ah, yes, 164 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: of course, causing great damage to yourself like my cousins, 165 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: you know, riding into all manner of physical objects. 166 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 5: Yes, eventually you figured it out, but I'm assuming it 167 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 5: was hard to get there. 168 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 3: I'm on Heroin. I'm a functional Heroin addict. It's just 169 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 3: like riding a bike first to start off injure yourself, 170 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 3: but figure it out. 171 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 2: Yes, sometimes you die. Yeah, you know that happens a 172 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 2: lot on bikes. 173 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 3: That does normally the people that don't know how to 174 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 3: ride them, which you know, you gotta be careful. 175 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 2: Mike man, what you been up to? 176 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: Dude? 177 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 3: Just feels like last time we talked to you, I 178 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 3: want to say, you were going, uh you you were 179 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 3: going to overseas to do a festival. Yeah, we did 180 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 3: your show and then it was like you were going 181 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 3: comeback to New York, but you weren't going to live 182 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 3: in the same place anymore because like that was happening 183 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 3: and yeah, like so where are you living now? 184 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 2: And how's things going? Thank you so much. It's just 185 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 2: like riding a bike. 186 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: Who knows that's the name of your episode obviously, what 187 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: does it mean to you? X marks the bike spot. 188 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: So yes, last last summer we must have talked. I 189 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: went Reeny and I we had moved out of were 190 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: Brooklyn home because we had to the beginning of June 191 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: and then did not have a home until the beginning 192 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: of November. Really, so five months we were home free, traveling, 193 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: traveling for comedy a lot, and then for one month 194 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: we stayed at my mom's while she was out of town. 195 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: While she was she has a place in Florida, and 196 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: so we stayed in her home in New Jersey. But 197 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: after that point we were like, we it's nice to 198 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:29,199 Speaker 1: have a home. Reeney in particular, grew up moving around 199 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: a lot and so values. Look, I don't know what 200 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: you're like, but she likes. 201 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 6: A home and stability, and well, I'm like, it's so 202 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 6: weird because people always say home is where the heart is, 203 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 6: but honestly, is where the property and your stuff is normally? 204 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 2: Is yea the heart kind of travels? Yes it does. 205 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, I say, yeah, heart is where the home is, 206 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: you know, like this is where where Renie lives. 207 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 2: Like that's the important stuff. 208 00:09:58,320 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, like, hey, do you have a key that 209 00:09:59,880 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: I I can use to close up my belongings so 210 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: that when I come back they're still there. That's that's 211 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 1: where the That's where the home is. But yeah, RENI 212 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: the homie is here in a hearty heart is. 213 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is my home, girl. 214 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: Absolutely, So we went to among other places. The longest place, 215 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: the longest stay we had was in Edinburgh, the first 216 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, all of August last year, where 217 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: I performed the show that is now called Before We 218 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: Get Started, previously known as Imperfect, but before Before We 219 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: Got started calling it Before We Get Started, we called 220 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: it something else that was not as perfect imperfect. So 221 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: and that show we are now this August, going to 222 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: be filming as a special in New York City on 223 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,079 Speaker 1: August twenty second. So everyone, whenever you're listening, if it's 224 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: before that, quick get to New York. 225 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 2: I'm excited, super excited to do it. 226 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: Reenie and I have been working on this show for 227 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: uh we've been together for about eight years. 228 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 2: Oh wow, in two days it'll be eight years. 229 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: Wow and yeah, thank you, thank you. I'll take your 230 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: pre pre grats. 231 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 2: And uh yeah. 232 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: And so we we shared the show there and now 233 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: are excited to get it on tape. And in tape, 234 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: you know, like that's how you tape thing. Somebody is 235 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: going to be I think physically drawing it on a 236 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: cave wall is where it'll be, and uh yeah, and 237 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 1: somebody then you just move back and forth and it 238 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: looks animated. 239 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 3: You can have the first ever special that is done 240 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 3: by a courtroom sketch artists. 241 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 2: No one's done that yet. 242 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: I love it, or a caricature artist as well. So 243 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 1: just me with a gigantic head, tiny tiny hands, little violin. 244 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 1: But yeah, so from August to August, that's bit. We've 245 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,719 Speaker 1: been getting that show ready. And uh, like I said, 246 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: we found the place that I'm in right now, our 247 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: home in chill See, the neighborhood of Chelsea in New York, 248 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 1: more specifically Hudson Yards, right near the high Line. 249 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: I don't know if you have ever walked the high Line. 250 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: It's a lovely I've seen it very Oh yeah. It's 251 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 1: a thin vertical park that goes from like you know, 252 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: fourteenth Street to like thirty something. 253 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 2: It's a couple of miles long. It is beautiful and 254 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 2: I walk it frequently. 255 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: There's a whole foods at the end of it, so 256 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: it's perfect to spend all my money. And yeah, it's 257 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: we've been I've been living here and we've been in Manhattan, 258 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 1: and so I've been mostly walking to most of my 259 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: shows in Manhattan. You know, it's pretty great. And then 260 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: if I have to go to Queens or Brooklyn Trains 261 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 1: are like. We live right near Penn Station and Madison 262 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: Square Gardens. So if anyone ever cancels a gig at 263 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: the garden, I'm available. If the booker is like, hey, 264 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift can't make it, so just if you want 265 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 1: to fill in, I think it'll be you know, to 266 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 1: my mom. When my mom first started listening to Taylor 267 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: Swift a couple of years ago, Like, my mom is 268 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: a classically trained musician, listened to like Billy Joel and 269 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: John Denver growing up, and then also mainly you know, 270 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 1: variously Bach, Beethoven and such classical, Baroque, romantic, hundreds of 271 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: years old stuff. But she started listening to Taylor Swift 272 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: pretty recently. And if you remember, but I was a 273 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: musician and I am a musician, you know, for most 274 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: of my life. I've written songs, and my mom loves 275 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: my songs. And when she listened to Taylor Swift for 276 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: the first time, what she said to me. She said, 277 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift's music reminds me of yours. So if the 278 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: audience of Swifties is like my mom, then I would 279 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 1: be a perfect replacement for Taylor Swift at Madison Square Garden. 280 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 2: Yes, they start a hashtag they love her Heart. 281 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 3: Actually, I think if they do that, it's gonna be 282 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:45,559 Speaker 3: mad at Sun Square Gardens. 283 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 2: They don't be mad. Wow, they're gonna be mad at 284 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 2: rod that was. 285 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 1: Garden, Like no notes will I'm gonna use That's gonna 286 00:13:56,320 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: be my opener a Square Gardens battle and hear them 287 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:04,719 Speaker 1: to me. Also, Reenie and I have been watching we're 288 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: almost to the end of the second season of The Bear. 289 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 2: Y'all, y'all watch The Bear. I watched the first season, 290 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,079 Speaker 2: but not the second. Oh, oh my god. 291 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: I like, I don't know if you're exactly like me, 292 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: and I assume that you are in every way. Yes, 293 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: but we watched the first season, like, you know, a 294 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 1: year ago, and we're like, this is good. Right, it's good, 295 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: but some of it's a little intense and it's not like, 296 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: uh like a like a really Reenie made this point 297 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: about the episodes that we watched in the. 298 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 2: Past week, like each one, like we usually, like you. 299 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: Know, binge through a bunch all of what we watch 300 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: a season in two days sometimes, but for these, she's like, 301 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: each one is like a really rich meal that might 302 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: take a week to process. Yeah, be like, but also 303 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: the second season, like it's been a long time since 304 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: we watched the first season. The second season there's like 305 00:14:54,680 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: at least half of the episodes are like heartfelt, sweet, beautiful, 306 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 1: endearing character pieces that like do something completely different than 307 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: the first season was doing, like with the same Like 308 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 1: the first season was like a setup for this beautiful 309 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 1: follow through. So I really recommend the second season. I mean, 310 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 1: start with the first season, but the second season, god, 311 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: there's well, there's some episodes. 312 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 2: I think that might be why it took me. 313 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 3: Why I haven't started the second season is because the 314 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 3: first season is so intense, and I was taking a 315 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 3: break after every episode because it'd be like like and 316 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 3: also I worked in the food industry and so it 317 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 3: was very it was very like triggering because it is 318 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 3: like that back there. 319 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 4: I know, it's coming in back of the house. 320 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, like some of the way people talk to each 321 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 3: other and people's issues that they bring from outside inside. 322 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 3: And I was like, and then it's in a comedy category, 323 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 3: but it's like not funny, it's very dramatic. 324 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 2: So yeah, it was. It was a lot. 325 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: It's like life, you know, like some people are like 326 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: life is it's funny, and you're like, yeah, there's sometimes 327 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: that life does other things too, And I feel like 328 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: Alan Moore, the comic genius writer, once said something or 329 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: maybe it was Neil Gaman, some some great comic writer 330 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 1: who's brilliant, said something about like life is like every genre. 331 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 1: Like there's comedy, there's horror, there's drama, there's romance. Sometimes 332 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: there's porn. You know, like whatever it is if you're lucky. 333 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, the Bear second season, like definitely there may 334 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: be some episodes that you might need a break after. 335 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: Like there's one that like Bob Odenkirk and Malaney are 336 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: in and it's like one of the longest yeah, and 337 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 1: it's it's just a Christmas dinner. But like the characters 338 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 1: in the season, like they grow and change in dramatic 339 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: and meaningful ways, so like I'm excited for you. Yeah. 340 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and yeah. 341 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 3: And that's the other thing they were good at too, 342 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 3: is having amazing guest stars come in and do like, 343 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 3: you know, this thirty minute TV show and so you 344 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 3: just look up and like John Burnhal's in it, and 345 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 3: you're just like, wait, what did I miss something. 346 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 2: It's like, oh, he's gonna stay the whole episode. 347 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 3: What is this so like that's definitely like the big 348 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: joker that they've been that they have over there. You 349 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 3: did mention your working on a show and it's called 350 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 3: Before We Get Started, And you also mentioned that in 351 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 3: two days it'll be the eighth anniversary of being with 352 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 3: your girlfriend, REMI I to make sure, I said. 353 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 2: Renie, and I Renie. 354 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:34,239 Speaker 3: Sorry, So I gotta ask you about this show and 355 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 3: what it's about, and also when are you and Rene 356 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 3: gonna finally get married? 357 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:40,400 Speaker 2: Man, it's been eight years. Ha ha. 358 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad that you asked the question, because Rod, 359 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 1: the show is about what the fuck you just said, 360 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 1: I want to spoil it. It is about my relationship 361 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 1: with Renie and the growth. Like so it was originally 362 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: called Imperfect because it was more about the focus was 363 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: on like me and like my improvement in life as 364 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 1: you know, as a comedian, as a boyfriend, as a 365 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 1: human being, and like it is still about that, but 366 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: the more I've been with Renie and like, the more 367 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 1: like it is about it has been co created by us, 368 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: like she has some of the things that are in 369 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: it are literally just she said a thing, and I'm like, 370 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: I will now say that, and some of them, I say, 371 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: she says it. Some of them are just like you 372 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: know her, it's it's both of us. And so the 373 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 1: more that we've been working on it, like, the more 374 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 1: it is sort of shifted and morphed into being a 375 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 1: show about, like, you know, the growth and manifestation of 376 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 1: our togetherness and our relationship and the fact that you know, essentially, 377 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 1: you know, behind the scenes, like we are, we're together 378 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 1: as forever as possible. You know, we are planning not 379 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 1: to die, because it would be very sad if one 380 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: of us died or you know, we we remain open 381 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: to the idea that you know, maybe once we're one hundred, 382 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 1: one thousand, whatever, when we've lived as much as we 383 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 1: think is good, then we will be like at the 384 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 1: at once, like not like a murder suicide, will be 385 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 1: like and we're out, you know, just at the same time, 386 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: clock out, because that's the only thing that would be 387 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: super fair, because it'd be very unfair for one of 388 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 1: us to go without the other so deep and powerful. 389 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys have ever had a 390 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 2: love like that, but. 391 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's the show is about mainly about our relationship. 392 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 1: It's also about you know, philosophy and quantum physics and Nintendo. 393 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: It's a good mid about Nintendo and and psychedelics and 394 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,880 Speaker 1: you know, just learning, learning lessons in life. 395 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm that's that's what it is. And uh, 396 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:58,440 Speaker 2: when is this again? 397 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 1: Filming in New York City August twenty seconds. 398 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 2: August twenty seconds, So make sure y'all are there. 399 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 3: We have a lot of fans in New York. I 400 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 3: can vouch for Mike seen them in person doing stand up. 401 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 3: Amazing amazing energy, so funny. It's so it's so crazy 402 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 3: because like his brain is just like going one hundred 403 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 3: miles an hour, and part of you feels like your 404 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 3: brain can't catch up, but your brain does catch up, 405 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 3: and then you're laughing and you're catching up, but you're also. 406 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 2: Never fully ahead of any joke and. 407 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 3: It feels like it's never gonna stop, and you're just laughing, 408 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 3: and it's like you gotta try to catch your breath 409 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 3: between last. He's just so funny man, and I know 410 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 3: this show is gonna be great. And if you've ever 411 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 3: listened to his stand up specials, because they're out there 412 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 3: too already, you can go check check out his old 413 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 3: specials too, so you can be like, Okay, yeah, this 414 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 3: dude's got it cuz just it's very funny but also 415 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 3: relatable and very unique. I don't think there's any other 416 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 3: comedic voice out there that that reminds. 417 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 5: Me of you. 418 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:05,959 Speaker 1: Man. 419 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 2: No, that's so sweet. Thank you, thank you. 420 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:14,919 Speaker 1: And it's great to get the opportunity to record it 421 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 1: because then people can pause it or slow it down 422 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: or listen back multiple times, like if you're in the 423 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 1: room and you're like, why is everybody laughing? 424 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 2: Great question? 425 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 1: And also both of you are I feel like, look 426 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: the kind things that you say about me, both of 427 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,360 Speaker 1: you Rene shared with me once. I don't know where 428 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 1: this came from originally, she said they they say, somebody 429 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,199 Speaker 1: said somebody whyse some genius is like, we see the 430 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,719 Speaker 1: world not as it is, but as we are. So 431 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 1: anything you see in someone else you think someone's an asshole. 432 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,680 Speaker 1: That's kind of an asshole thing to do, right, I'm like, 433 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: that guy's an asshole. You're an asshole obviously a little bit, 434 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: just a little bit. I'm not saying it's there, but 435 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: you to be able to see someone as an asshole, 436 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 1: it takes an asshole to see it. As it takes 437 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 1: a thief to catch a thief, you know what I mean, 438 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 1: that's what police and that's why they're criminals, and you 439 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,679 Speaker 1: rod like for you to see my brain as fast 440 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 1: from the person who just came up immediately with mad 441 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 1: at Sun Square Garden. 442 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 2: I appreciate it. 443 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: And to the questioners in the chat saying when can 444 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: we start buying tickets? They are available on event right 445 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: through my website if you go to Yeah, my website's 446 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,439 Speaker 1: the first, the best place to find them, or just 447 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 1: search event bright and find my show on August twenty second, 448 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 1: and if you you know, the tickets are like ten 449 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 1: bucks plus fees. But also if you want to come 450 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: and you know that's tough for you. I have a 451 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: limited guest list as well, and I want anyone who 452 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 1: really wants to be there to be there. I love 453 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: that Maria Bamford a gigantic star, one of my favorite 454 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 1: human beings and comedians. She you know Phill's Theaters and 455 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: always offers people like, if you really want to come 456 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: and you can't afford it, let me know, and I 457 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 1: want you to be there, and I follow it in 458 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: her footsteps. I like, especially anytime that I'm in charge 459 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: and can get people on a guest list. 460 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 2: I can. So if you can't afford it, if you're 461 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 2: richer than me, then give me your money. 462 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 1: But if you don't, if you're not, if you can't, 463 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: your attention, your time, your presence is invited and welcome. 464 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 2: My website. 465 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 3: We do a similar thing with our live show is 466 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 3: we have it where because some people attend virtually, which 467 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 3: we always try to make sure we have that option, 468 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 3: and then the people that attend in person. Sometimes people 469 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 3: want to buy an in person take it which costs more, 470 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,199 Speaker 3: but they can't make it. Yeah, and so we just 471 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 3: started like a thing of like donate them if you 472 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 3: want to send us your your PDF foul or whatever 473 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 3: and you want us to give it away to a 474 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 3: person who's in the area but can't afford it, or 475 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 3: like we'll we'll do that. We've been doing that for 476 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 3: like three or four years and it is really cool 477 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 3: and also like really brings out the community and folks 478 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 3: because like you know, it ends up being a community 479 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,359 Speaker 3: because it's like I'm looking out for this person because 480 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 3: I can't afford to buy the ticket. So yeah, that's 481 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,160 Speaker 3: that's that's a really cool thing that you and Maria 482 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 3: Bamford both do. Also, you were talking about you weren't 483 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 3: Keith and the Girl the other day and I was 484 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,479 Speaker 3: listening to that and Keith brought up the phrase minimum rage, 485 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 3: and uh, I came up with that phrase. And I 486 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 3: thought it was a high compliment to me that you 487 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 3: thought it was funny clever, because I was like, yes, 488 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 3: if Mike, I knew it was clever. 489 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,439 Speaker 2: But the Mike Caplin silver proved means a lot to 490 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 2: me on these puns. 491 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:38,919 Speaker 3: It it's an idea I had for years, to the 492 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 3: point where we almost there was a. 493 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 2: I don't I guess contest. I don't know what we 494 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 2: call it. 495 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 3: But the local NPR radio station here was like, we're 496 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 3: gonna get in the like we want a new idea 497 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 3: for a new show, and they want you to submit 498 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 3: your idea. And I thought about submitting this, but honestly, 499 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 3: I was worried that it'd be the kind of thing 500 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 3: where you submit it and they can and still have 501 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 3: take your idea and use other people and do it themselves. 502 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,640 Speaker 3: That paperwork is really weird. We're like, oh, you gave 503 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 3: us the idea, but we don't actually want to use 504 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 3: your idea. You can't use your idea though you told 505 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 3: us about your idea. 506 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 2: So I never told it. 507 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 3: To him, and I just kind of kicked it around 508 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 3: and kicked it around and now doing it over Keith 509 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 3: and the girl and so Keith read one of those 510 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 3: type of stories and brought it up. And at first 511 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,360 Speaker 3: they just talked about the story and I was like, oh, 512 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 3: maybe Mike didn't like the pun. And then Mike stopped 513 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 3: at the end was like, hey, that was did you 514 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 3: come up with that? 515 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:34,400 Speaker 2: Was good? 516 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 7: I was like, I came up with that. He was like, oh, actually, 517 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 7: my buddy Rod came up with I was like, yes, 518 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 7: I did come up with that, so fun. Yeah, Well, 519 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 7: can I tell you number one? The thing that's great 520 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 7: about it, which you probably know. 521 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,119 Speaker 1: But like the thing that people I think don't like 522 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 1: about wordplay when they don't like it is I. 523 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 2: Mean, there's a few different things. 524 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: One is that maybe they've heard this joke a million 525 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,959 Speaker 1: times because it's right there and their dad said it 526 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: and they have you know, they don't like their dad. 527 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 2: And the other. 528 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: Thing is so if it's easy, if it's been done before, 529 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: the other thing is like, if you think somebody's communicating 530 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: something real to you, and then at the end it 531 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: is only for a joke, you know, You're like, they're like. 532 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 2: You lied to me. I was listening to you. 533 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: They're like, I thought that this comedy was going to 534 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 1: be like a heartfelt story, brutal honesty, like self reflection, 535 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 1: and then like, what is even real about you? You 536 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: tricked me? That is another thing people don't like about it. 537 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: But what's beautiful about Like one of my favorite word 538 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: plays that I heard. I don't know where it originated, 539 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: but I saw it in the movie The twenty fifth 540 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 1: Hour with Ed Norton. It was champagne for my real 541 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: friends and real pain for my sham friends. And like, 542 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 1: the beautiful thing about that and minimum rage is that 543 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,280 Speaker 1: it's like it's simple, elegant, and like if you've never 544 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 1: heard it before, it's new, it's innovation, it's creative, and 545 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 1: most importantly, it means something. It means something like real, 546 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 1: it's not only I mean, look, jokes are great if 547 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 1: something's only a joke and you know it's only a joke, 548 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,880 Speaker 1: and the joke is the joke, and you love a joke, 549 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: wonderful and if the joke can of something deeper, uh, 550 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 1: then even better can I tell you one more thing 551 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 1: about a moment where I was you rod uh and 552 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 1: I was proud of a wordplay that I made and 553 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 1: where you are happy to get my seal of approval. 554 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 2: I got a seal of approval. 555 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 1: From Dan Savage, who is one of my favorite human beings, podcasters, 556 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: advice columnists, and uh he on his on his show 557 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 1: at one point or in his you know, somewhere on 558 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: in the Savage Love universe, somebody asked the question, uh, 559 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: so when a man is has a is married, but 560 00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 1: has you know, a partner on the side that call 561 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: her a mistress? But there isn't historically a word like 562 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 1: that for what if a woman is married and she 563 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 1: has a partner on the side, who's a man? You 564 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 1: know in this heteronormative setup, right if there's and it 565 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be. But so they're like, okay, so 566 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 1: a woman cheating is a mistress? 567 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 2: What is a man cheating? 568 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 1: And I was like, well, you know there's mom and dad, 569 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,119 Speaker 1: so there's mistress and distress. 570 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 2: It's a distress. 571 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: And Dan was like, man, I wish I had thought 572 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: of that, And I was like, that's all I need. 573 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 2: You know, events that still of approved I know. 574 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 3: We also covered recently that he came up with the 575 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 3: phrase tally emory, where people tolerate someone cheating, and I've 576 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 3: read it on the show and Karen's like, that's just 577 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 3: cheating and I was like, yeah, but you know, okay, 578 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 3: well word let me. 579 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. Here's so. 580 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:59,239 Speaker 1: Dan is famous for uh neologisms, coining new words and 581 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 1: phrases over the years. Like you guys, know, have you 582 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 1: heard of Santorum, either the substance or the political figure? 583 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 3: Okay, yes, yes, but this conversation for the Congress no, no, 584 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 3: So you can explain to that for for the listener, 585 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 3: for anyone out there who might not have known. 586 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: Like about twenty years ago, when Rick Sontorum was first 587 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 1: coming to uh, you know power in Congress uh and 588 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 1: becoming like a you know, a presidential candidate. Uh, he 589 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 1: was very anti gay, very you know, like uh, you know, 590 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: anti you know, marginalized communities and as such as a 591 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: homophobic politician. Dan was like, we should try to make 592 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: it so that when you search his name, something he 593 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: doesn't like will come up instead. And so he like 594 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 1: put it out to his readers, what do we want 595 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 1: Santorum to me to mean? And he he made it 596 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: so that somebody I think the winning answer was the 597 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: frothy mix of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes 598 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: a byproduct of anal sex, and you know when you 599 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,959 Speaker 1: do it wrong. And so now yes, in the comments, 600 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 1: he's also anti abortion, anti knowledge, absolutely, and so they 601 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 1: did it. They got that to like trend and now 602 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 1: if you search Santorum you will find things about Rick Santorm, 603 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 1: you will also find that. So he also did a 604 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 1: similar thing with I think a place called the Saddleback Church, 605 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: which was a homophobic church, and he's like, what is saddlebacking? 606 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 1: And I think they back with the idea of saying, like, 607 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 1: you know how sometimes religious people of a certain type 608 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 1: of religion will be like, we're not allowed to have 609 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 1: vaginal intercourse before marriage, but we will have anal sex 610 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: because God doesn't care about that. And he's like, so 611 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: that'll be saddlebacking. I think that was what they came 612 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: up with for that. And I think Dan Savage coined 613 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: the term pegging. I think pegging the term didn't exist. 614 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 1: I think that was a Savage Love original debut. And 615 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: so so and Tallyamory is his most recent offering, which 616 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 1: is specifically just to get it out there. It's that 617 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: there are so Previously, he came up with the idea 618 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 1: of a PUD, which he calls polyamorous under duress, which 619 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: is that sometimes you have two people in a monogamous relationship, 620 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: maybe one of them wants to open it. 621 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 2: The other person loves the person, so be like, okay, 622 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 2: let you consent to it. But they do it. 623 00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 1: It wasn't their idea, so they're doing it begrudgingly, but 624 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 1: then hopefully they come to love it, Like like if 625 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 1: you had a kinky partner and they're like, I want 626 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: to be tied up, and you're like, well, I don't 627 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 1: want to tie people up, but I love you so 628 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 1: and it doesn't hurt anyone for me to I mean, 629 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: you want me to do it. 630 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 2: It helps you, you feel good. 631 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: And so Dan always says that if you go to 632 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: a kink event, you find two types of people, one 633 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 1: who knew they were kinky from when they were three, 634 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: and then the people who fell in love with those 635 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 1: people and then also fell in love with, you know, 636 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 1: the lifestyle that they have together. And so for polyamory, 637 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: there are people who have become, you know, ethically non 638 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 1: monogamous or polyamorous or brought that openness into their life 639 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 1: in some way because of the person that they loved, 640 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: not because it was their original choice. And so talamory 641 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,680 Speaker 1: is a further I feel like the tweak to that 642 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: he says is sometimes there's a couple that's together and 643 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: they know that one of them is, you know, is 644 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:27,640 Speaker 1: stepping outside of the monogamous bonds of their relationship, and 645 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 1: they are okay, they are tolerating it, and it is 646 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: I think, Karen, you're right. There is a spectrum of 647 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 1: you know, out and out cheating, like which is a betrayal. 648 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 2: And if people. 649 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 1: Knew about it, they would right, yeah, they would be 650 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 1: they would like leave or be mad or be very upset, 651 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 1: as opposed to like, you know, maybe I don't know 652 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:51,480 Speaker 1: the French model where people are like, look, we know 653 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 1: what's happening. It's a part of it, It's okay, Like 654 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: I'm like people have their eyes open, or like with Dan, 655 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:03,280 Speaker 1: sometimes talk to them porn in like in relationships where 656 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 1: let's say it's a man and a woman and the like, 657 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: there's an agreement where you know, they obviously some couples 658 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 1: watch porn together. Some women are very into porn. Some 659 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 1: men aren't as much into porn, though scientifically those men 660 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 1: have not really ever been found in large quantities, but 661 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: they tried to do a study years ago. 662 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 2: I had a job about it. 663 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 1: But there are some sort of like don't ask, don't 664 00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,760 Speaker 1: tell agreements that people sort of you know, either opt 665 00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: into or default into where it works for them. Where 666 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: the guy pretends they doesn't watch porn and is careful 667 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 1: to not you know, to cover his track so that 668 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: doesn't get in the way, and the woman is she'll 669 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 1: pretend to believe him that he doesn't watch porn, and 670 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: like as long as their sex life is good, as 671 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: long as their relationship is working in working order, then 672 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: they don't you know, there's people have a like a 673 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 1: zone of privacy that you know, you don't have to 674 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: tell each other every time you do something in the 675 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: shower or the bathroom or you know, something that can 676 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 1: be your own private, independent individual business, and you know, 677 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,840 Speaker 1: you you get that you each have that and you 678 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,280 Speaker 1: know you share the important things. 679 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 2: So yeah. 680 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:19,240 Speaker 1: Talamory long story longer is Dan's latest word for people 681 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 1: who have come to be polyamorate to tolerate polyamory in 682 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 1: their relationship in a way that some people might view 683 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 1: as cheating, but is not quite that far according to 684 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 1: either them or so. 685 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 3: I think what was funny about the description was, at 686 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 3: least the article we read, it was like non consensual, right, 687 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 3: And it was like, well, this agreement, there's a like 688 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,400 Speaker 3: that's one of those things where I'm like, there's a 689 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 3: lot of people in open relationships, is just open on 690 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 3: one side and they don't know about it, right, like, 691 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,440 Speaker 3: which is just like another you know, cheating joke or whatever. 692 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 3: But like I understood what he was trying to say, 693 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,719 Speaker 3: which is essentially like is a part like when you 694 00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 3: watch the Sopranos or something and you're like, she clearly 695 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 3: knows he steps out and has just decided that this 696 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 3: is just the life she's gonna have. And but because 697 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 3: they had never spoke about it and it wasn't like 698 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 3: an agreement, it was always like a fine line because 699 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 3: that person can always at some point be like, uh, 700 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 3: I'm not okay with you cheating on me all that 701 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,479 Speaker 3: you've been fucking all these people. And since we didn't 702 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 3: have a conversation and I didn't say it was okay, I. 703 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 2: Just kind of just didn't I didn't act like it 704 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 2: wasn't okay. 705 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 3: But the point being like this, I'm not now, it's 706 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,600 Speaker 3: just now, it's just cheating because we didn't talk about it. 707 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, here's an interesting component to it that 708 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,279 Speaker 1: I think that's one hundred percent yere. 709 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 2: I agree with you completely. 710 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: The weird thing about it is it's an identity that 711 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 1: the people who are experiencing it wouldn't like label themselves with, right, 712 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,960 Speaker 1: Like they wouldn't have a conversation about how, hey, we're polyamorous. Right, 713 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 1: that's the interest, like as a you know, in my 714 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 1: own relationship and in my life in general, in all 715 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 1: of my you know, rema relationships rather romantic or otherwise, like, 716 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 1: I value open communication, you know, like I've been in 717 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:16,359 Speaker 1: like open relationships that were varying degrees of like don't ask, 718 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 1: don't tell if like it was a long distance thing, 719 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,080 Speaker 1: like look, you're over there, I'm over here. Do what 720 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 1: you gotta do, do what you want to do, and 721 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 1: we do our thing. But definitely my preference, after experiencing 722 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 1: monogamy and now having been in this relationship which is 723 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 1: monogamous for the bulk of it many many years, I 724 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:39,520 Speaker 1: love the relation, you know, I like to think this 725 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 1: about my relationship. There's a Lenny Bruce quote that I 726 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 1: like a lot where he says, I'm not a comedian, 727 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm Lenny Bruce. And that's beautiful because like, ultimately, when 728 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 1: you're in comedy or in music, like to defy categorization, 729 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,919 Speaker 1: to be like, what's that? Like, it's not like anything else, 730 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,440 Speaker 1: Like what is Reggie Watts? He is just Reggie Watts? 731 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 1: Like what is bo Burnha'm sure he a musician, Sure 732 00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 1: he's a performance artist, but you don't get what he 733 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: is unless you experience directly who he is. And so 734 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, we're not I mean, we are monogamous, but 735 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, we're not a kind of relationship. 736 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 2: We are Mike and Renie. We are this this set, 737 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:17,320 Speaker 2: this set of beings. 738 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 1: And so I love that our relationship is, you know, 739 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 1: as openly communicative as it is, and that's just it 740 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:29,800 Speaker 1: feels good to know what the truth is, to share 741 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,319 Speaker 1: what the truth is, to discuss is the truth? What 742 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 1: is it still the same as it was today? Because 743 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 1: you know, our relationship has gone through many incarnations since 744 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,680 Speaker 1: we first met eight years minus two days ago, and 745 00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: it's wonderful and I would recommend that for anyone, but 746 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 1: out there there are people who communicate less, or communicate differently, 747 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,279 Speaker 1: or aren't as verbal. And if if your thing is 748 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 1: working for you, like I think Dan Savage. 749 00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,320 Speaker 2: Also really likes White Lotus. Have you guys watched White Lotus? 750 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 2: I haven't want I know. 751 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like in the second season, a relationship that 752 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 1: he views as like he's like, it's healthy in a 753 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 1: like they're doing a thing that works for them. It's 754 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 1: not on paper what most people who want, like a monogamous, 755 00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 1: you know, heteronormative relationship looks like. But sometimes monogamous relationships 756 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,719 Speaker 1: don't work the way that you know, people want them 757 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,240 Speaker 1: to completely agree. 758 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 3: It's one of the reasons why, like we've been together 759 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 3: at this point, like what twenty years? So yeah, something 760 00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 3: like two yeah, sixteen, we've been married since two thousand 761 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,319 Speaker 3: and two and datances of sixteen, right, And it's so 762 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 3: And what's so funny about that is that people will 763 00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,360 Speaker 3: occasionally write in and go, hey, can you guys do 764 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 3: like a relationship advice segment? Do you guys can you 765 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,879 Speaker 3: give some relationship advice and all this stuff? And I'm 766 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,360 Speaker 3: not saying that, you know, there's nothing of you that 767 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 3: we have to share about relationships. Obviously a lot of 768 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 3: people do, but I've never wanted to do that because 769 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 3: I so totally do believe in the principle of each 770 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 3: single relationship is unique, and it's unique between those two 771 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,719 Speaker 3: people or three people. 772 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:17,759 Speaker 2: Or whatever they're doing. 773 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,280 Speaker 3: And also in addition to each relationship kind of being unique. 774 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 3: I know there's tent poles of things, but like communication 775 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 3: is a tent pole for me. But what you communicate 776 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,879 Speaker 3: is up to you. So like your communications, Doyle might 777 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 3: be different than me. So I'm like, oh, sit down 778 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 3: and have this kind of a talking and you could 779 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,799 Speaker 3: be like, she hates those talks, you know, or you know, 780 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,360 Speaker 3: I remember we got married at to Justice and Peace 781 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 3: and occasionally so on a write in and be like, Rod, 782 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,520 Speaker 3: how'd you convince Karen get married. 783 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:47,959 Speaker 2: To Justice and peace? 784 00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 4: Really say? It's how you tricked her? 785 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, And what I want to tell him, and what 786 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,759 Speaker 3: I always tell him, is like, well, she, first of all, 787 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,319 Speaker 3: you have to meet a woman that already wants to 788 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 3: get married to justice a peace right, cause like that 789 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 3: helped a lot since I did can do any convincing. 790 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 3: It wasn't a talk or discussion of like, hey, please, 791 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 3: I know you want to get married in as chapel 792 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 3: and so, but there's nothing I could say to that 793 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,799 Speaker 3: person to convince. What I always end up saying is, 794 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:15,640 Speaker 3: do you have a person that wants to get married 795 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 3: at chapel or something? I would consider doing that because 796 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 3: that's what I would have done if I was dating 797 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,920 Speaker 3: Caring and she was like, I'm a chapel person, then 798 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:25,800 Speaker 3: I guess we have to meet it get a chapel. 799 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,800 Speaker 3: And so it is very unique and so I definitely 800 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 3: believe in that. And you know what works for people. 801 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,600 Speaker 3: I always say, like, love doesn't love anything but itself, right, 802 00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:39,439 Speaker 3: so what it caught like, whatever it takes to keep 803 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:43,160 Speaker 3: that love going is what people's love normally does. And 804 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 3: I'm not it's not always good or it's not always 805 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:49,880 Speaker 3: good either. Like I've watched some some some true crime 806 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,759 Speaker 3: stories where you're like, oh, yeah, my love hopefully would 807 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 3: stop before you know we're burying a body together. 808 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,000 Speaker 2: That seems like not a good thing. 809 00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 3: But when they interview these people, you know, when they're 810 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 3: confessing to the crime or police talking to them. Some 811 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 3: of them are even like in prison, and it's like 812 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 3: you need to we've already caught you the every like 813 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,160 Speaker 3: you can do less time if you would just cooperate 814 00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,759 Speaker 3: with us and the person who did the murder, they're 815 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 3: going away for a long time, and they'll even be like, 816 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 3: then I'll go away for a long time. 817 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:20,080 Speaker 2: I don't care. 818 00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,920 Speaker 3: And I'm like that is how like love is like 819 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 3: this most powerful scary thing to me, where it's like, 820 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,799 Speaker 3: it's beautiful, it's great. You'll jump in front of a 821 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 3: bullet for somebody, and that sounds awesome, but also you 822 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:36,800 Speaker 3: might shoot a bullet for somebody, which isn't as awesome. 823 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,840 Speaker 3: But it's the fact that it, whatever it takes to 824 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,200 Speaker 3: propagate itself is what it does. And so I don't 825 00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,279 Speaker 3: necessarily have the greatest advice because I don't know what 826 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,320 Speaker 3: the fuck your love is gonna do, and you're asking 827 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 3: me to know you and your relationship in a way 828 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 3: I can't. So I'm very kind of hand offish with that. 829 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,480 Speaker 3: Nothing's wrong with advice, it's just I've always do you 830 00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 3: see how far my brain just went. 831 00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:00,040 Speaker 2: I can't answer your question about. 832 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, And also what I've realized too, and as somebody 833 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,880 Speaker 5: and and and different people have different life experiences, a 834 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 5: lot of people go into relationships with baggage. 835 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:12,880 Speaker 2: It's like ridinghood. 836 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, a lot of damage, a lot of running 837 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 5: into buildings, a lot of crashing, a lot of breaking 838 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:23,440 Speaker 5: the bones. Ye yeah yes, So you know, for me, 839 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:30,160 Speaker 5: like it says, love un loves itself and love evolves 840 00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:32,640 Speaker 5: as you evolve, And a lot of people don't understand 841 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 5: that it changes as you change. It gets deeper, as 842 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:39,600 Speaker 5: as and and it strengthens, you know, according to you, 843 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:42,520 Speaker 5: because it's it's patient, is kind, it's general, it's love 844 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 5: and is jealous. 845 00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 4: You know, it can be a lot of. 846 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:46,239 Speaker 2: It's not, it's not. 847 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 3: It's I always say, you're not with the person you 848 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:51,919 Speaker 3: were with the day y'all met. 849 00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,640 Speaker 2: You just every day with like a new person. 850 00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,799 Speaker 3: It's like it's like if every day you woke up 851 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,879 Speaker 3: and it was like all the memories uploaded, new new 852 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:03,640 Speaker 3: rod loading volume forty five years plus as many days. 853 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,759 Speaker 5: I hope you are not the same person, like, no, 854 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 5: please grow and evolve. 855 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:09,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 856 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 1: Can I tell y'all seventeen things about what you just said? 857 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 2: Number one? I agree. I love that love. 858 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,920 Speaker 1: Only loves itself is beautiful and it reminds me of 859 00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:26,840 Speaker 1: my friend Gus shared with me he loves Victor Hugo, 860 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 1: and Victor Hugo said, Gus shared this with me once 861 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 1: in an email, he said. Victor Hugo said that God 862 00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 1: lives inside every person, and to love a person is 863 00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 1: to render them invisible, so that it's really just you know, 864 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 1: seeing like love, the love in you, seeing the love 865 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,160 Speaker 1: in them, and like all the clouds of the rest 866 00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:52,640 Speaker 1: of you know, human nonsense kind of just melts away. 867 00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 1: So that's that's number, you know, one through seven. The 868 00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,480 Speaker 1: second thing or whatever it is. 869 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:01,120 Speaker 2: I love. 870 00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,680 Speaker 1: I love that you said, you know, you got married 871 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,080 Speaker 1: in front of a justice of the piece. The only 872 00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,640 Speaker 1: thing is, it's weird, Like I've always heard people say, 873 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:09,799 Speaker 1: no justice, no peace. 874 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,000 Speaker 2: How did you get that happens? 875 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:15,239 Speaker 1: And it's been a pretty peaceful mar it is, and 876 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:19,920 Speaker 1: it reminds me when I was long long ago A'm 877 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 1: more an open relationship person. I remember I would go 878 00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,719 Speaker 1: on a lot of podcasts and talk about open relationships. 879 00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 1: And I remember I went on one and there was 880 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 1: a guy, an older comedian who was married, and he's like, 881 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:35,280 Speaker 1: you know, I feel like a classic response to open 882 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 1: relationships from like a certain kind of guy, a certain 883 00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:43,080 Speaker 1: kind of straight guy. He's like, well, how do I 884 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 1: how do I talk my wife into how do I 885 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,520 Speaker 1: get my wife to you know, sign up for that? 886 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 2: And at the time, I, you know, just joke. 887 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,120 Speaker 1: I was like, well, I mean, if you want me 888 00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,719 Speaker 1: to go out with your wife, I'm happy to if 889 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:58,560 Speaker 1: that's what If that's what you're saying. The main thing though, 890 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:03,040 Speaker 1: that Uh, here's two stories where I'm agreeing with you, 891 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 1: one from my own life and one from a cool 892 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 1: scientist I follow about how you don't want to give 893 00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 1: people advice about relationships because your advice might not be 894 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,360 Speaker 1: right for them. In fact, bonus extra thing is just 895 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,320 Speaker 1: answering a question in an email. So here's three more things. 896 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,439 Speaker 1: This is it three things and only then seventeen more things. 897 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 1: But so you guys noe Doug Stanhope, Yes, one of 898 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:30,840 Speaker 1: my favorite comedians. He said that when he was starting 899 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 1: out at an open mic, an older open micer said, 900 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,280 Speaker 1: like saw him giving advice to someone, and that guy's 901 00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,680 Speaker 1: name was Joey Scazola or something, and that guy said, 902 00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:47,120 Speaker 1: never give anyone advice because you're only telling them how 903 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 1: to be more like you, and like, maybe they want 904 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,359 Speaker 1: to be like you and that's great, you know, And 905 00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that advice is never like the best 906 00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,040 Speaker 1: thing to do. If somebody's asking you for advice, you 907 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,400 Speaker 1: can give them what you think could be helpful with 908 00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:06,160 Speaker 1: disclaimers like obviously circumstances you know, in context may change 909 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,880 Speaker 1: because the other thing is that here's number two of 910 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:12,240 Speaker 1: the final three. Sometimes, like I'll ask a wait person 911 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,120 Speaker 1: at a restaurant, be like, what's good here, like or 912 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:15,719 Speaker 1: what do you like? And they'll be like, oh, I 913 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,360 Speaker 1: love this. But then if you go a step further 914 00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 1: and be like, why do you love it? And they're like, 915 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,680 Speaker 1: I love olives and prunes, and this is the olive 916 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,040 Speaker 1: drenched prune, you know, Like, oh, well, then we're different 917 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:31,239 Speaker 1: and I will get a different thing. And finally there's this. 918 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:36,800 Speaker 1: So there's this scientist I follow on substack named Adam Mastroiani, 919 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: and he shared this thing. I'll read a brief snippet. 920 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 1: He says, what does it feel like to really be 921 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,239 Speaker 1: in love with someone? Is listening to a thousand love 922 00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,560 Speaker 1: songs is not the same as being in love. Neither 923 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 1: is reading about oxytocin or surveying a nationally representative sample 924 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,239 Speaker 1: of couples no one can explain it to you. And 925 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:57,680 Speaker 1: even if they could, they could only explain what it's 926 00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 1: like for them to love their partner, but they can't 927 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 1: explain what it'll be like for you to love yours. 928 00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:07,560 Speaker 1: It's like someone going to see Mission Impossible and explaining 929 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 1: the plot to you as if every movie is Mission Impossible. 930 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,440 Speaker 1: You'll love the part where Tom Cruise jumps out of 931 00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,080 Speaker 1: a helicopter, they explain confidently as you head off to 932 00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 1: see Steel Magnolia's you can't IMDb this one. 933 00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 2: This wu is straight up irreducible. I love that. That's adorable. 934 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 5: And what I've realized over the years one of the 935 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:34,919 Speaker 5: biggest reason why I don't give advice because most people 936 00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 5: don't listen to it anyway, and they just want to 937 00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 5: use your as an escapegoat. 938 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,720 Speaker 4: So something, yeah, so so something. 939 00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:46,160 Speaker 2: You know, who is the coat? Is Houdini is the 940 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:47,360 Speaker 2: escape goat? 941 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:56,760 Speaker 3: Julian Massages gave up the title. He was into contention. 942 00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,200 Speaker 1: Oh and if I only did sixteen, here's one or 943 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 1: My friend Renata, one of my dearest oldest friends from 944 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:08,960 Speaker 1: the Boston comedy scene, a mysterious angel in this world. 945 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:12,440 Speaker 1: She once told me that she was at at a 946 00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,200 Speaker 1: at an office job, and she had dreams of, you know, 947 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,280 Speaker 1: of having an artistic life, and she was telling someone 948 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 1: she worked with about it and the other person was like, 949 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:23,080 Speaker 1: you know what you should do? 950 00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,320 Speaker 2: And Renata is the kindest person. 951 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 1: So I don't think she said this to that person, 952 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,600 Speaker 1: but to me, you know, in the safety of our friendship, 953 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,400 Speaker 1: and I share with you she said something very kindly 954 00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: along the lines of like, oh, I don't need advice 955 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:42,480 Speaker 1: from you because you're where I am. I would like 956 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 1: advice if I want advice from people who are where 957 00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 1: I want to be. So yeah, I think best of that, Like, 958 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,319 Speaker 1: I think it makes sense that people ask you you 959 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:58,160 Speaker 1: clearly have something. What it like, how do you do it? 960 00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:58,719 Speaker 5: Is? 961 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:00,400 Speaker 2: What is going on with you? 962 00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 1: And then you can share, you know, all your like 963 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,239 Speaker 1: this is how Tom Cruise jumps out of the airplane 964 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,400 Speaker 1: or the helicopter or from a building to a building, 965 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,600 Speaker 1: and maybe your maybe your love is fast and maybe 966 00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 1: your love. 967 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:17,080 Speaker 3: And honestly sometimes you know that I know it's worked 968 00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:20,799 Speaker 3: for me sometimes where like someone said something and it 969 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,680 Speaker 3: made something click for me that you know, maybe I 970 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,480 Speaker 3: didn't go out and try to live their lives, but 971 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,400 Speaker 3: they gave me advice or they said something and it 972 00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:28,520 Speaker 3: just stuck with me forever. 973 00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,840 Speaker 2: Yes, a lot. Sometimes they don't even know it. 974 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:34,120 Speaker 3: I remember it was I was like seventeen, sixteen or something, 975 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 3: and uh, my best friend at the time, Rashida, was 976 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,400 Speaker 3: dating this guy that I thought it was kind of 977 00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,080 Speaker 3: like a like a loser or beneath her. But I 978 00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,120 Speaker 3: was like, yeah, you know, it's seventeen and we're in college. 979 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,200 Speaker 3: You can kind of do what you want to do. 980 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 3: It's not like, uh, you know, you never you know, 981 00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 3: it's not the end of the world. But I remember asking. 982 00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,319 Speaker 3: I was like, do do you love him? Because, like, 983 00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 3: you like, he's kind of like a guy you kind 984 00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,960 Speaker 3: of like, don't you kind of talked down about him, 985 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 3: like you don't like him? But then I'm a mad 986 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 3: like and she's like, no, I do like him. I'm like, okay, 987 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,640 Speaker 3: but do you love him? And she said I love 988 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 3: him for what I know, love to be right, And 989 00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 3: I said, God damn, that is the dumbest shit I 990 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:13,400 Speaker 3: ever heard of my life. 991 00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:15,719 Speaker 2: What the fuck is wrong with you? Rashida? I thought 992 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:16,640 Speaker 2: you were smart? 993 00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:21,000 Speaker 3: And then like ten years later I was thinking about 994 00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,200 Speaker 3: it and I was like, fuck, that is the only 995 00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 3: way people can love people. 996 00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,280 Speaker 2: That's the smartest thing I've ever heard in my life. 997 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,680 Speaker 2: She's a genius, it was, but I didn't. 998 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:34,759 Speaker 3: We weren't friends anymore because she that dude was weird 999 00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:35,880 Speaker 3: and didn't want us to be friends. 1000 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 2: He didn't, I thought. 1001 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,399 Speaker 5: And the thing is, I even missed Rashida, as wild 1002 00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,240 Speaker 5: as that may sound, like he was her best friend 1003 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:44,160 Speaker 5: and I miss her. 1004 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,480 Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, I guess her. 1005 00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,000 Speaker 4: So she's the first person the best. 1006 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,400 Speaker 3: We invented as far as I know, it's before the Internet. 1007 00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,760 Speaker 3: I didn't check the dates, but I believe we invented 1008 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,680 Speaker 3: tag Team pack Miss pac Man. We went to the 1009 00:50:56,800 --> 00:51:00,800 Speaker 3: arcade and you switch off after each level or each life, 1010 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 3: and uh, we were so ridiculous. 1011 00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:04,799 Speaker 2: We were in this. 1012 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 3: Arcade and we were like like running around yelling and stuff, 1013 00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 3: you know, like like. 1014 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,279 Speaker 2: It's it's like, go go watch over Blow. What the 1015 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,160 Speaker 2: fuck it's like you died? 1016 00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:18,560 Speaker 3: Okay mo switching like switching Everybody's like that is fucking fun. 1017 00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,279 Speaker 3: That's how you play some Miss pac Man over there. 1018 00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 3: I guess you could do that with any of those 1019 00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 3: Kay games. And I do want to talk about other 1020 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,000 Speaker 3: things that you might because news has happened. 1021 00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:28,760 Speaker 2: Oh of course. 1022 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,640 Speaker 1: Also, just real quick, do you have you ever played 1023 00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:35,120 Speaker 1: the four person pac Man or Miss pac Man? Not yet, 1024 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,279 Speaker 1: but it sounds like I'm gonna be Uh it's cool. 1025 00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:40,800 Speaker 2: We'll talk about that next time when it's the news. 1026 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,319 Speaker 5: We played a video game the other day. It wasn't 1027 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 5: even in English. 1028 00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:51,439 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I guess. All right, So there's a there's 1029 00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:53,880 Speaker 3: a what do you call those things? I want to 1030 00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:55,560 Speaker 3: say food Corp. But it's not really that. It's a 1031 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:58,399 Speaker 3: big building where there's a bunch of restaurants in it. Yes, 1032 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:02,240 Speaker 3: it's Asian themed. It's it's in a place called Super 1033 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,880 Speaker 3: g Mark and you go in and there's like just 1034 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:06,799 Speaker 3: tons and tons and tons of restaurants and. 1035 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,400 Speaker 2: You like food hall that's what they're called. Yeah, how 1036 00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:10,200 Speaker 2: did I not know that? 1037 00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 3: It's a hall of food and so you can order 1038 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,160 Speaker 3: from the different places you sit down, eat or whatever. 1039 00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:21,000 Speaker 3: But they also had like a small arcade with tokens 1040 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 3: and stuff, and so I was like, oh, you know, 1041 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:24,959 Speaker 3: I don't get a token. I got a dollar. We'll 1042 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:28,280 Speaker 3: spend it on a game. And we played some fucking game. 1043 00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:33,120 Speaker 3: It's just it's just three big ass buttons, like like 1044 00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:33,840 Speaker 3: the buttons. 1045 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:35,399 Speaker 2: The buttons are the size of your hand. 1046 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 4: I think they're being yellow, blue and red or. 1047 00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:39,480 Speaker 2: Something different colors. 1048 00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:44,600 Speaker 3: There's three joysticks and then it's not in English. You 1049 00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,279 Speaker 3: put the token in, you hit it's like, hey, you 1050 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,279 Speaker 3: pick your character, like you can make out certain things 1051 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,319 Speaker 3: just because you play video games before it. So it's like, oh, 1052 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,360 Speaker 3: I must be picking my character now. And then the 1053 00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,360 Speaker 3: next person they can pick their character, and if you 1054 00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,200 Speaker 3: have a third person, they can pick a character too, 1055 00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:04,600 Speaker 3: and then the the game starts and no game is 1056 00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,720 Speaker 3: the same and every round it is different. 1057 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:08,800 Speaker 2: It's random games. 1058 00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:12,480 Speaker 3: They all use the buttons, with the buttons in different ways. 1059 00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:15,879 Speaker 3: Nothing was in English, so we're just guessing. Like there's 1060 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,880 Speaker 3: one where like they put a man's head on a 1061 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 3: seal and the and then like different colored food flies 1062 00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,560 Speaker 3: at the seal and you have to hit the button 1063 00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:28,759 Speaker 3: to correspond with the food hitting the seals head and 1064 00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 3: eat it in the right order, and it has to 1065 00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:33,560 Speaker 3: be the right color of the food or else you 1066 00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:35,960 Speaker 3: don't get that round. There was there was the one 1067 00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:38,480 Speaker 3: where you have to like catch things falling. There's one 1068 00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,399 Speaker 3: we have to juggle. It was so fun, but Yeah. 1069 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,200 Speaker 3: It was extremely confusing. 1070 00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,080 Speaker 2: And I think I don't know how it came up, 1071 00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,280 Speaker 2: but it came up, all right. 1072 00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,080 Speaker 5: Because he was talking about a few times I Batman 1073 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:51,160 Speaker 5: with Marashida and. 1074 00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,399 Speaker 3: Vide Oh, yeah, there you go. I didn't know how 1075 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:56,439 Speaker 3: we got that. Caros got it. Here's let's talk about 1076 00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,840 Speaker 3: some stuff in the world. There's a sixteen dollars to 1077 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 3: your hotel deal. Were you sixteen dollars stay in this hotel? 1078 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:07,680 Speaker 3: You get clean sheets, okay, free coffee okay. 1079 00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:11,520 Speaker 2: But you have to stay with a stranger in your room? Wow? 1080 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:17,359 Speaker 3: M h no, complete no, all complete stranger care all right? 1081 00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:18,080 Speaker 2: What about you, Mike? 1082 00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:21,920 Speaker 3: Would you try a complete stranger sixteen dollars hotel? 1083 00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,800 Speaker 2: I mean, you're not allowed to just go with a friend. 1084 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,279 Speaker 3: It doesn't sound like it seems like this is the 1085 00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,880 Speaker 3: hoot you get's like the chat roulette hotel. 1086 00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:39,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I got like i I'll say, short answer, no, 1087 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:44,840 Speaker 1: long answer no, But like, I mean, it would depend 1088 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:48,840 Speaker 1: on my circumstances financially, and if I needed to, you know, 1089 00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:53,360 Speaker 1: I'd probably stay there more than on Like are you 1090 00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:54,720 Speaker 1: in you have two beds? 1091 00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:57,080 Speaker 2: At least? That seems it looked like. 1092 00:54:57,320 --> 00:55:03,720 Speaker 3: One bed from the picture they showed. Yeah, maybe maybe 1093 00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,239 Speaker 3: that's two. Well, nah, it looks like one bad there. 1094 00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,640 Speaker 3: If it's too bad, that really switched together. 1095 00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:10,960 Speaker 4: And also it depends on the culture. 1096 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 5: Like for some places it's a I don't say culture 1097 00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,600 Speaker 5: like that, but a culture of like, hey, we around 1098 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:20,000 Speaker 5: strangers type of thing, like you know, like and I 1099 00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 5: know Keith talked about it them. 1100 00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:23,760 Speaker 4: I don't want say them things hostiles. 1101 00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:25,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like yeah. 1102 00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,200 Speaker 5: Like for me, I'm like, oh fuck, no, I won't. 1103 00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:28,719 Speaker 5: I won't my spec I don't want to be around 1104 00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:31,719 Speaker 5: these people. Like for me mentally, I couldn't handle just 1105 00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:32,279 Speaker 5: being around them. 1106 00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:36,400 Speaker 3: S Well, it's coffee and hostile a n D hostile, 1107 00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:40,200 Speaker 3: So maybe I mean, I guess it kind of is 1108 00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:40,840 Speaker 3: a hostile. 1109 00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:42,760 Speaker 2: I can't. 1110 00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:44,560 Speaker 3: Oh, this is just like that video game we played. 1111 00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:45,799 Speaker 3: I don't I don't know how to read this. 1112 00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:48,720 Speaker 5: And for some people, like like Mike say, it's cheap, 1113 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:50,840 Speaker 5: and so for some people to go, hey, it's sixteen 1114 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,759 Speaker 5: thousand a night, like yeah, I might be with strangers. 1115 00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 4: But at least I have someone to stay. 1116 00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:58,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. I guess you gotta be real black mm hmm. 1117 00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:03,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Well, I mean that's that's good compared to 1118 00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:07,120 Speaker 1: New York rent. That's good. That's like, that's like less 1119 00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:08,640 Speaker 1: than five hundred bucks a month. 1120 00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:10,920 Speaker 3: A lot of people in New York are playing. Thousands 1121 00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:12,200 Speaker 3: are still living with a stranger. 1122 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,799 Speaker 2: They don't know, Yes they are. You know, there's some 1123 00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,880 Speaker 2: talley amorous people that are living with a stranger. They 1124 00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,680 Speaker 2: don't even know. They don't even know. 1125 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:23,640 Speaker 1: And I mean, the only thing I would say is, yeah, 1126 00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,719 Speaker 1: it's I guess it's probably I'm gonna stick to our 1127 00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,279 Speaker 1: place in New York because the commute would be a 1128 00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:33,360 Speaker 1: little harder because this is in Japan. Yeah, yeah, so 1129 00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:35,560 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to make it to the clubs is. 1130 00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:40,840 Speaker 3: It's a forty five minute train ride from Sundjuku Province. 1131 00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,480 Speaker 2: So I don't know if you can make it. Okay, okay, 1132 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:45,920 Speaker 2: fifty considerate. 1133 00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:52,200 Speaker 3: Fifteen, a fifteen million dollar settlement was reached after doctors 1134 00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:58,000 Speaker 3: allegedly left heart surgeries to perform other operations. Oh yeah, 1135 00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:02,719 Speaker 3: so the doctors would, I guess shout out to the 1136 00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 3: whistleblower came for and brought up these three heart surgeons. 1137 00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:08,440 Speaker 4: Viola, let me tell you who is a nurse to 1138 00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 4: sitting there? 1139 00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,120 Speaker 5: Because you know, when they do this shit, they have 1140 00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,960 Speaker 5: like a staff, right, so now the staff is waiting 1141 00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,040 Speaker 5: fucking thirty to forty five minutes for you to bring 1142 00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:17,920 Speaker 5: your ass back. And after a while they was like, 1143 00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,360 Speaker 5: I'm tired of this bullshit. We got to report him. 1144 00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:23,240 Speaker 3: I wonder what the reason is, like to the surgeon, like, 1145 00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,480 Speaker 3: is it I need to say the most lives or 1146 00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:25,800 Speaker 3: is it. 1147 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,200 Speaker 2: Like, ooh, I can get an extra extra couple. 1148 00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 4: Thousand dollars insurance. Not that stuff. 1149 00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:34,120 Speaker 3: I get a rhinoplasty between this guy's heart surgery. 1150 00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:36,840 Speaker 4: Yep. Over booking, double scheduling. 1151 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 2: Man. 1152 00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:41,880 Speaker 1: You know, the other day, I was dry, I have 1153 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,080 Speaker 1: to I park my car in Brooklyn now because we 1154 00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,600 Speaker 1: live in Manhattan and there's nowhere to leave the car 1155 00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,240 Speaker 1: for a long time here. And I was like, I 1156 00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:51,800 Speaker 1: think I have enough time to get to Brooklyn, find 1157 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,120 Speaker 1: a spot where I can leave it for enough time, 1158 00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,880 Speaker 1: then zoom back into the city to get to my show. 1159 00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:58,840 Speaker 1: I texted the person, I'm like, I'm gonna be like 1160 00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:01,000 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes after. 1161 00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:02,400 Speaker 2: We said is that gonna be okay? She's like, oh, 1162 00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:03,640 Speaker 2: we kind of have a hard out time. 1163 00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:05,640 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, Like if that was 1164 00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:07,800 Speaker 1: and that's just I'm a comedian, you know, and that 1165 00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,919 Speaker 1: stressed me out, you know what I mean. 1166 00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not gonna do that again. I'm gonna 1167 00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:13,520 Speaker 2: go I'm gonna do what. You know. 1168 00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:16,840 Speaker 1: Here's a mantra that I have taken to using recently. 1169 00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:21,360 Speaker 1: I read there's a book called After the Ecstasy the Laundry, 1170 00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 1: and it's by Jack Cornfield, a spiritual teacher that I 1171 00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 1: really like. And he shared that when Henry David Threw 1172 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:33,680 Speaker 1: was once asked, I might have shared this with y'all 1173 00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:35,240 Speaker 1: because I was sharing it with everyone when I first 1174 00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:35,480 Speaker 1: read it. 1175 00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:35,920 Speaker 2: When he was. 1176 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:38,840 Speaker 1: Asked, Thereau was asked, what do you believe happens after 1177 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:42,320 Speaker 1: we die? You know, what happens after this life ends? 1178 00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:47,320 Speaker 1: And Thereaw's answer was one world at a time. And 1179 00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:51,000 Speaker 1: so that's like really helpful to me. Like when I'm 1180 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,640 Speaker 1: like brushing my teeth and thinking about everything else I've 1181 00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,680 Speaker 1: got to do, you know, next day, I'm like, you know, 1182 00:58:56,840 --> 00:59:00,000 Speaker 1: how about just just toothbrush world for right now? 1183 00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,360 Speaker 2: That's all I can do. Focus on that, be mindful 1184 00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:02,720 Speaker 2: on that. 1185 00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,320 Speaker 1: And so I'm like one comedy show at a time, 1186 00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:09,560 Speaker 1: one surgery at a time. Man, we watched Rene really likes, 1187 00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,400 Speaker 1: you know, sort of like crime documentary type stuff and 1188 00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:15,400 Speaker 1: so and then we watched a I think doctor Death 1189 00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,440 Speaker 1: was the name of the show on Peacock. There's like 1190 00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:21,960 Speaker 1: a couple seasons about just doctors that it's not clear 1191 00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,880 Speaker 1: whether they're associated. Some of them might be just sociopaths 1192 00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:27,000 Speaker 1: that are like I'll just do what I'll do what 1193 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:28,800 Speaker 1: I want to do, and they don't know how to 1194 00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,520 Speaker 1: do what they're doing at all, and they cause a 1195 00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:34,920 Speaker 1: lot of harm and kill people and name people and 1196 00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:38,000 Speaker 1: some it seems like maybe they really believe in themselves, 1197 00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:42,680 Speaker 1: but they're just not doing they're harming people more. 1198 00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:44,800 Speaker 2: Like that, you know the thing that they say, they're like, first, 1199 00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:46,000 Speaker 2: do no harm. They didn't. 1200 00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,840 Speaker 1: They forgot about that one and they're like first uh 1201 00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:50,640 Speaker 1: And these guys are like, yeah, first make a lot 1202 00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 1: of money and then do uh more harm and uh yeah. 1203 00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:59,400 Speaker 2: Now that being so, there's three of them. 1204 01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:03,440 Speaker 3: There's seventy one year old doctor Joseph Casselli, sixty three 1205 01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:07,040 Speaker 3: year old doctor Joseph Lamlass, and seventy seven year old 1206 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:13,040 Speaker 3: doctor David Odd. They say that they ran two operating 1207 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:17,240 Speaker 3: rooms at once, delegating key aspects of extremely complicated heart 1208 01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:22,600 Speaker 3: surgeries to unqualified medical residents as Saint Luke's. So I 1209 01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:25,040 Speaker 3: wonder it does sound like it must have been a 1210 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,720 Speaker 3: money thing, or maybe they were trying to say, no, 1211 01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:28,360 Speaker 3: this is how. 1212 01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:32,880 Speaker 4: I teach the other this is not the time. 1213 01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:37,400 Speaker 3: No, it's not like when you go get a haircut 1214 01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:39,400 Speaker 3: and they have you can go to the beautician school 1215 01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:41,560 Speaker 3: and it's like, oh, it's only five dollars here, but 1216 01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:43,600 Speaker 3: a student will cut your hair and they may make 1217 01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:44,080 Speaker 3: a mistake. 1218 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:46,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but for heart surgery, you. 1219 01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:50,680 Speaker 5: Know, and and it would not be surprising because a 1220 01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:51,880 Speaker 5: lot of times that stuff. 1221 01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 4: I don't want to say it's time, but they have 1222 01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:54,200 Speaker 4: like a. 1223 01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:57,200 Speaker 5: Time range, right, and I guarantee you they were going 1224 01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,400 Speaker 5: over their time or something. 1225 01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:00,880 Speaker 4: Like that because they're going back and forth. 1226 01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:04,200 Speaker 3: Well, when you lose the patient, do you send the 1227 01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:08,120 Speaker 3: untrained medical person totel or do you go itself? 1228 01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:08,360 Speaker 2: Right? 1229 01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 4: Because you have no idea what they fucked up? 1230 01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:11,080 Speaker 2: Could you do it? 1231 01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:14,000 Speaker 3: They're like, I was, uh, they died on the table, 1232 01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:15,880 Speaker 3: but I was trying to look on YouTube. 1233 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,160 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened. 1234 01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:21,280 Speaker 3: My WiFi went out And now your grandmama ain't got 1235 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:22,080 Speaker 3: no lungs. 1236 01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,800 Speaker 2: You know. Man. 1237 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:27,520 Speaker 1: Uh, let's just a quick shout out to to every 1238 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:30,439 Speaker 1: once in a while, like mistakes happen, like medical mistakes happen. 1239 01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:33,120 Speaker 1: Doctors are human beings. Like it's good to try to, 1240 01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:36,920 Speaker 1: you know, like minimize the mistakes as much as possible 1241 01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:39,600 Speaker 1: and just so anyone out there if you ever need like, uh, 1242 01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:43,080 Speaker 1: there's stories of like amputations happening to like the wrong 1243 01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:46,600 Speaker 1: body part. It's like whenever you're going in for any 1244 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,520 Speaker 1: kind of surgery, like I had a kolonoscopy for the 1245 01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:52,080 Speaker 1: first time a couple of weeks ago, and I was 1246 01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:54,920 Speaker 1: thinking about like put like just writing with sharpie on 1247 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,200 Speaker 1: my legs, like don't amputate these. 1248 01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:57,960 Speaker 2: Legs, you know what I mean? 1249 01:01:58,680 --> 01:01:58,800 Speaker 5: Right? 1250 01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:00,000 Speaker 2: Like true? 1251 01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 3: But what if what if you get a doctor that's 1252 01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:05,919 Speaker 3: not good at reading and he's like, ooh, you get 1253 01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:10,320 Speaker 3: donuts for imputating legs in this hospital? Why no, getting 1254 01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:12,080 Speaker 3: two donuts today? 1255 01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:13,520 Speaker 4: Don't but don't nuts don't. 1256 01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta have a good emoji game as well 1257 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:18,640 Speaker 1: as very clear. 1258 01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:21,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah. 1259 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:26,000 Speaker 3: Then they said also that the surgeons there, so I 1260 01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:28,360 Speaker 3: guess there's a moment in the surgery called a surgical 1261 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:32,080 Speaker 3: time out where they stop and assess all of the 1262 01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:36,800 Speaker 3: like risk and like dangers like okay, like where are 1263 01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:37,600 Speaker 3: we at in the game plan? 1264 01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:37,760 Speaker 1: This? 1265 01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:40,400 Speaker 3: This guy's is a heartbeat raising or falling. This is 1266 01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,000 Speaker 3: you know, are we losing too much blood or whatever? 1267 01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:45,360 Speaker 3: And then you're supposed to like after that, I guess 1268 01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,200 Speaker 3: it's like a halftime of a game. Then you finish 1269 01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 3: up the surgery knowing like these are the things that 1270 01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:54,240 Speaker 3: the we're dealing with that when we came in, we 1271 01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 3: didn't know. 1272 01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:58,000 Speaker 2: You know, so his blood pressure is hot. 1273 01:02:58,120 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 3: Okay, what do we need to do to get the 1274 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 3: blood pressure so we can finished operation rather than just 1275 01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:06,200 Speaker 3: we'll just go through it anyway, right, Okay. 1276 01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,880 Speaker 2: The surgeons missed them because they weren't. 1277 01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:13,840 Speaker 4: Because they were Oh no, and and and that's your funny. 1278 01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:15,960 Speaker 5: Depend on what kind of surgeon you have to have 1279 01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:19,040 Speaker 5: different things, Like when I had my partial hit directed me. 1280 01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:22,120 Speaker 5: When they remove my ovaries, they say, hey, we're just 1281 01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:23,720 Speaker 5: letting you know, if we get in there and we 1282 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:27,120 Speaker 5: find some other stuff wrong, like we might have. 1283 01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:29,880 Speaker 2: To you so they might need a surgical time out. Yeah. 1284 01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:34,200 Speaker 5: Ude, And I didn't even think so, thinkies, but I 1285 01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:35,400 Speaker 5: mean my uterus. 1286 01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:37,439 Speaker 4: I'm sorry when I had my uterus move. 1287 01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:39,560 Speaker 5: They was like, hey, if we get in here and 1288 01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:42,200 Speaker 5: we look at your uterism, we realize stuff is doing 1289 01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:45,080 Speaker 5: other things. We might have to remove your ovaries. I 1290 01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:46,800 Speaker 5: was like, cool, do what you got to do. 1291 01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:50,120 Speaker 2: I'm out. But it's just interesting that he but that's 1292 01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:50,960 Speaker 2: the mess that they have. 1293 01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,920 Speaker 3: But also you missed both of them because they this 1294 01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:55,040 Speaker 3: was plural. 1295 01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:58,000 Speaker 2: So how are you running two operations room? It's one thing? 1296 01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:00,360 Speaker 3: Was like, oh, you missed one because you had to 1297 01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:03,000 Speaker 3: go to the other one. And that's what you what 1298 01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:04,560 Speaker 3: did you just go to the other room? 1299 01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:06,480 Speaker 2: Like, uh fuck, it looks like it's about time for 1300 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:09,200 Speaker 2: your surgical time out. I'm gonna go. There's less stress. 1301 01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:11,040 Speaker 2: You got this right, Yeah, And it. 1302 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:14,680 Speaker 5: Would not be surprised if because hospitals are huge, one 1303 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,160 Speaker 5: is that one wing one is at another wing one 1304 01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:19,160 Speaker 5: is at a different level one you know what I'm saying. 1305 01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:21,080 Speaker 4: No, like all types of shit. 1306 01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:23,960 Speaker 3: Always assumed the surgery wing was like the same, but 1307 01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:24,840 Speaker 3: fuck if I know. 1308 01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:28,920 Speaker 1: There could be different floors in the in the same 1309 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:30,080 Speaker 1: what I have Like. 1310 01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:32,080 Speaker 3: What the other thing I always assumed is that the 1311 01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:33,360 Speaker 3: doctor state the whole time. 1312 01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,240 Speaker 4: So that I assumed that too. 1313 01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:44,600 Speaker 5: What do I know last time I. 1314 01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:42,600 Speaker 2: S these are good questions. 1315 01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 4: Uh. 1316 01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:44,320 Speaker 2: Two quick things. 1317 01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:49,000 Speaker 1: Number one, just on the continuing the topic of right 1318 01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,480 Speaker 1: on your leg, do amputate this one for the one 1319 01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:55,520 Speaker 1: that you want amputated, and don't amputate this one. You 1320 01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:57,760 Speaker 1: could put a green light on the one to amputate, 1321 01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,320 Speaker 1: because that'll be pretty good. Be like it's like, oh 1322 01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,440 Speaker 1: the ganggreen light, you know what I mean, Like, look, 1323 01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:06,000 Speaker 1: look this leg is green, get rid of it, go 1324 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,280 Speaker 1: go green, go away. 1325 01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:10,320 Speaker 2: And here's just a quick comedy thing. 1326 01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:13,080 Speaker 1: I don't know who told me this, but when I 1327 01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:15,160 Speaker 1: was starting out doing comedy in Boston, I was told 1328 01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:17,880 Speaker 1: there's like a time when just comedy shows were like, 1329 01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:20,600 Speaker 1: you know, rampant, you know, like in the eighties, just 1330 01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 1: shows popping up everywhere in like bowling alleys, every restaurant, 1331 01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:27,640 Speaker 1: every function hall possible. There was one maybe a hotel 1332 01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:30,320 Speaker 1: that had two function rooms right across from each other, 1333 01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:33,280 Speaker 1: and they would have two comedy shows happening at the 1334 01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:36,320 Speaker 1: same time, but they would have the same two comedians, 1335 01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:38,840 Speaker 1: each one doing like a half hour or a forty 1336 01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:42,360 Speaker 1: five minute set. One of them would comedian A would 1337 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,800 Speaker 1: open in one room and then close the other room 1338 01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:49,200 Speaker 1: while a comedian b opening in the second room and 1339 01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:51,440 Speaker 1: closing the first room. So they had to coordinate to 1340 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,240 Speaker 1: the minute to be like good night everybody, now please 1341 01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,760 Speaker 1: welcome to the stage this other person and then they 1342 01:05:56,920 --> 01:06:01,080 Speaker 1: run across and then start doing this the same show. 1343 01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 1: And like that's coordination. That takes a lot of effort 1344 01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:09,520 Speaker 1: and meticulousness to make happen. And those are comedians, not doctors, 1345 01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:12,440 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like it's hard. It's imagine 1346 01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:14,880 Speaker 1: doing that with Okay, I got one like one game 1347 01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:17,200 Speaker 1: of operation going over here, I got another one going 1348 01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:20,160 Speaker 1: over here. It's buzzing, the guy's noses going off, but 1349 01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:21,160 Speaker 1: you're in the other room. 1350 01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:25,080 Speaker 3: When it comes from my surgeons, I prefer quality over quantity. 1351 01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:25,240 Speaker 4: Me too. 1352 01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:30,880 Speaker 5: And and now they actually almost like if a police officer, 1353 01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:33,800 Speaker 5: uh does something cruel, you're like, oh, now we got 1354 01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:35,960 Speaker 5: to go back and investigate everything. So now they got 1355 01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:39,080 Speaker 5: to go back and be like did anybody die during 1356 01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:42,360 Speaker 5: a certain period of time? If they did, where were 1357 01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,920 Speaker 5: you were you doing your job? We're gonna have more 1358 01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:47,640 Speaker 5: lawsuits now, like like like now we have to. 1359 01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:50,240 Speaker 3: Go back and check, well, hopefully no one died, because 1360 01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:53,480 Speaker 3: the lawsuit is a civil lawsuit. But yeah, that's that's 1361 01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:58,880 Speaker 3: that's wild, speaking of police who enjoy hurting people. A 1362 01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:02,280 Speaker 3: cop punch people he pulled over and they had shared 1363 01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:04,760 Speaker 3: photos with glee of those that he injured. 1364 01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:11,480 Speaker 2: What that's yeah, yeah, not yeah, I want to go 1365 01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:12,200 Speaker 2: out on a limb. 1366 01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,160 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what you guys think about this, 1367 01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:15,720 Speaker 1: but I'm anti. 1368 01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:22,240 Speaker 2: I don't like it, not not a yeah, what this is? Man? 1369 01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:23,440 Speaker 2: I forget. 1370 01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:26,080 Speaker 1: I just saw a quote that was talking about, like, 1371 01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:31,920 Speaker 1: I mean, people who go into being the police like 1372 01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:38,840 Speaker 1: sometimes really are like criminally minded people, violent people that 1373 01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:39,920 Speaker 1: want an excuse. 1374 01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:42,000 Speaker 2: And it's surely not all there. 1375 01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,000 Speaker 1: I really, I'm you know, I don't mean to be 1376 01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:48,560 Speaker 1: all like both sides about it. There probably are people 1377 01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:52,560 Speaker 1: who want to help, who believe it is noble, who 1378 01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:55,320 Speaker 1: like they're like, you know, good community. Like I mean, 1379 01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:59,640 Speaker 1: of course, it's not only white people killing black people. 1380 01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:04,640 Speaker 1: There are black police officers, which is a I mean, 1381 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:08,640 Speaker 1: it's a it's a real banana the situation out there. 1382 01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:12,960 Speaker 1: But there's violent people who want legality on their side 1383 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:14,560 Speaker 1: to be able to do their violence, right. 1384 01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:18,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's scary because like it's kind of like 1385 01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:21,360 Speaker 3: Donald Glover said in this rat one time, he's like, 1386 01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:23,840 Speaker 3: what's the leader if he isn't reluctant, you know, And 1387 01:08:24,120 --> 01:08:26,200 Speaker 3: it's something I do believe, And I was like, I 1388 01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:27,280 Speaker 3: do find the. 1389 01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:28,840 Speaker 2: Best leaders to be the reluctant ones. 1390 01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:29,000 Speaker 1: You know. 1391 01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,320 Speaker 3: If if if I was walking in a park and 1392 01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:33,559 Speaker 3: I need a random person to look at my look 1393 01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:36,000 Speaker 3: after my kid for a second, I actually want the 1394 01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:38,200 Speaker 3: person that does not want to look after my kids. Yeah, 1395 01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:42,000 Speaker 3: a person's you know, it's like, give me the person 1396 01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:43,880 Speaker 3: who's like, I got shit to do, man, come on, 1397 01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:47,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, you will take care of my kids? Is 1398 01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:50,600 Speaker 3: the person who's like, I'll take care of them kids. No, 1399 01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:51,880 Speaker 3: you're a little too eager and. 1400 01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:53,439 Speaker 4: You're climbing that out. 1401 01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:55,599 Speaker 3: And it feels like that with cops too, where it's 1402 01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:58,880 Speaker 3: like the people that are most like when people complain 1403 01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:01,080 Speaker 3: about the job of a cop, understand it because I 1404 01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:04,360 Speaker 3: actually do think it's actually a really fucking hard, impossible job. 1405 01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:06,800 Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to do it at all, Nope, but 1406 01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,840 Speaker 3: I wouldn't want anyone who wanted to do it doing it. 1407 01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:12,840 Speaker 3: I kind of only want people that kind of don't 1408 01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:15,599 Speaker 3: want to do it doing it, especially when it comes 1409 01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:17,160 Speaker 3: to this kind of part of job. Like if it 1410 01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:19,559 Speaker 3: was someone going I just want to help kids cross 1411 01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:21,599 Speaker 3: the street to school, I'm like, okay, that's different. But 1412 01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:23,760 Speaker 3: if you're like I want to crack down on those 1413 01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,320 Speaker 3: mean thugs, I'm like, oh, maybe not you you watch 1414 01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:28,879 Speaker 3: too many Charle Nester movies or whatever. 1415 01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:30,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1416 01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:32,519 Speaker 1: I feel like that for like to be a parent 1417 01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:37,040 Speaker 1: as well to be a politician, to be president, like anyone. 1418 01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,839 Speaker 1: Like here's there's an old Brian Reagan joke about Sully, 1419 01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:43,440 Speaker 1: you know, who landed the plane and the Hudson successfully, 1420 01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:45,800 Speaker 1: and they're like, what a hero And they're like, do 1421 01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:47,720 Speaker 1: you think he's They're interviewing him and they're like do 1422 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:50,559 Speaker 1: you think that you're a hero and he's like, oh no, no, 1423 01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:52,880 Speaker 1: I'm just doing like what anyone would have tried to 1424 01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:54,200 Speaker 1: do that, And they're like. 1425 01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:54,840 Speaker 2: He's a hero. 1426 01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:57,880 Speaker 1: That's what it is. A hero knows he says he's 1427 01:09:57,920 --> 01:10:01,439 Speaker 1: not a hero, so he is. What wonderful Brian Reagan joke. 1428 01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:06,719 Speaker 1: And similarly, I really feel like if somebody's like, yeah, 1429 01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:09,200 Speaker 1: I mean being a parent is like got it? So 1430 01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:12,880 Speaker 1: how could you like it seems so arrogant, like to 1431 01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,280 Speaker 1: be like I'm the person who's going to be in 1432 01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:18,880 Speaker 1: charge of another human life. Like, yeah, that's the person 1433 01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:21,280 Speaker 1: you want in charge of another human life. The person 1434 01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:23,680 Speaker 1: who's like, I don't know if i'd be good at 1435 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:25,240 Speaker 1: being in charge of another. 1436 01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:26,560 Speaker 4: Humans have no idea. 1437 01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:30,360 Speaker 3: And so this guy, he apparently enjoyed doing this. He 1438 01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:34,400 Speaker 3: would target people smaller and weaker than himself before he 1439 01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,840 Speaker 3: punched and assaulted them during routine traffic stops. He's been 1440 01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:39,880 Speaker 3: sentenced a little over nine years in prison. 1441 01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:42,360 Speaker 5: How many these people have probably been complaining forever and 1442 01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:43,719 Speaker 5: they got fucking brushed off. 1443 01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:46,280 Speaker 4: They was like, yeah, the alfus have punched me. 1444 01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,160 Speaker 3: It's also got to be weird when he's like, you 1445 01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,160 Speaker 3: know how I pulled you over and you're like, was 1446 01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:52,200 Speaker 3: I speeding? And it's like no, because you're four foot 1447 01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:55,760 Speaker 3: eleven and I like punching people who are smaller than me. 1448 01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:58,000 Speaker 5: Right, But the thing is you don't want Joe ass 1449 01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:00,400 Speaker 5: to be would don't be beating up on another people. 1450 01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:03,439 Speaker 3: They found him guilty of multiple charges, including four counts 1451 01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:07,320 Speaker 3: of violating constitutional rights, a single charge of conspiracy, and 1452 01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:10,320 Speaker 3: a single charge of falsifying records. He's thirty one who 1453 01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:12,880 Speaker 3: was fired in twenty twenty one, after posting the identity 1454 01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:16,880 Speaker 3: of a confidential informant on Facebook, upon discovering that the 1455 01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:20,280 Speaker 3: person had criticized him on social media, Well maybe because 1456 01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:22,479 Speaker 3: you punched people in the face hors for. 1457 01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:25,720 Speaker 2: No reason and they probably have seen it. He's like, Yeah, 1458 01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:26,920 Speaker 2: you don't have to tweet about it. 1459 01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:29,080 Speaker 3: Should have in a DM, then I could have pulled 1460 01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:30,360 Speaker 3: you over and pushed in the phase. 1461 01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:35,479 Speaker 1: Come on, man, if you work with confidential informants who 1462 01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:39,920 Speaker 1: are often I don't know, probably people who don't necessarily 1463 01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:44,560 Speaker 1: like look, maybe there's very like completely law abiding confidential 1464 01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:47,800 Speaker 1: informants who are just like, you know, good like ethical 1465 01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:52,240 Speaker 1: whistle blowers. But like, if you're working with confidential informants, 1466 01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:56,160 Speaker 1: people who inform on other people don't don't do illegal 1467 01:11:56,240 --> 01:11:59,599 Speaker 1: shites like that they know about right, I was. 1468 01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:03,519 Speaker 2: Like, get arrested. Also, like that's not a very good 1469 01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:06,599 Speaker 2: confidential informant. Like they were. 1470 01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:09,679 Speaker 3: They were kind of breaking protocol tweeting about the stuff 1471 01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,040 Speaker 3: you want them to tell you in like the back 1472 01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:15,400 Speaker 3: of your patrol car, Like what's happening? If they're tweeting 1473 01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:17,479 Speaker 3: about it, you could have just went to the police 1474 01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:22,760 Speaker 3: and been like, guys, he's not being very confident man 1475 01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:28,680 Speaker 3: oh So, upon discovering that person criticized him he had 1476 01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:32,560 Speaker 3: also He first joined the sheriff's office in twenty seventeen after. 1477 01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:34,479 Speaker 2: Working as a piece of delivery driver. 1478 01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:39,760 Speaker 1: Oh Man sheriff's offices, Like, I mean, I don't understand 1479 01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:43,120 Speaker 1: like all the levels of there's like the state police, 1480 01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:48,080 Speaker 1: there's like federal authorities, then there's like local like I see, 1481 01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:49,360 Speaker 1: you know, I watch a lot of like I don't know, 1482 01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:52,840 Speaker 1: cop crime shows here and there, and every once in 1483 01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:56,519 Speaker 1: a while, like the sheriff and then the other police 1484 01:12:56,600 --> 01:12:59,040 Speaker 1: in the area are like butting heads and they're like, 1485 01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:01,599 Speaker 1: this is our and then they're like, oh, you're just 1486 01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:03,040 Speaker 1: like rival gangs. 1487 01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:05,880 Speaker 2: What's going on? This is our turf. 1488 01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:10,200 Speaker 3: What's really funny about that is I never believe that, 1489 01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:13,759 Speaker 3: like it is a trope in every cop show and movie, 1490 01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:16,560 Speaker 3: but I always I always feel like a more realistic 1491 01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:19,519 Speaker 3: version is people showing up and being like, well, it's 1492 01:13:19,560 --> 01:13:22,240 Speaker 3: probably like your crime scene, right, Like you guys want 1493 01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 3: to work like that. 1494 01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:26,200 Speaker 4: They don't walk their way out of it, got it right. 1495 01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:28,760 Speaker 3: Like I don't know enough about being a cop, but 1496 01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:31,640 Speaker 3: I know a lot about work and paper things that 1497 01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:33,160 Speaker 3: have never happened at a job. 1498 01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:35,640 Speaker 2: Was that at least I was. 1499 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,920 Speaker 3: Things that happen more often than a job have normally 1500 01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:41,160 Speaker 3: resembled people being like you got. 1501 01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:44,040 Speaker 4: This right, like like we don't have to do this. 1502 01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:47,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you're right. Probably all those shows are 1503 01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:51,840 Speaker 1: just copaganda, you know. And also like am I I 1504 01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:56,400 Speaker 1: feel like sheriffs are sometimes elected, which is are none 1505 01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:59,679 Speaker 1: of it's none of it's my favorite you know, either 1506 01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:06,000 Speaker 1: their appointed by some corrupt you know, politician or a 1507 01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:08,120 Speaker 1: billionaire mayor or whatever. 1508 01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:10,479 Speaker 2: Like I'm like, yeah, none of it, none of it, 1509 01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:11,200 Speaker 2: none of it works. 1510 01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:14,320 Speaker 3: Yes, but you're right it is good copaghanda though, because 1511 01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:16,120 Speaker 3: when I watched the TV show, it made me feel 1512 01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:18,280 Speaker 3: like that's what cops really do, is to be like, no, 1513 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,600 Speaker 3: the FBI is not taking my case. I'm going to 1514 01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:24,479 Speaker 3: solve the murder. Fuck the FBI. The FBI is like, 1515 01:14:24,520 --> 01:14:26,800 Speaker 3: all we want to do is help you solve the murder. 1516 01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:29,360 Speaker 3: But you're in the way, You're off the case. We're 1517 01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:31,479 Speaker 3: gonna solve the murder twice as hard. 1518 01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:35,040 Speaker 5: As yeah, even faster, who is the most dedicated to 1519 01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:36,480 Speaker 5: cretching these criminals. 1520 01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:40,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, But then in real life, it's like, you know, hey, 1521 01:14:40,080 --> 01:14:41,960 Speaker 3: you should probably solve this murder on your own. 1522 01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:46,559 Speaker 2: You got it. I'm out, you know. Yeah, here's two 1523 01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:47,639 Speaker 2: quick things. One. 1524 01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:51,479 Speaker 1: I used to read like John Grisham legal thrillers, and 1525 01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:54,640 Speaker 1: I watched like David E. Kelly like wonderful, you know, 1526 01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:57,240 Speaker 1: like Boston Legal and the Practice and Ally McBeal and like, 1527 01:14:57,360 --> 01:14:59,479 Speaker 1: you know, like legal TV shows, and I'm like. 1528 01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:01,000 Speaker 2: It's cool in the courtroom. 1529 01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:03,880 Speaker 1: Oh man, it's like dramatic and exciting, and I'm like, 1530 01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:05,479 Speaker 1: maybe I want to do that. And then I got 1531 01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:07,920 Speaker 1: a job like interning at a law firm and it 1532 01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:11,720 Speaker 1: was a lot of making copies. So it's not as glamorous, 1533 01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:14,120 Speaker 1: you know, in the real life thing the things you 1534 01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:16,960 Speaker 1: see on TV. It's like maybe that happens over the 1535 01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:20,360 Speaker 1: course of like seven years. All that excitement happens in 1536 01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:23,480 Speaker 1: one case and the rest of it is nonsense. 1537 01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:28,120 Speaker 2: But then also, man, the uh the other oh yeah, 1538 01:15:28,240 --> 01:15:32,760 Speaker 2: like when you have nope, lost it, Okay, all right, 1539 01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:35,519 Speaker 2: well sorry, here's some more stuff. Please hit it. 1540 01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:38,720 Speaker 3: During the arrest of one person identify only as w W, 1541 01:15:39,520 --> 01:15:42,400 Speaker 3: the victim said that he had planned on fully cooperating 1542 01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:44,920 Speaker 3: with the police when abbot pulled him over, but grew 1543 01:15:45,000 --> 01:15:50,960 Speaker 3: agitated when Abbot unnecessarily squeezed his testicles, Like. 1544 01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:53,479 Speaker 2: What, Yeah, he just likes the torture of it. 1545 01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:57,760 Speaker 3: Maybe he's watched one too many dirty cop movies and 1546 01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:00,559 Speaker 3: that's why he's a cop. Is because he's like, cops 1547 01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:02,600 Speaker 3: always want to solve the crime. I know, because in 1548 01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:05,479 Speaker 3: the movies they torture people illegally violate the civil rights. 1549 01:16:05,840 --> 01:16:08,000 Speaker 3: And he was like, Oh, I don't have any crimes 1550 01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:11,639 Speaker 3: to solve, but I do want to violate some civil rights. 1551 01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:13,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know. 1552 01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:17,240 Speaker 1: Here's in his defense, of course, And I'm saying this 1553 01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:19,960 Speaker 1: completely as a joke. Just to be clear, I did 1554 01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:21,640 Speaker 1: not defend this at all. Do you want to get 1555 01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:25,280 Speaker 1: out ahead of it? Disclaimer delivered? And I did remember 1556 01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:27,400 Speaker 1: my thing from before. It's about the show twenty four. 1557 01:16:27,479 --> 01:16:31,479 Speaker 1: But this in this guy's defense, he unnecessarily squeezed this 1558 01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:35,280 Speaker 1: guy's testicles. Maybe the doctor who was supposed to be 1559 01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:39,440 Speaker 1: there examining this guy's testicles was off in another courtroom 1560 01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:42,280 Speaker 1: or medical arena or you know wherever he was, and 1561 01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:45,400 Speaker 1: it's you got this guy's somebody's got to squeeze this 1562 01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:46,760 Speaker 1: guy's testicles. The doctor's not here. 1563 01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:49,639 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he thought. 1564 01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:52,080 Speaker 3: It was like BDSM, but they didn't have a safe 1565 01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:57,759 Speaker 3: word or consent, so it was like tlly BDSM. 1566 01:16:57,960 --> 01:17:01,000 Speaker 2: Indeed, So twenty four other. 1567 01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:04,320 Speaker 1: Thing, Yeah, you remember when twenty four, like the it 1568 01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:07,240 Speaker 1: was kind of a a controversial thing for a while, 1569 01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:10,920 Speaker 1: like how much that show like glorified torture, and they like, 1570 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:14,000 Speaker 1: on the show, torture worked, and that was the thing 1571 01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:17,600 Speaker 1: that they were like, look, there's a ticking bomb situation 1572 01:17:17,880 --> 01:17:20,599 Speaker 1: right now. You gotta do everything that you can't like, 1573 01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:24,760 Speaker 1: so the hero of this show was like, you know, 1574 01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:29,240 Speaker 1: sometimes murdering people. Yeah, like sometimes murdering literal innocent people. 1575 01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:31,320 Speaker 1: Sometimes got urturing. 1576 01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:34,360 Speaker 4: Got drugs and got off in three episode. 1577 01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:36,960 Speaker 3: Well you got a break a few eggs. 1578 01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:40,680 Speaker 2: I remember last every episode it was. I mean, it 1579 01:17:40,720 --> 01:17:42,000 Speaker 2: was such an exciting show. 1580 01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:46,080 Speaker 1: But I think really like uh, exemplary of like the 1581 01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:49,479 Speaker 1: damage that like that. I mean, look, I'm not saying 1582 01:17:49,479 --> 01:17:52,280 Speaker 1: like these kids in their video games making everyone violent, 1583 01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:55,240 Speaker 1: like it's you know, art imitates life imitates art. But 1584 01:17:55,280 --> 01:17:58,160 Speaker 1: I remember reading an article that like there were students 1585 01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:02,880 Speaker 1: at West Point that believed that torture worked because they 1586 01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:06,640 Speaker 1: watched that show. Even in the face of empirical data 1587 01:18:06,720 --> 01:18:10,040 Speaker 1: that when you torture someone, they say what you what 1588 01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:12,360 Speaker 1: you want them to say, because they want you to 1589 01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:13,679 Speaker 1: stop torturing them. 1590 01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:15,280 Speaker 2: Torture does not get you. 1591 01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:21,360 Speaker 1: If like effective accurate information, don't torture people, it doesn't 1592 01:18:21,439 --> 01:18:22,519 Speaker 1: work for real. 1593 01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 2: But that's what's what's happening in all these shows. 1594 01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:27,920 Speaker 1: Like it's glorifying, Like we love the show Reacher in 1595 01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:31,760 Speaker 1: our household, but like that's not like the idea of 1596 01:18:31,960 --> 01:18:35,920 Speaker 1: the hero who like was who's like perfect on the show, 1597 01:18:35,960 --> 01:18:40,000 Speaker 1: the hero is good and right and knows everything that 1598 01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:43,240 Speaker 1: is going to happen, knows who the quote bad guys are. 1599 01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:46,000 Speaker 2: But even on the show, he like harms people in 1600 01:18:46,080 --> 01:18:49,479 Speaker 2: ways that he does not have to harm people. Are people? 1601 01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:50,920 Speaker 2: Are people enjoying this? 1602 01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:53,719 Speaker 1: All of this like it it's like he like breaks 1603 01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:58,160 Speaker 1: people's arms and which ironically some action, which is ironic 1604 01:18:58,240 --> 01:19:00,400 Speaker 1: because it's less traumatic. 1605 01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:02,759 Speaker 2: Tising than a season of the bear making food. 1606 01:19:03,080 --> 01:19:06,840 Speaker 3: Like I can watch, I can binge Reacher, but if 1607 01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:09,479 Speaker 3: I but if the if they yell chef one more 1608 01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:12,120 Speaker 3: fucking time, I'm like, all right, I gotta take a 1609 01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:16,040 Speaker 3: time out. This could actually happen, But yeah, don't, don't 1610 01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:21,240 Speaker 3: hit people cops. The US Olympic team and other teams 1611 01:19:21,320 --> 01:19:26,440 Speaker 3: will bring their own AC units to Paris, which undercuts 1612 01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:28,960 Speaker 3: the Paris Olympics environmental plan. 1613 01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:32,439 Speaker 2: So the Olympics had they. 1614 01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:34,519 Speaker 4: Plan on putting them in hot ass rooms and some shit. 1615 01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:36,720 Speaker 3: Not just hot ass rooms. So there's a couple of 1616 01:19:36,760 --> 01:19:39,439 Speaker 3: things happening here. They were gonna give them like fans 1617 01:19:39,479 --> 01:19:43,000 Speaker 3: and stuff. They want to be environmentally cautious, conscious and whatnot. 1618 01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:45,040 Speaker 3: And I actually don't think that's like a bad thing. 1619 01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:48,000 Speaker 3: I think that's an awesome goal. Now, why are you 1620 01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:49,200 Speaker 3: hosting the Olympics. 1621 01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:49,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1622 01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:56,120 Speaker 3: There's probably no true economic way to offset the footprint 1623 01:19:56,160 --> 01:19:58,760 Speaker 3: of the fucking Olympics. But you know, this is kind 1624 01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:01,200 Speaker 3: of what we do. It's like the it's the wood 1625 01:20:01,240 --> 01:20:04,720 Speaker 3: straws of you know, like, hey guys, we're doing we 1626 01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:08,599 Speaker 3: all don't use plastic bags today. Then we say the environment, like, 1627 01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:10,880 Speaker 3: but we go back tomorrow. Yeah, of course we go 1628 01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:11,360 Speaker 3: back tomorrow. 1629 01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:11,920 Speaker 2: That's crazy. 1630 01:20:12,960 --> 01:20:15,719 Speaker 3: But in addition to that, there's also this thing where 1631 01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:20,400 Speaker 3: they don't want them having sex's so their plan has 1632 01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:23,679 Speaker 3: been to give everyone twin beds, because no one's ever 1633 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:26,880 Speaker 3: had sex in a twin bed, especially. 1634 01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:29,280 Speaker 4: Very athletic college campus. 1635 01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:31,040 Speaker 2: Especially very athletic, corned up people. 1636 01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:34,280 Speaker 3: They would never and I think they aren't given out 1637 01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:37,880 Speaker 3: as many condoms, So prepare for a generation of super 1638 01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:39,600 Speaker 3: babies that this is. 1639 01:20:40,360 --> 01:20:43,800 Speaker 1: It's a weird thing because I was, you know, I 1640 01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:46,320 Speaker 1: was listening to Dan Savage's podcast recently and he talked 1641 01:20:46,320 --> 01:20:50,040 Speaker 1: about this because it's kind of there's some conflicting information 1642 01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:53,320 Speaker 1: that like in the twenty twenty Olympics, which I think 1643 01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:57,200 Speaker 1: happened in twenty twenty one, like there was an intimacy band, right, 1644 01:20:57,240 --> 01:21:00,599 Speaker 1: but it was mainly COVID, right, And so that ban 1645 01:21:00,680 --> 01:21:04,080 Speaker 1: has been lifted and they are stocking the Olympic village 1646 01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:08,000 Speaker 1: with it says three hundred thousand condoms. So okay, so 1647 01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:12,920 Speaker 1: the condoms are back. Yes, the condoms are back. So 1648 01:21:12,960 --> 01:21:18,280 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know, I don't know, but they definitely. 1649 01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:20,080 Speaker 1: I mean, look, I think it's gonna be a hot 1650 01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:21,200 Speaker 1: Olympic summer, that's all. 1651 01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:23,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, And yeah, definitely because they don't have any air 1652 01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:26,160 Speaker 3: condition unless you're in a United States, then it'll be 1653 01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:28,960 Speaker 3: a cool But they what I was gonna say, is 1654 01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:32,720 Speaker 3: they so maybe also this cuts back on some of 1655 01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:36,760 Speaker 3: the sex too, because it's hot and y'all, you know 1656 01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:39,320 Speaker 3: your athletes, you're in tip top shape. But like sometimes 1657 01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:41,320 Speaker 3: it's like, yo, it's a little too hot to be 1658 01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:43,599 Speaker 3: having sex on this twin bed because the beds still 1659 01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:46,240 Speaker 3: are small. I wouldn't I wouldn't look that part up. Okay, 1660 01:21:46,240 --> 01:21:49,679 Speaker 3: I did that research. And so maybe they're like, it'll 1661 01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:52,559 Speaker 3: cut down the sex, like this fan is not gonna 1662 01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:53,000 Speaker 3: be enough. 1663 01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:59,479 Speaker 4: But have never been around young people. Their energy change something. 1664 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:01,560 Speaker 2: Some of the things I'm saying are sarcastic. 1665 01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:04,000 Speaker 5: If I say young people don't care. They were like 1666 01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:06,920 Speaker 5: fucking let go with one hundred and ten degrees. 1667 01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:09,400 Speaker 3: But now we also have air conditioners. So I feel 1668 01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:10,880 Speaker 3: like the people with the air conders don't get the 1669 01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:11,519 Speaker 3: most sex. 1670 01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:13,360 Speaker 4: I feel like they are it's a luxury. 1671 01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:17,080 Speaker 3: This is kind of hurting the American Olympians a little bit, 1672 01:22:17,200 --> 01:22:19,760 Speaker 3: you know. I feel like, maybe we'll use up like 1673 01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:22,120 Speaker 3: seventy five percent of our stamina for sex instead of 1674 01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:25,559 Speaker 3: like fifty. And so if you're a betting person, maybe 1675 01:22:25,560 --> 01:22:28,880 Speaker 3: bet on the other countries this year in the Summer Olympics. 1676 01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:31,519 Speaker 3: Because I'm a little a little nervous about this whole 1677 01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:37,200 Speaker 3: ac A twin bed or limited sex thing. Three hundred 1678 01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:39,400 Speaker 3: thousand condoms. There's a lot of condoms. 1679 01:22:39,760 --> 01:22:41,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's just for me. 1680 01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:46,479 Speaker 1: But the yeah, I think that's who they put in there. 1681 01:22:46,479 --> 01:22:51,439 Speaker 1: I'm not going, but I have them send them over here. 1682 01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:53,720 Speaker 1: Does this shoke make any sense? 1683 01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:54,040 Speaker 2: It doesn't. 1684 01:22:54,080 --> 01:22:55,840 Speaker 1: That's that's why people don't like wordplay, you know what 1685 01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,760 Speaker 1: I mean? Because that wasn't even wordplay and it didn't 1686 01:22:58,800 --> 01:22:59,200 Speaker 1: make sense. 1687 01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:00,000 Speaker 2: That's the worst. 1688 01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:04,920 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's I Seeah, I guess I'm with you, 1689 01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:07,639 Speaker 1: Rod bet On. The people who come from countries where 1690 01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:10,920 Speaker 1: it's as hot as it ever is and is accustomed 1691 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:14,200 Speaker 1: to it, like people who train you know in uh In, 1692 01:23:14,280 --> 01:23:17,519 Speaker 1: like Colorado, like up you know, if you're already at 1693 01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:20,400 Speaker 1: that altitude and then you come down, then you're at 1694 01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:22,800 Speaker 1: your lungs are you know, it's like Swiat and free bad. 1695 01:23:22,880 --> 01:23:26,200 Speaker 3: Here's what's interesting, too, is the Summer Olympics. So we're 1696 01:23:26,200 --> 01:23:29,639 Speaker 3: sending athletes that are used to being outdoors in high heat. Right, 1697 01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:33,439 Speaker 3: they're saying that average temperature in France they believe to 1698 01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:36,400 Speaker 3: be between seventy three to seventy nine degrees. 1699 01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:39,120 Speaker 2: That's great. 1700 01:23:39,200 --> 01:23:43,000 Speaker 3: In America, that's oh yeah, we'd all trade right now 1701 01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:45,920 Speaker 3: for seventy three to seventy nine in this in this environment. 1702 01:23:46,439 --> 01:23:49,719 Speaker 3: So it's weird they're bringing the AC. I'm not really 1703 01:23:49,760 --> 01:23:53,639 Speaker 3: sure why. It's like it is the most American thing. 1704 01:23:53,640 --> 01:23:55,800 Speaker 2: To bring a AC to another country where we do 1705 01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:56,439 Speaker 2: not need it. 1706 01:23:56,600 --> 01:23:59,280 Speaker 4: Wow, we like air condition They're like, it's. 1707 01:23:59,200 --> 01:24:01,840 Speaker 3: Much cooler here than it is where you're coming from. Yeah, 1708 01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:05,640 Speaker 3: but I'm American. I'm gonna bring my own AC, just plugging. 1709 01:24:05,320 --> 01:24:08,920 Speaker 5: In like a smooth sixties just a creature, just a creature, 1710 01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:12,599 Speaker 5: comforts of a sixty four degree day inside of my bed. 1711 01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:16,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna, you know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna get. 1712 01:24:16,000 --> 01:24:18,760 Speaker 1: A private jet just for my air conditioner and then 1713 01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:22,160 Speaker 1: a separate one for me. So and then we can 1714 01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:24,480 Speaker 1: discuss the Paris Climate Accords. 1715 01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:26,599 Speaker 3: All right, and Taylor Swift can it can be her jet, 1716 01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:28,639 Speaker 3: but then Mike can rid it, and then everybody will 1717 01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:29,439 Speaker 3: be mad at that. 1718 01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:33,200 Speaker 1: Okay, yeahs like, look, your private jet is the same 1719 01:24:33,240 --> 01:24:33,679 Speaker 1: as Taylor. 1720 01:24:35,640 --> 01:24:38,280 Speaker 2: Mine is Delta Delta Comfort plus hopefully. 1721 01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:42,880 Speaker 3: And then I want to do one more story. Okay, 1722 01:24:43,160 --> 01:24:45,360 Speaker 3: I just think this is interesting, you know, Mike. Mike's 1723 01:24:45,360 --> 01:24:48,000 Speaker 3: an interested person like, talking about him, talking with him 1724 01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:48,559 Speaker 3: about things. 1725 01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:54,360 Speaker 2: So, Billy Zain is an actor, Okay, bitanic he will. 1726 01:24:54,439 --> 01:24:59,600 Speaker 3: He recently proposed or suggested that actors should get emotional 1727 01:24:59,680 --> 01:25:00,400 Speaker 3: stunt pay. 1728 01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:02,400 Speaker 2: He said, just out there. 1729 01:25:02,479 --> 01:25:05,800 Speaker 3: He transformed into the Sarah Lawrence Colt leader Larry Ray 1730 01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:09,040 Speaker 3: for the upcoming Lifetime movie Devil on Campus the Larry 1731 01:25:09,120 --> 01:25:11,880 Speaker 3: Ray story. Ray was the next Cohn who moved into 1732 01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:14,880 Speaker 3: his daughter's dorm at Sarah Lawrence College in twenty ten 1733 01:25:15,240 --> 01:25:18,919 Speaker 3: and gave manipulative control over her roommates lives. His abusive 1734 01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:21,160 Speaker 3: sex code lasted for a decade before he's convicted and 1735 01:25:21,200 --> 01:25:25,120 Speaker 3: given a sixty year sentence. Playing Ray required Zaye to 1736 01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:28,960 Speaker 3: gain weight and film several abuse scenes. Actors should get 1737 01:25:29,000 --> 01:25:32,800 Speaker 3: emotional stunt pay, he said. The secondary experience incroaches on 1738 01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:33,400 Speaker 3: the primary. 1739 01:25:33,400 --> 01:25:34,120 Speaker 2: It really does. 1740 01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:38,800 Speaker 3: You're recreating my weird trauma. We're putting, cursing, coursing adrenaline 1741 01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:41,400 Speaker 3: through our bodies, in depleting seratona and dubling me and 1742 01:25:41,439 --> 01:25:45,840 Speaker 3: freaking ourselves out, and the body registers it. What do 1743 01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:48,000 Speaker 3: you think about the idea of emotion? 1744 01:25:48,400 --> 01:25:49,120 Speaker 2: What is He called it? 1745 01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:53,559 Speaker 3: Emotional stunt pay for actors who had to play these 1746 01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:56,120 Speaker 3: like weird, these super weird roles. 1747 01:25:57,240 --> 01:25:57,639 Speaker 2: Uh. 1748 01:25:57,880 --> 01:26:03,960 Speaker 1: First, I'll say I story once I forget the actor involved, 1749 01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:05,800 Speaker 1: which is good because I don't want to be smirch 1750 01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:09,160 Speaker 1: anyone or get details wrong. But like they had to 1751 01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:12,400 Speaker 1: be tired, you know. They the character stayed up all night, 1752 01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:14,760 Speaker 1: so the actor stayed up all night. And then some 1753 01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:18,719 Speaker 1: other actor was like, hey, did you ever consider acting? 1754 01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:22,880 Speaker 1: And like, and I feel like there's like maybe the 1755 01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:25,920 Speaker 1: David Mammott school of acting where he's just like, just 1756 01:26:25,960 --> 01:26:29,439 Speaker 1: say the words that are written right. And but then 1757 01:26:29,439 --> 01:26:32,280 Speaker 1: there I feel like there's different kinds of actors out there. 1758 01:26:32,320 --> 01:26:34,880 Speaker 1: Like there's some actors that are always playing like a 1759 01:26:35,000 --> 01:26:37,840 Speaker 1: version of themselves, you know, and you're like, oh wow, 1760 01:26:37,960 --> 01:26:40,679 Speaker 1: it's cool, we love we love that person and as 1761 01:26:40,760 --> 01:26:43,639 Speaker 1: that character, as this character. And then there's people who 1762 01:26:43,680 --> 01:26:46,559 Speaker 1: like disappear into roles like a Christian Bale or like 1763 01:26:46,600 --> 01:26:50,040 Speaker 1: a Gary Oldman. You know, like there's or various character 1764 01:26:50,280 --> 01:26:52,160 Speaker 1: like so many actors do put a lot of work 1765 01:26:52,160 --> 01:26:56,479 Speaker 1: into it, and so I believe him that I and 1766 01:26:56,520 --> 01:26:59,400 Speaker 1: I know, like I think I read Bob Odenkirk's book 1767 01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:03,200 Speaker 1: that was called Comedy Comedy, Comedy, drama. I think about 1768 01:27:03,240 --> 01:27:06,280 Speaker 1: his you know, career being that, and then now in 1769 01:27:06,840 --> 01:27:11,720 Speaker 1: when he plays dramatic roles he sometimes does I don't 1770 01:27:11,720 --> 01:27:12,920 Speaker 1: know if he has to, but the way that he 1771 01:27:12,960 --> 01:27:15,759 Speaker 1: does it is like if he has to be really 1772 01:27:15,960 --> 01:27:20,320 Speaker 1: if appear you know, traumatized or angry or upset, like 1773 01:27:20,720 --> 01:27:24,480 Speaker 1: he does think about those things or brings up painful memories. 1774 01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:30,240 Speaker 1: And I mean, I don't know, Like I'm no economist 1775 01:27:30,479 --> 01:27:32,800 Speaker 1: of acting, Like I don't know, like if you're getting 1776 01:27:32,880 --> 01:27:36,360 Speaker 1: paid a lot of money to be an actor, that 1777 01:27:36,640 --> 01:27:38,880 Speaker 1: like Billy's say, and I imagine is like I don't know. 1778 01:27:39,680 --> 01:27:42,160 Speaker 1: Like sometimes as a comedian, I'll talk about what I know. 1779 01:27:42,520 --> 01:27:46,040 Speaker 1: Sometimes a person's like, hey, I want to come here, 1780 01:27:46,200 --> 01:27:50,320 Speaker 1: I'll pay you this much money plus airfare. I'll be 1781 01:27:50,400 --> 01:27:52,720 Speaker 1: like great. And sometimes they're like, hey, i'll give you 1782 01:27:52,760 --> 01:27:55,400 Speaker 1: this much money. And then I'm like airfare and like 1783 01:27:55,439 --> 01:27:57,840 Speaker 1: you pay for the airfare, you just you get here. 1784 01:27:58,280 --> 01:28:00,400 Speaker 1: This is the money that I have to pay, and 1785 01:28:00,439 --> 01:28:02,519 Speaker 1: if it's worth it, then I do it. And like, 1786 01:28:02,640 --> 01:28:04,600 Speaker 1: not every gig pays the same, not every gig is 1787 01:28:04,640 --> 01:28:09,160 Speaker 1: the same. Brian Reagan I mentioned earlier classic hero of 1788 01:28:09,240 --> 01:28:13,599 Speaker 1: the Sully hero joke he said on Mark Marin's podcast. 1789 01:28:13,640 --> 01:28:15,920 Speaker 1: I think he's like my first time performing at a college, 1790 01:28:15,920 --> 01:28:18,760 Speaker 1: I got paid one thousand dollars and then I drove 1791 01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:21,240 Speaker 1: into New York City and did a set and I 1792 01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:24,000 Speaker 1: got paid twenty dollars. And he's like, what's my comedy worth? 1793 01:28:24,120 --> 01:28:26,519 Speaker 1: Is it worth one thousand dollars or is it worth 1794 01:28:26,600 --> 01:28:31,400 Speaker 1: twenty dollars? And you know it depends, And so I 1795 01:28:31,439 --> 01:28:34,400 Speaker 1: mean I think that hopefully, like there is some you know, 1796 01:28:34,560 --> 01:28:38,000 Speaker 1: universal basic income or like the SAG after a minimum 1797 01:28:38,120 --> 01:28:40,840 Speaker 1: for a union acting job that you get paid, and 1798 01:28:41,160 --> 01:28:43,920 Speaker 1: maybe they can take it take into account, like if 1799 01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:47,920 Speaker 1: something is physically grueling, like then you deserve to get 1800 01:28:47,960 --> 01:28:50,680 Speaker 1: paid more if people agree about that, if something is 1801 01:28:50,880 --> 01:28:54,599 Speaker 1: emotionally grueling or could be like I buy it, Like 1802 01:28:54,720 --> 01:28:57,360 Speaker 1: I've read studies that say if you go through a 1803 01:28:57,360 --> 01:29:01,200 Speaker 1: breakup like that can be as paid full. Like your 1804 01:29:01,280 --> 01:29:04,120 Speaker 1: brain processes the pain the same way as it processes 1805 01:29:04,439 --> 01:29:07,120 Speaker 1: like the pain of a broken arm or a broken limb, 1806 01:29:07,680 --> 01:29:11,240 Speaker 1: And I guess the question is just then, like for 1807 01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:15,559 Speaker 1: actors like I'm I'm not the kind of actor I've 1808 01:29:15,600 --> 01:29:18,880 Speaker 1: never done the kind of acting that has brought up 1809 01:29:19,040 --> 01:29:21,120 Speaker 1: traumatic things, right, but. 1810 01:29:21,240 --> 01:29:24,800 Speaker 3: Also like who's to say, you know, like maybe Ma 1811 01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:28,360 Speaker 3: Barista has a backstory that you don't know about Billy Zaye. 1812 01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:32,080 Speaker 2: So when your coat leader goes to ask me for coffee. 1813 01:29:31,680 --> 01:29:34,679 Speaker 3: I'm thinking about the time that I was brutally beaten 1814 01:29:34,760 --> 01:29:37,320 Speaker 3: when I was fourteen, and that's why I'm serving the coffee, 1815 01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:38,520 Speaker 3: and that's why I actually. 1816 01:29:38,320 --> 01:29:40,080 Speaker 2: Dropped the cup in the script. 1817 01:29:40,120 --> 01:29:42,000 Speaker 3: But y'all don't know where I had to go to 1818 01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:44,320 Speaker 3: the dark places of my mind to drop that cup. 1819 01:29:44,479 --> 01:29:46,360 Speaker 3: That is in the script for me to drop that cup. 1820 01:29:46,400 --> 01:29:48,320 Speaker 3: Even though I have a lot of speaking lines, where's 1821 01:29:48,360 --> 01:29:50,880 Speaker 3: my emotional has to pay? Karen, I do want to 1822 01:29:50,880 --> 01:29:53,440 Speaker 3: ask your thoughts on this too. 1823 01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:56,920 Speaker 5: It's a mixed bag because, like I say, it's very 1824 01:29:56,960 --> 01:30:02,280 Speaker 5: in different actors, and I think that if this is 1825 01:30:02,320 --> 01:30:04,920 Speaker 5: a thing, it needs to be negotiated, like like like 1826 01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:07,760 Speaker 5: they need to go and negotiate this in like like 1827 01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:09,280 Speaker 5: in how it. 1828 01:30:09,240 --> 01:30:11,880 Speaker 3: Sounds like that would be part of the negotiations. I 1829 01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:15,320 Speaker 3: would pay me more money. 1830 01:30:14,520 --> 01:30:16,880 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, And also what are. 1831 01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:19,200 Speaker 2: You gonna use it for? Don't fucking worry about that part. 1832 01:30:19,600 --> 01:30:22,800 Speaker 3: I might need some emotional trauma pay after this, but 1833 01:30:22,840 --> 01:30:24,479 Speaker 3: I want more money than what you're offering. 1834 01:30:24,640 --> 01:30:27,160 Speaker 5: And somebody brought up in the chat, and I do agree, 1835 01:30:27,720 --> 01:30:32,360 Speaker 5: sometimes you might need therapists on set, which is you know, 1836 01:30:32,840 --> 01:30:34,960 Speaker 5: and so it's one of those things where that can 1837 01:30:35,040 --> 01:30:36,320 Speaker 5: kind of help people. 1838 01:30:36,080 --> 01:30:38,519 Speaker 4: Get through these things, you. 1839 01:30:38,479 --> 01:30:41,559 Speaker 5: Know, to kind of assist, you know, them through somebody 1840 01:30:41,600 --> 01:30:45,120 Speaker 5: that's kind of trained in these areas, you know, to 1841 01:30:45,200 --> 01:30:46,479 Speaker 5: kind of help them process it. 1842 01:30:46,600 --> 01:30:47,599 Speaker 2: So here's what I'll say. 1843 01:30:48,520 --> 01:30:52,759 Speaker 3: I think this is the greatest humble brag Billy's Ainm's 1844 01:30:52,800 --> 01:30:55,720 Speaker 3: ever done. I think this is what I'm trying to 1845 01:30:55,760 --> 01:30:58,120 Speaker 3: convince us, Like, you better watch this fucking movie. 1846 01:30:58,680 --> 01:31:02,840 Speaker 2: The way I will playing this colt guy. It's like 1847 01:31:02,920 --> 01:31:05,960 Speaker 2: I was this coat guy. And if you don't. 1848 01:31:05,880 --> 01:31:08,640 Speaker 3: Watch this lifetime performance, because it's a once in a 1849 01:31:08,640 --> 01:31:11,680 Speaker 3: lifetime performance for me on lifetime. 1850 01:31:11,920 --> 01:31:15,479 Speaker 2: You're going to regret that you did not see. 1851 01:31:15,520 --> 01:31:18,400 Speaker 3: Billy's aaying take it to the darkest place he's ever 1852 01:31:18,479 --> 01:31:21,280 Speaker 3: taken it. I'm sick. I was to pray I'm gonna 1853 01:31:21,360 --> 01:31:23,760 Speaker 3: need therapy. I was so good in this movie. I 1854 01:31:23,800 --> 01:31:26,320 Speaker 3: think that's what he's doing. I think it's brilliant marketing. 1855 01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:29,599 Speaker 3: I don't know if we'll ever see emotional trauma pay 1856 01:31:29,680 --> 01:31:31,080 Speaker 3: because that's what the money's for. 1857 01:31:31,600 --> 01:31:33,559 Speaker 2: And it's kind of like, uh, you. 1858 01:31:33,520 --> 01:31:36,639 Speaker 3: Know, it's like like like as you said earlier, it's 1859 01:31:36,640 --> 01:31:39,200 Speaker 3: like you're getting paid extra to act and then like 1860 01:31:39,240 --> 01:31:43,719 Speaker 3: who determines which one is? So what about the people 1861 01:31:43,720 --> 01:31:46,240 Speaker 3: that got beaten in the script? What about you know, 1862 01:31:46,280 --> 01:31:49,880 Speaker 3: what about the camera person? Like I think this, I 1863 01:31:49,920 --> 01:31:51,280 Speaker 3: think this is just him humble bragging. 1864 01:31:52,320 --> 01:31:58,880 Speaker 1: Emotional trauma reparations are needed, like retroactively for anyone who 1865 01:31:58,920 --> 01:32:02,120 Speaker 1: has ever experienced you know, the people in twelve Years 1866 01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:04,800 Speaker 1: a slave, people in amistad people, But. 1867 01:32:04,920 --> 01:32:06,040 Speaker 2: What if they pay honestly? 1868 01:32:06,120 --> 01:32:08,160 Speaker 3: What if you just pay the person the same amount 1869 01:32:08,160 --> 01:32:09,840 Speaker 3: but you tell them it's emotional trauma pay? 1870 01:32:10,160 --> 01:32:10,880 Speaker 2: Haha? 1871 01:32:10,920 --> 01:32:13,800 Speaker 1: I mean I I honestly think that there is a 1872 01:32:13,840 --> 01:32:17,439 Speaker 1: really interesting philosophical question here, and part of it is like, 1873 01:32:17,560 --> 01:32:20,000 Speaker 1: part of it's about capitalism, Part of it is about 1874 01:32:20,000 --> 01:32:23,160 Speaker 1: the human condition of not knowing the future. Part of 1875 01:32:23,160 --> 01:32:28,040 Speaker 1: it is about like negotiating in general, Like sometimes you 1876 01:32:28,080 --> 01:32:30,679 Speaker 1: do You're like, man, this show I need a lot. 1877 01:32:30,720 --> 01:32:33,160 Speaker 1: Like I heard a story once like I won't say 1878 01:32:33,160 --> 01:32:35,040 Speaker 1: the comedian, but I heard there's a comedian who like 1879 01:32:35,080 --> 01:32:38,240 Speaker 1: doesn't like perform at colleges, and so he's like, agent, 1880 01:32:38,439 --> 01:32:40,280 Speaker 1: if a person wants me to perform at a college, 1881 01:32:40,400 --> 01:32:43,160 Speaker 1: quote them seventy five thousand dollars. If they can come 1882 01:32:43,240 --> 01:32:45,720 Speaker 1: up with seventy five thousand dollars, I'll do a thing 1883 01:32:45,720 --> 01:32:48,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to do because why not, you know. 1884 01:32:48,560 --> 01:32:50,600 Speaker 1: But otherwise I'm not I don't want to do it. 1885 01:32:50,640 --> 01:32:53,439 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it. And I like, I tweeted 1886 01:32:53,479 --> 01:32:55,960 Speaker 1: something about this, and I kind of really emotionally feel 1887 01:32:55,960 --> 01:32:58,800 Speaker 1: this that sometimes I go, I show up at a 1888 01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:01,040 Speaker 1: club and they're like, how long a set do you 1889 01:33:01,080 --> 01:33:03,640 Speaker 1: want to do? And I'm like, I tell them, like, 1890 01:33:03,720 --> 01:33:05,200 Speaker 1: you know, if I'm working on an hour, I'll do 1891 01:33:05,240 --> 01:33:07,000 Speaker 1: an hour. I was like, sometimes I'm like, I'll do 1892 01:33:07,000 --> 01:33:08,640 Speaker 1: at least forty forty five. Do you have to tell 1893 01:33:08,680 --> 01:33:12,120 Speaker 1: you exactly, like somewhere between forty and sixty because it'll 1894 01:33:12,120 --> 01:33:15,360 Speaker 1: depend on the circumstances. I'm like, but the real answer is, oh, 1895 01:33:15,360 --> 01:33:16,640 Speaker 1: how long do I want to do? 1896 01:33:17,120 --> 01:33:19,840 Speaker 2: Can I answer you? I don't know, thirty seconds into 1897 01:33:19,880 --> 01:33:22,160 Speaker 2: my set? Can I answer you? Can I like. 1898 01:33:22,200 --> 01:33:25,720 Speaker 1: Update you recalculating in real time throughout the set, you know, 1899 01:33:25,960 --> 01:33:28,600 Speaker 1: And but there's something real in the fact in the 1900 01:33:28,600 --> 01:33:32,840 Speaker 1: idea that time is money here like how much like that? 1901 01:33:32,840 --> 01:33:37,040 Speaker 1: That's what a negotiation is. You're in advance deciding this 1902 01:33:37,080 --> 01:33:39,360 Speaker 1: is what's going to happen in the future, and you 1903 01:33:39,479 --> 01:33:42,120 Speaker 1: might be wrong. So I totally get that Billy's ain 1904 01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:44,519 Speaker 1: signed up to do this gig and he got he 1905 01:33:44,800 --> 01:33:48,920 Speaker 1: I'm sure he got paid fairly and well and more 1906 01:33:48,960 --> 01:33:53,200 Speaker 1: than fairly well. And then afterwards I don't doubt I 1907 01:33:53,240 --> 01:33:56,480 Speaker 1: think you're right. It is good marketing. This is an interesting, 1908 01:33:56,800 --> 01:34:01,880 Speaker 1: like sticky topic. And also probably he he's telling the 1909 01:34:01,960 --> 01:34:04,880 Speaker 1: truth that it was hard. It was maybe it was 1910 01:34:04,920 --> 01:34:07,360 Speaker 1: harder than he thought it would be. Also wants more money. 1911 01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:10,400 Speaker 3: Also, it's in print, so I can't really tell his 1912 01:34:10,880 --> 01:34:13,120 Speaker 3: tone because sometimes I think people. 1913 01:34:12,880 --> 01:34:15,760 Speaker 2: Say stuff that's not as serious as the conres because 1914 01:34:15,800 --> 01:34:18,920 Speaker 2: it led me. One of the reasons I'm glad Mike. 1915 01:34:18,800 --> 01:34:21,840 Speaker 3: Is here is because I did think very philosophically about 1916 01:34:21,840 --> 01:34:24,559 Speaker 3: this when I heard it, and I but I didn't 1917 01:34:24,560 --> 01:34:26,679 Speaker 3: go play the clip because I was like, he probably 1918 01:34:26,720 --> 01:34:27,559 Speaker 3: just said it like. 1919 01:34:27,920 --> 01:34:30,479 Speaker 2: Man, we need like emotional trump extra pay. 1920 01:34:30,920 --> 01:34:32,720 Speaker 3: This was I went there in this world, this was 1921 01:34:32,800 --> 01:34:35,760 Speaker 3: crazy girl, okay, And in my mind, I'm like. 1922 01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:38,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, we need emotional trauma pay. 1923 01:34:40,800 --> 01:34:42,599 Speaker 4: Out there because tone matters. 1924 01:34:42,640 --> 01:34:47,719 Speaker 1: Tone matters one time. That's I think there are great 1925 01:34:47,960 --> 01:34:51,479 Speaker 1: journalists covering comedy, and then there's also a lot of 1926 01:34:51,520 --> 01:34:55,360 Speaker 1: other people writing down what happened at comedy shows, and 1927 01:34:55,439 --> 01:34:59,479 Speaker 1: like even some people misquote, Like I've been interviewed, you know, 1928 01:34:59,680 --> 01:35:03,200 Speaker 1: numero times over my twenty plus years in comedy. And 1929 01:35:03,520 --> 01:35:07,360 Speaker 1: when people get a story like good when and right, 1930 01:35:07,520 --> 01:35:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, man, like we should be friends because 1931 01:35:09,800 --> 01:35:12,599 Speaker 1: you care and you get it. And then every once 1932 01:35:12,640 --> 01:35:15,160 Speaker 1: in a while, like they don't even get the quote right, 1933 01:35:15,160 --> 01:35:17,240 Speaker 1: and they and then it becomes part of a narrative 1934 01:35:17,280 --> 01:35:20,840 Speaker 1: that isn't even true. And then sometimes they get the 1935 01:35:20,880 --> 01:35:24,080 Speaker 1: words right. But the words I remember one time and 1936 01:35:24,120 --> 01:35:27,839 Speaker 1: they're like in my the album version of My Special 1937 01:35:27,880 --> 01:35:30,479 Speaker 1: Small doorc and Handsome, at the end of it, there's 1938 01:35:30,520 --> 01:35:33,960 Speaker 1: a bonus track that is only available in the audio 1939 01:35:34,040 --> 01:35:36,839 Speaker 1: form where I talk about when one of my jokes 1940 01:35:36,920 --> 01:35:40,679 Speaker 1: about being vegan got like co opted by a butcher 1941 01:35:40,760 --> 01:35:43,519 Speaker 1: shop and they like put it on their wall. It 1942 01:35:43,560 --> 01:35:47,000 Speaker 1: was basically it was like to me a self deprecating 1943 01:35:47,080 --> 01:35:50,559 Speaker 1: fun joke and to them an anti vegan joke that 1944 01:35:50,560 --> 01:35:53,080 Speaker 1: they're like, haha, vegans are like this, whereas I'm like 1945 01:35:53,680 --> 01:35:55,559 Speaker 1: if a butcher shop says haha, vegans are like this, 1946 01:35:55,640 --> 01:35:57,920 Speaker 1: It's different when I a vegan say haha, vegans are 1947 01:35:57,920 --> 01:36:00,559 Speaker 1: like this. And you know, like I make a joke 1948 01:36:00,600 --> 01:36:02,200 Speaker 1: about my mom, and if you make a joke about 1949 01:36:02,200 --> 01:36:04,639 Speaker 1: it my mom, you know, I will eat you, even 1950 01:36:04,640 --> 01:36:05,200 Speaker 1: though I'm vegan. 1951 01:36:07,240 --> 01:36:07,880 Speaker 2: What I'm saying. 1952 01:36:07,960 --> 01:36:10,760 Speaker 1: Like, So, they they did that, and then like I 1953 01:36:10,920 --> 01:36:12,879 Speaker 1: posted about it, and I like put. 1954 01:36:12,640 --> 01:36:13,480 Speaker 2: On my website. 1955 01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:17,519 Speaker 1: You know, I wasn't really quote angry about it, but 1956 01:36:17,560 --> 01:36:19,960 Speaker 1: I was like it irked me and I thought that 1957 01:36:20,040 --> 01:36:22,679 Speaker 1: I thought they did the wrong thing. And to their credit, 1958 01:36:22,920 --> 01:36:24,880 Speaker 1: when they responded and they were like, we're sorry, we 1959 01:36:24,920 --> 01:36:27,680 Speaker 1: didn't realize like they should have quoted me and this 1960 01:36:27,720 --> 01:36:29,840 Speaker 1: and that. But you know, it went really viral for 1961 01:36:29,840 --> 01:36:33,439 Speaker 1: a little while. And the reason I'm bringing it up 1962 01:36:33,520 --> 01:36:38,080 Speaker 1: is because, like in the article that somebody wrote about 1963 01:36:38,120 --> 01:36:40,840 Speaker 1: my response to them doing this, they were like, I 1964 01:36:40,840 --> 01:36:43,240 Speaker 1: think it was something like they said Caplin, like they 1965 01:36:43,280 --> 01:36:46,000 Speaker 1: quoted me and said Caplin fumed, and I'm like, I 1966 01:36:46,000 --> 01:36:47,439 Speaker 1: didn't fume, Like. 1967 01:36:47,400 --> 01:36:51,880 Speaker 2: I just I said this as a joke, as a joke. 1968 01:36:52,640 --> 01:36:52,960 Speaker 4: Character. 1969 01:36:53,080 --> 01:36:54,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, I angry. 1970 01:36:55,040 --> 01:36:59,040 Speaker 1: I joked as an angry character about this thing, like 1971 01:36:59,320 --> 01:37:02,760 Speaker 1: he is con fuming and so like, clearly to your point, 1972 01:37:02,800 --> 01:37:05,519 Speaker 1: that's what's going on probably with Billy zaying. 1973 01:37:05,840 --> 01:37:08,719 Speaker 2: I mean he's an actor. Maybe the whole thing's part 1974 01:37:08,720 --> 01:37:09,120 Speaker 2: of an act. 1975 01:37:09,280 --> 01:37:12,320 Speaker 4: Right, that's true too, And I'll wrap on this. 1976 01:37:12,479 --> 01:37:16,400 Speaker 3: But the thing also is there's an assumption this happens 1977 01:37:16,439 --> 01:37:18,400 Speaker 3: with a lot of our problems in America. 1978 01:37:18,439 --> 01:37:19,920 Speaker 2: And I don't know what to do with this. It's 1979 01:37:20,000 --> 01:37:21,439 Speaker 2: just a thing I always think that. 1980 01:37:21,560 --> 01:37:24,080 Speaker 3: I don't think there's a real solution to It's just 1981 01:37:24,120 --> 01:37:26,080 Speaker 3: a matter of how you think about it in that moment, 1982 01:37:26,160 --> 01:37:28,240 Speaker 3: and it just it varies for all of us. But 1983 01:37:29,240 --> 01:37:32,280 Speaker 3: even though many of us recognize the ills of like 1984 01:37:32,400 --> 01:37:38,559 Speaker 3: capitalism and how it's so consumptual, it consumes so much, 1985 01:37:38,720 --> 01:37:40,720 Speaker 3: but it also like can consume your mind or your 1986 01:37:40,760 --> 01:37:43,200 Speaker 3: way of thinking, and people justify things by money. It's 1987 01:37:43,520 --> 01:37:45,840 Speaker 3: oh this this person did this thing that's messed up, 1988 01:37:45,880 --> 01:37:48,479 Speaker 3: but it was for money, so we understand why they 1989 01:37:48,479 --> 01:37:50,720 Speaker 3: did it, so it's not as bad as if it 1990 01:37:50,760 --> 01:37:54,679 Speaker 3: wasn't for money or something. Right, But one thing, we also, 1991 01:37:55,080 --> 01:37:57,519 Speaker 3: even those of us that like justice and equality and 1992 01:37:57,560 --> 01:38:00,439 Speaker 3: all the good things. We also have a hard thinking 1993 01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:03,720 Speaker 3: outside of just terms of money. And so I saw 1994 01:38:03,760 --> 01:38:06,160 Speaker 3: people sharing this once again. I don't know if he 1995 01:38:06,200 --> 01:38:07,880 Speaker 3: meant it the way people were taking it, but they 1996 01:38:07,880 --> 01:38:10,680 Speaker 3: were sharing it very seriously and they were like this, 1997 01:38:11,400 --> 01:38:14,680 Speaker 3: this actor Michael K. Williams played a role that was 1998 01:38:14,720 --> 01:38:17,680 Speaker 3: so traumatizing. He did drugs and he died of an 1999 01:38:17,720 --> 01:38:20,880 Speaker 3: overdose and like that role killed him or something. And 2000 01:38:20,880 --> 01:38:23,720 Speaker 3: I'm like, and it's like, we had emotional trauma pay 2001 01:38:23,720 --> 01:38:26,679 Speaker 3: and it's like, didn't he have money to buy more drugs? 2002 01:38:26,720 --> 01:38:29,439 Speaker 3: Like what, Like we don't know what would happen. Be 2003 01:38:29,479 --> 01:38:32,400 Speaker 3: assumption as money would fix it, but we're talking about 2004 01:38:32,439 --> 01:38:34,960 Speaker 3: like emotional trauma. And I don't know if you guys 2005 01:38:35,000 --> 01:38:38,479 Speaker 3: have ever heard of music. Money's not fixing it. 2006 01:38:39,200 --> 01:38:41,640 Speaker 2: Like there's a lot of like it's not a guarantee. 2007 01:38:41,880 --> 01:38:43,080 Speaker 2: I know, we all want to try it. 2008 01:38:43,080 --> 01:38:44,760 Speaker 3: I'm not saying you don't go give it a shot 2009 01:38:44,800 --> 01:38:46,360 Speaker 3: if you can get your hands on a lot of money, 2010 01:38:46,360 --> 01:38:48,519 Speaker 3: But it seems that there's a lot of people with 2011 01:38:48,680 --> 01:38:52,760 Speaker 3: resources and that still end up with issues even with 2012 01:38:52,800 --> 01:38:56,160 Speaker 3: all that money and stuff. But it was funny because 2013 01:38:56,200 --> 01:38:59,200 Speaker 3: I think the discussion spawned into some form of like, yeah, 2014 01:38:59,240 --> 01:39:02,320 Speaker 3: money would fix this problem. And I just don't think 2015 01:39:02,800 --> 01:39:05,800 Speaker 3: even with if you had a here's an extra one 2016 01:39:05,880 --> 01:39:08,160 Speaker 3: hundred thousand dollars because you were so good and and 2017 01:39:08,280 --> 01:39:11,559 Speaker 3: that must have made you be even like feel even worse. 2018 01:39:11,960 --> 01:39:14,960 Speaker 3: It's like, oh, extra hundred thousand dollars, I feel great now. 2019 01:39:15,280 --> 01:39:19,280 Speaker 3: That was no longer trauma. Those scenes beating people affected 2020 01:39:19,320 --> 01:39:20,000 Speaker 3: me not at all. 2021 01:39:20,280 --> 01:39:22,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's true. 2022 01:39:22,479 --> 01:39:24,640 Speaker 1: Well, here's what I say. I think you're on the 2023 01:39:24,720 --> 01:39:26,839 Speaker 1: right track. What we need to do is offer trauma 2024 01:39:26,880 --> 01:39:31,439 Speaker 1: pay in gift certificates to therapy. That's the only thing 2025 01:39:31,680 --> 01:39:38,400 Speaker 1: that's allowed. Because do you know that Jim Carrey famously said, 2026 01:39:39,040 --> 01:39:41,680 Speaker 1: I think everybody should get rich and famous and do 2027 01:39:41,760 --> 01:39:44,640 Speaker 1: everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that 2028 01:39:44,680 --> 01:39:45,639 Speaker 1: it's not the answer. 2029 01:39:45,960 --> 01:39:46,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 2030 01:39:46,680 --> 01:39:50,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's funny because I don't think anyone wants to 2031 01:39:50,120 --> 01:39:53,160 Speaker 3: hear it. But I mean, how many examples do we 2032 01:39:53,240 --> 01:39:56,880 Speaker 3: need of like, oh, man, the money did not fix that. 2033 01:39:56,960 --> 01:40:00,960 Speaker 4: You know what I mean, can't. 2034 01:40:00,720 --> 01:40:03,800 Speaker 3: Fix And I do want to say, Okay, twenty years 2035 01:40:03,800 --> 01:40:08,320 Speaker 3: in comedy eight seven years, two hundred and sixty three 2036 01:40:08,400 --> 01:40:14,200 Speaker 3: days from eight years of relationship with Renie, When the 2037 01:40:14,240 --> 01:40:15,320 Speaker 3: hell are you getting married? 2038 01:40:15,360 --> 01:40:16,880 Speaker 2: And what if I'm so nosy? 2039 01:40:17,360 --> 01:40:20,639 Speaker 3: I just need to know to answer to that somewhere 2040 01:40:20,640 --> 01:40:22,120 Speaker 3: within the next couple of months. 2041 01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:25,000 Speaker 4: I mean, he's gonna be around ten dope digits. 2042 01:40:25,160 --> 01:40:28,240 Speaker 3: What would I need to do in order to find 2043 01:40:28,280 --> 01:40:29,120 Speaker 3: out what's going on? 2044 01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:34,360 Speaker 1: Mike Rod, this is really this is kind of bananas 2045 01:40:34,400 --> 01:40:37,439 Speaker 1: because I thought I'd explained this earlier. 2046 01:40:37,439 --> 01:40:39,120 Speaker 2: But I'll do it one more time. 2047 01:40:39,640 --> 01:40:44,800 Speaker 1: On August twenty second, in New York City at a 2048 01:40:44,800 --> 01:40:49,120 Speaker 1: place called The Actors Temple Theater, I will be recording 2049 01:40:49,320 --> 01:40:52,959 Speaker 1: filming new I haven't done. I've recorded a few specials 2050 01:40:53,000 --> 01:40:55,120 Speaker 1: over the years, but I haven't done a one hour 2051 01:40:55,800 --> 01:40:58,599 Speaker 1: video special. I've done a lot of albums, a lot 2052 01:40:58,600 --> 01:41:01,439 Speaker 1: of hours of comedy audio exist. I did a half 2053 01:41:01,479 --> 01:41:03,559 Speaker 1: hour drive bar special a couple of years ago. But 2054 01:41:03,760 --> 01:41:09,000 Speaker 1: this is my Not since twenty fourteen has there been 2055 01:41:09,160 --> 01:41:12,799 Speaker 1: an hour special of mine film, So this is really 2056 01:41:13,120 --> 01:41:16,559 Speaker 1: really specials. Not since this relationship began, not since you know. 2057 01:41:16,600 --> 01:41:20,160 Speaker 1: I've been doing comedy for more than you know. It's 2058 01:41:20,200 --> 01:41:23,080 Speaker 1: been more than twenty years now, So I'm really excited. 2059 01:41:23,400 --> 01:41:26,840 Speaker 1: August twenty second, New York City, The Actors Temple Theater 2060 01:41:27,000 --> 01:41:31,040 Speaker 1: tickets at my website or message me. If you can 2061 01:41:31,080 --> 01:41:34,160 Speaker 1: be there and want to be there and buying a 2062 01:41:34,160 --> 01:41:38,639 Speaker 1: ticket is a higher bar to entry, then you can muster. 2063 01:41:39,240 --> 01:41:41,759 Speaker 1: And yeah, I would just love to fill the place 2064 01:41:41,960 --> 01:41:45,719 Speaker 1: with I mean, y'all. I love coming on this show. 2065 01:41:45,840 --> 01:41:48,920 Speaker 1: I love the chat, I love all the fans, I 2066 01:41:49,000 --> 01:41:52,720 Speaker 1: love you, and I love that when people people come 2067 01:41:52,760 --> 01:41:55,360 Speaker 1: out to people have come out to see me because 2068 01:41:55,360 --> 01:41:57,519 Speaker 1: they've heard me on the show, and it means a lot. 2069 01:41:57,920 --> 01:42:01,679 Speaker 1: And so if you can and do and have much 2070 01:42:02,000 --> 01:42:04,120 Speaker 1: all the gratitude, I really appreciate it. 2071 01:42:04,439 --> 01:42:06,840 Speaker 3: And look, if you can afford to take it by 2072 01:42:06,880 --> 01:42:08,720 Speaker 3: it because he might need the extra money for the 2073 01:42:08,760 --> 01:42:12,720 Speaker 3: emotional trauma that he's going to put himself through being 2074 01:42:12,840 --> 01:42:16,280 Speaker 3: funny for you. Okay, it's not you know, it's not 2075 01:42:16,360 --> 01:42:19,599 Speaker 3: all just with mean people that have a mean characters. 2076 01:42:19,640 --> 01:42:22,479 Speaker 3: Sometimes good people need emotional trauma to build up their 2077 01:42:22,479 --> 01:42:23,800 Speaker 3: comedic jokes. 2078 01:42:24,280 --> 01:42:24,559 Speaker 2: Do you know. 2079 01:42:24,760 --> 01:42:27,200 Speaker 1: In fact, on event right, we made it so that 2080 01:42:27,800 --> 01:42:29,600 Speaker 1: you can buy a ticket for ten dollars and you 2081 01:42:29,640 --> 01:42:32,080 Speaker 1: can also buy a ticket for twenty five dollars, and 2082 01:42:32,120 --> 01:42:34,360 Speaker 1: we only put it that. We're like, if you want 2083 01:42:34,360 --> 01:42:36,400 Speaker 1: to be if you just have extra money that you 2084 01:42:36,439 --> 01:42:39,080 Speaker 1: want to give. Be like we're you know, it costs 2085 01:42:39,080 --> 01:42:42,599 Speaker 1: a lot to make a comedy special, Like every bit helps. 2086 01:42:42,680 --> 01:42:45,640 Speaker 2: We appreciate it. But yeah, I mean, if you want to. 2087 01:42:45,840 --> 01:42:47,599 Speaker 1: I don't if we're going to change it officially, but 2088 01:42:47,640 --> 01:42:52,040 Speaker 1: feel free metaphorically in spirit that twenty five dollars ticket 2089 01:42:52,160 --> 01:42:54,280 Speaker 1: or more. Feel free to buy multiple tickets, buy as 2090 01:42:54,280 --> 01:42:58,759 Speaker 1: many as you want. Feel veno me as much emotional support. 2091 01:42:59,160 --> 01:43:03,439 Speaker 1: I promise that I'll put it towards making myself feel healthy. 2092 01:43:03,600 --> 01:43:06,559 Speaker 2: And look, we don't, we don't know what the amount is. 2093 01:43:06,600 --> 01:43:10,120 Speaker 3: It can be different for every person because emotional trauma 2094 01:43:10,360 --> 01:43:16,080 Speaker 3: is just like riding a bike until until next episode. 2095 01:43:16,439 --> 01:43:20,400 Speaker 3: I love you, I love you, just just like riding 2096 01:43:20,400 --> 01:43:21,080 Speaker 3: a b y Q