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Speaker 1: Well, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and

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Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and

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Speaker 1: it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: You never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 1: It's time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friend

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Speaker 1: Shirley Strawbery. Thank you my good friend Junior a subject.

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Speaker 1: If she won't, I sure will. You're Stephen, Shirley. I'm

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Speaker 1: a professional side chick, but not by choice. I've been

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Speaker 1: mixed up in some mess for the past three years

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Speaker 1: with the guy that I was dating.

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Speaker 3: He told me he wasn't married, and he is.

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Speaker 1: I believed him because I'd been to his house and

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Speaker 1: I had slept in his bed with him. Two years

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Speaker 1: into our relationship, his wife came to the house.

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Speaker 3: While we were.

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Speaker 1: Asleep, and she took all of my clothes and burned

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Speaker 1: them in the backyard. She didn't even wake us up.

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Speaker 1: He called her when we got up, and she was

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Speaker 1: back at her mom's place and she was laughing hysterically

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Speaker 1: at us, so he showed me where her clothes were

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Speaker 1: in the house, and I put on one of her

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Speaker 1: jogging suits and posted a picture of myself wearing it

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Speaker 1: on Facebook. Since that day, we've been beefing. If my

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Speaker 1: man wants dinner, I go over there and I cook

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Speaker 1: while his wife is lying around the house being trifling.

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Speaker 1: She only moved back in the house because she didn't

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Speaker 1: want me to have her husband. He's told her several

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Speaker 1: times that he wants to be with me, and she

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Speaker 1: says she's not going anywhere. I live with my two daughters,

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Speaker 1: so he can't come and lay up in my house.

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Speaker 1: At first, it was a weird arrangement, but now it's

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Speaker 1: just like she's not even there. She will not clean

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Speaker 1: up the house, so I go over there and make

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Speaker 1: sure the kitchen and his bedroom are clean, and I

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Speaker 1: wash and fold all of his clothes. That's how I

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Speaker 1: know that I've won his heart, because he loves a

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Speaker 1: clean house. Whatever she won't do for him, I will.

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Speaker 1: He told me that's what he loves about me. The

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Speaker 1: other day, we talked about putting her out for good,

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Speaker 1: and he said he's giving her time to get on

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Speaker 1: her feet. Why is he giving her time to get

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Speaker 1: herself together? Does it sound like he did he doesn't

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Speaker 1: really want her to move out? Please advise, Well, why

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Speaker 1: should she move out? I mean, this is a perfect

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Speaker 1: arrangement for him, and it's one of the craziest I

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Speaker 1: think we've ever heard.

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Speaker 3: What you guys have is like an open marriage.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this man just has two wives, a lazy one

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Speaker 1: according to you, and then a maid you. What I

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Speaker 1: don't get is why you didn't leave once you knew

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Speaker 1: for sure he was married. And why on earth are

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Speaker 1: you going over to this woman's house cooking.

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Speaker 3: And cleaning for her man. He's her husband, not yours.

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Speaker 1: In this letter you say you're a professional side chick,

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Speaker 1: but not by choice.

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Speaker 3: That was like your first line. You absolutely have.

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Speaker 1: A choice in this. You can choose not to be

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Speaker 1: his side chick. You can stop going over there cooking.

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Speaker 1: You can choose to stop going over there cleaning. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you do his laundry too. You said that you

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Speaker 1: fold his clothes and wash him and all that. But

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Speaker 1: you can choose yourself and not be this side chick

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Speaker 1: and get out. That means stay out the house, go

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Speaker 1: you know, stay in your own house with your kids

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Speaker 1: and all of that. You don't have to be his

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Speaker 1: cook and his house cleaner. If this man wanted to

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Speaker 1: lead his wife, don't you think he would have done

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Speaker 1: it by now?

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Speaker 3: Don't you think that? But why should he when he.

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Speaker 1: Can have his wife and you, But you're cooking and

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Speaker 1: clean and self. He's got the best of both worlds,

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Speaker 1: I say the husband does he is winning right now, Steve, Oh,

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Speaker 1: this letter.

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Speaker 2: Kind of threw me. I didn't see all this coming.

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Speaker 4: This is interesting, but you know, it's so many contradictory

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Speaker 4: statements in this letter. I know, Steven Shirley, I'm a

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Speaker 4: professional side chick, but not by choice.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute.

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Speaker 4: If you're the knowing side chick, you've made the choice.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean is not by choice? You just

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Speaker 4: said you're a professional side chick, but not by choice.

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Speaker 4: If you have taken on the title as professional side chick,

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Speaker 4: you've labeled it that.

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Speaker 2: Then you've made the decision.

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Speaker 4: You are a professional side chick, and we have to

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Speaker 4: believe you.

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 4: But I've been in some mess for the past three years,

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Speaker 4: some mess you can get out of whatever.

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Speaker 2: You want to.

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Speaker 4: You can walk away from this mess that you're in

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Speaker 4: for three years any time.

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Speaker 2: You want to. He told me he wasn't married, and

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Speaker 2: he is.

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Speaker 4: I believed him because I've been to his house and

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Speaker 4: I had slept in his bed with him. Well, that

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Speaker 4: would make you think he is available. Now, I ain't

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Speaker 4: gonna lie to you now. She got She got the

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Speaker 4: warl pulled o eyes pretty good on this one, because

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Speaker 4: the man. Have you over the house, been in the

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Speaker 4: you know it's it's got to be you know what

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Speaker 4: you need. I keep telling y'all when y'all go over

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Speaker 4: these dudes houses, excuse yourself and go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 4: It's three places you need to look when you over

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Speaker 4: a man's house. If you just date ladies, listen to them.

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Speaker 4: You need to look in the medicine cabin that you

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Speaker 4: need to drop something under the floor, and look under

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Speaker 4: the bed.

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Speaker 2: Check and you need to open that damn clause. Yo,

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Speaker 2: got it. Skeletons in your clothes waiting to come outside.

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Speaker 4: Now, I'm telling you, man, it's skeletons in everybody's clause.

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Speaker 4: You got to open that closet, look under that bed,

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Speaker 4: and open that medicine cabin.

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Speaker 2: Them the three.

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Speaker 4: Places and you can do that real slip you in

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Speaker 4: the bathroom. You ain't got to do nothing the whole

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Speaker 4: time you in there, just grunt act like you're doing something.

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Speaker 2: Y'all going through the read them prescription box. Need to

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Speaker 2: know what he takes. If you see penicillina that you

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Speaker 2: you got to ask a question. So see the commercials

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Speaker 2: on TV.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you see all this stuff right here, and if

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Speaker 2: Klu You gotta ask some questions. Though.

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Speaker 4: Two years into the relationship, his wife came to the

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Speaker 4: house while we were asleep, and she took all my

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Speaker 4: clothes and burned them in the backyard.

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Speaker 2: She ain't even wake us up. Oh this kid for crazy.

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Speaker 2: You lucky. She took your clothes in the backyard.

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Speaker 4: She could have set that damn bed on fire.

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Speaker 2: So were dealing with three foods in this letter, you,

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Speaker 2: the husband, and the nunny ass.

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Speaker 1: Why all right, we'll have part two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour of

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 3: Subject. If she won't, I sure will right after this.

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Speaker 3: You're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is if she won't, I sure will.

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Speaker 2: Oh this crazy letter right now.

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Speaker 4: This professional side chick, she says, but not my choice,

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Speaker 4: which is a lie. You've called yourself a professional side chick,

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Speaker 4: and that's the choice you've made. Okay, you didn't say wife,

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Speaker 4: ionce woman. You're the professional side chick. And you were

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Speaker 4: dating a guy who deceived you because you thought he

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Speaker 4: really what told you he wasn't married, and he was,

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Speaker 4: and you believe it because you've been to his house

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Speaker 4: and you slept in his bed with him and spent

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Speaker 4: the night.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a pretty good trick. So I ain't mad

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Speaker 2: at your sister.

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Speaker 4: You just got lied to. That can happen. I'm with

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Speaker 4: you here. Two years into the relationship, his wife came

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Speaker 4: to the house while we were asleep, and she took

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Speaker 2: She ain't even wake us up.

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Speaker 4: This hell of nuody. It ain't a woman in closed

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Speaker 4: in her right mind that ain't gonna wake out. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 4: this chick is on some next level nuodiness. Why she

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Speaker 4: done took all your clothes in the backyard, burned them.

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Speaker 4: When y'all woke up, He called her, and she was

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Speaker 4: at us. So he showed me where her clothes were

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Speaker 2: Okay, hold up, are y'all crazy? Hold up? Wait a minute.

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Speaker 2: First of all, you say you didn't know they were married.

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Speaker 4: Then two years in the relationship, the wife came and

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Speaker 4: took your clothes, burned them in the backyard. Then he

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Speaker 4: showed you where his wife's clothes was. I told y'all,

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Speaker 4: open them damn closets, go in the medicine cabinets and

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Speaker 4: look under the bed.

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Speaker 2: We dudes, we don't hide nothing nowhere else.

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Speaker 4: Oh lord ess, So now you'd have got this jogging suit,

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Speaker 4: and you then posted it on Facebook. I don't know

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Speaker 4: who the craziest person in this letter is, because right

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Speaker 4: now you win it. But to her straight crazy, and

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Speaker 4: the white is nutty too. Since that day, we've been beefing.

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Speaker 4: If my man wants dinner, I go over there and

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Speaker 4: I cook while his wife is laying around the.

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Speaker 2: House being trying me. Who house? You wouldn't what woman house?

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Speaker 2: Started cooking to be people white letter, I'm just gonna cook.

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Speaker 2: There's no way around this hill. I'm this is a

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Speaker 2: white leader. I just have to go. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: We just talking about discrimination earlier on the show. It

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Speaker 4: is time when race does come in fact, because if

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Speaker 4: these are black people, these are the white at black

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Speaker 4: as ever, Because I don't know what since the house,

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Speaker 4: you done took your ass in and just started cooking

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Speaker 4: while she's sitting.

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Speaker 2: There, don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't know her. I've never met her. Matter of fact,

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Speaker 4: I've never heard of her. That's why I'm sure. You

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Speaker 4: know what, Maybe maybe you could be thanking so you know,

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Speaker 4: maybe it's just a culture. Maybe maybe they from feature.

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Speaker 4: He's got to be something I've never heard of. It's

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Speaker 4: got to be a nationality. I don't know nothing about it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: maybe it's some figure Tahesian people. Maybe that's it. Maybe

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Speaker 4: it's some Guada hoveys. Maybe what they do over there,

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Speaker 4: that's another country. I don't know nothing about it. I'm

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Speaker 4: just trying to figure out some people. Maybe they as

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Speaker 4: maybe they are straight. I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 4: I just I don't know what people are. Okay, Pigmy,

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Speaker 4: this is a piggy this is happening in the rainforest

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Speaker 4: in the Africa somewhere. I don't know. These are New

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Speaker 4: Guinea people. I don't know who they are.

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Speaker 2: I got it. This is some Viking mess right here.

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Speaker 2: Ess Viking know this is some ice. I don't know

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Speaker 2: who these people are.

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Speaker 4: You the walk in the woman's house fixing her husband dinner,

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Speaker 4: but she laid around being a trifle. She only moved

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Speaker 4: have her husband.

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Speaker 2: What you ever thought she moved back to the house

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Speaker 2: because it's her her name only.

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Speaker 4: He told her several times he wants to be with me,

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Speaker 4: and she says she ain't going nowhere. I can't believe

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Speaker 4: y'all having this conversation. I don't even know these I'm

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Speaker 4: matter of fact. Let me apologize to white people now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know no white people.

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Speaker 2: Ride with my.

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Speaker 4: Wives.

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Speaker 2: This has got it. Yes, I'm going it. This is

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Speaker 2: what it is.

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Speaker 4: This is some you tall sister wise hbo mess. Okay,

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Speaker 4: at first it was a weird arrangement, but now it's

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Speaker 4: just like she's not even that that's you know that?

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Speaker 4: So I go over there and make sure the kitchen

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Speaker 4: in this bedroom are clean.

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Speaker 2: And I washing, fold all the cloth. That's why she

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Speaker 2: don't do nothing. Yeah, because you Hazel. You know about

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Speaker 2: your Hazel. Lance Over here, the man just knocking the house.

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Speaker 2: She's sitting up here figuring out.

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Speaker 4: I got a man out on one I'm blocking, and

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Speaker 4: I got this half of cleaning up the house. I

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Speaker 4: ain't got to go back over my mama house, cause

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Speaker 4: my mama make me cook and clean. She and her cooking.

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Speaker 4: I'm et left over the lord. This hefrican cook.

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Speaker 1: It?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she said, nah, No, that's how I've won his

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Speaker 4: heart because he loves a clean house. I can't win

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Speaker 4: no man's heart with no clean house. Whatever she won't,

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Speaker 4: whatever she won't do for him, I will. He told

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Speaker 4: me that's what he loves about me. The other day

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Speaker 4: we talked about putting her out for good, and he

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Speaker 4: said he's giving her time to get up on her feet.

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Speaker 4: Why is he giving her time to get herself together?

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Speaker 4: Because it's her house. Does it sound like he doesn't

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Speaker 4: want her to move out? He can't put her out.

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Speaker 4: It's her house. You stupid.

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Speaker 2: She's stupid and he's stupid. Thank you, all right?

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