Speaker 1: Second dat day. In order to learn from your mistakes,
Speaker 1: you have to admit that you did them first. Yeah.
Speaker 1: That's the hardest step, it is, But that's why today
Speaker 1: I'm admitting that I thought I called somebody else for
Speaker 1: this second day. I had a different person in mind. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but messed up and instead we're gonna be talking to Abraham. Okay,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone right now? Did Abraham? You're my
Speaker 1: number one? Okay? Maybe not? Jeffrey, my bad dude. You
Speaker 1: forgive a broy all? Good, all good, all right? Thanks?
Speaker 1: Miss tell us who were going to be calling today?
Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Vicky. Jeffrey, do you
Speaker 1: know anything about this date? I don't know. I don't know. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you're gonna have to spell this one out for us. Abraham.
Speaker 1: Where'd you meet VICKI we met online. You know. It
Speaker 1: was kind of weird when we were first chatting online
Speaker 1: because she had sent a couple of pictures and I
Speaker 1: could tell she was cute. But I did do I
Speaker 1: did do a little social media stocking and uh, okay,
Speaker 1: well that's like necessity. Everybody does that. It's part of
Speaker 1: the game dating now, it truly is. Would you do like,
Speaker 1: did you accidentally like a photo from like two years ago? Oh?
Speaker 1: That mess it up? That is exactly what I did.
Speaker 1: You just guess r is it so bad? Did you
Speaker 1: like try to outLike it and like hope she doesn't see? Well,
Speaker 1: hold on, we're you using your account? Yeah? I don't
Speaker 1: have like a catchish account that I used to creep
Speaker 1: over here with like this weird stunner account. About Facebook
Speaker 1: stocking is you have to have a ghost account or
Speaker 1: use somebody else account. So what so what happened when
Speaker 1: you accidentally liked her old photo? Then I don't liked it,
Speaker 1: But the problem was the photo is from like three
Speaker 1: years ago, so I had done thorough research. It's not
Speaker 1: like a picture that just came out last month. You know.
Speaker 1: In your defense, though, girls go crazy over this, and
Speaker 1: it's not like you took thirty minutes to get to
Speaker 1: that picture. All you do is you click profile, you
Speaker 1: scroll down twice. Next thing you know, you're in, you know,
Speaker 1: twenty twelve. You don't realize how far back it goes
Speaker 1: that quickly, But once you start liking it, that's where
Speaker 1: it gets kind of weird. That's where but she saw it,
Speaker 1: and she still went out with you right, Like did
Speaker 1: she I mean, did you guys end up meeting up?
Speaker 1: We did. We had a great time. We went to
Speaker 1: a bar, We had flights of tequila. I had a boy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: did the picture mistake come up at all when you
Speaker 1: guys were having any conversation? She didn't mention it. She
Speaker 1: didn't seem like that was a factor. Everything was cool,
Speaker 1: Like the conversation was normal, It was fun. No sense
Speaker 1: of like, oh, I'm doing my duty to go on
Speaker 1: the date with this guy that liked a picture from
Speaker 1: five years ago, Like, Okay, a lot of good stuff
Speaker 1: happening on the day. Any red flags? Well again going
Speaker 1: back and sort of analyzing it, Like I was just
Speaker 1: telling her a story about how one time we like
Speaker 1: she and I were sharing a plate of nachos and
Speaker 1: I was telling this story about once I was out
Speaker 1: with a buddy of mine and I dropped like a
Speaker 1: fake spider and the nachos and he freaked out, and
Speaker 1: I thought it was really funny. And when I told
Speaker 1: her that story, she was just kind of stone faced
Speaker 1: and looked at me like, why would you do something
Speaker 1: like that? Oh, she didn't, Why did you tell me
Speaker 1: that story? As soon as they brought us our notches.
Speaker 1: You didn't do anything to them, right, No, no, of
Speaker 1: course not. I just thought you would laugh. I was
Speaker 1: just like telling her story about a past event. So
Speaker 1: imagine East of It always sucks. Would like you tell
Speaker 1: a story and in your mind it's really funny, and
Speaker 1: then you like, maybe you missed the punch or something
Speaker 1: of it and nobody. I think that happens at Yah.
Speaker 1: Maybe the moment where she realized that you guys will
Speaker 1: have the same humor, like maybe you're more flapstick, she's
Speaker 1: more like highbrowd. She didn't throw banana peel on the
Speaker 1: floor and her in the face and she had no reactions.
Speaker 1: Where So where did the date go from there? I
Speaker 1: mean it ended well, we went back to her place.
Speaker 1: We had a really good time. Soot all these indications
Speaker 1: like wait, a really good time, yeah, really good? Like
Speaker 1: when did you leave? I didn't leave until the next morning. Good.
Speaker 1: Maybe there is something to liking photos from five years ago.
Speaker 1: It was it awkward in the morning because you were
Speaker 1: drinking tequila the night before. It wasn't awkward because we
Speaker 1: weren't wasted, like we were both in our right mind.
Speaker 1: We like, it was a good chemistry. But the next morning,
Speaker 1: you know, when I woke up and she was getting dressed,
Speaker 1: like we were having a nice conversation. I thought it
Speaker 1: was sort of like this placeful like band or thing
Speaker 1: that was happened in there. But maybe I wasn't getting
Speaker 1: the hint that she was saying, like, get the hell out,
Speaker 1: I need to go. I might not have picked up
Speaker 1: on she's like, where is your underwear? And You're like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, no, seriously, yeah, get the hell out.
Speaker 1: It could be that she didn't have as much fun
Speaker 1: as you did the night before. Yeah, you know. Now
Speaker 1: I'm kind of questioning like, how was I Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds like not maybe your top performance some experience,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't make this call. That's a question. You don't
Speaker 1: want the answer too maybe a quick Well, in my experience,
Speaker 1: I've always been too good and too intimidate you have.
Speaker 1: I'm going to play a song. We're gonna come back,
Speaker 1: and we'll call her and we'll see just how good
Speaker 1: or bad you were when we do your second date
Speaker 1: update right after this. All right, hey, thank you, all right,
Speaker 1: hold on second update. We're learning a lot of valuable
Speaker 1: things today. In the second date Update, like rule number one,
Speaker 1: when you stalk someone social media before a date, always
Speaker 1: use a ghost account in case you accidentally work an
Speaker 1: old photo so they when it was you. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: guys already have. And rule number one, when you sleep
Speaker 1: over after a date night of drinking tequila, always film
Speaker 1: it so you can review the footage the next day
Speaker 1: and see if you were a stud or if you
Speaker 1: were a dud. I have a whole library. I'm telling
Speaker 1: you this work. I help the person got you got permission?
Speaker 1: Not important? Okay, See Abraham, Abraham is worried that maybe
Speaker 1: he was a dud when he slept over at Vicki's place.
Speaker 1: So we're going to help him find out and ask
Speaker 1: if she has the footage. Isn't that right? We'll do
Speaker 1: a little watch party at the station and then for sure,
Speaker 1: how good You're all right? Hey if she has it? Yeah, alright,
Speaker 1: met are so much more chill about that? Yeah, we
Speaker 1: were setting you up for the Are you nervous right now?
Speaker 1: I'm nervous, and I'm confused. We had a great time.
Speaker 1: I have gone back and sort of rack my brains
Speaker 1: as to what it could be. But like I said,
Speaker 1: I thought we had a great night. Together. I don't
Speaker 1: understand why I'm being ghosted right now. So well, if
Speaker 1: it's that, remember you can always blame it on the tequila. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there you go. Well, here we go. We're gonna dial
Speaker 1: Vicki's number right now. We'll hope we get her on
Speaker 1: the line so we can ask her what the deal was.
Speaker 1: Are you ready? I am all right? Here we go. Man, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: is this Vicki? Yes, hey Vicky. My name is jeff
Speaker 1: I'm from the morning radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. We're on in the Mornings. Was clear from
Speaker 1: what I said, Um, how are you? Oh? I'm good.
Speaker 1: What it is about, Well, this is about a segment
Speaker 1: that we do on our show called a second date Update.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey's just trying to practice this small talk right now.
Speaker 1: I am so far off to a good start. No,
Speaker 1: very small. What we're talking about. Small talk completed. Now,
Speaker 1: let's get to the juice of this, because we're doing
Speaker 1: something called a second date update. That's where we help
Speaker 1: our listeners who are getting ghosted after what they thought
Speaker 1: was a great date night. Okay, okay, And so recently
Speaker 1: you were out with a guy who is a listener
Speaker 1: of our show. His name is Abraham. Okay, okay, judging
Speaker 1: from the reaction, it's not a very good one. But
Speaker 1: Abraham told us about your guys's night together and he uh,
Speaker 1: he thought it was fire though the date was super late.
Speaker 1: Say these things. Oh my god, he had a great
Speaker 1: time with you, and he's totally clueless as to why
Speaker 1: you're not calling him back. Yeah. I never want to
Speaker 1: talk to that guy again. Oh I know. Usually okay,
Speaker 1: but usually, like when I'm angry with someone or upset
Speaker 1: with someone, I'll let them know why Why would you
Speaker 1: do that, Brooke? How are they going to know how
Speaker 1: to do? You like yelling at different I just think
Speaker 1: it's it's not productive. You just like talk down to them.
Speaker 1: Here's all the things that you did wrong and why
Speaker 1: you're not good enough for me. I'm just saying, hey, this,
Speaker 1: this wasn't cool, man. I just want to let you
Speaker 1: know that wasn't cool. Okay. Some people like to be
Speaker 1: passive aggressive. So look, here's the thing, Vicky. Abraham has
Speaker 1: no idea why you wouldn't be calling him back because
Speaker 1: you didn't tell him like you should have, Like I'm saying, Jesus,
Speaker 1: or at least there was no hints for why, and
Speaker 1: he had a great time. Well what did he tell
Speaker 1: you about our date? We only have like bullet points
Speaker 1: of what happened, but basically, you guys went out to
Speaker 1: a bar, you had some tequila, two flights of tequila.
Speaker 1: You guys shared a plate of nachos, ended up back
Speaker 1: at your place where he spent the night, and then
Speaker 1: the next morning you kind of had to rush him out,
Speaker 1: which we thought was kind of an obvious sign that
Speaker 1: maybe you didn't enjoy your time with him. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: was fine, Okay, that's are you talking about the bedroom
Speaker 1: time or the date time? The date flash bedroom time.
Speaker 1: But like in the morning I needed to leave to
Speaker 1: go to work, and he was like not getting the hint.
Speaker 1: First he was using my bath room. He was like
Speaker 1: in there for a while and I'm like waiting, I'm
Speaker 1: like fully dressed, ready to go, and then he went
Speaker 1: and used the other bathroom that my roommate didn't I share.
Speaker 1: That's like in the entry way the bathroom twice. That's
Speaker 1: why you hate him. Well, that's the way when you're
Speaker 1: trying to leave, even someone's just there for a reason,
Speaker 1: never to talk to somebody again. Well, maybe he was
Speaker 1: just trying to let you use your restroom so you
Speaker 1: could finish getting ready for work. No, I was ready
Speaker 1: to go, and then we left. I get home from
Speaker 1: work and I go to use the bathroom and the
Speaker 1: toilet paper roll just like completely collapse, and he had
Speaker 1: taken the springs out of it. What. Yeah, as like
Speaker 1: a prank automatically opened back and extend on its own.
Speaker 1: What makes you think that he took it? Because then
Speaker 1: I went and looked in our entry way bathrooms and
Speaker 1: my room and hare and share are you done the
Speaker 1: same thing? So he was just trying to prank you
Speaker 1: in the bathroom? Yeah, I was like, who does that are?
Speaker 1: How old are you? I feel like this is something
Speaker 1: my husband would have done when we were dating. I'm
Speaker 1: not even lying. I don't I would never call someone back.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't understand what the joke is. Well,
Speaker 1: it's just like it's a small inconvenience. It's like putting
Speaker 1: salt in someone's coffee and they're like, it's like, gotcha,
Speaker 1: it's innocent enough, but it's right. And I my guess
Speaker 1: is he wanted to do it to make you laugh
Speaker 1: and think of him after he had left. It's my guess,
Speaker 1: I guess, but it's just like you're in my house
Speaker 1: and you're taking the time to like set a little
Speaker 1: practical joke when I need to go to work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel I probably didn't think that far. He was
Speaker 1: just like, I'm going to do a silly little prank
Speaker 1: and that's so annoying, exactly, And the intention was not
Speaker 1: for disrespect at all. Don't just take it from us,
Speaker 1: take it directly from Abraham, because I have to let
Speaker 1: you know, Vicky. Yeah, he's been listening this whole time.
Speaker 1: He wants to talk to you. Yeah, Vicky, it was
Speaker 1: it was not meant to be disrespectful, and I'm sorry
Speaker 1: if you took it that way. It was it was
Speaker 1: like they said, just meant to be like a silly
Speaker 1: little prank. You would laugh and then move on. But
Speaker 1: I told you about me pranking my buddy, and I
Speaker 1: wasn't quite sure where you stood in like pranks, Like
Speaker 1: I'm sort of a prankster, So I just did that
Speaker 1: not thinking that it was going to be a big
Speaker 1: inconvenience for you. So look, I'm sorry, but I also like,
Speaker 1: that's not your sense of humor like that, that's kind
Speaker 1: of who I am, Oh, yeah, you're not funny. That's
Speaker 1: kind of harsh. But I mean others, others would disagree.
Speaker 1: I certainly have made a lot of people laugh. So
Speaker 1: if that's your opinion, you know you can. You're entitled
Speaker 1: to it. But I mean, Abraham, did you at least
Speaker 1: hide the spring somewhere in her house so that she
Speaker 1: could find it later and put them back in? I
Speaker 1: put them in your vanity drawer in the back. So
Speaker 1: if you do want to reinstall them, it's really easy
Speaker 1: to do. If you do with the springs, were why
Speaker 1: don't you tech me and tell me where the springs where?
Speaker 1: I've been a whole week without the spring. Well, I
Speaker 1: thought that you were going to respond to one of
Speaker 1: my other masters. Then I would have asked, hey, did
Speaker 1: you notice anything strange in your bathroom? We would have
Speaker 1: had a laugh about it, then we would have set
Speaker 1: our next date. That's the way I sort of thought,
Speaker 1: all your fault. Ye what I'm saying, I'm just saying
Speaker 1: I thought we were going to be communicating and I
Speaker 1: could make a joke out of it. So springs, here's
Speaker 1: the thing I mean, Vicky, do you have brothers? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I have an older brother. See it's just like brother
Speaker 1: trying to get them to go out again. How does
Speaker 1: that go out? Humor? Like, yeah, I get that from
Speaker 1: my brother, just got it. You got to find somewhere
Speaker 1: in your heart where you could see where he was
Speaker 1: coming from. He was trying to maybe do something light
Speaker 1: and funny and get you to think about it. I'm
Speaker 1: sure he's another great prank that he can pull on
Speaker 1: you that'll actually make you laugh on your next date,
Speaker 1: if you're willing to give him another shot. Nice, not
Speaker 1: a stupid prank, A legitimately laugh out loud, funny prank. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Now that's a lot of pressure. I don't know if
Speaker 1: I can live up to that. Now, come on, I
Speaker 1: believe in you. Take out the filter from her water
Speaker 1: machine's actually got you. You have less iron and minerals
Speaker 1: in your water. What do you think, Vicky, give him
Speaker 1: another shot. We'll pay for it. He's already said, like
Speaker 1: who he is, And I just don't see it getting
Speaker 1: any better. I just don't think we're a good match. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I mean that's that's all right right, Abraham. It's a bumber.
Speaker 1: I thought you were cool, but you know, you don't
Speaker 1: have a sense of humor. I can't help that. Abraham,
Speaker 1: you know what, I think. You're funny and you're cool. Okay,
Speaker 1: you can take the toilet paper rolls out of my
Speaker 1: house any day, thank you. Wait, it's not no no.
Speaker 1: You come, you spend the night, okay, and then you
Speaker 1: come take out all my toilet paper. And that's the
Speaker 1: Abraham and I get each other. You guys don't understand.
Speaker 1: This is called brollo. We'll do each other. That's what
Speaker 1: we're going. Okay, I'm not quite sure if I'm cool
Speaker 1: with this part of it with you're cool with it now,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna be funny together and Jeffrey in the morning,