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Speaker 1: Time to ask the CLO Our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: All right, this is from Malcolm in Gainesville, Colo. Malcolm writes,

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Speaker 1: my wife threw a pack of condoms at me because

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Speaker 1: I stayed out until midnight last Saturday. She said, if

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Speaker 1: I'm going to cheat, do it responsibly. She has serious baggage.

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Speaker 1: We've been married seven years. Will I have to deal

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Speaker 1: with this forever?

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Speaker 2: She has serious baggage. I don't know what that means.

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Speaker 3: I think you trying to lead us to think that

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Speaker 3: she's accusing me of something you haven't done because you

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Speaker 3: stayed out till midnight. You've got to deal with that. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: midnight coming to here, No. Twelve, you're fifteen. We don't

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Speaker 3: do that. So yeah, man, Now, if you haven't done anything,

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Speaker 3: then you have a problem. If you've done something and

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Speaker 3: she throwed it, I don't know, man, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Y'all gotta talk through this because if you're really saying

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Speaker 3: you haven't done anything dog and she's just you know,

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Speaker 3: carrying some baggage from being cheated on before, that's gonna

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Speaker 3: be a problem. But I'm gonna have to sit down

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Speaker 3: and talk to somebody, go to some type of marital counseling,

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Speaker 3: or just sit down and just put a tracker on

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Speaker 3: your own phone and just say here, this is where

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Speaker 3: I'm at. I told y'all gonna be over stands house.

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Speaker 3: This is why I was. You know you could do that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but that's all I got for you.

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Speaker 1: Brother. But she threw a pack of condoms at them. Wow, okay,

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Sheila and Tulsa.

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Speaker 3: Me, now, if you throw a pack of condoms at me,

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Speaker 3: I've considered that consent.

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Speaker 2: I'm using all of them, but three or the twelve?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: I know it's way t am I all right. Moving

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Speaker 1: on to Sheila and Tulsa. She the writes, my husband

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Speaker 1: and I went to dinner with friends. I was trying

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Speaker 1: to tell a story from our past, and he shut

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Speaker 1: me down and said I had no sense of humor,

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Speaker 1: so he should finish the story. I have ignored him

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Speaker 1: since Friday. Why can't he see how hurtful that was?

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Speaker 1: He's not talking to him at all.

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Speaker 2: My wife can't tell a story either, dog. I know

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Speaker 2: exactly where you are.

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Speaker 1: You, But have you shut her down and said she

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Speaker 1: has no sense of humor?

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Speaker 2: Hell?

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't think so.

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Speaker 3: And listen to that disorganized story, and she'd.

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Speaker 2: Be laughing the whole time.

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Speaker 3: She'd be telling it, and people like her cause she's

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Speaker 3: so nice, so they'd be just going with it. I'll

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Speaker 3: be going, oh, lord, that ain't the order this goal

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Speaker 3: you left us out.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, that ain't gonna be funny without this information. You

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Speaker 2: left out a.

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Speaker 1: Man, you're a professional storytelling you the can't Yeah, so you.

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Speaker 2: Know it's kind of hard, but no, I've never should

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Speaker 2: utter down.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've tapped on to the table trying to get

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Speaker 3: her to speed it up a little bit.

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Speaker 2: She don't even know what that.

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Speaker 4: Means, wrap this up, read the room.

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Speaker 1: But but she wants to know. She wants to know.

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Speaker 1: Why can't her husband see how hurtful that was to her?

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Speaker 1: For him doing that in front of all those people, Well.

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Speaker 2: It was either hurt you or watch the hurt on

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Speaker 2: their face suffer.

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Speaker 1: From the audience is more important.

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Speaker 2: Sacrifice of one for the good of them. All know that.

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Speaker 1: But it's silent in that house though she's not talking

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Speaker 1: to him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well he probably probably won't do it again. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: all right, ju, what's matter with you today? We got

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Speaker 3: a clo problem going on right here. On the show.

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Speaker 2: Jus, what's wrong with you today?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm Mary. That's it what I thought.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let's go, okay, moving on, got it exactly, question

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Speaker 4: a quick answer?

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Speaker 2: Got it?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Anna and Virginia Beach. Anna writes, why

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Speaker 1: are all the good men smaller and less exciting? In bed?

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Speaker 1: I met a man that's six' four AND i hoped

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Speaker 1: he came with a lot of, benefits if you know

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Speaker 1: WHAT i. Mean but he did, not AND i don't

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Speaker 1: THINK i can keep dating. Him how DO i let

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Speaker 1: him down? Easily? Easy you know? What?

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Speaker 2: Lady you know? What lady? Lady why are all the

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Speaker 2: men that's good man? Small down?

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Speaker 3: There have you ever thought that maybe you should reduce

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Speaker 3: your test?

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Speaker 1: Pool what you.

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Speaker 3: Should narrow down your scope of test? Pool you're trying too?

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Speaker 3: Much what about? You what about? You what about?

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Speaker 1: Us this is not about, Ours it's about the men

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Speaker 1: in her? Life, no know?

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Speaker 2: What what are her redeeming?

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Speaker 3: QUALITIES i get tired of people calling in and talking

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Speaker 3: about a.

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Speaker 2: Man can't do this in bed and can't do? That

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Speaker 2: what do you? Do?

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Speaker 1: Well, well that's not her, Question but that's not her,

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Speaker 1: question her, question that's my.

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Speaker 4: Question answer her question with us see l oh chief

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Speaker 4: love author see and all.

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Speaker 2: The time is not the? Guys you know, what?

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Speaker 3: Ma'am maybe you just too dog gone. Experienced maybe you

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Speaker 3: don't done way too, much you didn't done the?

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Speaker 2: Most now can't nobody keep up with?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 4: Now you?

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Speaker 3: Mad?

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Speaker 1: Okay can you answer her? Question Though i've answered the?

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Speaker 2: Question maybe you too? Much you know?

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Speaker 3: What if you can't find nobody to satisfy, you then

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Speaker 3: can you quench the? Thirst are you satisfyabol or have

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Speaker 3: you done so much that can't nobody live up to

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Speaker 3: what you? Need?

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Speaker 1: No not for? Real why are good men smaller and

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Speaker 1: less exciting in?

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Speaker 3: Bed and you're gonna pass up on a good man

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Speaker 3: because he ain't exciting in?

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Speaker 2: Bed now you're exciting in? Bed but you might not

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Speaker 2: be a good. Woman, hello oh, man you know that

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Speaker 2: can happen.

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Speaker 1: Too she doesn't think she can keep dating, him feel.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Okay well leave him and move on to the

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Speaker 3: next one like you've done time and time again. Before

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Speaker 3: but you're gonna Keep you're gonna quit passing up on

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Speaker 3: these good. Men men are, trainable you. Know But i'm

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Speaker 3: gonna tell you something right. Now we don't care how

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Speaker 3: good you do? It why we will.

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Speaker 1: Leave you Over we will leave, you.

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Speaker 2: Will leave.

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Speaker 1: You there'll be another you in a, minute.

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Speaker 2: In a quick.

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Speaker 3: Minute, yeah you'll be over there by yourself.

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Speaker 1: Again this is From ron In. Valdosta ron And valdosta,

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Speaker 1: says my wife goes for a walk most evenings after.

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Speaker 1: WORK i rode by her on my way, home and

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Speaker 1: she had stopped to talk on her. Phone when she got,

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Speaker 1: home she swore she wasn't on the. Phone she was.

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Speaker 1: Singing why would she lie about WHAT i? Saw wouldn't

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Speaker 1: you she ain't been.

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Speaker 3: Saying if you stop to talk to a girl when

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Speaker 3: you tell her you were, singing.

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Speaker 1: She's just, walking all? Right, there you have it all.

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Speaker 2: Right lucky you didn't ask, me Because i'd have told

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Speaker 2: you how to. BE i was.

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Speaker 1: Praised you're listening hard morning show