1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:12,959 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit look like the don 3 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 1: giving them like the million bucks things in it to 4 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: be true? Good Steve to mother, Please, I don't join 5 00:00:43,400 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: by joining you turn you you gotta turn to turn 6 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: them out. Turn you got to turn them out. Then 7 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: turn the water the water go. Come come on your 8 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: bad uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're 9 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on, dig me down, want 10 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,679 Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man o, 11 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: man o, man, I just I have to tell you this. 12 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: How good is the God I served? How amazing is he? 13 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: That's that's all, you know. And you know, really, man, 14 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: when I try to explain um, how I feel about 15 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: what he does for me, really, the words that I 16 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 1: come up with that they just they inadequate. Man, They don't. 17 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: They don't cut it. They really don't. You know. I 18 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: could say amazing. At one time. I even just got that. 19 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: I tried something real ignorant. One time, I just said, 20 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: you know, God is just super casual, fragilistic as be alladocious. 21 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: I just tried that to see how that felt. That's 22 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:57,679 Speaker 1: that's all the change he is with me. I just 23 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 1: try to because see how that felt. But then I 24 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: ain't feel right saying that, the fact that he's amazing 25 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: and awesome and he's an awesome God. You hear people 26 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,959 Speaker 1: say that as it's bigger than that too, man. So 27 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: you know, as as hard as I try, no matter 28 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 1: what I do every day, I'm gonna come up short 29 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: with trying to explain to you exactly how he works 30 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: and how he is for me. So I just thank 31 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: him every day every chance I get here. It is 32 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 1: it is your determination and your effort. Listen to me carefully. 33 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: It is your determination and your effort. I think that 34 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: the average person, and I'm not knocking you, I just 35 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: want you to hear me out. I think what stops 36 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: the average person from becoming successful is that we don't 37 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: realize the effort that it takes. And that's just truth. 38 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: I found that to be so true in my life 39 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: and my talking to people, in meeting people, and people 40 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: aren't asking me questions about it and me trying to 41 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: figure out the way myself. I don't think that you 42 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: really can comprehend the effort that it takes to become successful. 43 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: This is the thing that you have to wrap your 44 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: mind around very quickly if you want to be successful 45 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: on any level in any area. The dream is the beginning. 46 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: Good Lord, let me tell you something. The determination and 47 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: effort is massive. You cannot be overly concerned with sleep. 48 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: If you are a person who is always concerned about sleep, 49 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: get success out your mind. A fit to happen partner 50 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: is not fit to happen. You cannot be that concerned 51 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: about sleep. Now listen to me. You have to get 52 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: your rest. But this was my philosophy. I'm just sharing 53 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: you with what how I did it. My philosophy was 54 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 1: I stopped being concerned about sleep. I got my rest, 55 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: but I got just enough to get back to it, 56 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: and I got back on the grind to hop into hustle. 57 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: I got just enough rest so I could go and 58 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: put forth some more effort. But listen to me. You 59 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: cannot sleep a third of your life away and expect 60 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: to become successful if you're not already successful. If you 61 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: are asleep for eight hours, that is a third of 62 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: your day. You cannot be asleep a third of your 63 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 1: life and expect to get successful. Not after you get successful. 64 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 1: You know, you learn as you go to work smarter, 65 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: not harder, so as you get successful, you may have 66 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: eight hours available to you. But on the way up there, 67 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: I don't see how you can do it, I promise you. 68 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: I don't. Now I don't. Maybe somebody can't come forward. 69 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: I did it? I yeah, probably lying. But okay, tell 70 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: your story, because everybody I know that's successful that I've 71 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: sat down ahead real talks with it wasn't concerned with sleeping. 72 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: You cannot be concerned with sleeping if you want to 73 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: be successful. How how can this happen for you? Listen 74 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 1: to me. The effort that it requires is massive. It's 75 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: an all out of salt on your dream. Now you 76 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: got to make an assault. It's requires and all out 77 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: of salt on it. And you can't be sleeping. Fight 78 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: at the same time. You can't fight when you sleep. Man. 79 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: I wish I could get y'all understand this right here. 80 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: Understand that the effort that is required to be successful 81 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: will take everything you have, and when you think you've 82 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: given your all, it's gonna require some more. The quality 83 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 1: of your chill is amazing. See that's okay, listening. What 84 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: is sitting around having a bill every day fault. What what? 85 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,679 Speaker 1: But I'm sitting around smoking weed for every day? Fault? 86 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: Come on, man, for real, But if you took that beer, 87 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: drinking weed smoking chill time and apply it to progressing 88 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: yourself towards your dream. When you do carve out a vacation, 89 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: guess where you be able to go. Guess what part 90 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: of the world you can go see? Guess how you 91 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: can you Now I'm instead of you just driving every 92 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: year your family to the family union, sit at the 93 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: same picnic table. Everybody pull their money in to ten families. 94 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: Don't never pull they money in. They down there eating 95 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: like y'all eating. You got attitude because the day or 96 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: they side don't ever chip in, and no they down 97 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: they eating the extra potatoes that making places. You're not 98 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: not harguing about this every year for real? Man, they 99 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: ain't got the T shirt money. You know they got 100 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: to say a T shirt, don't. They ain't put in that, really, man, 101 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: so so so so so you want that to be 102 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: it every year? Or do you want this shiel I'm 103 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: taking my family to New Orleans, or I'm taking my 104 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: family see the Grand Canyon. I'm taking my family down 105 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: to the beach this year and me and my family 106 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: gonna go sight See, we're gonna go ride couple the 107 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: river on Chicago. Me and my family gonna go skiing 108 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: this year, and me and my family going out to 109 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: La Man, we're gonna're gonna go out there for the weekend. 110 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: You know, you know it can happen like that. But 111 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: if you ain't working, listen to me. Average effort gets 112 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: average results. That's that's all it is to it. See, 113 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: ordinary effort gets ordinary results. But if you put forth 114 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 1: an extra effort. See, the only difference between extraordinary and 115 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: ordinary is one word, that's extra. If you do extra, 116 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 1: you can take ordinary right on over to extraordinary. Do 117 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: you understand you have to have a massive assault on 118 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: your dreams? Quit sitting up in here, man, trying to 119 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: chill all the time. I'm sorry, man, I wish I 120 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: could tell you another way, but it ain't one. Here's 121 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: what I did. I wasn't concerned about how much sleep 122 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: I got. I just had to get my rest. And 123 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: once I got enough rest to get up and get 124 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: the task done, I got up. Somebody sent me a 125 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: tweet the other day, a partner of mine. He's someone 126 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 1: to see if I can pull it up while I'm 127 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: talking to you. But he just sent me a little sign. 128 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: Just wasn't nothing, just a little something to say. Hey man, 129 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: I ran across this, I thought about you, and I 130 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: sent it to you. It said, no alarm clock needed, 131 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 1: My passion wakes me. It's in blockprint. He said, no 132 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: alarm clock needed, My passion wakes me. That's what you 133 00:09:56,960 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: got to be about, morning show, ladies and gentlemen. He 134 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: is again. I can't believe it. How good is God again? 135 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: You mean you're talking about we was here yesterday and 136 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 1: we here again. Man, Thank you. I was up early 137 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: this morning doing my meditation, and I just spent a 138 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: lot of time thinking. I was reading some couple of 139 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 1: scriptures and everything. You know, I don't read scriptures every morning. 140 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: I don't want y'all think i'm front and to flex it. 141 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: But I do try to meditate every morning and pray. 142 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: That's for show. But this morning, man, I just feel good, man, 143 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: just feel good like I do most morning. I just say, 144 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: And even if you get up on the wrong side 145 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: of the bed that ain't quite yourself. Once you start 146 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,839 Speaker 1: being grateful, it has an effect. Man. I don't know 147 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: what that is, but it just makes you feel better 148 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: if you just tried, y'all, just wake up and be grateful. 149 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:58,839 Speaker 1: It changes everything your perspective. So once again, thank you, 150 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Getting rolling Sherley Strawberry calling for real 151 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:07,719 Speaker 1: Junior kills face Mouth or the South Mississippi Monica, the 152 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: legend that is the a few times, leaders and gentlemen, 153 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: your boy Steve Harvey is asking Junior what's on your mind? 154 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to do you? Yeah, no, I 155 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 1: got something, but I'm just scared to say it because 156 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm probably not gonna like to respond. But I'm gonna 157 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: go ahead. We'll fund Okay, Okay, you know, all right, 158 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: I thought this is what I'm gonna do. I'm promise 159 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: you this before I say, I'm gonna whatever you ask me, Julia, 160 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to remember that I read scriptures and 161 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 1: meditating morning because you say, okay, go ahead. You said 162 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: I was thinking, and that's the problem right there. Her. 163 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: Come do women look around? Do they look around? Because 164 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: you know I did? You say when when women look around? 165 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 1: I say, do they look around? Because you know I 166 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:54,439 Speaker 1: was told of the day. You know, I think you 167 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: know you need to you are to you should you this, 168 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: you that, but I can't say nothing about what I think. 169 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: Oh no, oh you want to go, Oh you want 170 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: to go tit for tat. So you think that you 171 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 1: can be in a relationship with a woman and she 172 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: can tell you who's on her mind, but you wants 173 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,079 Speaker 1: to write after she gets through telling you that you 174 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: wants to retaliate by telling her who's on your mind. Yeah, 175 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: don't do that, junior, don't do that. Don't do that. 176 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:37,319 Speaker 1: That's not gonna work out for you because she when 177 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: a woman is trying to tell you something, you know, 178 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: it's so many levels to this. I don't just take 179 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: it on the chin. Don't retaliate. Well, let me tell 180 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: you something about you, because once she discovers, you're gonna 181 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: hear something like this, Oh, this is what we're doing. 182 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: And then the next volley that comes back towards you 183 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: will have more owning than the first one. So you 184 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: just should have just turn that first one when old 185 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: dab winning accepted it as constructive criticism, because all of 186 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 1: them after that is just gonna be destructive criticism. Take 187 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: the constructive criticism and going about your business for you 188 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: mess around and turn it into destructive criticism. Yeah, yeah, 189 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: all right, thank you. I hope you learned something there, Junior. 190 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: All right, coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, 191 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: the nephew will be here to run that brank back 192 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 193 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: It is time now to run that brank back with 194 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 1: the nephew. What you gotta, I got that tel truck 195 00:13:55,000 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 1: driver got dog. If you would, they just blew out 196 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: the whole electrical system in the old Hello. Hello, I'm trying. 197 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'm trying to find Candy. Who is this 198 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:10,599 Speaker 1: skinny man? Okay? You are you the guy with the 199 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 1: told truck? You're you're the Told truck drivers trucking. Okay, hey, man, 200 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:18,439 Speaker 1: you jump started my girl's car three days ago and 201 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: blew the old electrical system out. Man, I did hold on, 202 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: hold on, let me get back to my truck. You said, 203 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: I did what man, you do jump people's vehicles when 204 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: they when they got to stall vehicle, don't you right? 205 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: That's what I do. I jumped vehicles. Yes, okay, so 206 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 1: you actually did my girl's car about three days ago. Man, 207 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: you just started her car. But now when you you 208 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 1: over jumped it. It's what you did, okay. You didn't 209 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: blow out the whole electrical system in the whold car, 210 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: the dad board, everything is just completely out. And they 211 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 1: talk like this's gonna be my fifteen hundred dollars to 212 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: get this thing. I'm sorry now, what was this? My 213 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: name Kim up Man? But you m ceila man, you 214 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: jump started, you over jumped hard car. Just wait, wait 215 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 1: a minute, Cannada. There's no such thing as over jumping 216 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: a car. You can't overjump a car, man, Man, let 217 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 1: me tell you a car now. I whoever told you that? 218 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: That's just now that's just gone. Hey, let me tell 219 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: you something. Man. You overjumped my girl's car. Okay, and 220 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: you blew out can't go up a car? What do 221 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: you mean you can? That's what you did, man. You 222 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: didn't blow out the entire electrical system, the entire dadgeboard. 223 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: It's completely dead. The people at the dealership saying it's 224 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 1: gonna take fifteen hundred dollars to get this thing backed 225 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: up and run it. Well, you may want to take 226 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: a coupwhere there because they're trying to rip you off. 227 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 1: There's no such there ain't no such things over jumping 228 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: a car and blowing and if she drove off that day, 229 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 1: then she should be fine. I've jumped plenty of cars. 230 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 1: I jumped cars all day long. People always need to 231 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: jump I know one. I've never overjumped system. Look, you 232 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: over jumped this car, okay, and that's the reason why 233 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: it's completely shut down. All the fuelses have blown out, 234 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 1: everything is completely dead. You over jumped the car. And 235 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: now it's the fifteen hundred dollars. And the reason why 236 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: I'm calling you is you should be the person paying 237 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: for this. No, no, hell, no, no, now that's sure 238 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: ain't gonna hap. I'm not gonna pay for something I 239 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: didn't do it. You did it. You don't one overjumped it, man, 240 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: You overjumped the car. I don't overjump cars. Now that 241 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: and now wait a minute, now, wait just one minute, man. Now, 242 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna argue with you. I jump cars all 243 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 1: the time, and you mean to tell me I overjumped 244 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 1: your you ye're no, you know what you're gonna get you? Well, 245 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: if I don't get this fifteen hundred dollars, I'm sorry. 246 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: You said what You're gonna get your swoop. If I 247 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: don't get this fifteen hundred dollars to take care of 248 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 1: this whole car and the whole electrical system. Well, I 249 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: tell you what I'm over here on Martin Lucy King 250 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: right now. Name you're talking about swooping somebody? You bring 251 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: tone over here? Now, I don't overjumped no cars, and 252 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: I don't hold you know money? Is you only fifteen 253 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: hundred dollars you cut your son of but you only 254 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: hold you. Let me tell you something. You'll be in 255 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: for a long day. I will take this toe truck 256 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 1: and ramen straight up your and I'm not playing with 257 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 1: you now. How don't I well, don't doctor people like this? 258 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 1: And I should have held don't appreciate it when someone 259 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: talks to me like that, whooping? You gotta let it. 260 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: You know what, You're gonna mess around and get your 261 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: little cold truck toddled off something. That's what I's gonna want? 262 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,239 Speaker 1: What and you're gonna get you whoop in the mix 263 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: to all of this. Man, let me tell you something. 264 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 1: I need this fifteen hundred dollars today offs for tomorrow 265 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: so I can get my girl coffee. How don't hold you? Well? 266 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 1: Did I jump this car off at because that's exactly 267 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 1: where I meet you at you you drop my girl 268 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 1: call off at her job. She was downtown at her job. 269 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 1: Which street? Because I'm down there a lot. I don't 270 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 1: know what streeted, but she see where downtown, So that's 271 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 1: your problem. You're such a dumb she don't even know 272 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: what treat its on. And you know I don't owe 273 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 1: you fifteen hundred dollars. You are crazy, And he let 274 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 1: me know what I'm saying. Hunter, I'm gonna get fifteen 275 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: hundred out of you. Now. You're gonna make a decision 276 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: on which one you want to do. If you're gonna 277 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 1: bring me the fifteen hundreds today or tomorrow, how you'll whooped? 278 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 1: You got your five o'clock tomorrow, son, you ain't gotta 279 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: wait on tomorrow. I made my decision right now. I 280 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: ain't gonna happen. I ain't ever gonna happen. I don't 281 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 1: owe you, And if you can get it out of 282 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 1: my son, you can have it. But I met you 283 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,680 Speaker 1: this much. You bet it back lunch. It's gonna be 284 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 1: a lone mind for you, buddy. I don't care how 285 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: long it's gonna be. You're gonna get a fifteen hundred dollars. Woman, 286 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna get, Candy or candy man. You're 287 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 1: gonna play. You're gonna play the fifteen hundred dollars. You 288 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: call me what you want to call me, Sun, but 289 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: I tell you that half you'll call me something else, 290 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: you country. Listen, son, I've got to go. I got 291 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 1: work to do. I've got somebody outside rate waiting on 292 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: me right now to hook up the car. I ain't 293 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: got time to be arguing with you, sir, all right now, 294 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: if you really want to find me, you really want 295 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 1: to find candy man. Everybody out there knows how to 296 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 1: find me, understand me. So if you really want that 297 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: fifteen hundred dollars, son, you come and get it. But 298 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 1: I ain't got trying to be sitting here harding with 299 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,680 Speaker 1: you all today. I got work to do. I gotta 300 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,919 Speaker 1: get back out of this truck. I got one more 301 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 1: thing I need to tell you, and I want you 302 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:15,119 Speaker 1: to put this in your mind. Good and straw, are 303 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 1: you little? I'm gonna listening to your son long. You 304 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: ain't gonna say about me giving you fifteen hundred dollars. 305 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I want to tell you. This. 306 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 1: This is nephew, tom Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 307 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 1: You just got franked by another record driver named you 308 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:38,360 Speaker 1: know what that sile that So you know what. You're 309 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 1: listening to this because I owe you a fifteen hundred 310 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 1: dollars and so to little teaspoon this morning for you. 311 00:19:53,880 --> 00:20:01,160 Speaker 1: That's all there, some some some some too much much mud. Hey, 312 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:05,159 Speaker 1: tune in Friday for that Ready to Love all right, 313 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 1: that's Friday night on the whole network. The fact it 314 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 1: is the number one show on the own network. Can 315 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:16,120 Speaker 1: I say that? Say that? I say Ready to Love 316 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: Baby host about yours truly that you want to see 317 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:22,399 Speaker 1: me suave, devin na and sexy and and giving it 318 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: to the people. I got to tune in to see that, 319 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:30,920 Speaker 1: because who's doing all that? You're not? You have the 320 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: same host. I think they got the same host. I 321 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: don't know all of that. Give me all that, watch 322 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 1: all that and more. All right, congratulations nephew. Coming up 323 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: it is the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, Ready 324 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: for your love questions. Right after this, you're listening to 325 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show coming up at the top of the 326 00:20:56,440 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: hour and entertainment news Black China's mom Oh Lord was 327 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 1: banned from the courtroom after she blasted the Kardashians, and 328 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 1: the new season of Red Table Talk premiered yesterday. No 329 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 1: word yet on the Oscar slap and Michelle Obama, our 330 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 1: beloved First Lady's brother has suited a private school alleging 331 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 1: racial bias. We'll talk about that and all these stories 332 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 1: to the top of the hour, but right now it's 333 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 1: time to ask the c l O Chief Love Officer, 334 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Lena and Saint Louis right. I'm a seventy 335 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 1: four year old grandmother and my grown grandchildren won't leave 336 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: me alone. I am trying to redo my patio and 337 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: use my money for myself, but they are always begging. 338 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: I've been thinking of redoing my will because I think 339 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 1: they're only nice to me for my money. Would I 340 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: be wrong to shock them like that? No, you gotta 341 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,440 Speaker 1: get this pat your day. Stop giving your money away 342 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:00,919 Speaker 1: to your grown grandchild. You're a labeling. You spent your 343 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,159 Speaker 1: whole life to getting this position where you can retire. 344 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: Go sit down on your back deck and all this 345 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 1: hill ain't got a little poe ass. People up Brown, 346 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 1: You're begging for money because they gotta get their car fixed, 347 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 1: They damn car gonna stay broke. Don't like this right here, 348 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,680 Speaker 1: you know, don't don't. Don't even worry about that. That's 349 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 1: why people be leaving money to charity into you know, 350 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: the dog. Ain't the man that died that ram Chaneo 351 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: call like you all that money he left to his cat. 352 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 1: You know, just when you do that, because if you 353 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 1: do that, the black people they're gonna ding you up. 354 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: Ain't gonna lo the right now funeral system. Yeah, yeah, 355 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 1: so who after the cat? Cause help gone go ahead? Sharon, 356 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 1: all right. Fresha and Durham says, I'm a twenty twenty 357 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,439 Speaker 1: eight year old single woman and I'm with the married 358 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: man that doesn't want me to date other men. I'm 359 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: all for kicking it on the weekends, but I'm trying 360 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: to meet my husband and have a family. This man says, 361 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 1: my cookie is all his and he will give me 362 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: a baby if I want one. So then why won't 363 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: he just get a divorce? Lady? No, no, lady, you stupid. Yeah, 364 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:20,159 Speaker 1: you're the stupid one here. You you you're with a 365 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: married man. You don't you don't see no wrong in that? 366 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 1: Then the married man is giving you all tomatums, restrictions 367 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 1: and requirements. When he can't give you nothing you would 368 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 1: a married man just telling you you can't see nobody 369 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,920 Speaker 1: else and you're listening to it. But then you stupid 370 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 1: enough to think you trying to find your husband. How 371 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 1: many times have I said this? You will never meet 372 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 1: mister Wright while you dating mister Wrong. It don't work 373 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: that way, you can you will never meet mister Wright. 374 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 1: Why you're dating mister wrong. Ain't nowhere from mister Wright 375 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,479 Speaker 1: to fit in that. You can't meet your husband if 376 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: you're sleeping with somebody else's husband. That's what? What is 377 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: this part about this that you're not understanding? Damn, lady, 378 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 1: how does he kind of like giving her a baby? Though? 379 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: How about that's not true? He a fool. He's a 380 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: fool for saying that. Man. Lady, lady, it it don't 381 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 1: make no sense for you don't even be listening to him. Right. Well, 382 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 1: she bought this though, and put it in a letter. Sister, sister, 383 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 1: listen to me. You gotta stop dating the married man 384 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: if you want a family, because you're dating somebody who 385 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 1: has a family. You just gotta you just gotta move on. 386 00:24:55,560 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: You're right, You know what I mean, you're not. Oh, 387 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: let's let's move on to Sue in Colombia. Sue write to, 388 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 1: my brother popped up at my house last night and 389 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: jumped on my boyfriend and used to be best friend. 390 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: And my brother doesn't want us dating because he said 391 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 1: his friend is a womanizer at our age. That doesn't 392 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,479 Speaker 1: matter to me. My boyfriend is wanting revenge. Now, how 393 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 1: do I get these two old fools to chill out? Well? 394 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 1: How old are y'all? Yeah, she didn't say Sue though, 395 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 1: Sue Sue she was born before nineteen seven. Yes, Sue, 396 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 1: Sue is a pre set me name. So you all 397 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 1: are old. And your brother then jumped on him because 398 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 1: he all womanized. Now, your brother's right, he is a womanize. 399 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: You said at this age, it don't make you no difference. Yeah, 400 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 1: she didn't matter, So I don't know why your brother 401 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 1: trying to protect your standards when you obviously they ain't 402 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 1: gotten it. So I don't know what all this is about. 403 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,959 Speaker 1: And now your boyfriend won't revenge. Now, if they remain 404 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 1: true to the old school cold and they're gonna just 405 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: throw these hands, then let them go ahead and throw 406 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 1: these hands. If they were young, and they won't revenge 407 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,399 Speaker 1: somebody fitting to go to prison. I would revere you 408 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 1: talking to your brother and just saying, hey, look I 409 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: do what I want to do. I know he liked this, 410 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 1: but this is what I want. And then go to 411 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: your man who ain't worth for damn and a womanizing 412 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: say look, I ain't the only one you got, so 413 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: please don't fight for me. You just need to have 414 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 1: two ignorant ass conversations about your getting the ass decisions 415 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 1: and go head on from yeah, oh yeah, what a 416 00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,640 Speaker 1: good brother Hill, because he know they've been friend they've 417 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 1: been running women together. He knows that's true. He was 418 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:12,680 Speaker 1: about his sister. Yeah, all right, last one Montresa and Idaho. Right. 419 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty six year old black woman married to 420 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 1: a fifty six year old white man. We met online 421 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 1: and things were fine until we got married. He lets 422 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: me wear the pants in him in the marriage, and 423 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 1: I don't like that. He doesn't like making decisions, and 424 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:32,359 Speaker 1: he even lets me dress him. I hate all of that. 425 00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 1: How do I get him to man up a little? 426 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: I can't help. First of all, let me just say 427 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: this before I try to attempt to answer this question. 428 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: I've never been a white man. I don't really have 429 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: no experience expertise at it that. Now, with that said, 430 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 1: I will say from a lot of white men, I 431 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 1: know that they don't normally fit into that moment. Okay, 432 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,479 Speaker 1: and then regretfully, I'll must inform you that there are 433 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: some black men that fit into that mode. So this 434 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: really I can speak on that. Right there, you've married 435 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 1: the wrong one black hawk white, which seems to me 436 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,440 Speaker 1: he don't want to make no decision. Yeah I don't. Yeah, 437 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 1: I don't care if you were married whim blew men 438 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 1: from out of in Vegas if here, yeah, if if 439 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 1: he don't want to wear the pants and he don't 440 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 1: want to make decisions and he letting you dress help 441 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: you know, first of all you let's does this start 442 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: with the real simple one. You're not dressing, Steve Barker. 443 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: Let's just get that clear. And you're not dressing. Yeah, 444 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,440 Speaker 1: you can ask the stylist. I got the problem, his 445 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 1: ass got Mardreid don't dress me at all? Now can 446 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 1: she say I don't like that? Yes, she can't when 447 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: I go in there to take it off? Yes, how okay, 448 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 1: all right, thank you, cielo, But you ain't laying my 449 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 1: clothes out. You're coming up. At the top of the hour, 450 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news where you Right after this, 451 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: you're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. Coming up 452 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 1: in about twenty minutes. DJ Envy will be our special 453 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 1: guest to tell us about his brand new book, Real Life, 454 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 1: Real Love that he co wrote with his beautiful wife 455 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 1: Gia Casey. Can't wait to talk to Envy. Yeah, yeah, 456 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: that'll be good, right cool, Yeah, And right now it 457 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 1: is time for entertainment news. Well, the Kardashians were front 458 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: and center during a jury selection at Black China civil 459 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: case against them, Rob Kardashian's baby Mama. That is, Black 460 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 1: China is suing the family for allegedly sabotaging their reality series, 461 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 1: Robin China because of a personal vendetta against her. The 462 00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 1: Kardashians deny the claim, blaming the low ratings and that's it. Rob, however, 463 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 1: wasn't in court. According to tim Z, the jurors were 464 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 1: asked if they had ever seen the Kardashian shows, and 465 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: one potential juror said, well, I've seen the Kardashian sex tape. 466 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 1: Did they keep him? Oh him? Yeah, uh, all right. 467 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 1: Also Black China's mom Tokyo. Tony says that, um, I'm 468 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 1: going to get that judge after being booted from the courtroom. Um, lady, 469 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: come on now, Jude Tokyo. What's her name? Well, whatever 470 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: your name in something you can't do that cannot threaten 471 00:30:54,840 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: a judge period. No. No, I'm from a hood. I 472 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 1: ain't really know judge. Now you threatened me. If you 473 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: want to start, No, first of all, you're gonna find 474 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 1: out right away that the judge cuss. That's first all. 475 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 1: I start with that. Man. I let if you want 476 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 1: to hype it, you want to go from now, will, 477 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 1: but we're gonna start. I'm gonna cush you out first. 478 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 1: You're gonna back up off from me. I'm gonna let 479 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 1: you know I've been down this road before. I got 480 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 1: verbiage that fits any type of you know, insults or thricks. 481 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 1: You ready for it? Yeah, I ain't tiny Tim or 482 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 1: whatever her name is thread. Well are they from China? 483 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 1: Where is they from? No, they're not um And. Another 484 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 1: trending entertainment is the new season of Red Table Talk, 485 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 1: premiered yesterday. It's hosted, of course, by Jada Pinkett Smith, 486 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: her daughter Willow and her mother, Adrian Van Phil Norris Well. 487 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 1: Special guests this season include Alec Baldwin's ex wife, Kim 488 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: Basinger and her daughter and singer Um also singer Janelle Munain. 489 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: No word yet if Will Smith and the acknowledgment of 490 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: the Oscar slap that was heard around the world will 491 00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 1: be discussed, because initially we heard they were going to 492 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 1: do it, discuss it on Red Table Talk, but apparently, Um, 493 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 1: that hasn't come up yet. Will I'm tired of talking 494 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 1: about it. Will. If you go on a Red Table Talk, dog, 495 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 1: you're going you a lot of brothers. Man, I'm just 496 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: gonna tell you you can't go back on now. Man. 497 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 1: That's what called all this first place. Yeah, you can't. 498 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 1: You can't. Y'all need y'all need to burn that table. Yeah, 499 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: it got a nurse. We're gonna get your damn table 500 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 1: out of my house. Painted this damn table. Man who 501 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 1: spray painted? All right? Yeah? Okay, Jada, comme at dawn. 502 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 1: Table will be out on the tree. Law done with? 503 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: All right finally. In trending news, Michelle Obama's brother Craig 504 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 1: Robinson and his wife Kelly, appeared on Good Morning America. 505 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: Robinson's told Robin Roberts that they are sewing the University 506 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: School of Milwaukee private school after the school expelled their 507 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,760 Speaker 1: two young sons, ages eleven and nine. In twenty twenty one, 508 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 1: the Robinsons communicated directly with USM faculty and staff about 509 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: the inclusion of language in various worksheets, and projects that 510 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 1: was offensive to people of color, people with disabilities, Indigenous Americans, 511 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:51,080 Speaker 1: and other underrepresented students underrepresented students. The Robinsons are calling 512 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: for USM to take several steps. First, diversify the school's 513 00:33:55,080 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 1: school board, administration, and faculty, conduct racial sensitivity training for 514 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 1: staff and students. So that's what they want out of this. 515 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: It's hard, man, you know, because you know, I mean, 516 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: you move out of these of fluent neighborhoods because you've 517 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: earned money and you can live wherever you want to live, 518 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,320 Speaker 1: and then your children have to go to school and 519 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 1: you still, no matter what, have to deal with racism 520 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 1: on every single level. And you and you don't know, 521 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 1: I mean, look twenty twenty one, you know you could 522 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 1: have had a problem, you know, you know, you know 523 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,879 Speaker 1: the director to school could be a Trump fan. Realizing 524 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 1: that you Obamas relative. You know, you could, you could 525 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 1: get it from all kinds of angles, man, But the 526 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 1: fact that you still got to deal with this in 527 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. Yeah, this just tells you where we 528 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,880 Speaker 1: are as a country man. I mean, I love to 529 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 1: say we're doing better, but but we not. We not. 530 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 1: We've taken so many steps backwards. Man. It's just just 531 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:09,839 Speaker 1: it's it's it's sad. Yeah. And if it's happening to him, 532 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 1: oh who, I can't tell you the cases of the 533 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 1: less affluent and less famous that this is right. And 534 00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,279 Speaker 1: you know, the school is high, they're paying for their 535 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,279 Speaker 1: education and they still have to deal with all of this. Yeah, 536 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: and they expel the kids, so they're taking that out. 537 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 1: That is the issues that they have, right, because I'm 538 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:38,359 Speaker 1: a sens out on the children. You're right about you're 539 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,719 Speaker 1: right about the neighborhoods. And you move out, you don't 540 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,879 Speaker 1: know who you're moving next. I got something for you though. 541 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 1: Off Coming up in about twenty minutes after the hour, 542 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 1: DJ Envy will be a very special guest. He's going 543 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 1: to tell us all about his brand new book, Real Life, 544 00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:02,960 Speaker 1: Real Love. Right after that, you're listening Steve Show, Hey, everybody. 545 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 1: As promise, we got a very very special guest this morning. 546 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:12,320 Speaker 1: He's an infamous DJ, producer, radio personality, husband and a father. 547 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: He's co host of Our Hearts, The Breakfast Club, and 548 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 1: he and his wife Jill uh that brand new authors. 549 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 1: Now they got a new book out. It's called Real Love, 550 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 1: Real Life, and it's a god book for everybody and 551 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,719 Speaker 1: anybody who's seeking unconditional love and their relationships. And so 552 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 1: we invited him to join us for the first time 553 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: on the Steve Harvey Morning Show to talk about real life, 554 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: real love. Ladies and gentlemen, please put your hands together 555 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 1: for the man. Rashawn DJ n V Casey, Come morning, guys. 556 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: What's up man, how you doing? Welcome to this show, 557 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 1: doing well, man, Thank you so much for having me again. 558 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 1: So this could be the kickoff because this is the 559 00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: first time we've had a member from the Breakfast Love 560 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,280 Speaker 1: on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Because we have morning shows, 561 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:08,040 Speaker 1: but they're not in competition. And I've never looked at 562 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 1: it that way. I don't do competition. I just do 563 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:13,400 Speaker 1: me and let you do you. So he's on the 564 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,800 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. So we're and we're both with 565 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 1: our hearts. So it's opening the door for me to 566 00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,319 Speaker 1: make an appearance on the Breakfast Club. I'm just going 567 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 1: to throw that out. We've been inviting you, come on up. 568 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 1: We've been man, but I've been scared because they scare 569 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,560 Speaker 1: me that our heartest. It's gonna be a damn problem anyway. Man, 570 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,439 Speaker 1: we aren't here to talk about that. Hey man, let's 571 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 1: talk about this, man, because this is really interesting. You 572 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,239 Speaker 1: and your wife Gil you met in high school. You've 573 00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,919 Speaker 1: been together for twenty seven years, married for twenty years. 574 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 1: Your relationship has a vibe through your growing celebrity, a devastating, 575 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:50,680 Speaker 1: very public cheating scan. This ain't me, This ain't what 576 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:55,399 Speaker 1: I do. So it's okay and six children, So tell 577 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 1: us about the real life, real love. What what's going 578 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 1: on here? Man? Yeah, me and my wife you've been 579 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,800 Speaker 1: together twenty seven years, been married twenty one years, and 580 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,600 Speaker 1: we wrote this book as a as a guy, right, 581 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 1: and so many times we go through so much in 582 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:10,840 Speaker 1: our relationship and we don't know who to talk to, 583 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 1: Like we could go to the ballber shop. We talk 584 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,239 Speaker 1: about our favorite basketball player, we talk about the kicks 585 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,440 Speaker 1: that's coming out, but we don't have an opportunity to 586 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,719 Speaker 1: talk about our relationships and what's wrong and what's right 587 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 1: and the fact that we need help. You know, I've 588 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 1: been through insecurities, cheating and you name it, even thinking 589 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 1: about committing suicide to you know, having six kids and 590 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,760 Speaker 1: raising six kids. So we've been through the ups and downs. 591 00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,920 Speaker 1: So we try to put it out there and be 592 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,239 Speaker 1: as open as possible so people can understand. Like, you know, 593 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 1: we go through things, you can talk about it. Sometimes 594 00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: you look at social media you see nothing but perfect relationships, 595 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,520 Speaker 1: and Steve, you know, there's nothing perfect like we got. 596 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: We gotta fight to keep those marriages together and fight 597 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 1: to be to make things right. So and that's what 598 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: this book is about. Wow, hey man, listen, hang on 599 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,760 Speaker 1: right here. We got special guests DJ Envy this morning 600 00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 1: from the Breakfast Club, and we're talking about this new 601 00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 1: book when we come back. We're gonna get into it 602 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, everybody, we're back, 603 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,399 Speaker 1: and our special guests this morning is a DJ Envy. 604 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 1: You all know him from the famous morning show to 605 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:20,399 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. He and his wife Gia, they got him 606 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 1: book out man, and what he's telling us about the 607 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: book is like straight five because it's so open and real. 608 00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 1: The name of the book is called Real Life, Real Love, 609 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,879 Speaker 1: and so I guess this morning is DJ envy. Now, look, man, 610 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 1: you're talking about this book and you're being very open 611 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: about it. So when a person reads this book, what 612 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 1: are you hoping to takeaway is for them? I'm hoping 613 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,160 Speaker 1: that it has start a conversation in different relationships, for 614 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,840 Speaker 1: people in relationships, with people trying to find somebody in 615 00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,879 Speaker 1: a relationship. Because we opened up Pandora's box and talk 616 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: about everything, right, I wanted. Some of the toughest things 617 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 1: in the book was, you know, I was with my 618 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: wife from seventeen and sixteen. She was fifteen, and when 619 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:01,040 Speaker 1: we first started to have sex, he was faking for 620 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,520 Speaker 1: like nine years, and I thought, I'm putting it down. 621 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,719 Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm doing my thing. But she had we 622 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:08,440 Speaker 1: had to have that conversation. She was like, no, you know, 623 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,759 Speaker 1: I was faking and I had to She had to 624 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:17,960 Speaker 1: have a conversation about me. Yes. So that's some of 625 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 1: the things that we talk about in the book. Stephen, 626 00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:27,160 Speaker 1: that just sold a bunch of copies. You know, how 627 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:28,880 Speaker 1: many women are gonna get this book on you need 628 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:34,319 Speaker 1: to read this, Herbert. Yeah, that's really interesting. Hey, now 629 00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I tell you what I find compelling, man, 630 00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 1: because as a celebrity, I know how hard it is man, 631 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,319 Speaker 1: this this role called man because you're under microscope all 632 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 1: the time. But you all have managed. You got six kids, man, 633 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:55,120 Speaker 1: I didn't know that until just now twenty eighteen eight seven, 634 00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 1: five in a four month old. We got six of them, Mom, 635 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:08,880 Speaker 1: main a nobody, nobody. Yeah, you're the faking stop man. 636 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,239 Speaker 1: I take it that. There's a lot of family dynamics 637 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 1: in the book. Man. Why was it important for you 638 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,359 Speaker 1: to include that in the book? Um? Because we also 639 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,320 Speaker 1: wanted to talk about how we raise our kids and 640 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,880 Speaker 1: how we do it and how strong faith is in 641 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:27,160 Speaker 1: our family and our relationship. So, like I said, it's difficult. 642 00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:28,839 Speaker 1: You know, you have kids. I got a twenty year 643 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,759 Speaker 1: old girl that goes to NYU and you try to 644 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:33,480 Speaker 1: guide her and be her best friend to make sure 645 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,920 Speaker 1: she doesn't run into a guy like me, and try 646 00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,480 Speaker 1: to how to you know, come against those obstacles. But 647 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,120 Speaker 1: it's the truth. And then I got an eighteen year 648 00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:41,359 Speaker 1: old that you want to be a man, you want 649 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: to teach them the proper things to do and have 650 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 1: respect and have manners because a lot of times I 651 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,560 Speaker 1: think there's no father in a lot of these kids lives, 652 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,719 Speaker 1: and these kids are running crazy and rampant, and we 653 00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 1: just wanted to, you know, teach people. You know, you 654 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 1: gotta be there for your kids, because your kids are 655 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,680 Speaker 1: representation of you. When they leave that house, that is 656 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 1: a representation of you, and they got to make sure 657 00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,480 Speaker 1: that they represent you the right way. You know what, man, 658 00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,680 Speaker 1: you said something interesting about having the daughter at NYU 659 00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,440 Speaker 1: and you want to protect her from a guy like you. 660 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 1: You know, that's interesting because what people don't understands what 661 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 1: we're saying as far as is I may not have 662 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 1: always been who I am today because getting to be 663 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 1: a good man at the growth process. I think you 664 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:26,120 Speaker 1: agree with that absolutely absolutely. You got you gotta evolve, 665 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 1: you gotta and it sometimes it takes a long time. 666 00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,879 Speaker 1: And like I said, I was insecure. I was as 667 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,320 Speaker 1: a young child. I was five foot four, I had glasses, braces, 668 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: acne as. As my mom would say, I wasn't the 669 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 1: cats me out. Nobody was hollering at me. So I 670 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,400 Speaker 1: grew into who I am today, and I'm proud of 671 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,279 Speaker 1: it now, but back then, you know I wasn't and 672 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 1: I want to make sure I can guide her the 673 00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 1: right way. Wow, hey, man, you know what, I'm really 674 00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 1: proud of you, man for taking this step. Not that 675 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 1: you need my pride, but I mean, you know, I 676 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 1: just love it when when cats man like yourself, step 677 00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 1: out their comforts only do stuff. Man. But I gotta 678 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: tell you, man, congratulations because if you've been married for 679 00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:09,920 Speaker 1: twenty years, man, that's like a major major accomplishment in 680 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,120 Speaker 1: any part of the world. Man. And I think you've 681 00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,480 Speaker 1: done a great job, man. And that's the book is 682 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,479 Speaker 1: going to be exciting man for a lot of people. 683 00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 1: So Steve Harvey Nation. The name of the book is 684 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:24,040 Speaker 1: Real Life, Real Love, The Lessons of Joy, Pain, and 685 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,320 Speaker 1: the Magic that holds Us Together. This book is available 686 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 1: online and anywhere books are sold. The name of the 687 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:34,320 Speaker 1: book is Real Life, Real Love. I want everybody in 688 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,719 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Nation to download a copy of go pick 689 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 1: it up to date. I specially guest this morning, DJ 690 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 1: Envy my man. Appreciate you many thanks for having me 691 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,880 Speaker 1: appreciate you, man, and we can't wait to see you 692 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,759 Speaker 1: in studios when you come to the breakfast club. Let 693 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 1: us know, coming on to Breakfast Club to cuss. All right, 694 00:43:55,920 --> 00:44:01,400 Speaker 1: you're listening to show coming up at the top of 695 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,240 Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry 696 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,400 Speaker 1: letter for today, and the subject is where do I 697 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 1: fit in with his friends? We'll get into that in 698 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 1: just a bit, but right now the nephew is here 699 00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 1: with today's praying phone call. What you got for it? 700 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 1: S nap, little something, little some something. I think everybody 701 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 1: on this show probably has done it one time or another. 702 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:26,799 Speaker 1: Growing up, Your son pede in the pool, your son 703 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 1: pee in the pool. You know what age were you 704 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,960 Speaker 1: when you decided you're gonna get on up and get 705 00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 1: out the pool, Go do what you gotta do and 706 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,560 Speaker 1: come back. When did you at least get to that point, 707 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,839 Speaker 1: because it wasn't at Aida Nae, because you sat there 708 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,040 Speaker 1: and you just sat there and stood that. Yes, you 709 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:46,640 Speaker 1: did that chlorine in it. That was right there before 710 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:53,279 Speaker 1: I didn't got in the pool to pete. You didn't 711 00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,560 Speaker 1: feel like going to the bas Sitting there in that 712 00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:02,879 Speaker 1: lounge chair, went man, that bear flew way over there. Yeah, 713 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: stand around in this three foot for a minute. Oh god, 714 00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: I can see if it was the ocean, but not 715 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 1: the pool man, not the pool brown saying that though 716 00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:20,160 Speaker 1: if you're an allounge chair you know he grown. I 717 00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:24,960 Speaker 1: wasn't little when I did that. Don't tell nobody else. 718 00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:30,840 Speaker 1: You shouldn't have said that. What dog? This is my pool? 719 00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,799 Speaker 1: What y'all talking about? All because it was closer than 720 00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,360 Speaker 1: your bathroom? Wait? Wait wait I won't be getting in 721 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 1: there again, right and you haven't been invited? Clear, Let's 722 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 1: be clear. You know you got your own pool, Tommy, 723 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: I forgot it. Your pool, salt water or glory? Go 724 00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 1: watch this? Which one? Huh? Which one to see? When 725 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: you start talking to see what ball? I don't say 726 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:12,719 Speaker 1: nothing because I plead to Phil. Now, if you walk 727 00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:14,919 Speaker 1: down to the back of his property, there's a river 728 00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:18,759 Speaker 1: that run. You do know that though we probably in 729 00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:25,360 Speaker 1: the river. We gotta play. We gotta play bach, we 730 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:30,880 Speaker 1: gotta go ahead. Go ahead, y'all sign Pete in the pool. 731 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,719 Speaker 1: Let's go catch dump. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach it. 732 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Yes, I'm trying to reach Anastasia. 733 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:41,360 Speaker 1: This is she? How are you doing? Listen? I'm Glenn 734 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 1: the lifeguard over here at the pool here in the 735 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 1: apartment complex. Yes, sir, do you have a um if 736 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:52,919 Speaker 1: you have a song named yes, sir? Is everything? Hey? Yeah? Yeah? 737 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:56,239 Speaker 1: Everything is fun? I mean a quick question, man. We 738 00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 1: got a situation here with what's going on when we're 739 00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:02,840 Speaker 1: not gonna be allowed to h to let him swim 740 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,560 Speaker 1: here at the pool and the complex anymore? What we 741 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 1: got him from me? Your son? I mean he swims 742 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:13,400 Speaker 1: it pretty much every every every other day. You know, 743 00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 1: I'm always in seeing him swim, but it seemed like 744 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,799 Speaker 1: he is. You know, we've been trying to figure out 745 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,720 Speaker 1: who it is. You'll your son keep peeing in the pool? 746 00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:27,800 Speaker 1: Slim man, I don't want to get into it with you. 747 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:31,160 Speaker 1: Your son. We finally narrowed down your son is the 748 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,440 Speaker 1: one that's pining in the pool every day, and you 749 00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 1: know it's really a bad thing. Uh. We can't continue 750 00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,000 Speaker 1: to keep letting them come over here. We got to 751 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: ban him from the pool. We ain't nash it like this. 752 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,920 Speaker 1: Did you check them to be he's gonna say it's 753 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,120 Speaker 1: my song and then the pool, Well, your son is 754 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 1: the one to be making faces and stuff, and I 755 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,279 Speaker 1: know that's what he's doing here in their pin Your 756 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:56,960 Speaker 1: son is the one that's pinning faces. He'd be making faces, 757 00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,400 Speaker 1: so I know here in their pe that got to 758 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: do with them. We should be making faces a couple 759 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,360 Speaker 1: pool or something. Well, you're gonna saying in the pool 760 00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 1: because he's making safe I'm not gonna go back lasting 761 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,600 Speaker 1: like that. I teach my kids better than that. He 762 00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,839 Speaker 1: ain't been a pool lady. I'm not gonna All I'm 763 00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,680 Speaker 1: saying is he can't come over here and swim anymore. 764 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:20,279 Speaker 1: He's ban from the pool until we rectify this problems 765 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,200 Speaker 1: not paying. When he gonna be in the pool and 766 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,880 Speaker 1: we are in a pool, were gonna be there, and 767 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,439 Speaker 1: that's a mind made of fact. I'm thinking, I'm kids 768 00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:31,400 Speaker 1: to the pool. No, we're gonna a man. I'm not 769 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,200 Speaker 1: gonna city and go back and forth with you. All 770 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,120 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you was this right here? Your 771 00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,520 Speaker 1: son has been paying in the pool. My boss wants 772 00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:40,680 Speaker 1: me to bed him. If he's not the one, then 773 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,839 Speaker 1: we will allow him to come back later. But right 774 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 1: now with singling people out and your sons, you know, 775 00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,080 Speaker 1: it just seems like he's the one that's doing it. 776 00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,480 Speaker 1: What's your say? Name was? My name is Glenn. I'm 777 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 1: Glenning the lifeguard that's who I am, not what's the 778 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:58,440 Speaker 1: real name n that I was supposed to be calling me? 779 00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 1: You ain't got no bitess, God of my I don't 780 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,440 Speaker 1: talking about my son, no fool. How you everything to get? 781 00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,360 Speaker 1: I'm not at liberty to give my lad's name. The 782 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:10,120 Speaker 1: bottom line is we can't call in the bottom what 783 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,040 Speaker 1: but you aren't liberty to come down? But you can't 784 00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,839 Speaker 1: give me your own name. Okay, listen, I'm not. All 785 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do is call you gonna let you 786 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 1: know that we're banned in your son from getting in 787 00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,600 Speaker 1: the pool. Once you're talking about you can't band my 788 00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:26,960 Speaker 1: father trying the life board, get a real job, a 789 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:30,360 Speaker 1: summer job, give your g job, and I calling my 790 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,600 Speaker 1: fo you said him, you know what you ain't about, 791 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,440 Speaker 1: and you can't stop nobody who's come next pool? And 792 00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna be damned though tomorrow again. And if you 793 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:44,640 Speaker 1: did do your job and clean that man, let me 794 00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:46,680 Speaker 1: say this to you, if your son comes to the 795 00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:49,440 Speaker 1: pool tomorrow and get in the pool, I'm snatching your 796 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,360 Speaker 1: son out of the pool. I unless you n I 797 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:56,040 Speaker 1: wish you would because you don't need a lifeguard. You said, 798 00:49:56,680 --> 00:50:00,800 Speaker 1: trying a pool I wish you would. What time the 799 00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 1: problem open? At ten o'clock. We're gonna be there nine Saturday. 800 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 1: You got me up? Come about you gonna snatch my 801 00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 1: son out of the pool. You know mine? Everybody pool? 802 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:17,360 Speaker 1: Yea mine, lady. The problem is whatever has been singled 803 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,040 Speaker 1: out all the other kids, appointing us and saying he's 804 00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,160 Speaker 1: the one that's doing it. Your son is the one 805 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:27,799 Speaker 1: that's being our boat. He's feeling whatever whatever. For right now, 806 00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,359 Speaker 1: all I'm asking is is keep your son away from 807 00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,279 Speaker 1: the pool for the next two weeks. If we fell 808 00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 1: not that it's not him, will allow him to come back? Okay, 809 00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,000 Speaker 1: ain't he ain't staying away from the pool for two weeks. 810 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:39,880 Speaker 1: If you do, he gonna come back and do some 811 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,320 Speaker 1: motion pool. I'm gonna getting the whole two weeks with 812 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 1: it and go back to that talking about my son 813 00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,160 Speaker 1: to pool. You can tell you about his face. You 814 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:53,759 Speaker 1: said what you said? You fly watching life, you watch 815 00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 1: then the pool. You know fine, you must not know 816 00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,800 Speaker 1: what you're talking to. I will be down up some 817 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,880 Speaker 1: I don't need I don't find my kids, and now 818 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,040 Speaker 1: don't getting pool too. Don't hang it on a little 819 00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:07,880 Speaker 1: kids go without getting them in the pool. Let me 820 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,400 Speaker 1: tell you something. Don't you bring them kids over there 821 00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,720 Speaker 1: and bring them in the pool. No, none of your children. 822 00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,560 Speaker 1: I don't give it. And what you say, you don't 823 00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:19,879 Speaker 1: run life guard, get rid of John. Lady. Listen, lady, 824 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go continue to go back and forth. 825 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:24,000 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say to 826 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:25,920 Speaker 1: you what I'm done. I'm gay. One more thing that 827 00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 1: I'm done. You ain't got to say to me. I 828 00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:29,800 Speaker 1: do have one thing I do need to say to 829 00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,440 Speaker 1: you what you have to say to me. I need 830 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,600 Speaker 1: to say this. This is left you Tommy from the 831 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:39,920 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got Frank from your homeboard. 832 00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:53,320 Speaker 1: You Hello, we kid, look man, look it up you timmy, 833 00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:58,399 Speaker 1: doctor man. You want to get this life this y'all 834 00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,680 Speaker 1: play you must y'all know you how to play? To 835 00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:07,480 Speaker 1: what place? For nothing? I'm walking towards now. I thought 836 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,359 Speaker 1: you was coming to the pool tomorrow. I was coming 837 00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:13,160 Speaker 1: to the office today. They still was opening the foecock. 838 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 1: I'll to tell me I come fother myself in the pool. 839 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:21,279 Speaker 1: I was gonna come now, take care of them kids, baby. 840 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I got to ask you. 841 00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:27,040 Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land, The 842 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:40,920 Speaker 1: Steven so H y'all, Can I ask you a question? Uh? 843 00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:50,120 Speaker 1: Are what hand reach? Because we knew it was the 844 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 1: human resource. That's the last thing I'm gonna be. You 845 00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 1: gotta ask him later, Steve. Coming up next, it's the 846 00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:01,920 Speaker 1: Strip Verry Letter and the subject is where do I 847 00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 1: fit in with his friends? We'll get into it right 848 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:08,560 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. 849 00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,799 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 850 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:16,359 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, 851 00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and 852 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:23,000 Speaker 1: click Submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 853 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,160 Speaker 1: live on the air Pop Pop, just like we're gonna 854 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,239 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. You never know. 855 00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 1: It could be yours, could be it could be yours. 856 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,719 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tighte We got it for you. 857 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:37,840 Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. Okay, subject 858 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:41,800 Speaker 1: where do I fit in with his friends? Here? Stephen Shirley. 859 00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:44,040 Speaker 1: I recently married the man of my dreams and I 860 00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:48,480 Speaker 1: love everything about him except his female friends and his 861 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:52,960 Speaker 1: ex girl friends. This man is friends with everyone from 862 00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:55,800 Speaker 1: his past, and before we got married, his house was 863 00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:59,360 Speaker 1: party central. He slowed it down when we got serious, 864 00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,920 Speaker 1: and he changed his phone number to show me that 865 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:05,400 Speaker 1: he was serious about being a one woman man. He 866 00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:08,840 Speaker 1: still allows an open door policy for his friends, and 867 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,920 Speaker 1: I can't complain because he's such a great person. The 868 00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,239 Speaker 1: only problem I have is that he's too available for 869 00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:19,359 Speaker 1: his female friends, and they think we're all a big 870 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:23,280 Speaker 1: family and I'm their sister in law. I have politely 871 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 1: corrected them for the past three years, and they complained 872 00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:30,480 Speaker 1: to my husband that I'm too standoffish and brash. So 873 00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:35,040 Speaker 1: a couple of weekends ago, we had a crap crawfish 874 00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,680 Speaker 1: boil for my husband's birthday, and I worked my behind 875 00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,000 Speaker 1: off to get the food and prepare the house for 876 00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:44,240 Speaker 1: to kick back. One of my husband's female friends called 877 00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:46,720 Speaker 1: and asked if she could bring the birthday cake because 878 00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:50,840 Speaker 1: her mom makes my husband's favorite Italian cream cake. I 879 00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,759 Speaker 1: told her thanks, but no thanks. On the day of 880 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,640 Speaker 1: the party, not only does she bring the cake, she 881 00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 1: brought her mom. Her mom pulled me aside and told 882 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,000 Speaker 1: me that I am going to run my husband off 883 00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:05,480 Speaker 1: with my attitude and I need to stop trying to 884 00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:09,480 Speaker 1: shut his girlfriends out of his life. She said she 885 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:13,400 Speaker 1: came in peace, but I was crushed. I wasn't expecting that, 886 00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:15,960 Speaker 1: and I tried to get through the rest of the festivities. 887 00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,480 Speaker 1: I felt out of place in my own home and 888 00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,240 Speaker 1: told my husband about it after everyone left. He apologized 889 00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:27,520 Speaker 1: and held me tightly, but then said he can't argue 890 00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:31,040 Speaker 1: with the old folks wisdom. How can he agree? I 891 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:34,839 Speaker 1: feel like the outsider. Here? Are my feelings valid? Well? Yes, 892 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:39,560 Speaker 1: of course your feelings are valid because your valot. You 893 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,319 Speaker 1: know your feelings are not being valued. I don't think 894 00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,040 Speaker 1: by your husband, who agreed with the woman in front 895 00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 1: of you, you don't do that. There's no way you 896 00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,400 Speaker 1: should feel like a stranger in your own home because 897 00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,360 Speaker 1: of his friends. But I have to point out that 898 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:57,480 Speaker 1: you married him knowing he had all these female friends 899 00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 1: and all these ex girlfriends and a pair he was 900 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:03,360 Speaker 1: a player or something, because he mentioned about being a 901 00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,160 Speaker 1: one woman man when he got with you. I'm sure 902 00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:09,840 Speaker 1: you thought he would stop being friends with them, but 903 00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:13,080 Speaker 1: nothing changed when she became his wife. What happened to 904 00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:15,480 Speaker 1: him being a one woman man? Did that just go 905 00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:17,239 Speaker 1: out of the window? I mean You might be his 906 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,720 Speaker 1: only wife, but he still got all these other females 907 00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:21,920 Speaker 1: in his life, and I think that's the issue. You 908 00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:25,200 Speaker 1: expected he would change, as so many women do, and 909 00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:28,799 Speaker 1: he didn't. Well, okay, he did change his phone number, 910 00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:34,120 Speaker 1: but they found him anyway. His behavior hasn't changed. You say, 911 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:36,759 Speaker 1: he's a great guy. You can't complain about his open 912 00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,160 Speaker 1: door policy, but you don't want your home to be 913 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,880 Speaker 1: party central anymore. That was fine for him back when 914 00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:44,480 Speaker 1: he was single. The problem is he hasn't made you 915 00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:48,280 Speaker 1: his wife the priority. If he did, I mean, his friends, 916 00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:52,560 Speaker 1: you know, wouldn't be allowed to just bring a cake 917 00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:56,040 Speaker 1: when you asked them not to, you know, or she 918 00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,319 Speaker 1: didn't have to bring the birthday cake you asked them 919 00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,239 Speaker 1: not to just come to the house and then joy 920 00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:05,680 Speaker 1: the festivities. Okay, the friend's mom wouldn't be pulling you 921 00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:09,080 Speaker 1: aside telling you all that stuff, and she wouldn't feel justified. 922 00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:12,480 Speaker 1: But then again, older people are gonna say whatever they want, 923 00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:15,080 Speaker 1: so we'll give her a path on that. But he 924 00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:18,920 Speaker 1: should never have agreed with them over you. So you 925 00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,120 Speaker 1: know which one is it gonna be. Either He's gonna 926 00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:23,440 Speaker 1: put you first to pull away from all these female 927 00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,560 Speaker 1: friends and ex girlfriends, or keep them and face the 928 00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 1: possibility of losing you. Those are the choices. Your husband 929 00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:33,680 Speaker 1: can't have it both ways. Steve seemed to me like 930 00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:35,880 Speaker 1: in this latter you're gonna either have to fit in 931 00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 1: or you're gonna get in the back of the line 932 00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 1: where you seem to be. Anyway, See, how you start 933 00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:47,360 Speaker 1: is how you finish. All you can say it ain't 934 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:51,080 Speaker 1: how you start is how you finish. But if you're 935 00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:54,880 Speaker 1: gonna start a marriage and a relationship a certain kind 936 00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,600 Speaker 1: of way and it is allowed to exist for a while, 937 00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:02,400 Speaker 1: how do you change that? You said, I recently married 938 00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:06,000 Speaker 1: the man of my dreams. Really okay, Well, let's let's 939 00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,800 Speaker 1: find out about this dream and I love everything about 940 00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:16,160 Speaker 1: him except his female friends and ex girlfriends. You ain't 941 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 1: mentioned to do you got a problem with his female 942 00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:28,360 Speaker 1: friends and his ex girl friends with an s. So 943 00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,960 Speaker 1: let me lead you back to your letter. You said, 944 00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:37,680 Speaker 1: I love everything about him, and so do they? See 945 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:42,560 Speaker 1: you have a community husband. He ain't just your husband. 946 00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:48,800 Speaker 1: He's a communal husband. He's he's he just two damn friendly. 947 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:52,560 Speaker 1: He missed the half it go lucky. Well, see you're 948 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,800 Speaker 1: gonna have to go somewhere else and be lucky, because 949 00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,320 Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be up in the hell. You didn't 950 00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:02,040 Speaker 1: marry the man of your dreams, who is mister happy, 951 00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:07,640 Speaker 1: go lucky, make everybody feel good and you if he can, 952 00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:12,280 Speaker 1: which is the wrong approach in the marriage. Clearly you're 953 00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,880 Speaker 1: supposed to leave all others and cleave only on to her. 954 00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:19,280 Speaker 1: That's it. But now everybody see her. He turned to 955 00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:22,479 Speaker 1: take into account too many people, and this just ain't 956 00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,000 Speaker 1: gonna work. Sister, you didn't put your age in here. 957 00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,880 Speaker 1: I don't know how y'all ain't got no kids, but man, 958 00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:32,959 Speaker 1: it's just too much. When we come back, I'm gonna 959 00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:39,680 Speaker 1: let Sister Odale, oh walk you through this letter with Shirley, 960 00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:44,600 Speaker 1: and Sister Odale will answer the questions that Shirley presents 961 00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,640 Speaker 1: or walk her through this letter. All right, we'll have 962 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:51,680 Speaker 1: part two of Steve's reaction, of Steve's response and the 963 00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 1: reenactment coming up with twenty three minutes after the hour 964 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,240 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter subject where do I fit in with 965 00:59:57,360 --> 01:00:00,800 Speaker 1: his friends? We'll get into it right after that. You're 966 01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 1: listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's 967 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:09,560 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Reenact today's Strawberry letter. We have a special 968 01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:12,880 Speaker 1: guest to do that. Uh. The subject is where do 969 01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,200 Speaker 1: I fit in with his friends? Our special guests just 970 01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:21,440 Speaker 1: family members sister Odell to help her out. Yeah, you 971 01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:25,520 Speaker 1: know it is the first time, first of all mornings. 972 01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:30,919 Speaker 1: Everyone's hi, y'all. You know, I haven't been here so long. 973 01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:33,600 Speaker 1: You know, my feelings was sort of hurt because y'all 974 01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:35,960 Speaker 1: don't ask me back no more. But I just figured, 975 01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 1: you know, you got yourself up at it, you know, 976 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,960 Speaker 1: and you know, you know Steve included. You know, he 977 01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:45,760 Speaker 1: went out good. Now he don't he don't just remember 978 01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:48,880 Speaker 1: nobody now, But you know it's okay. You know, that's 979 01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:54,320 Speaker 1: just hope that one stays on the add Oh, all 980 01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 1: of them, ain't you know. I'm just say calling it 981 01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:59,200 Speaker 1: the way he is. Sh Anyway, I'm here to help 982 01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:02,680 Speaker 1: this help with this letter because she's in him and 983 01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:05,680 Speaker 1: got some things that she don't seem to understand, sitting 984 01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:08,240 Speaker 1: here to marry this man with all these help us. 985 01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:14,160 Speaker 1: Hanging on see helphone, hanging on that's it. Well, yeah, 986 01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:20,600 Speaker 1: that's the hang in on health less fell hanging on 987 01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:27,040 Speaker 1: health less. Uh hro uh. Now let's go so now 988 01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:29,440 Speaker 1: what is it you need to know us? Sherley sweet 989 01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:33,080 Speaker 1: a high, she only been a while. Well, hello, cister hotel, welcome, 990 01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:37,520 Speaker 1: beautiful brutal for Hawes. The Mexican man that you're married. 991 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:41,720 Speaker 1: What's his name? A black man? His name is Ernestro. 992 01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:46,640 Speaker 1: Thank you, Lenny sounds you know anyway? Well, thank you 993 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:52,160 Speaker 1: for asking. He's doing well, Thank you, cistro deel. Oh okay, Well, 994 01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,960 Speaker 1: this woman wrote in she she she said she married 995 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:58,160 Speaker 1: the man of her dream. She loves everything about He's 996 01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:01,400 Speaker 1: the man of a lot of people's dream. Yeah, but 997 01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:06,520 Speaker 1: he has all these female friends and these ex girlfriends. Um, 998 01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:10,479 Speaker 1: how many times has Steve told y'all that y'all can't 999 01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:13,400 Speaker 1: have all these opposite sex friends and it don't cause 1000 01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:17,400 Speaker 1: a problem in your relationship. He's saying it over and over. Yeah, 1001 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:20,000 Speaker 1: too many times to count, sis girl, too many times 1002 01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:23,960 Speaker 1: to count, um, she says, And what's wrong with him? 1003 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:27,040 Speaker 1: She wants to know he friends with everyone from his 1004 01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:34,880 Speaker 1: past before they got married. But with girlfriends, and she said, 1005 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,200 Speaker 1: in a lot of ex girlfriends with an ass only 1006 01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:40,560 Speaker 1: meaning he got more than one. He don't cut nobody loose. 1007 01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 1: Now that's two things could be happening here. Okay, that 1008 01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:51,120 Speaker 1: friendly Oh lord lord, he would bringing him and they 1009 01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:54,200 Speaker 1: just can't cut him loose. He must have been up 1010 01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:59,280 Speaker 1: in there just he must have been letting him have it. Really. 1011 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:05,840 Speaker 1: Oh hey, Carlie, why sweetie, you know I'm being to 1012 01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,280 Speaker 1: tell the truth. Steve can't answer this letter like I 1013 01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:11,400 Speaker 1: can't go ahead shooting. Okay, Well, she said he slowed 1014 01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:13,880 Speaker 1: it down. When they got married. He changed his phone number. 1015 01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:17,360 Speaker 1: Thank yeah, because he wanted to show her that he 1016 01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:21,600 Speaker 1: changed his phone number. But they got the new number, Yeah, 1017 01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:24,080 Speaker 1: they got it. He wanted to let her know he 1018 01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:28,160 Speaker 1: was a one woman man. But sister O'Dell, he still 1019 01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:34,680 Speaker 1: has an open door policy for his friends. And then 1020 01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:37,600 Speaker 1: she says she can't complain because he's such a good person, 1021 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,680 Speaker 1: But she's not. Stead of y'all having a home. You 1022 01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 1: got a club. Stop the club? They just coming and 1023 01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:50,360 Speaker 1: going like they won't do it open, They can't. Ain't 1024 01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:52,680 Speaker 1: nobody after do? They just coming in and out. You 1025 01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,919 Speaker 1: ain't even got a bodyguard at this club, right right, 1026 01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:02,080 Speaker 1: not a bouncer, ain't nothing. Yeah, she says she doesn't 1027 01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:05,520 Speaker 1: complain about that because he is such a great person. 1028 01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:09,520 Speaker 1: But she says he's too available to his female friend. 1029 01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:14,080 Speaker 1: He's a great person to too many people. Sweetie, he's 1030 01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:17,760 Speaker 1: supposed to be a great person to you. Well, no what, 1031 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:20,240 Speaker 1: let me help you. He could be a great person 1032 01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 1: all he won't. Then, if you're gonna be a great 1033 01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:27,320 Speaker 1: person again, you needs to be a greater husband. That's right, 1034 01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:31,080 Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. Now she's gonna be a great husband. 1035 01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:34,400 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn about how greater people he is, huh, 1036 01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:38,440 Speaker 1: but the people as skill somewhere else. I need a 1037 01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:42,200 Speaker 1: husband up in hill, right. I need somebody to serve 1038 01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:46,000 Speaker 1: and protect love and honam death probably sickness off for health. 1039 01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:52,240 Speaker 1: Richard Pope said he'll death. Viles ain't said nobody can't 1040 01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:57,080 Speaker 1: care all these other healths. The wedding wire is there 1041 01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 1: at the house, she says, they because they think they're 1042 01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:04,919 Speaker 1: one big happy family. And I can put a stop 1043 01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,840 Speaker 1: to the big happy family and come on to the 1044 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:12,400 Speaker 1: white time met me. I bet you won't coming up 1045 01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:14,560 Speaker 1: here thanking we're a big happy family. After I come 1046 01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:17,760 Speaker 1: up in there, you have me come over, Sweeten, stop 1047 01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:20,000 Speaker 1: all this happy as coming up in here if you 1048 01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:23,000 Speaker 1: want to. We're doing half for checks at the dough 1049 01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:31,000 Speaker 1: half for checks and and then they complain about her 1050 01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:37,120 Speaker 1: being stand offish. Uh to the husband, she stand office 1051 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:41,080 Speaker 1: yeah and brash. Yeah. All right, we gotta go. I 1052 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:43,760 Speaker 1: wish I had thank y'all for having me though. It 1053 01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:45,840 Speaker 1: was real nice. I hadn't been here in a while 1054 01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:53,080 Speaker 1: by college. Hey monic money coming, Hey Mississippi, tell you 1055 01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:57,800 Speaker 1: mama be oning for some catfish next Friday. All right, 1056 01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:01,200 Speaker 1: sister Dell, thank you. Post your coming on Today's Strawberry 1057 01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,840 Speaker 1: Letter at Steve HARVEFM on Instagram and Facebook, and check 1058 01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:06,640 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up in 1059 01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:10,000 Speaker 1: forty six minutes. After the hour, it's Sports Talk with Junior. 1060 01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:14,280 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1061 01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,800 Speaker 1: It is time for Junior and Sports Talk. What you 1062 01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,360 Speaker 1: got Junior? All right, Charlton, but let me find anybody 1063 01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,480 Speaker 1: in the df dub area. Man. June fourth, it's this 1064 01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:26,720 Speaker 1: kiers Hope five k running Fun Walk for sickle Cell 1065 01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,320 Speaker 1: going down. Go to kiars Hope dot org to register 1066 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,240 Speaker 1: kiers Hope dot org. This is our fourth year doing 1067 01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:34,520 Speaker 1: the walk. I'm really proud of this man. We got 1068 01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:36,080 Speaker 1: a day party for you too after the walk. So 1069 01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,240 Speaker 1: we have a fun raising money for sickle Cell. Thank 1070 01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:41,480 Speaker 1: y'all so much for supporting me. Appreciate it all, right, Uncy, 1071 01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:43,320 Speaker 1: it is man in NFL news. I don't know if 1072 01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:46,080 Speaker 1: you heard this, but Baker Mayfield so y'all got the 1073 01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:49,720 Speaker 1: show and Watson Baker Mayfield could end up in Carolina 1074 01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:53,480 Speaker 1: with the Panthers. But Wilde receiver Ripert Robinson said no. 1075 01:06:53,800 --> 01:07:01,920 Speaker 1: He tweeted out in oh oh no, who why this 1076 01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:05,040 Speaker 1: wide receiver Robby Robinson, who'll be catching passes from Baker? 1077 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:08,560 Speaker 1: And he don't want Baker down that eat. They don't 1078 01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:10,640 Speaker 1: want Baker. He don't want them commercials. He don't want 1079 01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:13,120 Speaker 1: nothing to do with Baker bay Fee. No, nobody even 1080 01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:18,959 Speaker 1: know him, I know, until he tweeted Noah, not really 1081 01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,520 Speaker 1: thank you. So I just thought it was crazy that 1082 01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:23,320 Speaker 1: you would say that before the man even got there. 1083 01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:25,760 Speaker 1: I mean, he could elevate your career. At least they 1084 01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:29,760 Speaker 1: know Baker, Baker more famous than his Yeah, he said noah, 1085 01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:32,960 Speaker 1: we don't want him. Also up fight like coming up 1086 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:36,560 Speaker 1: this weekend. Man, who you got Tyson Fury versus Dealing 1087 01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:40,040 Speaker 1: White Heavyweight championship fight. Listen, the only way this boy 1088 01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:43,160 Speaker 1: White can with Tyson Fury. If Tyson Fury just taking 1089 01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:45,920 Speaker 1: for granted it ain't been training and working out, been 1090 01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:48,560 Speaker 1: living the gypsy life because he did a heavyweight champion. 1091 01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:51,920 Speaker 1: First of all, Yeah, we ain't never seen him. You 1092 01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:55,960 Speaker 1: had never heard of it, heard of him from the 1093 01:07:56,160 --> 01:08:02,320 Speaker 1: same place that wide receiver is from him, the Land 1094 01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:13,320 Speaker 1: of the Unknown. Take from these people. NBA postseason, Man, tonight, Man, 1095 01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:15,880 Speaker 1: it's gonna be some great games over tonight. I'll tell 1096 01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:19,160 Speaker 1: you if you have not been watching this second season 1097 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:21,360 Speaker 1: the NBA, man get tonight. We got the Grizzlies and 1098 01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:25,280 Speaker 1: the Timberwolves. That series is split one the one. Also, 1099 01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:30,200 Speaker 1: what about Phoenix series, Oh man, it's one one, yeah, man, 1100 01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:32,760 Speaker 1: Phoenix Sons lost to the Pelicans there to night Man 1101 01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:36,439 Speaker 1: one twenty five to one fourteen because Brandon even put 1102 01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,320 Speaker 1: it in thirty seven. Then you got CJ. McCullum, he 1103 01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:43,439 Speaker 1: dropped twenty three. They was winning until Devin Booker got 1104 01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:45,240 Speaker 1: hurt in the third quarter. Man, that kind of hurt 1105 01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:47,320 Speaker 1: him because he had thirty one in the third and 1106 01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:49,880 Speaker 1: he got hurt third Yeah, yeah, he got hurt. Man, 1107 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:54,400 Speaker 1: like a ham straight. We don't know it's gonna straight. Yeah, Man, 1108 01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:57,600 Speaker 1: they can't win without him. He had thirty one in 1109 01:08:57,640 --> 01:09:00,320 Speaker 1: the third man halfway through. So we're gonna be man, 1110 01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:02,280 Speaker 1: We're gonna see what happens, all right, But once again 1111 01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:04,840 Speaker 1: I gotta say the recompention it once again your boy 1112 01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:09,040 Speaker 1: down in Miami. Okay, but look got to stop swinging. 1113 01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:14,880 Speaker 1: He got to all right, Jimmie, we gotta go. Coming 1114 01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:16,639 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, we're gonna check 1115 01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:21,080 Speaker 1: Stave's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this, 1116 01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:27,640 Speaker 1: you're listening to morning show. All right, guys, it is 1117 01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:30,160 Speaker 1: time to check Steve's voicemail. If you would like to 1118 01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:33,080 Speaker 1: leave voicemail for Steve, just call him up. Eight seven 1119 01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:35,920 Speaker 1: seven twenty nine, Steve, you might hear your message on 1120 01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:39,519 Speaker 1: the air with us. Let's go. This caller right here 1121 01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:43,519 Speaker 1: left a message about the kindergartener we talked about earlier 1122 01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:46,840 Speaker 1: this week who took the Margharita to school and made 1123 01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:49,639 Speaker 1: her little friends drinks. Her little five year old friends. 1124 01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:54,439 Speaker 1: Take a little good morning everybody. See I was listening 1125 01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:58,880 Speaker 1: to your radio this morning and little Keith to Margarita's 1126 01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:02,640 Speaker 1: to school in the garden. Thomas said, do not do 1127 01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:07,320 Speaker 1: not beat little kids anymore. I will. My grandson's asked 1128 01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:10,439 Speaker 1: to do something wrong. They need to be bring back 1129 01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:15,240 Speaker 1: corporal punishment. Every kid is deserved to get an ass whipping, 1130 01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,960 Speaker 1: a big bad I'm not saying he's in my heart 1131 01:10:18,520 --> 01:10:22,240 Speaker 1: or get my ass whipping. My name is Sherry from Jersey. 1132 01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:26,320 Speaker 1: Y'all have a great day. And Sherry is why you 1133 01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:30,479 Speaker 1: need to stop kids from taking margaritas in schooler, because 1134 01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:35,320 Speaker 1: they end up drinking when they're old. Because Sherry called in, 1135 01:10:35,720 --> 01:10:45,400 Speaker 1: why she was just finishing a quart of margarite. Thank you. Look, 1136 01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:52,280 Speaker 1: I beat my grandchildren's ass if they pulled my drink out. 1137 01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:59,840 Speaker 1: He needed to bring back on corporate paul punishment. All right, now, 1138 01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:04,080 Speaker 1: all right, This caller is from Brooklyn. His name is Vance. 1139 01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:07,519 Speaker 1: Good morning to see Vance laid again from Brooklyn. I'm 1140 01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:11,360 Speaker 1: always calling in. Maybe I'll be working to hunt sometimes. Nah, 1141 01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:14,960 Speaker 1: that's not true. But I just want to say, Steve, listen, 1142 01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:18,479 Speaker 1: you're the best. Keep being obedient. You're doing a good 1143 01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:22,200 Speaker 1: job because your message is getting through. God said, get 1144 01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:24,840 Speaker 1: through the one and I'll bless you what you're getting 1145 01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:27,960 Speaker 1: through the millions. And Tommy, let me know when you 1146 01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:30,640 Speaker 1: come into Brooklyn. Man, peace to all the ladies on 1147 01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:35,120 Speaker 1: the show too. Of y'all. Lady right, appreciate the encouragement. 1148 01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:38,960 Speaker 1: Dog doing the best we can down Hire. All right, 1149 01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:42,400 Speaker 1: This caller m Steve Alexander left a message about a 1150 01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:46,120 Speaker 1: comedy special. About the comedy special. Let's hear it. Hi, Steve, 1151 01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:49,960 Speaker 1: this is Alexander calling from Toronto, Ontario, Canada. My question 1152 01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,720 Speaker 1: is to you, sir. A few years ago, back in 1153 01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:55,479 Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, you're on an interview with Jimmy Kimmel thing 1154 01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:59,800 Speaker 1: that you were thinking about doing another comedy special, and 1155 01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,720 Speaker 1: a few weeks ago you also had earthquake guests who 1156 01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,439 Speaker 1: had just had his own Netflix special. So I'm gonna 1157 01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:08,200 Speaker 1: asking you, Steve, when are you going to do the special? 1158 01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:09,960 Speaker 1: When are you gonna come out with the special? Are 1159 01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:12,840 Speaker 1: you're gonna be working with Disney Plus or Hulu or 1160 01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:16,639 Speaker 1: Amazon Prime? I just want to know, because we need 1161 01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:20,200 Speaker 1: the funny again. Man. Family feud is amazing, Judge, Steve 1162 01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:23,880 Speaker 1: Harvey is great, but we need a Netflix special or 1163 01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:27,880 Speaker 1: at least your own HBO special or whatever special that 1164 01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:31,320 Speaker 1: you should be doing. That. That's it, Thank you well, 1165 01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:36,200 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Man. The thought is starting it mess 1166 01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:38,880 Speaker 1: around in my head. I will tell you that the 1167 01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:42,120 Speaker 1: special that I want to do will not be on 1168 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:47,040 Speaker 1: Disney that much. You can take Disney off the list 1169 01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 1: of where you can catch it in, not Disney plus 1170 01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:56,800 Speaker 1: Disney minus Disney's exclusive Disney to the third power. You 1171 01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:00,360 Speaker 1: can take me off Disney, Pasqua Eda anyway else Disney, 1172 01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:03,960 Speaker 1: because it's special I want to do will not be 1173 01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:09,600 Speaker 1: on Disney. I'm thinking, I don't know, man, you know, 1174 01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:13,400 Speaker 1: I think I gotta wait a little bit cause see 1175 01:13:13,800 --> 01:13:21,080 Speaker 1: the special I want to do, it's gonna be career ending. Yeah, really, 1176 01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:28,559 Speaker 1: I can't. No, it ain't the custing is the subject matter? 1177 01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:34,560 Speaker 1: Oh it's the second at Yeah, your career ending. So 1178 01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:36,880 Speaker 1: I pretty much need to career to be on the 1179 01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:39,559 Speaker 1: way out, you know, like if I'm doing my lap round, 1180 01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:43,200 Speaker 1: you know how you do your last city tool basketball player. 1181 01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:46,719 Speaker 1: If I'm doing my last lap the last contract series 1182 01:13:46,800 --> 01:13:49,519 Speaker 1: or something for TV, then I'll probably do it because 1183 01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:53,880 Speaker 1: it's gonna be career ending. They're gonna cancel everything I got. 1184 01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:58,759 Speaker 1: The special I want everyd they ain't. I don't have nothing. 1185 01:13:59,400 --> 01:14:03,719 Speaker 1: Now I won't even be allowed to fly normal what Yeah, 1186 01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:06,479 Speaker 1: all right, coming up, we'll have more of the Steve 1187 01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,000 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're 1188 01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:16,080 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Many major airlines 1189 01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:19,479 Speaker 1: switched to a mask optional policy, with some cheers from 1190 01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:24,440 Speaker 1: passengers when the changes were announced over loudspeakers from flight attendants. 1191 01:14:24,520 --> 01:14:28,519 Speaker 1: The Biden administration announced Tuesday evening that it will appeal 1192 01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:32,320 Speaker 1: a Florida federal judges ruling on Monday that avoided the 1193 01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:36,960 Speaker 1: federal mask mandate for planes and other public transportation if 1194 01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:40,559 Speaker 1: the CDC believes it's advisable to extend the mandate if 1195 01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:44,160 Speaker 1: necessary for public health. So the question is when you 1196 01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:47,400 Speaker 1: guys fly, we all traveled, are you going to wear 1197 01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:49,400 Speaker 1: your mask? Are you going to continue to wear your 1198 01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:55,840 Speaker 1: masky thirty yes, eight years? Is that a question? Of course? 1199 01:14:55,960 --> 01:15:01,240 Speaker 1: We are, Yes, absolutely, But a lot of people are 1200 01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:04,200 Speaker 1: not a lot of people I'm wearing. I've heard this 1201 01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:06,280 Speaker 1: one man say he wasn't gonna wear it because he 1202 01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:09,320 Speaker 1: didn't think they did much good anyway. So he was 1203 01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:17,160 Speaker 1: glad as ye would you say, Junior, And he's alist, yeah, 1204 01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:22,800 Speaker 1: I was like he said that I saw people that 1205 01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:25,400 Speaker 1: they had a video when they were taking their masks 1206 01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:27,080 Speaker 1: off on the plane and throwing them away. You know 1207 01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:31,120 Speaker 1: how the flight attendant walked down as they were throwing 1208 01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:33,720 Speaker 1: their masks away. I'm like, it seems like even if 1209 01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:35,600 Speaker 1: you didn't wear it in the airport, you'd want to 1210 01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:40,880 Speaker 1: wear it on the airplane. Yes, yeah, the flu everything else. 1211 01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:45,400 Speaker 1: Yeah about COVID that we've been nasty a long time? 1212 01:15:45,520 --> 01:15:51,400 Speaker 1: Ya we've been, yes, says the resident germaphobe. Yes, all right, 1213 01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:54,639 Speaker 1: all right, coming up with thirty three minutes after the hour, 1214 01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:56,920 Speaker 1: we'll play a round I would you rather right after 1215 01:15:57,040 --> 01:16:01,640 Speaker 1: this you're listening Steve Hardy running show time now for 1216 01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:04,720 Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Let's jump right into it. 1217 01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:09,479 Speaker 1: Would you rather give up social media or eat the 1218 01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:14,120 Speaker 1: same dinner for the rest of your life? To give 1219 01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:16,479 Speaker 1: up social media or eat the same dinner for the 1220 01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:18,800 Speaker 1: rest of your life till you'll give up social media? 1221 01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:22,599 Speaker 1: A heartbeat? Right now? Yeah, I don't give a damn. 1222 01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:30,200 Speaker 1: I'm not changing a meal. It doesn't sound like this 1223 01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:33,000 Speaker 1: is much about the meal, though. You're taking me on 1224 01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:37,080 Speaker 1: social media. Man, eat the same thing now, all right? 1225 01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:41,240 Speaker 1: Would you rather be married to someone stunning, I mean 1226 01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:45,519 Speaker 1: beautiful who doesn't think you're attractive? Or would you rather 1227 01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:53,960 Speaker 1: be married to someone ugly who thinks you're gorgeous. Tommy Man, 1228 01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:59,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, woman, I ain't gonna lie to I'm frona 1229 01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:04,400 Speaker 1: love hood of death. Yeah, because you got to have 1230 01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:10,320 Speaker 1: somebody go along with this lie you've been telling. I 1231 01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:15,240 Speaker 1: knew it right in hell. Yeah, I'm still sexy, you know, 1232 01:17:16,080 --> 01:17:18,880 Speaker 1: keep telling yourself that that's why you're gonna have to 1233 01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:24,040 Speaker 1: marry her little ugly ass. No, no, no, no, exactly right. 1234 01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:27,920 Speaker 1: I waiting no time to see it right there, I'm 1235 01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:30,960 Speaker 1: I'm I'm in it. I'm married to a stunning woman 1236 01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:34,320 Speaker 1: who no good hair. Well I ain't good looking. I'm 1237 01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:39,080 Speaker 1: already in that marriage. Whatever. Yeah, I'm standing next to 1238 01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:41,800 Speaker 1: I stand next to Margria all the time, and no, 1239 01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:48,280 Speaker 1: I look like I don't be long then I'll be going. Man, 1240 01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:50,400 Speaker 1: you need to pick it up. Hell. I had to 1241 01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:52,400 Speaker 1: go get a stylist and everything so I could take 1242 01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:55,479 Speaker 1: some pictures next to it. Look like I'm some damn body. 1243 01:17:56,320 --> 01:17:59,120 Speaker 1: I'm already in that now. All right, you want to 1244 01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:02,280 Speaker 1: be married to suck someone stunning who doesn't think you're attractive? 1245 01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:05,120 Speaker 1: What about your junior? I went up. I'm telling you 1246 01:18:05,240 --> 01:18:06,960 Speaker 1: right now, I'm in a relationship like that, and now 1247 01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:10,000 Speaker 1: I went up. I can't, man, I can't be married 1248 01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:11,920 Speaker 1: to somebody to think I'll gorgeous and I know I 1249 01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 1: ain't lie to myself. Damn, Tommy, we look just like you. No, no, 1250 01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:28,200 Speaker 1: you denial man, You're Tommy. Ain't no body told you 1251 01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:31,000 Speaker 1: you was fine. Let's put that on the phone line. 1252 01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:34,040 Speaker 1: Ain't seven seven twenty ninety. Leave us that on the voice. Man, 1253 01:18:34,400 --> 01:18:38,800 Speaker 1: call us and tell us if you think Tommy fine, yeah, 1254 01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:42,360 Speaker 1: or call us if Tommy need to get his ass 1255 01:18:42,520 --> 01:18:48,240 Speaker 1: over here with me and Junie go ahead. Refused to 1256 01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:51,280 Speaker 1: just be ugly with y'all. Man, you can't it ain't 1257 01:18:51,760 --> 01:18:57,640 Speaker 1: just ain't jose choice the last time somebody told you 1258 01:18:57,840 --> 01:19:01,240 Speaker 1: your ass was fine? I'm not be fine, but I'm 1259 01:19:01,280 --> 01:19:11,360 Speaker 1: not ugly. Stop saying all right? That's today? Rounded would 1260 01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:13,640 Speaker 1: you rather coming up at forty nine? I'd rather not 1261 01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:24,120 Speaker 1: be today? Closing remarks right after this. You're listening all 1262 01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:26,920 Speaker 1: right here? We are, guys, our last break of the day, 1263 01:19:27,680 --> 01:19:29,880 Speaker 1: and we want to say thank you to our special guest, 1264 01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:33,240 Speaker 1: DJ Envy from the Breakfast Club. Please make sure you 1265 01:19:33,320 --> 01:19:36,320 Speaker 1: pick up his new book. It's called Real Life, Real Love, Life, 1266 01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:39,040 Speaker 1: Lessons and Joy Pain and the magic that holds us 1267 01:19:39,120 --> 01:19:45,639 Speaker 1: together available online and anywhere books are sold for show. 1268 01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:50,720 Speaker 1: We're back with Yeah, we have, we have. I just 1269 01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:54,040 Speaker 1: want everybody to know that we're having trouble with the cast. 1270 01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:57,200 Speaker 1: Remember here at the show, and it's starting to be 1271 01:19:57,240 --> 01:20:00,720 Speaker 1: a little bit of it's getting hard. They're harder to 1272 01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:03,400 Speaker 1: deal with. You know, We've got some beautiful women on 1273 01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:09,600 Speaker 1: this show that the smart, intelligent, attractive, got families, you 1274 01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:13,040 Speaker 1: know what I mean, And we got some good looking 1275 01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:17,519 Speaker 1: you know, man, we really don't talk me. We really don't, 1276 01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:20,280 Speaker 1: and we really don't. That's that's part, that's part of 1277 01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:22,439 Speaker 1: the major part of the problem that we have because 1278 01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:25,960 Speaker 1: two of two of us seem to understand exactly where 1279 01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:30,400 Speaker 1: we are. There's one of us and and very delusional 1280 01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:37,880 Speaker 1: actually thinks he's sexy and gorgeous and fine and all 1281 01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:41,040 Speaker 1: this head. I don't know what I mean. Man. I 1282 01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:43,519 Speaker 1: take my hat off to your parents because obviously they've 1283 01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:46,400 Speaker 1: something steal something in you that's got you thinking something 1284 01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:52,679 Speaker 1: that ain't can't possibly be true and fact, go ahead, ladies, 1285 01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:56,920 Speaker 1: are are we ugly? No no, no, no, we're talking 1286 01:20:56,920 --> 01:21:03,599 Speaker 1: about you clearly her ugly. I don't and that's as 1287 01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:05,120 Speaker 1: far as she willing to go with the state. But 1288 01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:13,599 Speaker 1: answer the question. Let's just answer the questions. That ain't 1289 01:21:13,640 --> 01:21:17,800 Speaker 1: what we're talking about. What are we talking about? Is 1290 01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:30,519 Speaker 1: a good Tommy Fine? That is the question, Tom's nephew, 1291 01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:37,639 Speaker 1: Tommy Fine. What are you choking? Why? Why is Monica 1292 01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:43,759 Speaker 1: pressing her mute button three and four times? That's the question? 1293 01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:51,840 Speaker 1: Does anybody can answer? It's Tommy fine? All right? I 1294 01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:56,479 Speaker 1: think this show is full of good looking people, attractive people. 1295 01:21:58,200 --> 01:22:03,040 Speaker 1: We're a good looking show. Seven seven when nasty, I 1296 01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:05,400 Speaker 1: take her from the people, my spirit of the people. 1297 01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:11,800 Speaker 1: If you think Tommy is fine ugly, just tell me. 1298 01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:17,000 Speaker 1: I mean maybe I told you that. I tell you 1299 01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:20,920 Speaker 1: that twice some weeks. You heard it the whole time 1300 01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:24,080 Speaker 1: he was growing up. He was a cute little boy. 1301 01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:29,360 Speaker 1: What Shelley, You didn't grow up with him, but even 1302 01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:34,439 Speaker 1: strange looking his entire life. I was riding down in 1303 01:22:34,479 --> 01:22:37,720 Speaker 1: the street and that little girl named Shalinda that you like, 1304 01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:41,759 Speaker 1: and you ride your back bying wave out a little Shelinda, 1305 01:22:41,840 --> 01:22:46,720 Speaker 1: go hey loo last Tommy, And that's how she yeah 1306 01:22:46,840 --> 01:22:51,000 Speaker 1: every time, because he thought he was cute. Hey, baby 1307 01:22:51,080 --> 01:22:54,679 Speaker 1: girl with your ugly ass. By Tommy. You know, every 1308 01:22:54,800 --> 01:22:58,920 Speaker 1: time she made sure she interjected the adjective to keep 1309 01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:01,920 Speaker 1: him in his plate. But that was years ago. That 1310 01:23:02,200 --> 01:23:04,920 Speaker 1: were talking a decade ago. I have I have you, 1311 01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:09,599 Speaker 1: I have evolved now evolved like you're a damn monkey 1312 01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:13,280 Speaker 1: or something. The hell you mean you evolved like you're 1313 01:23:13,320 --> 01:23:19,200 Speaker 1: the dog in theory of evolution or something, Tommy, ugly babies, 1314 01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:27,280 Speaker 1: it's gonna be ugly people. That's I wasn't an ugly baby. Okay, 1315 01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:31,599 Speaker 1: we didn't know. You didn't hear none of the stuff 1316 01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:37,080 Speaker 1: were you were saying about you because he was swing. 1317 01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:39,719 Speaker 1: He was wrapped up and haven't made out of English trying, 1318 01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:43,559 Speaker 1: you know, it was it was like it was more 1319 01:23:43,640 --> 01:23:47,400 Speaker 1: like you know, stuff like that, you know, like what 1320 01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:50,840 Speaker 1: was that barto? Oh? You know like you know when 1321 01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:55,360 Speaker 1: you was taking the church, were taking the church, you know, 1322 01:23:55,560 --> 01:23:58,080 Speaker 1: unfolded blanket, you know, because you keep the baby covering, 1323 01:23:58,280 --> 01:24:01,760 Speaker 1: face covering and hawking. We get outside it open it 1324 01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:05,719 Speaker 1: up in church and you hear stuff like my MoMA 1325 01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:08,479 Speaker 1: ain't never told me nothing about this. Here, I'm telling 1326 01:24:08,520 --> 01:24:11,280 Speaker 1: you your mom wasn't gonna say nothing. She want hold 1327 01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:16,560 Speaker 1: you startled, startled a whistle because I know for a 1328 01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:21,280 Speaker 1: fact I heard this a lot. They jump. Yeah, I 1329 01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:29,439 Speaker 1: startled people. Yeah yeah, I like from s sister ferguson 1330 01:24:29,520 --> 01:24:37,040 Speaker 1: this one. I like like breath away, like yeah wow. 1331 01:24:39,200 --> 01:24:44,840 Speaker 1: But Steve, you preach and thinking, you know highly, you know, 1332 01:24:45,320 --> 01:24:48,760 Speaker 1: thinking good thoughts about yourself and things like that, being positive. 1333 01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:52,880 Speaker 1: So that's all Tommy's doing. Now she's trying. He's trying. 1334 01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:57,280 Speaker 1: That's what he's talking. I mean, this is new to 1335 01:24:57,400 --> 01:24:59,680 Speaker 1: me that I'm ugly. I'm si y'all. This is really new. 1336 01:25:01,120 --> 01:25:06,320 Speaker 1: Never that's it. After fifty five years, this is new. 1337 01:25:08,080 --> 01:25:15,320 Speaker 1: This is have you been listening to? Tommy has misunderstood 1338 01:25:15,360 --> 01:25:20,880 Speaker 1: them sounds. He thought they was compliment. That is not 1339 01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:28,000 Speaker 1: a compliment. That ain't a compliment. Lord ain't doing it. 1340 01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:35,280 Speaker 1: This bo right here ugly cool for unattractive. But we 1341 01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:37,840 Speaker 1: just three ugly men on this show. That's what we're 1342 01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:42,559 Speaker 1: th Sooner you come to that at the bet off 1343 01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:45,479 Speaker 1: will be Hey, y'all, have a great day, you too, 1344 01:25:45,560 --> 01:25:49,479 Speaker 1: uglass tomic Hey, listen, y'all, don't forget talk to God. 1345 01:25:49,560 --> 01:26:01,320 Speaker 1: He'd love to hear from you today. For all Steve 1346 01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:05,040 Speaker 1: Harvey contests No purchase necessary, void where prohibited Participants must 1347 01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:08,240 Speaker 1: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless 1348 01:26:08,280 --> 01:26:12,720 Speaker 1: otherwise stated. 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