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Speaker 2: which you may be crashing with me in the crash

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Speaker 2: pad because I didn't know we had one, but now

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Speaker 2: I want to crash you in my own crash pad,

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Speaker 2: I'm very interested in that. But yeah, a shanty low Cai,

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Speaker 2: Maya and Lloyd at Winterrest Arena on June nineteenth. Everybody

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Speaker 2: can buy tickets to ticketmaster dot com for that. I

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Speaker 2: had a direction I wanted to go. I always I

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Speaker 2: always start these things knowing the direction that I want

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Speaker 2: to go, and I may have absolutely forgotten the direction

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Speaker 2: I wanted to go. That happens sometimes. Pick a topic, go,

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Speaker 2: let's talk about it, Kiki. Go pick a topic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you your health?

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Speaker 4: Yeah you that we need to get checked out.

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Speaker 3: What about my health?

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Speaker 4: You aren't feeling well?

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Speaker 2: And are you? Like?

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Speaker 3: Are you? Are you mentally present?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: Are you?

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Speaker 2: Are you?

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Speaker 1: Are you?

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Speaker 2: I look at you, I go pick a topic and

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Speaker 2: you look at me like, oh, I have to talk.

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Speaker 4: You told me to pick a topic. The topic is

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Speaker 4: your healthy, my health? My health is to get you

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Speaker 4: to an er right now.

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Speaker 2: You just don't want to work today, you don't want

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Speaker 2: to go home, And I don't blame you, but I

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Speaker 2: think this is better than it's been. Yeah, okay, this

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Speaker 2: is better than it's been. Yes, But I mean, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I'm trying to take I think its salaries.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: We traveled last week. I don't know, it didn't get

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Speaker 2: any better. I was out there yesterday. I tried to

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Speaker 2: get out of running yesterday. Trainer Gideon was like, we

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Speaker 2: were not so it was just me running down the

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Speaker 2: lake front, you know, going south over there by the

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Speaker 2: museum and whatever, and just snot running down my face.

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Speaker 2: He didn't care. He doesn't care. He was yelling at

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Speaker 2: me at one point, for all these tourists. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: don't you know I'm a public figure, don't embarrass me.

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Speaker 3: No, he doesn't care.

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Speaker 5: He did.

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Speaker 3: No excuses from this man.

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Speaker 4: It's so sad.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, he's trying to toughen me up.

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Speaker 6: I guess I do need you to go run and

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Speaker 6: buy us a boat so we could get out on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not I'm not gonna you know. You know,

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Speaker 2: I don't want I don't need a boat. I don't

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Speaker 2: don't need a boat. If you want a boat, we

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Speaker 2: can rent a boat. Okay, but then you got to

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Speaker 2: drop me off like halfway through, because I don't want

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Speaker 2: to be out there all day. Come on, you know,

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Speaker 2: My issue with the boat is that you go out there,

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Speaker 3: You know. It's like you show up there, you know.

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Speaker 2: At ten o'clock in the morning when you're coolers, and

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Speaker 2: And we're out there until ten o'clock at night watching

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Speaker 2: final I mean, I'm I've already slept, taken two naps,

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Speaker 2: you know, I've had to jump into. The Other thing

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Speaker 2: is I'm not falling for this thing. You know, you

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Speaker 2: go on a boat with people, right and if there's

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Speaker 2: a stop and everybody jumps in at the same time.

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Speaker 2: Everybody is peeing on each other's mine. It's not fine.

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Speaker 1: Didn't take me down.

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Speaker 3: It's not fine.

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Speaker 1: I need you to get on with a bathroom, for sure.

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Speaker 4: You can't Irish exit a boat.

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Speaker 2: No, have you seen that boat that Mark Zuckerberg has

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Speaker 2: I get that boat? Look up Mark Zuckerberg. Okay, well

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Speaker 2: no I won't because I don't have eighty billion dollars

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Speaker 2: or whatever. But no, it's like a four hundred million

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Speaker 2: dollar boat or something. It's insane. I don't know what

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Speaker 2: I saw the other day. Like forty eight people can

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Speaker 2: be on it. People could be on that boat. I've

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Speaker 2: never even seen or met and never will.

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Speaker 6: Didn't he get that after Bezos got his Like aren't

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Speaker 6: they doing like a boat swinging contest?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because every rich guy, every rich guy's got to

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Speaker 2: have a boat or a sports team or both.

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Speaker 4: I don't like his boat. Well, I mean, you look

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Speaker 4: at Besis.

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Speaker 2: I think it would. I think it would work for me.

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Speaker 2: It's a ship. It's not a boat. It's a ship.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, it's.

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Speaker 3: A cruise ship.

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Speaker 1: So sorry, starboard.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's like eighty feet I mean it's like, I

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Speaker 2: think it's more than that, like two hundred feet long.

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Speaker 4: I like Bezels three hundred million dollars there.

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Speaker 3: You know, three hundred million dollars.

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Speaker 6: Wow, Bezos was four hundred million, and it's sexier.

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Speaker 4: So that's Robbie.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I was going to buy Zuckerberg's boat, but Kayan doesn't

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Speaker 2: like it, so I guess I'll scrap that idea. I

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Speaker 2: just saved three hundred million, thanks Kaylen. No, I'm not

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Speaker 2: buying a boat. We can rent a boat. I feel

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Speaker 2: like renting a boat is the financially responsible move, because

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Speaker 2: otherwise you if you've got a boat sitting out there,

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Speaker 2: then you got to run there and be on the

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Speaker 2: boat every weekend. No, no, I'm not going to be

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Speaker 2: the gray haired guy with a bunch of twenty year

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Speaker 2: olds on my boat. Everybody can see right through that.

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Speaker 2: Everybody knows why they're there, and it's not for the

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Speaker 1: We're going to party, bring the gummies.

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Speaker 4: We won't judge you.

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Speaker 3: No, no, yes, you will. I would judge me, Yes,

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Speaker 3: I would. I would judge.

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Speaker 1: We're not a you're a land guy.

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Speaker 3: I'm a land guy. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe air, but maybe a nice couple.

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Speaker 2: Hours on the boat, you know, just a couple of

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Speaker 2: little hours, and then I'm good.

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Speaker 3: I'm all set.

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Speaker 2: And then bring me back to the dock and I'll

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Speaker 2: use the land bathroom and go eat some food on land,

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Speaker 2: and it will be great. I had my nice little time,

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Speaker 2: went on the boat, got nice little tan, you know,

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Speaker 2: I had a cocktail something, and then bring me back.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be with the same people for

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Speaker 2: twelve hours peeing on each other.

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Speaker 3: That's what the boat is scene.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Wait, Jason, would you call Zuck and tell him

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Speaker 2: I don't want the boat anymore. I got it all right,

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Speaker 2: thank you, because Klein doesn't like it. It's not sexy enough.

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Speaker 2: Three hundred million dollars ships not sexy enough, So cancel

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Speaker 2: the purchase. Get on, get on eBay, and forget it.

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Speaker 2: It's the fread Show. The Fresh Show is on. Not

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Speaker 2: everybody heard my rant just a second ago about boats,

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Speaker 2: because Karen wants me to buy a boat, and I

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Speaker 2: am not going to buy a boat because I don't

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Speaker 2: want to be I mean, if it's my boat and I'm.

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Speaker 1: The captain, that's good, right, well.

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Speaker 2: Then, but I just don't think it would meet everyone's

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Speaker 2: expectations because for me, it's like, let's meet up around noon,

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Speaker 2: Let's go out there for a little while, a couple hours,

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Speaker 2: then we come back. We're going to hang out the dock.

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Speaker 2: You know, they got a little dock, bathrooms there or whatever.

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Speaker 2: That's my thing. I'm not trying to be most of

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Speaker 2: my friends. You want boats. It's an entire day affair.

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Speaker 2: I mean they're going from nine am until like eleven

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Speaker 2: o'clock at night.

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Speaker 3: Too much time trapped on a vessel.

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Speaker 1: That's too much.

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Speaker 6: Doesn't Captain Fred have a nice ring to it. It's

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Speaker 6: your boat. You make the rules.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 2: I'm not buying a boat. I don't need a boat.

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Speaker 2: I'll rent a boat when the boat is required. But

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Speaker 2: then somebody said to me, Fred, how does your boat

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Speaker 2: logic not transfer to long flights. Well, my thing about

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Speaker 2: flying long flights I do it all the time as

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Speaker 2: a pilot, is that I'm getting somewhere. There's a destination,

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Speaker 2: there's a purpose, there's a utility, correct, you know, like

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Speaker 2: I'm going.

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Speaker 3: I went.

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Speaker 2: At the end of a long flight, I arrive where

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to go. Yeah, as we're with the boat,

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Speaker 2: I come and leave from the same place, leave and

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Speaker 2: come from the same place we arrived twelve hours later,

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Speaker 2: right back where we started, except I'm covered in everyone's

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Speaker 2: year and from the boat.

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Speaker 6: You can leave and come do whatever you want and

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Speaker 6: I'll meet you at noon. I think that nine am

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Speaker 6: to eleven PM is nuts. I would never, not even

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Speaker 6: I would do that.

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Speaker 3: Which I don't know.

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Speaker 2: People do that a lot of people to an entire

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Speaker 2: day affair, and I'm not.

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Speaker 3: I'm not here for that.

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Speaker 6: No, we sleeping in, we get the booths started flowing.

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Speaker 6: You know, we maybe bring some food, you know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, Kiki, do you want to be on a

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Speaker 3: boat for nineteen hours?

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Speaker 7: I wouldn't mind it, as long as there's good food,

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Speaker 7: good music, and a working bathroom.

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Speaker 4: You know this panophone charger?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Absolutely? And Wi Fi? Yeah, yeah, I gotta have good WiFi.

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Speaker 2: Well, where do you think we're going on the boat?

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Speaker 2: I mean the Wi Fi's in the air like it's

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Speaker 2: the sky like.

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Speaker 7: Oh no, I've been on a cruise ship and I

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Speaker 7: buy that Wi Fi's because you're.

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Speaker 3: In the middle of the ocean. This is lake. I'm

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Speaker 3: not going out in the middle of the ocean.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be at that for nineteen.

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Speaker 2: Phoenix, the cat out in the middle of the Pacific.

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying to do that a guy on TikTok

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: How, you just buy the boat and give us the keys.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you know what I'm saying now on this boat,

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Speaker 7: it's just not you're not passing the vibe check for

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Speaker 1: Jason and I will do a casting call. He'll put

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Speaker 2: Market people talk about those guys negatively.

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Speaker 2: I will rent a nice boat for everyone, and then

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Speaker 6: You know Paulina is gonna miss when we take off,

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be all that we have helicopters and dinghy's. Well,

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Speaker 6: I gotta heark y'all left me out there because of

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Speaker 2: Possible you set yourself up, but maybe it's possible. Okay,

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Speaker 6: But there is something that I did in my past

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Speaker 3: And what do you do?

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Speaker 6: It's something and I know it's not I might be

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Speaker 6: I always fantasized about coming clean about this because I

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Speaker 6: I don't even remember that, my gosh, Like I have

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Speaker 6: I'm so sorry and I'm a mad person. She's like,

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Speaker 6: I truly don't remember that happening, but like, thanks for

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds like me. I have to stop myself

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Speaker 3: So I called myself out.

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Speaker 2: It's like, well, I'm sorry I said that that way,

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Speaker 2: No, No, if you didn't think of it, then it

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Speaker 6: Up, but like literally I've thought about it every day

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter how maybe the other person didn't care.

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Speaker 2: I feel like every friendship, relationship, whatever, you've probably done

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Speaker 6: Yeah what I mean, Like I could cry right now,

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Speaker 1: It was worth it exactly. That is like my deep

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Speaker 6: And I know I realized it's not a lot to

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Speaker 2: Wow, Well you know I was on the Mell Robin's

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Speaker 3: Did you finish it almost you didn't read it.

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Speaker 1: It was nice.

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Speaker 2: You can't say I read a book if you listen

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Speaker 2: But anyway, she said something about this, and I'm paraphrasing,

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Speaker 2: But if a grown up is upset with you about

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 3: That doesn't mean that you shouldn't.

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Speaker 2: You can't like say I shouldn't Maybe you know why

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Speaker 2: maybe you shouldn't apologize. But if you're unsure why another

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Speaker 2: and they haven't communicated that towards you. It's very nice

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Speaker 2: It's not even that your apology, is it. It's not

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Speaker 2: your issue is, so I can apologize, or I can

444
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Speaker 2: rectify that whatever the thing is.

445
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Speaker 1: Otherwise it's not fair.

446
00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,200
Speaker 2: We all know that thing where we've called the person

447
00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,320
Speaker 2: and gone, oh my god, I'm so sorry I did

448
00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:04,120
Speaker 2: this thing and they're.

449
00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,320
Speaker 3: Like, you did right, I didn't even know you did that.

450
00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:11,199
Speaker 2: You're like, ah, I mean I didn't you know. So

451
00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:13,639
Speaker 2: in this case, it's's, you know, a much more minor

452
00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:15,720
Speaker 2: example of like you held out of that for so

453
00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:17,800
Speaker 2: long and this person did not care.

454
00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe she did at the time, but yeah, it

455
00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:22,639
Speaker 6: was she was like girl past the bread.

456
00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,200
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. I thought we'd embrace,

457
00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:26,879
Speaker 1: and she'd be like, I've been wondering, I.

458
00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:29,600
Speaker 2: Think the thing where we beat ourselves up for something

459
00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,440
Speaker 2: and it turns out that the thing that we thought

460
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Speaker 2: isn't even the thing.

461
00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:35,240
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh oh, but I kind of

462
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Speaker 3: agree with that.

463
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Speaker 2: It's it's not to say that if you do something

464
00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:39,159
Speaker 2: bad that you're not accountable for it, but like if

465
00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:40,800
Speaker 2: you're not, if someone's not talking to you, you don't know

466
00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,280
Speaker 2: why and they won't talk about it, it's like that's

467
00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,160
Speaker 2: kind of on you then, right, we have.

468
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Speaker 1: To be able to communicate, like, how do.

469
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Speaker 2: You expect an apology from me? If you don't even

470
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Speaker 2: tell me which thing it is. I supposedly did.

471
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Speaker 1: That changed my life, that mentality I did. Like my

472
00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:55,119
Speaker 1: husband is the king of that. He won't tell me

473
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Speaker 1: what the issue is.

474
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Speaker 4: And I've just started just living my life. And I said, okay,

475
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Speaker 4: will you figure it out.

476
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Speaker 1: I'm going to go for a walk. I'm a runner now.

477
00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:02,239
Speaker 1: Because guys are wondering, I'm gonna go for a run

478
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Speaker 1: and get a coffee. Live my life.

479
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Speaker 2: Well, there we go. She read a book, but she's

480
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Speaker 2: listening to it. She's a runner, but she walks.

481
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Speaker 1: Well, I run in, I ran a track star, I

482
00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:11,080
Speaker 1: got a baby. It's hard.

483
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Speaker 2: It's hard to run the bb you know, I actually

484
00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:15,840
Speaker 2: I believe that it is the hardest.

485
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Speaker 3: I see people with big, big boobs running too.

486
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Speaker 2: I saw a girl with big boobs running yesterday, and

487
00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,760
Speaker 2: you know, obviously I noticed her right away, but I

488
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Speaker 2: actually thought I was like that, no cause because you

489
00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,679
Speaker 2: were walking, so no, you were this person was actually running.

490
00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,879
Speaker 2: But but like one bob was going one way and

491
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Speaker 2: the other was going the other.

492
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Speaker 3: These were big boobs and it's like I'm just gonning.

493
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Speaker 1: I could see his hand motion of the boobs going.

494
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Speaker 2: Really, I actually really legitimately fell for this person because

495
00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:47,199
Speaker 2: I'm fighting for my life out there. Yeah, you know,

496
00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:51,320
Speaker 2: six and forty pounds man, like just trotting around wanting

497
00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,359
Speaker 2: to die, right with a very good looking fit black

498
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Speaker 2: man going.

499
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Speaker 3: Run run once you want two one two.

500
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Speaker 2: He's like trying to get my cadence, And I'm like, dah,

501
00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:01,520
Speaker 2: but I see this, and I'm like, that has to

502
00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,920
Speaker 2: be painful like that, that would really I'm surprised she

503
00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:05,399
Speaker 2: didn't like it.

504
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:07,119
Speaker 3: Thrown it to the side.

505
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well she sounds like she needs a better

506
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:09,760
Speaker 1: sports brow.

507
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Speaker 6: But yeah, if you don't know the pain of running

508
00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:13,359
Speaker 6: down the stairs with no bron or something, you know,

509
00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:14,320
Speaker 6: I'll never know that.

510
00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:14,960
Speaker 1: You'll never know.

511
00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:19,440
Speaker 3: I know, I get it. Yeah, I get it.

512
00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:23,320
Speaker 2: But I realized that your your situation was not all

513
00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,560
Speaker 2: that deep. But I do think the same rules apply,

514
00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,320
Speaker 2: which is which is that I think we tend to

515
00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:30,040
Speaker 2: beat ourselves up for stuff. And it's like, hey, if

516
00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:32,439
Speaker 2: you want apology, if you if you want to make

517
00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,200
Speaker 2: some right, if there's a problem, then tell me what

518
00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:34,440
Speaker 2: it is.

519
00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 3: Otherwise I'm not good. I can't harbor on it. I can't.

520
00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:40,080
Speaker 2: I can't, I can't dwell on it because I don't

521
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,520
Speaker 2: know what I'm because that's the worst thing when you

522
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,680
Speaker 2: go and apologize for a bunch of stuff and it's like, oh,

523
00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:45,960
Speaker 2: I didn't know you did any of that. Oh no,

524
00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,240
Speaker 2: I wasn't even mad, or I was mad about something

525
00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:51,040
Speaker 2: totally different, and you're like, oh god, well great now

526
00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:54,199
Speaker 2: I'm a total peace right. I'm even worse now than

527
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:57,400
Speaker 2: I thought. I was waiting by the phone. You've got

528
00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 2: to hear this. Kaky doesn't remember doing it, even though

529
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:06,000
Speaker 2: you didn't twenty five minutes ago. But it's next fread show.

530
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:12,480
Speaker 2: Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Honor,

531
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,000
Speaker 2: good morning, welcome to the program.

532
00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,200
Speaker 3: How are you? I'm okay, how are you guys? Good morning?

533
00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:16,880
Speaker 3: Do it all right?

534
00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:18,960
Speaker 2: We're trying to figure out what's going on with this

535
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 2: woman Zoe. We got to know everything though.

536
00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:22,160
Speaker 3: How did you meet?

537
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,879
Speaker 2: Tell us about any dates you've been on, and then

538
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,680
Speaker 2: where things are now? Yeah, so we met at Amar.

539
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,440
Speaker 2: She let me buy her a couple of drinks that night,

540
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,120
Speaker 2: and she even gave me your number.

541
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Speaker 3: The next day. I asked him she wanted to go

542
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Speaker 3: to dinner? She said yes, But once we.

543
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Speaker 8: Got to the restaurant, she kind of it kind of

544
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Speaker 8: changed all of a sudden, and she was like, oh,

545
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Speaker 8: I got to be up early, so I can't really

546
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Speaker 8: stay long. And then you know, we kind of had

547
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Speaker 8: just an appetizer, one drink and we lost. Okay, so

548
00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:00,639
Speaker 8: you know, it did it seemed too weird, but I

549
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,920
Speaker 8: believed it until you know, she kind of was a

550
00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 8: little short after, you know, when we would text, and

551
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:10,320
Speaker 8: then she just stopped responding all together.

552
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 3: So I'm kind of like, what happened? Okay?

553
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 2: All right, Well, this is one of those rare occasions

554
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,920
Speaker 2: where you guys met in the wild, so because you know,

555
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 2: things can go wrong on the dating apps.

556
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 3: You know, we've heard it.

557
00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:23,360
Speaker 2: It's a tale so old as time, Pauline, and we've

558
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 2: heard there some people, you know, they meet in person

559
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 2: and they're not the person they said they were. They

560
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,480
Speaker 2: don't look the same, or you know, they act weird

561
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 2: or whatever. But you met in person and you pursued

562
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,960
Speaker 2: her in that way. And then so so going to

563
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Speaker 2: dinner for the second date, if you want to call

564
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,360
Speaker 2: it that her first actual date, I mean, it shouldn't

565
00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 2: have been much of a surprise to her because you

566
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 2: were a known quantity. She knows what she agreed to

567
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 2: because she met you.

568
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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean when we had a good conversation that

569
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Speaker 8: first night, you know, over a few drinks and probably

570
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 8: three hours worth of just talking.

571
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's strange them. So so you know, it's not

572
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 3: as though she learned something.

573
00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:58,159
Speaker 2: I guess she could have learned something, but it's not

574
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Speaker 2: as though when she met you she was instantly not

575
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 2: attracted to you for some reason or whatever else, because again,

576
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 2: she knew. But let's let's call this woman Zoe. You're

577
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 2: gonna be on the phone, Connor, at the same time.

578
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 2: We're gonna ask these questions on your reof and the

579
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 2: hope is that she's been busy or something's been going on,

580
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 2: and we can straighten this out and set you guys

581
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 2: up on sex.

582
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:19,360
Speaker 3: Third day, whatever you wanna call it, and we'll pay

583
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 3: for this, all right.

584
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 2: Trust me, You've got to hear part two of Waiting

585
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 2: by the Phone after Lola Young MESSI back in two

586
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 2: minutes on The Fred Show.

587
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:27,120
Speaker 3: Don't move.

588
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show on the radio and the iHeart

589
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,879
Speaker 2: app live at anytime. Search for The Fred Show on demand,

590
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 2: make us a pre set, Hey, Connor, all right, welcome back.

591
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 3: Let's call Zoe.

592
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 2: You guys met out at a bar, you approached her,

593
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,399
Speaker 2: you guys chatted for a while, asked her out, you

594
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 2: go on a date. You felt like she was kind

595
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 2: of rushed on the date for some reason, and then

596
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 2: you haven't heard from her since and you want to

597
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:49,120
Speaker 2: know why.

598
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, basically, Okay, Well, let's call her now. Good luck?

599
00:22:52,400 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: Connor? Hello Eli is Zoey. Yeah, hey Zoe, good morning.

600
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,

601
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 2: the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you

602
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now, and I

603
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 2: would need you our permission to continue.

604
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 3: With the call. He said, okay, if we chat for

605
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,959
Speaker 3: a second. Yeah, what what did I win by? Look

606
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 3: at that?

607
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 2: Look at the excitement? You know, let me see if

608
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 2: you're excited in about thirty seconds. But maybe you may

609
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 2: have won something. We'll see here. But we're calling on

610
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 2: behalf of a guy who reached out to us. His

611
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 2: name is Connor. Do you remember meeting Connor at a

612
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 2: bar and he guys went out. I hope you remember that.

613
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 5: I remember you do, all right?

614
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 2: Well, he reached out to us, and he had a

615
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 2: lot of nice things to say about you that he

616
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: liked you and was excited to meet you, and said

617
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Speaker 2: he approached you and a bar asked you out, got

618
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 2: your number, the whole thing, you guys did go out.

619
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Speaker 2: He admits that the date seemed a little rushed and

620
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 2: that he can't get a hold of you. Cents, then,

621
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: so can you tell us what happened? Because he's, you know,

622
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,439
Speaker 2: he feels like he's being ghosted and smugging him.

623
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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I guess I'll just like start from

624
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 5: the beginning.

625
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 2: I mean, we don't we know how you met, and

626
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 2: we know that you went on a date, but yeah,

627
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 2: what happened on the date? I mean what it sounds

628
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 2: like there's a story here that we don't know, which

629
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: is usually the case.

630
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Speaker 5: Okay, I mean honestly, he offered to pick me up,

631
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 5: and like, since I already met him in person, I

632
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,479
Speaker 5: was like, okay, which normally you know you wouldn't do that, right,

633
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 5: But when I first got into his car, he's brushing

634
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 5: his teeth with a water about all, which I was like, Okay,

635
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 5: that's like.

636
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 2: Weird, But I mean that's the weird thing to do.

637
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 2: You pick somebody up when you're actively brushing your teeth.

638
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 2: In the car at least he wanted to. He was

639
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 2: concerned about his dental hygiene, so that I mean, I

640
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 2: might do that before I arrived, but okay, sure, right,

641
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 2: And so.

642
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Speaker 5: You're like, okay, I guess, like I appreciate that you

643
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 5: care about your breath. But he got some water on

644
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 5: his shirt and he was like, oh no, I'm going

645
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 5: to just grab a fresh shirt in my trunk. And

646
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 5: when I like turned around, I realized, like the backseat

647
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 5: is packed to the brim with stuff, and I was like, oh,

648
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure he's living out of his car. Oh

649
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 5: oh yeah, And like I'm already with him. I'm in

650
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 5: his car. I'm kind of trapped, and I feel like

651
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 5: I have to go on the date. But immediately I'm

652
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 5: like I have to just like plan make it, like

653
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 5: like I'm so sorry that you know this is happening

654
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 5: to him, but like I just that's not.

655
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 2: I can't well exactly, it's that's the case. He's not

656
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 2: ashamed of it because he picked you up. I mean,

657
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 2: he could have hidden it. I guess did he pay

658
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:32,880
Speaker 2: for the drinks when you guys went out the first

659
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 2: time he did? Yeah, And then I guess you guys

660
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 2: got through a drink or two or whatever on this date.

661
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Speaker 2: Did you did he pay for those?

662
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 1: He did?

663
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 3: So he's not broke. I guess.

664
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 2: I mean let me. I forgot to mention. I'm so forgetful.

665
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 2: Connor is here, so Connor, maybe you can tell us.

666
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,880
Speaker 2: Are you living in your car? You know what's going

667
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 2: on with that? I mean, I wouldn't say living in

668
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 2: my car. I do have a lot of right stuff

669
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: in my car. I'm kind of in between places right now,

670
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 2: but it's not like she has to worry about that.

671
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 2: I mean, so you are living in your car because

672
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 2: you said I wouldn't say that, but you're in between

673
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: so you don't have a place, so you are. I

674
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 2: mean it's everything okay, yeah.

675
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 8: I mean it's just rent is high right now, and

676
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 8: I'm kind of juggling from one friend's house to another.

677
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 8: I don't sleep in my car or outside anywhere. I

678
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 8: do have, you know, places to go very night. It's

679
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:26,919
Speaker 8: just most of my stuff is in my car.

680
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 2: And you knew that she was going to see this,

681
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 2: I mean, because you offered to pick her up. So

682
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,719
Speaker 2: I guess this isn't something that you see as a concern.

683
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 8: Well, I mean I don't think it's I'm like, in

684
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 8: the process of getting a place, background checks and stuff

685
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 8: like that have.

686
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 3: To happen, and it takes a minute. Okay, But it's

687
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 3: not like I'm messy. It's not like my car is

688
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 3: full of trash and stuff. It's just I have some

689
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 3: of my clothes and stuff in there. I see.

690
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 2: Now do you think do you think that's a good

691
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 2: time to be dating? I mean, I just I wonder

692
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 2: because what was going to happen if things went really well?

693
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 2: I mean, do you go back to her place you

694
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 2: kind of move some of your stuff in. I mean,

695
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 2: I'm just asking here. I'm not I'm not judging and

696
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 2: making fun of you. I just kind of wonder, like,

697
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 2: what was the endgame I was.

698
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 8: Gonna if I went there. I probably would have recommended

699
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 8: us going to her place. I would have said, my roommate,

700
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 8: I don't know. I would have made something up. But

701
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 8: I usually don't end up doing that kind of stuff

702
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 8: on the first.

703
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 2: Day that anyway, I say, okay, Kiki, where you're not

704
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 2: in your head, you're making noises.

705
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 7: What they today when you are on somebody else's couch.

706
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 7: It just blows my mind, like I don't understand people

707
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 7: who are in between places. But you got money to

708
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 7: go on a date. No, you need to You need

709
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 7: to be settled in a house and a home with

710
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 7: an address. You're a hobosexual. That's what they called.

711
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 2: Sex.

712
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: That's when you get someone for their place.

713
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 4: And that's not like he tried to go back to

714
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 4: her house.

715
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 3: The brush comes in with him, and then.

716
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 1: That's a former.

717
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 3: If you don't have your own house.

718
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 2: That is an excellent point. This is exactly what Jason did,

719
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 2: except it wasn't. It wasn't a slow transition. Jason went

720
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 2: on one date and then he just moved in. You

721
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:19,719
Speaker 2: don't ask that's the problem.

722
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 3: You don't have to go back.

723
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 5: With him.

724
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this fairness, In all fairness, is

725
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 2: there any part of you that's hoping you hit it

726
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 2: off so well with someone that you can stay there

727
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 2: regularly and by yourself some time.

728
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 3: Is that is that part of your game?

729
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 5: No?

730
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 8: Absolutely not. First of all, I was at a bar

731
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 8: and like we made eyes from across the bar. It's

732
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 8: not like we met on hims like I'm trying to date.

733
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,719
Speaker 1: Drinks the bars bro exactly.

734
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 3: That's it. That could be a deposit on an apartment.

735
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 8: Right, it's not that I'm homeless and I don't have money.

736
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 9: I have money, I have a job. I'm just in

737
00:28:53,600 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 9: between placements. Okay, I never had hold on a second.

738
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to ask Zoe though, Joe, you've been

739
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: very quiet on it. So the guy, this is his story.

740
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 2: He's between places. He's not ashamed of it. He says

741
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 2: he has money, he has a job, he's going to

742
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 2: have a place soon. He says, you did like him

743
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: enough to, you know, talk to him for a couple

744
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 2: of hours and then go on a date with him.

745
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 2: So let's say that he's very I'm just going to

746
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 2: give him benefit of the douk kiki, and he's very

747
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 2: close to you know, settling down somewhere and establishing a

748
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 2: residence of some kind.

749
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 3: So what do you think give him another shot?

750
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 5: I'm going to respectfully decline.

751
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 3: I don't.

752
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 8: This guy's having a bit of a time interview because

753
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 8: you call me a homosexual.

754
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 3: Priority.

755
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: You need an address?

756
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 4: Where's your mail?

757
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 3: Thank you for your advice?

758
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: Like, who are you? I got an address?

759
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 3: A zip sure.

760
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 4: Mary with the gas in that.

761
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 8: Baby, I have money, Like you're so insensitive and like

762
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 8: no sympathy.

763
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 3: No empathy.

764
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: But let me see, you're not a drinks You sound great.

765
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 3: You sound great.

766
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 8: I'm here everybody waiting in line to get into your

767
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 8: your apartment and.

768
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 2: Try and be with you.

769
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 4: I got one too, That's how I know how to

770
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 4: spot of money.

771
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 3: I wish I would have. I'm gonna listening.

772
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 7: To that trust he's listening because he's driving around all day.

773
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're a terrible person. Different to say,

774
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 3: but you're a terrible person.

775
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 2: I love the roast of keeping this happening right now.

776
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: I think you deserve it. This guy's going through a

777
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 2: trade period.

778
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 4: My god, make sure you got your seat. You shouldn't

779
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 4: have said that.

780
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 3: Connor, Man, I'm on your side. Okay, Sorry, sorry, Kiky.

781
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 3: I notice you're on the radio or not on TV.

782
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 4: You got to check my resume.

783
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 8: But been on TV.

784
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: The last time you watched CVVA.

785
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: No, no, no, my god, he is own home temporarily.

786
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 2: I honestly, the roast is so entertaining. I kind of

787
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 2: want to leave and let it keep going for a while.

788
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: Connor, back and forth.

789
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 3: My only thing is it.

790
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,479
Speaker 2: May not be putting your best foot forward. That's all

791
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying. I'm not judging you know what is, but

792
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 2: no one else is judging you.

793
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 5: No, I'm not.

794
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 3: I'm one. I'm supporting you. I'm supporting you. I'm saying

795
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 3: I'm team you.

796
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: And this I just I think maybe you're not putting

797
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 2: yourself in the best position for success when you're not established.

798
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 2: I think that women, men, whomever. I think people in

799
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 2: a partner like to see a little bit of stability.

800
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 2: And I think that's what Zoe is saying. She was

801
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: very respectful. The only person here's being disrespectful is Mackitha.

802
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 8: And like I said, I really like Zoe's always great, okay,

803
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 8: and her position.

804
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 3: So how about this?

805
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, you want to get your priorities in order, friend,

806
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 4: that's all.

807
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: I want you to have a home.

808
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 3: That's it. That's the process. There you go, there you.

809
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: Like Kiki.

810
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 2: He's done, Bro, he's done, Bro, And that's okay. Look,

811
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 2: here's my advice to you, Connor. Maybe maybe when you

812
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 2: get everything settled, I don't know, try Zoe again and

813
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 2: maybe she'll be available. And Zoe, are you open to that?

814
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 2: Once he gets his you know, stuff in order here,

815
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 2: maybe he calls you maybe. Okay, No, she's not okay,

816
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 2: So she's not only what you what are you doing

817
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 2: to me? Man?

818
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 5: All right?

819
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 3: Not open to that.

820
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 2: Hey, it's all good, Connor, you know, I wish you

821
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 2: the best. She's not gonna be interested, but somebody will.

822
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 2: Everything's gonna be fine. Good luck to you. And please

823
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,479
Speaker 2: keep the car radio on us all the time we need,

824
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 2: but I'll try not to look for somebody so superficial.

825
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 3: Oh good lord, Okay, Man, all right, best of luck

826
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 3: to both of you. Yeah, thanks guys.

827
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 2: The Entertainment Report is up next and eight hundred and

828
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: fifty bucks showbiz, Kiky, you could win all that money

829
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: if you can beat her in five pop culture questions.

830
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 3: That's next as well, Fred Show. Oh no, Caitlin's Entertainment Report,

831
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 3: and he's on the Fread Show.

832
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 6: Singer Cassie Ventura took the stand in Ditty's trial yesterday,

833
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 6: and she says during their tenure relationship, he forced her

834
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 6: into disturbing freakoffs. That's what he allegedly called arranged sexual

835
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 6: encounters with others that he directed and filmed.

836
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 1: Fueled by drugs.

837
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,879
Speaker 6: They could last up to forty eight hours, and Cassie said, quote,

838
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 6: they became a job. She also described violent outbursts, controlling

839
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 6: behavior and emotional manipulation, right down to what she wore

840
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 6: and how she did her nails behind closed doors. Cassie

841
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 6: says she lived her life in fear of Ditty, who

842
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 6: allegedly abused her mentally and physically during their relationship that

843
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 6: began in two thousand and six and ended in twenty eighteen.

844
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: She says he controlled a lot of my life.

845
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 6: Prosecutor Emily Johnson showed Duras a still image from that

846
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 6: infamous video of Ditty beating her in a hotel hallway

847
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 6: in twenty sixteen. Cassie said that that incident came from

848
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 6: a freakoff at the hotel. I'll talk more about her

849
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 6: test Moony next hour, and also she is set to

850
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 6: take the stand again this morning, by the way, and

851
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 6: switching gears really quick to a story that made Jason

852
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 6: so happy that he screamed aloud with joy when he

853
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 6: saw it in the studio.

854
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: So I wanted to end on a happy note.

855
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 6: Hillary Duff is apparently working on new music after ten years.

856
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 1: I guess she was on a hiatus, so she retired.

857
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: Her pop was quite the hiatus right ten years.

858
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 6: Her husband Matthew Koma actually posted a photo of her

859
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 6: in the studio, and according to him, it's all on

860
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 6: Hillary to quote save millennial pop music.

861
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 1: Will she do it? I don't know.

862
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 6: You know, we got a lot of good pop music

863
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 6: right now. But Jason is very happy, and so that's

864
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 6: why I did this story. By the way, ketch up

865
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 6: on everything you missed. Just type the Fred Show on

866
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 6: demand into the free iHeartRadio app.

867
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 3: I'm going to say this.

868
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: The polarizing reaction on the on the text, yes, people

869
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 2: are either that was hysterical or Kiky's the worst person ever.

870
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 2: And I don't think you're the worst person ever. Let's

871
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 2: remember now for a second. Now done tof me. I, well,

872
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 2: no you do you do? No, No, I'm not saying

873
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,760
Speaker 2: that you don't. But let's just remember one important detail.

874
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 2: This guy was saying that he was choosing this life.

875
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 5: Right.

876
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 2: If people were going, oh my god, I guess you'd

877
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 2: never been down on your luck before, that's not what

878
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 2: I was here. I wasn't hearing a guy who didn't

879
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 2: have options. I'm hearing a guy who's choosing this. So

880
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 2: let's just be clear. You know, and and and he

881
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,240
Speaker 2: went for you too, so I'm.

882
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