1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: My roommate's twenty one female parents keep letting themselves into 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: my twenty one female apartment with the spare key my 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,239 Speaker 1: roommate gave them. Ugh, this is okay, I'd be home 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: to the craziest true stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and Riley. 5 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 1: Would you ever give your parents a spare key to 6 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 1: your apartment? 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: Heck ya, who's going to water myne plants? 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: So true? Okay, so best updater, says May fifth, twenty nineteen. Background. 9 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: My parents are family friends with my roommate's parents. I 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: was never really friends with my roommate in high school, 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: but got to know her from living with her in 12 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: a dorm. Recently, my parents got me an apartment and 13 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 1: pay rent every month, so pretty much roommates parents don't 14 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 1: pay oo what at all. Over the past few months, 15 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: when we come home from class, we have walked in 16 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: on one her mom doing our laundry almost every week okay. 17 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: Two her mom cooking food and cleaning for us okay. 18 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: Three her mom cleaning my effing closet and calling me 19 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: a slut for having tube tops and mini skirts okay. 20 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: For her mom and dad chilling at the apartment Friday 21 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: nights to make sure we don't party. I'm cool with 22 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: the top three too. I was like, I was like, okay, okay, 23 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: and then it was like cleaning my closet. I was 24 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 1: like okay, and then calling me a slut. 25 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, I'm okay with the top three. 26 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: If you're cooking for me, cleaning for me, and then 27 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 2: you call me a slot here and there, I'm cool, dad, 28 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:23,960 Speaker 2: you could call me that all day long. 29 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: The fourth one not too cool. But that's weird. That's weird. 30 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: Oh my god, they don't even pay the rent. That's 31 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: the thing, Like, this is not. 32 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: Time to help out. They're helping out by like cleaning 33 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 2: and doing laundry. 34 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: But also I think it would be really weird as 35 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: a first or do we know what year of college 36 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: they're in. Well, they're twenty one, so this is probably 37 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: their last year of college. Yeah, which is even weirder, 38 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: like their last year of college, or they're already they 39 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: might already be graduated. No, no, no, you should be college. 40 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: I think that'd be really weird if my parents were 41 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: like showing up my apartment at all times. 42 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I could see how it's different if my friend's 43 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 2: mom calls me a slut. Yeah, rather than my mom 44 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 2: calling your mom called me, I'd be like, that's funny. Yeah, 45 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 2: my mum called Jule slut. That's probably it is different. 46 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, it does have a different connotation. 47 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you're hilarious. Yeah. No, I would not 48 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: be okay with this or this situation. I'll he continues, 49 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: I just can't deal anymore. I told my roommate to 50 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: tell them to stop, but she said, I'm overreacting. Am 51 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: I overreacting? Should I tell my parents? Yes? You should 52 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: if it's their place. I feel like you have a 53 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: right to kick these other parents out. He says, I 54 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: have lost my mind. Literally, that's what they said. They 55 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: said it's a key sash. Oh yeah, help at it too. 56 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell my parents about it. I just didn't 57 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: want to ruin their friendship as they were close friends 58 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: for a long time. Question. 59 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 2: How are's parents going to take it? 60 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 3: Mmmm? 61 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,519 Speaker 1: I think the hopefully be on op side. I'm thinking 62 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: they're going to be on op side because they pay 63 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: for it, and they're gonna be like, hey, you shouldn't 64 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 1: be at our child's house all the time. 65 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 2: But they are close friends, so they probably have like 66 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 2: the same values. Yeah, I say morals. So they're probably 67 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 2: like okay, so what so what deal with it? 68 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? I would emphasize as op. 69 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, she's harassing, well not maybe not harassing, 70 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 2: but like she's calling me names, she's bullying me. 71 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 72 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: I think even if this is not what the parents do, 73 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: I think anyone who's not on the lease has to 74 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: be very self aware of how much time they're spending 75 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: at a department that's not theirs, you know, and has to. 76 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 2: Be they're not romantically involved. 77 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: I think even if they're romantically involved, I think you 78 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: have to be self aware about how much time you spend, 79 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: and you have to make sure that everyone's on board 80 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: with how much time you're spending there. You know, like 81 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: if your other roommates are like, why is this person 82 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: here every day? I don't want this person to be here, 83 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: then you have to like, you know, the boundaries have 84 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: to be set. 85 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 2: But what if like they're cool and everyone likes it. 86 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: No, Yeah, My point is not like this is a 87 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: hard and fast your you know, partner or someone can't 88 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: be over all the time. It's more making sure your 89 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: roommates are okay with it and being respectful. No, not 90 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: even if they don't like them. I don't think it's 91 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: a whether they like them or not. I think if 92 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: someone's in your space twenty four to seven, like literally 93 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: maybe even living with you all the time, like, that's 94 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: not a person who's on the least. So I think 95 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: it's it's just a respect and boundaries and talking about hey, 96 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: are you comfortable with this person coming over? Making sure 97 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 1: that your roommates know that they're there, you know. I 98 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: think it's just that Okay, yeah, good to know. Ratley's like, okay, 99 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: take what do they always have cookies? Great? It's just 100 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: about being respectful. Yeah, when you're in someone else's space. 101 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: Mini update. I took out eded one to shorten the post. 102 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 1: I told my older brother about what happened, emailed my 103 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: building manager and was able to get a response from 104 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: him saying, I could put a lock on my bedroom door. 105 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: That's also weird. The parents are like fully going into 106 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: her room. 107 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 2: How do you feel about locks on bedroom doors? 108 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: I'd like one. Who's going into your room? I don't know, 109 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: I just you just want one? Yeah, No one's going 110 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: in your room, I know, but you just feel safer. 111 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: I'm offended. Okay, never mind. I don't think it's a 112 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 1: bad thing, but it says something, says something about your trust. 113 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: True. All right, fine, I don't want to lock in 114 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 2: my bedroom door. 115 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: What if I want to like knock on your door 116 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: and say, hey, what's up? What if I'm like, your 117 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: door's like it's got a pad lock on it. 118 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 2: If I'm like deep into like some work or something, 119 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 2: and I'm like, that's what knocking's for. You're right, okay, 120 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 2: all right, all right, I'm cool with no lock on 121 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 2: the head. 122 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: No put a lock on your door, whatever, I don't care. 123 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: Does it matter to me? Okay, it sounded like it did. Anyways, 124 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: Me and my brother went to home depot and got 125 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: a basic lock. Her mom is currently cooking in the 126 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: kitchen and watching my brother fix the lock. She doesn't 127 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: look too happy. I'll update you all again when I 128 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 1: tell my parents. And to clarify, the reason my roommate 129 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: isn't paying rent is because her parents had a tough 130 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: spot financially last winter, and my dad wanted to ease 131 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 1: the burden on them a little. He said he would 132 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: help out by giving my roommate a place to stay 133 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: so her parents could just worry about tuition and not 134 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 1: room and board. That's fair, that's very nice of him. 135 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: But yeah, if someone is like doing you a favor, 136 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: you got to be respectful. 137 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's that's cool for the dad to do that. 138 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: Updates date, Yes. 139 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 2: Okay, how do you think, Oh, he put the lock 140 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 2: on the door. Yes, he's talked to the parents, talked 141 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: to the building manager. Yeah, it doesn't sound like she 142 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 2: has talked to her roommate's parents directly. 143 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: Yes. I don't think she should have to. I think 144 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: she should be able to talk to the room like 145 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: the roommate. The roommate who should you know, or the 146 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 1: parents because this is like, these are two adults who 147 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: do Opie's parents need to talk to the roommate's parents? Absolutely? Okay, 148 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: Opie's parents are the ones on the lease and like 149 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: paying for this. 150 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 2: Gotcha right now. It doesn't seem like there's any beef 151 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 2: between Opie and her roommate. 152 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 1: No, it doesn't. Besides OPI telling her hey this, you know, 153 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: my boundaries are being kind of pushed and the roommate 154 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: not listening. 155 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 2: Gotcha. 156 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: Updates. I came back from my morning run around seven 157 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 1: am this morning and roommate's mom and roommate were in 158 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: the kitchen making some coffee. She's never been there this 159 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: early before. I decided to talk to them about everything 160 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: prior to going to class. I started off with, hey, Auntie, 161 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: can we talk? In Brown culture, everyone is called a 162 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: nott and these are some points I listed. Number one, 163 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: I appreciate that she's been cooking and cleaning, but I 164 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: want to do that on my own. I love to 165 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: cook and felt that I was never allowed in my 166 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: own kitchen. I also told her that I want to 167 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: do my own laundry and clean my room for myself. 168 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: Number two, I don't want her in my room. I 169 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: reminded her that I talked to her about this when 170 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: it first happened, and that's why I put the lock 171 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: on the door. Number three, I told her that if 172 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: she wanted to be with roommate, to let roommate text 173 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: me and let me know that roommate's mom would be 174 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: in the apartment. 175 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 2: Gotcha. 176 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: They expressed understanding and I hugged it out with roommate's mom. Okay, 177 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: that's good, So it seems she did just need to 178 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: talk to the roommates. Yeah, that's good. That's good. This 179 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: seems good. Can we end here? No? Please just let 180 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: it be nice. Let it be happy there, But there is. 181 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 3: Had. 182 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: They hugged it out and everyone went about their day. Bye, 183 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: see you next week. 184 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 3: No. 185 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: Before going to class, Dawn, I put a load of 186 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: laundry in my friend's having a birthday dinner today, and 187 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 1: I decided to wear this cute white dress with an 188 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: open back. 189 00:07:57,640 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 3: Uh. 190 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm scared based off of the roommate previous. 191 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: Comments put I see you in the comments off me nowhere, 192 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: this's going. 193 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: My mom even got me this dress since she thought 194 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: it was so cute, and tossed it in the washers 195 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: so it could be fresh for tonight. Nice. I asked 196 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: roommate's mom multiple times if she was planning on doing 197 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: laundry today, and she said no. I told her that 198 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: I would be back around one and she could do 199 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: laundry when I finished mine later this afternoon if needed. 200 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: I didn't want her touching my clothes. 201 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 2: Communication was made yes, she was. 202 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: Okay with it and said roommate didn't have laundry today. 203 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 3: Cool. 204 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: I left feeling really relieved, but I still locked my 205 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 1: bedroom door. I got back to my apartment about half 206 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: hour ago and I couldn't find my white dress. As 207 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: soon as I came home, roommate looked nervous. My clothes 208 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 1: were in the dryer and I didn't do that. Roommate's 209 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: mom stated that I put them in the dryer and 210 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 1: just forgot. I locked myself in my room. And I 211 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: know she probably took the dress as it was something 212 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 1: she wouldn't approve of. Yeah, that's what I was thinking 213 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: that she would do. That is such a breach of 214 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: space and oh on pent yea yeay and boundaries. When 215 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 1: I was in my room, I heard roommate's mom talking 216 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: to roommate in our language. She told her daughter something 217 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: along the lines of I don't know why she's freaking 218 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 1: out about that dress. In India, escorts and prostitutes where 219 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 1: those kinds of photo And she went on to tell 220 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: a roommate that I won't find a husband wearing stuff 221 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: like this. Heikes, that's nice. This is also the apartment, 222 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 1: it's not your place. Yeah, I honestly think she wanted 223 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: me to hear all that is. She seriously just being 224 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: a passive aggressive bee to me. Right now, I'm trying 225 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: so hard not to break down and cry. I'm heading 226 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: over to my parents right now, and I'm telling them 227 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: everything when they come back home tonight. I'll keep you posted. Yikes. 228 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: And there's a second update. 229 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, roommate's mom still not respecting boundaries. 230 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: Roommate Opie has communicated thoughtsome feelings, thought they were being heard, 231 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: specifically said don't touch my laundry and then puts her 232 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 1: hands all over it. Yeah, it takes her literally take 233 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: makes the white dress and then lies about it. Yeah, 234 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: this is that sucks that the talk happened. Yeah, and 235 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: it didn't know, it didn't do anything, Like, what can 236 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: you do? I think at this point the parents need 237 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: to get involved. Yeah, because this is just Yeah, I 238 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: would as a parent if I were paying for an 239 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: apartment and you know, another parent was just even if 240 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: it was a friend, I would be like, why are 241 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: you spending all your time around my daughter? Yeah, in 242 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: my daughter's face. Yeah. May eighth, twenty nineteen. 243 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 2: Oh there's another update. 244 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, there is and second updates. Oh my gosh. Okay, guys, 245 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: I'm sorry for updating you guys late and for the 246 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: super long post, but I want to make sure I 247 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: get important details in there. I think roommates mom is 248 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: crazy and needs a mental health check up. Oh wow, seriously, 249 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: I'm very worried for her well being. Oh oh no, 250 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: this is a twist. This is a twist. My mom 251 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: is home along with my brother, my brother's girlfriend, and 252 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: her parents. I told them everything that happened. No one 253 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: liked what they heard. My mom called my dad to 254 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: tell him what happened. When my dad came home, he 255 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: hugged me immediately and started crying. All that's so sweet. 256 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: Me being called a prostitute and a slut was too 257 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: much for him to handle than that. Yeah, that's really hard, 258 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 1: like hard to hear that your friend was calling your 259 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: daughter this. Yeah. Wow, I've never seen dad cry before, 260 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: and it hurt me so bad. My mom called roommate's 261 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: mom and roommate's dad and roommate to come over to talk. 262 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: They came over immediately. They probably knew something was up 263 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: from the tone of my mom's voice. She was close 264 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: to growling, Mama, bear's coming and I have to play. 265 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 1: Mom was being petty though. When they came home. She 266 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: didn't allow them inside. She made them stand on the 267 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: doorstep the whole time. And I could tell this was 268 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: pissing roommate's mom off some points of the confrontation. Number one, 269 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: why are you calling my daughter these names? Roommate's mom says, 270 00:11:54,520 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. She's making it lies. Whoa unbelievable okay? Oh. 271 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: Number two, why are you even in the apartment that much? 272 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: You told us that you go there once a month 273 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: to check on roommate. You also said she visits you 274 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: every weekend. Roommate's mother. The kids don't know how to cook, 275 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: so I help. Also, kids are busy studying, so they 276 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: need it. We already know that's a lie because Opie 277 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: said that they love to cook. Yeah. Number three, why 278 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: is a fifty year old man in my daughter's apartment? 279 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: No answer? Yeah, that's what I was thinking about. I 280 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: was wondering how much time roommate's dad is spending in 281 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: this apartment, because that is strange. Number four, why are 282 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: you going through my daughter's stuff? Why does she need 283 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: a lock? Why are you limiting my daughter's time with 284 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: her friends? No answer, and Ohpie says, I shall also 285 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:43,439 Speaker 1: mention that roommate's dad was sitting in the car on 286 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: the driveway during this whole conversation, so he's not even there. Listening. 287 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: Oh my god, but things got heated up really quickly. 288 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: Roommate's mom started insulting my parents. These people are supposed 289 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: to be friends. She said, my mom is a bad 290 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: mom because she never disciplined her children. What she said, 291 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm unruly and that the clothes I wear are spicable. 292 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: She brought up clothes a shit ton like this lady 293 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 1: is really unfunded by my fashion sons. This annoyed my 294 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: brother and he showed roommate's mother Instagram pictures of roommate 295 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: wearing more revealing clothes than me and sitting on boys laps. 296 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, roommates, I was getting dragged into this. 297 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: Roommate's mom shut her mouth about my clothes immediately. Yeah, 298 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: no proofs. She then proceeded to try to insult my parents' 299 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: professions by saying they have God complexes. What. This pissed 300 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 1: my brother off to the brink, and he replied with 301 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: you own three subways and are almost broke, but we 302 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 1: never say anything about it. Wow. This pushed roommate's mother 303 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: off the edge, and she leaned in close to my 304 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: brother and attempted to slap him. Whoa this lady tried 305 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 1: to slap my twenty four year old brother in front 306 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 1: of my parents. 307 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 2: I love how the brother, we'll get the slapping, but 308 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 2: the brother just came with like, haymaker. 309 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. The brother was like, I've got receipts your one 310 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: to talk to you on three subways Like whoa, those 311 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: are powerful punches. Yeah, Jesus, I'm glad that he's standing 312 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: up for his sister though. Wow wow wow wow wow. 313 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:15,079 Speaker 1: They argued more, and my mom asked where the dress 314 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,079 Speaker 1: was again, and this is also the dress I think 315 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: the mom bought her, yeah, which is even worse. Yeah, 316 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: this time she walked away to the car and pulled 317 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: my dress out of her purse. She literally stole it. 318 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: She stole it. She came back to where we were 319 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: standing and literally threw the dress in my face. My 320 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: mom my mom had no more patients left and backslap 321 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: roommate's mom across her face. My god, a lot of 322 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 1: slapping going on. Wow. I've never seen my mom raise 323 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: her hand on anyone. And I burst out laughing. Even 324 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: my dad had to walk back inside to keep himself 325 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: from laughing in front of roommate's mom. Roommate's mom started 326 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: crying and said she was going to call the cops 327 00:14:56,680 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: on us. In her she tried to attack the roommate's brother. Yeah, 328 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I hope he's brother. Wow. When they left, 329 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: we had a big discussion. My parents were angry that 330 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 1: I never told them about this before. They said that 331 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: they got me the apartment so I could do what 332 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 1: I wanted. They wanted me to be able to have 333 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: friends over and have a place to chill, and have 334 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: a place without parental influence. However, they are very proud 335 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: and happy with the way I dealt with the situation. 336 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: In said calling the cops would unnecessarily escalate the situation 337 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: that could be solved by talking. Thank you for all 338 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: the advice. I appreciate it a lot. 339 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 2: That means a lot hearing that from your parents when 340 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: they're like, I'm proud of how you were being more mature. 341 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: Than these Yeah, than these adults. Yeah. They were mad 342 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: at my brother because they said he shouldn't have shown 343 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: those pictures of roommate because now she has to deal 344 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 1: with that trouble at home. That's what I was going 345 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 1: to say, because it's really like, it's not really her 346 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: fault that our parents are overbearing. Yeah, because you know 347 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 1: what was she supposed to say to get them out. 348 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if she could have said anything. 349 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like I could see where their brother's coming from. 350 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 2: He's like, you can't be talking to this crap by 351 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 2: my sister. 352 00:15:56,600 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: No, I get why he did it, what you've done? 353 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like how that does suck for yeah night, because 354 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 2: roommate just seems like we're just being dragged along. 355 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like her parents are just there and she's like, 356 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: I can't do anything about this. 357 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 358 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: My parents agree that letting a roommate live in my 359 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 1: apartment without consulting me first was wrong on their part. Oh, 360 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: I didn't know that. I thought they moved in together 361 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: and then they just decided that they wouldn't have to 362 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 1: pay rent. Yeah. 363 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: I think roommate just their parents were like, all their friends, 364 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 2: you can move in here. Yeah. 365 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, my parents started the eviction process today. Wow. Anyway, 366 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: it may be hard to believe, but I do stand 367 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: up for myself a lot. It's just that in this situation, 368 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: I didn't want to do anything that would have offended 369 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: my parents because I had respect for their friendship and 370 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: I didn't want to ruin it or do something that 371 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: would embarrass my parents. I learned from this, and I 372 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: have growing up to do. But now that I know 373 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: I have support, I won't worry about petty stuff like 374 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 1: this later. 375 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 2: M I hope that roommate and her like are good. 376 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 1: I hope that they're okay. But I don't know if 377 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 1: they were necessarily big friends before. I think this might 378 00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: just be like we were roommates, so we're kind of 379 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: stuck together. 380 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not sure. 381 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but if they were friends, I hope that they're 382 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 1: able to didn't even hear you. Yeah, we're gonna stuck together. 383 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 1: I have to talk to you. 384 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:09,919 Speaker 2: We have to work together. 385 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,679 Speaker 1: Ugh, it's working, Opie continues. I also don't want to 386 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:15,640 Speaker 1: live alone, so one of my best friends from high 387 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: school is going to be my new roommate. No, she 388 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: is an Indian. No one is living rent free in 389 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 1: this situation. I would also like to say that even 390 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: though I wasn't friends with roommate in high school, living 391 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: with her for two years did help me make a 392 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 1: bond with her. I don't know if we can be 393 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 1: friends after this, but it feels bad losing a friends 394 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 1: Yang and then Opi continues, Also, my parents are liberal Indians. 395 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 1: They have lived here in America for over forty years. 396 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: They didn't want to spy on me at all. They 397 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 1: don't mind me wearing skirts or tube tops or having 398 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 1: guy friends over cool and edit one I forgot to 399 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: add for those of you guys who think that my 400 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: parents paying my rent and tuition doesn't make me an adult, 401 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: I don't think it does. I'm so blessed to have 402 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: parents who want to make sure that their kids graduate 403 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: without debt. Also, it's my parents' money, They'll do what 404 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: they want. This gives me no excuse to have a 405 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: GPA less than a four point zho Jesus, Yeah, no, no, no, no, 406 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 1: it's not uncontent. Of course, it is like very lucky 407 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: if you have it. 408 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 2: But yeah, that sounds like a good like yeah deal. 409 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think anyone's saying like someone's still in 410 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: college is necessarily like adult. 411 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 2: I did not consider my adult until like last year. 412 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if I would still consider myself adult. 413 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: I'm working on that. Yeah. Have you ever been called 414 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: mam before? No? 415 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 2: Okay, people call me sir, and I do not know 416 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 2: how to handle that responsibility. 417 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 3: People still think that I'm a child sometimes. Yeah, people 418 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 3: are like, oh you did you just graduate high school, so. 419 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,479 Speaker 1: I've not been nammed yet. Some people asked me, oh, 420 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 1: do you still go to school to Mike. 421 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 2: No, I work on a podcast in Santa Monica. 422 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: I don't go to school. I do adult things. I 423 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: Edit two, I took out the part where roommate's mother 424 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,440 Speaker 1: tried to threaten me with a wooden spoon to shorten 425 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 1: the post. It was funny, though, Oh sho, I think 426 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 1: that's like, yeah, I've heard about this before where people 427 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:06,120 Speaker 1: like it's the wooden spoon. Edit three. Don't get any ideas, 428 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: it's just slap me with a wooden spoon. 429 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 2: I thought you're gonna lap me with wooden spoon? 430 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, who's more likely have wooden spoon in their hand? 431 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 3: Me? 432 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:21,239 Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I don't believe that clean up. 433 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 1: I won't abuse Riley. Don't worry you, guys. The cops 434 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 1: are yet to show up. Oh for the eviction. That's 435 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: an edit three. Oh shoot and edit for guys. We 436 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: forgot to ask for the keyback. Effing damn it. Never mind. 437 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: Roommate's dad dropped them off at my parents this morning. 438 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 1: False alarm. Oh oh bye, yeah, yeah, we avoided catastrophe. 439 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:52,639 Speaker 1: Well that's that story man, that was heating. I feel 440 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: bad because these are like the parents' friends. But yeah, 441 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: they should not be talking to someone else's child like that. 442 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 2: And it is interesting because I think they have since 443 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 2: they're Indian. 444 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's cultural differences. It's you know, a lot more 445 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 1: community based. But no, that's still not okay. 446 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 2: I could see this happening back home, yeah, in the South, 447 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 2: because we are also community based. 448 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, I mean I know, I know there 449 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: are some like different like communities and cultures that it 450 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: is more common for other like friends to parent as well. Yeah, 451 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 1: but yeah, this stuff is not okay, especially just like 452 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 1: the living and like practically living in two young women's apartments. 453 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 2: They're trying to be adults trying to be young women. 454 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but also just an adult man in a young 455 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 1: women's apartment. Is it's not fun? No? No, no, no, 456 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: but let's you know, it is fun. What's that this 457 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: next story? 458 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 2: Maybe hopefully it's wholesome. 459 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: Hopefully it's fun and wholesome and sweet. Probably not