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Speaker 1: into it. That's a stressed over, not a finger, not
Speaker 1: a tongue, not a deal though he just wanted a
Speaker 1: little chili pepper in his ass.
Speaker 2: But it doesn't mean that I'm necessarily gonna You are
Speaker 2: definitely not someone that I'm going to be in a
Speaker 2: relationship with.
Speaker 1: Wait a second, usual a lot. Wait can we talk
Speaker 1: about that? Can we talk about then? Is there because
Speaker 1: people ask me that about pegging, Like, wait, you would
Speaker 1: be with a guy that lets you do that? I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that would be nice. There's certain kinks that if a
Speaker 1: man brings up makes him ineligible to be a partner
Speaker 1: to be with me?
Speaker 2: Why, Like, what what are some I'm not I'm not
Speaker 2: being with someone that I'm fucking a mask. I'm just
Speaker 2: not okay, same, I'm not I think one king for me,
Speaker 2: which is probably really strange for others. But I wouldn't
Speaker 2: be with someone who like I don't know what the
Speaker 2: name of it is. But the ones that want to
Speaker 2: be in like diapers and be on the floor. I'm
Speaker 2: not I couldn't know, Okay, hard enough, I'm not that,
Speaker 2: but I wouldn't be in a relationship with somebody like that.
Speaker 1: And this is gonna be y'all, y'all, you know, I
Speaker 1: could probably do that. I could, like, depending on the
Speaker 1: drunk night, like how many shrews, how many Whatever I
Speaker 1: could do I could do. I could do like I
Speaker 1: could do like scat play, pissing hagan all that I
Speaker 1: think for me, you know, we're not gonna get you
Speaker 1: know what. You know, my line would draws draw at
Speaker 1: cross dressing. I don't think I could be with because
Speaker 1: I like masculinity so much with men. I don't think
Speaker 1: I could be with a man who wants to put
Speaker 1: on fish nets and thongs and dresses. I couldn't do that,
Speaker 1: Like I think that that would actually make me unattract It's.
Speaker 2: Just so funny how like people create, like where everyone's
Speaker 2: boundary is.
Speaker 1: You're like, he can shoot on me, but he can
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm just.
Speaker 2: Saying, us as humans, we we rationalize what is okay
Speaker 2: to us and acceptable to us, and then the other
Speaker 2: things are like hard stuff.
Speaker 1: I was just saying, it's the same thing, right, it's
Speaker 1: like what we're into even physically, No, like it's we're
Speaker 1: willing to do sexually. It's the same concept.
Speaker 2: But it's just so funny how everybody has these different
Speaker 2: boundaries and it's like, oh, no.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't ye turned off. I think that's when you
Speaker 1: get into like what turns you on and what turns
Speaker 1: you off. Yeah, like the diaper on the floor and
Speaker 1: you have oh, you know, straight race, straight pussy pussy,
Speaker 1: just not Lincoln. And I think that's what how I
Speaker 1: feel about a man wanting to dress up as a woman,
Speaker 1: like wearing a wig. None of that makes no, which
Speaker 1: is crazy because I like very attractive men, like they'd
Speaker 1: be pretty. I like pretty niggas. Like I said pretty.
Speaker 1: I'll call him pretty because it's funny. I sent her this.
Speaker 1: Nigga started liking my my Instagram yesterday. Fine, I sent
Speaker 1: her her first thought, Yep, that's your type, like because
Speaker 1: it's so different, but I like, I like a little
Speaker 1: pretty nigga. Oh, by the way, we're out the DMS.
Speaker 1: He didn't ask for my number. Moving fast here, moving fast,
Speaker 1: I like moving fast. I like them you want, go
Speaker 1: for it. Y'all ain't gonna thinking fast. All right, let's
Speaker 1: get into our vanilla ship. Vanilla ship, y'all know, is
Speaker 1: our sex and the news and y'all the way. I
Speaker 1: might need an eye roll count from y'all. I know
Speaker 1: this is gonna pissy y'all off. So gen Z's latest obsession.
Speaker 1: They are now coming out as gray sexual?
Speaker 3: What is?
Speaker 1: What does it mean? And how are they discovering? They're great?
Speaker 1: Let's get into it. They're not gay, They're gray. A
Speaker 1: surprising number of people are choosing to identify now as
Speaker 1: grace sexual, with many now sharing the moment they realized
Speaker 1: when they were gray. Gray sexuality exists in what many
Speaker 1: describe as a gray area between alo sexual, which is
Speaker 1: experiencing regular sexual attraction, and asexual experiencing none. Those who
Speaker 1: identify as grace sexual may feel sexual attraction rarely, inconsistently,
Speaker 1: or only under specific circumstances. There's a growing community of
Speaker 1: over currently eighty three hundred members that are talking about
Speaker 1: them experiencing this, and I don't the size they can
Speaker 1: hear y'all. The micro oh a that one one user
Speaker 1: posted and explained that they had spent much of their life,
Speaker 1: assuming they were just a late bloomer, saying that crushes
Speaker 1: came decades apart, rarely lasted long, and they often didn't
Speaker 1: feel sexual attraction, even to their own boyfriend. Another person says,
Speaker 1: grace sexual is not I just don't fancy it tonight.
Speaker 1: For me, it's being completely devoid of sexual desires and
Speaker 1: bouts which can last months, and then one day waking
Speaker 1: up and realizing they have the instinct that it returned
Speaker 1: that they want to fuck. And so it's like I
Speaker 1: guess an up and down ebb and flow of having
Speaker 1: even the desire to have sex and not feeling the
Speaker 1: desire at all in any capacity. And see, now you
Speaker 1: may think you grey sexual bitch.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I want to suck all the time. Sometimes I don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think.
Speaker 2: They're just trying to throw names on it. They just
Speaker 2: trying to classify everything.
Speaker 3: You're not here.
Speaker 1: You gotta hear and hear like it's just like I
Speaker 1: think it's normal. I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't think every individual wants to fuck every day
Speaker 2: all day. I think here a lot of people, but
Speaker 2: I do massing hey with not having sex, that's how
Speaker 2: I go to sleep. We not the judgment but to me,
Speaker 2: that's some level of sex. Masturbation is still a sexual
Speaker 2: desire or for me to just come in that way
Speaker 2: or release in that way. Or do you think that
Speaker 2: maybe you just got accustomed to it for so long
Speaker 2: that it.
Speaker 1: Could just be a habit, It could be a it
Speaker 1: could just be a happy very much. So it's funny
Speaker 1: because I brought this up knowing that you were going
Speaker 1: to come on the mic because you be so I'm
Speaker 1: gonna call you, I asked. Okay, she's my friend that
Speaker 1: hates all all the terms of everything. She just don't
Speaker 1: like language expounding sometimes because she's from Florida too, So
Speaker 1: I think she just wanted to keep it like, bitch,
Speaker 1: you're either gay or you're straight. There's nothing ship. Oh
Speaker 1: you too?
Speaker 3: What are we doing? I can't keep up and I'm
Speaker 3: not I can't keep you?
Speaker 4: Said you not?
Speaker 1: Okay? So how do y'all like that?
Speaker 3: I can't remember all this?
Speaker 1: You just identify as straight? How do you identify.
Speaker 2: Bitch?
Speaker 3: But I'm not.
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I'm bisexual just because I will
Speaker 2: have sex with a woman every now. Oh you catch
Speaker 2: me on a good night baby, you might come home
Speaker 2: but or not.
Speaker 3: Okay, absolutely not okay, absolutely.
Speaker 1: So question look the script, because love that you identify
Speaker 1: a straight but may eat some couchie. So do you
Speaker 1: would you allow a man to identify a straight but
Speaker 1: sometimes it'll set some dick and would you be fine
Speaker 1: with that?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: No, this artis tive care.
Speaker 2: She'll come in my room with a chef on on
Speaker 2: and be liked, be so excited, and I'd be like,
Speaker 2: you know he's gay, right he is not. Just because
Speaker 2: he might like a little ass play does not mean
Speaker 2: he's gay.
Speaker 1: Well what does it mean? It means he's he could
Speaker 1: be bisexual some girl. No, it means like this asshole
Speaker 1: stimulated the same way y'all will put it pepper in
Speaker 1: an ass, now you judges? If I want to put
Speaker 1: a dial though pepper and the ass is a sensation?
Speaker 1: If that's not they're getting milk. No, milking is a thing.
Speaker 1: They get their prostate milk. There's a sensation there when
Speaker 1: anything goes into a man's ass. But they're doing it
Speaker 1: for the burning. That's why they're further milking of the prostate.
Speaker 1: And it has to be touched to be milked.
Speaker 2: Are they getting penetrated with the ginger or do they
Speaker 2: just place the ginger in, so now you're getting is
Speaker 2: going in the ass, but it's it's hot things, so
Speaker 2: it gives it.
Speaker 3: It's like then peppermint shampoo.
Speaker 1: It makes your your scalp tingles make I can make
Speaker 1: the dildo hot with the with the hot and cold loo.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it.
Speaker 2: Could bring the face penetration makes that's a whole different
Speaker 2: that's the whole different world.
Speaker 1: Fine, okay, all right. Anyways, the war Dirve I want
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Speaker 1: and I let y'all know what stories y'all got to
Speaker 1: bring to the pod. But with it are her derve.
Speaker 1: We give tips. So within the story time, I want
Speaker 1: you to give a tip to the audience. So like
Speaker 1: all start off first. So for me, I and the
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Speaker 1: That's the whole Dirk. So I'll start off with my
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Speaker 1: the trip. Now, why say you need to know the
Speaker 1: ratio is because unfortunately the men on the trip are
Speaker 1: going to expect to be with women on the trip.
Speaker 1: And so say you're on a trip with the main
Speaker 1: boss guy who's paying for everything, not all the girls
Speaker 1: are going to get to go with him, however, unless
Speaker 1: you're in my situation where that did happen. Surprisingly, So
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Speaker 1: are joined by Dionce from the Grips and Eggs podcast.
Speaker 1: He here to also help us, help y'all because y'all
Speaker 1: be having some motherfucking issue. We are very tiny asking
Speaker 1: us about he got two baby mamas, and yeah, he's married.
Speaker 3: But I just feel like you have a connection, bitch.
Speaker 6: Said, he's an habitually incarcerated man like girl.
Speaker 3: But I know that good.
Speaker 1: I'm not.
Speaker 4: Freedom, but not for freedom is crazy.
Speaker 1: But also here's here's the way. Whether it's your friends,
Speaker 1: whether it's your mama, whether it's your sister, whether it's
Speaker 1: your brother. At this point, when people send in questions
Speaker 1: asking for advice, you already know the answer. You just
Speaker 1: want to be told about.
Speaker 3: You want to argue. We got time. If you can
Speaker 3: pull up one of yours, that'd be funny. I want
Speaker 3: their inmate ship.
Speaker 1: I want to well this one, this one, We're gonna
Speaker 1: get right into it because it is a little long,
Speaker 1: but it's t all right, so let's get into it.
Speaker 1: He's an inmate. I'm a CEO. Help Hey b and
Speaker 1: dey Weezy. I love the show. It's literally changed my life.
Speaker 1: I've been a patron and faithful weekly listener for the
Speaker 1: past two years. This is a bit long, but please help,
Speaker 1: so stay with me here. I see both of y'all
Speaker 1: on your phones. But okay, it's okay. It's okay only
Speaker 1: because it is a little long. But I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: sure I pick out the details here. So I'm a
Speaker 1: COO and I work in a jail. I met this inmate,
Speaker 1: and from the first time I saw him, I was like,
Speaker 1: damn this nigga finest book. Bitch you in jail? Hold on,
Speaker 1: is he working in jail?
Speaker 3: You'd be pointing out five.
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, you can point out finding because but
Speaker 1: you're not supposed to like feel anything. Just come all on,
Speaker 1: she said, She said jail. She didn't say prison. So
Speaker 1: it's given rikers, okay, her keeps out it's given local,
Speaker 1: give it local. Okay.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna wrap up on even better made us.
Speaker 1: Okay. I know that it is one very illegal and
Speaker 1: two very unethical to ever even consider getting involved with
Speaker 1: an inmate ung on contact. I'm a twenty nine, black female,
Speaker 1: single and he just turned forty while he was in jail.
Speaker 1: Black male. He was in jail for a couple months,
Speaker 1: and the whole time, I didn't break any laws or
Speaker 1: seek it in the room like I really wanted to,
Speaker 1: but we definitely would make eyes at each other, and
Speaker 1: I would go out of my way to go to
Speaker 1: the pod he was in, not the podcast the whole time.
Speaker 1: The whole time, he was telling me to give him
Speaker 1: my phone number and my first name, and I refused
Speaker 1: because hell, I need my job. I got bills right
Speaker 1: before he went to court, where he was pretty sure
Speaker 1: he was going to get out. I finally slipped my
Speaker 1: I finally slipped in my name and phone number and
Speaker 1: lo and behold. Maybe an hour after he got released,
Speaker 1: he hit me on Facebook that dawn hour, bitch. That day,
Speaker 1: I got off work and called him and he told
Speaker 1: me to come see him. So I took off my
Speaker 1: uniform shirt and drove a to the address he sent me. Now,
Speaker 1: please remember when I said before you could keep reading
Speaker 1: this loo this man is fine as fuck. He gets
Speaker 1: in my car with his backpack, it says, where are
Speaker 1: we going? I told him I would come see him.
Speaker 1: But I never said anything about taking him anywhere with me.
Speaker 1: While he was in jail. I would ask him what
Speaker 1: he was gonna do or where he was gonna go
Speaker 1: when he got out, and he said he would be
Speaker 1: going to the largest city that's about an hour from us,
Speaker 1: because that's where he lived. I know that he lost
Speaker 1: his apartment and his job because he was in jail,
Speaker 1: But I guess I was just slow and didn't realize
Speaker 1: that he probably wouldn't have a place to stay when
Speaker 1: he got out. I knew not to take him to
Speaker 1: my house because although he's fine, he also just got
Speaker 1: out of jail, and I really didn't know him like that.
Speaker 1: So I just got a room and I went there
Speaker 1: with him. Oh did I mention that he was in
Speaker 1: jail for domestic violence? The size of bitch and in jail,
Speaker 1: bro Jaan was bad. That means like Julius was breath.
Speaker 1: He ain't doing look grip. No, that was bad, but bro,
Speaker 1: but he was only in there for four months. It
Speaker 1: just happened. Okay, here we go, here we go, and
Speaker 1: this is where yours came in. Was in jail, in prison,
Speaker 1: but considering he didn't get any serious prison time, I
Speaker 1: hate to say this, but it wasn't that bad quote unquote.
Speaker 1: While he was in jail. I read over all his
Speaker 1: police reports and looked at the evidence, and you have
Speaker 1: to say that it seems like all of no, this
Speaker 1: is the but you know what's crazy. This is what
Speaker 1: women do when they're with niggas. They know bullshit.
Speaker 3: I need She ain't saying one. We need it?
Speaker 1: Okay, So here, let's go into the police reports, because
Speaker 1: this is the good ship. I read over the police
Speaker 1: reports and looked at the evidence, and I do have
Speaker 1: to say that it seemed like his ex got mad
Speaker 1: because he said he didn't want to be with her anymore,
Speaker 1: and she set him up.
Speaker 3: Oh you sound like.
Speaker 1: She stole a bitch hold on a few thousand dollars
Speaker 1: from him, and when he confronted her about it, she
Speaker 1: said she wasn't giving it back and it started pushing
Speaker 1: past him. So he pushed her back, and when he
Speaker 1: did that, she ran to the car and called the cops.
Speaker 4: I'm not giving.
Speaker 1: He went outside after her, telling her to give him
Speaker 1: his money back, and then she ran him over with
Speaker 1: her car. Were we just talking about bitches running us
Speaker 1: over with car?
Speaker 3: Hold on?
Speaker 1: When he first got to jail. He was taken to
Speaker 1: the hospital because of his interest injuries. He was all
Speaker 1: banged up and scraped up all over the place. She
Speaker 1: didn't have any visible marks on her, but still he
Speaker 1: got sent to jail. So the situation is a little question.
Speaker 3: I don't know if I believe this all the way.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go with her asking the questions. Okay,
Speaker 1: so back to it. We spent the night together. I
Speaker 1: was fresh off of a twelve hour shift, so sweaty
Speaker 1: and gross, but he didn't care. He pulled me close
Speaker 1: to him and then on top of him. And when
Speaker 1: I tell you, he had the best sex and the
Speaker 1: best experience of my life. I still have flashbacks. Imagine,
Speaker 1: fresh out of jail, haven't had none of a couple months, dick, mind.
Speaker 4: Blowing there, dirty fucking I mean, she's maybe.
Speaker 1: Maybe they took a shower the hotel the next day,
Speaker 1: she said no. The next day, I had to go
Speaker 1: to work at five am, so I left. He sent
Speaker 1: a message saying saying after I got off or he
Speaker 1: needed me to take him to another city. I was
Speaker 1: questioning myself a little bit, like what the hell did
Speaker 1: I get myself into? And I honestly didn't want to
Speaker 1: be in a car with him for an hour to
Speaker 1: another city. I know nothing about this man, but you
Speaker 1: don't sh this is out women think stop it not
Speaker 1: even you bet she fucked right.
Speaker 3: Hold on.
Speaker 1: Even worse, she didn't want to drive an hour to
Speaker 1: another city with him, she says, but I sent him
Speaker 1: money to take an uber.
Speaker 3: Here we go. I don't think this is really.
Speaker 1: Now. This is how bitch just be moving.
Speaker 3: I don't want to turn people turch out.
Speaker 1: Even though the sex was mind blowing. I told myself,
Speaker 1: I'm tripping. I need to stop. So I didn't reach
Speaker 1: back out to him, but he didn't stop reaching out
Speaker 1: to me. Finally, I answered my phone after about three days,
Speaker 1: he got it go three hours. Hold On, no, this
Speaker 1: is really happendent. Hold on, he said, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 5: Like this.
Speaker 1: No, he's a hobosexual. He needs somewhere to live. That's
Speaker 1: why he's hit her. She in her mind is like,
Speaker 1: I don't know this nigga. I don't trust so I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna be in a car in for an hour.
Speaker 1: But you could give a nigga some pussy that you
Speaker 1: don't know, But to be in a car with the
Speaker 1: for an hours a little longer. Okay, hold on dangerous car,
Speaker 1: nigga see me when I said he, I mean maybe.
Speaker 1: Finally I answered my phone after about three days, and
Speaker 1: he said that he made it to the other city
Speaker 1: and he got into a program that helps people that
Speaker 1: are transitioning out of jail. He said he had friends
Speaker 1: and family that were willing to help him, but he's
Speaker 1: a man and he needs to stand on his own
Speaker 1: feet and didn't want to take anything from anybody, which
Speaker 1: is why he chose to go to the program instead
Speaker 1: of staying with someone. So he has a place to stay.
Speaker 1: He has a job that he would be starting that
Speaker 1: following Monday. He told me that he was really feeling me.
Speaker 1: He knew that he was in a fucked up position
Speaker 1: right then, but give him some time and he would
Speaker 1: shake back. He thanked me for getting the room and
Speaker 1: get in the uber, and he said he would not
Speaker 1: ask me for anything else but time to get himself together.
Speaker 1: That's forward about three weeks and we're still talking almost
Speaker 1: every day.
Speaker 3: Also, don't have anything when you get back. Needs a
Speaker 3: lot of money. Four months if someone can steal thousands
Speaker 3: four months.
Speaker 1: For a lot of somebody who lost their apartment who
Speaker 1: may not be able to now get a place because
Speaker 1: they ain't got no pay stuff. I don't think he's
Speaker 1: a nigga with that much motion.
Speaker 3: Does he have that much money to steal?
Speaker 1: I mean, to have two thousand dollars to steal? Maybe
Speaker 1: he maybe it was income tax time, bitch, Maybe he
Speaker 1: had some kids to claim, Like there's one niggas come
Speaker 1: up off of a couple thousand dollars, Like he's a
Speaker 1: terrible four months it's possible. Well let's see, who ain't
Speaker 1: got nowhere to go after four months? Unless a lot
Speaker 1: of people don't. I mean, I mean maybe bitches.
Speaker 4: Maybe I st talking about like he fine, he got
Speaker 4: great sis.
Speaker 5: Now he got some.
Speaker 1: I agree that he told.
Speaker 4: Him like I got to figure out so he can
Speaker 4: go knock off off.
Speaker 1: Like, well, let's see. He texts me as soon as
Speaker 1: he wakes up in the morning, and then face times
Speaker 1: me every evening as soon as he gets off and
Speaker 1: we talk for hours. Not only is this man physically attractive,
Speaker 1: he is also mentally stimulate. The more we talk about
Speaker 1: his life and what he had accomplished before the situation happened,
Speaker 1: I think I'm falling for him. He is such a sweetheart.
Speaker 1: He talks to me so nice. He does never bring
Speaker 1: up anything unless I do, and he keeps telling me
Speaker 1: that I don't have to put my life on hold,
Speaker 1: but I give him a chance, he would add so
Speaker 1: much happiness and enjoy it to my life. He's still
Speaker 1: in the program, working and he has a solid six
Speaker 1: month plan to save some money by car and move
Speaker 1: out back into his own place. The program is very strict,
Speaker 1: so they have specific visitation hours in a big visitation room,
Speaker 1: so sex is completely out of the question. But I
Speaker 1: still drove out last week and to see him. As
Speaker 1: soon as I sat down, he put my feet in
Speaker 1: the slap and started rubbing them and him we're right
Speaker 1: at the end. We sat and talked and laughed like
Speaker 1: crazy for three hours. We talked about our lives, how
Speaker 1: we raised our how we were raised, our past, and
Speaker 1: where we want to go in the future. It's absolutely amazing.
Speaker 1: We still talk and tech still talking text every day.
Speaker 1: And he tells me that me being open to talk
Speaker 1: to him while he's down is what's making him uh,
Speaker 1: is what's going to make him give me the world
Speaker 1: once he gets back on his feet. He just needs time.
Speaker 1: Niggas do be lying, but he's also showing that he's
Speaker 1: striving to get better, honest speak, do better.
Speaker 3: Here we go.
Speaker 1: He's also very clear and direct about what he wants
Speaker 1: with me and with us once he gets quote unquote
Speaker 1: back up. Here's her question. My question is, no, you
Speaker 1: do you think it's worth pursuing something with him already?
Speaker 1: Mary go Marry?
Speaker 3: Do you think.
Speaker 1: It's only been to come? That was a question. Do
Speaker 1: you think it's worth pursuing something with him? Or am
Speaker 1: I making a very dumb decision?
Speaker 4: You're already pursuing it? So what are your worth?
Speaker 1: Real quick? You know what, Craby?
Speaker 5: Not?
Speaker 1: Here is my thing? Real question? Take it off of
Speaker 1: this bitch. Now he starts eating your ass. Bitch, here's
Speaker 1: my thing?
Speaker 4: Like, how are we getting over to the domestic violence?
Speaker 1: Domestic violence? But here's my thing?
Speaker 4: That's some ship like you just can't over look.
Speaker 1: You didn't really Okay? First off, she read the case.
Speaker 1: She made this questionable. She thinks it's questionable.
Speaker 3: What out a reasonable doubt?
Speaker 1: She said, there's a reasonable asked for her, She said,
Speaker 1: there is a reasonable doubt that he committed this domestic
Speaker 1: but she is reasonable doubt.
Speaker 4: Hold on, Hold on, Hold, hold, the funk. You don't
Speaker 4: go to a program after you get out the county.
Speaker 4: If you didn't, he's convened. That's prison.
Speaker 1: She lied up, She said, yeah, do you know how,
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Let me look at her.
Speaker 4: Many president, I'm not trying to break.
Speaker 2: You.
Speaker 5: Don't.
Speaker 4: You don't. You don't get into a proud unless you
Speaker 4: get convicted.
Speaker 1: Convicted. Oh, he's convicted, he's completed.
Speaker 4: He in a halfway house. That is, you don't get
Speaker 4: into a program unless you've been convicted. So this is
Speaker 4: this My fucer is lying.
Speaker 2: She lock up.
Speaker 3: This bitch is a dodo bird.
Speaker 1: And then let me ask you a random question. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's only because based on what you said, what you said,
Speaker 1: she said that, because he's in this halfway house or program,
Speaker 1: they haven't been able to fuck. He's also clearly an
Speaker 1: hour away. All they do is text every day.
Speaker 5: Get right?
Speaker 1: Are you really that deep in? If you just texting
Speaker 1: a nigga every day, that don't mean you altogether that
Speaker 1: he's the one for you, or that you need to
Speaker 1: be married.
Speaker 3: I got a headache a.
Speaker 6: Little bit, and I tell you time, and he need
Speaker 6: that address for his so he gonna bump right back
Speaker 6: into the city and he gonna and it's a good
Speaker 6: look like yeah, my my my partner is a correational officer.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Are you allowed to but that's are you allowed to
Speaker 1: date them when you get out? Isn't couldn't she lose
Speaker 1: her job?
Speaker 3: You think she gives a ship?
Speaker 4: She don't care not about this is not a smart person.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1: You don't do that.
Speaker 3: That's she said. Let me here's what, Here's what I
Speaker 3: would tell you. I think she's ugly.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you can't get no dick on the street.
Speaker 1: You can't get I don't bad bitches that hell niggas
Speaker 1: down wall in jail. So I'm not in jail now.
Speaker 1: She holding them down.
Speaker 4: Not the badness that you know that made the nigga wow,
Speaker 4: he was looking before he was she did.
Speaker 3: Like to my ugly case. This is genuinely I believe she's.
Speaker 4: Ugly.
Speaker 1: They are now number one you for confidence again, don't
Speaker 1: do that. Begin not saying that. Don't let me tell
Speaker 1: you something when the nigga could get you like this,
Speaker 1: because when you sister, let me tell your subjec you
Speaker 1: know I love and what happened. What do they get
Speaker 1: every time they in Nigeria? Only bitches that don't get
Speaker 1: nobody else. I don't believe there is a woman in
Speaker 1: the world that could be just fucking dupe if they
Speaker 1: were attractive, not attractive, confident, insecure, little self esteem. Bitch,
Speaker 1: he got your ass because you ain't about to tell
Speaker 1: me that an address not you already know what she
Speaker 1: looked like. She looks her hair is crunching.
Speaker 3: That's what I see.
Speaker 1: What is wait? What is crunchy hair?
Speaker 3: Dry?
Speaker 4: This what I'm saying what I'm seeing.
Speaker 6: You gotta slip, slip, bad tail, no edges, you did slip.
Speaker 6: Babes body just got gravity.
Speaker 1: Why are you doing this?
Speaker 4: Even if she could be big child, but it's gravity,
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, First of all.
Speaker 1: I don't think she's real, real, this is this is
Speaker 1: a very real story. It's not I think first off,
Speaker 1: she just had more words than normal. Sounds very rich.
Speaker 6: Just the thing about it, it's too much explanation and
Speaker 6: it's and it's too much in line because you're telling
Speaker 6: me the nigga ain't the nigga ain't guilty, but the
Speaker 6: court of law found him.
Speaker 1: No no, no, and said court law found him guilty.
Speaker 1: But let's be very clear in terms of how black
Speaker 1: people are tried in the court of law and what
Speaker 1: justice really looks like. She's saying she read the case,
Speaker 1: she doesn't feel like she's guilty.
Speaker 4: Time out is getting access to prisoner files and just.
Speaker 3: Like that too.
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly though it do be online. No, but
Speaker 1: if he went the trial, that all is online for
Speaker 1: you to read. It's public record.
Speaker 4: You're doing so much it's public.
Speaker 1: Read the public records. Ladies. If you are dating a
Speaker 1: nigga who was locked up jail prison, what the court
Speaker 1: with the trial read the whole transcription for her own person.
Speaker 1: He's a legal jargon when it's bigger than out. You know,
Speaker 1: I want to say, I wanted to know what kind
Speaker 1: of hotel it was to because I could picture be
Speaker 1: on the window.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 1: Y'all really think. She was at DELOQUENCEA Peter was making
Speaker 1: some money when I do overtime?
Speaker 3: Why are you looking at me?
Speaker 1: Make money? Man?
Speaker 4: And now you gotta take care of this, see.
Speaker 1: As make money. That bitch probably got at discount and.
Speaker 4: Red Roof, Like she really went Red Roof? What was
Speaker 4: on the outside.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the doors on the hallway.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you that when you outside, I gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 4: Balcony by the way.
Speaker 1: By the way, lady, that's what you want to know,
Speaker 1: the level of what your pussy is on or the
Speaker 1: type of nigga about the fun. If you go to
Speaker 1: a hotel and the doors on the outside, baby, you
Speaker 1: either dating a broken as bom Man's nigga or your
Speaker 1: pussy ain't up the party. Get you in the door.
Speaker 4: Loves motel, Love, I thought the loves.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you.
Speaker 4: About the flowers?
Speaker 3: You like you?
Speaker 1: Okay, you bought the flowers after knowing you about us.
Speaker 1: I'm not playing with you. Love is real loving that
Speaker 1: so you got a game bang Yeah, for y'all will
Speaker 1: have more.
Speaker 3: Context on that. We don't call it grits and legs.
Speaker 4: No, it's not thirty down thirty final.
Speaker 1: Well, if you want to stay with Theliant, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that, baby, I blame that. Yaga yaga
Speaker 1: all young suck my dick from the back. I'm not
Speaker 1: Silian and I'm not a white woman, you know. And
Speaker 1: you'll want to say you're letters into us so that
Speaker 1: we could give you our unofficial, unsolicited terrible advice, because
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Speaker 3: Com next time, don't send us a Reddit thread.
Speaker 1: Please know that her story.
Speaker 4: There's no way.
Speaker 1: I like bitches. They give a little backstory. She the
Speaker 1: other thing I want to call when you provide that
Speaker 1: much context, that's how you know. But you're trying to
Speaker 1: talk yourself out of know when you're doing something wrong.
Speaker 1: That's what that is.
Speaker 4: She said, my is and then she ain't even good
Speaker 4: and type and she.
Speaker 1: Now she's not good at typings are smart. They gotta
Speaker 1: have degrees. You ain't gonna be.
Speaker 5: Down.
Speaker 3: That's one of police and America.
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