1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: What's a Bachelor Happy Our listeners, welcome back to another week. 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: I got from my girl Michelle with me once again, 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to catch up with you. Yes, 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: it's so nice to be back. I'm really excited for 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,959 Speaker 1: this episode. We are going to have the fabulous Sydney 6 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: High Tower on with us today. If you do not 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 1: remember her, she's from Peter Weber's season, so she has 8 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: not really been in like the Bachelor world for a 9 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,479 Speaker 1: little bit, so I'm really looking forward to talking to 10 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: her and catching up. Yeah, it'll be fun to have 11 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: her on. This is actually, I think her first ever 12 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: official Bachelor related podcast obviously, like right after Peter's season, 13 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 1: COVID hit and shut the world down, So this is 14 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: her time where we can actually get to know her 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: a little bit more since it's been a couple of years. 16 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,319 Speaker 1: But before that, Michelle, I want to catch up with 17 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: you because before we started recording, Michelle is actually getting 18 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: me up to speed on all the things that people 19 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: are doing on TikTok these days, and one sounds very 20 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: interesting that I think you and Nate are going to 21 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: try out Michelle. What is this? I'm keeping it my 22 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: personal duty to keep you up to date Becca on 23 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: these incredibly, incredibly important things. But my fifth years are 24 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: actually talking about it a little bit. But on TikTok, 25 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: there's this new challenge where you try to chug a 26 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: full bottle of Sprite just without birthday. This sounds horrible 27 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: and I thought that it, like, I feel like it 28 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: would be easy. And then now that I've seen that 29 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:44,839 Speaker 1: nobody's actually successfully done it, I'm kind of like questioning, 30 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: like should I actually do I've bought two bottles for 31 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: Nate and I Nate doesn't like the dancing TikTok challenges, 32 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: you know, so I want him to try this one. Boy, 33 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: have you ever done anything like this? Well? Yeah, so 34 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: in high school I did. It was for like my 35 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: days team's scaffnger hunt. One of the things we had 36 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: to do was chug pop and so I chugged Uh yes, 37 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: I say pop. By the way, I I already know 38 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: people are going to call me out on the podcast, 39 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: but I had to chug a mountain dew and right 40 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: away I vomited. So to this day, I absolutely hate 41 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,239 Speaker 1: mountain dew. It discuss me to no end. When I 42 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: see people drinking it, I'm like, that's so gross, but 43 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: it's not easy because of the carbonation. So I'm wondering 44 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 1: what size bottle are you talking about? Like, are you 45 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: talking about like a sixteen ounce water bottle size? It's 46 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: not like a leader, it's like a sixteen ounce. But okay, 47 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: I don't even know why. I think like the competitor 48 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: in me is like, yeah, I can do this, but 49 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: I can't even chug a full bottle of water without 50 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: like being extremely full. So I'm not so how nervous? 51 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: So if you and Nate are going to do this, 52 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 1: how does one win? Like is it whoever chugs at 53 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: first or whoever doesn't burt first? Okay, so I think 54 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: we were gonna just see if we could do the challenge, 55 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: So we weren't even like competing against each other. I mean, 56 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: like we're always competing against each other, like right, okay, 57 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: I'm brushing my death, I'm brushing New York. We're so competitive. 58 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: But it's just more to like complete the challenge because 59 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 1: it seems like nobody's done it. I want to see 60 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 1: somebody who's actually successfully done this without getting sick. I 61 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 1: would actually try. Does it have to be a sprite though? 62 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: Like could you do like a seltzer Water. I don't. 63 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: I think it has to be sprite. I mean, I 64 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: guess that's that's been the challenge, right because I'm not 65 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: sure if you can like switch it up interesting. I'm 66 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: definitely really nervous. I'm really nervous to do. Okay, well, 67 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: you have to record this when you actually do it, 68 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:58,119 Speaker 1: because now everyone including me, wants to see this. Oh man, Okay, Well, 69 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: speaking of Nate too, win do you see him next? 70 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: So he is actually okay, So he packed up a 71 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: lot of his clothes and just came in Minnesota for 72 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: a while. Him in Percy, but for the last few 73 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: days he drove up to Canada to see his family. 74 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: And I'm actually flying there tomorrow night to visit his family. Yeah, 75 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: so it would be nice to be able to spend 76 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: some time and everything. But I was going to ask 77 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 1: you because obviously every now and again, because you are 78 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: still kind of doing the long distance, you're not fully 79 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,559 Speaker 1: very much moved in together. So how often would you, say, 80 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: like a week or a month do you see each other? 81 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: So it's been different this month because he has been 82 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 1: staying here for a little bit longer, but before that 83 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: it would be like every two weeks. It's kind of 84 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 1: like the same schedule, like we had just adopted the 85 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: happy couple schedule him where it's just like every two weeks, 86 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: like that weekend, one of us would be flying to 87 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: one or another. So yeah, we picked Minnesota. It's been 88 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: raining and sleeting and snowing for the last two weeks, 89 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: so it's going to be really hard to talk him 90 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 1: into moving here now. But my suns out today, but 91 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 1: he's not here anymore. So every day my mom and 92 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: and like my girlfriends that still live back in Minnesota 93 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: will give me updates of the weather and I'm like, 94 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 1: I'm I can't complain because I'm currently in like seventy 95 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: five humidity and it's beautiful. But my mom yestern was like, 96 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: I just made a huge pot of swiftly with ham 97 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: soup because it's been snowing and it's so dreary here, 98 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I think it's stunts to move, mom 99 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: and come come to California with me. But although you've 100 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: been traveling, but you are still in warm weather, right, 101 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: You're you're in New Orleans. Yeah, oh no, no, no, 102 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: now we're in Texas, so okay, yeah, we I mean 103 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: the beginning of the two were like the first couple 104 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: of weeks it was cold. We were in the Midwest, 105 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: and then we did the northeast side of the country 106 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: and so that was cold, like we were in the 107 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: snow and the rain. But now we're finally in the south, 108 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 1: so it's warm enough, so it's been beautiful, so I 109 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 1: can't complain now. But I definitely did not pack for 110 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: warm weather, so I still have like all of my 111 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: heavy winter clothes with me on the bus. So we 112 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: finally go to California next week so I can swap 113 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: it out, which will be nice. But yeah, and you 114 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: you've been able to like take days, well, you have 115 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: a day off, and I feel like a lot of 116 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 1: people on their day off, just with how much you 117 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: are up and going, would take a nap and slow down. 118 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: And it seems like you're doing the exact opposite. You 119 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: are sight seeing. You are what has been the best 120 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: thing that you've done so far that you've like truly enjoyed, 121 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: oh my gosh throughout this entire tour. Oh man. Um, Well, 122 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: so yeah, usually I probably should rest just because I'm like, go, 123 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:51,559 Speaker 1: go go throughout the week when we're doing our shows 124 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: and I'm talking so much. But I've just been like 125 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: so anxious and homesick lately that I don't just like 126 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 1: want to sit around on my day off. I'd like 127 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: need to get out and do something that otherwise I 128 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: like just be sad. So we had a day off 129 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: a couple of days ago in New Orleans which was 130 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: so fun. We were actually there on Easter Sunday, which 131 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: was a freaking wild like oh my god. And I've 132 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: been to New Orleans before, so I know it's crazy. 133 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: It's obviously a party town, like especially near Bourbon Street, 134 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: but I like expected to be like that, you know, 135 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: on Marty Cras and like on those kinds of holidays, 136 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: but like Easter Sunday, like the Lord's Day, it was 137 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: freaking insane. I was like the people watching was so good. 138 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: It was so messy, like it was I was like, damn, 139 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: like I can't imagine being here at Halloween or any 140 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: other like actual party holiday. But it was so much fun. 141 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: Like we walked around that I was with some of 142 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: the dancers and the crew and we just ate our 143 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: way through the city. We had so much like Cajun 144 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: creole food, so many beignets. What was your favorite thing 145 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: that you ate. Oh my gosh, Well, I love crawfish 146 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: because the only time I ever eat it is when 147 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: I'm in New Orleans and it's crawfish season. So I 148 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: had I had crawfish at Toufet. We had jumbalaiah, red 149 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 1: beans and rice gumbo, like truly any thing that you 150 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: think of, like when you think of New Orleans cuisine 151 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: we had and it was so so good. New Orleans 152 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: kind of kicked my ass though. We like went out 153 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: and I'm partied hard that night and I have not 154 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: partied like that in a while, and I was like, damn, 155 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: these old bones can't keep up with this anymore. Like 156 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: it took me out. The next day we had a 157 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 1: show in New Orleans and I was like in a fog. 158 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: I was like, I like, I didn't one more day 159 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: off just to recouper for my day is this? Yeah, 160 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,839 Speaker 1: it was crazy, but it's so much fun. But yeah, 161 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm it's been exhausted. So I'm ready to finally get 162 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: back to California next week and finally see the dogs 163 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: and see Thomas again, because I mean, this is the 164 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: longest Thomas and I've been apart. So when you and 165 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: Nate say that you really you take like two weeks apart. 166 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, I never want to do that again. And 167 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: I hate it. I don't. It's not enjoyable by any means. 168 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: You know, it's really not. It's fun. Yeah, it's it's 169 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:10,679 Speaker 1: a dreg Being homesick is the worst too, Like being 170 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 1: homesick is just there's not always anything you can do 171 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: to necessarily, like you know, supplement it. Except we're going right, 172 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: We're having Thomas is the dogs come up, which obviously 173 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: he can't travel with them right now. So but it's 174 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: the end is in sight. It still is. So it's 175 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: so enjoyable. So yeah, I'll see him very very soon. 176 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: Um So how is how is Connor? Okay? Because you're 177 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 1: I then is now up and running right, But we 178 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: haven't spoken about how everything went with Connor because I 179 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: think we left off at Rodney. Yeah, who crushed it. Yeah, 180 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 1: not surprised. Oh my gosh, rod It was so fun 181 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 1: on stage, So I mean, so was Connor. Connor is 182 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: like a natural born performer, like he's a musician, he's 183 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 1: he lives on the stage like that's what he does, 184 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: and so he was a natural up there. Um, and 185 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: it's just so funny because like he's one of the 186 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: only guys who I would say, like really put in 187 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: a lot of thought up front, like before he even 188 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: started doing the show of like how he wanted to 189 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: make it his own. So he of course traveled with 190 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: his guitar, his ukulele, like he was trying to get 191 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: pianos up on stage to perform. So he was like 192 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 1: he was made for the stage, and so it was 193 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: fun to see him in his element, just doing his thing. 194 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 1: I always get kind of nervous because like on the 195 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: days off, we have to train the guys and like 196 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: basically prep them for what the show will be and 197 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: like what they have to know and like their role. 198 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: And he was the one I was like, I'm not 199 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: even worried about him, Like, give me fifteen minutes with him. 200 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: He's got this, like he'll be good. Yeah. So any 201 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,959 Speaker 1: cat costumes, We did see the cat costume a few times. 202 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: He wore it a couple of times, and then actually 203 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: we had one show where I just thought the cat 204 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: costume was lost, but a girl, one of the contestants 205 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: on stage, actually ended up getting it somehow from our 206 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 1: wardrobe guy, like thirty seconds before she came on stage, 207 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: and she wore it the entire time. She ended up 208 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: winning that night, and so I worked in her favor favor, 209 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: but it was so funny he wore during fantasy suits 210 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: at one point, like the hat, and I was like, 211 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: this is a very weird fantasy of yours. But yeah, 212 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: it's entertaining, though, so entertaining, and obviously the audience eats 213 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: that shot up. So yeah, okay, wait, though, isn't there 214 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:33,599 Speaker 1: a clip circulating where he may have gotten close to 215 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: kissing a contestant? Oh? Probably. Yeah. So there's a part 216 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: in the show every night where we basically like recreate 217 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: movie scenes and there's one where the guys like kind 218 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: of lean into it and get flirty and get like close. 219 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: But I always cut them before kiss because, like, you know, 220 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: some of the girls and women on stage or either 221 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 1: have boyfriends or are married or like i mean even 222 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,599 Speaker 1: this week has a girlfriend. So I'm like, there's no 223 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: way let you get remotely close and feel uncomfortable. But 224 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: but I did ask Connor because he was the one. 225 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 1: Most of the guys were like, yeah, you know, this 226 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: is more for fun, Like I'm not gonna find anyone, 227 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: but Connor was the one Boucher, who was like, I'm 228 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: in it, like I will kiss someone. He's like, we 229 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 1: were in Nashville for the last show. He's like, I 230 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 1: lived three hours from here, Like I could legit me 231 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: to wife tonight. Like I'm all for it. And so 232 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: every night I'd be like, Okay, Sore, anyone that you 233 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: like want for this specific scene that you want to kiss, 234 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: because I'll set it up for you. And there were 235 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: three times where he's like, yeah, I kiss her. I'd 236 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: kiss that girl like three different nights, and then when 237 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 1: I like went in to actually do it, I would 238 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 1: like look at him and then he'd like give me 239 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 1: a face and he'd like back out last minute. So 240 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what you want here, dude, Like, 241 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: but yeah he got. He got up close and personal 242 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: with some of the girls. Dang. I did not expect 243 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: that from Connor, but Michelle. I want to bring our 244 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: guests Sydney on because she is recently engaged, and when 245 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 1: we saw her leaf Peter season, obviously she was single. 246 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: So I want to get her whole story on what 247 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: life has been like for her since Peter season and 248 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 1: since COVID, So let's just bring her on again. She 249 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: has Sydney High Tower from Pilot Pete season. Um, yeah, 250 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: let's catch up with her right now. How are you 251 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: doing it? I'm good, Thank you. How are you guys? 252 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: We're good. He and I were just Beck and I 253 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: were just talking that this is your first Bachelor podcast. Correct, 254 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: Yeah I think so, because like right after yeah, my 255 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 1: since I don't think I did like a Bachelor and 256 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,079 Speaker 1: I think I did like some other like whatever they 257 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: spin off ones. Yeah, but yeah, well welcome, We're extending 258 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 1: to have you. I feel like Peter season got the 259 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: short end of the stick because obviously, literally the day 260 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: after the finale, COVID hit hard and like everything shut down. 261 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: So it's good to finally have you on and catch up. Sure, 262 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:53,959 Speaker 1: thanks for having me. I'm so like not in the world. 263 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: So I was just like when Eddie texts me, I 264 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 1: was like, because we're close and he lives in the 265 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: Bay and I'm in the Bay, and um, I was 266 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: like sure or why not? You know, well, I'm excited 267 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: to catch up with you because you are kind of 268 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 1: removed from this Bachelor world now because just like a 269 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 1: recap for our listeners, you went a Peter season left 270 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: COVID hit and you met your now fiance during that time, correct, right, 271 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: so like after you got everyone knows like your life's 272 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: going crazy, everything's changing. You're like coming into this like 273 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: what the hell is going on? And then also in 274 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 1: that time is when producers are like, okay, like are 275 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: you still single? Do you want to do Paradise? And 276 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: so I was still single at the time, and I 277 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: was just like why not, Like I was like still 278 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 1: nothing could really changed from the time I got kicked 279 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: off until they started like talking about going to Paradise. 280 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: So I was like why not. You know, if you 281 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: guys want me and you think it would be fun, 282 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: and I am like still single and available and ready 283 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: like let's do it. So then, of course, fast forward 284 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: COVID happens, everything gets shut down and all I mean, 285 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: of course, looking back, it was like my blessing in 286 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: disguise because in that time I found Fred and if 287 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: I didn't, you know, if I would have gone on Paradise, 288 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: I would have never connected. So um, yeah, we definitely 289 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: everything just stopped after COVID, I'll say that for sure, 290 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: Like how did you how did you meet? Um? So 291 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: it's so funny. So he found me on Instagram of course, 292 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: and then because I was like how life works now? 293 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: And then he were just like I didn't like reply 294 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 1: to his message because I was just like what is this? 295 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: Like I had so much? So he slid into your DMS, 296 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: slid into the da Wait was he smooth with it? 297 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 1: What did he say? He literally he's like kill me. 298 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: He literally sent a basketball and like was like because 299 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: he was like, now looking back, he says, well, I 300 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 1: didn't think you were gonna ever reply, so I didn't 301 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: want to like say something and get like hurt my ego. 302 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: So I was just like testing the waters and I 303 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: was like okay. So then of course, like I'm curious now, 304 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 1: like what is this basketball thing? And then I like 305 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 1: waited a few day and I was like, okay, whatever, 306 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: I'll message him back. And then um, because like I 307 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: was like, oh, this guy is like very good looking. 308 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: He seems like a good guy. I don't know. Um, 309 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: so I message him back and then he was like, oh, 310 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: I was just shooting my shot, So like, okay, Ondine 311 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: whoever though, and if I wouldn't have ever responded, it 312 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't have been like a like a gut to the chest, 313 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, So that's like a really good tip. 314 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: Were you living in the Bay Area at the time. No, 315 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 1: so I was still living I'm from Alabama. I was 316 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: still living in Alabama, working in Alabama. I would like 317 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: fly to LA for like stuff, but like I was 318 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: never really out in California much more than like a 319 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: week or two at a time. And then he is 320 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: from San Diego originally, so like he's in San Diego, 321 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: I'm in Alabama. How would that ever work? You know? 322 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: So ends up we you know, we're talking. We communicate 323 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: for weeks, like a month, another month, and then I'm like, oh, 324 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to be in LA shooting um the Woman's hell, 325 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: and will you be around because he does his off 326 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 1: season training in um like the Orange County area. And 327 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, I actually will be. You know, 328 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 1: like we should have fit, like the stars aligned, like 329 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: we should go to dinner or something. And then long 330 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: story short, they aligned and went and that's when we 331 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 1: first met in person. Was the like the weekend after 332 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: the woman told I love that. So that's really actually 333 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 1: like fate, and I like feel like I haven't no, 334 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: you really is it? Really? But you leave the tell 335 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: along You're like Peter who I got this hot man, 336 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 1: you have to give a goal, and I had we 337 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: met the night before and then I had to get 338 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:36,719 Speaker 1: my phone. It was just like it was just the 339 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 1: most amazing situation. I couldn't have wanted anything better. It 340 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 1: was just it was like the Michelle said it was 341 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 1: fate for sure. So when you guys sat down, you 342 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 1: said you sat down at dinner, right, Yeah? Were you you? 343 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 1: I'm guessing you were like super nervous. Were you were 344 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 1: there any like awkward moments or was it because you 345 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:55,239 Speaker 1: guys were talking for so long you just clicked right 346 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 1: off the back, you know what? The only awkward woman wise? 347 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 1: This was so funny and so random. Someone came up 348 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,880 Speaker 1: to me and was like, are you spitting from the bach? 349 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: So there, I'm like, what the heck? Like I wasn't 350 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: even like I didn't even like, what the heck? Why 351 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 1: are you coming up? And you know, like so caught 352 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 1: off guard because I would think if anyone came up 353 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 1: to us, it would be someone for Fred because he 354 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,880 Speaker 1: was like big in football back then and whatever. So 355 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: I was like, so I was embarrassed by that because 356 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 1: but he like ate it all up and like had 357 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: to like get up and like take a picture of list. 358 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: That was like very embarrassed by that because like that's 359 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 1: just like not how I viewed myself. And it was 360 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: just kind of like well and I was like just 361 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 1: meeting this guy and it was but that was really 362 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 1: the only other than that, know, like we're so similar 363 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 1: that when we grew up, like our family everything is. 364 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 1: It was just like spot on. So it was really 365 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 1: easy to keep conversation going. And I think when you 366 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: know then you have your person and you're for a 367 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 1: person that you guys can click. It's just not uncomfortable 368 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 1: or hard, you know. So then how long did you date? 369 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:53,360 Speaker 1: Because you've been engaged for about a year. Correct, Yeah, okay, 370 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:55,880 Speaker 1: so you dated for about a year before that then 371 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: the engagement happened. How did that all go down? And wait, time, 372 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 1: I want to see the ring? I was gonna say, 373 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: I can't even focus or shows us the ring? Oh oh, 374 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: another another parachet. Look at you. I had like long fingers, 375 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: so I was like, I think a pair just looking 376 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 1: longates the hand and I've always wanted a pair of 377 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: shape so beautiful. Both of yours are beautiful. I have 378 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 1: such chubby fingers. I'm like, oh, nothing looks good on 379 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 1: my hands, but that is done as anyone told you. Okay, 380 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: wait so you wear yours, Wait show me your show 381 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 1: us your ring again. So I wear it like up 382 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: where it's okay, So I like yours down the other way, 383 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: like wearing your ring. Really put it on. I was like, 384 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: isn't this supposed to go down? Like I was. I 385 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: always thought it was supposed to be the way you're 386 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: just Michelle, But he was like, no, like the guy 387 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: that designed and said it supposed to go up. So 388 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 1: then since that, I've always wanted up. But I originally 389 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 1: one hundred percent thought it was supposed to be okay, 390 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 1: So I Nate proposed this direction right like Neil Lane 391 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 1: told him to. You know, the point goes towards your heart. 392 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: But then every other one that I've run into, it's 393 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 1: like it's supposed to be the other way, So like 394 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: you have that, so maybe it's like the Clota ring 395 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: I'm irish. So like when you have the Clota rings, 396 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: which is like the heart in the with the crown 397 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 1: on top and like the hands holding it, you're supposed 398 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: to wear it different ways, whether you're single, in a 399 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 1: relationship or married. So if you're single, you wear it 400 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: on your ring finger on your right hand, and then 401 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: if you're I think dating somebody, you wear it on 402 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 1: the left, but the heart goes away from you. And 403 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: then when you're married, you switch it and the heart 404 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: goes towards you, like the point goes towards your heart. Dang, 405 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 1: I got it all wrong. Yeah, that's a beautiful ring. 406 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 1: Why I'm doing it so beautiful? How did he Okay? 407 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:44,160 Speaker 1: So how did he propose? I'm super curious? So he 408 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: actually was all He'll told me after we are engaged 409 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: that he had been holding on that he had the 410 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: ring and it was on his person for like three 411 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 1: months and he just like didn't know when to do 412 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: it because like we went back home to months by 413 00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 1: hometown in Alabama. He thought he was gonna do it air, 414 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: but it wasn't and then like all of these circumstances 415 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: where he just thought he was going to do it 416 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 1: for three months and then ended up he decided. So 417 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: we go to Napa a good bit because we're in 418 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 1: the Bay Areas, only like an hour drive. So we 419 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 1: go to Napa and like, I love wine and we 420 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:15,679 Speaker 1: just like love like the wine country and just like 421 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 1: the whole vibe. So he knows someone that does like 422 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 1: owned the winery out there, and he just like contacted 423 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: him and said, like, I think today's to day, like 424 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 1: I want to do it, and then they set it 425 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 1: all up and it was like hectic, and he just 426 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 1: was like, you know, let's just go like for a 427 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: day in Nappa So I like I didn't know like 428 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: it was gonna be what it was, but I just 429 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: had a feeling of just like because like he, I 430 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: don't know, like it was just like you kind of 431 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: get that feeling a little bit. And we always did 432 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: to win the purpose, so I knew it was like 433 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: sooner or later, and our families are very involved in too, 434 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: so but it was just so beautiful and he did 435 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 1: it at somewhere that I just absolutely love and it 436 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 1: was just like just like what he says in the moment, 437 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: it's just like a so special you know. I love that. 438 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: Did you have any family of friends like hiding out there? 439 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: Was it just the two of you? No? It was 440 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 1: just us too, which I liked because like, I am 441 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,639 Speaker 1: not a person that likes to like be like oh 442 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 1: like Sydney and or just like even us we facetimed 443 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: everybody afterwards they all knew but us too. Yeah, Oh 444 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 1: that's lovely. It looks like the perfect way for it 445 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: to happen on this We were simple, it was it 446 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 1: was just the way that we are. It was private, 447 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 1: it was just who we are. So it was yeah, 448 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: I loved it. Yeah, your photos from that day look 449 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:33,439 Speaker 1: beautiful too. I was gonna say so beautiful. So was he? Okay, 450 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm thinking back of how he slid into your DMS 451 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 1: shooting his shot. Was he a fan of the show 452 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: or how did he come across you just like randomly 453 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 1: in the search in the search bar. It's really funny. 454 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 1: So he had been single, like he had just like 455 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 1: like they went to the super Bowl. He lost the 456 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 1: super Bowl, so he was just like, oh, like down 457 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: and out and was like hanging out his house, not 458 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,679 Speaker 1: leaving his room, and he was like watching like he 459 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: would like watch shows, but he didn't watch The Bachelor, 460 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 1: but his family did um and they were like his 461 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,439 Speaker 1: brother is married and his wife like called him and 462 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 1: we're there like they do like family facetimes, and they 463 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: were like, there's this girl on the show that we're watching, 464 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: and like she is just like your type, your vibe, 465 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 1: like he's like, come on, like you're being like this 466 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: is so crazy, ridiculous, like I'm not gonna find this 467 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: random human and just like reach out. But he did. 468 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,399 Speaker 1: He waited until I got kicked off, and then he 469 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 1: had waited like two weeks, and then the show had 470 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: been over obviously, and he found on Instagram and then 471 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 1: shot a shot. Wait so when he was okay, so 472 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 1: his that's so sweet that the family was a part 473 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: of it, like they were they were like Teams Sydney 474 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: like from that. Okay, wait wait, so when he was 475 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: watching it, ye, did he know that you were going 476 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 1: to get kicked off? Or he was like sitting there 477 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: hoping that you'd get kicked off because you know, because 478 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: like I had, it hadn't been like the end end 479 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: of the show yet I forget all of that works. 480 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I don't hate. I don't think he 481 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,959 Speaker 1: knew that I was like not in a relationship. Yet 482 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 1: he had to wait until I was kicked off, and 483 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: then he waited longer and then he reached out like 484 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 1: a lot of his family like watching the show and 485 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 1: finding me. It's so funny. So does this family take 486 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,679 Speaker 1: credit then for like putting you two together like making 487 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 1: little I mean it's all honestly like, I mean, he 488 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 1: did the work, but they definitely found me. So yeah, 489 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 1: I love that. That's really the show brings people together 490 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 1: in the weirdest way. Regardless, it was the biggest blessing 491 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 1: I've ever done in my life. Like, of course it didn't. 492 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: It wasn't as great as I wanted it in a moment, 493 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 1: But looking back, I mean, I would never have been 494 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: where I am in live. I've never find like the 495 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 1: man I'm gonna the rest of my life with if 496 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:54,919 Speaker 1: I had not done that show. It's just crazy. I'm curious. 497 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 1: So how far did you make it on Peter season? Again? 498 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,439 Speaker 1: You made it fairly far, correct, I mean really far. 499 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: I made it like a week or two before Hometowns, 500 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 1: That's right. Okay, So so when you were there, and 501 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure this is like hard to even fathom you 502 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: putting yourself back in that position of like dating and 503 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 1: Peter now that you're happily engaged, But when you were 504 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 1: on the show, did you fall for Peter, Like did 505 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,120 Speaker 1: you actually feel like, oh my gosh, this is my guy, 506 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 1: Like this could work? You know what? I think Initially 507 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: I had first of all because we didn't know who 508 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 1: it was, so like I thought it was like you know, 509 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: I thought for so long that it was Mike Johnson 510 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: and then it wasn't. So I was like, but I 511 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: literally we we found out the night before we went out. 512 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: So I was like, just like an official attraction I knew, 513 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: like I had like seeing it. I was like, okay, 514 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: Mike Johnson's like my vibe, like we can talk without similarities. 515 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 1: But then it was Peter and I had never looked 516 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 1: into him much. I had no idea who he was. 517 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, like let me just redo this 518 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: all in my marine if I get ready for this, 519 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: So like I did it. I was completely like open everything, 520 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 1: so there for just like the full experience and everything 521 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: and you know, really meeting him getting to know him. 522 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 1: And then we did, but just like we just like 523 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 1: never clicked. Um. The only time that I got like 524 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: that little like butterfly like okay, he maybe likes me 525 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: is when like I got two group date roses like 526 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 1: in a row. So I was like, okay, like so 527 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: I hadn't spent a long time with him, but he 528 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 1: is reassuring me with rose to roses. I'm like Okay, 529 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 1: so maybe he's into me more than I actually think. 530 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,400 Speaker 1: I just never thought he was ever like at all 531 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 1: into me. Um So that was really the only point 532 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 1: that I was like, Okay, you know, he may be 533 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,159 Speaker 1: into me. But then that quickly went away and it 534 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: was just we just never clicked. We never clicked. Yeah, yeah, 535 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 1: what was your entrance? My entrance was I just I 536 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,159 Speaker 1: walked up and I was like, I know you like 537 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,639 Speaker 1: girls from Alabama because you know, browned, but you know, 538 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: not your typical southern girl. And then I was just 539 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 1: like walking away cover okay, simple. I know, looking back, 540 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,920 Speaker 1: I wish I would have done something like super big 541 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 1: and funny, because it's so much easier to like chill out. 542 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: I just I think throughout my whole experience, I took 543 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 1: it a little too serious, which it sounds a little 544 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 1: bit weird, but I should have just been more like whatever, 545 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: like have a good time, be silly, be funny, because 546 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: I think I would have enjoyed it more. Not all 547 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 1: the time, right. I think you do what you can though, 548 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: because like it's the first time you're going through anything 549 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 1: remotely like that, and you just respond like as best 550 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:36,840 Speaker 1: as you can write such a wild experience from that season, 551 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: are you because you're still pretty close with some of 552 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 1: the girls, right, No, I So I talked to me 553 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: Victoria Paul yesterday. I talked to Victoria Fuller last week, 554 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 1: Jazz when I talked to her weekly. Um, Kiera Norman 555 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 1: is like my best friend. She's actually my maid of honor, 556 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,239 Speaker 1: Hermie and Natasha Parker. I mean I'm close to a 557 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: lot of them, like we are like this if we 558 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: talk like it's a weekly, like they're my girls. You know. 559 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: I love Natasha. I love her so much. So she 560 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 1: truly is such a such a good friend and really 561 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 1: just is there with wise words all the time. So um, yeah, 562 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 1: so a lot of the girls I keep up with. 563 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: I want to ask you, So you've now been engaged 564 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,360 Speaker 1: for about a year. Do you have pretty much all 565 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: of your wedding plans set? How has that process been 566 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: for you? Yeah, it's been like pretty seamless. I was 567 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:32,199 Speaker 1: very pro wedding planner because I just can't I just 568 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 1: can't handle all of that already. So I got the 569 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: amazing wedding planner. She's handled it so well. I mean 570 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 1: every detail they're just like seamless and helped me so much. 571 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: So it's really been easy. The only like wedding drama 572 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: is um I had to get addressed like last week 573 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 1: because I had gotten one and designed it like the 574 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: month after I got engaged because I was so excited, 575 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 1: you know, I was like, let's go, let's get into this, 576 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: and I was supposed to pick it up like last week, 577 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 1: so like nine months later, and I just like old 578 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 1: I hated it it. This wasn't and I was just 579 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: like I can't you know, I can't see myself and this, 580 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 1: I can't wear this. So then I had to just 581 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: like put all like my energy into finding a knew 582 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: dress and it's what I'm nine weeks out. So it 583 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:26,239 Speaker 1: was not yeah, what's the date, Dune twenty five? You 584 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 1: are a calm bride. You are I'm gonna take care 585 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 1: of you. You are a calm bride. Wow, I know, 586 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: and you know what, I'm just like that's what everyone's 587 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: really said me, like Sitney your social because I am 588 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 1: I'm just like like that naturally. But the only moment 589 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: I got like crazy nervous and was like it was 590 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: the dress obviously. But then I found one like the 591 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 1: day first day I went, and I was like Okay, 592 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 1: this is great, it's done. No, oh my gosh, I do. 593 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 1: And where's it gonna be. It's gonna be in San Diego. 594 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: We went between like Napa or Seen Diego because Nappa's 595 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 1: just like our happy place. But yeah, it's just very 596 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 1: difficult to just get there, like, so Napa is easier. 597 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry. San Diego is easier because like 598 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: all of his families there. Anyways, Okay, wait, so are 599 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: you guys gonna be um, are you gonna be going 600 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 1: on like a honeymoon afterwards? Oh, we just booked our 601 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 1: honeymoon because I didn't know that like people actually went 602 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 1: on their honeymoon like the day after the wedding. I 603 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 1: thought that was just in movies and I was like, 604 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 1: don't really do that. I always like a month after 605 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: and it's like no, like you really just escape and 606 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: go off into your things. So I asked him, like, 607 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: what do you want to do? Do you want to 608 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, like let's just do it like 609 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 1: the day, let's fly out the day after we get married. 610 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 1: So I was like okay. So we decided we wanted 611 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 1: to go to Europe, but with Fred's work schedule of course, 612 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 1: like you have to go to Europe for at least 613 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 1: two weeks in my opinion, just to get what you 614 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 1: went there for. So with his work schedule, we can't 615 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: do that. We can't take that many days because football 616 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 1: season's about to start. But we decided to just go 617 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 1: to Bora Bora, which is like really exciting, just go incredible, 618 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,080 Speaker 1: this really old place. I didn't even like that, but 619 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 1: like like one of like a you know, like island 620 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: vibe instead of like yeah vibe. So we just like 621 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,959 Speaker 1: to shove me and back in your suitcase. Do you 622 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: need a handler? I will take care of your errands. 623 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 1: I will carry your luggage. I'm really nervous about going 624 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 1: because like getting there, it's like you have to get 625 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 1: on like two planes like a water boat. Like it's 626 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 1: like a little sketchy. But I'm just like hopefully be okay, 627 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: you'll be fine. It's gonna be Yeah, we'll have to 628 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: check in with you. I'm want those I'm excited to 629 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: see those pictures. Yeah, I never band to like you know, 630 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 1: like those like like iconic pictures of like the house 631 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: on the top of the blue water, Like that's like 632 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 1: your dreams. So we're gonna do that. Yeah. One. You know, 633 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 1: I've never planned a wedding, but I can imagine after 634 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: that you're just gonna be so drained and exhausted that 635 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 1: that sounds like the perfect location to just relax, chill, 636 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 1: kick your feet up, just swim. Um. So yeah, I 637 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 1: I also I'm very excited to see the photos, so 638 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: take lots document at all, um, And are you going 639 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: for two weeks for it? Now? We're just gonna go 640 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 1: for like five days because that's really it's like crunch 641 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 1: time with football. It's just you. Your whole life is 642 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: basically around that one to get the summer months, so 643 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: we're just trying to like, you know, stuck on all 644 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 1: the un can I want to know. So dating a 645 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 1: professional athlete, I mean it definitely. I'm sure it has 646 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: its perks, but I can imagine it is very difficult too, 647 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 1: because it's not a regular nine to five, like he 648 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:33,360 Speaker 1: has to be so structured. Is that difficult, especially during 649 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 1: football season dating somebody who is so zoned in on 650 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: his career? Yeah. So the one thing that I love 651 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 1: most about Fred is how motivated and dedicated he is 652 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 1: to his craft. And he's just like that is just 653 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 1: like his number one and I respect that so much 654 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:51,360 Speaker 1: about him. So that's one thing that I get, like 655 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 1: the time you have to put the time in to 656 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: be at his level. So one hundred percent, like completely 657 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 1: support him. And I'm very type A too, so I 658 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 1: up a schedule. I love like time, so like once 659 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 1: we get our thing down, like we're good, of course 660 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 1: I miss him just because like training camps the worst 661 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 1: I'd say the season not that bad. It's just training 662 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 1: camp because he'll leave at seven am and not get 663 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 1: home to like nine thirty pm training. So right now 664 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 1: is OTAs which isn't hard. It's just like too you know, 665 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,120 Speaker 1: four or five hour days was not bad at all. 666 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 1: But um, it's you know, it's definitely push and pull. 667 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 1: It's definitely you having to respect you know, each other's 668 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 1: time and when you have it, really really take it in. 669 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: But you know, I wouldn't change it for the world. 670 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 1: He is. He loves his job so much and he's 671 00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: so successful, so that just like fires me into supporting 672 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 1: him as much as I can. And um, we balanced 673 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 1: each other really good. We uh we do good. It 674 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 1: seems like good. Are you able to go to a 675 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 1: lot of the games? Yeah, So I go to all 676 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: the home games and then like halfish of the ways, 677 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: like I don't go to the cross country aways just 678 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 1: unless it's like Chicago, because I love Chicago, but like 679 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 1: the Lions, I don't go. And I just also depends 680 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 1: on our schedule. I just you know, I try to 681 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 1: go as winny as I can, um, but not every game. No, 682 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 1: what is it like? Are you pretty close with the 683 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 1: other players wives and girlfriends or is it like a 684 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 1: thing kind of like the first night of the Bachelor 685 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,800 Speaker 1: when you walk in and everyone's so stunning and beautiful 686 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,439 Speaker 1: and you don't know what to expect if they're gonna 687 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:28,399 Speaker 1: be nice, or it's exactly like I can imagine i'd 688 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 1: be so hard. It's hard. But no, I have a 689 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: lot of my I have my core group of my 690 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: girls that i've really like love and I'm so thankful 691 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 1: or still with the team because it's kind of sad 692 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 1: when you get close to someone and then good bye 693 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:44,440 Speaker 1: they're gone again and it's like no, like that's my 694 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: best friend. Um, so yeah, I have my core girls 695 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 1: that I love so much and that's all you really 696 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:54,479 Speaker 1: neat And then yeah, I mean, yeah, I'm sure. It's 697 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: just it's once you find that too, and like when 698 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,840 Speaker 1: other people are welcoming with like open arms, it's just 699 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: they understand the lifestyle that you're living right right, like 700 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 1: their husband or friend a respect thing too. It's like 701 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,279 Speaker 1: when you're the newbies and you're it's also like you 702 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 1: have to like earn something and it's very strange. It's 703 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 1: it's it's different. Um, it's like earn your rank that okay. 704 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 1: So is it like it in the sense of it's 705 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 1: like earn your spot like I've been here for or 706 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: like my so and so have been on the team 707 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: for this many years. Or is it like where a 708 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,280 Speaker 1: fiance and you're just girlfriend. It's that It's that, Michelle, 709 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,799 Speaker 1: it's the girlfriend because you have to understand, like so 710 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,880 Speaker 1: many players are through here and then they have you know, 711 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,839 Speaker 1: if they're not in a committee. You know, a lot 712 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 1: of girls get there. So you have to just like, Okay, 713 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: she coming, she's staying, okay, okay, we can like bring 714 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 1: her in and she's like you are a friend now, 715 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:52,839 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So, um, which is understandable, 716 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 1: but yeah, it's definitely more that route. One of my 717 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,120 Speaker 1: good friends years ago, when I was still living in Minnesota, 718 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 1: dated a Vikings player for a couple of years, and 719 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 1: I remember and she wouldn't hook us up with tickets, 720 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,839 Speaker 1: so we would go to some of the games. And 721 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,799 Speaker 1: there was one night where I don't know if it 722 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 1: was like a birthday party for one of the players. 723 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: They had rented out this like big bar club area 724 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 1: and had a birthday party or a party, and my 725 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: friend Brianna at the time, he was sitting in the 726 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 1: guy I was like, do you want to come to 727 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:21,560 Speaker 1: the party? I was like, oh, yeah, sure, I have 728 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 1: nothing going on tonight. So she brought me with and 729 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,160 Speaker 1: the girls were so standoffish. I was like, I'm not 730 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,640 Speaker 1: here to date anyone. I'm not here to like steal 731 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 1: your man. But they were like they were like who 732 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 1: is this girl? And Brianna was like, this is one 733 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: of my best friends. And it wasn't until she's like, oh, 734 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 1: she's with me that they were like, oh hi. I 735 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,600 Speaker 1: was like, I do not belong here. This is like 736 00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 1: the weirdest situation I've ever been in. But no, girl, 737 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: roots are hard, no matter what. I've just always been 738 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: that way. I've always been very like ducked off and 739 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: my own zoll like I'm not good with that. So 740 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,720 Speaker 1: obviously when you're coming into like this, it's like whoa, 741 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: like it really take it in and I'm just like 742 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,680 Speaker 1: a retractor, like I'm just gonna like go away. And 743 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 1: then that can be looked at a like stand offor 744 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:02,400 Speaker 1: you just you can't win. You don't know what to do. 745 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,200 Speaker 1: Do you be in their face? But then they'll be 746 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 1: like is it too much? Or do you attract? And 747 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:10,439 Speaker 1: I don't know, So what was more intimidating night one 748 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 1: going into the Bachelor or the first time you met 749 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,040 Speaker 1: all of the wives and the girlfriend it's fifty fifty, 750 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 1: it's the same. I was sweating and well just walking 751 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 1: into matagine like walking into a group of girls by yourself, 752 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 1: you've never met one of them, and just like to me, 753 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 1: that's like I'm sweating thinking of that. Yeah, you know 754 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,640 Speaker 1: what I mean. So like it's it's nerve wracking. But 755 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:34,440 Speaker 1: like I said that, all of that end up goes 756 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: and goes away. Being the new girl isn't ever easy 757 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,120 Speaker 1: in any circumstance. So you just you know, you find 758 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 1: your place, you you know, set your your being in 759 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,880 Speaker 1: the ground and you just move, you know how you 760 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 1: want to. Fred give like his teammates a heads up 761 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 1: of like I really like this one, so yeah, people 762 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,920 Speaker 1: will know Fred. He only takes everything he does so 763 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:57,280 Speaker 1: super seriously. So I think everyone knew when he finally 764 00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: like had a girlfriend. They're like, okay, like you know, 765 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 1: like you saw like if you're gonna you know, this 766 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 1: is your girl. So yeah, oh what lives. So it's 767 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,360 Speaker 1: so fun to get the ins and outs of a 768 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 1: world that I have no idea about really, but I 769 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 1: want to know now. So he didn't watch the show. 770 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 1: His family obviously did. Do you or do both of 771 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 1: you now keep up with the show? Do you so watch? Um? 772 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 1: Actually the last time we watch was Michelle season, and hey, yes, 773 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 1: and he like loved you like he he doesn't really 774 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 1: watch the Bachelorette or I don't think he watched any 775 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 1: of it, but I was like, let's watch let's watch 776 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 1: her season. My god, She's like, let's watch her and 777 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 1: he loved it. Well, um, but I know, I mean 778 00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 1: he is just really funny, like he's very very opinionated. 779 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,399 Speaker 1: So like one time I did like a like one 780 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,319 Speaker 1: of the I can't remember what season it was, like 781 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 1: showing like our reactions. But I can't put him on 782 00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:00,880 Speaker 1: my Instagram because he's so honest and he's just ridiculous, 783 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 1: all right, I would actually love to see the honesty. 784 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 1: Oh I did too, So Sitney, you and Fred, we'll 785 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,600 Speaker 1: get into a game shortly, but I want to know 786 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 1: because you and Fred just recently bought a house. Correct, 787 00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:15,880 Speaker 1: So how was the house hunting and the moving process? Listen, 788 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 1: house hunting and the Bay area is not fun at all. 789 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 1: But it took months and months and months and months. 790 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 1: I think I walked through probably twenty three homes. It 791 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 1: was just nuts, but you know, gave me a real 792 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:33,359 Speaker 1: respect for the real estate industry and just everything. All 793 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 1: my mind opened up to a lot of things I 794 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,320 Speaker 1: had no idea about, so that was really a perk. 795 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 1: But it was definitely not easy. But when when we 796 00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,280 Speaker 1: found the one you know that we ended up buying, 797 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 1: we just fell in love with it. We were like, 798 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,239 Speaker 1: let's go, like, let's get like, let's do this fast 799 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: as possible. And it's been a dream owning a home 800 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,839 Speaker 1: and like furnishing it and just really like making it 801 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:58,640 Speaker 1: feel like our happy place. It's been an incredible blessing, 802 00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 1: like we've never been happy. So congratulations, especially after all 803 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,319 Speaker 1: that hard work. It makes it so much more worth it. 804 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,960 Speaker 1: That's what we talk about. You are like, it's so 805 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: nice to like, of course, like when you know you're 806 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,120 Speaker 1: successful and you just have you have that respect for 807 00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 1: yourself and your sport and in your work like me. 808 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,800 Speaker 1: But when you have something that like you can finally 809 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,320 Speaker 1: like touch and feel and see and you're like, this 810 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 1: work was so worth it and you know it's it's 811 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 1: really nice. Yeah. How long have you guys been moved in? 812 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 1: So we moved in in January. Okay, it's a very 813 00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 1: fund a little bit. Do you feel like it's you know, 814 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,480 Speaker 1: when you move into like you're a new spot. It's 815 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 1: like you it takes a little bit to make it 816 00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,480 Speaker 1: home and furnish it and decorate it. Are you like 817 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:45,400 Speaker 1: pretty much done? We're done. But there's just like with furniture, 818 00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:47,480 Speaker 1: like it takes like eight months to get anything in. 819 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 1: So there's like oh yeah, yeah, there's like three rooms 820 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 1: that aren't even touched. There's like some have some things 821 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 1: and then some have don't you know, I just have 822 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,439 Speaker 1: to wait till it all comes together. I think out 823 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:01,879 Speaker 1: a year will be like finally said old for sure, Um, 824 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,360 Speaker 1: but it takes that long it's nuts. It's really nice. Listen. 825 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:10,440 Speaker 1: I bought a house in I closed in July. I 826 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:14,440 Speaker 1: didn't move in until October, but I searched for about 827 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,400 Speaker 1: a year and it still is not done. Like it 828 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 1: is still it's kind of ways to go, and I'll 829 00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,760 Speaker 1: probably move out of it soon. Anyways, I'm like, oh 830 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,840 Speaker 1: my god, that is not Yeah, I think that. I'm like, 831 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,719 Speaker 1: what if we have to like, what if we have 832 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 1: to move here? I don't even get to really finish it. 833 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 1: But that's we're not that's not gonna happen. You're gonna 834 00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 1: say there for a while, we're gonna manifest that. Yeah. 835 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 1: Um okay, Sydney, let's get into our game because we're 836 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:43,600 Speaker 1: for games and so basically we're just going to uh 837 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,439 Speaker 1: just catch up with you. It's like a rapid fire. 838 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 1: So we'll ask you a question and whatever comes to 839 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 1: mind right away is whatever you answer. So, um, so 840 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,400 Speaker 1: are you more of the early bird gets the worm? 841 00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 1: Or sleep in in the mornings? Let's sleep in. Let's 842 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,400 Speaker 1: sleep in type of girl. M Okay. Favorite thing to 843 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 1: do with your fiance go to the movies. The last 844 00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,400 Speaker 1: thing we saw it was The Harry Potter One. The 845 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,160 Speaker 1: Secrets of Dumbledore. I'm like a Harry Potter freak. Is 846 00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:16,399 Speaker 1: it good? I want to go? Oh my god. So 847 00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 1: I have no idea what's going on the whole time. 848 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,239 Speaker 1: But I was like, don't look at me, don't talk 849 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:24,760 Speaker 1: in this Like, have you been to Harry Potter World? No, 850 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,239 Speaker 1: that's not like my biggest dream though. Can see you 851 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 1: wanting to go there. You need to go out, blackout 852 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,120 Speaker 1: from change. It changed in a honeymoon. No more bora, bora. 853 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,919 Speaker 1: You need to go to Harry Potter World and next 854 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,120 Speaker 1: time you will both come down to La Let me know. 855 00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 1: I have the place to stay. You can crash there. 856 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:46,320 Speaker 1: I'm ten minutes from Universal where I can go. So 857 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 1: it's so fun. It's so fun. I took Thomas there 858 00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:50,960 Speaker 1: because he's a die hard Harry Potter fan, and he 859 00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 1: got picked for like the wand experience, and I, legit 860 00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:58,200 Speaker 1: started crying in all of that room. I was like this, yeah, so, 861 00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:59,879 Speaker 1: but do you have a video of that? I need 862 00:42:59,880 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 1: to I would send it to you. I was sobbing. 863 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:05,760 Speaker 1: It was like the most beautiful, magical thing ever. Okay, 864 00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:08,239 Speaker 1: next question in the game, how many times a day 865 00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 1: do you check your Instagram? Checking my probably like six 866 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:19,400 Speaker 1: to seven. That's probably psycho. But yeah, six to seven, 867 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:23,000 Speaker 1: I feel like all like check in maybe not sund 868 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 1: there forever Okay, didn't check in again? Okay, maybe five. 869 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 1: I'm taking it to five. Five cold weather or warm weather? Um? Warm, 870 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,320 Speaker 1: warm weather. What's the best thing I don't even know 871 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:38,799 Speaker 1: if you like to cook, but what's the best thing 872 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:43,320 Speaker 1: that you can cook? Salmon? Probably I've really perfected salmon. 873 00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 1: I love fish, and I would like eat fish over 874 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:50,880 Speaker 1: chicken or red meat any day, So like only salmon. Okay, okay, 875 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,800 Speaker 1: where is your favorite place in the world. My favorite 876 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 1: place in the world is Italy for sure. M Yeah, 877 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,520 Speaker 1: what it's one beauty product that you can't live without? 878 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:11,839 Speaker 1: I brought penseil amen. When are you the most productive 879 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 1: and most productive? Like everyone? At times? Like in the morning, 880 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 1: for sure, Like I really just like just like crank 881 00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:21,839 Speaker 1: it out in the morning so that I can chill 882 00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 1: at night. For sure. On the same way, I like, 883 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:26,759 Speaker 1: I don't want to work and do anything at night. 884 00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to relax. So when I hit seven, 885 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 1: you're still entering emails and doing stuff. I'm just like 886 00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,200 Speaker 1: our on Instagram or doing this it's just like, oh 887 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 1: my god, this is too Yeah. Yeah, what's your favorite 888 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: cheat meal? My favorite cheat meal? Oh my gosh, this 889 00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:50,120 Speaker 1: one's really hard. Probably mosa Realistics or like a Sonic cheeseburger. 890 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:55,480 Speaker 1: I love that is like Sonic love it. I don't 891 00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 1: think I've ever been to a Sonic. You have to 892 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,800 Speaker 1: go to one on the Sonic that Sydney, the Sonic 893 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:06,800 Speaker 1: you've been to. They like you drive in right, I 894 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 1: may like serve you on. That's fun and that's like 895 00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,320 Speaker 1: a big thing like Sonic. It's like where you go. Um, 896 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 1: so I was the Sonic girl and check it out? 897 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 1: Would you? Yes? You? Would you either be surprised or 898 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:26,799 Speaker 1: do the surprising? Um? I like to do the surprising. Okay. 899 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,920 Speaker 1: On a date night, would you prefer to get all 900 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,520 Speaker 1: dulled up and go out or are you more of 901 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:35,279 Speaker 1: like a takeout hang out on the couch Netflix and 902 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,880 Speaker 1: chill kind of goal? I like to wow, I like 903 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,759 Speaker 1: to get dressed up and go be social for a 904 00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,919 Speaker 1: date night because we do that chill on the couch 905 00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:46,279 Speaker 1: a lot. So I'd like to go out. Okay. If 906 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 1: you could have any superpower, what would it be? Um? 907 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:55,400 Speaker 1: Time travel? M who is the last person from VAT 908 00:45:55,600 --> 00:46:01,600 Speaker 1: Nation besides us that you've talked to, Victoria Paul. Okay, 909 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 1: would you prefer to watch the game on TV or 910 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 1: go in person? Go in person? Oh? Yeah, you got 911 00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,960 Speaker 1: important man? An even a question? You know, what is 912 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 1: one style I love this question? What is one style 913 00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:20,799 Speaker 1: trend you wish would come back? A style trend that 914 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 1: I wish would come back? Um, Oh my gosh, what 915 00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 1: is the style trend I wish would come back? Maybe 916 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,160 Speaker 1: you guys remember like we would wear just like cammies 917 00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:37,239 Speaker 1: as shirts with Jane. I kind of like that as 918 00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 1: remember right now with like a jean. Yeah, gimmy Jane. 919 00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if that was a good answer or not, 920 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,360 Speaker 1: but that would those a little lace like that? Yeah, 921 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:51,440 Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah the vibe. Wait, do you remember this 922 00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,920 Speaker 1: style trend? It was big when I was in middle school. 923 00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:56,880 Speaker 1: And maybe it's because I was a dancer, but we 924 00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,200 Speaker 1: used to cut like the bottom of our tight and 925 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: like make necklaces like chokers out of our tights. Did 926 00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 1: you all ever wear that? Was that the thing for 927 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,480 Speaker 1: you or was it that was one for me? I 928 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,359 Speaker 1: can't remember doing that. A lot of people do. Maybe 929 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 1: it was a Minnesota thing. I remember a lot of 930 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: people do. Yeah. And I remember a lot of people 931 00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:19,839 Speaker 1: layer layering those cammies that you're talking about, Sydney, like 932 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:24,880 Speaker 1: they would put two of them together, like lace at 933 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,799 Speaker 1: the bottom, like levels why y yeah, yeah, yeah, like 934 00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:32,359 Speaker 1: your gaucho pants. I don't know, yes, the gaucho. Wait, 935 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,319 Speaker 1: do you remember, Oh my gosh, we're just gonna go 936 00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 1: into all these crazy friends when people used to double 937 00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 1: up the polos and pop the collar. Yes, yeah, double 938 00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:46,160 Speaker 1: polo it yeah, Hollister and Aberca. I remember they were 939 00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 1: so tight too that I couldn't raise my but I 940 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:53,760 Speaker 1: was like, I look cool so tight? Yeah? Yeah, oh gosh, 941 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:58,160 Speaker 1: dumb memory lane. That is so funny. Um. What is 942 00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 1: your signature drink? Your go to drink? I'd go to 943 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:06,480 Speaker 1: drink probably gossip red wine for sure. Classic. Oh is 944 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:12,000 Speaker 1: your style icon? My style icon? I'm gonna be basic him, 945 00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:16,279 Speaker 1: probably say Kim Kardashian. Okay, okay, yeah, I mean she 946 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,600 Speaker 1: never really gets it wrong, you know, no, she really doesn't. 947 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 1: It's true. Do you have that one right? Um? What 948 00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: is one thing on your bucket list? One thing on 949 00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:34,160 Speaker 1: my bucket list? Oh man, this one's hard. I M 950 00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 1: maybe owning a piece of property in my hometown. Not 951 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,279 Speaker 1: a good dass like it's like a good goal I 952 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,480 Speaker 1: want to do. I like that. I really like that. 953 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,880 Speaker 1: I really like that a lot Like would you just 954 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 1: like want land or you would want an actual home 955 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 1: that you can go and visit. I so my dream 956 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:53,840 Speaker 1: in life is to have kids and then then go 957 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,160 Speaker 1: to school University of Alabama because that's where I went. 958 00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:58,480 Speaker 1: Um and if they're athletic, that would be even better. 959 00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:02,480 Speaker 1: Because but I would love to like, oh, like babe, 960 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,319 Speaker 1: like an apartment or something kind of something to monetize 961 00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,120 Speaker 1: for sure, but yeah, just yeah, not land most probably 962 00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:14,320 Speaker 1: just like a property. M I like that answer. I 963 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 1: don't know if that's any fun, but no, I I 964 00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:20,000 Speaker 1: love that. Um well, that was our game. Thank you, Sydney, 965 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,239 Speaker 1: before we love, before we let you go. Though we 966 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,279 Speaker 1: always every week share our rose and our thorn, so 967 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:29,600 Speaker 1: basically like the highlight and the low light of the week. 968 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 1: So Michelle, do you want to start it out this time? Sure? 969 00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:39,440 Speaker 1: I will. Um My rose would probably be that this 970 00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,760 Speaker 1: week I get to head to Canada again and visit 971 00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:46,480 Speaker 1: Nate's family, So I'm excited to do that. Um My 972 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:52,680 Speaker 1: thorn is that. Um, I posted a fit check Friday 973 00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:57,160 Speaker 1: Friday fit check on Thursday and it's not Friday. So 974 00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,839 Speaker 1: I had that, you know, that lovely realization that, like, 975 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,399 Speaker 1: but I didn't realize it. You know, several people had 976 00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:04,880 Speaker 1: to tell me. So I had that realization that, like, 977 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,200 Speaker 1: it is not it's not the weekend. Yeah, could just 978 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:12,600 Speaker 1: wait until how good it's gonna be tomorrow. Oh my gosh. 979 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 1: It so crazy all the time. I do that all 980 00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:18,000 Speaker 1: the time and people are like, oh, it's not that day, 981 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,400 Speaker 1: but I'm like, I was so convinced. Yeah, I literally 982 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: would have went the whole day if I you know 983 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna told you, So all right, Sidney, 984 00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:29,440 Speaker 1: you will go next share our your rose and your thorn. Um. 985 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,239 Speaker 1: So my rose would definitely be my mom gets here 986 00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,960 Speaker 1: on Saturday and my brother is actually here. They're both 987 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:38,040 Speaker 1: flu and from Alabama, so they've been spending the week 988 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 1: here with us and it's been so nice, so like 989 00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:43,680 Speaker 1: host them and come them here. So that's my rose, 990 00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,840 Speaker 1: and then my thorn would probably be I had to 991 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:51,560 Speaker 1: go to the dmb um yesterday to get a new 992 00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,200 Speaker 1: like and like change it from Alabama to California, and 993 00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:57,759 Speaker 1: like take a test. I failed twice. It was just 994 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,879 Speaker 1: so that's something my thorn. DMB is ever a good time. 995 00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, how many How long were you there? 996 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,439 Speaker 1: I mean I made an apply I thought. I was like, okay, 997 00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: I'll make an appointment online, right, so I just I 998 00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,240 Speaker 1: just breeze through it, right, doesn't matter. Never make an appointment, 999 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,160 Speaker 1: it's all a joke. Just so I showed up. I 1000 00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 1: was there for probably three and a half hours. So, 1001 00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:20,919 Speaker 1: oh my gosh. Yeah, DMV is never, it's like never 1002 00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 1: a short trip. I didn't know I had to take 1003 00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,680 Speaker 1: a time to put it off. So I blindly took 1004 00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:29,360 Speaker 1: to the driving test. I had three times to pass it. 1005 00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:32,960 Speaker 1: I failed twice. It was just a lot. Yeah, we did. 1006 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 1: You have three times to pass it in the same day. 1007 00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,440 Speaker 1: I had three times to pass it in in the same day. Right, 1008 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 1: and if you fail at three times and you have 1009 00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 1: to wait a few weeks and come back and take 1010 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,719 Speaker 1: a driving band. So I was like, I can't want 1011 00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 1: to take the driving time. I mean, I would pass 1012 00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:46,360 Speaker 1: the driving test, but I'm like that is such a burden, 1013 00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 1: Like I don't want to do that. Yeah, that's a lot. Well, 1014 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,360 Speaker 1: I'm happy that you got that done. You are taken 1015 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 1: care of. I know there we got We're good chicken, 1016 00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:55,200 Speaker 1: and then now you can just look forward to the 1017 00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:58,520 Speaker 1: weekend and everything with your family. That's awesome. Well, thank 1018 00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,040 Speaker 1: you Sydney so much for being here. It was so 1019 00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 1: fun to just touch base with you catch up. I 1020 00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,799 Speaker 1: know that you have not been on a Bachelor podcast, 1021 00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 1: so hopefully it was a good experience. I think it's 1022 00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:12,080 Speaker 1: time so much for having me. Really, of course, it 1023 00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,359 Speaker 1: was so nice talking to you. 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