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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all.

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Speaker 3: All at all.

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Speaker 4: So don't give them.

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Speaker 5: Busy Yeah, listening too to hand.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, joy.

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Speaker 6: They s.

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Speaker 7: You gotta.

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Speaker 6: Know you love you.

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Speaker 8: You turn.

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Speaker 1: To turn the most turn you probably got to turn.

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Speaker 2: Mouth out the word.

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Speaker 1: The mon jup, come.

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Speaker 9: Come out, you think, Uh huh, I sure will. Good

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Speaker 9: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on dig

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Speaker 9: me now. One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do.

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Speaker 10: Took me when I said, but I do, like I

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Speaker 10: say always. It just is a constant reminder of how

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Speaker 10: good God has been. So my question to you is

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Speaker 10: what's stopping you from having the life that you want?

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Speaker 10: What's stopping you from having the life that you want?

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Speaker 2: I know a lot of.

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Speaker 10: People who have given up on achieving the life of

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Speaker 10: their dreams. But I know they'd still want them if

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Speaker 10: they could get to them. But they just allowed to

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Speaker 10: settle for so many reasons. So who I'm talking to

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Speaker 10: is you today. What's really at the core of stopping you?

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Speaker 6: What is that?

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Speaker 2: Is it your friends or your associates?

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Speaker 10: Is it the fear of what you think somebody else

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Speaker 10: will think of you if you decide to change.

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Speaker 2: Is it what I used to call the call of

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Speaker 2: the wile?

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Speaker 10: Is it the fact that you keep thinking that the

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Speaker 10: thing that you're doing that's providing you these momentary moments

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Speaker 10: of pleasure that really ain't really good or healthy for you,

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Speaker 10: You don't want to stop doing that because you've got

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Speaker 10: just a little bit more something else you want to do.

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Speaker 10: I call that the call of the while. You know

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Speaker 10: it's just out there. Them streets is calling you, them

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Speaker 10: lights is calling you. You know, them girls is calling you.

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Speaker 10: Them guys that's on the wrong side, keep calling you.

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Speaker 10: You can't seem to make a decision by the right guy.

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Speaker 10: You keep picking the wrong guy all the time. What

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Speaker 10: is it that's stopping you from having the life that

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Speaker 10: you really want to have? So whatever the reason you're choosing,

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Speaker 10: that's the reason that's stopping you from having the life

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Speaker 10: that you want to have.

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Speaker 2: It's no good because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: here's the deal.

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Speaker 10: See, God is available, and God is available for all

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Speaker 10: of us, and God has a plan for all of us,

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Speaker 10: and God wants the very best for all of us.

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Speaker 10: That's the truth of the matter. So now what we're

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Speaker 10: gonna do to get started having that life. First of all,

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Speaker 10: if it's your friends, I want you to understand something

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Speaker 10: your friends can't save you. A lot of your friends

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Speaker 10: offer no real help for you. Most of your friends

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Speaker 10: don't have the answer themselves. I mean, it's just a

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Speaker 10: wide range of reasons and misery love company. So usually

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Speaker 10: when your friends are in a bad position, they kind

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Speaker 10: going to church. You're gonna be their friend. They don't

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Speaker 10: really want you to go to church. You know, your

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Speaker 10: friends don't pray, so why would they offer up prayer

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Speaker 10: as a.

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Speaker 2: Solution to you.

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Speaker 10: You know, your friends don't really really get the fact

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Speaker 2: So what's that?

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Speaker 10: So your friends are a lot of times the reasons,

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Speaker 10: you know, to peer pressure of what and then the

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Speaker 10: thought in your mind of what they gonna think once

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Speaker 10: they find out I don't do what they do anymore.

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Speaker 10: Who cares what they think other than you? I mean, really,

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Speaker 10: you can't let what somebody thinks of you stop you

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Speaker 2: If I went by that theory right there.

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Speaker 10: I wouldn't. I wouldn't even be on this mic this morning.

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Speaker 10: I would have never become a stand up I would

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Speaker 10: told me when I quit my job to pursue this, boy,

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Speaker 10: don't you do this. You ain't got no bit that,

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Speaker 10: ain't no security in that. Get yourself a job. Go

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Speaker 2: Go to I heard all of that. I didn't let

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Speaker 10: Why would you allow that to stop you from pursuing

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Speaker 10: your relationship with God so you can have the best

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Speaker 10: convinced you that this is the family situation and love

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Speaker 10: that you don't have, and they've convinced you that this

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Speaker 10: and then you drum up these ignorant reasons man for

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Speaker 10: staying with it, But they sound so good when you

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Speaker 10: listening to everybody else you're surrounded by telling you why

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Speaker 10: we gang banging, Why we holding this block down, why

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Speaker 2: Why we letting it go?

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Speaker 10: Like this here, you keep listening to them when all

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Speaker 10: in your heart of hearts you know this ain't right.

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Speaker 10: You already know, but you allow that form of the

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Speaker 10: call of the wile that wanting to be accepted by

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Speaker 10: even prove that you're worthy to be around them, You

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Speaker 10: got to commit some type of crime to even prove

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Speaker 10: get busted on the crime, what happens to that where

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Speaker 10: your family are Now they don't come down there to

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Speaker 10: your homies can't come visit you. And then you know

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Speaker 10: your family because it's all about them. Then you learn

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Speaker 10: that what is it that's stopping you from having the

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Speaker 10: life that you always wanted to have?

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Speaker 6: What is it?

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Speaker 10: Why are you a repeat offender? Why do you keep

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Speaker 6: Why?

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Speaker 10: Man, why won't you get it together? Why won't you

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Speaker 10: give God a try? Why won't you disassociate yourself? Why

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Speaker 10: would you continue to be a part of a revolving

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Speaker 10: that ain't got nothing for you. But you keep going

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Speaker 10: and now your little homies or your gang ban little

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Speaker 10: badge of honor. There ain't no badge of honor. Man,

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Speaker 10: that's one mold. What's one more scratch on that record.

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Speaker 10: That's one mold. That's one more nail in that coffin.

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Speaker 10: That's one step closer to that third strike where you

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Speaker 2: You keep on.

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Speaker 10: Why would you not give God a try? Why would

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Speaker 10: you not go and see what your life could really be?

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Speaker 10: What is it that's stopping you? Because see, I got

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Speaker 10: news for you. There's nothing like waking up free. I

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Speaker 10: don't care who you are. There's nothing like waking up

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Speaker 10: with the joy in your heart. Now, if you ain't

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Speaker 10: satisfaction of knowing that you're accomplishing something with your life.

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Speaker 10: Help somebody behind them balls get in the program. Show

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Speaker 10: these young cats when they come in a better way.

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Speaker 2: But don't you dash sit there, man and just ride

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Speaker 2: it out, and man, just go and get the is

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Speaker 2: life that you can have.

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Speaker 10: What you know, what it feels like to wake up

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Speaker 10: something to accomplish, that you can change somebody, that you

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Speaker 10: can stop somebody from going down the roads you went down.

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Speaker 10: It's a whole lot of ways to make your life better.

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Speaker 10: But why would you not go and have the best

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Speaker 2: Really? Really?

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Speaker 10: So you think that Satan really has your best interest

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Speaker 10: at heart, That the little thing your mama kept telling

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Speaker 10: you about praying you wasn't listening, was you. But you know,

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Speaker 10: it ain't ever too late to get back to that.

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Speaker 10: It ain't ever too late to turn around, It ain't

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Speaker 10: ever too late to get your life together. It ain't

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Speaker 10: ever too late to seek God, and it ain't ever

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Speaker 10: too late to pray. Don't forget to pray, don't be

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Speaker 10: because prayer changes things. Prayer change people too. I'm a

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Speaker 10: witness to that.

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Speaker 1: You're listening.

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Speaker 4: Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. Prepare yourselves. Now how you do that?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I can give you some suggestions.

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Speaker 10: Sit up, pay attention, tighten up, call you mam and nil,

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Speaker 10: brace yourself.

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Speaker 2: Act right.

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Speaker 10: All that applies to the beginning of the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 10: Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Here it is, it has begun.

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Speaker 10: And to make you feel real comfortable, I'm is Steve Harvey,

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Speaker 10: she be She'll the start.

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Speaker 2: Bet I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Comfortable. Good morning, Steve, Okay, hon is.

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Speaker 2: For real.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go with it. Hey, good morning, Happy Friday.

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Speaker 10: Look at him, that Dawn Junior, that that they'll be

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Speaker 10: Who I am? Won up, nephew?

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Speaker 11: Tell me won on over here right here, sir, h

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Speaker 11: The only one uncomfortable with all this was that busy

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Speaker 11: Shirley Strawberby.

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Speaker 10: Whatever, sir, always trying to speak proper grandmother.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's everything. You got to learn how to talk

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Speaker 2: with this how I talk?

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Speaker 1: And I remember I first heard you on the radio.

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Speaker 1: You were you were saying that's that. It may have

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Speaker 1: been a few days before I came in to work

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Speaker 1: with you in La Steve. You said, don't you told

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Speaker 1: the audience don't be calling up in here talking to

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Speaker 1: me about how I talk. No, because we're in l A.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, this is somebody had faxed me today. You saw country. Hey,

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Speaker 10: you say your paper say because you're wasted it because

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Speaker 10: I'm not finn to change. I did that one time

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Speaker 10: in my career. It never happened again. Don't be calling

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Speaker 10: up in here talking about how I talk. If that's

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Speaker 10: what your facts say, We're gonna tag up and leave

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Speaker 10: it in the flow, cause you know what you know,

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Speaker 10: wasn't nobody really email it much?

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Speaker 2: You know that I had?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, Yeah, but faxing was big. I told them you

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Speaker 10: just waited to pay for all y'all facts on the floor. Anyway, Stan,

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Speaker 10: You'm gotten to me talking about you sound country this

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Speaker 10: Los Angeles. I don't know why they hide your country

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Speaker 10: as because they don't know you.

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Speaker 12: Don't nobody know you.

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Speaker 2: You talk properts. Hell, don't nobody know you.

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Speaker 6: All like you.

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm on the damn radio.

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, bore.

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Speaker 10: Shirley came in that first day. She was just looking

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Speaker 10: upside my head. I'm looking upside her and said, I said, well, whatever,

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Speaker 10: I said, you know, I'll see what she were telling

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Speaker 1: Thirty two minutes after the hour, the nephew was in

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Speaker 13: What you got for his nep The sex is too loud.

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Speaker 13: It's too loud. Hello, it's too loud.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: Hello.

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Speaker 6: Hello, I'm trying to reach uh.

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Speaker 7: Uh, you have the wrong number. This is his wife though.

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Speaker 12: Can I help you? Uh?

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Speaker 6: Yes, ma'am. I'm calling you from the front desk here

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Speaker 7: Wait, wait a minute, would you say the.

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Speaker 6: People are on U all's floor saying that the sex

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Speaker 12: Wait?

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Speaker 7: What the is going on here? I am at home

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Speaker 4: So what do you say to me?

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Speaker 6: Uh? Can I get to the hold off for sure?

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Speaker 2: Some book?

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Speaker 6: That's just that's just. This is his wife on the

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Speaker 6: but she's not upstairs. No, she's not upstairs. The evidentity

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Speaker 12: Uh ma'am?

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Speaker 6: Yes, okay, Well I'm sorry. What's your nam again?

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Speaker 7: Dominique?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Dominique, you know what, We won't worry about it.

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Speaker 7: Do you mean don't worry about it? You just called

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Speaker 6: Hello, yeah, and I did.

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Speaker 7: Hear you talking to the background. You heard who I

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Hold on, hold on you, hold on again? Please? Uh?

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Speaker 3: Where are you at?

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Speaker 12: Which is this?

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Speaker 7: Which hotel is this?

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Speaker 6: Just hold on for a second. Man, I didn't hit

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Speaker 6: the mute, but I didn't hit the whole buddy, No,

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Speaker 12: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: What am I supposed to say to him. The guy

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Speaker 6: room all day all right, hello, uh yeah, okay, Dominique,

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Speaker 6: this Dominique. I want to apologize. We thought we were called.

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Speaker 7: My apology is not going to do it. I can

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Speaker 7: solve the problem for you. What's your address? Tell me

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Speaker 6: I'm not at liberty to give that information.

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Speaker 7: This is some books, some real books. Can you put

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Speaker 7: your manager on the phone or something?

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Speaker 6: I mean, let it is actually in a meeting right now.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 6: I just want to say, I just I truly apologize.

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Speaker 6: I mean I thought I was calling the person that

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Speaker 7: If there is nothing to say, unless you're gonna give

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Speaker 6: What city are you at?

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Speaker 7: Don't worry about where I'm at. I can get to

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Speaker 7: you and his you know what. I'm going to call

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Speaker 7: this up myself and he better wait wait, wait, wait

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Speaker 7: a minute, your whole situation okay, right now?

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Speaker 6: Okay, but will you wait because you're gonna mess right.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna love my job about.

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Speaker 7: Your job right now? Bro? You told me that my

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Speaker 7: I care?

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Speaker 12: So?

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Speaker 7: What's your address though?

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Speaker 6: I can see on my way Okay, okay, okay, let

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Speaker 6: me just call him. No, no, no, no, my manager,

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Speaker 6: My manager coming down now?

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Speaker 7: Your manager is available? How convenient?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so talk.

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Speaker 7: I don't want to talk about your manager.

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Speaker 6: Okay. I thought you wanted to talk to the manager.

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Speaker 7: I'm pissed off right now. So either you're gonna give

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Speaker 6: Can I put this is my manager, Tommy? Can I

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Speaker 6: put Tommy on the phone?

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Speaker 7: Sure?

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Speaker 6: Hey, Dominique, Yes, this is tithing.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Tommy, what's going on? Your flirker called me to

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Speaker 7: tell me that my husband was having sex in your

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Speaker 7: won't give it to me. And I'm on my way

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Speaker 7: down there, and I'm about to call my husband since

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Speaker 7: he won't answer your call. And I did hear him

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Speaker 7: talking to you in the background?

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Speaker 6: Okay? Well did you hear who he was talking to? No?

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Speaker 12: I didn't.

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Speaker 6: Okay, he was talking to me. But do you know

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Speaker 6: who I am? No?

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Speaker 7: I don't and I don't really care.

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Speaker 6: But do you know Tommy at all? Do I know Tommy?

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Speaker 12: No?

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Speaker 6: Do you know tom No? Okay, do you know nephew

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Speaker 6: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show?

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Speaker 7: Do you write you kitty?

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Speaker 12: Oh?

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Speaker 7: How care you? That's after Tommy. I'm like, I'm not

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Speaker 7: your friend right now, Tommy, and I don't like you anymore.

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Speaker 7: I just like, oh, come on telling me, come on

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Speaker 7: stay funny. It's not funny, Tommy, It's.

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Speaker 6: Really okay, all right, I don't want to get off

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Speaker 6: the phone. And were on bad terms. Now we got

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Speaker 6: to get back. We got be on good terms when

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Speaker 6: we got on the phone. Okay, come on, laugh laugh

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Speaker 6: with me, baby, please.

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Speaker 7: Well I don't know if you be laughing, if somebody

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Speaker 6: Yo, you have a sister. Your sister name is Lydia.

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Speaker 6: Am I right?

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Speaker 12: Yes?

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Speaker 6: Lydia is who got me to pray? Phone call you baby?

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, it's it's really going down, man. I got

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Speaker 7: something for you at her They in the streets, Tommy.

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Speaker 6: Okay, let me ask you this though before you go.

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Speaker 6: Please give me this. What's the baddest radio show in

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Speaker 6: the lane? Come on?

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Speaker 7: You know Steve Harvey and that's you?

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Speaker 12: Tell me you know what?

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Speaker 10: Tummy?

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Speaker 7: You used to be my favorite, but now I'm really Steve.

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Speaker 6: You could kiss my.

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Speaker 2: Sex is too loud? That's all I want to.

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Speaker 10: Know.

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Speaker 3: Said this before, but you need down with this one.

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Speaker 12: Take out.

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Speaker 2: Loud, just bring it down some.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is asked the c l O.

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Speaker 1: With our Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building,

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Speaker 4: Steve Harvey Morning show time for c l O.

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Speaker 1: The Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. The cloe as the

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Speaker 1: nephew calls him. You ready, sir? I know you all right.

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Speaker 1: Lakesha in Hampton, Virginia says I'm in my late twenties

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Speaker 1: Her boyfriend moved to our city a month ago and

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Speaker 1: be for a week, but he's still here. He's chipped

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Speaker 1: it's okay for him to stay another month if he

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Speaker 1: Please advise?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't think you can.

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Speaker 10: Because you all own the home equally, you have no

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Speaker 10: nothing in place that says how long you should have guests.

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Speaker 10: So I don't see how you can make him leave.

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Speaker 10: On another note, right, who buys a house?

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Speaker 9: Normal?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is why you don't do things like this.

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Speaker 10: Man, This is probably the biggest purchase of your life,

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Speaker 10: and you do it not with your fiance, not with

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Speaker 10: want to have other lives.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So I mean, I don't know how you.

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Speaker 2: Can get them leave.

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Speaker 1: And her best friend Colo is correct, it's her house.

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Speaker 2: Too, right, that's the deal. So how right, it's my house.

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Speaker 6: And.

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Speaker 1: So you're not going to be able to get him

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Speaker 1: he might stay forever, all right, Felicia.

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Speaker 2: Walking around nicked though, I'm just telling you start walking around.

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Speaker 1: Nicked, It helps, Felicia and Charlotte says, my husband and

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Speaker 1: I have been married for eight years, and he recently

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Speaker 1: they take road trips. Yesterday he drove me to get caught,

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Speaker 6: God.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he started fumbling to turn it off, and he

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Speaker 12: God?

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Speaker 2: He sweit a minute. But you said it was connected

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he plugged it. As soon as he cranked up

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean that's a bluetooth.

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Speaker 10: I think I don't know if it has anything to

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Speaker 10: I'm thinking he's got pawn on his phone and the

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Speaker 10: I mean, you know, because unless you have that stuff

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Speaker 2: The bluetooth is what comes in to play to me.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is terrible because what if the kids

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I know that, but I mean, yeah,

451
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 2: the cold thing is suppose this was a video on.

452
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: It, right exactly?

453
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 2: See, I don't know, I don't know. She's a little slow.

454
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 10: Let me talk about was he sitting in the back

455
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 10: seat watching porn with another woman?

456
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 1: With another woman?

457
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

458
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 6: Yeah?

459
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, he could be there back there watching it by

460
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 1: himself or I mean it didn't have to.

461
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 10: Be sure, but to get on the headsets, to get

462
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 10: on the headsets in the car has to come from somewhere.

463
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So if he was fumbling with his phone,

464
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 2: it was the bluetooth on his phone.

465
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: All right, So there you have it.

466
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 2: Man, what's my name? What's my name?

467
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 1: Anastasia and Seattle says, we're moving on I'm a thirty

468
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: year old married woman, and I love my my husband,

469
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: but I fantasize about his handsome brother. He's forty, with

470
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 1: a six pack of carved out back and muscular thighs.

471
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 1: And when my husband and I are intimate, I'm imagining

472
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: myself and his brother's big old chocolate arms. I've even

473
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 1: mumbled his brother's name under my breath once during sex.

474
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: I watch his workout videos online and I get all tingly.

475
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:25,640
Speaker 1: This all started a few weeks ago. Do you think

476
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 1: it's just a phase or should I seek counseling? Please

477
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: help me?

478
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 2: What do you want us to do? Is it just

479
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 2: a phase? Or do I need counseling?

480
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 10: You need to quit wanting your brother's your husband's brother lusty?

481
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 10: You know hell, Stop watching his damn videos. You shutting

482
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 10: yourself up. Quit calling his damn name. You know that

483
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 10: ain't your husband?

484
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 2: How about that? What do you want?

485
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this is something you can control for sure.

486
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: You're right?

487
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 2: All right?

488
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: Call it intead.

489
00:25:59,119 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 4: We're moving on.

490
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: Paula in Boston says, I'm seventy one and I am

491
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: back on the dating scene. I've been a widow for

492
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 1: twenty five years, and surely okay. She's seventy one. Her

493
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 1: name is Paula. She's out of Boston, seventy one. She's

494
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: back on the dating scene. She's been a widow for

495
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: twenty five years, and she was casually dating a younger

496
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: man for the past two years. She said, we had

497
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: sex a few times and he stopped calling me. All

498
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 1: i'm attracted to are younger men between the ages of

499
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: fifty and sixty, and getting one is not a problem.

500
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to be just a fling for these men.

501
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: How can I prevent that from happening.

502
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: That's a younger man through fifteen sixty.

503
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 10: Why don't you stop being a fleeing? You will fling

504
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 10: because you allow it. You allow yourself to get flown.

505
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 10: Your body or your relations or whatever you want to

506
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 10: call him at seventy one comes with a price.

507
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 1: What is this?

508
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 10: You have every right you're too old for this. You're

509
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 10: talking about how you he been screwing the dude for

510
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 10: two years and then he stopped calling you. What you

511
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:09,679
Speaker 10: think was gonna happen, y'all? Wasn't in a relationship? Wouldn't

512
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 10: nobody defined anything? I don't care how old you get

513
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 10: if you can't define the relationship you in, you probably

514
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 10: ain't in one.

515
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 2: She said it old, she ain't got about fifteen years left.

516
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 2: You got to at least have some fun of it.

517
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 1: That was profound. Say that again because people what he said, Now,

518
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:33,360
Speaker 1: what the CLO said before we run out of hip?

519
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 1: Come on, come on, clo.

520
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 10: All I said was, if you can't define the relationship in,

521
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 10: it's probably because you ain't in one.

522
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:46,919
Speaker 1: There you go, all right, coming up.

523
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 2: And what I said is if you said you ain't

524
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 2: got a fifteen year left, gonna get it in.

525
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: You're listening morning show, Well it's time for something fun.

526
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 1: Honey and Jay. This is about stuff you say to

527
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: your neighbors under your breath. Please explain.

528
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 3: This has to do what we see our neighbors all

529
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 3: the time.

530
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 14: We're not that fond of them, so we speak, but

531
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 14: under our breath we're saying little things, little little insulting

532
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 14: things like hey, how you doing?

533
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 2: You need to come up down as yall.

534
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: Keep one hundred jacket, keep it keeping it one exact ja.

535
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 2: Earl, how you doing? How you earl?

536
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 6: Man?

537
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 2: You need some curtains?

538
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: How you doing? Franklin's good to see you.

539
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 2: I hope the boys stay home this time.

540
00:28:55,440 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: It takes vacations or let's see, um stiff, come on, nephew.

541
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 2: Stop parkins. How are you good?

542
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 6: Good?

543
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 2: If you do something with that damn boat you've been having,

544
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 2: don't even worry.

545
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 7: District.

546
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 12: I know this is Kennedy.

547
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: Hey, I done that.

548
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: We wail in Roster Street, Dale, Dale, Kim. How you

549
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 2: guys doing to day? The too stupid ass kicks? Half wit?

550
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 10: Yeah.

551
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: Stuff we say to our neighbors under it's gotta be saying,

552
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: come on.

553
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 2: Smith's good to see right now. I wouldn't be pushing

554
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 2: my mama that she got to do something. Three, Hey, Bob,

555
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 2: how are you good? Good?

556
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 10: Your fan his wife and swimming naked on them, probably

557
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 10: scaring the hell out of my dog.

558
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 3: Mona stands and I gun.

559
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 12: Yeah.

560
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 3: How you got folk claws on the block and don't

561
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 3: none of them?

562
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 7: Four cards?

563
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: Heap yard is a mess. Stuff we say to our

564
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: neighbors under our breath, Come on, will us swet?

565
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 2: Old boy? I see I have a go with the

566
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 2: James Shore glady over that that Breathfully he.

567
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 1: Killed my flowers he supposed to, and cut my grass. Wow,

568
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: that's bad. That's dragging right.

569
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 2: Hey, Hey, Johnson's it's good to see y'all. All right now, man,

570
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 2: now now were good?

571
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: We goodday?

572
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 2: Right now? I know a baby when you eat paper,

573
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 2: You know, I know that baby eat paper. You gotta

574
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 2: tell me no more. I know that baby eats piper. Baby,

575
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 2: he's smart at all. Now you gotta bring him up.

576
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: No, we good, stop, he gotta make his birthday point stop.

577
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: We say to our neighbors under our breath. Tommy go Leonard, Hey,

578
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: nice day to day?

579
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 2: Good cook? Wasn't good last night? Damn pol No, you

580
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 2: said you called them.

581
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: Stuff? We say to our neighbors under our breath, thought.

582
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 2: Herman, how y'all doing.

583
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 11: Her?

584
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 2: Tell me y'all put your mom in the hole, say

585
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 2: that in the window.

586
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, like people don't do that. Hey, mister Mitchell, what's

587
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: going on?

588
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm good. You don't see that dog through you?

589
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: You just don't, don't it.

590
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: Neigh stuff, We say to our neighbors under our breath.

591
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 2: Curtis, Hey, j she's going on all right now? Ain't

592
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 2: the wind the world that that day? I'm lying.

593
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 3: He ain't chilling that.

594
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,719
Speaker 1: Way too much. No, I don't even know how they

595
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: touched both they stump, all right, man, I'm good man,

596
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: come on, nephew. Stuff. We say to our neighbors under our.

597
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 8: Breath, Conley, Conley, y'all's looking good, looking real good, and

598
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 8: come over with this line.

599
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 2: Though you come over with this, I'm telling you that

600
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 2: you know what's damn line is? You know you know what?

601
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 2: You know my sign? You know your damn sign or

602
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 2: they probably lying means but it means something. You know

603
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 2: where the lying man.

604
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 3: That's my line.

605
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: All right, I think we have time for two more

606
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: Jay and then Steve close it out stuff. We say

607
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: to our neighbors under our breath.

608
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 14: Let's go, hey, hey, what's Yeah, I'm good, I'm good,

609
00:33:59,400 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 14: I'm good.

610
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 3: I who you were good that night?

611
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 1: Got into a fun.

612
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 12: Yeah.

613
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, Steve, close it out stuff.

614
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 2: We say right out Sidney, Hey, it invited me over

615
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:20,760
Speaker 2: to a little.

616
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:27,280
Speaker 1: Barbecue and everything.

617
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:37,760
Speaker 2: I know, I know you ran out of room over whatever. Okay,

618
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 2: I love it.

619
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 1: Alright, guys, thank you, that was good. You're listening hardy

620
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 1: morning show. Time for would you rather guys another round?

621
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 2: Here we go?

622
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: Would you rather go to church naked or babysit? Ten

623
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,399
Speaker 1: children undertook the age of two.

624
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm rapping.

625
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 3: I got nigs both service.

626
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 13: Services, quote scriptures, niked I came in this world, nigga,

627
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 13: I shall leave.

628
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 12: Working.

629
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 14: People say, well, that didn't happen, and I'm at the

630
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 14: next service. They'll see it themselves.

631
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

632
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 10: You know, when a man came in here at eight o'clock,

633
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 10: I got niggas for he was at eleven two.

634
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 2: No, I would know. I'm gonna take care of them kids. Yeah,

635
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 2: but you ain't gonna do No, you ain't gonna do.

636
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 10: That to me.

637
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 2: But one time, everybody's not gonna be cared for.

638
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 3: Are you a babysitting grandfather, Steve.

639
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 10: Yeah, man, yeah, yeah. They always make sure somebody at

640
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 10: the house with me though.

641
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 2: Somebody watching, somebody watching you.

642
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: No, I'm not like your granddaddy.

643
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. They always make sure some other people in

644
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 2: the house with me. I already know, you know.

645
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 10: And then my grandkids don't like when our babysit them

646
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 10: because when they come in my office, them to stay

647
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 10: in my office and they don't like my TV selection.

648
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 2: But I had them in there the other day and

649
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 2: we were watching forty eight hours.

650
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:22,720
Speaker 15: You had grand children watching for eight hours of murder investigation.

651
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 10: And it was a it was a good episode too,

652
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 10: so we was not turning it and just sit here

653
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 10: and learn your ass something. Now, if you do wrong,

654
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 10: your asser be in this room interrogating with this in

655
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,800
Speaker 10: this fifty eight degree weather, in this room that's fifty

656
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 10: eight degrees getting talked to a boy, these white people,

657
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 10: and you don't want that.

658
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 2: Shut up?

659
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: Oh it's like it's scared straight yeah, straight.

660
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 14: Yeah, all right, because when you hide, you see more

661
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 14: kids than you actually have. So that's why I don't

662
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 14: babyshit sixteen kids.

663
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 2: Moving on, Would you rather.

664
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 1: Tell the truth for a full week? Just tell the truth,

665
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 1: no lies, no lies?

666
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 8: Be you sure?

667
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: Okay? Or sleep in a coffin for a full week.

668
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: I can sleep in a coffee I got. I've done that.

669
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 8: Truth.

670
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, oh yeah, I had an ex wife. I've

671
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 10: done that before. You do that before? Well, we now

672
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 10: can do it.

673
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 2: Truth a.

674
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:42,959
Speaker 4: Week?

675
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 2: All just throw to.

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Speaker 1: All right, Uh, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey

677
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Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this.

678
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Speaker 4: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

679
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's really hard to break out of your old

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00:37:59,080 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: routine routine.

681
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 6: We know that.

682
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:04,720
Speaker 1: For example, maybe you've had the same haircut or style

683
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 1: for years and it looks good on you and everyone

684
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,240
Speaker 1: likes it, so you don't change it, But maybe you should.

685
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: Maybe you should try something new. How about your choice

686
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 1: of cars or movies or people you date. Maybe try

687
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Speaker 1: something new and that will change your life for the better.

688
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: Even if it doesn't, you can always go back to

689
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Speaker 1: your old routine. So Steve, we're going to start with

690
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: you as we always do. What things in your life

691
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Speaker 1: are you afraid to change up? Or has changing your

692
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 1: life routine made things better or worse for you?

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Speaker 2: I ain't afraid to change nothing in my life.

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Speaker 10: Matter of fact, if I could change one thing that

695
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 10: might give my life a jump.

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Speaker 2: Or boost it in another direction. Yeah, I'll probably get

697
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Speaker 2: a perm.

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Speaker 1: All right, you don't.

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Speaker 2: What's happen?

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00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: What are you going to perm your mustache?

701
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 6: What?

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00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 10: Well, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know,

703
00:38:58,280 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 10: grow with a little bit of hair back. I can

704
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:07,919
Speaker 10: and then permit, you know what I'm saying. Just whatever came,

705
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 10: I'm gonna let it come on and then just permit,

706
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 10: you know, trying to kind of be.

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Speaker 2: Like a you know, a little baby ass shafting. Okay,

708
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 2: I thought you gotta go deep on it. Well, I

709
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: mean on the real tip.

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Speaker 10: There's nothing in my life I can change now. Am

711
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 10: I doing things to get better?

712
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 2: Of course I am.

713
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Speaker 10: I'm trying to improve my spirituality. That's my number one

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Speaker 10: focus right now, is trying to improve Yeah. Oh absolutely,

715
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Speaker 10: that's my number one focus above anything else. That's just

716
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,879
Speaker 10: improving my spirituality as a person. That's my number one

717
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:55,479
Speaker 10: goal right now. And and other than that, I can't

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00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,280
Speaker 10: change nothing.

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Speaker 1: You know, well, you know I changed my hair all

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Speaker 1: this year from platinum tok. Yeah, sit down, Hey, I

721
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: wanted to do things differently.

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Speaker 4: I like change.

723
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Speaker 1: It was fun and it was fun. I felt good.

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Speaker 6: It was.

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Speaker 2: Because you ain't got nowhere left. But you did blue, pink, yellow.

726
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Speaker 1: No, I didn't do yellow. I did platinum green. You

727
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Speaker 1: say I've been considering it. I'm back to blackham.

728
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Speaker 2: What's this crayon box? Look for what is good?

729
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Speaker 6: I like?

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Speaker 1: That's who I really am.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 1: I like colors. I like change in my hair.

733
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Speaker 10: I really tell me, what would you change? It's gonna

734
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Speaker 10: be real interesting. Cold to get in my phone.

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Speaker 1: M hmm, can you change it?

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Speaker 2: I tried? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Let me just yeah, you're married now, you still.

738
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Speaker 8: Have the cold.

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Speaker 2: Let me at least have my phone. Let me have that.

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Speaker 1: Let me hold on, Steve, doesn't Marjorie have your coat?

741
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: You've said that several times on the show. Yeah, excuse me?

742
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 2: Why have you got your cold and your phone? Did

743
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Speaker 2: tell me? Say it with your ignorant he does that?

744
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: Tommy deal, what's the big deal?

745
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Speaker 2: You need his calling around? Tommy? Huh Tommy? My kids

746
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 2: can grab my phone. I don't care.

747
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Speaker 12: What what?

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Speaker 6: What is that?

749
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Speaker 1: Tommy? What is that so terrible? I don't understand.

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Speaker 2: But in some homes in America, do you still take.

751
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 4: Your phone in the shower with you?

752
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 2: How do you do that? Tommy got his phone in

753
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 2: the shower like soap on a rope.

754
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, the water.

755
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Speaker 2: Zip lock.

756
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Speaker 1: Watched it all abundant.

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00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 2: Just waiting on a call, baby, I'm just waiting on

758
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Speaker 2: a call.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's amazing.

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Speaker 15: So that would make your life better if you change

761
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Speaker 15: your code, that would make your life better periodically.

762
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Speaker 2: I just had I just got to remember it.

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Speaker 12: All right.

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Speaker 1: We'll post your comments on Steve Harvey FM, Instagramic, Facebook.

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Speaker 1: You're listening morning show coming up at the top of

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Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after it's my strawberry

767
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 1: letter for today. Get a load of this subject one

768
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: of my homies is my side piece? What they're just homies. Well,

769
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Speaker 1: we'll get into it in just a little bit. Right now,

770
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Speaker 1: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

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Speaker 4: What you got for his nest?

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00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 8: Sure, let's see here. Let's go up in here and

773
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Speaker 8: get something pull out of here that we go. All right,

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00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 8: we're gonna we're going with this one right here. Can

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00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 8: I claim your kid?

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00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:11,320
Speaker 12: No?

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Speaker 8: Can I claim your kid? What's supposed gonna hurt? Let

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00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 8: me have one of let me? Can I claim your.

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Speaker 2: God? Dam let's get it.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hello, I'm trying to reach devn Devin. Yeah, this is right,

782
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 2: Hey Devin. How you doing.

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 8: My name is Curtis Man, Curtis. I was trying to

785
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 8: reach out to you. You your your your son?

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Speaker 12: Uh?

787
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 8: He plays basketball with my nephew. Man, your son is

788
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 8: the one that's on the on the Blazers little league basketball.

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Speaker 12: Team, right yeah, yeah, he played for blas everything all right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 12: yeah everything good man.

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Speaker 8: You know they got a game Saturday and everything. I've

792
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 8: seen you a couple of times, man at the game.

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00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 8: I don't know if you remember me, Man, light skinned brother,

794
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 8: about about six foot.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I probably met you. I probably met you know,

796
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 12: i'd be so intense at the games. But yeah, what's

797
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 12: what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Well, actually, man, I wanted to hogh at you about

800
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 2: about your son?

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Speaker 8: Man?

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00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 2: You you are?

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Speaker 6: You? Are?

804
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,320
Speaker 2: You? Are you working right now? Are you currently working?

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Speaker 12: Am I am I working?

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Speaker 6: Like? Yeah?

807
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 12: I am working?

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00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: Actually, I mean I mean, I mean I mean you

809
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 2: have a Yeah, a steady job, is what I'm asking.

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Speaker 12: I mean, yeah, what you what you get in at though?

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Speaker 12: Like you know, I thought you were calling about the

812
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Speaker 12: basketball team.

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Speaker 6: Like uniforms.

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Speaker 12: I know, we got a game Saturday. You know sometime

815
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 12: they want donation for sneakers and all that, like you.

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Speaker 8: Know, no, no, no, no, no, no, what I was asking?

817
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 8: So so, I mean you you got a regular nine

818
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 8: to five job you go to all the time.

819
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Speaker 12: Yeah, I got a none. I mean things is kind

820
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 12: of crazy, but I was just kind of short. But

821
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Speaker 12: you know I still I still work. I mean, while

822
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Speaker 12: was going on, you need a job?

823
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 2: No no, no, I'm just checking. Man.

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Speaker 10: See what I wanted to get at you about, Man,

825
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 10: is seeing are you gonna are you gonna cleim your son?

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Speaker 2: Uh? On your income tax this year?

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Speaker 12: Hold on, bro, Now you said Am I gonna claim

828
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 12: my son on my taxes this year?

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Speaker 6: Right?

830
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Speaker 2: I mean, like you know, as a dependent bro.

831
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 12: You asked me some real personal questions. Now you know,

832
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 12: like you're the guy that you just said you you

833
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 12: know me from the basketball team that my son play

834
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 12: on basis you know, and now he doesn't jump from

835
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Speaker 12: the Blazers to do I clean my son on my taxes?

836
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 12: And do I have a steady income? I mean, like

837
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 12: you know, yeah, I got I gotta steady income and

838
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 12: I'm claiming my flight. What I mean what you're trying

839
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Speaker 12: to get.

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Speaker 6: At, Bro?

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00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 8: Well we'll see, man, what I was thinking. You know,

842
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 8: I just want to read you seem like cool dude

843
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 8: when I saw you at the gym. Man, what I

844
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 8: was gonna ask you, bro, is you know see right now, Man,

845
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 8: when I get through with my tax and stuff.

846
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to oh about eight hundred dollars.

847
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 8: But nah, see if I clean a child as my dependent, man,

848
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 8: they gonna give me bout twenty two twenty three hundred.

849
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 8: You see what I'm saying and what I wanted to

850
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 8: get at you a bout man, is you know you

851
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 8: let me clean as my son?

852
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 2: You know, so I can go and get this good money.

853
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Speaker 12: Bro. Love Bro, But I mean what all due respect, bruh,

854
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 12: you're talking about? You want to clean my son on taxes?

855
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,439
Speaker 12: Hold on, bro, I don't even know you you're talking about.

856
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 12: You've seen me at my son's basketball game. You might

857
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 12: be the police for all I know. Bro, he sounds

858
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 12: like the police.

859
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, it ain't. Ain't nobody gonna come

860
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 2: at your sideways like that.

861
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 6: Man.

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00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 8: I ain't trying to come like what I'm trying to say. Man,

863
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 8: they're gonna hit me off of this eight hundred. Well,

864
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 8: see I can get twenty three hundred. Man, I kick

865
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 8: you down too fifty. You understand what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: Man, everybody kep too Simpty.

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Speaker 2: You crazy?

868
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:04,359
Speaker 12: Now you sound like a joke, bro, because now you're

869
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 12: insulting me. You're telling me you want to clean my

870
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 12: down for some where you owe money. I don't even

871
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 12: know you fool. So I can make two fifty, Bro,

872
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 12: I ain't trying to be on no, brother. But when

873
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 12: I claim my kids, I'm getting the same exact fight

874
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 12: you getting. I'm getting twenty three hundred two. So what

875
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 12: I look like taking two hundred dollars from I don't

876
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 12: know you know what I'm saying.

877
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 2: Okay, but I'm the one stuck over here paying the

878
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 2: eight hundred.

879
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 6: Man.

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00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 2: I'm just acting to ask you to look out for

881
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Speaker 2: a brother.

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00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 1: Man.

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00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 12: You said look out, and you know my checking cut

884
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 12: from forty hours a week to thirteen hours a week,

885
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 12: and I still got these little backs to me for

886
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 12: Jordan's Michael Jordan. They never put us down.

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm trying to hook you up with two fifty.

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Speaker 12: Man.

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00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 2: Damn, you don't even see a good thing when it's

890
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Speaker 2: coming at you.

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Speaker 12: Brother, Bro, I don't know what you're talking about, brou

892
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 12: No two or fifty.

893
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 2: Bro.

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00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 12: When I clean these two little I'm getting twenty three

895
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 12: hundred dollars apiece. Bro, what you think I'm gonna take

896
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 12: two fifty from you for it? I don't even know

897
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 12: you like that, So man, you ain't got it.

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00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:02,399
Speaker 2: You ain't got a trip.

899
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Speaker 6: Man.

900
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 12: If you was my brother, my people, you know, maybe

901
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 12: we can do a little something. I can understand that,

902
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 12: But brouh, you ain't gonna get me No. Two fifty

903
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:11,720
Speaker 12: when I'm getting the same thing they offering you twenty

904
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 12: three hundred this government money.

905
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 2: Bru So what are I supposed to do. What am

906
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 2: I opposed to do? Devin, tell me that.

907
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 12: I mean, bruh. What you're supposed to do is go

908
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 12: hid your seed, clean that little every year and you'll

909
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 12: get what I get for these little that I'm seeing

910
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 12: in clothing every day. That's what you're gonna have to do.

911
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 12: My hour was done, got cut from forty to fifteen

912
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 12: hours a week. I have to go pick me up

913
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 12: a little side him saying you gotta change your ways.

914
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 12: You out there trying to get me locked up for

915
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 12: government scams.

916
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to do, man, is get this eight

917
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:43,959
Speaker 2: hundred off my back, dog. That's all I'm trying.

918
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 12: Man.

919
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody trying to get no trouble.

920
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 12: Man, But you're still talking about getting you eight hundred

921
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 12: and getting me locked up. Now you got me up.

922
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 12: I'm out here working hard to support my kids, man.

923
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,800
Speaker 2: But I ain't the city and go through this with

924
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 2: you no more.

925
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 8: Man, I ain't fin the city and go through this

926
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 8: with your normal don't help me with this money or not.

927
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 12: I see you on Saturday, Broke.

928
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 6: I'm gonna you up. Bro Thomas, you bros.

929
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 2: I need your son soldier security number right now that's

930
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 2: what I need.

931
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 12: Bro. Let me tell you something, Broke. What you look like?

932
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 2: Bro?

933
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 12: You said life and he's going about six foot bro.

934
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,839
Speaker 12: When I see you when I step in that gymnasium, Bro,

935
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 12: I'm on your You ain't on that. You ain't on Blazers, Lakers,

936
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 12: brou You.

937
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 2: Better bring that damn soldier security number.

938
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 12: I think it's a game. I'm gonna come find them.

939
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 2: Okay, cool. I got one more thing I need to

940
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 2: say to you.

941
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 6: You're lifting to me on my phone.

942
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 12: Bro, Why I don't even talking to this fool?

943
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 2: I got one more thing I need to say to you. Man,

944
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 2: if you listening to me, say.

945
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 12: Your last statement. You want your tombstone?

946
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 8: Broh, This is Nephew tire Me from the Steve Harvey

947
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 8: Martin Show.

948
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 2: You just got praank Baby this nephew. Tell me, man,

949
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 2: what's up, Devin fool?

950
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 12: You got me out here going crazy?

951
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 6: Hey?

952
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 7: Man?

953
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 2: You got hey? Do you got a boy that you

954
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 2: work with?

955
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 6: Name crazy?

956
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 8: Put me up to this man, a man, keep doing

957
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 8: what you're doing. We need good daddies in the world.

958
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 12: Brother, man, Thank you.

959
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 8: Hey, one more thing man, I gotta ask you. You

960
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 8: got to tell me, man, what is the baddest radio

961
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 8: show in the land.

962
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 12: Man, Steve Morning. Yeah, crazy man, I'm a beat.

963
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 2: Now we go, baby boy?

964
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 1: Not having it?

965
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 2: Five brothers, wouldn't it say?

966
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:45,359
Speaker 6: Brother?

967
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 2: And that you have it?

968
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:48,320
Speaker 6: That you have it?

969
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 2: Man? What you want on your tombstone?

970
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 6: Bro?

971
00:50:54,640 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 2: As soon as I get in that gym whooping your ass? Man,

972
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:02,800
Speaker 2: that was crazy.

973
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: Tell me you got to get you a little sea.

974
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 2: Claim them you take care. I'm like, well, I'm like,

975
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 2: I'm taking all these around here and do your part. Biden.

976
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 10: Okay, I'm just trying not to have to spend this

977
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 10: eight hundred man, That's all I'm looking at.

978
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,800
Speaker 2: I just need a little work man, my brother to do.

979
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 2: He's so concerned with his eight hundred. I just do

980
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 2: they got enough issue?

981
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 13: Man?

982
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 1: Man, cut my ayms made from.

983
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:33,720
Speaker 2: Comment scam?

984
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: All right, thank you so much. Coming up next Strawberry Letter,

985
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 1: subject one of my homies is my side piece. We'll

986
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: get into it right after this.

987
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 4: You're listening Harty Morning Show.

988
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 1: Well, guys, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

989
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

990
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 1: and more, please please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve

991
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 1: HARVEFM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

992
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 1: your letters. See this, hear this. We could be reading

993
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're going

994
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 1: to do this one right here, right now. It could

995
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: be yours.

996
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 2: You never know.

997
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 15: All right, ladies and gentlemen, It's time for the Strawberry

998
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 15: Letter with my good friend, Shirley straw Berry.

999
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: Thank you my good friend Junior. Subject one of my

1000
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 1: homies is my side piece. Dear Stephen, Shirley. I'm a

1001
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 1: thirty two year old single man, and I started a

1002
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: sexual relationship with a female that hangs out with me

1003
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 1: and my boys. She's like one of the boys, and

1004
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 1: we party together, work out together, and she travels with

1005
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: us on our annual guys trips. She is a good

1006
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 1: friend and we respect her and her sexual preference. We've

1007
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: never talked about her love life, but I assume she

1008
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: never dated a man before. We've been friends since middle school,

1009
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: and she has always been a pretty girl. She's tall,

1010
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: with nice legs, a six pack, and pretty feet. She's

1011
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: a woman by all means, but she hangs out with

1012
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: all of us dudes. Four months ago, we all went

1013
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 1: to a strip club and we were popping bottles in

1014
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: our VIP section all night. I was a little more

1015
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 1: intoxicated than she was, so she was my designated driver

1016
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: for the night. She crashed on my couch like she's

1017
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: done so many of the times before. I went to bed,

1018
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 1: but in my drunken state, I could not stop thinking

1019
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: about how pretty she was lying on my couch, and

1020
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 1: I imagined how soft her big breaths were.

1021
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 6: What.

1022
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:42,280
Speaker 1: I got up and offered her my bed. She said

1023
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 1: she would come to my bed only if I stayed

1024
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 1: in it. Two she got up and started taking her

1025
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:53,720
Speaker 1: clothes off and walked into my bedroom. The rest is history.

1026
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,720
Speaker 1: I wanted to be sure we did not have sex

1027
00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: just because we were drunk, so I tried it again

1028
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 1: the next morning, and she was with it. We have

1029
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: been secretly having sex for three months because she has

1030
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 1: a girlfriend and we're not sure how our other friends

1031
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: will react. I don't want her. I don't want to

1032
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 1: be her secret side piece anymore. Should I have a

1033
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: talk with her and see where she stands on dating

1034
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: a man, or control my feelings and enjoy the great sex?

1035
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 2: Wow?

1036
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: The great sex? He said, Hmm, okay, I think you

1037
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:38,319
Speaker 1: know you like her way more. Than a friend. Now,

1038
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: otherwise you wouldn't care if she remained a secret or not.

1039
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 1: You know, for this reason, you've got to talk to her,

1040
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: and if she feels the same way, she's going to

1041
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: have to tell her girlfriend at some point. What's hard

1042
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,959
Speaker 1: to believe is that for three months, you guys haven't

1043
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: talked about it at all, Not at all. I mean

1044
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: that could mean two things. Either she likes things status

1045
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 1: quo or she's waiting for you to make the first move. You,

1046
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: on the other hand, don't want to cut off the

1047
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 1: great sex by saying anything that could rock the boat.

1048
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 1: You don't want to be the secret side piece anymore,

1049
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 1: you say, But you're making the sacrifice for the great sex. Okay,

1050
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 1: but it's time.

1051
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 4: It is time.

1052
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:24,800
Speaker 1: Now, it's been three months or ninety days, and you

1053
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 1: know how we feel about ninety days around here. Steve

1054
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 1: taught us all about the ninety day rule. Okay, so

1055
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: again I say it's time. It's risky, you know, but

1056
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: if you really want her, go ahead and shoot your shot.

1057
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 1: I mean, you got to jump in the deep end.

1058
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: That's the only way you're going to find out how

1059
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 1: she really feels about you. Is it more than a

1060
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: secret side piece, and what is it going to be

1061
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:57,360
Speaker 1: after that? Steve, of course, let's go.

1062
00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 10: Thirty two year old dude got to this woman that's

1063
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 10: been one of the guys for so long ago on

1064
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:05,359
Speaker 10: all the guy trips, hang out with the dudes, they

1065
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:09,360
Speaker 10: go to strip club, they get drunk, she's the designated driver.

1066
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 10: They drive home and next thing you know, he's laying

1067
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 10: in bed drunk thinking about her breast. And so he

1068
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 10: gets up and she's sleeping on the couch like she's

1069
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 10: done many times.

1070
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 2: He offers her the bed.

1071
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:36,760
Speaker 10: She said she'd take the bed only if he stayed

1072
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 10: in it. This is all we need to know, and

1073
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 10: this is all he was hoping for. Now he was

1074
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 10: laying at couldn't stop thinking about how pretty she was

1075
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 10: laying on the couch. She's an attractive girl. Now remember

1076
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 10: now she gets tall, she got nice legs, six pack,

1077
00:56:56,239 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 10: pretty feet, I got your dog. I'm here, I'm here, tall, pretty,

1078
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 10: nice feet, six pack. You could just be tall and

1079
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 10: pretty with the feet. You don't really need a six

1080
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:14,919
Speaker 10: pack for me because wall hell, I don't help.

1081
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 2: I've learned in my life. I've learned in my life.

1082
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 10: You know, they don't need to ask them somebody to

1083
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 10: do something you ain't gonna do, you know, So here

1084
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 10: we go. Now, she started taking her clothes off and

1085
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 10: walked into your bedroom, and the rest is history. I

1086
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 10: wanted to make sure we did not have sex just

1087
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 10: because we was drunk, so I tried it again the

1088
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 10: next morning, and Lord have mercy, she was with it. Yeah,

1089
00:57:53,600 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 10: we have been secretly having sex for three months because

1090
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 10: she has a girlfriend, and we're not sure how our.

1091
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 2: Other friends will react. So Shirley right there. They have

1092
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 2: discussed it to a degree.

1093
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 10: Yes, how the other friends will react if they knew it. Now,

1094
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 10: the problem we got now is he wants more. And

1095
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 10: when we come back, I'm gonna tell you what your

1096
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 10: options are.

1097
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 2: Dog.

1098
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 4: All right, thank you, Steve.

1099
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

1100
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Subject of today's letter,

1101
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 1: one of my homies is my side piece. We'll get

1102
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy

1103
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's

1104
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: strawberry letter. Subject one of my homies is my side piece.

1105
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 10: Well, this guy's been friends with this girl for a

1106
00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 10: number of years since middle school. She's very pretty, tall,

1107
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 10: nice legs, six packs, pretty feet, But she has relationship

1108
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 10: she assumes with just women, and so she's days. But

1109
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 10: she's best been one of the guys traveling with him. Well,

1110
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 10: they all went to a strip club one time, they

1111
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,439
Speaker 10: popping bottles in the VIP section.

1112
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 2: He went upstairs to bed.

1113
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 10: She slept on the couch like she has done many times,

1114
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 10: but in this drunken state, he claims, he could not

1115
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 10: stop thinking of how pretty she was laying on the

1116
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 10: couch and was imagining.

1117
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 2: What her big, pretty breast would be like.

1118
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 10: Well, out on, you can't just lay it ass she downstairs,

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Speaker 10: So he got up, went downstairs and offered her the bed.

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Speaker 2: She said she would take the bed only if he

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Speaker 2: stayed in it. Lord Lord her Merson let the church

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00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 2: say a man hallelujah, glow red.

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Speaker 10: And so she takes her clothes and she walks into

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Speaker 10: the bedroom. I can only imagine what he's thinking, Oh,

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Speaker 10: my lord, And they did it so to make sure

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Speaker 10: that they wasn't because they was drunk.

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Speaker 2: He tried it again the next morning. She was with

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Speaker 2: it again.

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Speaker 10: Now they've been secretly having sex for three months now

1130
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Speaker 10: because she has a girlfriend and we're not sure how

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Speaker 10: other friends will react, which I'm telling you now means

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Speaker 10: that they've discussed what they would think if the other

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Speaker 10: friends found out. Now Here dude's problem. I don't want

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Speaker 10: to be her secret side piece anymore. That's going on

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Speaker 10: the past three months been good? Yell this side he's saying,

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01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 10: ain't working for me no more. Man, we need to

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Speaker 10: go public.

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Speaker 12: Now.

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Speaker 10: Should I have a talk with her and see where

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01:00:56,240 --> 01:01:00,400
Speaker 10: she stands on dating a man or control my feelings

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01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 10: and enjoy the great sex?

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Speaker 2: Well, here we go. I'm glad you called me.

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01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 10: See, as far as I'm concerned with that proposal that

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01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 10: you're putting forward, you have absolutely nothing to lose. Let's

1145
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 10: say you ask her how she feels. The only thing

1146
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 10: you have to be prepared for is for the answer.

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01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 10: So you want to go to her and say you

1148
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 10: want to see if you want to have to talk

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01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 10: to her and see where she stands on dating a

1150
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 10: man or control your feelings and enjoy the great sex.

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01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 2: Now supposed she says she prefers women.

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Speaker 10: What you have to be prepared for that, yep, Because

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01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 10: she may say I prefer women, which puts you right

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01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 10: back where you at now. She gonna keep her girl

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01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 10: for any of y'all just gonna have great sex. Tada,

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01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 10: there's a magic show. Everybody gets somebody this. You reach

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Speaker 10: in the hat, you get a rabbit. You reach in

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01:01:58,760 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 10: the hat, you get a rabbit.

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Speaker 2: You get a rabbit.

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Speaker 10: Everybody get a damn rabbit out of this trick. So

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01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 10: now I don't see what the problem is. And she

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Speaker 10: may just want you to remain on the side, which

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Speaker 10: again makes you the side peace.

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Speaker 2: But you want more. And now the part that you

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Speaker 2: didn't mention.

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Speaker 10: And if I was you, I wouldn't worry about how

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Speaker 10: your friends would react, cause.

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Speaker 2: I got news for you. I promise you, I'll give

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Speaker 2: you my word. All of them then thought the same

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Speaker 2: thingt it.

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Speaker 10: Every last one of them know she got nice legs,

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Speaker 10: pretty feet, six packs, she pretty All of them know

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Speaker 10: that they just been trying to play the game, because

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Speaker 10: y'all thirty two, y'all young, I'd have been an ass

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01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 10: or something.

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Speaker 2: Long time ago. Hey, I know how you roll, but we,

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Speaker 2: I mean, were good with that.

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Speaker 10: I'm gonna share something with you Alla, way back my

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01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:07,959
Speaker 10: early thirties, m h, I've been in love with four

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01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 10: people who had other who were you know, females who

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01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 10: like females, and probably four.

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Speaker 2: And well, it's no big deal. It ain't really nothing.

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01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 2: I just you know.

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Speaker 10: They asked me how I felt about it, and I

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01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 10: told them that I was a lesbian two that I

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01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 10: preferred other women myself, and that's how I wu try

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01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 10: to get around it.

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Speaker 2: It didn't work.

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Speaker 1: They laughed.

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01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 2: They thought it was a very cute joke, but.

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Speaker 10: But I was so dead serious, and I told them

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01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:53,200
Speaker 10: they could refer to me that way if they wanted to, So,

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01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 10: you know, it didn't work out.

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Speaker 2: They were gorgeous.

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Speaker 10: One of them had girlfriend who was more masculine, and

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Speaker 10: she approached me one time and said she don't appreciate that,

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Speaker 10: and if I don't step off, she's gonna do something

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Speaker 10: to me. And well she looked like she could whoop

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Speaker 10: my ass, so I said, okay, I stepped off. Okay,

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Speaker 10: it didn't look like I was gonna be able whoop puss,

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01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:25,200
Speaker 10: so I stepped off.

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Speaker 2: You know, I mean, why we ain't got to fight

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01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 2: over this here? I ain't that fighting. Well, it was

1204
01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 2: not gonna be a fight right here because it didn't

1205
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:34,480
Speaker 2: look like.

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01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: A win for me.

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Speaker 10: Because if she say, leave it like it is then

1208
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:42,520
Speaker 10: we right back where we had. He ain't worried about that.

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01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:44,960
Speaker 10: He will he don't want to be the side peace,

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01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 10: no motion.

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Speaker 1: All right, take us out. Thank you.

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Speaker 10: Steve.

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Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey

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01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter

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01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 1: podcast on demand. You're listening.

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Speaker 4: Morning show.

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Speaker 1: Well Jay is here. We're so happy when you're here

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Speaker 1: with us.

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Speaker 12: Jay.

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Speaker 1: That means you're healthy and good. Uh and and Jay,

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01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 1: I don't know where you find the time, but apparently

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01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: you've written another book. What is this your age?

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Speaker 12: That? What was that?

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Speaker 1: Was that.

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01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 3: About eleven?

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Speaker 1: I got eleven?

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Speaker 3: This is this is my newest book. This is my

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Speaker 3: newest book.

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Speaker 14: The name of the book is it's very catchy. You'll

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01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:39,919
Speaker 14: catch on this. Sometimes ken folks ain't worth for damn

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01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 14: or you can.

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Speaker 3: Use the S word. That's the tidle.

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Speaker 1: One more time.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes ken folks ain't worth for damn or you can use.

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Speaker 2: The S word. So that's that's the title of the book.

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Speaker 14: And it's several chapters in there that everybody who has

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01:05:57,560 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 14: ken folks can relate to. In my new book calls

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01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 14: sometimes kim folks say, well, damn it. You can use

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01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:03,720
Speaker 14: the export.

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Speaker 2: Chapter one.

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01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 14: Just because you got a big house, they think they

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01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:09,040
Speaker 14: can show up and stay for free.

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Speaker 2: That's chapter one. Oh man.

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01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:17,160
Speaker 14: That that that chapter two, I kind of get into

1245
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 14: some personal stuff that they think your house is storage.

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01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:23,560
Speaker 14: Let me put something in your garage for a couple

1247
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 14: of days. I mean it's been in there eight months now.

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01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 14: It ain't moved. You know, it's old pod. I don't

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01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 14: even know what it is myself.

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Speaker 2: I didn't live it up.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that.

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Speaker 14: Chapter three, Okay, this is if you have a big

1253
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 14: house up. kN folk get confused in my new book.

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01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 14: Sometimes kim folk can work for damn and you can

1255
01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:43,919
Speaker 14: use the S word.

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Speaker 3: They think they.

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Speaker 14: Think you're the daddy. What they don't understand is you're

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01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 14: the granddaddy, not the daddy. The granddaddy. Some of those problems,

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01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 14: this is personal. Some of those problems need to go

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01:06:59,160 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 14: to the.

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Speaker 1: Dadaddy, not the granddaddy.

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01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 2: Okay, you need to go right to the daddy. Okay,

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01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 2: this is a chapter.

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01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 14: If you my book, my new book calls sometimes ken

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01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 14: foke said with a damn, or you can use the

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01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 14: S word.

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Speaker 3: Just think you're a bad guy.

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01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:20,960
Speaker 14: If you don't babysit. I don't babysit. Okay, I smoke things.

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01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 3: I do things that around kid.

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Speaker 14: And and when you come back, he's gonna have a

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01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:30,720
Speaker 14: whole different attitude if you leave him here. Okay, if

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01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 14: he's here, he's gonna he's gonna be a little he's

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01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:35,360
Speaker 14: gonna be hungry, he's gonna be sleeping.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna come pick up a little what you

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01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 2: do in my new book.

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01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 14: In my new book, sometimes ken burgling with a damn,

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01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:54,240
Speaker 14: or you can use the S word. They think you

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01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 14: are finance coming in. That's my book.

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Speaker 3: That's my several chapters in there will be out soon.

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01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:02,000
Speaker 3: Some I can't fu damn. You can use as we're

1281
01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 3: kicking it out on a new book yet and that's going.

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01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 1: To be a bestseller. Love You're listening, Morning Show. A

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Speaker 1: new study from what is this Screeven's Hearing Care Okay.

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01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 1: They looked at two thousand adults, Okay, two thousand grown people.

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01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:27,200
Speaker 1: Research shows that at least seven times a week, men

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01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 1: have selective hearing in all. In all, men don't hear

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01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 1: their spouse three hundred and eighty eight times in the

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01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:40,639
Speaker 1: course of a year. Women are going to though. That's

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Speaker 1: a lot, right, that's a lot. Three hundred and eighty

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01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:48,559
Speaker 1: eight times in the.

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Speaker 2: Course of a year. That's low.

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01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:52,759
Speaker 1: That's low, sting.

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01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:56,839
Speaker 2: Average.

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01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:00,679
Speaker 10: Well right now, you're only talking a little over wals

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01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 10: a day. That's the average of wals a day. Oh okay, okay,

1296
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 10: so that a Yes, that's not so bad.

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01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:09,120
Speaker 1: That's not so bad.

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01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 10: No, I tuned it away. You got to tune it

1299
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 10: using the same thing. Yeah, what is y'all talking?

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01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 12: Listen?

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01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 6: Wait?

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01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:17,760
Speaker 3: Wait what?

1303
01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 12: Man?

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01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 10: We just talked about that for fifteen minutes, two hours.

1305
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:27,640
Speaker 10: You make the same twenty minute point for two hours and.

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01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:30,240
Speaker 2: Wake up the next morning. Were still talking about that?

1307
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:30,599
Speaker 8: Man?

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01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 2: Move on.

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01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 8: God.

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01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm hearing you, but I ain't listening no more.

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01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 1: Damn you what I said about letting it out at

1312
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:40,679
Speaker 1: the job?

1313
01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 10: Why are we still talking about Linda nerd ladies? But

1314
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:52,560
Speaker 10: that's that thing right there, that's true. Yeah, we do

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01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 10: have selective here.

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Speaker 1: So but it sounds like you guys are responsing to nagging.

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01:09:58,000 --> 01:10:01,680
Speaker 1: That's a difference, right, No, is it all? Is it

1318
01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:02,519
Speaker 1: all the same to you?

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01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 10: You know, because if you're talking, if you're talking too much,

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01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:12,600
Speaker 10: mm hmm. I'm just saying, which is often so.

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Speaker 15: It could be about anything, just the sound of my

1323
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:18,800
Speaker 15: voice that you just start tuning out after a while.

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01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 2: Tell me that's for your teeth.

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01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:25,920
Speaker 6: What is? Well, you know what?

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01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:28,680
Speaker 1: That's okay, Carl. You're puffing and puffing about.

1327
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:32,960
Speaker 2: Because you're talking about the same thing what I'm.

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01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 1: Asking you about this survey though you're not answering.

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01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:40,280
Speaker 10: No, I'm talking about this period. You're talking about the

1330
01:10:40,360 --> 01:10:42,360
Speaker 10: same thing. And then I can tell it's bothering you

1331
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:45,600
Speaker 10: because I look on Facebook. Now you're posting stuff that

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Speaker 10: it jo and.

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01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:50,719
Speaker 2: Boding over the social media.

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Speaker 8: On social media, now you're getting thirty thousand eight men's

1335
01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:57,840
Speaker 8: on the damn what what let it?

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01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 2: I think I think it is a problem, and I

1337
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:04,960
Speaker 2: think women could admit to this one.

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01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:09,040
Speaker 10: Because yes, men do have selective hearing, and we've had

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Speaker 10: developed that over the course of time because we've and

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01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 10: more and more, we've developed.

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Speaker 2: More and more selective hearing.

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Speaker 10: Because if there's a slight difference in us, women vent

1343
01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 10: differently than men, and when women around each other talking

1344
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 10: to their girlfriends, you all have more of a tendency

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01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 10: to talk about a subject from every angle you turn

1346
01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:35,799
Speaker 10: it over, you all can discuss one subject for hours.

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Speaker 2: Men don't do that.

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Speaker 10: We have a debate, somebody wins, loses, We have a

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01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 10: strong debate, then we laugh or we fight, and then

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01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:48,639
Speaker 10: it's over. You all keep talking about it. And once

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01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 10: a man has made all the points, he can make

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01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 10: your point. Is it relevant at this point? Because we've

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01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,519
Speaker 10: heard it already. We don't agree with it, So we

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01:11:56,680 --> 01:12:00,880
Speaker 10: shut you out, and we all every every man do that.

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01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, we can her face and not be hearing nothing.

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01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:08,560
Speaker 1: You saying, wait what see?

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01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:11,840
Speaker 10: I can look dead in your face and not be

1358
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 10: hearing nothing. You saying, be looking dad at your mouth?

1359
01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 1: Are you listening? Are you listening to me?

1360
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:21,160
Speaker 2: The girl?

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01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:21,640
Speaker 6: You know?

1362
01:12:23,280 --> 01:12:23,479
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:25,000
Speaker 1: Did you hear what I just said?

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01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 2: Schedule that will schedule a hunt? How many times Marjorie

1365
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:32,040
Speaker 2: that looked at me and said, Steve, what did I

1366
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 2: just say?

1367
01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:32,640
Speaker 6: What?

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01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:33,800
Speaker 1: Did repeat.

1369
01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 2: What you heard?

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01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 6: You?

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01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:40,719
Speaker 1: Women are guilty too. They don't listen.

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01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:43,600
Speaker 2: You're trying to think about what the hell is she.

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01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: S three thirty nine times a year.

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01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 2: Oh, we do it too.

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01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 1: We tune you all out all right, coming up, music

1376
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:52,720
Speaker 1: and fun on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll be

1377
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 1: back at twenty minutes. After the hour right after this

1378
01:12:55,760 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 1: you're listening Hard Morning show. So scientists say it takes

1379
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 1: about twenty one days or twenty one days exactly to

1380
01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 1: build a habit. So if you're planning to make a

1381
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:12,560
Speaker 1: New Year's resolution for next year and stick to it,

1382
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:15,800
Speaker 1: you should start your resolution now, that's what the scientists

1383
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 1: are saying. Then by the beginning of the new year,

1384
01:13:18,479 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 1: you will already be in the new habit. You know,

1385
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 1: have that new habit, It'll be underway, and you'll be

1386
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 1: more likely to keep it. That's why I guess that's

1387
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 1: why a lot of people drop off after they make

1388
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,320
Speaker 1: those resolutions. They don't keep them because they're not in

1389
01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:34,679
Speaker 1: the habit of doing it. So start now, according to scientists. So, Steve,

1390
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:37,240
Speaker 1: have you thought about your New Year's resolutions? Are you

1391
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:38,840
Speaker 1: making it for next year?

1392
01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 2: I stopped doing them years ago because you didn't.

1393
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 1: You didn't stick to them. Is that why you stopped?

1394
01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 10: No, I just decided whenever I'm gonna do something, I'm

1395
01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 10: gonna do it now. I went to New York a

1396
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 10: New Year to do nothing. Okay, Now I got to

1397
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 10: get healthy. I got to get healthy now. I ain't

1398
01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 10: got no die.

1399
01:13:54,680 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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01:13:55,960 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 1: So you're kind of in keeping with what the scientists

1401
01:13:58,040 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 1: are saying.

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01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 2: Then, well, I don't No, he has no science.

1403
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 1: I know he's not a scientist.

1404
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:14,240
Speaker 2: I have trouble spelling it real scientists though, S C

1405
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 2: I E N T I S T.

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01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yay, good, very good.

1407
01:14:20,439 --> 01:14:23,000
Speaker 2: Don't don't ask me to spell nothing that's got to

1408
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:28,760
Speaker 2: do with science. You just got the subject. I'm good. Yeah,

1409
01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:31,719
Speaker 2: don't worry about nothing. Symbols and stuff they got.

1410
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:34,240
Speaker 1: On the periodic table.

1411
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:35,640
Speaker 2: Asked me to.

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01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:40,080
Speaker 1: Remember coming up, we'll play around him. Would you rather

1413
01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:42,800
Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, that's right after

1414
01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:47,760
Speaker 1: this you're listening hardy morning show time for Would you

1415
01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 1: rather guys another round?

1416
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 4: Here we go?

1417
01:14:50,400 --> 01:14:54,840
Speaker 1: Would you rather go to church naked or babysit ten

1418
01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:58,439
Speaker 1: children under the age of two?

1419
01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:01,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're raping. I got.

1420
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:08,200
Speaker 3: Both serving nigga, both services.

1421
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:12,679
Speaker 2: Quote scriptures, niggad. I came in this world of nigga.

1422
01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 2: I shall leave it.

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01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:17,000
Speaker 14: Yeah, just working out. People say, well that didn't happened,

1424
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 14: and I'm at the next service. They'll see it themselves.

1425
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 10: You know when a man came in here at eight o'clock, Well,

1427
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 10: I got niggas for he was at eleven two.

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01:15:31,320 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 2: No, I would know.

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01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 10: I'm gonna take care of them kids. Yeah, but you

1430
01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:37,040
Speaker 10: ain't gonna do You ain't gonna do that to me.

1431
01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 10: But one time, everybody's not gonna be cared for.

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01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,840
Speaker 3: Are you a babysitting grandfather, Steve?

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01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:47,639
Speaker 2: You yeah, man, yeah, yeah. They always make sure somebody

1434
01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 2: at the house with me though, somebody watching, somebody watching you.

1435
01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:55,400
Speaker 1: No, I'm not like your granddaddy.

1436
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:56,439
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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01:15:56,760 --> 01:15:59,320
Speaker 10: They always make sure some other people in the house

1438
01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:04,000
Speaker 10: with me already know, you know. And then my grandkids

1439
01:16:04,080 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 10: don't like when our babysit them because when they come

1440
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:08,680
Speaker 10: in my office, them to stay in my office, and

1441
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 10: they don't like my TV selection.

1442
01:16:11,200 --> 01:16:12,640
Speaker 2: But I had them in there the other day and

1443
01:16:12,720 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 2: we were watching forty eight hours.

1444
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:21,320
Speaker 1: You had grandchildren watching eight hours of murder and.

1445
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:23,120
Speaker 10: It was it was a good episode too, so we

1446
01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 10: was not turning it and just sit here and learn

1447
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:26,559
Speaker 10: your ass something.

1448
01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 2: Now, if you do wrong, you don't ask.

1449
01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 10: To be in this room interrogating with this in this

1450
01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 10: fifty eight degree weather, in this room that's fifty eight

1451
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 10: degrees getting talked to by these white people.

1452
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 2: And you don't want that. That shut up.

1453
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:44,600
Speaker 1: Oh, it's like a scared straight yeah straight, yeah, all right,

1454
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:45,240
Speaker 1: I don't.

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01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:47,720
Speaker 14: Baby, because when you hide, you see more kids than

1456
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:55,880
Speaker 14: you actually have. So that's why I don't babyshit sixteen kids.

1457
01:16:58,760 --> 01:16:59,320
Speaker 2: Moving on?

1458
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:04,240
Speaker 1: Would you rather tell the truth for a full week?

1459
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:09,599
Speaker 1: Just tell the truth, no lies, no lies, be sure, okay,

1460
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:12,840
Speaker 1: or sleep in a coffin for a full week.

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01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:17,080
Speaker 2: I can sleep in the coffee I'm not. I got wife.

1462
01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:17,600
Speaker 2: I've done that.

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01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:19,840
Speaker 8: Truth.

1464
01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh yeah, oh yeah, I had an ex wife.

1465
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:27,960
Speaker 2: I've done that before. You do that, I've been before.

1466
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Well we not do it the truth for a.

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01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:42,200
Speaker 1: Whole for a week, all.

1468
01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:47,519
Speaker 2: Just throw the dirt off. Okay.

1469
01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:50,080
Speaker 1: Look, we'll be back with our last break of the

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01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:53,439
Speaker 1: day in forty nine minutes after the closing remarks from

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01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:55,800
Speaker 1: the one and only, our fearless Leader, Steve Harvey right

1472
01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:56,200
Speaker 1: after this.

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01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:59,519
Speaker 4: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this Thursday, it's been a fun good Thursday.

1475
01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 2: Huh yeah, yeah, yeah, it's been fun.

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01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:08,240
Speaker 12: You know.

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01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:08,880
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1478
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:11,479
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking he did our best, you know. Yeah.

1479
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:16,560
Speaker 2: We always do try to entertain, but I achieve that.

1480
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. We try to get people to work in a

1481
01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:19,519
Speaker 1: good mood.

1482
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:19,840
Speaker 6: You know.

1483
01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:22,439
Speaker 10: I mean, I've been cute all morning. Y'all been ugly

1484
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:24,760
Speaker 10: all morning, you know you and Junior. That's where it is,

1485
01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 10: bab See how that sounds. How nobody bag back? These

1486
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:31,040
Speaker 10: girls don't bag me up, they bag you up. I'm

1487
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:31,840
Speaker 10: just I'm cool with that.

1488
01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:32,439
Speaker 2: It's cool.

1489
01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I'll say this. You have to have

1490
01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 1: confidence in yourself.

1491
01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:36,960
Speaker 2: I have it.

1492
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:39,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to love yourself, Thank you so much.

1493
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:42,400
Speaker 10: A lot of other people got confident, right, Dennis Robin

1494
01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:44,160
Speaker 10: got confidence of it.

1495
01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 2: You are not going to do that to me right there.

1496
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 2: You just did that to me saying I ain't saying

1497
01:18:49,920 --> 01:18:55,960
Speaker 2: you look like that, but very far from if you

1498
01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:58,160
Speaker 2: put if you put a hoop in your limp and

1499
01:18:58,280 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 2: two rings in your notes buying to see it, I

1500
01:19:06,240 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 2: could see if you put who live in two rains

1501
01:19:10,040 --> 01:19:19,479
Speaker 2: and you start crying you're cute? Twins, I don't jump in.

1502
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 2: Oh hold up, that's all it is called the little

1503
01:19:29,240 --> 01:19:30,600
Speaker 2: pity part. I'm nothing doing that.

1504
01:19:30,840 --> 01:19:32,080
Speaker 12: No, you know you do.

1505
01:19:32,439 --> 01:19:33,120
Speaker 1: I don't say that.

1506
01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 2: I know you're c whatever. We know we are on

1507
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 2: the show.

1508
01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 1: You're cute.

1509
01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:44,559
Speaker 10: Tommy know he and Tommy know this ain't true. Juniors

1510
01:19:44,600 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 10: why you don't want you all to keep calling your you're.

1511
01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:49,760
Speaker 1: Que too, and see if you're rich. We know these things.

1512
01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:50,519
Speaker 2: This is what we know.

1513
01:19:52,800 --> 01:19:59,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, that trumps all everything I would prefer. Yeah,

1514
01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:01,280
Speaker 1: trumps everything we know.

1515
01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:03,680
Speaker 2: I think I appreciate my mama. Shein't lie to me,

1516
01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:09,280
Speaker 2: she says, Sit down, boy, I knew it. She was

1517
01:20:09,320 --> 01:20:14,559
Speaker 2: trying to build your spirits confidence. I had to worry

1518
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:14,840
Speaker 2: about that.

1519
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:15,320
Speaker 10: No more.

1520
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:21,439
Speaker 1: Could take us home with some inspiring after this closing remarks.

1521
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:24,040
Speaker 2: If you won't, you know, let me just do something

1522
01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:29,200
Speaker 2: really short and really helpful.

1523
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:32,400
Speaker 10: You know, I've been saying a scripture for a long

1524
01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:36,439
Speaker 10: time in some of my motivational speeches that one of

1525
01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:39,600
Speaker 10: the most important scriptures I've ever read is one of

1526
01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:42,960
Speaker 10: the shortest ones too, and it has really helped me

1527
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 10: in my life, in my walk, in my career, in

1528
01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:51,360
Speaker 10: my ups, in my downs. And that scripture is you

1529
01:20:51,560 --> 01:20:57,320
Speaker 10: have not cause you asked. Now Now, I just found

1530
01:20:57,560 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 10: out where that was in the Bible this week, did

1531
01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:07,639
Speaker 10: you hear me? I've been saying this scripture for years,

1532
01:21:08,400 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 10: but I just found out where it was in the

1533
01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:16,200
Speaker 10: Bible this week. You have not because you asked, noting

1534
01:21:17,439 --> 01:21:23,040
Speaker 10: it's actually James four and two. Now, the way I

1535
01:21:23,280 --> 01:21:29,479
Speaker 10: found it was I was reading a scripture that changed

1536
01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:32,320
Speaker 10: my life when I was on the boat this year,

1537
01:21:33,040 --> 01:21:37,240
Speaker 10: and the scripture was actually James four and three. And

1538
01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:41,360
Speaker 10: what it said was it says you ask and you receive,

1539
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 10: not because you ask a miss And so I was

1540
01:21:47,400 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 10: just reading that because I got it from.

1541
01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:53,800
Speaker 2: This journal James four and three. And what that meant

1542
01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 2: was that.

1543
01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 10: Sometimes you ask and you don't receive what you asked

1544
01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:02,639
Speaker 10: because you you ask a miss, which means you ask

1545
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:08,680
Speaker 10: with the wrong motivation. And God oftentimes wasn't answering my

1546
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:12,920
Speaker 10: prayer because my motivation for what I was praying for

1547
01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:15,800
Speaker 10: was wrong. It wasn't that what I was praying for

1548
01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:19,439
Speaker 10: was wrong, but the reason I wanted to happen was wrong.

1549
01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:21,800
Speaker 2: And it speaks in James.

1550
01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:25,760
Speaker 10: Four and three about your worldly lust of flesh and

1551
01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 10: fleshley things, but it wasn't learned lust enoughter fleshy things

1552
01:22:30,760 --> 01:22:36,479
Speaker 10: doesn't necessarily mean somebody. It just could mean you know,

1553
01:22:36,760 --> 01:22:41,600
Speaker 10: stuff to appease your fleshley being, your money, so you

1554
01:22:41,720 --> 01:22:44,679
Speaker 10: can flex on somebody, so you can prove it wrong,

1555
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:48,720
Speaker 10: so you can shake it in their face. That's what

1556
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:51,880
Speaker 10: it means when it says you ask and you receive

1557
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:57,320
Speaker 10: not because you ask a miss or for the wrong reason. Well,

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Speaker 10: the other day I was doing my journal review and

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Speaker 10: I read that, and so I was opening up to

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Speaker 10: James four and three, and lo and behold, I read

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Speaker 10: James four and two, which says you have not cause

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Speaker 10: you asked not.

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Speaker 2: It was the scripture right in front of it. It

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Speaker 2: blew my mind. So really, he laid it all out

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Speaker 2: there for me.

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Speaker 10: He says, you have not because you asked not, and

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Speaker 10: you ask and you receive not because you asked for

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Speaker 10: the wrong reason.

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Speaker 1: Man, y'all, I can't tell you how that flipped a

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Speaker 1: switch in my head.

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Speaker 10: So, if you're out there and you've been asking God

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Speaker 10: for something and you can't seem to get it to

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Speaker 10: go your way, check your motivation for why you really

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Speaker 10: want it to happen. And if you check your motivation,

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Speaker 10: then you'll find out that you want it for some

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Speaker 10: other reasons other than the right reasons. All you have

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Speaker 10: to do is adjust your motivation for what you're asking for.

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Speaker 10: Change your motivation, ask for forgiveness, and ask for the

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Speaker 10: blessing that you ask him for for the right reasons,

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Speaker 10: because there's some good that you could do with this

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Speaker 10: thing that you ask of God for that you haven't

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Speaker 10: been getting because you've been asking for the wrong reason.

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Speaker 2: James four and two and James four and four, those

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Speaker 2: are my close remarks. I hope that helps you away

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Speaker 2: and help me.

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