1 00:00:15,436 --> 00:00:21,396 Speaker 1: Pushkin. Hey, this is doctor Laurie Sanders. You've reached the 2 00:00:21,436 --> 00:00:25,596 Speaker 1: Happiness Lab podcast hotline. Is there anything you've always wanted 3 00:00:25,596 --> 00:00:29,916 Speaker 1: to ask a happiness expert? Hey, Happiness Lab help me. 4 00:00:30,236 --> 00:00:32,236 Speaker 1: I want to stop all this negative self talk and 5 00:00:32,436 --> 00:00:35,436 Speaker 1: finally learned to love myself. Maybe a question about how 6 00:00:35,476 --> 00:00:38,556 Speaker 1: science can teach us to live happier and more enjoyable lives. 7 00:00:39,556 --> 00:00:42,196 Speaker 1: My question is are we born to work or are 8 00:00:42,276 --> 00:00:46,116 Speaker 1: we born to live? In the next season of the 9 00:00:46,156 --> 00:00:50,636 Speaker 1: Happiness Lab, I'll be feeling questions from listeners just like you, Megan, 10 00:00:50,756 --> 00:00:52,596 Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on the Happiness Lab 11 00:00:52,716 --> 00:00:55,356 Speaker 1: and urgancy of listeners. It's really fun. It's super fun 12 00:00:55,436 --> 00:00:59,116 Speaker 1: for me too. I'm like fan girling over here. I'll 13 00:00:59,116 --> 00:01:02,076 Speaker 1: be diving into the real stories behind their questions. I 14 00:01:02,196 --> 00:01:03,836 Speaker 1: sort of just raised my head one day and I 15 00:01:03,956 --> 00:01:06,796 Speaker 1: was like, what am I doing here and asking a 16 00:01:06,876 --> 00:01:09,316 Speaker 1: host of happiness experts to weigh in on topics from 17 00:01:09,316 --> 00:01:12,396 Speaker 1: achieving work life balance to becoming friendlier and how we 18 00:01:12,476 --> 00:01:15,556 Speaker 1: can become more comfortable in social situations. Yeah. I think 19 00:01:15,716 --> 00:01:18,436 Speaker 1: Jean Paul Sartre said that hell is other people. I 20 00:01:18,476 --> 00:01:21,276 Speaker 1: think maybe hell is our imagination of what other people are. 21 00:01:21,676 --> 00:01:24,556 Speaker 1: But here's the problem. We often interact not with the 22 00:01:24,596 --> 00:01:26,996 Speaker 1: people who are really out there, but with the people 23 00:01:27,116 --> 00:01:29,956 Speaker 1: in our minds. We'll also look at how we can 24 00:01:30,036 --> 00:01:33,716 Speaker 1: rebuild our lives post pandemic, and discuss whether it's even 25 00:01:33,756 --> 00:01:36,036 Speaker 1: okay to be happy when bad things are happening to 26 00:01:36,116 --> 00:01:38,676 Speaker 1: people close to us and all around the world. I 27 00:01:38,756 --> 00:01:40,516 Speaker 1: didn't want to have happiness, guys. I felt like I 28 00:01:40,596 --> 00:01:44,076 Speaker 1: didn't deserve that when other people were suffering. I've absolutely 29 00:01:44,156 --> 00:01:47,476 Speaker 1: loved reading through all of my listener messages, and I've 30 00:01:47,556 --> 00:01:50,276 Speaker 1: learned a ton making this new series. I hope that 31 00:01:50,316 --> 00:01:52,916 Speaker 1: you'll pick up some useful tips too. I don't get 32 00:01:52,996 --> 00:01:55,916 Speaker 1: down on myself if I experience a negative thought, because 33 00:01:55,956 --> 00:01:59,196 Speaker 1: I realize this is how the human mind operates, and 34 00:01:59,676 --> 00:02:02,756 Speaker 1: I have agency over how to manage that thought. So 35 00:02:02,956 --> 00:02:06,156 Speaker 1: join me for The Happiness Lab's short season on Listener 36 00:02:06,276 --> 00:02:10,636 Speaker 1: Questions special Edition with me doctor law Ari Santos, starting 37 00:02:10,796 --> 00:02:11,556 Speaker 1: July eleventh,