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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Ashley is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Wade.

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Speaker 2: What's up, Ashley?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 2: How are you good? Before we get into your dat

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Speaker 2: and stuff with Wade? How long has it been since

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Speaker 2: you talked to him?

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Speaker 4: It's been a little over a week, like eight days.

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Speaker 2: Okay, not too bad yet. What was your last interaction?

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Speaker 5: It was the morning after the day we met.

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Speaker 3: All right, well, let's stop there and go all the

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Speaker 3: way back and tell us what happened from the beginning.

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Speaker 4: So, okay, I moved to I'm new to the city.

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Speaker 4: I just moved here. You know, when you're like an adult,

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Speaker 4: it's hard to meet people. So I decided to book

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Speaker 4: one of those like city tours till you know, a

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Speaker 4: day maybe meet somebody. And he sat next to me

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Speaker 4: on the bus and we were striking up a conversation, chatting.

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Speaker 4: We were kind of hitting it off. He was really

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Speaker 4: charming and it was kind of romantic, you know. Seeing

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Speaker 4: the site, it kind of felt like being on a vacation,

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Speaker 4: except with like a new person and we decided that

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Speaker 4: we were enjoying each other's company so much that we

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Speaker 4: would hop off the bus and pick a restaurant or

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Speaker 4: a bar and you know, just hang out just the

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Speaker 4: two of us and like get to know each other.

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Speaker 4: So we spotted a restaurant and we went there and

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Speaker 4: grabbed a couple of drinks and started chatting, and he

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Speaker 4: mentioned like, oh, this is actually kind of turning into

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Speaker 4: our first date.

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Speaker 6: And I thought it was really cute.

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Speaker 4: You know, yeah, I was charmed. The drinks continued to flow,

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Speaker 4: the food not so much. I was kind of like,

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Speaker 4: you know, this is the first date, Like, why don't

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Speaker 4: we go back to my place.

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Speaker 6: For a nightcap.

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Speaker 4: So we did, and things might have escalated. We were

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Speaker 4: having a lot of fun, and then we were having

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Speaker 4: some adult fun okay, and something happened that kind of

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Speaker 4: threw a.

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Speaker 5: Wrench in it.

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Speaker 2: What was the rent?

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Speaker 4: My leg was up in the air by his face, okay,

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Speaker 4: and he just like grabbed my foot and started sucking

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Speaker 4: on my toe okay, okay, And I was like and

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Speaker 4: te he like moving it away from his face without

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Speaker 4: being like gross stop. I was just trying to like

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Speaker 4: wiggle my toe away from his face.

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Speaker 6: But then he just like kept.

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Speaker 4: Doing it like and he was so into it, and

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh Jesus, but I was still like

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Speaker 4: enjoying myself, so I didn't want to embarrass him, and

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Speaker 4: we were having so much fun, and so I just

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Speaker 4: kind of like changed positions, like moved it up to

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Speaker 4: like make what was happening stop all right, And then

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Speaker 4: you know, we finished up and we chatted at pillow

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Speaker 4: Talk for like an hour and it was fine, and

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Speaker 4: I was like, well, you know, I kind of have

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Speaker 4: an early shoot, so got to get going. And he

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Speaker 4: so embarrassed. I've never had my feet in someone's mouth,

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Speaker 4: and I just if that's the vibe, like I don't

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Speaker 4: I'm not trying to kink shame. I would never do that,

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Speaker 4: but I'm really not into like foot play. I don't

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Speaker 4: even really like my own feet.

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Speaker 2: But then I was like, you know, this is this

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Speaker 2: isn't so bad, so they started getting on board.

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Speaker 5: I was like, you know, this isn't so bad, Like

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Speaker 5: I only have so many firsts left, and so I

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Speaker 5: was like, okay, like I'm into it, and I just like.

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Speaker 4: Let it happen and everything was great, and we had

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Speaker 4: pillow talk and we you know, hung out for a

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Speaker 4: little bit more. And now it's like a week later

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Speaker 4: and I still haven't heard from him. So now I'm like, well,

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Speaker 4: maybe I should have gotten that pedicure, like or were

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Speaker 4: my feet.

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Speaker 2: Grossh Okay, we'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back, and then call him

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Speaker 2: and get your first date and follow up. Brad for this,

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Speaker 2: all right, Okay, thanks, Okay, we'll do it.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of our first date and follow up,

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Speaker 2: we were just joining us. Ashley is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Wade, and

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Speaker 2: she thinks it might be because of her toes. Not

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Speaker 2: really sure, Ashley. Before we call him to see why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, why

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Speaker 2: don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Wade

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Speaker 2: and why you think you're getting ghosted?

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Speaker 4: Well, I met Wade on a bus tour of the

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Speaker 4: city and we decided to get off the turnout drinks

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Speaker 4: and we went home together and everything was going really well.

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Speaker 4: But then he started sucking on my toes, which I

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Speaker 4: thought was really weird, but I just, you know, I

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Speaker 4: just went with it, and he you know, that's a

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Speaker 4: lot of extra effort for me. And he hasn't called

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Speaker 4: me back, so I'm kind of wondering, like was it

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Speaker 4: my toes or like.

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Speaker 6: What was going on?

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Speaker 2: And you said you'd never had anybody do that to

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Speaker 2: you before, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, you know, like you just you know,

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Speaker 4: you meet less people the older you get, you gotta

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Speaker 4: go with it.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you got from he took your toe virginity and

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Speaker 3: never called back.

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Speaker 2: All right, well we'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We're about to call him and see if ho tellus

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting. Are you ready?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 7: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Is this Wade?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Who's calling?

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Speaker 2: Wade? Was some man?

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel. I host a radio show. It's

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Speaker 2: called The Jubil Show.

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Speaker 3: He's not alone, Wade. Sorry, just gonna jump in real quick.

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Speaker 3: My name's Nina also here on the show.

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Speaker 6: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Hi, guys, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Well, we're calling you today because somebody emailed us about you. Okay,

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Speaker 2: And I don't know if you've ever heard a first

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Speaker 2: date follow up before. Uh uh, Well, that is a

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Speaker 2: segment we do on the show where if you go

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Speaker 2: on a date with someone and you end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got

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Speaker 2: an email from Ashley. Oh, she told us about your date.

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Speaker 2: She said she really liked you and she's wondering why

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Speaker 2: you're not calling her back. Can you tell us?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 6: I mean, actually, Ashley was cool. We had this sort

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Speaker 6: of magical like meet and.

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Speaker 8: First date thing and honestly, like it was really exciting,

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Speaker 8: which is also scary. But honestly, I don't know what

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Speaker 7: Think it was really good for her. And she leans

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Speaker 7: in and she whispers, stuck my toes and I've never.

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Speaker 8: Done that before, and so I went for it and

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Speaker 6: I didn't hate it, but she was like really into it.

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Speaker 9: Like I don't know, it's sort of like a side

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Speaker 9: of her that to be honest, that seeing how into

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Speaker 9: it she was sort of freaking me out because of

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Speaker 6: Date, stuff like I don't know, you might be too

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Speaker 8: At one point, I just wanted to slap her foot

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Speaker 6: I felt like I was in a boxing match with

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Speaker 2: Wow. Really Okay?

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Speaker 6: How much she was into it gave me a weird vibe.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is confusing because she you know, she told

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Speaker 2: us a little something different about your date.

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Speaker 6: Was it something that I did?

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Speaker 2: No, I'll just let her tell it because she's actually

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Speaker 6: To you, Kylie. Uh hi, Ashley, what what is this? Okay?

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Speaker 4: So I absolutely did not ask you to do that?

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Speaker 6: By the way, what, yes you did?

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Speaker 9: Yes, you did.

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Speaker 4: I did it. I did not request that. That is,

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Speaker 4: my feet are not on the menu.

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Speaker 6: You need to Yeah, I've never ordered feet.

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Speaker 1: So like.

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Speaker 6: You whispered suck my toes?

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Speaker 4: Oh you thought, Oh so you thought I said suck

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Speaker 4: on my toes. I did not say that. I did

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Speaker 7: Oh uh, I definitely heard stuck on my toes.

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Speaker 6: Well why did you look so into it?

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Speaker 6: Like I've never seen eyes like the eyes you gave

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Speaker 5: Shucking I didn't want to be rude. We just met,

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Speaker 2: I wasn't going to be thought you liked it, Wade,

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Speaker 2: No, No, she said that that was She thought that

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Speaker 6: I don't. I thought that was your thing, like I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't even like I don't even like having sex

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Speaker 6: with shoes off, like what.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, No, I didn't say that.

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Speaker 6: This is such a relief.

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Speaker 4: I thought that I thought that you thought I was

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Speaker 4: I did not.

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Speaker 6: I just, honestly, I just thought that I thought you

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Speaker 6: her to be honest, I thought I thought you were

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Speaker 6: playing at a level that I hadn't made it to yet.

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Speaker 2: And Ashley thought you were a freak.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I've never asked anyone to put it in between roast

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Speaker 4: beef and home.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well this one went home.

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Speaker 6: Like it was. It was cool. I just thought you

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Speaker 6: were super into it.

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Speaker 4: No, I thought you were super into it, so I

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Speaker 4: was trying to match your energy.

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Speaker 3: The good news is that they were both willing to

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Speaker 3: give each other what they want. That's that's a great sign, Wade.

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Speaker 3: Would you like to go on another date with Ashley?

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Speaker 3: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Now that we've got this whole toe situation figured out,

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Speaker 2: we'll get your.

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Speaker 3: Gardening tools ready.

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Speaker 6: I mean, everything else was great.

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Speaker 7: I like, Ashley, do you want to go out and

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Speaker 7: not stuck each other's toes or.

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Speaker 2: At least an appropriate amount right now that you guys know,

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Speaker 4: Least we can build back to that, Yeah, let's keep

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Speaker 4: it above the knees. And I would love to go

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Speaker 4: on another date with you.

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Speaker 7: Awesome, all right, Well that's that's honestly a huge release

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Speaker 7: because I was honestly meeting you with so great I

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Speaker 7: was pretty bummed that I was freaked out about that.

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Speaker 6: So I'm glad you did this well it communication.

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Speaker 5: Congratulations, Thank you guys.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess so.

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Speaker 2: Right right, but we're optional toe you guys. Good lad.

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Speaker 6: Juble's first day follow up